Loving BDSM

By Loving BDSM

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We help kinksters have happy, healthy power exchange relationships.

Episode Date
What Causes Conflict in D/s | Dealing with Conflict Series
May 01, 2026
When a Dom Says No
Apr 24, 2026
Kinky Pet Peeves
Apr 17, 2026
BDSM Reddit Response
Apr 03, 2026
Can You Be Spontaneous in a Kink Relationship?
Mar 20, 2026
Feeling Disconnected in D/s
Mar 13, 2026
BDSM Q&A
Mar 06, 2026
Reconnecting with Silly Relationship Questions
Feb 27, 2026
Emotional Intelligence and Power Exchange
Feb 20, 2026
Bonus Section Episode
Feb 13, 2026
Q&A: How Can We Have a Power Exchange as Parents?
Feb 10, 2026
BDSM Reddit Response
Feb 06, 2026
Q&A: Is Our 24/7 TPE Hopeless?
Feb 02, 2026
Let’s Talk About *Gestures Broadly at the World*
Jan 30, 2026
Friendship in Long Term Power Exchange
Jan 23, 2026
Q&A: How Much Money Do I Have to Spend to Meet a Dom?
Jan 19, 2026
Self Control and Power in Dominance
Jan 16, 2026
Q&A: Were They Right to Be Angry?
Jan 12, 2026
BDSM Reddit Response
Jan 09, 2026
Q&A: Should I Reconnect with My Kinky Friend?
Jan 05, 2026
Answering 10 Silly Relationship Questions
Dec 19, 2025
Q&A: How Do We Maintain Playful D/s While LDR?
Dec 16, 2025
Our D/s Life in 2025
Dec 12, 2025
Q&A: How is D/s Worth It if It’s So Difficult?
Dec 09, 2025
How to Achieve Your Kink Goals for 2026
Dec 05, 2025
Q&A: How Do We Find the Right Amount of Intimacy?
Dec 02, 2025
Last Minute Schedule Change
Nov 24, 2025
Bonus Section Episode
Nov 21, 2025
Q&A: What Can I Wear Instead of My Collar?
Nov 17, 2025
WTF is Soft BDSM?
Nov 14, 2025
BDSM Reddit Response
Nov 07, 2025
Love Maps and Power Exchange
Oct 31, 2025
Power Exchange vs Domestic Discipline vs Trad Wives
Oct 24, 2025
Q&A: Should I Change Our Dynamic Even Though I’m Happy With What We Have?
Oct 20, 2025
Dealing with Shame in Kink
Oct 17, 2025
10 Relationship Questions that Show You Really Know Your Partner
Oct 10, 2025
Kinky Q&A
Oct 03, 2025
BDSM Reddit Response
Sep 26, 2025
What’s Changed in our D/s | Updates from Old Episodes
Sep 19, 2025
Is Kink Being Normalized or Is It Just Going Viral?
Sep 05, 2025
Chaotically Answering Kink Questions from Our Inbox
Aug 29, 2025
BDSM Reddit Response
Aug 22, 2025
It’s Our 10th Podcast Anniversary!
Aug 15, 2025
Our Experience Using the Obedience App
Aug 08, 2025
Our Uneven, Non-Linear Return to Our D/s Life
Aug 01, 2025
Princess Treatment vs Power Exchange
Jul 18, 2025
Answering 10 Unhinged Relationship Questions
Jul 11, 2025
Ethics and Responsibilities in High-Risk Kink Play
Jul 04, 2025
Adding Kink to Special Occasions
Jun 27, 2025
What We’re Still Learning About Each Other
Jun 20, 2025
BDSM Reddit Response
Jun 13, 2025
Q&A: Am I Asking for Too Much From My Dominant?
Jun 02, 2025
Kinky Q&A
May 30, 2025
Q&A: What Do I Do as a Newly Single But Inexperienced Sub?
May 19, 2025
How to Be Consistent in D/s | Making D/s Work in the Real World
May 09, 2025
Q&A: How Do I Stop Apologizing While Topping?
May 05, 2025
D/s When You Take Care of Others | Making D/s Work in the Real World
May 02, 2025
Q&A: How Do I Convince My Dom That I’m Ready for More?
Apr 28, 2025
D/s No One Else Will Notice | Making D/s Work in the Real World
Apr 25, 2025
Q&A: Are These Unwanted Behaviors a Red Flag?
Apr 21, 2025
Kink is Customizable | Making D/s Work in the Real World
Apr 18, 2025
Q&A: How Will We Know We’re Ready to Try Nonmonogamy Again?
Apr 14, 2025
No Topic, Just Vibes | A Bonus Section Episode
Apr 11, 2025
Q&A: How Do I Provide Emotional Support to My Dom?
Apr 07, 2025
Afraid to Ask for “Too Much” in Your Dynamic
Apr 04, 2025
Q&A: How Do I Navigate Being New to Sex and Kink
Mar 31, 2025
Kinky AITA
Mar 28, 2025
Q&A: Is There a Way to Be Okay With Being Called Mommy or Daddy?
Mar 24, 2025
24/7 D/s and Total Power Exchange
Mar 21, 2025
Q&A: How Can a People Pleaser Explore Their Bratty Side?
Mar 17, 2025
Experimenting with Rules in Public
Mar 14, 2025
Q&A: How Do We Negotiate Consensual Non-consent?
Mar 10, 2025
Kinky Q&A
Mar 07, 2025
Q&A: What Should We Negotiate and Decide Before We Move In Together?
Mar 03, 2025
Perimenopause and Power Exchange
Feb 28, 2025
Q&A: Is Punishment a Necessary Part of Power Exchange?
Feb 17, 2025
Feelings of Comfort and Familiarity
Feb 14, 2025
Q&A: How Do I Feel More Confident in Our Dynamic After Trauma?
Feb 10, 2025
Silly Conflicts in Our Power Exchange
Feb 07, 2025
Q&A: How Do I Get Out of My Head During Sex?
Feb 03, 2025
BDSM Reddit Response
Jan 31, 2025
Q&A: How Do I Support a Partner Who Doesn’t Take Criticism Well?
Jan 27, 2025
Obedience in Power Exchange
Jan 24, 2025
Q&A: How Do We Maintain Our D/s Dynamic?
Jan 20, 2025
Reconnecting With Our Kinky Identities
Jan 17, 2025
Q&A: Am I Really Submissive?
Jan 13, 2025
Getting Our D/s Life Back in 2025
Jan 10, 2025
Q&A: What Happens If You Can’t Agree That a Sub Broke a Rule?
Jan 06, 2025
Looking Back at our D/s Relationship in 2024
Dec 20, 2024
Q&A: Does the Kink Community Welcome All Body Types?
Dec 16, 2024
Answering More Vanilla Relationship Questions
Dec 13, 2024
Q&A: How Do We Find the Balance Between Our Power Exchange Needs?
Dec 09, 2024
Navigating the Holidays in Power Exchange
Dec 06, 2024
Q&A: Why is My Sub Irritable After a Scene? Is It Drop?
Dec 02, 2024
BDSM Reddit Response
Nov 29, 2024
Q&A: Is It OK for Subs to Call Me Sir When We Meet?
Nov 25, 2024
Kinky Q&A
Nov 22, 2024
Q&A: How Do I Talk About My Mental Health?
Nov 18, 2024
Assertive Submissives
Nov 15, 2024
Q&A: How Do I Handle Having a Bad Local Community?
Nov 04, 2024
Dominants and Communication
Nov 01, 2024
Q&A: How Can I Motivate My Dom to Bring D/s Out of the Bedroom?
Oct 28, 2024
Old Relationship Energy in Power Exchange
Oct 25, 2024
BDSM Reddit Response
Oct 18, 2024
Q&A: Can We Go Back to Normal?
Oct 07, 2024
When Life Interferes with Your Power Exchange | Back to Basics Series
Oct 04, 2024
Q&A: How Do I Enjoy Scenes with a Nervous Domme?
Sep 30, 2024
Where to Find a Dominant or Submissive Partner | Back to Basics Series
Sep 27, 2024
Q&A: Is It Okay to Enjoy Our Power Dynamic Without Labeling It?
Sep 23, 2024
What to Watch Out for in New D/s Relationships | Back to Basics Series
Sep 20, 2024
Q&A: How Do I Move Past Bad Memories to Enjoy Old Kinks?
Sep 16, 2024
Consent in D/s Relationships | Back to Basics
Sep 13, 2024
Q&A: Can I Avoid an Active Member in My Local Community?
Sep 09, 2024
Starting a New D/s Relationship | Back to Basics
Sep 06, 2024
Q&A: Am I an Unreliable Dominant?
Sep 02, 2024
Kinky Q&A
Aug 30, 2024
Things We’ve Learned About Power Exchange in Nine Years of Podcasting
Aug 23, 2024
Q&A: Can We Be Switches in Different Ways and Still Have a Good D/s Relationship?
Aug 19, 2024
The Pressures and Privileges of Dominance
Aug 16, 2024
Q&A: How Can My Dom Become Comfortable Initiating Free Use?
Aug 12, 2024
Imposter Syndrome in Power Exchange and Kink
Aug 09, 2024
Q&A: What If a Dom Doesn’t Always Want to Lead?
Jul 29, 2024
BDSM Reddit Response
Jul 26, 2024
Q&A: When is the Right Time to Meet in Real Life?
Jul 22, 2024
Answering Cute and Spicy Questions
Jul 19, 2024
Q&A: How Do I Trust My Dom Again?
Jul 15, 2024
Radical Honesty in Power Exchange
Jul 12, 2024
Q&A: How Do I Tell My Partner I Want to Switch?
Jul 08, 2024
Needing External Motivation in Power Exchange
Jul 05, 2024
Task Creep in Power Exchange
Jun 21, 2024
Celebrating 400 Episodes with Kinky Q&A
Jun 14, 2024
BDSM Reddit Response
Jun 07, 2024
Over Communication in Power Exchange
May 31, 2024
Q&A: Is My Dom the Problem or Am I?
May 27, 2024
Submission With Control Issues
May 24, 2024
Q&A: How Do We Get Our Kink Life Back After Having a Baby?
May 20, 2024
What Grounds or Centers You in Kink?
May 17, 2024
Q&A: How Do I Help My Dom Act More Commanding?
May 13, 2024
Responsibilities to Your Power Exchange
May 10, 2024
Q&A: Should I Just Let My BDSM Relationship End?
May 06, 2024
Answering Feel Good Relationship Questions
May 03, 2024
Q&A: What Make Good Punishments and Rewards?
Apr 29, 2024
BDSM Reddit Response
Apr 26, 2024
Q&A: What Do I When People Reject Me For Being Kinky?
Apr 22, 2024
A Bonus Section Episode
Apr 19, 2024
Q&A: Are Most Kinky People Also Non-Monogamous?
Apr 15, 2024
Building Confidence in D/s and Your Kink Identity
Apr 12, 2024
Q&A: What Kinky Lingerie Options Are Available for Big Breasts?
Apr 08, 2024
Do Submissives Really Have All the Power in D/s?
Apr 05, 2024
How Do I Introduce My Kink Partner and Honor the Requirements of My Divorce?
Apr 01, 2024
Answering Random But “Deep” Relationship Questions
Mar 29, 2024
Q&A: How Do I Connect With People in My Local Kink Community?
Mar 18, 2024
Responding to Your Kinky Hot Takes and Unpopular Opinions
Mar 15, 2024
Q&A: Will These Household Items Work as Pervertables?
Mar 11, 2024
Ask Us Anything!
Mar 08, 2024
Q&A: How Do I Navigate a Complex Poly and Kink Relationship with Two Partners?
Mar 04, 2024
Submission and Pleasure
Mar 01, 2024
Q&A: How Do I Let My Dom Know I’m Ready for Sex and Kink Without Feeling Like I’m Initiating Play?
Feb 26, 2024
What is a Pleasure Dom?
Feb 23, 2024
What Do I Do When My Dominant Can’t Handle the Mental Load?
Feb 19, 2024
BDSM Reddit Response
Feb 16, 2024
Q&A: Can I Be My Authentic Kinky Self With a Vanilla Friend?
Feb 12, 2024
The State of Our Power Exchange
Feb 09, 2024
Q&A: Is Anger Part of Dominance?
Feb 05, 2024
Age Gaps in Power Exchange
Feb 02, 2024
Q&A: How Do We Make the Most of Our LDR?
Jan 29, 2024
How We Show Up in Our D/s Relationship
Jan 26, 2024
A Commercial Break Ramble
Jan 19, 2024
How Do We Renegotiate Our Marriage For D/s?
Jan 15, 2024
Free Use and Blanket Consent in Power Exchange
Jan 12, 2024
Q&A: How Do I Get Kinky Punishment Without Sex?
Jan 08, 2024
Our 2024 Kinky Goals and Plans
Jan 05, 2024
Q&A: Is This Past Trauma or a New Beginning for My Submissive?
Dec 18, 2023
BDSM Reddit Response
Dec 15, 2023
How Do I Negotiate When They Want to Experiment With Kink?
Dec 11, 2023
BDSM in the News
Dec 08, 2023
Can a Submissive Negotiate Their Rewards?
Dec 04, 2023
How Well Do We Know Each Other | Answering Relationship Questions
Dec 01, 2023
What Do I Do When My Dominant Wants Something Silly?
Nov 27, 2023
Pure Randomness | A Bonus Section Episode
Nov 24, 2023
What We Find Easy and Hard About Kink
Nov 17, 2023
How Can We Have the D/s We Planned While We Were LDR?
Nov 13, 2023
Brat Tamer vs Brat Handler
Nov 10, 2023
What Do I Do When My Dom Leaves Me Hanging?
Nov 06, 2023
Changes We See In Each Other After a Decade
Nov 03, 2023
BDSM Reddit Response
Oct 27, 2023
How Do I Get More Kinky Fun When I Hate Planning For It?
Oct 23, 2023
The Difference Between Power Exchange Relationships Being Hard vs Requiring Effort
Oct 20, 2023
How Do I Make Sure My Submissive Needs Are Fulfilled?
Oct 16, 2023
Silliness and Playfulness in D/s Relationships
Oct 13, 2023
How Can I Be Vulnerable With New Dom After Bad Vanilla Break-up?
Oct 09, 2023
Top 10 Kinkiest States, Sex Toys, and Fetishes
Oct 06, 2023
BDSM Reddit Response
Sep 29, 2023
Navigating Stress Before It Happens in D/s Relationships
Sep 22, 2023
Breadcrumbing vs Doing the Little Things in D/s Relationships
Sep 15, 2023
A Random Episode
Sep 01, 2023
Responding to Kinky Hot Takes and Unpopular Opinions
Aug 25, 2023
And Now for a Break(Down)
Aug 18, 2023
BDSM Q&A
Aug 11, 2023
BDSM Reddit Response
Aug 04, 2023
Answering More Non-Kinky Relationship Questions
Jul 28, 2023
Most “Popular” Kinks and Fetishes
Jul 21, 2023
Our Kink Life on OnlyFans
Jul 14, 2023
Are D/s Relationships 50/50?
Jul 07, 2023
How D/s Has Improved Our Lives
Jun 30, 2023
Bonus Section Episode
Jun 23, 2023
Mental Load in Power Exchange
Jun 16, 2023
BDSM Reddit Response
Jun 09, 2023
Answering Relationship Questions to Reconnect
May 19, 2023
How Our D/s Negotiations Have Changed Over Time
May 12, 2023
BDSM in the News
May 05, 2023
Procrastination in Power Exchange
Apr 28, 2023
Decision Fatigue in D/s Relationships
Apr 21, 2023
BDSM Reddit Response
Apr 14, 2023
BDSM Q&A
Apr 07, 2023
Our Experience with D/s and Depression
Mar 31, 2023
Topping from the Bottom | Revisiting Old Episodes
Mar 24, 2023
Survey “Reveals” How Kinky the Bible Belt Is
Mar 10, 2023
Figuring Out Your Kinky Self
Mar 03, 2023
Sensation Play
Feb 24, 2023
Answering Silly But Serious Relationship Questions
Feb 17, 2023
BDSM Reddit Response
Feb 10, 2023
How We’ve Evolved in BDSM and D/s
Jan 27, 2023
Bonus Section Episode
Jan 20, 2023
Division of Labor in Power Exchange
Jan 13, 2023
Our 2023 Plans and Goals
Jan 06, 2023
BDSM Reddit Response
Dec 16, 2022
BDSM Q&A
Dec 09, 2022
What We’ve Learned After a Decade Together
Dec 02, 2022
Our Favorite Sex Toys of 2022
Nov 25, 2022
Research on Kink Behavior vs. Kink Identity
Nov 18, 2022
Toxic Masculinity in Power Exchange | A Dominant’s Perspective
Nov 11, 2022
Answering Spicy Questions
Nov 04, 2022
Sharing Burdens in Power Exchange
Oct 28, 2022
People Pleasing in Power Exchange
Oct 21, 2022
Different Types of Intimacy in Kink
Oct 14, 2022
What Kinksters Want Others to Stop Getting Wrong About Kink
Sep 30, 2022
BDSM Reddit Reaction
Sep 16, 2022
BDSM Q&A
Sep 09, 2022
Voice Kinks
Sep 02, 2022
Submitting While Angry or Upset
Aug 26, 2022
Checking in on Our D/s Relationship
Aug 19, 2022
What is a Service Top?
Aug 12, 2022
Does a Submissive Have to Change in D/s?
Aug 05, 2022
BDSM Q&A
Jul 29, 2022
BDSM Reddit Reaction
Jul 22, 2022
What is Conscious Kink?
Jul 19, 2022
Joy in D/s Relationships
Jul 08, 2022
What is an Alpha Sub?
Jul 01, 2022
What Do You Bring to the Table?
Jun 17, 2022
Love Bombing and Power Exchange
Jun 10, 2022
Collaboration and Teamwork
Jun 03, 2022
Minisode 56: Punishment Tips
May 31, 2022
Perfectionism in Power Exchange
May 27, 2022
Getting Back Into a Groove
May 20, 2022
Our Power Exchange During Times of Stress
Apr 15, 2022
Minisode 55: Beyond Subspace
Apr 05, 2022
BDSM Reddit Response
Apr 01, 2022
Minisode 54: Consent in Power Exchange
Mar 29, 2022
Minisode 53: Trying New Kinks Together
Mar 22, 2022
BDSM Q&A
Mar 11, 2022
Minisode 52: Subspace
Mar 08, 2022
Are We Still DD/lg? | Revisiting Old Episodes
Mar 04, 2022
Minisode 51: Electroplay Basics and Safety Tips
Mar 01, 2022
Burnout in Power Exchange and Kink
Feb 25, 2022
Minisode 50: Our Favorite Impact Play Toys
Feb 22, 2022
When a Service Submissive Can’t Serve
Feb 18, 2022
Minisode 49: Tips for Balancing Kink and Parenting
Feb 15, 2022
What We’ve Learned After 300 Kinky Conversations
Feb 11, 2022
Minisode 48: Sadism and Masochism
Feb 08, 2022
BDSM Reddit Reaction
Feb 04, 2022
Minisode 47: Red Flags in Power Exchange
Feb 01, 2022
Hard Doms vs Soft Doms
Jan 28, 2022
Minisode 46: Our Favorite Vibrators for Forced Orgasms
Jan 25, 2022
Questioning Whether Bad Kinky Behavior is “Normal” | Revisiting Episode 5
Jan 21, 2022
Minisode 45: BDSM Safety Tips
Jan 18, 2022
Sharing Our 2022 Goals
Jan 14, 2022
One Big Bonus Section
Jan 07, 2022
Minisode 44: Tips for Setting Kinky Goals
Jan 04, 2022
BDSM Q&A
Dec 17, 2021
Minisode 43: Impact Play Tips for Newbies
Dec 14, 2021
Good Doms | Revisiting Episode 3
Dec 10, 2021
Minisode 42: Tips for Surviving Holiday Visits with Vanilla Family and Friends
Dec 07, 2021
Responding to BDSM Reddit…Again
Dec 03, 2021
Minisode 41: Drop
Nov 30, 2021
Our Favorite Sex Toys of 2021
Nov 26, 2021
Minisode 40: 3 BDSM Book Recommendations
Nov 23, 2021
Revisiting Episode 2: How to Talk to Your Dominant
Nov 19, 2021
Minisode 39: Negotiation Tips
Nov 17, 2021
Kink-Shaming
Nov 12, 2021
Minisode 38: What Does It Mean to Be Submissive
Nov 09, 2021
Mindfulness, Meditation, and BDSM
Nov 05, 2021
Minisode 37: Building Your BDSM First Aid Kit
Nov 02, 2021
Changing Old Habits and Forming New Habits in Power Exchange
Oct 29, 2021
Minisode 36: Anal Training Tips
Oct 26, 2021
Revisiting Episode 1: Anyone Can Be Kinky
Oct 22, 2021
BDSM Q&A
Oct 15, 2021
Different Types of Personal Boundaries
Oct 08, 2021
Minisode 35: Funishment Basics
Sep 28, 2021
Green Flags in Power Exchange Relationships
Sep 24, 2021