Being Well with Dr. Rick Hanson

By Rick Hanson, Ph.D., Forrest Hanson

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Dr. Rick Hanson and Forrest Hanson explore the practical science of lasting well-being, and teach you how to build reliable inner strengths, overcome your challenges, and get the most out of life. New conversations every Monday.

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Working with Anger: Costs and Benefits, Repression, and the "Empty Boat"
00:51:49

Anger is one of the most complex, demanding, and difficult emotions we deal with on a regular basis, in part because it has both many costs and many uses. It burdens our bodies, relationships, and the world around us. And at the same time, there is a vital energy associated with anger that is extremely powerful and, when harnessed effectively, quite useful.

On this episode of Being Well, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore the varied ways anger surfaces, how we can relate to it, and how in recognizing what it has to tell us we can channel its energy towards good ends.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:10: Framing anger relative to other emotions

6:15: The three poisons

12:20: Useful aspects of anger and issues with labeling it as bad

22:45: Repression and not downregulating others’ emotions

28:30: Treating anger with respect rather than fear

30:15: What supports us in healthily claiming anger?

38:00: Characteristics that can predispose people to be angry

39:40: The Empty Boat and recognizing anger as an affliction against onesself

43:10: Recap

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May 23, 2022
Increasing Self-Awareness: The Key to Personal Growth
01:05:40

Self-awareness is both one of the most important skills for a person to have, and one of the most challenging to develop. In this episode of Being Well, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore what it takes to increase self-awareness over time, the different forms of awareness that come into play, and why maintaining self-awareness can be such a struggle. Rick then emphasizes how we can develop a greater awareness of the positive aspects of ourselves. 

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

1:45: Rick’s observations of people’s self-awareness when beginning therapy 

6:10: Distinguishing internal and external self-awareness

7:40: Different types of internal self-awareness

12:20: Why is it hard to become self-aware?

18:45: Positive discoveries and Forrest’s personal experience

29:05: The natural movement toward health and sanity

33:35: What causes us to lose touch with positive aspects of our nature?

42:45: How can we cultivate more self-awareness over time?

49:45: Questions to ask yourself

54:50: A creative exercise for mapping out parts of yourself

58:10: Recap

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May 16, 2022
Changing Old Patterns, Self-Awareness, and Repairing Family Relationships: Mailbag
00:56:05

Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson open up the mailbag to explore a variety of listener questions. They talk about what causes our brains to become attached to unwanted habits, how to know which of your thoughts are worth listening to, and the pros and cons of saying "kind of." They then consider how to improve sibling relationships, and what to do with the positive emotions we experience during meditation.


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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

1:45: Why do our brains keep us stuck on unwanted patterns or ways of thinking?

10:45: Three kinds of craving and the machinery of becoming

13:50: Why do we say “kind of” all the time?

25:50: How do you know which of your thoughts are worth listening to?

31:15: How do you improve a sibling relationship?

40:35: What do you do with positive emotions during meditation?

48:40: Recap

Wednesday Night Meditation with Rick: https://www.rickhanson.net/teaching/wednesday-meditations-with-dr-rick-hanson/

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May 09, 2022
Maximize Your Motivation: Dopamine, Discipline, and Accepting Our Nature
01:02:05

We all have things we want to accomplish in life, but having goals or knowing we should be doing something is often not nearly enough to get us to actually sustain our efforts in getting where we want to go.

Today on Being Well, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore how to optimize our motivation. They discuss the brain's dopamine system, and distinguish motivation from discipline and liking from wanting. They then explore how we can align the brain's underlying biological circuitry with our desires, so we can stay relaxed and engaged while achieving our goals.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:05: Motivation vs. Discipline

5:30: Why don't we just want the things we know are good for us?

11:00: Creating unity between our biology and cognitive processing

15:50: Dopamine: An Overview

21:30: Distinguishing liking from wanting

25:35: Natural variations in dopamine metabolism

28:55: How people with lower levels of dopamine can stay motivated

33:35: Updating the reward value of your experiences

37:20: Being, doing, and having

43:05: What has helped Rick stay diligent and let go of resistance

46:40: Practical how-tos for interacting with the dopaminergic system 

50:35: Letting fish be fish

52:30: Recap

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May 02, 2022
Preventing Secondary Trauma and Compassion Fatigue with Laura van Dernoot Lipsky
00:50:46

With so much suffering going on in the world that’s worthy of our compassion and engagement, it’s easy to become overwhelmed by it even as we have the desire to remain engaged. Secondary traumatic stress is the stress we are exposed to when we interact with other people’s stress, and it manifests at both an individual and societal level. When not managed effectively, it wears us down and diminishes our ability to contribute in a positive way.

On this episode of Being Well, Forrest talks with trauma expert Laura van Dernoot Lipsy about how we can better manage secondary traumatic stress, how to avoid burnout and overwhelm, and what it looks like to stay hopeful and live fully in the face of daunting societal challenges.

About Our Guest: Laura van Dernoot Lipsky is the founder and director of The Trauma Stewardship Institute and author of Trauma Stewardship: An Everyday Guide to Caring for Self While Caring for Others and The Age of Overwhelm. She is a widely recognized pioneer in the field of trauma exposure and has worked locally, nationally, and internationally for more than three decades.  Laura is also the host of Future Tripping, a podcast about navigating overwhelm.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

1:35: Laura’s personal experience

4:10: How secondary trauma shows up for people

6:45: Martyrdom and the responsibility of organizations to create sustainable environments

10:30: Concern with how trauma is normalized within communities

14:10: Internalized oppression and overwhelm in the broader culture

17:40: The broader systemic context and the ineffectiveness of burning yourself out

21:50: The necessity of taking breaks

26:40: How to feel okay taking time to unplug from discourse on charged topics

33:35: Differentiating between spheres of control and acknowledging grief

37:45: Finding ways to stay hopeful

40:35: What Laura is grateful for and stressed about

44:35: Recap

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Apr 25, 2022
Rumination: How to Disrupt Obsessive Thoughts
01:00:59

It’s normal and healthy for us to try to process our experiences emotionally, but sometimes during that process we find ourselves getting stuck on the same painful memory, anxiety, or disturbing thought. This frustrating experience, known as rumination, is a common psychological challenge that is both discouraging and unhelpful.

On this episode of Being Well, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson spell out what rumination is, where it comes from, and how it functions in the brain. They then explore what practices and strategies we can use to identify rumination when it comes up, and move through an obsessive thought compassionately and effectively.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:25: How do we define rumination?

7:45: What do we get out of rumination?

13:30: Distinguishing rumination from grieving

16:30: Where rumination comes from in people

18:40: The default mode network

22:30: Ways to disengage the default mode network 

25:50: Strange attractors, Krishna, and the Gopis

30:35: Thought acceptance and noting

33:15: Recurring themes of your rumination

37:10: Novelty

38:45: Self-constructing invites rumination, self-acceptance undermines it

47:05: A quick walkthrough for dealing with a negative thought

53:00: Recap

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Apr 18, 2022
Navigating Modern Dating with Logan Ury
00:57:00

We’ve spent a lot of time on the podcast exploring how we can improve our skills in romantic relationships, but for many people one of the most difficult parts of a relationship is getting into one in the first place. 

On this episode, Forrest talks with Logan Ury, Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge, about the psychology of dating. They explore chemistry, romance, apps, and how to reframe our self-limiting tendencies so we can find love that is fulfilling and brings out the best in us.

About our Guest: Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach, and the author of  How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. She is the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge, and former head of Google’s behavioral science team the Irrational Lab.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction  

1:40: Why is modern dating so hard?

4:15: Romanticism

6:20: Being in a relationship for self-actualization

8:25: Romanticizers, Maximizers, and Hesitators

11:15: Reframes for the Romanticizer

14:20: What kind of shared qualities actually matter?

19:25: Reframes for the Maximizer

26:35: The tendency to externalize problems and avoid vulnerability

32:25: Reframes for the Hesitator

36:50: Information vs. emotion - appreciation for romance

41:05: Bids, and turning towards

43:05: What other things do people tend to underestimate in relationships?

47:20: The aspect of you that is brought out by your partner

48:45: How to use apps in more effective ways

51:00: Recap

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Apr 11, 2022
Understand and Manage Stress: Causes, Biological Basis, and Increasing Resilience
01:04:15

On this episode, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson take a deep dive into defining stress, how it functions, how it impacts our lives and bodies, and what we can do to repair from its effects. 

We discuss how to distinguish stress from effort, the influence of the modern world on how stressed we feel, the various biological mechanisms involved in stress, and the challenges presented by chronic exposure to it. We then consider what we can do to increase resilience, including positively responding to stressors even in the midst of  limitations and uncertainty.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

1:50: What is stress exactly?

3:30: Distinguishing stress from effort

7:25: Circles of concern and what we can actually influence

10:15: Zebras, and different levels of allostatic load

15:30: How the Endocrine System and Nervous System respond to stress

21:45: The amygdala response

23:20: What are the costs of stress?

35:30: The story so far

36:25: How do we positively adapt to stress?

41:35: The influence of basic lifestyle factors

43:50: Questions to ask yourself

45:30: Claiming agency while accepting limitations and uncertainty

51:05: What we can do to repair from the effects of our stress

57:40: Recap

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Apr 04, 2022
Use the Enneagram to Rewrite Your Story with Ian Cron
00:54:43

One of the most effective ways to change how we show up in the world is to identify and change our underlying personal narrative. On this episode, Forrest Hanson talks with Ian Cron about how we can use the Enneagram personality typing system to aid us in this process.

About our Guest: Ian Cron is a therapist, master Enneagram teacher, best-selling author of The Road Back to You and his latest The Story of You, and host of popular Enneagram podcast Typology.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

1:30: Ian’s narrative and how it has changed over time

5:45: Overview of the Enneagram and its uses

11:30: A few examples of common limiting narratives

19:10: A quick primer of how the Enneagram works and each type

26:00: How people can push back on their unconscious narratives

35:25: Cultivating awareness of how your old story is playing out in the present

37:10: Ian’s inflection point

41:30: Integration and levels of development

43:15: The link between your virtue and your fixation

49:00: Recap

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Mar 28, 2022
Hedonic Adaptation: Causes, Critiques, and How to Stay Happy
00:58:18

We’ve talked on this show about lots of ways we can be happier over time, but one of the hardest things to do is to STAY happy as the events of life wash over us. On today’s episode of Being Well, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore "hedonic adaptation" - our tendency to return to a stable baseline of happiness - and discuss how we can get off the "hedonic treadmill." 

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:25: What is hedonic adaptation?

6:25: Three factors of happiness

9:45: Survey of various research on hedonic adaptation and subjective well-being

19:55: Financial circumstances and relationships

27:35: How to sustain happiness - loving, knowing, growing

38:15: The single most effective intervention to fight hedonic adaptation

41:30: Forrest’s take on how lasting change happens

45:00: Antidote experiences and improving memory

47:50: Can we actually become happier?

51:00: Recap

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Mar 21, 2022
The Science of "Self" with Dr. Jud Brewer
01:16:05

One of the underlying threads that runs through many of our conversations on Being Well is our relationship with our “self”. On this episode, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson talk with neuroscientist, mindfulness researcher, and bestselling author Dr. Jud Brewer about where we can find the “self” in the brain, and the benefits of relaxing our attachment to it.

About our Guest: Dr. Jud Brewer is the Director of Research and Innovation at the Mindfulness Center and associate professor in Behavioral and Social Sciences at the School of Public Health and Psychiatry at the School of Medicine at Brown University. He is the executive medical director of behavioral health at Sharecare, and a research affiliate at MIT. His bestselling books include Unwinding Anxiety and The Craving Mind.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

1:45: What is a “self”?

5:10: Distinguishing consciousness, person, and self

7:25: Can there be a unified sense of self in an everchanging psychological process?

11:50: Selfing and what triggers a sense of “me”

15:20: Evolutionary speculations about the origins of selfing

18:50: Predictive processing and personal associations

21:55: How Jud responds to selfing

28:10: The unicorn metaphor of self and relief in sensory experience

36:45: The experience of addiction and anxiety

40:50: Somatic markers and distinguishing healthy vs. unhealthy desires

41:40: Letting go vs. straining to create a self

45:40: Underlying neurological components of the self

56:30: The fluidity of awareness without self

58:30: When and how does the default mode network become functional?

1:03:00: Neuro-psychedelic research and unlearning

1:07:15: Having a self vs. taking ourselves personally

1:11:00: Recap

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Mar 14, 2022
Supporting Yourself During Difficult Times
00:59:34

The tone of this episode of Being Well is a bit different. For context, we recorded it four days after the Russian invasion of Ukraine. 

It feels like we've had more than our fair share of difficult times over the last few years. Like many people, we wish there were more we could do to support those suffering around the world. Today Dr. Rick and Forrest focus on what we can do, in our mind and in our lives, to relate to the challenging emotions – fear, grief, anxiety, anger, helplessness, and so on – that naturally arise during these times. 

The advertising revenue from this episode will be donated to charities dedicated to supporting the people of Ukraine. If you'd like to join us in donating, we’ve included links below to several charities.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

5:10: Anxiety calming exercise

12:40: Pause

18:55: Feel your feelings

23:45: Resource yourself

26:45: Compassion

29:55: Humor

32:00: Get educated

40:35: Make a plan

45:55: Move into action

52:35: Recap

Make a donation to support Ukraine via one of the charities below:

CARE's Ukraine Crisis Fund

United Help Ukraine

Global Giving Ukraine Fund

Rescue.org

A list of charities by subject for supporting the people of Ukraine.

 

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Mar 07, 2022
Coping with Failure, and Dealing with Disappointment
00:54:27

One of the most important skills we can develop is the ability to deal with disappointment and cope with failures big and small. On this episode of Being Well, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson discuss what it looks like to experience failure not as falling short, but as an opportunity for growth. They explore cultural narratives around "failure," individual variation in sensitivity, and how to manage the pain of failure, adapt expectations, and develop systems of feedback to allow for a greater sense of ease and purpose.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:00: What do we mean by failure?

5:55: How loss works in the brain and what makes us sensitive to losing

8:30: Managing expectations of success

10:30: Attributional styles

13:10: How some can handle failure with greater ease than others

22:30: Deconstructing old narratives and failure as an opportunity for learning

28:30: Managing the pain of failure and setting up feedback systems

34:20: An example from Forrest’s experience

38:20: Poor decisions, lack of foresight, losing your nerve

40:30: Willingness to take risks

45:00: Defining our notion of success and failure via process vs. outcome

48:20: Recap

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Feb 28, 2022
Standing Up for What You Believe In with Todd Kashdan
01:05:45

There’s a tension we’ve all felt at some point between the benefits of conformity and the desire to be true to ourselves and stand up for what we think is right. On today’s episode of Being Well, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson are joined by Dr. Todd Kashdan to explore how we can combine prosocial values with principled insubordination, so we can speak up for others (and ourselves) and maximize our chances of creating meaningful change even in the face of social pressure.


About Our Guest: Dr. Todd Kashdan is Professor of Psychology at George Mason University. He is a leading authority on well-being, curiosity, psychological flexibility, and resilience. He has published over 210 peer-reviewed articles, and is the author of several books including Curious? , The Upside of Your Dark Side, and most recently The Art of Insubordination: How to Dissent and Defy Effectively.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

1:45: Combining skillful positivity and dissent

7:55: Distinguishing principled insubordination and generic misanthropy

10:05: Four elements of principled insubordination

19:05: Yin and Yang applied to insubordination

21:35: Safe havens and a secure base

26:20: How capable are we of cultivating self-awareness?

32:05: Positive intent, courage, and sitting with discomfort

38:45: Strategies for being a moral and effective dissident

46:40: Navigating societal hierarchies

51:50: Process comments as insubordination

53:00: What Todd does when his kids are insubordinate

58:05: Recap

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Feb 21, 2022
The Secret to Solving Most Psychological Problems: Integration
00:57:27

We explore a lot of big ideas on this show, and alongside them a lot of specific tactics and frameworks that can support people in growing and changing for the better. This includes everything from how to get the most out of therapy, to how to deal with traumatic experiences, to how to manage a variety of psychological conditions and individual tendencies. There’s a question that underlies all of these domains: how does personal healing actually work?

On today’s episode of Being Well, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson discuss the fundamental strategies that allow us to become aware of and integrate all parts of ourselves–those we want to celebrate and expand, and those we’d like to heal and change.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

3:00: Overview of psychological patterns related to healing

7:25: Forrest’s personal journey as a case study

13:15: Rick assessing Forrest’s narrative from a psychologist’s perspective

15:45: Cognizing and other stories we tell to avoid parts of ourselves

20:40: Showing appreciation for our defenses, completing patterns

26:50: Catharsis and ways to reach it

39:15: Practical ways to reclaim and reconnect with parts of yourself

43:45: Playing with the nature of identity/ego

47:00: Self-forgiveness and celebrating what you’re good at

50:05: Recap

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Feb 14, 2022
Family Challenges, Financial Risks, and Connecting With a Wounded Inner Child: Mailbag
01:00:03

We’re incredibly lucky to have such an engaged and interested group of people listening to the podcast, and because of that we regularly receive a lot of interesting questions via email and social media (links below). On today’s episode, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson dive into a few of these questions, discussing topics such as: how to manage family relationships, principles for approaching life’s changes, and what kind of therapy Rick actually practices.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:00: Bringing up challenges with family when times are already hard.

11:25: What kind of therapy does Rick practice?

19:15: Taking financial risks to experience life vs. creating financial security

30:00: “Neurons that fire together wire together” explained

34:05: Developing a connection with your inner child/younger self if your childhood was filled with painful experiences

41:40: Managing challenges between your family and your partner

54:15: Recap

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Feb 07, 2022
Embracing Uncertainty with Kaira Jewel Lingo
00:56:01

Kaira Jewel Lingo, a former Buddhist nun at the Plum Village community under the guidance of Thich Naht Han, joins Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson to explore how we can cultivate trust and equanimity in the face of uncertainty. They discuss the somatic experience of opening to the unknown, taking action as an antidote to anxiety, and how to have equanimity both when things work out...and when they don’t.

About our Guest: Kaira Jewel Lingo is a Buddhist teacher who weaves mindfulness and meditation practice with social justice. At the age of 25, she became a Buddhist nun at the Plum Village community in France under the guidance of Thich Naht Han, where she stayed for 15 years. She became a Zen teacher in 2007, and is also a teacher in the Vipassana/Insight tradition through Spirit Rock Meditation Center. Finally, she is the author of We Were Made for These Times: Ten Lessons for Moving Through Change, Loss, and Disruption.

Recording Note: This episode was recorded before the passing of Thich Naht Han.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

1:45: Kaira Jewel’s background

2:35: Trust in times of major change

9:10: Two kinds of uncertainty

14:10: Store consciousness and trusting the unknown

18:50: Somatic contraction and expansion

23:05: Responding to the truth of suffering with joyful engagement

30:50: Practicing equanimity

42:10: Defining equanimity

43:30: How to return to center in unstable moments

48:20: Body-based equanimity exercise

50:50: Recap

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Jan 31, 2022
Creating an Abundance Mindset
01:07:29

So many forces in our brains, bodies, and culture move us toward the experience of scarcity – that something is missing, that we don’t have enough, and that we never will have enough. The feeling of scarcity both feels bad in itself, and is also the creator and amplifier of so many other challenges we face. 

On this episode of Being Well, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson talk about what a scarcity and an abundance mindset is, what some sources of scarcity are, and how we can move to an authentic experience of abundance.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:35: Defining scarcity and abundance 

6:45: Why are we biologically predisposed towards scarcity?

17:05: When to relax and expand

20:20: Scarcity at the cultural level

26:20: Critique of promoting an “abundance mindset” and a practical definition

30:45: Orienting to a sense of abundance 

38:05: Motivating with punishment vs reward

40:55: Abundance in objectively difficult times

47:15: Specific ways to shift from scarcity to abundance

58:45: A sense of wonder and groundedness

1:01:25: Recap

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Jan 24, 2022
How to Find Your Passion and Purpose
01:03:30

Most people abandon their New Year's Resolutions by mid-January. This often occurs because people make resolutions based on what they feel like they should want, rather than what they actually do want. In other words, their goals and resolutions aren’t in alignment with their purpose.

On this episode of Being Well, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson discuss how we can identify and pursue our purpose, and why it’s so valuable to have one in the first place. They explore questions and strategies that can help us develop clarity on what we find meaningful, what our core values are, and how we’d like to spend our time.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

3:00: Why spend time discussing how to have a purpose?

11:00: Nonverbal ways to establish yourself in your purpose

12:50: Ways to be flexible that make purpose accessible

17:45: Fresh starts help us retain freedom in the present

21:20: How to listen to yourself when it's unclear what you want

26:05: Getting feedback from others and abandoning doomed pursuits

32:10: Moving past the inner critic and fear of letting others down

38:10: Five questions to ask yourself

48:15: Soul work and sacredness

50:30: Doing what helps you look at things differently

54:10: Recap

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Jan 17, 2022
Finding Joy in the Face of Challenges
00:53:53

Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson are joined by James Baraz, a meditation teacher for over 40 years and cofounder of Spirit Rock Meditation Center, to explore how we can find still find joy during difficult times. We discuss how to balance a sense of equanimity with compassion for the suffering of the world, and how cultivating joy at an individual level can support healing at the collective level.

About our Guest: James is the coauthor of Awakening Joy: 10 Steps to True Happiness, and leads the popular online course of the same name. He is also the guiding teacher of One Earth Sangha, a website devoted to expressing a Buddhist response to climate change.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

1:45: Why joy is important in Buddhism

5:05: James’ journey to prioritizing joy

11:40: How to practice awakening joy without turning away from suffering

17:20: Putting yourself back together after cultivating awareness of suffering

24:10: The 10 Steps of Awakening Joy

28:45: How people can use emotionally positive states in contemplative practice

32:00: Positivity in relation to the climate crisis and other collective challenges

38:05: Equanimity, compassion, including both sides of the river

43:35: The great perfection

47:10: James’ realistic hope for the next 25 years 

49:30: Recap

Awakening Joy: Awakening Joy is an internationally recognized course designed to awaken joy through exciting themes and practices that incline the mind toward well-being and deeper insight. It's a 5-month course taught online by James, check it out and learn more here. 

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Jan 10, 2022
How to Use Mindfulness to Beat Depression with Dr. Zindel Segal
00:54:15

On today’s episode of Being Well, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson talk with Dr. Zindel Segal about Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), an eight-week group therapy program designed to help those who suffer from chronic unhappiness and prevent relapse after episodes of severe clinical depression.

About our Guest: Dr. Segal is a Professor of Psychology at the University of Toronto at Scarborough, and one of the creators of MBCT. He specializes in mood disorders, particularly depression, and has had an enormous influence on the clinical adoption of mindfulness-based practices and their addition to more traditional forms of cognitive therapy.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:00: Origins of MBCT

4:30: Why Segal prioritized studying mindfulness as an intervention to depression

7:10: Comparing MBCT with traditional CBT

10:20: What about depression makes us more reactive to thoughts and feelings?

13:15: Mindfulness of sadness vs direct experience

18:35: MBCT practices explained

23:10: Three minute breathing space exercise

31:00: Attentional control training

33:45: Managing feelings of inadequacy

39:00: Motivation and implicit compassion

43:15: Ongoing practices after the MBCT course

45:45: Creating access to mindfulness resources

48:15: Recap

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Jan 03, 2022
How to Get More From 2022
01:06:47

Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson reflect on 2021, and explore how to maximize what we get out of 2022. We discuss how to rest in our aspirations, claim identity-based change, reframe personal narratives, and form the habits that lead to a more grounded, meaningful life.

Thank you for listening over the last year, looking forward to much more!

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:20: How was 2021 for you?

5:35: Gratitude for listener support

8:25: Rick’s yearly reflection process

12:45: Collaging practice

18:35: Language, and keeping a positive orientation toward desires and resolutions

26:55: Sentence completion exercise

31:10: Identity-based change

35:25: Rick’s approach to nature-based change

39:30: Reframing personal narratives

43:35: Making room for new parts of yourself in middle age

46:10: Process for forming resolutions outlined.

53:35: Rick and Forrest’s goals for 2022

58:05: Drawing on the support of others

59:30: Recap

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Dec 27, 2021
Navigating Estrangement Situations
01:19:31

We’ve received a substantial number of questions from our listeners regarding familial estrangement: when one family member distances themselves from the others, or chooses not to interact with them at all. It’s a common and extremely challenging situation, and the pain related to it can be particularly intense during the holidays.

Today on Being Well, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson discuss family estrangement, particularly between parents and children, and how the questions we engage in this territory apply more broadly to how we balance our own boundaries with the responsibilities we have toward other people.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

3:05: Our framework for discussing estrangement in this episode

6:10: Joining and distancing

9:40: Duties in relationship between children and aging parents

15:35: Parents’ behavior then vs. now

19:00: Distinguishing family systems from parents as individuals

24:10: Functional forgiveness when someone doesn’t show remorse

26:45: Choosing the kind of relationship we want to have

31:45: Parents’ pain when children distance

33:40: How parents can consider the child’s perspective

39:40: Grieving an estranged relationship internally

45:30: Approaches to interacting with estranged children

52:30: How to decide whether or not to engage in a relationship

55:10: Awareness of cultural influences

57:20: Ownership and what parents can do to repair

1:03:00: The wide range of variables influencing family relationships

1:07:00: Wishing well regardless of circumstances

1:09:30: Recap

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Dec 20, 2021
Dating 101: Green and Red Flags, Your First Fight, Dealing With Rejection
01:05:29

Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson expand their conversation focused on finding a long-term partner to include what traits to look for, and how to navigate early sticking points. They discuss life growth curves, how to manage early conflict, healthy approaches for dealing with rejection, and how to support those still navigating a difficult search.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:45: Green and red flags to look for in a partner

8:50: Pursuer-distancer dynamic

9:45: Shared growth curves--relationship as a process, not a person

12:50: Riding the river of practical daily life

19:25: Someone who brings out the best parts of you 

25:25: Different kinds of romantic relationships

28:55: Rejection and feeling wanted

30:45: Asymmetry and power dynamics

34:40: Agency within the pain of rejection

40:05: Recognizing self-worth

45:00: Managing early conflict

51:50: The struggle to find a prospective partner

59:40: Recap

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Dec 13, 2021
How to Find a Long-Term Relationship: Intention, Skills, and Marketing
01:04:45

We’ve spent a lot of time on Being Well discussing how to improve our relationships - how to navigate conflict effectively, communicate more skillfully, and create a romantic relationship that’s truly fulfilling - but we’ve spent very little time talking about how to get into one of those relationships in the first place.

Today, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson talk about how to maximize your chances of finding a fulfilling long-term relationship. They explore how to develop a clear intention of what you want, the key psychological skills that invite a healthy relationship, and how to market yourself authentically while dating.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

1:55: What supports people in finding a long-term partner?

4:35: Having a clear intention

8:45: Psychological skills to maximize our chances of finding a long-term relationship

12:15: Marketing and sorting through suspects

14:40: Intention expanded

22:15: Psychological skills expanded

22:50: A healthy sense of self worth

26:10: Being aware of your selection biases

29:35: Communication skills

34:30: Seeing the best in one another

37:30: Settling anxious and avoidant tendencies

42:00: Resting in presence with someone

43:15: Not letting the perfect be the enemy of the good

44:25: Marketing explained

55:00: Authenticity

58:20: Recap

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Dec 06, 2021
Existential Dread, and Overcoming an Existential Crisis
00:55:06

It’s natural to have moments – even in the course of a generally happy, mostly fulfilling life – where we question our meaning, value, and purpose. This "existential dread" sometimes culminates in an "existential crisis." Today Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson consider how we can confront these basic questions with acceptance and curiosity, and find the meaning and purpose that can help us live good lives.

If you're in crisis, are thinking about suicide, or are concerned about a loved one, please call 1-800-273-8255. The Lifeline network is available 24/7 across the United States.

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Key Topics:

0:00 Introduction

2:35 Meaning and purpose as the basis for Existentialism

5:20 Four basic issues of existence

7:00 Practical reasons for exploring Existentialism

10:50 Forrest’s childhood acceptance of death.

12:00 Four approaches to confronting existential frailty

13:45 Rick’s orientation to existential dread and its three psychological challenges

15:45 Rick’s personal experience confronting ambivalence and asking the point of living

20:25 Confronting an existential crisis as a catapult into a meaningful life

22:45 Morbid preoccupation as avoidance and self-ing

23:45 The three major whys of living: pleasure, service, and learning

26:10 What death can teach us about living a good life

31:30 Waves and water - resting in gratitude for life and it’s inevitable ending

36:15 Humor in the space of emptiness between living things

39:10 Natural fear vs. anticipatory dread

43:10 Finding your why when familiar structures break down

48:35 Recap and front porch meditation

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Nov 29, 2021
Moving Past Perfectionism and Unhealthy Striving with Dr. Diana Hill
01:06:52

How can we aim high, achieve our goals, and get what we want out of life without falling prey to unhealthy striving and excessive perfectionism? Dr. Diana Hill joins Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson to explore the costs of perfectionism, productivity anxiety, psychological flexibility, calming the threat system, and how we can go from striving to thriving. 

About Our Guest: Dr. Diana Hill specializes in evidence-based and compassion-focused approaches to living well. She has a thriving private practice in Santa Barbara, CA, is the author of the ACT Daily Journal, and is one of the hosts of the Psychologists Off the Clock Podcast. Diana is also the host of a new podcast called Your Life in Process launching in Jan 2022, where she offers practical teachings and conversations on becoming psychologically flexible from the inside out.

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Key Topics:

0:00 Introduction

2:00 Dr. Hill’s personal journey

4:40 Signs of unhealthy striving

6:50 Recognizing striving in the body

12:50 Signs of being in a healthier place around striving

16:15 What drives perfectionism and how to develop comfort with difficult experiences

22:20 Psychological flexibility and how to see your experience more clearly

26:35 Social and internalized factors in the search for approval 

34:55 Practical ways to develop psychological flexibility

38:00 Inner freedom and choice within discomfort

45:30 Exposure therapy and cognitive diffusion for releasing control and anxiety

55:00 The middle way and climbing the mountains that are important to you.

59:50 Recap

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Nov 22, 2021
Creating a Secure Relationship with Elizabeth Earnshaw
01:09:03

We all want a relationship that's more than just functional, we want one that's truly fulfilling. On today's episode Forrest is joined by a wonderful therapist and author who focuses on giving people the tools they need to communicate, navigate hard times, and create deeper connections with other people: Elizabeth Earnshaw. They explore: 

  • How the pandemic impacted our relationships
  • The Gottman approach
  • The stages of a relationship
  • Balancing differing needs for intimacy
  • How to request, and give, repair.

They then close the episode with a fun game focused on debunking common relationship myths.

About our Guest: Elizabeth is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, the founder of A Better Life Therapy, and the author of I Want This to WorkYou might also know her as @lizlistens on Instagram, where she’s helped countless people transform their relationships.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction.

1:45: Elizabeth’s background.

5:30: How did the pandemic impact relationships?

7:30: Responding to stress in relationships.

9:00: Co-regulation.

11:15: Punishing others for our unpleasant emotions. 

13:45: The four stages of relationships.

17:50: What to look for in a partner. 

20:10: The “Four Horsemen” of bad relationship communication. 

24:25: Key skills for navigating conflict together. 

27:00: How to request repair from your partner.

34:10: Deciding if you should leave.

37:45: Interdependence.

41:30: Balancing differing needs for intimacy.

46:30: The Instagram Meme Game: Common misconceptions about relationships.

47:30: “Partners should share everything with each other.”

50:30: “Your partner should be your ride or die.”

52:15: “Never go to bed angry.”

54:50: “My partner is my missing piece.”

56:35: “If you can’t handle me on my worst day, you don’t deserve me on my best day.”

1:02:05: Recap.

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Nov 15, 2021
Life's Essential Psychological Skills, Part 2
00:45:29

Today we're continuing our exploration of the key inner strengths and psychological skills we truly feel like we couldn’t live without. In the second of two episodes dedicated to this topic, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson talk about joy, seeing the mind's deceits, keeping your good humor, the wild spirit, and finding meaning.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

1:30: Cognitive restructuring: fighting your negative brain.

7:10: Not taking things so seriously. 

9:40: The “stage play” of life.

12:40: Joy.

17:40: The wild spirit. 

23:20: Breaking our patterns. 

25:15: The “routinization of charisma.” 

29:00: Finding meaning. 

38:40: Recap

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Nov 08, 2021
10 Skills We Can't Live Without: Part 1
00:46:00

Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore which key inner strengths and psychological skills they truly feel like they couldn’t live without. In the first of two episodes dedicated to this topic, they talk about benevolence, patience, curiosity, self-regulation, and grit. 

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

3:00: What do you take with you?

4:15: Benevolence. 

8:10: Patience. 

12:15: What helps us learn how to wait?

16:40: The value of “asking the question.”

17:30: Curiosity.

22:30: Self-regulation.

28:30: Regulation enabling exploration.

32:30: Grit.

40:50: Recap

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Nov 01, 2021
Healing Your Attachment Wounds with Dr. Diane Poole Heller
01:00:16

Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson focus on two of our most important subjects, attachment wounds and traumatic experiences, with a longtime therapist, trainer of therapists, and world-class expert on attachment theory: Dr. Diane Poole Heller. 

About our Guest: Dr. Heller focuses on using somatic, or body-based, approaches to help people resolve the painful experiences and negative patterns that hold us back. Her work on adult attachment has created a path for adults with childhood attachment injuries to develop the secure attachment skills that lead to more connected and fulfilling adult relationships.

Key Topics:

2:30: What is attachment, and why should we care?

4:45: Secure attachment.

7:50: Avoidant attachment. 

12:30: The potential for movement toward secure attachment.

16:00: Ambivalent (or anxious) attachment.

20:45: Disorganized attachment. 

24:15: Somatic approaches to attachment wounds. 

29:50: Allowing the body to move out of threat.

34:10: Secure attachment skills.

38:55: Repatterning ourselves. 

47:20: Becoming more secure in connection. 

50:30: Three questions to help calm relational activation.

55:45: A message to your younger self.

56:45: Recap

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Oct 25, 2021
Building a Better Relationship with Yourself
00:50:19

The most important relationship we have is with ourselves. You’re the only person you’ll be around every minute of every day for the rest of your life. And, unfortunately, that relationship is often our most difficult one. Today Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore how we can become better friends to ourselves, and learn to like ourselves more.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:20: What does it mean to “like ourselves?”

5:20: Why don’t people like themselves?

11:50: Giving yourself the same breaks you give others.

14:10: Regulating impulses. 

19:15: Does “liking ourselves more” make someone narcissistic?

24:30: What supported Rick in liking himself more?

29:00: Seeing yourself clearly.

32:30: The IFS model and the caring committee. 

36:30: Our nurturing parts.

39:10: A practicing of being for yourself.

45:10: Recap.

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Oct 18, 2021
How to Create a Relationship That Lasts
01:00:10

How can we create relationships that last? On this episode of Being Well, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson lean on Rick's 35+ years of couples counseling experience to explore how we can build relationships that are loving, healthy, enjoyable, and reliable. This includes learning the structure of most relationship problems, how to make vulnerable communications, and how to stay open to change.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:15: What issues brought couples into therapy most often?

4:50: The structure of most relationship problems.

12:30: Giving your partner what they need.

15:30: What differentiated couples that improved from those that didn’t?

21:15: Skills that increase the chances of building a good relationship.

21:45: Loving vs. liking. 

25:00: Deliberately activating feelings of “liking.”

27:00: Getting “on the side” of the relationship.

31:10: How to make a vulnerable communication.

39:15: Openness to change. 

43:40: Three red flags in relationships.

46:00: Practices to deepen your relationship with your partner.

54:30: Recap

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Oct 11, 2021
Unwinding Anxiety and Addiction with Dr. Jud Brewer
01:08:19

In one of our favorite conversations, Dr. Jud Brewer joins us to explore the habit of anxiety, mindfulness practices to heal addiction, and what we can learn from the brains of the world’s most advanced meditators.

About Our Guest: Dr. Jud is a psychiatrist, neuroscientist and New York Times best-selling author. He’s the director of research and innovation at Brown University’s Mindfulness Center, where he also serves as an associate professor, as well as the executive medical director of behavioral health at Sharecare Inc.

Dr. Jud is also the author of The Craving Mind and Unwinding Anxiety: New Science Shows How to Break the Cycles of Worry and Fear to Heal Your Mind

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Key Topics:

2:00: What got Jud from psychiatry to studying mindfulness?

5:45: Addiction and the structure of habits. 

10:15: Mindfulness as a treatment for addiction. 

14:00: Liking without wanting.

19:45: Habit formation and reward-based learning.

24:00: Awareness, and honoring your experience.

26:15: Curiosity.

28:10: The “habit” of anxiety. 

32:00: Anxiety’s habit loop.

34:45: The true purpose of worrying.

39:00: Generalized vs. acute anxiety. 

41:00: Anxiety and performance. 

46:20: Practices for unwinding from anxiety.

54:45: Learning from the brains of experienced practitioners. 

1:03:30: Recap

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Oct 04, 2021
Debunking Self-Help's BIGGEST Myths: No Pain No Gain, Hedonic Adaptation, and Meditation
01:04:33

In the second of two episodes, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore common self-help myths and misconceptions, including ones related to hedonic adaptation, "no pain no gain," and meditation.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:30: Misconception #1: People can’t really change in lasting ways/Hedonic adaptation stops people from becoming happier.

17:00: Misconception #2: No pain, no gain. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. 

27:50: Misconception #3: You can only meditate by sitting quietly on a cushion. 

41:15: Misconception #4: I can heal myself all on my own. Relying on a therapist means something is “wrong” with me.

50:00: Misconception #5: All therapy is talk therapy. It’s really cognitive and top-down.

57:45: Recap

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Sep 27, 2021
Self-Help's BIGGEST Misconceptions: Therapy, Trauma, and Resilience
00:53:42

As mental health and the psychological sciences have gone increasingly mainstream, so too have some common misconceptions and misunderstandings. In the first of two episodes, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore some of the biggest misconceptions related to therapy, trauma, and what it means to be "resilient."

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:10: Misconception #1: "Personal growth is narcissistic."

5:05: The social value of individual growth.

10:25: Misconception #2: "Well-being is all about individual effort."

18:50: Misconception #3: "Therapy is for people who are messed up."

23:00: Misconception #4: "If I go to therapy, I'll become dependent on it."

30:00: Misconception #5: "If I go to therapy, it'll destabilize me or mess me up."

34:45: Misconception #6: "People use the word 'trauma' too much. These days EVERYTHING is a 'trauma.'"

43:50: How we define what is and isn't stressful.

48:10: Recap

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Sep 20, 2021
Dealing with PMDD with Elizabeth Ferreira
01:00:21

Premenstrual dysphoric disorder, or PMDD, is a severe form of premenstrual syndrome that includes severe anxiety, depression, and feelings of shame. It affects 5-10% of women, and most don't even know they have it. On today's episode, Forrest is joined by his partner Elizabeth Ferreira to explore what PMDD is, how to know if you might have it, effective practices for managing PMDD, and how to create a happy, healthy, fulfilling relationship alongside it. 

About Our Guest: Elizabeth is a graduate student studying somatic psychology at the California Institute of Integral Studies. If you'd like to hear more from Elizabeth and learn about somatic psychology, she's just started a YouTube channel!

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:00: What’s PMDD?

4:45: Diagnostic criteria for PMDD. 

8:20: Challenges of awareness around “invisible” problems.

10:00: The experience of a PMDD episode. 

15:15: Practices that help PMDD.

27:05: Externalizing PMDD. 

29:45: Therapy and PMDD.

33:30: Accepting your needs. 

39:30: Dealing with shame and isolation.

44:45: Continuing to meet the challenge.

49:00: Partnering someone with PMDD. 

54:45: Recap

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Sep 13, 2021
Avoidance: How to Stop Procrastination and Worry
00:52:42

Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore what "avoidant behavior" is, common forms it takes, and what we can do to limit its unhealthy aspects.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:10: Approaching, Avoiding, and Abiding

4:25: Common Forms of Avoidance

7:30: The Costs of Avoidance

11:30: Situational Avoidance

13:40: Cognitive Avoidance

15:30: Emotional Avoidance

16:45: The True Function of Worrying

23:05: Somatic Avoidance

27:40: Useful Aspects of Avoidance

30:45: What Helps People With Their Avoidant Behaviors?

34:30: What We Do vs. What We Are

38:30: Bounding the Problem

40:50: Anticipate Blocks

42:00: Active Coping, and Critiques of Positive Psychology

46:50: An Exercise for Fighting Avoidance

49:40: Recap

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Sep 06, 2021
Deconstructing Yourself with Michael Taft
00:51:23

What goes into making "a self," and how can we bring together the many aspects of who we are? Today Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson talk with meditation teacher, bestselling author, and podcaster (and their good friend) Michael Taft about moving from the spiritual to the secular and back again, ego dissolution, and how we can deconstruct ourselves.

About Our Guest: Michael is a meditation teacher, bestselling author and neuroscience junkie. He’s been practicing meditation for over 35 years, and is the author of several books, including The Mindful Geek.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

1:30: Michael’s journey from the spiritual to the secular to back again.

5:00: LSD, yoga, and Shinzen Young

8:30: Reconciling the spiritual and the secular.

15:45: What is “deconstructing yourself?”

20:45: Ego dissolution and panic. 

25:00: “Spiritual emergencies” and cautions around mindfulness. 

29:20: Psychedelics and seeing the ego as an object. 

31:00: Practices that help people see the empty nature of the self.

34:00: Key teachings for life’s long road. 

45:00: A message to your younger self.

47:00: Recap

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Aug 30, 2021
Overcome Your Limiting Beliefs
00:54:06

We all have limiting beliefs: patterns of think about ourselves and the world that tend to hold us back. On this episode Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore how we can push back on these problematic beliefs and build more supportive ones.

Change Your Mind Workshop: Learn how to step out of old assumptions and attitudes, free yourself from limiting beliefs, and cultivate more useful, hopeful thoughts about yourself and others during this new workshop from Dr. Rick Hanson. Attend this online event live on August 28-29, or watch the recordings after. Enter code BEINGWELL25 at checkout for 25% off the purchase price.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

3:25: The PASS Process

8:35: Limiting beliefs about our nature.

14:10: Limiting beliefs about our ability to learn.

19:00: Limiting beliefs about our worthiness.

21:45: Limiting beliefs about vulnerability.

25:50: Limiting beliefs related to gender socialization.

31:10: Perfectionism: Limiting beliefs that “keep us safe.”

35:30: Social Scripts: Limiting beliefs about relationships

41:45: The beliefs that un-limit us. 

50:55: Recap

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Aug 23, 2021
Break Your Old Patterns
00:54:01

We all have times in life where it feels like we’re stagnating. We’re unfulfilled, bored, or trapped in cycles of behavior that don’t serve us. We’re stuck in a rut. Today Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore how we can break old patterns, and get un-stuck.

Change Your Mind Workshop: Learn how to step out of old assumptions and attitudes, free yourself from limiting beliefs, and cultivate more useful, hopeful thoughts about yourself and others during this new workshop from Dr. Rick Hanson. Attend this online event live on August 28-29, or watch the recordings after. Enter code BEINGWELL25 at checkout for 25% off the purchase price.

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Key Topics

0:00: Introduction

2:00: What tends to keep us stuck in a rut?

5:15: Limiting beliefs.

7:45: Appraisals and attributions.

9:30: The invisible cage.

11:15: Challenging our assumptions.

15:20: A 3-step process for challenging assumptions. 

18:30: Rick applies the process to his own material.

22:15: Core skills that support the creation of new beliefs.

25:45: Social scripts. 

31:30: Key skills for building new beliefs. 

34:00: Avoiding “must.” 

38:00: Groups don’t like to change. 

41:30: Finding those who grow alongside you.

43:20: Have the courage to change.

48:10: Recap

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Aug 16, 2021
Finding and Maintaining Fulfillment
00:53:21

We're all searching for fulfillment in one way or another. Today Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson discuss how we can find and maintain it, and if it's truly possible to be fulfilled all the time. We're exploring how we can relate to our low moments amidst a "good vibes only" culture, what gets in the way of fulfillment, and the importance of respecting individual differences in nature. 

Here's the video about fulfillment on Forrest's channel that we refer to during the episode.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

1:45: Fulfillment: “Climate” rather than “weather.”

3:20: Context for the episode: Forrest’s video

5:00: Authentic fulfillment in the self-help space.

9:15: The tyranny of low expectations.

13:20: Eudaimonic and hedonic wellbeing.

15:30: Pitfalls of chasing fulfillment.

17:40: The importance of nature, individual variation, and circumstance.

27:00: What are the upper reaches of possibility?

29:50: Dealing with “low fulfillment” moments.

38:30: What tends to lead to fulfillment…and dealing with existential dread.

43:30: Finding meaning amidst meaninglessness. 

48:05: Recap

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Aug 09, 2021
How to Change for Good with Dr. Katy Milkman
01:01:29

Though there’s no lack of advice out there, changing in lasting ways is hard. Today Forrest and Dr. Rick Hanson are joined by Dr. Katy Milkman, an expert on the science of change, to explore how we can build better habits, sustain motivation, and change for good. 

About Our Guest: Dr. Katy Milkman is a Professor at The Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania. Her research explores ways that insights from economics and psychology can be harnessed to change consequential behaviors for good. Katy is the author of the bestselling new book How to Change: The Science of Getting From Where You Are to Where You Want to Be, and is also the host of the popular podcast Choiceology with Katy Milkman.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:30: Why is it so hard to change?

5:35: Using Rick as an example of changing a habit.

10:10: Short-term costs vs. long-term benefits.

13:45: Are we more motivated by carrots or sticks? And which sustains motivation better?

21:00: Fresh start effect. 

24:00: Our bias against change. 

27:30: Making internal changes. 

30:30: How much can we change our nature?

36:00: Changing internal factors. 

41:15: Tracking the things you’re trying to change. 

45:00: Nature vs. nurture. 

48:30: Durable behavior change. 

55:30: Recap

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Aug 02, 2021
Become Less Resentful
01:02:34

When we’re hurt in our relationships, it’s normal to experience resentment. We don’t talk about resentment very much, we’re more likely to talk about anger, fear, or sadness. But resentment is a kind of combination of all of these difficult feelings. resentment and bitterness causes as much harm to our relationships – and to our own well-being – as any other emotion.

Today Forrest and Dr. Rick Hanson explore resentment:  where it comes from, what it does, and what we can do about it.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:00: What is resentment, and what function does it serve?

5:50: Resentment as repressed emotion.

9:00: Resentment and power differences.

11:10: Aspects of resentment.

12:40: Costs of resentment. 

18:50: Given the costs, why do people hold on to their resentment?

22:20: Resentment connects us to people. 

28:30: Healthy aspects of resentment.

31:00:  Feeling "good enough." 

34:00: Working with resentment: what do you want your experience to be?

42:00: Resentment as an indicator of unresolved communication.

44:30: The social functions of resentment.

48:00: Metta as an antidote to resentment.

54:30: Disentangled forgiveness.

57:00: Recap.

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Jul 26, 2021
Uncovering Your Natural Goodness with Tara Brach
00:59:25

Tara Brach joins Dr. Rick Hanson to help us learn how to "trust the gold:" recognizing and appreciating our essential human goodness, while resting in the key refuges of truth, love, and freedom.

About our Guest:  Tara is the founder and guiding teacher of the Insight Meditation Community of Washington, D.C. Tara has taught all over the world, and is the author of four books, including her most recent book Trusting the Gold: Uncovering Your Natural GoodnessYou can also find Tara through her Tara Brach podcast.

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Key Topics:

2:05: What does it mean to “trust the gold?”

6:05: Blocks to seeing our true goodness.

9:50: The impact of childhood.

13:05: Objection #1: Fears of falling into narcissism or arrogance. 

18:30: The benefits of satisfying our needs.

21:20: Objection #2: Fears of laziness and lack of success.

25:15: Two paths to trusting the gold.

30:10: “Deal with the bad, turn toward the good, take in the good.”

34:00: Letting in love.

39:55: The three kinds of gold.

44:50: Offering kindness.

47:25: Trauma, and trusting our goodness when we feel unclean.

54:25: Recognizing bad behavior while also trusting inner goodness.

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Jul 19, 2021
Learning When to Let Go
00:56:33

Most personal growth content out there suggests having a "never give up" mindset. But the truth is that a big part of life is deciding when it's time to stop investing our limited effort into that job, skill, or relationship that's no longer serving you. 

Today Dr. Rick Hanson and Forrest explore how to determine when it's time for things to end, dealing with disappointment, giving ourselves credit for our good efforts, and getting excited about what's to come.

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Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

2:15: Being sure you’re not ending too soon.

4:50: Improving distress tolerance vs. protecting yourself.

9:50: Trusting the past. 

13:30: What keeps people stuck: sunk cost fallacy.

14:30: The longing for a just world.

16:50: Dealing with disappointment.

22:00: Optimism, and turning toward the future.

24:30: Understanding the limitations of our environment. 

27:15: Redefining success. 

30:05: Knowing you gave things your best effort. 

32:00: Impulsivity.

33:30: Unilateral virtue.

37:30: Finding your five.

39:30: Helping other people feel heard. 

42:45: Being clear about the “last chance.”

45:30: The fear of change, and turning toward the future.

52:45: Recap.

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Jul 12, 2021
How Speech Shapes Your Identity with Dr. Katherine Kinzler
00:59:19

Forrest is joined by pioneering psychologist Dr. Katherine Kinzler to explore how our speech shapes our social identity, and the views we hold about other people.

A big part of human nature is to rapidly sort people into two groups: “like me,” and “not like me.” Our general tendency is to gravitate toward people we perceive as “like me,” and avoid and oppose people we perceive as “not like me.” We use many different kinds of markers to determine which group a person belongs to: markers like perceived race, gender, political affiliation, and social class. 

But there’s an often-overlooked factor that might influence how we view ourselves and others even more powerfully: the way we speak. 

About Our Guest: Dr. Kinzler is a professor of psychology at the University of Chicago, and the leader of the Development of Social Cognition Laboratory. She’s also the author of the wonderful book How You Say It: Why You Talk the Way You Do―And What It Says About You. 

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Key Ideas:

2:25: Why language is such an important signifier of identity.

8:15: Why the brain cares so much about categories.

10:50: Brain plasticity and early language acquisition.

13:50: Language bias and dialectical prejudice.

19:15: Interventions for limiting linguistic prejudice. 

23:00: How dialect changes as identity changes.

28:50: Consequences of dialectical prejudice.

34:30: Dialectical prejudice in the courtroom.

36:30: What can we do about dialect prejudice?

40:50: Positive results of bilingual exposure.

45:00: Becoming a better communicator.

49:00: Katherine’s “wave a magic wand” change.

51:30: When to start talking with kids about language.

53:00: Recap

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Jul 05, 2021
What to Do When Things End
00:51:48

Life includes many major culminating moments: we finish the big work project, receive the award, watch the kids leave home, go on the vacation, win the title, or enter retirement. These experiences can come with enormous fulfillment…for a while. And then, we might ask ourselves: Now what? Today Rick and Forrest explore that question, including how we can relate to the past, integrate learning, turn toward the future, and age well through life. 

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Key Topics

1:15: Context for the episode.

4:20: Our culture’s constant focus on “what’s next?”

9:30: Cognitive bias, and the brain’s “anticipation machine.”

13:45: Developmental stages of life

17:40: Stages of integration and disintegration. 

27:30: The opportunities of old age. 

31:45: Rick’s reflections on aging.

35:15: Bowing to past selves.

41:40: Giving our full effort.

44:00: Being a mentor, and having things to care for.

47:45: Recap 

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Jun 28, 2021
Internal Family Systems Therapy with Dr. Richard Schwartz
00:50:43

We all have different parts inside of us. This is perfectly normal, not psychotic. But our relationship with some parts is often better than others, and a wonderful path to healing and growth is to repair our relationship with all of our parts. That's the premise of Internal Family Systems Therapy, and today Forrest is exploring this powerful modality with the founder of IFS: Dr. Richard Schwartz.

It's a special episode that includes a live demonstration of an IFS session between Forrest and Dr. Schwartz.

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Key Topics:

2:00: Internal Family Systems' origin story.

4:30: An introduction to IFS.

12:40: Allowing the Self to help itself.

14:20: Richard and Forrest do a mock IFS session.

17:40: The "Manager" gets in the way.

18:20: "Direct access" to the "Protector" part.

24:00: Integrating the "session."

27:15: Speaking from our parts.

29:15: "No bad parts."

33:00: Working with our exiled parts. 

35:10: Anger toward our parts, and self-compassion.

37:30: IFS' de-pathologizing stance, and place in the medical model. 

39:40: Psychedelic assisted psychotherapy.

42:15: Trauma work, and being with the younger self.

47:45: Recap

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Jun 21, 2021
Connecting With Your Inner Child
00:54:47

One of the common topics on the podcast is developmental psychology: how what happened to us as a child can influence our lives today. Alongside that, there can also be a lot of value in reconnecting with the person we were when we were young, before the world got in the way. This can give us a sense of our true nature, and new ideas for how to become an ever-more-complete version of ourselves out in the world.

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Key Topics:

1:10: Uncovering our true nature.

4:20: Our cultural view of children.

7:20: “Feeling down” into younger layers.

13:30: What were you like when you were young?

18:20: A process of contacting your true nature.

25:00: What were your innate desires?

34:00: Compassion for our source.

39:00: Guiding questions, and the layers of self we can access.

43:00: The core needs of most young people.

51:40: Writing a letter to your younger self.

53:00: Recap

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Jun 14, 2021
Fierce Compassion with Dr. Kristin Neff
00:59:50

People generally think of self-compassion as a "soft" emotion that helps us comfort, reassure, and nurture ourselves. Today a pioneer in the field of compassion research, Dr. Kristin Neff, joins the show to explore the fierce side of self-compassion, including how it can help us draw healthy boundaries, take necessary action, and stand against injustice.

About Our Guest: Dr. Kristin Neff is an Associate Professor at the University of Texas at Austin. She conducted the first empirical studies on self-compassion almost twenty years ago, and is the author of Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself.  On June 15th she'll be releasing her new book: Fierce Self-Compassion: How Women Can Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Their Power and Thrive.

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Key Topics:

1:50: How is fierce self-compassion different from “typical” self-compassion?

5:50: The balance of fierceness and tenderness.

7:45: The importance of fierceness for women.

17:15: Practices that support fierce self-compassion.

20:30: Applying fierce self-compassion internally.

25:40: The harms of traditional gender role socialization.

32:10: What behaviors were you rewarded for?

34:45: Research on the value of self-compassion.

40:40: The impact of self-compassion on motivation. 

45:15: Committing to our own well being.

50:45: How men can support women.

55:00: A message to your younger self.

57:15: Recap

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Jun 07, 2021
How to Make a Big Decision
01:07:30

Some of the most important moments of our lives are crossroads of different kinds. There’s a big decision, and we have to pick one thing over another. Today Dr. Hanson and Forrest explore how to make the important decisions in life. 

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Key Topics:

2:00: Common themes in big decisions.

5:00: Balancing short- and long-term decisions.

10:15: Knowing your own nature, and having different priorities.

17:20: Using analysis to inform intuition.

21:15: Identifying the “parts” of a decision.

22:50: Analyzing costs and benefits.

33:00: Write it down.

36:20: Working backwards.

40:30: Getting clear on what you want. 

42:30: Thinking over the long haul. 

43:30: The three circles.

45:00: Finding “comps.”

50:30: The calculus of a decision.

59:00: Affective forecasting

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May 31, 2021
Being with Grief with Dr. Joanne Cacciatore
01:07:32

In this conversation from the Life After COVID Summit, Dr. Joanne Cacciatore joins Forrest to help us put the past in perspective, and relate in healthier and more whole ways to the many things we've lost over the past year. 

Last weekend Dr. Rick Hanson and Forrest Hanson were joined by 11 world-class experts for a FREE three-day online event to explore how we can recover from old wounds, build key strengths, and create a better future together. Over 10,000 people joined us for the Summit, and we received incredible feedback.

If you missed it, all of the conversations will remain freely available through May 25th. Click here to learn more about the Summit and register now.

Key Topics:

2:00: Mortality salience. 

5:00: Putting “little stresses” in context alongside the big ones. 

6:40: The problems with “getting back to normal,” and our new opportunities.

12:10: Remember what has happened, and turning toward grief. 

15:30: Practices that support us during grief. 

20:30: The importance of social support.

26:50: How we can support people who are grieving.

30:15: Should we name the people who are no longer here?

31:55: Understanding the trauma associated with grief. 

39:50: Working with anger. 

43:40: Using the body as a tool for healing.

48:00: Caregiver fatigue.

53:30: Survival guilt. 

57:30: Advice for the future. 

59:20: Recap

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May 24, 2021
Dealing with Life's Disruptions
01:01:57

Today we’re focusing on a topic that’s been particularly important over the last year: how we can deal more effectively with life's major disruptions. This includes recovering from setbacks, finding the opportunities, and even getting the most out of disruptions that are positive. 

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Key Topics:

0:55: “One mistake after another.”

1:55: Life After COVID Summit.

5:30: The opportunities in major disruptions.

9:00: The impact of social environments on our self-identity.

11:10: The Theory of Positive Disintegration.

13:30: Framing disruption as a normal feature of life.

18:30: Examples of normal disruptions that occur in life.

21:45: The importance of social support.

23:30: Practices to limit the harm during a moment of disruption.

31:15: The necessity of eventually processing the emotion.

36:00: Taking the time you need.

39:15: Moving into action.

42:20: Integrating a disruption.

47:50: Orienting toward change. 

52:00: Mindfulness of contraction and expansion.

54:20: Recap

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May 17, 2021
Meeting Your Internal Family with Susan McConnell
00:56:31

We usually experience ourselves as being one "self," but we all have different characters, different "parts," running around inside our heads. And our relationship with some parts is better than others. Today's guest, Susan McConnell, joins Forrest to explore Somatic Internal Family Systems, a powerful form of therapy that helps us bring those parts together as a unified self.

About Our Guest: Susan is a senior trainer for the IFS Institute, and has taught Internal Family Systems both in the United States and around the world since 1997. She developed the Somatic IFS approach, which is a synthesis of Susan’s forty years of study, teaching, and clinical practice. Her new book Somatic Internal Family Systems Therapycame out late last year. 

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Key Topics:

3:50: The Internal Family Systems model.

8:00: The Self, and relationships between our parts.

14:30: Common parts that people tend to have.

18:30: The “spiritual bypass.”

22:45: Using the body to become aware of our parts.

30:15: The benefits of somatic psychotherapy.

33:40: The five practices of somatic IFS.

39:15: Unifying the parts.

41:20: The Six F’s for finding protector parts.

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May 10, 2021
The Heart of Zen with Henry Shukman
00:55:03

Henry Shukman, the guiding teacher of Mountain Cloud Zen Center, joins Rick and Forrest to explore self-transcendent experiences, relaxing self-identification, and the warm heart at the core of Zen practice.

About our Guest: Henry Shukman is a writer, poet, and Zen Master of the Sanbo Zen lineage. He’s published nine books to date which have won numerous awards, and writes regularly for Tricycle, The New York Times and other publications. His most recent book is One Blade of Grass: Finding the Old Road of the Heart, a Zen Memoir

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Key Topics:

1:50: How Henry came to meditative practice.

3:30: Henry’s self-transcendent experience.

7:20: How Zen practice has changed Henry’s experience of himself.

10:35: Gradual cultivation, sudden awakening. 

14:30: The role of transcendent experiences. 

18:50: The importance of virtue. 

21:40: Unethical behavior among contemplative teachers. 

22:40: The risks of “seeking” self-transcendent experiences.

27:00: A framework that supports awakening.

31:00: Where it’s valuable to rest our awareness. 

35:30: Practicing when there’s suffering associated with the container of the body.

41:10: Non-separateness, and relaxing identification with self. 

47:15: Fear around not-self. 

48:10: “The apple falls away from the tree.”

51:15: Recap

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May 03, 2021
The New Normal with Dr. Jennifer Ashton
00:53:28

Dr. Jennifer Ashton joins Rick and Forrest to discuss everything you need to know about the current state of the pandemic. This includes what vaccinated people should feel comfortable doing, the J&J vaccine pause, how to think about risk, and how we can support our mental health during the New Normal. 

About Our Guest: Dr. Ashton is the Chief Medical Correspondent for ABC News, and has appeared on the ABC Network up to 14 hours a day in order to bring viewers important medical information. She is in regular contact with public health officials, including the Surgeon General and Dr. Anthony Fauci. Dr. Ashton is also the bestselling author of six books, including her recently published book The New Normal: A Roadmap to Resilience in the Pandemic Era

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Key Topics:

3:10: Why can’t we just go back to the “old normal?”

6:10: Being realistic about uncertainty.

7:45: The J&J vaccine pause, and why this is encouraging.

11:15: How to think about risk.

14:30: What should vaccinated people feel comfortable doing?

18:30: What else can we do to support our health right now?

20:25: The communication challenges of the pandemic.

24:40: How to “think like a doctor,” and approach new medical information.

27:30: Respecting the common good with our choices.

33:50: Mental health during a pandemic.

37:00: The RAIN method.

40:20: Compassion, grief, and interconnection.

44:00: The lack of preparation, and hopes for the future.

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Apr 26, 2021
Why We Meditate: Purposes, Methods, and Common Misconceptions
00:53:59

What's the "point" of meditation, and how can we build a practice that works for us? In this episode Rick and Forrest clear up some common misconceptions about meditation, explore major forms of meditation, and share how you can get more out of your practice.

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Key Topics:

1:15: Forrest’s history with meditation, and some of the benefits of practice.

5:30: What’s the “point” of meditation?

11:30: Skepticism toward narrow views of meditation.

14:10: Do you have to be “spiritual” or “religious” to meditate?

14:45: Three breaths practice.

16:30: Secular vs. spiritual orientations toward meditation.

17:45: The two major tools: insight vs. “calming” meditation. 

20:40: Virtue, concentration, and wisdom.

23:20: The tendency to “skip” to insight. 

26:30: Why Rick meditates.

32:30: What does it mean to be an “intermediate” or “advanced” meditator?

34:15: What are some of the forms meditation can take?

47:45: Recap

As a quick note, there's a little background noise at some moments during the episode.

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Apr 19, 2021
Working With Your Anxiety
00:46:40

Over the last year we’ve all been through a lot. In addition to the many major costs, there have been smaller, subtler costs as well, including a pervasive feeling of anxiety. In this episode, Rick and Forrest walk through a normal experience of anxiety and offer some suggestions for how to overcome it. 

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Key Topics:

3:30: Accepting the presence of anxiety.

6:30: Recognize what’s alright right now.

10:00: Finding heart, and connecting with other people.

18:30: Take action. 

26:30: Appreciating the biological part of anxiety.

32:00: Surrendering to what will happen.

37:00: What enables surrender?

41:20: Recap.

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Apr 12, 2021
Relaxing the Self with Stephen Snyder
01:05:45

How can we bring useful qualities of contemplative practice into our normal, everyday lives as people living in the real world? Senior meditation teacher and author Stephen Snyder joins us to explore that overarching question, alongside a variety of topics related to “not-self,” the true nature of the self, and self-transcendence.

About our Guest: Stephen is a senior meditation teach who has been practicing meditation since 1976. He’s the author of three books, including Buddha’s Heart. Stephen is also a lawyer by trade, and has practiced law on behalf of a number of Zen masters and Buddhist organizations. 

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Key Topics:

2:35: Stephen’s background in Buddhism. 

6:30: A brief background in types of Buddhist practice.

10:30: Bringing practice into our work life.

14:00: Why do contemplative teachers behave badly? 

17:50: Personality and the self.

20:00: “Not-self” and the end of suffering. 

23:20: Why would we want to “transcend” the self?

26:10: Maintaining practice during a normal life. 

29:45: Do we have a “self,” and the fear of emptiness.

33:30: Suffering attached to the self. 

35:30: What do we get out of practice?

39:30: The purpose and limitations of meditation.

41:45: The threat of change. 

44:10: The “brahmavihārās,” and Buddha’s Heart

47:00: Practices for self-development.

52:30: What’s ‘in’ a self-transcendent experience?

56:30: Ways to experience self-transcendence. 

1:02:10: Recap

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Apr 05, 2021
Building Healthy Boundaries with Nedra Tawwab
01:01:22

One of the hardest, and most important, parts of creating great relationships is setting healthy boundaries with other people. Boundaries expert Nedra Glover Tawwab joins the show to explore how we can trust our instincts, work through codependency, and build better boundaries. 

About Our Guest: Nedra has been a therapist for 13 years, and focuses on helping people build better relationships by teaching them how to implement healthy boundaries. Her work has been featured in The New York TimesThe Guardian, Psychology Today, Self, and Vice, and she’s the author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace, on sale now.

You also might have encountered Nedra’s work on Instagram, where she has an extremely popular page that shares wonderful content. 

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Key Topics:

1:40: What drew Nedra to her work on boundaries. 

4:25: Early signs that your boundaries are strong or flimsy.

6:20: Honoring the needs of children.

8:45: Trusting your instincts. 

11:40: Codependency.

13:05: How healthy boundaries support intimate relationships.

15:15: Distinctions between different kinds of boundaries

17:20: Working with feelings of selfishness. 

19:45: Walking through a process of setting a boundary. 

23:30: Anxiety associated with setting boundaries. 

26:00: Dealing with people who won’t change. 

30:40: Self-esteem and self-worth.

35:55: Fear and guilt.

39:50: Teaching people that boundaries are okay.

44:30: Respecting the boundaries of other people.

46:30: Accepting and letting go.

51:00: Creating healthy internal boundaries.

54:00: A message to your younger self. 

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Mar 29, 2021
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy with Dr. Steven C. Hayes
01:01:42

The creator of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Dr. Steven C. Hayes, joins the show to help us explore how to use techniques from this powerful approach to therapy to address major challenges and improve our wellbeing.

About our Guest: Dr. Steven C. Hayes is Nevada Foundation Professor in the Behavior Analysis program at the Department of Psychology of the University of Nevada. He's the creator of ACT, and the  author of 44 books and over 600 scientific articles. His most recent book is A Liberated Mind: How To Pivot Toward What Matters, an essential guide to ACT. 

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Key Topics:

2:25: The basics of ACT.

5:30: The Lord of the Rings and psychological flexibility.

7:15: Accepting our own history. 

10:45: How can we accept painful things?

13:45: Language, technology, and how it gets in the way.

18:00: Coming into the present moment.

21:00: Determinism, autonomy, and agency.

26:30: How can we make change last?

29:30: Steven’s experience with accepting tinnitus. 

34:45: How to keep growing when the world pushes back.

45:30: Giving people an opportunity to impress you.

49:00: Dealing with anger. 

53:30: Pitfalls while using ACT. 

56:10: Recap

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Mar 22, 2021
Becoming Wise with Dr. Roger Walsh
01:01:05

How can we bring together psychological science and contemplative practice, and what can we all learn from the world’s great wisdom traditions? Dr. Roger Walsh, a professor of psychiatry, philosophy, and anthropology, and expert on the world's great wisdom traditions, joins the show to help us explore this central question.

About Our Guest: Roger is professor of psychiatry, philosophy, and anthropology, as well as professor in the religious studies program at UC Irvine. His scholarship has had a huge impact on the fields he’s participated in, and he’s the author of a number of wonderful books. 

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Key Topics:

1:35: What drew such a successful academic toward contemplative practice?

7:30: Conflict and synergy between psychological science and contemplative practice.

10:30: The challenges of translating ancient wisdom.

12:25: The maturation of spiritual faith. 

16:30: What helps people move from one developmental stage to another?

22:00: The gradual process of self-development.

25:15: Commonalities among the world’s many wisdom traditions.

33:00: Things that hold us back. 

39:45: Therapeutic lifestyle changes.

44:00: What can we do for the world?

50:50: Many small impacts.

53:00: Non-judgementality and non-attachment.

58:00: Recap

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Mar 15, 2021
Understanding The Replication Crisis
00:19:31

Ever heard of the marshmallow experiment? The 10,000 hour rule? How about the Dunning-Kruger effect, the Stanford prison experiment, or willpower fatigue? These are some of the most well-known pieces of research from the social sciences. And they all share one problem: they're wrong. Or, at least, they're really misunderstood.

On this episode of "10 Good Minutes," Forrest explores social science's Replicability Crisis, and asks whether you can actually trust the research that goes into Being Well.

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Cited Research:

Kruger, J.; Dunning, D. (1999) "Unskilled and Unaware of It: How Difficulties in Recognizing One's Own Incompetence Lead to Inflated Self-Assessments.” 

Nuhfer, Edward; Cogan, Christopher; Fleischer, Steven; Gaze, Eric; Wirth, Karl. (2016) "Random Number Simulations Reveal How Random Noise Affects the Measurements and Graphical Portrayals of Self-Assessed Competency.” 

Shoda, Y., Mischel, W., & Peake, P. K. (1990). Predicting adolescent cognitive and self-regulatory competencies from preschool delay of gratification: Identifying diagnostic conditions. 

Tyler W. Watts, Greg J. Duncan, Haonan Quan. (2018) Revisiting the Marshmallow Test: A Conceptual Replication Investigating Links Between Early Delay of Gratification and Later Outcomes. 

B. Nyhan , J. Reifler. (2010) “When Corrections Fail: The Persistence of Political Misperceptions.” Wood, T., Porter, E. (2018) “The Elusive Backfire Effect: Mass Attitudes' Steadfast Factual Adherence.” 

Brown NJ, Sokal AD, Friedman HL. (2013). The complex dynamics of wishful thinking: the critical positivity ratio. 

Haney, C., Banks, C., & Zimbardo, P. (1973). Study of Prisoners and Guards in a Simulated Prison. Baumeister, R.F. (2002) Ego Depletion and Self-Control Failure: An Energy Model of the Self's Executive Function. 

Carter E.C., Kofler L.M., Forster D.E., McCullough M.E. (2015) A series of meta-analytic tests of the depletion effect: Self-control does not seem to rely on a limited resource. 

Brown N.J., Sokal A.D., Friedman H.L. (2013). The complex dynamics of wishful thinking: the critical positivity ratio. 

Ericsson, A. K. (2008) Deliberate Practice and Acquisition of Expert Performance: A General Overview. 

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Mar 13, 2021
How to Meet Your Needs for Connection: Attunement
01:08:54

During this time of increased isolation our needs for connection are harder to meet than ever. Today Rick and Forrest are exploring how we can use the psychological technique of "attunement" to connect better with others, and meet our own need for connection.

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Key Topics:

2:15: Moments that satisfy our need for connection. 

5:45: The “Still Face Experiment” 

8:55: Attention, availability, responsiveness. 

10:35: Which relationships fill you up?

13:50: What is attunement?

18:40: The “emotional risk” of attunement. 

24:30: Paying attention. 

31:20: Being open to being changed.

33:10: Do I matter to you?

37:30: Availability and co-regulation.

41:15: “Our interactions are systems.” 

42:30: Rick pushes back a bit on co-regulation.

44:50: The impact of our nature on how we view interactions.

47:45: Becoming responsive.

52:40: Communicating wants and needs. 

57:40: Respecting your own needs. 

59:15: The impact of social power and privilege on our interactions.

1:04:30: Recap

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Mar 08, 2021
Accepting Our Needs
01:07:52

Everyone has needs, there’s no avoiding them. In order to "be well" we need to meet those needs. But being "needy" is often viewed as a weakness, and accepting that we have needs can be painful.

On today's episode, Rick and Forrest explore how we can accept our needs, identify the needs that are most important to us, and build the resources to meet our needs and the needs of other people. 

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Key Topics:

2:30: The three core needs.

5:00: What it feels like when you don’t meet your needs. 

8:45: The pain of not meeting needs for connection. 

13:30: Rick’s story of coming to terms with being “needy.”

20:00: Admitting our needs. 

27:00: Identifying our primary needs. 

31:00: Forrest and Rick process an interaction. 

37:45: Trying on different ways of being.

39:45: Key suggestions for identifying needs. 

44:45: Resilience through meeting needs. 

46:30: Meeting the needs of other people.

54:30: Healthy boundaries. 

1:04:00: Recap

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Mar 01, 2021
Building The Perfect Relationship with Dr. Stan Tatkin
01:04:38

Relationships are hard, and making them last is even harder. Today we’re exploring how we can be happier and healthier in all of our relationships with a wonderful clinician, teacher, and researcher: Dr. Stan Tatkin.

About our Guest: Dr. Stan Tatkin is an expert on human behavior, and particularly the unique dynamics found in couples relationships. He’s the creator of PACT: the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy, and the author of six bestselling books, including Wired for Love and We Do.

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Key Topics:

1:45: The importance of attachment. 

5:30: What happens when children are neglected?

9:00: Finding safety in our relationships.

13:30: How to build safety through physical cues. 

19:10: Apology, and building a culture in our relationships.

23:00: Finding common principles. 

31:00: Dealbreakers, and entering relationships intentionally.

37:00: Fairness in our relationships. 

45:30: Being and staying interested.

49:15: Trusting your partner’s experience. 

54:50: The most important characteristics in a life partner.

57:00: What’s the most important thing you do each day for your own well-being?

58:30: A message to your younger self.

1:00:00: Recap

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Feb 22, 2021
Personalize Your Nutrition with Dr. Tim Spector
00:56:29

We generally focus on topics related to mental health, but there's nothing like a pandemic to throw the importance of our physical health into sharp relief! Today Forrest is joined by Dr. Tim Spector to explore the importance of personalizing your nutrition, how our diet can help fight COVID, and why most everything we've been told about food is wrong. 

About Our Guest: Dr. Tim Spector is professor of genetic epidemiology and Director of the TwinsUK Registry at Kings College, London. He’s also one of the leaders of the COVID Symptom Study, and one of the founders of the health science company Zoe . He's the author of The Diet Myth, and his most recent book is  Spoon-Fed: Why Almost Everything We’ve Been Told about Food is Wrong.

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Key Topics:

2:05: What is the microbiome?

4:10: How diet interacts with your unique microbiome. 

6:45: The PREDICT 1 study, and the limited impact of genetics.

9:30: Why personalized nutrition is so important.

12:00: The meaningless nature of calorie counts. 

17:00: Running experiments with your nutrition. 

22:30: Microbes and mood.

24:40: Intermittent fasting. 

30:15: The role of processed food. 

35:15: The microbiome and COVID. 

41:00: Polyphenols. 

43:00: Vitamins and COVID. 

48:50: Recap

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Feb 15, 2021
How to Change Who We Are
01:18:48

There are times in our lives when we recognize that something’s got to change. Today Dr. Hanson and Forrest explore a big question: What goes into making who we are, and how can we give ourselves the freedom to grow and change over time? 

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Key Topics:

2:00: What does “self-concept” mean?

6:00: Where does self-concept come from?

11:30: Different ways to understand childhood development.

17:00: Why is it so hard for people to change? 

26:00: Social forces that prevent us from changing.

33:00: Three case studies of personal change. 

34:00: Who owns the problem?

38:30: Do you really want it?

44:30: We can change if we’re willing to take risks.

52:00: Trusting yourself, and feeling validated. 

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Feb 08, 2021
Radical Compassion with Tara Brach
00:54:56

Tara Brach joins Rick and Forrest to explore how we can find more compassion and acceptance while maintaining our motivation to change ourselves, and our world, in positive ways. 

About Our Guest: Tara is the founder and guiding teacher of the Insight Meditation Community of Washington, D.C., and has a doctorate in clinical psychology. She is the author of three books: Radical Acceptance, True Refuge, and most recently Radical Compassion, and leads one of the largest mental-health and Buddhism-focused podcasts in the world.

Key Topics:

2:00: Why “radical?” What does it mean to have “radical compassion?”

6:30: Practical applications of “no self.” 

9:00: Maintaining “less self” while also being motivated to change.

10:30: How can we “accept ourselves” while also wanting to change in positive ways?

12:30: What gets in the way of compassion and self-acceptance. 

17:15: The “trance” that keeps us away from compassion. 

20:00: The RAIN meditation.

27:15: Making it easier to nurture ourselves.

32:15: “After the rain.” 

34:00: Can, and should, we find acceptance and compassion for people we disagree with?

41:45: Coming to terms with our participation in systems of oppression.

48:50: Hope during challenging times. 

52:30: Recap

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Feb 01, 2021
Do We Control Our Happiness?
00:20:08

With so much challenging stuff going on in the world around us these days, it's natural to ask a simple question: how much control do we have over how happy we are?

On this episode of "10 Good Minutes," Forrest explores the research behind happiness, reveals the most important factors, and gives some practical advice for maximizing sustainable well-being.

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Research:

Pursuing Happiness: The Architecture of Sustainable Change

Our podcast episode with Dr. Lyubomirsky.

Twin studies find that identical twins raised in different households are more similar in their level of happiness than fraternal twins raised in the same household. 

Emotional well-being decouples from income at ~$75,000/year.

BRAND NEW research suggests that "experienced well-being" continues to rise as income increases above $75,000/year.

Circumstantial factors that most consistently predict high subjective well being.

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Jan 29, 2021
How to Deal with Dissociation
00:59:00

When we’re presented with challenging circumstances it’s natural for us to cope with them through a wide variety of behaviors. Today Dr. Hanson and Forrest explore one of the most common coping mechanisms: dissociation. This includes what it is, the function it serves, the experiences that can lead to dissociation, and what we can do about it.

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Key Topics:

2:00: What is dissociation?

9:35: “Fragmentation and separation.”

11:45: Recovered and implanted memory.

17:45: Why do people dissociate?

22:10: Common symptoms of dissociation.

29:30: The risks of over-pathologizing. 

31:40: Coming into your own life. 

36:20: Growing self-worth as an antidote for dissociation. 

40:15: Challenges of mindfulness for dissociation.

43:00: Focusing on an aspect of experience. 

46:30: Enjoyment as a grounding experience. 

48:55: “Our nature is to be associated.”

51:30: Recap

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Jan 25, 2021
How to Cope During a Pandemic with Dr. Bruce Perry
00:51:30

On this timely episode, Dr. Bruce Perry joins the podcast to explore how we can limit the long-term impact of stressful events, and heal from past traumatic experiences. 

About Our Guest:  Dr. Bruce Perry is one of the world’s leading experts on childhood trauma, and his clinical research and practice focuses on examining the long-term effects of trauma in children, adolescents, and adults. He is the Senior Fellow of The ChildTrauma Academy, and the author, with Maia Szalavitz, of The Boy Who Was Raised As A Dog.

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Key Topics:

1:15: Pandemic fatigue. 

4:45: Experiencing acute stressors alongside chronic stress. 

7:20: Practices to help yourself de-stress. 

11:30: The impact of stress on our ability to regulate ourselves.

13:30: How to limit the long-term impact of stressful events.

18:40: How we can explore traumatic material without re-traumatizing ourselves.

23:30: Avoiding helplessness, and experiencing control and agency. 

25:30: Dissociation as a coping response.

31:00: Disruptions of attunement. 

36:00: Caregiver fatigue, and caring for ourselves. 

41:30: The pandemic’s impact on people who have been previously traumatized.

44:00: A wish for the future. 

46:00: Recap

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Jan 18, 2021
Being More, Doing Less
00:44:23

We’re somehow both more efficient than ever before, and, at the same time, busier than ever before.  All of the many ways that we’ve found to optimize our performance has led to much more "doing," and not nearly as much "being." Today Rick and Forrest explore how we can get more in touch with being, and how by focusing more on "being" we might even be able to "do" more than ever before. 

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Key Ideas:

1:10: Rick making dad jokes. 

2:00: The difference between “doing” and “being.”

6:20: Getting wrapped up in doing that crowds out “being.”

10:15: Craving in the brain. 

15:05: How to grow what we want to be. 

21:40: Allowing “being” to create friction-less “doing.”

25:45: How to get in touch with the feeling of “being.”

31:50: Internal resistance to being. 

35:30: Who are you when you’re not scared? 

41:15: Recap

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Jan 11, 2021
Optimism and Influence with Dr. Tali Sharot
00:48:51

What allows people to push on even during the darkest times?  And how can we use that answer to influence our behavior, or the behavior of other people? Today Rick and Forrest are joined by Dr. Tali Sharot to explore the optimism bias, how optimism can exist alongside negativity, and how we can influence others more effectively. 

About our Guest: Dr. Sharot is a Professor of Cognitive Neuroscience at University College London, and the director of the Affective Brain Lab. She’s also the author of a number of wonderful books, including The Optimism Bias: A Tour of the Irrationally Positive Brain, and The Influential Mind: What the Brain Reveals About Our Power to Change Others

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Key Ideas:

1:30: What is the optimism bias, and how does it appear in people’s lives?

3:30: Where does the optimism bias come from? Did we evolve it?

8:45: How can someone cultivate an attitude of optimism? 

13:00: Bringing good things into our awareness.

16:30: The negativity bias vs. the optimism bias. 

19:30: Negativity, positivity, and memory.

23:00: The impact of surprise on our memory.

27:30: What helps us change our behavior and form new habits?

30:00: Changing behavior and beliefs on a national scale.

34:30: What really influences people's behavior?

40:00: Is human nature more positive or more negative?

44:00: Recap

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Jan 04, 2021
Guided Practice: Achieving Your New Year's Resolutions
00:17:40

What do you want to achieve in 2021? In this short episode, Dr. Rick Hanson walks you through a guided practice focused on helping you achieve your goals. 

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Jan 01, 2021
How to Make 2021 Your Best Year
00:52:43

We all have something we want to do "someday," but for most of us "someday" just never seems to come around. Here's how to make 2021 the year you finally put all the pieces together, and achieve the goals you've set for yourself.

Key Topics:

4:00: What leads to change that lasts?

5:40: Do you really WANT to change?

9:00: How to change your self-concept. 

14:00: “Don’t let the perfect be the enemy of the good.”

16:00: Small changes that lead to big ones.

20:00: Appreciating the finite nature of life. 

22:30: “What do you want to give as a gift to the person you will be tomorrow?”

25:30: What makes for a good resolution?

29:00: Using Forrest as a guinea pig: setting good goals and maximizing your resolutions.

33:00: Picking very clear commitments, and making things simple.

34:30: Thinking about how it would feel at the end of 2021 if you accomplished what you set out to do.

41:00: Finding consistent effort. 

45:00: Summarizing the key questions. 

48:00: Recap.

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Dec 28, 2020
Facing Your Dreaded Experience
00:54:40

We all have things that frighten us. But some fears can become so core to who we are that we start to organize our lives around not having to experience them. In this not-to-be-missed episode, Dr. Hanson and Forrest explore how we can identify and face our "dreaded experiences," which exert a quiet power over our lives. 

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Key Topics:

2:40: What is a “dreaded experience?”

6:40: The three step process of a dreaded experience.

9:10: The critical distinction between “event” and “experience.”

12:20: Forrest’s dreaded experiences. 

16:30: Normal avoidance vs. making yourself small.

18:15: Where do dreaded experiences come from?

24:10: Starting to risk the dreaded experience. 

29:00: Ways to start safely facing fears.

38:00: Identifying your dreaded experience. 

41:20: Being seen as your whole self.

46:30: Our journey of growth. 

49:30: Recap

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Dec 21, 2020
Why Does Therapy Work?
00:13:51

Why does talking to a therapist have such a huge impact on people's lives? On the first edition of "10 Good Minutes," Forrest Hanson dives into the research behind the key factor in any therapeutic relationship. 

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Studies:

Psychotherapy is as effective for the treatment of depression as medication.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is particularly effective when it comes to treating depression and anxiety disorders.

Only a few of the studies demonstrating therapy’s effectiveness provide evidence without bias, and there’s a lot of publication bias.

Psychotherapy changes how clients use their brains in meaningful ways.

Therapeutic outcome doesn’t seem to be affected by how experienced the therapist is.

The strength of the alliance established between therapist and client is a key factor.

Empathy appears to be a key factor in the formation of a strong alliance and therapeutic outcomes more generally

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Dec 18, 2020
Compassion, Power, and Human Nature with Dr. Dacher Keltner
00:56:06

Does power corrupt? Where does compassion come from? And do positive or negative emotions serve as the basis for our true nature? Today we're exploring these questions with Dr. Dacher Keltner, a world-class expert on emotion, power, and morality.

About Our Guest: Dr. Keltner is a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley, where he directs the Berkeley Social Interaction Lab. He’s also the founder and co-director of the Greater Good Science Center. Dr. Keltner is also the author of three books: Born to Be GoodThe Compassionate Instinct, and most recently, The Power Paradox: How We Gain and Lose Influence

Here's the referenced research from Dacher on emotion and facial expression.

Key Topics:

2:15: What is an emotion, and how many emotions are there?

7:45: The complex weave of positive emotions. 

11:30: Why did we evolve positive emotions?

15:00: The influence of compassion. 

20:45: Power dynamics, and in-groups vs. out-groups.

25:30: How and why power corrupts.

33:30: Are we only nice to other people because we have to be?

38:45: Finding awe in mystery. 

44:00: Committing to daily practice. 

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Dec 14, 2020
What We Learned from 2020
00:50:51

It’s been a long, strange, challenging year. As we get toward the end of it, and look forward to 2021, it feels appropriate to start by taking a look back and seeing what, if anything, we can learn from the year that’s gone by. 

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Key Topics:

2:30: The importance of internal resources.

4:15: "It can happen to us too."

6:00: Putting more effort into what’s local.

8:30: Interdependence and interconnection. 

12:30: Appreciating the pains that aren’t happening.

17:30: Seeing clearly and allowing yourself to take appropriate action.

22:30: Your compassion is not dependent.

25:45: Avoiding playing into grievance theater.

30:40: Nonattachment.

33:00: Focusing on what really matters, and being fed up.

38:45: Lessons from our listeners.

43:30: What’s still here?

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Dec 07, 2020
Unlearning Bias and Prejudice with Dr. Jack Glaser
01:07:27

We're all subject to forms of bias and prejudice. On this episode, Forrest and Rick are joined by Dr. Jack Glaser, an expert on intergroup bias and racial prejudice, to explore what we can do to overcome our innate tendencies. 

About the Guest: Dr. Jack Glaser is a Professor at the Goldman School of Public Policy at UC Berkeley. He studies intergroup biases and the unconscious operation of stereotypes and prejudice, and is particularly interested in racial profiling. Jack is also the author of Suspect Race: Causes & Consequences of Racial Profilingand is on the board of the Center for Policing Equity.

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Key Topics:

2:15: Jack’s history, what drew him to the study of bias.

4:50: What is implicit bias? 

10:30: What’s the purpose of bias, where does it come from, and what consequences does it create?

18:15: How individual biases scale up to groups and systems.

23:10: The myth of meritocracy.

25:30: Assimilation, accommodation, and bias.

27:25: Errors of attribution. 

30:00: The lens we view our world through, and “alternative facts.”

36:00: Can we become less biased?

42:45: Can we deliberately override our biases through effort?

48:45: Fighting bias is an ongoing process. 

50:30: Bias under pressure, and what we can do.

1:01:10: “The brain does crazy stuff sometimes.”

1:03:00: Recap

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Nov 30, 2020
Meditation: Gratitude and Finding Pleasure
00:17:42

On today's short episode, Dr. Rick Hanson leads a guided meditation aimed at experiencing gratitude and finding the small pleasures in life. 

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Nov 27, 2020
Sadness and Disappointment Around the Holidays
00:53:15

The holidays are coming up, and for many people they’re likely to be very different this year from usual. Experiencing sadness or disappointment around the holidays is normal even among the best circumstances, and we're far from those. On this episode, Dr. Hanson and Forrest explore how to work with this year's natural feelings of sadness and disappointment.

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Key Topics:

4:50: A therapy session focused on sadness with Rick. 

9:30: Associations between current sad experiences and our past material. 

11:45: A process for experiencing and working with sadness. 

17:45: Imagery to aid experiencing.

19:00: Helping sadness soften and release. 

24:30: Non-judgement 

28:40: Identifying underlying beliefs.

29:40: Letting in good experiences alongside challenging ones. 

33:10: Finding the root experience, and communicating our needs. 

37:00: Sadness vs. depression. 

41:30: Dealing with disappointment. 

45:00: Finding agency in a moment of disappointment. 

48:10: “Strong hopes, weak expectations.” 

50:20: Recap. 

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Nov 23, 2020
Learn Faster, Learn Smarter with Josh Kaufman
00:51:38

Learning is the single most important skill: if you know how to learn, you can get good at anything else. Today we're joined by Josh Kaufman, author of The Personal MBA, to explore the 20 hour rule, the problems with 10,000 hours, cognitive biases, and how you can learn anything more quickly.

About our Guest: Josh is the author of three bestselling books: The Personal MBA, The First 20 Hours, and How to Fight a Hydra. The Personal MBA is a #1 international bestseller, and he's also responsible for one of my favorite TED talks which has more than 22 million views - The First 20 Hours: How to Learn Anything.

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Key Topics:

2:15: Why focus on business and learning?

5:30: 20 hours vs. 10,000 hours.

9:00: The power law of practice.

11:30: Precommitment, and making it through 20 hours. 

15:00: The importance of deliberate practice. 

17:00: Fast feedback loops. 

19:45: Breaking big tasks into small tasks. 

26:40: Responses to threat, and how our psychological state impacts learning. 

32:30: Cognitive biases and social proof.

38:40: “Commitment and consistency” bias. 

46:00: Recap.

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Nov 16, 2020
Relaxing Anxiety During Stressful Times
00:50:02

If you live in the United States – and probably for many people who don’t – it’s been a bit of a stressful week. Today Dr. Hanson and Forrest talk about relaxing anxiety, weathering the storm, and taking in the year as a whole. 

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Key Topics:

1:30: Where do we want to allocate our attention?

5:00: Rational, appropriate stress and anxiety. 

8:00: The cost of ‘negative’ emotions. 

12:30: Practices of calming stress. 

14:45: Giving yourself grace, and accepting some amount of stress. 

17:40: Deal with the bad, turn toward the good, take in the good. 

22:15: Seeing what is true. 

26:45: Being happy when others are not. 

36:40: A practice for calming and centering. 

44:45: Learning from the hard parts of practice.

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Nov 09, 2020
10 Lessons for a Great Life, Part 2: Accepting Difference, Embracing Life, and Impermanence
00:48:18

In the second part of our 10 most essential lessons for a great life, we explore accepting difference, open heartedness, healthy skepticism, embracing life, and impermanence. 

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Key Topics:

2:30: Different people are different.

10:00: Open your heart. 

13:45: Open heartedness as a ‘field.’

19:20: Cultivate a stance of healthy skepticism. 

27:00: Honor the gift of your life. 

33:00: All things end. 

37:00: The feeling of one minute.

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Nov 02, 2020
10 Lessons for a Great Life, Part 1: Respecting Childhood, Slowing Down, and Supporting Yourself
00:44:30

What are the most essential lessons we've ever learned? Today we're exploring the first half of our 10 most important practices, skills, techniques, and reflections for the long road of life. Today we cover getting on your own side, the impact of childhood, widening your view, slowing down, and taking in the good.

A quick summary of Rick's approach to taking in the good.

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Key Topics:

1:30: Introduction: The view from the porch. 

4:10: Get on your own side. 

7:10: Respect the impact of childhood experiences. 

13:20: Widen your view. 

21:10: Grow the space between stimulus and response.

30:00: Take in the good. 

44:00: Recap and ending.

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Oct 26, 2020
How to Have Hard Conversations with Celeste Headlee
00:59:08

About the Episode: Studies show that Americans feel less connected and more divided than ever before. Celeste Headlee, an award winning journalist, joins us to explore how we can navigate the many hard conversations that are happening these days. 

About our Guest: In her 20-year career in public radio, Celeste appeared on NPR, PRI, CNN, and the BBC. She has been the Executive Producer of On Second Thought for Georgia Public Broadcasting, and anchored shows including Tell Me More, Talk of the Nation, All Things Considered, and Weekend Edition at NPR. 

Celeste is also the author of two wonderful books: We Need To Talk: How To Have Conversations That Matter and Do Nothing: How to Break Away from Overworking, Overdoing, and Underliving

Here's a summary of George Lakoff's framing theory that was mentioned during our conversation.

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Key Topics:

1:30: “Pandemic okay.”

4:45: Being a good talker vs. being a good conversationalist. 

7:15: Why intelligent people can struggle to be good conversationalists. 

11:30: Working with the inevitable presence of bias. 

14:15: Facts, feelings, and frame theory.

18:00: Metacognition and confirmation bias. 

22:45: Do facts change people’s opinions?

24:45: Making it easy for people to change their mind. 

31:00: Maintaining our mental health inside hard conversations. 

35:45: “Bothsides-ism”

40:00: How to engage when someone’s argument isn’t based on facts you agree with.

45:00: Doing less to do more.

50:00: The power of weak ties, and the negative impact of too much tech.

53:00: A message to your younger self. 

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Oct 19, 2020
Staying Sane During Hard Times
00:46:01

It’s one thing to use some of the tools that we talk about on this podcast when things feel stable and are going “good enough.” It’s another to apply them when the world feels threatening. Today we’re learning how to have more 'equanimity,' which is what allows us to maintain our composure, presence of mind, and perhaps even wellbeing under challenging circumstances.  

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Key Topics:

1:30: How do we define equanimity?

4:00: Psychological experience of equanimity. 

4:30: Hedonic tone.

8:00: Brain science behind equanimity.

11:30: Liking and wanting.

14:30: Equanimity in secular Buddhism. 

15:30: Equanimity, privilege, and gaslighting. 

22:00: Dealing with unfairness.

26:30: Responding to painful experiences in the moment. 

30:30: The ‘four foundations’ of equanimity. 

35:30: Manage aversion.

37:30: Grow the good. 

39:15: Find what endures.

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Oct 12, 2020
Maximize Productivity with Mindfulness
00:57:55

How can we be more productive, and improve our ability to focus on the things we really care about, without it becoming a source of stress? Chris Bailey, who TED described as "possibly the most productive person you could ever meet," joins us to explore how to get your brain to focus. 

About our Guest: Chris is the bestselling author of Hyperfocus and The Productivity Project, and his website A Life of Productivity has a small army of devoted readers. Chris' wonderful TED talk, How to Get Your Brain to Focus, touches on many of the topics we explore in this episode.

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Key Topics:

3:15: What does it mean to be productive?

5:00: A year of productivity. 

7:00: What is the goal of productivity?

10:45: Defining success, and the Rule of Threes.

15:30: Our negative attitudes toward productivity.

18:30: Defining and finding intentionality.

22:40: Productivity benefits of meditation.

31:20: Finding fulfillment and working calmly.

36:15: Maintaining focus and productivity during challenging times.

41:30: The TV and your attention.

49:00: How to build our capacity for focus. 

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Oct 05, 2020
Children, Trauma, and Racism with Dr. Allison Briscoe-Smith
00:57:00

How have children experienced this year's challenges, and how can we get better at talking with them about race and racism?

Today we’re focusing on trauma, resilience, and effective coping, and particularly on the unique challenges experienced by young people and their parents.

About our Guest: Dr. Allison Briscoe-Smith is a child clinical psychologist who specializes in trauma and issues of race. She is a senior fellow of Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center, and is both a professor and the Director of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion at the Wright Institute. 

Here's Allison's wonderful article on parenting during overwhelming times that I referenced during our conversation.

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Key Topics:

2:25: Honoring the small challenges alongside the big ones. 

5:30: What challenges are children facing this year?

7:30: How are children processing our challenges differently from adults?

9:50: Helping children manage this time.

11:30: Finding hope, and having things to look forward to.

13:30: Signs of PTSD, and listening to our children. 

16:30: How can we get better at talking to kids?

21:00: How children are processing racial violence.

24:10: Talking with children about racial violence.

28:00: Bias, implicit and otherwise.

34:30: How does bias find its way into the virtual classroom?

37:05: What are we privileging in different spaces?

42:00: The first time a kid experiences or perpetrates racism.

48:30: Creating a family mission statement.

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Sep 28, 2020
Angry and Content
00:48:50

How can we maintain contentment, calm, or inner peace, while still aiming high, pursuing good goals, and experiencing natural frustration and anger? And is contentment even a good goal when there's so much injustice out in the world?

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Key Topics:

1:45: Why contentment matters.

4:30: Can we be content when things are hard?

6:00: Being skeptical of the “wanting mind.”

8:30: How can we return to contentment when moved from it?

12:10: What’s wrong with being driven? Does contentment make us lazy?

16:20: Self-actualization and taking action from a place of fullness.

19:00: Staying content while performing basic tasks.

21:50: Contentment vs. complacency. 

25:20: Content while hurt or angry. 

29:30: How to build contentment when times are tough.

35:00: Can we be content and afraid?

46:00: Recap

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Sep 21, 2020
Authentic Happiness with Dr. Tal Ben-Shahar
00:51:19

How can we find happiness even when times are challenging? Dr. Tal Ben-Shahar joins us to explore authentic happiness, accepting difficult emotions, and giving yourself permission to be human. 

About our Guest: Dr. Tal Ben-Shahar is the bestselling author of six books, founder of the Happiness Studies Academy, and former professor of two of the largest courses in Harvard’s history. Learn more about his Certificate in Happiness Studies program here. Use the code HAPPY for a 10% discount. 

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Key Topics:

2:45: Unhappiness in spite of success.

4:15: How do you define happiness?

5:50: Combining self-actualization with in-the-moment happiness. 

8:45: Accepting our painful emotions. 

10:10: Giving ourselves permission to be human.

19:10: What did students learn in Tal’s courses that they didn’t expect? 

22:30: How to make hard personal choices. 

28:00: Authenticity and comparison. 

30:15: Does pursuing happiness actually make you unhappy?

36:10: Creating lasting change. 

40:10: Happiness as a business value-add. 

43:00: Managing expectations. 

46:00: The Happiness Studies Academy.

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Sep 14, 2020
How to Change Your Brain
00:56:20

Today, we're exploring the single most important skill we will ever teach on this podcast: How to change the brain in lasting ways.

The dirty secret of the personal growth industry, and self-help and psychology more broadly, is that most of what we learn doesn't stick. So, what can we do to achieve the ‘holy grail’ of personal growth – lasting change in our hearts, minds, and behaviors? 

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Key Topics:

3:30: What is neuroplasticity?

8:00: The power of deliberate practice. 

9:30: Meditation and the brain. 

12:45: Why is it so hard to change? The negativity bias. 

19:45: Human exceptionalism and energy conservation. 

23:00: An experiential example. 

30:30: How to change deep-seated issues. 

36:45: The Positive Neuroplasticity Training.

39:15: Changing self-concept to change behavior. 

49:00: Participating in who you are becoming. 

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Sep 07, 2020
Complex PTSD and Developmental Trauma
00:54:40

What are the consequences of growing up inside an abusive family, and what can we do as adults to heal old wounds? Today we're joined by Pete Walker, a practicing therapist and expert in Complex PTSD.

About Our Guest: Pete is a licensed psychotherapist practicing in the San Francisco Bay Area, who specializes in helping adults who were traumatized in childhood. He’s the author of three books, including Complex PTSD : From Surviving To ThrivingIt’s a practical, user-friendly self-help guide to recovering from the lingering effects of childhood trauma, and to achieving a rich and fulfilling life as an adult.

Pete has a variety of resources on his website, including his 13 Steps of Emotional Flashback Management

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Timestamps:

3:00: What distinguishes CPTSD from PTSD?

5:55: CPTSD as “developmental trauma disorder”

8:55: Presence of the bad vs. absence of the good. 

11:40: The importance of empathy. 

13:35: “They’re crazy or I’m crazy,” and the consequences of that. 

17:10: Healthy anger. 

19:00: Becoming a support to yourself.

21:30: Stages of recovery.

25:00: Corrective emotional experiences. 

27:30: The lifelong process of recovery. 

32:10: Reparenting and the inner child. 

34:45: Managing the relationship with our family of origin. 

41:30: Forgiveness. 

44:30: The inner critic and internalized abusers. 

48:30: A message to your younger self. 

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Aug 31, 2020
Psychological Safety with Dr. Amy Edmondson
00:45:28

What makes for a great team – whether personal or professional – and how can organizations and individuals create a more psychologically healthy environment? 

Many of us have been fortunate enough to be on a really great team…and most all of us have probably been on a bad one. So, what makes for a great team – whether personal or professional – and is it as simple as just being good at your job, or is there more to it than that? It turns out one of the key factors is called psychological safety, which we'll be learning about today with the help of a world-class expert.

About our Guest: Dr. Amy Edmondson is the Novartis Professor of Leadership and Management at Harvard Business School, where she studies teaming, psychological safety, and organizational learning. She’s the author of six books, including her most recent book, The Fearless Organization: Creating Psychological Safety in the Workplace for Learning, Innovation and Growth

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Key Topics:

2:00: What is psychological safety?

7:15: How does psychological safety relate to personality?

11:45: Stress and high performance. 

14:00: Me vs. We

17:30: Psychological safety vs. psychological abuse. 

22:00: Creating a safe group environment.

27:00: Accepting responsibility.

31:30: Psychological safety in virtual environments.

34:00: Giving good feedback.

37:30: Just one thing. 

41:30: A message to your younger self.

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Aug 24, 2020
Real Change with Sharon Salzberg
00:48:39

Sharon Salzberg, one of the most prominent teachers of mindfulness in the West, joins us to discuss how we can create real change in our hearts, minds, and lives. 

About our Guest: Sharon Salzberg is a central figure in the field of meditation, a world-renowned teacher and NY Times bestselling author. Her 11th book, Real Change: Mindfulness to Heal Ourselves and the World, comes out September 1st. She's also the host of the fantastic Metta Hour podcast. 

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Key Topics:

2:45: Sharon’s experience over the last few months.

4:30: Feeling the breath.

6:20: Sitting with painful feelings. 

7:15: Turning toward the good, and metta.

10:15: “Mindfulness to change the world.”

13:30: Key skills from Real Change. 

18:00: Dealing with burnout and overwhelm. 

24:30: Grief.

28:00: Effective compassion vs. empathic overwhelm.

33:00: Generosity, and giving to fill your own cup. 

36:00: Metta. 

38:00: Kindness toward difficult people.

40:00: Doing what you can.

42:00: Patience, and putting wins on the board. 

45:00: A message to your younger self.

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Aug 17, 2020
Key Skills for Great Relationships
00:56:58

In part two of our conversation, we explore some of the key psychological skills that lead to a truly great relationship informed by 35 years of couples counseling experience. 

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Key Skills:

3:00: Give your full attention. 

6:30: Tune into your body. 

7:20: Cultivate interest. 

11:00: How can we know if we’re actually empathic?

13:00: Your attention is yours

16:00: Accepting some level of discomfort. 

17:45: Getting comfortable with people wanting things from you. 

21:00: Three stories of relating.

22:30: Fulfilling relationship tasks. 

24:30: Changing our relationship to criticism. 

30:30: Chronic giving, and setting firm boundaries. 

37:30: Cultivating a stronger sense of self. 

44:30: Talk about what matters. 

50:50: The desire to be found. 

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Aug 10, 2020
How to Have Great Relationships: Attachment and the Self
00:50:06

We all want great relationships - ones that are fulfilling, loving, stable, and fun. This is the first of two episodes focused on becoming a 'great relater.' Today Dr. Hanson and Forrest focus on understanding our individual attachment style, and how we can work through our personal material. 

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Key Topics:

0:25: Staying content while  striving for achievement. 

4:00: Information on the relationship workshop. 

6:20: Who helps you feel enlarged? 

7:55: Rick makes fun of Forrest…and managing different levels of standard. 

9:00: Building a good relator.

10:15: Attachment theory

17:00: Getting less attached to our attachment style. 

19:15: Insecure attachment styles. 

23:00: What issues does anxious attachment create?

26:00: A relationship between anxious and avoidant. 

29:00: Skills for relating with an anxious person. 

32:00: Finding optimal distance. 

35:30: Working through a dreaded experience. 

39:30: Exposure and blame. 

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Aug 03, 2020
The Pitfalls of Self-Help: Comparison and The Secret
00:50:42

In the second episode related to the pitfalls of self-help, we explore how individuals and environments can manipulate others by making them feel like something is wrong with them. 

This is a self-help podcast. And there's a lot to like about self-help! But it has it's issues as well. Today we're exploring our exploration of those issues by focusing on painful forms of comparison and the natural vs. supernatural frame.

Key Topics:

2:45: Being goal directed vs. self-acceptance. 

6:50: Exploitative practices and the fragile psyche. 

10:20: Relating to “problems” in healthy ways. 

14:20: Comparison and creating a sense of lack. 

16:30: Identifying good teachers and communities.

21:30: Comparison.

24:00: Separating means and ends. 

26:00: How to deal with comparison. 

30:30: How much do we actually control?

33:00: The Secret, and the natural vs. supernatural frames. 

39:15: Cheapening the truly transcendent. 

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Jul 27, 2020
Polyvagal Theory with Dr. Stephen Porges
00:51:12

Dr. Stephen Porges joins Rick and Forrest to explore his Polyvagal Theory, which explains how we can use the systems of the body to completely change our relationship with stress. 

About Our Guest: Dr. Stephen Porges is a Distinguished University Scientist at Indiana University and Professor of Psychiatry at the University of North Carolina. In 1994 he proposed the Polyvagal Theory, a theory that links the evolution of the nervous system to social behavior and emphasizes the importance of physiological states in our psychological experiences.

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Key Topics:

1:45: Summary of Polyvagal Theory.

6:00: Evolutionary neuro-biology: the three systems of the body.

15:15: The adaptive nature of the three systems.

19:45: Shutdown, trauma, and constructing a narrative. 

23:00: Challenges of COVID to the social engagement system

28:15: How to intervene in the body.

33:00: Being stuck with problematic people.

35:30: Using the breath and staying calm.

38:00: Co-regulation

42:00: A message to your younger self. 

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Jul 20, 2020
The Pitfalls of Self-Help: Forced Positivity
00:45:15

Do self-help environments force us into inauthentic happiness? And how can we move away from the false front, and into more authentic expression? This is the first of a series of episodes dedicated to some of the self-help community's pitfalls. 

This is a self-help podcast. And there's a lot to like about self-help! But it has it's issues as well. Today we're exploring one of them: toxic positivity and forced happiness.

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Key Topics:

3:00: Rick’s personal experience inside the personal development world. 

8:00: Things that tend to limit abuses of power. 

10:00: The democratization of self-help, and related pitfalls. 

18:00: Act, scared self, and true being. 

21:00: Where does toxic positivity appear?

26:00: The importance of authenticity.

29:30: The false front. 

32:30: Encouraging other people to be fully authentic. 

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Jul 13, 2020
Start Now: Mid-Year Resolutions
00:43:15

We're halfway through a very strange year, and it's a good time to take stock, check in with ourselves, and establish some new commitments – even if they’re as simple as being kind to ourselves. 

One way we can reclaim our experience of agency is by finding where we do still have influence over our outcomes. And that’s what we’ll be exploring today: how to start anew under the circumstances we find ourselves in. 

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Key Topics:

3:45: Hope and disappointment. 

7:30: Reckoning, repentance, and renewal. 

11:00: Controlling what you can. 

14:00: Coping with self-criticism and shame. 

18:30: How to approach the future. 

20:45: Building key habits. 

24:00: Changing our identity in order to change our behavior. 

26:30: Forrest's changing identity - moving into empathy. 

29:30: Using key phrases. 

31:00: Rick's changing identity - feeling like a good person.

34:00: Realistic optimism. 

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Jul 06, 2020
Can We Do No Harm?
00:46:41

Is it possible to "do no harm," and should we even try? Dr. Hanson and Forrest explore what it means to do no harm, and the inner resources that allow us to do as little as possible.

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Key Topics:

1:10: Reckoning and repenting in this moment. 

4:45: What does it mean to truly do no harm?

6:45: How does doing no harm help us “be well?”

11:30: Reasons to take a collective perspective. 

16:15: Grappling with the reality of causing harm. 

19:00: The importance of repair.

22:30: Extending repair to yourself. 

29:30: Are there necessary harms?

33:00: Resources that allow us to do less harm. 

40:30: What happens when we stop being a danger to others?

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Jun 29, 2020
Unlearning Racist Conditioning with Erin Trent Johnson
00:28:52

What can we do to combat, unlearn, and ultimately unburden ourselves from the influence of systemic structures of racism - both out in the world and inside of ourselves?

About Our Guest: Erin is the CEO, principal coach, and founder of Community Equity Partners, and the senior advisor at the Equity Lab. Erin works with educational, non-profit, government, and tech organizations that are committed to creating equitable and inclusive practices. 

Key Topics:

1:10: Finding hope and awakening in the moment.

6:30: "Unburdening" ourselves. 

9:15: Overt vs. covert structures and systems of racism. 

16:15: Key moments that lead to waking to systemic racism.  

23:30: A message to your younger self. 

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Jun 22, 2020
Healing Our History with Dr. Sherri Taylor
00:39:17

What is intergenerational trauma, how does it influence our lives today, and what can we do to heal and persevere when things get tough?

The events of the past few weeks have cast the importance of healing the wounds of the past into stark relief. Today we’re exploring how the traumatic past, including that handed down through the generations, can influence our lives today. 

About Our Guest: Dr. Sherri Taylor is an assistant professor of somatic psychology at the California Institute of Integral Studies, and also teaches in the clinical psychology doctoral program at The Wright Institute. 

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Key Topics:

4:10: What is intergenerational trauma?

7:30: Adaptive strategies for coping with trauma.

12:30: The primacy of the body. 

15:15: Reclaiming comfort in your body. 

20:45: Sensorymotor psychotherapy

22:30: Being with grief. 

26:15: How to keep going when this process gets hard. 

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Jun 15, 2020
Institutional Racism and Traumatic Stress with Dr. Alfiee
00:43:56

Racism and racist structures place an enormous mental health burden on the people they persecute. Dr. Alfiee joins me to discuss the mental health consequences of institutional racism, unique challenges faced by marginalized youth, disparities in access to mental health services, and the importance of "naming and claiming." 

About Our Guest: Dr. Alfiee Breland-Noble is a licensed psychologist who spent 20 years in academic medicine. She's the lead author of The Handbook of Mental Health in African American Youth, the host of the podcast "Couched in Color with Dr. Alfiee," and the founder of the mental health nonprofit the AAKOMA Project.

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Key Topics:

3:30: The impact of institutional racism on mental health.

7:00: Forms of exposure to racism.

9:45: Allostatic load, weathering, and secondary traumatic stress.

15:30: Ways to manage traumatic stress.

19:45: Confusing stress and anxiety.

22:30: The importance of accurate labeling.

25:00: AAKOMA and availability of mental health resources.

29:00: Access, and the stigmatization of mental health.

33:30: Removing the stigma.

37:20: A message to your younger self.

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Jun 08, 2020
We Should Be Uncomfortable
00:09:52

It's our turn to be uncomfortable. 

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Jun 05, 2020
Living and Dying Well with Frank Ostaseski
00:58:36

What can death teach us about living well? A pioneer in the field of end-of-life care joins us to explore the fear of death, anger, true courage, and acceptance in the face of it all. 

About our Guest: Frank is an internationally respected Buddhist teacher and advocate for compassionate care-giving. In 1987, he co-founded the Zen Hospice Project, which helped establish a longstanding model for mindful and compassionate care. In 2005, he founded the Metta Institute.

Frank is also the author of The Five Invitations: Discovering What Death Can Teach Us About Living Fully, which is one of my favorite books.

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Key Topics:

2:00: Frank’s recovery from multiple strokes.

5:30: Fear and choice.  

10:00: What death can teach us about ourselves.

12:20: Supporting caregivers and spreading kindness.

16:40: The fear of death. 

23:30: Coming to terms with the deaths of those we love.

27:00: Allowing.

32:00: Meeting our defenses.

36:30: Removing judgement from anger.

43:00: Bringing wisdom to anger.

44:45: Courage in the world.

47:15: Coming together and falling apart.

54:45: Accepting each other as is. 

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Jun 01, 2020
Transcending the Self with Dr. David Yaden
00:47:36

What does it mean to "transcend the self?" Today Dr. Hanson, Forrest, and Dr. David Yaden explore self-transcendent, or “peak,” experiences, which the famous psychologist Abraham Maslow defined as “moments of highest happiness and fulfillment.”

As a note, David is referred to as a "PhD student" during the episode. Since it was recorded, he's gone on to earn his doctorate!

About our Guest: David is a Postdoctoral Research Fellow at Johns Hopkins Medicine who studies the varieties of spiritual and self-transcendent experiences from the perspectives of psychology and cognitive neuroscience. 

Read David's paper on The Varieties of Self-Transcendent Experience here. 

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Key Topics:

3:00: The two key characteristics of self-transcendent experiences.

4:30: “Everyday” versions of peak experiences. 

8:00: Self-transcendence and psychopathology.

11:00: David’s account of self-transcendence. 

13:50: The lasting impact of peak experiences. 

17:00: Is there a “place” where self-transcendence occurs in the brain? 

20:45: Making use of peak experiences.

28:00: Should we seek peak experiences out? 

36:00: Relaxing the sense of self. 

41:30: A message to your younger self.

43:30: Recap

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May 25, 2020
The Science of Well-Being with Laurie Santos
00:54:25

Dr. Laurie Santos joins the podcast to share what the science says about how we can maintain our well-being during this difficult time.

About our Guest: Laurie is a Professor of Psychology and Head of Silliman College at Yale University. Her course “Psychology and the Good Life” is the most popular class in the university’s history. It’s now available for free online as “The Science of Well-Being." She’s also the director of the Comparative Cognition Laboratory at Yale, which explores the evolutionary origins of the human mind

Laurie hosts the critically acclaimed podcast The Happiness Lab. We couldn't recommend it more highly, if you like our podcast you should definitely give it a listen.

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Key Topics:

2:00: Key resources for happiness during pandemic. 

6:00: Understanding and combating logical errors. 

10:00: How to stay strong during a crisis. 

14:30: Developing an internal orientation toward positivity. 

17:15: Key misconceptions about happiness. 

20:30: Intrinsic and extrinsic rewards.

22:45: Self-compassion. 

24:30: What can we learn from monkeys?

31:00: Why didn’t “errors of reasoning” evolve out of us?

34:15: Liking vs. Craving.

37:00: The critical role of lasting learning. 

48:00: A message to your younger self.

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May 18, 2020
COVID and Releasing Obsessive Fear
00:45:07

Can we work with, and release, obsessive fear during this particularly anxiety-provoking time? Dr. Dan Kalb, an expert on anxiety disorders and OCD, joins the show to help us learn how. 

About our Guest:  Anxiety and worry are a part of life. But when they disrupt the normal flow of life, work and school are harder, family and social relationships suffer, and life is not as enjoyable. Dr. Kalb has been a practicing psychologist for over 25 years, and focuses much of his practice on working with people who suffer from this form of extreme anxiety, hoarding, or OCD. 

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Key Topics:

1:45: What is an anxiety disorder?

6:00: Mindfulness and being in the present moment.

11:30: Releasing obsessions, and not becoming ensnared by negative thoughts.

16:45: Acceptance, and useful vs. harmful self-reassurance. 

24:30: Fears of death, and how to manage them. 

29:30: Key techniques for releasing fear. 

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May 11, 2020
Creativity and the Enneagram with Sleeping at Last
00:54:52

What can we learn about ourselves from and through art? Sleeping At Last, an incredible musician, joins us to explore the Enneagram, the creative process, art and emotion, and how we can become ever more true to ourselves.

About Our Guest: Sleeping at Last, also known as Ryan O’Neal,  is a well-known singer, songwriter, and composer who's written music for shows like Grey's Anatomy.  Over the last seven years Ryan has worked on his Atlas series, an ongoing project that includes an incredible series of songs based on the Enneagram of Personality, which is my favorite personality typing system.

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Key Topics:

3:00: Sleeping at Last’s background and artistic origin story.

6:30: Music as a kind of journal. 

8:30: How masks allow for vulnerability.

11:10: Writing in theme, and finding safe spaces for emotion through art. 

17:00: Sleeping at Last’s creative process. 

20:00: The Enneagram. 

25:00: Forrest and Type 6

30:30: Ryan and Type 9.

33:50: 6 by Sleeping at Last

38:15: Learning about people through art.

43:00: Pressure. 

44:45: Increasing creative output. 

53:00: A message to Ryan's younger self. 

Listen to the fantastic Sleeping at Last Podcast! On it, Ryan explains the process and inspiration behind his music, and I couldn’t recommend it more strongly.

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May 04, 2020
The Highest Happiness
00:46:48

What is the "highest happiness," and what can we do to achieve it? 

This is the second conversation with Dr. Hanson related to his new book Neurodharma: New Science, Ancient Wisdom, and Seven Practices of the Highest Happiness. Today we're focusing on the final four practices in the book: wholeness, nowness, allness, and timelessness. 

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Key Topics:

2:00: Why aim for “the heights of human potential” when the here and now already seems so challenging?

7:30: Wholeness, Nowness, Allness, and Timelessness. 

11:00: What is an aspect of awakening?

14:20: The front edge of now. 

17:00: The value of timelessness for a “normal person.”

23:00: The elements of consciousness. 

26:45: The inherent emptiness of things. 

32:50: Avoiding the pitfalls of emptiness. 

34:30: The apparent self. 

38:00: Our relationship to changing the self. 

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Apr 27, 2020
Neurodharma
00:47:07

Throughout history people have sought the heights of human potential - to become as wise, strong, happy, and loving as any person can ever be. Call these peak experiences, sense of oneness, or enlightenment itself. And now, science is revealing how these remarkable ways of being seem to be based on equally remarkable changes in our own nervous system.

What do those individuals have in common, how did they reach that summit, and what can we learn from them? That's the subject of Rick's new book: Neurodharma: New Science, Ancient Wisdom, and Seven Practices of the Highest Happiness

Neurodharma comes out May 5th, and is now available for pre-order. Click here if you'd like to learn more.

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Key Topics:

2:15: What is the upper bound of human potential, and why should we care?

5:30: Different ways of knowing ourselves

10:00: How can modern science contribute to personal growth?

15:00: How is the brain of an “enlightened” person different from our own?

20:00: The janas, and how they change the brain. 

24:00: The seven practices of the highest happiness. 

28:00: Experiencing the body as a whole. 

35:00: Balancing me and we. 

40:00: Egocentric and allocentric. 

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Apr 20, 2020
A Meditation for the Helpers
00:18:28

I want to express the profound gratitude I feel toward everyone who is serving others during this time of the Coronavirus pandemic. In particular, healthcare providers, first responders, and the whole ecosystem of helpers who have come together to support us all.

I've received a number of truly humbling requests to offer a guided practice aimed at supporting the inner strengths those providers need so desperately these days. This meditation focuses on cultivating a feeling of both acceptance and calm strength. I hope you find it helpful.

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New Book: If you're interested in Dr. Hanson's work, you'll love his new book Neurodharma. It explores the new science and ancient wisdom for being as wise and strong, happy and loving, as any person can ever be. It comes out May 5th, follow the link to pre-order. 

Apr 17, 2020
Overcoming Compassion Fatigue
00:31:33

How can we continue to support others when our own well has run dry? Today we're exploring practices for managing and overcoming both direct traumatic stress and compassion fatigue, or "secondary traumatic stress." 

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Key Topics:

3:00: The anxiety, outrage, and overwhelm of this moment.

7:00: Finding refuge. 

12:00: Refuge and purpose in the collective experience. 

15:00: Surrendering to the moment as it is.

17:00: Opening to the experience and letting it go. 

22:00: Giving yourself permission to feel. 

26:00: "Want to" and "have to."

28:00: A message of gratitude. 

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Apr 13, 2020
Coping with Quarantine
00:35:49

Over the last month many people have been stuck at home - occasionally with people they'd rather not be around. Maintaining a healthy relationship can be a struggle under the best of times, let alone during times of stress. On this episode we explore how individuals and families can deal with the interpersonal stress that comes from being stuck together, and the sadness and loss that comes from being separated from things we love.

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Key Topics:

3:00: The costs of sustained stress

4:40: Unique pressures placed on relationships during this time. 

8:00: Specific tools for maintaining a healthy relationship

15:00: How we’ve been supported by our circumstances until now.

17:15: Redefining ourselves during this time.

24:00: Seeing your own good purposes. 

26:00: Experiencing common humanity.

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Apr 06, 2020
Become a Better Friend to Yourself
00:53:10

It's often easier to be a good friend to others than to ourselves. Today we're exploring how to balance constructive and harmful self-criticism, move away from our "act," embrace change, manage feelings of worthlessness, and ultimately be a good friend to ourselves.

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Key Topics:

3:15: A few ways to be kind to yourself.

8:15: Finding your key resources.

12:50: Useful vs. harmful self-criticism. 

15:00: Putting your past in perspective. 

20:15: Moving away from the “act.”

23:00: Finding optimal distance.

28:00: Ways to tune into your own goodness.

34:00: What to do when you don’t feel like a good person.

43:00: Narcissism vs. authentic feelings of goodness. 

46:00: Relating to the self as something that can change. 

50:00: Ego ideal

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Mar 30, 2020
The Gift of Presence
00:34:22

How can we use mindfulness practically during our everyday lives, and how can "presence" be a particularly valuable tool for women?

About Our Guest: Caroline Welch is the CEO and co-founder of the Mindsight Institute. Mindsight, a term coined by Dr. Dan Siegel, is our human capacity to perceive the mind of the self and others. It’s essentially a kind of focused attention that help us observe the working of our own mind, and helps get us off of the autopilot of ingrained behaviors and habitual responses.

Caroline's new book, The Gift of Presence: A Mindfulness Guide for Women, offers a scientifically inspired approach to a simple question: Is there a way for women to live with more calm amid the chaos? 

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Key Topics:

4:00: Aspects of mindfulness that may be particularly important for women.

10:00: Pivoting, and why mindfulness can be a valuable aid to making good choices. 

15:30: Do men and women experience presence differently? 

18:30: The importance of representation. 

21:45: Stories from the book that particularly stuck with Caroline. 

24:15: Multitasking and being “in the moment.”

27:00: Pace, and the right to slow down.

29:00: Regrets of the dying. 

32:00: A message to your younger self. 

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Mar 23, 2020
Fear in the Time of Coronavirus
00:46:42

We haven’t generally done episodes related to current events, but these events are challenging to ignore. The coronavirus pandemic has already placed a heavy toll on society – over a hundred thousand people have already been sick, thousands are dead, businesses, schools, and recreational events have closed, and there's been substantial economic turmoil.

Today we’re exploring how to cope with the natural fears that arise during challenging times, the difference between useful and harmful anxiety, and how we can grow the inner strengths we need to thrive when things get tough.

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Key Topics:

4:50: Rick’s approach to this moment.

6:00: Claiming your agency.

10:40: Useful anxiety vs. harmful anxiety.

13:45: What makes something uniquely scary.

18:15: Finding, sometimes not particularly useful, ways to express agency.

22:30: How to start determining which form of anxiety you’re experiencing.

25:00: Three ways to work with excessive negative rumination.

28:30: Tools for managing needless anxiety.

33:00: Recognizing privilege while working through survivor’s guilt. 

36:30: Anger and the sadness underneath it.

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Mar 16, 2020
Healing Trauma with Dr. Peter Levine
00:45:33

Dr. Peter Levine, a legendary expert on the subject of healing trauma, joins Dr. Rick Hanson and Forrest to discuss the power trauma holds over the body, how we can truly connect with others, and simple practices for calming fear and unwinding from trauma. 

Dr. Levine has worked in the field of stress and trauma for over 40 years and is the creator of Somatic Experiencing. He is also the author of the best-selling, classic book on trauma Waking the Tiger. He’s authored and co-authored several other fantastic books including Healing Trauma, In an Unspoken Voiceand Trauma and Memory.

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Timestamps:

03:06: The power of trauma on the body.

13:36: The role of the practitioner during therapy.

19:32: Learning empathetic attunement. 

25:39: What can people who carry trauma, but aren’t seeing anyone for it, do on their own to release it?

34:45: "Big-T" vs. "little-t" trauma

Mar 09, 2020
Childhood Trauma with Dr. Bruce Perry
00:46:36

Dr. Bruce Perry joins Dr. Hanson and Forrest to discuss the incredible impact of childhood experiences, the fuzzy distinction between trauma and stress, and what we can do to heal from those experiences. 

As with all of our episodes dealing with trauma and traumatic experiences, please approach this material with care for yourself in mind. There are specific descriptions during the episode of neglect and abuse, including that perpetrated upon children.

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Dr. Perry is one of the world’s leading experts on childhood trauma, and his clinical research and practice focuses on examining the long-term effects of trauma in children, adolescents, and adults. 

He is the Senior Fellow of The ChildTrauma Academy, and a Professor at the Feinberg School of Medicine at Northwestern University in Chicago and the School of Allied Health at La Trobe University in Melbourne, Australia. Dr. Perry is also the author, with Maia Szalavitz, of The Boy Who Was Raised As A Dog, a bestselling book based on his work with maltreated children, and Born For Love: Why Empathy is Essential and Endangered.

Key Topics:

02:20: Why do early experiences have such a long-term impact?

06:10: What makes something traumatic rather than being merely stressful?

11:00: Summary of the material so far.

15:50: The Neurosequential Model of Therapeutics.

24:50: Respecting someone's developmental phase.

29:00: Practical examples of treatment for childhood traumas.

36:50: Self-help approaches to healing old trauma.

42:00: A message to your younger self.

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Mar 02, 2020
Facing Challenging Experiences
00:42:01

How can we better resource ourselves to face the challenging, even traumatic, experiences that lie in our past?

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Key Topics:

03:45: The necessity of eventually contacting trauma material in order to heal.

06:50: Challenges, resources, and vulnerabilities. 

11:20: Key resources for facing challenging experiences. 

16:15: Courage and self-worth.

22:00: General resources for disengaging from activation.

28:00: Contacting challenging material safely.

36:20: The nature of all experiences. 

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Feb 24, 2020
How to Build Habits with Charles Duhigg
00:32:29

We all want to build good habits, but doing so is often easier said than done. Charles Duhigg joins the podcast to help us learn how to do just that.

About Our Guest: Charles is the author of The Power of Habit, a classic bestseller about the science of habit formation in our lives, companies and societies, and Smarter Faster Better, which focuses on the science of productivity. He was a reporter at the New York Times for a decade, where he was part of a team that won a  Pulitzer prize for explanatory reporting in 2013.

If you'd like to hear more from Charles, you can listen to his wonderful podcast How To! with Charles Duhigg.

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Key Topics:

01:19: What got you into the study of habits?

03:30: How can we change our habits?

11:56: Is there a difference between how we change internal habits vs. external ones?

18:40: You've been around a lot of very happy, successful people. You've also been around a lot of very successful people who aren't happy. What are the key differences between the two groups? 

25:13: A message to your younger self.

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Feb 17, 2020
Becoming Friendly and Fearless in Relationships
00:47:52

In our important relationships at home and at work, we need to respect the needs of others while also sticking up for our own. Dr. Daniel Ellenberg joins us today to explore how we can grow the lasting inner resources that allow us to do just that, and ultimately become both “friendly” and “fearless.”

About Our Guest: Daniel has been a practicing marriage and family therapist for over 30 years, and is the co-founder of Relationships That Work, and the founder and director of Strength With Heart men’s groups.

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Key Topics:

2:25: What does it mean to be friendly and fearless.

5:05: “Fear less.”

6:20: Conflating social and physical fear.

9:25: Bringing more awareness into interpersonal conflict.

11:45: Increasing the space between stimulus and response. 

13:35: Inter- vs. Intra-personal skills.

15:00: Finding the pause. 

19:50: Finding sensitivity, kindness, and warmth in a conflict. 

22:15: Loving at will. 

24:00: Men, anger, and vulnerability.

28:30: Truly showing interest in others. 

31:20: Giving the gift of not fearing others.

33:00: Changing our self-concept.

40:50: A message to our younger self. 

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Feb 10, 2020
Working with Grief with Dr. Joanne Cacciatore
00:45:35

There are some emotions that are so deeply tied to the human experience that it’s impossible to avoid them. One of these is grief, which we have yet to discuss in detail on the podcast. On this episode we’re changing that, and have the pleasure of welcoming Dr. Joanne Cacciatore to the podcast to explore how we can bear the unbearable, and heal the trauma associated with grief.

As with all of our episodes associated with traumatic experiences, please be kind to yourself. Be aware that the material explored here includes descriptions of traumatic events - including bereavement.

Dr. Cacciatore is an Associate professor at Arizona State University and founder of the MISS foundation, a volunteer based organization providing counseling, advocacy, research, and education services to families experiencing the death of a child.

Dr. Cacciatore is also the author of Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief. Her research has been published in a number of peer reviewed journals, and she’s been featured in the New York Times, Boston Globe, CNN, NPR, and the Los Angeles Times.

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Timestamps:

03:30: Joanne's journey. 

11:39: How can we accept and make space for our positive moments even during times of intense suffering?

16:10: Developing resources to cope with challenging emotions.

17:48: Ways to bear the unbearable. 

24:42: Trauma and grief. 

34:59: Working with anger. 

41:02: If you could speak to a younger version of yourself, what would you say?

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Feb 03, 2020
Just One Thing: 5% More
00:03:19

On this short episode, Dr. Shauna Shapiro shares the most important thing she does, each day, for her own well-being.  

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Jan 31, 2020
Growing Compassion And Mindfulness
00:45:56

Dr. Shauna Shapiro, clinical psychologist, author and internationally recognized expert in mindfulness and self-compassion, joins Rick to discuss how we can grow and include compassion alongside mindfulness.

About Our Guest: Dr. Shapiro is a professor at Santa Clara University and has published over 150 papers and three critically acclaimed books, translated into 16 languages. Her TEDx Talk, The Power of Mindfulness, has been viewed over a million times.

Her newest book Good Morning, I Love You: Mindfulness and Self-Compassion Practices to Rewire Your Brain for Calm, Clarity, and Joy is now available.

Follow these links to find Shauna's Website l Instagram l Facebook

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Key Topics:

07:34: Shauna's personal story.

12:26: Strengths and traits that support mindfulness.

14:21: The attitudes we should build.

21:32: “Good morning, I love you.”.

23:31: A practice of mindfulness.

28:19: Working through self-criticism. 

32:56: What can people do practically if they're feeling helpless about the state of the world?

36:59: Applying mindfulness in the day-to-day.

41:06: How do you keep growing every day?

43:16: A message to your younger self

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Jan 27, 2020
Just One Thing: Set Your Intention
00:02:40

Sometimes it's nice to have just one thing to focus on: a simple theme each week to reflect on and be inspired by. On this short episode Dr. Kelly McGonigal shares the most important thing she does, each day, for her own well-being.

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Jan 24, 2020
The Joy of Movement with Dr. Kelly McGonigal
00:48:39

We all know that exercise is good for us, but that doesn't always make it easy to do. Dr. Kelly McGonigal joins Dr. Hanson and Forrest to share some of the surprising benefits of activity, and how to find ease and joy in movement.

About Our Guest: Dr. McGonigal is a health psychologist, lecturer at Stanford University, and award-winning science writer.  She is the author of several wonderful books, including the international bestseller The Willpower Instinct, The Upside of Stress, and her newest book The Joy of Movement: How exercise helps us find happiness, hope, connection, and courage.

Today we explore:

  • How movement draws us into social connection.
  • The lasting biological benefits of any movement practice.
  • How to access willpower and align with our values.

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Timestamps:

01:13: Movement as a cure for loneliness.

12:48: How can movement help us express agency?

18:40: Moving past blocks around exercise.

23:31: Why is it that people tend to struggle with sticking with exercise, and what can we do about it?

28:56: How can we work toward success?

33:50: How can people work with their internal inhibitions related to movement?

38:26: Bringing conscious movement to the rest of our day.

43:33: A message to your younger self.

Jan 20, 2020
Just One Thing: Love Yourself
00:02:39

Sometimes it's nice to have just one thing to focus on: a simple theme each week to reflect on and be inspired by. On this short episode Jack Kornfield shares the most important thing he does, each day, for his own well-being.

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Jan 17, 2020
Jack Kornfield on Mindful Awareness
00:57:03

Jack Kornfield, one of the key teachers who introduced Buddhist mindfulness practice to the West, joins Rick and Forrest to discuss practice, mindful awareness, and how to view reality altogether.

Jack is the co-founder of the Insight Meditation Society in Massachusetts, and the Spirit Rock Center in Woodacre, California. His books have been translated into 20 languages and sold more than a million copies. His most recent book is No Time Like the Present: Finding Freedom, Love, and Joy Right Where You Are.

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Key Topics:

01:25: What was it like to go to Southeast Asia in the 1970’s and be a monk?

12:20: When you emptied out everything, was love still there?

22:10: Integrating your teachings into the day-to-day.

27:47: When you find yourself stuck in a certain headspace, what do you do to get yourself out of that?

34:08: What draws your heart?

43:16: Bearing the state of the world.

49:44: If you could back in time and tell yourself one thing, what would that be?

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Jan 13, 2020
Just One Thing: Don't Leave Yourself Out
00:03:10

Sometimes it's nice to have just one thing to focus on: a simple theme each week to reflect on and be inspired by. On this short episode Dr. Tina Bryson shares the most important thing she does, each day, for her own well-being.

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Jan 10, 2020
The Power of Showing Up with Dr. Tina Bryson
00:56:23

Dr. Tina Payne Bryson joins Dr. Hanson and Forrest to share how we can become better friends, parents, and people. 

About our Guest: Dr. Bryson is the bestselling author of The Whole Brain Child, No-Drama Discipline, and The Yes Brain. She’s also the co-author of a new book The Power of Showing Up: How Parental Presence Shapes Who Our Kids Become and How Their Brains Get Wired with Dr. Daniel Siegel.

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Key Topics:

03:45: Why focus on “showing up?”

08:27: Why is it so important to be “predictable?”

13:01: The 4 S’s.

21:02: How do you respond to parents who hear your information and realize they handled their kids poorly?

29:19: Describing what it means to be “Soothed” and “Secure”

35:27: For those who were in imperfect environments growing up, how can they become more securely attached as adults?

40:12: How can we approach people who aren’t equally good to us?

 49:12: What would you tell a younger version of yourself?

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Jan 06, 2020
A Year of Well-Being
00:43:12

On the final episode of 2019, Forrest and Dr. Hanson discuss their favorite episodes from the last year, what they've learned, and their resolutions for 2020.

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Timestamps:

5:30: Who Am I?

15:00: Differentiating parts from the whole.

19:20: Guest experts and interviews.

27:00: What truly changes the brain.

29:20: Resolutions for the new year. 

Dec 30, 2019
Recovering from a Relationship with a Narcissist
00:47:04

Emotionally abusive relationships are sadly very common. Today Dr. Hanson and Forrest explore a subset of those relationships with Dr. Rhonda Freeman, who shares her own journey to recovery from a toxic relationship with a malignant narcissist.

Dr. Freeman is a clinical neuropsychologist. She works with patients diagnosed with neurological conditions, and focuses much of her work on helping people who were involved in toxic or abusive relationships. She is also the founder of Neuroinstincts, and writes for Psychology Today and the Huffington Post, among others.

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Timestamps:

02:13: Differences between sociopathy, narcissism, and psychopathy.

04:48: How do sociopathy and narcissism interact?

08:01: Subtle signs of malignant narcissism.

11:12: What kept you in this type of relationship, despite the warning signals?

15:18: Releasing a trauma bond.

23:30: Helping yourself heal.

33:08: Differences between working with a mild and malignant narcissist.

42:14: A message to your younger self.

Dec 23, 2019
Just One Thing: Accept What Is
00:04:42

Dr. Alex Korb shares the most important thing he does, each day, for his own well-being.

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Dec 20, 2019
Depression and the Brain
00:40:54

Dr. Alex Korb joins the podcast to explore the relationship between depression and the brain, including practical tools for intervening during a depressive episode.

Dr. Korb is the author of The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time. He’s studied the brain for over 15 years, and later earned his Ph.D. in neuroscience from UCLA. He’s also published over a dozen peer-reviewed journal articles on depression, neuromodulation and other topics.

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Key Topics:

02:30: Do we really care about how others feel?

07:14: Coming to terms with not being able to do everything.

13:15: How does depression work in the brain?

21:20: What is an “upward spiral” or “downward spiral?"

29:54: Have you ever experienced depression?

31:07: Key traits for a happy life.

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Dec 16, 2019
Just One Thing: Check Your Assumptions
00:07:47

Liz Fosslien shares the most important thing she does, each day, for her own well-being.

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Dec 13, 2019
How to Deal with Emotions in the Workplace with Liz Fosslien
00:51:04

The modern workplace can be an emotional minefield. For most of us, about a third of our lives will be spent at work. Learning how to work with and manage our internal lives, including our emotions, in that setting is a huge part of becoming a happy, healthy, emotional intelligent human.

On this episode Forrest is joined by the Wall Street Journal best-selling co-author and illustrator of No Hard Feelings: The Secret Power of Embracing Emotions at Work, Liz Fosslien. Liz is also the Head of Content and Editorial at Humu, a company that uses behavioral science to make work better.

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Timestamps:

01:52: Why focus on emotions in the workplace?

06:12: Why you should be less passionate about work.

12:10: Shifting workplace culture.

15:48: Establishing and maintaining healthy boundaries.

22:32: Useful and not-useful emotions.

25:54: The importance of “psychological safety.”

31:45: Managing unusual power dynamics.

38:31: What is “forced positivity,” and is it problematic?

42:20: A message to her younger self.

Dec 09, 2019
Just One Thing: Care Fully
00:06:32

Sometimes it's nice to have just one thing to focus on: a simple theme each week to reflect on and be inspired by. On this short episode, Marc Lesser, Forrest, and Dr. Rick Hanson share the most important things they do, each day, for their own well-being.

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Dec 06, 2019
Bringing Mindfulness into the Workplace
00:35:38

There’s a natural tendency to view different elements of our lives as being unique and distinct from one another: what we do at home, or what we do as part of our personal growth journey, is somehow fundamentally different from what we do at work. So what can we do, both as individuals and a collective, to bring those same mindful traits into the workplace?

That's the question we explore today with Marc Lesser, founding CEO of the Search Inside Yourself Leadership Institute.

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Timestamps:

01:01: From Zen to NYU.

03:27: Stories from the Zen kitchen.

08:51: Compressing “big” lessons into understood words.

11:32: Does “no-gaining mind” work in a capitalist context?

18:08: What moves you from your home base?

20:23: What is the benefit of having more mindful leaders?

23:35: Critiques of mindfulness.

27:30: The most common questions, and most powerful tools.

32:04: If you could go back in time and tell yourself something, what would you say?

Dec 02, 2019
How to Get the Most Out of Therapy
00:48:08

Dr. Hanson and Forrest continue their conversation on therapy with a discussion ranging from how to pay for it to getting the most out of what happens in the room.

As a practicing clinician for over 30 years, Rick's had a lot of people wander through his office. Some of them grew more from the experience than others, and there were some common traits - both on their side and on mine - that tended to lead to the process being particularly beneficial...or particularly not. Today we’re exploring that, alongside a host of other topics.

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Timestamps:

02:20: How do you find a therapist?

05:09: What is an “agency”?

06:21: Determining if a therapist is a good fit.

11:06: Affording therapy.

23:00: Managing the experiences of shame associated with seeking help.

29:52: What can someone do to get the most out of therapy?

38:01: Common pitfalls.

Nov 25, 2019
How to Start Therapy
00:47:06

This is the first of two episodes dedicated to a topic near and dear to Dr. Hanson's heart: therapy. Today we're exploring how to start therapy, including different therapy modalities and how to approach seeking out a therapist to work with.

Of course, therapy can be profoundly helpful for acute issues – for instance, the tendencies a person might have related to our series on pathology. But what gets lost sometimes in our general social conversation around therapy is how useful it can be as a general tool for personal exploration and inquiry.

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04:08: What does therapy look like in real life?

09:34: Different kinds of licenses and what they do.

13:50: Reasons people might go to therapy.

24:38: The traits of good therapists.

35:51: What are the different kinds of therapy?

43:50: Recap

Nov 18, 2019
Just One Thing: Live With Intention
00:02:52

On this short episode, Lori Gottlieb shares the most important thing she does, each day, for her own well being. 

Lori Gottlieb is a New York Times bestselling author, nationally recognized journalist, and weekly “Dear Therapist” columnist for The Atlantic. Her new book Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed has rapidly become one of my favorites.

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Nov 15, 2019
Embracing Therapy with Lori Gottlieb
00:37:59

Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Lori Gottlieb joins the show to explore the therapeutic process, the gifts and challenges of being a therapist in therapy, and why you should consider talking to someone.

Lori Gottlieb is a New York Times bestselling author, nationally recognized journalist, and weekly “Dear Therapist” columnist for The Atlantic. Her new book Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed has rapidly become one of my favorites.

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone is a deeply personal, yet universal, tour of what it means to be human. It examines the truths and fictions we tell ourselves and others as we teeter on the tightrope between love and desire, meaning and mortality, guilt and redemption, terror and courage, hope and change.

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Timestamps:

01:25: The challenges of seeing our own difficulties.

03:04: Going back to being a "client."

05:56: Accessing our deeper, younger layers.

10:35: How we can exit a repetitive cycle.

12:42: Shame and self-punishment.

14:22: Relating to your present, past, and future.

17:23: Taking charge of your own learning and growth process.

18:20: How has being in therapy affected your own therapy practice?

20:07: Loneliness, isolation, and gender differences in therapy.

30:40: Overcoming shame around therapy.

33:04: When someone’s in therapy, what can they do to get the most out of it?

34:22: If you could back in time and say something to a younger version of yourself, what would it be?

Nov 11, 2019
Just One Thing: Choose Again
00:02:09

Gabrielle Bernstein shares the most important thing she does, each day, for her own well being. 

Gabby is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of seven books including her newest: Super Attractor: Methods for Manifesting a Life beyond Your Wildest Dreams. She’s been named a “new thought leader” by Oprah on her show SuperSoul Sunday, and been featured on a wide variety of media outlets, including ELLE and The Today Show.

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Nov 08, 2019
Gabrielle Bernstein on Anxiety, Outrage, and Claiming Your Purpose
00:48:53

Gabrielle Bernstein joins the show to discuss the fear that stops us from being who we truly are, anxiety and moral outrage, and how to become a Super Attractor.

Gabby is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of seven books including The Universe Has Your Back, Spirit Junky, and her newest book Super Attractor: Methods for Manifesting a Life beyond Your Wildest Dreams. She’s been named a “new thought leader” by Oprah on her show SuperSoul Sunday, and been featured on a wide variety of media outlets, including ELLE and The Today Show.

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Timestamps:

01:03: Relating to the pressure to perform.

05:52: Key blocks to becoming a Super Attractor.

07:38: The role of fear, and our addiction to it.

09:24: Are we afraid of feeling good?

14:28: What can someone do if they want to move into the mindset of wanting to be more happy, despite the current struggles they’ve encountered?

17:36: What does the line look like between “wise effort” and “manic manifester”?

20:32: Could you share a time recently where you dropped out of alignment, and how you got back into it?

32:40: Moral anger, appropriate outrage, and building a safe container.

42:53: Moving into a stance of appreciation even when things are hard.

44:32: If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself anything, what would it be?

Nov 04, 2019
Relating to Trauma with Dr. James Gordon
00:25:00

In the second part of our conversation with Dr. James Gordon, we focus on caregiver fatigue, helplessness, and unwinding from trauma at the collective level.

Dr. Gordon is founder and executive director of the nonprofit Center for Mind-Body Medicine. For more than 25 years. His latest book, The Transformation: Discovering Wholeness and Healing After Trauma, guides us step by step in a comprehensive evidence-based program to reverse the psychological and biological damage that trauma causes - bringing together the latest scientific research, 50 years of clinical experience, timeless wisdom, and inspiring stories.

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Timestamps:

02:00: Staying free inside your own mind.

07:17: Managing care-giver fatigue.

11:09: How do you deal with anger?

17:52: If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself something, what would that be?

21:06: What’s the most important thing you do, each day, for your own well being?

Oct 31, 2019
Recovering From Trauma with Dr. James Gordon
00:30:56

Most people will experience some form of trauma during their lives. Today we explore what we can do to recover from those experiences with a world-class expert on the subject: Dr. James Gordon.

Dr. Gordon is a Harvard-educated psychiatrist, and internationally recognized expert on using self-awareness, self-care, and group support to heal population-wide psychological trauma. He is founder and executive director of the nonprofit Center for Mind-Body Medicine.

His latest book, The Transformation: Discovering Wholeness and Healing After Trauma, guides us step by step in a comprehensive evidence-based program to reverse the psychological and biological damage that trauma causes - bringing together the latest scientific research, 50 years of clinical experience, timeless wisdom, and inspiring stories.

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03:04: The Transformation

09:21: The physiological impacts of trauma.

14:53: Recovering from traumatic events.

Oct 28, 2019
Nurturing a Lonely Heart
00:32:40

In part two of Dr. Hanson and Forrest's conversation on Loneliness, they move on to the practical question of what we can do in our lives to overcome experiences of loneliness, and deepen our connection with other people.

This is covered by Rick’s “three point plan” for loneliness, which includes:

  • Taking action
  • Cultivating compassion in ourselves
  • Internalizing readily available social supplies

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00:53: The "three point plan."

02:54: Taking action.

08:03: Cultivating compassion.

17:02: Internalizing social supplies.

23:58: What are the roots of loneliness?

Oct 21, 2019
Just One Thing: Scan Your Body
00:02:40

Sometimes it's nice to have just one thing to focus on: a simple theme each week to reflect on and be inspired by. On this short episode, Vidyamala Burch shares the most important thing she does, each day, for her own well-being.

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Oct 18, 2019
A Way to Manage Chronic Pain
00:42:53

Dr. Rick Hanson and Forrest speak with Vidyamala Burch, co-founder of Breathworks, which offers mindfulness-based approaches to living well with chronic pain, illness or stress. The organization grew out of her own experience with chronic pain as a partial paraplegic, and adapts principles from Mindfulness-based Stress Reduction and Mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy.

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00:58: Vidyamala's story.

04:55: The story behind Breathworks' approach.

12:08: Basic techniques and practices Breathworks teaches.

15:51: Why doesn't mindfulness make pain worse? Why would I want to be mindful of my pain?

19:20: The power of fully coming into an experience of self.

26:58: General advice for managing chronic pain. 

32:45: How to keep going through the bad days. 

38:20: Recap

Oct 14, 2019
Understanding Your Developmental Story
00:09:18

On this short episode, Forrest shares his personal journey with loneliness as a young person - and the importance of developing a coherent developmental narrative. 

We've spent many episodes on this podcast discussing the importance of childhood experiences. We may understand this in a general sense, but things can get a lot trickier when it comes time to put our own story together. Part of the process of becoming a mentally healthy person is creating a coherent narrative about how we became the way we are. 

This allows us to put our current traits in their proper perspective, while also putting us back in touch with our deep nature. Sometimes it's possible to see a disconnect between the person we are now and the things that brought us joy as a young person. Reclaiming that deep nature can be a major source of increased well-being as an adult.

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Oct 11, 2019
Never Alone, Still Lonely
00:32:40

Dr. Hanson and Forrest explore how we can be surrounded by other people, and still feel alone. They cover the genetic and developmental roots of loneliness, and how loneliness can creep into even our most connected, important relationships.

During our ongoing series on “Who Am I,” we’ve explored psychological conditions of various kinds – many of which are stigmatized and pathologized. You can find them in the DSM - the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, which is the primary diagnostic tool published by the American Psychiatric Association.

It’s worth noting that there are a lot of very unpleasant parts of life that no reasonable person would categorize as “disorders.” For instance, there’s no DSM entry for sadness or loneliness. Or frustration, rage, general lack of fulfillment, and so on. There’s a real risk sometimes of over-medicalizing perfectly normal parts of the human experience. Today we're focusing on one of those parts: feelings of loneliness. 

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Oct 07, 2019
Just One Thing: Live the Life You Love
00:02:07

Sometimes it's nice to have just one thing to focus on: a simple theme each week to reflect on and be inspired by. On this short episode, Dr. Jennie Rosier shares the most important thing she does, each day, for her own well-being.

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Oct 03, 2019
Discovering Your Attachment Style
00:49:30

Attachment theory is one of the most influential frameworks in psychology for understanding how people behave in their relationships with others. In this episode, Forrest and Dr. Jennie Rosier explore what attachment theory is, how we can identify our attachment style, and what we can do to build a healthier relationship with our own style and that of others.

Dr. Jennie Rosier is an Associate Professor of Communication Studies at James Madison University, the director of The Relationships, Love, & Happiness Project, and the author of two books: Make Love, Not Scrapbooks, and Finding the Love Guru in You. She focuses much of her teaching and research on the communication skills needed to maintain healthy romantic and parent-child relationships.

Dr. Rosier's Adult Attachment Series

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Timestamps:

01:05: A summary of attachment theory.

04:15: The attachment styles.

08:26: What do these styles look like practically in relationship?

17:08: How can people self-diagnose what their attachment style is?

20:13: Can you attach yourself to different care-givers differently?

26:22: Are any of these attachment styles more compatible with any of the other styles?

31:46: What can someone do to work with their attachment style, or help their partner work with theirs?

38:49: What do good communicators "look like" in these different attachment styles, as opposed to poor communicators?

43:58: A message to her younger self. 

Sep 30, 2019
Stop Sabotaging Yourself with Dr. Judy Ho
00:55:10

We all have something we KNOW we should do...but that doesn't mean we actually do it. On this episode Dr. Hanson, Forrest, and Dr. Judy Ho explore the roots of self-sabotage, the four key elements that fuel self-sabotaging behavior, and how we can use tools from cognitive therapy to overcome those behaviors.

Dr. Judy Ho is a clinical and forensic neuropsychologist, and is Associate Professor of Psychology at Pepperdine University's Graduate School of Education and Psychology. She’s appeared as an expert contributor on over 100 shows, including Dr. Drew, CNN Tonight, and Outside the Lines, and co-hosts the CBS daytime talk show Face The Truth.

Her new book is Stop Self-Sabotage: Six Steps to Unlock Your True Motivation, Harness Your Willpower, and Get Out of Your Own Way, It's one of the best explorations of the practical application of CBT we've read - and it has our full recommendation.

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Timestamps:

00:52: Why did you choose this particular topic?

01:57: What are the evolutionary roots to self-sabotage?

04:44: Primary ways people self-sabotage.

09:59: Working with self-concept.

13:13: The power of the "dreaded experience."

15:40: Managing social fears.

25:00: The roots of the six triggers.

28:19: How to update your self-concept.

33:00: How can we get better at learning.

37:00: What’s the most important thing you do inside your own mind each day for your own well-being?

40:13: When your virtues are not valued.

45:41: If you could go back in time and tell yourself something, what would it be?

Sep 23, 2019
Managing Bipolar Disorder
00:29:40

Today we're continuing our focus on bipolar disorder by exploring some tools and strategies that people can use to help manage their symptoms, or help loved ones do the same.

As with all of the episodes in this series, please remember that bipolar disorder is best diagnosed by a licensed professional.

Here's the Daylio app that was mentioned during this episode.

Key Topics:

00:43: Is bipolar disorder considered curable?

05:16: How can someone begin managing their bipolar symptoms?

06:49: Is it possible to manage a manic episode?

09:18: The power of establishing routines.

10:50: Recognizing our vulnerabilities.

15:05: Managing stress and exercising self-control.

18:00: Shame, and recognizing our worth.

21:00: Self-harm.

28:00: Recap

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Sep 16, 2019
Just One Thing: Move, Meditate, and Appreciate Life
00:04:03

Sometimes it's nice to have just one thing to focus on: a simple theme each week to reflect on and be inspired by. On this short episode, Marie Forleo shares the most important things she does, each day, for her own well-being.

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Sep 13, 2019
Everything is Figureoutable with Marie Forleo
00:27:20

Today we had the pleasure of speaking with Marie Forleo, named by Oprah as a thought leader for the next generation. She’s the star of MarieTV and host of The Marie Forleo Podcast, and has spent time with a who’s who of thought-leaders and personal development experts, including Tony Robbins, Richard Branson, and Brene Brown.

On this episode Forrest, Dr. Rick Hanson, and Marie explore how we can build a "figureoutable" mindset that allows us to meet our challenges from a place of determination, ingenuity, and openheartedness.

If you’d like to purchase Marie's new book, Everything is Figureoutable, just follow this link.

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00:55: Where the idea behind Everything is Figureoutable came from.
07:27: What do you mean by, “figureoutable?”
12:36: For those who don’t have it so easy in life right now, what would you suggest practically for them so they can move into that “figureoutable” mindset?
15:36: Practices for managing fear.
23:13: What Marie would say to a younger version of herself.

Sep 10, 2019
Understanding Bipolar Disorder
00:33:51

Dr. Hanson and Forrest continue their ongoing series on “Who Am I” by focusing on a subset of the depressed mood states which we covered in our last episode in this series: bipolar disorder, formerly known as “manic depressive.”

Depression and depressed mood are major problems for many people, and the material we’re going to get into today will be sensitive in nature. If things start to feel uncomfortable, feel free to skip around or turn it off altogether. As with all of the episodes in this series, please remember that bipolar disorder is best diagnosed by a trained mental health professional.

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Key Topics:

01:30: What distinguishes bipolar disorder from clinical depression?

05:07: Is there a reason why the name “Manic Depressive” was changed to “Bipolar Disorder”?

06:59: What are some of the diagnostic criteria for a manic episode?

14:46: The different kinds of bipolar disorder.

23:36: What bipolar disorder looks like day-to-day.

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Sep 02, 2019
Just One Thing: Care Less About What Others Think
00:02:19

Sometimes it's nice to have just one thing to focus on: a simple theme each week to reflect on and be inspired by. On this short episode, Dr. Ramani shares the most important thing she does, each day, for her own well-being.

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Aug 29, 2019
How to Deal with a Narcissist with Ramani Durvasula
00:44:06

Today we have the pleasure of speaking with a true expert on many of the topics we’ve exploring during our series on “Who Am I?”, including borderline personality disorder, sociopathy, and narcissism: Dr. Ramani Durvasula.

Dr. Ramani is a licensed clinical psychologist, author, and expert on the impact of toxic narcissism. She is a Professor of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, and also a Visiting Professor at the University of Johannesburg.

She is the author of Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship With a Narcissist, and her new book, DON’T YOU KNOW WHO I AM? How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement and Incivility will be coming out October 1st.

Today we explored a range of topics with Dr. Ramani including:

  • What distinguishes true NPD from someone just “being a jerk.”
  • Techniques for interacting with “10% narcissists” more effectively.
  • The importance of drawing clear boundaries.
  • The different places narcissism can come from, and the different ways we can interact with different kinds of narcissists.
  • Working with narcissism inside of our cultural framework.

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Timestamps:

02:01: Where did your interest in narcissism come from?

04:27: The difference between someone who truly has NPD and someone who is just a jerk.

07:05: What is it like to be on the receiving end of someone who’s a narcissist?

09:04: Advice for those in a relationship with someone with narcissistic tendencies.

15:56: The different places narcissism can come from, and the different ways we can respond to each type.

26:41: What can we do to avoid acquiring narcissistic traits, and how can we help our friends manage these traits more effectively?

30:43: Human evolution, social pressure, and narcissism.

41:07: If you could go back in time and tell yourself one thing, what would you say?

Aug 26, 2019
Overcoming Depression: Causes, Interventions, Mindfulness, and Depressed Mood
00:46:24

Dr. Hanson and Forrest continue their exploration of depression and depressed mood with an episode focused on some of the tactics and strategies people can use, both in their own mind and out in the world, to help manage, and even overcome, a depressed mood.

Depression and depressed mood are major problems for many people, and the material we’re going to get into today will be sensitive in nature. If this is sensitive territory for you, please be kind to yourself. Feel free to skip around or turn off the episode altogether.

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Key Ideas:

02:50: The causes of depressed mood, and some places where we can intervene to create positive changes.

05:59: Why it’s so challenging for someone with depressed mood to make psychological changes.

16:22: Using mindfulness to work with a current episode, or prevent relapse.

21:52: Other psychological interventions.

26:30: Overcoming the lack of motivation that accompanies depressed mood.

27:43: How do you get out of the depression slump?

37:37: What can we do to help other people with their depressed mood?

42:40: Recap

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Aug 19, 2019
Understanding Depression: Symptoms, Sources, and Sadness
00:40:00

Today we’re continuing our ongoing series on “Who Am I” by focusing on a huge topic: depressed mood, including clinical depression. Today's episode is the first of two parts, and explores what depression is, where it comes from, and how it differs from sadness.

Depression and depressed mood are major problems for many people, and the material we’re going to get into today will be sensitive in nature. If this is sensitive territory for you, please be kind to yourself. Feel free to skip around or turn off the episode altogether.

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Key Topics:

03:12: What is the difference between "feeling down" and clinical depression?
07:03: How can someone tell if they’re depressed?
20:29: What is the difference between depression and sadness?
27:30: Where does depression come from?
38:10: Recap

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Aug 13, 2019
Just One Thing: Cherish Others
00:02:27

Sometimes it's nice to have just one thing to focus on: a simple theme each week to reflect on and be inspired by. On this short episode, Roshi Joan Halifax shares the most important thing she does, each day, for her own well-being.

Purchase Roshi Joan's most recent book Standing at the Edge: Finding Freedom Where Fear and Courage Meet here.

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Aug 08, 2019
On Death and Dying with Roshi Joan Halifax
00:32:36

Though there is no more human experience than death, it’s one of the most challenging topics to explore. Today we have the pleasure and privilege of learning from a true pioneer in the field of end-of-life care: Roshi Joan Halifax.

As you may know, “roshi” is a title for the honored teacher of a Zen Buddhist community. Roshi Joan is a Buddhist teacher, Zen priest, and doctor of medical anthropology. She is Founder, Abbot, and Head Teacher of Upaya Institute and Zen Center in Santa Fe, New Mexico.

She’s also the author of several classic books, including most recently publisehd Standing at the Edge: Finding Freedom Where Fear and Courage Meet.

We’d also like to let people know about the Upaya Institute’s general fund, which allows Upaya to provide a wide array of workshops, trainings, and retreats for thousands of people each year. If you would like to give to the fund, please follow this link.

Timestamps:

2:09: Roshi Joan's childhood experience, and how it shaped her.

4:42: How has your work with the dying informed the way that you’ve lived your life?

8:17: In your experience of sitting with people who are going through the dying process, what have you found they particularly valued or regretted?

10:14: Handling existential dread.

11:48: We only have one "big" death, but we may have many "small" deaths throughout life. What lessons can we take from the "big" death and apply to those?

18:18: Can we know our own true nature?

20:56: Do you have any counsel for those who are grieving?

26:43: A teaching from indigenous cultures.

28:17: If you could go back in time and speak to yourself as a child or young adult, what would you say?

Aug 05, 2019
Mailbag: Overcoming Self-Criticism
00:35:18

Dr. Hanson and Forrest explore questions from listeners related to managing our relationship with ourselves, and particularly our tendency toward self-criticism.

If you’d like to submit a question to be answered during a future mailbag, use the form on this page.

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Timestamps:

01:05: What is the most productive way to deal with a life-changing diagnosis?
11:16: What can I do to break through my fears of participating in social activities?
20:17: How can I better assert and protect myself during everyday interactions with others?

Jul 29, 2019
Just One Thing: Welcoming
00:03:11

Sometimes it's nice to have just one thing to focus on: a simple theme each week to reflect on and be inspired by. On this short episode, professor Gaylon Ferguson shares the most important thing he does, each day, for his own happiness.

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Jul 25, 2019
Fear and Fearlessness
00:37:33

Today we explore the rich topics of fear and fearlessness with professor Gaylon Ferguson.

Professor Ferguson is a member of the faculty at Naropa University in Bolder, Colorado. He is a graduate of Exeter and Yale, and holds a doctorate in cultural anthropology from Stanford. He’s also a senior teacher in the Shambhala Buddhist lineage, and has been a teacher in residence at the San Francisco Zen Center and Spirit Rock Meditation Center in California.

He is also the author of two books: Natural Bravery: Fear and Fearlessness as a Direct Path of Awakening, and Natural Wakefulness: Discovering the Wisdom We Were Born With.

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Timestamps:

00:58: When did you begin to explore fear and fearlessness?

03:25: Why do you think that courage is our basic nature?

05:57: How can someone experience innate courage?

10:30: The "fear of ourselves."

12:55: What are some of the best practices that people can use to address a feeling of emptiness?

17:04: Becoming more comfortable with groundlessness.

22:59: Handling acute, in the moment experiences of fear.

29:03: Outside of self-awareness, are there certain tactics you have found that help move people into a stance of welcoming?

32:07: If you could go back in time and talk to your younger self, what would you say?

Jul 22, 2019
Mailbag: Helping Challenging Family Members
00:31:02

On today's mailbag episode we answer two questions related to our series on "Who Am I," with a general focus on helping people learn how to better manage their relationships with challenging family members.

If you’d like to submit a question to be answered during a future mailbag, use the form on this page.

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Timestamps:

00:59: How can we help manage our reactions to, and even support, family members that we find challenging to be around?

20:04: What are some key differences between Narcissism and Borderline Personality Disorder?

Jul 15, 2019
Just One Thing: Love Your Life
00:02:30

We are so busy these days that it’s great to have just one thing to focus on: a simple theme each week to reflect on and be inspired by. On this short episode, Adam Markel shares the most important thing he does, each day, for his own happiness.

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Jul 11, 2019
Finding Your Pivot with Adam Markel
00:36:35

It's easy to "go with the flow" during our often busy lives. When things are going well this is great, but when our lives are less satisfying inertia can be a powerful enemy. To get out of a rut, we need to learn how to "pivot" in order to make the big changes that can point us in the right direction.

If you feel that it might be time for a change, this is the episode for you.

Our gust today is Adam Markel. Adam is the author of Pivot: The Art and Science of Reinventing Your Career and Life. He’s given a popular TED talk, has been interviewed by the Wall Street Journal, Fox News, and Forbes, and is the host of the Conscious Pivot podcast.

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Key Topics:

01:04:Two pivots from Adam's life.

06:20: What were some of the things that contributed to your pivot?

08:03: What helps people when a pivot is shocking or surprising?

14:07: What are the enduring and stable attributes of people that enable them to be resilient, or pivot well?

18:07: How do we know when a pivot is good for us?

22:09: How can people who are less resourced internally call upon allies in their life?

28:44: If you could back in time and tell a younger version of yourself anything, what would you say?

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Jul 08, 2019
Managing Borderline Personality Disorder
00:52:18

We all have good days and bad days. Our mood naturally trends up and down in response to the events of our constantly changing worlds.

But some people change more frequently, and are hit harder by change than others. On today’s episode, Dr. Hanson and Forrest continue their series on “Who Am I” by exploring at a particularly intense, and surprisingly common, version of this: Borderline Personality Disorder.

Today's episode is a bit longer and more technical than normal. I hope you stick with it, but feel free to skip around!

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Key Topics:

03:01: What is borderline personality disorder (BPD)?

18:09: How do people with BPD respond to everyday issues?

22:52: What are the traits of somebody who has “10% BPD”?

32:10: How can people with tendencies toward BPD learn to manage it more effectively?

40:40: If we are in a relationship with someone who has some level of BPD, what can we do to support them or otherwise make our relationship with them as healthy as possible?

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Jul 01, 2019
Just One Thing: Sonja Lyubomirsky
00:03:10

We are so busy these days that it’s great to have just one thing to focus on: a simple theme each week to reflect on and be inspired by. On this short episode, Dr. Lyubomirsky shares the most important thing she does, each day, for her own happiness.

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Jun 27, 2019
The How of Happiness with Sonja Lyubomirsky
00:26:14

To summarize and simplify a little bit, one of the major focuses of this podcast is the “how” of happiness – what we can actually do in our lives, practically speaking, to increase our natural foundation of happiness and well-being.

There’s endless advice out there about how to become happier, but most of it is anecdotal in nature. That’s why we're so happy to be being joined today by one of the leading researchers on the scientific study of human happiness: Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky.

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Timestamps:

01:06: The “pie chart” of happiness.

04:52: What push-back have you received on your work?

06:49: What has a big role in the 40% of our happiness we control?

12:34: What can we do to handle “back-fre” effects?

14:26: Building the trait of happiness.

21:35: A message to your younger self.

Jun 24, 2019
How to Deal with a Sociopath
00:42:34

Today we’re going to continue our series on “Who Am I” by looking at one of the most well-known personality disorders: sociopathy. We’ll explore what it is, where it comes from, and what we can do to interact more skillfully with people who possess it.

We also spend a little time investigating how we can work with our own tendencies in that direction if we happen to possess them.

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Timestamps:

01:05: Dr. Hanson's new online program: *Neurodharma*.

05:34: What are the attributes of anti-social personality disorder?

10:26: What does a person, showing a little bit of sociopathy, look like day-to-day?

18:12: Where does sociopathy comes from?

30:16: What can we do when in a relationship with a sociopathic person?

36:37: What can we do to make our relationships with "5% sociopaths" more positive?

44:30: Recap.

Jun 17, 2019
101st Episode Special
00:41:57

We made it to episode 101! On today's special episode, Forrest talks with Dr. Rick Hanson about his personal journey.

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Timestamps:

01:30: What inspired you to become a psychologist?

05:34: What was it like to live through the hight of the human potential movement?

13:13: The influence of contemplative practice.

17:12: Becoming an author, and the process of writing Buddha's Brain.

24:02: What parts of your work are particularly exciting to you these days?

32:09: What have you found in your experience, on a day-to-day level, really makes the greatest difference?

Jun 11, 2019
Just One Thing: Emotional Intelligence
00:04:57

We are so busy these days that it’s great to have just one thing to focus on: a simple theme each week to reflect on and be inspired by. On this short episode, Dr. Daniel Goleman and Michele Nevarez share the most important thing they do, each day, for their own happiness.

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Jun 06, 2019
Emotional Intelligence with Daniel Goleman
00:35:59

Today we’re exploring one of the most important topics when it comes to our personal happiness, achievement, and general social functioning: Emotional Intelligence. And we have the absolute pleasure of speaking with one of the most influential people in that very important field.

Today we’re joined by two special guests: Dr. Daniel Goleman and Michele Nevarez.

You can put Dr. Goleman's expertise into practice with one of his flexible online courses.

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Timestamps:

01:07: What is the definition of “emotional intelligence,” and how is it different from IQ?

05:55: What are the key things that people can do to develop EQ in general?

10:31: A practice a day for greater EQ.

12:15: Why do you think it so effectivefor personal development to practice warm-heartedness?

14:19: How can we help these virtuous practices have more of an impact over the next 25 years?

18:11: What’s something that parents or adults can do to help their children, or young people in general, learn emotional intelligence skills?

23:23: If you could speak to everyone in the world and tell them one thing, what would you say?

28:35: If you had the opportunity to go back in time and talk to your younger self, what would you say?

Jun 03, 2019
How Not to Become Your Parents
00:35:50

We all have tendencies in our relationships, and particularly our important ones. Some of these are good, while others can be destructive. And sometimes we might find ourselves in cycles where the trajectory of all our important relationships tends to look the same.

Today we’re continuing our series on “Who Am I” by taking a look at where those tendencies come from, and how we can work inside ourselves to relate to them and others more effectively.

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Timestamps:

01:48: Do we have repetitive patterns in our relationships?

10:12: Social learning and object relations.

21:16: What can we do to be more aware of those damaging patterns?

24:18: Once we’ve recognized those damaging patterns, how do we change?

May 27, 2019
Bringing Strength to Compassion with Kristin Neff
00:20:34

In the second part of their conversation with Dr. Kristin Neff, Forrest and Dr. Hanson speak with her about how we can be compassionate under challenging circumstances. Particularly, how can we bring strength to compassion without tipping into anger?

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Timestamps:

01:52: Can we have too much mindfulness? And what do we need in addition to mindfulness to support self-compassion?

06:30: Is there a gender bias in the material on self-compassion? How do people of different genders respond to it differently?

12:22: How can a person be both forceful and compassionate?

16:31: So if you had the opportunity to go back and talk to yourself as a child or young adult, what is something that you would want to say to that person?

May 23, 2019
Self-Compassion with Kristin Neff
00:20:06

We all have a negative voice that lives inside our heads, and it’s very challenging to perform at our best when we’re not kind and supportive of ourselves.

Dr. Hanson and I began our book Resilient with a chapter dedicated to compassion, and particularly self-compassion. It’s the fundamental building block on which our personal growth rests.

On this episode, Dr. Hanson and I are joined by one of the world’s leading experts on self-compassion, Dr. Kristin Neff. Dr. Neff is the Associate Professor of Human Development and Culture in the Educational Psychology Department at the University of Texas at Austin, and she was the first to operationally define and measure the construct over a decade ago. In addition to her pioneering research into self-compassion, she’s developed a program to teach self-compassion skills in daily life, co-created with her colleague Dr. Chris Germer.

In the first part of our conversation, we explore the nature of self-compassion, including why it's such an essential skill for personal growth.

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Timestamps:

01:18: What lead you from communications to self-compassion?

03:37:How do you define self-compassion differently from how we do casually?

10:08: Why is self-compassion so important?

12:19: How can people grow their self-compassion?

15:23: How do you give yourself self compassion naturally in the course of a day?

17:06: A practice of self-compassion.

May 20, 2019
Mailbag: Building Resilient Relationships
00:38:19

Forrest and Dr. Hanson answer two questions from listeners related to our important relationships. In the first part, they explore how can we raise resilient children. In the second, they focus on challenging workplace relationships.

If you’d like to submit a question to be answered during a future mailbag, use the form on this page.

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Timestamps:

00:40: What can we do to raise resilient children?

18:38: How can we deal with aggressive colleges in the workplace?

May 13, 2019
The Science of a Meaningful Life with Jason Marsh
00:35:00

Intuition and personal insight can be powerful tools for determining our individual paths toward well being. But sometimes it's nice to refer to some good, old fashioned empirical evidence, and check in with what the research has to say about a given question!

On this episode Dr. Hanson and Forrest are joined by Jason Marsh, the founding editor-in-chief of Greater Good Magazine, published by the Greater Good Science Center. Together they explore key, research-based insights into living a meaningful life.

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Timestamps:

03:37: What do you mean by "Greater Good"?

05:42: The top 5 take-aways from the research on well-being and resilience.

12:53: Where do self-help trends come from?

15:39: Is there a body of research that you see emerging right now that you think could be the next big thing?

17:50: What areas of study should get more investigation?

21:24: How have you applied the research to your own life?

23:28: Do you think there are ways in which some of the research on particular topics has been misused by people?

28:46: What do you think about the research into well-being being used by companies as a way to increase profitability?

33:21: If you could go back in time and tell yourself one thing, what would that be?

May 06, 2019
Confidence or Narcissism?
00:40:05

Dr. Hanson and Forrest continue their series on “Who Am I” by exploring narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder. Specifically, how can we take in the healthy narcissistic supplies we need to become confident, effective individuals without falling prey to unhealthy narcissistic tendencies?

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Timestamps:

01:22: How would you, as a clinician, describe the spectrum of narcissism?

04:03: What’s narcissism at the 1%, 5% or even 10% mark?

07:36: How is narcissism distinct from just being confident?

12:47: Where does narcissism come from?

27:48: How can we take in healthy narcissistic supplies without becoming narcissists?

31:32: Should people with 10% narcissism still take in narcissistic supplies?

Apr 29, 2019
Mailbag: Learning to Let Go
00:31:29

Dr. Hanson and Forrest answer questions from listeners that explore how we can release our attachment to different experiences, and learn to let go.

If you'd like to submit a question, use the form on this page!

Timestamps:

1:25: Dealing with a hoarding addiction.

15:23: The difference between chemical and natural states of mind.

24:11: Should we bring pharmaceuticals into our mindfulness practice?

Apr 22, 2019
Just One Thing: Oren Jay Sofer
00:09:26

Author and mindfulness teacher Oren Jay Sofer shares the one thing he does each day for his own well-being.

Get more Just One Things from Dr. Rick Hanson here.

Apr 18, 2019
Learning Nonviolent Communication with Oren Jay Sofer
00:41:49

So much of our happiness and well-being comes back to how effectively we’re able to communicate with others – particularly in our important relationships. But how often are we our best selves? Are we able to hear others and speak our mind in a clear and kind way, without either becoming defensive or being excessively punishing and prosecutorial?

To help us learn how to do just that, Forrest and Dr. Hanson are joined today by Oren Jay Sofer, the author of Say What You Mean: A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication.

Learn more about Say What You Mean here

Oren's website

Timestamps:

1:38: What is Nonviolent Communication?

5:12: The true nature of Nonviolent Communication.

9:25: How this style of communication changes us.

15:08: Why should we communicate this way when other people don't?

20:26: How can we make demands of other people nonviolently?

32:13: If others don't communicate with us in good faith, should we still be nonviolent?

37:32: Lessons for your younger self.

Apr 15, 2019
Mailbag: Dealing with Hysteria and Violent Media
00:31:14

During today's special mailbag episode, Dr. Hanson and Forrest answer questions from listeners related to things that can hijack our attention, specifically hysterical and violent forms of media.

If you'd like to submit a question, use the form on this page!

Royal Society Open Science Study

Statement from the Society for Media Psychology and Technology of the American Psychological Association

Consortium of Scholars Open Letter

PNAS Metaanalysis

Timestamps:

2:00: "I feel like our culture bombards us with hysteria. What can we do to stop it from influencing us?"

12:50: "Do violent video games, or other forms of media, cause children to become violent?"

24:45: "How much exposure to intense media would you allow your child?"

Apr 08, 2019
Finding the Sweet Spot with Dr. Christine Carter
00:25:03

In part two of their conversation with Dr. Christine Carter, Dr. Hanson and Forrest explore the "Sweet Spot," that place of effortless effectiveness where we can be both productive and relaxed. Our relationships with other people are one of the major influences that can pull us out of that sweet spot, so they are once again a major focus during this episode.

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Key Topics:

0:25: What is the "sweet spot?"

3:30: What pulls us out of the sweet spot?

6:10: How can our important relationships pull us out of the sweet spot?

8:00: How can we know when we've stuck around in a relationship too long, or, on the other hand, when we're leaving too quickly?

10:00: What are things we can influence others on? And what things are unchangeable in our relationship?

14:35: How we can stand up for ourselves.

16:40: How fulfilling our duties fits into the sweet spot.

19:30: How we can find the sweet spot.

21:30: What would you say to your younger self?

23:15: Recap

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Apr 05, 2019
Just One Thing: Christine Carter
00:03:54

Christine Carter shares the most important thing she does each day for her own well-being: finding the time to meditate and accept herself as she is.

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Apr 03, 2019
Parenting and Intimate Relationships with Christine Carter
00:26:40

Parenting and forming strong intimate relationships can be challenging under the best of circumstances, and life is rarely perfect. In this episode Dr. Hanson and Forrest speak with Dr. Christine Carter, author of Raising Happiness and The Sweet Spot, about how we can form strong intimate relationships with our children, parents, and partners.

This is the first part of two with Dr. Carter, the second episode in this series will be coming later this week.

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Apr 01, 2019
Just One Thing: Dave Asprey
00:03:40

There's a lot of advice out there, so sometimes it's nice to have one simple thing to focus on. As we continue to speak with an incredible group of experts, we're going to ask them for their Just One Thing: the most important thing they do inside their own mind, each day, for their own well-being. We're beginning the series with Dave Asprey, founder of Bulletproof.

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Mar 29, 2019
Becoming Bulletproof with Dave Asprey
00:44:05

Dave Asprey is the founder and CEO of Bulletproof, a bestselling author, and an award winning podcaster. Today Forrest and Dr. Hanson talk with Dave about the power of biohacking, what truly motivates people to perform at the highest level, and the relationship between peak performance and well-being.

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Key Topics:

1:25: Why did you want to perform these experiments on yourself?

2:35: How can you spend so much money on optimizing your health?

5:30: The “scientific religion” and the progression of technology.

8:00: A “bio-hack” anyone can use.

10:20: How do we play at the cutting edge of health while avoiding snake oil?

15:30: Dave’s three most important pieces of advice.

19:55: Should we pursue performance or well-being?

23:00: Do you equate happiness to well-being?

25:00: The three big motivators.

27:40: Surprises from Game Changers.

31:00: Unlearning shame.

32:50: The relationship between body and mind.

36:15: Social hacking.

38:30: What would you say to a younger version of yourself?

41:30: Recap

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Mar 25, 2019
Healing Shame with Compassion
00:47:11

Dr. Hanson and Forrest explore how compassion can serve as an antidote to shame with Dr. Chris Germer, a clinical psychologist and lecturer on psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. Chris is the co-founder of the Mindful Self-Compassion Program, and is a founding faculty member of the Institute for Meditation and Psychotherapy.

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Key Topics:

2:50: Non-duality

4:10: Dr. Germer’s first experience with self-compassion.

7:30: Can you be too mindful?

10:50: Defining self-compassion.

13:20: Mindfulness as a response to suffering.

17:00: Masculinity and self-compassion.

20:20: Becoming more receptive to your suffering.

24:30: How to apply self-compassion.

28:00: State to trait.

30:20: Self-compassion and shame.

34:30: How can compassion for shame reduce aggression?

37:10: What would you tell a younger version of yourself?

40:20: Recap

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Mar 18, 2019
Understanding Shame
00:35:59