The Marriage Podcast for Smart People

By Caleb & Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele

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Build a Marriage You’ll Love Today and Treasure for a Lifetime

Episode Date
Why Is My Spouse So Controlling?
Jul 08, 2020
Defining Emotionally Abusive Behavior
Jun 24, 2020
How Do I Know When/If I Can Trust My Spouse After Betrayal?
Jun 10, 2020
The 5 Pillars of Attachment
May 27, 2020
What Causes Infidelity?
May 13, 2020
How To Balance Parenting and Marriage (Even During a Pandemic)
Apr 22, 2020
How to Confront Your Husband About His Pornography Addiction
Apr 08, 2020
Coronavirus and Your Marriage
Apr 01, 2020
Key Things to Include When Disclosing Infidelity
Mar 25, 2020
6 Porn Groups To Help Your Recovery
Mar 18, 2020
Responding to The Rage of Your Betrayed Spouse
Mar 11, 2020
How Self-Compassion Can Help Your Marriage
Mar 04, 2020
4 Key Things to Avoid When Disclosing Infidelity
Feb 26, 2020
Overwhelmed or Flooded? Here’s How To Calm Down During Conflict
Feb 19, 2020
When Your Spouse Is Too Friendly With the Opposite Sex
Feb 12, 2020
Why You Might Be Experiencing Pain During Sex (for Husbands)
Feb 05, 2020
Impact of Your Porn Use on Your Wife
Jan 29, 2020
When Family Visits Are Traumatic
Jan 22, 2020
Is Your Spouse Taking You For Granted?
Jan 15, 2020
Why You May Be Experiencing Pain During Sex (for Wives)
Jan 08, 2020
Betrayed By Your Wife? 5 Things You Need to Do
Jan 01, 2020
Why You Need To Touch Your Spouse More
Dec 18, 2019
How Retirement Affects Marriage
Dec 11, 2019
Exploring the Links Between Attachment Style and Porn or Sex Addiction
Nov 27, 2019
Why You Really Need to Consider Emotional Labour in Your Marriage
Nov 13, 2019
Secure Attachment in Marriage
Nov 06, 2019
Disorganized Attachment in Marriage
Oct 23, 2019
Avoidant Attachment in Marriage
Oct 09, 2019
Anxious Attachment in Marriage
Sep 25, 2019
How Prayer Impacts Marriage
Sep 18, 2019
Why Church Leaders are Vulnerable to Infidelity and Pornography (& What To Do About It)
Sep 11, 2019
Is My Spouse a Sex Addict?
Sep 04, 2019
Why People Seek Marriage Counseling & What Approaches They Choose
Aug 28, 2019
How Shame Perpetuates Porn Addiction
Aug 21, 2019
How to Set Boundaries in a Kind Way
Aug 14, 2019
Unpack the Four Horsemen
Aug 07, 2019
How to Identify Your Emotions
Jul 31, 2019
How To Keep The Romance Alive in Your Marriage
Jul 17, 2019
Dealing with Your Shame and Guilt After Betrayal
Jul 03, 2019
How To Work With Your Spouse’s Betrayal Trauma Part 2
Jun 26, 2019
How To Work With Your Spouse’s Betrayal Trauma
Jun 19, 2019
Male Privilege in Marriage
Jun 12, 2019
How To Forgive Your Spouse After Betrayal
Jun 05, 2019
Why Your Husband Can’t Hear You During Conflict
May 29, 2019
How Empathy Deepens Intimacy
May 22, 2019
How Curiosity Deepens Intimacy
May 15, 2019
How Irreducibility Deepens Intimacy in Marriage
May 08, 2019
How Vulnerability Deepens Intimacy in Marriage
May 01, 2019
How Couples Can Grow Spiritually…Together
Apr 24, 2019
Cognitive Biases in Marriage: Reactance, Mood and Confirmation
Apr 17, 2019
Cognitive Biases in Marriage: Spotlight, Illusion of Transparency & Availability Heuristic
Apr 10, 2019
How To Make The Most of an Unhappy Marriage
Apr 03, 2019
When Your Spouse Doesn’t Share Your Faith
Mar 27, 2019
When Your Spouse Has Let Him/Herself Go and You Are Not Attracted
Mar 20, 2019
How Shift Work Impacts Marriage And What To Do About It
Mar 13, 2019
Here’s The Best Thing You Can Do After a Fight With Your Spouse
Mar 06, 2019
How To Help Your Husband Through His Man Cold
Feb 27, 2019
How Losing a Child Impacts Marriage
Feb 20, 2019
The Abusive Wife
Feb 13, 2019
How Generosity Could Transform Your Marriage
Feb 06, 2019
When Others Don’t See Your Spouse as Abusive
Jan 30, 2019
When Your Spouse is in Victim Mode
Jan 23, 2019
Coming to Terms With Your Unexpected Pregnancy
Jan 16, 2019
Relational OCD
Jan 09, 2019
How And When To Tell Your Wife About Your Porn Addiction
Jan 02, 2019
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) and the Impact on Marriage
Dec 26, 2018
Couples Living With Extended Family
Dec 19, 2018
Working Through Betrayal Trauma
Dec 12, 2018
Is Your Own Sexual History Dragging You Down?
Dec 05, 2018
Things To Think About Before You Start Making Babies
Nov 28, 2018
Betrayed by Your Husband? 5 Things You Need to Know
Nov 21, 2018
How Your Theology Impacts Your Sex Life
Nov 14, 2018
Four Ways To Create More Intimacy In Your Marriage
Nov 07, 2018
The Top 10 Rules for Fair Fighting
Oct 31, 2018
A Husband’s Guide to Ejaculatory Control
Oct 24, 2018
How To Break Out of The Same Old Arguments
Oct 17, 2018
About Showing Honor To Your Wife (1 Peter 3:7)
Oct 10, 2018
I Am a Virgin and My Fiancee is Not
Oct 03, 2018
Infertility And Its Impact on Marriage
Sep 26, 2018
How Working from Home Impacts Your Marriage
Sep 19, 2018
Do You Compete With Your Spouse?
Sep 12, 2018
Why a Child Centred Family is Bad for Everyone
Sep 05, 2018
Figure Out What Your Spouse is Actually Upset About
Aug 29, 2018
How To Get Your Husband (or Wife) Into Marriage Counseling
Aug 22, 2018
How To Handle Chronic Health Problems in Marriage
Aug 15, 2018
The Hidden Costs of Marriage Problems
Aug 08, 2018
Holding Onto Self Worth When Your Spouse is Overly Critical
Aug 01, 2018
The Top 5 Benefits of Creating a Happy Marriage
Jul 18, 2018
How Much Joy Is in Your Marriage?
Jul 11, 2018
What To Do When Your Spouse Has Been Sexually Abused
Jul 04, 2018
When Your Spouse Is a Chronic Liar
Jun 27, 2018
How to Increase the Love You Feel Towards Your Spouse
Jun 20, 2018
The Art and Science of Hugging
Jun 13, 2018
What is Love Addiction?
Jun 06, 2018
How to Be Assertive With Your Spouse
May 30, 2018
Is Therapeutic Separation a Good Idea?
May 23, 2018
How Your Parent’s Alcoholism Affects Your Marriage
May 16, 2018
So Your Spouse Has ADHD
May 09, 2018
How To Get Your Abusive Husband Into Therapy…Safely
Apr 25, 2018
Is Your Wife Nagging Too Much? It Could Be Your Fault!
Apr 11, 2018
How Admiration Creates a Stable, Happy Marriage
Apr 04, 2018
How To Get Your Flirt (Back) On… When You Have 3 Kids, a Dog and a Mortgage
Mar 28, 2018
Got a Sarcasm Problem In Your Marriage?
Mar 21, 2018
So Your Husband Ogles Other Women…
Mar 14, 2018
Is Your Career Ruining Your Marriage?
Mar 07, 2018
Are You A Loyal Spouse?
Feb 28, 2018
Defensiveness in Marriage
Feb 21, 2018
Don’t Let Resentment Sink Your Marriage
Feb 14, 2018
How Marriage Counselling Works
Feb 07, 2018
So Your Spouse Has Mental Health Problems
Jan 31, 2018
How To Be A More Grateful Spouse
Jan 24, 2018
Help! My Spouse is a Narcissist!
Jan 10, 2018
What Makes Christmas Merry for Marriages?
Dec 20, 2017
Pornography and Sex Trafficking
Dec 13, 2017
Loving Your Spouse’s Kids
Dec 06, 2017
A Husband’s Guide to Spiritual Leadership
Nov 29, 2017
How Pornography Impacts Marriages
Nov 22, 2017
Why You Keep Misinterpreting Your Spouse
Nov 15, 2017
Fighting For Your Military Marriage
Nov 08, 2017
How Much Foreplay Does Your Wife Really Need?
Nov 01, 2017
What To Do When Your Folks Do Not Like Your Spouse
Oct 25, 2017
Announcing our Marriage Cruise!
Oct 20, 2017
Long Distance Marriage – Do’s and Do Not’s
Oct 18, 2017
How to Beat Empty Nest Syndrome
Oct 11, 2017
What is Trauma Bonding?
Oct 04, 2017
How Does Wealth Affect Marriage?
Sep 27, 2017
Q&A on a Disconnected Marriage and Shared Leisure
Sep 20, 2017
Q&A on Boundaries and PISD
Sep 13, 2017
Do I Have to Care About My Spouse’s Hobbies?
Sep 06, 2017
Dealing with Age Difference in Marriage
Aug 30, 2017
Creating Purpose in Your Marriage
Aug 23, 2017
Remarriage After Bereavement
Aug 16, 2017
Help! My Spouse is a Perfectionist!
Aug 09, 2017
Am I a Sex Addict?
Aug 02, 2017
Learn to Date Your Spouse Again
Jul 26, 2017
The Neuroscience of Dating (Your Spouse)
Jul 19, 2017
Is Fear Wrecking Your Marriage?
Jul 12, 2017
When Introverts Marry Extroverts
Jul 05, 2017
How Does Menopause Affect Marriage?
Jun 28, 2017
How to Porn-Proof Your Marriage
Jun 21, 2017
Is It Even Possible to Have a Happy Marriage?
Jun 14, 2017
The Essentials of a Successful Cross-Cultural Marriage
Jun 07, 2017
Can You Fix Your Marriage Without Dredging Up The Past?
May 31, 2017
How Much PDA is OK?
May 24, 2017
Why a Fair Division of Labor is Important in Marriage
May 17, 2017
A Marriage Survival Guide for Parents with Toddlers
May 10, 2017
2 Questions To Think About Before You End Your Marriage
May 03, 2017
My Husband Is Not an Emotional Guy
Apr 26, 2017
Why Every Couple Needs to Pray Together
Apr 19, 2017
What To Do When You’ve Just Discovered Your Husband’s Porn Habit
Apr 12, 2017
The Impact of Trauma on Marital Sexuality
Apr 05, 2017
Is Trauma Impacting Your Marriage?
Mar 29, 2017
The Best Sex Happens Inside Marriage
Mar 22, 2017
Why You’re Using the Love Languages All Wrong
Mar 15, 2017
Post Infidelity Stress Disorder
Mar 08, 2017
When to Leave (or Stay In) an Abusive Marriage [3 of 3]
Feb 22, 2017
Can Abusive Husbands Change? [2 of 3]
Feb 15, 2017
Is My Husband Abusive? [1 of 3]
Feb 08, 2017
Stop Bottling Up Stuff In Your Marriage
Feb 01, 2017
Emotional Intimacy is the Key to Great Sex
Jan 25, 2017
Overcoming Infidelity: 30 Days to Recovery
Oct 12, 2016
Why You Can’t Trust Your Spouse
Oct 05, 2016
What to Talk About on Your Next Date
Sep 28, 2016
How to Appreciate Your Spouse
Sep 21, 2016
Your Marriage Needs an Intimacy Checkup
Sep 14, 2016
So You Stayed Married Just for the Kids’ Sake, Now What?
Sep 07, 2016
I Want To Fix Our Marriage and He Doesn’t. Now What?
Aug 31, 2016
My Spouse is Flaunting Him/Herself on Social Media
Aug 24, 2016
Extreme Sex Drive and Infidelity From Testosterone Therapy?
Aug 17, 2016
After Infidelity, How Do I Trust My Husband Again?
Aug 10, 2016
If My Husband is a Sex Addict, Should I Divorce Him?
Aug 03, 2016
My Husband’s Sexual History Is Affecting Our Intimacy
Jul 27, 2016
My Wife Won’t Stop the Affair. How Do I Save My Marriage?
Jul 20, 2016
How Can I Help My Wife Be More Trusting?
Jul 13, 2016
Hectic Life + Happily Married: Is It Possible?
Jul 06, 2016
If Your Spouse Is Too Jealous
Jun 29, 2016
Find Yourself in a Roommate Marriage?
Jun 22, 2016
Is My Marriage Beyond Recovery?
Jun 15, 2016
Why You’re Not Getting Enough Sex and What To Do About It
Jun 08, 2016
10 Sure-Fire Ways To Make Time For Each Other in a Crazy Busy Marriage
Jun 01, 2016
How to Create More Intimacy in Your Marriage
May 25, 2016
Codependency in Marriage: What It Is and What To Do About It
May 18, 2016
What To Do When Your Spouse Offends You
May 11, 2016
3 Things To Talk About Every Day
May 04, 2016
How to Recover From Betrayal
Apr 27, 2016
Fight The Problem – Not Each Other!
Apr 20, 2016
3 Essential Principles for Successful In-Law Relationships
Apr 13, 2016
Always Fighting About the Kids?
Apr 06, 2016
100 Episodes of The Marriage Podcast for Smart People!
Mar 30, 2016
Making Time For Your Spouse: 2 Strategies That Actually Work
Mar 23, 2016
Phone Addiction is the New Alcoholism
Mar 16, 2016
Do Opposites Attract? Here’s the Research
Mar 09, 2016
Why Christian Couples Feel Guilty About Sex
Mar 02, 2016
Power Struggles in Marriage: Your Styles May Be the Problem
Feb 24, 2016
The One Thing Every Distressed Marriage is Doing Wrong
Feb 17, 2016
Sex Drive – Differences Can Be a Problem
Feb 10, 2016
What To Do When Your Spouse Doesn’t Want To Work On The Marriage
Feb 03, 2016
How To Support Your Spouse During Hard Times
Jan 27, 2016
Social Media is Destroying Your Marriage
Jan 20, 2016
How to Ramp Up Positivity in Your Marriage
Jan 13, 2016
How Body Image Issues Can Ruin Your Sex Life – Part 2
Jan 07, 2016
How Body Image Issues Can Ruin Your Sex Life – Part 1
Jan 05, 2016
Self-Care Is Marriage Care
Dec 16, 2015
Respect vs. Contempt – Heart of Marriage Series (5 of 5)
Dec 09, 2015
Sacrifice vs. Entitlement – Heart of Marriage Series (4 of 5)
Dec 02, 2015
Loneliness vs. Intimacy – Heart of Marriage Series (3 of 5)
Nov 25, 2015
Acceptance vs. Rejection – Heart of Marriage Series (2 of 5)
Nov 18, 2015
Commitment vs. Abandonment – Heart of Marriage Series (1 of 5)
Nov 11, 2015
Who Wears The Pants In Your Marriage?
Nov 04, 2015
Husband Doesn’t Help With The Kids? It Could Be Your Fault!
Oct 28, 2015
How To Help Your Spouse’s Anxiety
Oct 21, 2015
How To Rebuild Your Marriage After An Affair
Oct 14, 2015
Parenting For The Benefit Of Your Marriage
Oct 07, 2015
Religiosity Won’t Help Your Marriage
Sep 30, 2015
Talk About It Sooner Before It’s a Big Deal
Sep 23, 2015
The Three Best Ways to Ruin Your Husband’s Day
Sep 16, 2015
The Three Best Ways to Ruin Your Wife’s Day
Sep 09, 2015
Don’t Take Your Marriage For Granted: 5 Strategies to Keep Things Fresh
Sep 02, 2015
Back to School! What About Your Marriage?
Aug 26, 2015
Every Couple Needs a Graffiti Tag
Aug 19, 2015
Sticky Notes Are The Best Love Notes
Aug 12, 2015
50 Romantic Text Messages to Send to Your Spouse
Aug 05, 2015
How To Create and Deliver a Legendary Wedding Speech
Jul 29, 2015
Marla Cilley Interview: The FlyLady Helped Our Home and Will Help Yours Too!
Jul 22, 2015
How to Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage
Jul 15, 2015
Healthy Marriage Without Good Role Models
Jul 08, 2015
How to Reduce Debt: Part 5
Jul 01, 2015
Budgeting for the Big Stuff (Part 4 of 5)
Jun 24, 2015
How To Create Your Family Budget (Part 3 of 4)
Jun 17, 2015
How To Negotiate A Budget (Part 2 of 4)
Jun 10, 2015
Why You Need To Budget (Part 1 of 4)
Jun 03, 2015
Couples That Play Together Stay Together
May 27, 2015
How to Have Your First (or, Best!) Orgasm
May 20, 2015
Housework: Who Does the Cleaning Up in Your Marriage?
May 13, 2015
How to Disagree Without Sinking Your Love Boat
May 06, 2015
10 Simple But Powerful Ways to Court Your Spouse In Everyday Moments
Apr 29, 2015
Four Reasons Why You Must Do Pre-Marital Coaching
Apr 21, 2015
3 Ways To Support Your Spouse When You Disagree
Apr 15, 2015
Marriage After Your First Child
Apr 08, 2015
It’s Not Always My Fault!
Apr 01, 2015
If I Need You, Does That Make Me Needy?
Mar 25, 2015
10 Tips for Closer Connection
Mar 18, 2015
Does Money Affect Your Marriage?
Mar 11, 2015
Touch Her Heart Before You Touch Her Body
Mar 04, 2015
Top 5 Predictors of Marital Success
Feb 25, 2015
Let It Go or Confront It?
Feb 18, 2015
Valentine’s Day. Love It or Hate It?
Feb 11, 2015
Distraction is Killing Your Marriage
Feb 04, 2015
Infidelity Starts Long Before The Affair
Jan 28, 2015
Four Critical Habits to Deepen Your Love
Jan 21, 2015
How Are You Enriching Your Marriage This Year?
Jan 14, 2015
Sleep Your Way To A Better Marriage – Shawn Stevenson Interview
Jan 07, 2015
Differences in Sexual Desire: A Checklist for Your Marriage
Dec 31, 2014
How Jesus Almost Grew Up With A Single Mom
Dec 24, 2014
How To Repair After A Fight
Dec 17, 2014
Ground Rules For A Good Fight
Dec 10, 2014
What Is Your Fighting Style?
Dec 03, 2014
Why Fighting is Good For Your Marriage
Nov 26, 2014
3 Ways To Make Your Marriage Happier Today!
Nov 19, 2014
Womanspeak
Nov 12, 2014
Two Tips To Manage Your Defensiveness
Nov 05, 2014
Have You Tried The Miracle Question?
Oct 29, 2014
If You Really Loved Me, You Would…
Oct 22, 2014
Triangles — How Trigonometry Impacts Your Marriage!
Oct 15, 2014
Does Homeschooling Wreck Marriages?
Oct 08, 2014
Hug Your Way To A Better Marriage!
Oct 01, 2014
Speaking Well Of Your Spouse Affects Your Health?
Sep 24, 2014
Get Out! Real Ultimatums in Marriage!
Sep 17, 2014
Interview with Tyler Ward
Sep 10, 2014
3 Ways To Affair-Proof Your Marriage
Sep 03, 2014
Three Tips For Rocking Your Vacation
Aug 27, 2014
3 Types of Negativity That Will Ruin Your Marriage
Aug 20, 2014
Why Comparison Makes You A Miserable Spouse
Aug 13, 2014
How to Use Your Marriage for Stress Relief!
Aug 06, 2014
Listen to Understand
Jul 30, 2014
5-for-5! A Quick and Easy Way to Rock Your Marriage!
Jul 23, 2014
Is It Ever OK to Say, “If you do XYZ, I’m gonna divorce you?”
Jul 16, 2014
What’s the Point of Sex, Anyways?
Jul 09, 2014
Stop Hiding From Your Spouse! Fears of Intimacy (Part 3 of 3)
Jul 02, 2014
Stop Hiding From Your Spouse! Fears of Intimacy (Part 2 of 3)
Jun 25, 2014
Stop Hiding From Your Spouse! Fears of Intimacy (Part 1 of 3)
Jun 18, 2014
Eyes-Open Sex — Fully Engaged Intimacy
Jun 11, 2014
Six Dynamics That Influence In-Law Relationships, Part 2
Jun 04, 2014
Six Dynamics That Influence In-Law Relationships, Part 1
May 28, 2014
The Strongest Predictor of Divorce Is…
May 21, 2014
5 Reasons Why You Need to Tell Your Wife You Appreciate Her
May 20, 2014
Why Receiving Influence is a Skill Every Husband Needs to Learn
May 18, 2014
When Did You Divorce Your Husband and Marry the Kids?
May 16, 2014
Introduction to the OnlyYouForever Podcast and Your Hosts, Caleb & Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele
May 16, 2014