Relationship Alive!

By Neil Sattin

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Episodes: 248

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Neil Sattin interviews John Gottman, Sue Johnson, Harville Hendrix, Peter Levine, Stan Tatkin, Dick Schwartz, Katherine Woodward Thomas, Diana Richardson, Terry Real, Wendy Maltz - and many others - in his quest to dig deep into all the factors that keep a Relationship Alive and Thriving! Each week Neil brings you an in-depth interview with a relationship expert. Neil is an author and relationship coach who is enthusiastic and passionate about relationships and the nuts and bolts of what makes them last. You can find out more about Neil Sattin and the Relationship Alive podcast at http://www.neilsattin.com

Episode Date
255: How to Be Courageous (especially when it's hard)
Dec 29, 2021
254: From a "Fair" Relationship to Radical Generosity - the 80/80 Marriage with Kaley and Nate Klemp
Nov 30, 2021
253: How to Keep Children from Wrecking Your Relationship - The Baby Bomb with Kara Hoppe and Stan Tatkin
Oct 28, 2021
252: How and Why to Get Better at Conflict - Getting to Zero with Jayson Gaddis
Sep 30, 2021
251: Rebuilding Trust During a Crisis - with Pete Pearson
Sep 01, 2021
250: Start Your Day with Being OK
Jul 28, 2021
249: When You're the One Doing ALL the Work
Jun 30, 2021
248: What Are Your Rights in a Healthy Relationship?
May 25, 2021
247: The Path from an Insecure Attachment Style to a Healthy Relationship
Mar 25, 2021
246: How to Get Honest with Yourself
Feb 26, 2021
245: How to Not Die Alone - Using Science to Crack the Code of Modern Dating - with Logan Ury
Jan 28, 2021
244: A Practical Approach for Big Changes
Dec 20, 2020
243: Ultimatums - The Good and The Bad
Dec 13, 2020
242: Using Creativity for Emotional Alchemy - plus a song!
Nov 21, 2020
241: Breaking Up and Moving On - What's Normal? What's the "Right" Way?
Nov 11, 2020
240: When You're in Conflict - How to Find Optimal Outcomes - with Jennifer Goldman-Wetzler
Oct 24, 2020
239: How to Avoid the Negative Bypass
Oct 16, 2020
238: Unmotivated Partners - What To Do? - with Pete Pearson
Sep 26, 2020
237: Overcoming Procrastination - Session with David Burns and Neil Sattin
Sep 19, 2020
236: When Talking about How You Feel Goes Horribly Wrong
Sep 10, 2020
235: Microaggressions in Life and Love with Kevin Nadal
Aug 29, 2020
234: The Anti-Relationship Episode
Aug 15, 2020
233: What Makes a Marriage Last - with Marlo Thomas and Phil Donahue
Aug 06, 2020
232: Solving the Acceptance Paradox - with Neil Sattin
Jul 25, 2020
231: How to Make Better Decisions in Your Relationships (and Avoid Common Pitfalls) - with Logan Ury
Jul 18, 2020
230: How to Win Any Argument
Jul 11, 2020
229: Sexting for Fun and Connection
Jun 29, 2020
228: Facing Overwhelm - Session with David Burns and Neil Sattin
Jun 19, 2020
227: Racism, Racial Equity, and Relationships - with Neil Sattin
Jun 06, 2020
226: Feeling Good - What Matters and What Doesn't - with David Burns
May 29, 2020
225: Overcoming Shame and Getting Real about Relationships
May 15, 2020
224: What Romance Novels Teach Us about Real-Life Love and Desire - with Mara Wells
Apr 25, 2020
223: How to Boost Your Oxytocin for a Sense of Wellbeing - Even If You're Solo - with Jessica Zager
Apr 10, 2020
222: Hints to Improve Digital Intimacy and Stay Sane (and Connected) during a Lockdown
Mar 20, 2020
221: Love in the Time of Coronavirus - COVID19 and Your Relationships
Mar 14, 2020
220: Reclaiming (and Enjoying) Your Sexual Self - Taking Sexy Back with Alexandra Solomon
Mar 05, 2020
219: Your Questions Answered - More on Judgment and Grieving
Feb 22, 2020
218: Sacred Instructions - Indigenous Wisdom for Your Relationship - with Sherri Mitchell
Feb 14, 2020
217: How to Heal after a Breakup
Feb 07, 2020
216: Steering Clear of Judging Yourself and Others
Jan 24, 2020
215: Your Erotic Blueprint - The Work of Jaiya - with Ian Ferguson
Jan 16, 2020
214: Do Breakups Have To Be Messy?
Dec 21, 2019
213: How to Handle an Aching Heart - with Guy Finley
Dec 13, 2019
212: Something Deeply Personal - with Neil Sattin
Dec 07, 2019
211: Sometimes You Just Have to Stop - with Neil Sattin
Nov 23, 2019
210: How to Escape the Drama Triangle - with Stephen Karpman
Nov 15, 2019
209: How to Communicate about Your Emotions - with Neil Sattin
Nov 08, 2019
208: Sex and Porn Addiction - Myths and Reality - with Paula Hall
Oct 26, 2019
207: Getting Truthful about the Ways You Hold Back - with Neil Sattin
Oct 19, 2019
206: How to Benefit from Conflict - with Viola Neufeld
Oct 09, 2019
205: [Updated] Important Self-Care Basics with Neil Sattin
Sep 14, 2019
204: Communication that Grows Your Relationship - with Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson
Sep 05, 2019
203: How to Stop Controlling Each Other (and Why) - with Neil Sattin
Aug 29, 2019
202: Grounded Spirituality for Deeper Presence and Connection - with Jeff Brown
Aug 20, 2019
201: Can People Really Change? - with Neil Sattin
Aug 09, 2019
200: Pleasure Activism - Change that Nourishes You - with adrienne maree brown
Jul 24, 2019
199: What To Do When Things Get Challenging
Jul 18, 2019
198: Healing Your Earliest Attachment Wounds - with Peter Levine
Jul 10, 2019
197: Sexy Consent - Deeper Intimacy with Neil Sattin
Jul 03, 2019
196: Harnessing the Transformative Power of Your Core Emotions - The Change Triangle with Hilary Jacobs Hendel
Jun 25, 2019
195: How to Turn a Negative View of Your Partner into Something Positive
Jun 04, 2019
194: Heart vs. Head: Mismatched Processing Styles with Sue Johnson
May 23, 2019
193: How Mindfulness Can Ignite Passion - Buddha's Bedroom with Cheryl Fraser
May 15, 2019
192: When Love Vanishes or Affairs Happen - What To Do? - Your Questions Answered
May 09, 2019
191: How It All Fits Together with Keith Witt
May 01, 2019
190: How to Truly Be Yourself in Your Relationship
Apr 23, 2019
189: From Disconnection and Loneliness to Aliveness and Intimacy - AEDP for Couples with David Mars
Apr 16, 2019
188: Don't Be A Victim of Attachment Theory
Apr 10, 2019
187: More Love Less Conflict - Communication and Mindset Secrets with Jonathan Robinson
Apr 02, 2019
186: Getting to the Truth within You
Mar 27, 2019
185: 20 Minutes a Week to Relationship Bliss - with Alicia Muñoz
Mar 19, 2019
184: Forget the Love Languages - Let's Talk about the Four Fear Languages
Mar 13, 2019
183: Real-Life Skills for Getting the Love You Want - with Helen LaKelly Hunt and Harville Hendrix
Mar 05, 2019
182: Is Variety a Spice or a Vice?
Feb 27, 2019
181: Depression? What You Can Do with Michael Yapko
Feb 19, 2019
180: Are You Truly Committed?
Feb 13, 2019
179: Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love with Julie and John Gottman
Feb 05, 2019
178: The New Monogamy: From Assumptions to Integrity with Tammy Nelson
Jan 29, 2019
177: How To Get Past Your Resentment
Jan 22, 2019
176: Healing Trauma and Attachment Injuries through Intimacy: AEDP with Diana Fosha
Jan 14, 2019
175: What’s Keeping You From Changing?
Jan 07, 2019
174: She Comes First: More Orgasms For Women with Ian Kerner
Jan 01, 2019
173: A Gift For You
Dec 25, 2018
172: The Power of The Hold Me Tight Conversation with Sue Johnson
Dec 18, 2018
171: Does your need to feel special keep you from connecting?
Dec 10, 2018
170: Embodying Well-Being and the Lover Within: Zapchen - with Julie Henderson
Dec 03, 2018
168: Practical Skills for Building Your Emotional Intelligence with Jordan Harbinger
Nov 20, 2018
167: How to Keep Assumptions from Eroding Your Relationship
Nov 13, 2018
166: Are You Addicted to Love and Relationships? - with Sherry Gaba
Nov 06, 2018
165: Should You Start Over with Someone New?
Oct 31, 2018
164: How Love Can Dissolve Conflict - Relationship Magic with Guy Finley
Oct 26, 2018
163: A Surprising Way to Create More Generosity in Your Relationship - with Neil Sattin
Oct 18, 2018
162: Pleasure, Touch, and The Wheel of Consent - with Betty Martin
Oct 12, 2018
161: A Crucial Key for Building Trust in Your Relationship
Oct 05, 2018
160: The Four Noble Truths of Love and Relationship - with Susan Piver
Sep 26, 2018
159: What Is a Realistic Expectation for Change in Your Relationship?
Sep 21, 2018
158: Loving Completely - Integrating Science, Heart, and Spirit - with Keith Witt
Sep 12, 2018
157: Celebrating and Taking Stock
Sep 06, 2018
156: Rethinking Narcissism and Its Impact on Your Relationship - with Craig Malkin
Aug 29, 2018
155: How to Communicate about Something You've Been Avoiding
Aug 22, 2018
154: What's Different and What's Universal - Gay Male Relationships - with Rick Miller
Aug 14, 2018
153: Turn Blame into Something Positive - with Neil Sattin
Aug 09, 2018
152: Get Unstuck and onto the Same Team - Relationship Development with Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson
Aug 01, 2018
151: How to Stop Coping and Start Growing
Jul 25, 2018
150: Attachment Styles and Relationship Repair - with Stan Tatkin
Jul 19, 2018
149: Getting Back Together with an Ex - Should You? How to do it right.
Jul 11, 2018
147: A Simple, Radical Way to Improve Your Ability to Connect
Jun 28, 2018
146: How and Why to Have a Good Divorce - with Constance Ahrons
Jun 19, 2018
144: Extreme Self Care for a Healthy Relationship - with Cheryl Richardson
Jun 06, 2018
143: Mismatched Sex Drive? What To Do.
May 29, 2018
142: Loving Bravely - How Self Discovery Can Transform Your Relationship - with Alexandra Solomon
May 19, 2018
141: Is Your Relationship Healthy? - with Neil Sattin
May 11, 2018
140: Mastering the Art of Inner Transformation - Internal Family Systems with Dick Schwartz
May 03, 2018
139: Change Your Pattern - How to BE an Invitation
Apr 26, 2018
138: How Orgasms are Hurting Your Relationship - with Marnia Robinson - from the Archives
Apr 18, 2018
137: Calling in The One - No Matter Your Status - with Katherine Woodward Thomas
Apr 11, 2018
136: An Important Action Step for Your Relationship - with Neil Sattin
Apr 04, 2018
135: Improve Your Communication Skills for Deeper Understanding - with Deborah Tannen
Mar 28, 2018
134: Snooping, Secrets, and Rebuilding Trust - What to Do - with Neil Sattin
Mar 20, 2018
133: Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life - Cognitive Distortions with Dr. David Burns
Mar 15, 2018
131: How Love is Evolving You - Evolutionary Relationships with Patricia Albere
Feb 28, 2018
130: On Valentine's Day and Uncertainty in Your Relationship - with Neil Sattin
Feb 20, 2018
129: Unlocking the Secrets of The Smart Couple - with Jayson Gaddis
Feb 14, 2018
128: Practical Masculinity: Beyond Stereotypes - with Shana James
Feb 03, 2018
127: Peter Levine - Building Resiliency in Yourself, Your Relationship, and Your Children
Jan 31, 2018
125: Developing the "Yes Brain" in Yourself and Your Kids - with Dan Siegel
Jan 13, 2018
124: Jealousy - How to Deal and Heal
Jan 09, 2018
123: Pleasure is the Measure: The Science of Sex and Desire - with Emily Nagoski
Jan 01, 2018
122: The Science of Empathy and How to Keep Yourself Clear
Dec 26, 2017
121: Tackling the Fears of Loneliness and Abandonment
Dec 19, 2017
120: Strengthen Your Connection: Undefended Love with Jett Psaris
Dec 12, 2017
119: The Most Important Thing Is What You Bring
Dec 06, 2017
118: Crafting an Uncommon Bond and Soulshaping - with Jeff Brown
Nov 28, 2017
117: Why Projection Can Be Useful - Neil Sattin
Nov 21, 2017
116: Sex, Love, and Dating: From Addiction to Health with Alex Katehakis
Nov 14, 2017
115: The Courage to Not Be Perfect - with Neil Sattin
Nov 06, 2017
114: How to Get the Most Out of Therapy - with Jeff Zeig
Oct 31, 2017
113: How to Find Healing and Connection in a Dark Time - with Neil Sattin
Oct 24, 2017
112: How and Why to Apologize Effectively with Harriet Lerner
Oct 18, 2017
111: How to Ask for Support - with Neil Sattin
Oct 10, 2017
110: Your Tantra Questions Answered - with Diana Richardson
Oct 04, 2017
109: Is This Normal?
Sep 26, 2017
108: Creating Positive Intensity in Your Connection with Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt
Sep 19, 2017
107: A Little Honesty Goes a Long Way
Sep 13, 2017
106: Stopping The Nice Guy Syndrome with Robert Glover
Sep 06, 2017
105: One Small Thing That Can Change Everything
Aug 29, 2017
104: How to Get What You Need - Nonviolent Communication with Max Rivers
Aug 22, 2017
103: Are You Being Codependent or Considerate?
Aug 15, 2017
102: How to Evolve Your Relationship with Jeffrey Zeig
Aug 08, 2017
101: A User Manual for You
Aug 02, 2017
100: Attraction - How to Sustain It and How to Revive It - with John Gottman and Sue Johnson
Jul 22, 2017
99: The Secrets of Scheduling Sex Successfully
Jul 17, 2017
98: How to Stop Being a Victim - Feeling Good Together with David Burns
Jul 11, 2017
A Brief Interlude
Jul 05, 2017
97: How to Enlist Your Friends to Support Your Relationship
Jun 27, 2017
96: How to Transform the Hidden Beliefs that Hold You Back with Katherine Woodward Thomas
Jun 20, 2017
95: Who is Holding You Back?
Jun 13, 2017
94: Conscious Weddings and Commitment with Lila Sophia and David Tresemer
Jun 06, 2017
93: How to Find the Gift in Any Moment
May 31, 2017
92: Creating New Possibilities from the Inside Out - Winning from Within - Erica Ariel Fox
May 23, 2017
91: The Power of Deep Relating
May 16, 2017
90: Heal Your Relationship at the Deepest Level With Hedy Schleifer
May 06, 2017
89: How to Have a Healthy Long Distance Relationship
May 02, 2017
88: Helen Fisher - The Anatomy of Love: What Makes Love Last
Apr 22, 2017
87: How to Know If Someone Is Right for You
Apr 19, 2017
86: Beyond Mars and Venus - Reducing Stress and Improving Nutrition with John Gray
Apr 09, 2017
85: How and Why to Take Space
Apr 05, 2017
84: Deepening the Divine in Your Relationship - Andrew Harvey
Mar 28, 2017
83: How to Be OK No Matter What
Mar 22, 2017
82: How Safety Leads to Better Sex - Sue Johnson
Mar 15, 2017
81: Are You Addicted to Distraction?
Mar 08, 2017
80: Bring Your Shadow Into the Light - Keith Witt
Feb 28, 2017
79: How To Speak Your Truth
Feb 22, 2017
78: How to Have More Fun in Your Relationship with Cathy Salit
Feb 14, 2017
77: 21 Days to Deeper Intimacy
Feb 09, 2017
76: Healing from Infidelity with Michele Weiner Davis
Feb 01, 2017
75: A Powerful Oxytocin Booster for Your Relationship
Jan 26, 2017
74: John Gottman - How to Build Trust and Positive Energy in Your Relationship
Jan 18, 2017
73: Neil Sattin - If It Were Easy You Would Already Be Doing It
Jan 11, 2017
72: Love, Sex, and Awakening with Margot Anand
Jan 04, 2017
71: Just One Thing
Dec 29, 2016
70: How to Get Your Partner to Do What You Want
Dec 21, 2016
69: How to Be Completely Alive in Your Relationship - Hedy Schleifer
Dec 13, 2016
68: Are You Willing?
Dec 07, 2016
67: How to Get Your Ex Back with Chris Seiter
Nov 29, 2016
66: The Impact of Gratitude
Nov 23, 2016
65: Divorce Busting and Strategies for Relationship Success with Michele Weiner Davis
Nov 15, 2016
64: How to Amplify the Positive in Your Relationship
Nov 09, 2016
63: Dan Wile - How Collaboration Creates Intimacy
Nov 02, 2016
62: Neil Sattin: The Secrets of Relationship Repair
Oct 27, 2016
61: Orgasmic Meditation with Aubrey Fuller
Oct 19, 2016
60: Neil Sattin on Risk, Vulnerability, and Courage
Oct 13, 2016
59: How to Make Difficult Conversations So Much Easier with Sheila Heen
Oct 05, 2016
58: Self-Care: A Crucial Step with Neil Sattin
Sep 29, 2016
57: Mastering Mindfulness in Your Relationship - with Dan Siegel
Sep 21, 2016
56 - How to Create Amazing Days with Your Partner
Sep 15, 2016
55: Defeating Emotional Blackmail and Manipulation with Susan Forward
Sep 07, 2016
54: A Quick Practice to Change Everything About Your Relationship with Neil Sattin
Aug 31, 2016
53: How to Embrace Your Fear of Intimacy with Ken Page
Aug 19, 2016
52: Intimacy and Connection from the Inside Out with Toni Herbine-Blank
Aug 16, 2016
51: Neil Sattin: How to Get Inspired in Your Relationship
Aug 11, 2016
50: Wired for Dating and Love - Psychobiology with Stan Tatkin
Aug 02, 2016
49: How to Figure Out What You Really Want with Neil Sattin
Jul 27, 2016
48: Get Rid of Limiting Beliefs and Show Up Fully with Kyle Cease
Jul 19, 2016
47: The Best Ways to Come Back into Balance When You're Triggered with Neil Sattin
Jul 12, 2016
45: Overcoming Jealousy and What About Polyamory with Janet W Hardy
Jun 29, 2016
44: How to Know if It's Worth It with Neil Sattin
Jun 22, 2016
43: Recovering from Infidelity: From Chaos to Connected with Terry Real
Jun 15, 2016
42: How to Invite Intimacy through Deeper Presence with Guy Sengstock
Jun 07, 2016
40: Transform Your Boundaries with Sarri Gilman
May 23, 2016
39: Catching Up With Neil Sattin
May 18, 2016
38: Successful Stepcoupling for Blended Families with Susan Wisdom
May 10, 2016
37: Oxytocin: the Molecule of Love with Sue Carter
May 03, 2016
36: Relationship Repair after an Affair: Infidelity with Janis Abrahms Spring
Apr 26, 2016
35: Happy Kids, Better Relationship: Unconditional Parenting with Alfie Kohn
Apr 19, 2016
34: The Science of Safety with Stephen Porges
Apr 11, 2016
33: How and Why to Forgive with Fred Luskin
Apr 05, 2016
32: Mastering Communication in Three Dimensions with Marty Babits
Mar 28, 2016
31: Strategic Wisdom to Take Your Relationship to the Next Level with Shannon Waller
Mar 21, 2016
30: Sparking Attraction Through Inspiration Not Deprivation - Deeper Dating with Ken Page
Mar 16, 2016
29: How to Heal Your Triggers and Trauma with Peter Levine
Mar 08, 2016
28: Healthy Polarity, Energetic Connection, and the Work of David Deida with Michaela Boehm
Mar 01, 2016
27: Breaking Free from Your Patterns of Conflict with Sue Johnson
Feb 23, 2016
26: How to Get All the Parts within You to Work Together (and with Your Partner) with Dick Schwartz
Feb 16, 2016
25: Get Your Ego Out of the Way - How to Be an Adult in Love with Dave Richo
Feb 09, 2016
24: Why We Lie and How to Get Back to the Truth with Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson
Feb 03, 2016
23: Useful Things You Never Knew about Feminine Sexuality with Sheri Winston
Jan 27, 2016
22: Essential Skills for Conscious Relationship with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt
Jan 19, 2016
21: Healing Pain from Past or Present Breakups through Conscious Uncoupling with Katherine Woodward Thomas
Jan 12, 2016
20: Sparking Passion through Generosity and Being Authentically Yourself with Shana James
Jan 05, 2016
19: Recipe for a Secure, Healthy Relationship with Stan Tatkin
Dec 29, 2015
18: Integration Time with Neil Sattin
Dec 21, 2015
17: Stop Worrying, Start Playing - The Art of Improvisation with Patti Stiles
Dec 15, 2015
15: How to Thrive in Long Term Relationships with Gay Hendricks
Dec 01, 2015
14: Heal the Split between Head and Heart: Inner Bonding with Margaret Paul
Nov 24, 2015
13: Resolve Conflict and Create Intimacy through Attunement with Keith Witt
Nov 17, 2015
12: How to Turn Your Anger into a Force for Good with Harriet Lerner
Nov 10, 2015
11: Take Back Your Power from Porn with Gary Wilson
Nov 03, 2015
10: How to Get Off the Rollercoaster and Get Back to Love with Diana Richardson
Oct 27, 2015
09: Deeper Intimacy Through Sexual Healing with Wendy Maltz
Oct 20, 2015
08: How To Tackle The Hard Questions with Susan Piver
Oct 13, 2015
07: From Problems to Passion with Katie Hendricks
Oct 06, 2015
06: How to Deepen Intimacy Through Shared Consciousness with Patricia Albere
Sep 29, 2015
05: How Orgasms Are Hurting Your Relationship (and how to fix it) - Marnia Robinson
Sep 22, 2015
04: Advanced Relationship Jiu Jitsu with Terry Real
Sep 15, 2015
03: Katherine Woodward Thomas - Overcoming Your Barriers to Love and Connection
Sep 06, 2015
02: Diana Richardson - Discover the Power of Slow Sex
Sep 06, 2015
01: John Gottman - How to Be a Master of Relationship
Sep 06, 2015