Crafting Solutions to Conflict

By Jane Beddall

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Ready for practical and positive perspectives on conflict? Join host Jane Beddall, M.A., J.D., to explore ways to preserve and restore harmony by preventing or limiting conflicts that may damage valued relationships and to effectively resolve those that may occur. We will talk about elephants in the room, expanding pies, the problem with cookie cutters, and much more. If you don’t know what those things mean, you will enjoy learning about them. If you do know them, you will be able to expand your understanding with some new points of view to consider. Would you like to learn more about Jane and her 30-year fascination with conflict, her work as a mediator and a Certified CINERGY® Conflict Coach? Do you have comments or suggestions about a topic or guest? An idea or question about conflict management or conflict resolution? Please visit https://www.dovetailresolutions.com/ or https://www.linkedin.com/in/janebeddall/, or start a conversation at jb@dovetailresolutions.com!

Episode Date
Watch your (body and facial) language
Mar 13, 2025
Watch your (spoken) language
Mar 06, 2025
Emily Bouchard on helping blended families flourish
Feb 27, 2025
Overcoming a false start
Feb 20, 2025
Not a hill to die on
Feb 13, 2025
Community Mediation: its power and challenges
Feb 06, 2025
Maria Arpa on her journey from early conflict to “Peaceful Solutions”
Jan 30, 2025
Mediation defined, expanded, embraced
Jan 23, 2025
What mediation isn't
Jan 16, 2025
Janet Ettele on How Joyous Effort Works
Jan 09, 2025
Fan favorites of 2024
Jan 02, 2025
The Golden Rule concept in ten world religions
Dec 26, 2024
Kelly McDonald on working with people not like you
Dec 19, 2024
Satisfying vs. productive
Dec 12, 2024
Rabbi Daniel Cohen on legacy
Dec 05, 2024
Grateful is good; let's add gracious
Nov 28, 2024
Accepting a lousy option
Nov 21, 2024
Can you or should you "control your emotions"?
Nov 14, 2024
The challenge of being humble or gracious
Nov 07, 2024
Empathy, sympathy, and pity
Oct 31, 2024
John Ford on The Empathy Set
Oct 24, 2024
Episode 303: Noticing conflict patterns – location
Oct 17, 2024
Noticing conflict patterns – timing
Oct 10, 2024
Marking – and even celebrating – progress in disputes and conflicts
Oct 03, 2024
Episode 300 of Crafting Solutions to Conflict
Sep 26, 2024
Kristin Keffeler on The Myth of the Silver Spoon
Sep 19, 2024
The dangers of shorthand
Sep 12, 2024
The allure of a common language
Sep 05, 2024
Douglas Squirrel on Agile Conversations
Aug 29, 2024
Using the LARA method to navigate conflict
Aug 22, 2024
Not enough of a good thing
Aug 15, 2024
Karen Valencic on Akido and conflict, plus her Spiral Impact method
Aug 08, 2024
Resisting and embracing polarities
Aug 01, 2024
The right questions as well as the right answers
Jul 25, 2024
Cathy Carroll on the Hug of War of effectively leading a family business
Jul 18, 2024
Flexibility requires structure
Jul 11, 2024
Paul Edelman on his COImpAct decision-making model
Jul 04, 2024
I'm calmer, you're calmer
Jun 27, 2024
It’s not the stimuli, it’s …
Jun 20, 2024
Natalie McVeigh on the neuroscience of stress and conflict
Jun 13, 2024
The problem with perceptions
Jun 06, 2024
Free resources to learn about conflict
May 30, 2024
Blaine Donais on the meaning of “conflict”
May 23, 2024
Choosing inaction
May 16, 2024
Judging other people’s tough choices
May 09, 2024
Khara Croswaite Brindle on Understanding Ruptured Mother-Daughter Relationships
May 02, 2024
Easing in instead of jumping in
Apr 25, 2024
Giving away the things that don’t matter
Apr 18, 2024
Michael W. Phillips on “The Naked Negotiator”
Apr 11, 2024
Let’s talk about gossip
Apr 04, 2024
WAIT: Why Am I Talking?
Mar 28, 2024
Terry Teale on “The Art of Mediation”
Mar 21, 2024
Practicing pause behaviors
Mar 14, 2024
Revisiting vs. ruminating
Mar 07, 2024
John Volturo on dealing with mercurial people
Feb 29, 2024
Applying the Johari Window model
Feb 22, 2024
Understanding the Johari Window model
Feb 15, 2024
David Gage on partnership charters
Feb 08, 2024
Doing what you can and then moving on
Feb 01, 2024
The power of cumulative effect
Jan 25, 2024
Buki Mosaku on navigating unconscious bias
Jan 18, 2024
Applying The Platinum Rule in end-of life situations
Jan 11, 2024
Understanding The Platinum Rule
Jan 04, 2024
Fan favorites of 2023
Dec 28, 2023
Nick Rion on creating “conflict-ready” relationships
Dec 21, 2023
The elusive perfect answer
Dec 14, 2023
Jay Hughes on the role of elders in flourishing families
Dec 07, 2023
What seeds will you sow now?
Nov 30, 2023
We reap what we sow
Nov 23, 2023
Vincent Valeri on helping rising gens find their own way
Nov 16, 2023
Reflections on FFI’s Global Conference: Evolving the Conversation
Nov 09, 2023
Kirby Rosplock on navigating conflict in the family office space
Nov 02, 2023
Steadfast or stubborn
Oct 26, 2023
The grief behind the grievance
Oct 19, 2023
Thank yous past, present, and future
Oct 12, 2023
Penny Tremblay on conflict resolution from the inside out
Oct 05, 2023
Thoughts on Seth Godin’s “Getting to no”
Sep 28, 2023
Family business LVMH’s plan has a flaw
Sep 21, 2023
Bess de Boer on fear as the main ingredient in conflict
Sep 14, 2023
Turning the page
Sep 07, 2023
When you have little to say
Aug 31, 2023
Let’s talk about prenups
Aug 24, 2023
Nathan Dungan on money, habits, values, and well-being
Aug 17, 2023
Resisting the bait
Aug 10, 2023
Making a plan
Aug 03, 2023
Two views on mirroring
Jul 27, 2023
Samantha Drum’s take on high-conflict personalities
Jul 20, 2023
Bias about bias
Jul 13, 2023
Where freedom begins and ends
Jul 06, 2023
Jeff Savlov on talking to young kids about family wealth
Jun 29, 2023
Whataboutism
Jun 22, 2023
Aggressive or assertive?
Jun 15, 2023
Cindy Watson on the Art of Feminine Negotiation
Jun 08, 2023
The power of “because”
Jun 01, 2023
Reactance theory and interpersonal conflict
May 25, 2023
Gleb Tsipursky, office whisperer, on RTO done right
May 18, 2023
Open The Front Door communication
May 11, 2023
More on BATNAs and WATNAs
May 04, 2023
Nellie Harden on courageous conversations with tween and teen daughters
Apr 27, 2023
What’s your BATNA (and WATNA)?
Apr 20, 2023
Finding the ZOPA
Apr 13, 2023
Beth Fisher-Yoshida on New Story, New Power: A Woman’s Guide to Negotiation
Apr 06, 2023
Honoring humility
Mar 30, 2023
Creating a conflict mantra
Mar 23, 2023
Treena Reillkoff on the book Grief & Fatigue, offering hope and resilience, with proceeds supporting Ukrainian refugees
Mar 16, 2023
Lessons from Spring Training
Mar 09, 2023
Messages sent and messages received
Mar 02, 2023
Pattie Porter on Verbal Akido, in theory and in practice
Feb 23, 2023
Battles of attrition
Feb 16, 2023
Getting emotional
Feb 09, 2023
Kristin MacDermott on the Four Family Meetings program
Feb 02, 2023
“No, and” instead of “no, but”
Jan 26, 2023
“Spare”, Prince Harry, and airing dirty laundry
Jan 19, 2023
David Tate on Conscious Accountability
Jan 12, 2023
Playing to your strengths
Jan 05, 2023
Looking back and finding successes
Dec 29, 2022
Stephen McGarvey on how to Ignite a Shift
Dec 22, 2022
Disappointment, expectations, and reality
Dec 15, 2022
Josh Patrick on failing fast and cheap
Dec 08, 2022
Following up – to reinforce or to repair
Dec 01, 2022
Recognizing salience bias
Nov 24, 2022
In-person gatherings and online meetings
Nov 17, 2022
Going along to get along
Nov 10, 2022
Amanda Holmes on honoring her late father’s business values and her own
Nov 03, 2022
200 Episodes – looking back and looking forward
Oct 27, 2022
America’s Peacemaker – The Community Relations Service
Oct 20, 2022
The challenge of unofficial veto power
Oct 13, 2022
Chris Kolenda on Leadership: The Warrior’s Art
Oct 07, 2022
Queen Elizabeth II as conflict resolver
Sep 29, 2022
Queen Elizabeth II as conflict preventer
Sep 22, 2022
Jay Hughes on the Goldilocks principle in flourishing families
Sep 15, 2022
Transitions are an opportunity for good conflict – the results
Sep 08, 2022
Transitions are an opportunity for good conflict – the process
Sep 01, 2022
Deena Chochinov on HomeWork and how to be a leader in both places
Aug 25, 2022
Reflections on Rendezvous 2022 -- from a conflict perspective, of course
Aug 18, 2022
TKI – the compromising mode plus a wrap-up
Aug 11, 2022
Jack Wofford on the lexicon of conflict
Aug 04, 2022
Avoiding and collaborating, two of the five TKI conflict modes
Jul 28, 2022
Competing and accommodating, two of the five TKI conflict modes
Jul 21, 2022
Jennifer Fraser on “The Bullied Brain: Heal Your Scars and Restore Your Health”
Jul 14, 2022
A brief introduction to the Thomas-Kilmann Instrument
Jul 07, 2022
Choosing how much conflict to address
Jun 30, 2022
Paul Hood on addressing fear in estate planning
Jun 23, 2022
Conflict coaching tip – think shoes
Jun 16, 2022
A conflict spin on Seth Godin’s interested vs. interesting
Jun 09, 2022
Marlene Chism on moving From Conflict to Courage
Jun 02, 2022
Ideas on conflict, old and new, at this year’s IFG conference
May 26, 2022
Mitigating Implicit Bias
May 19, 2022
Implicit Bias and the Implicit Association Test (IAT)
May 12, 2022
The Ladder of Inference
May 05, 2022
Vik Kapoor discusses his book on self-coaching, First Serve Yourself
Apr 28, 2022
Self-awareness and conflict resolution
Apr 21, 2022
Self-awareness and (negative) conflict prevention
Apr 14, 2022
David Ehrlichman on impact networks
Apr 07, 2022
Shortcuts and detours part 2
Mar 31, 2022
Shortcuts and detours part 1
Mar 24, 2022
Adam Kahane on Facilitating Breakthrough
Mar 17, 2022
Holding Space: for creativity, collaboration, and conflict
Mar 10, 2022
Fear and courage, stimulus and response
Mar 03, 2022
Mitzi Perdue on leading with humility and her advocacy in combatting human trafficking
Feb 24, 2022
Working with conflict in the family enterprise
Feb 17, 2022
Using email to prevent conflicts
Feb 10, 2022
Crystal Thorpe on Elder and Adult Family Mediation
Feb 03, 2022
Do-overs, rewinds, and mulligans
Jan 27, 2022
Impartial or neutral?
Jan 20, 2022
John A Warnick, family wealth counselor and PPI founder
Jan 13, 2022
Old habits and new opportunities
Jan 06, 2022
Fan favorites of 2021
Dec 30, 2021
Solstice-inspired thoughts on perspective
Dec 23, 2021
Cash Nickerson on negotiation as a martial art
Dec 16, 2021
Listening for the need behind the words
Dec 09, 2021
Toby Travis on trust, in education and beyond
Dec 02, 2021
Gratitude, platitudes, and attitudes
Nov 25, 2021
Turkeys and lizards don’t mix well
Nov 18, 2021
Toxic positivity
Nov 11, 2021
To assume is to ...
Nov 04, 2021
Marlene Stum on Who Gets Grandma’s Yellow Pie Plate
Oct 28, 2021
Deborah Tannen’s article on “cooperative overlapping”
Oct 21, 2021
Deborah Tannen's work on the mechanics of conversation
Oct 14, 2021
Cindy Radu on the underappreciated opportunities of trusts
Oct 07, 2021
Benefits of the doubt
Sep 30, 2021
Managing availability bias
Sep 23, 2021
Richard Lutringer on mediation within litigation
Sep 16, 2021
Understanding positions and interests
Sep 09, 2021
Stuck between a rock and a hard place
Sep 02, 2021
Nance Schick on lessons from ethno-religious mediation
Aug 26, 2021
The many meanings of silence
Aug 19, 2021
Swimming and conflict
Aug 12, 2021
Genevieve Chornenki: a dispute resolver who became a complainant
Aug 05, 2021
PPI and leaning into conflict
Jul 29, 2021
Planning, plans, and conflict
Jul 22, 2021
Betsy Erickson on handling conflict effectively with philanthropic families
Jul 15, 2021
Independence and unity
Jul 08, 2021
Monica Clare on the intersection of conflict and trauma
Jul 01, 2021
Timing -- not quite everything, yet critically important
Jun 24, 2021
Overcoming confirmation bias
Jun 17, 2021
Mitzi Perdue on the importance of family business culture
Jun 10, 2021
When a dispute uncovers a conflict
Jun 03, 2021
Family Business Mediation
May 27, 2021
Bryant Galindo on startups, disagreements, and the new middle
May 20, 2021
The Mediator who became a Politician
May 13, 2021
Restorative Justice: its growth in use and application
May 06, 2021
Amy Kay Watson on coaching and Internal Family Systems Therapy
Apr 29, 2021
Shocks and aftershocks
Apr 22, 2021
Misunderstanding estrangement
Apr 15, 2021
Marguerite Lorenz on independent trustees and preventing harmful family conflict
Apr 08, 2021
Embracing Reconciliation Day as a catalyst
Apr 01, 2021
Directness and Intensity in Expressing Disagreement
Mar 25, 2021
James Grubman, PhD, on family wealth, differences, conflicts, and negotiation
Mar 18, 2021
Desmond Tutu quote on persuasion
Mar 11, 2021
Comes in like a lion and goes out like a lamb
Mar 04, 2021
Richa Singh on conflict, governance, and “cleansing”
Feb 25, 2021
Planning ahead for a prenup talk
Feb 18, 2021
Opting out of “insanity”
Feb 11, 2021
Jennifer Goldman-Wetzler, PhD, on Optimal Outcomes and freeing yourself from conflict
Feb 04, 2021
Unity and unanimity
Jan 28, 2021
Humble in victory and gracious in defeat
Jan 21, 2021
Tsitsi Mutendi on her work with Nhaka Legacy Planning and African Family Firms
Jan 14, 2021
The meaning of Dovetail Resolutions
Jan 07, 2021
Observations on 2020
Dec 31, 2020
Todd Cherches on visual leadership
Dec 24, 2020
Embracing the gray
Dec 17, 2020
What harmony isn't
Dec 10, 2020
Sarah Peyton on scapegoating
Dec 03, 2020
One hundred episodes of gratitude
Nov 26, 2020
The Orange
Nov 19, 2020
Howard Ross on the impact of bias on our perspective
Nov 12, 2020
Let me count the ways
Nov 05, 2020
Vik Kapoor on peer conflict coaching at the UN
Oct 29, 2020
Hidden threads of conflict
Oct 22, 2020
Conflict Resolution Day is October 15
Oct 15, 2020
Chuck Howard, International Ombudsman Association’s Executive Director
Oct 08, 2020
What am I missing?
Oct 01, 2020
Nonviolent Communication – a brief introduction
Sep 24, 2020
Joseph Kuo, of Abundance Wealth Planning, on Motivational Interviewing
Sep 17, 2020
Mediation or facilitation -- what's the difference?
Sep 10, 2020
Going to the balcony
Sep 03, 2020
Paula Oleska on the Brain Upgrade and Natural Intelligence Systems
Aug 27, 2020
Reinhold Niebuhr on acceptance, courage, and wisdom
Aug 20, 2020
Same storm, different boats
Aug 13, 2020
Dr. Nate Regier on the Process Communication Model ®and his new book, Seeing People Through
Aug 06, 2020
Positive building blocks
Jul 30, 2020
Inner conflict and purposeful pivots
Jul 23, 2020
Bill Treasurer on courage, feedback, and conflict
Jul 16, 2020
What to do about microaggressions
Jul 09, 2020
What are microaggressions?
Jul 02, 2020
Denise Logan, The Seller Whisperer
Jun 25, 2020
Pressure cookers and pressure valves
Jun 18, 2020
Reflecting on silence
Jun 11, 2020
Jeremy Pollack, of Pollack Peacebuilding Systems, on handling conflict through respect and humility
Jun 04, 2020
Location, location, location – family and friends
May 28, 2020
Location, location, location -- workplace
May 21, 2020
Dennis Jaffe, PhD, on enterprising families managing conflict
May 14, 2020
Conflict coaching insight – practice helps
May 07, 2020
Conflict coaching insight – learn from experience
Apr 30, 2020
Cinnie Noble on CINERGY ® Conflict Management Coaching
Apr 23, 2020
Reflecting on a recent conflict
Apr 16, 2020
SWOT analysis and conflict
Apr 09, 2020
Dr. Gleb Tsipursky, CEO of Disaster Avoidance Experts, LLC
Apr 02, 2020
VUCA and conflict, part two
Mar 26, 2020
VUCA and conflict, part one
Mar 19, 2020
Dr. Nate Regier on conflict and compassion
Mar 12, 2020
Meditation, mediation, and arbitration
Mar 05, 2020
Can you really mediate that?!
Feb 27, 2020
Charlie Pillsbury on Mediators Beyond Borders International
Feb 20, 2020
Aligning expectations
Feb 13, 2020
Tales of wise planning and resilience at the IFG conference
Feb 06, 2020
Bhaj Townsend on understanding money stories to keep families connected
Jan 30, 2020
React, reply, or respond
Jan 23, 2020
The only constant is change
Jan 16, 2020
Jürgen Strauss on innovation and cross-cultural communication
Jan 09, 2020
Looking back at 2019 and looking forward to 2020
Jan 02, 2020
The Golden Rule across world religions
Dec 26, 2019
Shirtsleeves to shirtsleeves in three generations
Dec 19, 2019
Arielle Nóbile of Legacy Connections Films on preserving family stories
Dec 12, 2019
Let it Go
Dec 05, 2019
Giving thanks and good intentions
Nov 28, 2019
Phyllis Weiss Haserot on the challenges of the multi-generational workplace
Nov 21, 2019
Different, not necessarily inferior
Nov 14, 2019
Welcoming committee, not selection committee
Nov 07, 2019
Susan Schoenfeld, with a hard look at the soft (human) issues
Oct 31, 2019
One year into the podcasting adventure
Oct 24, 2019
Celebrating Conflict Resolution Day!
Oct 17, 2019
Jamie Forbes on empathy and trust
Oct 10, 2019
Who makes the first move?
Oct 03, 2019
Committing to address a conflict
Sep 26, 2019
Scott Perry and the Creative on Purpose community
Sep 19, 2019
Aretha’s estate planning: part two, the better options
Sep 12, 2019
Aretha’s estate planning: part one, the blunders
Sep 05, 2019
Carolyn Kaas, Esq., on Quinnipiac Law’s innovative Dispute Resolution Center
Aug 29, 2019
Expanding Pies (with a nod to Fisher and Ury)
Aug 22, 2019
Hitting the pause button
Aug 15, 2019
Steve Legler, family legacy advisor
Aug 08, 2019
Collaboration, Creativity, Compassion at PPI Rendezvous
Aug 01, 2019
Celebrating Number 30 and why
Jul 25, 2019
Andrew Karlen, Esq., counselor to business owners
Jul 18, 2019
When bad conflict happens to good people
Jul 11, 2019
The dangers of declarations
Jul 04, 2019
Dr. Vanessa Avery on religious diversity, conflict, and the Sharing Sacred Spaces Initiative
Jun 27, 2019
The Advantages of Authenticity
Jun 20, 2019
“Yes, and” instead of “Yes, but”
Jun 13, 2019
Rogério Faé Rodrigues, Brazilian family business consultant: helping families find their own path
Jun 06, 2019
Managing conflicting memories
May 30, 2019
The problem with cookie cutters
May 23, 2019
Louise Duncan: an introduction to the TetraMap learning framework
May 16, 2019
More positive lessons from Notre Dame: practice the plan
May 09, 2019
Positive lessons from Notre Dame: some beats none
May 02, 2019
Danny van Leeuwen, aka Health Hats, patient-caregiver activist, talks about governance
Apr 25, 2019
Creating a catalyst to address conflict
Apr 18, 2019
Denial is a lousy conflict strategy
Apr 11, 2019
More useful insights on communication from Bruce Hammer, psychologist and leadership developer
Apr 04, 2019
Bonus Episode: Reconciliation Day, April 2
Apr 01, 2019
Bruce Hammer, psychologist and leadership developer: The importance of understanding how what we are saying is being received
Mar 28, 2019
Good Friday agreement – Ireland, 1998
Mar 21, 2019
An ounce of prevention
Mar 14, 2019
Tara Fappiano: experienced litigator gains new mediation perspective
Mar 07, 2019
More perspectives on pachyderms (a different type of elephant)
Feb 28, 2019
Perspectives on pachyderms (especially elephants)
Feb 21, 2019
Jeff Savlov: Family Business, Siblings, Healing
Feb 14, 2019
Conflict: the good, the bad, and …
Feb 07, 2019
Dispute, conflict, or both.
Jan 31, 2019
Marc Halpert, passionate multipreneur
Jan 24, 2019
Fascination. And more.
Jan 17, 2019
What's in a [podcast] name?
Jan 10, 2019
Introducing Crafting Solutions to Conflict
Dec 11, 2018