*Content warning: emotional, sexual and physical violence, child abuse, sexual coercion, legal abuse. 

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*Content warning: emotional, sexual and physical violence, stalking, suicidal ideation.

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*Content warning: emotional, sexual and physical violence, rape, childhood emotional abuse and animal abuse.

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*Content warning: This episode includes discussion of  bullying, emotional, sexual, physical, and vehicular violence, sexual coercion and suicidal ideation. 

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*Content warning: This episode includes discussion of  emotional, sexual and physical violence, sexual coercion, workplace abuse and child abuse. 

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*Content warning: This episode includes discussion of rape, disordered eating, emotional, sexual and physical violence, self-harm, suicide and suicidal ideation. 

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Season 14 begins next Thursday! Somethingwaswrong.com/14

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*Content Warning: This episode includes descriptions of emotional abuse, interpersonal violence and spiritual abuse. 

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Welcome to the Hellmouth Weirdos! Your favorite Morbid hosts Ash and Alaina are branching out from true crime and heading to Sunnydale for the ultimate Buffy the Vampire Slayer Rewatch podcast! Alaina is a Buffy superfan and Ash has never watched a single episode, so whether you’re Team Angel, Team Spike, or have no clue who those people are…they’ve got you covered! Join them each week as they slay their way through the series, episode by episode, re-watching, and watching for the very first time. They’ll break down Buffy and her friends adventures through weekly recaps, categories, and awards while Ash takes some (wooden stake) stabs at predicting what she thinks will happen next. They'll also welcome the occasional Buffy cast member, guest star, or celebrity superfan to join in the slaying. 

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*Content Warning: This episode includes descriptions of emotional and spiritual abuse. 

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*Content Warning: This episode includes descriptions of gaslighting, emotional, sexual and physical violence, workplace abuse, sexual coercion and abuse by law enforcement.

The Consent Awareness Network mission is to create a public demand for change and to reach out to legislators to enact transformational laws to codify consent in the US law.

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*Content Warning: This episode includes descriptions of grooming, sexual and emotional abuse of minors, disordered eating, obsessive compulsive disorder and suicidal ideation. 

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*Content Warning: This episode includes descriptions of grooming, sexual and emotional abuse of minors, disordered eating, obsessive compulsive disorder and suicidal ideation. 

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*Content warning: fraud, gaslighting. 

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*Content warning: This episode includes discussion of bullying, harassment, stalking, emotional and physical violence, cyber harassment, and suicidal ideation. 

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Episode sources:

-https://www.newyorker.com/culture/cultural-comment/the-rage-of-the-incels (2018)

-https://www.vice.com/en/article/bvnw3d/incels-elliot-rodger-misogyny-far-right (2022)

-https://www.cbsnews.com/news/incel-threat-secret-service-report/ (2022)

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*Content warning: This episode includes discussion of false imprisonment, drugging, self-harm, sexual, psychological and physical violence. 

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RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline in partnership with more than 1,000 local sexual assault service providers across the US. If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted, help is available. https://www.rainn.org/ Telephone hotline: 800-656-HOPE (4673)

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*Content warning: This story includes descriptions of grooming and sexual abuse, threats of gun violence, workplace abuse, suicidal ideation, physical and emotional violence, stalking, threats of homicide, abortion, self-harm, and stalking. 

If you or someone you love is being abused, please call The National Domestic Violence Hotline  Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) Text "START" to 88788 or Chat Live at https://www.thehotline.org provides essential tools and support to help survivors of domestic violence so they can live their lives free of abuse, 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year. The Hotline can expect highly-trained, expert advocates to offer free, confidential, and compassionate support, crisis intervention information, education, and referral services in over 200 languages.

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*Content warning: This episode includes discussion of grooming and sexual abuse involving a minor, gun violence, workplace abuse, suicidal ideation, physical and emotional violence, stalking, threats of homicide. 

If you or someone you love is being abused, please call The National Domestic Violence Hotline Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) Text "START" to 88788 or Chat Live at https://www.thehotline.org provides essential tools and support to help survivors of domestic violence so they can live their lives free of abuse, 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year. The Hotline can expect highly-trained, expert advocates to offer free, confidential, and compassionate support, crisis intervention information, education, and referral services in over 200 languages.

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*Content Warning: Today’s episode discusses self-harm, suicidal ideation, substance use disorder, psychological abuse, interpersonal violence involving minors.

If you or someone you love is being abused, please call The National Domestic Violence Hotline  Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) Text "START" to 88788 or Chat Live at https://www.thehotline.org provides essential tools and support to help survivors of domestic violence so they can live their lives free of abuse, 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year. The Hotline can expect highly-trained, expert advocates to offer free, confidential, and compassionate support, crisis intervention information, education, and referral services in over 200 languages.

SAMHSA’s National Helpline is a free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders. The National Helpline provides 24-hour free and confidential referrals and information about mental and/or substance use disorders, prevention, treatment, and recovery in English and Spanish. SAMHSA's National Helpline 800-662-HELP (4357) TTY: 800-487-4889 For additional information on finding help and treatment options, visit www.samhsa.gov/find-treatment.

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*Content Warning: Today’s episode discusses kidnapping, pseudocyesis, miscarriage and psychological violence. The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC) is a nonprofit organization whose mission is to help find missing children, reduce child sexual exploitation, and prevent child victimization. NCMEC offers services for families, victims, professionals, schools, law enforcement, private industry, and communities to help prevent abducted, endangered, and sexually exploited children and to mitigate and combat exploitation. www.missingkids.org

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Sources:

KOCO 5 News, 2019, video archives (1990): https://cs-cz.facebook.com/koco5/videos/294426101245444/ 

KOCO 5 News, Jan. 2019, video archives (1990):

Baby snatched from Oklahoma City hospital, now adult, speaks out for first time 

Tie a Yellow Ribbon Round the Ole Oak Tree, by Tony Orlando and Dawn, sample via youtube: https://youtu.be/PxG9XFqHSFw (Album: Tuneweaving, 1973)

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*Content Warning: Today’s episode discusses psychological and physical violence, stalking, harassment and substance use disorder. 

If you or someone you love is being abused, please call The National Domestic Violence Hotline Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) Text "START" to 88788 or Chat Live at https://www.thehotline.org provides essential tools and support to help survivors of domestic violence so they can live their lives free of abuse, 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year. The Hotline can expect highly-trained, expert advocates to offer free, confidential, and compassionate support, crisis intervention information, education, and referral services in over 200 languages.

SAMHSA’s National Helpline is a free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders. 

The National Helpline provides 24-hour free and confidential referrals and information about mental and/or substance use disorders, prevention, treatment, and recovery in English and Spanish. SAMHSA's National Helpline 800-662-HELP (4357) TTY: 800-487-4889 For additional information on finding help and treatment options, visit www.samhsa.gov/find-treatment.

For more free and confidential resources, please visit: somethingwaswrong.com/resources. 

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*Content Warning: This episode discusses emotional abuse and substance use disorder.

If you or someone you love is being abused, please call The National Domestic Violence Hotline  Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) Text "START" to 88788 or Chat Live at https://www.thehotline.org provides essential tools and support to help survivors of domestic violence so they can live their lives free of abuse, 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year. The Hotline can expect highly-trained, expert advocates to offer free, confidential, and compassionate support, crisis intervention information, education, and referral services in over 200 languages.

SAMHSA’s National Helpline is a free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders. 

The National Helpline provides 24-hour free and confidential referrals and information about mental and/or substance use disorders, prevention, treatment, and recovery in English and Spanish. SAMHSA's National Helpline 800-662-HELP (4357)

TTY: 800-487-4889 For additional information on finding help and treatment options, visit www.samhsa.gov/find-treatment.

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*Content Warning: Today’s episode discusses cyber stalking, gang stalking, cyber terrorism, and emotional abuse. 

If you or someone you love is being abused, please call The National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) Text "START" to 88788 or Chat Live at https://www.thehotline.org provides essential tools and support to help survivors of domestic violence so they can live their lives free of abuse, 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year. The Hotline can expect highly-trained, expert advocates to offer free, confidential, and compassionate support, crisis intervention information, education, and referral services in over 200 languages.

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*Content warning: Today’s episode discusses emotional and physical abuse, image-based sexual abuse and substance use disorder. The National Domestic Violence Hotline Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) - Text "START" to 88788 - or Chat Live at https://www.thehotline.org 

The Trevor Project’s Mission is to end suicide among lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer & questioning young people. The Trevor Project offers five key programs: crisis services, peer support, research, public education, and advocacy. 

The Black Emotional and Mental Health Collective aims to bring together, heal and liberate Black marginalized communities. 

National Center for Transgender Equality Works at local, state, and federal levels to change policies and societal perceptions to increase understanding and acceptance of transgender people

The Network LA Red works to end partner abuse in lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, BDSM, polyamorous, and queer communities. They provide a 24-hour hotline, support groups, and housing pathway programs. 

SAMHSA’s National Helpline is a free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders. 

The National Helpline provides 24-hour free and confidential referrals and information about mental and/or substance use disorders, prevention, treatment, and recovery in English and Spanish. SAMHSA's National Helpline 800-662-HELP (4357)

TTY: 800-487-4889 For additional information on finding help and treatment options, visit www.samhsa.gov/find-treatment.

The National Domestic Violence Hotline Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)

Text "START" to 88788 or Chat Live at https://www.thehotline.org provides essential tools and support to help survivors of domestic violence so they can live their lives free of abuse, 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year. The Hotline can expect highly-trained, expert advocates to offer free, confidential, and compassionate support, crisis intervention information, education, and referral services in over 200 languages.

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*Content warning: Today’s episode discusses emotional and physical abuse, image-based sexual abuse and substance use disorder. 

The Trevor Project’s Mission is to end suicide among lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer & questioning young people. The Trevor Project offers five key programs: crisis services, peer support, research, public education, and advocacy. 

The Black Emotional and Mental Health Collective aims to bring together, heal and liberate Black marginalized communities. 

National Center for Transgender Equality Works at local, state, and federal levels to change policies and societal perceptions to increase understanding and acceptance of transgender people.

The Network LA Red works to end partner abuse in lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, BDSM, polyamorous, and queer communities. They provide a 24-hour hotline, support groups, and housing pathway programs. 

SAMHSA’s National Helpline is a free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders. 

The National Helpline provides 24-hour free and confidential referrals and information about mental and/or substance use disorders, prevention, treatment, and recovery in English and Spanish. SAMHSA's National Helpline 800-662-HELP (4357) TTY: 800-487-4889 For additional information on finding help and treatment options, visit www.samhsa.gov/find-treatment.

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*Content warning: Today’s episode discusses emotional and sexual abuse. RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline in partnership with more than 1,000 local sexual assault service providers across the country.

If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted, help is available. https://www.rainn.org/ Telephone hotline: 800-656-HOPE (4673)

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Take action against gun violence now: Text ACT to 644-33. You are not alone Text SHARE to 741741 to reach a volunteer Crisis Counselor via Crisis Text Line.

*Content warning: Today’s episode discusses emotional and sexual abuse. 

RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline in partnership with more than 1,000 local sexual assault service providers across the country.

If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted, help is available, visit https://www.rainn.org/ Or call their telephone hotline: 800-656-HOPE (4673)

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This week, survivor Amelia shares the second half of her story. *Content warning: Today’s episode discusses Substance Use Disorder, emotional and physical violence and arson. 

SAMHSA’s National Helpline is a free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders. 

The National Helpline provides 24-hour free and confidential referrals and information about mental and/or substance use disorders, prevention, treatment, and recovery in English and Spanish. SAMHSA's National Helpline 800-662-HELP (4357)

TTY: 800-487-4889 For additional information on finding help and treatment options, visit www.samhsa.gov/find-treatment.

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This week, survivor Amelia shares the first half of her story. *Content warning: Today’s episode discusses Substance Use Disorder and emotional violence. 

SAMHSA’s National Helpline is a free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders. 

The National Helpline provides 24-hour free and confidential referrals and information about mental and/or substance use disorders, prevention, treatment, and recovery in English and Spanish. SAMHSA's National Helpline 800-662-HELP (4357)

TTY: 800-487-4889 For additional information on finding help and treatment options, visit www.samhsa.gov/find-treatment.

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Something Was Wrong is still available for free wherever you get your podcasts! However, if you'd like to hear the first episode of season 13 a week early, you can listen now on the Amazon Music app or early and ad free when you subscribe to Wondery+.

If you're interested in submitting your story, visit www.somethingwaswrong.com/submissions for more information. 

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*Content warning: This episode includes descriptions of emotional, physical, stalking, death and gun violence. 

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The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)'s mission is to lead, mobilize and raise our voices to support efforts that demand a change of conditions that lead to domestic violence such as patriarchy, privilege, racism, sexism, and classism. We are dedicated to supporting survivors and holding offenders accountable and supporting advocates. https://ncadv.org/contact-us

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*Content warning: This episode includes descriptions of emotional, physical, stalking, death and gun violence. 

The Domestic Violence Hotline offers free and confidential support, 24/7 at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233), text "START" to 88788 or chat with someone confidentially at https://www.thehotline.org

The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)'s mission is to lead, mobilize and raise our voices to support efforts that demand a change of conditions that lead to domestic violence such as patriarchy, privilege, racism, sexism, and classism. We are dedicated to supporting survivors and holding offenders accountable and supporting advocates. https://ncadv.org/contact-us

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*Content warning: This episode includes descriptions of emotional, physical, stalking, death and gun violence. 

The Domestic Violence Hotline offers free and confidential support, 24/7 at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233), text "START" to 88788 or chat with someone confidentially at https://www.thehotline.org

The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)'s mission is to lead, mobilize and raise our voices to support efforts that demand a change of conditions that lead to domestic violence such as patriarchy, privilege, racism, sexism, and classism. We are dedicated to supporting survivors and holding offenders accountable and supporting advocates. https://ncadv.org/contact-us

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*Content warning: This episode includes descriptions of emotional, physical, stalking, death and gun violence. 

The Domestic Violence Hotline offers free and confidential support, 24/7 at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233), text "START" to 88788 or chat with someone confidentially at https://www.thehotline.org

The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)'s mission is to lead, mobilize and raise our voices to support efforts that demand a change of conditions that lead to domestic violence such as patriarchy, privilege, racism, sexism, and classism. We are dedicated to supporting survivors and holding offenders accountable and supporting advocates. https://ncadv.org/contact-us

For more free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources 

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*Content warning: This episode includes descriptions of emotional, physical and gun violence. 

The Domestic Violence Hotline offers free and confidential support, 24/7 at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233), text "START" to 88788 or chat with someone confidentially at https://www.thehotline.org

The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)'s mission is to lead, mobilize and raise our voices to support efforts that demand a change of conditions that lead to domestic violence such as patriarchy, privilege, racism, sexism, and classism. We are dedicated to supporting survivors and holding offenders accountable and supporting advocates. https://ncadv.org/contact-us

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When Kenzie first met Joe – she thought he was funny, successful and charming. Despite many strange circumstances in Joe’s personal life, it was the best relationship Kenzie had ever had…But when her loved ones began to suspect Joe wasn’t at all who he said he was, they came together to uncover his secrets and save their friend – just in the nick of time. 

The Domestic Violence Hotline offers free and confidential support, 24/7 at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233), text "START" to 88788 or chat with someone confidentially at https://www.thehotline.org

The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)'s mission is to lead, mobilize and raise our voices to support efforts that demand a change of conditions that lead to domestic violence such as patriarchy, privilege, racism, sexism, and classism. We are dedicated to supporting survivors and holding offenders accountable and supporting advocates. https://ncadv.org/contact-us

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When Kenzie first met Joe – she thought he was funny, successful and charming. Despite many strange circumstances in Joe’s personal life, it was the best relationship Kenzie had ever had…But when her loved ones began to suspect Joe wasn’t at all who he said he was, they came together to uncover his secrets and save their friend – just in the nick of time. 

Be on the lookout for the first episode of the six-part series, Thursday March 31st 2022. 

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This week survivor Lucy shares her story.

*Content Warning: This episode discusses sexual assault and emotional abuse.

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Sources:

Ultra Violet: Facts About Violence Against Native Women

UltraViolet is a powerful and rapidly growing community of people mobilized to fight sexism and create a more inclusive world that accurately represents all women, from politics and government to media and pop culture. UltraViolet is a community of one million people that drives feminist cultural and political change. Through people power and strategic advocacy, they work to improve the lives of women and girls of all identities and backgrounds, and all people impacted by sexism, by dismantling discrimination and creating a cost for sexism.

Where’s the Media Attention for Missing Indigenous Women?

By Andrea González-Ramírez, Sept. 24, 2021

Resources:

The National Indigenous Women’s Resource Center, Inc. (NIWRC) is a Native-led nonprofit organization dedicated to ending violence against Native women and children. The NIWRC provides national leadership in ending gender-based violence in tribal communities by lifting up the collective voices of grassroots advocates and offering culturally grounded resources, technical assistance and training, and policy development to strengthen tribal sovereignty.

NIWRC develops resources and training opportunities to support Native advocates and survivors, and tribal governments in prioritizing the safety of Native women and their children and requiring accountability of offenders and communities. Native women, their children, and Tribal nations are entitled to:

-Safety from violence within their homes and in their community

-Justice both on and off tribal lands

-Access to culturally grounded advocacy designed by and for Native women

-Safe, affordable housing, legal services, childcare, economic security, and other basic resources provided in respectful ways

-Culturally-based, trauma and resiliency-informed services

-Access to indigenous healing ways

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This week survivor Dara shares her story. 

*Content warning: Today’s episodes discusses sexual assault, rape, and physical and emotional violence. 

Change statue of limitations for sexual assault laws in Indiana Change.org petition 

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Resources:

RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline (800.656.HOPE, online.rainn.org y rainn.org/es) in partnership with more than 1,000 local sexual assault service providers across the country and operates the DoD Safe Helpline for the Department of Defense. RAINN also carries out programs to prevent sexual violence, help survivors, and ensure that perpetrators are brought to justice.

Sources:

U.S. Department of Justice, Office of Justice Programs, Bureau of Justice Statistics. September 2019, NCJ 253043, Criminal Victimization, 2018

Rachel E. Morgan, Ph.D., and Barbara A. Oudekerk, Ph.D., BJS Statisticians

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Something Was Wrong’s theme song was originally composed by Glad Rags and is covered this season by Kenna and the Kings. 

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This week survivor Mae shares her story. 

*Content Warning: This episode contains descriptions of violence involving animals and animal abuse. 

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Resources:

The Humane Society of the United States

202-452-1100 or 866-720-2676

Monday through Friday 8 a.m. to 11 p.m.

The American Pit Bull Foundation

APBF’s mission is to promote responsible dog ownership through education, programming, and assistance. We do this four ways: through Humane Education, Outreach, Advocacy, and Shelter to Service.

Helpful Phone Numbers:

- Animal Care & Control: 311

- ASPCA Poison Control: (888) 426-4435

- Report Dog fighting: (877) TIP-HSUS

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This week survivor Vera shares her story. 

*Content Warning: This episode discusses rape, abortion, cyberbullying, suicidal ideation and psychological violence. 

Resources: 

StopBullying.gov provides information from various government agencies on what bullying is, what cyberbullying is, who is at risk, and how you can prevent and respond to bullying. 

The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at at 800-273-8255. The hotline is available free, 24/7 with services in English and Spanish. For more information and 

Planned Parenthood Action Fund is a nonprofit, non-partisan group. PPAF is backed by more than 7 million activists, donors, and other supporters working to advance access to sexual health care and defend reproductive rights. While PPAF works at the national level, local Planned Parenthood advocacy and political organizations are fighting to defend reproductive rights in states across the country. 

Sources: 

The 2019 School Crime Supplement to the National Crime Victimization Survey (National Center for Education Statistics and Bureau of Justice) indicates that, nationwide, about 16 percent of students in grades 9–12 experienced cyberbullying.

The 2019 Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance System (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention) indicates that an estimated 15.7% of high school students were electronically bullied in the 12 months prior to the survey.

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Something Was Wrong’s theme song was originally composed by Glad Rags and is covered this season by Kenna and the Kings. 

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This week survivor Molly shares her story. 

*Content warning: This episode includes descriptions of emotional and physical violence, sibling abuse,  and workplace abuse. 

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Resources:

If you suspect or know that a child is being abused or neglected, there are ways you can help.  If you or someone else is in immediate and serious danger, you should call 911.

The Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline offers professional crisis counselors who are available to help 24/7. Text or call 1 -800- 422- 4453 The hotline offers crisis intervention, information, and referrals to thousands of emergency, social service, and support resources. All calls are confidential. For more information, visit their website at childhelphotline.org. 

For more free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources  

Sources: 

Psychology Today: Dorothy Suskind, Ph.D., The Six Stages of Workplace Bullying, June 2020. 

Workplace Bullying Institute: Gary Namie, PhD, WBI U.S. Workplace Bullying Survey Full Report January 2021.

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This week survivor Willow shares her story. 

*Content warning: This episode includes descriptions of emotional abuse, child sexual abuse, body-image abuse and disordered eating.

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Resources:

The National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) is the largest nonprofit organization dedicated to supporting individuals and families affected by eating disorders. NEDA supports individuals and families affected by eating disorders, and serves as a catalyst for prevention, cures and access to quality care. The National Eating Disorders Helpline can be reached at 1-800-931-2237. For 24/7 crisis support, text 'NEDA' to 741741. 

For more free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources

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Something Was Wrong’s theme song was originally composed by Glad Rags and is covered this season by Kenna and the Kings. 

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This week survivor Sasha shares her story. 

*Content warning: This episode includes descriptions of emotional and physical violence, and stalking. 

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Resources:

The Domestic Violence Hotline offers free and confidential support, 24/7 at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233), text "START" to 88788 or chat with someone confidentially at https://www.thehotline.org

The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)'s mission is to lead, mobilize and raise our voices to support efforts that demand a change of conditions that lead to domestic violence such as patriarchy, privilege, racism, sexism, and classism. We are dedicated to supporting survivors and holding offenders accountable and supporting advocates. https://ncadv.org/contact-us

For more free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources 

Sources: 

Recording Law: United States Recording Laws, 2021. RecordingLaw.com is a website updated annually with local and regional recording laws. 

South Bend Tribune: Viewpoint: False reporting rare in domestic violence cases  by Linda Baechle, 2016.

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Something Was Wrong’s theme song was originally composed by Glad Rags and is covered this season by Kenna and the Kings. 

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This week survivor Nina shares her story. 

*Content warning: This episode includes descriptions of emotional, sexual and physical violence, gun violence, and murder.

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Resources:

The Domestic Violence Hotline offers free and confidential support, 24/7 at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233), text "START" to 88788 or chat with someone confidentially at https://www.thehotline.org

The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)'s mission is to lead, mobilize and raise our voices to support efforts that demand a change of conditions that lead to domestic violence such as patriarchy, privilege, racism, sexism, and classism. We are dedicated to supporting survivors and holding offenders accountable and supporting advocates. https://ncadv.org/contact-us

RAINN - The National Sexual Assault Online Hotline

If you’re in need of support, please contact RAINN - the United States largest anti-sexual violence organization at 1-800-656-4673 (HOPE) online.rainn.org free and confidential, 24/7.

SOSA - Safe From Online Sex Abuse: SOSA offers free resources such as webinars, workshops, and school presentations, SOSA provides compassion-led education to young people, as well as caretakers and other responsible adults to help the community stay proactive when it comes to the safety of minors. In addition to working with law enforcement and technology experts to help consumer internet brands recognize and respond in real-time to harmful and hateful content on their platforms. https://sosatogether.org/contact

StrongHearts is a culturally-appropriate, anonymous, confidential service dedicated to serving Native American survivors of interpersonal violence and their concerned family members and friends. 1-844-762-8483, available 24/7 nationwide. Callers can connect at no cost, one-on-one with knowledgeable StrongHearts advocates who can provide lifesaving tools and immediate support to enable survivors to find safety and live lives free of abuse. https://strongheartshelpline.org/about

The Safe Sisters Circle is a nonprofit that provides free culturally specific, holistic, and trauma-based services to Black women survivors of domestic violence and/or sexual assault primarily living in Washington, DC's Wards 7 and 8.

For more free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources 

Sources: 

Healthline: by Crystal Raypole Dealing With a Manipulative Person? Grey Rocking May Help Medically reviewed by Timothy J. Legg, PhD, PsyD: December 12, 2019 

National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV): US Interpersonal Violence National Statistics 600 Grant, Suite 750 Denver, Colorado 80203 https://ncadv.org/

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Something Was Wrong’s theme song was originally composed by Glad Rags and is covered this season by Kenna and the Kings. 

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This week survivor Quinn shares her story. 

*Content warning: This episode includes descriptions of sexual and emotional abuse of minors.

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Resources:

RAINN - The National Sexual Assault Online Hotline

If you’re in need of support, please contact RAINN - the United States largest anti-sexual violence organization at 1-800-656-4673 (HOPE) online.rainn.org free and confidential, 24/7.

SOSA - Safe From Online Sex Abuse: SOSA offers free resources such as webinars, workshops, and school presentations, SOSA provides compassion-led education to young people, as well as caretakers and other responsible adults to help the community stay proactive when it comes to the safety of minors. In addition to working with law enforcement and technology experts to help consumer internet brands recognize and respond in real-time to harmful and hateful content on their platforms. https://sosatogether.org/contact

For more free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources 

Sources: 

National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC): Online Abuse and Trauma

National Sexual Violence Resource Center was founded by the Pennsylvania Coalition Against Rape, 2021

Jonsson, L.S., Fredlund, C., Priebe, G. et al: 

Online sexual abuse of adolescents by a perpetrator met online: a cross-sectional study

. Child Adolesc Psychiatry Ment Health 13, 32 (2019). https://doi.org/10.1186/s13034-019-0292-1

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Something Was Wrong’s theme song was originally composed by Glad Rags and is covered this season by Kenna and the Kings. 

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This week survivor Ari shares Part 2 of her story. 

*Content warning: This episode includes descriptions of abduction, rape, Substance Use Disorder, psychological and physical violence. 

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Resources: 

SAMHSA’s National Helpline is a confidential, free, 24-hour-a-day, 365-day-a-year, information service, available in English and Spanish, for individuals and family members facing mental and/or substance use disorders at 1-800-662-4357. This service provides referrals to local treatment facilities, support groups, and community-based organizations. Callers can also order free publications and other information.

The Domestic Violence Hotline offers free and confidential support, 24/7 at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233), text "START" to 88788 or chat with someone confidentially at https://www.thehotline.org

The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)'s mission is to lead, mobilize and raise our voices to support efforts that demand a change of conditions that lead to domestic violence such as patriarchy, privilege, racism, sexism, and classism. We are dedicated to supporting survivors and holding offenders accountable and supporting advocates. https://ncadv.org/contact-us

For more free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources 

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Something Was Wrong’s theme song was originally composed by Glad Rags and is covered this season by Kenna and the Kings. 

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This week survivor Ari shares Part 1 of her story. 

*Content warning: This episode contains descriptions of emotional and physical violence, and Substance Use Disorder.

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Resources: 

The Domestic Violence Hotline offers free and confidential support, 24/7 at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233), text "START" to 88788 or chat with someone confidentially at https://www.thehotline.org

The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)'s mission is to lead, mobilize and raise our voices to support efforts that demand a change of conditions that lead to domestic violence such as patriarchy, privilege, racism, sexism, and classism. We are dedicated to supporting survivors and holding offenders accountable and supporting advocates. https://ncadv.org/contact-us

SAMHSA’s National Helpline is a confidential, free, 24-hour-a-day, 365-day-a-year, information service, available in English and Spanish, for individuals and family members facing mental and/or substance use disorders at 1-800-662-4357. This service provides referrals to local treatment facilities, support groups, and community-based organizations. Callers can also order free publications and other information.

For more free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources 

Sources:

Mayo Clinic: Drugs and Supplements: Oxycodone And Acetaminophen Dec. 01, 2021 (Drug information provided by: 

IBM Micromedex)

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This week we will hear Ashley Hall’s story -- told by her Mother Lucia, and her sister Jessa. 

Please note, due to the public nature of this story, real names will be used for this episode. 

*Content warning: This episode contains descriptions of psychological and physical violence, and murder. 

Join the Justice for Ashley - Stop Domestic Violence public Facebook group here. 

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Resources: 

The Domestic Violence Hotline offers free and confidential support, 24/7 at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233), text "START" to 88788 or chat with someone confidentially at https://www.thehotline.org

The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)'s mission is to lead, mobilize and raise our voices to support efforts that demand a change of conditions that lead to domestic violence such as patriarchy, privilege, racism, sexism, and classism. We are dedicated to supporting survivors and holding offenders accountable and supporting advocates. https://ncadv.org/contact-us

For more free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources 

Sources: 

Emma E. Fridel and James Alan Fox: 

Gender Differences in Patterns and Trends in U.S. Homicide, 1976–2017 http://doi.org/10.1089/vio.2019.0005

Violence and Gender: Published in Volume: 6 Issue 1: March 11, 2019

Petrosky E, Blair JM, Betz CJ, Fowler KA, Jack SP, Lyons BH: 

Racial and Ethnic Differences in Homicides of Adult Women and the Role of Intimate Partner Violence: United States, 2003–2014. MMWR Morb Mortal Wkly Rep 2017; 66:741–746. Jul 21;66(28):741-746. doi: 10.15585/mmwr.mm6628a1. PMID: 28727682; PMCID: PMC5657947.

Government of Western Australia Department of Communities Child Protection and Family Support: Fact Sheet 3: Perpetrator Characteristics Adapted from: Perpetrator accountability in Child Protection Practice – A resource for child protection workers about engaging and responding to men who perpetrate family and domestic violence, Department for Child Protection, Government of Western Australia, 2013.

The Press-Enterprise: CRIME BLOTTER: San Bernardino woman brutally stabbed; husband sought: Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VOOL-eQkubQ December 3rd 2013

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This week survivor Vanessa shares her story.

Last week we heard from survivor Emily, Cody’s 2nd wife. This week we’ll learn the truth about Cody’s first marriage — when his two exes are brought together to uncover his lies.

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Resources:

For free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources 

SAMHSA’s National Helpline is a confidential, free, 24-hour-a-day, 365-day-a-year, information service, available in English and Spanish, for individuals and family members facing mental and/or substance use disorders at 1-800-662-4357. This service provides referrals to local treatment facilities, support groups, and community-based organizations. Callers can also order free publications and other information.

Sources:

The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence: Quick Guide: Economic and Financial Abuse, 2017 NCADV 600 Grant, Suite 750 Denver, Colorado 80203

The Mayo Clinic: Compulsive gambling By Mayo Clinic Staff, 2016

Mayo Foundation for Medical Education and Research (MFMER) https://www.mayoclinic.org/about-mayo-clinic

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This week survivor Emily shares her story.

A few years ago, Emily had just purchased her first home and was moving in with her husband, Cody, and soon to be son. She was thrilled to finally have their forever home to start planting roots and raise their growing family. Almost a year later, Emily’s life blew up when she found that her husband had stolen her identity leaving her in complete financial and emotional ruin...and she was not the only one.

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Resources: 

For free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources 

Sources:

The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence: Quick Guide: Economic and Financial Abuse, 2017 NCADV 600 Grant, Suite 750 Denver, Colorado 80203
 

The Mayo Clinic: Compulsive gambling By Mayo Clinic Staff, 2016

Mayo Foundation for Medical Education and Research (MFMER) https://www.mayoclinic.org/about-mayo-clinic

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Something Was Wrong’s theme song was originally composed by Glad Rags and is covered this season by Basic Comfort. You can listen to their cover of "U Think U" on all streaming platforms or at https://basiccomfort.bandcamp.com/

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This week survivor Mia shares her story.

Mia spent years hiding her sexuality because of religious shame. Even though she was married to man out of “obedience” to church teachings, he knew she was gay and they were able to have a good friendship. Mia thought she had met a kind, beautiful woman who she could relate to on every level but it took six months to find out that this woman was not who she said she was.

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Resources: 

For free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources 

The Human Rights Campaign envisions a world where every member of the LGBTQ+ family has the freedom to live their truth without fear, and with equality under the law. We empower our 3 million members and supporters to mobilize against attacks on the most marginalized people in our community.

The Trevor Project is the world’s largest suicide prevention and crisis intervention organization for LGBTQ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, and questioning) young people.

Safeline: Revenge Porn – What it means for the victim and the offender

Safeline was set up in 1994 by victims of sexual abuse who wanted to help others. We started as a helpline in a spare bedroom and over twenty years later we have helped more than 25,000 people in their journey through rape and sexual abuse.

Sources:

HG.org: Catfishing - Is It Considered Criminal Fraud? 2021, HG.org Legal Resources - HGExperts.com

Directed by Henry Joost, Ariel Schulman. Starring Nev Schulman, 2010, Catfish, IMDB.

WedMD: Signs of Catfishing By WebMD Editorial Contributors, Medically Reviewed by Dan Brennan, MD on December 03, 2020

Psychology Today: How Common Is Catfishing? By Theresa E. DiDonato Ph.D Reviewed by Devon Frye, March 5, 2021. 

Mosley, Marissa & Strickland, Morgan & Parker, M. & Campbell, Kelly. (2020). Adult attachment and online dating deception: A theory modernized. Sexual and Relationship Therapy. 35. 10.1080/14681994.2020.1714577. 
 

FindLaw: State Revenge Porn Laws

Created by FindLaw's team of legal writers and editors | Last updated October 08, 2021

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This week, we hear the final half of Olivia’s story...

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Resources:

For free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources 

SAMHSA’s National Helpline is a confidential, free, 24-hour-a-day, 365-day-a-year, information service, available in English and Spanish, for individuals and family members facing mental and/or substance use disorders at 1-800-662-4357. This service provides referrals to local treatment facilities, support groups, and community-based organizations. Callers can also order free publications and other information.

Sources:

The U.S. The Department of Health: HHS:  What is the U.S. Opioid Epidemic?

Content last reviewed on October 27, 2021 

National Institute of Justice: Taking on the Dark Web: Law Enforcement Experts ID Investigative Needs on the Dark Web, June 15, 2020 

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This week survivor Olivia shares her story.

When Olivia met Janet, she felt she had met a second mother type figure. Janet made Olivia feel instantly understood, seen, and accepted but after over three years of this unique friendship, Olivia’s entire world fell apart when she discovered that Janet was entangled in a twisted and complicated dark web of lies.

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Resources: 

For free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources

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Something Was Wrong’s theme song was originally composed by Glad Rags and is covered this season by Basic Comfort. You can listen to their cover of "U Think U" on all streaming platforms or at https://basiccomfort.bandcamp.com/

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This week, Nadia shares her Aunt Beth's survivor story.

In the 1970s, Beth was struck by a drunk driver and was thankfully saved with the help of her friends and a good samaritan named Bruce. Out of an overwhelming amount of gratitude to who she felt was her hero, Beth insisted on keeping in contact with Bruce but as her sister’s become fearful of his “creepy” vibes, Beth’s family learns that her hero is actually extremely dangerous.

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Resources: 

For free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources 

Sources:

Psychology Today - Serial Killers Reviewed by Psychology Today Staff, 2021

The Chicago Daily Herald: Naperville Police Chief Recalls Finding Killers Body Atop Stabbing Victims By Marie Wilson, 2020. Interview with responding officer Marshall.

The Chicago Daily Herald: Suspected Serial Killer Bruce Lindahl stayed under the radar, but how? By Don Babwin | The Associated Press, January 20, 2020

WTTW: Police Suspect Serial Killer Strangled Illinois Teen in 1976

Associated Press | January 14, 2020

Stories of the Unsolved: The Disappearance of Deborah McCall

By Stories of the Unsolved Missing Persons, July 14, 2021

Bruce Lindahl victim Annette Lazar describes surviving attack by suspected serial killer, rapist By Sarah Schulte Thursday, January 23, 2020. Interview with Annette Lazar, 2020. 

United States Department of Justice: Federal Bureau of Investigation: Serial Murder: Multi-Disciplinary Perspectives for Investigators Behavioral Analysis Unit-2, National Center for the Analysis of Violent Crime, Critical Incident Response Group, 2005. 

Wikipedia: Bruce Lindal - Serial Killer, 2021

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This week, survivor Maribelle shares her story.

Maribelle met her charming southern gentleman boyfriend, Hunter, on a dating website. As an OG Crime Junkie, when Maribelle noticed the red flags started to pop up, she put on her detective hat and discovered Hunter was a dangerous pathological liar and a soon to be stalker.

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Resources: 

For free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources 

HealthLine: How to Recognize Coercive Control

Medically reviewed by Timothy J. Legg, PhD, PsyD — Written by Cindy Lamothe on October 10, 2019

Battered Women: Coercive Control and the Defense of Liberty — Written by Evan Stark, Ph.D, MSW, Professor, Rutgers School of Public Affairs and Administration, Prepared for Violence Against Women : Complex Realities and New Issues in a Changing World, Les Presses de l’Université du Québec (2012)

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Something Was Wrong’s theme song was originally composed by Glad Rags and is covered this season by Basic Comfort. You can listen to their cover of "U Think U" on all streaming platforms or at https://basiccomfort.bandcamp.com/

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This week survivor Angie shares her story.

Angie married a man named Jeff who was very well-respected and well-liked in his community. Through financial and social dependency, Angie became entrapped in Jeff’s web of lies as his criminal activities led to a very public fall from grace.

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Resources:

For free mental health resources, please visit SomethingWasWrong.com/Resources 

RAINN - The National Sexual Assault Online Hotline

If you’re in need of support, please contact RAINN - the United States largest anti-sexual violence organization at 800.656.HOPE or visit online.rainn.org.

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This week survivor Emma shares her story.

Emma met her future husband Drew through her oldest brother and after a series of toxic relationships, and finally thought she had found a safe place in Drew. He showered her with love and affections and all of her friends loved him but little did Emma know that this relationship was going to be the most traumatic of them all.

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Drug-facilitated sexual assaults (DFSA): a serious underestimated issue

Busardò FP, Varì MR, di Trana A, Malaca S, Carlier J, di Luca NM. Drug-facilitated sexual assaults (DFSA): a serious underestimated issue. Eur Rev Med Pharmacol Sci. 2019 Dec;23(24):10577-10587. doi: 10.26355/eurrev_201912_19753. PMID: 31858579.

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This week survivor Ava shares her story.

Ava met Eddie at a bar and was instantly intrigued by his cute New Zealand accent. After a courthouse wedding so Eddie could obtain his green card, Ava finds out that everything she thought was true about Eddie was not all it seemed.

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This week survivor Megan shares her story.

While in college, Megan’s close friend Anne passes away suddenly leaving her and their inner circle of friends totally shattered. In the midst of Megan’s grief, she meets Katie, who she believes to be another one of Anne’s friends but over the course of two weeks, they quickly realize this woman is not who she claims to be.

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This week survivor Bailey shares her story.

Bailey met “JD” while out at a bar with her friend. Following the advice of a little infamous dating help book, Bailey insisted JD pick her up for their first date which turned out to be a series of regrets that haunt her on a night she barely escaped with her life.

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Darcy, Danielle and Kenji head to court -- and all of Ardie's lies are called into question.

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As Ardie and Darcy’s turbulent relationship spilled into public view, Ardie’s life of crime is finally laid bare, exposing new revelations along the way.

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Through a shared bond of trauma and desperation for the truth, Kenji and Danielle worked together to expose Ardie’s true identity.

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After meeting, Kenji and Danielle made startling revelations about Ardie’s life, his debauched agenda, and just how depraved his mind can really be.

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Kenji recruited a friend to help investigate Ardie, reporting his findings to Darcy in hopes she would see the truth. Despite her own Ardie induced trauma, Darcy dug in deeper. As Kenji’s investigation intensified, Ardie lashed out with legal action, threats, and violence. Distraught and looking for more answers about Ardie’s true identity, Kenji found more than he bargained for.

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As his wife Darcy fell in love with Ardie and his “too good to be true” life story, Kenji started to question where Ardie began and his lies ended. Despite her own doubt, Darcy pursued a deeper relationship with Ardie as things turned violent. Kenji then learned just how far Ardie will go to protect his lies and deception.

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Drama broke out when Danielle’s stepfather called Ardie’s job into question at a family party. Kenji is surprised when his wife Darcy came home one evening and told him about her new British doctor friend, Ardie.

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Ardie was able to convince Danielle to trust him when her family questioned his behavior. But when a detective reached out to Danielle with his own suspicions, Danielle started to wonder if Ardie was telling her the whole truth.

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Danielle met Ardie, a British medical student at UCLA, on a dating app in November 2011. Everything seemed to be going great until Danielle received an alarming phone call from her sister.

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Season 9 features the story of two survivors, Danielle and Kenji, who were brought together by traumatic life circumstances to solve a shared mystery - who the f*ck is Ardie?

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Tiffany interviews three of her longtime internet besties to discuss what it's like working as an "Influencer" professionally, online harassment, trolling for sport, doomscrolling, toxic masculinity, cancel culture and finding community online.

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 Tiffany discusses catfishing, online predators, trolls, harassment, blocking your family and COVID Betrayals with Ilyse Kennedy (She/Her/Hers) MA, LPC, LMFT, PMH-C of Moving Parts Psychotherapy in ATX.

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*Please note, it came to my attention after the release of this episode that the quote "When people show you who them are, believe them" comes from the original quote, by the great Dr. Maya Angelou, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time."

Trigger warning: sexual abuse, spousal rape, emotional abuse, therapist abuse.

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Tiffany interviews Ilyse Kennedy, LPC, LMFT-A, PMH-C, to discuss how to talk with ourselves and kids about COVID19, how to make sure we are taking care of our mental health, prioritizing foundational self-care and setting proper boundaries during this unprecedented time. Some other topics covered: working from home, strategies for introverts/extroverts and building community from a distance.

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4. A Thousand Lives: The Untold Story of Jonestown by Julia Scheeres

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Tiffany, Sara and Alissa reunite to catch up, discuss the most recent #DickDrama, seasons 2, 3 AND 4! Season 4 is announced.

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Isaac Smith, MAT, LCSW, NTP is a licensed clinical social worker, nutritional therapy practitioner, and the owner of Whole Wellness Therapy on Instagram @WholeWellnessTherapy and Facebook

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Some of my all time favorite podcasts - Crime Junkie, Court Junkie, Criminal, The Dream, Someone Knows Something, Aftermath, Believed, Beyond Reasonable Doubt, Breakdown, Casefile, Broken Harts, Crimetown, Payne in the Pod, Slow Burn, Dirty John, Dr Death, Empire on Blood, In the Dark, S-Town, Serial, She Says, The Ballad of Billy Balls, The Daily, The Grift, The Dropout, The Vanished, Thin Air, Unconcluded, Uncover, Up First, Up and Vanished, The Teacher’s Pet.

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The Bishops reflect on their journey.

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Brad meets with Kurt to discuss what he knows. 

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The Bishops untangle Patty's vicious web.

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Tragedy strikes the Bishop family. 

Source: Gaslighting - Recognize Manipulative and Emotionally Abusive People--and Break Free by Stephanie Moulton Sarkis, PhD

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Victoria, CJ, and Brad struggle to bring their family back together. 

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CJ & Brad become concerned about their relationships with Ted. 

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The Bishops were best friends with the O'Briens and Johnsons until they learned - something was wrong.

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Tee and Tiffany reflect on the season and answer listener questions.

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Tee comes to terms with her relationship with Sylvia. 

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Tee speaks to Sylvia and her family one last time.

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Tee discovers the truth about Sylvia.

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Sylvia's medical condition worsens.

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SWW Live took place Saturday August 24th 2019 at The Sophia at B Street Theater in Midtown Sacramento.

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Thank you so much to Alissa Doyle, Sara Lewis, Chivas May, Isaac Smith, Michael Reese and Ryan Doyle for their help in making this evening happen!!!

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Tee gets a call from Jason that changes her forever.

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Tee and Sylvia become closer as Sylvia and her son experience health challenges.

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Tee befriends Sylvia and feels compelled to help her.

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Season Two - Tee - Coming soon

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In today’s episode, I interview Holistic Psychotherapist, Isaac Smith, MAT, LCSW, NTP to discuss why leaving an abusive relationship safely is important, the cycle of domestic abuse, creating a safety plan, resources available to all, and how others can best support those in an abusive relationship.

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FREE interactive safety plan to help you prepare: loveisrespect.org

 National Domestic Violence hotline 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE)

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Something Was Wrong is written, produced and edited by Tiffany Reese. On Instagram @LookieBoo

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A listener makes a discovery that leads Sara to final answers in her quest for the truth.

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Sara and Tiffany answer listener questions and reflect back on the season thus far.

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Sara discusses the discovery of Dick's ex girlfriends and how answers help the healing process.

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Sara discovers Dick is in a new relationship.

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Sara and Tiffany find Kimmy and Brian.

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Sara speaks with Dick's brother.

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Dick starts "confessing".

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It's time to break up with Dick.

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Sara uncovers a life changing discovery.

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Sara begins to uncover more about her Fiance.

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Sara meets some of Dick's friends.

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Sara discovers something terrifying about her Fiance.

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When Sara got engaged she thought she was marrying the Christian man of her dreams. Until one week before their wedding when she learned - something was wrong. Something Was Wrong is an award winning docuseries podcast about the discovery, trauma and recovery of being engaged to a sociopath.

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When Sara got engaged she thought she was marrying the Christian man of her dreams. Until one week before their wedding when she learned - something was wrong. Something Was Wrong is an award winning docuseries podcast about the discovery, trauma and recovery of being engaged to a sociopath.

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When Sara got engaged, she thought she was marrying the Christian man of her dreams. Until the week before her wedding when she learned - something was wrong. A docuseries podcast about the discovery, trauma and recovery of being engaged to a sociopath.

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