Change the energy around sis. Fill your life with the people and the things that make you a big deal. People that don't play with you or about you. There are people in your life that genuinely, authentically, and deeply love you...just for who you are. So why are you so pressed about the people that don't? Why keep making space, for people, for things in your life, that no longer serve you? People that no longer uplift you? Stop giving life to something that should have died out a long time ago sis. Move around.... Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp! Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/SLAY Try Dipsea and get 30 days of full access for free by visiting dipseastories.com/SLAY Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You asked, and she's answering! Ashley answers your questions, and shares her experience with being afraid to take new opportunities, working through fear and anxiety, how to deal with negative family members, and much more. She talks how to let go of things that no longer serve you, taking small steps to create something meaningful, and even shares some great advice she got from a therapist! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp! Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/SLAY Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You have to know how much you're worth, and not be afraid to ask for the things that you want. Other people, jobs, companies, and brands have no problem telling you what they want. Stop being scary, and start telling others what you want too. Reciprocity, is how we're moving sis. Accommodations require accommodation. You cannot continuously pour into everything and everybody, and nothing is pouring into you. It is important to serve others, but you are also not a public water fountain. Sorry...but...it needed to be said. Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp! Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/SLAY Try Dipsea and get 30 days of full access for free by visiting dipseastories.com/SLAY Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why do you do what you do sis? Are you here to educate, to serve, to teach something, to lead by example, to change your life, to change your families life...why do you chase the dream? Or is it for likes, downloads, having a K next to your posts on social media, to be trendy, and popping for everybody else? Being recognized for your gift is complimentary sis, not mandatory. But if you stay focused, and keep going, and stop comparing where you measure up to others....the gift that you have and the purpose that you were given is bigger than any like, view, download, or compliment that you could ever receive. Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp! Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/SLAY Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There will be times in our lives where we have tons of friends, our calendar is full of events, and our lives feel full. There is a reason for that season. But there will also be times where our lives where it's just us. We don't have a lot of friends, we don't relate anymore to the people we used to relate to, and we feel separated. We feel isolated, and there is a reason for that season too. With separation, comes elevation sis. Your growth is not a group project. Sometimes it will take a season of just you, a season of doing it alone, a season of separation to get yourself there. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes we will find ourselves in a season of uncertainty. We don't know what's next, we don't know what the outcome will be to a certain situation, we're not sure if our prayers will be answered. We get upset, and frustrated, and even disappointed because things aren't going the way that we planned. But good things take time sis, and God would never bring you this far, to only bring you this far. Sometimes while we're trying to figure it out, it's already been worked out, and we have to learn how to rest in that. To take a step back, and let God do what only He can do. Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp! Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/SLAY Try Dipsea and get 30 days of full access for free by visiting dipseastories.com/SLAY Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When you keep a plant in a small pot for too long, you stunt it's growth. Same goes for you sis. If you stay in the same place too long, in the same mindset, same routine, around the same people, you stunt your growth. Sometimes you have to change the pot, change the soil, change the environment....to change your life. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Well well well...if it isn't SEASON 6 gracing us with her presence! Welcome back boo, we missed you!!!! (for real, for real) The last few years have been filled with ups and downs, trials and triumphs, and sis....you did that. But this season is personal. This era is personal. And you can't afford to move how you used to move, think how you used to think, or act how you used to act. It's time to do something different. Whatever you did up until this point, good job....but what else you got? What else are you capable of? What else can you do? It was your audacity that got you to the doors you wanted to get to. But it is your authority....that will kick them in. Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp! Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/SLAY Try Dipsea and get 30 days of full access for free by visiting dipseastories.com/SLAY Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Miss you boo! Popping in to remind you of our new show coming out on Monday, January 9th! Subscribe Now To The Good News Podcast! An AshMedia Network Production… Click here to subscribe to The Good News podcast now on all audio platforms or wherever you get your podcasts! Streaming new episodes on January 9th. Get Your Podcast Merch! Get your podcast merch here at shopslaygirlslay.com ! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook The post Introducing The Good News appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes, you can’t afford to wait for an opportunity to fall into your lap. You can’t always wait for a door to be opened for you sis. Sometimes…you have to kick it in. Create your own opportunities. Create your own table to sit at, chair to sit in, and door to walk through. As we say goodbye to yet another season of the podcast, we’re also saying hello…to something new. In this next year, and next season of your life – do not be afraid to come for everything that’s yours sis. Do not be afraid to lace up your shoes, hit the ground running, and forge your own path. From this moment forward, do not be afraid to show people what you’re truly made of. Do not be afraid, to show them….what you’ve got. Until next season……..peace. Subscribe Now To The Good News Podcast! An AshMedia Network Production… Click here to subscribe to The Good News podcast now on all audio platforms or wherever you get your podcasts! Streaming new episodes on January 9th. Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Today’s episode is sponsored by Nike! Check out the Nike Go Leggings at Nike.com! Get Your Podcast Merch! Get your podcast merch here at shopslaygirlslay.com ! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook The post Create Your Own Lane appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As we wrap up another year, don’t start evaluating all the things that you did not get to do. Do not, for one second, try to add up where you stand next to everyone else this year. Accomplishments come and go sis. But you are forever. The girl that you were earlier this year, last year, and years before – is not the same woman listening today. She has new goals, new dreams, and new values. That is an accomplishment within itself. As we go into this next chapter, and this new season…with new goals and aspirations. Keep doing exactly what you do best sis….you. Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Today’s episode is sponsored by Nike! Check out the Nike Go Leggings at Nike.com! Slay Girl Slay is sponsored by BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month by visiting betterhelp.com/slay. Get Your Podcast Merch! Get your podcast merch here at shopslaygirlslay.com ! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook The post You Are The Accomplishment appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes you have to let go, and trust that things will work out the way that they need to. If it worked out beautifully before, it will work out beautifully again. The things that are big to us, are nothing to Him. And we have to learn how to step back, and stop trying to fight all of our battles, take all of our wins…and let God be exactly who He is….God. Sometimes life, sometimes your circumstances, and situations have to feel impossible…for God to show you that anything is possible. Let go sis….and trust that if He blessed you before, that you will be blessed again. Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Today’s episode is sponsored by Nike! Check out the Nike Go Leggings at Nike.com! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook The post One Thing About God appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Just like we always know the leaves will change in the fall, and that the flowers will always bloom in the spring. That your time to bloom…will always come too. That there will always be a time in your life that you will produce new things, new seasons, new glory, new life, and new experiences too. No matter what life is looking like right now for you, something good is always on its way to you. But it takes patience sis. Patience with the dreams you have. Patience with the process you have to go through to get there. But most of all…it takes patience….with yourself. Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Today’s episode is sponsored by Nike! Check out the Nike Go Leggings at Nike.com! Slay Girl Slay is sponsored by BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month by visiting betterhelp.com/slay. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook The post Be Patient With Yourself appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Life is already tough as it is sis. Don’t make it harder, by criticizing yourself. Criticizing your looks, your thoughts, your decisions…let it go. Allow yourself to just be yourself. Sometimes people, family, and even friends will say something to you, that will make you question who you are. The things that they say will make you question yourself, and who you’ve decided to be. But there is no version of you that will make everyone on this earth happy. The only person, that you can truly make happy….is you. Let people feel whatever they need to feel. But remember to put your feelings…first. Check Out The Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Use promo code SLAY today at shipstation.com to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook The post The Courage To Be You appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There is more to your life than what you’ve already seen sis. Sometimes we get so focused on our day to day, our to do lists, and responsibilities that we forget to look at the bigger picture, that is our life. There is so much more to who you are, there is more of what you will do, more of what you will see, and more of what you will experience. You are not here by chance sis. Just like the stars and the moon in the sky, you were made with intention. Do not ever forget that. Check out this very old, but very cool video we mentioned called The Powers Of 10 Check out these even cooler photos of the Pillars of Creation by the James Webb Telescope! We’ve Added Some New Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/slay Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook The post Look At The Bigger Picture appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You can make 100 plans and have 100 things to do, but that means nothing if you don’t have your priorities together. The year is coming to an end, and now is the time (before the turkey & the holiday shopping of course) to sit down and think about what you want the next 12 months of your life to look like. A lot can happen in a year sis, but only if you make your dreams, goals and ambitions a priority. Sometimes we make things, people, relationships, situations, and even feelings more important than they need to be. As we go into this next season…this next era….what will be most important to you? What things have you been putting last…that needs to come first? We’ve Added Some New Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/slay Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook The post Get Your Priorities Together appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Your life can sometimes be just like a puzzle: some pieces are together in one corner, and a a few pieces together in another. But there’s still a pile of things that you haven’t connected yet, pieces that are still in the box. In life, when you take a leap of faith, and follow your heart – the results don’t happen right away, you can’t see the full picture. Sometimes we find ourselves in a waiting season, still trying to put pieces of our lives together, and trying to see what will fit. But sis, if no one told you, let us remind you: what’s next for you, will be what’s best for you. Over the course of your life, you have only gotten better, and better, and better. And if you could only just keep going, keep pushing, and putting the pieces together, you will see that what comes next is better than what you were even expecting. We’ve Added Some New Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/slay Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook The post Your Next Is Your Best appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When you find yourself living in a dream you once had, or you’ve accomplished a huge goal, it can be both beautiful & ugly sometimes. Everything in life has a price boo, and we’re not just talking about dollars and cents. The life you want to have, you will have to pay for it in some way. And sometimes that price can feel very expensive. But don’t get it twisted sis….just because it’s expensive doesn’t mean you can’t afford it. If something was placed on your heart to do, then it is there for a reason. You are equipped to handle whatever your dreams, goals and ambitions may cost you sis. Always have been, always will be. It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/slay Make money anywhere and at anytime by sharing your opinion with Decision Analyst! Sign up for free today at acop.com/SGS  Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook The post Your Dreams Have A Price appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The words you speak to others and most importantly to yourself, have power sis. The things you say out loud have the power to make you or break you, and you have to be mindful about what you speak. The words that you speak become the house that you live in, and if you wake up speaking from an awful, negative, ugly place – then that is where your mind will stay. If you wake up, and speak of all the good, of the change you see coming, of the light you see in every dark place, the good you want to feel…then that is where your mind will stay. How do you speak about your situations sis? Which house, are you living in? It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/slay Ship more and grow more with ShipStation. Go to ShipStation.com today and sign up with promo code SLAY for a FREE 60-day trial. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook The post The Words You Speak Become The House You Live In appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hold on to that vision of yours sis, like your life depends on it. The vision you have for yourself, for your future, for your family – hold on to it, and do not ever let it go. Even if your vision seems impossible. The thing about impossible, is that it only seems impossible until it’s done. But if you put in the time, and put out the focus…anything is possible sis. Literally….anything. It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! It can be hard to fit everything in – especially when it comes to luggage. Bring it all – with Beis and get 15% off your first purchase by visiting BEISTRAVEL.com/SLAY  Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook The post Fight For Your Focus appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Never settle for anything, just because it’s available sis. If you settle for less than what you rightfully deserve, then you will get less than what you rightfully deserve. Whether you are choosing to be single, in a relationship, married or divorced – it is still a journey. And sometimes other people won’t understand that journey. But sis, hold on to your values. Hold on to your worth. Hold on to the vision that you see for yourself. And do not ever settle, for any person, place or thing…until you get exactly what you were looking for. It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! Slay Girl Slay listeners get 15% off your first order, when you visit thrivecausemetics.com/slay. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook The post You Are More Than Your Relationship Status appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Contrary to popular belief, your confidence can not be purchased sis. You can not find your confidence in the makeup aisle at Sephora. It can not be found in your likes and views on your social media. Confidence isn’t in what other people think about you, but most importantly how you think about yourself. It’s about how beautiful YOU think you are. It’s about how smart YOU think you are, or capable, or good enough…we can keep going. Confidence is about how you see yourself sis. And the more you start to confirm and reaffirm who you are, the less you’ll need others to. It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! It can be hard to fit everything in – especially when it comes to luggage. Bring it all – with Beis and get 15% off your first purchase by visiting BEISTRAVEL.com/SLAY  Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook The post Change The Way You See Yourself appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A blessing can change your life in the most beautiful way, but sometimes blessings…can be heavy sis. Often times the big opportunities, the moments that change our lives, the blessings that we work for – don’t look so good in the beginning. We think that these opportunities and moments will make our lives feel good immediately, and everything will make sense, and all will be aligned. But most times…it’s the opposite. Some blessings…come with a tremendous cost and a tremendous sacrifice. But it would not have been given to you, if it was not for you. You would not have reached this point in your life, this moment, and this season…if you were not mean to. We want to hear your story! If you’ve faced an extraordinary obstacle, and it changed your life…we want to hear about it! Visit slaygrlslay.com to share! Also, as mentioned in today’s episode, learn more about Samantha CurlHaus here!  It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/slay Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post A Blessing Is A Blessing Sis appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Worrying will get you nowhere boo. Worrying will have you spinning your wheels, trying to solve a problem that you may not even have to solve. Calm down boo….rest your mind. There’s a chance that what you’re worried about might happen. But there’s also an even greater chance that it wont. Intrusive thoughts have the power to ruin your day…and even your life if you let them. Don’t let your thoughts, or your mind…keep you in a place that does not serve you boo. It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/slay For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/slay Slay Girl Slay listeners get 15% off your first order, when you visit thrivecausemetics.com/slay. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Girl, Calm Down appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes it feels like we are going to break, right before a breakthrough. Often times right before everything starts to come together, it feels like your world is coming apart. Today, we just wanted to remind you that it’s okay. One day, you’ll look back and be glad that you didn’t stop. If you’ve been feeling down and out, ready to throw in the towel on what you’ve been working towards, and just ready to give up…this one is for you. So keep moving sis, keep going, and do not stop until you get there. It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/slay Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Just Keep Going appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Some of you are still waiting to move forward with your ideas, out of fear that it won’t happen the way that you want it to. Some of you are holding back on your plans, because you want it to be perfect before you get started. We’re not the experts, but sis…you can’t be a NY Times Bestseller – without a first draft…you know? You can’t be an Oscar winning actress, without a first audition. Those are just examples, but the point is, the outcome isn’t what matters at first. It doesn’t matter who likes what you do, or how you do it. What matters…is that you sit yourself down…and just start it. It’s Official! We’ve Got Merch! Get your official Slay Girl Slay Podcast merch at shopslaygirlslay.com! Get your hats, sweatshirts and jackets and be sure to take a pic and tag us! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/slay Slay Girl Slay listeners get 15% off your first order, when you visit thrivecausemetics.com/slay.  Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Start By Just Starting appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You have to be super mindful about not just the things that make you happy, but even more mindful about the things that don’t. Protecting your peace, gives you a peace of mind sis. What good is achieving your goals and dreams if you don’t have the peace to enjoy them? What good is getting a bag, if you don’t have the peace to enjoy it? Some of us are working hard and finally starting to make moves in our lives – but constantly giving people, family, friends, coworkers the rights to take our peace away. But after today…we’re making some changes.  Mark your calendars, the Slay Girl Slay podcast has merch dropping on August 1st!!! Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/slay It can be hard to fit everything in – especially when it comes to luggage. Bring it all – with Beis and get 15% off your first purchase by visiting BEISTRAVEL.com/SLAY  Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Protect Your Peace appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You can’t control what happens next, but you can do your best to be prepared for it. Planning for your life, your business, and even your family is just preparation. Preparing for the things you want to happen, and sometimes preparing for the things that you don’t. Anything can happen, and there is always a chance that it will…but your plans, keep you prepared, in the event that they do. What plans are you making right now sis, and in the event that those plans fall through – what’s next? Because it’s better to have a plan and not need it, than to need it….and not have it.  Thanks To Today’s Sponsors! BetterHelp is online therapy that offers video, phone, and even live chat-only therapy sessions. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/slay For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/slay  Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Always Have A Plan appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s a lot going on in the world right now, or maybe it’s a lot going on in your life and it’s easy to feel hopeless. But no matter what’s happening to and around you, make a decision to get up, and get yours anyway sis. You make the decision for what comes next in your life. You make the decision for how you want to move forward. Do not let people, family, friends, society, or whoever dictate the very gift, and the very essence of who you are. You make the decision….not them. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post The Decision Is Yours appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The more you work, the more progress you make. But also, the closer you get to burning out. You can’t always be “on” sis. You are not a machine. Sometimes being unproductive is just as important as being productive, and this week we’re showing you how. No matter what’s on your plate, no matter how many responsibilities you have or the number of your to do lists – you deserve to rest. You can’t keep achieving more, without taking a step back, and doing less. If you needed a sign (or permission) to take a step back, and take a break – here it is. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post You Deserve To Rest Sis appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Remember 12 year old you? What you looked like? What you struggled with? Before you start beating yourself up today about how you’re not getting anywhere in life, or mad at yourself because you don’t feel like you’re making progress and your life is going nowhere – remember your 12 year old self. Believe it or not, you’re doing much better than you think you are sis. If you take a minute and remind yourself of your past – you might end up making yourself proud of all that you’ve become today. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post You’re Doing Better Than You Think You Are appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

No friction, no growth sis. No challenges, means no wins. Maybe the current challenge you are facing, is preparing you for a blessing that you’ve been waiting for. God will literally change your life, to accommodate the blessings that He has for you. But in order to accommodate for the things that you want, He has to move some things around in your life, make changes, remove some things, stretch some things, and put you through a process….to make room for them. Sometimes, in your toughest moments – you are being molded, shaped, and prepped into who you need to be to fully embrace, accept, and appreciate all the things that you are meant to have. You don’t deserve the hard challenges you face boo. But you do deserve to live the life you dream of.  Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Prepare For What You Prayed For appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The reality is, bad things happen sis. Sometimes they happen to us, and sometimes they happen around us. But it’s our job to not let it get the best of us. Do not let bad situations, bad people, bad experiences, ruin the very good that is you. If you are still here, there is still time to love the people who love you, create the things you want to create, dream what you want to dream, and go to the places you want to go. That deserves the very best of you sis…and nothing else. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Don’t Let Bad Things Get The Best Of You appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes the situations you find yourself in, and the outcomes you’re waiting for will happen the way that they are supposed to happen, and when they are supposed to happen. That means that there will be moments of your life where you can only do what you can do – and the rest is no longer up to you boo. A lot of us are trying to control things that we have no power in controlling. But instead of running yourself ragged, freaking out, and stressing – stop worrying about the “when” and shift your focus to the “how”…and then…just keep riding that wave until you get there. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Control What You Can Control appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The friends that you have today, may not be the friends that you have tomorrow. As you evolve and change, the people around you evolve and change too – and sometimes they don’t grow in the same directions that you’re growing. It can be tough making new friends as an adult, but you set the standards for your life…even within your friendships. We all have experienced jealousy, competition, and “weird energy” within our friend groups, that show us maybe the friends we have aren’t so great. But while you’re out looking for those great friends, that support you, add value to your life, and genuinely love you – remember great friendships…start with you. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post What About Your Friends appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Some of you are sitting on some really dope ideas. Some of you have been wanting to step it up, and take your business to the next level. Take your projects and creativity to the next level. Take your life, to the next level. But you have not moved, because you are concerned with whether or not the world, your peers, your family, or your audience….will be pleased with what you do. But the reality is, you can’t please everybody sis. If who you are, and what you do is your best? Then who you are, and what you do…is enough. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Your Best Is Enough appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A lot of us know, what will ultimately make us happy. We know the things that we need to do to bring us happiness…but because there’s so many steps, and so many changes that we have to make to get there…we put it off. Doing things that bring us joy can sometimes be an inconvenience. It takes time out of our day, and not a regular part of our schedules. But sis….happiness is a choice. Happiness is not found at the end of the journey that you are on. In most cases…happiness can be found right where you are. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Join Our Membership! Learn more about our membership & join The Girl Gang! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Stop Putting Off Your Happiness appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s okay to be disappointed that your life doesn’t look the way you thought it would by now. But never forget, we live life on our own terms sis. Not by the terms of your family. Not by the terms of your friends, and certainly not by the terms of society. Don’t feel bad because you haven’t checked all the “life boxes” that you thought you should have checked by now. No matter what age you are, no matter what season you’re in, if it didn’t happen before today, it wasn’t supposed to happen before today. But the good news is…you still have a lot of life…to live. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Your Destiny Isn’t Going Anywhere appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Did somebody say Season 5?! We’re back boo, and to say “we missed you” is an understatement. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, anxious about where your life was going, scared to take risks, or ever felt like you just couldn’t do what you’ve dreamt of doing – today’s season premiere was signed, sealed and delivered just for you. Not going to spoil this episode for you, but all we’ve got to say is – get ready sis. Ashley….is back. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Run The Play Sis appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s looking like a season finale boo! Listen, there is something that only you can do in this lifetime that has the power to change your life, and the lives of those around you. All of us were born with a gift, and whether we use it or not is up to us. But the purpose you are seeking sis, the accomplishments you’re striving for, the love and validation you want, the security you may be looking for, the happiness that you are after, can be found in the gifts that you were born with. Your gift will make room for you boo…if you step aside, and allow it to. Join us this Wednesday, December 15th at 7:00pm CT as we go LIVE on Instagram to celebrate the end of Season 4!! Thank you for such a great season! We’ll be back with new episodes in the new year boo, but until then, keep going, keep dreaming, keep slaying…and we’ll chat soon boo! Peace! Join the LIVE with host, Ashley Leggs, Founder & CEO of Slay Girl Slay on December 15th at 7:00m CT here! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Your Gift Will Make Room For You appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

All of us, are waiting for something to happen in our lives. Waiting for life changing news, a significant other, a booming business, literally the list goes on. But instead of being anxious and worrying about what’s going to happen in the future and trying to chase down answers you don’t have yet, focus on all the things that make your life beautiful right now. Do not get weary, while in your waiting season sis. You deserve the good things that are coming. And whatever you are waiting for will one day come too….but only if you sit back, and allow it to. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post The Waiting Period appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Most of the time we get excited about growing into the person we’ve dreamed of, and accomplishing our wildest dreams, but we don’t really sit down and think about how much we’re going to have to do (or go through) to get there. For every goal you are focused on, there is a blindspot that you can not see boo. When it comes to our dreams and goals, we tend to believe in only the things that get us excited, and we don’t acknowledge the things that might disrupt us along the way. But your blindspots can become roadblocks if you do not pay attention to them. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Check Your Blindspots appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Everyone will not love who you are and what you do. The real question is, do you though? Your gifts, talents, ideas, and all the things that make you the bomb person that you are, will not be for everybody. No matter how hard you work at something, and no matter how hard you try, you can’t please everyone sis. There will always be someone that will refuse to pick up what you’re putting down. And you know what? That is 100% okay. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post You Won’t Be For Everybody appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Life has a way of grabbing us by the edges, and hitting us when we least expect it. No matter how great you may be feeling, life can just punch you out of nowhere. But at some point, when you’ve had enough, you have to learn how to look life square in the eye and fight back. Life will always be life, but most importantly you will always be you. So if you’re feeling down, if you’re feeling sad, if you’re feeling overwhelmed, anxious, grief, or all of the other things that we have to deal with – put them dukes up sis. Stand up, square up, and fight back. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Stand Up & Fight Back appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes we don’t like enforcing boundaries because that means we might have to say something we don’t want to say to someone. We don’t want to hurt their feelings, and we don’t want to sour the relationship so the boundary is never enforced. But as we know, boundaries are not for them sis, boundaries are for you. Speaking up for yourself is a way of setting a boundary. But what matters the most, is not what you say…but how you say it. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Respectfully Declined appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It can be scary standing up for yourself, and speaking up for what you want. You don’t want to upset anyone and you don’t want them to look at you in a negative way. But at some point sis, you can’t keep setting yourself on fire to keep others warm. You can’t keep bending, and letting others bulldoze over you. When you speak up for yourself, you may lose some people. You may lose some opportunities. Some things may not go the way that you planned. But guess what you did not lose? Yourself. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Speak Up So They Can Hear You appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You can’t do everything, with everybody sis. When you elevate in life, not everyone in your circle will elevate with you. As you seek new levels of growth in your life, and as you go after new experiences, sometimes you might have to do them alone. This level, this journey, and this experience is yours, and yours alone. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post You Can’t Be Bougie With Everybody appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Some days you feel super confident and beautiful, and just feeling yourself, and literally the next day you can feel raggedy. Some days you can feel like you are in perfect alignment, and you love your life, and you love where it’s going, and the next day can feel completely opposite. Both days you are still the same perfect you. Don’t let negative thoughts, self hate, and comparison keep you from accomplishing everything you set out to do. You have a goal, get to it sis. If it doesn’t lift you up, it does not belong. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Stop Being Mean To Yourself appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When we feel like we’re not progressing, and not doing as good as we think we should be doing – we find ourselves wishing we “had it all together”. But wishing we had it all together, or believing in this false sense of perfection is doing more harm than good sis. There is no destination we arrive to in life where everything makes perfect sense. There is no time where everything in our lives will be in perfect balance. We are in a constant state of evolving boo, and with every new level of achievement, comes a new hurdle to jump over. There’s levels to this… Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post You Are A Work In Progress appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Your life can change in an instant boo. Literally, our lives can change at the drop of a dime. If your life changed today, are you happy with how you’ve been living? Are you proud of how you show up each day? If your answer is no…that’s okay sis. We get so caught up in the minor details of our lives, that we forget each day we have the opportunity to live a life worth living. Today’s episode is a gentle reminder, that you should never take those opportunities for granted. Never forget, that it is a privilege to be you. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post It Is A Privilege To Be You appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You have to have discernment in who gets to experience the best parts of you. You have to have discernment in who gets to know everything about you. Making moves in silence isn’t just for your haters, and the people that want to see you fail. Sometimes, you have to protect your dreams, visions, and goals from the people that want to see you win. Crazy right? Your wildest dreams, the life you have planned for yourself, is not a conversation piece sis. Before you go telling the world about your plans…always know what you’re about to say, and most importantly, who you’re saying it to. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Keep Your Mouth Shut appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How you feel everyday, has the power to dictate your every move in life sis. But just because you feel a certain way, that doesn’t mean that feeling is coming from a true place. For example: Just because you feel unproductive today, that does not make you a lazy person. Just because you feel bad today, that does not mean you have a bad life. You see where this is going? We can end up so deep in our feelings that we forget to take a minute and ask ourselves if what we’re feeling is even valid. Feelings are real sis…but they are not always the facts. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Facts Over Feelings appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We know you’re over the work, and you’re tired of putting in hours at your jobs, or your businesses, and you’re ready to sit back and just enjoy the fruits of your labor. Because who dreams of work? But the reality is, when you want big things in life, big work is required sis. Because to whom much is given, much is required. There are no short cuts, easy routes, or discount codes to your dreams. You can not reap the benefits of hard work, if you are not willing to sow a few seeds. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post The Struggle Of Doing Hard Things appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You never know the impact you can make on someone’s life sis. You don’t have to have your life “together” to change the life of someone else. If you have it on your heart to be kind to someone and be a blessing to them, do it. Believe it or not, being kind to others, can teach you the most valuable lesson, in being kind to yourself. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post It Costs Nothing To Be Kind appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Raise your hand if you had every intention of coming back outside looking like a snack, but instead you’re still eating them? *raises both hands* Outside is open again, and let’s be honest…we fell off in some areas of our life. Whether it be our fitness goals, putting in effort into our appearance (because let’s face it, we really didn’t have to for the last 12 months), going out and being social with others, the list goes on. We all have an area of our life that we value, but we just stopped putting in the effort. But now it’s time to press the reset button, knock the dust off, and get back on your game sis. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post If You Fell Off Just Say That appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Just because people are offering it, doesn’t mean that you have to take it. That goes for your relationships, friendships, careers, your family, and even your life. You can’t elevate to new levels, with subpar, mediocre, and low standards sis. When you go higher in life, your standards must be raised too. Side note: who cares what other people think about your standards. Raise them anyway. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Don’t Settle For Just Anything Sis appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Believe that you are built for the life you prayed for sis. Whatever dream lies ahead of you, there is no issue, situation, or obstacle that can stop you from getting there. You are equipped to handle anything that is thrown your way. Just pause, take a breath, find your solution, and handle it.  Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Sit Down & Stop Stressing appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sis, we are no longer giving people the watered down versions of ourselves. You know, the small, quiet versions of us that shrink to make others feel comfortable around us. The version of you that can’t be her full, powerful, blossoming self. The watered down version of you. When you elevate to new levels, the confidence must elevate too. Regardless of how other people may think, or feel about that. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Unapologetically Speaking appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Some days you feel great, and you’re high on life, and feeling unstoppable. Then, there are days where you don’t feel so great. You feel really low, and you feel like you’re going to break. But guess what sis, that is 100% okay. Sometimes you have to just exist in the “not so good days”, and hang on until the good day comes. Trouble doesn’t last always, joy always comes in the morning. You just have to hang on, and believe that. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Do The Next Best Thing appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

With all the pressure there is to being present on every app there is, and do all the trendy things everyone else on social media is doing, it’s totally cool to do your own thing boo. Instead of trying to keep up with everyone else, you have full permission to set your own rules, and go at your own pace. Whether that’s on social media, or in real life. You set the rules sis. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Forget What Everyone Else Is Doing appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You can’t have a different life, and do the same things you’ve always been doing. To see changes in your life, you have to start doing something different. You are either constantly living in a state of change, or your life is repeating itself. The decision is yours sis. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Evolve Or Repeat appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Let’s be honest sis…how many times have you looked up to another woman and wanted to be like her? Instead of looking at her as inspiration, she only served as a constant reminder of all the things you didn’t have. Here’s an even better question, how proud are you of yourself? It’s so easy to get caught up into a curated life of another person, yet so hard to keep investing into our own lives and look at ourselves with that same level of admiration. You have full permission to admire yourself sis. You can 100% be your own goals. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Be Your Own Goals Sis appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We’re back with Season 4 of the Slay Girl Slay Podcast! Oh, how we have missed you Boo. We are hitting the ground running in our first episode of the season, and not holding back from the minute this episode starts. Ashley is back after her hiatus, and picking up where she left off from last season’s finale. Buckle up sis, we’ve been waiting for this one. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post By Any Means Necessary appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

So many changes happening in our world! Thank you for such a great season, and cheers to this finale episode. Sometimes you have to give up something great, to gain something even better. Big dreams come with big sacrifices, and either you’re going to make those dreams come true, with all the sacrifices you may have to make, with all the tears you may have to shed, with all the wins and losses that come with it, or watch somebody else do it. It’s now or never sis. Do what you have to do now, to get to where you ultimately want to be. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Dreams Require Sacrifice appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tis’ the season boo! This holiday will be quite different for everyone, but taking steps to take care of ourselves is they key. With everything that is happening, this holiday season won’t look like seasons from the years prior, but it can still feel good. This week Ashley is giving her best self love habits to take care of yourselves over the holiday. Why? Because there is still joy to be had, and love to be shared if we shift our perspectives a little. We can make this holiday season a great one, if we choose to. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Self Love Habits For The Holidays appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You may not be finishing the year the way you planned, but you can still finish the year with some joy. Even though you may not have hit your sales goal this year, went on that vacation you planned, or finished that book you wanted to write, finishing the year with your sanity and peace of mind is an accomplishment within itself. The last 317ish (who’s counting?) days have been rough for everyone, but finding some joy in the spaces that you live in, and getting rid of the things that no longer make you happy, can be just enough to finish the year strong. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Get Your House In Order appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Reflecting on what it was like last week waiting for the election results to come in, Ashley talks about how fear and anxiety can paralyze us when we are waiting for something we want. As much as we want to control situations in our life, the reality is we can’t. We can’t control everything that happens to us. Some things are completely out of our hands, and guess what boo? Sometimes not knowing the answer, and patiently waiting, is 100% okay. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post You Can’t Control Everything Sis appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

100 EPISODES THOUGH?!?!! That’s how ya’ll feel?! Today we’re celebrating a huge milestone for the Slay Girl Slay podcast. Our story started in Chicago with just a $20 microphone, and a few dedicated listeners (mostly family). To now reaching hundreds of thousands of you across the world. Thank you for every time you’ve pressed play, subscribed, told your besties’ about us, and so much more. Today we’re celebrating! Cheers to 100 more boo! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post 100th EPISODE! Motivation Comes & Goes Sis appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Just because people don’t see you out here working, doesn’t mean you’re not out there getting the job done. Just because people don’t see you securing the bag, doesn’t mean the bag hasn’t been secured. Don’t let social media punk you into believing that you have to post everything, to prove everything. Your purpose in life is not attached to likes on Facebook, or the comments on Instagram. What people think of you, has nothing to do with you boo. Keep growing, achieving, and smashing your goals the way you want to – whether someone is watching or not. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post You Don’t Have To Post It To Prove It appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How many times have we started doing one thing, and then jumped into doing something else? Started a blog, a business, a non profit, a new career path – but then jumped into doing school programs, teaching, writing a new book, a new YouTube channel, and so on. That’s just an example boo, but it’s so easy for us to get excited about starting a new project or goal, and then think of all the new ideas and opportunities that present themselves to us. We can’t ever cross the finish line one one project and see the results we worked for, if we keep starting over with something new. Timing is everything, sis. We’re celebrating our 100th episode soon! Celebrate with us by sending us your questions and/or comments to be read by Ashley on the 100th episode! Ask your questions here Boo! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Shiny Object Syndrome appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When we have a new idea, or embark on a new journey, somehow in our minds we only see the end product. We forget all the steps and phases we have to go through to get there. We forget that there is a process to everything. With anything that you do, you’re not going to just come out of the gate swinging with your best work. It takes time, patience, work, more time, a little more patience, and you not willing to give up just because things don’t look the way you want them to. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post It Gets Ugly, Then It Gets Beautiful appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Whether you realize it or not, we are all authors of our own stories. Every day when we wake up, we are deciding what type of character we are going to be. The gift you were born with can come in any shape, size, or form. What you choose to do with that gift, is what matters the most. Not all heroes wear capes sis. Look in the mirror, and recognize that you too can be the hero of your own story – that is if you allow yourself to be. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post We Can All Be Superheroes appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you can change your mind boo, you can change your life. It’s never too late to start fresh. It’s never too late to change the narrative about something negative, and find the positive. This year has been a whirlwind, but it’s not over. Your dreams, goals, and desires for success are not over. The game is only over when you stop playing sis. It’s time to get up, dust yourself off, and finish this year the way you intended to finish it. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Change Your Mind, Change Your Life appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes we think we need all the steps, all the resources, all the software, and all the programs to be successful in our fields. But that’s not the case boo! You have everything you need to make it work, whether you believe it or not. So use what you have, to get to where you want to go. You lack nothing sis. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Work With What You’ve Got appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes we’re so focused on just trying to get to a “good place”, that we don’t open our eyes and see the good place we are already standing in. You can’t get so wrapped up into crossing the finish line that you fail to realize how blessed and fortunate you are to even be running in that direction. Life comes at you fast boo, but slow down and take each day as it comes. Enjoy every moment, that you have been given. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Live Fully In The Moment appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We can’t be out here blocking all the haters and then get home and be hating on ourselves. Hating on our creativity. Hating on our own ideas. Hating on our dreams and hating on our looks. We can’t bock haters and be haters at the same time. You have a responsibility to be kind to not just other people, but to be kind to yourself too. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Stop Hating On Yourself appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

 Indecisiveness and your lack of ability to make firm decisions, can be doing more harm than good. A lot of us tip toe around our ideas, our desires, and our plans and haven’t fully made a decision to go all in on them. We get stuck in the middle or the “in between” as Ash would call it – and fail to make a commitment to the decisions we make for ourselves. What if you stopped going back and forth on your ideas, on your plans, and on your goals, and just decided to be all in? Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Full Body Decisions appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We have gameplans, we have to do lists, and we know what we want – but our excitement won’t get us there. We wait for “motivation” to carry us to the finish line, but when we’re not motivated how can we still get the job done? One day we can be super motivated to work towards our goals, and then the next day be over it – both days the work still needs to be put in. Our habits define who we are sis. Good habits, create good decisions. Bad habits create bad decisions. Every decision you make is either getting you closer to the woman you want to be next, or pulling you away from her. Our question is, what decisions are you making? Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post It’s Not Your Plans, It’s Your Habits appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week as we march, protest, and pound our fist in the air demanding justice and equality…never forget the fight starts with you. This year has been more than overwhelming. More than stressful. More than scary. But no matter how overwhelming, stressful, and scary things might be – the fight to win, and the fight to overcome – starts with you. Our fore mothers fought so that we could be here today. With all the stress, and all the fear, and all the overwhelm they still showed up. They did not have the luxury of giving up, and they most certainly did not have the luxury of backing down. Whether you’re fighting for justice, or fighting for your future – you do not have that luxury either. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post The Good Fight appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We get so caught up in friendships and relationships that we sometimes forget they aren’t meant to last forever. Just because you were homegirls this year, doesn’t mean you’ll still be the same homegirls next year. Some of our girlfriends and boyfriends are only meant to be around for seasons of our life. Some seasons are long, and some seasons are short – but what matters most is what we learned in that season that will carry us in new seasons to come. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Thank You, Next appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Everyone wants the cheat code to building followers online and growing their social media presence but no one wants to do the dirty work. News flash boo! YOU are the cheat code! Put in the work behind your social media presence, and do your best at where you are TODAY by serving the people that already believe in you – the followers, opportunities, and partnerships will follow. Turning your brand or business online into dollar signs is great, and we’ll show you how to do that. But want to know what’s even greater than a “K” behind a number on your account? Or a blue verified check mark? You…and all the things that you have to offer. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Influencing To An Empty Room: How To Build Your Online Presence appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happiness does not come from jobs. Happiness does not come from bae. Happiness does not come from the extra zero in your bank account. It may afford you more freedom…but what is freedom, if you are too sad to enjoy it? Even in isolation, under all of these rules, restrictions, and guidelines – you can find happiness. Why? Because happiness does not come from other people, places, or things. Happiness is found within you. Guess what boo? We’re going LIVE! Join us Thursday April 30th, at 6pm PT/ 9pm ET for Girls Night In! A live session with host Ashley Leggs, Founder & Creator of Slay Girl Slay. We’re ready for you! Register for Girls Night In HERE! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Happiness Is A Choice appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You are a human being first. You are not perfect, and you were not created to be perfect. Your walk with God, your faith in God, is between you and God. Not you and your friends. Not you and your family. It’s between you and God, period. If you had it together all the time, and if you did everything right – what would God have to work with? Regardless of what everyone else says, come as you are sis. You are loved, just the way you are. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post God’s Grace appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Just because you are surrounded by a bunch of people, doesn’t mean you can’t be lonely. Just because you live alone, and have no one to answer to, does not mean you can’t experience loneliness. Loneliness is a state of mind. Loneliness is an emotion that you feel. We have enough that we are going through right now. We can’t afford to use this time focusing on how alone we may feel. But we can afford to use this time to continue to dream, continue to create, and continue to go after what sets our souls on fire. Whether you’re single and live alone, or married with a house full of people, you are your best partner. Never forget that. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Lonely Girls Around The World appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“I hope so” and “I know so” are two very different things. While sometimes all we can have is hope that things will work out for the better, we have to remember it is our faith that gets us through in times like these. Our girlfriend Hope is cool and all – but we all need our girlfriend Faith to gas us up, remind us of who we are, and show us where we are still destined to go. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Your Girl Hope & Your Girl Faith appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

COVID – 19 may have stopped the world but it will not stop you. Your steps are still ordered. There is STILL a plan for your life. Use this downtime we have to create mindful moments that bring you joy. Find your happiness and peace in the midst of the storm. You already know resiliency is required on this path to greatness – and while you are currently activating that resilience, get what you need from the news and then shut it off. Limit your social media until things start to brighten up. Continuously find light in every dark moment, and just know that everything will be just fine. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Everything Will Be Just Fine appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stop trying to get the “formula” or the “cheat codes”. Create your own formula, and do what’s best for YOU to get to where you need to go. You have to not be afraid to make your own rules. Stick to your own plans, and trust that you will get there on your own time. It’s so easy to just do what everyone else is doing because they “look” successful. Do your own thing boo. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Forge Your Own Path appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Season 3 of the Slay Girl Slay podcast is here! When we last chat, we dedicated our episode to ‘All the Girls That Lost’ last year. In this season sis – we’re coming back for everything that’s ours. What we thought was a setback, was really a setup. It’s comeback season this year, and after this episode we want you to go for it all. If there is no more room at the table, it’s time to build your own. If there is no door opening for you, create your own room. It’s gametime sis. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Never Underestimate Your Ability To Bounce Back appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is it Boo! Dedicating this episode to all the girls that “lost” this year. The girls that lost relationships, jobs, friends, loved ones, their peace, and their joy. This podcast is dedicated to all the girls that went for it this year, and got knocked down. The girls that show up every day, and still feel like they are getting nowhere. We see you Boo. This last one is for you. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post To All The Girls That Lost This Year appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Ash shares all of the many lessons she’s learned from starting a business, in hopes that on your journey these lessons can be of use to you. Whether you have an actual business, or thinking of starting one in the future – this one is for you. We’re talking everything from trademarks, and LLCs, to extending yourself grace when you just can’t get everything done on your to-do list…we’re covering everything boo! School is in session boo! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post 10 Lessons Learned From Starting A Business appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s not about the Christmas trees, the lights, or the decorations. It’s also not about the Hallmark movies, the parties, or the gifts. You never know what people are going through boo, and believe it or not, all of us are going through something. Spread love. Spread joy. Spread happiness to those that surround you. Remind people that you are proud of them. Remind people of their purpose, and why we need them in this world. That is the real holiday cheer sis. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Real Holiday Cheer appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Believe it or not – most of our faves, are just like us. They eat the same, they sleep the same, and they face the same type of realities that we face. You can’t compare your level 10 to someone else’s level 36 boo. Don’t count yourself out because there is already someone that looks successful doing whatever it is that you want to do! The world needs your gift – and you not standing up, and not being proud of who you are and what you’ve got to offer – will certainly not get you there. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post You Are Just As BIG As Everyone Else appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It takes more than just sticking a picture of the things you want to manifest, on a vision board. This week we’re giving you all of our favorite visualization habits – that can absolutely change your life. You want that store – go stand in it, even if you don’t have the money. You want to be that NY Times Bestselling author? Go stand in the book store and visualize your book on the shelf. We have to let go of our pride, and the fear of “looking crazy”, and start seeing and speaking the things we want to manifest into existence. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Visualization Habits That Can Change Your Life appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You’ve reflected on your year. You’ve taken the time to plan your goals. Now it’s time to prepare yourself. Prepare yourself for this new decade upon us. Prepare yourself to execute every single one of your goals. It’s time to prepare for a new season. This week we’re finishing out our Preparing for 2020 series and giving you all the tools you need to finish this year strong! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Preparing for 2020 Pt. 3: Prepare appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are all going through something. It takes grit. It takes courage. It takes getting back up again, no matter how many times you get knocked down. It’s called being resilient. It’s not something you are born with. It’s a muscle that you build over time. Resilience is built through enduring difficult times – but also the only thing that will keep you fighting for your dreams. Time to get back up boo. It’s time to fight back. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post The Power of Resilience appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For exclusive and never before aired episodes, check out our Girl Gang! Access tons of resources, replays from our mentor sessions, downloadable graphics and more! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Preparing for 2020 Pt. 2: Plan appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week is part one to a 3 part series we’re doing, in preparation for this new year that is now upon us. If you know us, you already know we do not take goal planning, & dream chasing lightly. To kick us off, we’re talking all things reflection. How can we completely slay next year, and enter into this new decade with confidence, if we don’t know what we did this year or how to improve? Sidenote: If you could name what your 2020 is about to look like in a movie title – what would it be?! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Preparing for 2020 Pt. 1: Reflect appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Issa Girl Gang coming?! Tune into to hear more about it! This week we’re talking about the best way to honor our bodies, and how to get our physical selves prepared for slaying this new decade. Anything from taking care of our skin to breast exams are all on the table this week, and we want you to be ready, prepared, and capable for all that you will be receiving in this new season you are entering. Girl Gang signups will start next Monday! If you don’t join – you will officially be missing out boo. Should we get jackets? Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Honor Your Body appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Whether you’re just starting your career, or already working within the corporate space – you must always know how to play the game. Office politics? Corporate games? We all know them too well, and most of us have already been burned by someone at work who already knew how to play. You want that promotion? Or raise? Or year end bonus? This one is for you. Not everyone will play fair. Some people will play dirty. You’ll be prepared & ready either way. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post The Office Games Playbook appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We often think we’re in a “bad” season when things aren’t going well for us. When we aren’t making enough money, or don’t have the love and support from the people we need, or even experience feelings of isolation, we feel like our dreams will never come true. But you’re just being molded boo. You don’t just become the woman you need to be to sustain your vision and dreams overnight. It takes grit. It takes perseverance. It is a price that you must pay, to get what you want. Big thanks to NPR & Guy Raz from How I Built This for selecting us to be a 2019 HIBT Fellow! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post The Cost of Ambition appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How are we going to make a list for the type of man we want, but not make a list of the type of woman we need to be first? Single girls everywhere – this one is for you boo! Being single is not a curse, it is a season. The season to do your thing, at your own pace, on your own time, and find your own happiness. Often times we’re looking for others to make us happy, and to treat us with respect and show us love, but we forget we must do it for ourselves first. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Self Love: Treating Yourself Good appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Let’s face it. It’s hard proving things to yourself. It’s not just the world you have to prove things to, it’s not just society, it’s not just your family and friends, but you have to prove things to yourself. In order to prove things to yourself boo – you have to learn how to become a woman of your own word. We expect men to be men of their word, keep their promises, and stay consistent – but we have to keep that same energy for ourselves. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Be A Woman of Your Word appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever wondered what you were supposed to be doing in this world? We all have. In today’s society everyone seems to be after the “big fish”, and the rest of us are just trying to figure out where we fit in. This week we’re discussing how to find purpose in your life, why it’s important to stay focused on your passions, and just how relevant your ideas are. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Finding Your Purpose appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Who cares if you’ve never made a sale, never booked a client, never sold a book and only have a manuscript – call yourself an entrepreneur, call yourself a stylist, call yourself an author if that’s what you choose. We have to stop waiting for other people to validate our goals. Validate them yourself. You have to start walking, talking, and acting like the very person you want to be in this world. Ash got all of us together this week! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post White Man Confidence appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey girl hey! We hope that you’re living your best life this summer! This week we’re back and we are checking our alignment, making sure we are in position to obtain the things we want out of our lives, and shutting the door on the things we don’t. Instead of focusing on all the bad things that happen to us in our lives, we put our energy and focus on the good and appreciate the fact that everything that has happened thus far, was meant to happen so that we could live and be in this moment. We are not here by chance boo. Neither are you. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Where Is Your Alignment? appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know how the saying goes: “Stay ready, so you don’t have to get ready.” What’s the difference between planning & preparation? What good is a vision for a dream, but not having a plan to execute the dream? This week we’re shaking things up (literally) and taking it a step further – past the goals, past the game plan, past the to-do list and making sure you’re asking yourself the right questions to not just have a plan – but to be prepared for when your moment comes. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Stay Ready So You Don’t Have to Get Ready appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You get back what you put in sis, and we aren’t just talking about work. We’re talking real people, real connections, and real blessings. Ash shares a very good (and personal) story about what happens when we follow our hearts, trust our instincts, and choose to do the right thing for someone else. Regardless if we think they deserve it or not. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Give & It Will Come Back To You appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“Am I good enough?”, ” Do I belong here?”, “Can I really do it?” All questions that have popped into our minds at least once in our lifetime, and if you are like us – questions that we continue to ask ourselves on a daily basis. Feelings of inadequacy sneak up on you when you are challenging yourself to do new things. Feelings of unworthiness & self doubt creep in when you spread yourself in new spaces that you’ve never been. We’re talking about how to overcome those feelings this week, and ultimately telling these feelings, or this “imposter syndrome” – to move around. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Imposter Syndrome appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Did you know that the average person makes over 30,000 decisions a day? The most important decision: deciding to get your “ish” together. We have goals we’re trying to reach. Things we want to scratch off our “to-do” lists, and milestones we want to cross – all while trying to juggle our personal lives, professional lives, and whatever else life decides to throw at us. This week we’re cleaning up house and getting all of our affairs in order so that we can hit the second half of this year strong ( and in one piece). Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post How To Have Your “Ish” Together appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Yeah we’ve been there too boo. Attending an event, put on by our favorite influencer only to find out that she really isn’t who we thought she was. The event we paid for isn’t really what we wanted, and we leave feeling like we have less than what we came with, mad, and most of all – cheated. This week we got all the way into this double sided topic of the women you look up to online and the type of value we’re placing on not just them, but our standards of real sisterhood. We can’t spoil this one in the description for you. Tune in now sis. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Fake Sisterhood Foolishness appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

No more excuses boo. Time to get your head back into the game, and prioritize how you want to finish the end of this year. It starts now. No more excuses. No more second guessing. No more negative self talk. You either want it or you don’t. You either are going to be about that life, or you’re not. This week we’re gearing up for the entire grind, relentless hustle, and all the focus for the rest of 2019. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Suit Up or Sit Down appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You can’t copy and paste everything you see online into your real life. You can’t copy and paste someone else’s mind, someone else’s creativity, or someone else’s life! You have to be just who you are, every single day, whether you have stacks sitting in your bank account, or you’re just trying to get by. We get it. It’s so easy to want to be like someone else. But it’s a lot easier being you, than trying to be you AND somebody else. Trying to be like someone else stifles your growth, kills your creativity, and closes any future door that was once open for you. The world needs a YOU. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Stand Out By Any Means Necessary appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You can’t grow from a place of comfort. Growth does not come from being stagnant and being in a place that feels good. It comes from jumping off the cliff you are standing on, being uncomfortable, and learning how to live even when things don’t feel that great. We have to learn how to let go of the things we want right now, to get the things we want in our lives later. 6 figure businesses don’t come for free. Successful blogs and YouTube channels don’t come for free. Living life on your own terms does not come for free. There is a price that must be paid. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Courage vs. Comfort appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we’re all about the purge! We’re talking all things tidying up, creating & cultivating peace within the spaces we dwell in, and Ash shares a short & sweet thought on our community, black men, and the late Nipsey Hussle.  Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website   The post Spring Cleaning: Tidying Up Your Physical, Mental, & Emotional Space appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“You’re too picky”. “You don’t know what you want”. “You need to go out more”. “You’re not outgoing enough”. These are all never ending opinions forced upon single girls everywhere. Being single is just a season you are in, not a death sentence sis. Whether you’re in your best swimsuit, snatched and doing it for the gram, or bumming it in your raggedy sweatpants on your couch – this time of being alone & space that you are in, is just for you. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Living Your Best Single Girl Life appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You attract what you are sis. Negativity, does not attract your biggest, most wildest dreams. Drama will not turn you into the woman you want to become. This week Ash teaches you how to not come from a place of “want”, but from a place of “already having it.” This week is all about positive vibes only – are you up for the challenge? #pvochallenge Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post You Attract What You Are appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Talking balancing a full time job and running your brand or business this week. It takes sufficient planning, staying organized and working your own system. We are moms, entrepreneurs, bloggers, sisters, daughters, employees, boutique owners, fitness gurus, students, creating non profits – and most of us are doing all of this while still working a full time job. Tune in this week as Ash discusses what sacrifice looks like, how to be more forward thinking about whats ahead, and how to stay on point while going to work & working your side hustle.  Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website   The post Working a 9 to 5 & Running A Brand or Business: Organizing, Planning, & Systems appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We can’t just throw up a bunch of quotes about self improvement, doing better, and being a woman that’s “moving different” without embracing the changes that come with it. The sooner you can adapt to a situation, the sooner you adjust. The sooner you let go of trying to control a situation, or a person, or an issue in your life and can start moving with the changes that are happening instead of against them, the sooner you grow.  Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Embracing Change appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kicking off Season 2 of the Slay Girl Slay podcast! Ash is back after a short break and takes no time serving up a huge slice of self confidence, discussing the importance of knowing your worth, and how sometimes you just have to slide your credentials across the table to remind people of who you are. Did you miss us? Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post No More Miss Nice Girl appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From one to 15 thousand. We thank you for such a great year! 2019 is yours for the taking boo. Become a different person. Embrace change. If it’s too easy to achieve, you already know it’s not for you. Regardless of what you are after in the new year – be crazy enough to go for it. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Out With the Old, In With the New appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You control the level of confidence in yourself, not your job, not your title, not your followers, not your environment – just you. You have the tools, the resources, and the power to walk into any room like you own the place. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Confidence is Queen appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Having goals you want to hit in life without having the commitment to execute them is like getting in a car with your GPS, putting your seat belt on, but having no gas. Get some gas boo. There is someone waiting for YOU to get out there and do your thing – and say, “Wow she did it, so I can do it too.” But how can they see you, if on Monday you’re killing it, but by Friday you’re over it? That is not being excellent. That is being mediocre. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website   The post The C Word: Commitment appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ash gets personal this week as we touch the surface on just how important forgiveness is, and how NOT forgiving someone and holding onto that baggage can keep you from getting to your next level. If you’re carrying the baggage of what someone did or said to you, how can you hold the weight of the blessings that you’ve been praying for? Yeah we went there. Drop them bags right here sis. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post The Forgiveness Episode appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

So many good things to celebrate today, including the launch of the Official Slay Girl Slay Merchandise!!! What?! Girl, Bye! Also celebrating a major milestone! None of this means anything without you. Ash gives you a “healthy” reminder this week of your potential and reminds you that there is far too much you have to accomplish right now to be settling for anything less than what you know you deserve, letting people steal your happiness, listening to their unwarranted opinions, and taking your own self out of the game. You thought you were average? Girl, Bye. We see you boo. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post You Thought You Were Average? Girl, Bye. appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

None of us will be women that reach that come up, or create our own vibes, and transform our lives – if we’re depleted of the very energy that’s necessary to accomplish those things. This week on the SGS Podcast we’re talking self love, ditching the routine, and enjoying your own company for a little while. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Self Love: Recharging Your Batteries appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s okay to not be what your idea of perfection is, and still love who you are. Because loving yourself is realizing that perfection is just an idea. Perfection is an opinion. Be proud of the woman you are becoming. Uplift her. Mold Her. Love on her. She is moving different. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Love the Woman You Are Becoming appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Some of you want these million dollar lifestyles because you have million dollar dreams, but not sitting down and adding up how much it’s actually going to cost you to make that lifestyle, that dream, that vision come true. You can’t walk into your destiny and stand within your purpose but hold onto the old you. It’s time to move different. If you would like to sponsor the Slay Girl Slay podcast, send us an email to request more details at contact@slaygrlslay.com Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Your New Life Will Cost You Your Old One appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on the SGS podcast, we’re talking breakups, lashes, lipstick & swooping those baby hairs we all know how to do so well. It’s important to mourn the people that purposely leave your life, & then rise like fire and make a major comeback. Speaking of comeback, when they leave, they always come back boo. We promise. Just be ready for them. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Breakups & Makeup: Lipstick, Lashes and Edge Control appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ash dives into the importance of representation and why it’s critical to be your most authentic self. We’re talking women of color wins’, where we fall short, and how far we still have to go. But the journey isn’t as far as you think, it all starts with you. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Representation appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What?! Two episodes this week?! Girl where? Surprise boo. Just popping in, in case you forgot how bomb you are. Come say hey girl hey on our IG @slaygrlslay or join us on Facebook! Visit us at www.slaygrlslay.com Email your questions, feedback on today’s episode, and of course topics you’d like Ash to discuss! contact@slaygrlslay.com Be sure to leave your comment and feedback!   The post Just A Reminder appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Whenever you’re skeptical of starting a business because other people are doing it, take a walk down the bread aisle of a grocery store. No matter how many people that have the same idea as you – the same concept, the same product , whatever…don’t stop your hustle. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Trust Your It Factor: You’ve Got the Sauce Boo appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we are getting real with our goals, and teaching you how to not just think outside the box – but think BIG. Big Dreams. Big Goals. Big Plans. Big Blueprints. When you write stuff down, as it relates to your future, and how you wan’t your life to be? The things you want literally jump off the paper – and happen for you. What you need for this episode? Pen, Paper, and a dream. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Manifesting 101: Building Your Blueprint appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Now that we are at the halfway mark, how close are you to completing those goals you set for yourself at the beginning of the year? It’s okay if you’ve fallen off, we all have, so let’s press the reset but, and re-strategize the way we’re going to slay the rest of this year. Don’t show up New Years 2019 looking sad and thinking about the goals you can be accomplishing today! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post 6 Month Slay: How to Own the Last 6 Months of the Year, Achieve Your Goals, and Stay Successful at Success appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this month’s Self Love episode, Ash opens up about how knowing your worth can make or break you in any situation. Learning to love the person you are, and knowing who you are on the inside is pivotal in something as small as knowing what you like vs. don’t like – or as big as making a life changing decisions. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Self Love: Knowing Your Value appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We have time today. Ash digs into the mind games that we are always invited to play (or what we like to call “jedi mind tricks”, why we always look out for his feelings instead of our own, and the process of choosing yourself over anyone else. Let’s talk f***boys. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Lets Talk F Boys appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get your pen and paper ready ( or your notes app) – SGS is talking all things “glow worthy” on this week’s podcast. This week we’re taking tips and tricks on how to achieve the ultimate glow up this year, make some personal decisions, chatting up our appearances, and locking down a routine that we can stick too so that it benefits us. Glow on boo… Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post The Glow Up appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Don’t get so flustered boo. Sometimes what you are going through, big or small – has absolutely nothing to do with you. We’re talking learning big lessons, pushing through, and never giving up for the sake of someone else on this week’s podcast! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Your Struggle Wasn’t Meant For You appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Talking the real “boss up” this week on the Slay Girl Slay podcast. Ash dives deep into getting real with yourself, letting go of pity parties, and when it’s time to wipe the tears and put your big girl pants on. Yes – we went there. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Are You Going to Cry About It or Boss Up? appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week’s episode on the Slay Girl Slay Podcast we’re talking International Women’s Day, why it’s important to show up in everything that you do, and not just having a seat at the table, but owning it and not being afraid to be the only person that looks when you walk into a room. Hear CEO Phyllis Newhouse’s entire interview referenced in the podcast here: https://t.co/1T1SnFNx0E Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Having A Seat at the Table appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week’s episode on the Slay Girl Slay Podcast is helping you get down to the knitty gritty about who you are, what you need to let go of, and what you need to be doing! This is our self love episode for the month and we’re challenging you to take a personal inventory of all the qualities and skills you have (or may not have) and what to do next. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Self Love: Taking Your Personal Inventory appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“Girl you killing it tonight!” “Girl, I”m loving those shoes, where did you get them?” “Girl since these guys are buying you drinks tonight, can you get me one?” All things we should be telling our girlfriends when they are out here shining, but instead we keep our mouths shut and act like we don’t see them. This week on SGS Pod talking sista girl love, competition between girlfriends, and working with the gifts God gave us. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Sisterhood appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey girl hey! This week on the SGS Podcast we’re talking old BET Uncut videos, Ash hits us with a rap, remembering life is about balance, and reminding yourself on the daily that you don’t just look good, but you look exceptionally good. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post 36-24-38 appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week SGS digs in the all too similarities of being a black woman in the workplace. You know, getting scolded or reprimanded by your boss because you’re not a “team player” but it’s really because you drink water, stay in your lane, and mind your business at work? Or having to address the 10 hair changes you did in one week, because your hair magically grew or explain to the girl who still doesn’t get it that your hair just curls like that? Girl bye. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Black Women + the Workplace appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on the Slay Girl Slay podcast we are creating our own beautiful environment. We’re talking 28th birthdays, the freedom to do whatever we please, and never needing a reason to celebrate ourselves and shine the way we know we should! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post Creating Your Own Beautiful Environment appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kicking off our first podcast – we are talking reinvention! It’s a new year, new blessings, and new opportunities await all of us. This is our year to slay – but we can’t do that without a little reinvention. Tune in for this week’s podcast on the power of reinventing yourself, being limitless, and most of all getting your slay on! Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTube Channel! Follow Us: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website The post The Power of Reinvention appeared first on Slay Girl, Slay. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices