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 Aug 6, 2020
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Featured in Buzzfeed, Oprah Magazine, Esquire, and Queerty, Gayish is an award-nominated podcast that breaks down one gay stereotype each week. Mike and Kyle bring humor, honesty, and irreverence to topics like the hanky code, depression, and open relationships. Past guests have included YouTuber Davey Wavey, gay porn star Calvin Banks, Andrew Gurza, Matt Baume, a gay priest, a trans atheist, and Mike’s wildly supportive and over-sharing mom.

Episode Date
Gayish: 232 Sex at Pride

Kink and fetish. Corporate sponsorship. Straight perception. Family-friendly. Rainbow-washing. What is the true meaning of Pride? Mike and Kyle have the conversation the internet has been having for years.

In this episode: News- 2:04 || Main Topic (Sex and Kink at Pride)- 15:31 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:24:18

Kyle’s Pride Playlist:

Fucking Dan’s Pride Playlist:

On Monday's bonus segment, Fucking Dan, the actual kinky gay in our group, shares why this debate is so painful for him, and he gives an extra scoop of the history of LGBTQ rights.

Jun 10, 2021
Gayish: 231 Bottoms 🥺

Who was the first to bottom? Was Oscar Wilde a bottom? Should you teach your kids to bottom? Is anal vaping a thing? We get to the bottom of all of it.

In this episode: News- 1:39 || Main Topic (Bottoms)- 12:59 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:24:37

Coming soon on the Patreon segment, Fucking Dan shares his tips for cleaning out, and Mike and Kyle... react.

Jun 03, 2021
Gayish: 230 Listeners' Recovery Stories [Shrinkage]

When we decided to do Episode 229 Recovery, we asked our listeners for their stories.  We had so many people write and call in, we couldn't possibly fit them in the main episode.  This shrinkage is a compilation of those stories.

Thank you to everyone who participated and sent in material.  We appreciate you and your willingness to share.

May 30, 2021
Gayish: 229 Recovery (w/ Boyfriend Bobby, Dani F., and Honey Bucket)

The road to recovery is long, and so is this episode.  

We are joined by three LGBTQIA+ people in recovery to tell us about their struggle with substance abuse, their experiences with treatment programs, and in one case what Fucking Dan feels like on the inside. 

A special thank you to Boyfriend Bobby, Dani F., and Honey Bucket (@mizzhoneybucket) for stopping by and sharing such a vulnerable part of themselves with us.

Also a big thinks to all of you that sent in your own stories!  This episode was so long we made the decision to release your contributions as a shrinkage later this week, so look for that! In this episode: Boyfriend Bobby- 2:14 || Dani F.- 43:01 || Honey Bucket- 1:36:50 || Gayest & Straightest- 2:07:21 On Monday, Fucking Dan tells us his story.  At least one of us cries.

May 27, 2021
Gayish: 228 Gaydar

Is gaydar real? By the end of this episode, you’ll know the answer.

In this episode: News- 1:13 || Main Topic (Gaydar)- 13:50 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:29:27

On Monday, Fucking Dan talks about straight-passing and flying under the gaydar.

May 20, 2021
Gayish: 227 John Waters

John Waters. Gay icon. The pope of trash. We do our best to talk about him, even though we don’t revere him like other gays. Topics include Female Trouble, A Dirty Shame, Hairspray, Pink Flamingos, Divine, Mink Stole, Little Richard, Craig Ferguson, camp, the Met Gala, Trump, and tr*nnies.

In this episode: News- 3:39 || Main Topic (John Waters)- 14:14 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:22:37

This topic was selected by our Gap Bridgers. If you want to help pick episodes each month (and pick one all on your own!), become a Gap Bridger at

May 13, 2021
Gayish: 226 Horses

Look, this one gets weird. We talk about everything from the gay straightness of the Kentucky Derby, racing horse or porn star, etymology of “hung like a horse,” the comparative size of animal penises, how porn star dicks aren’t real, and bronies.

In this episode: News- 2:05 || Main Topic (Horses)- 13:38 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:52

Join Patreon to get access to the bonus segment for this episode, which is Fucking Dan talking about that one guy that got fucked to death by a horse. Bonus segments come out on Mondays.

May 06, 2021
Gayish: 225 Transgender (w/ Sarah Ray from SarahTalk Podcast)

Caitlyn Jenner. Bulges and tucking. Peeing standing up. Topping when trans. “The surgery.” Richard Dawkins. We ask special guest Sarah Ray all the things you’re not supposed to ask a trans person.

In this episode: News- 3:18 || Main Topic (Transgender)- 16:54 || Guest (Sarah Ray)- 19:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:14:50

On Monday's Patreon segment, Fucking Dan asks Sarah "a doozy of a question." Sign up for bonus content at

Apr 29, 2021
Gayish: 224 Socks

Socks can be a fetish, clean-up tool, FTM packer, puppet, and a way to prove you're not gay. Yes, this is our most sockual episode yet.

In this episode: News- 1:10 || Main Topic (Socks)- 16:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:43

On Monday's Patreon segment, Fucking Dan tells us about Socks the Cat. Join for more sockful content at

Apr 22, 2021
Gayish: 223 News Theme Song Contest [Shrinkage]

Mike & Kyle listen to a few of the submissions we loved from the news theme song contest, including the winner!

Apr 21, 2021
Gayish: 222 (Iced) Coffee

Why is iced coffee a gay stereotype? Also, coffee gays from history, coffee news from, decaf coffee guilt, and São Paulo.

In this episode: News- 4:25 || Main Topic (Coffee)- 17:45 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:00

On Monday's Patreon segment, Fucking Dan talks about his experience ingesting coffee non-mouthily the morning before recording.

Apr 15, 2021
Gayish: 221 Foreplay

HAPPY FOURTH BIRTHDAY TO US! Mike and Kyle celebrate with a livestream and foreplay.

In this episode: News- 3:57 || Main Topic (Foreplay)- 22:01 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:17:01

On Monday's Patreon segment, Fucking Dan talks about the after-play to complement your 'fore-play. Get access at

Apr 08, 2021
Gayish: 220 Republicans
Are you a Republican't or a Republican? We talk about LGBT Republicans, and Mike tries not to yell while Kyle tries to keep the peace.   In this episode: News- 1:40 || Main Topic (Republicans)- 17:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:25:33   Thank you to Kevin Henderson for requesting this topic! If you want to help produce an episode of Gayish, sign up as a Gap Bridger on our Patreon,
Apr 01, 2021
Gayish: 219 Auto Racing (w/ Charlie Martin)

“Things had to get really bad before they got worse.” Race car driver, trans activist, and Ninja Warrior champion Charlie Martin shares her very personal experience of transitioning (and thriving) in the male-dominated world of auto racing. Plus, Mike and Kyle try their best to remember to talk about racing.

In this episode: News- 1:53 || Main Topic (Auto Racing)- 17:39 || Guest (Charlie Martin)- 23:18 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:21:05

For bonus episodes and segments, join us at!

Mar 25, 2021
Gayish: 218 Scissoring (w/ Kris & Shana from Bad Queers)

What’s the truth behind scissoring? Do all people achieve the goal that scissoring has to give? What’s the sound of two vulvas rubbing together?

In this episode: News- 1:17 || Main Topic (Scissoring)- 14:08 || Guests (Bad Queers)- 15:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 55:14

For bonus content, support us at!

Mar 18, 2021
Gayish: 217 Jealousy

What do Mike’s ex-wife and Nick Jonas have in common? They both get jealous. (To be fair, it’s their right to be hellish.) Thanks to our Patreon Gap Bridgers for voting on this topic.

In this episode: News- 5:30 || Main Topic (Jealousy)- 17:38 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:42

On Monday’s Patreon bonus segment, Fucking Dan administers a jealously quiz to Mike and Kyle to see where their jealousy line is when in a relationship.

Mar 11, 2021
Gayish: 216 Butterflies 🦋

Butterflies can be a million things, like named after poop, a big ol' bottom, Kylie Jenner's love language, a good (or bad?) trans metaphor, a super lesbian Hong Kong film, or a song that DJ AM raps in. No matter what, we know LeVar Burton is down. 🤜🦋

In this episode: News- 9:50 || Main Topic (Butterflies)- 20:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:06

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Mar 04, 2021
Gayish: 215 Limp Wrists

The stereotype of the limp-wristed faggot goes back to the Romans (no, for real), and it’s one example of how gay men are trained to hate themselves from a young age. We get surprisingly personal when we talk about our experience with limp wrists.

In this episode: News- 8:58 || Main Topic (Limp Wrists)- 21:05 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:43

Coming soon on the Patreon bonus segment, Fucking Dan swerves on us and talks about queercore metal bands. Oh, and he cries. Get bonus segments every week for just $5/mo!

Feb 25, 2021
Gayish: 214 Backwards Hats

Our most drool-worthy episode yet!

In this episode: News- 1:24 || Main Topic (Backwards Hats)- 13:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:22

I'll be honest. The bonus segment (coming soon) is just gonna be us talking about hot guys with backwards hats. Get this and more bonus content at

Feb 18, 2021
Gayish: 213 Florists

This episode will be known only as the originator of the Rough Fuck Me Daddy Bouquet. And what more reason do you need to listen?

In this episode: News- 1:29 || Main Topic (Florists)- 12:03 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:10

On Monday's bonus segment, Dan shares floral-inspired gay history about Hibiscus and The Cockettes. Bonus content at

Feb 11, 2021
Gayish: 212 Tattoos

Tattoos are sexy, and so is this episode. We have surprising gatya about gay men’s opinion of guys with tattoos, the meaning of biohazard tattoos, and insight from Reddit user PM_ME_UR_GAY_COCK.

In this episode: News- 3:00 || Main Topic (Tattoos)- 14:04 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:03:43

On Monday, Fucking Dan shares the meaning behind tattoos, including the forearm one Kyle wants.

Feb 04, 2021
Gayish: 211 Vacuums

Are vacuums gay? We figure out if there’s truth to Mike’s personal gay stereotype by talking about vacuum fucking, the division of household chores, a vacuum coming out story, and vacuum-based sex toys.

In this episode: News- 1:12 || Main Topic (Vacuums)- 13:56 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:10:15

Jan 28, 2021
Gayish: 210 Tops
Total tops. Oral tops. Short tops. Poor tops. Lesbian tops. Stone tops. Mike’s topness. Timid turtle tops. There are so many different tops inside this episode!   In this episode: News- 1:17 || Main Topic (Tops)- 18:12 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:22   And coming on Monday, Fucking Dan's bonus segment featuring tip top top tips from his top tops!
Jan 21, 2021
Gayish: 209 Musicals

Here’s the deal. We both like musicals. We really like musicals. But we’re not, like, super all about them. We talked about musicals. And sing some. And talk about how gay they are. Look, we did our best, okay?

Also, stick around ’til the end for a trailer of our brand new podcast, Have A Nice Gay!

In this episode: News- 3:35 || Main Topic (Musicals)- 25:08 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:05


Learn more about and subscribe to Have A Nice Gay:

Jan 14, 2021
Gayish: 208 Sobriety (w/ Davey Wavey)

THIS IS NOT AN INTERVENTION. Drinking issues are pervasive in the gay community, and Mike and Kyle explore them with special guest Davey Wavey, who has never had a drink in his life. BUT THIS IS NOT AN INTERVENTION.

In this episode: News- 2:07 || Main Topic (Sobriety)- 11:15 || Guest (Davey Wavey)- 26:15 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:08:03

On Monday's Patreon bonus segment, more with Davey Wavey, who called this segment more interesting than the regular episode.

Jan 07, 2021
Gayish: 207 New Years
Mike and Kyle celebrate New Years with our UK listeners!   In this episode: News- 7:27 || Main Topic (New Years)- 22:09 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:18:55  
Jan 03, 2021
Gayish: 206 Holiday Specials (w/ BenDeLaCreme and Jinkx Monsoon)

Mike fucks up, there’s a gayta throw down, and we have legit famous people on. This episode IS special! BenDeLaCreme and Jinkx Monsoon join us to talk about Drag Race fans, drag as an art form, intolerance within the LGBTQ+ community, and The Jinkx and Dela Holiday Special, available on now on Hulu or

In this episode: News- 1:39 || Main Topic (Holiday Specials)- 10:43 || Guests (BenDeLaCreme and Jinkx Monsoon)- 24:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:02:08

Gayish is a weekly podcast about gay stereotypes. We've been featured in Buzzfeed, Oprah Magazine, Esquire, Queerty, and more. We're available on all platforms and at Support us at

Dec 23, 2020
Gayish: 205 Alone

You are not alone in feeling alone. Whether it’s not dating, having no roommates, being socially isolated, or general gay singleness, we talk about all the ways gays are experiencing aloneness. And why it’s important to talk about.

In this episode: News- 2:18 || Main Topic (Alone)- 13:19 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:27:26

On Monday, Fucking Dan's Patreon bonus segment sheds some like on solo polyamory and how it's not the paradox you might think it is.

Dec 17, 2020
Gayish: 204 Sitcoms (w/ Gayest Episode Ever)

Do you at least LIKE Lucy?  The boys are joined by Drew Mackie and Glen Lakin from the podcast Gayest Episode Ever to talk about sitcoms. From the old classics like Golden Girls and Cheers, to the new Saved by the Bell, we take a look at the lasting impact sitcoms have had on television, gay culture, and our hearts.

In this episode: News- 4:29 || Main Topic (Sitcoms)- 17:44 || Guests (Gayest Episode Ever)- 30:25 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:51

More with Gayest Episode Ever will be posted on Monday's bonus Patreon segment.

Dec 10, 2020
Gayish: 203 Hunting

We blame you, Gap Bridgers, for this episode. Our genuine discussion of hunting leads to conversations about daddy issues, Pink Pistols, lesbian bars, and farms.

In this episode: News- 2:08 || Main Topic (Hunting)- 15:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:17:02

On Monday, Patreon members will get to hear(?) our weird segment about gay porn hunting. Join at

Dec 03, 2020
Gayish: 202 Chosen Family (w/ Minoritea Report)

Chosen Family is important to LGBTQ people year-round, but especially during holidays like Thanksgiving. We invite the guys from the podcast Minoritea Report to join our chosen family this episode.

In this episode: News- 2:11 || Main Topic (Chosen Family)- 13:13 || Guests (Minoritea Report)- 20:21 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:04

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Nov 26, 2020
Gayish: 201 Bukkake

Welcome to Splash Mountain! It’s time for bukkakes! Featuring the most uncomfortable Mike has ever been on a Momsplaining. Thank you to Patreon member Keith Zeller for requesting this topic.

In this episode: News- 1:27 || Main Topic (Bukkake)- 16:14 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:29

For more info on the Gap Bridger tier, where one of the benefits is selecting your own episode topic, go to

Nov 19, 2020
Gayish: 200! The Reunion Special!

It’s our 200th Episode Reunion Special with a Mike and Kyle Q&A, fun announcements, and special guests like Davey Wavey, Pup Amp, Ma Johnson, and many more!

In this episode: Welcome & Surprises- 1:30 || Main Topic (Q&A, Announcements & Guests)- 10:21 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:40:05

See the new Patreon benefits and tiers we announced during the episode at

Nov 12, 2020
Gayish: 199 Reality TV (w/ David Yontef)

Lisa Rinna has lost it. Dorinda is disgusting. No one likes Lisa Vanderpump. We get into some hot, juicy goss, but in a way that you don’t have to know the deets of reality TV or the Real Housewives of Cityname to understand. Guest David Yontef from the podcast Behind the Velvet Rope joins us to dish on the stereotypes.

In this episode: News- 3:37 || Main Topic (Reality TV)- 17:00 || Guest (David Yontef)- 25:10 || Gayest & Straightest- 56:12

To get some dish that was too hot for the regular episode, and find out which Real Housewife David slams, go to

Nov 06, 2020
Gayish: 198 Election Night [Shrinkage]

Mike and Kyle talk/drink their anxieties/innuendos on the night of the 2020 U.S. presidential election in what turns out to be a not-so-shrinked Shrinkage.

Nov 04, 2020
Gayish: 197 Florida

The gayest city in Florida. The Florida man (but make it gay). Florida’s importance in the US presidential election. Top surgery. These are some of the many exciting, Florida-specific topics Mike and Kyle talk about on this swing-worthy episode.

In this episode: News- 1:31 || Main Topic (Florida)- 19:30 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:26

On Monday, Fucking Dan will tell us about the horrifying Purple Pamphlet that was put out by the government in Florida.

Oct 29, 2020
Gayish: 196 Debt (w/ The Debt Free Guys from Queer Money)

The Debt Free Guys from the Queer Money podcast join us to talk about how, unfortunately, gay culture and debt go hand in hand, and some tips on what to do about it.

In this episode: News- 2:29 || Main Topic (Debt)- 13:13 || Guests (David and John from Queer Money)- 21:17 || Gayest & Straightest- 57:41

To support us while getting early, ad-free episodes, go to

Oct 22, 2020
Gayish: 195 Masculinity

Thanks to Patreon member Jamie Pugh for requesting this episode topic. What is masculinity? How much of it is societally constructed vs. inherent in nature? We give our take on masculinity and talk about our experiences with gendered expectations.

In this episode: News- 3:55 || Main Topic (Masculinity)- 16:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:16:58

For details on how you can pick an episode topic, go to

Oct 15, 2020
Gayish: 194 Documentaries (w/ David France and Daniel Karslake)

Documentarians David France (Oscar-nominated for “How to Survive a Plague”) and Daniel Karslake (“For the Bible Tells Me So”) each share what their films can teach us about today.

We also discuss their latest films: France’s “Welcome to Chechnya” ( and Karslake’s “For They Know Not What They Do" (

In this episode: News- 4:40 || Main Topic (Documentaries)- 15:54 || Guest #1 (Daniel Karslake)- 20:14 || Guest #2 (David France)- 45:02 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:21:50

In the bonus segment coming Monday, Kyle talks about his own documentary that he's been working on recently. Go to to learn more.

Oct 08, 2020
Gayish: 193 Lube

It gets wet & wild & slippery & history & condoms & spit & Heath Ledger & backwards hat kinda crazy on our last livestream of 2020.

In this episode: News- 12:30 || Main Topic (Lube)- 23:42 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:58

On Monday's bonus segment.... well, just wait. It's going to be a Gayish first, and we can't wait for you to see it. Make sure you go to for access.

Oct 01, 2020
Gayish: 192 Bisexuals

We asked our bisexual listeners to share their stories, and you delivered! This episode features some of the voicemails and emails we received, plus our usual rigamarole talking about topics like gayta (bita???), history, and stereotypes about bisexuals.

In this episode: News- 4:30 || Main Topic (Bisexuals)- 15:10 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:08:02

If you want to support us (and also get ad-free episodes a day early), go to

Sep 24, 2020
Gayish: 191 Coaches (w/ Brian Falduto)

Coaches are sexy/terrifying for gay kids. Mike and Kyle talk about all aspects of coaches, from childhood P. E. to gay coaches in sports. Plus, we’re joined by Brian Falduto, host of The Gay Life Coach Podcast, to give Kyle a much-needed life coaching session.

In this episode: News- 5:37 || Main Topic (Coaches)-  18:03 || Guest (Brian Falduto)- 56:28 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:16:02

On Monday, you can hear the Patreon bonus segment about a completely different kind of coach: a poppers coach. Go to to see how to get early episodes and bonus content.

Sep 17, 2020
Gayish: 190 Poker

Y’know, poker is actually kinda gay.

In this episode: News- 5:58 || Main Topic (Poker)-  17:59 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:39

Sep 10, 2020
Gayish: 189 Prostate

Booping the snoop. Hitting the he-spot. Wailing on the walnut. Whatever you want to call it, we’re talking about prostates in all their splendor.

In this episode: News- 8:16 || Main Topic (Prostate)-  20:27 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:19:34

In the bonus Patreon segment, Fucking Dan tells us that maybe everyone has a prostate. Kinda. For this plus hours and hours of other bonus content, go to

Sep 03, 2020
Gayish: 188 Celebrity

Is Selena Gomez an A-list celebrity? The war between Mike and Kyle begins.

In this episode: News- 5:25 || Main Topic (Celebrity)-  14:48 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:25:10

On what may be the longest and most enjoyable Patreon segment to date, we talk about when gay celebrities came out, including our coming out-birthday twins.

Aug 27, 2020
Gayish: 187 Interracial Relationships (w/ the Critelli's from Relationsh!t)

Interracial gay couples have two strikes against them before the leave their home in the morning. We talk race and relationships with Marko and Tony Critelli, an interracial married gay couple and hosts of the podcast Relationsh!t.

In this episode: News- 4:34 || Main Topic (Interracial Relationships)-  26:27 || Guests (Marko and Tony Critelli from Relationsh!t)- 31:21 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:23

On Monday's bonus episode, the actual, genuine conversation with had with Marko and Tony during the break! We did it right this time! That and more bonus stuff available at

Aug 20, 2020
Gayish: 186 Swingers
Are there gay swingers?  We sure hope so, although per usual we have no idea.  Suggested to us by a Patreon supporter, we take a look at "the lifestyle" in typical Gayish fashion.   In this episode: News- 1:22 || Main Topic (Swingers)-  17:04 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:03:01   On the bonus segment coming Monday, Fucking Dan gives us an update on the Palm Springs Sex Hotel we went to with Davey Wavey in Episode 144.
Aug 13, 2020
Gayish: 185 Football (w/ Butz from My Gay Life)

We talk American football with Cyndi Butz-Houghton aka Butz from the podcast My Gay Life. She shares her thoughts on football lesbians, lingerie football, being bad at softball, and trans women in sports.

In this episode: News- 3:44 || Main Topic (Football)-  17:25 || Guest (Butz)- 28:27 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:51

On the bonus segment coming Monday, we'll have more with Butz on why women's football mascots are better than men's and other topics we didn't get to on the main episode.

Aug 06, 2020
Gayish: 184 Sexting

Eggplant. Water spurts. Peach, peach, peach. Devil emoji. We talk about the studies on sexters vs. non-sexters, the bizarre history of sexting, and emoji misunderstandings.


In this episode: News- 2:34 || Main Topic (Sexting)- 14:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:20


On the bonus segment, coming soon, we'll read tips from the internet on sexting and debate their efficacy. 

Jul 30, 2020
A Short Teaser of Gayish

Get to know us! Take a listen to some of our favorite clips and guests so you can hear what the podcast is all about.

We bring research studies, news stories, history, personal experience and expert guests to the table when we discuss our topics. Episodes come out weekly on Thursdays (we rarely miss a week). Join the Gayish Agenda!

Jul 26, 2020
Gayish: 183 Rodeo

Ma Johnson joins us to play a game of “Rodeo Term or Sex Act.” Also, the gay rodeo, bareback, Willie Nelson, Lil Nas X, and lots of talk about gay cowboys.


In this episode: News- 1:31 || Main Topic (Rodeo)- 17:31 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:30

Jul 23, 2020
Gayish: 182 Intersectionality (w/ Kris & Shana from Bad Queers)

Kris & Shana from the Bad Queers podcast join us to talk about intersectionality, the sassy black woman affectation, and their experience of racism and sexism within the queer community.

In this episode: News- 2:42 || Main Topic (Intersectionality)- 20:52 || Guests (Kris & Shana)- 27:00 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:47

Jul 17, 2020
Gayish: 181 Asexual

Asexuals! This is the moment you’ve been waiting for! We talk about the meaning, the history, the studies, and the made-up stereotypes about asexual people. Ace, aro, gray, demi; we love all of you (in a predominantly non-sexual way).

In this episode: News- 8:25 || Main Topic (Asexual)- 25:07 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:03

If you're able, please support the victims of a brutal vehicular attack through Go Fund Me. Both were non-binary people protesting for BLM in Seattle.

On the bonus segment coming on Monday, we talk about asexual animals, because yes, they're real. Probably. Get bonus segments, early access to episodes, and more at 

Jul 09, 2020
Gayish: 180 Freeballing

In this live streamed episode, we talk about all the celebrities and synonyms and orgasms you need to know about associated with #thatfreeballinglife.

In this episode: News- 3:05 || Main Topic (Freeballing)- 9:30 || Gayest & Straightest- 50:00

In the Patreon bonus segment, Fucking Dan tells us about the origins of the phrase "going commando." For all the bonus content we have to offer, go to

Jul 02, 2020
Gayish: 179 Gay Baiting

As requested by Patreon member Tipsy McStumbles (obvi a Gayish listener), we talk about gay baiting, i.e. queerbaiting. What is it? Does Nick Jonas qualify? What does Urban Dictionary think? And what does it have to do with breast cancer?

In this episode: News- 5:19 || Main Topic (Gay Baiting)- 23:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:52

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Jun 25, 2020
Gayish: 178 Fathers' Day (w/ the Peters-Mathews Family)

We follow up on episode 139 (Surrogacy) to see what it’s like so far for gay dads raising their newborn baby. Joseph, Brandon, and baby Topher Peters-Mathews join us to talk about Fathers’ Day.

In this episode: News- 2:33 || Main Topic (Fathers' Day)- 22:21 || Guests (the Peters-Mathews Family)- 35:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:00

On the Patreon bonus segment, you'll hear how Joseph felt about his sermon being used in the Gay White Privilege episode. Support us and get bonus stuff at the same time:

Jun 18, 2020
Gayish: 177 Fat (w/ @gayfatfriend aka Todd Masterson)

Todd Masterson, known on Instagram as @gayfatfriend, shares how Instagays like Matt Dempsey feel about his account. Plus, Mike and Kyle get uncomfortably personal.

In this episode: News- 2:33 || Main Topic (Fat)- 19:34 || Guest (Todd Masterson)- 1:13:09 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:31:01

On Monday's bonus segment, fat shaming. To access this segment, plus tons of bonus content, go to

Jun 11, 2020
Gayish: 176 Gay White Privilege

You are not exempt from white privilege just because you’re gay.

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Jun 05, 2020
Gayish: 175 Aliens

This episode has everything: anal probes, Marvin the Martian, Britney Spears, Chuck Tingle, and we reveal which of the hosts is most likely to be an alien.

In this episode: News- 3:44 || Main Topic (Aliens)- 14:13 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:07:07

On Monday's bonus segment, Fucking Dan shares the details of his new favorite competition and life goal, Intergalactic Power Bottom. For other fun bonus things, go to

May 28, 2020
Gayish: 174 Versatile

Move over tops, bottoms, and sides. We finally talk about that #VersLife.

In this episode: News- 5:55 || Main Topic (Versatile)- 19:01 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:17

On Monday's bonus segment, Fucking Dan talks about the many definitions of "switch," and it's not the same as versatile.

May 22, 2020
Gayish: 173 Disability (w/ Andrew Gurza)

Special. Sex Education. Glee. We talk about these shows and more when we discuss disability representation in the media with Andrew Gurza from the podcast Disability After Dark. #PP4CP

In this episode: News- 3:10 || Main Topic (Disability)- 19:30 || Guest (Andrew Gurza)- 26:10 || Gayest & Straightest- 55:30

Coming Monday on our Patreon bonus segment, Fucking Dan shares his personal experiences. For bonus content, go to

May 15, 2020
Gayish: 172 Little Richard [Shrinkage]

The many sexual orientations of Little Richard.

May 12, 2020
Gayish: 171 How Are You Doing?

No, really. How are you doing?

May 08, 2020
Gayish: 170 Monster Trucks

On this supes butch livestream, we talk about monster trucks! But no really. We really talk about monster trucks. Like, the history of monster truck rallies, famous monster trucks, personal monster truck experiences. It’s so str8. (Sorry this is a day late!)

In this episode: News- 1:33 || Main Topic (Monster Trucks)- 17:44 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:14:40

In one of Kyle’s favorite Patreon segments, fucking Dan talks about gendered kids’ toys and Friends. For bonus content, go to

May 01, 2020
Gayish: 169 Camming

In these difficult times, so many ads and articles start with the phrase “in these difficult times,” and it really bums me out. Instead, let’s talk about the fun you can have with camming, even in these difficult times.

In this episode: News- 3:08 || Main Topic (Camming)- 15:04 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:23

Thank you to our sponsor, Taimi! Download the Taimi app for LGBTQ chatting, hanging out (virtually), and dating.

Apr 23, 2020
Gayish: 168 AIDS

We do our best to cover the monumental topic of AIDS and end up calling Mike’s Mom for reinforcement. Thank you to Patreon member Steve Hartman for requesting this topic.

In this episode: News- 1:50 || Main Topic (AIDS)- 13:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:49

To see how you can pick an episode topic, visit our Patreon page for levels and rewards:

Apr 16, 2020
Gayish: 167 Rubber (w/ Amp Somers from Watts Your Safeword)

Special guest, Amp Somers (aka Pup Amp) from the podcast Watts Your Safeword, shares the basics of rubber as a kink. Bring your lube and a couple of friends, because we’re getting into it.

In this episode: News- 1:40 || Main Topic (Rubber)- 21:19 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:24

On Monday, we'll post the pop culture references (mainly KimK) that didn't make the cut to the final episode. Bonus content, episode, and other cool shit at

Apr 09, 2020
Gayish: 166 Threesomes II

“How did we fuck this up so much?” asks Mike during this monumental Gayish first. But whatever, it’s our THIRD BIRTHDAY so we re-talk about threesomes!

In this episode: News- 11:28 || Main Topic (Threesomes)- 25:47 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:30

Monday’s bonus segment is FREE as our birthday gift to you. I don’t know what to say about it other than idk y’all. Check it out at

Apr 02, 2020
Gayish: 165 Cocktails

It’s a hot mess of a quarantined livestream where we talk about, and (regrettably) make each other, cocktails.

In this episode: News- 7:19 || Main Topic (Cocktails)- 20:03 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:23:53

On Monday, you'll get to hear the Q&A we did after the livestream where we answer your gayish questions! Go to for bonus content and more stuff.

Mar 26, 2020
Gayish: 164 Open Relationships (w/ Keegan & Tom)

Open up, it’s time for open relationships! Mike and Kyle share gayta and our personal experiences with open relationships. Plus, our married friends Keegan and Tom talk about opening up their relationship after 12 years of monogamy.

In this episode: News- 2:54 || Main Topic (Open Relationships)- 13:36 || Guests (Keegan & Tom)- 37:51 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:17

On Monday, get ready, because Keegan and Tom talk about hooking up with one of the Gayish people... but which one? This bonus segment, and more, available at

Mar 19, 2020
Gayish: 163 Leprechauns

A magically delicious episode about gay leprechauns and leprechaun dicks.

In this episode: News- 4:22 || Main Topic (Leprechauns)- 19:14 || Gayest & Straightest- 59:45

On Monday's Patreon segment, surprise, surprise, we talk about dicks again. Bonus content and other fun things available at

Mar 12, 2020
Gayish: 162 Dolly Parton (w/ Patty Johnson)

Ma Johnson joins us to talk about gay icon Dolly Parton. Why is she a gay icon? Do we care?

In this episode: News- 9:06 || Main Topic (Dolly Parton)- 23:38  || Guest (Ma Johnson)- 25:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:09

On Monday, you'll get to hear the unedited version of Ma Johnson's life update, which I cut down heavily for the main episode. Get it at

Mar 05, 2020
Gayish: 161 The Closet (w/ Kevin Gerdes)

Guest Kevin Gerdes from the podcast LGBT Stories joins us to talk about the closet and the pressure to come out.

In this episode: News- 1:00 || Main Topic (The Closet)- 10:24 || Guest (Kevin Gerdes)- 21:12 || Gayest & Straightest- 56:46.

On Monday's bonus segment, Mike explains where the phrase "coming out of the closet" came from, and Kyle is actually interested.

Feb 27, 2020
Gayish: 160 Butt Plugs
Butt plugs: a hole new world.   In this episode: News- 5:37 || Main Topic (Butt Plugs)- 17:38 || Gayest & Straightest- 59:31.   Coming Monday on our Patreon bonus segment... well, you don't wanna miss it. Trust us.
Feb 20, 2020
Gayish: 159 Meditation (w/ Justin Michael Williams)

Who is your authentic self? Justin Michael Williams joins us to help us uncover a different style of meditation and figure out what is going on with that neuronal orgy in our heads.

In this episode: News- 1:10 || Main Topic (Meditation)- 15:43 || Justin Michael Williams- 23:13 || Gayest & Straightest- 58:26

On Monday, Mike and Kyle talk gay meditation retreats. Are they sexy? Are they cool? Are we going to speculate due to lack of first-hand knowledge? Find out on the bonus segment, which will be available at

Feb 14, 2020
Gayish: 158 Sci Fi

In this episode about Star Trek—er, I mean, science fiction, we cover Orson Scott Card, Star Trek, LGBT representation in sci-fi, Star Trek, the characters of Star Trek, and lots of specific references to Star Trek.

In this episode: News- 6:51 || Main Topic (Sci Fi)- 19:25 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:22

Then, on the bonus segment, Fucking Dan tells us about sci fi sex workers (comes out Monday!). Go to to get access to that segment and all the other bonus segments.

Feb 06, 2020
Gayish: 157 Ovaries (w/ If These Ovaries Could Talk)

This episode is like a kick to the ovaries. Robin Hopkins and Jaimie Kelton from the podcast If These Ovaries Could Talk join us to talk ovaries, alternative families, and eating pussy.

In this episode: News- 6:17 || Main Topic (Ovaries)- 14:01 || Guests (Robin Hopkins and Jaimie Kelton)- 20:16 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:27

Plus, on Monday's bonus segment, you'll get to listen to more of our hilarious conversation with Robin and Jaimie. Go to for early access to episodes, bonus content, and more!

Jan 30, 2020
Gayish: 156 Fetish Night

What is it about fetishes that irks Mike? It’s not monkeys. Or The Eagle. Or balloons. Or feet. Let’s just say, if your fetish is strict denotative adherence, you’re in for a treat.

In this episode: News- 2:31 || Main Topic (Fetish Night)- 14:32 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:28   On the Monday bonus segment, Fucking Dan tells us about Bettie Page, the Queen of Pinups, and her connection to a Fetish Night Dan used to go to.
Jan 23, 2020
Gayish: 155 App Makeover (w/ Tiffany Troiano and Nicole Firestone)
Mike’s Scruff game is... wanting. Kyle tears his profile apart with the help of two experts, Tiffany Troiano and Nicole Firestone, to help his online persona reflect the amazing person we know that he is. In this episode: News- 6:44 || Main Topic (App Makeover)- 16:23 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:14:53 On Monday, Dan will flip the script by giving Scruff a makeover on the bonus Patreon segment,  which will be available at
Jan 16, 2020
Gayish: 154 Cigars
Are cigars #TotesMasc or are they pseudo-penises for your mouth? We check in on the science when we talk about the stereotypes of cigars.   In this episode: News- 1:43 || Main Topic (Cigars)- 13:30 || Gayest & Straightest- 57:46   On the Monday bonus segment, Fucking Dan talks about cigar fetishes, including his cigar fetish fantasies. Get early access to episodes an bonus content at
Jan 09, 2020
Gayish: 153 Polari Primer [Shrinkage]

To kick off our goal of learning Polari, we introduce you to Polari Word of the Week, refresh you on the words we've already learned, and tell you how you can learn along with us.

Jan 07, 2020
Gayish: 152 Fitness
You may be setting fitness goals for the new year, and we have some advice for you (and for ourselves). Also, Richard Simmons.   In this episode: News- 5:41 || Main Topic (Fitness)- 16:37 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:16:58   Coming Monday (spell "coming"), Fucking Dan talks about his own fitness journey. To get early access to episodes, plus lots of bonus content, go to
Jan 02, 2020
Gayish: 151 Fruit

Why does fruit mean gay? Mike explains its origin in connection to a secret gay language. Plus, Urban Dictionary, Skittles, fruit booty, and more.

In this episode: News- 7:00 || Main Topic (Fruit)- 12:54 || Gayest & Straightest- 59:33

Also, Fucking Dan tells us whether pineapple really makes your cum taste better in the bonus Patreon segment, coming on Monday. Support us & get bonus content at

Dec 26, 2019
Gayish: 150 Q&Gay

You have gayish questions. We have gayish answers. We celebrate our 150th episode with a very special Q&A from you, the gayish listeners!  What are Mike and Kyle's favorite episodes?  How much math did you all ask us to do?  How many notches are on Mike's bedpost for his lifetime, and is it more or less than Kyle's number this week?

Dec 20, 2019
Gayish: 149 Jerking Off

Mike goes to a jerk-off club and talks about meeting the love of his life. Plus, jerk-off related gayta, euphemisms, and religious teachings.

In this episode: News- 8:21 || Main Topic (Jerking Off)- 14:08 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:20:15

This Monday, we’ll release our bonus Patreon segment from Fucking Dan about how he cured his premature ejaculation. Bonus content and more available at

Dec 12, 2019
Gayish: 148 Jocks (w/ Brock McGillis)

We cover everything from jocks, jockstraps, straight guys, and Grindr to self-hatred and suicide with our guest Brock McGillis, the first openly gay professional hockey player. Check out his upcoming TV show, This Is Shit, with RuPaul’s Drag Race alumni and star Mrs. Kasha Davis, at

In this episode: News- 6:49 || Main Topic (Jocks)- 17:32 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:38

Coming soon to Patreon, a bonus segment from Dan covering jockstrap mystery. Get bonus segments and episodes at

Dec 05, 2019
Gayish: 147 Anxiety

Kyle either has anxiety or just an extreme case of anxiety about whether he has anxiety or not. Mike only has anxiety sometimes, but when he does apparently it makes life difficult in the bedroom.  Try not to bite your nails as we talk about the all too common issue of anxiety, something that everyone deals with but especially gay people.

Nov 28, 2019
Gayish: 146 Daddies

Are you my Daddy? We rev up our BDE (Big Daddy Energy) to answer the all-important question of whether Mike is Daddy.

In this episode: News- 2:52 || Main Topic (Daddies)- 17:02 || Gayest & Straightest- 59:12

To get a bonus segment with Fucking Dan’s real-life daddy, who is also 12 years younger than him, go to

Nov 22, 2019
Gayish: 145 Hate Crimes

While Mike selfishly celebrates his birthday in Scotland, Fucking Dan steps in as co-host so he and Kyle can tell each other horribly sad hate crime stories, including the shooting at gay bar Backstreet Cafe by Ronald Gay and the murders of Michelle Abdill, Roxanne Ellis, and Scott George by Robert Acremant. 

In this episode: News(ish)- 4:12 || Main Topic (Hate Crimes)- 5:39 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:43

To get a bonus segment with gayta about hate crimes, go to

Nov 14, 2019
Gayish: 144 Sex Hotel (w/ Davey Wavey)

We face our body image issues head on when we consider getting naked at a “sex hotel” with Davey Wavey, creator of And yes, one of us gets naked. :O

In this episode: News- 4:42 || Main Topic (Sex Hotel)- 15:30 || Davey Wavey- 27:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:18:32

Plus, more of our discussion with Davey Wavey, including how to hook up at a bathhouse, self esteem when using sex apps, and waiting in a room ass up, all available in our bonus segment available at

Nov 07, 2019
Gayish: 143 Fantasies

What are your fantasies? Do gay men have nastier fantasies than the straights? Where does Mike get his erotic fiction? Plus Mike/Kyle slash fiction that makes everyone deeply uncomfortable. If you'd prefer not to hear us talk sexy to each other, skip the "Slash fiction performance" section from the timestamps below.

In this episode: News- 2:30 News || Main Topic (Fantasies)- 16:36 || Slash fiction performance- 1:03:28 || Slash fiction discussion- 1:18:17 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:23:19

Plus, Fucking Dan reads a runner-up slash fiction contest entry with a twist ending! It's posted as a bonus segment on

Nov 01, 2019
Gayish: 142 Gogo Boys (w/ Steve Rodriguez from Talk About Gay Sex)

Steve V. Rodriguez from Talk About Gay Sex Podcast shares his experiences as a gogo boyand the sketchy producer that lived up to the Hollywood reputation.

In this episode: News- 5:22 || Main Topic (Gogo Boys)- 11:55 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:40

Plus, Fucking Dan recounts a gogo-boy-related murder in our bonus segment, available at

Oct 24, 2019
Gayish: 141 Spirit(s)

Mike and Kyle talk about Spirit Day, spirits, spirits, spirit animals, and the Holy Spirit.

In this episode: News- 6:23 || Main Topic [Spirit(s)]- 18:06 || Gayest & Straightest- 42:03

Also, Dan shares his sometimes terrifying experiences of being bullied growing up in our bonus segment at

Oct 17, 2019
Gayish: 140 Britney Spears

IT’S BRITNEY, BITCH! In spite of his resistance, Mike remembers several moments where Britney had a major impact on his life.

In this episode: News- 3:54 || Main Topic (BRITNEY SPEARS)- 14:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:15

Also, Kyle launches into full defense mode when Fucking Dan tells him why Britney is homophobic in our bonus segment available at

Oct 10, 2019
Gayish: 139 Surrogacy (w/ Joseph and Brandon Peters-Mathews)

Mike and Kyle talk to a married gay couple about their baby, who is due in just a couple of weeks, and the journey they took to get there. Guests: Husbands Joseph Peters-Mathews (from Episode 37 about gay priests) and Brandon Peters-Mathews.

In this episode: News- 3:22 || Main Topic (Surrogacy)- 12:27 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:31

Bonus segment with more datums about same-sex couples with children available at

Oct 03, 2019
Gayish: 138 Vulnerability (w/ Davey Wavey)

YouTuber Davey Wavey joins us to talk about (and practice) vulnerability by getting really, really, really personal.

In this episode: News- 2:45 || Main Topic (Vulnerability)- 13:59 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:07:09

Bonus segment with a different spin on vulnerability at

Sep 26, 2019
Gayish: 137 Dykes (w/ Hot Takes with Hot Dykes)

Astrology, the top shortage, lesbian bed death, and astrology. We talk about lesbian stereotypes with Clara Pluton and Val Nigro of the Hot Takes with Hot Dykes podcast. Oh, we also talk about astrology.

In this episode: Corrections- 2:29 || Guests Clara Pluton and Val Nigro join us to talk about dykes- 7:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:40

Bonus segment from Fucking Dan about the origin of the word "dyke" at

Sep 19, 2019
Gayish: 136 Rimming

Eat Ass. Love Ass. Pray Ass.

In this episode: News - 4:35 | Main Topic (Rimming) - 14:15 | Gayest & Straightest - 1:04:49

Bonus segment from Fucking Dan about his top-secret homemade lube product is available at

Sep 12, 2019
Gayish: 135 The Gay Bechdel Test [Shrinkage]

After a long hiatus, we're back with a new Shrinkage! Kyle talks about the gay version of the Bechdel Test and LGBT representation in movies.

Sep 11, 2019
Gayish: 134 Harry Potter

Oh Merlin! We talk about Dumbledore's gayness, JK Rowling's TERFness, and who is Rebecca Salt? Thank you to Cian and Javier for requesting this topic as part of their Patreon benefits!

In this episode: News - 2:21 | Main Topic (Harry Potter) - 12:44 | Gayest & Straightest - 51:41

If you want to decide a future episode topic, go to to take a look at the benefits and levels!

Sep 05, 2019
Gayish: 133 Non-Binary (w/ Tuck Woodstock from Gender Reveal)

Tuck Woodstock, host of the Gender Reveal podcast, joins us to answer inappropriate questions about being non-binary. [UPDATE: Since recording this episode, Tuck has updated their name. In the episode, you'll hear all of us use their (now) dead name, which has been preserved as-is given the importance to our conversation.]

In this episode: News - 4:13 | Main Topic (Non-Binary) - 12:44 | Gayest & Straightest - 56:45

Bonus segment about the singular they/them pronouns available at

Aug 29, 2019
Gayish: 132 Poppers: Live from Pride48 in New Orleans

So... what exactly are poppers?  Is it Kyle or Mike that basically has no idea?  What will it be like when we find out in front of a live audience? Get ready to clean your VCR!

Aug 22, 2019
Gayish: 131 Cars

The only cars we really care about are muscle cars, minus the cars part. But I guess we’ll talk about them anyway.

In this episode: News - 9:23 | Main Topic (Cars) - 19:44 | Gayest & Straightest - 1:04:48

Bonus segment about rainbow stickers on cars available at

Aug 15, 2019
Gayish: 130 Strippers

One of makes friends with them, the other can’t handle them. Get your ones ready, it’s strippers!

In this episode: 4:37 - News | 14:42 - Main Topic (Strippers) | 1:00:30 - Gayest & Straightest

Bonus segment about whether go-go boys are straight or gay available at

Aug 08, 2019
Gayish: 129 Breakups

I hate this part right here.

In this episode: 5:23 - News | 24:16 - Main Topic (Breakups) | 1:29:09 - Gayest & Straightest

Aug 01, 2019
Gayish: 128 Sailors

A special thank you to A.É. Coleman for requesting this topic as part of his Patreon benefits. Is the Navy really all that gay? Plus, the return of Momsplaining.

In this episode-- 1:19 - News | 10:19 - Main Topic (Sailors) | 1:03:02 - Gayest & Straightest

Check out the Patreon benefits, including bonus episodes and segments, at

Jul 25, 2019
Gayish: 127 White Claw Challenge

Why are gay people expected to be on the forefront of trends? Also, we delve into White Claw, if it's good or bad, and the hard seltzer water craze.

  • 6:34 - News
  • 16:55 - Main Topic (White Claw)
  • 1:02:15 - Gayest & Straightest

Check out the Gayish YouTube video with our actual blind taste taste.

Bonus segment for some Patreon members: what your La Croix flavor means about your sexual interests.

Thanks to our friend Doug Antkowiak for the idea for this episode!

Jul 18, 2019
Gayish: 126 STIs

What is the difference between STI and STD?  And what deep dark secret has Mike been hiding that turns out is not that dark after all?  Kyle asks "what about straight guys"?  Take a listen for a typically Gayish look at sexually transmitted infection.

Jul 12, 2019
Gayish: 125 Rainbows

For our Pride48 live stream, we delve into the mystery and science of rainbows.

Jul 04, 2019
Gayish: 124 Pups (w/ Pup Kero)

Sit. Stay. Now, play!...this episode. Our guest Pup Kero teaches Mike and Kyle that pup play is more than just a kink.

Full transcript available at

Support us on Patreon:

Jun 28, 2019
Gayish: 123 People of Color (w/ Kevin Toovey, Jake Leon-Guerrero, and Xander Hurley)

Like an open gay couple, we celebrate Pride month with even more guests. Kevin Toovey, Jake Leon-Guerrero, and Xander Hurley join us to talk about their experiences as LGBT people of color.

Jun 21, 2019
Gayish: 122 Atheism (w/ Sarah Austin from SarahTalk Podcast)

Is Kyle religious? God, no! Guest Sarah Austin from the SarahTalk podcast joins us to talk about how she went from attending a First Christian church on the road to becoming a preacher to an atheist.

Jun 13, 2019
Gayish: 121 Late Bloomers (w/ Mark Traphagen)

It’s never too late to be gay! Guest Mark Traphagen joins us to talk about what it has been like to come out in his 60s.

More with Mark available for select Patreon members at

Jun 06, 2019
Gayish: 120 Boobs

How did it take us this long to talk about boobs? Get out your sports bra, and get ready to hear all about the complicated relationship between gay guys and breasts. Also, a very personal and disturbing true crime segment that will leave you wondering why you listen (even more than usual).

May 23, 2019
Gayish: 119 Therapy

At the request of our Facebook Group, we discuss an important mental health topic, therapy. And yes, Gayish counts as therapy. You’ll pretty much be totally not crazy after listening to this.

May 16, 2019
Gayish: 118 Spain

¡Cojan las orejas! Hablamos de España (in English, claro). Spain is super gay-friendly… or is it? Send this episode to your Spanish friend! We’re trying to get more Spain cred.

May 09, 2019
Gayish: 117 Beyoncé

Let me sit this podcaaaaaaaast on ya, show you how we feel.... about Beyoncé.

May 02, 2019
Gayish: 116 Circumcision

What started as an episode about foreskin turned into a full episode trying to answer the question, “should we circumcise babies with penises?”

Apr 25, 2019
Gayish: 115 Fashion

We are gay and don't care about fashion. (If you say you're going to take our gay cards, we'll lose our shit.)

Apr 18, 2019
Gayish: 114 Beards

A special thank you to Chris Sanders for requesting this topic as part of his Patreon benefits. Or if you hate it, blame him because we did not choose this he did. Mike and Kyle look at the fascinating world of beards. Come find out why Mike and Kyle were both screwed up by their childhood despite being on opposite ends of the hirsute spectrum.

Apr 15, 2019
Gayish: 113 The Matrix [Shrinkage]

On the 20th anniversary of The Matrix, people have been re-evaluating the Oscar-winning movie from a new lens of trans-ness given, unlike when it was released, the Wachowskis are now out trans women.

Apr 12, 2019
Gayish: 112 Double

Celebrate our 2 year anniversary with doubles: double dass, double penetration, double entendres, and more. Plus, announcements about live shows, t-shirts, Patreon, and more! (Yes, I said “and more” twice. It’s double.)

Apr 04, 2019
Episode 112 Teaser

EXCITING GAY THINGS are coming up next week. It’ll be our two year anniversary, and we have fun surprises for you. This isn't a new episode, just a tease.

Mar 28, 2019
Gayish: 111 Ma Johnson's Birthday (w/ Patty Johnson)

Mike's Mom, the infamous Ma Johnson, answers your questions, including what she thinks of Mike's exes, whether she's a top or bottom, and what she likes least about Mike.

Mar 21, 2019
Gayish: 110 St. Patrick's Day

This Irish celebration is a battle ground for queer inclusion. But when it comes to St. Patrick himself, maybe there's more to the story.

Mar 14, 2019
Gayish: 109 Voyeurism

Lend us your voy-ears because we get off on knowing you're listening to us talk about voyeurism, both consensual and non-consensual.

Mar 07, 2019
Gayish: 108 Mardi Gras

Is Mardi Gras straight or gay? We cover New Orleans, Southern Decadence, Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras, and beeeeeeeads! Plus, an appearance from one of our favorite guests.

Feb 28, 2019
Gayish: 107 YouTube Censorship (w/ Calvin Banks and Davey Wavey)

Gay porn star Calvin Banks and YouTuber Davey Wavey talk about how Calvin’s very personal story of abuse was removed by YouTube and how censorship is impacting LGBT YouTubers.

Feb 22, 2019
Gayish: 106 Romance

Obviously the two best people to give relationship advice, Mike and Kyle discuss aromantics, romantic literature, and why straight people should avoid chocolate. Happy VD!

Feb 14, 2019
Gayish: 105 Gay at Work

Gay death penalty, Jussie Smollett, a correction, the formula for group sex, and all before we get to the topic of being gay in the workplace. If you want to jump right to the topic, start at 35:45.

Feb 07, 2019
Gayish 104: Threesomes

Threesomes are a thing we should talk about, right? Come be our third or fourth wheel as we look at the rich tapestry that is sex between three people. At the same time. In the same place. Probably.

Feb 01, 2019
Gayish: 103 Gaymers (w/ Matt Baume)

Queer representation in video games is getting better! Special guest Matt Baume joins us to get into the nitty gritty nerdy queerity of gaming.

Topics: Kamala Harris, Star Trek, Graham Linehan, mermaids, hbomberguy, Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez

Jan 24, 2019
Gayish: 102 Gay Friends

How do gays make gay friends? Does the ‘f’ in friend stand for ‘fuck first’?

Jan 17, 2019
Gayish: 101 The Gym

The question that splits our community - have you ever hooked up at the gym? Plus, hear about the gym's gay history, locker room fun and flops, and if straight guys need to be worried.

Jan 10, 2019
Gayish: 100 Q&Gay, Hung for the 1st (w/Fucking Dan Garlington)

After 100 episodes, and 100 shots of beer, we recorded this trainwreck. Enjoy the questions and answers, well wishes from our friends, and hear us generally be a sloppy mess. Plus meet Fucking Dan!

Jan 05, 2019
Gayish: 099 Superheroes

So, Batman and Robin are gay, right? The answer, plus homophobia in comics, tight nipple-suits, gay superpowers, and other LGBT superheroes.

Dec 26, 2018
Gayish: 098 Nipples (w/ Davey Wavey)

Special guest Davey Wavey, owner of the second and third most famous nipples (after Janet), joins us to teach us how to pleasure our nipples.

Dec 20, 2018
Gayish: 097 Gay Dreams

What does it mean if you·re a straight guy that has a gay sex dream? Or vice versa? Wet or dry, gay or straight, most of us have sex dreams. We take a look at what actual science says about your dreams to figure out what dreams say about us.

Dec 13, 2018
Gayish: 096 Santa

Santa comes down your chimney early this year! Mike and Kyle talk about every possible Santa: gay Santa, black Santa, Russian Santa, and underwear-clad Santa. Happy Holigays!

Dec 07, 2018
Gayish: 095 Sluts: Live(ish) in Portland

Live (kinda) from the Portland Podcast Festival, Mike and Kyle talk sluts, gay sex, and streetcars.

Nov 29, 2018
Gayish: 094 Turkey

There are at least 101 reasons not to listen to this episode. One of them is the Thanksgiving food Kyle loves to hate, Turkey. Join us as we take a look at the strange world of Turkey, and somehow stumble into the list of the most offensive things on the internet.

Nov 22, 2018
Gayish: 093 Vaginas

What are gold star gays, and why do we hate them? Who knew Mike and Kyle would come out in such strong support of vaginas and all they stand for.

Nov 15, 2018
Gayish: 092 Gay Virginity (w/ He Said He Said)

What does losing your virginity mean to gay men? We invited Ray and Jay from the He Said He Said podcast to help us blow a hole in the traditional ideas of what virginity means.

Nov 08, 2018
Gayish: 091 Freddie Mercury

Freddie Mercury, because Freddie Saturn canceled on us. Mike and Kyle talk about Freddie, Queen, HIV/AIDS, the new Rami Malek movie Bohemian Rhapsody, the song Bohemian Rhapsody, and straightwashing. Plus, the potentially rich nuances of Fat Bottomed Girls.

Nov 01, 2018
Gayish: 090 Gay Taxonomy

Twink, twank, twunk. Mike and Kyle examine the sub-categories of gays, such as twinks, twunks, bears, otters, and peacocks?

Oct 25, 2018
Gayish: 089 LA Gays (w/ Justin Michael Williams)

Artist Justin Michael Williams shares the good, the bad, and the black of LA gay culture, including his struggles with an eating disorder. Download his free meditation guide at

Oct 18, 2018
Gayish: 088 Pumpkin Spice

Grab your Uggs and your butt hookah, and get ready to decide if you like your PSL with or without mace. Join us as we take a fascinating look at the pumpkin spice phenomenon!

Oct 12, 2018
Gayish: 087 PrEP

There’s a lot of False-vadas out there, so we tell the Truvada. We talk about the magic pill that prevents HIV. Plus, Mike confronts Kyle.

Oct 04, 2018
Gayish: 086 Fairies

Why are gay men called fairies? Mike and Kyle explore fairies, faeries, and even ferries in the temporary autonomous zone we co-created to record this episode.


Topics: radical faeries, gay head, fairy godmothers, gay mentors, alaska thunderfuck, chechnya, vietnamese bachelor

Sep 27, 2018
Gayish: 085 Cruising

Parks, bathhouses, public bathrooms, and more! We chat with Matt Fisher and Ryan Weadon from the Ex Rated Movies podcast about what cruising means to us and how our experiences don’t always live up to what you see in Queer As Folk.

Topics: Eminem, Karamo, bathhouses, trough urinals, hookups, anonymous sex, adult classified ads,

Sep 20, 2018
Gayish: 084 Protests

Take a knee, open up, and let us gush all inside you… about protests.

Topics: Colin Kaepernick, sip-in, Stonewall, Russia Day, Queer Nation, drag queens

Sep 13, 2018
Gayish: 083 Gay Porn (w/ Davey Wavey)

Davey Wavey, founder of the erotic gay site, joins us to talk about the good and the bad of gay porn. If you want a hot, steamy, arousing conversation about porn, sorry ‘bout it because we mostly talk about the ways it fucked us up.

Topics: sex education, Blake Mitchell, sexual health, gay porn studios, Bianca Del Rio, Alex Jones

Sep 06, 2018
Gayish: 082 Handjobs: Live in New Orleans

Give me a hand, won't you? This is our live recording from the Pride48 event in New Orleans.

Aug 30, 2018
Gayish: 081 Pedophiles

Are gay men more likely to be pedophiles? We reached into the very back of the pedophiling cabinet to pull out this risqué topic.

Topics: child abuse, Anita Bryant, NAMBLA, LGBTP, #droptheb

Aug 23, 2018
Gayish: 080 Dogs

Gays love their dogs, but why? We talk about the stereotypes, the ups, the downs, and all the in-betweens (literally) of dogs.

Aug 16, 2018
Gayish: 079 Instagays

Instagays are hot, but is there more to them? Also, what’s up with Ma Johnson’s crotch? The answer to both questions: probably.

Topics: Instagays, Instagram, Khalid El Khatib, Logan Fletcher, Antoni, Queer Eye

Aug 09, 2018
Gayish: 078 Passing

Mike returns from Russia! We share our personal experiences and some research about the damaging consequences of passing for straight. #downer

Topics: passing, mental health, closeted, Russia, gay

Aug 03, 2018
Gayish: 077 Homophobes (w/ Josh Galassi)

We welcome our first ever guest co-host, Josh Galassi, to talk homophobes with Kyle. Also, an update from Mike in Russia.

Topics: homophobes, homophobia, Josh Galassi, Dorothy Hajdys, Allen Schindler Jr., Bill Clinton, Don’t Ask Don’t Tell

Jul 26, 2018
Gayish: 076 Wine (w/ Chris Bolla)

Wines aren’t gay or straight, but the people that order them are. Chris Bolla, manager of the Wines of Washington Tasting Room, shares the stereotypes of who orders different types of wine. Also, BROSÉ Y’ALL!

Topics: Justice Kennedy, gay-friendly wines, Two-Buck Chuck, wine tasting

Jul 19, 2018
Gayish: 075 Russia

Russia may have anti-LGBT laws, but it has a pretty queer history. They might as send us to jail now because we get all Gayish on its ass, right before Mike gets inside it.

Topics: gay propaganda law, World Cup 2018, Apple, Chechnya, Tchaikovsky, face control

Jul 12, 2018
Gayish: 074 Soccer

In celebration of the World Cup, we talk soccer guys, putos, and talk about real soccer phrases that sound real gay.

Topics: 2018 World Cup, Russia, Mexico, FIFA, Robbie Rogers, Collin Martin

Jul 06, 2018
Gayish: 073 Watersports

Our live streaming (in more ways than one) broadcast for Pride48 2018. Topic: watersports, golden shower, pornhub, ricky martin, annie sprinkle, albert fish

Jun 28, 2018
Gayish: 072 Queer Dads

As a belated Father’s Day gift, we are celebrating dads of all shapes and sizes. Sorry daddies and daddy enthusiasts, this is about actual fathers.

Jun 22, 2018
Gayish: 071 Queer Eye [Shrinkage]

Queer Eye. Season Two. Netflix. We talk about it. The good and the bad. You know the drill.

Jun 19, 2018
Gayish: 070 Amtrak Deaths

Why do Amtrak passengers keep dying? After recent news of Aaron Salazar’s mysterious coma-inducing injuries, Mike and Kyle dig in to other unexplained Amtrak deaths (or are they murders?).

Jun 15, 2018
Gayish: 069

What do you expect from episode 69?

Jun 13, 2018
Gayish: 068 SCOTUS

Legalese? Legal please! Let’s dig into cake like Rihanna on her not birthday, and other important gay cases. Topics: Masterpiece Cakeshop v. Colorado Civil Rights Commission, Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Supreme Court, Lawrence v. Texas, Loving v. Virginia, Obergefell v. Hodges

Jun 07, 2018
Gayish: 067 Hockey

To celebrate the Stanley Cup, we talk about hockey (of the ice, not of tonsils). Strap on your helmet and get your curvy stick ready, it’s going to be a weird three periods. Topics: hockey rules, hockey terms, Voight Demeester, Howard Bloom, 1999, Brad Marchand

May 31, 2018
Gayish: 066 Dicks

Are you as shocked as we are it took this long for us to do this episode? This week is all about dicks! So many dicks! All the dicks! It seems appropriate that it is an extra-long episode too. Enjoy.

May 26, 2018
Gayish: 065 Unicorns

OK, so this episode is about unicorns. Why? We have no idea. I mean, they are pretty gay. But we also talk about millenials, pooping ice cream, and Kyle says something that Mike says is his favorite thing that has ever been said on the podcast.

May 18, 2018
Gayish: 064 Gay Dating

It’s not all brunch dates and morning blow jobs. Gay dating in a straight world can be tricky. Topics: Colton Haynes, psychology of dating, gay dating vs. straight dating, how to lie on the first date, dating Kyle

May 10, 2018
Gayish: 063 Interview with Josh Galassi [Shrinkage]

Gayish interviews Josh Galassi about his Queerty article, “I’m gay and disabled and no one in Seattle will have sex with me.”

May 07, 2018
Gayish: 062 Gay Bars (w/ Josh Galassi)

By listener request, we talk about the ups and downs (and rinse and repeat as desired) of gay bars. We are joined by our guest, Queerty writer and potential Kyle replacement, Josh Galassi. Topics: dos and don’ts of gay bars, Cafe Lafitte in Exile, gay bar assault

May 02, 2018
Gayish: 061 BDSM (w/ Max Cameron)

THIS EPISODE IS A SHOCKER NO NOT THAT KIND OF SHOCKER. Special Guest: Max Cameron ( Topics: BDSM, kink, polyamorous, Max Cameron, bondage Skippers: BDSM discussion starts at 15:50

Apr 26, 2018
Gayish: 060 Ally Steinfeld

The murder of Ally Steinfeld. We try to record an edit-free podcast this time. It didn’t work. Topics: Ally Steinfeld, murder, true crime, trans, transgender, transphobia Skippers: Ally’s story starts at 13:09

Apr 11, 2018
Gayish: 059 Age

Mike and Kyle discuss our top listener-requested topic: age. Is it true that gay relationships have greater age gaps than straight relationships? Let’s talk about our weird feelings about age! Topics: age gaps, Age Gap Love on Netflix, grandparents’ STDs, gay age gap formula Skippers: age discussion starts at 13:35

Apr 05, 2018
Gayish: 058 Weed

Momsplaining returns to define ‘highsexual’. Plus: “Jeff Session. Marijuana. Legal. Maybe won’t be. Um, stockpile. We talked about the stockpiling.” – Mike. Other Topics: Momsplaining, Mike Pence, Marlon Bundo, John Oliver, Weed, Marijuana. Skippers: weed conversation starts at 9:01.

Mar 28, 2018
Gayish: 057 Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (w/ Jeffrey Masters)

If you want to hear Jeffrey Masters, host of the podcast LGBTQ&A, talk about the countless interviews he’s done with notable people in the queer community, maybe listen to his podcast? Because in this episode, Jeffrey joins our discussion about Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell. Follow Jeffrey on Twitter @jeffmasters1 and his podcast @lgbtqpod.

Mar 21, 2018
Gayish: 056 RuPaul [Shrinkage]

RuPaul says trans girls are not allowed to be drag queens. Mike is very confused. Kyle does his best to sort it all out.

Mar 19, 2018
Gayish 055: Self-harm

Phew. What a roller coaster ride. We talk about how it is impossible to get HIV from chocolate, how Mike has judgy feelings about the straight guy Kyle hooked up with, and that one of us struggles with self harm from time to time. Typical Gayish, we bring you up, bring you down, and bring …

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Mar 15, 2018
Gayish 054: Guns

More gays have been arming themselves with guns, and we delve into the reasons why. Plus, we talk to a gay Texan gun-owner, Michael Buss. Put the safety on before listening! Topics: Pulse Nightclub shooting, Omar Mateen, LGBTQ homicide. Skippers: gun conversation starts at 17:54

Mar 07, 2018
Gayish: 053 Oral: Live in Seattle

In our first ever live show, Mike and Kyle do oral in front of an audience. Topics: Gus Kenworthy, brojobs, autoblow, spit or swallow Skippers: 7:24 is the start of the oral discussion

Feb 28, 2018
Gayish: 052 Hanky Code

Before Grindr or Scruff, gays used handkerchiefs to proclaim what (or who) they were looking for that night. We delve into origins and analysis of the hanky code. Plus, the return of Momsplaining with Ma Johnson. Skippers: 14:54 is the start of the hanky code discussion

Feb 20, 2018
Gayish: 051 Figure Skating

Weir going to talk figure skating and Rippon its gayness. And then learn one more gay figure skater’s name to make a third pun. Topics: hockey, Adam Rippon, Mike Pence, The Eagle, Tonya Harding, Nancy Kerrigan, John Curry Skippers: 12:40 is the start of figure skating discussion

Feb 14, 2018
Gayish: 050 Q&Gay

You have gayish questions. We have gayish answers. We celebrate our 50th episode with a very special Q&A from you, the gayish listeners!

Feb 09, 2018
Gayish: 049 Disney (w/ Doug Antkowiak)

Mike and Kyle uncover the disturbing history Disney has with the LGBTQ community in their parks and characters. Queer mafia: we may need your help defending us from the secret Disney mafia! Guest: our favorite fag stag and Disney expert, Doug Antkowiak.

Jan 30, 2018
Gayish: 048 Power Dynamics (w/ Andrew Gurza)

The best recap of this episode is: tops, bottoms, power bottoms, Gay’s Anatomy, age differences, findom, pups, God Jayden, and a whole lotta bro. Our guest is Andrew Gurza from DisabilityAfterDark, the podcast that shines a bright light on sex and disability.

Jan 23, 2018
Gayish: 047 Aziz Ansari [Shrinkage]

Mike and Kyle talk about how the Aziz Ansari story and the #metoo movement relate to their own experience in the gay community.

Jan 18, 2018
Gayish: 046 The Versace Murder

Ryan Murphy’s upcoming show, “American Crime Story: The Assassination of Gianni Versace,” has the gays in a tizzy with Criss-citement. We talk about gay murderer Andrew Cunanan’s killing spree and how his experience is reflection of our own.

Jan 16, 2018
Gayish: 045 Gay Divorce

Mike opens up about his second divorce. Unplanned but important sub-topic: bi erasure. Unplanned but trivial sub-topic: what’s in Jesus’ butt?

Jan 10, 2018
Gayish: 044 Clip Show

Our interview with Mary Berry, the time we tried noseblasting, and the hookup that almost destroyed the podcast. These are just some of the highlights from Gayish in 2017.

Jan 02, 2018
Gayish: 043 Sex Toys

We introduce a new segment, “Momsplaining with Ma Johnson.” Plus, which sex toy did Mike use incorrectly and end in a messy puddle on the ground?

Dec 20, 2017
Gayish: 042 Glitter [Shrinkage]

All that glitters isn’t so gold these day, so suck my cod, Smash Mouth.

Dec 15, 2017
Gayish: 041 G0ys [Shrinkage]

Mike and Kyle talk about the phenomenon of g0ys, why “preferences” are really just racism, and we learn Mike definitely does not speak Hebrew.

Dec 14, 2017
Gayish: 040 Fisting

We look at fisting from every angle: fisting by the numbers, fisting for dummies, fisting laws in Australia, and fisting stories. (Yes, that covers 100% of the angles.) Our audio got weird during Mike’s story about Double Dick Dude, but it only lasts for a few minutes. We apologize to Mr. Dude.

Dec 06, 2017
Gayish: 039 Body Image

Let’s talk about our body image issues and then cry for long enough to get slim, sleek tear ducts!

Nov 28, 2017
Gayish: 038 Thanksgiving

A very special Thanksgiving episode, filled with laughter, Two-Spirit, gay pilgrim orgies, horrifying deaths, and more laughter! Thank you to all of our listeners, but especially the effeminate ones.

Nov 23, 2017
Gayish: 037 Priests (w/ Joseph Peters-Mathews)

Kyle gets blasphemous when we have a gay priest on to talk about the intersection of religion and sexuality. Guest: Joseph Peters-Mathews.

Nov 14, 2017
Gayish: 036 Vermont

We’ve crunched the numbers, and Vermont is a unique state for one reason. Send a link to this podcast to your Vermont-residing friends, and ask them if REM really is on TV.

Nov 08, 2017
Gayish: 035 Deadish

Mike explains why ghosts are more likely to be queer in this episode that is supposed to be about LGBTQ ghosts. However a word cloud of the transcript of the episode suggests it’s actually about ‘like’, ‘f— you’, and ‘dan’, in that order.

Oct 31, 2017
Gayish: 034 Weddings (w/ Carly Dykes and Matt Eaton)

We’re splitting up! We take the OutKast approach to this episode and let you dive head-first deep inside our gay minds to hear what we think as we attend our (straight) friends’ wedding. Special guests: Matt Eaton and Carly Dykes.

Oct 24, 2017
Gayish: 033 Butt Stuff

It’s time for butt stuff, y’all!

Oct 17, 2017
Gayish: 032 Coming Out

Kyle’s coming out didn’t go so well. Plus, things not to do when someone comes out to you. Celebrate National Coming Out Day (October 11) with us!

Oct 10, 2017
Gayish: 031 Straight Porn

Mike and Kyle get butch AF when they reveal whether or not they watch straight porn in yet another hard-hitting, potentially award-winning episode of Gayish.

Oct 03, 2017
Gayish: 030 Drag Queens (w/ Honey Bucket)

We must be tired female monarchs because, in this episode, Mike and Kyle are drag queens! Special guest: Honey Bucket.

Sep 25, 2017
Gayish: 029 Trans Murders [Shrinkage]

Why do trans people get murdered more than cis-gendered people?

Sep 24, 2017
Gayish: 028 My Favorite Gayish Murder

As a tribute to My Favorite Murder, Mike and Kyle get into some gay homo-cide. Mike recounts the Trick or Treat murder, and Kyle covers the serial killer known as The Wolf Man of London, aka Michael Lupo. Stay gayish, and dont get murdered!

Sep 19, 2017
Gayish: 027 Dream Daddy

What starts as a lighthearted review of a gay video game, Dream Daddy, turns into the realization that Mike and Kyle are manipulative, are partially sociopathic, and shouldn’t have friends or relationships. Watch us playing Dream Daddy by searching “gayish podcast” on YouTube, and play Dream Daddy for yourself at

Sep 12, 2017
Gayish: 026 Hookup Apps

Its not gay if you never learn his name. Mike and Kyle explore the ups and downs of gay hookup apps like Scruff and Grindr.

Sep 06, 2017
Gayish: 025 Boxing (w/ Murph Johnson)

Mike and Kyle know nothing about boxing, yet these two gay dudes sophisticatingly anal-yze the Mayweather vs. McGregor fight. That’s why we bring in reinforcements in the form of Mike’s least good brother, Murph Johnson.

Sep 03, 2017
Gayish: 024 Ghosts [Shrinkage]

Mike and Kyle try to figure out if their gayness is caused by something otherworldly.

Aug 30, 2017
Gayish: 023 Baseball

Why are there no out gay players in the MLB? And are high-fives gay or straight? We turn baseball terms into dirty gay sex acts as we try to talk about a sport we don’t know about.

Aug 22, 2017
Gayish: 022 Animals

Dolphins and bonobos and bestiality, oh my!

Aug 15, 2017
Gayish: 021 Gender (w/ Zipporah Jarmon and Michelle Janayea)

Can periods be genderless? And more importantly, can society accept those who don’t adhere to conventional gender norms? Guests Zipporah Jarmon and Michelle Janayea, co-owners of Pyramid Seven, share the role clothes, underwear, and periods have played in their lives.

Aug 08, 2017
Gayish: 020 Music

Do you know Sia’s sexual orientation? Or who k.d. lang is? Or the song ‘Ur So Gay’? Just admit it. You need this, or you’ll be in treble. Special thanks to Charlie Finn for our new theme song. More info about the music in this episode available at

Aug 02, 2017
Gayish: 019 Consent

Mike and Kyle share stories that blur the lines of consent.

Jul 25, 2017
Gayish: 018 Underwear

A non-stop thrill ride of underwear-related facts, stories, and observations. Apologies in advance to anyone who likes Jesus.

Jul 18, 2017
Gayish: 017 Andrew Garfield [Shrinkage]

Is Andrew Garfield gay? Does Andrew Garfield hate gay people? Is Andrew Garfield a sexy AIDS time traveler? Are all these questions indefensible click-bate? Listen to find out! You won’t believe minute 21!

Jul 14, 2017
Gayish: 016 Mormon (w/ Derek Flora)

Are there gay Mormons? Our friend Derek Flora fills us in on the honest, and sometimes naked (literally), truth of what it was like growing up gay and Mormon.

Jul 11, 2017
Gayish: 015 Subaru

Why are Subarus associated with lesbians? We delve into the world of LGBT marketing. Plus, Mike says smart things about current events while Kyle tries to say the word Obergeflet.

Jul 04, 2017
Gayish: 014 Blood

Can gay men donate blood? Mike gives Kyle some surprising info on blood and HIV. Plus, a gay football player who almost committed suicide rather than come out.

Jun 27, 2017
Gayish: 013 Pride Flag [Shrinkage]

In our first mini episode (for the gays on the go), we talk about the controversial new stripes on the gay pride flag.

Jun 25, 2017
Gayish: 012 Gay Pride

Mike and Kyle become better gays by learning where Pride comes from. Then, they become worse gays by questioning if it should exist. Also, whats up Mikes butt?

Jun 20, 2017
Gayish: 011 Exes

We welcome our first ever gay guests, Matt and Ryan from the Ex Rated Movies podcast, who are also real life exes. We talk about their sordid romantic history, acceptable age gaps, and the f word. Guests: Matt Fisher and Ryan Weadon.

Jun 13, 2017
Gayish: 010 Dungeons & Dragons

Mike and Kyle talk to their friends about their experiences being out Dungeons & Dragons nerds. Special guests: Matt Eaton, Carly Dykes, and Sharayah Lewis.

Jun 06, 2017
Gayish: 009 Ball(s)

Mikes fraternity brother, Dan Patzer, stops by to talk about his testicular cancer and bust the misconceptions about having one ball.

May 31, 2017
Gayish: 008 Safe Space

In this (belated) episode, we talk about where safe spaces came from and what they mean to the gay community. Also, Kyle gets slutty, and Mike yells at you.

May 25, 2017
Gayish: 007 Mother (w/ Patty Johnson)

In this special Mothers Day episode, Mikes mom stops by to drink wine with us, guess what the words twink, bear, and snowball mean, and answer your questions.

May 16, 2017
Gayish: 006 Depression

Yup. Depression.

May 09, 2017
Gayish: 005 Stags (w/ Doug Antkowiak)

Mike and Kyle talk about f*g stags (straight guys who have mostly gay friends). Plus, our favorite f*g stag, Doug Antkowiak, stops by to tell Kyle why he’s bad at being gay.

May 01, 2017
Gayish: 004 Brothers (w/ Marty and Murph Johnson)

Our first ever guests, Mikes brothers, talk about growing up with a gay brother, Mikes marriage to a woman, and whose dick is bigger. Also Mike ruins several tender family moments. Special guests Marty Johnson and Matthew (Murph) Johnson.

Apr 24, 2017
Gayish: 003 Beer

Mike and Kyle drink a lot of beer. We play power hour as we ask each other questions like: What is your favorite body part on a woman? What is your least favorite thing about me? Have you ever sent a dick pic? // Background music is I dunno by grapes (c) copyright 2008 Licensed under …

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Apr 17, 2017
Gayish: 002 Basketball

Kyle and Mike share heartbreak and some laughs about a topic they know little about, basketball. We talk about the first gay NBA player (not Jason Collins), the f-word, and how to not be an asshole.

Apr 10, 2017
Gayish: 001 First Date

[UPDATE: this is our original first episode, as-is. The sound quality gets continually better, so if you’re an audiophile, you should jump ahead to episode 012.]

Welcome to Gayish, the podcast where Mike and Kyle explore how they fit (and don't fit) the gay stereotypes. In the inaugural episode, Kyle gets angry talking about first dates, including dating apps, monogamy, and who should pay on a first date.

Apr 03, 2017