From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody Steurer

By Geoff & Jody Steurer

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Episodes: 228

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The goal of healing isn't just stopping the crisis. It's ultimately moving into genuine and meaningful connection with ourselves, each other, and the world around us. Join licensed therapist and author Geoff Steurer and his wife, Jody Steurer, as they share ways to move out of the crisis of sexual betrayal and relationship betrayal trauma toward connection. The information in these discussions transcends religious and cultural lines, as we all seek the same healing power of connection.

Episode Date
Inpatient vs. Outpatient Treatment - Episode 242
May 02, 2024
A Post-Disclosure Pep Talk for the Betrayed Partner - Episode 241
Apr 25, 2024
A Post-Disclosure Pep Talk for the Recovering Partner - Episode 240
Apr 18, 2024
"No More Mr. Nice Guy" - with Dr. Robert Glover - Episode 239
Apr 11, 2024
The Lure of the Victim Mindset
Apr 04, 2024
Resilience in the Aftermath of Betrayal - with KayLee Dunn - Episode 238
Mar 28, 2024
Narcissism or Emotional Immaturity? - with Tony Overbay - Episode 237
Mar 21, 2024
The Importance of Men's Work - with Kurt Francom - Episode 236
Mar 14, 2024
The Four Levels of Communication - with Nathaniel Gustafson - Episode 235
Mar 07, 2024
Transactional vs. Transformational Relationship Dynamics - with Julia Witt - Episode 234
Feb 29, 2024
Taking Ownership of Our Stories - with Jason Portnoy - Episode 233
Feb 22, 2024
Worthiness vs. Trust - Episode 232
Feb 15, 2024
Healing Rituals in Marriage - with Amanda Christensen, LMFT - Episode 231
Feb 08, 2024
Loving at a Distance While Keeping the Flame Alive - with KayLee Dunn - Episode 230
Feb 01, 2024
Affair-Proofing Your Relationship - with Shannon Brown, LMFT - Episode 229
Jan 25, 2024
A Broader Look at Spiritual Intimacy - Episode 228
Jan 18, 2024
A Broader Look at Intellectual Intimacy - Episode 227
Jan 11, 2024
A Broader Look at Emotional Intimacy - Episode 226
Jan 04, 2024
A Broader Look at Physical Intimacy - Episode 225
Dec 28, 2023
When the Betrayed Become Abusive - Episode 224
Dec 21, 2023
The History of Addiction - with Dr. Carl Erik Fisher - Episode 223
Dec 14, 2023
Understanding Men, Lust, and Marriage - Episode 222
Dec 07, 2023
Authenticity in Recovery - Episode 221
Nov 30, 2023
Healthy Emotional Regulation - Episode 220
Nov 23, 2023
Why Do I Feel Worse When We Get Closer? - Episode 219
Nov 16, 2023
Holding Space - with Heather Plett - Episode 218
Nov 09, 2023
The Difference Between a Passive or Proactive Recovery - Episode 217
Nov 02, 2023
The Nuances of Forgiveness and Trust in Relationships - Episode 216
Oct 26, 2023
Is Anger Necessary for Recovery? - Episode 215
Oct 19, 2023
The Importance of Honesty and Transparency in Recovery - with Sathiya Sam - Episode 214
Oct 12, 2023
What's Hijacking So Many Beautiful Relationships? - with Dr. Jacob Hess - Episode 213
Oct 07, 2023
Can You Be in Recovery and Not Sober? - Episode 212
Sep 28, 2023
What If You Can't Accept an Apology? - Episode 211
Sep 21, 2023
Improving Your Apologies - Episode 210
Sep 14, 2023
Four Phases of Healing After Sexual Betrayal - with Tammy Gustafson - Episode 209
Sep 07, 2023
A Better Way to Approach Sexual Brokenness in Our Churches - Episode 208
Aug 31, 2023
Relearning Touch After Betrayal (Part 2) - with Wendy Maltz - Episode 207
Aug 24, 2023
Relearning Touch After Betrayal - with Wendy Maltz (Part 1) - Episode 206
Aug 17, 2023
Sitting with Discomfort - Episode 205
Aug 10, 2023
The Power of No - Episode 204
Aug 03, 2023
In Search of Heroic Masculinity - Ben Pacini - Episode 203
Jul 27, 2023
4 Ways the Betrayed Can Improve Their Healing - Episode 202
Jul 20, 2023
4 Ways the Betrayer Can Improve Their Recovery - Episode 201
Jul 13, 2023
Is My Partner an Addict or Just Being a Jerk? - Episode 200
Jul 06, 2023
Shame vs. Regret - Episode 199
Jun 29, 2023
Malicious Compliance - Episode 198
Jun 22, 2023
Decreasing Chaos in Recovery - Episode 197
Jun 15, 2023
Balancing Positivity and Negativity - Episode 196
Jun 08, 2023
Drama Bonding - Episode 195
Jun 01, 2023
Why Formal Disclosure Matters (Part 2) - Episode 194
May 25, 2023
Why Formal Disclosure Matters (Part 1) - Episode 193
May 18, 2023
Dealing with the Post-Betrayal Freeze - Episode 192
May 11, 2023
Finding Your True Self After Betrayal - Episode 191
May 04, 2023
Checking Our Blind Spots - Episode 190
Apr 27, 2023
When Is It Objectification? - Episode 189
Apr 20, 2023
Are You Motivated by Fear or Love? - Episode 188
Apr 13, 2023
Protecting Victims of the Pornography Industry - Dani Pinter, Senior Legal Counsel NCOSE - Episode 187
Apr 06, 2023
Addressing the Betrayer's Pain - Episode 186
Mar 30, 2023
Should You Confront Your Parents About Your Childhood? - Episode 185
Mar 23, 2023
Healing Our Relationship with Food - with Emily Fonnesbeck - Episode 184
Mar 16, 2023
Is it a Slip? A Relapse? A Setback? - Episode 183
Mar 09, 2023
The Benefits of Family Work - Episode 182
Mar 02, 2023
Emotional Safety in Relationships - Episode 181
Feb 23, 2023
The Role of Anger in Healing - Episode 180
Feb 16, 2023
Relationship Conflict Patterns with Adam Fisher (Part 3) - Episode 179
Feb 09, 2023
Our Valentine’s Day Guide for Messy Relationships - Episode 178
Feb 02, 2023
Embracing Differences in Your Marriage - Episode 177
Jan 26, 2023
Building a Marriage-Centered Family - Episode 176
Jan 19, 2023
Taking Care of Yourself as You Rebuild Broken Trust - Episode 175
Jan 12, 2023
Should I Feel Compassion for My Addicted Partner? - Episode 174
Jan 05, 2023
Why Marriage Cannot Fix a Pornography Addiction - Episode 173
Dec 29, 2022
Taking the First Steps After a Sexual Betrayal - Episode 172
Dec 22, 2022
Healthy Support vs. Parenting Your Partner - Episode 171
Dec 15, 2022
The Problem of Acting Needless and Wantless - Episode 170
Dec 08, 2022
Patience in Healing - Episode 169
Dec 01, 2022
The Lure of the Victim Mindset - Episode 168
Nov 24, 2022
Balancing Autonomy and Partnership in a Committed Relationship - Episode 167
Nov 17, 2022
How Our Relationships Influence our Internal Motivation - Episode 166
Nov 10, 2022
Helping Children be Intrinsically Motivated - Episode 165
Nov 03, 2022
A community for relationship recovery - Episode 164
Oct 28, 2022
How we build trust with others - Hank Smith (part 2) - Episode 163
Oct 20, 2022
How we build trust with others - Hank Smith (part 1) - Episode 162
Oct 13, 2022
Protecting your marriage in a faith crisis - Tony Overbay (part 2) - Episode 161
Oct 06, 2022
Protecting your marriage in a faith crisis - Tony Overbay (part 1) - Episode 160
Sep 29, 2022
Why healthy self-talk matters in recovery - Todd Sylvester - Episode 159
Sep 22, 2022
The challenge of enjoyment in the age of addiction - Dr. Mark Chamberlain - Episode 158
Sep 15, 2022
Healing a marriage damaged by virtual infidelity - Mark Chamberlain - Episode 157
Sep 08, 2022
Protecting children from sexual abuse - Jessica Mockett - Episode 156
Sep 01, 2022
Reclaiming your Sexuality - Dr. Finlayson-Fife - Episode 155
Aug 25, 2022
Relearning touch after betrayal - Wendy Maltz (part 2) - Episode 154
Aug 18, 2022
Relearning touch after betrayal - Wendy Maltz (part 1) - Episode 153
Aug 11, 2022
Relationship Conflict Patterns - Dr. Adam Fisher (part 2) - Episode 152
Aug 04, 2022
Relationship Conflict Patterns - Dr. Adam Fisher (part 1) - Episode 151
Jul 28, 2022
Living after interpersonal loss - Lisa Clark (park 2) - Episode 150
Jul 21, 2022
Living after interpersonal loss - Lisa Clark (part 1) - Episode 149
Jul 14, 2022
Why porn is bad for marriages - Wendy Maltz (part 2) - Episode 148
Jul 07, 2022
Why porn is bad for marriages - Wendy Maltz (part 1) - Episode 147
Jun 30, 2022
Finding comedy in tragedy - Lisa Valentine Clark (part 2) - Episode 146
Jun 23, 2022
Finding comedy in tragedy - Lisa Valentine Clark (part 1) - Episode 145
Jun 16, 2022
When women abuse men - Lisa Renda (part 2) - Episode 144
Jun 09, 2022
When women abuse men - Lisa Renda (part 1) - Episode 143
Jun 02, 2022
Going to the source of the problem - Sam Tielemans (part 2) - Episode 142
May 26, 2022
Going to the source of the problem - Sam Tielemans (part 1) - Episode 141
May 19, 2022
Owning your recovery - Tim’s story - Episode 140
May 12, 2022
Sexual healing from sexual abuse - Wendy Maltz - Episode 139
May 05, 2022
A better way to approach sexual brokenness in our churches - Daniel Weiss - Episode 138
Apr 28, 2022
Healing shame in recovery - Sathiya Sam - Episode 137
Apr 21, 2022
Discovering your couples’ sexual style - Dr. Barry McCarthy - Episode 136
Apr 15, 2022
Deeper healing with breath work - Roxanne Granata - Episode 135
Apr 07, 2022
What's hijacking so many beautiful relationships? - Dr. Jacob Hess - Episode 134
Mar 31, 2022
Supporting our teens with screens, social media, and mental health - Smith Alley - Episode 133
Mar 24, 2022
Moving forward in the aftermath of her worst case scenario - Kim - Episode 132
Mar 17, 2022
Practicing sexual mindfulness as a couple - Dr. Chelom Leavitt - Episode 131
Mar 10, 2022
Four phases of healing after sexual betrayal - Tammy Gustafson - Episode 130
Mar 03, 2022
The power of community in pornography recovery - Chandler R. - Episode 129
Feb 17, 2022
Improve your self-awareness - Genny Rumancik - Episode 128
Feb 10, 2022
Launching young adults doesn't have to become a crisis - Dr. Mark McConville - Episode 127
Feb 04, 2022
Ladies, your low sex drive doesn't mean you're broken - Jamee Andelin - Episode 126
Jan 27, 2022
A better way to discuss pornography concerns when dating - Dr. Adam Moore and Wendy Morkel - Episode 125
Jan 20, 2022
Settling into the journey of healing from betrayal trauma - Jeni Gessel aka "Scabs" - Episode 124
Jan 13, 2022
How families can be a resource in addiction recovery - Danny and Emily Deaton - Episode 123
Jan 06, 2022
Refusing the victim mindset even when you've been victimized - Lindsay and Danny Poelman - Episode 122
Dec 16, 2021
Creating a sexually safe relationship - Tammy Hill - Episode 121
Dec 09, 2021
How to stay optimistic and motivated after a recovery setback - Geoff Steurer - Episode 120
Dec 02, 2021
Setting boundaries with family during the Holidays - Geoff & Jody Steurer - Episode 119
Nov 18, 2021
Building a shame-free marriage in recovery - Hayden and Savannah Paul - Episode 118
Nov 11, 2021
How burnout can make you stronger - Valerie Hamaker - Episode 117
Nov 04, 2021
How we build trust with others (part 2) - Hank Smith - Episode 116
Oct 28, 2021
How we build trust with others (part 1) - Hank Smith - Episode 115
Oct 21, 2021
Helping children develop their own internal filters - Emily Jones - Episode 114
Oct 14, 2021
Essential Truths for Relationships - Dr. Wally Goddard - Episode 113
Oct 07, 2021
9 signals it's time to speak up (part 2) - Jody Steurer and Jamee Adams - Episode 112
Sep 30, 2021
9 signals it's time to speak up - Jody Steurer and Jamee Adams (part 1) - Episode 111
Sep 23, 2021
Rebuilding broken trust - Geoff Steurer & Tony Overbay - Episode 110
Sep 16, 2021
Why healthy self-talk matters in recovery - Todd Sylvester - Episode 109
Sep 09, 2021
A mindful way to address addiction and trauma - Jacob Hess - Episode 108
Sep 02, 2021
Sponsoring and supporting others in recovery - Thomas 2.0 (part 2) - Episode 107
Aug 26, 2021
From Dark to Light: One man's recovery from pornography and lust - Thomas 2.0 (part 1) - Episode 106
Aug 19, 2021
How men can build friendships with other men - Connor Beaton - Episode 104
Aug 05, 2021
Improve your life by choosing faith over fear - Richie Norton - Episode 103
Jul 29, 2021
How to stop enabling others - Geoff Steurer & Valerie Hamaker - Episode 102
Jul 22, 2021
Responding to sexual offenses - Dr. Stefanie Carnes - Episode 101
Jul 15, 2021
What I've learned after recording 99 episodes - Geoff Steurer - Episode 100
Jul 09, 2021
An Inspiring Story of Betrayal, Survival, and Hope - Heidi Tucker - Episode 99
Jul 01, 2021
Relational mindfulness - Liz Higgins - Episode 98
Jun 24, 2021
The Un-Alone Club - Emi Bass - Episode 97
Jun 17, 2021
Growing as a couple after betrayal - Seth and Melanie Studley - Episode 96
Jun 10, 2021
Building trust with our children to increase our influence - Emily Christensen - Episode 95
Jun 03, 2021
Protecting your marriage in a faith crisis (part 2) - Tony Overbay - Episode 94
May 27, 2021
Protecting your marriage in a faith crisis (part 1) - Tony Overbay - Episode 93
May 21, 2021
Creating an intentional life - Kristin Andrus - Episode 92
May 13, 2021
Culture-based attachment shaming - Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S (part 2) - Episode 91
May 06, 2021
Creating space for your emotions - Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S (part 1) - Episode 90
Apr 29, 2021
Should we have empathy for the betrayer? - KayLee Dunn - Episode 89
Apr 22, 2021
Trusting yourself after betrayal - Melissa Ruff - Episode 88
Apr 15, 2021
Reclaiming your sexuality - Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife - Episode 87
Apr 08, 2021
How to become more honest - Dr. Mark Matheson (part 2) - Episode 86
Apr 02, 2021
How to become more honest - Dr. Mark Matheson (part 1) - Episode 85
Mar 25, 2021
Breaking the silence - Creed and Crishelle - Episode 84
Mar 19, 2021
How a group of young adults are changing the conversation around sex and shame - Reach 10 - Episode 83
Mar 11, 2021
How one couple's recovery is helping thousands of people - Rhyll and Steven Croshaw (part 2) - Episode 82
Mar 05, 2021
Living in long-term recovery - Rhyll and Steven Croshaw (part 1) - Episode 81
Feb 26, 2021
Ashlee's story of recovery from pornography - Episode 80
Feb 18, 2021
Therapeutic Disclosure - Geoff Steurer and Healing with WORTH (part 2) - Episode 79
Feb 03, 2021
Therapeutic Disclosure - Geoff Steurer and Healing with WORTH (part 1) - Episode 78
Jan 28, 2021
Pep talks to put everything in perspective - Erica Wilcox, LPC (part 2) - Episode 77
Jan 20, 2021
EMDR in the real world - Erica Wilcox, LPC (part 1) - Episode 76
Jan 13, 2021
Transforming fear and conflict in your life - Chad Ford - Episode 75
Jan 07, 2021
Confronting abuse in marriage - Kimberly Day - Episode 74
Dec 17, 2020
The challenge of enjoyment in the age of addiction - Dr. Mark Chamberlain (part 2) - Episode 73
Dec 03, 2020
Healing a marriage damaged by virtual infidelity - Dr. Mark Chamberlain (part 1) - Episode 72
Nov 20, 2020
Compassion in marriage after betrayal - Dr. Wally Goddard (part 2) - Episode 71
Nov 05, 2020
Your Blueprint for Happiness - Dr. Wally Goddard (part 1) - Episode 70
Oct 22, 2020
Staying safe after betrayal - Dr. Jill Manning (part 2) - Episode 69
Oct 01, 2020
Self-care for betrayal trauma - Dr. Jill Manning (part 1) - Episode 68
Sep 23, 2020
Discover and use your voice - Jody Steurer and Jamee Adams - Episode 67
Sep 09, 2020
20 Keys to Healthy Sex - Laura Brotherson (part 2) - Episode 66
Aug 20, 2020
20 Keys to Healthy Sex - Laura Brotherson (part 1) - Episode 65
Aug 06, 2020
How to improve your body image - Amy Harman (part 2) - Episode 64
Jul 30, 2020
Making Peace with your Body - Amy Harman (part 1) - Episode 63
Jul 15, 2020
Peaceful co-parenting after divorce - Jessica, Matt, and Steve (part 2) - Episode 62
Jun 25, 2020
Creating a healthy post-divorce relationship with your Ex - Jessica, Matt, and Steve (part 1) - Episode 61
Jun 18, 2020
The problem with idealizing motherhood and glorifying self-neglect - Dr. Julie Hanks (part 2) - Episode 60
Jun 07, 2020
Assertiveness for Betrayed Women - Dr. Julie Hanks (part 1) - Episode 59
May 21, 2020
When missionaries struggle with pornography - Rick Thompson, LCSW - Episode 58
May 06, 2020
How women can heal from relationship abandonment - Gaelyn Rae Emerson (part 2) - Episode 57
Apr 30, 2020
Staying resilient when your husband relapses - Gaelyn Rae Emerson (part 1) - Episode 56
Apr 16, 2020
Why you should share your addiction recovery story (and how) - Steven Shields (part 2) - Episode 53
Mar 12, 2020
A story of sexual addiction and betrayal trauma recovery - Steven and Kayla Shields (part 1) - Episode 52
Feb 26, 2020
Helping women who struggle with pornography - Alice Taylor (part 2) - Episode 51
Feb 12, 2020
Women who struggle with pornography addiction - Alice Taylor (part 1) - Episode 50
Jan 28, 2020
Forgiving ourselves - Dr. Wendy Ulrich (part 2) - Episode 49
Jan 16, 2020
Why is forgiveness so difficult? - Wendy Ulrich (part 1) - Episode 48
Jan 02, 2020
Responding effectively to abused children - Jessica Mockett (part 2) - Episode 47
Dec 18, 2019
Protecting children from sexual abuse - Jessica Mockett (part 1) - Episode 46
Dec 05, 2019
How to avoid a victim mindset - Troy Love (part 2) - Episode 45
Nov 22, 2019
Healing from loss, neglect, rejection, betrayal, and abuse - Troy Love (part 1) - Episode 44
Nov 12, 2019
What every leader needs to know about pornography - Kurt Francom - Episode 43
Oct 30, 2019
Toxic giving and taking in relationships - Mari Lee (part 2) - Episode 42
Oct 17, 2019
Using mindfulness to treat addiction and trauma - Mari Lee (part 1) - Episode 41
Oct 01, 2019
How betrayal trauma affects women's spiritual lives - Dr. Carmel White (part 2) - Episode 40
Sep 12, 2019
What betrayed women want everyone to know - Dr. Carmel White (part 1) - Episode 39
Aug 29, 2019
Finding Peace When Anxious Or Troubled - Geoff Steurer - Episode 38
Jul 02, 2019
Six guideposts of true recovery from addiction - Geoff Steurer - Episode 37
May 09, 2019
Let's practice healing trauma exercises - Katy Willis (part 2)- Episode 36
Apr 27, 2019
Healing Trauma Through Yoga - Katy Willis (part 1) - Episode 35
Apr 11, 2019
Mindfulness 101 - Taylor Chambers, LMFT (part 2) - Episode 33
Mar 14, 2019
Help your children become resilient against pornography - Taylor Chambers, LMFT (part 1) - Episode 32
Feb 27, 2019
Sexual Wholeness in Marriage - Michelle Linford - Episode 31
Feb 13, 2019
The power of group therapy - Forest Benedict (part 2) - Episode 30
Jan 31, 2019
Self-care for men in recovery from addiction - Forest Benedict (part 1) - Episode 29
Jan 19, 2019
Changing the pornography discussion with our kids - Dr. Dean Busby (part 2) - Episode 28
Jan 03, 2019
A Better Way to Teach Your Kids About Sex - Dr. Dean Busby (part 1) - Episode 27
Dec 20, 2018
Your Brain on Porn - Dr. Don Hilton - Episode 26
Dec 09, 2018
How to bring up pornography concerns when dating - Vauna Davis (part 2) - Episode 25
Nov 25, 2018
Helping Young Adults Change the Conversation about Pornography - Vauna Davis (part 1) - Episode 24
Nov 10, 2018
Finding freedom and peace when betrayed - Roxanne Kennedy (part 2) - Episode 23
Oct 25, 2018
Betrayal trauma, divorce, and healing - Roxanne Kennedy (part 1) - Episode 22
Oct 04, 2018
Teaching Children Media Literacy - Dina Alexander (part 2) - Episode 20
Aug 29, 2018
Teaching Children Media Literacy - Dina Alexander (part 1) - Episode 19
Aug 15, 2018
Common Questions about Recovery - Dr. Adam Moore (part 2) - Episode 16
Jul 05, 2018
Common Questions about Recovery - Dr. Adam Moore (part 1) - Episode 15
Jun 22, 2018
Fight the New Drug - Clay Olsen (part 2) - Episode 14
Jun 02, 2018
Fight the New Drug - Clay Olsen (part 1) - Episode 13
May 22, 2018
Protecting Young Minds - Kristen Jenson (part 2) - Episode 12
May 08, 2018
Protecting Young Minds - Kristen Jenson (part 1) - Episode 11
Apr 26, 2018
Patterns of Healing - Michelle Linford (part 2) - Episode 8
Mar 15, 2018
Patterns of Healing - Michelle Linford (part 1) - Episode 7
Feb 28, 2018