Shameless Sex

By Amy Baldwin and April Lampert| Pleasure Podcasts

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Subscribers: 1252
Reviews: 3

Natalie
 Feb 23, 2021
I'll try to give this podcast a try but I'm contemplating not listening after the 1st episode. I'm not really into listening to cheaters give advice so 🤷🏻‍♀️

Savanna
 Jul 3, 2019
This podcast is very respectful, informative, and entertaining! I have been married for 9 years, and started listening recently. I was really excited when I found it, so I told my husband and found out he was already a subscriber!

Dan
 Feb 17, 2019
these ladies are so full of knowledge and so willing to share in a way that is really accessible. they are really putting their heart and soul into this :) thank you!

Description

Amy is a Sex and Relationship Coach and Sex Educator with a passion for promoting unabashed, pleasure-focused sexuality education. April is a motivational speaker, sex toy mogul, as well as one of the leading women in the sex-toy industry. April and Amy combined forces to create the Shameless Sex Podcast, inspiring radical self-love, sexual empowerment, and shame-free intimacy with a playful twist sharing real life experiences and tell all details. Visit www.shamelesssex.com for more. Shameless Sex is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com

Episode Date
#245 How to Revive Passion In Passionless Relationships- With Naomi Slater
55:09

Why and when does passion go out the window in so many long-term relationships? What are some tips and tools for lovers/couples to revive it? 

We also answer a (graphic) sex question about what to do about upset stomach/bowels from "finishing inside" after anal sex. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. 

About our guest: Naomi Slater is an experienced love & intimacy coach, host of the “Divine Couples” podcast, yoga teacher and bio-energy therapist. She is the creator of the online course “Awaken Your Desire” - helping women reclaim their wild and powerful divine feminine. Naomi’s passion is guiding women and couples to heal their relationships and reclaim their power, pleasure and passion. To learn more visit ​​divine-couples.com. To sign up for her free masterclass go to awakenyourdesire.com

Follow her on Instagram at @divine.couples

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Oct 12, 2021
#244 How To Do Relationships - With Jayson Gaddis of The Relationship School
01:02:00

How can partners get through conflict and come back to being in a loving, connected place? How can partners help each other with their triggers? And what if the triggered person triggers you? Relationship expert and author Jayson Gaddis answers all this and more. 

We also answer a sex question: What do I say when my partner asks me what I want but I have no idea, and how can I learn to orgasm through penetrative sex? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16 (but you may miss out on some juicy sex questions).

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Oct 06, 2021
#243 How to Be More Dominant In the Bedroom (For Penis-Owners) - With Orpheus Black
01:00:25

How can penis-owners step into their dominant power both in and out of the bedroom (without turning into "toxic masculinity")? What are the four most impactful keys to helping folks develop their personal masculine? And what are some fun/juicy tips for listeners who want to bring more kink into the bedroom? Orpheus Black - BDSM expert and three-time leather title holder with 20+ years of experience in the Dom world answers all this and more. 

We also answer a sex question about "dirty talk". 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. 

About our guest: Orpheus Black is a Los Angeles-based public speaker, teacher, thought leader, and somatic visionary who specializes in the application of ancient wisdom in modern day settings. Orpheus aims to propel the intellectual and sensual evolution of masculinity both by challenging men to reconnect with its roots and by inviting them to embrace manhood in its fullness. In this role, he shares insights, offers tools, and speaks against societal norms of shame and repression. Orpheus regularly provides guided lessons at world famous staples in the S&M community and he has been recognized by news resources like Mashable.com, Playboy, Marie Clair, and Ebony. To learn more visit orpheusblack.com

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To sign up for Amy's upcoming in-person Whole Body Foreplay class go to https://www.purepleasureshop.com/collections/online-sex-education

 

 

 

 

 

Sep 28, 2021
Bonus Episode: Autism Is My Sexual Superpower - With Antonio Myers
32:01

Autism is Antonio Myers’ super blessing in so many aspects of his life including sex and relationships. Antonio is "good, naked and unashamed", loves positive personhood, and lives by "love your neighbor as yourself", and "do no harm". 

Antonio identifies as Pansexual in that his sexual and romantic attraction to others is not based on sex or gender, as well as Pangender where his gender identity is not limited to one gender and may encompass many genders at once. He is ethically non-monogamous and has overcome physical and sexual abuse from folks who harmed him because of his Autism. Antonio also identifies as kinky, sexual, sensual, shapeshifter and energetic from Jaiya's Erotic Blueprints 

Antonio is a high-school valedictorian, college graduate, world traveler, and disability advocate. He’s a Unitarian Universalist, a Progressive Liberal, and is about equal rights, human rights, civil & political rights, as well as economic, social, cultural rights and freedoms. He does servant leadership with boundless optimism and Oneness/Wholeness. 

Also be sure to check out Antonio's new book A Grandmother’s Unconditional Love - a life-changing book about unconditional love, deliverance and healing power that has been manifested in the life of an amazing, brilliant, loving autistic young man.  At the tender age of 2 the doctors told his parents that he would never be able to walk or talk. Today he is thriving, walking, talking and transforming lives. He is called Antonio Hope Myers because he gives people hope by sharing his story living with autism, being bullied in school as a child, dealing with trauma, depression and anxiety, and how he defied all odds and is living life victoriously and is an inspiration to people all over the world. To buy his book follow this link: https://linktr.ee/Tonio_softheart199

Also Antonio's socials and other offerings: 

Instagram: @highlypraiseworthygracemayor 

Podcast: TonioTimeDaily

 
Sep 27, 2021
#242 Kegels, Pu$$y Power, & Pleasure After Baby - With Brooke Cates
01:04:18

Why are kegels important? Is there such things as doing too many kegel exercises? And for folks who have or are going to have a baby - what should they be concerned about regarding their pelvic floor? What changes should they be aware of? How does sex change? How long do you really have to wait to have postpartum sex? And what options are out there for more pleasure before, during and after having a baby? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. 

About our guest: Brooke Cates is the Founder & CEO of The Bloom Method, a pre and postnatal fitness method, redefining exercise for the modern mom. Brooke created The Bloom Method with a desire to empower women through movement before, during and after their pregnancies. Recognizing gaps in both the mainstream and pregnancy fitness worlds, she created a fitness method that consists of diastasis recti rehabilitation and prevention exercises, labor training, functional exercise movements and innovative core techniques that are designed to keep women strong and thriving through pregnancy and motherhood. In 2018, Brooke launched the first ever Pre and Postnatal virtual fitness studio making the education, tools, and innovative fitness classes of The Bloom Method accessible to women everywhere. Brooke is a Certified Personal Trainer, Pre & Postnatal Corrective Exercise Specialist, Diastasis Recti & Core Rehabilitation Specialist and Pre & Postnatal Holistic Health Coach. To learn more visit thebloommethod.com

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Sep 21, 2021
#241 "It's Called A Vag!na" & Why It's Good to Be Bad - With Good Moms Bad Choices
01:04:21

Erica and Milah of Good Moms Bad Choices joins us to talk about everything from talking to their kids about sex and why it's important to say "vagina", how smoking weed makes them better people/parents, what it's like being a sex podcaster and navigating the dating world, and the importance of being bad. 

"Whether you like threesomes on the weekend or smoking weed, you should be able to do whatever the fuck you want as long as it is not negatively affecting your child and your spirit”.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. 

About our guests:  If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored and outspoken sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like and breaking life's archaic stereotypes. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! In fact, this audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. From guests like social Activists, Shaun King, to Porn Star parents, every week Good Moms deliver personal perspectives and voices that inspire and empower. Erica and Milah's sometimes "bad choices" keep this weekly podcast as entertaining and unpredictable as life itself. To learn more visit goodmomsbadchoices.com or listen on your favorite podcast app

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Sep 14, 2021
#240 How to Stop Having Painful Sex & Sexual "Dysfunction" - With Urologist Dr. Nicole Eisenbrown
01:02:11

Why do a lot of vulva-owners experience painful sex? What can they do about it both holistically and via working with a medical professional? What about penis-owners who experience some form of "sexual dysfunction"? And how do the O-shot, P-shot, Femiwave and Gainswave work? Dr. Eisenbrown answers all this and more. 

We also answer a sex question: Am I addicted to sex? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.

About our guest: Dr. Eisenbrown is a private practicing urologist who is board certified in both Urology and Female Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive Surgery (FPM-RS).  Her practice is dedicated to restoring pelvic health in women. This includes all types of incontinence, but also includes reconstructive surgery for prolapse, female sexual dysfunction, stone disease, recurrent urinary tract infections, and all general urologic problems.

Dr. Eisenbrown graduated at the top of her class at the University of Florida in 1997.  She completed her general surgery and urology residency training also at the University of Florida in 2002. She became one of the first urologists in the country to become dual board certified in both urology and female pelvic medicine and reconstructive surgery in 2014. Although she is fully trained and all aspects of urology, her practice from the beginning has focused on female pelvic health issues.

Dr. Eisenbrown is a #1 best selling author of several books. Her newest book “Sometimes I laugh So Hard the Tears Run Down My Legs” was written to help educate women about this very common problem.  Her Earlier book “Why Does Sex Hurt” is written for women who suffer from painful intercourse. This, unfortunately, is also very common, but grossly undertreated so women suffer needlessly. Both are available in print or kindle on Amazon. To learn more visit https://www.dreisenbrown.com

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Sep 07, 2021
#239 FemDom and Fetishes - With Dominatrix Mistress Eva
52:27

What does it mean to be a Feminine Dominatrix - both as a lifestyle and/or as a profession? What is the difference between physical and psychological punishment, and why might someone be into this? How does it serve them? What can everyday folks learn from FemDoms in terms of boundaries and how to be more dominant in the bedroom? And how do fetishes fit into FemDom work? Mistress Eva answers all this and more. 

We also answer a sex question: I'm a vulva owner and I can't orgasm from penetrative sex. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. 

About our guest: Eva Oh, aka Mistress Eva, is an International Dominatrix of Chinese-Burmese-English-Irish descent, and grew up across Asia, Australia and Europe. Her unique career began in 2012, when she left an unfulfilling corporate job to train at Sydney’s renowned Salon Kitty’s dungeons. She has since held select arrangements (and keys) from Berlin to Cape Town, London to Singapore, Dubai to New York – and back.

 Mistress Eva holds a deep enthusiasm for slave training and total power exchange; currently based in Bali, Indonesia, she runs an online slave training playground, YouWillPleaseMe.com, and tours the world for select engagements only. 

In addition to her work as a BDSM trainer, Mistress Eva also hosts the #teakink web series and SafeWord Podcast. She has also been featured high-profile media outlets such as VICE, Slutever, DAZED, Washington Post, Sinical Magazine and Kink Queens. To learn more, visit Eva-Oh.com

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Aug 31, 2021
#238 Non-Monogamy & How to "Open Smarter" - With Dr. Zhana Vrangalova
01:04:24

What does the research say around why people want or choose non monogamy? How does someone know which relationship style is right for them? And what are some tips for folks who want to "open smarter"? 

We also read a testimonial from Dr. Shawn about how to navigate anal sex and hemorrhoids. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18.

About our guest: Zhana Vrangalova, PhD, is a NYC-based sex and relationships consultant, speaker, and writer passionate about elevating society’s conversation about sex and relationships. She was born and raised in Macedonia, a small country in Southeast Europe, where traditional gender and sexual norms clashed with her own alternative sexual desires and interests, and inspired her to pursue a career of understanding and helping sexually adventurous individuals and couples live authentic, healthy, and ethical lives.

Dr. Zhana has a BA in psychology from the University of Saints Cyril and Methodius, and a PhD in Developmental Psychology from Cornell University where she studied how nontraditional sexual lifestyles (casual sex, nonmonogamy, and nonheterosexuality) affect psychological health and wellbeing. She currently teaches Human Sexuality courses at New York University, and hosts the global Uncensored conversation series. Her new online course, Open Smarter, helps people make smarter decisions about their relationship choices using their unique relationship personality. Join her weekly conversations on Instagram @DrZhana or visit DrZhana.com

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Aug 24, 2021
#237 Oral Sex 2.0: #MouthMasterClass - With Samia
01:09:25

Return guest Samia Burton joins us to talk all about how to up your blowjob game. She even covers topics such as how to strengthen the receiver's (penis-owner’s) orgasm, as well as how to prolong their erection. 

We also answer a sex question: My wife likes anal sex but I'm not into it. How can I learn to like it? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 13. 

About our guest: Samia created Sexual Essentials to take an unconventional approach to sexual education by offering hands on sex workshops such as the infamous MouthMasterclass,  DickRiding101 & the Sex Conditioning Workout. These workshops are centered around building confidence in a bold yet respectable way where anyone can feel comfortable because they are a tribe & a 100% judgement free zone. To learn more visit thesexualessentials.com

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Aug 17, 2021
#236 Ass-Tastic Anal Sex From a Bottom's Perspective
01:13:07

Last week Erik Everhard taught us all about how to have great anal sex from a penis-owner's/top's perspective, so this week we are coming in hot from a bottom's perspective (AKA the person being penetrated). Happy Anal August everyone!

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Aug 10, 2021
#235 How to Have Great Anal Sex From a Male Porn Star's Perspective - With Erik Everhard
01:08:56

Return guest, author, coach, porn star and adult film director, Erik Everhard, joins us to teach us all about anal sex from a top's (the one doing the penetrating) perspective. Happy Anal August everyone!

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. 

About our guest: Erik Everhard is one of world's top male porn stars, having starred in and directed over 3,000 films. Erik is a professional coach and one of the most decorated adult performers of the 21st century. He is a leading authority on sexual and mental techniques which can empower men and bring them success in the bedroom as well as in all other aspects of their lives. In addition to his wealth of practical knowledge, he holds a Masters level certification in Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP). To learn more visit erikeverhard.com

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Aug 03, 2021
Bonus Episode: Sex Work & A Day In the Life Of A Gay Male Escort - With Tim Lagman
43:24

Tim Lagman is a certified sex educator with the American College of Sexologists International and pleasure advocate based in Toronto, Canada. He began his sexual journey through escorting where he worked with a number of clients from different backgrounds and all walks of life ranging from couples, individuals, poly relationships, and everything in between. 

Tim then went to study at Durham College where he received his diploma in Business Management specializing in the music industry and graduated with honors. In his free time, Tim likes to volunteer and give back to the community through outreach in Toronto’s LGBT scene providing sex education and harm reduction resources to the public. It is his mission in life to make sex fun and funny as he loves to make people laugh and believes in the curative powers of laughter. Sex is already a sensitive and touchy subject..."We might as well laugh at the fart noises!". To learn more visit sexedwithtim.com or follow Tim on social media:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gayslutclown https://www.instagram.com/sexedwithtim

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gayslutclown

Twitter: https://twitter.com/gayslutclown https://twitter.com/sexedwithtim

Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gayslutclown

 

Jul 30, 2021
#234 How to Be a Great Lover: For Singles and Couples - With Erwan and Alicia Davon
01:04:29

What makes a great lover? How can both couples and singles up their sexual mastery skills? Return guests and dream couple Erwan and Alicia answer all this and more. 

We also answer a sex question about kegel balls/vaginal beads. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18.

About our guests: For over 25 years Erwan and Alicia, who joined Erwan in 2003, have been working successfully with singles and couples, teaching their signature process – the Davon Method to hundreds of students in groups, retreats, and individual sessions and helping them create the relationships of their dreams. Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and sexuality and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others.

Erwan and Alicia have been together for almost 20 years and over 10K students have participated in their work since 1995. They have demonstrated their signature sensual technique, Extended Orgasm, for over an hour in front of 100 people. Their specialties are supporting singles in getting into turned on and intimate relationships and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of passion and intimacy. Erwan & Alicia offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. To learn more visit pleasurecourse.com or:

  • Book your free Love Life Consultation with Alicia- text her school at 415 308 9580 OR click this link to set it up https://erwandavon.com/consult/
  • Sign up for The Pleasure Course, their 2 day online course where they dive deep into the Davon Method & the 5 key skills for a successful relationship: https://erwandavon.com/events/

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Jul 27, 2021
#233 Breakups, Dating and How to Have a Hot Girl (and Boy) Summer
01:05:43

Tune in for our favorite hot girl summer stories, plus tips on navigating breakups, single life, and how to live it up as your most badass single self this summer. 

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Jul 20, 2021
#232 G-Spots, Innovative Strap-On’s, and Sex Toys For Penetrative Sex - With Glenise Kinard-Moore
46:12

Why do folks continue to debate if the g-spot is a real thing? Does everyone have the potential to enjoy g-spot stimulation? What if someone is new to using sex toys for penetrative sex? And what's the deal with the new VDOM strap-on technology? 

We also answer a sex question: I'm jealous of the pleasure my wife gets from her vibrator. 

Oh, and we are giving away some FREE sex toys and lube! Tune in to find out how to win!

About our guest: Glenise Kinard-Moore is the founder of SkiiMoo Tech and the creator of The VDOM. The VDOM is the first app-connected prosthetic genital device that can go from flaccid to erect at the push of a button. An information security consultant by profession and an ambitious tech creative at night; Glenise is a self-proclaimed tech nerd and she likes to say that her superpower is breaking apart many things to create new things. To learn more visit thevdom.com

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Jul 13, 2021
#231 Orgasm, Pleasure Challenges & How To Overcome Them - With Dr. Nan Wise
01:00:44

Repeat guest and dear friend Dr. Nan Wise answers your sex questions about challenges with orgasm and pleasure. Never had an orgasm? Getting in your head during penetration? Or perhaps you orgasms just aren't what they used to be? Dr. Nan discusses all this while sharing applicable tips on how to bring more pleasure into your erotic world. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 21.

About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark.  She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com.

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Jul 06, 2021
#230 How to Heat Up Your Kissing Game - With Darshana Avila
01:04:07

Is there an art to kissing? Does technique matter? What are the qualities of a really great kisser? And what usually gets in the way of great kissing (aka not so great kissing)? Repeat guest Darshana Avila answers all this and more including some great tips and techniques. 

We also answer a sex question: I don't want to have sex with my boyfriend anymore. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. 

About our guest: “We are erotic by nature.” This is the foundation of everything that Darshana Avila shares, guiding women (and sometimes their partners, too) who are ready for radical intimacy in their lives to lay down their armor and claim their wholeness. She guides, mentors and coaches from the belief that none of us is actually broken and in need of fixing, but instead we have fragmented parts that need to be reclaimed and integrated into our being. Darshana is dedicated to helping people feel truly at home in their bodies and in alignment with their souls so they experience more ease and pleasure in all aspects of life. She has a private practice and also facilitates intimate group experiences. To learn more visit darshanaavila.com. Follow Darshana on IG at @eroticwholeness

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Jun 29, 2021
#229 Romance and How to Love Like the French - With Guy Blaise
50:01

What is romance really all about? Why do some people shy away from it? And how people can Americans learn a thing or two about romance from the French? 

We also answer a sex question: I want to experience pegging with my wife but how can I bring this up when she doesn't like talking about sex? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17.

About our guest: Guy Blaise is an author and Frenchman currently living and working in America. He lived in Eastern France and Paris, where he witnessed the dating experiences of the strong women in his family and listened closely to the advice his grandmother routinely gave them about love. After two decades of living in America and struck by the differences between two cultures’ approaches to romance and sex, Guy started writing books offering his insights and started The French Perspective blog. Learn more at thefrenchperspective.com

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Jun 22, 2021
#228 Sexy Seduction Tips From Strippers + Why Sex Work is Awesome - With Danica and Riley
01:00:09

What is sex work and why do a lot of sex workers love working in this field? What is the difference between escorting, stripping, prostitution, etc? And what are some awesome tips sex workers can teach non-sex worker folks about how to be sexy, seductive and in their power in the bedroom?

We also answer a sex question about best ways to stay clean/hygenic in the bedroom. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. 

About our guest/s: Danica is a sarcastic, straightforward, sex-positive feminist with a passion for topics that some may consider “taboo.” Danica has a B.A in psychology,  is a public speaker and university guest lecturer, host of her own sex work and sexuality podcast, is a devoted sex worker’s advocate and has a successful career as an exotic dancer - she knows some stuff! To learn more visit 50plusatip.com or listen to 50 Plus a Tip Podcast on your favorite podcast app. 

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Jun 15, 2021
#227 Gender Fck: Transgender, Non-Binary and Transitioning 101 - With Rae McDaniel
01:09:36

What does it mean to be transgender and non-binary? What are some of the current issues trans and non-binary folks are facing? And what are some tips for folks who are considering (or are already) transitioning? 

About our guest:

Looking at Rae now, you’d never guess that they used to travel with their fundamentalist Southern Baptist parents doing missionary puppet shows.

It wasn’t until Rae went to college at a small conservative school in Texas that they embraced what they’d always known deep down -- they’d never fit into the box expected of them by their parents. As Rae watched their friends attempt to navigate their emerging sexuality and identity in such an oppressive environment, they realized they wanted to spend their life helping LGBTQ folks live their best, most authentic life.

Not long after undergrad, Rae came out as queer. While their family was unsupportive, Rae finally felt free. You see, their whole life, they felt like they were wearing a shoe that was one size too small. Embracing their identity as a transgender, non-binary person felt like finally putting on the right size shoe and being able to not just walk but run.

But Rae didn’t stop there -- they created GenderFck: The Club so other transgender and non-binary people could feel that same freedom. As someone who grew up in the south, they know what it's like to not feel accepted by those around you and to not have the resources that folks in larger, urban communities do. Rae wanted to create something that made high-value support, information, and community available to those who may not normally have access to it. To learn more visit genderfck.club

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Jun 08, 2021
#226 Multi-Orgasmic Men and Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms - With Shasta Townsend and Ian Lavalley
50:53

What are non-ejaculatory orgasms and why would a penis-owner want to learn how to do this? How does it lead to more full bodied or multi-orgasmic experiences? And how might it increase intimacy and sexual connection between partners? Shasta and Ian share all this plus tips on how to master these techniques. 

We also answer a sex question about dating someone who has never had sex before. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16.

About our guests: Shasta Townsend and Ian Lavalley are best-selling authors, married, BIPOC sex and relationship experts and are leading a global love movement based in ancient eastern thought, Indigenous wisdom and cutting-edge science. Learn more at www.7starlove.com

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Jun 01, 2021
Bonus Episode: Pleasure Rebels, Hot Sex With Disabilities & Sex Toys - With Kelly Perks-Bevington
41:58

What are some of the obstacles folks with disabilities might have when it come to sex? What are some tips for folks with disabilities to have more pleasure in their lives? Kelly shares this as well as her favorite sex toys for folks with disabilities. 

About our guest: Kelly Perks-Bevington is a 32 year old entrepreneur and consultant based in the West Midlands, UK! She has Spinal Muscular Atrophy Type 3 which is a genetic disability meaning for her, that she uses an electric wheelchair to get around. Kellys condition is progressive and has meant that she has faced loosing her ability throughout her life especially when her body faced big changes and challenges such as pregnancy. Kelly has two young sons, which is quite trying for any parent but absolutely loves parenting with her disability with help from her supportive partner Josh and her awesome team of PA’s!

From a young age Kelly was outspoken and never let anyone dictate what her disability meant or allowed her to do this has seen her go through mainstream schools, get into a lot of trouble at college and ultimately push herself through many exciting and predominately male dominated industries. Kelly now works as a consultant which allows her to dedicate her time to projects that truly excite her and allows her also to manage her time to ensure she has sufficient time with her young sons. Kellys current projects span from recruitment to working for forward thinking sex toy brand Hot Octopuss. Kelly also works as a presenter and is the current host of Hot Octopuss’s brand podcast Pleasure Rebels, as well as this Kelly has also worked on projects for the BBC, Channel 4 and Virgin Media. Kelly also regularly appears in mainstream media throughout the UK discussing issues that disabled people face and advocating for other disabled people. Kelly has also co-founded the business "With Not For” with Emma Gardner. Kelly and Emma are working together on this project to not only get disabled people into work but to push disabled people into high paid and high power roles, ultimately getting them to boardroom level by embracing talent, confidence and reeducating big employers about the benefits of adding people with disabilities to their teams!

To learn more visit hotoctopuss.com/pleasure-rebels

May 28, 2021
#225 How to Unleash Your Sexual Pleasure! - With Pyasa
44:12

What gets in the way of people having great sex with themselves or others? What is the most powerful thing people can do to amp up the pleasure? Return guest and dear friend, Pyasa, answers all this and more (along with plenty of applicable tips for how to how more sexual pleasure in your life). 

We also answer a sex question about dirty talk. And we share our fav sex toy of the week: The Kurve 

About our guest: Pyasa is a trauma-informed somatic sexologist, Interdisciplinary Pelvic specialist, and sexological bodyworker. She mentors women and couples online, facilitates individual and group transformational retreats, and has been raising consciousness about the importance of sexual sovereignty as a public speaker on stages around the world. She is also the author of the Intimacy Adventure Playbook.

Pyasa believes pleasure is our birthright as human beings and a powerful healing force. She is passionate about helping people unleash from the disempowered conditioning imposed by sex negative cultures which have distorted it’s original expression. She uses embodied learning, presence practices, pelvic/heart, and de-armoring techniques to support her students to take agency of their lives so they can bring their full-bodied presence into the world, enjoying life and all its pleasures. To learn more visit iampyasaunleashed.com 

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May 25, 2021
#224 Masturbation 101: How to Have GREAT Sex With Yourself - With August McLaughlin
57:16

Why is masturbation important? How can it change your life for the better? And what are some of the ways people can bring more self-pleasure into their lives? August shares her own personal journey as well as plenty of tips and applicable life hacks for ways you can have great sex with yourself. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. 

About our guest: August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, media personality and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which offers a spicy blend of personal stories, in-depth reporting and inspiration. Reviewers have called the show “Sex in the City meets NPR” and the “Fresh Air of Sex” and the show frequents Apple Podcasts’ top 100 sexuality chart.

August’s work as an advocate for sexual empowerment and gender parity led her to the TEDx stage and to attend the 2016 United State of Women summit as a nominated change maker. Her articles have appeared in a range of notable publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post and DAME Magazine. August is also a trauma-informed certified sex educator with a passion for myth-busting and normalizing stigmatized topics.

Publishers Weekly called her book, Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment (Amberjack Publishing, 2018) “equally fun, risqué, and informative” and “a welcome addition to sexual health literature.” The New York Times called it “terrifically encouraging” and “a thorough primer on everything from sex toys to bondage to ‘no means no.” Her workbook, Girl Boner Journal: A Guided Journal to Sexual Joy and Empowerment (Amberjack Publishing, 2019), is full of true stories and writing prompts for deepening sexual self-discovery. 

August’s forthcoming book, With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships, cowritten by sex therapist, Jamila Dawson, LMFT, will be released by Chicago Review Press in the fall of 2021. Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills to lift others’ voices, debunk damaging myths, and encourage folks to embrace their bodies, sexuality and selves, making way for richer, more authentic lives. To learn more visit girlboner.org

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May 18, 2021
#223 D!ck-Riding 101 - With Samia
59:21

Learn how to give pleasure to your partner WHILE bringing yourself to orgasm with you on top! This episode is packed full of tips, tricks, position techniques, and a lot of laughter. 

About our guest: Samia created Sexual Essentials to take an unconventional approach to sexual education, by offering hands on sex workshops such as the infamous #MouthMasterclass #DickRiding101 & the Sex Conditioning Workout. These workshops are centered around building confidence in a bold yet respectable way where anyone can feel comfortable because they are a tribe & a 100% judgement free zone. To learn more visit thesexualessentials.com. Use code MasturbationMay now through 5/31/21 for a discount

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May 11, 2021
#222 Crossdressers, Bi-Curious Men & Their Admirers - With Ms. Ava Durga and Sissy Becca
01:07:30

What is crossdressing and why does it feel so good (and arousing) for penis owners who embrace the feminine part of themselves? How does crossdressing show up in sexuality? And how is this related (or not related) to sexual orientation or gender identity? 

We also answer a sex question: Menopause is ruining my marriage. 

About our guests: Sissy Becca has been an alpha male all of his life, but discovered his feminine side 15 years ago. Over the past 15 years he has alternating with struggling with his desire and being proud of his femininity. Over the last 2 years he found the perfect woman who helped him understand that being a CD is just a part of his psyche and that he should be perfectly content with living a double life. He now is happy as an alpha male most of the time, but also proud of being the sissy crossdresser the rest of the time. 

Ms. Ava Durga discovered the fun of feminizing males in 2001, and has helped crossdressers, sissies, and bi-curious males achieve their potential at The Sissy Parlor in South Florida since 2017. She’s been a guiding force in helping them accept that their feminine side, often including the desire for receptive sexuality, is a key part of their psyche that they should embrace. To learn more visit https://circleofq.com/

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May 04, 2021
#221 Safe & Slutty Sexual Adventures - With Billy Procida of the Manwhore Podcast
01:08:40

Billy joins us to share his shameless slutty YET SAFE sexual adventures including installing a glory-hole in his apartment, masked outdoor blowjobs, getting jerked off by a FemDom and then cumming on her male sub's face, and more. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 10.

About our guest: Billy Procida is a professional stand-up comedian, podcaster, and accidental gang-bang organizer. For over a decade, he's entertained audiences all over the country and can be seen at comedy clubs around New York City. His show The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love was named a Top Sex Podcast by Esquire and Uproxx three years in a row, and his sex & dating advice has been featured in outlets like Cosmo, YourTango, Men's Health, and more. Oh, and his father is finally proud of him. To learn more visit ManwhorePod.com/itunes

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Apr 27, 2021
#220 Kidney Orgasms, Liver Orgasms, and Sex As Medicine - With Dr. Willow Brown
01:06:56

NOTE: Dr. Willow Brown's retreat has been moved to June 12th, 2021. 

Did you know that you can have a kidney orgasm, a liver orgasm, and utilize sex as medicine to change, heal and empower you? Friend and repeat guest Dr. Willow Brown joins us to to talk about all of this, as well as sex for longevity, vitality, & spiritual/emotional harmony, the four phases of moon cycle and five Chinese elements in relation to sexuality, and how to unlock and embody your inner Queen. 

We also answer a sex question about vulva shaming. 

About our guest: Willow Brown holds a doctorate in Chinese Medicine, blending ancient taoist philosophy with sexual and spiritual practices that ignite the souls true calling. She is devoted to the sexual healing of humanity and works to promote and open receptive pleasure pathways in each person she works with. Willow works with her clients and patients on every level. Physical, spiritual, emotional, sexual and psychological. You will not find a more holistic approach to a long happy and healthy life. To learn more visit drwillowbrown.com.

For her Dreaming the Queen Awake retreat on June 12th, 2021 visit https://drwillowbrown.com/dreaming-the-queen-awake/

 

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Apr 20, 2021
#219 How to Have More Sex and Better Intimacy - With Sex Therapist Ian Kerner, PhD
55:26

Ian Kerner, PhD, joins us to talk about why he asks all of his clients the question, So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex (also the title of his new book), and how this question helps uncover couple's repetitive sex scripts. He also shares tips on how to re-write old sex scripts for more sex and better intimacy, as well as ways to "turn off" to really turn on. 

We also answer a sex question: My wife has never had an orgasm. How can I help her achieve one + open up more sexually? 

Ian Kerner is a licensed psychotherapist and nationally recognized sexuality counselor who specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy, and working with individuals on a range of relational issues. He is also the New York Times bestselling author of She Comes First and many more, including his latest book So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex, helping couples achieve more intimacy and better sex. He is a Clinical Fellow of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists; certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (where he also sits on the board); the Society for Sex Therapy and Research; and the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy. To learn more visit iankerner.com

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Apr 13, 2021
#218 How to Find Peace In Betrayal, Breakups and Divorce - With Tammy Letherer
01:11:46

How can what feels like the ultimate betrayal turn into the ultimate blessing? How can folks navigate the feeling of their lives/world falling apart - especially when it comes to breakups and divorce? And what if you have kids? Tammy Letherer, author of The Buddha at My Table, answers all this and more. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 25.

About our guest: Tammy Letherer is an author, writing coach, and blogger. She holds a degree in Journalism from Indiana University and has enjoyed a long and varied professional writing career. In addition to The Buddha at My Table, Letherer is also the author of the novel, Hello Loved Ones and the children’s book, My Health is in My Hands. She lives in Chicago with her three children.

Read her blogs on Huffington Post or learn more about her work at TammyLetherer.com. Also visit her on Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn.

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Apr 06, 2021
#217 How To Have Extended Orgasms - With Erwan and Alicia Davon
57:55

What is Extended Orgasm? How does it lead to a hot passionate relationship and/or help couples get the chemistry back into their love lives? And what about for single folks? How can they practice/have Extended Orgasms?

We also answer a sex question: I'm having a a hard time making my partner orgasm. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14. 

About our guests: For over 25 years Erwan and Alicia, who joined Erwan in 2003, have been working successfully with singles and couples, teaching their signature process – the Davon Method to hundreds of students in groups, retreats, and individual sessions and helping them create the relationships of their dreams. Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and sexuality and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others.

Erwan and Alicia have been together for almost 20 years and over 10K students have participated in their work since 1995. They have demonstrated their signature sensual technique, Extended Orgasm, for over an hour in front of 100 people. Their specialties are supporting singles in getting into turned on and intimate relationships and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of passion and intimacy. Erwan & Alicia offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. 

To learn more text Alicia at 415-308-9580 (please text + note this is a business number)

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Mar 30, 2021
#216 Tips From A Dating Expert & How to Find Your Future Partner - With Damona Hoffman
01:00:27

Dating and relationship expert Damona Hoffman shares her top tips for successful dating - both online and in person, as well as advice for folks looking for long term partners. She also touches on the question: “Is it dating preference or racial bias?”. 

For this week's sex question, we answer: How do I navigate losing attraction for my partner after excessive he's gained a lot of weight?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. 

About our guest: Damona Hoffman is a certified dating coach, radio host, and TV personality. Damona starred in the TV series #BlackLove and A Question of Love on FYI TV (A & E Networks), she hosts the Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman Radio Show & Podcast, plus she is the Love Expert for BET.com. Damona has made hundreds of media appearances on NBC, Fox, Animal Planet, SiriusXM, People Magazine and more. To learn more visit damonahoffman.com/

 

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Mar 19, 2021
#215 Sex, Relationships, and Healing After Sexual Trauma - With Darshana Avila
01:19:58

What happens to the mind/body/spirit when someone experiences sexual trauma? How does sexual trauma show up in sex, intimacy and relationships? And what are some ways folks can begin to heal from their sexual trauma? Darshana Avila answers all this and more. 

We also answer a sex question about shame while exploring "dirty talk" after having an affair. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 30. 

About our guest: Darshana Avila helps women (and sometimes their partners too) who are ready for radical intimacy to lay down their armor and claim their wholeness in life and love, tapping into the power of the erotic within themselves. She believes that none of us is actually broken and in need of fixing, but instead we have fragmented parts that need to be reclaimed and integrated into our being. Her unique approach facilitates this journey and supports her clients and students in having a sense of deep intimacy within themselves, more access to the power of the erotic in their lives and greater authenticity and enjoyment in their relationships.

As an Erotic Wholeness Coach she weaves together a somatic and relational style of guidance that is rooted in nature-based and trauma-informed wisdom. Knowing that we all long to belong, to feel ourselves truly at home in our bodies and lives and to experience more ease in our being, her work is dedicated to exactly that. Using the laboratory of her own life and relationships as a foundation, she has mixed together a very singular brew of modalities, influences and wisdom bodies - not to worry, she's a good witch! - that is spiced with her grounded, candid and loving approach to meeting people in some of the most tender parts of themselves.

Wondering about her credentials? She is a Certified Sexological Bodywork (Somatic Sex Educator), a Somatica (TM) Relationship & Intimacy Coach, a NeuroAffective Touch Practitioner and is in training as a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner. She's also a Certified Professional Coach, has a certificate in EcoTherapy and is in the process of certification as a Wild Mind Practitioner through Animas Valley Institute. She received her B.S. from the University of Florida in 2004. To learn more visit darshanaavila.com and find her on Instagram at @eroticwholeness

 

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Mar 16, 2021
#214 Cuckolding (and Hot-Wifing) - With Venus The Cuckoldress
47:29

What is cuckolding and why might someone be into it? How common is it, and how might someone find a cuckolding relationship? Venus answers all this and more. 

We also answer a sex question about losing sexual attraction to a partner after they've transitioned from FTM. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.

About our guest: From the moment Venus learned about cuckolding relationships 6 years ago, she knew it fit exactly who she was and she dove right in. She wanted to reach out to other women who might not be aware this kind of relationship existed so in 2015 she began writing about her stories and experiences of dating, cuckolding, and becoming a Queen of Spades, on venuscuckoldress.com. In early 2020 she branched out to launch the Venus Cuckoldress Podcast which thanks to her infectious enthusiasm and genuine nature, has since shot to the top of the podcast charts. 

Venus is passionate about cuckolding and loves having the opportunity to lend her voice to show people the real, loving, and beautiful complexities of a cuckolding relationship dynamic. Today Venus enjoys working full time on her podcast and is focusing on building a worldwide community for women in the cuckolding lifestyle. 

Links:

Website  https://venuscuckoldress.com/ 

Podcast  https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-venus-cuckoldress-podcast/id1495573107 

Twitter https://twitter.com/CuckoldressV 

Instagram https://www.instagram.com/cuckoldressvenuspodcast/ 

YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxpeMPYHPFIapapZDoaa03w 

Facebook https://www.facebook.com/The-Venus-Podcast-107081554590774 

Patreon  https://www.patreon.com/VenusCuckoldress 

 

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Mar 09, 2021
#213 Sex, Religion, & Why the G-spot is More Than a Spot - With Melissa Hite
47:07

What can people do to overcome shame around sexuality that was given to them via religion? How do sexual and personal boundaries come into all of this? And why is the G-spot more than a spot? Melissa answers all this and more. 

We also answer a sex question about how to set up an all-day sex marathon. 

Also, come joins us for live sex questions and sex talk on the Clubhouse App Thursday 3/4 at 8pm PST! Here is the link: https://www.joinclubhouse.com/event/PN05zX5l

About our guest: Melissa Hite is the founder of Higher Sex Education where she does one-on-one coaching, teaches classes and workshops, and offers online courses. She's a sexual-spiritual advisor which means that she works holistically with clients to integrate all parts of themselves in practical ways. She is a wealth of wisdom from a unique blend of life experience and academic education.  Not only is she certified as a Holistic Sex Educator through The Institute of Sexual Education and Enlightenment, she's triple certified as a pole fitness instructor, has 15 years of massage therapy experience specializing in sports therapy and lymphatic therapy. She also spent 10 years working in Nevada's legal brothel industry and, believe it or not, was trained as a human cannonball with Ringling Bros & Barnum and Bailey Circus. 

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Mar 02, 2021
#212 Penis Shame: Size, Look and Performance - With Soleiman Bolour
54:36

Why do so many people feel shame about the size or look of their cock? What is the truth when it comes to penis size and pleasure during penetrative sex? And what are some important tools for overcoming shame and embarrassment about penis size? 

We also answer a sex question about herpes. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. 

About our guest: Soleiman Bolour is a Men’s Neo Tantra and Mindset coach. Soleiman weaves his studies of sacred sexuality, psychology, and NLP to bring transformation to the men he coaches. He help’s men bring back purpose and possibility into their lives so that they can live the life of their dreams. To learn more visit ecstaticfreedom.com

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Feb 23, 2021
#211 The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes - With Stella Harris
53:56

How can people navigate threesomes smoothly and ethically (and pleasurably!)? What about aftercare post threesome - what are the protocols? And how do you find that third person? Stella Harris answers all this and more.

We also answer a sex question about HPV. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16.

About our guest: Stella Harris is changing the way people experience their sex lives. As a certified intimacy educator and sex coach, she gives her students the tools and confidence to explore their sexuality safely and free of shame. The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes discusses some of the most frequently asked questions she’s experienced in her work around one common topic: threesomes. A national and international speaker, Harris teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. To learn more visit stellaharris.net

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Feb 16, 2021
#210 Strap-On Sex 101 - With Rain DeGrey
57:45

Join us for this super playful yet informative episode where the fabulous educator and adult performer Rain DeGrey teaches us all about strap-on play. 

We also answer a sex question about men who like to wear women's lingerie. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14. 

About our guest: Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster, and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes, focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education, since 2009. Her work has been featured in places such as Playboy TV, Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, The SF Fetish Ball, and more, and in 2017 she was named the dirtiest mouth in San Francisco upon winning the Dirty Talk Game Show at Dark Odyssey. To learn more visit raindegrey.com

 

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Feb 08, 2021
#209 How to Have A Sexy V-Day For Singles, Couples...Everyone!
29:56

April is single. Amy is partnered. Valentine's Day is a loaded "holiday", but we still enjoy the reminder to celebrate (self) love, romance, and PLEASURE. 

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Feb 02, 2021
#208 Sexual Self Mastery: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves - With Destin Gerek
01:00:40

What are some of the ways men have been conditioned to think about sex and how can they approach it in a different way - not only to be better lovers but to have more profound sexual experiences themselves? How can men experience full body orgasms, multiple orgasms, non-ejaculatory orgasms, and learn to last as long as they want? Destin Gerek answers all this and more. 

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We also answer a sex question about how to orgasm during partner play. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20. 

About our guest: Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. A Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International, he is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves”. Destin is also an international speaker and host of the podcast, "The Evolved Masculine: Redefining Sex, Power, & Success".   His innovative lens is the result of more than 20 years of academic rigor and direct study -- including 7 formative years traveling the world living and teaching as his provocative alter ego, ‘The Erotic Rockstar’. He has taken the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation and integrated it into his iconic body of work, directly supporting thousands of men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, and themselves. Destin is also is the creator of the groundbreaking and life changing 12 week Sexual Self Mastery Training Program. To learn more visit evolvedmasculine.com/shameless

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Jan 26, 2021
#207 How to Find Love Again After Heartbreak, Grief, and Betrayal - With Lisa Nicks-Balthasar
01:21:45

Beloved friend and repeat guest, Lisa Nicks-Balthasar, returns to tell us her story about finding and losing her soulmate, resulting in a profound journey of deep heartbreak, grief and betrayal, as well as the lessons and tools she used to heal, keep her heart open, and find profound love (and another soulmate!) once more. Her dear partner, Chris, also shares his experience supporting Lisa's journey as she grieves her past husband while simultaneously opening up her heart again. Be prepared to feel some feels :)

Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 18. 

About our guest: Lisa Nicks-Balthasar is an inspirational speaker, author and teacher. Her memoir, Believe! which follows her amazing odyssey through deep loss, grief, love and life, has attracted the support of  award-nominated screenplay writer Scott Marshall Smith ("Men of Honor”). Scott describes her “Tragic meets Magic” story as “A gossamer web of small, yet profound miracles that add up to something much more wondrous than their sum." He adds that, “Lisa’s powerful story is filled with magical movie moments!"

Lisa’s passion for writing began over a decade ago when she began writing after losing her high-school sweetheart, husband, and soul mate of 27 years to brain cancer. A survivor at heart, she processed her pain by putting pen to paper. 

Lisa has inspired people from all over the world to "Believe!" in love and the power of positive affirmations while manifesting the life of their dreams. Her miraculous story has inspired students to tap into the power that lies within. The methodologies she teaches tie together with a lifetime of lived wisdom and what she has learned from working with people through individual coaching, group coaching, and multiple retreats. Her work teaches the proven power of positive affirmations and manifesting through the heart, the body’s greatest neurotransmitter.  

Through her coaching, Lisa has helped people find love and deeper intimacy in their lives, and throughout her coaching it has become clear that so many of us feel like the human experience is wrought with hardship and loss. “There is so much in life we cannot control – but we CAN control the way we channel our suffering into our growth.” Lisa’s inspirational memoir, Believe! supports this idea through its powerful story. 

Lisa is the President and founder of Believe! International, Inc., a non-profit organization that helps promote the powerful messages and methodologies behind “Believe!” Lisa created Believe! International’s flagship project, the Heart of Manifestation workshop and retreats, with her partner, author Cher Slatter-Barlevi (Dog of God) to feed her passion for teaching positive principles of loving awareness. The retreats are designed to help individuals open their minds and hearts to a higher consciousness and manifest their desires. She is also the founder of Sacred Soulmates, heart-centered coaching and exotic vacation retreats for couples and singles calling for a deeper, more intimate and passionate soul connection.

Lisa has a second book conceived, based on the highly successful, life-changing Heart of Manifestation retreats, workshops, and inspirational teachings. Her inspirational story is being developed as a 2021 TEDx talk called, “Are you really Open to Love.” Lisa has been featured on various podcasts, YoniVerse Monologues  and at conferences as an expert in love, intimacy, and rebirth.

Lisa is also an entrepreneur, designer, large-scale event producer, and co-owner of Turn Around Interiors, a design and home staging company. In addition to her designing talents, she is an avid athlete and has been a personal fitness trainer for over three decades. She has competed in the Big Sur Marathon and Triathlons. 

Finding an amazing love once again, in a serendipitous and magical way, Lisa makes her home with her husband, Chris, in the sunny beach town of Santa Cruz, California. She loves every free moment she can spend with her family, friends, two wonderful daughters, two step-children, and two adorable granddaughters! Her passion and purpose in life is to educate and inspire humanity through sharing her magical story of love, hope, and miracles. To learn more or to buy her book visit sacredsoulmates.com

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Jan 19, 2021
Bonus Episode: Becoming Your Most Orgasmic Self - With Samantha Helm Stelk
49:15

On this bonus ad-free episode, Pleasure and Sexual Empowerment Coach, Samantha Helm Stelk, joins us to talk all about her personal journey as she went from struggling with orgasms to becoming her most juicy, orgasmic self. She also shares tips and tricks on how YOU can tap into your ultimate orgasmic potential. 

About our guest: Samantha is a Pleasure & Sexual Empowerment Coach with a trauma informed background and a certified VITA™ Sex, Love & Relationship Coach through The Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality. Her specialty is in lovingly guiding women from feeling unworthy, insecure about their bodies, disconnected from their sexuality and disempowered in their lives to feeling absolutely in love with who they are, being intimately connected to their pleasure, and an empowered creator of their lives. She is known for her ability to curate a safe space in which you will explore the realms of your innermost being, get clarity on and bring life to your deepest desires and dreams. To learn more visit lovelegacycoaching.com

Jan 15, 2021
#206 Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-free Sex - With Allison Moon
01:00:30

Allison Moon, repeat guest and author of the new book Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-free Sex joins to to talk about casual sex and hook-ups. We discuss everything from how folks can navigate hook-ups in a way that feels really good for them, ways to be better flirts, as well as some of the signs that it's time to end the relationship, plus tips for how to navigate those difficult conversations. 

We also answer a sex question: I want to have sex with someone who is bigger than my last boyfriend. Is there anything I can do to “prepare” to have sex again in case it’s painful? 

About our guest: Allison is a sex educator and author of the award winning, critically-acclaimed sex-ed book, Girl Sex 101, the Tales of the Pack series of novels about lesbian werewolves, the sexual memoir, Bad Dyke, as well as her latest release, Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-free Sex. As a sex educator, Allison has presented her workshops to thousands of people around the US and Canada. To learn more or to buy her book go to GirlSex101.com.

 

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Jan 12, 2021
#205 Lessons From Porn - With Davey Wavey
01:00:22

Davey Wavey - adult film star and director of educational, affirming, AND hot” AKA “good for you porn on himeros.tv - shares his thoughts on how mainstream porn shaped modern day sexuality, as well as some of the positive things he has learned about sex from working in the porn industry and how folks who have shame around watching porn can reclaim it in a positive way.

We also answer a sex question about finding confidence being on top. And one of our dear listeners teaches us a little something about cuckolding and hotwifing. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20. 

About our guest: With more than 700 million video views, Davey Wavey's YouTube channel is the largest and most-viewed LGBT channel on YouTube. Davey's latest adventure is the launch of the gay erotic website Himeros.tv. By collaborating with renowned sex coaches, tantric instructors and sexologists, Himeros.tv uses erotic video content to inspire better gay sex through connection, pleasure and sexual exploration. Himeros.tv is like porn. But better. To learn more visit himeros.tv

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Jan 05, 2021
#204 Dick-Sucking Techniques and Mind-Blowing Finishing Moves - With Master Oralist HeadUsa Divine
01:03:22

What are the best positions for fellatio - both for comfort and pleasure? How does breath, temperature, speed, neck action, sound, and using your hands come into play? And what are “finishing moves”? Repeat guest and Master Oralist HeadUsa Divine answers all this and more. 

We also fill in the blanks about cuckolding and hot wifing. And we answer a sex question about scent and pH issues for vulvas. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 23. 

About our guest: Headusa Divine is a Master Oralist, Webcam Artist, Self-Published Author and Content Creator. She is a Dick Sucking Expert and author of The Blowjob Handbook, The Official Webcam Handbook - and her latest release The Official Blowjob Handbook Volume 2 - exclusive dick sucking techniques and mind-blowing finishing moves. Her goal in sharing her wisdom and experiences from entertainment & educational perspectives is to influence the fellatio and webcam culture as well as for you to learn new techniques & skills so that you are inspired to become your own Artist and Master Oralist. To learn more visit iamheadusa.com

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Dec 29, 2020
#203 Selfish Sex, Cuckolding, & Differences In Desire - With Dr. Nan Wise
01:08:27

Dr. Nan and her wonderful husband John joins us once again to answer: What can I do about selfish sex? What if I want more sex than my partner? How do I ask for what I want? And what is cuckolding and "hot wifing" all about?

We also answer a sex question about anal sex for beginners. 

Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 18. 

About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark.  She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com

 

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Dec 23, 2020
#202 Cock Mastery: What Does it Mean to Have a Conscious Cock? - With Kristopher Lovestone
01:01:44

What does it mean to have a conscious cock? How can penis owners (who are vulva admirers) learn to be better partners and lovers? 

We also answer a sex question about porn affecting orgasms. 

Want to skip to the interview. Fast forward to minute 18. 

Bio: Kristopher Lovestone is a sex educator and couples counsellor who survived six divorces in his childhood, and then went on to rewrite the rules of the relationship game so that people can actually win. He now teaches people how to succeed through communication, modern sex education and innovative relationship strategies. His techniques have yielded him a wildly successful 15-year marriage that gets hotter every year, and he published his teachings in his new book Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men.  He has been called the “Einstein of relationships” and is endorsed by many of the top sex educators in the world. To learn more or to buy his book visit consciouscock.com.

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Dec 15, 2020
Bonus Episode: Sex Toys - How To Find The Right One + How To Use Them
38:36

In this bonus episode we talk all about sex toys - specifically how to find the right one for you, as well as how to use them. 

 

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Dec 11, 2020
#201 Why Am I Not Getting What I Want In Sex, Intimacy & Relationships? - With Monica Jayne
01:03:58

Why aren't people getting what they want in sex, intimacy, and relationships, and how can they change that? Monica Jayne AKA one of our FAVORITE sex and relationship coaches joins us to answer this and more. 

We also answer a sex question about bisexuality and non-monogamy. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. 

About our guest: Dare To Be Unabashedly You™ is Monica Jayne’s slogan and the undeniable outcome you'll experience with her. 

She supports adults who have done lots of self-development but aren’t getting where they want to be in themselves, their relationships, and their life. They know there is more to life! Monica Jayne knows that at the foundation of not having what you want, is the fact that you’ve been told who and how to be your whole life. NOW, it’s time to resurrect your OWN voice and learn to listen to YOU! She guides you home to your own truth, authenticity, and voice so that you can speak up and be you. 

Monica Jayne has studied directly with vulnerability expert Brene Brown, mindset expert Dr. Joe Dispenza, relationship and polarity expert Alison Armstrong, sex expert Jaiya, and sexological bodywork creator Joseph Kramer. She has two college degrees, earned Magna Cum Laude in 2006, and certifications in the Erotic Blueprints™, Queer Competency, Accelerated Evolution™, Hatha Yoga, and forthcoming in Sexological Bodywork. Monica Jayne has supported 1000s of adults across 6 continents and 45 countries guiding them in deep shadow work and awakening to pleasure and joy to become their true selves. 

Because she wants everyone to feel safe to be who they are, she created a membership community for you that guides you into conscious authentic adulting and play called They Didn’t Teach Me That™ PLAYHOUSE and a process called Authentic Evolution™ - 7 steps for excavating your truth and knowing what you truly want. Both are available to you through her website.

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Dec 08, 2020
#200 Our Favorite Sex Toys
46:02

This episode is all about our favorite sex toys and why we love them. From clit vibes to masturbators to kink to anal toys - we  share stories and our top picks for different types of toys for all variations of playtime. 

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Dec 01, 2020
#199 All About ORGASMS - With Keeley Rankin
01:07:32

What is the "orgasm trap"? Why do a lot of people fake orgasms? What can folks do if they have trouble having an orgasm or think they can only orgasm one (or a few) way/s? And how do orgasms change with age?

We also answer a sex question about herpes/STI's, and shame. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. 

About our guest: Keeley Rankin is a sex and relationship coach, pleasure advocate and a sexy-preneur. She works with individuals and couples who want to embrace their innate desires, build sexual confidence, and fully realize their sexual potential. 

Keeley received her master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. She’s trained in Hakomi Therapy and Recreation of the Self. For seven years, she worked closely with the world-renowned author and transpersonal psychotherapist who coined the phrase ‘spiritual bypass’, John Welwood. She also specializes in facilitating deep erotic connections for couples. Pre-Covid, she would meet couples in Paris for the a unique-extreme-sexy-connected date night – private sessions aimed to prep the couple for an evening at a sex club.

She has been featured in media outlets such as the Huffington Post and Oprah Magazine as an expert in male sexual struggles where she created an Premature Ejaculation Mastery Video Course for men to learn to last longer in bed from the privacy of their own home. To learn more visit keeleyrankin.com/

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Nov 24, 2020
#198 Get Out Of Your Head In Bed - With Dr. Alison Ash
54:37

Beloved repeat guest Dr. Alison Ash returns to discuss why so many people get stuck in their heads during sex. Insecurities, unresolved resentments, lack of confidence in sexual skills and more - Aly teaches us how to get out of our heads in bed while becoming our own best lover. 

We also answer a sex question about penis owners who have a fetish for wearing lingerie. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. 

About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of TurnON.love. A champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure, Aly helps her clients experience the kinds of sexual interactions and romantic relationships they long for.    

As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in the Hakomi method of psychotherapy as well as Somatica model of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. 

Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. She invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at TurnON.love

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Nov 17, 2020
#197 Kegels, Kegel Balls, Yoni Eggs... And Orgasms! - With Monique Gomez
47:13

What are kegels/kegel exercises and kegel balls? How are they helpful in both health and wellness as well as enhancing pleasure? And can penis-owners do them as well?

We also answer a sex question about squirting. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 13.

About our guest: Monique Gomez is an intimacy and embodiment coach, educator and TEDx speaker. She serves others to support clarifying their relationship with their intimate selves to live in deep satisfaction with their sexuality, relationships, body, mind, spirit and heart. She speaks about the Power of the Pause and intuition as a tool for living authentically. Her passion is helping others heal sexual wounding, live consciously and embodied. To learn more visit moniquegomez.com.

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Nov 11, 2020
#196 Unleash Your Sexual Superpowers: A Porn Star's Guide to Sexual Mastery - With Erik Everhard
51:46

Porn star, director and professional coach Erik Everhard joins us to share what porn taught him about sexual mastery, as well as his top tips on how penis-owners can be great lovers. 

We also answer a sex question: My partner can only orgasm from blowjobs. How can he learn to come from penetrative sex? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 13.

About our guest: Erik Everhard is one of world's top male porn stars, having starred in and directed over 3,000 films. Erik is a professional coach and one of the most decorated adult performers of the 21st century. He is a leading authority on sexual and mental techniques which can empower men and bring them success in the bedroom as well as in all other aspects of their lives. In addition to his wealth of practical knowledge, he holds a Masters level certification in Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP). To learn more visit erikeverhard.com

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Nov 03, 2020
#195 Choosing The Right Sex Toy + Meet The Designer Of The Vibrating Necklace - With Ti From Crave
47:38

Are all sex toys created equal? How do I know what materials are body-friendly? And what about finding the right intensity of vibrations? All this and more from Ti Chang - innovative sex toy designer and creator of the Vesper Vibrating Necklace. 

Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 15. 

About our guest: Ti Chang is an industrial designer and entrepreneur passionate about designing products for women. She is the co-founder and VP of Design of CRAVE, a San Francisco-based company specializing in aesthetic pleasure products. Ti leads the design vision for the company’s full line of products which has won international design awards and has led CRAVE to outlets such as the MoMA Design Store, Standard Hotel, Goop, and Saint Laurent.

She is best known for the design of Vesper, a vibrator necklace, one of the most celebrated and iconic pleasure products changing the conversation around female pleasure. Its viral duality as both a public and private object has garnered a cult following because it creates connections and conversations—both supportive and powerful—in a way no other product has.

Ti holds an M.A. in Design Products from the Royal College of Art in London and a B.S. in Industrial Design from the Georgia Institute of Technology.

Ti’s Socials/contact:

Ti’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/designerti/ 

Ti’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/DesignerTi 

Ti’s personal website: Designerti.com

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Oct 27, 2020
#194 Trouble Orgasming From Blowjobs & Why Slow Sex Is Awesome - With Comedian Nick Scopes
01:14:26

Comedian Nick Scopes joins us once again to ask his personal sex and relationship questions including blowjob issues, fear of being tied down, and why he recently learned to love slow sex. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14. 

About our guest: Nick Scopoletti aka Nick Scopes is a stand-up comedian and cohost of the wildly popular comedy podcast the Mangina Dialogues.  Raised 25 miles outside NYC and currently residing in Connecticut, Nick finds himself on stage in comedy clubs across CT and in NYC bringing his high energy interactive comedy to audiences anxiously awaiting the mayhem.  When not in the comedy clubs, you’ll find Nick at his day job as a personal training at equinox barking orders at soccer moms helping them achieve their personal fitness goals. You can follow Nick at @nickscopes and his podcast @themanginadialogues on instagram

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Oct 20, 2020
#193 Unleashing Your Inner Feminine Dominance In The Bedroom - With Midori
59:57

How can folks learn to be more of a fem dom (feminine dominance)? How can they introduce fem dom to their partners - particularly for beginners or folks who identify as more vanilla? And what about penis-owners who want to explore their fem dom side?

About our guest: Trailblazing educator, sexologist, artist, and irritant to banality, Midori founded Rope Dojo and ForteFemme: Women's Dominance Intensive. She penned the first English instruction book on Shibari titled, "Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage" in 2001, paving the way to the popularity of rope. Dan Savage calls her the "Super Nova of Kink," while others affectionately call her Auntie Midori for her cool, tell-it-like-it-is, funny, reality-based teaching. 

She is also the author of "Wild Side Sex," "Master Han's Daughter," and "Silk Threads.”

During this pandemic, learn, laugh and enjoy her special online classes, events and art at www.patreon.com/PlanetMidori

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/planetmidori/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MidoriReallyMidori

Coaching and Private Sexological Consultations: ask@planetmidori.com

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Oct 13, 2020
#192 Want More Pleasure? Choose YOU! - With Jenn Velmer and Samantha Blossom
52:27

Jenn and Samantha join us to talk about about how to use the wisdom of the body as a means for more pleasure.

We also answer a sex question about orgasms and pleasure through the perineum and prostate (for penis owners). 

Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip ahead to minute 14. 

About our guests: Jenn Velmer is a FAMILY, ANCESTRAL & RELATIONSHIP EXPERT who bridges the realms of the multiverses within you to live the expression of your own wild magick each of us are holding within. Her background includes Quantum Energy Alchemist, Past Life Therapist, BodyTalk, BodyIntuitive, and Conscious Channeling. Samantha Blossom is a Soul SPARKLE Coach that focuses on Wealth Creation & Business Matrix Manifestation as well as decoding the secret language of your body. Jenn and Samantha joined healing forces to create the course: Intimacy which will empower you to become your own North Star!! To learn more visit soulit.co

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Oct 06, 2020
#191 Jealousy, (Non) Monogamy, & Relationships - With Kitty Chambliss
01:03:59

Why do people experience jealousy? How can they manage it in both monogamy and non-monogamous relationships? And how can folks keep the fire alive in long term relationships? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14. 

About our guest: Kitty Chambliss is a #1 Amazon Best Selling author of Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship. She is also a relationship coach, keynote speaker, polyamorous and sex-positive activist, and founder of Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) - specializing in helping people in non-traditional relationships navigate the challenging emotions that often arise in such dynamics. Kitty has made it her life’s mission to make thriving relationships – even unconventional ones – attainable to everyone. She is also the host of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast - available on all of the apps. To learn more visit lovingwithoutboundaries.com

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Sep 29, 2020
#190 How To Make It As A Webcam Model - With Headusa Divine
50:20

What is it like being a webcam model/cam girl? How is it different than porn? What is the difference between being a model and an artist/performer? And how does one make the big bucks in the business?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14.

About our guest: Headusa Divine is a Master Oralist, Webcam Artist, Self-Published Author and Content Creator. She is a Dick Sucking Expert and author of The Blowjob Handbook, as well as her latest e-book - The Official Webcam Handbook. Her goal in sharing her wisdom and experiences from entertainment & educational perspectives is to influence the fellatio and webcam culture as well as for you to learn new techniques & skills so that you are inspired to become your own Artist and Master Oralist. To learn more visit iamheadusa.com

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Sep 22, 2020
#189 Orgasms, Sex Toys, and Sex Is More Than Penetration - With “Dildo Duchess” Zoë Ligon
01:00:22

Join us as we chat with the “Dildo Duchess” Zoë Ligon all about orgasms, erogenous zones, masturbation, sex toys, why sex is more than just penetration, and so much more.

We also answer a sex question - I can orgasm better from masturbation rather than partnered sex. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.

About our guest: Zoë Ligon is a Detroit-based sex educator, journalist and artist who is also the proprietor of progressive online sex toy emporium, Spectrum Boutique, where she has made it her life’s work to blast away the stigmas and misinformation that prevent us from having the amazing sex we all deserve. As the founder of Spectrum Boutique, Zoe Ligon established the sex positive toy store 5 years ago to help all identities, genders and experience levels fulfill their sexual desires as a self-affirmation and human right. Zoe hand-picks each and every product Spectrum carries, and each selection is 100% ethical. The mission of her brand is to celebrate self-love and encourage conversations about sexual wellness.  Zoë has a background in social psychology, harm reduction, and inclusive pleasure-focused sex education. Zoë Ligon is a sex educator, entertainer, artist, and journalist whose writing has appeared in Vice, Nylon, Allure, Refinery 29, and The Huffington Post. Be sure to check out her podcast, Hot Brain, as well was her new book, Carnal Knowledge - Sex Education You Didn’t Get In School. To learn more visit spectrumboutique.com

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Sep 15, 2020
#188 Masculinity, Penis Shame, & Creating More Passion In Relationship - With Matthew Ayriss
01:02:11

How can men show up in a bigger way in relationship? How can they be of service without becoming a servant? How does this increase passion in the union? And what about nudity and penis shame? What gives?

We also answer a sex question about nipple orgasms! 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14.

About our repeat guest: Matthew Ayriss is a Sacred Sexuality Guide, Shamanic-Somatic Healer, Transformational Life Coach, & Conscious Content Creator. He facilitates immersive experiences, men's retreats, Tantra and transformational festivals, men's circles, and group coaching programs across the world. To learn more visit themasculinepillar.com/. Want to sign up for The Pillar? Use code SHAMELESS SEX for a discount!

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Sep 08, 2020
#187 Anal Sex, F*ck Boys, and Sex Stories - With The CockTales Podcast
01:00:00

In this episode we chat all about anal sex, rimming, sex toys, fuck boys, and all the in betweens with Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe of the CockTales Dirty Discussions podcast. 

We also answer a sex question: My partner listens to your podcast and now thinks he knows everything about sex.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. 

About our guests: CockTales: Dirty Discussions is hosted by Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe. Both women are in different stages of their love lives; one single and one in a serious long-term relationship. The women give uncensored accounts about their sex and dating lives, relationships, and what it's really like to navigate the sea of love in Atlanta. On CockTales, the ladies gather over great drinks and discuss the latest happenings in their sexual experiences  and dating lives. You can listen to CockTales on all of the podcast apps. To learn more visit https://linktr.ee/cocktalespodcast

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Sep 01, 2020
#186 Dr. Nan’s Top Tips For Juicy Relationships
01:01:05

Dr. Nan joins us once again - only this time alongside her wonderful partner John -  to talk all about how to stay connected and keep the intimacy alive in longterm relationships. Whether you are monogamous, monoga-mish, poly, or open, Dr. Nan has some great relationship advice for you. 

We also answer a sex question: Why does my partner sleep all day after we have sex?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 13.

About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark.  She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com

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Aug 25, 2020
#185 Online Dating 101 - With Sarah Sloane Of #Open
52:53

How do we navigate the world of online dating? What should people know about when choosing a dating app or platform? And how does someone make a great dating profile? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.

About our guest: Sarah Sloane is a sex and relationship educator and coach, as well as the director of operations & communications at #open - a dating app that prioritizes personal empowerment and choice. For the past two decades Sarah has been helping others create the sex, intimacy, and relationships that they desire through education & personal coaching. To learn more about the app, visit hashtagopen.com

 

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Aug 14, 2020
#184 Premature Ejaculation, Delayed Ejaculation, and ED - With Keely Rankin
56:15

What is premature and delayed ejaculation, and how can folks develop more control? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. 

About our guest: Keeley Rankin is a sex and relationship coach, pleasure advocate and a sexy-preneur. She works with individuals and couples who want to embrace their innate desires, build sexual confidence, and fully realize their sexual potential. 

Keeley received her master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. She’s trained in Hakomi Therapy and Recreation of the Self. For seven years, she worked closely with the world-renowned author and transpersonal psychotherapist who coined the phrase ‘spiritual bypass’, John Welwood. She also specializes in facilitating deep erotic connections for couples. Pre-Covid, she would meet couples in Paris for the a unique-extreme-sexy-connected date night – private sessions aimed to prep the couple for an evening at a sex club.

She has been featured in media outlets such as the Huffington Post and Oprah Magazine as an expert in male sexual struggles where she created an Premature Ejaculation Mastery Video Course for men to learn to last longer in bed from the privacy of their own home. To learn more visit keeleyrankin.com/

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Aug 12, 2020
#183 Prostate Toys and Anal Pleasure - With Forrest Andrews Of Aneros
01:04:05

Happy Anal August!

What is a Prostate Orgasm? How is it different from  a regular orgasm? What are the benefits of prostate massage and stimulation?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19.

About our guest: Forrest Andrews is the Product and Business Development manager of Aneros. He grew up in Los Angeles and attended the University of Southern California where he majored in biology. After his undergrad studies he took a different path, starting a successful business partnership in the area of computer technology that lasted for 30 years.  

His relationship with Aneros began in 2002,  and he has played an important role in the evolution of the company and their products ever since.  This started when he was a customer and purchased their very first device.  The impact on him was life-changing turning around a decades-old health condition while revealing a powerful new orgasmic experience he would later call the “Super O”.  After a series of productive conversations with the owners of the company, Forrest became their sole tester and product consultant.  Soon after, he helped launch the Aneros forum where he chronicled his own personal journey. In later years he compiled the Aneros WIKI comprised of terms drawn from his several thousand of posts and threads.  Between 2003 to 2012 he mentored hundreds of men helping them transition to new levels of sensual awareness through prostate massage. During the same period, he attended public and industry trade expos in the U.S. and Europe, as the company’s expert on the use of their devices.  While maintaining his business partnership, his side-gig with Aneros had become his passion.  In 2016 Forrest was offered the opportunity to become Aneros’ manager of Product and Business development.  Since joining Aneros he has supervised the creation and launch of the awarding winning Trident Series, the Trident Syn Series, and the VICE 2.

Forrest's  recommendations:

Helix Syn Trident - Great for all levels, solo and couple’s play

Eupho Syn Trident - Great for super newbies (because it’s smaller) and/or folks with strong pelvic floor muscles

Progasm - Great if you want more of a fuller feeling (it’s thicker and larger)

Vice - Vibrating silicone version of the Progasm

 

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Aug 04, 2020
#182 Meet The D!ck Sucking Expert - With Headusa Divine
55:28

How does one become a dick-sucking expert and Master Oralist? What is the art of sucking dick? And how can oral sex lead to empowerment? 

We also answer a sex question: My partner thinks oral sex is degrading...

Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 23. 

About our guest: Headusa Divine is a Master Oralist, Webcam Model, Self-Published Author and Content Creator. She is a Dick Sucking Expert and author of The Blowjob Handbook where she shares her experiences, techniques, and advice to help self-empower and improve within the art of sucking dick. Not only does she  focus on the physical aspects of sucking dick, she also incorporates the mental and spiritual aspects, because they are just as - if not - more important. Her goal in sharing her wisdom and experiences from entertainment & educational perspectives is to influence the fellatio culture as well as for you to learn new techniques & skills so that you are inspired to become your own Master Oralist. To learn more visit iamheadusa.com

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Jul 28, 2020
Bonus Episode: Sex-Positive Parenting & Keeping Intimacy Alive After Kids - With Tamica Wilder
41:13

How can parents build confidence in talking about sex with their kids? What about sex after having kids - how can couples keep the intimacy alive - especially when time is limited? What about folks in poly/open relationships? 

About our guest: Tamica Wilder is a somatic sex coach and multi-qualified therapist with a deep passion for teaching you to re-attune to the language of the body while giving full permission to shamelessly prioritize pleasure and play. She believes that our current cultural narratives around sex, intimacy, pleasure and relationships need a damn good shake up! Never one to shy away from a challenge, Tamica is committed to leading the change.

WorkIng with our sexuality, intimacy and the less mastered parts of our human nature can be a tricky and intricate piece of the personal development puzzle. Tamica brings 18 plus years of facilitation and group work experience and guides with compassion, humour, gentleness, love and curiosity, in all that she does. As a mother of 2 little critters, she's also well attuned to the importance of creating sex-positive families and helps parents build the confidence to have 'those chats' with their kids and other family members.

Tamica's work will arm you with the tools you need to create lasting and meaningful change inside your intimate relationships, your somatic understanding and reminds you of all thats possible inside your full and authentic sexual expression. You’ll gain greater self understanding and learn to embody the confidence required to fully re-claim all aspects of your glorious being that may have slipped to the sidelines! Tamica is a hand holder, a light bearing guide and a mirror like reminder of your true and wild nature. Tamica lives in Melbourne, Australia with her 2 little boys ( and her 2 big boys) and is available for 1:1, 2:1 online coaching and support. To learn more visit facebook.com/neosomasexcoach/

For her Mama Eros group visit https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamaeros/

Jul 24, 2020
#181 Juicy Vulvas, Vaginal Weight Lifting, and The Well F**ked Woman - With Kim Anami
01:11:00

Kim explains what - in her opinion - it means to be a Well F**ked Woman, as well as the difference between what she calls gourmet and fast-food sex. She also gives some tips on how can folks have more powerful g-spot/cervical orgasms. 

We also answer a sex question about difficulty reaching orgasm. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. 

About our guest: Kim Anami is here to infuse more passion into your life and bed. She is a holistic sex + relationship coach, writer and speaker. Her work is a spiritual synthesis of over two decades of Tantra, Taoism, Transpersonal psychology, philosophy and a host of quantum growth-accelerating practices she uses to propel clients into higher stratospheres of connection, intimacy, energy and creativity.

Her musings on life and love have graced Playboy, Elle, Marie Claire, Shape, The Sunday Times (UK), The Daily Mail, GQ and national talk shows from E! Network to CNN and NPR. 

She divides her time between Bali and Los Angeles and a host of beaches in between, where she not only lives and surfs, but lifts objects with her vagina.

You can follow her globetrotting and weight-lifting vagina and adventures on Instagram with the hashtag: #thingsiliftwithmyvagina, her sex education videos on YouTube, her podcast Orgasmic Enightenment and can check out her online all-things-intimacy programs at: www.kimanami.com 

Links to Kim's offerings:

The Well-F**ked Woman:

https://kimanami.com/the-well-fked-woman/

Kim Anami YouTube Channel:

https://www.youtube.com/user/KimAnami

Kim Anami Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/kimanami/

 

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Jul 21, 2020
#180 Great Sex Is More Than Just Orgasms - With Sarrah Rose
40:57

What makes great sex? Is it really all about the orgasm?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. 

About our guest: Sarrah Rose is a Tantra practitioner devoted to helping others reach a higher plane of passion and pleasure and she realized early on that the only way to get there was through a holistic approach. You can’t make love better if you do not love yourself, you can’t feel more in intercourse if you are not in touch with your body. She developed her techniques by studying tantra, mixing in evolutionary biology, and adapting it for practical use in the modern world. Sarrah wasn’t always the liberated teacher she is known to be. Like most of us, she used to needlessly deprive herself of joy and pleasure. Through the study of Tantra, she was able to turn her life around. To learn more visit tantricactivation.com

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Jul 15, 2020
#179 Feminine Dominance & The Good Girl Reform School - With Kasia Urbaniak
01:05:24

How can women learn to confidently ask anyone for anything and assert and their power - both in and out of the bedroom? Join us as we interview badass empowerment queen and Dominatrix Kasia Urbaniak.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 21. 

About our guest: Kasia Urbaniak is the founder, CEO and headmistress of The Academy, a school that teaches women the foundations of power and influence. Over the course of nearly 20 years, she has worked as professional Dominatrix and has practiced Taoist alchemy in one of the oldest female-led monasteries in China. Since founding The Academy in 2013, Kasia has taught hundreds of women practical tools to step into leadership positions in their relationships, families, workplaces, and wider communities. Her upcoming book, Unbound: A Woman's Guide to Power, offers precise, practical instruction in how to stand in your power, find your voice, and use it well. To learn more visit weteachpower.com

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Jul 07, 2020
#178 Buck Angel - Adult Performer, Filmmaker, Activist, & Sex-Toy Designer
59:45

We are IN LOVE with this episode! Buck Angel - Adult Performer, Filmmaker, Activist, & Sex-Toy Designer - joins us to tell us all about his experience as a trans man with everything from what it was like transitioning from female to male, why he stands by the belief that  "It's not what between your legs that defines you", and so much more!

We also answer a sex q: Best tips for penetrative sex with a small penis? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14.

Buck Angel is a world-renowned motivational speaker, human rights activist, pioneering filmmaker and adult performer, and transmale sex-toy designer. While Buck was assigned female at birth, he never felt it in his core and struggled through life until he had the life-changing opportunity to transition from female to male and finally live life authentically. Buck’s mission is to inspire people to re-define gender and to foster a new generation as they discover the fluidity of sexuality and navigate gender politics. His message "It's not what between your legs that defines you" has sparked many a conversation and opened minds to the important message that gender is what you say it is for you, and that self-acceptance is not only what makes a person happy, it's how others come to understand you. Buck has made appearances on HBO, National Geographic, Netflix, The Tyra Banks Show, Dan Savage, AOL, Spike TV, The Women's Entertainment Network, Howard Stern Show, Much Music, Sirius Radio, and many others. He's been written about in  Forbes, Esquire, Cosmo, VICE, Huffington Post, ELLE, Buzz Feed, The Village Voice, Rolling Stone, Time Out, Maxim, New York Times, and other publications around the world. 

In August 2016 Buck produced the world’s first pleasure product specifically for the transgender male community. His product, called The Buck Off, was produced in collaboration with Perfect Fit Brand as a means to re-imagine a transmale sexuality and the specific needs his community looks for. Buck also created T-Lube with Sliquid and is the first lubrication to be directly targeted to trans male vaginal health. 

As an adult performer Angel made history when he received the prestigious award from Adult Video News (AVN) for Transsexual Performer of the Year in 2007 for his groundbreaking work in the adult entertainment industry. Buck is the first trans man to win this award. Buck created this genre and has since won a second award for his work, 2017 AVN award for Best Transsexual scene. Buck Angel Entertainment has been on the cutting edge of producing trans male sexual wellness products and films since 2002. Known for taking the subject matter of transgender sexuality and bringing it to the world. Award-winning films that have shown all over the world and now are used in many Universities to help educate about trans male sexuality. To learn more visit buckangel.com/

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Jun 30, 2020
#177 Sexercise - With Jason Karp, PhD
44:10

What is the link between sex and exercise? How does exercise increase libido and sexual response? And what is an exercise-induced orgasm?

We also answer a sex question about ways to let go of a negative body image.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. 

About our guest: A competitive runner since sixth grade, Dr. Jason Karp quickly learned how running molds us into better, more deeply conscious people, just as the miles and interval workouts mold us into faster, more enduring runners. This passion that Jason found as a kid placed him on a yellow brick road he still follows as a coach, exercise physiologist, author of 10 books and 400+ articles, speaker, and educator. He is the 2011 IDEA Personal Trainer of the Year and two-time recipient of the President’s Council on Sports, Fitness & Nutrition Community Leadership award. His REVO₂LUTION RUNNING™ certification has been obtained by fitness professionals and coaches in 23 countries. To learn more visit run-fit.com

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Jun 26, 2020
#176 Daddies, Puppy Play, and Kink - With Watts the Safeword
57:43

Mr Kristofer and Amp of the Watts the Safeword Podcast join us to talk about various aspects of kink including what it means to be a Daddy, puppy play, urethral sounding, and more!

We also answer a sex question about a fur coat fetish. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.

About our guests: Mr Kristofer and Amp are both sex positive educators who create kinky content under the brand Watts The Safeword. A sex positive youtube channel and matching podcast that destigmatizes and educates on all things kinky. Mr. Kristofer has been in the BDSM Community for over 30 years and considers himself “Guard Classic.” He has directed gay male porn for the last 30 years for Falcon and COLT.  Where Amp is a blogger, sex worker, activist and producer of "Watts The Safeword," a sex education channel with a few kinks. With his background as a sex educator and sex worker he, along with guests of all abilities, backgrounds, experiences and kinky lifestyles, destigmatize topics on sex and other LGBTQ+ issues. To learn more visit wattsthesafeword.com

 

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Jun 23, 2020
#175 Behind the Scenes With Porn Stars and Porn Shoots - With Holly Randall
52:37

What is the adult industry really like? Tune in to hear all the juicy details from erotic photographer and podcaster Holly Randall. 

We also answer a sex question about how to find ethical porn. 

Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 15.

About our guest: Holly Randall is an erotic photographer and host of the Holly Randall Unfiltered podcast - a series that sheds light on those working in the adult industry and explores all topics of sex with authors, educators, and advocates. Holly interviews some of the biggest names in the adult industry, and various non-porn guests who touch on the subject of sex in one way or another. With an honest and humorous outlook on life, Holly strips away the misconceptions on people who work in the sex industry, and offers sex-positive discussions on various social and political issues. You can follow Holly on both Instagram and Twitter at @hollyrandall. To learn more visit hollyrandallunfiltered.com/

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Jun 19, 2020
#174 Breakups and Heartache
55:28

Amy is grieving. She is going through the waves of heartache and breakup. April is in the process of reevaluating her current relationship. This episode is not about bashing partners or ex's or airing out anyone's dirty laundry. It's about expressing our vulnerability alongside tips and tricks on how to move through breakups and heartache. Whether you've been through heartache, are going through one now, or will go through one in the future, there is probably something here you will relate to. Because F*CK, breakups and heartache are hard.

 

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Jun 16, 2020
#173 Bisexuality, Sexual Fluidity, and Increasing the Power Of Orgasms - With Monique Gomez
48:44

What are some of the misconceptions about bisexuality? What is the power of sexual fluidity, and can people learn to be more sexually fluid?

Also, what is “The Power of the Pause-Up level with edging” and how can you use a pause to increase the power of orgasm?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.

About our guest: Monique Gomez is an intimacy and embodiment coach, educator and TEDx speaker. She serves others to support clarifying their relationship with their intimate selves to live in deep satisfaction with their sexuality, relationships, body, mind, spirit and heart. She speaks about the Power of the Pause and intuition as a tool for living authentically. Her passion is helping others heal sexual wounding, live consciously and embodied. To learn more visit moniquegomez.com

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Jun 12, 2020
#172 Why I Sat in an 8-hour Restorative Justice Circle With My Rapist - With Marlee Liss
45:25

Wow, what a powerful episode! Marlee Liss joins us to share her story about why she chose the  restorative justice route with her rapist and how it helped her heal her trauma. Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual violence and therefore it may bring up some intense emotions. Reminder - all emotions are welcome, be sure to reach out for your resources if you feel you need support, and please be gentle with yourself. 

About our guest: Marlee helps women claim sacred sensuality so they can live in self-love and inner wholeness. As a women’s embodied love coach, author and retreat facilitator, she has worked internationally to inspire transformative healing. Marlee’s work is deeply shaped by her background in social work, trauma-informed yoga, somatic sex education, and body image facilitation. In 2019, Marlee founded an organization called Re-Humanize, focused on uplifting cultural standards of empathy. Marlee has shared her story of restorative justice for sexual violence worldwide across major platforms such as Forbes, Huff Post, Buzzfeed, Mel Robbins Show and more. Marlee is getting ready to launch a sacred sensuality course that you can learn more about at www.marleeliss.com

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Jun 09, 2020
#171 The Swinging Lifestyle - With the Front Porch Swingers Podcast
56:41

What is swinging and what are the biggest misconceptions about the swinging lifestyle? What are the benefits for non-monogamous couples, and how can partners dip their toes into swinging? 

We also answer a sex question: How do I come out to my partner about my desire for non-monogamy?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 23.

About our guests: Brenna and Brian are the hosts of the sex-positive podcast, Front Porch Swingers, where they chronicle their real-life adventures in consensual non-monogamy. They've shared their passion for the swinging lifestyle in many formats, including countless lifestyle podcasts, online publications, Hustler Magazine, and sex education platforms. They are recipients of ASN Lifestyle Magazine's Sexiest Lifestyle Resource in January of 2020, proving that you can educate and titillate at the same time. They host seminars on an array of lifestyle topics, including handling jealousy and how to properly vet potential play partners. Their YouTube channel, also called Front Porch Swingers, provides resources on everything from sex toy recmmendations to the basics of swinging. Brenna and Brian are admittedly far from your average couple: Between their twenty-year age gap, involvement in the BDSM lifestyle, and future plans to "swing around the country," they are never afraid to forge their own path and do things differently. Brenna and Brian share their work with two goals in mind: To normalize the nonmonogamous lifestyle, and to encourage YOU to seek out "Sex on Your Terms." To learn more visit frontporchswingers.com/

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Jun 05, 2020
#170 How to Up Your Communication Game For Deeper Intimacy - With Kelley Mountain
51:33

Why is it important for couples to acknowledge and address blocks in communication and connection? How can they properly communicate their feelings and needs, and how does this affect sex?

We also answer a sex question: My wife no longer gets wet during sex.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 22. 

About our guest: Wellness Work, Dance, and Event Production have been Kelley Mountain's main outlets of service to the world and personal creative passions for nearly 20 years.  She uses these mediums to create beauty and inspiration in the world, from the individual to the masses. Coaching, bodywork and healing sessions, empowerment work, creativity, dance performance, spiritual circles, art & dance events, sensuality/sexuality and intimacy, and wellness retreats are some of her specialties.

Kelley is a certified Master Herbalist with a BA in Holistic Health. Since 2015 Kelley has been working primarily with men for Tantric Bodywork and Coaching. 2001-2015 she mainly worked with women for wellness, spirituality, belly dance, and healing work. Her life and work experience has been devoted to the health and harmony of the feminine and masculine, and her offerings can range from working solo, as couples, in small groups, in larger events, or online. To learn more visit https://goddessmodern.com/

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Jun 02, 2020
Bonus Episode: Shameless Sex Questions From a Penis Owner - With Comedian Nick Scopoletti
01:04:12

Comedian Nick Scopoletti joins us to shamelessly ask his sex questions about how being shamed during one of his first sexual experiences is affecting his adult life, challenges orgasming from oral sex, and why almost all of his exes have gone on to marry the guy right after him. 

About our guest: Maybe you are looking for a mumbling entertainer for a kids birthday party. Or maybe you are looking for an emcee for your next swingers bash in the suburbs. Comedian Nick Scopoletti is your (funny) guy. His high-energy interactive entertainment is sure to bring — not just fun — but antibiotics and experience to the party.  Safety 3rd.

Nick is also co-host of The Mangina Dialogues - a sweltering combo of hot topics and hot fun hosted alongside Comedy DJ TheGregalicious. The show's unique variety of content is hilarious and insightful features an array of refreshing personalities finding the humor in real life situations.

Every week The Mangina Dialogues bring discussions on comedy, music, lifestyles, pro sports- all aspects of pop- culture. With their keen eyes for the comedic, Greg & Nick spend time getting to know their guests, leading to hilarious, and also often touching, discussions. To learn more visit https://themanginadialogues.com/

 

 

 

May 29, 2020
#169 Sex, Aging, and Urology - With Dr. Lamia Gabal
01:01:11

What is regenerative and reconstructive urology? How can we improve or maintain our libido and sexual vigor as we age and how does western medical technology?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 29. 

About our guest: Dr. Lamia Gabal is a board-certified urologist who has been in practice in Southern California for over 20 years. She is the founder and president of Prestige Medical group, which specializes in regenerative and reconstructive urology. She treats both men and women for their most intimate wellness needs, including sexual dysfunction and incontinence. She and her associates truly enjoy helping individuals live fuller and healthier lives by enriching their sexual wellness. To learn more please visit www.drgabal.com

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May 27, 2020
#168 The 7 Guidelines for Great Relationships - With Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb
59:46

Why is communication in relationships challenging for so many folks? And what are the 7 guidelines for great relationships?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. 

About our guest: Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb is a Sexuality Coach, Certified Sex Therapist and Clinical Sexologist with a PhD in clinical sexology. She is an author, teacher, public speaker and has been working with individuals and couples in the area of human sexuality for over 28 years. She has been the guest expert on numerous podcasts, teaches in a sex therapy certification program and speaks on areas of alternative sexuality.

She specializes in the alternative sexuality communities, such as open relationships (polyamory, swinging, designer relationships), GLBTQ, BDSM, ABDL, kink and fetishes. Her approach to therapy is helping people to understand, accept and appreciate their sexuality with all its unique flavors.

In 2017 she published her first book, No More Hiding: Permission to love your sexual self. It is an innovative guide to help people navigate the world of BDSM, kinks, fetishes and open relationships such as swinging and polyamory.

In 2019 she launched an online educational/coaching program to teach people how to be successful when transitioning to open relationships called: Monogamy to Open.

To find more information, contact her at her website: www.drrhoda.com, email at rhoda@drrhoda.com

 

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May 22, 2020
#167 She Comes First - With Ian Kerner, PhD
46:42

In this episode we interview author, therapist and overall amazing human Ian Kerner, PhD, all about the power of pleasing the pussy first. He tells us why he thinks this is important plus gives us some tips and tricks along the way. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 11. 

About our guest: Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist), is a nationally-recognized sex counselor and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books, including, She Comes First, which has been translated into more than a dozen languages and is considered a classic in the genre. Ian is regularly quoted as an expert in various media, with recent features in The Atlantic, the Economist and NPR amongst others and he contributes regularly to CNN. He is the co-Director of the sex therapy program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy. Ian was born and raised in NYC, where he lives with his wife and two sons and their dogs, Oscar and Jitterbug. Esther Perel has said of him, “Dr. Ian Kerner is one of the most recognizable voices in clinical sex therapy.” To learn more visit iankerner.com

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May 19, 2020
#166 How to Give Head While Keeping Your Own - With Erotic Poet Rae Monet
44:30

Poet and educator Rae Monet tells us her top tips on how to give head while staying in your power, plus she shares some of her erotic poetry. 

About our guest: PoetRaeMonet, a DC native, uses erotic poetry to combat the serious lack of sexual education in America. She began writing in childhood and has gone on to publish 5 books and 2 journals; including 'The Birds, the Bees, and the Boudoir,' which she'll be reading from later tonight. She is a hard-worker, who has developed hand-made candles, accessories, and paintings to complement her books, creating a full-sensory experience for those looking to immerse themselves in sensuality. Her next book, Expose your Inner DIVA, a sexual self-help workbook, will be released later this year. To learn more or to buy Rae's awesome erotic poetry visit https://whichrae.wordpress.com/

May 15, 2020
#165 Circumcision and Pelvic Healing - With Pyasa Neko Siff
01:00:43

In this episode we chat with somatic sexologist and sexological bodyworker Pyasa Neko Siff about circumcision, pelvic release and ways to heal from pelvic trauma. 

We also answer a sex question: Why are some women against foreskin? Is it it different than giving oral on an uncut cock?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14.

About our guest:

Pyasa Neko Siff, certified somatic sexologist, sexological bodyworker and speaker is the author of the Intimacy Adventure Playbook. She has recently begun directing her first full-length documentary film: Healing the Hidden Wound, Sex, Spirit, and Circumcision. Pyasa’s journey of healing her own early childhood trauma has inspired her passion to share the profound benefits of somatic sex education around the world.

She offers private sessions, group and individualized retreats where she creates a platform for participants to discover a tangible sense of safety in the body; her unique approach addresses, releases, and supports the healing of the sexual conditioning and trauma which has touched so many of us in the world today. To learn more visit intimacyadventure.com

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May 12, 2020
#164 Phone Sex and Dirty Talk - With Amberly Rothfield
53:48

What makes a really good phone sex operator? What are the tricks to the trade and how can we up our dirty talk game?

We also answer a sex question: I want more sexting, sexy talk and words of affirmation from my partner.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. 

About our guest: Best-selling author, sexpert/educator, phone sex operator, dominatrix, and marketing extraordinaire Amberly Rothfield is a 13-year veteran who’s been featured in Vice, Hustler, Input, Reason, AVN, XBIZ, and YNOT, written for Slutty Girl Problems, and appeared on Holly Randall’s Unfiltered podcast. She struck gold as a phone sex operator on Niteflirt. Her breakout book How I Made $10,000 A Month As A Phone Sex Operator has been an inspirational manual for entrepreneurs and helped thousands of cam girls, phone sex operators, and clip store producers find success in the XXX world. She recently launched Master Classes are geared at indie models and companies with proven marketing techniques to take their brands to the next level.

Amberly is well respected in the adult community and has garnered many accolades. She won Best Phone Sex Provider from the BBW Awards in 2018, and she’s also scored noms for Social Media Star from AVN Awards, Humanitarian of the Year and Femdom Queen of the Year from BBW Awards, Community Figure of the Year from XBIZ Cam Awards, and Most Helpful from YNOT Cam Awards.

Keep up with Amberly’s upcoming events and more by following her on Twitter @AmberlyPSO and Instagram @Amberlyownsyou. Join her official website amberlyrothfield.com to get weekly videos, learn to market yourself better, one-on-one coaching, and more. Buy her books How I Made $10,000 A Month As A Phone Sex Operator and Financial Domination: Tales of an Online Mistress on Amazon at amazon.com/dp/B0798H4S5X. Get dominated and send her tributes on Nightflirt niteflirt.com/Amberly

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May 08, 2020
#163 Healing Through Pain and Pleasure - With Kat Nantz
44:34

Tune in as we chat with Somatic Sex and Relationship Coach Kat Nantz about her journey as she learned how to heal chronic pain through pleasure. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. 

We also answer a sex question about working with back pain during sex. 

About our guest: Kat Nantz is a trauma informed Somatic Sex & Relationship Coach who believes you are your own greatest healer, and her job is to bring you home to the wisdom that lives in your body. After having 17 surgeries as a young child, spending years being led out of her body and being objectified in medical settings, she had a powerful realization that her greatest healing would occur when she landed in her body and listened. As a disabled mama, facilitator and coach, Kat has a unique approach that empowers folks through building somatic embodied awareness, and honouring the body's capacity to heal through pleasure and play. Bringing people home to pleasure and home to their core power is her life purpose. To learn more visit katnantz.com

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May 05, 2020
#162 What Do I Want and How Do I Ask For It - With Monica Jayne
56:12

How can we discover our own sexual needs and desires and then lovingly speak up for them with lovers/partners?

We also answer a sex question: I feel like a sex goddess inside but my partner views me as delicate and puts me on a pedestal. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. 

About our guest: Monica Jayne is a leader of unabashed self-expression, a mentor of true internal freedom, a coach of authentic communication and speaking up, and an educator of erotic liberation. She has been a 6-figure exec in a male-dominated industry, earned over 5000 hours of continuing ed and teaching yoga theory and philosophy for accredited collegiate institutions, and is an expert in communication, authenticity, vulnerability, relationship, sex, and intimacy. She’s a Certified Erotic Blueprint Coach™ with certifications in Queer Competency and Sexological bodywork forthcoming. Monica Jayne catalyzes evolution in all facets of your being, evoking your permission to speak up and be unabashedly you! To learn more visit monicajayne.com/more

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May 01, 2020
#161 Your Sex Questions Answered - With Dr. Nan Wise
49:36

Dr. Nan Wise returns to answer your sex questions about orgasm difficulties and blocks, cheating and non-ethical non-monogamy, and what sexuality might look like after COVID-19. 

About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark.  She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com

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Apr 28, 2020
#160 Everyone's Favorite Big Tittied Goth Mama Pornstar - With Larkin Love
52:34

In this episode we interview adult performer and badass entrepreneur Larkin Love AKA everyone's favorite big tittied goth mama all about the ins and outs of her life in the porn industry. 

We also answer a sex question: Does excessive masturbation cause any harm?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20. 

About our guest: Known for her 32J breasts and fierce black hair, Larkin Love has gone from adult star to self-made entrepreneur running her own website and becoming the queen of the clips universe. Her clips and site larkinlove.com feature her as the master of role play. She’s always a chameleon going from kinky mom to librarian to cosplay characters like superheroine Power Girl and League of Legends Ahri, and more. Larkin captivates her members and clip buyers with the kinkiest hardcore, taboo, and fetish scenes on the planet, as well as her specialty blowjobs, incredibly long tongue, and jaw-dropping dirty talk.

Larkin was a librarian and earned a Bachelor’s in Psychology. She started in adult as a stripper and nude model, and in 2011 she leaped into hardcore and worked with all the top-shelf studios. In 2018, she won the triple crown for Best Clip Artist from the Altporn Awards, XBIZ Cam Awards, and Inked Awards. 2019 started off with a bang—she had two Grossy Awards wins for Favorite Guest and Most Interesting Guest, as well as scoring Best Clip Artist from the Alt Porn Awards for the 2nd year in a row. Larkin has also received multiple nominations from AVN, XBIZ Cam, Fleshbot, Pornhub, Inked, ALT Porn, Urban X, and AVN Fan Awards.

She’s graced the covers of Hustler Taboo and Altstar magazines, was spotlighted as the centerfold and feature in Leg Sex Magazine and Hustler’s Taboo, profiled by AVN Magazine, and scored mainstream coverage with Complex and Cosmo UK. Larkin also works as a professional dominatrix.

Keep up with everything in Larkin’s universe by following her on Twitter @larkinlovexxx, Instagram @larkinloverules, and Tumblr larkinlovexxx.tumblr.com, and like her Facebook fan pagefacebook.com/misslarkinlove. Talk dirty to her on SextPanther CallPrincessLarkin.com and Verified Call larkinlove.com/callme. Buy Larkin’s taboo and kink clips at ManyVids larkinlove.manyvids.com and pick up her femdom clips at princesslarkin.com. Get exclusive content on her MV Crushmanyvids.com/Profile/562290/Larkin-Love and Premium Snapchat at SnapWithLarkin.com. Subscribe to her AVN Stars stars.avn.com/larkinlovexxx and/or OnlyFans larkinlovefanclub.com for more exclusives than you can count. Join her Pornhub Channel to see free full-length videos and photos pornhub.com/pornstar/larkin-love

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Apr 24, 2020
#159 Kink and BDSM in Relationships - With Eve Minax
01:00:59

What is the “Minax Method” and how does it apply to kink and BDSM in relationships? 

We also answer a sex question: My partner is into S/M and my I'm not interested because of my sexual trauma. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18.

About our guest: Professional Domina, Kink Educator and Pleasure Artist, Eve Minax delights in proliferating carnal knowledge. Learning and practicing BDSM from Chicago, to Paris, to Melbourne, and now local to San Francisco Minax has exercised her pedagogical skills at a plethora of conferences. She is the former coordinator for CineKink:Chicago, the West Coast Coordinator for the LA&M Road show, on the board of CARAS and TASHRA. Minax is also certified Urban Tantrika, and a Bondassage Practitioner and trainer. She has self produced over 100 videos and shoots for many great bondage sites like bondageland.com and seriousbondage.com. She currently trains up and coming Dominatrices and those who wish to deepen their work. To learn more visit mistressminax.com

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Apr 21, 2020
#158 Get Turned On With Erotica - With Rachel Kramer Bussel
55:53

How does erotica get us into our ultimate turn on? And how can we write our own sexy stories? 

We also answer a sex question: I want more kissing with my wife.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. 

About our guest: Rachel Kramer Bussel is a writer, editor, event organizer and writing instructor. She’s edited over 60 anthologies, including Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica, The Big Book of Orgasms, The Big Book of Submission, Tasting Him: Oral Sex Stories, Tasting Her: Oral Sex Stories, Crossdressing, Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica, Best Bondage Erotica of the Year, Volume 1 and five volumes of the Best Women’s Erotica of the Year series. Her writing has been published in The New York Times, The Washington Post, O, The Oprah Magazine, SELF, Elle, Rolling Stone, and elsewhere, and she writes regularly about book publishing for Forbes online. Her pansexual erotica has spanned numerous subjects, from French fries to Monica Lewinsky to boxing, as well as exploring lap dances, a dishwashing fetish, a nudist resort and a kissing party, among other scenarios and settings. Her work has appeared in Best American Erotica 2004 and 2006 edited by Susie Bright as well as Zane’s bestsellers Succulent: Chocolate Flava II and Purple Panties, and translated into Italian, German and Japanese. She teaches in-person erotic writing workshops across the United States and around the world, as well as consulting via EroticaWriting101.com on erotica and sexuality nonfiction, and will be launching an online erotica writing class in 2020. Find her on Twitter @raquelita. To learn more visit rachelkramerbussel.com

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Apr 17, 2020
#157 Masculine Sexual Mastery (and Multiple Orgasms!) - With Matthew Ayriss
01:04:32

How can men become the master of their sexual energy? Why is this helpful? And how can they learn to up their orgasm game both alone and with partners?

We also answer a sex question about opening up the relationship as a means of satisfying differing sex drives. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. 

About our guest: Matthew Ayriss is a Sacred Sexuality Guide, Shamanic-Somatic Healer, Transformational Life Coach, & Conscious Content Creator. He facilitates immersive experiences, men's retreats, Tantra and transformational festivals, men's circles, and group coaching programs across the world. To learn more visit themasculinepillar.com/. And to receive a discount on his program use code Shamelesssex at checkout.

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Apr 14, 2020
#156 Seduction and Foreplay - With Marla Renee Stewart
51:21

Tune in to learn the latest tips and tricks on seduction and foreplay. 

We also answer a sex question: I pleasure my partner but they rarely reciprocate.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 23. 

About our guest: Marla Renee Stewart, MA is a sexologist and a sex coach who runs her own sexuality education company, Velvet Lips. She is also a Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference and the Sexual Liberation Collective. She has studied human sexuality for more than 19 years and has been featured on a variety of media outlets, as well as spoken to various audiences around the world. She co-wrote her first book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay - available April 14th, 2020 - with Dr. Jessica O’Reilly and is currently writing a chapter and co-editing An Intersectional Approach to Sex Therapy, coming in 2021. To learn more visit http://velvetlipsllc.com

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Apr 10, 2020
#155 An Insider Look Into the Porn Industry - With Bree Mills
59:55

Award-winning adult film director and creator of Adulttime.com Bree Mills joins us to tell us all about the current state of the porn industry.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. 

We also answer a sex question about how to have a first-time threesome. 

About our guest: Bree Mills is an award-winning adult filmmaker and Chief Creative Officer of Adult Time, a streaming service for adults.  Her work leverages art, sexuality, and cinematic narratives to trojan-horse powerful messages into the hearts and minds of her audience.  A Boston native, she now lives in Los Angeles with her wife and daughter. Check out Adulttime.com

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Apr 07, 2020
#154 How to Deal With Anxiety in Sex, Relationships and Beyond - With Dr. Nan
01:08:27

What is anxiety and how does it affect the body? How can people work with it? And how does this apply to sex and relationships? 

We also answer a sex questions about a golden shower fetish. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18.

About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark.  She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com

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Apr 03, 2020
#153 Sex Tech and the Future of Sex Toys - With Andrea Barrica
57:13

Sex robots, virtual reality, realistic "love dolls"...what is Sex Tech and what does the future hold for new innovative sex toys?

We also answer a sex question: I get air stuck inside of me during sex (AKA queefing). Am I tight enough down there?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 23. 

About our guest: Andrea Barrica is the CEO and founder of O.school, a judgment-free media platform to learn about sexuality and pleasure. As a queer woman of color, she’s been fighting to bring more humanity to the tech industry, and her mission is to create the world’s most trusted sexual wellness brand to help people increase their sexual health, power, and confidence. Previously, Andrea co-founded the leading financial solution for growing startups, inDinero.com, which now employs 150+ employees globally. She also served as a venture partner at 500 Startups, a global venture capital fund, where she worked with hundreds of startup companies. 

Andrea was raised in a religious, conservative Filipino family that only taught abstinence and she only had fear-based sex education in public schools. Seeking support and information, Barrica could not find reliable resources and experienced harassment online. Determined that no one else should have to struggle like she did, Barrica launched O.school in 2017 to change the way people learn about sexuality. 

She is also the author of the new book Sextech Revolution. To learn more visit O.school

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Mar 31, 2020
Bonus Episode: Exploring Sexual Fantasies For Hot Sex (and Healing!) - With Finn Deerhart
46:15

What does embodiment mean and how does it enhance intimate connection? Where do my fantasies come from and how can I explore them for hot sex, or even for healing? 

Note: This episode was recorded pre COVID-19

About our guest: Finn Deerhart AKA the "Gay Rebel with a Heart-Centered Cause" is a sex and relationship coach living in San Francisco, who has followed a deep inquiry about how sex and spirit intersect in our lives.  He believes that as gay and queer men, we have been divided in sex and spirit since our arrival on the planet and that we are always trying in some way or another to put these severed pieces back together again. Finn is passionate about helping you have relationships that are way deeper, way hotter, and will change your life. To learn more visit http://finndeerhart.com/

Mar 27, 2020
#152 Mind-blowing Tantric Sex Techniques - With Caroline Carrington
01:12:01

What is Tantric sex all about and how does it lead to juicy orgasms and mind-blowing pleasure? And how can people incorporate this into the bedroom? All this and more with Tantrica Caroline Carrington. 

We also answer a sex question about how to find the best toy for couple's and g-spot play.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 25.

About our guest: Caroline Carrington is a Certified NeoTantra Educator and pleasure & intimacy expert inspiring people to live empowered lives across the US and around the world. She is the Founder of Sarasa Tantra and carries the dream of this lineage to expand people’s experience of pleasure, intimacy and connection through relationships, energy play and dynamic and erotic meditation. Caroline is passionate about walking NeoTantra out of the bedroom and into the world and has taught about the benefits of sexual healing and trauma at Kaiser Permanente.  She has had the privilege of studying Somatic Experiencing with a variety of teachers including the creator, Peter Levine to expand her capacity to support trauma survivors. Caroline deepened her connection to kink and gender inclusivity during the Urban Tantra Professional Training with Barbara Carrellas. She is blessed to have been on spiritual pilgrimage to India with Gina Sala to study Nada Yoga, the Tantra of Sound, as well as with classical Tantrika and Sanskrit scholar Dr Vajish Shastra-ji in Varanasi. Caroline studied Tantra Yoga with Pedro Franco who uses yoga postures and breathwork as a focal point for his teaching. She has spent years practicing Bhakti yoga, the yoga of devotion studying with Deva Premal and Miten, Jai Uttal and Krishna Das and uses mantra as part of her daily meditation practice. She carries mantras on her lips and in her heart wherever she goes. For the past 4 years, Caroline has been studying more subtle forms of energy practice and attachment healing with Norma Ramos-Ott. 

Caroline is available for private sessions, workshops, deep dive retreats and is committed to training teachers and mentoring NeoTantric practitioners with high levels of integrity.

Learn more at www.JewelintheLotusCoaching.com & www.SarasaTantra.com

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Mar 24, 2020
#151 Love, Sex and Relationships During Corona - With Kyle Thiermann
01:31:05

In this episode we chat with our dear friend and fellow podcaster Kyle Thiermann all about love, sex, relationships, and all of the other quarantine-inspired conversations in the time of the COVID-19 virus. 

About our guest: Kyle is a professional surfer, podcaster, and filmmaker from California. He creates gonzo-style mini-documentaries about current social issues happening all over the world. These are conversations with fascinating people he meets along the way. To learn more about Kyle and his podcast, visit kyle.surf

Want to skip to the conversation with Kyle? Fast forward to minute 11.

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Mar 20, 2020
#150 Orgasms, Women and Anxiety - With Kara Loewentheil
01:07:14

Why do so many women have performance anxiety around orgasm? What type of thoughts do women have that stop them from having orgasms, and what can they can do in and out of the bedroom to dissolve them?

We also answer a sex question about finding confidence in dating women.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 24. 

About our guest: Kara Loewentheil is a Master Certified Coach with a B.A. from Yale and J.D. from Harvard Law. In the last three years after pivoting from a legal career, she has grown her life coaching business from 0 to 7 figures. She's the host of the iTunes top-rated self-help podcast Unf*ck Your Brain which has been downloaded over 5M times, and she has been featured in outlets like Marie Claire, Mind Body Green, MSN.com, and The Huffington Post. Kara lives in New York City. Learn more at unfckyourbrain.com

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Mar 18, 2020
#149 Group Sex, Sex Parties, and Gang-bangs - With The Manwhore Podcast
01:24:47

In this episode we chat all about how to navigate group sex, sex parties and gang-bangs with Billy from The Manwhore Podcast. 

We also answer a sex question: My partner voices a desire to be with other women while drunk but denies it sober.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. 

About our guest: Billy Procida is a professional stand-up comedian, podcaster, and accidental gangbang organizer. For over a decade, he's entertained audiences all over the country and can be seen at comedy clubs and Tinder around New York City. His show The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love was named a Top Sex Podcast by Esquire and Uproxx three years in a row, and his sex & dating advice has been featured in outlets like Cosmo, YourTango, Men's Health, and more. Oh, and his father is finally proud of him. To learn more visit www.ManwhorePod.com/itunes

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Mar 11, 2020
#148 Sensory Sex, Trauma, and Loving Your Labia - With Dr. Jess
55:15

Author, Podcaster, and Sex Educator extraordinaire, Dr. Jess O’Reilly joins us to answer your sex questions:

How do I initiate sex when I lack confidence in the bedroom?

Is there something wrong with my labia?

How do I talk to my partner about my sexual trauma, and how can I heal? 

What are your sex and dating tips for someone who is visually impaired? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19.

About our guest: An award-winning speaker, Dr. Jess O’Reilly has worked with thousands of couples from all corners of the globe to transform their relationships via her wildly successful Marriage As A Business program. From Prague and Istanbul to Albuquerque and New York City, her relationship retreats receive rave reviews from some of the most powerful couples in the world who are drawn to her enthusiastic, practical and no-nonsense approach to happily ever after. Jess is also co-host of the popular podcast Sex With Dr. Jess, and she contributes regularly to the biggest names in international media such as Women’s Health, Men’s Fitness, Cosmopolitan, SELF, Showtime and The Movie Network. To learn more visit sexwithdrjess.com

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Mar 02, 2020
#147 How to Master Long-Distance Relationships - With Aida Manduley
01:05:48

Aida Manduley teaches us all about long-distance relationships and how to keep them fresh, connected and spicy. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20. 

Aida Manduley, LCSW is an award-winning Latinx activist, trauma-focused therapist, and sexuality educator known for big earrings and tackling taboos. Their politics are radical, their life is ridiculous, and their penchant for irreverence as intimacy is notorious. Manduley's current focus areas include community accountability, healing justice, and work centering queer and trans people of color. To learn more visit http://www.aidamanduley.com/

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Feb 25, 2020
Bonus Episode: Your Bits Are Your Fourth Brain - With Willow Brown
51:05

Willow Brown is a Chinese Medicine Doctor and internationally recognized teacher of Taoist Sexology. Willow has studied the human body and it’s correspondence with nature extensively for over two decades. Her style is a blend of many modalities including Taoist Yoga, Qi Gong, acupuncture, nutrition, cranial sacral, and Sacred Sexuality.

Her online programs and private practice focuses on women’s health, endocrine function, and sexuality. Willow guides women from low libido, emotional disharmony, menstrual disorders, menopause, infertility, and post-partum depression to return to their innate equanimity so they can create sustainable balance in their lives, feel in control of their emotions and raise their sensual frequencies for greater magnetism and increased orgasmic potential.                        

Willow offers Taoist Sexology courses all around the world, inspiring women to  experience pleasure in ALL that they do.  To learn more about Willow's online courses, retreats and other offerings, visit yinwellness.com

Link for the Sugar Challenge:

https://yinwellness.com/get-off-sugar-completely-in-4-days-challenge/

Link for Sensuality Awakening Session:

https://bookwithwillow.as.me/?appointmentType=9265806

Feb 21, 2020
#146 Why Good Sex Matters - With Neuroscientist Dr. Nan Wise
01:11:23

Why is pleasure so important, both in and out of the bedroom? How does the brain and hormonal system affect this? And how can people have sustainable pleasure in longterm relationships? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19.

About our guest: Nan Wise, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark. Dr. Nan has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, Bustle, and has an weekly column in Glamour, Ask Dr. Nan, in which she addresses sexual health questions from readers. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com

Learn more about Amy's upcoming retreat March 13-15th, 2020 here: danielmollner.com

Learn more about Amy's upcoming classes in Dallas, TX here: sarassecret.com

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Feb 18, 2020
#145 The A-Spot & How To Give Hot Erotic Touch - With Christina Antonyan
01:09:57

In this episode we learn all about erotic touch techniques and how to be a phenomenal hands-on lover. Christina also shares about the mysterious A-Spot, a powerhouse for pleasure!

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20 to dive right in.

About our guest: Curiosity is Christina’s driving force. Being born during the Soviet Era in a conservative household that never spoke about sex unless it was telling adult jokes gave her an insatiable appetite to dive deep in the world of sexuality.

She’s been studying sexuality for more than 14 years and she believes that the secret to the universe is between our legs. She’s traveled to over 60 countries speaking, giving workshops and learning from other great teachers.

She’s on a mission to bring sexuality out of the dark ages where our sexuality becomes the source of our peace and happiness instead of the source of our shame, guilt, trauma, pain, and anxiety.

To learn more visit confidentlovers.com

For Christina's article on how to find a good erotic massage practitioner: https://www.confidentlovers.com/tantra-massage/

For more info on the A-Spot: https://www.confidentlovers.com/what-is-the-a-spot/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Th4Y9J3iK5Y

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Feb 11, 2020
#144 This Is Your Brain on Birth Control - With Sarah E. Hill, PhD
55:28

How does the pill affect sexual responsiveness, choice of partner, or even seemingly unrelated life choices like career or attainment of higher education? And what should we be doing to better educate and inform women about their choices, bodies, and options?

We also answer a sex question: I want more kissing and intimacy in my relationship. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. 

About our guest: A leading researcher in the dynamic and rapidly expanding field of evolutionary psychology Sarah E. Hill completed her PhD at UT Austin and is now a professor at TCU. She is also the author of the new book, THIS IS YOUR BRAIN ON BIRTH CONTROL: THE SURPRISING SCIENCE OF WOMEN, HORMONES, AND THE LAW OF UNINTENDED CONSEQUENCES. With more than fifty scientific publications and multiple prestigious research grants to her credit, Dr. Hill has become an authority on evolutionary approaches to psychology and health. She has been quoted in The New York Times, The Washington Post, Scientific American, and The Economist. To learn more visit www.sarahehill.com

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Feb 04, 2020
#143 Couple's Sex Toys & Non-Traditional Relationships - With Kitty Chambliss
01:18:27

The intro of the episode is about some of our favorite sex toys, as well as some awesome Valentine's Day activity and gift recommendations including as few that won't cost you a thing. 

The interview of the podcast is all about navigating non-traditional relationships including non-monogamy and anything beyond the traditional "get married to one person forever" way of being. Our guest also helps us answer some of your sex questions about non-monogamy.

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To checkout the We-Vibe Chorus and Moxie go to We-Vibe.com and use code Shameless for 5% off plus free shipping. 

Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip ahead to minute 34 (Note - our mic disconnected during the recording, so we apologize for the poor sound quality). 

Kitty Chambliss is a #1 Amazon Best Selling author of Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship. She is also a relationship coach, keynote speaker, polyamorous and sex-positive activist, and founder of Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) - specializing in helping people in non-traditional relationships navigate the challenging emotions that often arise in such dynamics. Kitty has made it her life’s mission to make thriving relationships – even unconventional ones – attainable to everyone. She is also the host of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast - available on all of the apps. To learn more visit lovingwithoutboundaries.com

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Jan 28, 2020
Bonus Episode: Anthony Asanti - A Sensual Professional Companion
19:15

Anthony Asanti is a Straight Male Escort providing warm, sensual professional companionship to women and couples. He is skilled in multiple healing techniques including sensual massage and Bondassage. To learn more visit anthonyasanti.com

Jan 24, 2020
#142 Cum Fetishes, Lingerie Fetishes, Virginity and More - With Kristen
01:25:29

Sex Educator and dear friend Kristen returns to answer your sex questions about cum and oral fetishes, menstrual cups, gender-bending and lingerie fetishes, demi-sexuality, virginity, and how to be a confident lover.

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Jan 21, 2020
#141 Healing Sexual Trauma Through Pleasure - With Melissa Fritchle, LMFT
01:17:38

How does the body internalize sexual trauma and how can we heal it through pleasure? How does this apply sexual pain? And what about kink as a means for working with trauma? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. 

About our guest: Melissa Fritchle, LMFT is a Holistic Sex Therapist & award-winning Sex Educator with a private practice in Santa Cruz, CA. She is also a Certified Mindfulness Meditation teacher and is working on a second book, The Body as Guru. She is the author of The Conscious Sexual Self Workbook and writes the pleasure activism blog, Transformational Pleasure. Founder & Director of Trauma-Informed Sex Positive Therapy Training, she promotes inclusive sexual health  around the world. To learn more visit www.mf-therapy.com

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Jan 14, 2020
#140 The Soft Cock Debate With Sluts and Scholars
01:01:28

In this episode we talk all about soft cocks, dry pussies, and our stance on hardness and wetness. 

We also answer a sex question about erotic text messaging and dirty talk. 

Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 22. 

About our guests: Nicoletta is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Sexologist and Simone is an actor-turned-law-student who really likes to talk about sex stuff. Together, they chat with folks from across sexuality, kink, and professional spectrums about desire, pleasure, shame, stigma and (of course) bodily functions on the Sluts and Scholars Podcast. Join these slutty scholars as they help to make your sex smarter, and your smarts sexier. Available on just about all of the podcast apps 

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Jan 07, 2020
#139 Knot Love: Rope Play For Hot Sex and Deep Connection
01:17:54

Tune in as we learn all about Knot Love with Edward Willey. Knot Love isn’t just about rope tying techniques. It’s about learning how to stay deeply connected to your partner, read their desires and needs, and build a scene together that cultivates trust, passion, and connection. It’s also about learning how to cultivate and embody relaxation, confidence, and awareness inside yourself.

We also answer a sex question about sex and penis size after bladder surgery.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 27.

About our guest: Edward Willey has been teaching erotic rope play since 2014 and has loved knots since he was a Boy Scout. He combines his passion for rope with his long-time practice of Aikido and Sheng Zhen. His experience with these two arts of unconditional love provides a foundation for teaching how to develop open-hearted connection and awareness along with technical rope tying skills. He believes that in addition to the commonly used Japanese terms shibari (“to tie”) & kinbaku (“to bind tightly”), the word musubi is important in rope play. Musubi means to unite or bind together. Learning to connect with rope in this way can bring a new level of joy, intimacy, and understanding to your relationship by tying your hearts together with love.

He is available for private coaching sessions to cultivate love and intimacy using rope at knot-love.com.  Sign up for his mailing list for a free 18-minute video showcasing his unique approach: https://mailchi.mp/fd2b6b5f018d/whyknotlove.

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Dec 31, 2019
#138 Give Me Your Money: Financial Domination - With Mistress Marley
01:03:16

What is like being a Professional Dominatrix? What is Financial Domination, and why might someone enjoy it? How does this compare to being a Lifestyle Dom? 

We also answer a sex question: How do I suggest we start start using condoms when we've already had unprotected sex?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 30. 

About our guest: MISTRESS MARLEY is a Pro Domme, a Sex Educator and an Adult Event Organizer. Hailing from the South, she made her way to New York City where she began to dabble in the BDSM industry. With an undergraduate and graduate degree in Human Sciences, she naturally loves to dive into the mind, so why not mix that with kink? When she’s not dominating loyal servants, she spends her time educating women on how to be the domme they've always wanted to be through her organization "Black Domme Sorority". To learn more visit thechocolatedomme.com

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Dec 24, 2019
#137 Dating, Flirting and How to Talk to Girls (AKA Women) - With Tripp Kramer
01:26:34

The meat of this episode is about how shy men can learn to flirt, attract and date women. It's a bit different for us as we aren't fans of big generalizations or hetero-normative language, but we decided to switch it up as our guest truly does have some great tips to offer. 

The intro of this episode is a long one as we talk about relationships as well as the exciting (and sometimes terrifying) process of falling in love. We also answer a sex question: Is deleting cheating? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 33. 

About our guest: Tripp Kramer is an international dating coach for men. He created his "TED system" to help shy men confidently attract the women they desire. In his earlier years he was a shy guy who figured out through trial and error how to get better and meeting, dating and finding the right type of woman for you. He currently has a popular podcast on iTunes called "How To Talk To Girls" and has a book called Magnetic which teaches all his secrets on dating and attraction. To learn more visit https://trippadvice.com

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Dec 17, 2019
#136 Cougars and Why You Should Date a Mama's Boy - With Sex Talk With My Mom Podcast
48:54

In this episode we sit down with fellow podcasters and Pleasure Podcast Network friends Cam and Karen Lee of the Sex talk With My Mom podcast. We chat all about what it means to be a cougar, how to talk to your kids AND parents about sex, and why you should date a mama’s boy,

We also answer a sex question: I get turned on knowing my wife thinks I’m small down there. Is this normal?

About our guests: Sex Talk With My Mom offers sex and relationship advice while exploring the dynamic between a sexually-liberated, cougar mom and her comedian son. They feature guests ranging from legendary porn star Nina Hartley to their previous sexual partners. They have "the talk" every Monday and Thursday to make you laugh and open the conversation around sex. Esquire ranked them at the top of their list of "Best Sex Podcasts" and they have been featured on Megyn Kelly TODAY and Comedy Central's Tosh.O. To learn more visit sextalkwithmymom.com

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Dec 10, 2019
#135 Our Favorite Sex Toys
41:59

In this episode we share our top 10 favorite sex toys for this holiday season. 

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Dec 02, 2019
Bonus Episode: Drag and Escorting With Fiona St. James
40:32

Born and raised in New York City, this Spanish and Italian Bronx born native entered the world of Female Impersonating and Escorting in the late 80’s.

His Drag persona Fiona St. James has experienced success in night clubs worldwide as well as being the 15th elected and still the only Latina Empress of The Imperial Court of New York. He has appeared in film on “To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything Julie Newmar”, “Stonewall”, “Ugly Betty”, and “Orange is the New Black”.  His most memorable role was playing the resident prison tranny bitch on the hit HBO series “OZ” for five of the six seasons.

His adventures in drag and escorting inspired him to write his memoirs where he shares stories about pushing boundaries and raising eyebrows sexually, professionally and personally with no shame for over 30 years! 

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Nov 29, 2019
#134 Alice Little - The Most Successful Licensed Sex Worker in the US
52:35

Alice Little is the most successful licensed sex worker in the United States.

Alice has been voted the #1 Companion of the Year at the world famous Moonlite Bunny Ranch legal brothel in Carson City, Nevada. She is also a go-to intimacy and sexuality coach, an outspoken advocate for sex worker rights and vocal champion for an all-inclusive sex-positive society.

Alice has managed to use her notoriety as one of the highest-earning sex workers in the world to push forward causes that she believes in. She founded the political action group “Hookers for Healthcare” to fight for healthcare policies that benefit sex workers and other stigmatized groups. She also co-founded the Nevada Brothel Association, a committee that advocates for the rights of women working in Nevada’s bordellos.

Alice has been featured in the Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, The Daily Beast, Refinery 29, BBC News, CNN, ABC Nightline, and on the Tim Ferris Show and Shane & Friends podcasts. To learn more visit thealicelittle.com

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. 

We also answer a sex question about Tantra and sexual trauma.

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Nov 26, 2019
#133 How Core Desires Leads to Hot Sex - With Celeste and Danielle
46:37

What are our Core Desires, and how can they lead to hotter, more fulfilling sex? Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA, creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching teach us all about how to dive deeper into our erotic selves.

We also answer a sex question: How can I regain broken trust in my relationship?

Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip ahead to minute 14.

About our guests: Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA are the co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching and the co-founders of the Somatica® Institute. Somatica is a cutting-edge, experiential coaching approach that helps clients shift their neuropatterning so that they can find new, more fulfilling and expressed forms of relating emotionally and sexually. In their Somatica courses, Celeste & Danielle train professional Sex and Relationship Coaches and help individuals and couples transform their lives through personal growth in the arena of sex and relationships. They have co-authored three books - Making Love Real, Cockfidence, and Coming Together. To learn more visit somaticainstitute.com

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Nov 19, 2019
#132 Prostate 101 - Happy Movember!
33:56

November AKA Movember is Prostate Awareness Month! Inspired by Charlie Glickman, PhD and Aislinn Emirzian’s awesome book The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Explorations For Men and Their Partnerswe are offering all kinds of tips on prostate pleasure and health, as well as an opportunity to win all kinds of prizes via our Instagram campaign. 

We also answer a sex question: My partner's libido has shifted in our longterm relationship. How do I spice things up to make things exciting and juicy again?

Instructions for the contest: Open to anyone 18+ of all genders. Listen to this episode where we will share tips and facts about prostate pleasure and health. Then go to Shameless Sex Podcast's Instagram to learn more about how to enter. You will be asked to DM or email us an anonymous photo of yourself like the one here stating something that you learned about prostate pleasure or health. Photo must contain a mustache, and it can be real or fake (including one drawn your the finger). We will use these photos on our IG + stories to teach the public about prostate health and pleasure, so you all get to be a part of the education!

Everyone who sends in a photo by Nov. 19th will be entered into a raffle to win a grand prize of: A Hot Octopuss Jett vibrator, a Hot Octopuss Atom + rechargeable C-ring, a copy of Charlie and Aislinn’s book, a bottle of Uberlube, and access to our online Wild Woman workshop. There will also be a few runner up prizes as well.

 

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Nov 12, 2019
#131 Boners and E.D. With Doctor C (Dr. John Carrozzella)
57:18

Dr. C AKA Dr. John Carrozzella joins us to talk all about erections, "erectile dysfunction" and the latest and greatest ways to work with the changes all bodies go through with age.

We also answer a sex question about how to care for silicone sex toys.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 13. 

About our guest: Dr. Carrozzella practiced as as an Orthopaedic Surgeon for 25 years before switching his focus to the nontraditional medical specialties of Hormone Replacement, Sexual Health and Dysfunction and Age Management.  He is an expert in Hormone therapy, sexual dysfunction and age management for both men and women. To learn more visit https://www.hormonesandwellness.com/

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Nov 05, 2019
#130 How to Suck D!ck Like a Boss With Tyomi
56:05

Sexpert Tyomi joins us to talk about about how to suck the deeeyuckaaa like a boss. We discuss hand techniques, mouth techniques, positions, and so much more. 

We also answer a sex question: I'm disappointed when my partner is too tired to keep playing after he has an orgasm. What should I do?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. 

About Tyomi: Sexpert Tyomi, better known as Glamazon Tyomi, is an International Pleasure Coach who reaches millions of eyes monthly through her social media platforms and written contributions across the internet. In 2011 after experiencing a shift in her modeling career, the Chicago native began her sex education blog Glamerotica101.com with the intent to serve as the female representation for people of color within mainstream sexuality.  Tyomi recognized that people around the world are having issues with connecting to their sexuality, and desired to bring more love and light into the lives of others. Since her entrance into the field of sexuality, Tyomi has had many accomplishments including serving as the resident sexpert for EBONY.com and Blackdoctor.org, hosting her own radio show on Playboy Radio, being published in collegiate Academia by McGraw Hill, hosting a two-year sold our international tour, and so much more. Tyomi has been featured on Comedy Central's Tosh.0 as Daniel's "Favorite Sexpert," and her advice has been featured on several websites including Huffington Post, NY Mag's THE CUT, Essence.com, Askmen.com, SHAPE.com, Blavity.com, VICE.com, Washington Post, The Guardian UK and dozens more.  The Glamazon has been a guest on numerous podcasts including "The Nod" podcast on Gimlet Media and has appeared on radio shows featured on Clear Channel Radio, CBS Radio, Playboy Radio, Sirus XM and more. Tyomi currently continues to use a candid and relatable approach to educate the masses about sex via her social media and YouTube Channel Glamerotica101. The Glamazon currently serves as The Exxxotica Expo’s Seminar coordinator and Resident Sexpert and is a ACS Certified Sexologist and Authentic Tantra Practitioner through the Institute of Authentic Tantra. http://sexperttyomi.glamerotica101.com/

 

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Oct 29, 2019
Bonus Episode: Wet Dreams, Masturbation, and Virginity - A Threesome With Simon Rex and Kyle Thiermann
01:28:50

Simon Rex also known as Dirt Nasty, is an American entertainer. Rising to fame as an MTV VJ, Rex later became an actor known for What I Like About You, Scary Movie 3, 4, and 5, and National Lampoon's Pledge This!. He later developed a rap persona, Dirt Nasty, and had several solo albums and co-founded the supergroup Three Loco. His latest endeavor is as the host of the Nervous Rex Podcast. 

Kyle Thiermann is a professional surfer, podcaster, and filmmaker from California. He creates gonzo-style mini-documentaries about current issues happening all over the world. His podcast is called The Kyle Thiermann Show. Go check it out. 

Oct 26, 2019
#129 Conscious Uncoupling With Katherine Woodward Thomas
01:14:38

What is Conscious Uncoupling? How can partners navigate divorce, separation and breakups amicably and lovingly? Katherine Woodward Thomas, author of the New York Times Bestseller Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After joins us as we unpack all this and much much more. 

We also answer a sex question: My partner and I have a pregnancy fantasy - is this normal and how can we roleplay this?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16.

About our guest: Katherine Woodward Thomas is the author of the New York Times Bestseller Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After and the national bestseller, Calling in “The One:” 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life. She is also a licensed marriage and family therapist and teacher to thousands from all corners of the world in her virtual and in-person learning communities. Katherine has also trained and credentialed hundreds of people as Certified Conscious Uncoupling Coaches and as Certified Calling in “The One” Coaches. To learn more go to katherinewoodwardthomas.com

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Oct 22, 2019
#128 Beyond the Pill With Dr. Jolene Brighten
01:05:25

How does the pill affect sex drive and libido? Why are some people taking the pill for reasons other than birth control and how is this affecting them? And what can people do about it? Dr. Jolene Brighten joins us for an eye-opening and informative interview all about the dark side of hormonal birth control and how people take action to reclaim their health. 

We also answer a sex question: I don't like it when my man goes down on me. What can I do and am I normal? 

Want to skip to the interview? Jump ahead to minute 15. 

About our guest: Dr. Jolene Brighten is a Leading Expert in Post-Birth Control Syndrome & Hormonal Birth Control Related Problems, as well as a women's health naturopathic medical doctor, practicing physician, and speaker. She is also the author of Healing Your Body Naturally After Childbirth: The New Mom's Guide to Navigating the Fourth Trimester, and her latest book, Beyond the Pill. To learn more visit drbrighten.com

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Oct 15, 2019
#127 How to Have Hot Sex at Any Age With Joan Price
01:07:23

Joan Price joins us to talk about about sex and aging, how to keep that fire burning at any age! We talk all about shifts in libido, erections, menopause, mobility, and more! 

We also answer two sex questions:

I like morning sex but my husband does not. What do we do?

How do I safely manscape my pubic hair? 

Want to fastforward to the interview? Skip to minute 24.

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About Joan: Joan Price calls herself an advocate for ageless sexuality. She has been called other things by the media: "senior sexpert," "the beautiful face of senior sex," "wrinkly sex kitten," and—her favorite— “the woman leading a sex revolution for seniors.”

Joan has been writing and speaking about senior sex since 2005. Her books include:

  • Sex after Grief: Navigating Your Sexuality After Losing Your Beloved,coming August 2019.
  • The Ultimate Guide to Sex after Fifty: How to Maintain – or Regain! – a Spicy, Satisfying Sex Life, her most comprehensive senior sex book.
  • Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex, winner of Outstanding Self-Help Book 2012 from the American Society of Journalists and Authors and 2012 Book Award from American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists.
  • Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty, Joan’s spicy memoir celebrating the joys of older-age sexuality.
  • Ageless Erotica, a steamy senior sex anthology which Joan conceived and edited.

To learn more visit joanprice.com

 

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Oct 08, 2019
#126 Erotic Blueprints With Jaiya
01:03:37

What are the Erotic Blueprints, why is it important to know your Core Erotic Blueprint, and how does this lead to great juicy connected sex? Tune in to learn more. 

We also answer a sex question: Is it my fault that I can't make my wife orgasm? She seems to think so!

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 22 in the podcast. 

About Jaiya: An internationally recognized, award-winning sexologist and best selling author, Jaiya is the creator of the Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ and the Erotic Blueprint™ Quiz! Discover your Type here: eroticbreakthrough.com/shameless/

Jaiya is also the author of 4 books including best selling “Red Hot Touch” and “Cuffed, Tied and Satisfied.” 

“I believe that sex isn’t just something we do.  Sex is essential to our health, our vitality and vibrant aliveness.”  ~ JAIYA

Jaiya’s mission is to help people like you claim your desires and gain access to erotic ecstasy. Sex techniques are no guarantee of orgasmic bliss.  Sex techniques don’t create lasting passion and sexual satisfaction.  In fact, using the wrong technique on the wrong person can create turn off, shutdown and possibly even traumatic response.

So, what’s the answer?  How do you keep the fire alive and experience sexual fulfillment?

For over 2 decades of practice as a Somatic Sexologist and Sexological Bodyworker Jaiya immersed herself in the study of turn-on,  ancient erotic rituals, tantric sex, mastery of sensual touch, pure erotic play, kinky dynamics, and the biology and psychology of attraction and sexual fulfillment.

Through client observation and clinical research she discovered a map of arousal that reveals your specific erotic language of orgasmic delight, a revolutionary framework for deep sexual satisfaction. 

She discovered we all have a unique Erotic Blueprint™.  Uncover your map to ecstasy and experience your very own Erotic Blueprint™ Breakthrough by visiting eroticbreakthrough.com/shameless/

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Oct 01, 2019
#125 Sex After A Big Life Shift With Dirty Lola
01:20:10

Dirty Lola joins us to chat all about how to navigate sex and relationships after a big life shift such as divorce, breakups/heartbreak, major health issues, and/or the passing of a loved one. Lola also helps us answer a sex question: Should I lose my virginity to an escort. 

Want to fast forward to the interview? Go to minute 32:00.

About our guest: Dirty Lola is a sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. Known for her live sex ed Q&A show Sex Ed A Go-Go and as co-host of New York Magazine’s The Cut’s “Sex Probz” web series, Lola has spent almost a decade working to end stigma and shame surrounding sex and sexuality. Having started her journey sharing personal discoveries with polyamory and kink online, Lola now uses her knowledge, warm candor and public platforms to teach the masses in-person and to rapt Internet audiences. She is also one of the ambassadors for hashtagopen.com. To learn more check out her website at sexedagogo.com

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Sep 24, 2019
Bonus Episode: Abortions, Sex Politics and Sugar Babies/Daddies With Private Parts Unknown Podcast
57:12

In this episode we get real with the wonderful ladies of the Private Parts Unknown Podcast. We talk about their groundbreaking series "Men Have Abortions, Too", as well as sex work, sex education, Sugar Baby/Daddy websites, and other sex politics. 

We also answer a few sex questions:

How can I pre-plan for my first anal adventure with my partner?

My husband only wants sex on his terms. What should I do?

About our guests: Private Parts Unknown (the podcast formerly known as Reality Bytes) is a comedy-sex-travel podcast uncovering stories of love & sexuality around the world. Best friends Courtney & Sofiya bring you along as they traipse from country to country exploring sex, relationships, dating & different types of food poisoning. Their podcast is available on all of the podcast apps, as well as on http://privatepartsunknown.com

 

 

 

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Sep 19, 2019
#124 Tantra With Matt and Caity of Embodied Erotic
50:07

What is Tantra, how does it enhance sex and relationships, and how can people apply it to their lives? 

Note: The interview starts at around minute 15 (for those of you who want to skip the intro). 

Intro also includes a sex question: My partner believes she is disconnected from her body and she can't get herself off from masturbation. What can she do? 

About our guests: Matt Sturm is a guide for transformational experiences and the co-founder of Embodied Erotic. His passion is to craft experiences and hold spaces that allow for the big love inside of each of us to emerge. Matt is trained in the Hakomi method of psychotherapy – a body-based therapy centered around mindfulness. He is also a Hatha yoga teacher, Certified Tantra Educator, and he practices in the Vajrayana lineage of Tibetan Buddhism. 

Caity Flanagan is is a somatic sex & intimacy coach, an embodiment educator, and Tantric practitioner dedicated to supporting other on the journey of radical embodiment, sensual awakening, and coming home to the Heart. She is passionate about creating a world free of sexual trauma and is dedicated to birthing a new paradigm of integrative and holistic sexuality. She is the co-founder of Embodied Erotic and is the founder of Serpent & Rose, communities dedicated to sharing the teachings of sacred sexuality as pathways to trauma healing and awakening. 

To learn more about their offerings including their Couple’s Course starting October 7th visit http://embodiederotic.com

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Sep 17, 2019
Bonus Episode: How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex With Dominnique Karetsos
44:27

Within the world of sexual health tech, Dominnique is personally dedicated about changing the narrative surrounding parenting and sex. From helping parents rediscover themselves and their desires, to advocating for more direct empowering conversations with kids than “the birds and the bees,” Dominnique is on a mission to improve sex talk at all ages.

More about Dominnique: Dominnique Karetsos is MysteryVibe's resident sex expert. Before joining MysteryVibe, Dominnique led groundbreaking teams in the sexuality space such as Lelo - Intimina, Get Luwi, Elara.Care, and is founder of  Healthy Pleasure Collective. Coupled with her ongoing work as a BBC radio host and once upon a time host of her own podcast Hotmilk - The Guilty Parent Podcast back in 2015, Dominnique has used her voice over the past decade to disrupt one of the world's most taboo industries.

 

 

 

Sep 16, 2019
#123 Sexual Madness With Dr. Jenn
56:48

What is "sexual madness" and how is this affecting people's sex lives? Why is mindfulness the cure and how does this help people live with more passion, pleasure and deeper connection?

We also answer a sex question: My husband has a sex doll. How can I incorporate the doll into our sex life?

About Dr. Jenn: Jennifer Gunsaullus, PhD, was raised as a “good girl” in a small town in southeastern PA. Now, she lives in San Diego and is a sociologist, intimacy coach, and national speaker on couples intimacy, women’s empowerment, sexual consent and gender roles, healthy communication, and mindful sex.

She has presented two TEDx Talks and is an intimacy expert on the San Diego morning news. Dr. Jenn has over 1.5 million hits on her In the Den with Dr. Jenn YouTube video series, and is an expert in the first documentary on masturbation, called Sticky: A (Self) Love Story. She is also the co-host of the podcast show through iHeartRadio, Sex Talk with Clint & the Doc.

Dr. Jenn’s first book, From Madness to Mindfulness: Reinventing Sex for Women will be published in August 2019.

Dr. Jenn has her black belt in Soo Bahk Do and recently came in third in a 2-on-2 women’s beach volleyball tournament in Mexico!

She continues to redefine what it means to be a strong and sexual woman in today’s society (hint, it’s not being a “good girl” anymore) and empowers all individuals to find true intimacy and connection through mindfulness and compassion.To learn more visit drjennsden.com/

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Sep 10, 2019
#122 Supersonic Sex Drive (And Sex Toys!) With Susan Bratton
01:15:48

Trusted Hot Sex Advisor Susan Bratton joins us once again to talk all about libido, desire, turn on, arousal, lust, how to feel more switch on with sexual energy and how to channel your sexual energy for more pleasure and passion. Oh and lots on sex toys!

We also answer a sex question: How do cock rings affect orgasm/ejaculation? 

About Susan: Susan Bratton is a champion and advocate for all who desire passionate relationships. Considered the “Dear Abby of Sex,” Susan’s fresh approach and original ideas have helped millions of people of all ages and across the gender spectrum transform sex into passion. 

Married to her husband Tim since 1993, Susan is an author, award-winning speaker, and serial entrepreneur who teaches passionate lovemaking techniques to her fans around the world. Susan has been featured in The New York Times and on CNBC and the TODAY show as well as appearing on ABC, CBS, The CW, Fox, and on NBC as the “Marriage Magician.”

Susan is Chair Emeritus of the ad:tech conference; she was both CMO and a member of the Board of Directors for an Anthony Robbins tech start-up as well as serving on numerous boards throughout her career. In 2009, Susan was honored as a “Silicon Valley Woman of Influence” by The Business Journal and as a “Top 10 Internet Pioneer” by AdAge Magazine. In 2010, was bestowed the Lifetime Industry Achievement award by dmg World Media.

Susan’s straight-talking, fearless approach is rooted in her personal experience of watching her sex life wither while she and her husband pursued dynamic careers. When their relationship hit a crisis point, the couple made a fierce commitment to do whatever it took to keep their family together and revive the passion in their marriage. Today, she and her husband have the kind of dream relationship most people long-since stopped believing is even possible—until they discover Susan’s teachings. 

Susan is CEO and co-founder (with her husband) of Personal Life Media. Through her company, Susan has authored 20 books including Relationship Magic, The Passion Patch and 30 Romance Tricks That Work Like Magic, as well as her International #1 Amazon best-seller, Sexual Soulmates: The 6 Essentials for Connected Sex.  

She has also created and published numerous online courses including her wildly popular Revive Her Drive and Steamy Sex Ed® DVD Collection, as well as programs such as: Seduction Trilogy, Expand Her Orgasm Tonight, The Multi-Orgasmic Lover for Men, Female Liquid Orgasm, and Keep Her Coming.

Millions of couples and singles have been touched by her TV appearances and Better Lover YouTube channel. Through her Insider’s Club newsletter at Personal Life Media.com, Susan gives away, free of charge, countless MP3 audios, videos, articles, and ebooks. 

Susan believes that shame-free, frequent sexual pleasure is every man and woman’s birthright:  “After 25 years of marriage, I know from experience that deep, passionate intimacy with my partner is priceless: a priority that tops my list of must-haves alongside good health and the love of family and friends. I have made it my mission to aid anyone who wants the kind of lovemaking that improves with age.” 

She and her husband split their time between their home on Mt. Tamalpais in Mill Valley, California and their cozy beach shack in Encinitas, with occasional trips to far-off lands to visit their globe-trotting daughter.  To learn more visit her Better Lover YouTube channel or susanbratton.com

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Sep 04, 2019
#121 The Nine Elements For Sexual Empowerment With Amy Jo Goddard
55:10

Amy Jo Goddard, author of Woman on Fire: Nine Elements to Wake up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence shares her nine elements for sexual empowerment. 

Hailing from Military Dad and Recovering-Catholic-Mom, Amy Jo Goddard is author of Woman on Fire: Nine Elements to Wake up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence and co-author of the best-selling classic Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men. Amy Jo earned her Master’s degree in Human Sexuality Education at New York University and studied film at New School University. She has been teaching and speaking about feminism and sexuality for over two decades. She delivered her TEDx talk “Owning Your Sexual Power” in Napa Valley, was named one of GO! Magazine’s “100 Women We Love” and one of Kinkly’s “100 Sex Blogging Superhereos.”  Her forthcoming film At Your Cervix, examines patient consent and bodily autonomy in gynecology and medical education, aiming to end unethical practices that harm both patients and medical students. Her Fire Woman Retreat is an annual sexual empowerment event with powerhouse teachers for women and non-binary folks and she teaches several on-going sexual empowerment programs for adults. To learn more visit firewomanretreat.com/shamelesssex

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Aug 24, 2019
#120 The STD (AKA STI) Episode With Remy Paille, NP
01:16:38

Nurse Practitioner Remy Paille joins us for a very important episode on STI's (sexually transmitted infections, formerly known as sexual transmitted diseases). She also helps us answer a few sex questions including:

How do I talk to partners about my STD status? And what do I do if prospective partners have a STD?

I have a hard time trusting partners when they tell me their STI status. Should I ask every one of them to get tested?

I gained a lot of weight on the IUD. What can I do about this? And are there any nonhormonal birth controls that work well aside from the IUD?

My orgasms changed with I switched birth controls. Is this common?And what can I do about this?

Also addendum from Remy in regards to one of her answers to a sex question: 

"Testosterone revs our sexy engine up. It can be boosted by getting enough sleep, supplementing with vitamin D if our levels are below 50 ng/dL, supplementing with Zinc (oysters, my favorite;-), B complex vitamins as well the Indian herb, ashwaganda. 

Too much testosterone can give us facial hair, a deep voice, and other masculine characteristics as well as lead to something called polycystic ovarian disease or PCOS so we want the right balance.
 
Estrogen helps us feel juicy, voluptuous and divinely feminine. An excess of estrogen can occur when we get toxic amounts of estrogen products into our bodies from the environment (plastics—> BPA, phthalates, parabens)
 
When our liver is not functioning effectively , it’s not able to process excess estrogen so it often recirculates causing headaches, tender breasts and crabby moods as well a increasing our risk of breast cancer.  One way to rid your body of excess estrogen is to poop it out- every day at least one big healthy one, however you get there. Fiber and magnesium can help. 
 
Progesterone helps us feel calm, safe and relaxed , which definitely helps when you want to get it on. Synthetic progesterone found in contraceptives is a different chemical that can trigger anxiety and depressed mood in some women (not all) the opposite kind of mood you want when you want to really let go into orgasmic bliss. 
 
What’s a girl to do? While we don’t have a ton of options in terms of our contraception, we do have options about what other things we put into and onto our bodies. These can make a difference". 

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Aug 20, 2019
Bonus Episode: Sex & Sobriety With Tawny Lara
33:49

Tawny is a bisexual NYC-based writer, public speaker, and event producer. She's passionate about breaking stigmas associated with both sobriety and sexuality. Her words have been published in Playboy, Huffington Post, and her blog SobrieTeaParty.com. When she’s not working on all of the things, she’s doing yoga or eating tacos - sometimes simultaneously. Check out her podcast Recovery Rocks or her website tawnylara.com to learn more.

Aug 17, 2019
#119 Anal Stimulation, Orgasms & Shameless Flirting With Aaron Alexander
01:31:14

Tune in to hear Amy shamelessly flirting with Aaron Alexander of the Align Podcast - all while talking about how men can embrace their vulnerability, orgasms, anal massage and stimulation, prostates, and more!

Aaron Alexander CR, LMT, CPT is an accomplished manual therapist and movement coach with over 13 years of professional experience. He is the founder of the Align Method™, an integrated approach to functional movement and self-care that has helped thousands of people out of pain and into health. He hosts the top-rated Align Podcast featuring the biggest names in movement and wellness. Aaron’s clients include Hollywood celebrities, Olympic/professional athletes and everyone in between. He teaches workshops and speaks at events all over the world. Check out Aaron's offerings at https://alignpodcast.com

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Aug 13, 2019
#118 Sex Toys and Anal For Anal August!
59:23

It's our favorite month...Anal August! And to celebrate we are offering you tips and tricks on how to explore anal safely and pleasurably including how to play with your own ass, how to play with some else’s ass, and how to play with the prostate. Be sure to check out our Instagram contest (just search Shameless Sex Podcast on Instagram) as we are giving away a TON of prizes this month - many of which are sponsored by one of our favorite sex toy brands, Fun Factory. 

We also answer a sex question: My wife rarely wants to have sex with me, but she masturbates all the time. Should I talk to her about this?

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Aug 06, 2019
#117 A Day in the Life of a FemDom With Dr. Lovejoy and Bratty Nikki
01:09:54

Dr. Lovejoy and Bratty Nikki join us for a fun yet informative episode all about a day in the life of working as a FemDom (female dominant/dominatrix). 

Dr. Lovejoy is an experienced femdom phone sex operator with years in the industry. Bratty Nikki is a very successful online femdom who is also co-owner of iWantClips! They are also co-hosts of the IWantRadio show on siriusxm Ch 415. The hour-long 3 times a week show is devoted to human sexuality, fetish and society’s evolution towards acceptance and celebration of consensual behaviors. Its mission is to celebrate kink and fetish through thoughtful dialogue, education, role playing and coaching. To learn more visit IWantRadio.com and IWantClips.com

We also answer a sex question from a listener with chronic yeast infections and UTI's. 

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Jul 30, 2019
Bonus Episode: The Orgasm Gap With Suzannah Weiss
31:46

What is the orgasm gap? Why does it exist, and what can we do about it both personally and on a larger scale? 

Suzannah Weiss is a freelance sex and relationships writer who currently serves as a regular contributor to Vice, Teen Vogue, Bustle, Glamour, Playboy, New York Magazine, and more. She frequently discusses gender, body image, and social justice on radio shows and podcasts and has spoken at conferences including SXSW. Her feminist essays have been published in several books. She has edited for Broadly, Teen Vogue, and several bestselling authors and ghostwritten for well-known CEOs. Whoopi Goldberg once cited one of her articles on The View in a debate over whether asking for what you want in bed is a feminist act. (She thinks it is.)

Suzannah holds degrees in Gender & Sexuality Studies, Cognitive Neuroscience, and Modern Culture & Media from Brown University (which she uses mainly to overanalyze The Bachelor and argue over semantics). Her background in writing, editing, marketing, and communications ranges from Silicon Valley startups to academic journals. Before starting her freelance career, she served as Assistant Editor for Footnote, a site that translates academic research for mainstream audiences, Editorial Assistant for Differences: A Journal of Feminist Cultural Studies, Content Specialist for the tech startup WibiData, and Research Assistant for Brown’s Humanity-Centered Robotics Institute and Social Cognitive Science Laboratory.

Her writing has also appeared in The Washington Post, The Los Angeles Times, The Village Voice, Cosmopolitan, Elle, Marie Claire, Harper’s Bazaar, Seventeen, Bitch, Bust, Women’s Health, Paper, Paste, Redbook, Good Housekeeping, Mic, Business Insider, Buzzfeed, The Huffington Post, Alternet, Thought Catalog, Pop Sugar, xoJane, MEL, and much more.

To learn more visit: https://suzannahweiss.com/

 

Jul 26, 2019
#116 Pegging, Fisting, and Your Sex Questions With Kristen
01:10:37

Kristen, our dear Sex Educator friend returns to answer your sex questions:

I'm a straight woman who fantasizes and is curious about exploring with other women. How do I go about this?

I have a pregnancy fetish. Is this normal?

How do I support my partner through their past trauma?

And also personal accounts and tips on pegging, fisting and anal play. Get ready...this episode is a juicy one!

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Jul 23, 2019
#115 How to Be An Empowered Submissive With Veronica Yanhs
01:05:15

What does it mean to be submissive? Why do some people like exploring "sub space" and what are some tips on exploring submission without sacrificing one's strength? 

Veronica is a multi-passionate entrepreneur on a mission to strip people bare—of the expectations and limiting beliefs that do not serve them—so they can thrive unapologetically exactly as they are.

From systems to spankings, she emboldens womxn to leverage their pleasure and power in business and the bedroom with Business Laid Bare (systems for creatives and entrepreneurs that scale and save their sanity) and Desires Laid Bare (kink education for beginners in a fun and shame-free way).

She gets all hot and bothered by diligent process, thoughtful protocols, and high-quality service: from the spreadsheets to the bedsheets. To learn more visit https://veronicayanhs.com. Check out her YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/desireslaidbare

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Jul 16, 2019
#114 Handjobs With Ashley Manta
01:03:55

Ashley Manta returns to teach is all about hand jobs AKA hand sex. Learn Ashley's signature position, the "Reclining Diamond". Master the "Pepper Grinder" and "Lower Lip Tease". Use these "Handy Skills" to make hand pleasure the main course!

Ashley Manta has mindfully combined sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual® brand. Her work has been profiled in The Huffington Post, BBC, LA Weekly and featured on VICELAND. She co-founded "International Hand Job” day … yes this is a real holiday that is celebrated around the world. Her work is featured at mainstream, adult and cannabis events and retreats around the world. Learn more at http://www.ashleymanta.com/

 

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Jul 09, 2019
#113 Depression, Anxiety, SSRI's and Sex With Melissa Fritchle, LMFT
01:09:41

We recorded this episode because YOU, our dear sweet listeners, requested that we bring on an expert to speak on this important yet touchy subject. Holistic Therapist Melissa Fritchle returns to chat all about depression, anxiety, ADHD, SSRI's and how they all affect sex and relationships. She also shares some tips and tools on how folks can navigate these often turbulent waters, as well as how partners can support them. 

Melissa Fritchle, LMFT is a Holistic Sex Therapist & award-winning Sex Educator with a private practice in Santa Cruz, CA. She is also a Certified Mindfulness Meditation teacher and is working on a second book, The Body as Guru. She is the author of The Conscious Sexual Self Workbook and writes the pleasure activism blog, Transformational Pleasure. Founder & Director of Trauma-Informed Sex Positive Therapy Training, she promotes inclusive sexual health  around the world. To learn more visit  www.mf-therapy.com

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Jul 02, 2019
#112 The Best Dating Advice You Will Ever Receive With Bawdy Storytelling
01:26:05

Dixie De La Tour is a sexual folklorist, professional storyteller, podcaster, teacher, community builder and most of all, a facilitator. She is also the founder, curator & host of the award-winning and NSFW storytelling series, Bawdy Storytelling (“The Moth for Pervs” - LA Weekly, “The Original Sex and Storytelling series” - Playgirl) that’s been lauded for its transformational, relatable, empowering performances. This live stage series celebrated its 12 year Anniversary earlier this yera, and Bawdy’s groundbreaking podcast has had over 1.5 million downloads, plus it’s been acknowledged as a ‘Best Of’ Sex podcast from GQ Magazine, Marie Claire, Uproxx, Bustle and (twice!) by Esquire Magazine.

In addition to story and public speaking coaching for her own series, Dixie coaches for TEDx, Women in Technology, offers custom Brand Storytelling coaching, teaches Storytelling for the Classroom (she’s taught her Master Classes to high school students, too). Ultimately, this story-loving southerner is passionate about storytelling’s ability to keep people safe, reduce our social anxiety and connect us with strangers. Stories help you find your people! Bawdy Storytelling is available on all of the podcast apps. To learn more visit bawdystorytelling.com

 

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Jun 25, 2019
Bonus Episode: Dating, Orgasms, & Getting Real With Conner Moore
01:23:06

Once a month we are offering an ad-free bonus episode as a gift to our listeners. This episode is with a repeat guest and fellow podcaster and friend Connor Moore of The Realness Podcast. We talk about dating, orgasms, how to show up as our best, most true selves in sex and relationships, and more. Enjoy!

Connor Moore is a Lifestyle Design and Dating Coach. He also leads personal development retreats and is the host of The Realness Podcast - following the motto "Authenticity Over Everything" while delivering unconventional life advice in a way that is somehow both charming and ridiculous. Check out his podcast on all podcast apps or learn more at https://gettherealness.com

Jun 21, 2019
#111 Anal Breathing (and Erotic Breathwork) With M’kali-Hashiki
58:59

What is erotic breathwork? How can it enhance our sexual experiences? And why does it all start with the anus? Tune in to learn about this and more! Recorded live from Sex Geek Summer Camp!

M’kali-Hashiki (em-KAH-lee-HAH-she-kee) is a Renegade Sexual Mystic; a Tour Guide to the realm of Eros; & a Teacher of Somatic Erotic Possibilities. M’kali-Hashiki is also a Certified Sexological Bodyworker; a Certified Sound, Voice, & Music Healer; and a Certified Tantric Sacred Intimate - offering group intensives, individual sessions, instructional videos, ecourses, guided visualizations, blog posts, conversations, and live ritual events. To learn more about M’kali-Hashiki's work visit fiercepassions.com

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Jun 18, 2019
#110 Sexological Bodywork and Returning Back to the Body With River Drosera
01:25:48

Amy has been working with a Sexological Bodyworker as part of her journey in reconnecting with her body and reclaiming her sexuality. In this episode Amy's practitioner joins us to discuss what Sexological Bodywork and Tension and Trauma Release are all about, how scar tissue affects sensation and tips for the remediation process, practices to reconnect to your sensual body, as well as the importance of + how to start up your own self-pleasure practice. 

We also answer a sex question: Is it okay to have more than one friend with benefits?

About River: River is an SSEA Certified Somatic Sex Educator, IASHS Certified Sexological Bodyworker, and a Tension and Trauma Release Exercises® practitioner with a private practice in the San Francisco Bay Area, Ohlone Territory. Their work is dedicated to supporting the re-integration of the erotic body after trauma with scar tissue remediation, body-centered practices, and the discharging of stuck emotions and tension held in the tissues of the body. River creates a non-judgmental and safe space for queer, trans, non-binary folx, and women to explore their boundaries, desires, and pleasure at their own pace.

River is the creator of The Erotic Arts Project, an online and in-person community project that celebrates the creative and erotic body of queer, trans, and non-binary artists and activists. They believe that celebrating our bodies and desires gives us the freedom to lovingly and joyfully meander around the glorious depths of our erotic and creative worlds. Visit The Erotic Arts Project at theeroticartsproject.life And to learn more about River’s offerings visit riverdrosera.life

 

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Jun 11, 2019
#109 Cheating, Affairs and the New Monogamy With Dr. Tammy Nelson
01:11:52

What are the common reasons people stray from their partners? How common is it and how do folks rebuild relationships after infidelity? And what is the "New Monogamy" all about? 

We also answer a sex question: How can I reconnect to myself and learn to relax with my partner after sexual trauma?

Dr. Tammy Nelson PhD is an internationally acclaimed psychotherapist and TEDx speaker and the author of several books including, “Getting the Sex You Want,  “The New Monogamy; and her latest book "When You're the One Who Cheats." 

She has been a featured expert in the NY Times, Washington Post, Wall Street Journal, CNN, Rolling Stone Magazine, TIME, and a source in Time Magazine. She writes for Huffington Post, ThriveGlobal, Medium and has a new podcast, The Trouble with Sex. 

Dr. Tammy is a Board Certified Sexologist, a Certified Sex Therapist and a Certified Relationship Therapist.  She can be found at drtammynelson.com

 

Some other links we talk about: 

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com

Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Learn more about sexological bodywork with River Drosera at riverdrosera.life

Access your free 30-day trial to Open Fit by texting sspodcast to 303030 

 

 

 

Jun 04, 2019
#108 Awesome Anal Sex With Charlie Glickman PhD
01:36:42

Charlie Glickman returns to teach us all about the ins and outs of awesome anal sex!

We also answer a sex question: I feel shame about the fact that I can only climax when I touch myself. How can I change this?

Charlie Glickman PhD is a sex & relationship coach, a sexuality educator, a sexological bodyworker, and an internationally-acclaimed speaker. He’s been working in this field for over 25 years, and some of his areas of focus include sex & shame, sex-positivity, queer issues, masculinity & gender, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual & relationship practices. Charlie is also the co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. Find out more about him on his website MakeSexEasy.com or on Facebook/charlie.glickman

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com

Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Be the first to get Margins Wine's new releases by signing up for their newsletter at marginswine.com

Get 10% off during your first three months at ritual.com/SHAMELESSSEX

 

May 28, 2019
#107 How to Eat Pu$$y like a Champ With Dr. Alison Ash
01:03:35

Dr. Alison Ash returns to teach us about the five tenets of CHAMP quality pu$$y eating. We chat about orgasms, attunement, technique, and more.

We also answer a sex question: How do I get over my jealousy about my partner looking at other women on Instagram?

About our speaker: Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach, sexual empowerment educator, author, and founder of TurnON.love. A champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure, Aly helps her clients experience the kinds of sexual interactions and romantic relationships they long for.    

As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in the Hakomi method of psychotherapy as well as Somatica model of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. 

Aly designs workshops and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. She invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and...love at www.TurnON.love

Some other links we chat about:

Come to our June 29th, 2019 workshop at Diamond Adult World, Grover Beach

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com

Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Drink a glass of delicious natural wine while listening to us by visiting marginswine.com

Learn more about sexological bodywork with River Drosera at riverdrosera.life

 

May 20, 2019
Bonus Episode: Sex For Curvy Folks With Laura Delarato
35:41

Laura Delarato is a writer, video maker, body image activist artist and sex educator based in NYC. Her art and essays have appeared in Travel + Leisure, Refinery29, NBC, BeautyCon, Men’s Health, Huffpost, Allure, Ravishly, Revelist, Salty Mag, The Horizontal, and Le Wand and she has spoken on the topics of body image and wellness at Decoded Future Summit, ProjectHEAL, Body Politic NYC, The Brooklyn Sex Expo, and Fusion Academy. Her work is deeply planted within body politics, fitness, sex education and plus size representation. Follow Laura on Instagram at @heylauraheyyy where she posts about body acceptance, erotic art, and wellness. To learn more visit lauradelarato.com

 

May 18, 2019
#106 Sexless Relationships With Xanet Pailet
49:42

In this episode we chat with author, sex coach and Sexological Bodyworker Xanet Pailet all about sexless marriages and relationships. How common is it (hint - it's more common than you may think)? What are the signs that someone may be heading towards a sexless relationship? Why is this happening? What can partners do to keep the fire burning?

Xanet Pailet, best selling author of the new book, Living an Orgasmic Life, is a recovered NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy educator and coach. She believes that pleasure is our birthright and is passionate about helping folks find their way back into their bodies, their desires, and their pleasure. She works with couples who are in sexless marriages and women and men who have experienced abuse and trauma. She helps them heal their wounds, release their shame, and reconnect with their desire and sexuality. She offers 1:1 coaching and online group programs to empower women around their sexuality and strengthen couples’ relationship and intimacy skills. Learn more at powerofpleasure.com

Some other links we chat about:

Come to our June 29th, 2019 workshop at Diamond Adult World, Grover Beach

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com

Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Drink a glass of delicious natural wine while listening to us by visiting marginswine.com

Learn more about sexological bodywork with River Drosera at riverdrosera.life

 

 

May 14, 2019
#105 Threesomes With Reid Mihalko
01:29:03

In this episode we chat with Sex Educator Reid Mihalko all about threesomes! How do we negotiate threesomes with potential (and current) partners? Where do we find a third? What about safety and consent? And how do we make threesomes playful and fun?

We also answer a sex question: How to navigate a date night visit to a sex shop without feeling awkward.


About Reid: Sex and relationship geek Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information.

In early 2018, some very brave people came forward sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid’s projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes.

Reid teaches internationally, running workshops and speaking on communication skills, alternative relationship styles, and shame-free sexuality. Whether online, on stage, or at a college or university, Reid shares skills and concepts designed to help everyone be the change they want to see in the bedroom.

Reid’s workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 50,000 people from all over the globe. He has appeared in media such as Netflix’ Chelsea Does... with Chelsea Handler, Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Dr. Phil's The Doctors on CBS, Bravo's Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages

Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts.

Follow Reid on Twitter and Facebook and YouTube and Instagram.

 

Some other resources we mention:

Start meditating now with this easy-to-use app + get 25% off of a Calm premium subscription by visiting calm.com/shamelesssex

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com

Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Drink a glass of delicious natural wine while listening to us by visiting marginswine.com

May 05, 2019
Bonus Sneak Peak - Zane's Purple Panties
05:01

Here’s a sneak peak into a new podcast for you: Purple Panties is an erotic fiction story created by New York Times best-selling author Zane. On the outside Maddox, Loren and Stephanie go against the grain when it comes to sex. But as relationships shift and physical needs change, can they keep up with the facade? Follow them on their journey as they navigate their professional and personal lives. The sun isn’t the only thing hot in Atlanta…

Purple Panties is now free in your podcast app. Check it out or visit purplepantiespodcast.com

May 03, 2019
#104 The Satisfied Mama With Dana B. Myers
01:17:31

How can mamas reclaim their sensuality after kids? How can busy mamas (or all people) invite pleasure into their daily lives - in and out of the bedroom? And how can couples reignite the fire in long-term relationships? 

Also, guess who's now single? Tune in to learn more!

About our guest: Dana B. Myers is an award-winning product developer, entrepreneur, author, and media personality. 

As Founder of Booty Parlor, Dana has changed the lives of thousands of women by inspiring them to boost their sensual self-confidence and create sexier, more satisfying relationships.

Known for her frank yet empowering style, Dana helps her clients reclaim the power of their sensuality and sexual satisfaction through her coaching practice and live workshops. Her advice, and Booty Parlor’s products, have been featured by Marie ClaireWomen’s HealthParentsRedbookNylonAllure, and the Wall Street Journal. Dana has appeared on ABC NightlineGood Morning AmericaAccess Hollywood LiveThe Wendy Williams Show, and more.

Her most recent book, The Mommy Mojo Makeover: 28 Tools to Rediscover Yourself and Reignite Your Relationship, was published in 2018 by VivaEditions. To learn more visit https://danabmyers.com/

Some other links mentioned in the podcast:

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com

Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 20% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESS20 at blue boutique.com 

Drink a glass of delicious natural wine while listening to us by visiting marginswine.com

Get 10% off during your first three months at ritual.com/SHAMELESSSEX

Apr 30, 2019
#103 Sex, Disability and Disabled People Are Hot With Andrew Gurza
01:12:02

In this episode we have a playful yet informative with Disability Awareness Consultant, Cripple Content Creator and host go the Disability After Dark Podcast, Andrew Gurza. Why do people have so much fear when it comes to talking about disability (and sex)? What should listeners should know about sex and disability? What about the fun and the vulnerability around sex and disability? 

We also answer the sex question: My wife loves her vibrator but rarely uses it without me. Should I encourage her? Is she missing out on something? 

About Andrew: Andrew Gurza is a Disability Awareness Consultant and Cripple Content Creator whose written work has been featured in Men's Health, Daily Xtra, Gay Times UK, Huffington Post, The Advocate, Everyday Feminism, Mashable, and Out.com, and several anthologies.  He has guested on a number of podcasts including Dan Savage’s Savage Love and Cameron Esposito’s Queery. He has spoken all over North America on sex, disability and what it means to be a Queer Cripple. He is also the host of the DisabilityAfterDark: The Podcast Shining a Bright Light on Sex and Disability available on all podcast platforms. You can follow the podcast @disaftdarkpod.  He is also the creator of the viral hashtag #DisabledPeopleAreHot. You can find out more about Andrew by going to www.andrewgurza.com & connecting with him on Twitter @andrewgurza.  

Some other links mentioned in the podcast:

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com

Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 20% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESS20 at blue boutique.com 

Drink a glass of delicious natural wine while listening to us by visiting marginswine.com

Feel good inside and out (on your own time!) + get a 30 day free trial with OpenFit by texting sspodcast to 303030

 

 

 

Apr 23, 2019
#102 Awakening the Yoni: Vulva Mapping With Sexological Bodyworker Dolly Josette
01:10:49

What is vulva mapping and Sexological Bodywork? How can a vulva mapping session help a vulva-owner to awaken sensation and expand orgasmic potential? How does this apply to lovers/partners? Our special guest, Dolly Josette, answers this and much much more (believe us...you are probably going to want to learn all about how to get your own genital mapping session after listening to this episode). 

And guess what? Dolly is offering a FREE SESSION to one of the winners of our upcoming Instagram campaign for Masturbation May. Be sure to follow us on Insta to learn more. 

Dolly is also the lead organizer for the upcoming Sexological Bodyworker training in LA. To learn more visit SexbodLA.com 

Oh, and if you are in the Santa Cruz, CA, are Dolly is teaching a workshop at Pure Pleasure Shop on May 15th, 2019!

More about Dolly: Dolly Josette is a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Sex Educator, & Relationship and Intimacy Coach, committed to seeing her clients relish in love, intimacy and perpetual fireworks.  Her specialties are connection, acceptance, and relaxing her clients' nervous systems so they can begin to unwind layers of shame, routine, pain, or numbness.  Dolly teaches embodiment and attunement in a nurturing and playful approach that helps her clients prioritize pleasure and expression through self-acceptance, positive body image, movement, breath, and touch. Checkout Dolly in May 2019’s issue of cosmo. Learn more at pleasuremuse.com

Some other links mentioned in the podcast:

Start meditating now with this easy-to-use app + get 25% off of a Calm premium subscription by visiting calm.com/shamelesssex

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com

Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 20% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESS20 at blue boutique.com 

Drink a glass of delicious natural wine while listening to us by visiting marginswine.com

Apr 16, 2019
#101 How to Have Deep Connection and Juicy Sex! - With Dr. Nicola Amadora
01:31:24

This episode features Amy’s beloved therapist, teacher, guide and mentor, Dr. Nicola Amadora. We talk all about relationship – with the self and with others – and tools for deeper, more profound connection. Nicola teaches us how to break through our protective walls as a means of tapping into more LOVE and ALIVENESS, including “getting naked without taking our cloths off”. And we talk about how it all translates to juicy sex ;)

We also answer the sex question: My partner put on weight and I’m not very attracted to him these days. How can I improve my feelings for him?

Dr. Nicola Amadora is an accomplished leader, therapist, speaker, writer and spiritual teacher. Her passion and gift is to support people to live, lead and relate with presence, connection and wholeheartedness in the world. For 30 years she has worked both in Europe and the USA with organizations, communities, groups, families, couples and individuals. In all her work, Dr. Amadora offers a rich banquet of life experience, high-level professional expertise, a deep well of wisdom and great heart to contribute to positive change in people and our world. Nicola is known for her integrity with a fierce, tender love for all beings.

Nicola Amadora, Ph.D. holds University degrees in Transpersonal Psychology (JFK and IPS) and Clinical Social Work (FHS). She is a certified Hakomi Therapist (Hakomi Institute) , certified Dharma Leader (Vipassana Center, Spirit Rock), Mindfulness Teacher (Mindfulness Program Jon Kabat Zinn), Certified Meditation Teacher (Yogananda Center), , Universal Peacedance Leader (Sufi Order), Diplom Horseriding Therapist (Swize Equine Therapy Center), Rev. Interfaith Minister (New York Seminary), Mediator (JFK University), Parent Leader (Parentleadership Institute), Non Violent Communication& Conflict Resolution (NVC Center), Women Wisdom& Empowerment, Leadership and Relationship Trainer (International Education). To learn more visit nicolaamadora.com

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com

Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 20% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESS20 at blue boutique.com 

Drink a glass of delicious natural wine while listening to us by visiting marginswine.com

To learn more about the American Sex Podcast visit sunnymegatron.com

 

 

Apr 09, 2019
#100 How to Find Your Kink
01:11:00

What is kink and how do I know if I'm kinky? How do I start to explore my kink, and how do I talk about it with my partner?  

We also answer a sex question: I'm a healthy 42 year old man, married to my beautiful queen, and I have a hard time getting/keeping an erection. Please help.

About our guest: Mike Rozycki has been active in his local kink communities since 2005. In 2018, he and his business partner started JoyMill, a company dedicated to customized kink gear. You can sign up for their mailing list and try their beta experience at www.joymill.com. Be sure to sign up for the mailing list to get first access to discounts, new products, etc.

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com

Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Drink a glass of delicious natural wine while listening to us by visiting marginswine.com

 

 

Apr 02, 2019
#99 The Buried Pleasure of the Female Body With Sheri Winston
01:11:58

In this episode we dive deep into female sexual arousal with award-winning author, Wholistic Sexuality teacher and medical professional, Sheri Winston. Why have women’s body parts gone missing in history?   How does female ejaculation happen on a cellular level? What are some tips for female-bodied folks who want to experience more orgasmic abundance? What about partners who want to up their pleasure skills?

We also answer part 2 to last week's sex question about a cis-man with no/very low libido. 

About Sheri: Sheri Winston is a celebrated sexuality teacher, award-winning author and medical professional. Sheri’s 2010 book, Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure (also available on audible) won the 2010 Book of the Year award from AASECT. Sheri’s 2014 book, the visionary yet practical Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice, offers a detailed road map to supercharging your erotic life and becoming sexually whole and empowered. With its wealth of ideas, practices and games, readers are able to access extraordinary pleasure, overcome challenges and learn to play masterfully with their inner ‘sexcraft’ toolkit. Sheri’s Wholistic Sexuality™ curriculum has over 50 classes covering subjects such as orgasmic abundance for men and women, integral genital anatomy, expanded arousal, sex and relationship skills,  and holistic sexual and women’s reproductive health. Learn more at intimateartscenter.com 

Start meditating now with this easy-to-use app + get 25% off of a Calm premium subscription by visiting calm.com/shamelesssex

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com

Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Drink a glass of delicious natural wine while listening to us by visiting marginswine.com

Mar 26, 2019
#98 The Science of Sexual Fantasy With Dr. Justin Lehmiller
01:02:24

What are the most common fantasies people have? Where do they come from? Why do we have them? And how do I talk to my partner about my fantasies? How can we bring fantasy into real life? 

Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher and scholar who has published more than 40 pieces of academic writing to date, including a textbook entitled The Psychology of Human Sexuality that is used in college classrooms around the world. Dr. Lehmiller has run the popular blog Sex and Psychology since 2011 and he has published articles in numerous media outlets, including Playboy, USA Today, VICE, Politico, and New York Magazine. To learn more visit sexandpsychology.com

We also answer a sex question: I’m a straight man engaged to a beautiful woman, but I never crave sex.

For some of our favorite sexy products:

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com

Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Drink a glass of delicious natural wine while listening to us by visiting marginswine.com

 

We are a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts network

 

 

Mar 19, 2019
#97 Role-Play and How to be Dominant in the Bedroom With Midori
01:12:18

What do I do if my partner asks me to do role-play and I'm uncomfortable with being in the spotlight? How does one learn how to do authentic yet sexy role-play? And what about dominance? Can I learn how to tap into my most confident, dominant self (even when I don't feel it in everyday life)?

Join us for this playful yet informative episode with world renown sex educator, Midori. We talk about role-play, dominance, outing the awkward, confidence, making negotiation sexy, and more! 

We also answer a sex question: I feel like I'm the one who is always initiating sex. How do I get my partner to initiate more often? 

About Midori: Dan Savage calls Midori “The Supernova of Kink!” She is an artistic visionary who has touched lives across the globe with her expertise in sexuality, personal fulfillment, and kinky adventures. Using her “head-heart-hands” methodology she facilitates tackling challenging topics and creating space where people are allowed individual self-exploration. Her passion is fully on display in her transformative small group intensives, including Rope Dojo ®, ForteFemme: Women’s Dominance Weekend Intensive, and The Wanted Man intensive with Marcia Baczynski. For more information on her upcoming classes and events, please visit: http://www.FHP-Inc.com/classes

For some of our favorite sexy products:

Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com

Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless

Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Drink a glass of delicious natural wine while listening to us by visiting marginswine.com

 

 

 

Mar 12, 2019
#96 Sex, Relationships and Chronic Illness (and Pain) With Dr. Lee Phillips
01:05:33

In this episode we chat with Dr. Lee Phillips about chronic illness and chronic pain and how they affect sex and relationships. Dr. Phillips shares tools such as sensate focus, as well as ways partners can support their loved ones with chronic illness. 

We also answer a sex question: Great sex during an affair...should I leave my husband? 

About our guest: Dr. Melvin L. Phillips, Jr., is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with a private practice in Washington, DC where he treats chronic illness and sexual dysfunction, as well as the author of the upcoming book Sex and Love When You Are Sick, due to release in late 2019. He is a speaker and has lectured on topics including preventative services, anxiety and stress management, caregiving stress, depression in the elderly, mindfulness and cognitive strategies for chronic pain, ethical decision making, and the assessment of mental disorders. To learn more visit www.drleephillips.com

Mar 05, 2019
#95 Come As You Are Because YES You Are Normal
01:16:41

We are SO excited about this episode. Emily Nagoski AKA one of our idols and author of the groundbreaking book Come As You Are joins us to talk all about female sexuality. We talk vulvas, clits, g-spots, orgasm, and all about how WE ARE ALL "normal”! 

We also answer a sex question from a female-identified listener: Are the homosexual thoughts just in my head or should I leave my heterosexual relationship?

About Emily: Emily Nagoski, Ph.D is the award-winning  author of the New York Times bestseller, Come As You Are: the surprising new science that will transform your sex life and The Come As You Are Workbook, and co-author, with her sister Amelia, of Burnout: the secret to unlocking the stress cycle. She began her work as a sex educator at the University of Delaware, where volunteered as a peer sex educator while studying psychology with minors in cognitive science and philosophy. She went on to earn a M.S. in Counseling and a Ph.D. in Health Behavior, both from Indiana University, with clinical and research training at the Kinsey Institute. Now she combines sex education and stress education to teach women to live with confidence and joy inside their bodies.

Feb 26, 2019
#94 The Invisible Orientation - A Brief Chat on Asexuality
40:05

We have received a number of emails about asexuality, so we wanted to take a moment to speak on what is often considered “the invisible orientation”. In this episode we talk about the asexual spectrum, including aromatic and demisexuality. We answer a few questions including whether or not asexuality is real (it MOST CERTAINLY is), the difference between asexuality and low sexual desire, and more. Please note that we are not experts in this department, and we would LOVE to host someone who is, so please send them our way!

Feb 19, 2019
#93 Great Sex, Worthiness & Quality vs. Quantity With Amy's Partner
01:37:06

Amy's partner joins us on this week's episode as we discuss everything from how to have great sex after 5+ years, our opinion on quality vs. quantity (sex), working with worthiness issues, and communication how-to's. Enjoy!

Feb 12, 2019
Special Announcement: Join the Shameless Sex Revolution!
11:10

Special announcement about our myth and shame busting campaign on Instagram!

We are running a V-day contest + female sexuality myth and shame busting campaign - inspired by Wednesday Martin 's groundbreaking book UNTRUE: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Adultery is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free. Are you ready to join the Shameless Sex Revolution? 
 
Prizes include complete access to our online Wild Woman Sex workshop, a copy of Untrue by Wednesday Martin, and a GRAND PRIZE of all of the above + a Rabbit Vibrator + full access to OMGyes + bottle of Uberlube + a Solo by Hot Octopus + a 12 Sexy Days kit by Bijoux Indiscrets - a total value of over $1000!
 
How to enter: 1. Take a selfie like the one above, 2. Either post it on your own Instagram profile with a caption similar to April's vulnerable share at the end of this post (describing this part of you, what it teaches/inspires in you, etc) + tag @shamelesssex in the post, OR send it to us and we will post it on our Instagram while keeping your name/info completely anonymous (we promise!), 3. You will be entered into the raffle! Note: To keep it uniform, please write in black sharpie on white letterhead paper. 
 
Ideas for what to post should it truly speak to you (but feel free to create your own): 
 
I’d rather be in the workplace than at home with the baby
 
I love (and am attracted to) my (husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend/partner) but I don’t (crave/desire) sex with them
 
I had an affair 

I'm married/in a committed relationship and I fantasize about other men/women 

I have a high libido 

I'm in a relationship (with a man/woman/insert other here) and I also love (desire/crave) sex with women (other men/people)

I choose non-monogamy...and I love it (or Monogamy is not for me)
 
I like having sex outside of my marriage/partnership
 
Feeling desired by other (men/women/people) > The same arousing touch from my (husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend/partner) 
 
I am a woman and I'm not interested in marriage and/or having children 
 
Join us as we break down the myths and out the diversity of female sexuality!
Feb 09, 2019
#92 Sex and Disabilities
46:39

It's myth-busting time! Most folks with disabilities are also sexual beings with arousal and desire, and yet are often treated as asexual and/or invisible in society. Join us as we chat with Lindsey, a body-worker who shares her personal journey with sex and disabilities with lovers, as well as in a professional setting. Plus plenty of info on erectile issues, playing with soft cocks, and more!

Jan 20, 2019
#91 Multiple Orgasms, Ejaculatory Control & Slowing Down With Aaron Alexander
01:34:24

Aaron Alexander of the Align Podcast sits down with Amy to discuss everything from male multiple orgasms, ejaculatory control, childhood wounding, good vs. so-so therapy, tricks for slowing down, and more. 

Aaron Alexander CR, LMT, CPT is an accomplished manual therapist and movement coach with over 13 years of professional experience. He is the founder of the Align Method™, an integrated approach to functional movement and self-care that has helped thousands of people out of pain and into health. He hosts the top-rated Align Podcast featuring the biggest names in movement and wellness. Aaron’s clients include Hollywood celebrities, Olympic/professional athletes and everyone in between. He teaches workshops and speaks at events all over the world. Check out Aaron's offerings at https://alignpodcast.com

For the astrology Amy spoke of, visit www.empoweryourelements.com

Jan 20, 2019
#90 Birth Control and Your Libido With Fertility Friday
50:47

The research is in: Hormonal birth control can have a significant affect on your libido. And guess what? There are other SCIENCE-PROVEN non-hormonal options (other than the IUD) out there - whether you are wanting birth control or trying to get pregnant! Tune in to learn more. 

Lisa Hendrickson-Jack is a certified Fertility Awareness Educator and Holistic Reproductive Health Practitioner who teaches women to chart their menstrual cycles for natural birth control, conception, and monitoring overall health. In her new book The Fifth Vital Sign, Lisa debunks the myth that regular ovulation is only important when you want children by recognizing the menstrual cycle as a vital sign. Drawing heavily from the current scientific literature, Lisa presents an evidence-based approach to fertility awareness and menstrual cycle optimization. She hosts the Fertility Friday Podcast, a weekly radio show devoted to helping women connect to their fifth vital sign by uncovering the connection between menstrual cycle health, fertility, and overall health. Learn more at http://fertilityfriday.com

Jan 19, 2019
#89 Sex Toys, Breakups and Porn With Dr. Emily Morse (Sex With Emily)
01:01:08

Join us as we chat with our dear friend Emily about our top sex toy recommendations and how-to's, as well as porn (is addiction real?), and how to navigate breakups and ex's. This episode is extra special as Emily was the original inspiration for creating our own show! Check out our first episode on Sex With Emily called Orgasms, Squirting, and The Year of Anal Licking here

More about Emily: Dr. Emily Morse is the creator and host of one the top podcasts called Sex With Emily. With a Doctorate if Human Sexuality she has also co-hosted the famed Loveline Radio Show with Dr. Drew Pinsky, and starred in the Bravo TV series, Miss Advised. She’s been named as one of Esquire’s & Stylecaster’s top sex & love podcasters, and voted the #1 dating & sex expert to follow on Twitter. She is an author, masthead contributor to Cosmopolitan Magazine, and creator of her own mobile apps.

 

Now the longest running sex and relationship podcast, Sex with Emily is downloaded nearly one million times each month and continues to sit at the top of most major charts.  The show is available on multiple platforms including iTunes, iHeartRadio, Spotify, Soundcloud and many more.

Starting November, 2018, Sex with Emily can also be heard Monday-Friday on SiriusXM Stars Channel 109, 8pm-10pm Eastern, 5pm-7pm Pacific. As the ONLY nationally-available sex and relationship advice show on broadcast radio, Sex with Emily is now delivering Emily’s judgment-free insights to millions of listeners across North America. To listen free, Click Here.  

Toy recommendations from the show

Magic Wand

We-Vibe Touch

Womanizer 

Hot Octopus

Aneros

Horoscope

OMGyes

 

Jan 15, 2019
#88 Beyond Monogamy With Jamie Joy
01:20:59

In an open relationship and want to learn tools to navigate the (sometimes treacherous) waters? Practicing monogamy yet interested in opening things up? And what's the difference between polyamory, monoga-mish, swinging, etc? Tune in as we chat with Jamie Joy, sex educator and non-monogamy expert on all things Beyond Monogamy. 

MONOGAMOUS FOLKS - This episode is for you as well. Most of these tools apply to ALL relationships, so be sure to check it out. 

Jan 08, 2019
#87 Mommy and Daddy Issues
41:12

Aloha! This episode was recorded from beautiful Kauai where Amy and April celebrated two of the most important women in the world..their mamas! The duo share shame, daddy issues, New Years resolutions, and more. Enjoy!

Jan 02, 2019
#86 Reclaiming and Reigniting Your Sexual Fire With Ev'Yan Whitney
46:00

Ev’Yan Whitney is a sex educator, sex activist, and sexuality doula who helps facilitate, educate, and hold space for women and femme-identifying folks who want to step out of sexual shame and into erotic empowerment. She's the host of The Sexually Liberated Woman podcast and the creator of the wildly successful Sensual Selfie Challenge on Instagram. You can find out more about Ev'Yan's work at sexloveliberation.com and see her brazenly showing off her sexuality on Instagram @evyan.whitney

 

Dec 26, 2018
Bonus Episode: Sex and Pelvic Floor Health After Pregnancy With Dr. Sara Tanza
19:15

In this quickie episode we interview Dr. Sara Tanza, Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist (see episode #31 from previous interview) about sex after pregnancy and some of the common issues women run into - even years after giving birth. 

To learn more about Dr. Tanza visit https://pelvicpotential.com

In or near the Santa Cruz area? Come to her workshop (co-facilliatated by our very own Amy Baldwin) on January 8th, 2019. To sign up visit the Pure Pleasure Shop Website

 

Dec 20, 2018
#85 An Insider Look Into the Life of a Humiliatrix
51:27

Ceara Lynch has a ten+ year career as a self-described humiliatrix, catering to a wide variety of sexual fetishes over the internet, and gaining exposure to a unique part of the human psyche. Visit her website at https://www.cearalynch.com, as well as her podcast at https://standardpodcast.com to learn more. 

Dec 18, 2018
#84 What Men Wished You Knew About Oral Sex
01:13:02

Episode #64 titled What Women Wished You Knew About Oral Sex was one of our top episodes. So naturally we decided to bring back Shaun from the Love Drive Podcast to discuss What Men Wished You Knew About Oral Sex :)

Shaun is a writer and host of The Love Drive, a playful and honest podcast that looks into the broad and captivating world of modern sexuality and intimacy. He brings humor and depth to the often awkward, scary topics of the heart and the loins. This podcast is unabashedly sex-positive, bright, and alive. To learn more visit thelovedrive.com

We also answer this sex question: How can we both relax and not feel this intense pressure for him to get hard? Should we get drunk or something? I can't help but feel unwanted and unattractive :( And I'm sincerely bored of all the foreplay and I don't reallly want to do it anymore. 

 

Dec 11, 2018
#83 How to Be an Intuitive Lover With Dr. Alison Ash
01:00:21

There is no manual for navigating intimate experiences and too often doubt and confusion limit our capacity to feel pleasure. Do you ever wish you could deepen your intuition when it comes to knowing how to please your lover(s)? Learn how to access your intuition so you can be a more attuned and skilled lover while increasing your own capacity for pleasure! 

Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and sexual empowerment educator who has been exploring the intricacies of sex and gender for more than a decade. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. A champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure, Aly helps her clients radically explore and courageously express themselves.  Aly designs workshops and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. TurnON pleasure, intimacy and...love at www.TurnON.Love

Dec 04, 2018
#82 The Truth About Women, Lust, and Adultery With Wednesday Martin, Ph.D
01:13:03

Wednesday Martin's newest work of non-fiction, UNTRUE: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Adultery is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free cuts through the junk science and regressive cultural narratives that have shaped our beliefs about female infidelity for centuries, revealing a truth both liberating and disconcerting: women are no more “naturally monogamous” than men; nor are their libidos shrinking violets. Far from it.

Offering insights from thirty experts as well as real women from all walks of life who refuse monogamy, UNTRUE also analyzes cultural shifts from plow agriculture to polyamory; introduces readers to two important "hidden figures" of American sex research; and takes readers on an immersive, fascinating journey—from the bonobo enclosure at the San Diego Zoo to an exclusive all-female sex party in Manhattan where most of the revelers identify as heterosexual. UNTRUE asserts that monogamy is a tighter fit for the fairer sex; that females of many species evolved to be “promiscuous”; and that female sexual autonomy may be the most meaningful metric of gender equality. Rich with game-changing data and polemical writing, it promises to take us far out of our comfort zone, and may change the way you think about women and sex forever.

Wednesday Martin, Ph.D is a writer and feminist cultural critic. She is the author of seven books including instant #1 New York Times bestseller Primates of Park Avenue and UNTRUE: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Adultery is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free. She has written for publications including New York Times, The Atlantic, and the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy. She has appeared on Good Morning America, The Today Show, CNN, the BBC, NPR, and more to discuss her work on gender, motherhood, female sexuality, and popular culture. To learn more visit wednesdaymartin.com

Nov 27, 2018
#81 Orgasms - How to Come Better, Harder and Longer With Susan Bratton
01:15:49

In this episode we dive deep into the the world of orgasms with Susan Bratton, “trusted hot sex advisor to millions”. Topics include top tips for better orgasms, hot sex in long term relationships, as well as Susan’s 14-year Expanded Orgasm/Orgasmic Meditation Practice.

We also answer a sex question: I’m 23, sexually active, and never had an orgasm.

Susan Bratton is a champion and advocate for all who desire passionate relationships. Considered the “Dear Abby of Sex,” Susan’s fresh approach and original ideas have helped millions of people of all ages and across the gender spectrum transform sex into passion. Susan has been featured in The New York Times and on CNBC and the TODAY show as well as appearing on ABC, CBS, The CW, Fox, and on NBC as the “Marriage Magician.” She has authored 20 books including her International #1 Amazon best-seller, Sexual Soulmates: The 6 Essentials for Connected Sex, and she has created and published numerous online courses including her wildly popular Revive Her Drive and Steamy Sex Ed® DVD Collection, as well as programs such as: Seduction Trilogy, Expand Her Orgasm Tonight, The Multi-Orgasmic Lover for Men, Female Liquid Orgasm, and Keep Her Coming. To learn more visit http://susanbratton.com

 

 

Nov 20, 2018
#80 G-Spots, Squirting, and Vulva Mapping With Stella Harris
58:49

In this episode Amy chats with sex educator, coach and author Stella Harris about the G-spot, female ejaculation AKA squirting, and vulva mapping.

Stella Harris is changing the way people experience their sex lives. As a certified intimacy educator and sex coach, she gives her students the tools and confidence to explore their sexuality safely and free of shame. A national and international speaker, Stella teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella writes a weekly sex advice column for Portland's Willamette Week newspaper, and her erotic fiction has appeared in more than a dozen anthologies. Check out her latest book, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, as well as her website at stellaharris.net

References:

OmgYes.com/shameless - $5 off

Bijoux Indiscrets Horoscope line - Use code SHAMELESS for 15% off

 

Nov 13, 2018
#79 The Power of the Pole Dance With Ellice Apostolos
56:45

Ellice Apostolos - owner of Santa Cruz's premier pole dancing studio, Steel and Grace - is back to talk about the art of the erotic dance, and how we can apply it to sexy time with our lovers. This interview was recorded immediately after April and Amy took an advanced S-Factor class, so not only are they all charged up from the sensual practice, but they also get testimonials from a few participants, including Badass Boss Mentor Meghan (see info below). 

About Ellice: 

Ellice Apostolos empowers every woman to connect to her body's innate wisdom and pleasure so she can move through the world in​ her​ fully expressed radiance. As a certified​ S Factor instructor, Ellice offers deeply transformative trainings where what begins as a personal erotic movement practice within the studio walls can become a sustainable practice that enriches every area of life. Ellice also guides women entrepreneurs to build the life of their desires through her online programs. She empowers them to put deep self-care and pleasure at the heart of their work so they can lead with their feminine genius, avoiding overwhelm and experience the success of a lasting and sustainable business. 

Ellice holds a degree in Theatre and Dance with an emphasis on performing arts from UC Santa Cruz. With an extensive background in dance and choreography Ellice has been performing for close to twenty year in the Santa Cruz area. She has choreographed and directed original pieces for Santa Cruz's annual What is Erotic? the past three years. This community sourced performance provides locals with or without a performance background a mentorship opportunity for discovering what is erotic to them and honing their performance skills to share their message with the community. One of Ellice's greatest delights is to support others to discover how they want to tell their story through their body, whether they want to perfect that for the stage or develop a personal practice for authentic expression. With years of exploration in the area of somatic healing and authentic expression she is excited to be specializing in the area of sensual movement for women now. In her S Factor classes, Ellice invites every woman to drop into her body's truth, eradicating shame and self judgement so she can unearth her pleasure, confidence and full emotional expression through dance. As a Board certified Holistic Nutrition Consultant Ellice adds a layer of body love and self-care through private and group nutrition education, guiding women to have a healthy thriving body so they can show up fully for all areas of their life.

As owner of Steel and Grace, Ellice offers a wide variety of weekly S Factor classes suitable for women with or without dance experience. Whether you want to pole dance, learn a fun wall routine, discover your flow with floor work, unearth your sexy, learn a lap dance or add a strip tease to your play, Ellice is excited to dance with you! Learn more at steelandgracepole.com

To learn about Meghan, visit www.meghanneeley.com

 

 

Nov 06, 2018
#78 Healing Sex and Positions of Power
53:05

In this episode April and Amy expose some of their own shame and sex/relationship struggles, followed by a discussion about consent and the dangers of positions of power - specifically in the Tantra community. 

Oct 30, 2018
#77 Fetish, Kink, and Porn with Educator and Performer Rain DeGrey
01:09:32

Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster, and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes, focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education, since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model and Pro Domme, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear and humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style and she believes strongly in making sex education fun.

She has taught on a wide variety of topics at Harvard University, Northwestern University, Kink.com, The Citadel, Dark Odyssey, Pure Pleasure, Stormy Leather, Folsom Fringe, The Looking Glass, KinkAcadamy, PassionateU, Mission Control, Pink Bunny, and Boundcon in Germany.

Her work has been featured in such places as Playboy TV’s “69 sexiest things to do before you die”, Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, The SF Fetish Ball, Exotic Erotic, Rope::Burn, Kink-e-zine and Femina Potens. In 2017 she was named the dirtiest mouth in San Francisco upon winning the Dirty Talk Game Show at Dark Odyssey.

Rain DeGrey spends her time teaching classes, writing articles, her online advice column, producing podcasts, and providing one on one coaching to select clients.

For information on the classes she teaches click HERE, or CONTACT HER for information about any of her services. For Rain's online Intermediate Rope Bondage Class click here

Oct 23, 2018
#76 Great Sex and Relationships After Trauma With Terah Harrison, LPC
01:16:28

In this touching episode Terah Harrison, LPC, shares her trauma story for the first time on air, alongside tips and tools for finding great sex and deep connection in the aftermath. Thank you, Terah, for speaking up and sharing your vulnerability with us.

Also, we answer a sex question about pegging (when a female-bodied individual tops/penetrates a male-bodied individual via a strap-on).

About Terah: Terah Harrison is a Licensed Professional Counselor and hosts the podcast Make More Love Not War which has a clear mission of helping people have more sex and less fighting.  She discovered the need for her podcast as she saw male clients at her private practice in Fort Worth Texas, who were struggling to understand their female partners.  Most of these men were striving to be better partners but their strategies to achieve this only made things worse.  Many times a simple change would improve their relationships dramatically.   

With this amazing information that would benefit men and the women they love in hand Terah wanted to reach more men but how without bending space time?  In her personal life she wanted her husband, Jeff, to go to couples therapy but alas, he would not. If a therapist’s husband won’t go to therapy how many other men are missing out on the knowledge that would get them more sex?  She noticed Jeff listening to podcasts every day and talking about what he learned from them.   The solution hit her like a bolt of lightning – create a podcast that will bring therapy to the men who for whatever reason don’t go.

Since Terah started the podcast she has been able to interview some amazing experts in love and relationships- authors, professors, therapists, and coaches.  She has also created a series that gives men a back stage pass into a woman’s mind called Whine With Wine and another series that highlights power couples as well as couples in conflict.

Terah’s podcast may be directed towards men but her EVIL Plan is really to help women have more connected relationships with men where they feel heard and understood in a way that leads to MORE SEX and LESS FIGHTING for all!!! To learn more visit www.makemorelovenotwar.com

Oct 16, 2018
#75 Sex Questions: Oral Sex, Golden Showers, Clit Pumps, and More!
01:11:16

In this episode we answer YOUR sex questions alongside friend and guest Kristen from the high-end German sex toy company Fun Factory. 

Why are some peoples turned on by golden showers? 

What's the deal with clit pumps?

Is oral sex legit without swallowing? 

How do I slow down during sex?

Why do I feel empty after sleeping with a lot of people?

How do I navigate (conversations about) period sex?

References: 

Our online video series

Fun Cups mentraul cups

Miss Bi by Fun Factory

OMGyes.com/shameless

Lube special at Pure Pleasure: use code OCTLUBE18 for 20% off*

Oct 09, 2018
#74 Interview With A Straight Male Escort
01:01:53

Join is for this fun interview with a high-end straight male escort. What is the difference between an escort and a Gigolo? Is Gigolo still PC? What does a day in the life of a high-end escort look like? How does one become a Gigolo? 

About our guest: Anthony Asanti is a Washington, DC-based Straight Male Escort providing warm, sensual & professional companionship full-time to women only. A Sensual Warrior who's the world's first and only Straight Male Companion catering exclusively to women certified in Bondassage and providing it exclusively to women. To learn more visit http://anthonyasanti.com

Also be be sure to check out:

Our online Erotic Empowerment video serieshttps://www.shamelesssex.com/shop/erotic-empowerment-online-series-pre-sale

Sex Ed For Parents:  https://www.purepleasureshop.com/collections/sex-ed-classes/products/10-24-18-lets-talk-about-sex-a-workshop-for-parents

OMGyes.com: https://www.omgyes.com/shameless

Pure Pleasure (use code SHAMELESSPP for 15% off all sex toys): https://www.purepleasureshop.com

Margins Wine (our FAV raw wine!): https://www.marginswine.com

 

 

Oct 02, 2018
#73 Slutty Girl Problems at the Sex Expo
32:57

Recorded on stage during Brooklyn's Sex Expo, we chat with Lorrae from Slutty Girl Problems. We apologize if it sounds like we were yelling; we were right next to the Sybian sex machine, so it was a bit loud :)

Slutty Girl Problems is for the self-identified women who embrace this empowered lifestyle. They offer a sex-positive, feminist, judgement-free zone with daily content to entertain, educate, and empower women around in all aspects of their lives.

What is a slut, you might ask? A slut is empowered in her sexuality. She is confident, in control, and doesn’t let anyone define her or her sexuality. She defines herself, and makes choices that are right for her.

Many people use the term “slut” to break women down and shame them for their natural sexuality. The folks at Slutty Girl Problems boldly reclaim this derogatory word as an empowering, sex-positive term – free from society’s shame and judgement.

Being a slut isn’t about sleeping with everyone, or anyone at all. It’s about having the choice to express your sexuality however you want to, and being empowered to act on it if you choose.

Slutty Girl Problems believes that all safe, sane, consensual sexual choices should be not only respected, but celebrated as a natural, pleasurable part of life. There is nothing wrong with having sex. Your pleasure is important, and sexuality does not determine your morality or worth.

 

Sep 25, 2018
Bonus Episode - The Pioneers of Sex Toys on Live TV
18:11

Join us for a quickie interview with Kimberly from Evine - a live home shopping network based out of Minneapolis. Kimberly and the people at Evine are some of the first people to promote sex toys on live television in the US. 

Sep 23, 2018
#72 Threesome Stories and Tips
01:07:06

In this episode April and Amy share their personal stories about their threesome (and sometimes foursome+) adventures. Also, a few tips on how to navigate threesomes with more grace and ease. 

Also, a sex question about how to find that third person (AKA unicorn) when introducing threesomes in a marriage. 

Sep 18, 2018
#71 Edges Vs. Boundaries With Melissa Fritchle, LMFT
01:13:55

Why is it important to understand edges vs boundaries? How can they lead to hotter, more exciting sex?

Melissa Fritchle, LMFT, is a Holistic Psychotherapist, Sex therapist, a certified clinical trauma professional, a certified Mindfulness Meditation Teacher, and the author of The Conscious Sexual Self Workbook. She currently runs a private practice in Santa Cruz, and will soon offer online courses. Learn more at mf-therapy.com

Also, a sex question: my partner takes too long to orgasm, and my body gets tired during sex. What can we do to help him orgasm faster? 

 

Sep 11, 2018
#70 Sacred Soulmates: How to Find Them & How to Flourish - Recorded at Burning Man
56:33

Recorded from an RV (don't mind the hum of the air-conditioning in the background) at this past week's Burning Man, Amy discusses the idea of soulmates with Lisa Nicks-Balthasar and Chris Balthasar - “Soul Purpose Success” coaches, best friends, lovers, mirror soulmates, and husband and wife. Lisa and Chris walk their talk, living fully in a deep loving “Sacred Soulmates” relationship after losing their beloved first soulmates to death and divorce. 

To learn more about their offerings, visit www.sacredsoulmates.com

Also listen to Chris' past episode, #43 BEmpowered, as well as Lisa's episode, #45 Heart Of Manifestation 

Sep 05, 2018
#69 Squirting AKA Female Ejaculation
01:12:10

In this episode we dive deep into the juicy topic of squirting AKA gushing AKA female ejaculation. Join us for some how to's, as well as some personal stories about our own wet 'n' wild adventures. 

Also, we answer your sex question on sex in long distance relationships. 

Aug 25, 2018
#68 Men, Authenticity and Sex & Relationships
54:11

Robert Kandell has been helping men find themselves for fourteen years. An expert in interpersonal communication and relationships, he has helped thousands of students find a more balanced, energized life with better relationships, more sex and more happiness. His coaching style is challenging, fraternal and highly rewarding and definitely not for the faint hearted, he has been described as “part football coach, part loving dad and part slightly crazed drill sergeant”. He is the host of the highly successes podcast, Tuff Love, and the author of the upcoming book, unHIDDEN, A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them.

Also we answer your sex question: Being told about an STI/STD (Genital Warts) a year into the relationship 

Pure Pleasure code for 20% off anal toys for month of August - AUGANAL18

Aug 21, 2018
#67 Dating Protocol With Dr. Hernando Chavez
01:02:40

Dr. Hernando Chaves holds a BA in Psychology, an MA in Marital and Family Therapy, and a Doctorate degree in Human Sexuality. He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Clinical Sexologist, Love and Sex Coach and Professor of Psychology and Human Sexuality. Dr. Chaves is a co-sexpert educator for Penthouse Magazine's Sex Academy instructional DVD's. He specializes working with erotic minorities (BDSM, alt expression, nonmonogamy, fetishism), relationships, and sexual concerns.

Aug 14, 2018
#66 Sex Talk With Historian Daniele Bolelli
01:35:03

Is sex work really the oldest profession? How has sexual shame shaped modern day culture from a historical perspective? And where did the term blowjob come from? Tune in for more. Plus enjoy Daniele's sexy Italian accent :)

Daniele Bolelli is a writer, martial artist, university professor, and podcaster. He was born in Italy and currently lives in Los Angeles. Check out his podcasts, The Drunken Taoist and History On Fire, or visit his website: danielebolelli.com/

 

Aug 07, 2018
#65 Sex and Religion With Andrew Jasko
39:28

Andrew was raised as the son of a minister in a Pentecostal Christian Church in New Jersey. Andrew studied Bible at the Evangelical Christian Wheaton College and obtained his Master of Divinity from Princeton Seminary. While religion was his life's passion, Andrew suffered greatly from anxiety, depression, and guilt about his sexuality. After a slow and painful process, Andrew awakened to a new spiritual experience through secular humanism, meditation, psychedelics, and sexuality. Andrew offers workshops, writings, support, and coaching that can be found at lifeafterdogma.org

Jul 31, 2018
#64 What Women Wished You Knew About Oral Sex
01:11:44

Shaun is a writer and host of The Love Drive, a playful and honest podcast that looks into the broad and captivating world of modern sexuality and intimacy. He brings humor and depth to the often awkward, scary topics of the heart and the loins. This podcast is unabashedly sex-positive, bright, and alive. To learn more visit thelovedrive.com

Jul 24, 2018
#63 Tantra and Ganja Yoga With Dee Dussault
55:10

Tantra is a form of yoga designed to enhance one’s experience of being alive. It’s a holistic spiritual system that connects the sexual and spiritual aspects of one’s self for integration, healing, joy, and power. Dee’s classes and sessions do not have an overt gsexual focus, though we talk about how these practices improve sex, along with all aspects of life. Dee says she helps people find their bliss through relaxation, mindfulness, and sensuality. Her clients know her for being playful and accepting, and deeply-spiritual while solidly down to earth.

Dee Dussault is a sexuality coach, Yoga Alliance-certified yoga teacher, and the creator of Ganja Yoga, with a Harpercollins book by the same name. Since 2009, she's taught easy partner yoga, vanilla tantra, and Ganja Yoga to thousands of people across the US, Canada, and Europe. 

Dee has over a decade of research and study, with an honors degree in Sexuality Studies, and an additional Sexuality Certificate, with a focus on women's sexuality. She loves inspiring others to tap into their radiant embodied selves. Her yoga training was with Ananda Shakti of Sananda Yoga in Toronto, in the Tantric tradition of Swami Satyananda Saraswati of Bihar, India.

To learn more visit https://www.deedussault.com or theganjayoga.com

Jul 17, 2018
#62 Sex and Pregnancy With Ashley Shakti
58:51

Ashley is a mother, doula, apprentice midwife and sex coach who has been helping to guide women through the transformation from maiden to mother since she became a mother in 2013. She is a tantrika who loves coaching women into their own sensual sovereignty through the path of pleasure, and is passionate about helping women reclaim their pelvic floor and core strength postpartum. You can find out more information about coaching with Ashley, taking a workshop or reading more about her work on her website at www.AshleyShakti.com 

Jul 10, 2018
#61 Is There Such Thing As TOO Much Orgasm?
48:44

Is sex addiction real? How I navigate a new poly relationship? Can orgasms be too frequent and too strong? And how do I orgasm with my partner? Amy answers YOUR sex questions. Enjoy!

And don't forget to checkout:

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Jun 30, 2018
#60 Free the Nip With Lingerie Model Kimberly K
38:11

Kimberly K has traveled both domestically and abroad to some of the most remote locations and exclusive parties, modeling for audiences with widely diverse sexual tastes. As she's met friends in all sorts of walks of life, they've peaked her desires to explore her own limits. Her new website kimberlykmodel.com is a photo and video journal as she explores what turns her on and the power of sex in our society. 

Jun 26, 2018
#59 Bonus Episode - The Mom Episode
38:40

April's mom came for a visit, so we decided to get both of our beloved mothers together to talk about...you guessed it...sex! 

Jun 22, 2018
#58 Bondassage With Jaeleen Bennis
57:46

Bondassage is a safe, playful, creative way to stretch your intimate boundaries and expand your sensual repertoire. It’s a lovely way to rekindle the passion and desire in your relationship. You’ll become more sensitive and adventurous with each other as you reach new levels of intimacy and sensuality.

Bondassage takes the receiver on a journey of sensation surprises. You may be a seasoned traveler in the BDSM realm but want something different, or you may be brand new and want to be introduced gently to percussion play, sensation exploration, and bondage. Either way, we can create a Bondassage session that best suits your needs. We’ll take you toward your known (and sometimes unknown) desires in an environment that is kind, safe, and full of surprises.

About Jaeleen: Jaeleen Bennis Is a Sensual Domina, a professional bodyworker, the creator and founder of Bondassage®, and co-author of ‘Bondassage®: Kinky Erotic Massage Tips For Lovers’. To learn more visit bondassage.com

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Jun 19, 2018
#57 Sex Trafficking With Robin Rivera
55:43

Robin Rivera is a a wild woman warrior and feminine leadership coach working with women on a mission, as well as youth empowerment for prevention education on sex trafficking. Robin is passionate about transforming trauma into freedom, sharing her story of resilience, radical transformation, and overcoming sexual trauma and sexual exploitation from a survivor's perspective. To learn more, visit robinriveraignites.com

Jun 12, 2018
#56 Food & Sex With Melissa Velasco
01:14:57

How does food affect our sexuality? Are aphrodisiacs real, and if so, what should I be eating?

Melissa Roberts specialized in a corporate sales consultant position of sexual health and wellness products for over 10 years. After reaching a breakthrough in her own personal sexual health struggles, it became her passion to empower individuals to heal their bodies by themselves, lead healthy lifestyles, hold lasting positive relationships, and ultimately achieve total mind, body, and spirit balance through self-love, appreciation, and care. Melissa studied at the Institute for Integrative Nutrition in NY where she acquired her Certification as a Holistic Health and Wellness Coach. Now as an entrepreneur Melissa is committed to serving her community through her private practice HoneyBeeHealing Holistic Wellness & Health Coach Services. Melissa is passionate about loving and supporting her family, personal development, as well as constantly educating and spreading awareness around the principles to achieve health and happiness. Learn more + mention Shameless Sex for 10% off of her Happy Health Package at https://www.honeybeehealing.net. 

Jun 06, 2018
#55 Tantra Basics
25:58

We've had a few requests for more on Tantra, and while we have an awesome guest speaker or two who specializes on the subjest lined up to guest on our show, we decided to record a quickie on Tantra basics to hold you over. Enjoy!

References:

Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas

Amy's online Tantra class

May 29, 2018
#54 Creative Tips To Spice Up Your Sex Life
01:04:23

In this episode we discuss some creative ways to spice up your sex life. In fact, we take it one step further beyond "kiss here" and 'touch there" - to a place of deeper yet playful connection. Enjoy! Oh, and feel free to send us your favorite tips on how YOU prefer to spice up your own sex life. 

References:

The Body Keeps the Score 

Juicebox - use code SHAMELESS for 60% off

Gabor Mate

 

May 22, 2018
#53 Negotiating Sex In Relationships
01:02:39

How do we negotiate sex in relationships? What if I want to have sex more often than my partner (or vise versa)? How do we meet each other's needs? Also, more on Attachment Theory!

Resources:

Books:

Attached 

Mating In Captivity 

Other:

Esther Perel TED talks 

Juicebox sex coaching app (use code SHAMELESS for 60% off)

May 17, 2018
#52 Juicebox and Low Libido Tips
47:38

We get 2-3 sex questions/day, AND WE LOVE IT! The only thing is it often takes us one month + to answer them on the air/Shameless Sex's FaceBook Live. Enter Juicebox, a quick, easy, and affordable sex and relationship when you need it. And guess what? We are now on the app as well. Tune in to learn more. We also share some creative ways to work with low libido.

About Juicebox: Juicebox is an iPhone app that pairs you with professional sex and relationship coaches from a network of certified and vetted experts. With an easy (and anonymous) messaging platform and scalable technology, Juicebox is making sex and relationship coaching affordable and accessible to everyone. Use code SHAMELESS for 60% off your first week!

Product References:

OMGyes

Magic Wand

Atom Cock Ring

Use code SHAMLESSPP at purepleasureshop.com for 15% off

 

May 08, 2018
#51 Anal 101 - Round 2
45:11

This episode is a redo of episode #10 to make up for the terrible sound quality (as well as blank audio on some of the apps). Plus April is no longer a backdoor virgin, so we have some new ideas and stories to share. So tune in to learn how to have awesome booty lovin'! For sex toy references, visit purepleasureshop.com. Use coupon code SHAMELESSPP for 15% off. 

May 01, 2018
#50 Quickies
56:29

If you've tuned in before, you know that we are huge fans of taking our time in the bedroom. So how do quickies apply? How can we have great, pleasurable, connected sex when time is limited? Tune in to learn more. 

Apr 24, 2018
#49 S Factor®: Erotic Movement (and Pole Dancing!) With Ellice Apostolos
01:05:24

Ellice empowers every woman to connect to her body's innate wisdom and pleasure so she can move through the world i he fully expressed radiance. As a certifie S Factor® instructor, Ellice offers deeply transformative trainings where what begins as a personal erotic movement practice within the studio walls can become a sustainable practice that enriches every area of life. Ellice also guides women entrepreneurs to build the life of their desires through her online programs. She empowers them to put deep self-care and pleasure at the heart of their work day so they can lead with their feminine genius, avoiding overwhelm as a business owner. As co-owner of Steel and Grace, Santa Cruz California's premier pole studio, Ellice offers a wide variety of weekly S Factor classes suitable for women with or without dance experience. Find out more at www.sfactorsantacruz.com and www.steelandgracepole.com

About S Factor®: S Factor® is a sensual movement practice and a way of life. This is a practice that heals our relationship with our erotic body. Through this work we turn on the brilliant feminine essence that exists in all of us. We celebrate it. We revel in it. And as we see it in ourselves and each other, we bring that light to every relationship we have.

For Ellice's online programs, click here

For Amy's upcoming Tantra In Motion workshop, click here

Apr 17, 2018
#48 Bonus Episode: Sex, Drugs, and More Sex With Conner Moore
01:04:29

In this bonus episode we cover everything from blowjobs, the #metoo movement, what consensual means, how to keep judgment out of your sex life, and much more. 

Conner Moore is the host of The Realness Podcast (available on iTunes, Google Play, etc), as well as a strength and conditioning and Lifestyle Design Coach. Learn more here: https://gettherealness.com

Show Book References:

"Mating In Captivity" by Ester Perel

"The State of Affairs" by Ester Perel

"Sex at Dawn" by Chris Ryan

"A Billion Wicked Thoughts" by Sal Goddam and Ogi Ogas

Apr 13, 2018
#47 Taoist Sex With Willow Brown, LAc.
01:03:41