Java with Juli

By Dr. Juli Slattery and Authentic Intimacy®

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Subscribers: 295
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Stephanie
 Apr 18, 2021
This is my #1 podcast and I don't miss it. Dr. Juli brings truth and grace together in absolute synergy.

Tracy
 Sep 25, 2019
This is my definition of timely and relevant! Juli is clearly called and equipped to lead us out of the woods and into a wide open place, to talk, heal, learn, and find authentic FREEDOM. Together, we are bringing the "conversation" into the light where Truth can untangle this twisted mess.

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“Java with Juli” features fresh, relevant and gospel-centered conversations about our sexuality. Dr. Juli Slattery dives into the “taboo” questions you’re afraid to ask—or don’t know who to ask—about intimacy, marriage, singleness, sexual addiction, and more. Every episode is an invitation to a biblical look at the good, the hard, the healing, and the holy in God’s design for sexuality.

Episode Date
#422: How to Care for Both Women and Children in the Wake of the Dobbs Decision
51:40

Do you know that God’s heart is for both women AND their unborn children, and can't figure out where you fit in the pro-life/pro-choice divide? Juli’s guest offers a third option: “When Jesus was confronted with two conflicting ideas, He always pointed out that neither offered the complete picture and instead gave a third, Kingdom response.”

Guest: Angie Weszely, ProGrace

Show notes:

Jun 27, 2022
#421: "God, Sex, and Your Marriage" Q&A with Juli Slattery
42:25

You're starting to see how sexual intimacy is a reflection of covenant love. But what does that actually look like in your sex life...

When you can't experience orgasm?

When your spouse has no sexual desire?

When your spouse has had an affair?

Juli and Hannah tackle the REAL questions we've received from men and women just like you.

 

Co-host: Hannah Nitz

Show notes:

Other recommended resources:

 

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Jun 20, 2022
#420: Bonus! What Redemption and Sexual Intimacy Look Like in Real Life
49:58

Sex was nothing like what they were told it was going to be. She felt pain. He felt guilt. Together, they're on a journey toward wholeness. Join us to hear what redemption and sexual intimacy look like in real life.    

Guests: Cory & Keyla Morgan

Jun 16, 2022
#419: Why Sexual Intimacy is About So Much More Than Just Having Sex
49:26

Are you working from the wrong understanding of what makes a great sex life? Find out in this conversation from Juli's new book God, Sex, and Your Marriage.

"Sometimes we’re so focused on sexual activity, that we walk right past the opportunity to develop intimacy."– Juli Slattery 

Guest: Hannah Nitz

Show notes:

God, Sex, and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery*

Register for our FREE Live Q&A and Book Giveaway!

Hannah's podcast, There's More

Introduce the show! Tell us how you take your Java with Juli

 

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Jun 13, 2022
#418: What Is Sexual Intimacy Supposed to Look Like In Marriage?
43:34

Imagine that you and your spouse are building a jigsaw puzzle, but you don’t know what the picture on the front of the box looks like. Now imagine that you have different ideas of what the picture should look like, and neither one of you have the right picture. This is how many Christian couples experience the “gift” of sex.

Guest: Hannah Nitz

Show notes:

God, Sex, and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery*

Register for our FREE Live Q&A and Book Giveaway!

Hannah's podcast, There's More

 

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Jun 06, 2022
Juli's New Book "God, Sex, & Your Marriage" Is Out Next Week!
06:17

Grab a quick java with Juli & Hannah to hear all about what's coming up next month with "God, Sex, and Your Marriage." ps. It's not just for married people!

Guest: Hannah Nitz

Show Notes:

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May 30, 2022
#417: Authentic Intimacy: The Ministry That Almost Didn't Make It
59:23

A close-up, behind-the-scenes look at how the ministry almost closed it's doors (more than once) and the amazing things God has done. We're celebrating 10 years!

Guests: Linda Dillow, Tim Sisarich, Hannah Nitz, Ginger Taddeo and Mike Slattery

Show notes:

Special thanks to the team at Right Turn Media for engineering this episode.

May 23, 2022
#214: Answers To Your Questions About Sex, with Dr. Juli Slattery & Linda Dillow
38:51

Is it “dirty” to dress up for your husband in the bedroom?  Is it wrong to masturbate if your husband can’t have sex? What if your spouse asks you to do something that makes you uncomfortable?  Dr. Juli Slattery and Linda Dillow answer your questions from our Authentic Intimacy inbox.

Guests:  Linda Dillow & Yvette Maher

Show notes:

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Join a Passion Pursuit online book study—starts June 7!

Java #312: Born Again This Way: Rachel's Story

May 16, 2022
#416: How God Uses Heartache to Prepare You for Your True Calling
52:05

Dr. Dan Allender joins Juli to share about Redeeming Heartache—a new book and tool (think Enneagram or DISC) to help you identify trauma and old wounds and move toward healing and connection with God and others. You’re invited to look closely at your own story and see how God can redeem every part of your journey.

Guests: Dr. Dan Allender & Cathy Loerzel

Show notes:

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May 09, 2022
#415: How To Encourage and Celebrate the Single Mom in Your Life
47:09

God's promise of provision for the single mom is also a call to body of Christ. In this episode, Michelle Donnelly from PlusONE Parenting shares her story of overcoming loss and shame, finding healing, and how God showed her that she wasn't really alone. She'll share the helpful (and not so helpful) things that you can do to walk alongside and bless a single parent today.

Guest: Michelle Donnelly

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May 05, 2022
#414: Good Marriages Often Get Off to a Rocky Start (& Why It's OK)
44:48

Ray and Robyn McKelvy, now married over 30 years, join Juli to share their story of fear, doubts, and learning to trust; and how God used it all to help them build true, authentic intimacy.

Guests: Ray and Robyn McKelvy

Show notes:

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May 02, 2022
#413: The Perfect Parent Is The One Who Knows They Need Jesus
48:52

Dave and Ann Wilson get real about the messiness of parenting. They'll share how they learned to bring others around them, to learn from their own mistakes, and how to keep the long-game perspective when it comes to your kids and their faith. If you're not a perfect parent, you'll be in good company.

Guests: Dave & Ann Wilson

Show Notes:

Open the show! Tell us how you take your Java.

God, Sex, and Your Marriage - join the launch team!

No Perfect Parents by Dave & Ann Wilson*

Parenting Through Weakness (Juli's blog)

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Apr 25, 2022
#412: Is There a Better Way To Read the Bible?
53:31

Juli shares one of her favorite new podcasts—the BEMA Discipleship Podcast. The OT writers weren't just telling stories, they were burying truth. They believed the most effective way to learn truth was to discover it—like a treasure hidden in a field.  Join Juli and BEMA host Marty Solomon to learn how to find the treasure you've been reading past all these years!

Guest: Marty Solomon

Show notes:

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Apr 17, 2022
#337: Questions You're Too Embarrassed to Ask About Sex
45:40

To celebrate the life of Dr. Doug Rosenau, we're re-releasing this candid conversation he and Juli had about the difference between having sex and making love, making erotic memories with your spouse, giving language to your sexual desire and mood, and putting the creativity back into your lovemaking.

Dr. Doug entered eternity with Christ on April 10, 2022. We're grateful for his work that impacted so many marriages and tor the lives his legacy will continue to touch.

Guest: Dr. Doug Rosenau

Show notes:

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Apr 14, 2022
#411: The Unlikely Means God Uses To Bring Beauty From Ashes
54:09

Curt Thompson joins Juli to share the unlikely (often unwelcome) means that God uses to heal us. Join them to discover the power of being fully known and seen—you're going to want to listen to this one more than once!

"One of the reasons we want to make the jump from one marriage to another, from one form of sexuality to another, is because we have not had the experience of having our grief be seen."

Guest: Dr. Curt Thompson

Show notes:

 

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Apr 11, 2022
#410: Sexual Abuse in Marriage and How To Help a Hurting Wife
40:32

Sexual abuse in marriage... wait. What? Doesn't the Bible say that a spouse "has authority" over the other's body? Let's talk practically about what sexual abuse in marriage looks like so we can get women (and men) the help they need.

Guest: Darby Strickland

Show notes:

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Apr 04, 2022
#409: Divorce & Remarriage (Abuse, Infidelity, Porn & All the Hard Things)
50:11

What exactly does "sexual immorality" include? Am I free to remarry? What about abuse? God's word is clear on marriage; but some of us are a little fuzzy on the divorce and remarriage part. Juli and her guest get practical as they consider the complexity of real-life situations as well as the truth and clarity we find in God's word.

Guest: Mike Winger

Show notes:

Bible Thinker (YouTube Channel)

Divorce & Remarriage: EVERYTHING the Bible says about it. (Mike Winger's video)

6 Thoughts to Help You Discern Truth & Give Grace (Juli's blog)

Java #166: We Are All Sexually Broken

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Introduce the show! How do you take your Java?

Mar 28, 2022
#408: Science Offers Kids a Powerful Reason To Say No to Porn
42:40

If teens understood the significant impact of porn on their brains,, would it help them resist? Decades of studies from respected institutions echo God's design: we're made for connection with people, not screens.

Guest: Brian Goins

Show notes:

"Brain, Heart, World" docuseries*

"When Your Kids Look at Porn" (Juli's blog)

Sexual Discipleship Open House - Invite Your Leader! April 5, 12:30pm EST

Introduce the show!  How Do You Take Your Java?

* Any person or family can watch the docuseries "Brain, Heart, World" online for free, but if you want a public license to show at church, school or community, Brian Goins can provide 10% off with the code: CATAPULT.

Mar 21, 2022
#407: Masturbation: The No. 1 Question You're Asking Us!
31:27

There's more to the masturbation conversation than simply "right" or "wrong." Could it be an issue of spiritual maturity for some of us—whether married or single? Can it be used in a healthy way in marriage? Join us to have your thinking challenged!

Guest: Hannah Nitz

Show notes:

Join a Spring online book study!

Masturbation: Is It Wrong? (en Espanol) (Juli's blog)

What's OK in the Bedroom? (Juli's blog)

Is Masturbation a Sin? You May Be Asking the Wrong Question   (Juli's blog)

Q&A: How do I talk to my kids about masturbation?

There's More Podcast (connect with Hannah!)

 

Mar 14, 2022
#406: Every Couple Has a Sexual Dance. What Does Yours Say About You?
01:03:11
Sex therapist Dr. Mike Sytsma says that when a couple tells him how they kiss or how they make love, he can tell them how they interact in other areas too. Every couple has a dance‍‍–we dance around our wounds and insecurities, both inside and outside the bedroom. Don't believe it? Listen in!

Guest: Dr. Michael Sytsma

Show notes:

Sexual Desire in Marriage (teaching series by Dr. Michael Sytsma)

Building Intimate Marriages

5 Things You Need to Know About Women, Orgasm & Intimacy (Juli's blog)

Watch Juli's 3-part video series, Why God Cares About Your Sexuality. Not an AI member? Watch the first video free.

Mar 07, 2022
#405: How To Be Broken and Used by God (At the Same Time)
48:26

Juli unpacks what Sexual Discipleship® looks like and Cory Morgan shares how his own brokenness became an opportunity to bring others alongside him on the journey toward sexual integrity.

Co-host: Cory Morgan

Ask Juli your questions at the "Making Sense of God & Sex" webinar and live Q&A. We're giving away 6 books, but you have to participate live!

Watch Juli's 3-part video series, Why God Cares About Your Sexuality. Not an AI member? Watch the first video free.

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Feb 28, 2022
#404: How To Help Your Kids Think About Sex From a Christian Worldview
58:01

The co-author of "Mama Bear Apologetics Guide to Sexuality" joins Juli for the sixth episode in the "Making Sense of God & Sex" series.

Guest: Hillary Morgan Ferrer

Ask Juli your questions at the Making Sense of God & Sex webinar.

Watch Juli's 3-part video series, Why God Cares About Your Sexuality. Not an AI member? Watch the first video free.

"Mama Bear Apologetics Guide to Sexuality" by Hillary Ferrer & Amy Davison*

mamabearapologetics.com

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Feb 24, 2022
#403: How Do I Reconcile God's Goodness with Sexual Pain & Injustice?
48:45

Join Juli for a conversation about the important roles that sexuality and justice have in shaping this generation's thoughts on God, and how to reconcile the pain of sexual abuse with faith in a loving God.

Guest: Lou Phillips

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Feb 21, 2022
#402: If God Made My Body "Good," Why Does It Cause So Much Pain?
45:33

Author and apologist Sam Allberry shares how we can reconcile the goodness of our bodies (which are created by God) with the shame and pain we often feel about the ways we’ve misused them—or the way they've been misused by others.

Guest: Sam Allberry

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Feb 17, 2022
#401: Why "Love is Love" Doesn't Mean What You Think It Means
01:12:42

Black Lives Matter. Love is love. Women’s rights are human rights. A thread of truth—truth deeply rooted in Christianity—runs through these claims. How do you champion biblical truth while (lovingly) rejecting the lies that our culture has packaged with it? Juli and her guests gather to help you do just that.  

“…Christianity is the original source and firmest foundation for true diversity, equality, and life-transforming love.”  Rebecca McLaughlin

Guests: Rebecca McLaughlin & Rachel Gilson

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Feb 14, 2022