Sex for Saints

By Amanda Louder

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Episodes: 316


 Apr 17, 2023

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As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life! In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.

Episode Date
Episode 315 - The Burden of Initiating
May 03, 2024
Episode 314 - Sexual Resentment
Apr 26, 2024
Episode 313 - Level 3 Sex
Apr 19, 2024
Episode 312 - Level 2 Sex
Apr 12, 2024
Episode 311 - Level 1 Sex
Apr 05, 2024
Episode 310 - Overcoming Sexual Disappointment
Mar 29, 2024
Episode 309 - Are You Using Your Wife for Sex?
Mar 22, 2024
Episode 308 - Relational Listening - An Essential Sexual Conversation Skill
Mar 15, 2024
Episode 307 - 3 Things That Affect Sexual Desire
Mar 08, 2024
Episode 306 - The Four Things We All Want in our Sexual Relationship
Mar 01, 2024
Episode 305 - What Every Couple Needs To Know About Women’s Hormones - An Interview with Dr. Kelly Casperson
Feb 23, 2024
Episode 304 - Female-Centric Sex
Feb 16, 2024
Episode 303 - The Common Thread Between Money & Sex
Feb 09, 2024
Episode 302 - When Your Partner Won’t Grow Sexually
Feb 02, 2024
Episode 301 - Mature Feminine Sexuality
Jan 26, 2024
Episode 300 - Celebrating 300 Episodes!
Jan 19, 2024
Episode 299 - Focus On The Journey, Not The Destination
Jan 12, 2024
Episode 298 - How To Have Anal Sex Safely
Jan 05, 2024
Episode 297 - Prioritizing Sex in the New Year
Dec 29, 2023
Episode 296 - Sexual Responsibility for Those with Responsive Desire
Dec 22, 2023
Episode 295 - Why You Should Be Using Lube
Dec 15, 2023
Episode 294 - Sexy Holiday Gift Guide
Dec 08, 2023
Episode 293 - Increasing the Sexual Connection During the Holidays
Dec 01, 2023
Episode 292 - Embracing All Parts of Us
Nov 24, 2023
Episode 291 - Using Psychedelics in Sex Therapy
Nov 17, 2023
Episode 290 - What Makes A Marriage Thrive
Nov 10, 2023
Episode 289 - Consequences of Sexual Accommodation
Nov 03, 2023
Episode 288 - How Your Eating Can Affect Your Sex Life
Oct 27, 2023
Episode 287 - Overcoming Boredom in Sex
Oct 20, 2023
Episode 286 - Sexual Myths Learned From Porn
Oct 13, 2023
Episode 285 - How Women Can Have Multiple Orgasms
Oct 06, 2023
Episode 284 - When Your Spouse Has Had Other Sexual Partners
Sep 29, 2023
Episode 283 - Maintaining a Great Sex Life While You Are Apart
Sep 22, 2023
Episode 282 - Sexual Wellness - An Interview with Holly Henry
Sep 15, 2023
Episode 281 - The Importance of Physical Intimacy in Marriage
Sep 08, 2023
Episode 280 - How To Keep The Romance Alive in Marriage
Sep 01, 2023
Episode 279 - The Mind-Body Connection
Aug 25, 2023
Episode 278 - Teaching Your Kids About Sex, Shame Free
Aug 18, 2023
Episode 277 - The Importance of Foreplay
Aug 11, 2023
Episode 276 - Erogenous Zones
Aug 04, 2023
Episode 275 - Sexual Validation & Rejection
Jul 28, 2023
Episode 274 - Sexual Conditioning Guilt
Jul 21, 2023
Episode 273 - Overcoming Triggers - An Interview with Crystal Haitsma
Jul 14, 2023
Episode 272 - Decision Not Desire
Jul 07, 2023
Episode 271 - Not Liking the Sex You're Having ||Embracing You Teaser||
Jun 30, 2023
Episode 270 - Sexual Compatibility
Jun 23, 2023
Episode 269 - Emotional or Physical Intimacy First?
Jun 16, 2023
Episode 268 - Affection Without Expectation
Jun 09, 2023
Episode 267 - Sexual Overfunctioning and Underfunctioning
Jun 02, 2023
Episode 266 - The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships - Pt. 2
May 26, 2023
Episode 265 - The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships - Pt. 1
May 19, 2023
Episode 264 - Igniting Passion In Your Sex Life
May 12, 2023
Episode 263 - How Do You Define Sex?
May 05, 2023
Episode 262 - Sleep Divorce
Apr 28, 2023
Episode 261 - Is Jealousy Good or Bad for a Marriage?
Apr 21, 2023
Episode 260 - The Sexual Conditioning of Christian Men
Apr 14, 2023
Episode 259 - How Body Image Affects Your Partner an Interview with Amber A Price
Apr 07, 2023
Episode 258 - The Top Reasons For Low Desire in Women
Mar 31, 2023
Episode 257 - How Style Helps Your Confidence in the Bedroom - An Interview with Sheri Brasier
Mar 24, 2023
Episode 256 - How to Add Role-Play Into Your Sexual Repertoire
Mar 17, 2023
Episode 255 - Taking Things To The Next Level ||Embracing You! Teaser||
Mar 10, 2023
Episode 254 - How Can I Get My Wife to Develop Her Sexual-Self?
Mar 03, 2023
Episode 253 - Consenting to Unwanted Sex: An Interview with Dr. Cami Hurst
Feb 24, 2023
Episode 252 - A Transactional versus Relational Marriage
Feb 17, 2023
Episode 251 - Empowered Sexuality
Feb 10, 2023
Episode 250 - Becoming the Hero of Your Own Story: An Interview with Joey Mascio
Feb 03, 2023
Episode 249 - Overcoming Sexual Shame || Embracing You Teaser
Jan 27, 2023
Episode 247 - Enthusiastic Consent
Jan 13, 2023
Episode 246 - What is a Covenant Marriage? - An Interview with Aimée Gianni
Jan 06, 2023
Episode 245 - How Conflict in Marriage Builds Intimacy: An Interview with Crystal Hansen
Dec 30, 2022
Episode 244 - How My Spouse’s Faith Journey Affected Our Sex Life - An Interview with Lisa Frehner
Dec 23, 2022
Episode 243 - Masturbation Within Marriage
Dec 16, 2022
Episode 242 - How To Flirt
Dec 09, 2022
Episode 241 - Why Women Don’t Reach Orgasm
Dec 02, 2022
Episode 240 - How Believing You Are a Good Mom Can Help in the Bedroom: An Interview with Emily Wardrop
Nov 25, 2022
Episode 239 - Talking to Teens about Sex Shame Free: An Interview with Crystal Bowman
Nov 18, 2022
Episode 238 - Coaching Amelia || Embracing You! Podcast Teaser!
Nov 11, 2022
Episode 237 - Modesty & The For Strength of Youth: A Collaboration with Zach Spafford
Nov 04, 2022
Episode 236 - The High Achieving/Peace Keeping Dynamic
Oct 28, 2022
Episode 235 - Coaching Changed our Marriage
Oct 21, 2022
Episode 234 - When Kids Disrupt Your Sex Life
Oct 14, 2022
Episode 233 - Your Sexual Prime
Oct 07, 2022
Episode 232 - I Don’t Care if I Ever Have Sex Again: A Conversation with Mike Frazier, MD
Sep 30, 2022
Episode 231 - Bad Sex
Sep 23, 2022
Episode 230 - Sex Isn’t A Drive
Sep 16, 2022
Episode 229 - Duty Sex
Sep 09, 2022
Episode 228 - Female Ejaculation
Sep 02, 2022
Episode 227 - How can I be Righteous and Sexual?
Aug 26, 2022
Episode 226 - The Mental Load That Is Affecting Your Sex Life
Aug 19, 2022
Episode 225 - 6 Emotional Styles of Disconnection
Aug 12, 2022
Episode 224 - What Is The Cause of Your Low Libido?
Aug 05, 2022
Episode 223 - Silent Sex
Jul 29, 2022
Episode 222 - When You Don’t Know What You Want In Bed
Jul 22, 2022
Episode 221 - Healing from Infidelity: An Interview with Andrea Giles
Jul 15, 2022
Episode 220 - The Fear of Pleasure
Jul 08, 2022
Episode 219 - Conscious Partnerships
Jul 01, 2022
​​Episode 218 - The Importance of Being Selfish
Jun 24, 2022
Episode 217 - Reclaiming Desire & Eros
Jun 17, 2022
Episode 216 - CFM: Why is Chastity Important in God’s Plan?
Jun 10, 2022
Episode 215 - The Sexless Marriage
Jun 03, 2022
Episode 214 - What We Chase Will Run
May 27, 2022
Episode 213 - Disgusted by Bodily Fluids
May 20, 2022
Episode 212 - Maintaining a Strong Sexual Connection
May 13, 2022
Episode 211 - Becoming a Peacemaker in Your Sex Life: An Interview with Jessica Farmer
May 06, 2022
Episode 210 - Blue Balls & Blue Beans
Apr 29, 2022
Episode 209 - Sexual Barometers
Apr 22, 2022
Episode 208 - The Lie of “Happy Wife, Happy Life”: An Interview with Glenn Lovelace
Apr 15, 2022
Episode 207 - Creating Safety In Sex
Apr 08, 2022
Episode 206 - Sex Before Marriage: Single Adults
Apr 01, 2022
Episode 205 - Sex Before Marriage: Talking to Your Teens
Mar 25, 2022
Episode 204 - Kink And BDSM - An Interview with Allen Turner
Mar 18, 2022
Episode 203 - What Women Really Want In Bed - An Interview with Allen Turner
Mar 11, 2022
Episode 202 - How Hormones Affect Your Libido: An Interview with Ashlee Sorensen
Mar 04, 2022
Episode 201 - Healing from Purity Culture
Feb 25, 2022
Episode 200 - Lessons from Eve
Feb 18, 2022
Episode 199 - One Heart, One Mind
Feb 11, 2022
Episode 198 - Sex and Sleep
Feb 04, 2022
Episode 197 - It Was Good
Jan 28, 2022
Episode 196 - Sexual & Spiritual Wholeness
Jan 21, 2022
Episode 195 - Need-Based Sex
Jan 14, 2022
Episode 194 - Sexual Role-Play
Jan 07, 2022
Episode 193 - The Forbidden Fruit Effect
Dec 31, 2021
Episode 192 - All About Waxing - An Interview with Zoey Jolley
Dec 24, 2021
Episode 191 - Learning To Trust
Dec 17, 2021
Episode 190 - Creating the Space for Desire
Dec 10, 2021
Episode 189 - Faking Orgasms
Dec 03, 2021
Episode 188 - Emotional Connection vs Physical Connection
Nov 26, 2021
Episode 187 - Sexual Energy
Nov 19, 2021
Episode 186 - The Hard Part of Building True Intimacy
Nov 12, 2021
Episode 185 - What Turns Women Off
Nov 05, 2021
Episode 184 - What Turns Women On
Oct 29, 2021
Episode 183 - Creating Sexual Context
Oct 22, 2021
Episode 182 - Sexual Brakes & Accelerators
Oct 15, 2021
Episode 181 - Garments Aren’t Sexy
Oct 08, 2021
Episode 180 - The Good And Bad of Love Languages
Oct 01, 2021
Episode 179 - It Takes Too Long To Orgasm!
Sep 24, 2021
Episode 178 - It’s Okay That You Don’t Like Sex
Sep 17, 2021
Episode 177 - Why Pleasure Matters
Sep 10, 2021
Episode 176 - Pressure to Perform
Sep 03, 2021
Episode 175 - The Language of Love and Sex
Aug 27, 2021
Episode 174 - How I Fixed My Sexual Relationship: An Interview with Mike Peterson
Aug 20, 2021
Episode 173 - My Experience with Boudoir Photography
Aug 13, 2021
Episode 172 - Myths and Truths of Men’s Sexuality
Aug 06, 2021
Episode 171 - Equality in Marriage: An Interview with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
Jul 30, 2021
Episode 170 - Sexual Repression and the Parable of The Talents
Jul 23, 2021
Episode 169 - Initiating Ideas and Styles
Jul 16, 2021
Episode 168 - Consent within Marriage
Jul 09, 2021
Episode 167 - Is Sex A Need?
Jul 02, 2021
Episode 166 - Safety, Trust, and Vulnerability
Jun 25, 2021
Episode 165 - Sex and the Menstrual Cycle
Jun 18, 2021
Episode 164 - Oral Sex Hangups
Jun 11, 2021
Bonus Episode - CFM June 13 2021
Jun 07, 2021
Episode 163 - Sexual Fantasies & Intentions
Jun 04, 2021
Episode 162 - Attraction & Self-Objectification
May 28, 2021
Episode 161 - Taking Sex from Good to Great
May 21, 2021
Episode 160 - Sex And Menopause: An Interview with Cami Hurst
May 14, 2021
Episode 159 - 4 Keys to a Healthy, Passionate Marriage
May 07, 2021
Episode 158 - Sexual Scarcity
Apr 30, 2021
Episode 157 - Transactional Sex
Apr 23, 2021
Episode 156 - The Disappearing Orgasm
Apr 16, 2021
Episode 155 - Vacation Sex
Apr 09, 2021
Episode 154 - Adding Fun and Variety To Your Sex Life
Apr 02, 2021
Episode 153 - Sexual Feasts, Famines, and Snacks
Mar 26, 2021
Episode 152 - How The Vagina and the Voice Are Connected
Mar 19, 2021
Episode 151 - Speaking Your Truth
Mar 12, 2021
Episode 150 - The Maltz Hierarchy of Sexual Interaction
Mar 05, 2021
Episode 149 - The Hard Work of Marriage
Feb 26, 2021
Episode 148 - Sex and Chronic Pain or Illness
Feb 19, 2021
Episode 147 - 10 Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship
Feb 12, 2021
Episode 146 - When Sex is Boring
Feb 05, 2021
Episode 145 - Codependency
Jan 29, 2021
Episode 144 - Five Mistakes Men Make In Bed
Jan 22, 2021
Episode 143 - Five Mistakes Women Make In Bed
Jan 15, 2021
Episode 142 - The Madonna/Whore Complex
Jan 08, 2021
Episode 141 - Sexual Maturity
Jan 01, 2021
Episode 140 - Sexy New Year Replay
Dec 25, 2020
Episode 139 - Why You Need a Vibrator
Dec 18, 2020
Episode 138 - Sex Toys 101
Dec 11, 2020
Episode 137 - The Five Gears of Touch
Dec 04, 2020
Episode 136 - Willingness Is The Entry Point
Nov 27, 2020
Episode 135 - Creating Intimacy After Betrayal
Nov 20, 2020
Episode 134 - Masturbation and The Church
Nov 13, 2020
Episode 133 - Competing Desires
Nov 06, 2020
Episode 132 - Sex After Infant Loss
Oct 30, 2020
Episode 131 - Sex and Infertility
Oct 23, 2020
Episode 130 - Sex & Pregnancy
Oct 16, 2020
Episode 129 - The Truth About Control
Oct 09, 2020
Episode 128 - The Four Reasons Why We Have Sex
Oct 02, 2020
Episode 127 - The Power of Connection
Sep 25, 2020
Episode 126 - Sexual Communication - Part 2
Sep 18, 2020
Episode 125 - Sexual Communication - Part 1
Sep 11, 2020
Episode 124 - The Higher Desire Wife
Sep 04, 2020
Episode 123 - Increasing Your Libido
Aug 28, 2020
Episode 122 - Kids Don't Have To Ruin Your Sex Life
Aug 21, 2020
Episode 121 - Why You’re Not Having Orgasms
Aug 14, 2020
Episode 120 - He Just Wants Sex
Aug 07, 2020
Episode 119 - How ‘Auditory Arousal’ Can Heat Up Your Lovemaking
Jul 31, 2020
Episode 118 - Honesty in Your Sexual Relationship
Jul 24, 2020
Episode 117 - Why We Don’t Talk About Sex
Jul 17, 2020
Episode 116 - Painful Sex; An Interview with Valerie Schwalbe
Jul 10, 2020
Bonus Episode: Creating Desire Webinar Replay
Jul 08, 2020
Episode 115 - Fantasy
Jul 03, 2020
Episode 114 - 3 Keys to Great Sex
Jun 26, 2020
Episode 113 - Entitled to Pleasure
Jun 19, 2020
Episode 112 - Emotional Manipulation for Anal Sex
Jun 12, 2020
Episode 111 - Mindful Sex
Jun 05, 2020
Episode 110 - The Body: A Burden or a Blessing?
May 29, 2020
Episode 109 - Higher Desires and Lower Desires
May 22, 2020
Episode 108 - Anxiety and Sex
May 15, 2020
Episode 107 - Uncertainty and Unmet Expectations
May 08, 2020
Episode 106 - Expanding Your Sexual Palette
May 01, 2020
Episode 105 - Sexual Anorexia
Apr 24, 2020
Episode 104 - Am I Desirable?
Apr 17, 2020
Episode 103 - A Marriage Made Whole
Apr 10, 2020
Episode 102 - Building Intimacy During Isolation
Apr 03, 2020
Episode 101 - Sex Under Stress
Mar 27, 2020
Episode 100 - How Numbing Out is Hurting Your Sex Life
Mar 20, 2020
Episode 99 - The Importance of Touch
Mar 13, 2020
Episode 98 - Embracing Your Sexuality
Mar 06, 2020
Episode 97 - My Spouse Looks at Pornography
Feb 28, 2020
Episode 96 - Let’s Talk About Lube
Feb 21, 2020
Episode 95 - When You’re Too Exhausted For Sex
Feb 14, 2020
Episode 94 - 6 Steps To a Healthy Sexual Relationship
Feb 07, 2020
Episode 93 - Husbands, What Your Wives Wish You Knew
Jan 31, 2020
Episode 92 - Discovering What Turns You On
Jan 24, 2020
Episode 91 - Keeping Your Husband Happy
Jan 17, 2020
Episode 90 - Desire Like Nephi
Jan 10, 2020
Episode 89 - 10 Mistakes We Make With Sex
Jan 03, 2020
Episode 88 - Sexy New Year
Dec 27, 2019
Episode 87 - Sexy Christmas
Dec 20, 2019
Episode 86 - Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire
Dec 13, 2019
Episode 85 - Stages of Sex
Dec 06, 2019
Episode 84 - Why Coaching?
Nov 29, 2019
Episode 83 - Making Time For Sex
Nov 22, 2019
Episode 82 - Sex Rules
Nov 15, 2019
Episode 81 - Good Girl Syndrome
Nov 08, 2019
Episode 80 - How To Be Sexy
Nov 01, 2019
Episode 79 - Why I Believe
Oct 25, 2019
Episode 78 - Guilt, Shame, and Eroticism
Oct 18, 2019
Episode 77 - Rejection
Oct 11, 2019
Episode 76 - Default Sex Thoughts
Oct 04, 2019
Episode 75 - The Big "O"
Sep 27, 2019
Episode 74 - How Body Image Affects Sex
Sep 20, 2019
Episode 73 - I’m Not In The Mood
Sep 13, 2019
Episode 72 - I’m Not Attracted to My Spouse
Sep 06, 2019
Episode 71 - The Benefits of Sex
Aug 30, 2019
Episode 70 - Changing Our Beliefs About Sex
Aug 23, 2019
Episode 69 - Asking Good Questions
Aug 16, 2019
Episode 68 - Watching Your Brain
Aug 09, 2019
Episode 67 - Owning Your Results
Aug 02, 2019
Episode 66 - Attachment & Emotional Safety
Jul 26, 2019
Episode 65 - Receiving Love
Jul 19, 2019
Episode 64 - When Your Sex Life Isn’t What You Expected
Jul 12, 2019
Episode 63 - Wanting More From Your Spouse
Jul 05, 2019
Episode 62 - Accepting Your Spouse’s Bad Behaviors
Jun 28, 2019
Episode 61 - Confidence vs. Self-Confidence
Jun 21, 2019
Episode 60 - The Law of Chastity in Marriage
Jun 14, 2019
Episode 59 - Self Regulation
Jun 07, 2019
Episode 58 - How To Create An Amazing Marriage
May 31, 2019
Episode 57 - Believing New Thoughts
May 24, 2019
Episode 56 - Involuntary Thoughts
May 17, 2019
Episode 55 - The “What If” Game
May 10, 2019
Episode 54 - How To Have A Great Mother’s Day
May 03, 2019
Episode 53 - Making Decisions
Apr 26, 2019
Episode 52 - Celebrating Year One
Apr 19, 2019
Episode 51 - Curiosity
Apr 12, 2019
Episode 50 - Developing a Better Relationship with Yourself
Apr 05, 2019
Episode 49 - The Victim Mentality
Mar 29, 2019
Episode 48 - When Things Don’t Go As Planned
Mar 22, 2019
Episode 47 - The Higher Desire Partner
Mar 15, 2019
Episode 46 - You’ll Find Exactly What You Are Looking For
Mar 08, 2019
Episode 45 - Reacting vs. Responding
Mar 01, 2019
Episode 44 - Judgment & Criticism
Feb 22, 2019
Episode 43 - Needing Validation
Feb 15, 2019
Episode 42 - Unconditional Love
Feb 08, 2019
Episode 41 - Am I Being Abused?
Feb 01, 2019
Episode 40 - Boundaries
Jan 25, 2019
Episode 39 - The Manual
Jan 18, 2019
Episode 38 - The Gift of Agency
Jan 11, 2019
Episode 37 - Emotional Vocabulary
Jan 04, 2019
Episode 36 - Who do you want to be in 2019?
Dec 28, 2018
Episode 35 - Overcoming Resentment
Dec 21, 2018
Episode 34 - Cultivating Connection & Desire
Dec 14, 2018
Episode 33 - Why Happiness is NOT the Goal
Dec 07, 2018
Episode 32 - How to Get Everything You Want For Christmas
Nov 30, 2018
Episode 31 - Gratitude
Nov 23, 2018
Episode 30 - Emotionally Focused Communication with Tony Overbay
Nov 16, 2018
Episode 29 - How to Fight Fair in your Marriage
Nov 09, 2018
Episode 28 - The Marriage Inventory with Celeste Davis
Nov 02, 2018
Episode 27 - Empathetic Listening
Oct 26, 2018
Episode 26 - The Compound Effect In Marriage
Oct 19, 2018
Episode 25 - What Is The Story You Are Telling Yourself?
Oct 12, 2018
Episode 24 - Are We Really Meant To Be
Oct 05, 2018
Episode 23 - Stop "Shoulding" Others & Yourself
Sep 28, 2018
Episode 22 - Compassion & Miracles
Sep 21, 2018
Episode 21 - How To Stop Feeling Overwhelmed
Sep 14, 2018
Episode 20 - Quit Blaming Others For How You Feel
Sep 07, 2018
Episode 19 - Friendship
Aug 31, 2018
Episode 18 - Setting Goals
Aug 24, 2018
Episode 17 - How to Solve Any Problem
Aug 17, 2018
Episode 16 - What is a life coach and why do I need one?
Aug 10, 2018
Episode 15 - Redefining Success
Aug 03, 2018
Episode 14 - 5 New Thoughts That Helped Me In My Marriage
Jul 27, 2018
Episode 13 - Patience
Jul 20, 2018
Episode 12 - Changing Your Past
Jul 13, 2018
Episode 11 - Other People's Opinions Are None of Your Business
Jul 06, 2018
Episode 10 - Challenging Relationships
Jun 29, 2018
Episode 9 - Getting Through An Anxiety Attack
Jun 19, 2018
Episode 8 - My Journey to Mental Health
Jun 15, 2018
Episode 7 - What is Mental Health?
Jun 08, 2018
Episode 6 - Grief
Jun 01, 2018
Episode 5 - Fear
May 25, 2018
Episode 4 - Identifying and Processing Emotion
May 18, 2018
Episode 3 - Forgiveness
May 11, 2018
Episode 2 - Confidence
May 04, 2018
Episode 1 - Should I get divorced?
Apr 28, 2018