Your Parenting Mojo - Respectful, research-based parenting ideas to help kids thrive

By Jen Lumanlan

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Subscribers: 680
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Episodes: 279

Adam
 Feb 9, 2023
This is a fantastic resource for new parents as well as any parents open to trying a new science-based approach. Jen does an amazing job of researching each podcast topic and bringing on experts to talk about applying their research.

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Parenting is hard…but does it have to be this hard? Wouldn’t it be better if your kids would stop pressing your buttons quite as often, and if there was a little more of you to go around (with maybe even some left over for yourself)? On the Your Parenting Mojo podcast, Jen Lumanlan M.S., M.Ed explores academic research on parenting and child development. But she doesn’t just tell you the results of the latest study - she interviews researchers at the top of their fields, and puts current information in the context of the decades of work that have come before it. An average episode reviews ~30 peer-reviewed sources, and analyzes how the research fits into our culture and values - she does all the work, so you don’t have to! Jen is the author of Parenting Beyond Power: How to Use Connection & Collaboration to Transform Your Family - and the World (Sasquatch/Penguin Random House). The podcast draws on the ideas from the book to give you practical, realistic strategies to get beyond today’s whack-a-mole of issues. Your Parenting Mojo also offers workshops and memberships to give you more support in implementing the ideas you hear on the show. The single idea that underlies all of the episodes is that our behavior is our best attempt to meet our needs. Your Parenting Mojo will help you to see through the confusing messages your child’s behavior is sending so you can parent with confidence: You’ll go from: “I don’t want to yell at you!” to “I’ve got a plan.” New episodes are released every other week - there's content for parents who have a baby on the way through kids of middle school age. Start listening now by exploring the rich library of episodes on meltdowns, sibling conflicts, parental burnout, screen time, eating vegetables, communication with your child - and your partner… and much much more!

Episode Date
241: Validating children’s feelings: Why it’s important, and how to do it with Dr. Caroline Fleck
Mar 24, 2025
240: How to prepare your kids for the real world
Mar 17, 2025
239: First year for your newborn baby: The 7 ideas that really matter
Mar 10, 2025
238: Feeling exhausted and overwhelmed? Tools to help you cope
Feb 17, 2025
237: 8 reasons your child won’t tell you what’s wrong – and how to help
Feb 10, 2025
236: How to heal the anger in your relationship with your spouse
Feb 03, 2025
235: Children’s threats: What they mean and how to respond
Jan 27, 2025
234: The problem with Time Outs: Why they fail, and what to do Instead
Jan 20, 2025
233: Time Outs: Helpful or harmful? Here’s what the research says
Jan 13, 2025
232: 10 game-changing parenting hacks – straight from master dog trainers
Jan 06, 2025
231: How to support baby’s development after a Wonder Week
Dec 16, 2024
230: Do all babies have Wonder Weeks? Here’s what the research says
Dec 02, 2024
229: Raising kids in divisive times: Where do we go after the 2024 election?
Nov 12, 2024
228: Parenting Through Menopause – Discover Your Wise Power!
Nov 06, 2024
227: Where emotions come from (and why it matters) Part 2
Oct 21, 2024
226: Where emotions come from (and why it matters) Part 1
Oct 07, 2024
225: How to stop shaming your child
Sep 30, 2024
224: How to heal your Mom Rage
Sep 23, 2024
Q&A#6: Am I damaging my child?
Sep 16, 2024
223: What, Why, and How to Parent Beyond Power
Sep 06, 2024
222: How to cultivate Menstrual Cycle Awareness with The Red School
Aug 26, 2024
221: How to advocate for the schools our children deserve with Allyson Criner Brown & Cassie Gardener Manjikian
Aug 19, 2024
220: Nutritious movement for your child – and you!
Aug 12, 2024
219: The skills your child will need in the age of AI
Aug 05, 2024
Episode Summary 01: Building a better relationship with screen time
Jul 31, 2024
218: What children learn from video games
Jul 29, 2024
217: How to end the video game struggles
Jul 22, 2024
216: Am I in Perimenopause? with Dr. Louise Newson
Jul 15, 2024
215: Why will no-one play with me?
Jul 01, 2024
214: Ask Alvin Anything: Part 2
May 27, 2024
213: How to stop using power over your child (and still get things done)
May 13, 2024
212: How to make the sustainable change you want to see in your family
May 06, 2024
211: How to raise a child who doesn’t experience shame
Apr 29, 2024
210: The power of learning in community
Apr 22, 2024
209: How to get on the same page as your parenting partner
Apr 15, 2024
208: Three reasons why setting limits is hard (and what to do about each of them)
Apr 08, 2024
207: How to not be a permissive parent
Apr 01, 2024
206: How to find yourself as a parent
Mar 25, 2024
205: How patriarchy hurts us…all of us
Mar 11, 2024
204: How to create more time by taking care of yourself
Feb 19, 2024
203: How to move toward anti-racism with Kerry Cavers
Feb 12, 2024
Q&A#5: What really matters in parenting? Part 1
Feb 05, 2024
202: How to Heal from Adverse Childhood Experiences with Dr. Nadine Burke Harris and Jackie Thu-Huong Wong
Jan 29, 2024
201: How to create a culture of consent in our families
Jan 15, 2024
200: Ask Alvin Anything (Part 1!)
Jan 02, 2024
199: Digging Deeper into Parenting Beyond Power with Rachel Disney
Dec 11, 2023
198: The connection between your ideas about childhood and politics with Dr. Toby Rollo
Nov 27, 2023
197: What to do about reward and punishment systems at school with Denise Suarez
Nov 13, 2023
196: How to do right by your child – and everyone else’s with Dr. Elizabeth Cripps
Oct 30, 2023
195: Raising Good Humans Every Day with Hunter Clarke-Fields
Oct 16, 2023
194: Regulating for the kids…and for your marriage
Oct 09, 2023
193: You don’t have to believe everything you think
Oct 02, 2023
192: What to do with the myth of Polyvagal Theory
Sep 18, 2023
191: Parenting Beyond Power launch celebration
Sep 05, 2023
190: How to use the tools in Parenting Beyond Power
Aug 28, 2023
189: Childhood Unlimited with Virginia Mendez
Aug 14, 2023
Q&A 4: Is it safe to delay math learning?
Jul 31, 2023
188: How to learn way beyond ‘doing well in school’
Jul 17, 2023
187: What to do when my child says: “I’m booored!”?
Jul 10, 2023
Q&A #3: Why do you have to go to work?
Jun 26, 2023
186: How to meet your needs with Mara Glatzel
Jun 12, 2023
185: How can we raise resilient children?
May 29, 2023
184: How to get on the same page as your co-parent
May 08, 2023
183: What I wish I’d known about parenting
May 01, 2023
182: How to get frustrating behavior to stop
Apr 24, 2023
181: Why ‘giving choices’ doesn’t work – and what to do instead
Apr 10, 2023
180: How to get your children to stop fighting
Mar 26, 2023
Q&A #2: How do we help children who are ‘falling behind’ without using milestones?
Mar 20, 2023
179: I Never Thought of It That Way with Mónica Guzmán and Lulu
Mar 06, 2023
178: How to heal your inner critic
Feb 20, 2023
177: Three ways to be a good parent, even on bad days
Feb 06, 2023
176: How to begin healing shame with A.J. Bond
Jan 30, 2023
Q&A #1: Should I let my child hit me, or a pillow?
Jan 23, 2023
175: I’ll be me; can you be you?
Jan 09, 2023
174: Support for Neurodivergent Parents with Dr. Rahimeh Andalibian & Sara Goodrich
Dec 19, 2022
173: Why we shouldn’t read the “Your X-Year-Old Child” books any more
Dec 05, 2022
172: You Are Not A Sh*tty Parent with Carla Naumburg
Nov 21, 2022
171: How Good People Can Create A More Just Future with Dr. Dolly Chugh
Nov 07, 2022
170: How to stop procrastinating with Dr. Fuschia Sirois
Oct 24, 2022
169: How to take care of yourself first with Liann Jensen
Oct 10, 2022
168: Feeling Triggered by Current Events
Oct 03, 2022
167: Healing and Helping with Mutual Aid with Dean Spade
Sep 26, 2022
166: Learning to trust your child – and yourself
Sep 12, 2022
165: How grit helps (and how it doesn’t)
Aug 26, 2022
164: Supporting Neurodivergent Children with Dr. Hanna Bertilsdotter-Rosqvist
Aug 21, 2022
163: Should children vote? with Dr. John Wall
Aug 15, 2022
162: Supporting children through grief with Katie Lear
Aug 01, 2022
161: New masculinites for older boys with Dr. Michael Kehler & Caroline Brunet
Jul 18, 2022
160: Wanting What’s Best with Sarah Jaffe
Jul 04, 2022
159: Supporting Girls’ Relationships with Dr. Marnina Gonick
Jun 20, 2022
158: Deconstructing Developmental Psychology with Dr. Erica Burman
Jun 06, 2022
157: How to find your village
May 19, 2022
156: From desperation to collaboration
May 15, 2022
155: How to get your child to listen to you
May 01, 2022
154: Authoritative isn’t the best Parenting “Style”
Apr 24, 2022
153: Belonging: Remembering Ourselves Home
Apr 17, 2022
SYPM 020: Preparing for the afterbirth with Renee Reina
Apr 04, 2022
152: Everything you need to know about sleep training
Mar 27, 2022
151: The Alphabet Rockers with Kaitlin McGaw and Tommy Shepherd
Mar 20, 2022
150: How to avoid passing on an eating disorder to our child with Dr. Shiri Sadeh-Sharvit
Mar 06, 2022
SYPM 019: Why are you always so angry?
Feb 20, 2022
149: How to set the boundaries you need
Feb 13, 2022
148: Is spanking a child really so bad?
Feb 06, 2022
SYPM 018: No Set Bedtime with Gila and Katherine
Jan 30, 2022
SYPM 017: Reparenting ourselves to create empathy in the world with Amy
Jan 23, 2022
147: Sugar Rush with Dr. Karen Throsby
Jan 09, 2022
RE-RELEASE: Why storytelling is so important for our children
Jan 02, 2022
RE-RELEASE: How to read with your child with Dr. Laura Froyen
Dec 19, 2021
RE-RELEASE: Parenting beyond pink and blue with Dr. Christia Brown
Dec 05, 2021
RE-RELEASE: Why isn’t my child grateful with Dr. Jonathan Tudge
Nov 21, 2021
RE-RELEASE: Becoming Brilliant – Interview with Prof. Roberta Golinkoff
Nov 07, 2021
[Looking back and looking ahead]
Oct 31, 2021
SYPM 016: Getting it right from the start with a new baby
Oct 24, 2021
146: The Rested Child with Dr. Chris Winter
Oct 17, 2021
145: How to Sugarproof your kids with Dr. Michael Goran
Oct 03, 2021
SYPM 015: How to support each unique child’s learning journey
Sep 19, 2021
144: Supporting Your Gifted Child
Sep 11, 2021
143: The Extended Mind with Annie Murphy Paul
Sep 05, 2021
142: Division of Responsibility with Ellyn Satter
Aug 15, 2021
SYPM 014: The power of healing in community
Aug 01, 2021
141: The Body Keeps The Score with Dr. Bessel van der Kolk
Jul 25, 2021
SYPM 013: Triggered all the time to emotional safety
Jul 17, 2021
140: Mythbusting about fat and BMI with Dr. Lindo Bacon
Jul 04, 2021
139: How to keep your child safe from guns (even if you don’t own one)
Jun 20, 2021
138: Most of what you know about attachment is probably wrong
Jun 06, 2021
137: Psychological Flexibility through ACT with Dr. Diana Hill
May 23, 2021
136: Mother’s Day Momifesto
May 08, 2021
135: 5 reasons respectful parenting is so hard
May 02, 2021
SYPM 012: From fear-filled conflict to parenting as a team
Apr 25, 2021
134: Beyond Sex Education with Dr. Nadine Thornhill
Apr 18, 2021
What Carys wants you to know about your children’s feelings
Apr 11, 2021
133: How the Things We Learned About Sex Impact Our Children
Apr 04, 2021
132: How implicit bias affects my child (Part 2)
Mar 21, 2021
131: Implicit Bias with Dr. Mahzarin Banaji
Mar 07, 2021
130: Introduction to mindfulness and meditation with Diana Winston
Feb 21, 2021
129: The physical reasons you yell at your kids
Feb 07, 2021
SYPM 011: Untigering with Iris Chen
Jan 29, 2021
128: Should I Redshirt My Child?
Jan 24, 2021
Dismantling White Supremacy and Patriarchy on MLK Day
Jan 18, 2021
Responding to the U.S. Capitol Siege
Jan 10, 2021
127: Doing Self-Directed Education
Dec 17, 2020
SYPM 010: From Anxious Overwhelm to Optimistic Calm
Dec 13, 2020
126: Problem Solving with Dr. Ross Greene
Dec 06, 2020
SYPM 009: How to Set Boundaries in Parenting
Nov 29, 2020
125: Should you worry about technoference?
Nov 20, 2020
SYPM 008: Fostering Positive Sibling Relationships with Future Focused Parenting
Nov 09, 2020
124: The Art of Holding Space
Nov 06, 2020
123: Maternal Ambivalence: What it is, and what to do about it
Nov 01, 2020
122: Self-Compassion for Parents
Oct 18, 2020
121: How To Support Your Perfectionist Child
Oct 05, 2020
120: How to Raise a Child Who Uses Their Uniqueness to Create Happiness (RE-RELEASE)
Sep 20, 2020
119: Aligning Your Parenting With Your Values
Sep 07, 2020
SYPM 007: Parenting Across Cultural Divides
Aug 23, 2020
118: Are You Raising Materialistic Kids?
Aug 11, 2020
117: Socialization and Pandemic Pods
Jul 26, 2020
SYPM 006: Mindful Mama
Jul 26, 2020
116: Turn Work-Family Conflict Into Work-Family Balance
Jul 16, 2020
115: Reducing the Impact of Advertising to Children
Jul 05, 2020
114: How to stop ‘Othering’ and instead ‘Build Belonging’
Jun 19, 2020
SYPM 005: Getting Confident About the Decision to Homeschool
Jun 07, 2020
113: No Self, No Problem
May 24, 2020
112: How to Set up a Play Room
May 11, 2020
111: Parental Burn Out
Apr 27, 2020
110: How to Dismantle Patriarchy Through Parenting
Apr 13, 2020
109: Education in a time between worlds
Mar 30, 2020
108: How to cope with the Coronavirus pandemic
Mar 15, 2020
107: The impact of consumerism on children
Mar 09, 2020
106: Patriarchy is perpetuated through parenting (Part 1)
Feb 23, 2020
105: How to pass on mental wealth to your child
Feb 10, 2020
104: How to help a child to overcome anxiety
Jan 27, 2020
103: How to raise a child who uses their uniqueness to create happiness
Jan 13, 2020
[Taking a Break]
Nov 11, 2019
102: From confusion and conflict to confident parenting
Oct 28, 2019
101: What happens after divorce – and how it impacts children
Oct 14, 2019
100!
Sep 30, 2019
099: How to parent highly sensitive children
Sep 16, 2019
098: Do school shooter trainings help (or hurt) children?
Sep 02, 2019
097: How to support gender-creative children
Aug 19, 2019
096: How to prevent sexual abuse
Aug 06, 2019
095: Ask the American Academy of Pediatrics!
Jul 22, 2019
SYPM 004: Conflicting cultures! with Dovilė Šafranauskė
Jul 15, 2019
094: Using nonviolent communication to parent more peacefully
Jul 07, 2019
SYPM 003: Responding Mindfully with Seanna Mallon
Jul 02, 2019
093: Parenting children of non-dominant cultures
Jun 24, 2019
092: Fathers’ unique role in parenting
Jun 10, 2019
091: Do I have privilege?
May 27, 2019
090: Sensory processing disorder
May 12, 2019
SYPM002: Sugar! with Rose Amanda
May 06, 2019
089: Teaching children about issues related to race
Apr 29, 2019
SYPM 001: Mindfulness with Jess Barnes
Apr 22, 2019
088: Setting loving – and effective! – limits
Apr 15, 2019
087: Talking with children about race, with Dr. Beverly Daniel Tatum
Apr 01, 2019
086: Playing to Win: How does playing sports impact children?
Mar 18, 2019
085: White privilege in schools
Mar 04, 2019
084: The Science of RIE
Feb 18, 2019
083: White privilege in parenting: What it is & what to do about it
Feb 04, 2019
082: Regulating emotions: What, When, & How
Jan 21, 2019
081: How can I decide which daycare/preschool is right for my child?
Jan 07, 2019
080: Self-Reg: Can it help our children?
Dec 24, 2018
079: What is RIE?
Dec 10, 2018
078: You have parenting goals; do you know what they are?
Nov 26, 2018
077: Are forest schools any better for children than regular schools?
Nov 12, 2018
076: How to rock your parent-teacher conference
Oct 29, 2018
075: Should we Go Ahead and Heap Rewards On Our Kid?
Oct 15, 2018
074: Attachment: What it is, what it’s not, how to do it, and how to stop stressing about it
Oct 01, 2018
073: What to do when your child refuses to go to school
Sep 17, 2018
072: Is the 30 Million Word Gap Real: Part II
Sep 03, 2018
071: How your child can benefit from intergenerational relationships
Aug 19, 2018
070: Why isn’t my child grateful?
Aug 06, 2018
069: Reducing the impact of intergenerational trauma
Jul 23, 2018
068: Do I HAVE to pretend play with my child?
Jul 09, 2018
067: Does the Marshmallow Test tell us anything useful?
Jun 25, 2018
066: Is the 30 Million Word Gap real?
Jun 11, 2018
065: Why storytelling is so important for our children
Jun 04, 2018
064: Compassion (and how to help your child develop it)
May 21, 2018
063: How family storytelling can help you to develop closer relationships and overcome struggles
May 07, 2018
062: Why we need to let our kids need to take more risks
Apr 23, 2018
061: Can Growth Mindset live up to the hype?
Apr 09, 2018
060: What do children learn from reading books?
Mar 25, 2018
059: How to Raise a Wild Child
Mar 12, 2018
058: What are the benefits of outdoor play?
Feb 26, 2018
057: What is the value of play?
Feb 12, 2018
056: Beyond “You’re OK!”: Modeling Emotion Regulation
Jan 29, 2018
055: Raising Your Spirited Child
Jan 13, 2018
054: Three reasons not to say “You’re OK!”
Jan 01, 2018
053: Sleep! (And how to get more of it)
Dec 18, 2017
052: Grit: The unique factor in your child’s success?
Dec 04, 2017
051: How to handle social exclusion
Nov 20, 2017
050: How to raise emotionally healthy boys
Nov 06, 2017
049: How to raise a girl with a healthy body image
Oct 23, 2017
048: How to read with your child
Oct 09, 2017
047: How to raise a bilingual child
Sep 10, 2017
046: How to potty train a child
Aug 28, 2017
045: How parenting affects child development
Aug 14, 2017
044: How to introduce your child to music (even if you can’t play or sing)
Jul 31, 2017
043: How to talk with children about death
Jul 17, 2017
042: How to teach a child to use manners
Jul 03, 2017
041: Siblings: Why do they fight, and what can we do about it?
Jun 19, 2017
040: Only children: Are they as bad as advertised?
Jun 05, 2017
039: What to do when your toddler says “No, I don’t wanna…!”
May 22, 2017
038: The Opposite of Spoiled
May 16, 2017
037: Generation Me
May 08, 2017
036: The impact of divorce on a child’s development (Part 1)
Apr 30, 2017
035: Parenting: All joy and no fun?
Apr 24, 2017
034: How do I get my child to do chores?
Apr 16, 2017
033: Does your child ever throw tantrums? (Part 2)
Apr 08, 2017
032: Free to learn
Apr 02, 2017
031: Parenting beyond pink and blue
Mar 27, 2017
030: On Education (And on Betsy DeVos)
Mar 20, 2017
029: Why we shouldn’t ban war play
Mar 13, 2017
028: How do children form social groups?
Mar 06, 2017
027: Is a Reggio Emilia-inspired preschool right for my child?
Feb 27, 2017
026: Is my child lying to me? (Hint: Yes!)
Feb 20, 2017
025: Is a Waldorf preschool right for my child?
Feb 13, 2017
024: How (and when) does my child understand fairness?
Feb 06, 2017
023: Is a Montessori preschool right for my child?
Jan 30, 2017
022: How to Talk so Little Kids Will Listen: Author Interview!
Jan 20, 2017
021: Talk Sex Today!
Jan 15, 2017
020: How do I get my child to do what I want them to do?
Jan 09, 2017
019: Raising your Child in a Digital World: Interview with Dr. Kristy Goodwin
Jan 01, 2017
018: The Spiritual Child: Possibly exaggerated, conclusions uncertain
Dec 26, 2016
017: Don’t bother trying to increase your child’s self-esteem
Dec 19, 2016
016: Listening, Growth, and Lifelong Resilience
Dec 12, 2016
015: How to support your introverted child
Dec 05, 2016
014: Understanding the AAP’s new screen time guidelines
Nov 28, 2016
013: Vanessa Merten of the Pregnancy Podcast
Nov 21, 2016
012: It’s not about the broccoli: Dr. Dina Rose
Nov 14, 2016
011: Does your child ever throw tantrums? (Part 1)
Nov 07, 2016
010: Becoming Brilliant – Interview with Prof. Roberta Golinkoff
Oct 31, 2016
009: Do you punish your child with rewards?
Oct 24, 2016
008: The impact of stress and violence on children
Oct 17, 2016
007: Help! My toddler won’t eat vegetables
Oct 10, 2016
006: Wait, is my toddler racist?
Oct 03, 2016
005: How to “scaffold” children’s learning to help them succeed
Sep 26, 2016
004: How to encourage creativity and artistic ability in young children – Interview with Dr. Tara Callaghan
Sep 19, 2016
003: Did you miss the boat on teaching your toddler how to read? (Me too!)
Sep 12, 2016
002: Why doesn’t my toddler share?
Aug 18, 2016
001: The influence of culture on parenting
Aug 18, 2016
000: Philosophy (aka “What’s this Podcast All About?”)
Aug 15, 2016