Simple on Purpose | Intentional Living and Parenting

By Shawna Scafe, Professional Counsellor

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Subscribers: 28
Reviews: 1
Episodes: 203

sonja
 Mar 2, 2019
I love listening to Shawna's inspirational tips on being present and just being a family, craziness and all. I recommend checking out these podcasts as a mom.

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When the clutter, motherhood, relationships, and life seem too overwhelming. When you have resentment and frustration every day – this is a sign you have been living on auto-pilot- letting life happen to you instead of living it ON PURPOSE. I’ve been there. Three kids under 4 and I decided to declutter my home and realized I was living my whole life on autopilot. I wanted more. I wanted to take action, be more present, have more fun! Enjoy my kids! I’m Shawna, You might know me as your Nerdy Girlfriend. I am a Certified Coach Practitioner, a Transformational Life Coach, and Registered Professional Counsellor-Candidate (RPC-C). I use the Enneagram, Faith and CBT as tools in my life coaching approach. I teach moms around the world the tools they need to set values and vision for the 9 areas of their lives so they can take the right steps towards living life ON PURPOSE. Find my books, course and blog at simpleonpurpose.ca

Episode Date
206. Finding peace through downsizing + decluttering the closet and shopping, with Renee Benes of the Unstuffed Podcast
Apr 30, 2024
205. Finding balance through ‘ENOUGH’: motherhood, minimalism, self-worth, and personal growth
Apr 12, 2024
204. Reframing BALANCE in motherhood and work life
Apr 04, 2024
203. Being a mom who enjoys her life
Mar 19, 2024
202. Introducing the Life on Purpose Community Patreon
Mar 07, 2024
201. Overcoming negative self-talk and to moving towards positive self-talk
Mar 06, 2024
200. Motherhood, decluttering, mindsets (the 200th episode, listener Ask Me Anything)
Feb 20, 2024
199. Mindset traps to be aware of (cognitive distortions that might be holding you back in motherhood and life)
Feb 06, 2024
198. How to live each day with intention, as a mom (life on purpose and intentional living while in motherhood)
Jan 25, 2024
197. Holidays + Grief, Family Dynamics, Boundaries, Self-Care and Joy – tips from a counsellor
Dec 19, 2023
196. When The Holidays Feel Hard (stress, anxiety, loneliness, overspending, transitions)- tips from a Counsellor
Dec 19, 2023
195. The cost of ‘earning’ your rest
Dec 07, 2023
194. I stopped calling myself a lazy mom (addressing the overwhelm of motherhood)
Dec 07, 2023
193. Beautiful words that embody simple + intentional living
Nov 21, 2023
192. Who are you when I’m not looking (internal vs external validation)
Nov 07, 2023
191. Are you idling on your goals or moving them forward (passive action vs massive action)
Oct 24, 2023
190. Planning the day: my weekly routines and rhythms for work, home and family
Oct 10, 2023
189. Prioritizing the day: if everything matters nothing matters and how to apply this in motherhood
Oct 10, 2023
188. Motherhood & Social Media (how online communities impact your motherhood experience)
Sep 26, 2023
187. Feeling better or getting better feeling
Sep 12, 2023
186. Doing life with less (summer challenge)
Jun 06, 2023
185. Emotional needs in motherhood (what they are and how to meet them)
May 30, 2023
184. Movement as self-care (exercise for wellbeing, not weight loss)
May 18, 2023
183. Getting more sleep as a mom (giving up the nightowl life)
May 02, 2023
182. Nourishing yourself as a mom (11 strategies to help you feed yourself well + often)
Apr 18, 2023
181. Becoming moms who take care of themselves (steps to learn how to meet your own needs)
Apr 04, 2023
180. Self-care, self-comfort, self-love & what we have learned from our mothers
Mar 21, 2023
179. What are your needs and how are you meeting them?
Mar 07, 2023
178. Don’t water the weeds (intentional parenting for proactive connection)
Feb 07, 2023
177. Understanding what is motivating you (chasing vs avoiding)
Jan 24, 2023
176. When you don’t know what you want in life. Life on purpose for the non-dreamer
Jan 17, 2023
175. What will your future be? More of the same? Or will you turn off the autopilot?
Jan 10, 2023
174. Christmas hygge ideas + understanding how the window of tolerance impacts your stress in motherhood
Dec 21, 2022
173. What you can learn from imposter syndrome (inquiring into the doubt and fears with these journalling questions)
Dec 06, 2022
172. Tips for having more than one kid (mom of three asking for advice)
Nov 24, 2022
171. Making home a place where your kids want to hangout (with you, and their friends)
Nov 01, 2022
170. Planning the Day (reactive vs proactive, tools and approaches I use)
Oct 18, 2022
169. Moms Simplifying Q+A: Toddler MomLife, Procrastination and Decluttering
Jun 28, 2022
168. Teaching our kids contentment, on purpose
Jun 10, 2022
167. Conscious parenting through the struggles, and letting go of perfectionism in motherhood
May 27, 2022
166. How to find confidence in being the mom you are, intentional motherhood
May 27, 2022
165. Spring cleaning urgency + organization tips and inventory strategies that save you money and reduce clutter
May 12, 2022
164. How I am finding balance in my life this year
Apr 29, 2022
163. Have fun with your kids, on purpose + reasons we don’t have fun
Apr 14, 2022
162. Think the best of me, or not. Allowing the hard and awesome in ourselves and in our lives.
Apr 08, 2022
161. Why having LESS matters, the benefits of decluttering and minimalism
Apr 01, 2022
160. Getting dressed can be a keystone habit, creating an easy wardrobe / INSIGHTS from the 30for30 closet remix
Mar 16, 2022
159. Wearing your fave clothes, mindful shopping, trends and style, and pride vs vanity in moms getting dressed each day / INSIGHTS from the capsule wardrobe challenge
Mar 16, 2022
158. MVP/ Do you typecast your kids? How labels impact our parenting and our children
Mar 04, 2022
157. How I tackled decluttering my office and kids craft drawers + how I handle the resistance to decluttering
Feb 24, 2022
156. 3 things to know about feeling negative emotions
Feb 17, 2022
155. If I talk about hard things is it complaining? Or venting?
Feb 08, 2022
154. What to do now that you are motivated (simplify getting started)
Feb 02, 2022
153. How to move from ambivalent to ambitious (making change takes more than just willpower)
Feb 02, 2022
152. How to declutter the closet to make a capsule wardrobe (that works with your life)
Jan 27, 2022
151. Capsule wardrobe closet remix challenge, the #moms30for30
Jan 25, 2022
150. A new approach to habit change: routine and habit refinement
Jan 12, 2022
149. How to find what matters to you (uncovering your personal values)
Jan 03, 2022
148. Why even make family Christmas traditions? (+ ones that didn’t work, ones that did)
Dec 03, 2021
147. Intentional phone habits and boundaries, using your phone ON PURPOSE
Nov 18, 2021
146. Feeling addicted to your phone? Understanding your phone habit + worksheets
Nov 09, 2021
145. You aren’t alone mama, I go through that too
Nov 03, 2021
144. How to lighten the mental load of DECISION FATIGUE
Oct 20, 2021
143. How to let go of IDENTITY CLUTTER
Oct 13, 2021
142. What will change cost you? (Paying the status quo or investing in change)
Oct 05, 2021
141. When shopping isn’t making your life better (mindful and minimalist tips for shopping)
Sep 29, 2021
140. Give your discomfort a purpose #uncomfortableonpurpose
Sep 22, 2021
139. Are you TOO comfortable? And what is it costing you?
Sep 14, 2021
138. Is momlife UNFUN? How to be a more FUN MOM, stop withholding fun from yourself
Sep 07, 2021
137. Back to school routines that we have in our house
Aug 31, 2021
136. How to do better, next summer (PROMPT episode)
Aug 25, 2021
135. Procrastination tips for moms
Aug 17, 2021
134. Do you typecast your kids? (Labels + how they impact our parenting and our kids)
Aug 09, 2021
133. 4 simple habits that make my momlife better
Aug 03, 2021
132. Teaching our kids a healthy relationship with food (+ our own food guilt and body shame) with Andrea Heyman
Jul 26, 2021
130. Q+A (seasons of life, husbands, parenting, family chores, choosing our feelings)
Jul 14, 2021
129. Does your ‘to-do list’ overwhelm you? Expectation overwhelm and how to handle it.
Jul 05, 2021
128. Getting dressed every day, with less guilt & more confidence (with Jaime McLaughlin)
Jun 28, 2021
127. Planning your Summer on Purpose (Tips for Moms)
Jun 25, 2021
126. The Joy of Being Mediocre (hobby without the hustle)
Jun 23, 2021
125. Creativity vs Productivity in Motherhood (making time for the things you love to do, with Siobhan Jones)
Jun 14, 2021
124. How to love your home (when you wish it were different)
Jun 09, 2021
123. Myths about emotion coaching our kids [LIVE]
May 31, 2021
122. What your mom never taught you about hormone health (with Dana Irvine)
May 26, 2021
121. Paying attention to how you feel (body and emotional awareness)
May 21, 2021
120. Teaching our kids emotional intelligence
May 12, 2021
119. Tolerating tough emotions in our kids (and ourselves)
May 12, 2021
118. Joy amidst depression in motherhood with Jenna Griffith
May 04, 2021
117. Emotional Intelligence 101 (and by Enneagram Type)
Apr 28, 2021
116. Survey Says (what you had to say about Simple on Purpose)
Apr 21, 2021
115. A Controlling mom, or a capable mom?
Apr 13, 2021
114. Being a Mom, on Purpose (it’s not about happy, obedient kids)
Apr 07, 2021
113. Why you aren’t thriving in motherhood (stress and surviving)
Mar 31, 2021
112. Are you parenting the wrong issue? (Power struggles and problem solving)
Mar 24, 2021
111. Decluttering decisions and guilt [Q+A]
Mar 17, 2021
110. Our relationship with stuff, and other decluttering questions
Mar 17, 2021
109. Decluttering and Motherhood with Elyse of Wholesome Mumma
Mar 09, 2021
108. [Coaching Session] Seeking joy in motherhood
Mar 03, 2021
107. [Coaching Session] Being and loving the mom you ARE (self-recognition and values)
Mar 03, 2021
106. [Coaching Session] Mom life, negative emotion, uncomfortable feelings
Mar 03, 2021
105. Do you TRUST yourself to show up for YOU?
Feb 22, 2021
104. Dress like you are 30
Feb 17, 2021
103. Habits of a debt-crushing family (with Bethany + Corey Adkins)
Feb 11, 2021
102. Starting the Debt-Free Journey (With Bethany + Corey Adkins)
Feb 11, 2021
101. Finding the time, planning the day and stress responses (Life Coaching Q+A for moms who want to live on purpose)
Feb 09, 2021
100. Type 9 Mom (the Peacemaker), Enneagram + Motherhood
Feb 05, 2021
99. Type 8 Mom (the Challenger), Enneagram + Motherhood
Feb 05, 2021
98. Type 7 Mom (the Adventurer), Enneagram + Motherhood
Feb 05, 2021
97. Type 6 Mom (the Loyalist), Enneagram + Motherhood
Feb 02, 2021
96. Type 5 Mom (the Observer), Enneagram + Motherhood
Feb 01, 2021
95. Type 4 Mom (the Individualist), Enneagram + Motherhood
Jan 30, 2021
94. Type 3 Mom (the Achiever), Enneagram + Motherhood
Jan 29, 2021
93. Type 2 Mom (the Helper), Enneagram + Motherhood
Jan 26, 2021
92. Type 1 Mom (the Perfectionist), Enneagram + Motherhood
Jan 26, 2021
91. What are your motives (Enneagram + Motherhood)
Jan 26, 2021
90. Declutter ‘what if I need it one day?’ items from your home with THIS shift
Jan 20, 2021
88. How to plan yearly goals and habits in the 9 areas of life
Jan 08, 2021
87. Why it is hard to be a present parent, and what to do about it
Dec 16, 2020
86. Why you are too busy (by enneagram type)
Dec 15, 2020
85. When empathy is hard in marriage and friendships
Dec 09, 2020
84. How parenting with empathy can transform your relationship
Dec 08, 2020
83. My Current Faves (things I’m loving & a reminder that you are never behind)
Dec 02, 2020
82. Feeling discouraged about this Christmas? Start HERE.
Nov 23, 2020
81. Are you trading in peace, in your life and relationships, for relief?
Nov 16, 2020
80. Things nobody really talks about when it comes to intentional living
Nov 10, 2020
79. Six signs you are living your life on autopilot (and what to do about it)
Nov 03, 2020
78. Small things that can change your whole life (the compound effect)
Oct 28, 2020
77. Why you need a day of BEING, and take rest from the DOING (Sabbath for moms)
Oct 22, 2020
76. Why it matters what you think (limiting mindsets in motherhood)
Oct 15, 2020
75. How to hygge when you are a busy mom (and it isn’t about socks and candles)
Oct 09, 2020
74. Show up for momlife with these empowering mindsets
Oct 02, 2020
73. How to deal with the emotional struggles of being a mom of babies and toddlers
Oct 02, 2020
72. When your spouse doesn’t want to declutter (but really, it’s marriage advice)
Sep 25, 2020
71. I let my kids do whatever they wanted all day, here is what happened
Sep 14, 2020
70. How to stick it out when you feel like you are failing
Sep 04, 2020
69. Will a simpler home bring me peace?
Aug 20, 2020
68. Mindful eating for moms (Interview with Jessica Penner)
Aug 08, 2020
67. Making motherhood harder than it needs to be (Mom Martyr)
Jul 31, 2020
66. Are you stuck in the hustle for happiness? Finding contentment in momlife
Jul 25, 2020
65. When your kids don’t play with their toys anymore
Jul 10, 2020
64. Three things to know about restlessness in motherhood
Jun 20, 2020
63. Why it is hard to enjoy the simple pleasures of life, and what to do about it
Jun 12, 2020
62. My husband put the groceries away wrong, he doesn’t care about me (love languages and expectations in marriage)
May 22, 2020
61. How we introduced chores to our kids (Saturday Morning Chores)
May 15, 2020
60. Doing Chores You Want to Avoid (how I life coached myself to do the dishes)
May 15, 2020
59. Moms who want control, time to lean into influence
May 11, 2020
58. Isolation life vs simple on purpose life (marriage, motherhood, working from home, mental health)
May 01, 2020
57. What Isolation is Teaching Me About My Simple on Purpose Life (shopping, wellness, friends, routine)
May 01, 2020
56. How to make a daily routine that works for you + your family
Apr 18, 2020
55. Tips to move out of the stress response and into resilience
Apr 04, 2020
54. 7 Tips for dealing with anxiety
Mar 23, 2020
53. Change your motherhood experience by changing how you make memories
Mar 21, 2020
52. How minimalism changed my marriage, homemaking and life
Mar 07, 2020
51. How Minimalism Changed My Motherhood (+ weird stuff I’m googling)
Mar 07, 2020
50. Things I never thought I would do, until I became a parent (also, cheese)
Feb 22, 2020
49. Facing change and uncertainty with a growth mindset
Feb 08, 2020
48. Being Brave With Your Life (Part 4 of the Show Up For Your Life Series)
Jan 25, 2020
47. My husband’s take on setting vision and goals together
Jan 18, 2020
46. Listening to your life (part 3 of SHOW UP FOR YOUR LIFE)
Jan 04, 2020
45. Paying attention to your life (Part 2 of SHOW UP FOR YOUR LIFE)
Dec 28, 2019
44. Showing up for your life (part 1 of the Show Up For Your Life Series)
Dec 14, 2019
43. Tips to Simplify Your Christmas (kids, clutter, traditions, hosting, festivities).
Nov 23, 2019
42. How to simplify the Christmas stress & gift giving (your Q+As)
Nov 23, 2019
41. Overwhelm in mom life: Life coaching advice on how to manage overwhelm.
Nov 09, 2019
40. Does the ‘not-enough’ mindset show up in your momlife? (Scarcity/Abundance)
Nov 02, 2019
38. Hygge and Minimalism (how they compare, how to hygge this fall/winter).
Oct 22, 2019
37. Three mindset shifts to get you decluttering (+ the tool of visualization)
Oct 12, 2019
36. 5 common home organization mistakes and what to do about them
Oct 05, 2019
35. Six Ways to Simplify MomLife
Sep 28, 2019
34. Ways to Simplify Momlife
Sep 14, 2019
33. Use these six steps to simplify your life and motherhood
Aug 24, 2019
32. When you don’t know what you want out of life (part 3 of You Can Simplify Your Life).
Aug 17, 2019
31. 10 things holding you back from simplifying your life (Part 2 of You Can Simplify Your Life)
Aug 03, 2019
30. What simple living really comes down to (PART 1 of Simple Your Life Series)
Jul 19, 2019
29. Birthdays on Purpose, Mindful in marriage, Love your summer wardrobe.
Jul 06, 2019
28. How to plan your summer on purpose, family rhythms we have and how to set ones you love.
Jun 22, 2019
27. Lessons from the first year of decluttering, live your values and live your vision.
Jun 08, 2019
26. Having personal goals and dreams while mothering small kids. Bonus Q+A Episode
May 30, 2019
25. Working through unhappiness in motherhood, life coaching steps for handling a bad day. Bonus Q+A Episode
May 30, 2019
24. Why minimalism changes lives, life coach advice on uncomfortable change, eye brows matter
May 25, 2019
23. Identity Clutter, Abundance Mindset, Declutter tip, Oil Cleansing.
May 10, 2019
22. Mindsets for Tired Moms, A Quick Way to Simplify Your Life, the Currently List.
Apr 26, 2019
21. Parenting books that changed my mothering, your future self, #MayOnPurpose Instagram challenge.
Apr 13, 2019
20. Q+A (Creating Space, Capsule Wardrobe, Decluttering with Kids, Family Meetings, Being Creative)
Apr 06, 2019
19. Tips to get stuff done, when goals don’t work, recently decluttered (with kids).
Mar 30, 2019
18. How to start LIFE ON PURPOSE (values, vision, goals), styling an outfit, the enneagram replay.
Mar 16, 2019
Enneagram 101 (what is it and what are the nine types)
Mar 05, 2019
16. When did I stop enjoying my kids? Knowing your vision and values. The best waffles ever.
Mar 02, 2019
15. Intentional Living (what I’ve learned), Mom Retreats (mom office hours), Food Uniforms.
Feb 16, 2019
14. Currently decluttering, tips to plan your day, date your friends, a vision for the bedroom means decluttering.
Feb 02, 2019
13. Family Culture, Thoughts on Tidying Up, the Currently List.
Jan 19, 2019
12. New Year’s meh, manage overspending, the top ten of 2018. Episode 12
Jan 05, 2019
11. Are we TOO comfortable? + Do we need so much pantry space?
Dec 21, 2018
10. Minimalist Christmas, Time Management and Decluttering for Christmas.
Dec 08, 2018
9. Being a Good Hostess (Simple Christmas Part 4).
Dec 05, 2018
8. Family Traditions and Shop Your Closet (A Simple Christmas Part 3).
Dec 01, 2018
7. Decluttering ‘identity’ items, Getting Comfortable with Discomfort, Family Meetings.
Nov 24, 2018
6. Simplify the gift giving. Thoughtful Gifts (Simple Christmas Part 2).
Nov 21, 2018
5. Simplifying Christmas, from one mom to another (Part 1)
Nov 17, 2018
4. Decluttering kids’ toys, getting ready for a Simple Christmas, easy food for a crowd.
Nov 09, 2018
3. Brain dump, kid’s clothes storage, minimum baseline to change habits.
Oct 27, 2018
2. Decluttering the kitchen, meal planning book, capsule wardrobes and the currently list.
Oct 13, 2018
1. What is Simple Saturdays by Simple on Purpose.
Oct 12, 2018