Black Girls Heal
By Shena Lashey
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#193: Family boundaries, money trauma, explosive fights, sexual assault, situationship problems, queer dating and more! (Listener Q&A)
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Shena goes in depth in this listener Q&A. In this episode, Shena answers questions about:
She shares a limited time 15% discount for registration for The Recovery School Coaching program (enter RECOVERY15 at checkout) through June 7, 2023 at http://www.therecoveryschool.com You can register to join Shena at her next live Town Hall Coaching Call on Thursday, June 22nd at 6:30pm CST by clicking here: blackgirlsheal.org/townhall Click here to join us at the Portugal Healed and Loved Woman Weekend Intensive by clicking here: blackgirlsheal.org/retreat Can’t find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast? Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements
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May 31, 2023 |
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Join me in Portugal for our Fall Intensive!
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May 31, 2023 |
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#192: It’s time to work on what you’ve been avoiding
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In this Episode Shena shares the importance of facing it all & how it is all connected for your betterment. Even though it's scary and even though you can't work out in your logical mind how it could ever be better, this episode is designed to help you move forward even when it feels too big. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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May 23, 2023 |
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#191: The 4 Seasons of Self Love (in Dating)
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In this episode Shena talks about the 4 seasons of self love & what that looks like within our relationships Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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May 16, 2023 |
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#190: 3 Mistakes I Made Dating as a Love Addict (Throwback)
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In this episode, Shena revisitsEpisode #99 where she discusses 3 mistakes she made dating as a love addict. Get 20% off your order at LiquidIV.com by using the promo code BGH at checkout! Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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May 09, 2023 |
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#189: Mother Enmeshed Men
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In todays episode I talk about men who are emotionally enmeshed with their mothers, what it looks like, how it shows up for you if you are in a relationship with them & shedding light on both perspectives and holding healing space for both parties Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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May 02, 2023 |
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#188: Learning to Live in the Goodness
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In this episode, Shena talks about lessons learned in this current stage of relationships, places she's learned to receive, and how it's shown up for her in romantic partnerships. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Apr 25, 2023 |
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#187: The healing is in the repair
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In this episode, Shena goes over how the evidence of healing is not in the absence of ruptures, but in he repairs. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Apr 18, 2023 |
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#186: 7 Steps to Cope with a Situationship Breakup
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Even though situationships don't have an official title, breaking one up can still leave you feeling heartbroken. In this episode Shena shares why and the 7 step process on how to cope after a situationship break up Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Apr 11, 2023 |
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#185: No Contact + Surrendering in Relationships
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In this episode, Shena will talk about the No Contact process and learning how to surrender in healthy romantic relationships vs projecting your trauma. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Apr 03, 2023 |
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#184: Emotional Anchors & Your Highest Level Self
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In this episode, Shena discussed emotional anchors and how to connect to your highest level version of yourself as an emotional resource. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Mar 29, 2023 |
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#183: Stop Withholding Love and Be Love Available
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In this episode, Shena discusses what does it look like to withhold love as a punishment, the consequences of it, and encouragement to move towards love availability. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Mar 21, 2023 |
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#182: Situationship Singlehood + Asking for What You Want
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In this episode, Shena talks about the reality of situationships without commitment and the importance to be clear and honest with yourself about what you want. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Mar 14, 2023 |
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#181: Listener Q&A: Coping w/ being ghosted, In-Love with Ex-CoParent
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In this episode, Shena answers two questions from listeners about coping with being ghosted and coparenting when in love with an ex partner. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Mar 08, 2023 |
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#180: Coping with Chronic illness (5 encouragements)
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In this episode I open up about my journey living with a chronic illness and share encouragements in hope that it supports those with a similar experience Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Feb 28, 2023 |
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#179: 3 Signs of an Expired Friendship
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Sometimes our friendships may be giving signs that we have outgrown them and they may be a bit toxic for us. In today's episode, we will review signs of an expired friendship that may need to be retired. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Feb 22, 2023 |
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#178: When They Undervalue You on Valentine's Day (or your Birthday, Anniversary, Etc...)
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Todays episode is a re-share of an old episode. It is totally okay for you if the holidays are important for you in a relationship. You deserve to feel special. This episode is in support of women who may have felt overlooked and forgotten by partners on special holidays like Valentine's Day, Birthdays, Anniversaries, and others habitually. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Feb 15, 2023 |
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#177: Secure Love vs Love Bombing vs Caretaking in Love Languages
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In this episode, we're going to look at the difference between Secure Love vs Love Bombing vs Caretaking in the 5 love languages. This topic is in promotion of our upcoming Healing Intensive Workshop on Saturday, February 18, 2023 from 10am to 1pm CST about "Healing Fear & Distrust towards Healthy Men" Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Feb 07, 2023 |
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#176: 3 Reasons Your No Contact Process is Not Working
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In this episode, we follow up on our No Contact Process shared in Episode #160 to discuss the reasons why your no contact may not be working. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Feb 01, 2023 |
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#175: Making the right decision for yourself on faith
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In this episode we are talking about making the right decision for yourself even when it goes against your internal fears & what you have always done before and how to make that move towards yourself and what you actually want Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jan 24, 2023 |
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#174: Healing our Womb & Pelvic Floor with Dr. Alicia Jeffrey-Thomas
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Todays episode is part of a womb work and healing series starting with the topic of the pelvic floor with one of my favourite Pelvic Physical Therapist Dr. Alicia Jefferey. We are covering the misconceptions of is area of our health, how to start getting more connected with our bodies and where to find the right support CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jan 18, 2023 |
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#173: Betrayal Trauma Emotional Aftercare Support (Pt 2)
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In this episode, Shena provides some aftercare support for Ep. 172 that talked about dealing with betrayal trauma for a partner who is struggling with Sex and Porn addiction. Shena talks about letting go of shame, moving towards self forgiveness, and loving yourself first. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jan 11, 2023 |
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#172: Dealing with Betrayal Trauma with a Sex Addicted Partner
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Today's episode is about dealing with betrayal trauma when you're with a sex addicted partner. Also, how you can get the support as a sex addict and what healing can look like for both parties Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jan 10, 2023 |
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BONUS EP: How to Work With Me as Your Coach
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In this bonus episode, I talk about all the ways to work with me as your coach. I review both direct & indirect ways I offer support. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jan 08, 2023 |
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#171: Going from Love Deprivation To Felt Love Worthiness (Stages Of Change)
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This in this episode I’m going to be talking about how to go from love Deprivation to Love Worthiness while I walk you through the stages that you can expect on this journey Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jan 03, 2023 |
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#170: Self Love and Dropping the Cape with Michelle Goodloe
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In this episode, Michelle Goodloe joins us to talk about what is self love and how to drop the superwoman cape to feel our feelings. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Dec 29, 2022 |
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#169: The Sadness that is Going Around
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Sadness is hitting many super heavy this season. In this episode, I talk about some trends I've noticed with this season of sadness. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Dec 24, 2022 |
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#168: Take Your Time
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This week I am re-sharing one of our most loved episodes all about the importance of taking our time in our healing process. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Dec 21, 2022 |
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#167: Humiliation as a Red Flag
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In your relationship, if a partner is humilating you, that is a red flag to pay attention to. Let's talk about what it looks like and why we may miss it in today's episode. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Dec 08, 2022 |
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#166: When The Person With all the Answers Falls Short
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In this episode, Shena talks about what it looks like when the person who's used to having all the answer falls short practices self acceptance and learns to live in her bliss. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Dec 06, 2022 |
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#165: 3 Things Learned from Coaching Women
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In this episode, Shena talks about 3 things she has learned while building Black Girls Heal and coaching women. Click here to join the Heal(h)er Business Mastermind Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Nov 30, 2022 |
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#164: The Art of Receiving
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In this episode, we will talk about the art of receiving and what gets in the way. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Nov 17, 2022 |
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#163: How childhood emotional neglect leads to love addiction
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In today's episode I talk about the impact of childhood emotional neglect and how it leads to the behaviours of love addiction Whether you are connected to love addition, love avoidance or low self esteem, if you are wondering why you continue in the same type of self doubts or keep being attracted to certain types of people, my hope is that this episode gives you the validation that you didn't even know you needed and supports you with the right steps you can start taking today MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE BOOK: Running on Empty - Dr Jonice Webb Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Nov 09, 2022 |
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For Healers #1: 3 Beliefs for Healing Professionals to Challenge
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Being in the business of healing is hard - learning how to balance healing yourself while healing others. In this episode, I review 3 beliefs for your to challenge as a healing professional. RESOURCES MENTIONED Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Nov 07, 2022 |
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#162: Dealing with Seasons of Conflict
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In today’s episode, we’re talking about how to deal when you are in a season of conflict. Whether it be with people from your past or in the present, my hope is that the 4 things I share in this episode will support you navigate this season. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Nov 01, 2022 |
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#161: Going from Love Avoidant to Love Available
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In today's episode, we review going from Love Avoidant to Love Available using the Healed and Loved Woman framework model. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE No Contact & Detox Support Kit The Recovery School: Self Healing Track Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Oct 25, 2022 |
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#160: The No Contact Process as a Healing Tool for Love Addiction
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Let's talk about using a 90 day no contact period as a reset tool to help you gain clarity. We talk about the why and the process within inside. Click here to get the No Contact & Detox Kit Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Oct 19, 2022 |
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#159: Don't Text Them (Sit on Your F'ing Hands)
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In this episode, we're talking to anyone who is currently in a love addictive cycle and needs to pull back to reset and regain their sense of self. This is not a full no contact episode, but just a challenge to pull back and not initiate for week to gain some clarity. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Oct 11, 2022 |
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Bonus Episode: October Catch Up with Shena
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In this bonus episode, you can catch up with me about the things I am personally learning and applying in my life for pleasure, fun and healing that I'd like to share. A tiny bit of tea is spilled, and though impromptu lessons may happen, this is not a full teaching episode. Feel free to stay and listen if you'd like to learn more about me or binge our archive. Either way, we hope you enjoy! Things Mentioned: Cosmic Vibrations (the TikTok astrocartographers I follow) Book: The Art of Receiving and Giving by Dr. Betty Martin Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Oct 06, 2022 |
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#158: Heart to Heart: Not Losing Your Self in a New Relationship
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In this episode, Shena coaches an audience member on how to not lose herself in her new relationship. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Oct 04, 2022 |
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#157: Making Running the Household Fair with Laura Danger
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What happens when running the household feels imbalanced, unfair, and it's causing discord with you and your partner? In this episode, Laura Danger joins us to talk about the tool of the Fair Play Method and how to implement it into your relationship. Connect with Our Guest Website: thatdarnchat.com Tiktok: @thatdarnchat Instagram: @thatdarnchat Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Sep 30, 2022 |
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#156: It Gets Better...
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In this episode, we want to normalize that, even though the healing process can be difficult at first, it does get better and evens out. We hope breaking down what happens and what to expect helps you know that the light is coming soon. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Sep 22, 2022 |
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#155: Setting Unrealistic Expectations Based on Fantasy
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Can we "break our own heart" by creating unrealistic expectations for others based on our fantasies of who we want them to be? Let's talk about it in today's episode. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Sep 13, 2022 |
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#154: The Healed and Loved Woman: From Love Addicted to Love Balanced
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It's time for our annual recap of our Healed and Loved Woman Framework. In this episode, we talk about the characteristics of going from being Love Addicted to Love Balanced. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Sep 06, 2022 |
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#153: When You Like Someone as a Love Avoidant
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What does it look like to be available to others after you've been working on your love avoidance symptoms. In this episode, I share 3 tips for those who are starting this journey building relationships in a different way. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Aug 30, 2022 |
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#152: When You Like Someone as a Love Addict
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What does it look like to be balanced and still available after you've been working on your love addiction symptoms. In this episode, I share 3 tips for those who are starting this journey building relationships in a different way. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Aug 23, 2022 |
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#151: Grieving Being Let Down at Your Big Events
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Sometimes family and loved ones don't rise to the occassion and show up for us as we need them to at our big events (i.e. weddings, graduations, birthday parties, child births, etc). This abandonment is a real form of trauma. In this episode, I discuss what to do to emotionally prepare yourself if you have an event coming that you fear you may be disappointed and also coping with your feelings if something hurtful has happened before.
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Aug 16, 2022 |
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#150: Feeling Whatever You Need to Feel About Your Past Relationship
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When relationships do not work out (Friendship, romantic, familial, or otherwise) we can have a variety of emotional responses: neutrality, intense longing and love, hatred and rage, and any combination in between. In this episode, we talk about how you are allowed to have whatever emotions you need to have about this relationship in this season.
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Aug 09, 2022 |
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#149: Enabling vs Empowering
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In this episode, we talk about the difference between disempowering helping (enabling) and empowerment. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Aug 02, 2022 |
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#148: Breaking the Habit of Self Criticism
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Pulling from the title of the book, "Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself," we're talking about the importance of doing the actions that you have learned to do to create change. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jul 28, 2022 |
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#147: Hurt Feelings, Codependency, and Letting What I Give Be Enough
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Even healers can overgive and need to be mindful of triggers. I break down a recent event and how it triggered me and next steps I'm taking to move forward.
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Jul 19, 2022 |
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Jul 13, 2022 |
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#146: 5 Truths for Love Addicts Healing from Heartbreak
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Heartbreak is really hard for love addicts. Especially when we're still holding on. This episode is to give 5 truths for love addicts healing for heartbreak. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jun 28, 2022 |
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Now introducing our brother podcast, For the Fellas
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I'm sooo excited to share the debut of our brother podcast, For the Fellas Click here to listen now on Apple Podcasts Follow our website: forthefellas.org Follow us on IG: @forthefellaspodcast RESOURCES MENTIONED
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Jun 19, 2022 |
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#145: The Importance of Bids and Repairs in Your Relationship
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Pulling from the work of Dr. John Gottman, we talk about the importance of bids and repairs to the health of a relationships. Click here to learn more about Dr. John & Dr. Julie Gottman's work
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Jun 14, 2022 |
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#144: How to Let Your Partner Have Their Own Feelings
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Your partner is their own person with their own feelings. But sometimes those feelings can be triggering to us even when they don't intend it to be. In this episode, we go over 3 things to keep in mind to help you allow your partner to have their own emotional experience.
Ready to let your loved ones in or provide space for those who want to love you? Check out the Let Them Love You Workshop to gain skills and make love easier. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jun 07, 2022 |
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#143: 5 Signs You Feel Protected in a Relationship
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To feel protected in a relationship is one of the biggest blessings but should ALSO be a standard that you hold for every partnership and friendship you have. In this episode, I will talk about 5 signs that you are in a relationship where you are feeling protected and seen.
Ready to let your loved ones in or provide space for those who want to love you? Check out the Let Them Love You Workshop to gain skills and make love easier. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jun 02, 2022 |
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#142: Just checking in with you and sending love
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The last few weeks have been tough.
I just wanted to send you all some love. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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May 26, 2022 |
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#141: Musings about ADHD, Diagnoses, and What Works for Me
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Touching base this week in a mini-epiosde talking about learning to take space to figure out what works for me with my ADHD. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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May 17, 2022 |
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#140: Your Trauma and Your (Conflictual) Relationship w/ Your Daughter
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If you're a mom and have a conflictual relationship with your daughter, part of it *might* be because your unresolved inner child wounds that resurface when faced with a part of yourself you have not embraced. In this episode we're going to talk about what it may look like along with 9 steps for you to take to work through this. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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May 03, 2022 |
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#139: Grieving The Relationship You Never Had With Your Mother
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If you have felt sad or disheartened because you haven't been able to build the relationship you want with your mother, this podcast is for you. Let's talk about how to grieve your relationship with your mother even if she is physically present.
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Apr 26, 2022 |
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#138: Getting unstuck via self-forgiveness
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Let's break down was living in self forgiveness looks like so we can move forward! Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Apr 19, 2022 |
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#137: 4 Ways to Exit Love Deprivation
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Let's take a deeper look at love deprivation including it's symptoms, the impact of withdrawal, and ways to exit the cycle. Enroll in The Loved Woman Foundations Course Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Apr 13, 2022 |
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#136: On Being Triggered (My Repair Episode)
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Let's talk about what it looks like when we're triggered, how we respond, and healthier next steps to take. This episode is a replacement of the episode aired earlier this week.
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Mar 31, 2022 |
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#135: Inspiration for You - Bodywork Healing, Motivation, and the Power Inside
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We're drawing from our text inspiration messages for this week's episode. We hope you find it inspirational! Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Mar 22, 2022 |
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#134: Lessons Learned from Divorcing
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Making the right decision for yourself is hard, and it can make you go through a lot of back and forth. In today's episode, I talk about some lessons I learned during this process.
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Mar 15, 2022 |
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#133: Finding Your Voice in Your Recovery Journey
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As you're recovering, it takes so much work and inner reflection to find your voice and what's true for YOU and the relationships you want to cultivate. In today's episode, we talk with our amazing student Shandalla about the journey she has taken to find her voice and the lessons learned along the way.
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Mar 08, 2022 |
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#132: Asking for What You Need Emotionally in Friendships
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To maintain safety and love with your relationships, it's important for you to know how to ask for what you need emotionalyl when sharing with your friends and how to repair when there's a disruption. Let's talk about what that looks like in today's episode!
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Mar 02, 2022 |
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#131: Fighting Perfectionism with Dr. Marcuetta Sims
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In this episode, Dr. Marcuetta Sims breaks down what perfectionism looks like in our lives and how to work through it. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Feb 22, 2022 |
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#130: When They Undervalue You on Valentine's Day (or you Birthday, Anniversary, Etc...)
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It is totally okay for you if the holidays are important for you in a relationship. You deserve to feel special. This episode is in support of women who may have felt overlooked and forgotten by partners on special holidays like Valentine's Day, Birthdays, Anniversaries, and others habitually.
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Feb 15, 2022 |
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#129: Being a Healed and Loved Woman
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We are recapping the Healed and Loved Woman Framework to embody being balanced, available, and worthy in our relationships.
Click here to join us at our retreats
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Feb 08, 2022 |
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#127: Internalized Misogyny & Love Addiction
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In a current social trend that is pushing misogyny at length as self help, in this episode, we're looking at some common examples of internalized misogyny love addicts and codependents may face due to trauma, examples of alternative mindsets, and encouragement to be kind with oneself and self-forgive while unlearning these patterns.
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Jan 25, 2022 |
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#126: 5 Things I'm Doing to Cultivate Friendships
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Five things I'm currently doing to cultivate my friendships in this season in spite of avoidant tendencies. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jan 11, 2022 |
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Checking In - It's Okay to be Tired (Covid related)
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It's okay to be over it. Checking in a little bit. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jan 06, 2022 |
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#124: Why You Gotta Take a Break!
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Rest is SOOO important. It's really about how we treat ourselves and how we feel about ourselves. We talk about how not resting is a fight or flight response and the importance of being aggressive about protecting your peace. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Dec 07, 2021 |
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#123: Coping with Family Estrangement with Violetta Fernandez
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Family Estrangement is super painful and can hard to navigate, especially during the holidays. Therapist Violetta Fernandez breaks it down for us and also how to cope with it. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST Instagram: @terapista_violetita Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Dec 01, 2021 |
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#122: The 3 Things You Don't Need to Apologize For
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There are three things we never need to apologize for. Our boundaries, our identity, and our voice are so important and valuable to us.
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Nov 23, 2021 |
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#121: When You're Afraid to Try Again in Relationships
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Have you been procrastinating putting yourself out there and making yourself available to get to know others? Then this one is for you. It's time to stop living in fear and actually create the life you want for yourself. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Nov 16, 2021 |
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#120: Why Your Deep Intimacy & Trust Should be Earned
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Opening up and building trust to others is super important. But also so is being discriminate with who you allow into your heart. In this episode, I talk about why this is important. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Nov 03, 2021 |
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#119: When You Realize You Were the Toxic One
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What do you do when you realize you were the toxic one in a relationship? Let's talk about what it can look like here and also some steps for you to take.
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Oct 27, 2021 |
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#118: 3 Things I Learned from The Healed and Loved Woman Retreat (About Fear and Hiding)
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In this episode, I recap the things I learned from the Healed and Loved Woman Retreat about fear, hiding, and the importance of sisterhood.
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Oct 19, 2021 |
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#117: How to Host a Relationship Check-In
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In this episode, we talk about how to host a relationship check in with your family, friendship, and romantic partnerships. Grab a pen and paper to get started!
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Oct 12, 2021 |
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#116: Coping When Family and Loved Ones Think Negatively of You
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Oct 05, 2021 |
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#115: Answering Your Questions (Part 1)
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We're answering listener questions in today's episode! Today's questions talk about addiction, trauma bonds, family conflict, and dating! Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Sep 28, 2021 |
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#114: Financial Complacency and Abandonment as a Red Flag
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Sep 21, 2021 |
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#113: Why Love Addicts are Actually Avoidant
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Love Addiction and Love Avoidance are different sides of the same coin and have the same goal in mind. Let's talk about it today! Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Sep 14, 2021 |
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#112: What to Keep in Mind When You Miss Red Flags
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If you’ve missed red flags in a relationship, it’s completely and totally okay. There is no shame in having missed the signs and suddenly realizing that they are there. Which is why I’m sharing what to keep in mind when you miss red flags. Lately, I’ve seen a lot of chatter about women starting to heal and then suddenly seeing the signs of a bad relationship that they’d previously missed. For so many women this noticing leads to feelings of shame and guilt that they didn’t recognize the signs sooner. Stop right there. Instead of heading down the shame spiral, take a moment and be kind to yourself. So you didn’t recognize those signs right off. You do now and that’s what’s important. Be kind, compassionate, and loving to yourself so that you can finally break the cycle. I also want you to know that there is nothing wrong with you. You are not what is broken. Even if you’ve chosen the same type of relationship over and over again, it’s not your fault that you’re being mistreated. Lastly, no matter how long you’ve been in the relationship or where you’re at in life, you have the right to choose how to respond. It doesn’t matter if you’re 10 minutes, 10 days, or 10 years into it, you can change your future by making a new choice. You’re on the path to healing and growth because you see the red flags. What choice will you make now that you know? In this episode:
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Sep 07, 2021 |
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#111: 3 Ways to Know You’ve Grown and are Healthier
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It’s time to give yourself a pat on the back. One of the things we as women, but especially Black women, don’t do often enough is recognize when we’ve made progress. This is why I’m sharing three ways to know that you’ve grown and are healthier. The reason I decided it was time for this type of episode was because of a conversation I had with one of my coaching students. We were talking about some things going on in her life and she kept prefacing her comments with, “I’m love avoidant…” or “I’m trying to be less love avoidant…” As she was talking I had to stop her and point out that she isn’t love avoidant anymore. She’d made huge progress and was actually approaching various situations in completely new ways and had really stepped away from being love avoidant. The problem was, she couldn’t see it. She didn’t recognize her growth for what it was and continued to see herself as the person she was when she first started her work. Which is why you need to do the work, but then recognize it when you’ve grown. If you’ve started pausing before you react, been more open to alternative viewpoints, and have started feeling your emotions, then you’ve grown. Listen in to hear more and then take a moment to celebrate your growth and give yourself a pat on the back. Even if you’ve only fully stepped into one of these areas, you are on the path to healing and you need to celebrate your milestones. I’m giving you that permission right now! In this episode:
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Aug 31, 2021 |
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#110: 4 Ways to Not be Codependent as a Healer
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I’m sharing these tips for anyone who is a professional healer. Those of you who are therapists, coaches, crystal workers, healers of all sorts, listen in. But, if you are the sage of your family, perhaps a priest or pastor, or maybe a teacher who hears the burdens of your students, then this is for you as well. As healers, we need to be sure to avoid codependency. What does that mean exactly? As a whole, it means not making your client or family member or student’s journey about you. You cannot superimpose your issues onto their healing. The first way to avoid codependency is by not arguing with people who aren’t ready for transformation. You cannot push people toward healing. They will walk the path toward healing in their own time and you badgering them into it will not make them go any faster. When people share their feelings with you, stop, take a moment, and then ask them what they need from you. Rather than listening and then immediately trying to fix the problem, see what they’re looking to gain by confiding in you first. Also don’t personalize the other person’s progress. Their wins and losses are not reflective of your involvement in their life. It’s their healing journey, not yours so their progress has nothing to do with you. Listen in to hear all four ways plus a little bonus. We all have our own issues to deal with which is why healers also need to have their own healer to go to. Just make sure that you don’t use your relationship with your clients to work on your own baggage. In this episode:
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Aug 24, 2021 |
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#109: Being Healed and Loved Woman at All Times
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It’s that time again. It’s time for a refresher on what it means to be a healed and loved woman as developed in our three part framework. Listen in to hear the framework again and what you need to do to move from love addiction, avoidance, or anorexia to being a healed and loved woman. I’m starting it all off with love addiction. So many women are stuck in a cycle of love addiction and aren’t sure how to get out of it. Oftentimes we think of sex addiction as something separate but it’s really another facet of being addicted to love. It’s just manifested in the physical. When you’re love avoidant you’re perfectly happy to just relax and keep yourself away from love. Many times wives and mothers hide love avoidance through the actions of taking care of others, but you still need love. Love anorexia is a short-lived stage, but it’s one that is prolonged when you’re not balanced. Love anorexia or love deprivation results in women living in a fantasy world. Usually this disorder is triggered by a bad relationship and then swearing off love, but when you live a balanced life you no longer need dramatic swings. Intimacy disorders are complex, but with the right guidance you can leave them behind and live a balanced and fulfilled life. Listen in to hear more. Which of these do you identify with? In this episode:
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Aug 17, 2021 |
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#108: How to Make Adult Female Friendships with Danielle Bayard Jackson
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Why is it so difficult for some women to find and maintain healthy female friendships? Joining me today is Danielle Bayard Jackson, The Friendship Expert, to share more about this topic and to help provide actionable advice to get your friendships back on track, even if they’ve fallen off due to the pandemic. Danielle is a publicist by day and a certified friendship coach by night. She started her career as a high school English teacher for many years and was relied upon by her students to help navigate friendship issues. What she didn’t realize is that those “high school dramas” weren’t limited to high school. So often the way we approach friendship and relationships in general at a young age, follows us throughout our lives and experiences. Friendship like any other relationship requires work and nurturing but after more than a year of limited in-person interaction, it may seem daunting to reconnect. Listen as Danielle shares her tips for re-emerging as we reach the end of this pandemic and what you can be doing right now to start working on building new friendships. Remember that there could be people in your existing circle that you’d click with, you just need to give it a chance. Also, just because someone doesn’t have the capacity to spend time with you right now does not mean that they aren’t interested in friendship. Don’t let the stories you tell yourself obscure what could be an amazing relationship. If you’ve struggled in any way with finding strong female friendships, then you won’t want to miss out on everything Danielle has to share. In this episode:
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Aug 10, 2021 |
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#107: Things I Learned During my Hiatus (Adult ADHD, Connecting, Feminine Energy, & More)
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I’m back! It’s been a little over a month since I dropped a podcast episode and I've taken the time to do some deep soul searching. Listen in to hear all the things I’ve learned about myself both professionally and personally and what that means for you and the future of Black Girls Heal. Probably the most important part of my hiatus was self-assessing my ADHD. I’ve spent years wondering whether or not I have ADHD. Every time I hear someone talk about the symptoms or describe their lives, I immediately think that they’re talking about my life. So, when one of my business mentors released a podcast episode describing their journey with ADHD, I decided it was time. I took several self-assessments and they all told the story of my ADHD. I then made an appointment with a psychiatrist to formalize my diagnosis and to be prescribed medication. My doctor agreed that I do indeed have ADHD, specifically inattentive ADHD, but unfortunately I cannot take any medication at this time. Now I’m looking for ways to treat this in a naturopathic way, but my goal is to elevate my overall health so that I can, someday soon, be placed on medications to help me with my activities of daily living. But that’s not all. This hiatus was a necessity for my life and business. Listen in to hear all about my revelations and what I focused on during the hiatus. I’m feeling better than ever and I cannot wait to get back into the swing of things and help women, specifically Black women, to heal.
In this episode:[00:34] Welcome back to the Black Girls Heal podcast! [02:15] I took this time to go through the Recovery School curriculum. [03:26] It was also a time to self-assess for ADHD and get clear on what I’m manifesting. [05:08] Self-care was a huge focus for me during the hiatus as was personal development. [06:08] I sought clarity around how I help women publicly and privately. [07:57] I’ve suspected for several years that I qualified for the inattention version of ADHD, so I decided it was time to dig deeper. [11:52] How I approached my self-assessment and treatment. [14:09] The things I checked off as it applies to inattentive ADHD. [18:57] After all this work, I’m not able to take ADHD medication. [23:04] Why I want to be able to take medication in addition to natural therapies. [26:54] I do not want to see black people continue to struggle with their mental health when they need more than therapy, yoga, or prayer. [29:00] Stepping into my feminine energy has helped heal broken areas of my life. [32:00] I’m planning to head out to New York because travel is great for my soul, especially because my trips allow me to connect with students. [34:30] I’ve started dropping my excuses around exercise as self-care. [36:55] Be careful about the things that you say you’ll never participate in. [38:15] The last few things I focused on during the hiatus revolved around the business. [40:26] I’ve been wanting to start a YouTube channel for a long time, and I’m ready to do it, but in a different format. [42:30] I am launching a planner. Listen to learn what this planner is built to do for women everywhere. [44:42] I’m revealing the name of the new business and who this planner is for. [46:32] How I used the hiatus to confront and overcome my own impostor syndrome. [48:17] Stay tuned for all of these updates.
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Aug 03, 2021 |
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I'm going on vacation! Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jun 24, 2021 |
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#106: When They Break Up With You Because You ‘Deserve Better’
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Something I see a lot with the women that I serve is this stressful and conflicting scenario of hearing the phrase “you deserve someone better”. This is a phrase that is commonly used when someone, particularly a romantic partner, seeks to cut ties with us.
In today’s episode, I’m sharing helpful and encouraging advice about finding the message within that particular message. I share 3 messages that you should know when you hear phrases such as “you deserve someone better,” or “it’s not you, it’s me”. I discuss why accepting this phrase stems from a low sense of self-worth, and a one-sided negotiation that only happens within yourself.
It can be easy to personalize and internalize this message. And my hopes with today’s episode is that I provide a new perspective to this roller coaster of a scenario. This is a common situation many of us find ourselves in at one point or another. So listen to this episode as many times as you need, share it with a friend or family member, and take the messages that resonate with you. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jun 22, 2021 |
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#105: Going Thru Transition is Okay
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It seems like we're all in a place of transition right now, trying to determine our new normal. Hear some encouragement about why transitioning is totally okay. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jun 15, 2021 |
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#104: The 12-Step Experience for Sex and Love Addicts
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Personally speaking, my experience with the 12-step philosophy for sex and love addicts was so healing and helpful. You might not be aware, but there are sex and love addicts anonymous programs that provide great transformation and inspiration when done well.
In today’s episode, I’m sharing my experience and my story going through the 12-step method for sex and love addicts. I share the transformations I experienced and the inspirations I’ve walked away with, allowing me to infuse a lot of the teachings and filling the gaps that needed to be filled in my work.
I hope this episode will give you more insight into my experience with sex and love addicts anonymous. Listen to my story and hear what you can expect if you’re looking to get invested in this yourself.
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Jun 08, 2021 |
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#103: How to Know When You Are Done with Your Healing Process
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One of the most common questions I get from my clients as we start working together is “how do I know when this is all going to be over?” The truth is many of my clients are dealing with terrible, horrific, and painful stuff that they don’t want to deal with anymore.
In today’s episode, I share the answer that I’ll give to you if you find yourself asking the same question. It’s not the prettiest answer, but it’s the best answer I have for you. I also share some smaller ways of noticing the real impact happening in your life.
Healing is not black and white, and the idea of never having any issues or disappointments in your relationships, bank account, and other aspects of your life is unrealistic. It is my hope that the 3 different steps I share with you will help you notice just how far you’ve come and are continuing to go with your healing process.
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Jun 01, 2021 |
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#102: 3 Mistakes Made as a Love Avoidant in Marriage
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This week, we’re finishing up our series on mistakes that I’ve made in my intimacy disorders and my relationship history. In this episode, I’m sharing the 3 mistakes that I’ve made as a love avoidant in my committed partnerships, including my marriage.
Love avoidance is the persistent act of putting up walls with loved ones, as if we were holding up an invisible shield. Some of us loudly declare our love avoidance by announcing that we have a hard time trusting people. Some of us might hide our voices well, but no one really gets to know the real us.
Although I’ve been more of a love addict in my past, where I overcompensated and made myself more emotionally available, what ended up happening was I fueled my love addictive behaviors. From learning how to access my feelings to involving my partner into my every day life, this episode will uncover my mistakes in an attempt to help others identify the core lack of skills of knowing how to be truly intimate with people and partners.
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May 25, 2021 |
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#101: 3 Mistakes Made as a Love Addict in Marriage
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So many of the teachings that I share on this podcast are targeted situations for single women. This week, I’m talking about how intimacy disorders, particularly love addiction, show up in committed relationships.
This episode will define what being a love addict means as I share how my love addiction shows up in the forms of seeking constant verbal affirmation, making myself available to becoming who my committed partners wanted me to be, and my over-commitment to “fixing it,” even if they were red flags.
These 3 mistakes that I’ve made as a love addict come from my personal experience, strength, and understanding. And I’m sharing them in the hopes of helping others find resilience, community, and comradery with those who share the same experience.
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May 18, 2021 |
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#100: 3 Mistakes I Made Dating as a Love Avoidant
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When I was dating, I made a lot of mistakes related to how I presented in my intimacy disorders. This week, I'm talking about how my love avoidance showed up for me in my relationships. For me, my personal experience and how that connected to my religious education really amplified a lot of my avoidance which is also discussed. This episode will not span all of the ways love avoidance can show up in relationships as that as been discussed in previous episodes. But we hope these real experiences will help validate and give solace to the women who need to hear these stories represented. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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May 12, 2021 |
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#99: 3 Mistakes I Made Dating as a Love Addict
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Our intimacy disorders show up in different ways at different stages of our relationships. In this episode, I recount some ways that my love addiction showed up in hopes of identifying any set backs you may be experiencing as well.
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May 06, 2021 |
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#98: The Importance of Self Care f/ Les Alfred
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Knowing how to prioritize ourselves and practice self care is SO important for our healing process. In this episode, Les Alfred of Balanced Black Girl joins us to talk about what this looks like for us in our daily life. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST Les's IG: @balancedles Balanced Black Girl IG: @balancedblackgirlhealpodcast Balanced Black Girl Website: BalancedBlackGirl.com
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Apr 29, 2021 |
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#97: Identifying Codependent Patterns in Your Everyday Life
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We can be codependent in many other areas outside of our interpersonal relationships. In this episode, we will break down what that may look like.
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Apr 22, 2021 |
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# 96: Grieving Childlessness by Singleness & Circumstance
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In this episode, we talking about how women who want to have children biologically can cope with childlessness by circumstance. Our amazing guest Yvonne John talks about coping with the grief of childlessness and infertility.
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Apr 15, 2021 |
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#95: For the Fellas: Black Men, Trauma, Intimacy, & Connecting
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In this episode, we're going to talk about trauma and how it shows up in men, impacts their self worth and their relationships. The episode is created for men to find connection but also for the women who love them who hear and understand their experience as well. We hope this helps continue the healing conversations between the us.
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Apr 13, 2021 |
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#94: Our Relationship With Food, Trauma, and Self Soothing f/ Dr. Ebony Butler
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In this episode, we talk about body love, the connection between food and trauma, and the importance of unlearning diet culture. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST IG: @drebonyonline Website: drebony.com
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Apr 08, 2021 |
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#93: Healing Your Mother Wound
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Our mother relationship is our first relationship as we come into this world. As a result, if we have unresolved trauma, it will manifest in how we see ourselves, how we see others, and what we pass down to future generations. We talk about it today, where it comes from, and what to do with it, with our special guest, Jennifer Arnise. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST Website: BlackMotherWound.com Instagram: @blackmotherwound
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Mar 23, 2021 |
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#92: How to Tell if a Relationship is Safe For Your Healing
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How can we tell if a relationship, institution, coach, or influencer is safe for our healing? Let's talk about it in today's episode.
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Mar 18, 2021 |
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#91: Dimming Your Light For Self Protection
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Mar 09, 2021 |
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#90: 5 Reasons You Need to Apologize
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When it comes to embodying a Healed and Loved Woman to have healthy relationships, self accountability, honesty, and apologies are part of the deal. In this episode, we explore 5 reasons you may need to be the one who apologizes FIRST. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Mar 02, 2021 |
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#89: Coping + When It's Hard to Let Go (Reshare)
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As we recover from the 2021 Texas Winter Storm, we're resharing one of our most popular episodes. In support of any listeners who are also recovering, we spend a few minutes at the beginning of the episode validating your emotions and feelings as you rebuild. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Feb 23, 2021 |
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#88: Self Care While Dating with Francesca Hogi
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For single women who are actively dating or considering dating, self care is crucial as the dating experience can be so triggering. Join me and Francesca Hogi as she tells us how to prioritize self care while dating. CONNECT WITH FRANCESCA Clubhouse / IG: @dearfranny
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Feb 17, 2021 |
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#87: Connecting to Black Women After Being Rejected for Not Being Black Enough
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If you grew up in a mostly white or non-black setting and experienced peer trauma for "not being Black enough," sometimes it shows up as fear of rejection from other black women as an adult. In this episode, we talk about that, some items to keep in mind, and steps to take to heal and work through that. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Feb 11, 2021 |
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#86: 5 Reasons You Need to Heal in a Group
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Feb 05, 2021 |
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#85: Healed and Loved Meditation & Affirmations
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We're wrapping up the last part of the Healed and Loved Woman series with a short meditation and affirmations for you to use in your daily life to call forth the concepts we teach on here.
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Jan 28, 2021 |
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#84: From Love Deprived to Love Worthy (Re-Uploaded)
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For our last component of the Healed and Loved Woman Framework, we are looking at going from love deprivation to feeling love worthy.
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Jan 23, 2021 |
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#83: From Love Avoidant to Love Available
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In this week's episode, we're looking at the second component of the Healed and Loved Woman Framework™, how to go from being love avoidant to love available. Listen now to learn more. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jan 17, 2021 |
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#82: From Love Addicted to Love Balanced
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We're breaking down the Healed and Loved Woman Framework starting with the first diamond - Being Love Balanced vs Love Addicted.
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Jan 06, 2021 |
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#81: Coping with Lack of Closure
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To close out the year, we're going to talk about how to gain closure in different types of relationships where closure may not be possible. We hope you find this helpful in case you relate to any of the causes of lack of closure!
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Dec 29, 2020 |
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#80: 8 Lessons I Learned in 2020
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In this episode, I review 8 lessons I learned in 2020 and what I'm taking with me and Black Girls Heal into 2021. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Dec 22, 2020 |
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#79: Lessons Learned Healing from Love Avoidance [Student Highlight]
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In this episode, our student, Rolanda, shares her story, inspiration, and hope that she's found healing from love addiction. Sis is a story teller and so gifted at uplifting others. We hope that this episode is uplifting to you as well.
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Dec 16, 2020 |
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#78: Dating After Heartbreak
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If you've had your heart broken and you're trying to determine if you even want to date again, we talked about three possible mindset shifts for you to consider to help you get there.
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Dec 09, 2020 |
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#77: Getting Ahead of Her Codependency [Student Highlight]
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Dec 01, 2020 |
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#76: 3 Reasons Self Love is the Best Love
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When it comes to the "right" type of love, focusing on our self love is the best love we can give ourselves this holiday season. In this episodes, we talk about 3 reasons that's the case.
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Nov 26, 2020 |
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#75: Make Your Family Support Plan (for the Holidays)
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Let's do this! It's the holidays and you need support on how to make the most out of this time. If that's you, listen to this episode to learn how to make a holiday support plan for yourself. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Nov 24, 2020 |
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#74: 3 Mistakes From Not Owning Your Value
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It's important that in ALL things you own your value - relationships, dreams, career, and beyond. In this episode, I talk about 3 mistakes that happen when you don't own your value and don't know how to esteem yourself. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Nov 17, 2020 |
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#73: Processing of Post-Election Disappointment in Supposed Allies
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In this episode, I process my post election disappointment in supposed allies and how I'm coping with that. For more tips on coping, look at episode #52: Healing Our Unavailable Relationship with Whiteness. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Nov 11, 2020 |
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#72: 10 Points of Healing for a Love Addict
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Ready for a checklist of items to look out for when healing from love addiction to becoming a healed and loved woman? If so, I GOT YOU! Check out this episode as we dig in to 10 Points of Healing for a Love Addict. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Nov 03, 2020 |
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#71: How to Be a Good Girlfriend
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In this episode, we are pulling lessons from iconic tv shows about life, friendship, and love. Today, we are taking a deep dive into the pilot episode of the hit TV show, Girlfriends.
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Oct 27, 2020 |
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#70: What if I Can't Get Better [Student Highlight]
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You're doing your healing process (or you're thinking about starting) and you have this fear about what if I can't get better? What if this is all I will ever be? What if I try to change but don't actually improve? This can make you feel defeated before you even start. In this episode, we're going to talk about what those pauses mean and how they are actually proof of your improvement.
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Oct 20, 2020 |
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#69: The 4 Types of Love Addicts
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Not all intimacy disorders are created equal. In this podcast episode, we talk about the 4 different types of love addicts! Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Oct 13, 2020 |
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#68: Mindfulness & Healing Your Trauma f Valerie Ritchie
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When healing the trauma that causes disruption in how we connect to others and ourselves, we have to start with paying attention to our bodies and what is it that we truly need. Mindfulness is a tool that will help us get there. Join me and guest expert Valerie Ritchie as we talk more about the importance of incorporating mindfulness in healing our trauma. Follow Valerie Ritchie IG: @vibrantlifecollectivebyval Website: https://www.vibrantlifecollective.com/ Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Oct 06, 2020 |
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#67: When You're the Friend Who Can't Get it RIght
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Are you the friend who constantly has relationship issues and you can't get it right? Feeling some shame about it and as if you're permanently flawed? You don't have to feel that way. This one is for you!
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Sep 30, 2020 |
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#66: Changing and Learning New Lessons
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In our life, we are GOING to change, and we have to adjust with those transitions along with learn the lessons that stage is trying to teach us. We dig into this concept more along with practicing humility and owning your power.
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Sep 22, 2020 |
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#65: You're Worth It (Student Highlight)
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In this episode, we have a student highlight and then focus on the fact that YOU are worth it and the stories that may get in the way of us believing it.
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Sep 16, 2020 |
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#64: Stop Testing Yourself
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In this episode, we talk about walking the fine line of going back to old behaviors (and relationships) to test yourself and see if you've healed.... and basically why you shouldn't do that. Take a listen to dig into this hot topic!
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Sep 08, 2020 |
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#63: Take Your Time
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We can be impatient with our healing process, but it's so important for us to take our time.
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Aug 25, 2020 |
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#62: Therapy vs Coaching When Healing From Love Addiction
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If you are wanting to do coaching while you do therapy or vice versa to heal from love addiction, this episode is for you. Shena breaks down the different responsibilities and roles of your therapist versus your coach when healing from your intimacy disorder.
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Aug 11, 2020 |
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#61: The Four Communication Styles with Kourtney Dubois
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Let's talk about how we communicate and where it comes from! In this podcast episode, we talk with Relationship Coach Kourtney Dubois about how to communicate in a healthy way and the three styles that may keep us stuck. Connect With Our Guest Take the Communication Style Quiz Instagram: @CoachMeKourtney_ 10% off any service or package with the code: BGH
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Aug 04, 2020 |
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#60: Grieving Who You Thought They Were
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When you have to face the truth of a relationship, you will experience some sadness. We dig into that truth in this week's episode.
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Jul 28, 2020 |
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#59: Why They're Treating You the Way They're Treating You
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You were so in love, but things have changed. Y'all were best friends, but now it feels like she betrayed you. And while things change in relationships all of this time, this was one where you didn't expect it to be this way. It's totally blind-sided you. In this episode, we're going to talk about why they're treating you the way they're treating you. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jul 21, 2020 |
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#58: Living A life With Regrets
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Many of us can relate to having a few regrets. But what happens when you feel frozen by them and ruminate? In this episode, we talk about moving forward, making new meaning, and understanding that everything that is for you is for you! You have not missed your opportunity.
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Jul 14, 2020 |
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#57: Dealing with Feeling Unsatisfied (Student Highlight w/ Tahirah)
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Sometimes we deal with feeling empty and unsatisfied. Sometimes we don't even realize it! In this week's episode, we dive into exactly what feeling unsatisfied looks like and haw to heal from it. We speak with a current student of the Black Girls Heal Recovery School program and hear how this feeling presented its self in her life. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jul 07, 2020 |
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#56: Starting a Healing Circle
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In this episode, we break down how to start creating your own healing circles.
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Jun 24, 2020 |
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#55: Practicing Gratitude (Even When It's Hard)
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A new episode Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jun 18, 2020 |
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#54: Building Supportive Friendships for Healing
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When it comes to healing intimacy disorders, you HAVE to have a good group of friends to support you. In this podcast episode, I talk about how to discern who would be healthy fits to support your journey. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jun 10, 2020 |
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#53: Healing Our Unavailable Relationship with Whiteness
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We have a dysfunctional relationship right now with whiteness & white supremacy. In this episode, I talk about it and 5 steps to heal from the impact of racial trauma. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jun 02, 2020 |
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#52: Make the Decision to Start (Student Highlight)
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Sometimes the hardest decision is to start... especially if everything looks like it is going well. In this episode, we look at how this showed up for one of my students in hopes it will help inspire you to get started as well. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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May 26, 2020 |
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#51: Who Do You Want to Be in Your Relationship
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Continuing our "Couples Month" focus in May, this week, we're talking about how to focus on who you want to be and how you want to show up in relationships. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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May 19, 2020 |
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BONUS: This One is About Racial Trauma
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Racial trauma hits different. It goes deep, affects our bodies, and our peace. In this episode, I talk about how it's been affecting me, and some resources I have found. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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May 14, 2020 |
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#50: 3 Ways to Maintain a Healthy Relationship
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So you have a relationship and you want to make sure you do your part to keep it healthy even though you struggle with an intimacy disorder? Awesome! Let's talk about how. We dig into that and 3 ways to keep ownership of your own healing.
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May 12, 2020 |
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#49: The 4 Things Breaking Up Your Relationship
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When it comes to improving our relationship health, we have to look at OUR part and what we may be contributing to the relationship. We'll be digging into 4 things to look out for and how it may be connected to your trauma. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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May 05, 2020 |
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#48: 3 Ways to Know It's Safe to Reconnect
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If there's someone in your life you're wanting to reconnect with (or them with you), this episode is for you to determine if it is safe for you to restart that relationship. Listen to 3 things that you must have in place to make sure both your heart and theirs is protected.
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Apr 29, 2020 |
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#47: You Can't "Practice" With Unhealthy People
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Someone people hang onto people that they shouldn't so they can "practice" their communication and boundary skills on them. In this episode, we're talking about why you shouldn't do that.
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Apr 14, 2020 |
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#46: Understanding and Honoring Your Trauma Response
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Everyone deals with stress and trauma a little differently... and that's okay. Take a listen to this podcast episode to learn more about your response and finding balance.
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Apr 07, 2020 |
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#45 - Why You Can't Take Everyone's Advice
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In this episode, I talk about why it's so important to talk to people who get it.
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Apr 01, 2020 |
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#44: A Reminder in Case You Need It
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In case you need a reminder of your worth and encouragement to keep moving, here it is!
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Mar 25, 2020 |
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#43: Looking for Corona Bae, Swiping, and Coping with Current Stressors
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In the words of Cardi B, "[Things] are getting real." Some of us are going to have a lot more time with ourselves and some of us are going to be tempted to go to unhealthy coping mechanisms. This episode will focus on showing up as your best self and not using relationships to cope with triggers.
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Mar 17, 2020 |
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#42: Wanting (Needing) to be Loved is Not Being Spoiled
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We have an unclear definition of what it means to be spoiled and the words that we speak over each other. We talk about it this episode! Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Mar 10, 2020 |
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#41: Is Shame Controlling You?
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In this episode, we talk about if your shame is controlling you and if you're reacting outwardly or inwardly. We also dig into whether or not you may be projecting your shame. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Mar 03, 2020 |
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#40: How to Connect Without Losing Yourself
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Sometimes, even when you want to connect and let your walls down, fear gets in the way. We talk about it here!
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Feb 25, 2020 |
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#39: Healing Intellectual Trauma (Student Highlight)
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Intellectual trauma can impact how we show up in the world, how we feel about ourselves, and truly block us. In this podcast episode, I help one of my students walk through it!
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Feb 18, 2020 |
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#38: The Label DOES Matter
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When working to have clarity in your relationships, first thing we gotta start with is the label. In this episode, we talk about why labels DO matter and how going without them can be connected to retriggering your trauma. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Feb 11, 2020 |
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#37: Maybe It's You
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If you've battled with consistent relationship issues, instead of look at how other people may be the issue, it might be important to look at yourself. Maybe YOU'RE the issue. We dig into it in this podcast episode. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Feb 04, 2020 |
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#36: Sex as an Attachment Issue
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If you've struggled with some issues with regards to your sexuality and sex life, it may be based on your attachment and unresolved trauma. I talk about the ways I've seen it show up in women here. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jan 23, 2020 |
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#35: Avoiding Our Personal Potholes
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How do you learn from your mistakes? How do you avoid falling into your own personal potholes? We talk about it in this episode! Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jan 14, 2020 |
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#34: You Can Change Your Mind
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Part of healing includes knowing you can change your mind! Let's talk about it today!
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Jan 07, 2020 |
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#33: You Have the Power
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YOU have the power to change your life. You are your own superhero. Love you so much and Happy New Year! Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Dec 31, 2019 |
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#32: Top 5 Episodes of 2019
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Whether your a newbie or a Day 1, this episode is going to recap the most popular podcast episodes of 2019 and give you a place to start should you be looking to catch up. I go over YOUR top 5 episodes of 2019 and also my top 5 favorites. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Dec 24, 2019 |
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#31: Creating Your Own Traditions
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If you're a love addict and are feeling the pain this holiday season waiting for when your time will come, this episode is for you! Take a listen as Shena talks about starting your own tradition now.
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Dec 17, 2019 |
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#30: My Top 2 (Conflict) Communication Tips
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In time for the holiday season, I'm sharing my top two communication tips to help you share what you're feeling and avoid escalating conflict. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Dec 12, 2019 |
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#29: 3 Things to Keep in Mind When Making A Mistake
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Oof!! Have you ever messed up and battled with shame on how it made you look, what it meant about you, and if you could ever recover? If so, this episode is for you. Join us as Shena talks about 3 things for you to keep in mind whenever you make a mistake. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Dec 03, 2019 |
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#28: Boundary Hangovers
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Ever feel guilt, shame, or self-doubt after setting boundaries with someone? Don't worry! You're normal. We talk about it more in this episode!
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Nov 26, 2019 |
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#27: Ask Shena #1: Staying Present in a Healthy Relationship, Managing Fears and Expectations of Motherhood
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We are starting a new segment of the podcast called "Ask Shena" where listeners get a chance to have a mini-call with Shena. This episode, being the first, talks about why we are adding this to the podcast, shares the call with listener "Allie", and follows with final thoughts from Shena afterwards. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Nov 19, 2019 |
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#26: False Intimacy
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Do you move quickly too soon in relationships? Ever wonder why? Take a listen to this episode to pause, regroup, and learn how to build intimacy in a healthy way.
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Nov 15, 2019 |
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#25: Trauma Bonds
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Trauma bonds! Where do they come from? Why are they so hard to get rid up? What's the difference between a trauma bond and being in love. We did into all of that AND more in this weeks episode.
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Nov 05, 2019 |
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#24: The Importance of Self Forgiveness
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Forgiveness isn't just something we do for and with other people. Forgiveness is a critical part of self healing and recovery. We did into different facets of it today.
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Oct 29, 2019 |
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#23: 3 Traps We Fall Into When Forgiving Others
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In this episode, we do a quick breakdown of the importance of forgiveness for our healing process. We also dig into 3 traps we fall into when forgiving others. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Oct 22, 2019 |
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Check in!
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Just a check in while we get some great things ready for you! Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Oct 16, 2019 |
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#22: Building Self Compassion with Sarah Suzuki
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In this episode, Sarah Suzuki of Chicago Compass Counseling breaks down what it means to build self compassion. She gives us practical tips on working through our shame cycles and how to practice self love. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Oct 09, 2019 |
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#21: Manifestation & Mindset
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In this episode, we get into how manifestation is connected to your inner healing. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Sep 24, 2019 |
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#20: When It's Hard to Let Go - Q&A
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In this special episode, we take a listen to the Q&A about podcast episode #4 - When It's Hard to Let Go. In this episode, we cover boundaries and how to create healthy space in family, romantic, and friend relationships.
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Sep 16, 2019 |
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#19: Are You Changing Or Just Thinking About Changing?
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Where are you in the stages of change? Are you actually changing or just thinking about it? We dig into it this episode and also how to help you get to the next level.
Article referenced: The 6 Stages of Behavior Change
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Sep 10, 2019 |
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#18: 4 Things That Are Blocking You From Change
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Are you ready for change? In this two-part series, we get into 4 mindsets that may be blocking you from change.
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Sep 02, 2019 |
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#17: What is Withdrawal?
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Ever wonder what that deep, painful feeling is that happens after you break up as a love addict? Ever feel that it hits you differently than others and you wonder why? Well, you're not imagining it. It's called withdrawal, and you can get through it. Take a listen and learn more about what it is, why it happens, and next steps you can take to recover. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Aug 27, 2019 |
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#16: Healing Codependency
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In this episode, we dig into what is codependency, where does it come from, and what you can do to unlearn it. We also spend time talking about what it looks like when we encourage people to be codependent on us and next steps we can take with them as well.
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Aug 19, 2019 |
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#15: Is it Time to Go Back to Therapy?
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So you've been to therapy before and you're wondering if maybe you need to go back? This episode will help you determine if so and give some advice to surpass the mindset blocks keeping you away.
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Aug 12, 2019 |
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#14: 3 Things Avoidants Can Do To Make Their Lives Better
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In this episode, we go over what is love avoidance, how it looks in relationships, and 3 things you can do to unlearn it and improve your connection to others and yourself today. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Sign up for the Spending and Debting Money Rehab waitlist
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Aug 05, 2019 |
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#13: Identifying Your Feelings (With an Intimacy Disorder)
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Determining how we feel is vital to showing up for ourselves with self-love, showing up as our own person in relationships, and getting what we need. But it can be hard to get in touch with our feelings if we have spent years suppressing them or self-medicating. In this episode, I talk about how it may look like to shut down your feelings with an intimacy disorder and how to start the process of feeling your emotions again or for the first time. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: "Going on a Bear Hunt" Children's Song Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jul 29, 2019 |
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#12: When Trauma Shuts You Down in Relationships
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Unresolved trauma gets stuck in your body and not only will affect you individually (mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically), but also in your relationships as well. In this episode, we dig into how it may look. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jul 22, 2019 |
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#11: When Living in Your Head Soothes You
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Fantasy and living in our heads are fancy coping mechanisms that keep us emotionally safe but also keeps us stuck. In this episode, we break down what fantasy may look like in your everyday life, how it keeps you from the life you want, and a practical step you can take to start to undo it. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jul 18, 2019 |
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#10: 3 Ways to Know It's Time to End a Relationship (Summer Reset)
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Let's get the second half of your year (or whenever you are listening to this podcast) in gear by knowing if it's time for your relationship to come to a pause or keep it going. Listen for 3 key signs to know whether to keep going or possibly end it.
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Jul 02, 2019 |
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#9: Avoiding a Victim Mentality in Relationships
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In this episode, we talk about what is a victim mentality, how might it show up in relationships, and what to do about it! 23 Signs You’re Suffering From a Victim Mentality Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Jun 19, 2019 |
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#8: Letting Others In (The How To's & Roadblocks)
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Letting others in is hard. We can be afraid of being hurt, let down, or made to look foolish. It's also hard to determine who are the right people to let in, if any at all. In this episode, we dig into what gets in the way of letting others in, how we may be the main ones who stop it, and next steps we can take to get better. Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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May 15, 2019 |
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#7: When It's Hard to Let Go of a Relationship
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Sometimes, even when you know it's time to end a relationship, it's hard to let go. In this episode, Shena digs into 3 reasons it's hard to let go, how this sets you back, and some next steps you can take to move forward.
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Apr 29, 2019 |
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#6: 3 Ways to Choose People Who Won't Burn You, Disappoint You, or Hurt You
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In this episode, I give you three ways to ensure you are not choosing people who may end up hurting you down the road. We talk about learning from previous lessons, paying attention to your inner voice, and not being bogged down by guilt! Take a listen and share with a friend who needs it! Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Apr 22, 2019 |
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#5: What is an Intimacy Disorder? - All About Love Addiction, Love Avoidance
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We talk about two of the ways that our unhealthy attachment can play out in relationships - love addiction and love avoidance. These intimacy disorders play out in predictable patterns that are possible to break by doing our own internal work.
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Apr 20, 2019 |
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#4: Coping with Anger from Your Past
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This week, we did into how old anger can negatively affect our self-image, relationships with others, and impact unhealthy coping mechanisms.
We talk about the different "faces" of anger, some of the underlying emotions, and the best first steps you can take to resolve it.
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Mar 06, 2019 |
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#3: 3 Blocks to Inner Healing
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This week, we're digging all into inner healing! In this episode, Shena discusses 3 blocks that get in the way and gives you one tool to use when you're feeling frustrated and overwhelmed to bring you back to a place of calm.
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Feb 28, 2019 |
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#2: Why You Can't Control Them...
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Often times, we're stuck in unhealthy relationship cycles because we think we can control others. This episode, we'll talk about why this may happen and some examples that commonly occur.
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Feb 19, 2019 |
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#1: 5 Reasons Why Intimacy is So Hard
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If you have a problem getting close to others or letting others in, this is the episode for you. We discuss 5 reasons why intimacy can be so hard, even when it's what we truly want.
Have a question for the podcast? Ask it here: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/questions Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled
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Feb 14, 2019 |
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[NEW!] Welcome to Black Girls Heal!
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Welcome to Black Girls Heal where we help women break the cycle of unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships and feeling not enough to get the love they want, need, and most importantly deserve. We do this by helping you heal on both the inside AND the outside.
Have a question for the podcast? Ask it here: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/questions
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Feb 14, 2019 |