In the aftermath of a toxic or narcissistic relationship, we can lose all sense of self. Whether our partner tried to steal our joy at every opportunity, or they wore down our self-esteem with endless arguments and cold-shoulder treatments . . . the end of a relationship like this will leave us feeling disoriented and lost, and it can be hard to rewire our brains and resume normal life once we’re free.
 
At this point, it can be unbelievably hard to trust other people again. Logically, we may understand that not everyone’s like our ex . . . but emotionally, we see danger at every turn.
 
But there is a way we can heal—so we can move on and learn to trust ourselves again. And in today’s episode, I share 3 mindsets that can help you do just that.

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• Why men are more sensitive than you think 
• Getting over our trauma 
• Dealing with conflict 
• Understanding masculine vs. feminine energy 
• Getting closure after a relationship 

We all know we won’t connect with everyone we meet . . . but one of the most frustrating situations we can find ourselves in is one where we feel an initial spark and a connection, but things just don’t seem to progress. And in the end, they end up fading as we feel a lack of momentum.

Rather than giving in to our desire to double down on communication, there’s a simple shift we can make on a date that allows unique attraction to grow. And it’s the kind of thing that will leave them thinking of us long after the date has ended . . .

If you’d like to learn what this ingredient is and how you can add it to your next date, don’t miss today's brand-new episode.

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When we like someone, it’s tempting to move fast, let our emotions take over, and simply do what feels good. But in this frenzy of excitement, we can inadvertently end up on a path we don’t want to be on…

In this new episode, I answer a question from someone who didn’t want to repeat the last 2 years of her life, which she spent in a ‘friends with benefits’ situation. 

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This week, our special guest is New York Times Bestseller, entrepreneur, and host of the "School of Greatness" podcast, Lewis Howes! Lewis joins Matt for an in-depth discussion about all things love and relationships. In this episode we cover:

- What makes men decide to commit long-term and stop chasing
- Why just finding the right person "on paper" isn't enough
- How to find your mission (and why it matters)
- How to turn fears and insecurity into confidence
- Questions to ask early on in dating
- The importance of FREEDOM, PEACE, and CLARITY in your relationships and healing your pain
- ... And MUCH more!

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We asked you what your biggest fears for the future were, and you answered! No matter how confident we feel, we all have worries about what lies ahead.

The future is unknown. And many of us can’t help but occasionally let our biggest anxieties and worries about where our life is going get the better of us. It could be about your career, your relationships, or anything that keeps you up at night. In this new episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson talk about what it takes to either overcome these fears, or at least how to not let them paralyze or overwhelm you.

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If you want to spend 3 days with me creating the conditions for your own happiness, then my next Virtual Retreat of 2023 is coming up fast!

Head to MHVirtualRetreat.com to book your complimentary call with my Retreat Specialists who are on hand to hear your story (Special offer! $100 off the price if you get your spot booked before March 12th!)

Listening to our gut when something’s off can save us a lot of time and stress when we’re dating . . . but what if we can’t tell the difference between when our gut is warning us and when our anxiety is trying to sabotage us? What if the red flags we think we’re seeing are actually our fears in disguise?
 
If you have a tendency toward anxiety, this second-guessing can make the early days of dating extra stressful, because you may have a hard time separating an important concern from your ever-vigilant anxiety.
 
If you’ve ever wondered, “Is it me or is it them?” you can’t miss today’s episode, in which I share five ways to tell if it’s a major concern or your anxiety talking.

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I don’t like it when I hear people say, “You need to be happy first before you find a relationship.”

It’s not that the sentiment is a bad one, but saying to someone who is facing challenges in life that they need to be happy before they can be with someone seems highly unproductive to me.

As if it’s not hard enough being alone when we want to find a partner . . . we now also have to achieve this elusive feeling of happiness before we do?!

I’m here to tell you that you don’t need to be happy before you find a relationship . . .

You just need to be “happy enough.”

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• How to lead yourself (and think like an owner)
• Steps to build self-trust
• Choosing a career that fits your desired lifestyle
• Learning to find your 10% edge
• Finding the business you can start NOW
• Making time for building your dreams (and the power of "slow success")

In today’s new episode, I share very specific principles that will be useful the next time you feel like you’re getting carried away with someone you like. And remember, no one (including yourself!) should make you feel like you’re “not enough.” No matter who you’re dating, by investing in yourself, you can come into any situation feeling like an equal.

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Your phone buzzes. It’s a text from them ;)

You can feel your stomach flip over with excitement. Every message they send is like sweet honey for your brain. “Damn”, you think, “I’m an addict.”

And then you fire a cute message back. And you wait...and wait…

“Why aren't they replying?” you want to scream to your friend on the couch next to you. But she’s too busy with her phone to notice.

You try to shift focus, but you obsessively check for a text every 30 seconds.

Sound familiar?

We’ve all had this agony of “anxious waiting” with someone we like. It’s distracting, it’s unattractive, and it drains you of your peace of mind every minute you sit in limbo.

If you’re sick of waiting for his text and want to finally take back your power, listen to this...

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Today, Matt answers a question from a listener who feels she is independent, successful, and ambitious, but is only meeting guys who fit a more "beta" male stereotype (who take the backseat in a relationship), rather than the driven "alpha" guys she would like to meet. 

Matt talks about some practical strategies to meet the right kind of person for you, and how to think about the qualities that you value and seek out in a relationship.  

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We all long for financial independence, relationship bliss, greater familial connection, and a generally peaceful life with fewer hardships.

But as it happens, life doesn’t care about the straight-line trajectory we've planned for ourselves.

It will capriciously take a person from us at a time we weren’t prepared for.

It will injure us when we need to be active.

It will rob us of our finances in a bad business deal we thought was a sure thing.

It will take away a relationship we thought would last forever.

And when these things inevitably happen, it can feel like we’re grieving the loss of some future that’s now no longer available to us . . .

But life is cyclical and doesn’t trend in just one direction. This is why it is imperative for us to take our focus off of where we feel we “ought to be” and make peace with life as it is today.

Because the truth is, there’s always time to reinvent ourselves, meet somebody new, or fix something broken in our lives.

And it is our job to cherish and learn from the wisdom gained from our past experiences instead of wishing things had gone a different way.

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Today I’m thrilled to share this conversation with the excellent Jay Shetty.

We talk about everything from learning to love your own company, living without comparison, dealing with insecurities, how to find the right relationship, doing the deep work on self-understanding, and much much more!

Jay is a New York Times Bestselling Author, host of the “On Purpose” podcast, a storyteller and a former monk.

Check out Jay’s new book: 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go 

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Whether you’re getting over a fresh breakup or are still having a hard time moving on from a past one, I hope today’s episode will give you what you need to finally feel like yourself again.

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We asked YOU for your biggest fears in dating and you gave us answers!

In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about the common fears in early dating that hold us back, make us insecure, and cause us to self-sabotage. We give some practical tips on how to break through these limiting beliefs and feel your best when dating and meeting new people.

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Have you ever felt like a magnet for avoidants or wondered if commitment-phobic people are all that’s left in the dating pool?
 
It’s as if you can’t even get anything off the ground, because consistent communication is never in the cards with the people you’re dating. And when you’re dating someone where everything’s falling into place EXCEPT for the fact that they’re avoidant, it can be tempting to rationalize any reason to stay.
 
But why do we do this, and why does this situation make us want to hold on so tightly to a person who’s not giving us what we need?

Today’s new episode will help you reconnect with your value so you can approach these kinds of situations with a clear head and a sense of worthiness. After all, the faster you say “no” to the wrong person, the sooner you can say “yes” to the right one.

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A huge number of relationships that end, should end.
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But how do we know if ‘ours’ should have ended. We leave with a giant question mark: “Did I just lose the person I was supposed to be with?”
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That lack of closure is a horrible feeling that eats away at us. We don’t always get perfect closure. But there is a way of being proactive about getting peace of mind if you feel like you have someone who is worth fighting for.
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It’s through a simple conversation, and I tell you how to have it in this video.
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And here’s the good news - whatever happens, you and I are going to move into this next chapter of our lives stronger. (Massive thanks to @rayna.greenberg, @ashhess and the @girlsgottaeatpodcast for making this conversation possible!)

Have you experienced a situation where in spite of having dated someone for a short time, it took you weeks (sometimes even months) to start to feel like you’re over them?

And have you found it’s EXACTLY at that moment—the moment you decide to move on with your life—that they suddenly pop back up like clockwork? Even though you know better, they somehow draw you back in with the hope that this time, things will be different.

This week’s new video will allow you to finally rid yourself of the hold this person has over you, so you can begin to sculpt your life the way you want it. And don’t miss the “value exercise” I share at the end. I know you’ll get a lot out of it!

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Shoutout to one of my favorite human beings @edmylett for giving me the honor of being a guest on his show. Love you brother.

I urge all of you to listen to the end of this, because I believe in my soul that the punchline is one of the most important lessons I’ve ever stumbled upon for my love life, my family life, my business, my friendships...MY LIFE.

And if you want to make the trash cans of every part of your life shine, then apply for my retreat now while you have that feeling. Don’t wait. My retreat is where we do the real work of transforming EVERYTHING in your life from the ground up. I literally believe this program is one of the greatest gifts you could ever give yourself in your life. It’s that important.

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This means that if you lock in your spot for June now, you'll get the best price available ($200 off your ticket) as well as 3 bonuses to reward you for taking early action.

To learn more, simply head to MHVirtualRetreat.com , where you can choose a time to speak with one of my trusted Retreat Specialists who are on hand to answer any questions you may have.

This is something a little different for you today. I wanted to share a beautiful conversation I had with my good friend Humble the Poet, where we talk about how to love yourself, set boundaries, and build healthier habits around love and attraction.
 
In this new episode, we go deep. It touches upon some incredibly important truths relating to how to get back in touch with ourselves (and what makes us happy), so we can make better choices in a partner.
 
I found his words incredibly heartwarming and uplifting, and I hope you’ll feel the same way.

Matt x

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One of the most special moments in life is when we feel seen and in turn see somebody else for who they genuinely are. But this level of DEEP connection requires vulnerability.

Truly opening up, being vulnerable and allowing someone to see us at our very core can be terrifying. It’s especially terrifying if we’ve opened ourselves up and been hurt in the process.

We all have those negative reference points from our past. Maybe it was the way we were brought up, something that happened at school or the way we were treated in a past relationship.

We experience pain and as a result our guard goes up.

And although we may think that we’re avoiding pain, refusing to get vulnerable comes with its own pain. The pain of stagnation. The pain of avoidance. The pain of knowing that on some level we’re not opening ourselves up to the possibility of a deep connection, an amazing relationship or simply the opportunities that would allow us to create our best lives.

So, I challenge you to make today the day you change that.

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This means that if you lock in your spot for June now, you'll get the best price available ($200 off your ticket) as well as 3 bonuses to reward you for taking early action.

To learn more, simply head to MHVirtualRetreat.com , where you can choose a time to speak with one of my trusted Retreat Specialists who are on hand to answer any questions you may have.

We asked YOU what is the #1 piece of love advice you'd give yourself in your 20s, and boy did we get some good answers :)

Join Matt, Audrey, Stephen and Jameson as they discuss their biggest lessons from their 20's and look at how much they are following through on today.

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This means that if you lock in your spot for June now, you'll get the best price available ($200 off your ticket) as well as 3 bonuses to reward you for taking early action.

To learn more, simply head to MHVirtualRetreat.com , where you can choose a time to speak with one of my trusted Retreat Specialists who are on hand to answer any questions you may have.

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Have you ever been a victim of the most painful kind of ghosting . . . where you’re haunted by the fact that you never got closure with someone?

It’s the sort of thing that can consume your thoughts as you obsessively look over the final exchange you had with the person and enlist your friends to help you dissect it, hoping they can spot a clue you might have missed.

The reality is that this need for clarity and closure is a bid for control in a situation where you have none. Not only that, but every time you allow your thoughts to head in that direction, it’s another scratch at a wound that wants so badly to heal.

In today’s brand-new episode, I give you the tools you need to move on for good from this kind of ghosting, including a text message you can send . . . not to get closure from them but to give yourself the closure you need.

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I truly loved this conversation my friend @lindseystirling .

So often in life we’re told how important it is to love ourselves without any explanation of what that actually means or how to practically apply that advice.

If you’ve ever found yourself struggling with this concept, one practical tool is to recognize how we love other really important people in our lives.

Our parents, children, siblings, nieces, nephews, old friends . . . our love for them doesn't have anything to do with whether they have a good day or a bad day today. We love them because they’re ours, even though they can sometimes be difficult or don't always realize their potential.

And that’s how we have to start viewing ourselves. We don’t need to find all of these amazing things about ourselves to start valuing ourselves more.

We love ourselves because we’re ours. WE are the ones responsible for looking after us. Love yourself like it's your job; because it IS.

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Why is it we become “too nice” with someone we like?

It can feel like there is a before/after switch, where we decide we’re attracted to someone, feel the butterflies in our stomach, and can’t help but tighten up and struggle to express our real selves.

And often, this can result in us being too accommodating, or giving polite-yet-boring responses, or in trying too hard to be liked instead of allowing natural chemistry and flirtation to happen.

In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about why we become “too nice", what we can do to be more of who we really are, and how to show our most attractive self in dating.

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Happy New Year, Friend!

Lately, I've been thinking a lot about the New Year's resolutions people make, and I'm curious how you're feeling about yours today.

After indulging during the holidays, we often place our hopes in the hands of our future selves, determined that this will be the year everything changes. Of course, having goals is a good thing, but the biggest challenge with New Year's resolutions is how quickly they can buckle under the weight of our expectations.

But it doesn't need to be that complicated.

Whether you're stressed about the fact that the "you" who woke up today feels just like the "you" who woke up yesterday ... or you just want to ensure your love life goals actually happen this year, this brand-new episode is going to help you get into the right mindset for 2023.

You've got this!

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As we roll into the New Year, it seems like as good a time as any to talk about our standards. We think of a new year as being a time where we reset our standards, don’t we?

And yet, have you ever worried that you’re being too picky?

And have you ever wondered if this “pickiness” is the thing that’s stopping you from finding a relationship?

I was on stage when a woman stood up and asked: “Matthew, should I listen to my mum and lower my standards?”

It’s a hard thing trying to figure out if the reasons you are rejecting people are valid, or if they represent an “unreasonable” standard that you need to let go of.

I hope this provides a little clarity...

Happy Holidays again, friend. I’m thinking of you more than ever right now.

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In this week's rewind episode, I take a question from Khalani on why, in modern day dating, many people are hesitant to jump into a relationship. We also discuss how she can be more trusting when meeting men who are looking for more than a casual fling.

Enjoy!

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OK, picture this . . .

I’m in my local coffee shop, minding my own business—my business in this case is ordering an oat milk flat white (just in case we ever go to coffee and you want to know what my order is)—and I get talking to a woman who tells me she’s mad at me.

She knows who I am, she’s a fan, she even said my program worked for her, and yet she told me she was mad at me.

In this episode, I tell the full story . . .

You’re going to want to listen to the full story, because it highlights how so many people get hurt because they follow 95% of my advice, but ignore one of the most crucial things I say.

Think of it this way: you can have all the right ingredients to bake a cake, but if you forget to add baking powder, the cake isn’t going to rise. In this video, you’re going to learn what the baking powder of dating is. Without it, your relationship will not rise, which explains what happened to this woman I met in the coffee shop.

Check it out, and don’t forget to leave me a comment when you get there.

Matt x

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“Why am I still single?!?”

If you’ve asked yourself this question long enough, you might be starting to feel like finding love is simply a matter of luck. And sometimes that’s true. But most of the time, we may not realize that the way we’ve set up our everyday life and habits can inadvertently make it harder to find “the one.”

If you’re struggling to figure out why you’re still single, in this week’s video, I give you 5 honest reasons why, plus some quick changes you can make to attract the right relationship faster.

Leave me a comment and let me know which reason resonated the most with you.

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For a long time I thought it was crazy how many women asked me to talk about this topic.

But now, I realize the reason is obvious: In 2022, more of us are doing long-distance relationships than ever.

You meet a great guy on Instagram who doesn’t live in the same country...

You start dating the perfect man in your city, only to find out he’s been offered a new job 1000 miles away…

And suddenly, you find yourself having “Skype dates”, and you now spend half your work day sending silly photos to each other on Whatsapp.

You feel like you’re falling in love with this guy – but can it actually work long term??

Should you follow your heart and go for it, or should you listen to your head and call it quits? What’s the answer?

These are big questions, so I decided this it was time to be super honest about long-distance and my thoughts on it.

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Here’s what you really need to know...

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Breakups are hard. Really hard. Especially if you didn’t do the breaking up.

You’re left with questions about your own self-worth. You punish yourself for your deficiencies. You retrace the steps of the relationship like a detective on a mission to find out where you screwed up.

And so we meet Roy, the subject of our clip today. Now you know Roy’s story. What can he do to wake from this fever dream? Let’s find out.

Please share this episode someone who needs to hear this message.

P.S. And if you want a free guide to accompany this episode—one that can help you finally move on from someone and recover—head to MoveOnStrong.com

Do you have a relationship that you are unwilling to lose, but that causes you daily resentment and frustration? Where you feel like you are giving, but not getting much in return?

In this solo episode, Matt explains how to take a step back and reassess a toxic or difficult relationship we want to keep in our lives, whether it’s reasonable to expect someone to change, and what we can do to protect ourselves if we are going to endure relationships that drain our energy.

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“Let’s just take it day by day.”

 “We may not be ‘official,’ but I basically act like your boyfriend. Aren’t actions enough for you?”

 “I like you too much to be with you . . .”

Any of these sound familiar?

Trying to decode the excuses guys give for the reason why they don’t want an exclusive relationship can get incredibly confusing. How is it that you can have great communication with a guy in nearly every area . . . yet when it comes to talking about the relationship, you feel like you’re speaking different languages?

For today’s brand-new episode, I asked you to send me the “most confusing thing a guy’s ever said to you,” and you didn’t disappoint. 

From classic excuses to creative new ones, you’ll learn how to figure out whether what he’s saying is actually a red flag indicating that he’s just looking for something casual with you, or whether it’s safe to proceed. Together we’ll walk through 9 of the top excuses so you know how to spot them in the future and avoid unnecessary pain.

You're on a date with someone.

You're both sharing stories. 

He tells you that he plays the guitar. You notice that he seems really proud when he tells you about playing his first gig.

Then without missing a moment, you start enthusiastically telling him about your friend who's also in a band, is the best guitarist you've ever seen, and has just released and album.

Suddenly, his eyes narrow and he seems emotionally checked out, maybe even less interested.

Why? What happened?

In this episode with my brother Stephen, I'm going to reveal a simple flirting mistake that is all too easily made, and why it's can be such a turnoff to guys in dating.

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In the early days of dating, figuring out if someone is actually open to a relationship is key.

But what does it mean when you ask them whether they're interested in a committed relationship and they respond, "I could be open to that. . . with the right
person"?

This sentence can make us feel safe to dive in, but do we really know whether they're truly looking for a relationship. . . or just telling us what we want to hear?

In today's episode, I give you three things to look for in those early days to limit the guesswork and know if things are actually progressing toward real commitment.

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Compliments are like gifts. In fact, they’re even better, because the right compliment can be something the receiver never forgets.

When in a relationship, most people don’t give enough compliments, despite them being so powerful in creating connection and making people feel loved. So here are 3 compliments men love to hear that can get you started!

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You felt like the date couldn’t have gone better. They told you they had the best time, and as soon as you got home, you started counting down the minutes until you could see them again . . . 

Except you never got that second date.

Why would someone disappear after saying they had a really great time?

Today’s episode reveals the #1 reason why this happens, and what you can do about it. I’ll give you a hint: chemistry is the key factor that turns a first date into a second one—and in this new video, I show you 7 simple ways to create incredible chemistry on a date. These tips are the difference between someone thinking, “Well, that was nice,” and someone telling themselves, “I must see this person again!”

Whether you’re headed out on a first date tonight or just want reignite attraction with someone you’ve already been out with, this video is for you. (And if you’ve ever wondered what to text someone after a date to leave them wanting more, don’t miss tip #7.)

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Back in ye olden times, the fear that a partner might be cheating was enough to keep someone up at night. But in recent years, we’ve added a new layer of anxiety to the mix: “micro-cheating,” a.k.a. “back burner relationships.”
 
In fact, when Psychology Today recently polled people who are in a relationship, 56% revealed they had a back burner person: someone they’re in contact with who could be an option if their current relationship doesn’t go the distance.
 
That’s not to say that everyone realizes what they’re doing. Many feel it’s harmless—that they’re just being friendly and keeping in touch with a friend.

Today’s clip will give you a simple test to figure out if you’re in a back burner relationship, and provide you with the mindset you need to give your current one its best shot.

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Why are toxic relationships so hard to leave? One reason is because you hold onto the small good moments and fail to acknowledge the extent of the bad. 

And when we feel sympathy for someone, this also makes us doubt ourselves. We think "Maybe I'm wrong?", "Maybe I'm being too harsh on this person?", "Maybe it's actually ok?" 

In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about how to get the courage to let go of a narcissistic or toxic relationship and feel certain in your decision when you keep doubting yourself.

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Have you ever created an entire relationship in your head before going on a date with someone? Perhaps you’ve been texting with them for weeks and have already deduced they could be “The One,” or maybe you live for the two minutes of conversation you have with them before spin class.

And in order to fan the flames of your excitement, you turn into a social media detective, where their posts and information become “compatibility clues” that either build up or tear down the relationship you’ve created in your mind . . .
 
Unfortunately, living in our heads in this way can turn into obsessing, and render us incapable of feeling excited about anything other than seeing or hearing from that person. In other words, they occupy a space in our minds they’ve not yet earned!

In this week’s new video, I share with you the mindsets that can both help and hurt you in dating, as well as the best way to determine if you and this person could really work out.

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People always ask how to spot red flags in relationships. But often the red flags are right in front of our eyes - we just choose to ignore them. 

In this clip, Matt and Stephen explain why this happens and how you SHOULD respond when the warning signs appear. . .

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In a previous episode, we talked about the struggles dating can pose when women are thinking about their desire for children and their biological clock, and all the associated anxieties that can come with it. 

And we had some incredible and thoughtful responses to what is rightfully a very difficult and emotional topic to discuss (but also an essential one).

In this episode, we take the conversation further and look at the disparity between men and women in future planning, why freezing your eggs and planning fertility can be its own enormous challenge, and how to think about making decisions about the future you want when you haven't met the right person yet.

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It’s Halloween time, and for the occasion, in today’s video I talk about what might be the most insidious form of ghosting. 

If someone ghosts you after a couple of tepid dates (which doesn’t feel good, don’t get me wrong) you can usually assume they just weren’t feeling the chemistry . . .
 
But what does it mean when someone pulls away after saying they want to be exclusive, or after texting constantly and telling you they want to see you all the time? 

In this brand-new episode, I give you three reasons why someone might do this, what you should do when it happens, and the strange reason why they may choose to ghost but leave the door open. You can’t miss this topic!

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Ever notice how you completely fall apart when you try to speak to that guy you’re really attracted to?

It’s like with your best friends you can be effortlessly funny, talkative, and smart, then suddenly you’re talking to this guy and your brain turns to mush.

Then begins the negative self-talk:

“I’m not pretty enough,” “I have nothing interesting to say,” “He’s not going to like me.”

It’s like you instantly lose all of your game.

You go into “impress” mode. You over-analyze everything you say. You get in your head. Instead of just having fun in the moment, you start playing it cautious, like you’re in a game of chess and the stakes are life and death.

If you want to finally stop putting guys on a pedestal and instill new empowering beliefs that will make you bring your best to the table (no matter who you’re talking to) listen to this clip before you do anything else...

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What do you do when you're not attracted to men who want you, and the men you ARE attracted to are unwilling to commit?

In life, as we get older, we can find the dating world changing around us. We want different things, we're not as young and carefree as we were in our twenties, and we feel like we want something serious in this phase of our life.

In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson go deep on the dilemma of attracting the wrong people when you want to get serious, how to get excited to date again after facing painful life events, and what to do if you're facing the possibility of never finding the love you're looking for.

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Do you feel like your brain is wired wrong because despite your better judgment, you’re only attracted to the bad boys or the players?

You know . . . you love the idea of a great, stable guy who treats you right, but somehow you’ve become so accustomed to the highs and lows of roller-coaster relationships that you can’t imagine feeling chemistry with such a man.

At this point, you may be asking yourself if it’s possible to feel a spark with someone who isn’t always playing games with you . . .

In this episode, I’ll give you 3 ways to create real attraction with the right kind of guy . . . because glorifying unavailable people is a recipe for heartbreak, so instead, we can start learning to enjoy healthy attention and find a loving partner.

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The technique I give in this clip shows us how to feel connected to the things we have to do in our day so that we don’t become list-checking zombies with no real joy in our lives. You can use it to be ultra-productive AND happy at the same time. 

This technique has become an indispensable part of my daily practice. Perhaps it will for you too.

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What can you do when you’re sick of the excuses and deep down want to see them more? Well, you can listen to this brand new Matt Monday, in which I’ll share with you how to avoid the most common mistake in this scenario and finally see some progress.

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I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this clip is a must-watch for you today.

It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . .

It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . .

Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relationship falling apart when you didn’t want it to end.

In this clip, my brother Stephen and I are not merely talking about how to get over your pain, but how to deal with it while you’re still in the middle of it—perhaps even in the worst phase, when it feels like it’ll never go away.

I’m here for you.

P.S. This video may be the greatest gift you can give a friend or family member who is experiencing this kind of pain right now. Who could you send this to to help them get through the day?

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Do you want marriage and kids? Feel like you have a sense of urgency because of your biological clock?

It’s common for our desires for the future to bring up all kinds of anxieties in dating. Especially when we are torn between “playing it cool”, or being honest and up front about what we want (which could scare someone away!)

In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson dive into the thorny topic of how to handle dating and honest communication when you feel hyper aware of your biological clock and want to make plans for the future.

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Wondering why the guy you’re seeing doesn’t seem to respect you? You might be surprised by the reason . . .

If your tendency is toward anxiety, you’ll go to great lengths just to restore the peace and get things “back to normal” as quickly as possible.

This often includes the compulsion to say “sorry” even when something’s not your fault.

The danger with this is that when we make it clear to someone that we’ll do anything to avoid difficult conversations, it becomes easy for them to take us for granted . . .

If any of this sounds familiar, you will not want to miss the 3 tips I share in today’s episode. Not only will you learn how to honor your own needs and boundaries, but you’ll also raise your value in the process. What’s more, you’ll do so by actually living your life rather than simply existing in a state of perpetual people pleasing and anxiety.

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If you struggle too much inside your head when you like someone, especially if it doesn't feel like it's quite going your way, this clip is going to help make sense of things.

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There are 2 kinds of men that can be dangerous to fall for: (1) the guy who is a “project”, (2) the bad boy.

It’s common that we date similar types throughout our romantic life. In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about why we look for these characters over and over again and how we can break free from chasing people who are wrong for us.

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Does absence really make the heart grow fonder . . . especially when the person you’re into seems to forget you exist when you’re not in the same room?

When you’re together, life couldn’t be better. You have off-the-charts chemistry, they’re totally focused on you, and your connection feels genuine.

The catch?

When you’re apart, you feel invisible as communication slows to a crawl and often drops off completely.

As a result of these mixed signals, you’re essentially living in two completely different realities, and you’d do anything to get some clarity. You might even ask yourself: “Should I try to invest in this relationship even more to show how serious I am? Or would it be better to mirror their behavior and go cold?”

In today’s episode, I walk you through what you must absolutely NOT DO in this hot and cold scenario . . . plus I give you two very specific text messages that can (finally!) get you out of this frustrating situation.

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Yeah, I said it.

Have you ever been in love with someone who doesn't share your feelings You live in hope that one day they'll light up your phone with a text that says how much they can't live without you. Or, you fantasize that  they'll leave their partner and run back into your arms. They'll say what a fool they've been and how much they need you by their side.

It's romantic, right?

Nope.

And this kind of "perpetual hope" can be so dangerous for your relationships that I feel I have to say something to anyone out there still waiting for a crush to change their mind.

Before you give your heart to someone who doesn't deserve it today, listen to this episode. It could save years of your life.

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“Would you call yourself a people pleaser? Tell us how it shows up in your life…”

And you answered!

Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson sit down to look at your top responses to how you fall into the trap of people pleasing and the problems this causes in our lives.

Do you say “yes” to things you don’t really want to do? Feel like you’re always giving emotional energy with nothing in return? Do you feel you have to avoid being your honest self in order to keep the peace and make everyone around you happy?

If you’ve been here, you’re not alone. Listen to how you can find a balance between showing up for people you love without giving up your own happiness and sense of self.

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Have you dated someone you find so amazing and impressive that you almost start to feel not good enough for them?

Maybe it’s their attractiveness or intelligence . . . or perhaps it’s their success, wealth, or status (such as the example in today’s video) that has you feeling lucky whenever they turn their attention to you.

Whatever it might be, the reaction we often have to this feeling is highly toxic for our happiness . . . because we start to shrink our needs.

We become pleasers and find it almost impossible to set any kind of boundaries for fear that this will drive them away and they’ll disappear. After all, if they left, “Would I ever find anyone as amazing as them ever again?”

Sound familiar? Then you’re going to like today’s brand-new episode.

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Ever sat ruminating obsessively over something you could have or should have done differently in your relationship?

Something you said, something you did, or something you wish you’d have done more?

It’s a dreadful, sickening feeling. I know because I’ve felt it. It leads to regret, anxiety, self-loathing… not to mention a lack of appetite and insomnia. We turn over every memory, imagining where we could have been with that person had we just behaved differently.

And this feeling isn’t limited to situations that have ended. Sometimes we are still seeing someone but we have this crippling anxiety over having irreversibly damaged the relationship. We feel we’ve created a perception of ourselves in that person’s eyes that we can’t now undo.

If for any of these reasons you are currently torturing yourself, this video will be life-saving for you today. Trust me when I say it is essential watching.

In this classic clip, I break down for you why you don’t need to be wallowing in pain, and why, despite everything that destructive voice inside is saying, you actually have reason to feel good today.

Please also share this with someone you know who may be beating herself up right now. Life’s too short for any of us to suffer needlessly.

I’m with you, friend. You’re loved.

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How do you know if a guy has stopped trying, or if your anxious attachment-type fears are making you panic for no reason? In today's episode, Matt, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey talk about what to do when someone you're dating changes their level of affection and gives mixed signals, but says they want to be with you.

If you tend to overthink and find yourself worrying your partner might have changed their view on the relationship, make sure to listen to this one!

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If you struggle to feel confident because you don’t like the way you look, make listening to this episode the top priority of your day today (and be sure to stay until the end for a special bonus!) I promise you won’t regret it.

Your coach,

Matthew x

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You decided it’s time to break up.

And now you’re single again. But for some reason you don’t feel at peace.

You’re still haunted by that eternal question: Did I make a HUGE mistake?

Even if it was YOU who decided to call off a relationship, at some point you’re always going to get that horrible feeling inside of you that questions your decision to dump someone.

Your friends and family say it’s for the best. But maybe they don’t really know. Plus, there was that one friend who advised you to give things another try with this guy and now you’re even more lost and confused!

In this clip, I’m going to show you an easy way to tell whether you made the right choice, and personally guide you out of this anxiety and indecision with simple but powerful change in mindset, so that you feel confident in your feelings and can let a relationship go in peace.

Believe me, I know myself how easy it is to get stuck in this place for months only to come out of it and wonder why you wasted so much of your precious time worrying.

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What do you do if you’re dating a Narcissist?

It’s one thing to recognise the signs: questioning your sanity, feeling devalued, never having your needs account for.

But what about when you FINALLY decide you have to leave?

That can be the hardest part.

A narcissist can make you feel guilty. They can make you feel like you’re being impulsive, unfair, or even outright cruel for abandoning them.

Taking the decision to get your life back can mean unwinding years of entanglement, but it’s the first step to real freedom, a clear mind, and a better life.

In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson explain how you can overcome your doubts and get out of a toxic relationship once and for all.

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I’ve carefully designed these 7 steps to address the stages you’ll go through—in the exact order they’re likely to arrive. And while we all know this process can take an enormous amount of time to put into action, I hope these steps will serve as a compass that will keep you pointed toward your strength (in spite of any distractions the narcissist may try to throw your way).

I also hope this video provides you with strength, acceptance, peace, and progress as you finally move on with your life and remember what it feels like to be free from the coercive control of the narcissist in your life.

P.S. Even if you’re not in this situation, learning these principles in advance may save you a lot of time and grief down the road. And if you are going through this right now? Please know you’re not alone. I’m right here with you.

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There's a huge difference between settling FOR something in life and settling ON something. When we "settle for" something, it's often the result of us lowering our standards. We accommodate bad behavior and accept less than what we truly desire because we don't think we're worthy of it. We think "this might be as good as it's going to get" whether in our love life, family, or career.

But when we "settle on" something, we take control of it. 

At this point, we're deciding that at the very least, this relationship or situation has the potential to meet enough of our criteria for true happiness. 

We choose it and actively commit to making it great. What happens next is that we feel connected to it, and as a result, we enjoy the process of sculpting it (even if it's not perfect at first).

In this clip taken from my latest Virtual Retreat, I explain why I'm a big believer in this concept and how it can change your relationship with life.

And if you want to spend 3 days of immersive coaching with me, then I'd love for you to join me for the final Virtual Retreat of the year happening November 11-13.

Here we'll get to work together to help you decide where in life you're "settling for" less than you truly want and where you want to "settle on" sculpting the best version of yourself, your relationships, your career, and your confidence.

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When a relationship ends, or someone stops calling after several dates, do you need to know why?

What does it mean to get “closure” in dating?

As humans we put a lot of emphasis on how things end.

We want answers: “Was it the way I dressed? Is it something about my body? Or something I did that turned you off? Was it too desperate?!”

But what answers are we looking for? And how much brutally honest truth do we really want to hear?

Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson try to figure out whether closure is overrated, what explanation we’re owed when someone leaves, and how we can move on from rejection when it happens.

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Dating is tough. The person we’re meeting up with may have been on multiple other dates this month. How can we stand out when there seems to be so much competition?

The #1 way to separate ourselves is through great conversation. And yet most of us spend all of our time trying to look hot without ever thinking about what we’re going to say when we get there.

I’m sure you already have the “looking great” part taken care of. But in today’s video, I cover the “what to say” part—specifically, how to stand out by asking one of 8 tried-and-tested questions I’ve put together for you.

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We all long for financial independence, relationship bliss, greater familial connection, and a generally peaceful life with fewer hardships.

But as it happens, life doesn’t care about the straight-line trajectory we've planned for ourselves.

But life is cyclical and doesn’t trend in just one direction. This is why it is imperative for us to take our focus off of where we feel we “ought to be” and make peace with life as it is today.

It is our job to cherish and learn from the wisdom gained from our past experiences instead of wishing things had gone a different way.

None of this is easy, but it is possible. In this video I explain how.

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It's easy when we like someone to feel like we have to make excuses for their avoidant behaviour. Sometimes they may have genuine psychological issues that need to be resolved. But how much should you wait in limbo if the person you're dating still hasn't figured themselves out? Should their issues with their previous ex be an excuse to not move forward? And what can you do about it? Matt, Jameson, Stephen and Audrey sit down to talk about dating a celebrity, being a "challenge", valuing yourself, and much more!

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Who pays on a first date?

Six years ago, I made a controversial video tackling this very subject, and it went viral.

Millions of people watched and reposted it (wikiHow even used it as the definitive video answer to the question) . . . It was so popular that it went viral AGAIN earlier this year when someone posted it under the title “Man Humbles a Room Full of Women.”

So this week, I decided to make a reaction video to my own video.

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In the early stages of dating someone we like and feel excited about, everyone is worried about coming across too keen and blowing it.

This is a very human experience felt by men and women alike. And it is that very emotion that will have us mute our needs and desires as we go into overdrive to impress the other person.

But as we know, people like what they value, and communicating our standards early on is a key part of attraction we often overlook.

Expressing your needs in early dating can seem daunting, and in this conversation with my friend Lisa Bilyeu on her channel Women of Impact, we talk about how we can get brave and do exactly that.

If you want to know how to have the conversation about getting exclusive with the person you're seeing, I've created a brand-new free guide centered around how to define the relationship. It includes a script you can make your own and a comprehensive step-by-step guide that breaks down exactly how to ask for the things you want in a high-value way.

You can get it at LeaveLimbo.com . . . it's totally free and I can't wait to hear what you think. 

We asked men "what is the brutally honest truth about why you get scared of committing to someone?", and boy do we have some answers for you! Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about whether they agree with the reasons men give for avoiding commitment, what makes some men want to stay single, and what we can do to influence it.

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Does it sometimes feel like men are afraid of commitment?

You could be dating someone for a few months—and have a ton of chemistry and a great emotional connection—and yet, like clockwork, you hit a wall the moment the relationship gets to a stage where it feels like it should be progressing to the next level. Just when you start to feel that this could be something real, he puts his guard up and isn’t ready to commit.

Situations like these can be unbelievably painful, and they can leave you feeling crazy as you analyze the situation to death, wondering if you’re somehow not good enough.

Well, in this brand-new episode, I’ll share with you 3 of the main reasons why a lot of men are afraid of commitment and what you can do to turn things around by circumventing those fears.

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Is there someone in your life who keeps going hot and cold with the attention they're showing you? One minute they want to see you, and the next, you feel them pulling away...

What's up with that?

When someone you like disappears and then reappears, it's easy to drive yourself crazy trying to work out the BEST way to get their attention again. You think, "Do I ignore them to teach them a lesson? Do I play it cool and pretend it was no big deal? Or do I show them I'm hurt that they disappeared?"

In this clip, I share with you an exact text message you can send them that will demonstrate your standards in a really attractive way.

If you want more of these texts, head over to WhatToTextNext.com, where you can download my FREE guide that gives you my 'Relationship Reframe Text' and helps you move from casual text exchanges to real emotional connection.

One of the unchanging truths about love is that even though it's beautiful when we find it, there's always a chance we can lose it.

But how do we move on from an old chapter when it's over? How do you develop the right mindset to get back in the game when you've faced a major setback?

Matt and the team sit down to discuss starting over and why it can be both a painful and beautiful experience.

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I’ve heard this story a thousand times before . . .

A woman goes on a date with a guy and they hit it off. Things seem to be going well, and pretty soon, they’re seeing each other all the time. He’s texting her daily, making plans with her for the future, and every time his name pops up on her phone, she feels a surge of happiness and excitement.

That very same excitement keeps hitting new peaks until, suddenly, she feels a shift. He grows more and more distant, and at first she’s not sure whether she’s imagining it or whether he really is pulling away. She doubles down on effort and communication, but it only seems to drive him further away until eventually he calls it a day and stops messaging altogether.

If this has ever happened to you, then you know it can drive you crazy working out how to act when someone is clearly pulling away from you.

But as it turns out, there is a right way and a wrong way to proceed when this happens, and it can determine whether someone stays or goes.

In today’s episode, I’ll share with you the #1 reason why people pull away and a high-value way to respond to it.

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It's easy to feel like our struggles, or past, our pain, is holding us back in life. And I'm not here to pretend it's easy to deal with those burdens we carry with us. But they don't have to define you. In fact, if you choose, you can make them the start of a completely different story that gives you more power than you could possibly imagine.

So today, here is a personal message on what it takes to create light even in the darkest moments...

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Do you have a dating type? Have your previous relationships always been with a similar person, in terms of looks, personality or behavioural dynamics?

It's easy for us to look at the past and tell ourselves, "This is who I am. This is who I like." And it can affect how we date now simply because of what we're used to. But is it helpful to lock ourselves in on a single kind of person? Or should our tastes be more flexible when finding love?

Matt and the team talk about the topic of dating types and how to choose your compass when looking for the right person so that you focus on what really matters in love.

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On dating apps, first impressions matter. And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, it’s often the next step that’s the hardest . . . That is, of course: What on EARTH do you say to them?!

You scan their bio, hoping inspiration will strike and you’ll manage to figure out the perfect opening gambit. You think: Would a simple “hey” or “great photo” show a lack of imagination? I’d like to just be myself, but it can feel so hard to be authentic without seeming too eager . . . Many times, thoughts like these make us overthink everything to the point where we end up sending something awkward . . . or worse, not sending anything at all, letting the opportunity of connection pass us by. So how can we make an impression on people who haven’t yet had the chance to meet us and see how awesome we are?

In today’s episode, I’m going to share with you 3 openers you can send right away to stand out on a dating app.

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You wouldn’t believe how many people read every blog, watch every YouTube video, and follow every Facebook post I put out, and yet still say:

“Yeah, Matt… I get it. But there’s this one guy that I really like…”

And because they’re so head-over-heels for this man, all of the advice goes out of the window.

In this episode, I’m about to reveal 2 simple words that will tell you everything you need to know about men and how to get the love you really deserve…

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Today Matt and the team answer a listener who asks what she can do about fear of abandonment.

When you're scared of someone else leaving, it can make you bail at the first sign of an argument or problem. You make assumptions and think the worst any time you have a negative moment.

If you've struggled with the insecurity of worrying someone else will leave, this episode will give you some tools and mindsets to help feel more secure and clear about your worth and be comfortable in your relationship again.

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In today’s new episode, I’ll share with you exactly how to do that through 13 highly practical tips to get him to take you more seriously. Some of these are subtle, but each one of these points can have an outsized impact on how your relationship moves forward.

I really wanted to make this because the tone you set in the beginning will serve you throughout your entire relationship, and the influence you can have on being taken seriously by someone is huge. It can determine whether your relationship will be a casual one that’s on their terms, or a committed, loving one where you’re building something together.

And in addition to being practical, this episode breaks down the psychology behind each of these tips and provides you with examples (and in many cases, specific texts) you can customize and make your own.

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You may have at some point said to yourself: “I know a guy who acts really charming and friendly, but I have no idea if he actually LIKES me!”

It’s annoying, right?

Especially if the guy is a naturally charismatic guy anyway. How do you know if he has eyes for you, or if he’s just like that with every woman he meets?

Taking the risk of putting yourself on the line for someone could mean embarrassment, rejection, or make things super-awkward between you both later on.

You want to know when you have the green light. You want to be sure when it’s ok to flirt and test the waters.

So in this clip, I’m going to show you the 7 obvious signs a guy REALLY likes you. It’s easy to miss these classic behaviors that show his interest, but trust me: men are much more predictable than you may think...

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If you truly feel like you had a once-in-a-lifetime connection, it can feel like you'll never get over a past relationship. Sometimes we can still idealize a relationship from years ago because we feel like we'll never replace that person. And then we get locked in a story: "I can never move on from this because that's the strongest chemistry I'll ever have".

In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about how to change the story you tell yourself, what it takes to finally move on (and the importance of being sober about the person's flaws), and how to rethink the past so you don't get trapped in it.

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Over the years, have you found yourself repeatedly attracting:

. . . people who appear to be emotionally unavailable?

. . . selfish people who don’t respect you in both friendships and romantic relationships?

. . . maybe even narcissists?

Have you ever wondered why you seem to be a magnet for these kinds of toxic people?

If any of this rings true, and you want to break this cycle, then this episode is for you.

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When it comes to attraction, it's not enough to just have visual chemistry. Deep attraction - that keeps someone interested well beyond a few weeks - requires 4 different stages you need to progress through.

In this video I explain the 4 stages in a live coaching call and show how you should decide when to invest more or less in a budding relationship.

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Commitment in 2022 can mean many different things. Typically it means a decision to either be exclusive, or commit to a future together, and a decision to take yourself off the dating market entirely.

But many of us can get into situations where WE DON’T EVEN KNOW if we’re in a committed partnership or not. We never know where we stand because we make assumptions and forget to define the relationship.

In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson talk about some of the most common mistakes people make when it comes to going from dating to relationship and then discuss the conversation you SHOULD be having if you want real commitment.

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Have you ever been with a guy you were certain would never settle down? The type who would declare to all his friends that he just “wasn’t made” for a relationship . . . only to one day announce he’s in a serious relationship or even getting married?

When this happens, we think, “What did the woman he committed to do that I didn’t?!”

What makes a man suddenly decide to commit?

In this week’s video, I not only dive into the answer to this question, but I also give you 4 practical pieces of psychology you can use to influence someone’s desire to commit to you.

P.S. I can’t overstate how excited I am about the new gift at the end of this episode. I’ve been working on it for a while now and it will show you how you can define the relationship when you don’t know where you stand. I’m asked about this situation all the time, and this is the best practical tool I could come up with to help anyone in that situation.

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Just because we've accepted it's over, it doesn't mean we've truly moved on. We can still obssess, think about past times, and romanticize someone in a way that stops us ever moving forward. If you're stuck right now, don't miss this message and take your power back!

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We all like to think a great relationship is just about finding the right person. But it's not. It's also about how you communicate with that person. It's about the inner thoughts you share. The way you divide tasks. How you both share your worries. The time you schedule you together.

In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson sit down to talk through a recent New York Times article by Catherine Pearson that made the case for 7 essential check-in questions to ask your partner.

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I recently received this comment from one of my Love Life Club members, and I’m curious if you can relate:

“I’m starting to feel really uncomfortable with the fact that I’m still single. I can’t help but wonder what’s wrong with me that I haven’t found something lasting yet . . .”

This mindset is dangerous.

Why? Because our anxiety about being single can lead us to make some really poor and damaging choices.

It can turn our dating life into a game of musical chairs, where we scramble to find ANY “chair” for fear of being the only one left standing when the music stops.

And as if the uncertainty wasn’t bad enough, it’s usually joined by its friends: shame and comparison. We often spend so much time dealing with these feelings that we forget to even make space for the behaviors that would actually move us closer to what we want.

That’s why we need a shortcut, and today’s episode is just that.

I share with you 7 mindsets that will take the anxiety out of being single. If applied, each of them has the potential to make a dramatic difference in your love life.

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We’ve all done it. We start to like someone and suddenly we’ve built a whole narrative around what our future could look like with them. They feel like a rare antidote we’ve stumbled across that will take us out of being single and into the relationship we so badly want.

The issue is, in the process of doing this, we rob ourselves of the ability to enjoy the experience—too stuck in our heads to be in the moment.

We also run the risk of self-sabotaging as we try to see danger where there isn’t any.

In this clip, I share an easy and grounding phrase you can use RIGHT NOW to calm yourself down if you find yourself in this situation.

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It's normal for us to date someone with a different attachment style from our own. But how do we know if someone is compatible with us longterm? And are there certain behaviours that tell us the relationship is ultimately doomed?

In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss attachment styles, how we can communicate with someone who shows a behaviour that makes us unsure about them, and if your partner can ever change.

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When it comes to dating, does the fear of rejection stop you from being yourself?

Whether it’s approaching someone at a coffee shop, reaching out first on an app, or allowing yourself to “let go” whilst on a date, this fear is the very thing that will have you looking back wistfully and saying “What if?” years from now rather than saying “Why not?” in the moment.

Of course, in a world where people are constantly trying to curate and filter their lives, it’s no wonder most of us find it scary to try something where validation isn’t guaranteed.

And while it might not be possible to feel completely immune to the fear of rejection, there are things you can do to move beyond that paralyzing anxiety.

In today’s episode, I’m going to give you three secrets to changing your relationship with rejection . . .

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If you’ve got someone in your life who’s either treated you carelessly or simply not investing, check this episode out because I’ll tell you what to do.

May my voice of reason forever haunt you in your dreams.

I don’t want to spend more time giving energy to these terms and phenomena that aren’t what you want in the first place, I’d rather give time to finding people who are serious in your life.

If you want to stop over analysing things that don’t matter, and start actually pursuing things that could matter, I have 3 habits for you that you can take on in your love life to start creating real results.

Go to 3LoveHabits.com to get your free guide. Let’s start making progress and stop wasting time.

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Sometimes you're dating someone who gives you mixed signals. You feel you have amazing chemistry and he pays you lots of attention in person, but in between your dates it's like he's disappeared. Matt, Stephen and Audrey talk about what this could mean and how you can respond when there's a mismatch so you don't get stuck in limbo.

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Today's episode will help you cut through all of the anxiety, uncertainty, and stress.

I go deep on three very specific questions you can ask yourself to determine whether staying or leaving is the right decision for you.

I also break down a new model that will help you identify what to watch out for and the dangerous cocktail of certain traits we must avoid in someone . . . these are the traits that can make a relationship so toxic that over time, it will erode our confidence and identity to the point that leaving the relationship is the only option.

Understanding this model may just save your self-respect, sanity, and happiness. And once you know how it works, red flags will be much easier to spot.

This is an episode you’ll also want to return to anytime you’re stuck in that fog of fear and confusion and want to feel a sense of clarity . . . so you can stop second-guessing your choices and move on with confidence.

P.S. I’d love to hear your comments on this. What’s a “dark pairing” you’ve experienced that made life really difficult? Email us at podcast@matthewhussey.com

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Tired of being trapped in limbo when someone doesn't know what they really want? It's easy for people to not want to commit while STILL craving the comfort of keeping you around. If you're stuck in this trap, listen to this NOW . . .

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You may have been dating a guy that seemed promising, until he said that ONE thing, or you saw ONE behaviour, and it totally turned you off. 

Or you've been together for 6 months, and your attraction has now turned to repulsion.

This is "the ick", and in this episode, Matt, Stephen, and Audrey sit down to look at how this strange phenomenon occurs and what it says about attraction.

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In this episode, I talk about some of the top questions I’ve been asked on the topic of keeping someone's interest and when to sleep together —the ones that cause people to reach out to me in SOS mode—including:

• When to have sex with someone you’re dating.

• How to have the conversation about sex before you sleep together (and as a bonus, I even provide a sample script you can adapt).

• How to handle rejection and ghosting.

I promise you won’t have to worry about “losing your power” ever again, because you’ll be OK no matter the outcome.

Your coach,

Matthew x

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If you've ever expressed your needs to
someone, or tried to tell them about something they did that hurt you, and you were made to feel crazy, this video is for you.

It's a horrible feeling when we are upset or anxious and we don't even know if what we are
saying is reasonable or whether we are overreacting . . . 

That's why I'm so excited for you to see this - it's going to show you how to get your personal power back and make sense of the situation.

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“Where can I meet quality men?”

I’ve probably been asked this question every day for the last 15 years.

Between endless swiping on apps and being in the same friendship circles, many people struggle to even meet people they feel attracted to.

But is there actually an untapped magical place teeming with single guys? Should you go to a Tough Mudder to find your (slightly-dirt-stained) person?

In today’s episode, I get to the bottom of these questions and reveal how you can dramatically increase your chances of meeting someone amazing without having to venture too far out of your comfort zone.

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What’s the #1 sexiest thing a woman can do on a first date?

Play footsie under the table? Wear a low-cut V-neck sweater? Whisper, “Hey handsome” in his ear when he gives you a hug?

Nope.

While those things won’t by any means hurt your chances, what really makes a guy want you depends on how you make him feel in your company.

He needs to feel intrigued. He needs to feel attractive. He needs to feel a sense of fun . . . 

This week, I’m going to teach you 5 killer lines you can say to any guy to fill him with great emotions and get him dying to see you again . . . 

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Do you worry about attracting the wrong people? Feel like you struggle to trust that a partner won’t betray you or turn out to be different than you predicted? In this episode, Matt talks about how you can overcome your fear of choosing the wrong person and build self-trust.

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One of the biggest frustrations about red flags is that they can be filtered out by our rose-colored glasses, only allowing us to see them clearly in hindsight.

But there are ways to appropriately respond to red flags in early dating (if you can spot them), and in this episode, I show you one way to “crack the code” . . .

That is, of course, to always have a North Star.

This week, I walk through what, exactly, a North Star is, why it’s so important to have in order to be successful in dating, and how to choose one . . .

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Don't "jump the gun" and get ahead of yourself just because you meet someone you like. If you fall hard for people too early, this message from Matt is for you...

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Want to know what he's really thinking on a first date? What do men worry about when looking for love? Matt and Stephen asked thousands of men in our audience about their BIGGEST insecurities and the answers were pretty amazing. If you want a real eye-opening window into male fears and his psychology in dating, you're going to love this. 

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So, this wasn't the episode we planned to release this week. But an online conversation turned into something so unexpected that we scrapped the original plan and recorded something new, because I couldn't wait to talk about it.

I asked men about their specific insecurities when it comes to early dating. And what we got back was more vulnerable and real than anyone expected. Not only that, but the women's responses to the men's candid comments were beautiful.

The incredible responses also brought up some themes, which I decided to take closer look at in this episode. These include:

- Men's top insecurities, including how they feel insecure about being insecure

- Helpful ways to validate our partner if they feel insecure

- How to manage our feelings when the insecurity we see in someone else reminds us of our own insecurities.

This episode is all about bravery and kindness, and my goal is that by the end of it, you will understand and be able to relate to men a little better.

Your coach,

Matt

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Ever felt let down from someone who promised to call but never did? Listen to this clip of Matt live coaching on how to move on when you feel disappointed from ghosting and build your confidence back today.

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Is it too picky to want to date who shares similar qualities to you? And when should you be more open-minded about who you choose a relationship with?

Join Matt and Stephen to talk about pickiness, standards, and mindsets that can make finding love harder.

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When you’re dating in 2022, you can almost be sure that the person in front of you on that first date is dating multiple people at the same time. This omnipresent truth can make you nervous as you so desperately want to stand out from the crowd.

The truth is, we all want so badly to be unforgettable on a date . . . but actually making that happen can feel tricky.

In the pursuit of “making someone like us,” we may give in to the knee-jerk reaction of trying to impress them, or worse . . . people please.

Even though we told ourselves we’d be chill and genuine, we suddenly find ourselves working our most spectacular moments into conversation, hoping they’ll see us for the treasure we are.

Or we get so nervous that our walls go up and we lose all warmth and become sarcastic and cutting instead.

These performances will often have us showcasing the more insecure sides of ourselves, taking the focus away from the purpose of being on that date in the first place: connection.

But luckily, truly connecting—and making yourself memorable—is much simpler than that.

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Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)?

Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people?

It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want.

In this video, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening.

At the end of this video, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yourself to change this...

Learn the 2 mistakes that keep you from meeting the right person...

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It’s very common that we hear from women who say “men are intimidated by me!”

But what causes this? Is it male insecurity? Do men instinctively get turned off by a woman’s success, income, or assertiveness?

In this episode, Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about how this happens, what it means for our dating lives, and the dating dynamics between men and women.

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Do you get nervous that you’re not good enough? Feel a deep inner worry that you’re a “fraud” waiting to get found out?

This is called “Imposter Syndrome”, and it’s a common trap that can make us live with SO much unnecessary anxiety and it holds us back from opportunities.

In this clip, Matt explains how to defeat imposter syndrome with a simple mindset reframe.

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When it comes to sex, some of us have very specific ideas about what it should be like in a relationship.

There’s the “sexual destiny” mindset, which says that sex should be amazing from the start and is entirely about natural chemistry.

Then there’s the “sexual growth” mindset, which says that sex can improve over time and couples can work out sexual differences.

In this episode, Matt and Stephen discuss the difference between these mindsets and what they mean for a potential relationship.

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When a relationship with someone we had strong feelings for (or even loved) ends, we tend to get overwhelmed with emotions.

Whether we were with them for a short period of time or in a long, committed relationship, these feelings are universal.

They can come in the form of raw heartbreak, the feeling that we’ve lost control over our happiness, a paralyzing fear that they might move on, an overwhelming desperation to get them back, or simply the pain of missing someone who used to be a constant in our life.

The trouble is, when heartbreak, control, fear, desperation, or pain are at the wheel, the desire to make ourselves feel better becomes insatiable and this will in turn start to dictate how we conduct ourselves. The solution? Setting yourself a goal.

Perhaps you’ve heard of the “No Contact Rule” but don’t know exactly what it entails, or maybe it sounds a little too counterintuitive for how you feel right now, especially if you’re holding out hope that you could still get back together . . .

Well, I’m here to tell you that’s not the case, and in this episode, I distill the best I’ve learned about breakups and the "No Contact Rule" into everything you need to know on the topic, including what you can say at different stages.

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Has this ever happened to you?

You’re on a first date... and...

He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry…

But at the end of the night… he doesn’t ask for a second date (nevermind a third or fourth).

If this has happened to you (or keeps happening), you’re likely missing one of the two essential things that make him reach across the table and say:

“I’d really like to see you again.”

In this clip, I tell you EXACTLY what to say so that he’ll ask you out again (and again, and again)...

(You might be surprised at how simple this is AND how often you’re skipping this step when you’re interacting with a guy you like, especially in the early stages of dating...)

It’s genuinely crazy to me how obvious the phrase in this video is, how simple it would be for people to say, how many more second dates it would get them… and yet, they still aren’t doing it. I’m excited to read your thoughts in the comments.

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What do you do if you feel a special connection, but he keeps you waiting on the big question of commitment?

In a spontaneous Instagram live, Matt recently coached a follower who was struggling with this exact dilemma.

If you’re sick of sitting in the “waiting room” and hoping for something to change, make sure you listen to this message.

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Few things can match the heady exhilaration of dating someone and building momentum through regular texting and a sense of closeness.

But what about when the texting on their end is . . . kind of slow and intermittent . . . where there are big gaps in your text exchanges that leave you feeling unsure as to where, exactly, you stand with that person?

Feeling this way might even lead you to start analyzing their relationship with their phone the next time you’re with them, looking for clues as to whether their sporadic phone usage is consistent in their life or reserved just for you.

At some point, they might’ve even shared a generic line with you like, “I’m so rubbish with my phone,” or “I’m really bad at replying to people!” But is this really true?

In this week’s video, I not only answer these questions, but I dig into a really common mistake people make in this area.

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What should you look for BEFORE you even enter into a new relationship, to figure out if your attachment styles are compatible?

Having a reliable and steady partner may not get as much attention as other “sexier” attributes, but it really is a beautiful thing.

Knowing you can depend on someone romantically, physically, and emotionally can draw you even closer together—strengthening your growing bond.

In this episode, Matt explains what it takes to avoid codependency and have the kind of healthy partnership that means you both flourish, instead of creating a scenario where you are excusing toxic behaviour.

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How do we find the right person if we're always falling for the wrong one? It's a common problem, one that can make you feel doomed to always be in unsatisfying relationship cycles over and over again.

In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Jameson talk about why we feel this way towards certain people with negative traits and how we can heal so we align with the right kind of partner for us.

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What does it mean when someone you dated—a guy you still like even though things fizzled out—is still engaging with your social media.

Maybe you went on a few dates, had a connection, and even got physical, but it didn’t quite go anywhere.

Yet, strangely, he still seems to be keeping a watchful eye on what you get up to on social media.

Immediately, the gears of your mind start turning as you analyze the timing and the meaning of each emoji he sends in response to the photo of your night out with your friends.

In this week’s brand-new episode, Matt dives into the psychology behind his actions to reveal exactly what it means when someone likes your social posts (but doesn’t reach out in any other way) . . .

. . . and most importantly, what you should do about it.

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It doesn't matter how many great qualities they have if they have one or more lethal negative traits that make it impossible to get your needs met. In this episode, Matt talks about toxic relationship behaviours to watch out for in every stage of dating.

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No matter how far we’ve come, there is still a stigma in society for people who choose to remain single for longer than the average person.

And this leads to all kinds of judgment: you must be sad, you must want a partner, you must have a problem…

Matt, Stephen, and Audrey discuss why “single-shaming” persists and how to avoid feeling the pressure from society in influencing your decisions about your romantic life.

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In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire.

These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a situation just fizzling out.

Once you’re aware of them, they’re extremely easy to spot . . . so you won’t inadvertently end up “8-Miling” yourself. (Trust me, it’ll make sense when you hear the episode.)

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If you find you fall in love too quickly or feel you NEVER fall in love, this clip explains why either extreme might be preventing you from finding a relationship.

Whether you want to stop chasing perfection or need to slow down and enjoy gradually getting to know someone new, it is possible to get out of your usual pattern (and enjoy the process!)

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"How do I let go of someone I absolutely adore?"

What if you met the "right person at the wrong time?"

Many people have been through the feeling of someone breaking up with them because of a specific obstacle. It makes us think, if only that wasn't an issue, we would be perfect.

If you've struggled to move on from someone who seemed perfect for you, join Matt for this solo episode to learn how to finally let go and get over the one who got away.

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I’ve heard this story so many times before . . . You go on a date with a guy and instantly, you feel a strong connection.

What was supposed to just be drinks turns into dinner, which turns into a 12-hour affair.

When you do eventually part ways, you look down at your phone and find a message sitting in your inbox saying, “Can I see you tomorrow?”

You feel amazing. Over the next few weeks, it’s a whirlwind.

He wants to spend every waking minute together, he’s outspoken about his feelings for you, and upon waking, you always have a “Good morning, gorgeous!” text waiting for you.

He may even go so far as to introduce you to his friends and family. . . or say those three little words that so many others have struggled to say to you in the past . . .

It’s intense and fast, but it feels so good that you just let the romance sweep you off your feet.

Overnight, your life has turned into one of those romantic movie montages that show the highlight reel of a perfect relationship, except instead of the montage spanning a year or two, it’s hitting those milestones after a few weeks. And then, of course, it happens . . . something feels wrong, the communication slows down, he starts to pull away, and before you know it, he vanishes completely.

You’re left dazed, shellshocked, and wounded—fully relating to the term “love bombing” and wondering if any of it was even real. If this sounds familiar, then this episode is for you as I share 3 tests that will help you spot a love bomber.

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Sick of being asked "why are you still single?"

Tired of society deciding people are more successful just because they are in a relationship?

Me too. 

Here's why you should never judge anyone or yourself by their relationship status, and what really matters when thinking about your current stage of life.

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Have you found yourself unable to resist getting another hit of attention from someone you know is wrong for you?

Want to send out one more text even though you *know* you shouldn't?

This is called microdosing. 

And it's easy to fall into this trap when you feel hooked on someone, but it doesn't mean it's good for us in the long-term.

In this episode, Matt and Stephen answer your biggest questions about microdosing and give practical ways to prevent getting fixated on the wrong person.

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How much time have you spent beating yourself up for things you wish you’d done differently?

Whether it’s due to:

• A relationship you should’ve left months (or years) earlier

• A family member you could’ve created more distance with

• A job you stayed in too long . . . it’s easy to mentally pummel yourself as you think about all the time you wasted.

But this mindset won’t get you where you need to go. In today’s episode, you’ll learn why you can’t blame the you of the (even recent) past for not meeting the bar you’ve set for yourself today.

And if you’ve been wondering how to get your confidence back—the kind that can help you make peace with the decisions of your past as well as change what’s possible for your future—then you can’t miss this message.

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How do you move on when you thought they were "the one" for you? This is where to start...

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Let’s be real for a moment . . . We all sometimes wish we could be happier.

We blame all sorts of variables for holding us back from achieving this.

We tell ourselves that once we finally find a partner, secure a better job, or lose weight, life will be good and we will finally be happy.

But even when we achieve some of those goals, the “happiness goalposts” appear to move a little further down the field.

We can even forget that we have certain things in our lives now that 10 years ago we would’ve said were THE things that needed to happen in order for us to be happy.

In this brand-new episode taken from last week’s Virtual Retreat, I share two words that changed my outlook on this completely.

They become my compass whenever life throws something difficult my way.

With this simple shift, you can give yourself permission to start your life from where you are right now . . .

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In this killer clip with Matt and Ed Mylett, you'll learn:

• The #1 question you should ask yourself before you sleep together

• Why you should never decide to sleep with someone just because you’re afraid someone else will beat you to it

• What a GOOD reason to jump into bed with someone looks like

• How to gauge someone’s intentions

• Why owning your actions is sexy

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Matt gives some psychological and practical tips on irresistible traits that boost your attraction both in the long-term and courtship stages of dating.

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Matthew and Stephen talk about Esther Perel's excellent answers to the question: "When do people feel most drawn to their partner?" and we give our own thoughts about what keeps desire early on in a relationship. 

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In the modern world we are taught to look for the optimum choice in every situation.

The perfect morning routine for us, the perfect career, the perfect house, and even the perfect relationship?

But is this the right way to think about looking for a romantic partner? We want high standards, but what things (if any) should we settle on in a relationship? 

In this episode, Matthew talks about how to practically look for love in the modern world and what it takes to build a lasting healthy relationship. 

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Can you be "too picky" in love? What is the difference between having standards and just being annoyingly judgmental? Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about:

• When to be picky vs. when to be open-minded when falling in love
• How true commitment changes your view of relationships
• The things that really matter when choosing a partner
• The cognitive bias that keeps you with the wrong person

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Sick of feeling like you have to wait to be approached by a guy?

Want to be able to actually "choose" someone you're attracted to, and meet them in REAL LIFE?

Here are 7 elegant and simple ways to have a guy approach you (without feeling like you're doing all the work)...

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So...Matt has some BIG news to share that you may not know about yet! 

And it got us thinking: What are the REAL signs a guy wants to get serious with you?

Matt explains that 11 behaviours to look for that tell you he's thinking about a long-term relationship and doesn't have one foot out of the door...

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Matt talks about what gets someone hooked in the first few dates, the 3 texts that get a guy to pursue you, and how to handle the day after you sleep with someone...

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You may have told yourself 100 times you’re ready to finally meet someone.

Maybe you even read a few dating tips and decided to go try them out. But then, you see that cute guy you like at work, in your social circle, or at a party.

You want to flirt.

You want to get him to notice you. T

hen at the crucial moment, you shrink. “H--hey”, you say, trying to play it cool. You make small talk. Chit-chat about everyday stuff, but nothing that ever amounts to flirting.

And you realize: I can’t do this. I’m too much of an introvert.

If you’ve ever used this excuse before, then get ready. Because I have 3 techniques today that are going to change your dating life forever.

You’re an introvert? Guess what, so am I.

Now you’ll find out why that can be your greatest superpower...

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What does it really mean to be high-value? Matt and Steve talk about the top 5 traits that make you attractive for a relationship to *anyone*

Instead of focusing on short-term attention, focus on these in the long-term and you won't find yourself playing games to keep someone interested. 

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Does "The One" exist?

Maybe there's someone you can't imagine your life without. Or maybe you have someone who seems SO amazing but you have a couple of doubts.

There may not be one quick formula for knowing if someone is right for a long-lasting relationship, but here are four questions that you should definitely ask yourself before you dive in deeper...

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It's recently been shown that young people are having less sex than previous generations.

This got us thinking: Is Casual Sex Losing Its Appeal?

Matt and Stephen sit down to talk:

- How men and women think about casual sex in 2022

- What needs are met by casual sex (and what can cause it to become destructive)

- How the desire for casual sex can conflict with a desire for real connection

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Matt and Stephen talk about an email from a listener who feels like he dates women who self-sabotage the relationship with their insecurity. 

We discuss what really kills attraction, who is at fault when someone gets insecure, and what it means to feel safe to bring up your fears and vulnerability in a relationship.

Also, someone changed Jameson's Netflix username to "Lord Fart"...

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What makes a guy hooked on you from Day 1?

In this episode, Matt shows you how to communicate in a way that makes him feel special, brings out the most attractive sides of your personality, and show your attraction from a place of confidence.

These tools will help you remain high value in his eyes and if done right will even make you irreplaceable.

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"When I decide I really like someone, they suddenly lose interest?"

Has this ever happened to you?

Join Matt and Stephen as they explain the psychology behind someone backing off after you reveal your feelings and what types of people typically show this behaviour.

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It's all too common in modern dating to label someone a "narcissist". But what are the actual signs you're dating a narcissist vs. just dating a flawed person? What behaviours should you look for in the early dating stage? 

Join Matt and Stephen as they discuss all things narcissism and how to heal after a relationship with someone who damages your self-esteem...

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A recent article asked: "Is Your Partner The Most Annoying Person In The World?"

Matt and Steve look at this question and discuss:

- Top most annoying habits in relationships

- The mindset shift that increases our love with our partner

- What really destroys relationships

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Matt and Steve discuss the why people love bomb, cat dating apps, and whether you should date someone based on ONE big common interest...

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It's RED FLAG season!

The dating world is crazy for red flags, so we decided to sit down and talk through some of the internet's favourite red flag memes and see which ones we agree vs. disagree with!

Also, we talk about our biggest AMBER FLAGS - behaviours that make you cautious even if they aren't deal-breakers...

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Matt and Steve talk about:

- Breakups and how long it takes to move on

- Getting over heartbreak: men vs. women 

- The Metaverse and what it means for dating: will it make it easier to meet "The One" or kill physical intimacy?

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Your old pals Matt and Stephen talk about:

- Whether you should have regrets

- What kind of mistakes we regret the most

- Getting over your screw ups

- Online vs. Real life (and which causes more divorce!)

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Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about:

- Why comparing yourself to your partner's ex's is such a losing game

- How to escape the trap of comparison

- The value vs. the danger of talking about your insecurities (and why many men struggle with this)

- How to be attractive without needing to be perfect

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Matt and Stephen get into the topic of LOYALTY in a relationship.

We discuss:

• Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like a models photo?
• Is it okay for a guy you’re dating to like an Ex’s Photo? 
• What counts as micro-cheating?
• Do you have to be over someone before you can date?
• The importance of loyalty
• The difference between values and standards

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Matt and Steve sit down to talk about why so many men are now accused of being "simps".

We discuss:

- What ACTUALLY makes a guy a "simp"

- How we should feel about men who do it

- What causes unhealthy fandom and hero worship

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Matt and Steve talk about how ghosting happens, and why we all can not only be victims of it, but also unknowing perpetrators...

*SPOILER alert for The Sixth Sense (I mean, it's over 20 years old, but ya know...here's your warning). 

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Matt and Steve sit down to talk:

• Where trauma and bad beliefs come from
• The effect of trauma on romantic relationships
• Getting over pain and changing emotional associations
• Boomer, Gen Z, Millenials + the failure of empathy

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It's one thing to leave the wrong person, but some people worry: "What if he becomes the RIGHT person for someone else? What if he changes and fixes his flaws and I missed out on the "better" version of him?

Matt and Steve talk about where this fear comes from and why it can be so dangerous to live worrying about someone's future potential.

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Some recent research claimed that over 50% of people in committed partnerships have a "backburner relationship".

In this episode Matt and Steve talk about:

- What defines a backburner relationship?

- Why in 2021 has this grown in modern dating culture?

- What is the cost of having a backburner relationship?

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Ever found yourself slipping into the therapist role with a guy when what you really want is to create deep attraction with him?

Instead of being in a fun, flirtatious situation with someone who’s trying to get to know more about you, you find yourself sitting patiently while someone unloads all of their problems onto you.

You’re not alone. But there is a way out.

In this brand-new clip from a small live show, I show you how to escape the “therapist trap” with a guy so that you can keep building the attraction and tension that lead to a second date.

Matthew x

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Matt and Steve talk about the art of flirting and the REAL difference between chemistry and connection...

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Matt did a big, scary, difficult challenge.

It was humbling. It was brutal. And it taught him a lot about friendship, confidence and doing things that scare you...

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I’m about to share a recent public moment that bothered me . . .   

While watching a video clip from my recent appearance on the Pretty Intense podcast with Danica Patrick—an experience I thoroughly enjoyed—I couldn’t help but notice something: I kept saying a particular word. And not just once or twice.

Over the course of just a couple minutes, I couldn’t even keep my total in the single digits.

As someone who’s spent an entire career in public speaking and content creation, the more I said this word, the more the demons in my mind went into “media frenzy press conference mode.”

Prepare yourself: This is an honest reenactment of how embarrassment plays out in our heads. I hope this gives you a laugh and also helps you realize that you can take something like this and use it to turn a mortifying moment into an opportunity for growth.

Matt and Steve talk about: 

- Sex Life (again!)

- The fantasy of choosing between two different partners

- The danger of wanting to heal someone else's trauma

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Matt and Steve sit down to discuss:

- Why we stay in relationships longer than we should

- When we should quit the wrong relationship

- The inspiring and tragic legacy of Anthony Bourdain

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Matt and Steve sit down to talk about what's necessary to be a mature adult, male worries about penis size, and insecurities about ex's...

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When someone’s betrayed or hurt us—especially when we didn’t see it coming—it’s hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and shadows us into our next relationship.

Is there an antidote to this? Is it possible to regain trust after heartbreak?

In this episode, I share 8 rules you’ll want to write on sticky notes and keep handy whenever you need a reminder.

As always, I’d love it if you left me a comment letting me know your thoughts - email podcast@matthewhussey.com 

Here for you, Matthew x

P.S. There’s still time to sign up for my 30-Day Confidence Challenge on July 21. These 30 days of massive momentum will set you up for an amazing end to 2021. It only takes 10 seconds to sign up at mhchallenge.com 

The year is half over already...what??

Join us to sit down and chat about:

• Where love is in 2021
• The state of dating apps
• Body image and confidence
• Being selective about WHO we want to attract
• How the pandemic has changed desires for a relationship

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In this clip, I’m asked what my “why” is—what motivates me to keep doing what I do.

And my answer often comes as a surprise: to help people feel less alone...

Matt and Steve sit down to talk about YOUR responses to "what are your top 2 non-negotiables in a relationship?"

Find out which ones we agree and disagree with!

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Dating fatigue is real.

Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship.

But since science isn’t quite there yet, how can you manage your energy so the dating process—the part you need in order to FIND that relationship—doesn’t burn you out before you even GET to the good stuff?

In today’s episode, I share 5 tips that will help you find an energy-replenishing relationship rather than an energy-depleting one.

You’ll learn how to:  

• Ease into getting to know someone rather than pinning all your hopes and dreams on them

• Communicate from a place of strength rather than insecurity

• Match your investment and energy to the stage of the relationship you’re actually in.

You’ll want to bookmark this one and relisten to it before any date.

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Last week, we talked about how the right partner will “elevate your best and soothe your worst.”

But what if you feel like your best isn’t good enough? Or you’re afraid your worst will be “too much” for someone?

In this situation, it can be tempting to overcorrect—to go overboard in your efforts to impress someone until they finally discover what you’re “really like.”

In this week’s new episode, I’ll teach you how to shift from looking at yourself through a lens of self-judgment, self-loathing, and self-hatred, and instead view yourself from a place of self-compassion, self-love, and self-empowerment.

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Matt and Steve sit down to talk about ONE quality we've come to find essential in relationships. We look at your answers to the question as well and give our responses!

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There’s an ongoing debate when it comes to meeting “The One.”

Which camp do you fall into?

1) Is it all about meeting the right person—someone amazing who will remove any lingering doubts and inspire you to get serious?

2) Or is it less about “The One” and more about “The Timing”—meeting a compatible person at the right time in your life?

This week, I get to the heart of the issue with 7 tips that may change your perspective on dating and relationships.

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Matt and Steve sit down for a live session to talk about YOUR answers to advice you would give yourself from 10 years ago on dating, love and relationships! 

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What will your dating life look like in the second half of 2021?

As worldwide restrictions started to ease, news outlets declared that the post-lockdown world would likely give birth to a “new Roaring ‘20s”—a bacchanalian frenzy the likes of which our generation has never seen.

While it’s true that some will embrace this openness with abandon, new studies are revealing something unexpected: many people are interested in finding a serious relationship as a result of the pandemic, because this past year has made them aware of the traits they value most in a partner.

This particular moment is critical, because many people are likely to “panic buy” their way into a relationship—throwing themselves into the first nice person they meet as soon as the “gates open.”

Thankfully, there’s a simple step you can take before a first date that will ensure you’re meeting people who are a better fit. In this episode, you’ll learn how to find a committed partner who will be excited to redefine the “new Roaring ‘20s” with you (whether or not they can dance the Charleston).

Here for you, Matthew x

P.S. Which trait is #1 on your list? Let me know in the YouTube comments on my channel! 

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We’re told all our lives that confidence is the key to everything from our careers to our love lives, but few things can feel more nebulous or fleeting.

Even when we finally achieve the things we thought would give us confidence, it often slips just a little more out of reach.

Life becomes a chase of “I’ll finally feel confident when . . .” and that “when” rarely materializes.

In today’s episode, I’ll show you how to craft a confidence that’s unique to you: one that doesn’t rely on the achievement of some external goal, and one deeply rooted in who you ALREADY are.

P.S. Be sure to listen all the way to the end to discover the secret project I’ve been working on and how you can be a part of it. This one’s HUGE. I’ve never done anything like it, and it won’t cost you a thing. 

Perhaps you’ve felt it after someone ghosted you following what you thought was a perfect date . . .

Or after pouring your heart and creativity into a project only to have it ripped to shreds by those you admire most . . .

Or getting laid off from the job you thought you’d retire from . . .

Rejection can come in many forms, but the gut punch feels the same as it shatters your ego.

Ultimately, the history of your rejection has been written, but the legacy of it is for you to decide.

The way you craft this legacy can result in some of the most meaningful wins of your life, and in this episode, you’ll learn how to make that happen. (Plus I’ll also share an embarrassing story of a lesson I learned whilst recording in Beverly Hills 10 years ago . . .)

P.S. Our final Virtual Retreat of the year is coming up September 24-26.

The feedback from our last Virtual Retreat has been nothing short of amazing. And this month only, we're offering an incredible $100 discount and throwing in three priceless bonuses with your ticket. Don't wait, head to https://MHVirtualRetreat.com and claim your May special offer.

What do you think is the most overrated thing in relationships?

We look at your top answers and decide if we agree or disagree!

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Learn The Simple Text Response to Regain Momentum in Your Relationship.

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It’s happened to the best of us.

The flirty text banter that used to cause a surge of adrenaline has become pedestrian. And pretty soon “How was your day?” becomes “How was your week?”

Or perhaps they initiate a text conversation and tell you what they’re up to, but never actually ask you out.

Fortunately, all it takes is one small shift to turn it all around. If you’ve lost momentum with someone, feel your momentum is headed in the wrong direction, or just want to improve your communication, this week’s episode is a must-listen.

I give you 6 specific text messages you can use or adapt to transform your current situation. The great news is that you only need to try one of these 6 texts to change your dynamic right now.

Be sure to let me know which one you try first! You can email the show at podcast@matthewhussey.com

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"What does he mean when he texts THIS?"

In today's episode, Matt and Steve sit down live to discuss YOUR most confusing texts and what they really mean!

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What do you do when you're dating someone, but you're worried they don't appreciate the effort you make? And will they step up their standards when you move in together, or are they going to stay the same forever?

Join Matt and Stephen to talk all about standards!

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When you work on making yourself more attractive, does your dating pool narrow? Are there simply less people who will live up to your standards?

Join Matt and Stephen for a chat about standards, self-growth, and choosing people for the right reasons.

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Is it possible to mess it up with the right person? Can you miss your chance if you make the wrong move? 

When you make a mistake, the worst feeling in the world is, "what if I had done things differently?"

We talk about how to get over your past failures in love and the mindset that will stop you living in regret. 

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It's always a question: How fast should you move when it comes to intimacy? 

The answer: it depends on what your goals are... 

Matt and Steve talk about the value of inside vs. outdoor dates early on in a relationship, how to find out what their intentions are, and what kind of "progress" really matters in dating. 

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Sometimes we avoid speaking up about what we really want with a person because we’re afraid we will “make waves” in the relationship.

We come from a place of fear and anxiety.

“What if me telling him I want something to be different makes him walk away altogether?” we think to ourselves. So we ignore the conversation and silently suffer.

But then nothing gets better. We just put off the conversation for another day while time keeps moving on.

If this is you, this episode is for you.

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What if you're with the "perfect" partner, they treat you wonderfully, but they're always putting off wanting kids?

In this episode, Matt and Steve talk about how to do what's really right for you, and dealing with the fight between your head and your heart.

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Today Matt and Steve sit down to answer a listener who ask whether her partner can become more affectionate. Can you change someone's love language?

Plus Matt goes on a rant about how to talk about your past heartbreaks with a new partner...

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Do you feel you’re holding yourself back in life?

Do you avoid taking risks with people you’re attracted to?

Do you find yourself shying away from new things in life, new experiences, new possibilities?

Are there things you’ve been talking about doing in your career or life that always seem to stay on the horizon and never actually happen?

It’s tough when life makes it hard for us to achieve things we want to achieve, but it’s far worse when we know that WE are the ones holding us back.

It could be through fear of rejection, failure, not feeling worthy, or simply being terrified of the unknown. And we’ll find all sorts of logical and rational excuses for why we can’t do something now, why it’s not the right time, or why we’re not capable or ready.

But the truth is, we can waste our entire lives holding ourselves back from the life we could have and becoming the person we want to be.

And that can happen in the blink of an eye. We wake up one day and realize that all that time we thought we had is gone.

This episode will save you from that fate . . .

Empathy is a powerful emotion. 

It can be a tool: allowing you to put yourself in someone's shoes, understand their struggle, and emotionally connect to their suffering.

But when it comes to letting go of a toxic relationship, this can also be a danger if we prioritise empathy over our long-term well-being.

Join Matt and Steve to chat about leaving toxic partners, deciding on when to compromise in love, and of course, bubble baths...

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I believe in talking about ideas that matter and can help people lead better lives.

It’s hard for me to think of anything that fits that description more than the issues this video deals with.

I’ve done my best, but I know it won’t be perfect. It’s not meant to be. I just want to begin the conversation in our community. I look forward to learning more from all of you as I go.

Women of my community, I did not create this episode for you to do anything. It’s a message we men need to hear.

I hope you’ll help me share it with more of my brothers, because the change has to come from us.

And I’d love for you to join me in the comments to share your experiences and further educate us.

We have your back here, and we love you.

Matthew x

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There are 2 types of people from our past—distant or recent—that cause us pain in the present.

And chances are, if you can’t seem to move on from someone, they fall into one of these 2 categories...

The good news is that this episode will show you a neat trick you can do right now that will change the way you think about this person forever.

And when you do it, you’ll instantly feel at peace in a way you don’t right now. Hope you’re having a beautiful weekend, friend.

As always, I’m in your corner.

We’ve all been told the important stuff that helps a relationship work in the long-run:

• Kindness 
• Respect
• Clear and compassionate communication

But there are also other little skills that make a big difference.

Things that our partner may not even be able to vocalize, but that deep down in their subconscious they are eternally grateful for and that keep the relationship working and make us No.1 in their books. 

Cultivate these skills and your name will be on its way to becoming an ill-judged impulsive tattoo on someone’s bicep in no time...

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Someone once told Steve a secret to happiness he's never forgotten: “You always need to have two things to look forward to.”

“Why two?”

“You need one so that you can look ahead and know something exciting is on the horizon. And you need to a second so that you don’t get depressed when the first one ends.”

In this episode we talk about:

- The benefits of "positive anticipation" for your happiness

- Why purpose really matters

- Whether you should keep chocolate in the fridge

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Heal your heart and move on strong from your breakup.

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I’ll keep this short.

If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this brand-new episode is a must-listen for you today.

It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . .

It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . .

Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relationship falling apart when you didn’t want it to end.

In this episode, my brother Stephen and I are not merely talking about how to get over your pain, but how to deal with it while you’re still in the middle of it—perhaps even in the worst phase, when it feels like it’ll never go away. I’m here for you.

P.S. This message may be the greatest gift you can give a friend or family member who is experiencing this kind of pain right now. Who could you send this to to help them get through the day?

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People always ask how to spot red flags in relationships. But often the red flags are right in front of our eyes - we just choose to ignore them. 

Here we explain why it happens and how you SHOULD respond when the warnings signs appear...

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Whether you’ve been following my work for 5 days or 5 years, this is one you can’t miss.

It’s one of the most fundamental concepts I’ve ever taught, and it is the key to:

- Increasing your confidence

- Expanding your life

- Being irreplaceable to the person you want

- Being able to handle any part of your life going wrong

This is where my dating advice meets my deeper advice for how to live an extraordinary life. Don’t listen to this episode for dating tips. Listen to level up your entire life.

Every week, I help millions of people create the love life they’ve always wanted. But I don’t want the state of your life and your happiness to ever be dependent on the status of your love life. T

he great irony is that it’s when your happiness no longer depends on the status of your love life that your love life finally has a chance to click. Enjoy this episode. It’s a big one.

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Today's Episode: Are Dating Apps Underrated?

A new study suggests that people using dating apps could be MORE likely to want a serious relationship.

Is it true? And what do we think about the common criticisms of dating apps?

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Do you get more done when you're single or in a relationship?

This turns out to be a topic that has a lot of STRONG opinions.

Join Matt and Stephen for a chat about:

• How to approach being a "builder" when you're in a relationship
• Choosing the right partner for your needs
• Connection vs. compatibility
• How to not get distracted when you're single

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OK, picture this . . . I’m in my local coffee shop, minding my own business—my business in this case is ordering an oat milk flat white (just in case we ever go to coffee and you want to know what my order is)—and I get talking to a woman who tells me she’s mad at me.

She knows who I am, she’s a fan, she even said my program worked for her, and yet she told me she was mad at me.

In this week’s new episode, I tell the full story . . . and it highlights how so many people get hurt because they follow 95% of my advice, but ignore one of the most crucial things I say.

Think of it this way: you can have all the right ingredients to bake a cake, but if you forget to add baking powder, the cake isn’t going to rise.

In this episode, you’re going to learn what the baking powder of dating is. Without it, your relationship will not rise, which explains what happened to this woman I met in the coffee shop.

Check it out, and don’t forget to email us a comment at podcast@matthewussey.com when you get there. Happy weekend, friend!

P.S. I’m giving away a free video module of one of my favorite programs, Attraction to Commitment, at the end of this video. If you’re sick of guys wanting to see you casually, and are ready for a real relationship with someone who’s willing to commit, this is for you.

Get your copy of the full program by entering your email here. 

It's ok to be weird...

In fact, it will probably be what makes you stand out and do interesting things in the world.

If you copy everyone else, you end up safe, watered down, generic.

So if you struggle with the social pressure to conform, this is the episode for YOU!

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Want to hear something that drives me a little crazy?

It’s when people say: “You need to be happy first, before you find a relationship.” In my brand spanking new video, I call BS on this idea (please be aware there is no actual spanking).

Come on over and I’ll tell you why all the annoying people telling you this are wrong.

P.S. We’re one month out from my next Virtual Retreat, March 19-21!

This could be your last chance to make it happen. The first one back in October was a huge success, and I’ve been working with my team for months to make this one even better.

It includes 3 days of immersion coaching to work on new habits, new purpose in your life, leveling up in every area, and becoming the most confident and in control version of yourself you’ve ever been.

This is NOT a love life program—it’s a complete life makeover, inside and out.

If you don’t have your ticket yet, there’s still time.

To book a call with one of my Specialists to discuss your goals this year and whether the Virtual Retreat is right for you, click HERE → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com​

Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships...

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It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it. 

Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn?

Join us to find out and email us your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com 

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Whether you’re single or seeing someone on a day like Valentine's Day, here are 9 romantic surprises you can do for anyone in your life to make them go weak in the knees for you.

They are subtle . . .

They are unexpected . . .

And they will make someone fall even harder for you than they already are (because why wouldn’t they be already . . . you’re adorable, aren’t you? Aren’t you! Sorry.)

Check ‘em out, friend. 

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Join Matt and Steve for a chat on vulnerability, when to reveal yourself in a relationship, and what counts as over-sharing...

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 Happy February! :-) I just made this episode for you. 

Do you find it hard to truly let down your guard with a man? What do you do when you get angry or hurt? Do you get quiet? Passive-aggressive? Lash out?

If you know that the way you’re bringing things up isn’t productive, and has the tendency to push someone away, here is your essential listening for today...

Let me know what you think!

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Hey listeners! 

Join Matt and I for a chat today on:

• Why we get attached too quickly (even after only one date)
• The biggest key to avoiding disappointment
• Why Eminem was wrong 

If you want to get in touch, email us at podcast@matthewhussey.com

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Quiz for you... What do the following 3 things all have in common?:

- Getting nervous on a date

- Getting upset that someone isn’t texting you back

- Not being able to get over a breakup

Can you guess?

The answer is in this episode, let’s see if you got it right...

You’re going to witness a moment  taken from a live, exclusive webinar I held for my Love.Life members that wasn’t open to the public.

There was an exchange that happened that is going to change the way you deal with dating disappointments forever.

If you find it hard to recover from the rejection and the sadness of someone not calling after a date, or sex, or from it simply not panning out with someone you were seeing, this is a game changer...

Sending you love, friend!

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Today Matt and Steve sit down for a little chat.

We talk: 

- Keeping on track with 2021 goals

- Why you don't need to be "100% happy" to attract a great relationship

- How to decide what really matters in your to-do list

- 3 things you need to work on to have an extraordinary love life

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Are you a list maker? I am. It’s how I get things done.

But doesn’t life sometimes just feel like an endless “To-Do List”? We wake up, make a list, do what we can on that list, and before we know it, there’s another day, gone.

And, if we’re not careful, we get to the end of every day feeling like our confidence has been eroded because we didn’t even get to half of the list.

I don’t want my life to be one long box-ticking exercise, do you? If you want to feel like you’re truly LIVING, not just ticking boxes, check out this episode.

The technique I give in this episode shows us how to feel connected to the things we have to do in our day so that we don’t become list-checking zombies with no real joy in our lives.

I know once you learn this, it will become an indispensable part of your daily practice. I look forward to your feedback.

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Ever wanted to be a better public speaker? Wish you could feel confident and charismatic when you walk into a room?

In this episode, Matt and I sit down to discuss:

- Why you can *still* have massive impact as an introvert

- How to get rid of your bad conversation habits

- The secret to overcoming shyness

- How to answer difficult questions under pressure (and look good doing it!)

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If you're serious about upgrading your people skills, transforming your confidence, and learning the secrets of unstoppable charisma, go to GetImpactNow.com to get your copy of our bestselling IMPACT program! (Doors close Saturday 23rd January at midnight Pacific Time). 

 I’m guessing you don’t just follow my work for love life advice...

Unless you discovered my content yesterday, you will have realized by now that the communication skills I teach have massive practical application for your business relationships, your ability to network, your ability to persuade, to captivate, and to navigate challenging conversations in every part of life.

I’ve not just used these skills in my own love life. They have been the fundamental people skills I have used to create every opportunity I’ve ever had and get to where I am today.

And I know that in 2021 you have goals outside of your love life that are deeply important to you.

I want to help you achieve them. This episode is going to show you 7 techniques I use time and time again to make an impact on whoever I’m speaking to and create new opportunities in my life. 

I also have a value-packed surprise at the end for you (also free!).

See you there!

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Heyyyy,

It's a chat episode! We sit down to talk about:

- How to identify addictive behaviours

- Avoiding red flags vs. not being affected by past relationships

- How to figure out your goals

- Crunchy vs. smooth peanut butter 

It's all here - come join and let us know your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.comn

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Have you ever felt insecure about something that’s happened with your partner and got yourself worked up in your mind?

I have. Many times.

And when this has happened to me I know I’ve not brought up the issue in a productive way.

In fact, I’ve often approached the subject in a way I later regretted. What about you? Have you said something you wish you hadn’t? Reacted in a way you wish you could take back?

It’s a horrible feeling when we “sober up” emotionally, the cloud of angry or upset subsides, and we are left with this sinking feeling that somehow we’ve just messed it all up.

If you can relate to being the kind of person whose emotions and anxieties can be easily triggered in a relationship, this episode is really going to help you. My aim with this video is not to guarantee you never get anxious again (would you even believe me if I said that was possible?!).

My aim is to ensure that even in those moments where your fears and anxieties become inflamed, you have a way of calming them, and approaching your partner in a way that brings you closer together, rather than hurting the relationship. Let’s take back control over those emotions and put you back in the driver’s seat.

And let’s learn to use our moments of friction to make our relationships even more beautiful.

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Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas.

He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour.

Then it was on to talking all night. They kissed, they danced, and he told her after a few days that he had never met anyone like her.

Now Lisa had a weird feeling: “Uh-oh, I’ve fallen for this guy…”

She thought about him every day when she got home, remembering that perfect moment on the boat trip when he took her hand and pulled her tight to him.

But then... he never called…(I know, it’s horrible, right?)

The truth is, this often happens because of some very simple mistakes we make when it comes to falling in love. In this episode, I’ll show you how to avoid them..

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Maybe you began this year with visions of finally creating the love life you always dreamed about. You told yourself: “This is the year I’m going to meet my person.”

But then 2020 happened, and it made dating even more complicated, more exhausting, and more futile than it seemed to be already.

And now you sit here, at the end of another year, with this feeling in the pit of your stomach. A feeling of frustration, resentment, and even panic. “I’ve lost an entire year of progress in my love life because of this pandemic.”

In this episode, I’m going to give you a blueprint for what to do to still move your love life forward, even while this marathon we’re on continues. Time is too precious to waste. There are so many ways to still move forward. You just need the right plan... We in this community aren’t just survivors, we are adapters. So let’s do what we do best and make this situation work for us. 

Love you, friend.

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If you find yourself currently in a long-distance relationship – or “situationship” – then I made this for you, my loyal friend.

In it, I give you the 4 questions you should ask to figure out if it’s all worth it.

Because let’s face it, long-distance relationships are HARD. WORK. T

hey require dedication, commitment, loyalty, and a real vision for the future. Do you ever find yourself worrying if yours has what it takes? Or wondering if the person you are giving all of this mental and emotional energy to from afar is actually serious and will pay off in the end, instead of wasting your precious time? You can also check out this episode to see my “baby” brother Harry say some deeply hurtful things to me. Enjoy.

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It's finally happened...

Matt and I are back in the same room, together at last! And we're taking YOUR questions.

In this special Q&A episode, we talk:

• How to communicate when you have different expectations from a guy you're dating
• Matt's #1 secret to overcoming your deep insecurities and avoid comparing yourself to other attractive people
• Books to build your happiness
• How to keep motivation when you lose focus
• Is Los Angeles overrated? 

Hope you enjoy, and let us know your thoughts and feedback at podcast@matthewhussey.com

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I wanted to step outside of the dating conversation for this week’s new episode.

Relationship or no relationship, the quality of our lives is the quality of our emotions.

And many of us feel plagued by our emotions. Whether it’s depression, anxiety, sadness, shame, guilt, fear… we can find ourselves living in a constant state of suffering.

If you can relate to this, please listen to this before you do anything else today... I’ve had moments in my life where I was scared I’d never feel better, especially if there was a certain negative emotion that I kept returning to no matter what I tried.

It can make us feel hopeless, like we’ll never be happy no matter what we do.

If you feel stuck in a place like this, please take a few minutes to hear what I have to say in this podcast.

It’s not some magic pill, it’s a real approach that will relieve the tension you feel inside right now. Don’t lose hope. We’ve got this. I promise you. I love you, friend.

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I get SO many questions about standards in early-stage dating every week...

How do you set standards?

How do you know if your standards are too high, too low, or are scaring people away?

How do you communicate your standards in a kind and honest way? What if all of my standards are fulfilled by someone except one important one?

To answer some of these questions, this week I take a real woman’s story and give 3 practical techniques for solving it that I think you’re going to find really valuable.

If you struggle too much inside your head when you like someone, especially if it doesn’t feel like it’s quite going your way, this episode is going to help you make sense of things…

Also, we are finishing this year with a bang.

As you know, I just released my brand new program The Momentum Texts (thank you to all of you who got your copy, and for the incredible early feedback).

Well, to add one more surprise, at the end of this new episode I announce something many of you have been waiting for in the last few weeks. I’ll see you there to tell you about it.

Get your copy of Matt's brand new program, out TODAY! 

"The Momentum Texts: 67 Counter-Intuitive Texts That Lead To REAL Relationships"

Click here to download > > > MomentumTexts.com

(Grab your copy before midnight on Saturday November 21st PT and you'll also get our free audio coaching bonus!)

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In this episode, I'm going to give you a sneak peek behind the curtain of our new program and share 3 key text messages for different stages of a relationships to create intrigue, sexual tension, assert your standards, and keep the conversation going! 

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I’ll keep this short, because I really want you to just get to the new episode and start listening.

This is one of the coolest and most informative episodes I’ve ever made about how to create and sustain attraction in early dating...

I talk about the 5 texting mistakes that kill attraction, and how to avoid them.

If you’re sick of the lack of progression in early stage dating...

If you’re tired of things never actually going anywhere…

And you’re wondering what simple things you could be doing differently to change that… This episode is for you. Can’t wait to hear what you think.

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P.S. Get on the early-bird list for my brand new program at MomentumTexts.com

This is my BRAND NEW texting program that's the price of two cups of coffee (one cup if it's somewhere fancy!)

Can't wait for you to dig in and learn all the secrets of keeping attraction through texting and connecting through your messages. Go check it out!

Have you ever wondered what the right amount of effort to put in with a guy is?

Should you let him know you’d like to go on a date with him?

And what about after the date… Should you let him know you’d like to see him again if you felt the date went well but he’s not being proactive about setting up another one?

Where is the line between showing a guy you like him, and chasing someone who’s simply not that interested? It can be tricky.

But I want to make it simple.

You may have heard me say, “Invest in those who invest in you.”

But that could leave you wondering to yourself: “Fine Matthew, but so often that means I’m doing nothing because no one is investing in me! And doesn’t someone need to take the first step to invest something if anything is ever going to happen?” It’s a valid point. I’ll show you exactly how to solve this at the end of this episode, so make sure you listen all the way through!

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Lockdown is back (for some of us).

And if there ever was a year for online dating, 2020 is the biggest opportunity there will ever be to do it. 

In this episode, we talk:

– What makes you stand out in a dating profile

- Annoying turn-offs to avoid

- Why you STILL shouldn't want to try to compete with everyone else

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Is there a spooky presence lurking around you?

Do you have a “ghost” in your love life? Are you the victim of a “haunting”? Is there a “zombie,” back from the dating-dead, knocking at your door all of a sudden?

Are you like me and had to look up at least two of these three 2020 dating terms that have been created by twenty-something writers at magazine websites?

I made a Halloween-themed episode about these – apparently new – dating phenomena. I tell you practically what you should do about each of them, and, most importantly, I simplify this whole convoluted, ridiculous mess.

Basically, if you’ve got someone in your life who’s either treated you carelessly or simply not investing, this episode will tell you what to do.

May my voice of reason forever haunt you in your dreams...;)

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Are you seeing someone who won’t commit but who doesn’t let you move on either?

You’re about to hear a phone call between me and a young lady who had this issue and wanted to know what was going on in his mind.

If you check out the video on my YouTube Channel also get to see me portrayed as a detective getting to the bottom of the case…

In this episode, you’ll learn about the psychology of someone who won’t commit, and what you should be doing about it if you find yourself in this situation.

Stay safe out there, my pickles.

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I’ll keep this short so you can go straight to listening to this episode.

It’s not just essential listening if you’re single right now…

It’s essential listening in the context of the year we’ve just had and how to navigate being single in it.

Life is precious.

Let’s not waste it. P.S. Please share this with any and all the single people you care about in your life.

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Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you?

Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people?

It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want.

In this episode, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening. At the end, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yourself to change this...

Learn the 2 mistakes that keep you from meeting the right person...

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Does he REALLY like you?

You may be asking yourself this question right now.

Sometimes people ask themselves this question because they want to know whether to make a move in the first place...

Other times they ask it because they want to know whether the person they are spending time with really cares or is just wasting their time.

This episode is going to help.

I give you 7 surprising and unexpected signs that someone genuinely likes you. Watch it now and see how many of the 7 things he’s doing with you...

Don’t forget to leave us a comment at podcast@matthewhussey.com! 

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I’m a big believer these days in the power of no.

What we decide to say “no” to in relationships is often as important what we say yes to.

And I’ve seen thousands of women saying yes to all the wrong things, like men who say “I’m not sure about us,” for whom they wait months and years in the self-torturing hope he’ll change his mind. I even had a woman recently say to me, “He says he’s trying to choose between me and another woman.

Should I wait for an answer? Or should I move on?” Seriously? Wait for an answer?

Screw that.

It’s time to say no to being undervalued forever. One of my favourite quotes says: “If you put a small value on yourself, rest assured the world will not raise your price.”

So if you’re still hanging on that “one guy,” I need, need, need you to hear this. It may just be the biggest wake-up call you’ll ever get...

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Ever found yourself in a situation where the person you are with is doing something that affects you negatively, only they don’t see it as a big deal?

They tell you they don’t think they’re doing anything wrong, and that you should be OK with it.

That’s what happened to the woman whose story I tell in this episode.

Her boyfriend was regularly texting a female friend he’d made only recently. Every time she got upset about it, he told her she was being unnecessarily controlling and jealous and that he wasn’t doing anything wrong. In today’s podcast, you’ll see exactly what I think she should do about this situation...

I always think one of the hardest things in a relationship is trying to figure out where we are overreacting and where we are justified. It can be maddening. If you’re wondering whether what someone is doing around you should be a deal-breaker, this will help you figure it out once and for all. Always in your corner.

P.S. The first-ever Live Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat is just around the corner. People from all over the world are signing up to join us October 16th - 18th, not just because they have always wanted to take my Retreat, but because it’s a fraction of the cost of my live Retreat (and with none of the travel and time off work!).

There may never be a better time to join the Retreat than this. Go here to book an appointment with one of my team and find out more: http://www.mhvirtualretreat.com.

Answering YOUR questions on topics including:

- what to do when a guy is acting flakey

- creating a "flirtatious energy" (and how to do it)

- how to be less insecure in a relationship

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What do you do if the person you are with comes to you telling you he wants a break?

You’re devastated, you’re scared, and every instinct in you tells you to fight for this person you care about so much. What would you say to him?

In these moments we often do exactly the opposite of what we need to.

If you’re in this situation, or you ever want to know what to do if someone says this to you again, I',m going to give you the only response you’ll ever need... 

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Do you ever worry that the chemistry will fizzle in your relationship?

Or does it seem as though the butterflies have already flown away?

Don’t worry.

This episode contains a game plan to save you...

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Have you been gaslighted before? Is it happening to you right now?

If you’re not sure what “Gaslighting” means… It’s when someone manipulates you by psychological means into doubting your own sanity.

Over time, this can have a dramatic effect on our self-esteem as we slowly begin to doubt ourselves until we no longer trust our own instincts.

It’s nasty.

f you’ve ever expressed your needs to someone or tried to tell them about something they did that hurt you and you were made to feel crazy, this message is for you.

It’s a horrible feeling when we are upset or anxious and we don’t even know if what we are saying is reasonable or whether we are overreacting… that’s why I’m so excited for you to listen to this episode.

It’s going to bring you a sense of peace and calm again... I’ve got your back, friend.

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Question: What’s the #1 secret to powerful, seductive flirting?

For some people, that’s a silly question. “Flirting is simple,” they’ll say. “It’s just something you do when you like someone.”

And yet, in my 10 years of learning about attraction, I’ve seen so many make the same mistakes. They try to talk to that cute guy at the party, the conversation fizzles out, and they’re left scratching their heads wondering, “Am I being too keen? Too aggressive? Am I just boring?” But I understand. Knowing what men/women want when it comes to flirting can feel massively confusing. In fact, I’ve never seen flirting skills broken down in a useful way – so today I’m going to reveal the ultimate flirting formula. (Trust me, you won’t want to miss this).

It's time to finally make this confusing topic clear...

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Maybe you’ve always been afraid of rejection. Maybe there was a specific moment in your past where you experienced a devastating rejection that has left you fearing getting hurt again ever since.

The problem with the fear of rejection is that it still hurts even when we are not getting rejected.

I was taught by my boxing trainer, Martin Snow, that the worst punch you get is the one you never actually get hit with. It’s the one you think about and fear in your mind. That means that even without literally being rejected, we experience the pain by imagining it over and over again.

On top of that, we beat ourselves up for all the things we are missing out on as a result of our fear: potential partners, opportunities, experiences, adventures, and most importantly – our full potential.

Fear of rejection is one of the most human things in the world. We all experience it. But how can we learn to manage it, live with it, and even occasionally, overcome it? I know you’ve been dealt some really unfair situations. I know that sometimes it feels like we can’t take anymore pain. But life is short... I’m with you, friend.

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You watch the cliché rom-coms and sitcoms.

They tell you to be witty, urbane, “sassy”, sophisticated. And that’s what everyone wants to portray on their profile on Bumble, Tinder, Hinge, Grab-a-mate, Blah-bar (Ok, I made up those last two up).

What hardly anyone does in conversation pay an actual memorable compliment.

And this doesn’t just for for online dating. It’s also lacking in many flesh-and-blood conversations. Both men and women defer to trying to look impressive (through their career, fancy degree, social status) instead of making a real connection.

One reason we avoid being genuine in our compliments is because we’re scared to put ourselves on the line. And yet, there is this weird phenomenon: we tend to like people who actually see something special about us.

If you agree and want some practical advice on being memorable in other people's eyes, listen to this episode...

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Ah yeeeeah, it’s that time, friend… a brand new spicy epsiode for you.

This one is about compliments, and there’s some really interesting psychology in it about the compliments you can give to a person to create deep attraction between the two of you.

One of them works for when you first message someone on an app…

The 2nd one is great for when you are meeting someone in person…

The 3rd one is for someone you already know and want to build more attraction with.

This episode is super practical. Take a few minutes to watch it, then use one of these compliments today. If you’re not going to use one of them, you’re not allowed to listen to it. OK? Don’t listen to this episode then NOT use one of them, because I’LL KNOW. ;)

Hope you’re having a great day, you beautiful human.

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If you've ever worried about having the "awkward" conversation, answering the booty call text, or speaking out for your needs, this is for you! 

It's time to start being ok with being weird...

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I can’t tell you how many times a week someone online says to me: “Matthew, I’ve had enough. I’m just going to give up on dating altogether.”

It may be because they are sick of getting their heart broken. It may be that they are exhausted from going on dates that don’t go anywhere, or online conversations that never even get to the point of a date in the first place.

It could be the frustration of never meeting people they have true chemistry with, or when they finally do, discovering that they aren’t looking for a relationship.

If you feel any of these things, I made this for you.

If you feel you’re close to giving up on this area of your life, I have no righteous ground to take in telling you you’re wrong. I completely understand it. It is unbelievably frustrating, especially when you want nothing more than to just get on with sharing your life with that special person instead of more time passing without them in it. You’re not weak or crazy for feeling the way you do, so give yourself a break. But before you give up, just do me one favor – listen to this podcast today.

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It’s hard to find love when you don’t feel loveable yourself.

When you know you’ve made a ton of mistakes. Or you’ve internalized the idea that you’re just not a likeable person.

It becomes a self-perpetuating cycle: “I don’t like myself, so why should anyone else like me?” Then we feel lonely, beat ourselves up, feel like a failure, and like ourselves even less than before. We retreat more and more into our shell and lose that “spark” that makes us attractive to someone else as a potential partner

This is exhausting. It’s unfair. And it doesn’t do justice to who you really are on the inside and everything you have to give to the world.

It’s an overwhelming step to think about how to suddenly become supremely confident. So let’s do something more modest today.

In this episode, I want to share a small thing you can start doing today to get back your self-esteem and begin to reclaim your core confidence...

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Are you hurting?

Is that hurt leading to overthinking? Rumination? A downward spiral of negative self-talk?

Do you feel trapped inside your own head, desperate for some relief, and anxious for the time to come when you will finally feel better?

If so, this is required listening.

To do something special for my Love.Life members, I invited the one and only Guy Winch (@GuyWinch) on for a special hour to help people overcome pain and hurt.

Guy Winch is one of the world’s foremost experts on dealing with heartbreak and “emotional first-aid.”

This episode is a special moment taken from that hour where Guy talks about how to deal with moments of terrible pain in a productive and healthy way.

As Rainer Maria Rilke said: “No feeling is final.” If you’re hurting right now, it’s going to get better. I promise. One step at a time.

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Including:

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• What "red flags" to look for early on
• How to be (healthily skeptical) before diving into romance
• How to move on after heartbreak

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I talk a lot about letting go of the wrong person.

But how do you know if someone is the wrong person? What are the red flags? How can you tell if someone is serious or just stringing you along so that you don’t waste your time?

This episode solves that problem for you.

In this podcast, I add a distinction that I’ve never said before and I don’t think you will have ever thought about… Let me know what you think once you’ve heard it, friend.

Much love.

P.S. For all the sh*t you’re going through right now that others don’t know about, I love you and I’m with you.

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You have to help me.

I believe there isn’t a woman (person) alive who doesn’t need to hear this message at least once in her lifetime.

I know, that’s a bold statement.

But when you see it, you’ll know why.

My work is about more than dating. It’s about time. Time = Life.

And this podcast is designed to save your precious time. It's all about what “it’s complicated” really means. If you’re in a situation with a man that gives you far less than you want or deserve, this is the most important thing you could do with your time today.

And I rarely ask this, but please do more than listen to this. Share it with every woman you know. I have spent over a decade working with women in their love lives. I’d go as far as to say no one has been witness to more women throwing away their precious time on the wrong situations than me.

My No.1 objective is for this episode to help you get brave enough to say “enough is enough” in your own life. My 2nd objective is for you to help me save the lives of other women – your friends, your sisters, your mum, your daughters… anyone you care about.

People don’t always have the wake up call on their own. Sometimes they need our help.

No more wasting time. I know it’s hard, but I’m with you. I’m in your corner, always.

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I still remember every heartbreak I’ve ever had.

If I try I can still bring back the agony of those months after a relationship ended, wondering if I was ever going to feel better and get back to my normal self.

When you’re feeling that pain of losing someone, food doesn’t taste good. TV shows depress you. Your favourite places feel cursed because they bring back bittersweet memories.

But there is a secret to emotionally recovering from a breakup, one that is shockingly simple but so crucial that if you forget to do it, you will inadvertently DOUBLE the amount of time it takes to get over your ex. See, most of us make bad decisions in a breakup. We drink to numb the pain, we have one-night stands with people we don’t care about, or we eat ourselves into oblivion with junk food.

It sucks now, I know. But it will get better, trust me.... 

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Ever sat ruminating obsessively over something you could have or should have done differently in your relationship? Something you said, something you did, or something you wish you’d have done more?

It’s a dreadful, sickening feeling.

I know because I’ve felt it.

It leads to regret, anxiety, self-loathing… not to mention a lack of appetite and insomnia.

We turn over every memory, imagining where we could have been with that person had we just behaved differently. And this feeling isn’t limited to situations that have ended.

Sometimes we are still seeing someone but we have this crippling anxiety over having irreversibly damaged the relationship.

We feel we’ve created a perception of ourselves in that person’s eyes that we can’t now undo.

If for any of these reasons you are currently torturing yourself, this episode will be life-saving for you today. Trust me when I say it is essential.

I break down for you why you don’t need to be wallowing in pain, and why, despite everything that destructive voice inside is saying, you actually have reason to feel good today.

Please also share this with someone you know who may be beating herself up right now.

Life’s too short for any of us to suffer needlessly. I’m with you, friend. You’re loved. 

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I can’t tell you how many people I’ve coached who can’t let go of the past.

Women who are still hating themselves for dating the wrong guy for so many years.

Women who feel they’ve wasted their career so far. Women who still let an old family trauma affect their mood every... single... day.

I know these things are hard.

Believe me, I’m not pretending these are small problems.

But if you want to know how to break free, let go of your baggage, and feel 100% more empowered, please, please make sure you hear this message.

I’m going to share a mind-blowing story that will show how you can turn even the worst tragedies into a beautiful future... 

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Are the most attractive people always the most confident? Is insecurity always an attraction-killer, or is it more important to own your flaws?

In today's episode Matt gives his take on the topic of insecurity and reveals the difference between flawed vs. being weak.  

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There are many dangerous qualities of a toxic person, but the worst one of all may be their deceptiveness.

They can be so subtle in their manipulation, you may not even realize what they’re doing to you, until you’re in too deep and they’ve completely eroded your confidence.

I want you to have the awareness to SEE this behaviour for what it is and give you the strength to walk away so you never have to worry about those people again.

In today’s podcast, I take you through the 5 signs you’re dating a toxic person so you know exactly what to watch out for…

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What keeps relationships together? And what tears them apart?

I've always been obsessed with looking at patterns of those in happy couples.

Today, we share some research into a single behaviour that can make all the difference...

Let us know your thoughts. Send us an email at podcast@matthewhussey.com! 

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Have you ever been hurt badly by someone in love? Those wounds can stay with us a long time.

They can stop us from taking chances again in love.

They can make us afraid of getting close to someone again…

Afraid of being vulnerable again…

Afraid of letting someone in…

Because if the result of letting our guard down and choosing to love someone is that we give up all of our power, then why bother, right?

Sure, we may be giving up the special experience of being in love, but at least we don’t have to experience those dreadful lows. If you can relate to this, today’s episode is for you.

You’ll hear me doing a live demonstration with someone who is going through exactly this issue. And what I tell her may be exactly the words you need to hear right now.

This isn’t isn’t a pep talk.

It’s a rational, practical strategy for how to navigate your love life after someone has hurt you, or broken your heart or your trust (or all 3).

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Has this ever happened to you?

You’re on a first date... and...

He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry…

But at the end of the night… he doesn’t ask for a second date (nevermind a third or fourth).

If this has happened to you (or keeps happening), you’re likely missing one of the two essential things that makes him reach across the table and say: “I’d really like to see you again.”

In this podcast, I tell you EXACTLY what to say so that he’ll ask you out again (and again, and again)...

You might be surprised at how simple this is AND how often you’re skipping this step when you’re inter