A Gay and A NonGay

By James Barr and Dan Hudson

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 Mar 22, 2022

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In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends. 'Highly Recommended' Guardian 'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes 'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOut An independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongay Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

Episode Date
Elliot Page, Tia Kofi, Jamie Dornan + More! (Best of the Guests 2024)
Dec 25, 2024
Christmas If You're Queer
Dec 20, 2024
Ageing Twinks & Gay Cruises with Joe Sutherland
Dec 11, 2024
Getting Into The Holiday Spirit!
Dec 04, 2024
Are Straight People A Hoax?
Nov 27, 2024
Feeling Like A Spare In Your Relationship?
Nov 20, 2024
Shoe Sizes, Bed Sharing & Overhead Lighting
Nov 13, 2024
The Triumphant Journey of Tia Kofi
Nov 06, 2024
We're Award Winners! (And A Long Story)
Oct 30, 2024
Big Feet, Big... Energy?
Oct 23, 2024
Traffic Cones On Your Head
Oct 16, 2024
Humour Is A Great Form Of Therapy with Rob Madge
Oct 09, 2024
What's Hair Dye Got To Do With It?
Oct 02, 2024
Are You More Than A Gay Best Friend?
Sep 25, 2024
All It Was & All It Could Have Been
Sep 18, 2024
It's A Lesbian Renaissance with GIRLI
Sep 11, 2024
From Queer Joy to Rage with Reuben Kaye
Aug 07, 2024
Dating Whilst Discovering Yourself
Jul 31, 2024
Why Do Gays Dance Better? (& Other Stereotypes)
Jul 24, 2024
New York vs London Dating with Bright Light Bright Light
Jul 17, 2024
Hell, Toes and Unasked Questions
Jul 10, 2024
Failed Pop Stars & Dating Someone In The Closet
Jul 03, 2024
How Do You Know... If You've Never Done It?
Jun 26, 2024
Why We Still Need Pride Month
Jun 19, 2024
When Did "Just Sex" Stop Being Enough?
Jun 12, 2024
Some Men In London: A Conversation with Peter Parker About Gay History
Jun 05, 2024
How To Find Gay Friends In Your 30s
May 29, 2024
A Conversation with Eurovision's 2024 Winner Nemo
May 22, 2024
Can identity exist without labels?
May 15, 2024
Is it toxic for gays to be anti-pride?
May 09, 2024
Is monogamy a hoax?
May 01, 2024
Who Is Joel Creasey's Front Runner For Eurovision?
Apr 24, 2024
Richard Gadd on Baby Reindeer (2019 Re-Release)
Apr 17, 2024
Are 'TradWives' Progressive Or A Step Backwards?
Apr 10, 2024
Exploring Trans Love And Identity: 'Close To You' with Elliot Page & Dominic Savage
Mar 27, 2024
I Had To Have Tea With His Mum On The First Date
Mar 20, 2024
Barbie needed The Gays
Mar 13, 2024
Crystal Hefner's Journey to Freedom: How to find strength after manipulation and control
Mar 06, 2024
Do All Men Reply Like That...?
Feb 28, 2024
Do Gay's Experience 'The Girlfriend Effect'?
Feb 21, 2024
Crazy Celeb Rumours
Feb 15, 2024
Jamie Dornan Reviews His 'Doppelgänger' Dan
Feb 07, 2024
I think I fancy my best friend
Jan 31, 2024
Queer Love and Loneliness: A Conversation with Andrew Haigh, Director of 'All of Us Strangers'
Jan 24, 2024
Best of the Guests 2023
Jan 04, 2024
DJ Fat Tony on addiction, recovery and how to finally find happiness
Dec 26, 2023
Jamie Raines - Live at Cheerful Earful Festival Part 1
Dec 20, 2023
The Aces
Dec 13, 2023
Re-release: Our big gay show with Sophie Anderson
Dec 06, 2023
No one cares that you have a girlfriend
Nov 29, 2023
Pride and Politics - Are Tories welcome in LGBTQ+ spaces?
Nov 22, 2023
Unashamedly Gay, Unashamedly Christian with Jayne Ozanne
Nov 02, 2023
Are the Conservative Party betraying LGBTQ+ rights? a conversation with Andrew Boff
Oct 25, 2023
Thy Art Is Eternal... Transphobia in music
Oct 18, 2023
Princess Diana
Oct 11, 2023
What is life like for LGBTQ+ asylum seekers in the UK?
Oct 04, 2023
Is being 'thick' a 'gay' thing?
Sep 27, 2023
Bird News
Sep 20, 2023
Is it safe to be gay in the UK?
Sep 13, 2023
Is there a 'power dynamic' in gay relationships?
Sep 06, 2023
Are rape and sexual assault considered 'normal' for queer people?
Aug 24, 2023
Fire Island Chicken Tender-gate
Aug 17, 2023
What is a 'circuit queen'?
Aug 10, 2023
Go 'woke', go Broke? and Barbie
Aug 02, 2023
Are Just Stop Oil right to protest Pride in London?
Jul 26, 2023
Ten Years of Equal Marriage with Layla Moran MP
Jul 19, 2023
Glastonbury Darkrooms
Jul 12, 2023
America's Chemsex Killer with Patrick Strudwick
Jul 05, 2023
Has Philip Schofield given gays ‘bad PR?’
Jun 28, 2023
Breakups and Beefs
Jun 22, 2023
Is everyone a bit queer?
Jun 14, 2023
Are straight people ‘endlessly boring?’
Jun 07, 2023
Sam Smith and the fake moral panic
May 31, 2023
Is sex funny?
May 24, 2023
How to break through barriers of race and sexual orientation with Malcolm Kenyatta
May 03, 2023
The audacity of straight men
Apr 26, 2023
Allyship and activism with Jill Nadler... The Real Jill from It's A Sin
Apr 19, 2023
The logistics of Golden Showers
Apr 05, 2023
Live from the O2 with Jake Shears
Mar 29, 2023
Suing the NHS with Eva Echo
Mar 01, 2023
That’s a load off my mind
Feb 23, 2023
Dick O’Clock
Feb 15, 2023
Where is the non-gayest town in the UK?
Feb 08, 2023
Why Don't Gays and Lesbians Get Along Better? with Helen Scott
Feb 01, 2023
Ex-ual Health
Jan 25, 2023
Best Of 2022
Jan 01, 2023
Club Q Survivor Barrett Hudson
Dec 14, 2022
A Bad Week To Be Gay
Dec 07, 2022
Santa Claus, The Serial Killer? with Mobeen Azhar
Nov 25, 2022
Live in Birmingham with Eva Echo and Dan Tiernan
Nov 18, 2022
Open
Nov 02, 2022
Can anyone become an incel?
Oct 28, 2022
London Podcast Festival with Ki And Dee and Adam, The London Patient
Oct 21, 2022
Live in Edinburgh with Myra Dubois and Jen Ives
Oct 14, 2022
Live in Edinburgh with Jeena Bloom and Chloe Petts
Oct 07, 2022
The Monkeypox Outbreak with Martin Joseph
Sep 27, 2022
Live in Edinburgh with Sikisa and Joseph Parsons
Sep 16, 2022
Dan For Hire
Aug 08, 2022
Coming Out Out - A Gay and A NonGay's 300th Episode
Jul 25, 2022
LGBTQ+ Football with Ryan Atkin
Jul 14, 2022
Happy Pride! Acast's Audio Pride Parade
Jul 04, 2022
This Arab Is Queer with Elias Jashan
Jul 01, 2022
Why is Love Island So Straight? With Sharon Gaffka
Jun 24, 2022
Ella Vaday
Jun 16, 2022
Happily Ever Trans with Jake and Hannah Graf
Jun 11, 2022
Straight Jokes
Jun 02, 2022
A Stand-Up Guy
May 20, 2022
Diversity and Inclusion for Straight White Men
May 12, 2022
Dark Rooms in Deutschland
May 05, 2022
Sex Tape
Apr 20, 2022
A Mother’s Love
Apr 13, 2022
Gay Happy
Apr 06, 2022
Chloe Moriondo has 'Straight Panic'
Mar 23, 2022
'Heteronormative Hell'
Mar 10, 2022
Kitty Scott-Claus
Mar 03, 2022
Fake Jamie Dornan
Feb 16, 2022
LGBT History Month with Peter Tatchell
Feb 10, 2022
Four Lives
Feb 03, 2022
The Importance Of Pronouns
Jan 26, 2022
Pardon My Gay
Jan 19, 2022
NonGay Resolutions
Jan 13, 2022
Be Our Guest 2021
Jan 05, 2022
Christmas with Krystal Versace
Dec 22, 2021
A Gay Muslim's Journey to Acceptance with Mohsin Zaidi
Dec 16, 2021
From Grindr to Grindcore
Dec 09, 2021
Brandan Robertson the Tik-Tok Preacher
Nov 25, 2021
Bonus Episode: Sashay NonGay with Vanity Milan
Nov 23, 2021
Josh Cavallo
Nov 17, 2021
It's Raining Them with Mila Jam
Nov 10, 2021
Sashay NonGay with Scarlett Harlett
Nov 06, 2021
Sashay NonGay with Choriza May & River Medway
Nov 02, 2021
Sashay NonGay with Charity Kase
Oct 28, 2021
The Male Gaze
Oct 27, 2021
Billy Porter
Oct 20, 2021
Sashay NonGay with Veronica Green & Victoria Scone
Oct 12, 2021
Bonus Episode: Sashay NonGay with Elektra Fence
Oct 05, 2021
Big Gay Show with Felicity Ward, Sophie Anderson & Vanessa Feltz
Sep 30, 2021
Bonus Episode: Sashay NonGay with Anubis Finch
Sep 28, 2021
Sober
Sep 23, 2021
First Comes Love with Tom Rasmussen
Sep 15, 2021
Straight Tax
Sep 01, 2021
Vanessa Feltz
Aug 25, 2021
Bonus Episode: Bloodstock
Aug 19, 2021
Michael Gunning
Aug 11, 2021
Glory holes and Sourdough
Aug 04, 2021
Don't Tell Nikki's Mother
Jul 29, 2021
Bottoming
Jul 21, 2021
Gay Spellings
Jul 14, 2021
Pride Month with Tom Allen
Jun 30, 2021
Pride Month with Dustin Lance Black
Jun 23, 2021
Pride Month with Adele Roberts & Kate Holderness
Jun 16, 2021
Pride Month with Willam & Latrice Royale
Jun 09, 2021
Pride Month with Franco Stevens
Jun 02, 2021
Daneskin
May 27, 2021
Cheugy
May 19, 2021
James' Bum
May 12, 2021
Be Your Own Ally
May 05, 2021
Sex, Drugs and Richard Coles
Apr 28, 2021
Gender Reveal
Apr 21, 2021
Say Yes To The Cross-Dress - with Fat Mike of NOFX
Apr 14, 2021
Is Metal homophobic?
Apr 07, 2021
A Gay and a NonGay - with Louise!
Mar 31, 2021
1000 Days
Mar 26, 2021
Iconic Women
Mar 17, 2021
Juno Dawson
Mar 10, 2021
Blackness is inherently Queer with George M. Johnson
Mar 03, 2021
Becoming Eve with Abby Stein
Feb 24, 2021
Do The Admin
Feb 17, 2021
LGBTQ+ History Month with Lisa Power
Feb 10, 2021
Give HIV the finger
Feb 03, 2021
It's A Sin
Jan 27, 2021
James has been deleted
Jan 20, 2021
Reading
Jan 13, 2021
Twenty-Twinky-One
Jan 06, 2021
Be Our Guest 2020
Dec 30, 2020
Mrs. Claus with Divina de Campo
Dec 23, 2020
Live your best life with Jamie Windust
Dec 16, 2020
Boyfriend AGM
Dec 09, 2020
Leaving TERF Extremism with Beau Dyess
Dec 02, 2020
Ace and Base
Nov 26, 2020
Devil Horns 🤘
Nov 18, 2020
Confessions of a gay Metal God with Rob Halford
Nov 11, 2020
You're cheap and you're haggard
Nov 04, 2020
Pope Week
Oct 28, 2020
Musings
Oct 21, 2020
Slayer
Oct 14, 2020
World Mental Health Day
Oct 08, 2020
Overcoming Gay Shame with Will Young
Sep 30, 2020
Live from Manchester’s Alternative Pride Festival with Mark Fletcher & Bright Light Bright Light
Sep 23, 2020
#IKnewIWasLGBTQ
Sep 16, 2020
Trolls
Sep 09, 2020
Chaz Bono on A Gay and A NonGay
Sep 01, 2020
Debbie Downer
Aug 26, 2020
Erasure
Aug 19, 2020
YMCA
Aug 12, 2020
Tomfoolery... and Dan The Poet
Aug 05, 2020
Dan's Buns
Jul 29, 2020
Welcome To Chechnya with David France
Jul 22, 2020
Dan's Beard
Jul 15, 2020
Breaking Hate with Christian Picciolini
Jul 08, 2020
Pride 2020
Jul 01, 2020
Dating Amber with Lola Petticrew
Jun 24, 2020
Love Supreme
Jun 18, 2020
Smells Like Mean Spirit
Jun 10, 2020
Black Lives Matter
Jun 03, 2020
Circus of Books with Rachel Mason
May 27, 2020
Masc 4 Mask
May 21, 2020
The London Patient: A Cure for HIV? Part 2
May 13, 2020
The London Patient: A Cure for HIV? Part 1
May 06, 2020
Owain Wyn Evans
Apr 29, 2020
Love Lives Here with Amanda Jetté Knox
Apr 22, 2020
Camp
Apr 16, 2020
Snatch Game
Apr 09, 2020
Lowkey Worker
Apr 01, 2020
Dr. Ranj
Mar 25, 2020
Five Guys a Week
Mar 18, 2020
Live in Dublin with Colm O’Gormon & Rev. Chris Hudson
Mar 11, 2020
Leather Jackets
Mar 05, 2020
Double Standards
Feb 26, 2020
It’s Gonna Be Okay with MUNA
Feb 19, 2020
The podcast tour is coming
Feb 14, 2020
Phillip Schofield
Feb 12, 2020
Fleabagging
Feb 05, 2020
The big three
Jan 29, 2020
Friends forever?
Jan 22, 2020
Twenty Twen-T
Jan 15, 2020
Gavin and Stacey
Jan 08, 2020
Best of 2019
Dec 25, 2019
Santa Strikes Back
Dec 18, 2019
No Bumming Please
Dec 11, 2019
LGBTQ+ inclusive education with Olly Pike
Dec 06, 2019
#NotAllStraightMen
Nov 27, 2019
Live in Manchester: Stephen Bailey
Nov 22, 2019
Leaving the Westboro Baptist Church with Megan Phelps-Roper
Nov 14, 2019
Ellen loves Bush
Nov 08, 2019
Dan's mate's Dad wrote a Porno
Oct 30, 2019
James' Feet
Oct 23, 2019
Live in London: Matthew Todd & ShayShay
Oct 17, 2019
An Outing
Oct 09, 2019
Live from Edinburgh: Larry Dean
Oct 02, 2019
Live from Edinburgh: Rhys Nicholson
Sep 25, 2019
Live from Edinburgh: Suzi Ruffell
Sep 18, 2019
Live from Edinburgh: Jodie Mitchell & Tom Ballard
Sep 13, 2019
Live in Edinburgh : Rosie Jones & No Country for Young Women
Sep 11, 2019
Live in Edinburgh : Sophie Duker & Jen Brister
Sep 04, 2019
Live in Edinburgh : Richard Gadd & Christina Bianco
Aug 29, 2019
Live in Edinburgh : Jena Friedman
Aug 22, 2019
Live in Edinburgh : Jack Rooke & BBC Radio 1's Unexpected Fluids
Aug 19, 2019
Ikea or Death!
Aug 14, 2019
James 5
Aug 07, 2019
Mae Martin
Jul 31, 2019
Metro
Jul 24, 2019
Jamie Dornan and Macklemore
Jul 17, 2019
A Gay, A NonGay and a Pizza? 🍕
Jul 10, 2019
Pizza Pride 🍕🏳️‍🌈
Jun 26, 2019
Phubbing
Jun 19, 2019
James' Big Weekend
Jun 13, 2019
A Gay, A NonGay and A Grandaddy with Armistead Maupin
Jun 05, 2019
NO SPOILERS
May 29, 2019
Guacamole
May 22, 2019
Shawn Mendes
May 15, 2019
Gay Relationships Are Hard
May 08, 2019
Hugs
May 01, 2019
A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary
Apr 24, 2019
Consent
Apr 17, 2019
Dorchester
Apr 10, 2019
Burnout
Apr 03, 2019
Eau d'amour
Mar 27, 2019
Kebab Awards
Mar 19, 2019
0121
Mar 13, 2019
Exclusively Gay
Mar 06, 2019
Destroyers
Feb 27, 2019
A Technicality
Feb 20, 2019
Timothée Champagne
Feb 13, 2019
NonGay Night Out
Feb 06, 2019
Erased
Jan 30, 2019
Fabulous
Jan 23, 2019
Tales from Miami
Jan 16, 2019
Dan's Pants
Jan 09, 2019
TwentyBiTeen
Jan 02, 2019
Best of 2018
Dec 27, 2018
Santa
Dec 19, 2018
Fairytale of New York
Dec 12, 2018
STI
Dec 05, 2018
World Aids Day
Dec 01, 2018
World Aids Day 2018
Dec 01, 2018
Wrestling
Nov 28, 2018
Deep Feelings
Nov 21, 2018
Isolation
Nov 14, 2018
PC 4 PC
Nov 07, 2018
👻 Ghosting 👻
Oct 31, 2018
Exclusive
Oct 24, 2018
First Boyfriend
Oct 17, 2018
Paula
Oct 10, 2018
Bert & Ernie
Oct 03, 2018
Pride & Prejudice
Sep 26, 2018
Come Together
Sep 19, 2018
100
Sep 13, 2018
Banana 🍌
Sep 05, 2018
Gay on the Train
Aug 29, 2018
Gay for Pay
Aug 22, 2018
Number 10
Aug 15, 2018
Taxi 4 James
Aug 08, 2018
Birds
Aug 01, 2018
Freaky Friday
Jul 25, 2018
Mincing
Jul 18, 2018
Save Dan
Jul 11, 2018
BREEDER
Jul 04, 2018
Russia
Jun 27, 2018
Pronouns
Jun 20, 2018
Section 28 🤢
Jun 13, 2018
Thirsty
Jun 06, 2018
Shorts
May 30, 2018
The Bum Sex Files
May 23, 2018
Officially Funny - our British Podcast Award winning entry
May 19, 2018
Meringue
May 16, 2018
Berlin
May 09, 2018
Gay Bar
May 02, 2018
🐓 Blocker
Apr 25, 2018
Slow Cooker
Apr 18, 2018
Korn or Porn
Apr 11, 2018
Bi Now, Bi Later
Apr 04, 2018
A Gay, A NonGay & A Trans with Juno Dawson
Mar 28, 2018
Ugly Cry 🎡
Mar 21, 2018
Top and Tail
Mar 14, 2018
Lowkey Offended
Mar 07, 2018
You Mug!
Feb 28, 2018
D before Date?
Feb 21, 2018
Mummy and Daddy
Feb 14, 2018
Orgy
Feb 07, 2018
Fifty Shades Of Narcissism
Jan 31, 2018
PREPisode
Jan 23, 2018
School
Jan 17, 2018
James 3, The Finale
Jan 10, 2018
That Boy is a Bottom
Jan 03, 2018
A Teeny Weeny Little New Year Thank You
Dec 27, 2017
Wonderful Christmastime
Dec 20, 2017
Insecure
Dec 13, 2017
Cuddles
Dec 06, 2017
Irish Goodbyes
Nov 29, 2017
Rebound
Nov 22, 2017
James 3, Part 2
Nov 15, 2017
Relationship Update
Nov 08, 2017
Bring Your Own...
Nov 01, 2017
#metoo
Oct 25, 2017
Bowie
Oct 18, 2017
On Religion
Oct 11, 2017
Nudes
Oct 04, 2017
LIVE @ London Podcast Festival
Sep 27, 2017
Slagtag
Sep 20, 2017
Palm Springs
Sep 13, 2017
Cake
Sep 06, 2017
Pastry Man
Aug 30, 2017
Breakup
Aug 22, 2017
Wikipedia
Aug 16, 2017
Best Bits
Aug 09, 2017
Garden
Aug 02, 2017
Pride Bandwagons
Jul 26, 2017
Taxi for Paul
Jul 19, 2017
Lust for Love
Jul 12, 2017
Pride
Jul 05, 2017
Jellyfish 🐟
Jun 28, 2017
Bumming
Jun 21, 2017
Between Stags
Jun 14, 2017
Bath Maths
Jun 07, 2017
Nongay problems
May 31, 2017
BEARS
May 24, 2017
SLUT
May 17, 2017
JAMES 3
May 10, 2017
POWER SNEEZE
May 03, 2017
COLIN STRIKES BACK
Apr 26, 2017
Colin
Apr 19, 2017
Baghdad
Apr 13, 2017
The 1.7 Percent
Apr 05, 2017
Victorian Porn
Mar 14, 2017
First Date
Feb 14, 2017
An Investigation
Jan 31, 2017
SPRINGSTEEN IS DADDY!
Dec 09, 2016
Bromosexuality
Nov 01, 2016
HOUSEMATES
Sep 27, 2016
GOLDEN
Sep 11, 2016
The Story So Far
Aug 16, 2016
WEDDING
May 09, 2016
THRUPPLE
Apr 28, 2016
Manscaping
Apr 19, 2016
GAY QUESTIONS GAY ANSWERS
Mar 30, 2016
Kebabs
Mar 20, 2016
Birthday
Feb 29, 2016
Valentines
Feb 12, 2016
Professional
Feb 08, 2016
The Christmas 'Special'
Dec 22, 2015
Rude Questions
Dec 02, 2015
Chickens
Nov 17, 2015
Showers
Nov 10, 2015
James2
Nov 02, 2015
Lads
Oct 19, 2015
Hello
Oct 12, 2015
Introducing A Gay and A NonGay
Oct 12, 2015