Coming Up for Air — Families Speak to Families about Addiction
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This podcast series addresses topics relevant to families dealing with a loved one's addiction.
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Don't Let Perfectionism Get in the Way
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Nov 16, 2024 |
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What You Don't Do Is Important, Too
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Nov 13, 2024 |
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Partner CRAFT: Self-care
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Nov 01, 2024 |
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Partner CRAFT: Realistic Expectations
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Oct 25, 2024 |
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Partner CRAFT: Why Am I Staying?
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Oct 18, 2024 |
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How CRAFT Works in the Mental Health Field
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Oct 11, 2024 |
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What About the 30 Percent?
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Oct 04, 2024 |
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Using Tropes: "Dry Drunk" and "Manipulation"
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Sep 27, 2024 |
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The Gift of Anxiety
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Sep 20, 2024 |
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Adulting: What Is My Loved One Capable Of?
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Sep 13, 2024 |
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Interview with Dr. Julie McCarthy
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Sep 06, 2024 |
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What If Your Loved One Can't Be Independent?
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Aug 30, 2024 |
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The Power of Doing Nothing
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Aug 23, 2024 |
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CRAFTing: CRAFT as a Verb
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Aug 16, 2024 |
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When You Think CRAFT Communication Won't Work
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Aug 09, 2024 |
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How CRAFT Helps after Detox
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Aug 02, 2024 |
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Don't Tell Me to Calm Down
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Jul 26, 2024 |
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Is Your Situation Unique?
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Jul 19, 2024 |
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Strong Emotions: How Do They Affect CRAFT?
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Jul 12, 2024 |
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What about the Fear of Death?
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Jul 05, 2024 |
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That Didn't Work -- Now What?
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Jun 28, 2024 |
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The Art of CRAFT
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Jun 21, 2024 |
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Interview with Christina Dent
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Jun 14, 2024 |
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Kayla Solomon on the Therapist's Role
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Jun 07, 2024 |
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Interview with Bill Carruthers
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May 24, 2024 |
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Marijuana: Is It a Problem?
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May 17, 2024 |
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Fentanyl Detox: One Family's Situation
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May 10, 2024 |
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How Do You Deal with Unknowns and Limited Contact?
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May 03, 2024 |
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CRAFT Basics: What Does "Agency" Mean?
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Apr 26, 2024 |
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Holding Contradictions
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Apr 19, 2024 |
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What are "Natural Consequences?"
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Apr 12, 2024 |
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A Closer Look at Two Situations
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Apr 05, 2024 |
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How Do You Slow Things Down if it Feels Like Your House is on Fire?
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Mar 29, 2024 |
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Interview with an Allies Member, Pt. 2
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Mar 22, 2024 |
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Interview with an Allies member, Pt. 1 of 2
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Mar 15, 2024 |
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Intention vs. Perception
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Mar 09, 2024 |
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What's a Functional Analysis?
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Mar 02, 2024 |
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Rupture and Repair
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Feb 24, 2024 |
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Well-Worn Sayings
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Feb 17, 2024 |
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Consistent Practice vs. "One-Offs"
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Feb 10, 2024 |
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Victim Stance: The "Why Me?" Episode
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Feb 03, 2024 |
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Do They "Have to Want It?"
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Jan 27, 2024 |
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What Does It Mean to Be an Ally?
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Jan 20, 2024 |
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You Don't Have to Be Perfect
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Jan 13, 2024 |
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Building Your CRAFT Muscle
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Jan 06, 2024 |
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What Do You Do When You've Hit the Wall?
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Dec 30, 2023 |
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When a Relationship Feels One-Directional
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Dec 23, 2023 |
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Handling the Call Saying Treatment Is Terrible
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Dec 16, 2023 |
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What Do You Want, and What Do You Need?
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Dec 09, 2023 |
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Trust, Hope, and Expectation
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Dec 02, 2023 |
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The Season of Expectations
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Nov 18, 2023 |
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Interview with Alex Ribbentrop
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Nov 11, 2023 |
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Filling the Gap
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Nov 03, 2023 |
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What Is Enmeshment?
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Oct 27, 2023 |
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Do You Have a Plan and a Backup Plan?
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Oct 20, 2023 |
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How Do You Handle Anger?
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Oct 13, 2023 |
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Ah-Ha Moments
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Oct 06, 2023 |
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What Are the Three Questions?
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Sep 29, 2023 |
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The Storm Before the Calm
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Sep 22, 2023 |
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Treat the Family, Improve the Outcome
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Sep 15, 2023 |
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Treatment and Recovery: the Allies View
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Sep 08, 2023 |
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Homelessness: A Complicated Problem
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Sep 01, 2023 |
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What Allies in Recovery Adds to CRAFT
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Aug 25, 2023 |
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Does CRAFT Work for Couples, Too?
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Aug 18, 2023 |
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Should I Stop CRAFT If Treatment Begins?
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Aug 11, 2023 |
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Interview with Kathleen Cochran
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Aug 04, 2023 |
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What If I Only Get 15 Minutes?
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Jul 28, 2023 |
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Using CRAFT When Others Aren’t
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Jul 21, 2023 |
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How Do I Know When They're Using?
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Jul 14, 2023 |
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How Do I Use "Functional Analysis?"
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Jul 07, 2023 |
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Interview with Brian Serna
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Jun 30, 2023 |
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Safety: Why It Comes First for CRAFT
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Jun 23, 2023 |
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OARS: Don't Get Caught Downstream!
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Jun 16, 2023 |
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How Do I Set Boundaries without Making My Loved One Angry?
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Jun 09, 2023 |
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What Are the Challenges of Reflective Listening?
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Jun 02, 2023 |
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So What's PIUS?
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May 26, 2023 |
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An Interview with Christina Dent
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May 19, 2023 |
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Triggers: What Are They, and How Do You Handle Them?
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May 12, 2023 |
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How Do You Get Past Accumulated Trauma?
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May 05, 2023 |
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Reflective Listening, Intentional Dialogue, and Improving Communication: Episode 69
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Apr 29, 2023 |
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What's Burnout, and How Do You Handle It?
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Apr 21, 2023 |
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What Is Chronic Disappointment, and How Do You Avoid It?
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Apr 14, 2023 |
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Did My Comment Make Him Drink?
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Apr 07, 2023 |
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How Do You Acknowledge Use Without Accusation?
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Mar 31, 2023 |
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CRAFT, Al-Anon, and Intervention: What's the Difference?
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Mar 24, 2023 |
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How Do You Move from Crisis Management to Change Over Time?
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Mar 17, 2023 |
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Let's Talk About Treatment
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Mar 11, 2023 |
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Allies in Recovery: A Community
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Mar 04, 2023 |
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How Do You Negotiate When Your Loved One Is Coming Home?
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Feb 25, 2023 |
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Interview with Linda Aber, Part 2
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Feb 18, 2023 |
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Interview with Linda Aber, Part 1
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Feb 11, 2023 |
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How Does CRAFT Work at a Distance?
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Feb 04, 2023 |
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What Are Natural Consequences? More on Modules 5 and 6
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Jan 28, 2023 |
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What Do “Using" and "Not Using” Really Mean?
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Jan 21, 2023 |
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How Laurie and Kayla Became Part of AIR
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Jan 14, 2023 |
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Handling Confrontation the CRAFT Way
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Jan 06, 2023 |
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Shall We Dance?
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Dec 30, 2022 |
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What About Family Members' Trauma?
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Dec 23, 2022 |
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Watching Families Progress
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Dec 17, 2022 |
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Collaboration vs. Ultimatum
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Dec 09, 2022 |
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Denial? Or Ambivalence?
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Dec 02, 2022 |
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Here Come the Holidays -- How Do You Deal?
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Nov 25, 2022 |
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How Do You Stop Catastrophizing?
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Nov 18, 2022 |
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Guest Jaclyn Brown Returns: Part 2
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Nov 11, 2022 |
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Guest Jaclyn Brown Returns: Part 1
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Nov 04, 2022 |
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What are Wishes and Dips?
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Nov 04, 2022 |
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An Interview with Guest Jaclyn Brown: Part 2
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Oct 21, 2022 |
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An Interview with Guest Jaclyn Brown: Part 1
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Oct 14, 2022 |
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Stigma: Changing the Story
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Oct 07, 2022 |
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Putting a Positive Spin on Negative Thinking
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Sep 30, 2022 |
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The Importance of Self-Care During Conflict
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Sep 23, 2022 |
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Speaking Up: The Compassionate Way
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Sep 17, 2022 |
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Sectioning: When to Consider Forcing Your Loved One into Treatment
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Sep 09, 2022 |
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Giving Your Loved One Trust and Agency
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Sep 02, 2022 |
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How to Ask Effective Questions
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Aug 26, 2022 |
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Creating a Safe Space for Decision Making
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Aug 19, 2022 |
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How, Why, and When to Put Yourself First
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Aug 12, 2022 |
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Answering Listener Questions
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Aug 05, 2022 |
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Motivation: What Drives Change
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Jul 29, 2022 |
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What is Radical Acceptance?
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Jul 22, 2022 |
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When Your Loved One Uses Multiple Substances
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Jul 15, 2022 |
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Coming Home
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Jul 08, 2022 |
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Unsolicited Advice: Helpful or Hurtful?
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Jul 01, 2022 |
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An Interview with Meme English
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Jun 24, 2022 |
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Conditional Love, Unconditional Love, and Shame: Part 2 -- The Antidote
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Jun 17, 2022 |
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When Do You Work on Use of Less-Dangerous Substances?
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Jun 10, 2022 |
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Conditional Love, Unconditional Love, and Shame: Part 1
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Jun 03, 2022 |
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Facing Obstacles Part 2: How to Not React in Tough Moments
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May 27, 2022 |
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Facing the Obstacles, Part 1
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May 20, 2022 |
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Making Changes at Your Own Pace
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May 13, 2022 |
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What CRAFT Can Do in 12 Weeks
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May 06, 2022 |
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Setting Boundaries
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Apr 29, 2022 |
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De-escalation Strategies
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Apr 22, 2022 |
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CRAFT and Decision-making: A Listener Weighs In
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Apr 15, 2022 |
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Treatment and Families: part 2
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Apr 08, 2022 |
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Treatment and Families: Part 1
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Apr 01, 2022 |
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CRAFT in Romantic Partnerships, part 2
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Mar 25, 2022 |
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CRAFT in Romantic Partnerships, part 1
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Mar 18, 2022 |
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Don't Take It Personally
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Mar 14, 2022 |
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Redefining Recovery
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Mar 04, 2022 |
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CRAFT as the Beginning of Treatment
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Feb 25, 2022 |
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Dr. Carl Erik Fisher on Addiction
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Feb 21, 2022 |
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The importance of reframing
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Feb 18, 2022 |
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What Happens When You Give Advice?
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Feb 12, 2022 |
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Becoming Part of the Process
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Feb 04, 2022 |
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Control and Consequence
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Jan 28, 2022 |
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How Do You Find Common Ground When You Disagree?
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Jan 14, 2022 |
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How Do You Release Trauma?
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Jan 07, 2022 |
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When to Step Away From Your Loved One
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Dec 31, 2021 |
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Should You Stay Connected to Your Loved One Who Is Using?
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Dec 24, 2021 |
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Do You Need to Know if Your Loved One Is Using?
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Dec 17, 2021 |
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Building a Bridge with CRAFT
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Dec 10, 2021 |
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Goals and Expectations
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Dec 06, 2021 |
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The Basics of CRAFT
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Nov 26, 2021 |
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What About the Other Family Members?
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Nov 12, 2021 |
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Suicidal Ideation vs. Substance Use
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Nov 06, 2021 |
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Looking for Positive Moments
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Oct 29, 2021 |
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Control vs. Influence
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Oct 22, 2021 |
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Deciding When Your Loved One Can Live at Home
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Oct 15, 2021 |
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Grandparents and Multigenerational Dynamics
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Oct 08, 2021 |
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Guest Dr. Carl Erik Fisher
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Oct 01, 2021 |
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Always Have a Plan
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Sep 24, 2021 |
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Podcast 84
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Sep 17, 2021 |
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Podcast #83 — SUD, the Family & the Importance of Patterns
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Sep 10, 2021 |
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Podcast # 82 — Crisis vs Chronic, the Sequel
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Sep 03, 2021 |
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Podcast #81 — When Crisis Mode Becomes Chronic, and How to Shift This
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Aug 21, 2021 |
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Podcast #80 — Low-Hanging Fruit: As the Family, What Actions Can You Take Today?
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Aug 06, 2021 |
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Podcast #79 — When Things Get Nasty, What Cards Trump the Blame Card?
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Jul 23, 2021 |
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Podcast #78 — Is "Addiction" a Bad Word? Removing Stigma from Our Language
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Jul 09, 2021 |
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Podcast #77 — How Considering 'Identity' Can Improve Things with Your Loved One with Addiction
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Jun 25, 2021 |
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Podcast #76 — Shame, Shame and More Shame (and Its Good Friend, Substance Use)
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Jun 11, 2021 |
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Podcast # 75 — Do's & Don'ts When You're On the Phone with an Addicted Loved One
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May 28, 2021 |
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Podcast # 74 — Learn How to Apply CRAFT with a Loved One Who's Far Away or Isn't in Touch
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May 14, 2021 |
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Podcast #73 First Thought, Second Thought
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Apr 30, 2021 |
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Podcast #72 — You Are Not Your Story: How to move out of drama and into consciousness
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Apr 07, 2021 |
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Podcast #71 — Dominique Interviews Annie Highwater on Her Journey Thus Far
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Apr 02, 2021 |
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Podcast #70 — Recovery Capital and Laurie's Journey to a New Vocation - Advocate and Peer Recovery Specialist
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Mar 31, 2021 |
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Podcast #69 — You're Gonna Be Lousy At It, At First: Reflective Listening, Intentional Dialogue and How to Vastly Improve Communications with Just About Everybody
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Feb 26, 2021 |
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Podcast #66 From Mother to Resource — with Cheryl Juaire
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Feb 12, 2021 |
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Podcast #68 — How Do Alanon / Naranon Differ from CRAFT? An In-depth Comparison
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Feb 11, 2021 |
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Podcast #67 — Positive Change with Tommy Joyce, Certified Peer Recovery Specialist
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Feb 04, 2021 |
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Podcast #65 What is Peer Support? — With Thrive CEO Brian Bailys
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Dec 23, 2020 |
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Podcast #64 The 5-Actions Program — A Self-Guided Roadmap Out of Addiction
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Dec 08, 2020 |
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Podcast #63 Heartland High — Ohio's First Recovery School
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Nov 23, 2020 |
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Podcast #62 Annie Highwater & Katie Donovan - A Mother's Addiction Journey
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Nov 09, 2020 |
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Podcast #61 Laurie's Internal Journey
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Oct 17, 2020 |
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Podcast #60 DBT Part II — The Story of DBT
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Jun 04, 2019 |
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Podcast #59 What Is DBT and Who Can It Help? Interview with Lisa Bond
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Jun 04, 2019 |
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Podcast #58 Unpacking Module 3: What's Happening When My Loved One Uses?
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Mar 13, 2019 |
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Podcast #57 I'm Desperate to Save My Loved One's Life
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Mar 07, 2019 |
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Podcast #56 Sam Quinones Speaks About his Award-Winning Book, Dreamland
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Nov 10, 2018 |
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Podcast #55 Dominique Simon-Levine—Attaching & Detaching—What Does This Even Mean?
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Oct 31, 2018 |
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Podcast #54 Prof. Daniel Skinner Considers Ohio's Issue #1
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Oct 17, 2018 |
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Podcast #53 Interview with Parent Coach Cathy Taughinbaugh
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Oct 16, 2018 |
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Podcast #52 What Is CRAFT & Why Do You Need It?
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Jul 14, 2018 |
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PODCAST #51 Not My Child! Awakening & Awareness
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Jul 04, 2018 |
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PODCAST #50 Let Me Get You Some Soup (or Not!!) Recognizing Signs & Symptoms and Acting Accordingly
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May 22, 2018 |
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PODCAST #49 Family Secrets—Why Do We Keep Them?
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May 01, 2018 |
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PODCAST #48 The Hosts Are The Guests! Allies in Recovery's Editor Interviews Annie & Laurie
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Apr 05, 2018 |
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PODCAST #47 Facing Addiction's Michael King Spreads Hope & Recovery
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Mar 23, 2018 |
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PODCAST #46 Feeling Sorry: Where Does It Lead? Can It Be Useful?
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Mar 08, 2018 |
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PODCAST #45 You Don't Know What You Don't Know—Awareness & Preparednes
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Feb 22, 2018 |
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PODCAST #44 Interview with Former Drug Court Judge Scott Vanderkarr
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Feb 09, 2018 |
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PODCAST #43 Encouraging Your Loved One into Treatment
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Jan 26, 2018 |
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PODCAST #42 Do You Really Want to be Well?
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Jan 19, 2018 |
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PODCAST #41 Who Is Your Enemy?
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Jan 12, 2018 |
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PODCAST #40 Conflict & Family Patterns
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Jan 04, 2018 |
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PODCAST #39 Accountability & SUD
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Dec 28, 2017 |
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PODCAST #38 Trust and SUD
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Dec 22, 2017 |
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Podcast #37 Holiday Episode: When the Holidays are a Trigger
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Dec 18, 2017 |
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PODCAST #36 Anger vs. Wrath
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Dec 15, 2017 |
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PODCAST #35 Liar Liar, Pants On Fire!
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Dec 07, 2017 |
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PODCAST #34 Heads Up: Tips for Families with a Loved One on the Recovery Path
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Dec 01, 2017 |
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PODCAST #33 Interview with Chief Deputy Sheriff Rick Minerd
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Nov 24, 2017 |
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PODCAST #32 Victimhood And Victimizing
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Nov 17, 2017 |
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PODCAST #31 Interview with Richard Jones from the Recovery Cartel
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Nov 10, 2017 |
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PODCAST #30 The Most Overlooked Resource: Family And Friends
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Nov 03, 2017 |
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PODCAST #29 Interview with Pam Rickard from the Herren Project
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Oct 26, 2017 |
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PODCAST #28 Fake It 'Til You Make It
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Oct 21, 2017 |
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PODCAST #27 Codependency & Denial
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Oct 10, 2017 |
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Mike Duggan: Wicked Sober
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Oct 09, 2017 |
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Crisis: How Do I Sit Through a Meeting When My Life is Falling Apart?
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Sep 21, 2017 |
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Empty Nest and SUD
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Sep 20, 2017 |
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What's In Your Toolbox?
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Sep 01, 2017 |
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Grief And Disappointment: the New Normal
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Aug 18, 2017 |
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Enabling Non-Use
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Aug 01, 2017 |
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Interview with Lee Weber from Addictionblog
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Jul 31, 2017 |
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Interview with Activist Alicia Cook
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Jul 24, 2017 |
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Good-time Charlies: A Conversation on Addiction, Shame & Recovery with Rob Koebel
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Jul 16, 2017 |
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Interview With Laurie's Son Tommy
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Jul 10, 2017 |
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Interview with Annie's Son
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Jun 23, 2017 |
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Silver Linings: Our New Playbook
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Apr 11, 2017 |
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Stories Of Stigma
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Apr 10, 2017 |
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A House Divided Stands No Chance
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Apr 09, 2017 |
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Trigger Happy
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Apr 08, 2017 |
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Enabling Use
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Apr 07, 2017 |
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Feelings, Nothing More...
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Apr 06, 2017 |
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Leave Your Drama To The Llama
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Apr 05, 2017 |
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Manipulation
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Apr 04, 2017 |
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The CRAFT Method, with Dominique Simon-Levine
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Apr 03, 2017 |
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Slogans: The Language Of Recovery
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Apr 02, 2017 |
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Support Groups
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Apr 01, 2017 |
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Goals as a Family Member
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Mar 31, 2017 |
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Consistent Forgiveness
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Mar 30, 2017 |
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Friends' And Family's Reactions
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Mar 29, 2017 |
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Annie And Laurie's Stories
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Mar 28, 2017 |