The Angry Therapist Podcast

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 Oct 10, 2021
The episodes are about 15 minutes long and 8 of them are ads.

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John Kim is The Angry Therapist, delivering self-help and therapy in a shot glass - street level 3 x week roughly ten minutes an episode. With one longer interview or conversation on Mondays.

Episode Date
The Five Stages Of A Relationship
00:10:48

In this episode, John talks about the five stages of a relationship: the discovery phase, the disappointment phase, the dancing phase, the development/ dedication phase, and back to the discovery phase.

Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com

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Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Mar 24, 2023
What If I'm Not Feeling It Anymore?
00:28:13

In this episode, John talks about the steps to take if you're no longer feeling interested in your partner, or current relationship.

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Mar 22, 2023
How Relationships Are Like Sunsets
00:10:39

In this episode, John reads a relationship quote from Carl Jung, and talks about how and why you should start looking at your relationships like they're sunsets.

 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

 

Meet him at -> http://www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Mar 20, 2023
Toxic Single Behavior
00:11:13

In this episode, John talks about certain types of behavior that are toxic to do when you're single.

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Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Mar 20, 2023
When To Break Up With Your Therapist
00:15:59

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer a listener's question: when should I break up with my therapist?

Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

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Mar 15, 2023
What is Life Alignment?
00:11:36

In this episode, John talks about life alignment and what it looks like in your daily life. 

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Meet him at -> http://www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Mar 13, 2023
Directions For Life: Seek Nectar, Love Hard, Resist Nothing
00:15:24

In this episode, John talks about how to seek nectar, love hard, and resist nothing. 

Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com

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Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Mar 10, 2023
If You're Doing These Things, You'll Suffer
00:19:26

In this episode, John talks about a few things that will lead to suffering.

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Mar 08, 2023
Things That Strip Joy
00:25:35

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about things that strip joy. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Meet him at -> http://www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Mar 06, 2023
Why We Project Onto Our Partner
00:29:31

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about they project their "worst self" onto each other, and practice ways to stop projecting onto your partner. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Mar 03, 2023
Love Starts After The Fall
00:18:17

In this episode, John talks about how love really starts after you fall in love.

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Mar 01, 2023
Interview with Humble The Poet
00:53:15

In this episode, John interviews Humble, The Poet. They talk about how they both started and got traction in their careers. The ups and downs and leaning into their becoming. And of course, they talk about love love love.

Humble The Poet Instagram: @humblethepoet

How To Love Yourself book on Amazon

Therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as he pulls the curtain back and documents his journey to humanize the therapist.

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Feb 27, 2023
A Conversation With a Woman I Almost Had Sex With
00:56:17

In this episode, John has a conversation with Alana about a sexual encounter they almost had years ago, what happened, and why they didn't sleep together.

Here's a link to a Spotify playlist Alana made for John: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6ozIg4qkvvTT2fyvxVtXCd?si=c0962fea42d746cf . It's a good one. Enjoy!

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Feb 24, 2023
Reach Without Losing Footing
00:14:02

In this episode, John talks about how to reach for something you want in life (goals, dreams, etc.) without losing your footing (sense of self, living in the present, etc.).

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.

Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Feb 22, 2023
My First Ketamine Session
00:25:32

In this episode, John talks about his first experience using ketamine during a psychotherapy session.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text



Feb 20, 2023
Dating Someone One Year After Divorce. Too Early?
00:17:57

In this episode, John asks a listeners' question: is it too early to date someone one year after my divorce?


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text




Feb 17, 2023
Signs Your Relationship Will Last
00:18:53

In this episode, John lists three positive signs that your relationship will last.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text





Feb 15, 2023
Backing Away From The Edge - Why We Paused The SOP Festival
00:28:51

In this episode, John and Paul eat their feelings, and talk about why they made the difficult decision to cancel the Single On Purpose Festival.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text





Feb 13, 2023
Why Do I Call Breakups Expired Relationships?
00:15:29

In today's episode, John explains his reframe of "break up" to "expired relationship" and why it's helpful. He tried to explain on Dax Shepard's Armchair Expert Podcast but John mentioned the time he had sex with a plum when he was twelve, and of course that topic got side tracked. He assures he will not talk about plums in this episode. Instead, go deeper on the reframe and how to get to acceptance, the first step in starting the healing journey after an expired relationship.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text






Feb 10, 2023
How To Find Out Your Partner's Attachment Style
00:23:05

In this episode, John gives his tips on how to find out your partner's attachment style.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  







Feb 08, 2023
Going Deeper On Attachment Styles
00:26:53

In this episode, John does a deep dive on attachment styles.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text



Feb 06, 2023
Realign Your Relationship In 5 Steps
00:24:50

In this episode, John talks about how to realign your relationship in five steps.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text





Feb 03, 2023
How You Show Up Are Brushstrokes of Your Life (Art)
00:14:15

In this episode, John gives advice on how to show up for the life you want to live.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text





Feb 01, 2023
Rediscovering Your Partner
00:19:03

In this episode, John reads a story and gives tips on how to rediscover your partner.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text



Jan 30, 2023
Your Most Important Promise
00:12:42

In this episode, John talks about how to raise your self esteem/ confidence, and why raising it should be a daily promise to yourself.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text





Jan 27, 2023
Back In The Rehab Days with Joe Akira
00:35:35

In today’s episode, John interviews Joe Akira, a kid John treated years ago when he was working in non profit. Joe was a lost 13 year old but now a thriving 27 year old. They reflect on Joe’s troubled youth and awoling the program. And how John was fresh off a divorce and rebuilding his own life, which he hid from the kids. A heartfelt episode about our collisions and how they affect us. 


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text





Jan 25, 2023
Do You Believe In Love At First Sight?
00:12:55

In this episode, John talks about his views and definition on "love at first sight."


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text





Jan 23, 2023
How To Grow Your Relationship
00:33:41

In this episode, John talks about and gives examples on how to grow your relationship.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Jan 20, 2023
What Does A Healthy Relationship Look Like?
00:19:05

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: what does a healthy relationship look like?


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Jan 18, 2023
The Difference Between Needs and Feeling Needy
00:23:31

In this episode, John answers a listeners' question, and explains the difference between having needs and feeling needy in your relationships.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Jan 16, 2023
Taking Ownership: Why It's More For You Than For Them
00:23:24

In this episode, John explains how to take ownership, and why it's more for you than for the other person.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Jan 13, 2023
My Personal Love Lessons
00:33:56

In this episode, John talks about the love lessons he's learned from his own experiences in relationships.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Jan 11, 2023
Steps To Forgiving My Partner Who Cheated
00:17:40

In this episode, John talks about how to forgive a partner who cheated, and what steps it will take to make the relationship work.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Jan 09, 2023
The Pursuer and Distancer: Which One Are You?
00:14:41

In this episode, John talks about what the "pursuers" and "distancers" are in relationships, and encourages you to look at your behavioral patterns to determine which one you are in your relationships.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Jan 06, 2023
This Will NOT Be Your Year
00:20:07

In this episode, John explains his views on New Years resolutions, and talks about why it's not the New Years' job to "fix" you.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Jan 04, 2023
The Importance Of Having Your Own Life
00:09:59

In this episode, John talks about the importance of having your own life outside of your partner's.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Jan 02, 2023
Residue From The Old
00:22:24

In this episode, John talks about how to love without your past and not allow your past relationships into your life and/or the new relationship you're in now.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text



Dec 30, 2022
Personal Reflections of 22
00:20:30

In this episode, John reflects on 2022.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Dec 28, 2022
27 Life Lessons
00:22:39

In this episode, John shares his twenty seven life lessons.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Dec 26, 2022
Love Is About Finding The Right You
00:11:12

In this episode, John does a reframe on love, and how it's more about finding the right you rather than finding the right "one."


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Dec 23, 2022
This Life Tool / Ability Is Foundational
00:16:14

In this episode, John talks about the importance of seeking nectar in life, and gives examples of what nectar in his life is.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text


Dec 21, 2022
Parking Tickets and Character Tests
00:14:17

In this episode, John talks about how something as little as a parking ticket can test your character.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Dec 19, 2022
Why It's Important To Change Our Definition Of Love
00:35:11

In this episode, John talks about why it's important to have new love experiences, and change our definition of love.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Dec 16, 2022
Creating A Safe Space & Active Listening
00:24:20

In this episode, John talks about how to create and hold a safe space and practice active listening in your relationships.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Dec 14, 2022
The 12 Principles Of Secure Functioning Relationships
00:25:09

In this episode, John talks about his couples' session with Vanessa, and shares The 12 Principles Of Secure Functioning Relationships their therapist gave them.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Dec 12, 2022
How Do I Find Happy?
00:18:10

In this episode, John gives his listeners' tips and advice on how to find and be happy.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Dec 09, 2022
Perpetrator Trauma
00:44:36

In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, a letter writer is coming from the other side of the table. After doing a lot of work to repair and understand their past, they are trying to let go of their shame at having traumatized other people. MC and Elizabeth talk about perpetrator trauma, good vs. evil, and what self-forgiveness actually looks like.



Dec 07, 2022
What is Self Abandonment?
00:32:03

In this episode, John is joined by Vanessa Bennett and Dene Logan to talk about self abandonment: what is it and what it looks like in your relationships.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Dec 05, 2022
3 Ways To Treat Yourself Better After A Toxic Relationship
00:16:52

In this episode, John talks about three ways you can treat yourself better after leaving a toxic relationship.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Dec 02, 2022
ACEs & PCEs
00:55:01

In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, a letter writer asks MC and Elizabeth how to make sense of a life that contains both success and trauma. They talk about her story, run through the disorganized attachment style and then hone in on Adverse Childhood Experience (ACEs) and their opposite – Positive Childhood Experiences (PCEs).



Nov 30, 2022
How Do I Move On?
00:19:28

In this episode, John answers one of the most asked listeners' question: how do I move on?


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text


Nov 28, 2022
3 Ways To Become a Better Partner
00:10:52

In this episode, John explains three ways you can be a better partner in your relationship.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Nov 25, 2022
The Thanksgiving Episode (Putting Weight On The Why)
00:19:07

In this episode, John talks about why he's grateful / thankful for certain things in his life, and challenges you to think about the "why" instead of "what" you are grateful / thankful for this Thanksgiving.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Nov 23, 2022
John and Vanessa's Fight Last Night
00:27:07

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about three things that change their state, and dive into a fight they had last night.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Nov 21, 2022
How Is Your Relationship Making You Stretch?
00:19:28

In this episode, John asks listeners to look at their relationships and ask themselves how their relationships are making them grow as a human.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Nov 18, 2022
The Mohawk of Self Awareness
00:46:25

In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, MC and Elizabeth talk to a letter writer about how to peel back the shame she feels when she goes back to an abusive ex, so she can reconnect with herself and move on. They explain how this is in part a neurobiological issue, and what she can do about it in order to begin a new life.



Nov 16, 2022
Fairplay with Eve Rodsky
00:49:53

In this episode, John and Vanessa interview Eve Rodsky, New York Times best-selling author of Fair Play and National Bestseller, Find Your

Unicorn Space.


Eve Rodsky transformed a “blueberries breakdown” into a catalyst for social change when she applied her Harvard-trained background in organizational management to ask the simple yet profound question: What would happen if we treated our homes as our most important organizations? Her New York Times bestselling book and Reese’s Book Club Pick, Fair Play, a gamified life-management system that helps partners rebalance their domestic workload and reimagine their relationship, has elevated the cultural conversation about the value of unpaid labor and care. In her highly anticipated follow-up, Find Your Unicorn Space: Reclaim Your Creative Life in a Too-Busy World, Rodsky explores the cross-section between the science of creativity, productivity, and resilience. Described as the ‘antidote to physical, mental, and emotional burnout,’ Rodsky aims to inspire a new narrative around the equality of time and the individual right to personal time choice that influences sustainable and lasting change on a policy level. Rodsky’s work is backed by Hello Sunshine—Reese Witherspoon’s media company whose mission is to change the narrative for women through storytelling. Rodsky was born and raised by a single mom in New York City and now lives in Los Angeles with her husband Seth and their three children.


Learn more about Fair Play and Unicorn Space at fairplaylife.com



Nov 14, 2022
You Can Answer Hard Questions - Is There Hope In Our World?
00:35:41

In this episode, John brings three random people in the room to ask them hard questions. They each get a turn to ask a hard question. This ends up creating a meaningful dialogue and wasting no time to get deep fast. There is no shallow end of the pool here. Hope you enjoy. 


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Nov 11, 2022
Punching Back
00:15:43

In this week's episode of The Trauma Tapes, MC and Elizabeth talk about an exercise called "punching back." In it, you take the negative beliefs that you’re carrying around and put them on paper. Then you punch back by asking what the flip side of the negative beliefs is. If you say “I’m needy” for example, you might punch back by saying, “I’m also very loving.”



Nov 09, 2022
Free Session In The Park
00:42:36

In this episode, John convinces Vanessa to get on his Harley and do a free session in the park, helping a couple who emailed John from the internet (fell from the sky). They want to work on their relationship before they have their baby. 


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Nov 07, 2022
You Can't Love Someone Until You Find Yourself Is A Myth
00:14:57

In this episode, John challenges and debunks a common quote: "you can't love someone until you find yourself."


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Nov 04, 2022
The Shattered Blueprint
00:40:39

In this episode of The Trauma Tapes, a letter writer is facing a difficult decision. Stay in her marriage when her husband wants to be polyamorous, or leave and lose him entirely. MC and Elizabeth talk about the trauma of a profound lack of a relational home.



Nov 02, 2022
3 Signs of an Emotionally Safe Relationship
00:12:44

In this episode, John talks about his three signs that you're in an emotionally safe relationship.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Oct 31, 2022
Can Long Distance Work? Should I Get Back With My Ex? Can I Heal From Infidelity?
00:21:08

In this episode, John answers listeners' questions such as: can long distance work, should I get back with my ex, can I heal from infidelity, and more.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Oct 28, 2022
Simple vs. Complex Trauma
00:57:46

In today's episode of The Trauma Tapes, MC and Elizabeth talk to a letter writer about why trauma can pop up ten years later, and what to do about it. They revisit the definition of trauma that we use: unbearable emotional experience that lacks a relational home-- and talk about the difference between simple and complex trauma.



Oct 26, 2022
Codependent No More With Melody Beattie
00:54:30

Melody Beattie is the best selling author of Codependent No More. Since its first publication 36 years ago, it has helped heal over seven million readers and continues to sell 100,000+ copies a year. Updated for the first time, with a new chapter on trauma and anxiety, and Melody’s personal story revealed for the first time, this modern classic holds the key to understanding codependency and unlocking its hold on your life.


You can find her book here: https://melodybeattie.com/


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Oct 24, 2022
3 Things You Can’t Get Back In Life
00:13:42

In this episode, John talks about three things you can't get back in life.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Meet him at -> www.theangrytherapist.com

Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home

Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text

Oct 21, 2022
On Accepting, Radically
01:10:03

In today's episode of The Trauma Tapes Series, MC and Elizabeth talk to a letter writer about letting go, radically accepting, and moving on. They also talk a bit more about the fight, flight, or freeze response to clarify a previous question.

Oct 19, 2022
Love Is...
00:15:52

In this episode, John talks about what love really is and means in our relationships.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Oct 17, 2022
3 Reasons Why Your Partner May Be Pulling Away
00:16:56

In this episode, John talks about three possible reasons why your partner might be pulling away.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Oct 14, 2022
Triggers
00:46:36

In the first episode of The Trauma Tapes Series with Dr. MC McDonald and Elizabeth Meadows, a letter writer asks how to deal with triggers in an intimate relationship. Both MC and Elizabeth unpack triggers - what they are, how they work, and how to work around them.

Oct 12, 2022
Life After Life with Paul Chamberlain
00:52:30

In this episode, John talks with Paul Chamberlain about depression and suicidal ideation.


Paul is also known as the Smart Funny Tortured Coach who has learned how to find the better part of our darker angels and shine a light on the unique gifts that make us powerful.


Formerly a senior creative officer and serial entrepreneur for over 25 years, he contributed his award-winning expertise in branding, event/entertainment production, and pop culture to companies and industries that everyone knows.


After suffering from over a decade of undiagnosed chronic illnesses and an inauthentic self. He became profoundly depressed and at times suicidal, all while struggling as a husband, father, and creative. It all came to an end with one last project that would “fix it all”. It didn’t. It just made it much worse. That led to separation from his family and near bankruptcy. At that point, he recognized his story of self harm and chasing illusory overnight success was becoming fatal.


Today, thanks to an abundance of love and grit, as well as a blend of traditional therapy, coaching, integrative medicine, and holistic lifestyle changes; he now lives a happy balanced life with his wife/business partner, their two kids and the beloved chaos bundle of pets.


He is also the creator/host of the popular Smart Funny Tortured podcast which trends in the top 2.5% of Personal Journals on iTunes globally. Along with everything else, he profoundly enjoys the privilege of teaching Social Entrepreneurship within the UNLV Lee Business School and volunteering as a certified crisis advocate at The Center - serving the LGBTQ community of Nevada.


Coaching played such an integral part in his redemption that it served as inspiration to become one and gave his story an accredited, evidence-based framework that could be adapted and empowers him to be of service to people he knows, loves and understands…the smart, funny and tortured.


Paul's Website:

https://www.smartfunnytortured.com

https://www.smartfunnytortured.com/coaching


Paul's Podcast

iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/smart-funny-tortured/id1568775383


Oct 10, 2022
How To Deal With Jealousy
00:23:15

In this episode, John talks about how to deal with jealousy and jealous behavior in a healthy way.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 



Oct 07, 2022
Four Things That Crumble Relationships
00:21:19

In this episode, John dives into the Gottmans' "Four Horsemen" theory.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Oct 05, 2022
Parenting Outside The Lines with Meghan Leahy
00:32:14

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk all about parenting with parent coach and author, Meghan Leahy.


Meghan Leahy is the mother of three daughters. She practices Zen Buddhism, holds a bachelor’s degree in English and secondary education and a master’s degree in school counseling and she is a certified parent coach and Neufeld Institute Facilitator as well as the On Parenting Columnist at the Washington Post.


You can follow Meghan on Instagram @mlparentcoach

You can buy Meghan's book: Parenting Outside the Lines: Forget the Rules, Tap into Your Wisdom, and Connect with Your Child

HERE


Oct 03, 2022
We Snap Back Sometimes
00:16:05

In this episode, John talks about how no matter how much work we've done on ourselves, we can still snap back to our old ways.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Sep 30, 2022
Anger is a Reaction To Your Past
00:13:34

In this episode, John talks about how feelings of anger has more to do with our past than our present.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Sep 28, 2022
Anxiously Attached with Jessica Baum
00:41:42

In this episode, John talks all about anxious attachment style with psychotherapist and author of "Anxiously Attached," Jessica Baum.


Jessica Baum, LMHC, is the founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, providing couples therapy, family counseling, and addiction therapy in South Florida for over 10 years. She has helped thousands of clients with her unique approach to healing, the Self-full® Method. Through her sister company, Be Self-full (beselffull.com), Jessica offers transformational courses and online coaching services that support individuals and couples to form healthy, long-term relationships. 


You can order Jessica's book Anxiously Attached HERE

You can follow Jessica on Instagram @jessicabaumlmhc

You can find more information on Jessica's website HERE

Sep 26, 2022
Miracles Happen In The Morning
00:17:26

In this episode, John wakes up early and talks about how productive you can be in the morning.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Sep 23, 2022
When People Trigger Us
00:11:46

In this episode, John talks about what to do when people trigger us.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Sep 21, 2022
Answering Personal Questions About Me
00:33:11

In this episode, John answers questions about his personal life from his listeners.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Sep 19, 2022
My Colonoscopy Gave Me a Reset
00:13:44

In this episode, John talks about getting his first colonoscopy and explains how it gave him a reset on life.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Sep 16, 2022
Friendships- Depth Over Width
00:14:38

In this episode, John talks about the importance of having authentic friendships.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Sep 14, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Our Needs Are Foundational
00:28:18

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about our needs in relationships and why they're important.

Sep 12, 2022
I Didn’t Want a Happy Ending
00:15:45

In this episode, John talks about getting a massage, and why things activate us on a deeper level.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Sep 09, 2022
The Box Set: It's Not About The Dishes
00:40:05

In this episode, John is joined by fellow therapists Vanessa Bennett, Dene Logan, MC McDonald, and Taune Lyons to talk about trauma, codependency, attachment styles, singlehood, and relationships.

Sep 07, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: More On Attachment Styles
00:49:19

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the different types of attachment styles you can have in your relationships.


Sep 05, 2022
The Second Half Of Your Life (Moon)
00:15:00

In this episode, John talks about the first half of your life (sun) versus the second half of your life (moon).


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Sep 02, 2022
3 Signs You May Be Dating The Wrong Person
00:12:39

In this episode, John does a deep dive on three signs you may be dating the wrong person.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Aug 31, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Our First Tantra Class
00:14:12

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about their experience taking their first tantra class.


Aug 29, 2022
What If I'm Not Feeling It Anymore?
00:15:29

In this episode, John talks about what to do if you're not feeling it anymore in your relationship.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Aug 26, 2022
How Do I Change Someone?
00:17:31

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: how do I change my partner without nagging them?


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Aug 24, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Love Like It's Going To End
00:49:32

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about the the idea of how to love like it's going to end.





Aug 22, 2022
The Simple Way Into Mindfulness
00:13:12

In this episode, John talks about a simple way to practice mindfulness.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Aug 19, 2022
6 Relationship Myths
00:21:55

After reading a blog post by Esther Perel, John has come up with 6 relationship myths he has come across.


John's 6 relationship myths


1. If the sex isn't good the relationship isn't good

2. Once a cheater always a cheater

3. Your partner is your best friend

4. Fighting is a sign that something is wrong

5. People in a relationship don't flirt

6. Everything doesn't have to be revealed or told


Here's a link to the original post, https://www.estherperel.com/blog/5-myths-we-tell-ourselves-when-were-dating


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Aug 17, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: "The One" Is Damaging
00:38:03

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about how believing and looking for "the one" is more damaging than you think.

Aug 15, 2022
A Message In The Bottle To My Lab Peeps
00:15:13

In this special episode, John sends a message to all of our current and previous TAT Lab members.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  





Aug 14, 2022
Being Happy With What You Have
00:16:02

In this episode, John talks about things he struggles with and the importance of being happy with what you have right now.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Aug 12, 2022
There Are Four Things That I Believe You Will Regret
00:17:44

In this episode, John talks about the four things he believes you will regret if you don't start doing them now.

Aug 10, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Choosing Yourself
00:48:17

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about how they met and the importance of choosing yourself in your relationships.

Aug 08, 2022
Try This Just For Today
00:15:22

In this episode, John challenges you to not expect anything for an entire day, and why it's important not to put weight on expectations.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 



Aug 05, 2022
Connect To Self
00:13:12

In this episode, John talks about the importance of connecting to yourself.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Aug 03, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Two Communication Extremes
00:33:53

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about two communication extremes in relationships.

Aug 01, 2022
Stop Dreading
00:19:53

In this episode, John talks about how to stop dreading the things you don't want to do.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Jul 29, 2022
If You Have A Shitty Job…
00:22:52

In this episode, John talks about the two shitty jobs he's had, and what to do if you have a shitty job.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Jul 27, 2022
You're Not Getting Over Anyone
00:14:43

In this episode, John does a deep dive on break-ups and shares his thoughts on what moving on really looks like and explains why you're not getting over anyone.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jul 25, 2022
Anything Is Possible
00:18:51

In this episode, John talks about the belief that anything is possible no matter where you're at in life.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jul 22, 2022
Your Thoughts On Open Relationships?
00:26:10

In this episode, John answers a listener's question he gets asked often: what are your thoughts on open relationships?


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 


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Jul 20, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Love Without Your Past
00:17:11

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa discuss what loving with your past looks like and how important it is to love without your past in your current relationship.


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Jul 18, 2022
Take Your Pleasure Seriously
00:15:13

In this episode, John encourages and talks about how to take your pleasure seriously.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jul 15, 2022
How I Tackle My Day
00:17:29

In this episode, John breaks down how he starts, tackles, and finishes his day.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 



Jul 13, 2022
The 4 Food Groups of Life
00:19:53

In this episode, John talks about the four food groups of life.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jul 11, 2022
I’m Going Through A Break Up. Help!
00:13:43

In this episode, John gives his step by step guide on what to do if you're going through a break-up.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jul 08, 2022
Unbroken With MC
00:52:56

John Kim talks to Dr. MC McDonald about her new book, Unbroken. We talk all things trauma - the fact that we don't get to adulthood without some exposure to trauma, what the most common misconceptions are regarding trauma, what a trigger actually is, and what healing can look like. 


Unbroken starts off with a very simple idea: What if instead of seeing traumatic experience as that which breaks our spirit, we see it as that which proves our spirit cannot be broken?


With Unbroken, McDonald offers a radical reframing of how we understand trauma―and a profound new approach for healing. According to McDonald, trauma occurs whenever we experience something that shatters our structures of belief about the world and our place within it. When trauma occurs, our miraculous biological systems adapt to help us survive―and sometimes this creates a constellation of mysterious symptoms that persist long after the event. If we can see these initial adaptations as natural strength responses, we come away with a new path to healing. We must tend to our neurobiological systems while we grieve our shattered beliefs and find new meaning, peeling away layers of shame as we go.


You can PRE-ORDER a copy of Unbroken by Dr. MC McDonald HERE.

Jul 06, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: A Live Workshop
01:19:32

In this special episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa host a live workshop and dive into topics they cover in their upcoming book: It's Not Me, It's You.

Jul 04, 2022
How Relationships Are Like Recovery
00:19:05

In this episode, John talks about how being in relationships are similar to being in recovery.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jul 01, 2022
Dating With Damona Hoffman
00:58:48

In this episode, John interviews Celebrity Dating Coach Damona Hoffman who has been coaching singles on how to find love online and offline for over 15 years. Her articles appear regularly in The LA Times and The Washington Post. Plus, she’s a regular on-air contributor to The Drew Barrymore Show, NPR, and NBC’s Access Daily. Damona also starred in two A+E Networks’ TV shows: #BlackLove and A Question of Love. Her weekly podcast Dates & Mates has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Huff Post, Bustle and tops the charts in the Relationships category on the major podcast platforms.



Jun 29, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Attraction After Motherhood
00:34:21

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about attraction after motherhood.



Jun 27, 2022
How To Build Your Relationship With You
00:16:12

In this episode, John explains how to build your relationship with you.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 



Jun 24, 2022
iMessage To My Exes
00:17:42

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: is it okay to peep our ex's social media? And is it okay if they peep ours?


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 22, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Resetting Yourself For Your Relationship
00:19:17

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about what resetting your day looks like and why it's important for your relationship.

Jun 20, 2022
Calming Your Nervous System
00:19:10

In this episode, John explains how to calm your nervous system,.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 17, 2022
The Polaroid Syndrome
00:12:04

In this episode, John talks about the Polaroid Syndrome: looking back at old snapshots of your past relationships.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 15, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: How Do You Want To Be Celebrated?
00:27:25

In this episode of It's Not You, It's Me, John and Vanessa host an Instagram live and answer viewers' questions.

Jun 13, 2022
It's Okay Not To Know
00:12:53

In this episode, John talks about how it's okay to not know what's going to happen in life.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Jun 10, 2022
Living Higher / Attracting More
00:18:27

In this episode, John talks about how to live in a high frequency and attract more of what you want out of life.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 08, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Needs Are Foundational
00:28:21

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa explain how important your needs are in your relationships.

Jun 06, 2022
Those Feelings Are From Who You Were, Not Who You Are
00:10:38

In this episode, John talks about past and current feelings that come up in our lives, and how they can make us feel stuck.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 03, 2022
Our Fork In The Road Moments
00:14:10

In this episode, John talks about his own and having fork in the road moments.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 01, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Underfunctioning vs Overfunctioning
00:16:54

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa give you three reasons on why you should join their book club starting June 6th at 1:00 pm PST.

May 30, 2022
A Couples Session In The Car
00:20:12

In this episode, John does an Instagram live at home, and chooses a couple to have a session with as they're driving in the car.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 



May 27, 2022
Stop Recreating What Was
00:14:11

In this episode, John shares some life tips and explores how to stop recreating what was.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 



May 25, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: The Practice of Love with Ashley and Lair Torrent
00:54:23

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa speak with Ashley and Lair Torrent all about the practice of love.


May 23, 2022
We Fall In Love With Posters
00:13:34

In this episode, John talks about how important it is to stop hiding and be as honest as soon as possible when you're dating.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

May 20, 2022
The Imprint of New Experiences
00:17:33

In this episode, John talks about playing back old memories to recreate the amazing feeing it gave you back then today, and how memories and new experiences make an imprint in your life.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

May 18, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Two Types of Relationship Energy
01:00:14

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about two types of relationship energy with special guest, Dene Logan.

May 16, 2022
A Letter From My Future Self
00:11:47

In this episode, John reads a letter he wrote to himself.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

May 13, 2022
Be Open to Everything. Attached to Nothing.
00:14:15

In this episode, John talks about the benefits of being open to everything in life while not attaching yourself to anything in life at the same time.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

May 11, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: A Couple's Therapy Session
00:32:38

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa have a laser session with another couple.

May 09, 2022
What Are You Looking Forward To?
00:08:18

In this episode, John talks about encourages his listeners to pause and think about what they're looking forward to in life.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

May 06, 2022
Self Care vs Self Destruction
00:09:52

In this episode, John talks about the fine line between self care and self destruction.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

May 04, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Not Allowing Shame to Steal Your Happy
00:32:00

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa have a laser therapy session with another couple.

May 02, 2022
How Do I Know If My Relationship Is Safe?
00:18:08

In this episode, John explains and gives his tips on how to know if your relationship is safe.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Apr 29, 2022
Seek The Barriers That Prevent Love
00:09:52

In this episode, John talks about the different types of barriers you should look for that prevents love.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Apr 27, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: What's Running Underneath
00:37:09

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about having hard conversations and what's running underneath relationship conflicts.



Apr 25, 2022
The New Love
00:08:02

In this episode, John talks about a new type of love we should thread into all of our relationships.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Apr 22, 2022
No BS with Haylin Dennison
00:56:58

In this episode, John talks with a longtime friend, Haylin Dennison, about social work, trauma, growth, and life.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 



Apr 20, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Radical Responsibility
00:40:54

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa have a conversation about radical responsibility in relationships.




Apr 18, 2022
How To Be More Productive
00:14:17

In this episode, John shares his advice on how to be more productive.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Apr 15, 2022
This Is The Kind Of Guy You Shouldn't Wait For
00:14:42

In this episode, John talks about the type of people you shouldn't wait around for.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  





Apr 13, 2022
Therapy Thursdays
00:19:30

In this episode, John hosts an Instagram live called "Therapy Thursdays" where he asks and answers listeners' questions live.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 



Apr 11, 2022
Revelations at 49
00:16:58

In this episode, John talks about his revelations he's learned at 49.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 



Apr 08, 2022
My Definition of a Good Life
00:14:41

In this episode, John talks about his definitions of what makes a good life.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Apr 06, 2022
What Should I Do If He Emotionally Cheated?
00:16:25

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: what should I do if he emotionally cheated on me?


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Apr 04, 2022
The Importance of Alone Time
00:12:08

In this episode, John talks about the importance of having alone time.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Apr 01, 2022
Ten Signs You Are Growing
00:20:27

In this episode, John talks about the ten signs you are growing.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Mar 30, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: The Difference Between Breakers and Red Flags
00:19:37

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the difference between breakers and red flags in relationships.

Mar 28, 2022
How We Snap Back Sometimes
00:10:54

In this episode, John talks about how we can snap back in our old ways after we have started working on ourselves.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Mar 25, 2022
Playing Back Your Relationships (What To Do When You Do?)
00:10:30

In this episode, John plays back some of his relationships and previous experiences, and talks about what to do when you get down on yourself about them.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Mar 23, 2022
No BS: Book Agent JL Stermer
00:58:42

In this episode, John talks with book agent JL Stermer all about writing books, getting published, and how to stand out on social media.



Mar 21, 2022
Is Love Blind?
00:15:04

In this episode, John talks about the TV show "Love is Blind," dating, relationships, love whether he believes love is blind or not.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Mar 18, 2022
Should I Leave My Marriage (Q&A)
00:17:30

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: should I leave my marriage?


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Mar 16, 2022
DATING: With Gabi Conti
00:55:02

In this episode, Gabi Conti talks with John about dating and serial killers? Gabi can give you something better.


The first ten episode season of Gabi's "Am I Dating A Serial Killer?" is available only on audible 

https://www.audible.com/pd/Am-I-Dating-a-Serial-Killer-Podcast/B09RGF92W3


Her book "Twenty Guys You Date In Your Twenties" is available wherever you buy or listen to books

https://www.gabiconti.com/book-twenty-guys-you-date-in-your-twenties-by-gabi-conti


more info on Gabi can be found on my website 

https://www.gabiconti.com/


or her Instagram: @itsGabiConti 



Mar 14, 2022
How to Create New Love
00:11:24

In this episode, John explains and gives examples on how to create new love experiences.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Mar 11, 2022
What’s Your Life Swing Look Like?
00:11:15

In this episode, John talks about taking swings at life and what it means to live consciously.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Mar 09, 2022
Work / Love / Family with Charlie & Erika Curtis
00:52:38

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk work, love, life, and family with Charlie and Erika Curtis.



Mar 07, 2022
The Power of Empathy
00:13:48

In this episode, John talks about his dad and the importance of having empathy.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Mar 04, 2022
3 Tenets of a Life Anchor
00:15:45

In this episode, John talks about life anchors, what they are, and how to integrate them into your daily life.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  





Mar 02, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Someone With Tools, Oh Fuck!
00:23:41

In this episode, John and Vanessa read a chapter from their new book about how they first met, and talk about what they both experienced during the first few months of their relationship.

Feb 28, 2022
Single On Purpose: What Moving On Really Looks Like
00:09:50

In this episode, John pulls content from his book, Single. On Purpose, and talks about what moving on from your ex really looks like.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Feb 25, 2022
How to Build Yourself a Life Container
00:13:03

In this episode, John gives you steps on how to build yourself a new life container.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Feb 23, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: What is Conscious Love and Why Now?
00:20:59

In this episode, John and Vanessa talks about conscious love and dive into the different love we experience in our 20's, 30's, and 40's.

Feb 21, 2022
You're Grieving More Than Just The Relationship
00:12:55

In this episode, John talks about the different types of grief you will experience after a break-up.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Feb 18, 2022
Five Things Needed For Relationship Soil
00:14:57

In this episode, John talks about the five things needed for your relationship to grow and thrive.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Feb 16, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Pulling Themes
00:30:18

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the revelations they have while writing a book together, and pulling themes from their past and current relationships.

Feb 14, 2022
Love In Our 30's
00:14:44

In this episode, John shares his opinion on the kind of love we look for in our 30's.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Feb 11, 2022
Live Like You're On Vacation (It's Not What You Think)
00:13:57

In this episode, John answers a listener's question about finding other people attractive while you're in a relationship, and the importance of living like you're on vacation.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Feb 09, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Expectations in Dating
00:22:23

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer listeners' questions about different expectations in dating and relationships.

Feb 07, 2022
Two Relationship Game Changers
00:16:51

In this episode, John talks about two relationship game changers which might not be what you think.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Feb 04, 2022
Three Things Your Relationship Should Be Able To Survive
00:15:21

In this episode, John talks about the three things your relationship should be able to survive.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Feb 02, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: What's Your Most Recent Revelation?
00:11:21

In this episode, John and Vanessa share what their most recent revelations are.

Jan 31, 2022
Pulling Yourself Out Of The Trenches
00:14:00

In this episode, John gives advice on how to pull yourself out of the trenches.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jan 28, 2022
Tips On Holding On When You See The Island
00:16:59

In this episode, John gives his tips and examples on how to hold on and push through when you see the island.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jan 26, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Navigating Growth and Differences
00:32:28

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss ways to approach communicating your needs and desires with a partner. They also examine their still forming thoughts about balancing feminine and masculine energies through introspection, ownership and self-awareness.

Jan 24, 2022
Dad Life Series
00:16:32

In this episode, John shares some stories and revelations around raising a child in today's world.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jan 21, 2022
Single On Purpose: Treat Your Mind Better
00:15:56

In this episode, John pulls from his book, Single. On Purpose, and talks about how to treat your mind better.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jan 19, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Examining Ambivalence
00:30:51

In this episode, John and Vanessa record a live Q&A from inside a TAT Lab session. They discuss how self work can sometimes feel like 2 steps forward and 1 step back, and how when ambivalence shows up in ourselves and in relationships we need to examine and act on it. 

Jan 17, 2022
These Two R's Will Change Your Life
00:14:17

In this episode, John talks about the importance of rewiring and processing your old residue.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Jan 14, 2022
Relationship Better
00:09:20

In this episode, John talks about how to push yourself out of your comfort zone and be "relationships better."

Jan 12, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Fantasizing About Others
00:32:45

In this episode, John and Vanessa discuss how fantasy and jealousy can present themselves in relationships, and where the line between healthy and not healthy can be drawn for both.


Jan 10, 2022
Things Technology Can't Take From Us
00:15:50

In this episode, John talks about all of the things technology cannot take away from us.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jan 07, 2022
What Do You Want To Be When You Grow Up?
00:13:30

In this episode, John tackles and discusses an important question everyone is asked: what do you want to be when you grow up?


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jan 05, 2022
It's Not Me, It's You: Letters to Our Exes
00:33:47

In this episode, John and Vanessa share letters that they've written to their partners of the past. They discuss the lessons gathered from those relationships, how they’ve transcended over time, and how they show up in their partnership today.

Jan 03, 2022
Year in Review
00:19:07

In this episode, John reviews 2021: what happened, the good, the bad, and the what he's learned along the way.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Dec 31, 2021
This Is Why I'm Letting You Go
00:09:15

In this episode, John plays a recording he made on his phone about reasons why one should let someone go.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Dec 29, 2021
It's Not Me, It's You: Equality in Partnerships
00:38:51

In this episode, John and Vanessa share some exciting news about a new project that they're working on together, and what it’s bringing up for them. They discuss how there tends to be power differentials in relationships and how they can cultivate a dynamic where they're true partners bringing their own unique things to the table.


Dec 27, 2021
I Think My Partner Is Having An Emotional Affair
00:17:20

In this episode, John answers and gives advice on a listeners question: what do I do when I think my partner is having an emotional affair?


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Dec 24, 2021
The New Generation of Crossfitters
01:08:42

In this one hour long episode, John hosts his first in-person podcast interview with fellow crossfitters to talk about fitness, and their stories.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 



Dec 22, 2021
It's Not Me, It's You: Answering Your Questions
00:26:56

In this episode, John and Vanessa answer questions submitted by the listeners. They talk through and sometimes disagree on questions around how to not be the toxic one in a relationship, how you can make a relationship with an Avoidant work, the reality of “getting over” a relationship, and when two people’s sexual drives aren’t aligned.

Dec 20, 2021
Nervous System vs Soul
00:15:08

In this episode, John talks about the difference between what your nervous system wants versus what your soul wants.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Dec 17, 2021
I Can't Stop Thinking About My Toxic Ex
00:17:30

In this episode, John gives advice and answers some listeners' questions including: "would you still be attracted to/be in love with your wife if she gained 100 pounds?" "Any tips on how to remain calm around toxic family during the holidays?" and "how do I heal from a toxic relationship and stop thinking about my toxic ex?"


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Dec 15, 2021
It's Not Me, It's You: Needs Are a Two-Way Street
00:26:49

An extra hard day of parenting can test your relationship in many ways, especially in terms of having your needs met. Getting your needs met isn’t just about asking for them. Your partner should move toward you as well, especially if you have difficulty expressing your needs. Needs are a two-way street. Let John and Vanessa explain.


Dec 13, 2021
4 Factors That Make Singles Thrive
00:18:40

In this episode, John talks about four important things that make singles thrive.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Dec 10, 2021
Universal Law #27
00:12:23

In this episode, John talks about how to let your life unfold, trust the unfolding, and be open to what the universe presents to you.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 



Dec 08, 2021
It's Not Me, It's You: Our Top 3 Relationship Killers
00:31:28

In this episode, John and Vanessa go over what they think are their top 3 relationship killers. They discuss how they show up, how they can be more aware of them, and how they can work to ensure they don’t show up in their relationships, or how to work on them if they do.

Dec 06, 2021
I Got Into A Fight
00:16:54

In this episode, John talks about a fight he almost got into at the gym, what the experience reminded him of, how fast we can snap back to our "old selves," and the importance of responding instead of reacting.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Dec 03, 2021
Four Ways To Stay Attracted To Your Partner
00:14:06

In this episode, John sings a Madonna song and talks about the four ways to help you stay attracted to your partner.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Dec 01, 2021
It's Not Me, It's You: Two Types of Desire
00:40:13

Sexual Desire. It’s a topic that is always coming up for John, Vanessa, and their clients. How much sex is enough? How come I always want it and they don’t? What’s wrong with me / with them? John and Vanessa break down the two distinct types of desire and why understanding them both can be a massive shift in your relationship. This was a huge lightbulb moment for Vanessa. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.

Nov 29, 2021
My First EFT Session
00:43:04

In this episode, John records his first EFT session lead by TAT Lab instructor, Susheela Kundargi.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Nov 26, 2021
No BS With Nicholas Gonzalez
00:59:30

In this episode, John sits down and chats with actor, Nicholas Gonzalez.

Nov 24, 2021
It's Not Me, It's You: Love and Money
00:37:17

Money is one of those topics that can make or break a relationship. John and Vanessa discuss how their upbringings and personal beliefs about money shape them individually, but also as a partnership. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.

Nov 22, 2021
Kind To You First
00:15:41

In this episode, John talks about the importance of being kind to you first.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Nov 19, 2021
How To Heal A Broken Heart
00:12:12

In this episode, John talks about his theory on how to heal a broken heart.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Nov 17, 2021
It's Not Me, It's You: The Relationship Dance
00:35:44

So many relationship dances, so little time: Avoidant/Anxious, Overfunctioner/Underfunctioner, CODA/Compulsive, Enabler/Enabled. John and Vanessa dive into how they are always trying to become more aware when the cycles start and old patterns take over, and how they can work to break them through naming them. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.

Nov 15, 2021
How To Express Your Needs
00:16:04

In this episode, John talks about how to properly express your needs in your relationships.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Nov 12, 2021
The Blindsided Break Up
00:19:02

In this episode, John talks about how being blindsided by a break up can be more difficult than other break ups, and how to heal from them.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Nov 10, 2021
It's Not Me, It's You: Rewiring Through Love
00:33:34

In this episode, John and Vanessa get into the importance of feeling an experience or a change in your habits, behaviors or needs in your body - having a full system experience - in order for you to eventually rewire your brain and make the change stick. They also talk about some personal examples where they have felt the integration happening in real time.

Nov 08, 2021
Destroy Your Default
00:11:43

In this episode, John talks about our unhealthy defaults and how to change them.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Nov 05, 2021
Take The Risk
00:18:28

In this episode, John talks about his dad and how to practice taking healthy risks.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Nov 03, 2021
It's Not Me, It's You: Our Love Lessons
00:36:42

In this episode, John and Vanessa each go through three love lessons they've learned on their journeys. Some learned through past love experiences and some new lessons learned with each other.

Nov 01, 2021
Hey, If You're Single...
00:13:53

In this episode, John discusses some helpful advice and tips on how to be single and connect back to yourself.

Oct 29, 2021
Three Love Poisons
00:12:15

In this episode, John discusses the three things that poisons love that he got from a book he's reading, "The Four Noble Truths of Love" by Susan Piver.

Oct 27, 2021
It's Not Me, It's You: Reflections 2020
00:37:45

In this episode, John and Vanessa review of all the crazy things that happened in 2020, the learnings that came from those experiences, and the excitement for what’s to come.

Oct 25, 2021
I Don't Know Where To Start
00:14:03

In this episode, John talks about what living in the light vs what living in the dark looks like, where you're pulling from, and how to change it.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Oct 22, 2021
Can Our Marriage Survive Affairs?
00:17:10

In this episode, John gives his insight on a question he's commonly asked: can our marriage survive affairs?


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Oct 20, 2021
It's Not Me, It's You: Finding Beauty In The Contrast
00:46:47

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the double edged sword that is their contrasting personalities. The things they love about each other are also the same things that can activate the shit out of them. How do they continue to remind themselves that their differences can actually be what helps them stretch and the relationship go deeper?

Oct 18, 2021
Answering Your Questions With Vanessa Bennett
00:32:44

In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about sending their daughter off to school, and answer live questions from people over Zoom.

Oct 15, 2021
A Mindfulness Tip
00:12:49

In this episode, John talks about practicing mindfulness while washing his car and gives you a piece of advice he learned about when he was a teenager.

Oct 13, 2021
It's Not Me, It's You: How Our Stars Line Up
00:55:04

In this episode, John and Vanessa take a look at their star charts and how they both align as well as conflict. They talk through how our inner emotional worlds are almost the exact opposite and how differences like this can make or break them depending on how much they understand, empathize, and adjust their expectations accordingly.

Oct 11, 2021
Chicken Sh*t
00:15:36

In this episode, John talks about overcoming his fears including his fear of small animals.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Oct 08, 2021
Three Signs Your Relationship Is In Trouble
00:14:07

In this episode, John talks about three possible signs your relationship might be in trouble and why.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Oct 06, 2021
It's Not Me, It's You Series: How Our Codependency Shows Up
00:37:01

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You" series, John and Vanessa take a different approach with a deep dive into codependency and how it affects their relationship. In working through her own codependency, as well as with clients who almost all struggle in some way or another, Vanessa has made it a personal mission to speak openly with whoever will listen about the different ways it can show up.

Oct 04, 2021
A Crucial Part of Self Awareness
00:12:30

In this episode, John talks about what he believes is a crucial part of self awareness.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Oct 01, 2021
It's Not Me, It's You Series: The Whale Under Water
00:49:24

In the second episode of "It's Not Me, It's You" series, John and Vanessa explore what’s happening underneath their relationship. John not feeling desired, Vanessa not feeling good enough, and patterns they were not aware of.

Sep 29, 2021
Abundant v.s. Scarcity Mindset
00:16:42

In this episode, John explains the difference between those who have an abundant mindset vs a scarcity mindset.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Sep 27, 2021
We're Not Having Sex Anymore
00:15:06

In this episode, John reads and discusses a chapter from his new book "Single. On Purpose."Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Sep 24, 2021
Three Green Flags You Should Look For
00:14:14

In this episode, John talks about the three green flags you should look for in a relationship.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Sep 22, 2021
It's Not Me, It's You Series: The Three Year Itch
00:33:41

In the first episode of "It's Not Me, It's You" series, John and Vanessa discuss their relationship and feelings around the three year itch.

Sep 20, 2021
Sparking Joy (On My Couch)
00:14:32

In this episode, John talks about how to soak up the moments and spark joy in your life.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Sep 17, 2021
Things I Find Beauty In
00:18:07

In this episode, John talks about the things he finds beauty in in his life.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Sep 15, 2021
Freedom Is Everything
00:17:41

In this episode, John talks about how to find freedom in your life.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Sep 13, 2021
Buy The Sliced Apples
00:14:09

In this episode, John talks about how to make things easier for yourself.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Sep 10, 2021
How Do I Change Someone?
00:21:30

In this episode, John answers a question he's most commonly asked: how do I change someone?


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Sep 08, 2021
Three Signs Your Relationship Is In Trouble
00:15:12

In this episode, John talks about the three most common signs you'll feel or see when your relationship is in trouble.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Sep 06, 2021
No BS with the Jaffe's
01:03:41

In this hour long episode, John and his partner, Vanessa, talk about therapy, trauma, relationships, childhood, parenting, and much more with another couple, the Jaffe's.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Sep 03, 2021
Does Easy Mean You're With The Right Person?
00:12:58

In this episode, John talks about whether being in an easy relationship means you're with the right person or not.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Sep 01, 2021
Redefining Productivity
00:15:51

In this episode, John talks about how to be productive in a healthy way.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Aug 30, 2021
Your Old Self Hangover
00:14:21

In this episode, John talks about the importance of growth and how it's a process.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Aug 27, 2021
We Must Create New Lenses
00:13:55

In this episode, John talks about the importance of creating new lenses after hardship.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Aug 25, 2021
Dear Future Self
00:15:50

In this episode, John reads a letter he wrote to his future self.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Aug 23, 2021
Actively Seek Beauty
00:13:10

In this episode, John talks about how to actively seek beauty in your life.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Aug 20, 2021
Finding The Perfect Partner vs Finding Perfect In Your Partner
00:10:46

In this episode, John explains his take on "the one," and how to focus on finding the perfect in your partner rather than finding the perfect partner.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Aug 18, 2021
My Definition of Beauty
00:15:16

In this episode, John talks about his definition of beauty.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Aug 16, 2021
In Love vs In Lost
00:16:55

In this episode, John talks about the difference between feeling in love and feeling in lost, and how some people can mistake one for the other.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Aug 13, 2021
Hitting Pause On Life
00:19:30

In this episode, John talks the about the importance of hitting pause on life and taking the time to feel gratitude.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Aug 11, 2021
My Boyfriend is a Jealous Person
00:21:00

In this episode, John shares some advice and tips on how to deal with a jealous boyfriend, girlfriend, or partner.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Aug 09, 2021
Gratitude Series: Episode Two
00:14:01

In the second episode of the Gratitude Series, John talks about all of the things he is grateful for in his life right now.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Aug 06, 2021
How to Not Drift in Your Relationship
00:13:40

In this episode, John talks about how not to drift in your relationship.


Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Aug 04, 2021
Dissolving Worry
00:14:33

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Aug 02, 2021
How Important is Sex in a Relationship
00:19:45

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jul 30, 2021
One of the Greatest Life Tools
00:19:18

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Jul 28, 2021
Soul Navigation
00:18:11

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jul 26, 2021
Miserable Fuck Series #26 Don't Pee in the Shower (It's Not What You Think)
00:13:31

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jul 23, 2021
No BS with Steve Dubbeldam
00:49:03

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jul 21, 2021
Daily Practices of Joy
00:21:03

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Jul 19, 2021
The 4 C's (In Relationships)
00:13:36

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jul 16, 2021
My F*cking Feelings (At a Diner)
00:13:38

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jul 14, 2021
Seed Model For Your Relationships
00:14:39

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jul 12, 2021
Change Your Life? Start Here.
00:12:55

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Jul 09, 2021
A Self Interview
00:24:32

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  


Jul 07, 2021
How Do I Realign My Life
00:17:56

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



Jul 05, 2021
Some Things to Finally Give Up
00:23:34

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jul 02, 2021
Three Things Needed to Flourish
00:22:50

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 30, 2021
Miserable Fuck Series (#9 Don't Pee Over the Metaphorical Urinal)
00:16:29

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 28, 2021
Building Empathy
00:15:26

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 25, 2021
How to Build Self Esteem
00:12:23

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 23, 2021
Two Life Game Changers
00:15:05

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 21, 2021
My Fucking Feelings (About Last Night)
00:11:24

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 18, 2021
Miserable Fuck Series (#36 Do Love Hard)
00:18:58

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 16, 2021
How You Know You're Changing
00:26:58

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 14, 2021
Aliens, Sushi, and a Breathing Exercise
00:23:35

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 11, 2021
Practice This Powerful Mindset
00:15:07

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 09, 2021
5 Relationship Mistakes
00:27:09

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 07, 2021
If There's One Thing I've Learned
00:12:27

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Jun 04, 2021
Stop The Chase
00:10:58

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

Jun 02, 2021
Don't Chase Happy. Instead Do This
00:15:59

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

May 31, 2021
Four Things That Can Cripple Your Relationship
00:17:57

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



May 28, 2021
Why a New Love Experience?
00:10:49

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  



May 26, 2021
Musts For Your Everyday
00:18:07

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

May 24, 2021
The Buy In For Love
00:10:04

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

May 21, 2021
Stop Living In Time Machines
00:16:21

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

May 19, 2021
10 Love Lessons (In a Shot Glass)
00:12:39

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

May 17, 2021
Life is a Boomerang
00:53:01

John processes his past possibly coming back. Some potential tv projects has him feeling anxiety and powerlessness. He’s afraid he’s going to snap back to who he used to be. 

May 14, 2021
The Day I Didn't Fit In
00:15:04

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

May 12, 2021
How to Find Your Personal Legend
00:14:27

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

May 10, 2021
How to Create a New Love Experience
00:16:35

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

May 07, 2021
Power in the Announcement
00:12:24

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

May 05, 2021
Flow Your Way Through
00:11:49

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  

May 03, 2021
Interest vs Commitment
00:14:50

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Apr 30, 2021
No BS with Justin Baldoni
00:53:36

Justin Baldoni is an actor, director, and filmmaker. He is best known for portraying Rafael Solano on The CW satirical romantic dramedy Jane the Virgin as well as directing the films Five Feet Apart and Clouds. He is a husband and father with a passion in men’s work. John and Justin create a dialogue about toxic masculinity and his new book, “Man Enough.” 

Apr 28, 2021
You Can't Build Self Esteem Without This
00:12:32

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Apr 26, 2021
Things to Give Less Fucks About
00:14:49

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Apr 23, 2021
Love Beyond What Happened
00:14:52

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Apr 21, 2021
A Real Session About Closure
00:14:27

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Apr 19, 2021
No BS with Andre Hall
00:47:19

An amazing story of an addict who went from suicidal attempt to living in gratitude and helping others, just by being positive and seeing the world through new lenses. His story will give you chills and a new appreciation for life.

Apr 16, 2021
Revelations, Pro life tips, & Doppelbangers
00:19:34

John passes his phone around to his friends who share how they know him, a life revelation, and who their doppelbänger- someone they slept with who looks like a celebrity- is.

Apr 14, 2021
What If I'm Not Feeling It Anymore?
00:17:59

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Apr 12, 2021
48 (Birthday Revelations)
00:27:09

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Apr 10, 2021
Gratitudes Series: Episode One
00:15:41

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Apr 09, 2021
Communication For Dummies
00:14:20

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Apr 07, 2021
Am I A Fraud?
00:51:41

Therapists should see a therapist as well. John gets back into his own therapy, something he hasn’t done in a long time.  In this session he processes his greatest fear, people thinking he’s a fraud.  

Apr 05, 2021
Relationship Residue
00:14:47

Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. 

Apr 01, 2021
Life Boomerangs
00:14:27

One of the great miracles of this life is it throws boomerangs. Your past comes back. In a good way. And allows you to connect dots. Believe there was a reason. Understand there is always something bigger happening. If you have 10 minutes, let me explain. 

Mar 30, 2021
The New Love
00:08:50

In this episode, John Kim gives you his definition of the new love. Because old love can be residue and we can’t grow without new definitions.

Mar 25, 2021
The Little Things are Big
00:16:10

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco and Envato. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Mar 23, 2021
Get Your Own Life Already
00:10:27

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

____ 

Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

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Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Mar 18, 2021
The New Picket Fence
00:16:44

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Mar 16, 2021
Finding Your Flow
00:13:17

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

____ 

Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

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Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Mar 11, 2021
When People Trigger Us
00:16:04

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts

Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Mar 09, 2021
TAT LAB: Intimacy and Sexuality with Rena Martine
00:40:17

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now

John Kim talks about intimacy and sexuality with TAT Lab instructor Rena Martine

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

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Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Mar 04, 2021
I Don't Know Where to Start
00:08:07

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now

___

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Mar 02, 2021
TAT LAB: Love in Your 20's with Tess Brewer
00:35:25

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now

John Kim talks about love in your 20s with TAT LAB fellow Tess Brewer.

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts

Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Feb 25, 2021
This is Crucial for Self Awareness
00:13:29

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!

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Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts

Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Feb 23, 2021
TAT LAB: Breathwork with Brandon Groux
00:14:25

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now

John Kim talks adventure, nomadic life and breathwork with TAT lab instructor Brandon Groux.

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

____ 

Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts

Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Feb 18, 2021
Lean Into the Power of Your Story
00:16:45

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

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Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Feb 16, 2021
TAT LAB: Rewiring with Jenn Reddy
00:46:38

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now

John Kim goes deep on re-wiring with TAT lab instructor Jenn Reddy.

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

____ 

Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts

Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Feb 11, 2021
Two Relationship Gamechangers
00:18:38

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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The Angry Therapist listeners: Get 14 Day free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership! Click here to redeem 

Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry

Explore more than 32,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career.

____ 

Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts

Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

____

Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Feb 09, 2021
How Do You Know When to Love Someone?
00:05:58

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!

___

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

____ 

Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts

Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

____

Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Feb 04, 2021
The Feel Goods Can Change Your Life -- Here's How
00:17:15

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!

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BetterHelp.com -- Get 10% off your first month with code ANGRY

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

____ 

Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts

Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Feb 02, 2021
This is a Good Place to Start
00:17:50

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! ___

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Get 40% off your membership by visiting Calm.com/angrytherapist You can use Calm.com to reduce stress, better sleep, develop gratitude, increase happiness, improve performance, build self-esteem or reduce anxiety.

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

____ 

Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts

Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

___

Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Jan 28, 2021
Do You Believe in Love at First Sight?
00:16:22

Do you believe in love at first sight? John breaks down this common misconception about love. John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now!

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Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Jan 26, 2021
TAT LAB: Singlehood with Dené Selkin
00:50:40

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! John Kim goes deep on singlehood with TAT lab instructor Dene Selkin.

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

____ 

Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts

Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.


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Jan 21, 2021
How to Create a New Life For Yourself
00:16:15

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now

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The Angry Therapist listeners: Get 14 Day free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership! Click here to redeem 

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Explore more than 32,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career.

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Get 40% off and FREE shipping! USE CODE ANGRY -- http://foursigmatic.com/angry TRY MUSHROOM COFFEE. A better way to power up! Coffee and Lions Mane get your brain going. Chaga can keep the stomach calm and the body well. No more sacrificing your afternoon for your morning. ___

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

____ 

Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts

Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke

Jan 19, 2021
How to Heal a Broken Heart
00:11:42

John Kim's newest book is OUT NOW! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

____ 

Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts

Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Jan 14, 2021
Single on Purpose: Treat Your Mind Better
00:18:30

John Kim's newest book is OUT TODAY! Single on Purpose. It hit #1 in Dating on Amazon, Order it now! John's doing a special series of episodes to dive deep into the concepts from the book.

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Get $5 OFF -- Magic Spoon is healthy cereal that tastes too good to be true. Keto cereal that's High-Protein, Low-Sugar, Keto-Friendly, Non-GMO, Gluten-Free, Grain-Free, Soy-Free, Wheat-Free!

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Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Jan 12, 2021
Single on Purpose: Getting Over Someone
00:13:32

John Kim's newest book is almost here: Single on Purpose. It's already #1 in Dating on Amazon, Pre-order it now! John's doing a special series of episodes to dive deep into the concepts from the book! 

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Skillshare -- Learn ANYTHING and thrive.

The Angry Therapist listeners: Get 2 months free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership! Click here to redeem 

Use this code: https://www.skillshare.com/angry

Explore more than 32,000 classes to fuel your curiosity, creativity, and career. ___ 

THRIVE MARKET -- 25% off your first order

Buy healthy food from top-selling, organic brands at wholesale prices. Thrive Market makes healthy living easy. Your favorite organic & non-GMO brands, plus guaranteed savings—delivered to your door. Tailored to any diet!

Visit www.thrivemarket.com/angrytherapist to get 25% off your first order and a free gift, and your membership helps support those in need.

Jan 05, 2021
Single on Purpose: Dealing with Loneliness
00:10:09

John Kim's newest book is almost here: Single on Purpose. It's already #1 in Dating on Amazon, Pre-order it now! John's doing a special series of episodes to dive deep into the concepts from the book! 

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Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

Sign up for texting with The Angry Therapist: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/texts

Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Dec 31, 2020
Single on Purpose: Be With Yourself First
00:18:01

John Kim's newest book is almost here: Single on Purpose. It's already #1 in Dating on Amazon, Pre-order it now! John's doing a special series of episodes to dive deep into the concepts from the book! ____

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Dec 29, 2020
Your Act Break Year
00:14:16

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Dec 24, 2020
TAT LAB: 360 Degrees of Wellness with Barbara Haynes
00:32:40

John Kim goes deep on all aspects of wellness with TAT lab instructor Barbara Haynes.

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Dec 22, 2020
TAT LAB: What is Codependency? with Vanessa Bennett
00:32:44

John Kim goes deep on codependency within relationships with TAT lab instructor Vanessa Bennett.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Dec 17, 2020
TAT LAB: How Attachment Styles Affect Our Relationships with Taune Lyons
00:33:48

John Kim goes deep on relationships and attachment styles with TAT lab instructor Taune Lyons.

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Dec 15, 2020
TAT LAB: Astrology and Relationships with Milly Murillo
00:34:58

John Kim goes deep on astrology and relationships with coach and TAT lab instructor Milly Murillo, of AstroConsciousness.

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Dec 10, 2020
How to Practice Kindness and Love
00:16:04

Reading Jack Kornfield teaches me a few things about love and kindness.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Dec 08, 2020
Personal Growth Comes in Waves
00:12:31

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Dec 03, 2020
You Thought it Was Love, But it Wasn't
00:19:49

What if you thought it was love, but what if it wasn't?John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Dec 01, 2020
Giving Thanks for the Small Stuff
00:16:38

A re-broadcast from 2018, we goes into the small stuff and talks about handling difficult situations over the holidays.

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 26, 2020
3 Ways to Become a Better Partner
00:16:04

Everyone wants to be a better partner -- here's three ways to become one.

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 24, 2020
TAT LAB: Sex and Love Addiction with Sean Cardinalli
00:30:51

John Kim goes deep on sex and love addiction with coach and TAT lab instructor Sean Cardinalli. 

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John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Ready to try the Lab? Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

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Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 19, 2020
How to Know if You're Ready for Commitment
00:16:47

Are you ready for real commitment in a relationship? 

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 17, 2020
Trauma Bonding vs.True Love
00:16:47

Is it real love, or just a trauma bond?John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 12, 2020
No BS with Mike Sagun
00:55:39

My guest today is Mike Sagun. He's incredible and we had an amazing conversation about men's mental health and self care and so much more.____

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Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. BetterHelp will match you to one of 13,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guidance from your counselor.____MIKE SAGUN -- Mike is a certified professional men’s coach and co-founder of The Unshakable Man. He has a BA in Education and spent 10 years as a teaching artist coaching young people. He trained with Challenge Day and with Lincoln Center Education in NYC. In 2017, Mike delivered a Ted Talk about the significance for young people to have trusted adults in their lives. Recognizing the impact and importance of deep emotional health propelled him into his coaching career. After graduating from Coaches Training Institute, Mike launched his coaching practice with the purpose of creating safe spaces for men to think deeply about themselves and to develop skills for living authentic lives. Since then, Mike has partnered with companies like DropBox, LinkedIn, Google, Kaiser Permanente, and Saje Wellness. Mike also partners with EVRYMAN, where he hosts men's groups, facilitates men’s retreats, coaches individuals, and co-leads EVRYMAN's diversity and inclusion program. When Mike isn't coaching, hosting webinars, or developing ways to help men grow, you can find him with dirty hands, either gardening or in the kitchen cooking with his husband, Jerry. Mike, Jerry, and their pit-bull rescue, Bert, live in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico.

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Interested in becoming a coach and making a bigger impact in the lives of others, while finding personal freedom? Learn more here.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke, with support from Stephanie Zoccatelli.

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Nov 10, 2020
The 6-Second Kiss Can Change Your Life
00:14:16

It's time to bring kissing back.

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 05, 2020
Abundance vs. Scarcity
00:17:31

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Nov 03, 2020
Does Your Relationship Really Have a Chance?
00:13:22

Can your relationship last?

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Oct 29, 2020
Redefining Love
00:16:03

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Oct 27, 2020
The Power of Slowing Down
00:16:06

"Just slow things down and it becomes more beautiful." - David Lynch

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Oct 22, 2020
How to Know When Your Relationship is Over
00:17:00

This is how you know. And you gotta be honest.

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Oct 20, 2020
Negative Visualization
00:11:20

Ancient stoic technique for growth. Check it out.

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shot glass. Ten minutes, no filler.

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Try a new way to grow. Like fitness classes but for your mental and emotional health: https://www.tat-lab.com

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Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Oct 15, 2020
This Promise To Yourself Will Change Your Life
00:13:53

What's the biggest and most important promise you can make to yourself?

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Want to change your own life, give back to others and change the way others experience the world? Let's talk. Join JRNI Coaching and become a life coach.

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Music in this episode is by Keshco. The Angry Therapist Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

Oct 13, 2020
Are You With a Narcissist?
00:14:48