Orgasmic Enlightenment

By Kim Anami

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 Aug 31, 2021

 Jan 11, 2020


Where the sexual and spiritual come together. Sex and relationship coach and vaginal weight lifter Kim Anami gives you the sex education and orgasms you never had.

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Power Thrusters

I often say that it’s not “behind every good man is a woman”. 

Au contraire. 

Behind every good woman is a man, on his knees and ferociously thrusting and giving her everything he’s got. 

In order to transform your partner into  well-f**ked woman, your thrusting game needs to be on point. 

To get to the deeper, vaginal, life-changing orgasms—G-Spot and cervical, women need SUSTAINED penetration. 

A two-pump chump just ain’t gonna cut it. 

In this video: 

- Thrusting do’s and don’ts 
- Techniques and maneuvers to be a power thruster 
- The best position for cervical orgasms
- Strengthening the cock for Supercock-status thrusting

SEXUAL MASTERY FOR MEN: Supercock for Life! 

In my signature 8-week online salon Sexual Mastery for MEN, you can learn how to: 

- Achieve superstar stamina and be a marathon f**ker. 
- Learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation 
- Take that sexual creative power and manifest in your life with it 
- Give your woman multiple G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms 
- Build a Supercock with exercises to increase strength, length and girth 
- Occupy your alpha, dominant masculine power and take charge in bed and in life

And much, much more! 

You have weekly videos full of techniques and my well-f**ked secrets, homeplay for singles and couples and weekly live Q&A coaching calls with me! Plus, you have lifetime access to the course. 

Are you coming??? 

Register now:

Sep 16, 2022
All Men Can Orgasm without Ejaculation

An essential life skill of a Supercock is having total control over his ejaculation. 

He is a marathon f**ker who can go for hours if he chooses to. 

Being a man who knows how to separate orgasm from ejaculation? 

THIS is probably the ultimate Supercock achievement. 

Yes, it’s totally possible. 

The Anami Guarantee states that:

All men can have rock solid erections into their 90s, master their orgasmic control and be able to go for an hour, three hours and all night if they wish. 

And. All men can learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation. 

I guarantee it. 

This is something I teach in my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon. 

In today’s All Star interview, we’re speaking with Steve. 

Steve mastered this practice in two weeks. 

In today’s episode: 

  • Why does it matter? Ancient Taoist and Tantric wisdom, NoFap and “Don’t have sex before the big game!” all add up to something. 
  • How to feel energized after sex rather than needing a nap. 
  • Steve talks about going from coming after 10 minutes of penetration to now having multiple orgasms, being able to have 10 to 15 orgasms in a row, and separating orgasms from ejaculation.
  • Short sessions are now an hour and longer ones are 3+ hours on the weekends. 

In my signature 8-week online salon Sexual Mastery for MEN, you can learn how to: 

  • Achieve superstar stamina and be a marathon f**ker. 
  • Learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation 
  • Take that sexual creative power and manifest in your life with it 
  • Give your woman multiple G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms 
  • Build a Supercock with exercises to increase strength, length and girth 
  • Occupy your alpha, dominant masculine power and take charge in bed and in life
  • And much, much more! 

You have weekly videos full of techniques and my well-f**ked secrets, homeplay for singles and couples and weekly live Q&A coaching calls with me! Plus, you have lifetime access to the course. 

Register now:

Sep 09, 2022
Supercock Superpowers

Cock is magical thing.

It’s healing, rejuvenating, recalibrating and it opens me up to life, bliss and the divine.

The best cock activates a pussy, setting it on fire so it can realize its true potential.

It functions as a barometer for the man and how he is showing up in his life.

Is he potent, solid and strong?

Then his erections will be as well.

I spoke in last week’s episode about the necessity of a man being able to f**k his woman into oblivion.

You do that with your Supercock.

A Supercock, as opposed to a regular ole’ cock, has realized its true nature and owns its power.

And wields it wisely.

And wildly.

In today’s episode on Supercock Superpowers I chat with Well-F**ked All Star Max on:

– Six qualities a Supercock has
– How to create your dream life—with your cock
– Using your cock as a healer
– Your cock as the great antenna to “point you in the right direction”
– Ejecting your sexual energy vs. using it to create with

Two of my favourite quotes from this interview:

“The old me would reach for a Red Bull. Now I reach for my cock.”


“If you have a goal and you want to reach it—sexuality is the way. It is the primary fuel. It is the primary building block. When you lead the way with the cock, things just fall into place.”

Spoken like a true Supercock.

Supercock training camp is open now for registration! 

This 8-week virtual salon is all about harnessing male sexual power and rocking her world.

The salon covers all things sexual mastery:

  • Foreplay
  • How to last for hours…
  • Testosterone boosting
  • Cock lengthening and strengthening exercises
  • How to give your woman G-Spot and cervical vaginal orgasms
  • Cockfidence: inhabiting your cock and your masculine alpha self.
    and even sex acts that will boost your business.

You have weekly videos full of techniques and my well-f**ked secrets, homeplay for singles and couples and weekly live Q&A coaching calls with me! Plus, you have lifetime access to the course.

Register today.

Are you coming???

Sep 02, 2022
How to F**k Your Woman into Oblivion

What does this even mean? To get fucked into oblivion?

It’s to get fucked so well, so thoroughly, so artfully, so heart-fully that it blows away all the pre-conceived, false notions of who you are, and leaves behind a more true, authentic and beautiful version of you.

Yes, all that and more from a good f**king.

If you’ve followed my work at all, you know that in Anami Land, a good f**king isn’t some version of superficial sex.

It’s deep mind, body, soul penetration.

It’s been seen and held at the deepest level of who you are, having anything that isn’t true or real in your life, blown to smithereens.

THAT is the true power of good-f**k medicine.

So how do you get there? HOW DO you fuck a woman like that?

Today’s all star Jim is going to share with you exactly that, how he went from wanting to end his marriage, to being more in love with his wife than ever, and giving her life-changing, God-seeing, multiple orgasms.

In our vulnerable and often hilarious conversation, we talk about:

- "The number of orgasms has increased along with the type of orgasms. Our highest number for Meg is 6 in one session. 2 cervical, 2 G-Spot, 1 clitoral.”
- Masculine dominance as a key to f**king your woman into oblivion—all hail masculine men
- Salvaging a marriage from the brink of “splitsville” by going all in
- The power of the radical-est radical honesty and the aphrodisiac of truth. Hint, the seemingly hardest truths to tell get you the most wet, hard and orgasmic.
- Witnessing a successful, Fortune 500 company “bulldog” of a woman find the bliss of her feminine flow
- Falling deeply in love with your partner after years of disconnection

We cover ALL of this in my legendary 8-week online salon—Sexual Mastery for Men Salon, where you’ll learn: 

  • How to last longer in bed: my massively effective techniques to eliminate premature ejaculation permanently and extend your staying power for as long as you want. 
  • Orgasms without ejaculation. 
  • How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women. 
  • Cock lengthening and strengthening exercises.
  • How to occupy your masculine power and dominance to embody the alpha male energy that all women want.  
  • How to use your sexual energy and relationship as a power source in your life to bring you more cash, business success and overall life abundance. 
  • And much more!

Aug 26, 2022
From Porn to Power

To porn or not to porn. That is the question!

A recent study showed that 94% of men had viewed pornography in the last six months. 

And 82% considered themselves “regular viewers” of pornography.

There’s A LOT of information out there on the negative impacts of porn, from the depletion of testosterone and dopamine and its impact on erections, to how addictive it is, to keep its effects going. 

And then there’s how porn effects a man’s relationships with women in general, and a regular partner especially. 

Instead of rattling off a bunch more stats for you, I’m going to let Jonathon share with you directly.  

He started using porn at age 17 and within a year had ED issues. 

He’s had the classic porn trajectory, and now has come out the other side of it. 

He says: 

"Quitting porn was the best thing I ever did for my sex life.”


 "Since starting the Sexual Mastery for Men course, I have not even thought of porn. The fire in our relationship has exploded once we got on the same sheet of music.”

In our raw and intimate conversation we talk about: 

  • Porn as a formative sexual influence in many young male lives 
  • The additive nature of porn
  • What porn does to your cock 
  • What porn does to your relationship to yourself, and your partner 
  • Why watching porn is akin to being a cuckhold 
  • Porn’s contribution to the beta-fication of men
  • The parasitic nature of porn 
  • The problem with depleting your fluids constantly 


My Sexual Mastery for Men Salon opens in late August. In this 8-week online program for men you’ll learn everything from how to: Become a marathon fucker and be able to last for hours in bed 

  • How to separate orgasm from ejaculation - yes, this is possible, and every man can. 
  • How to occupy your more masculine, dominant, alpha male self. 
  • Exercises to increase your cock strength, length and girth 
  • Give your woman the full range of orgasmic experiences, bringing her to G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms on the daily. 

And much more. 

You can signup for the salon and check out the free video preview series for the salon at:

Aug 19, 2022
Rewilding Sexuality

Before I heard the term, “re-wilding”, I used to talk about the process of “de-civilizing”, which I defined as removing all of the false, super-imposed layers of conditioning we’ve taken on over the course of our lives, and leaving in their place, a purer, more authentic version of the self.

So there’s two parts to this journey then:

  1. Removing what isn’t natural and pulls us out of sync.
  2. Adding back into our lives and routines what brings us back into flow and harmony with ourselves and nature.

If you’ve followed me for any length of time, you’ll see that I don’t recommend ANY artificial interferences in the sexual realm: that includes lube, Viagra, hormones—whether you want to call them “bioidentical” or not—and all ph-Harma_ceutical drugs.

I believe that pretty much anything can be healed naturally, through a combination of physical, emotional, mental and spiritual work to find the energetic root cause.

In this episode:

  • My top recommendations for what to remove from your sexual repertoire
  • What to add in for optimum sexual health, hormonal balance and life-changing orgasms
  • General rewilding practices I recommend
  • Things I’m especially into right now that I incorporate into my daily routine
Aug 12, 2022
From Toxic to Divine Masculinity

Most men grow up with role models that are “toxic” or “beta".

The thing is, neither the “toxic” version nor the “beta” version are actual masculine energy.

They are devoid of it.

So what is true masculine energy? What are the qualities men can strive to develop in themselves, embodying the divine Supercock that is fulfilling for them and that women are craving?

In today’s episode we’ll talk:

  • Is “toxic” masculinity real or just a rejection of masculine energy?
  • The energy females really want in their men
  • Qualities of the divine masculine
  • The masculinity that gets women wet and weak in the knees

For many men, they are going to have to chisel away at the parts of themselves that have been superimposed, traumatized and programmed through their upbringing and the culture surrounding them, to birth this divine masculine warrior and Supercock for the ages.

He’s there.

And as women, we. want. him.

So give him to us.

Aug 05, 2022
F**king Is Better than Therapy

Yes, f**king is better than therapy. 

I would know. I’ve done a lot of both.  

Save thousands of dollars and hours.

Work it out in bed instead.

More effective, works faster and much better fun.

I mean, what is the purpose of therapy? 

To confront your demons. 

To heal. 

To be honest with yourself. 

To alchemize your wounds and past pain into wisdom and pleasure. 

Well, my orgasms do that. 

My cervical ones do, anyway. 

They have for years. 

And the fact that they do is why I do what I do. 

Everything I teach about sex and intimacy is guiding you to the place where you can be your own self-healer and master creator of your reality. 

And you can get there through your vagina. 

Specifically, through your vaginal—and especially—cervical orgasms. 

My big barometric question is: Does sex leave you feeling energized, rejuvenated, transformed, ecstatic and like it changed your life? 

IF not, you are doing it wrong. 

You can have sex in a way that depletes you. 

Or energizes you. 

I’m all about getting high through sex. 

And if you are doing that, you are harnessing that super potent energy source that will enable you to do all kinds of things from manifest a new job, to a new partner and heal your body. 

This is exactly what Alexa did. 

She learned how to use this energy, consciously cultivating it, so that it became a tangible source of power, creativity and revitalization in her life. 

Her story is mind and body-blowing and you can hear the well-f**ked radiance OOZE from her voice. 

Hear how Alexa’s vagina helped her to: 

  • Go from being $34k in debt, to mega-prosperity and a TV show in the works 
  • Unleash her creativity: she picked up the songwriting and performing career she’d put on the backburner for years, using my Meditate, Masturbate, Create sequence 
  • Lose 70 lb in body weight and emotional “baggage” 
  • Move from sexual shame and early childhood trauma to not giving a f**k with total confidence 
  • Heal her throat and vulva cysts—they totally disappeared 
  • Find God. In her vagina. 

"I would say 100% that the course that I did with you recently, and just your work in general, was a catalyst for healing for me in all levels of my life.”

The Well-F**ked Woman Salon—the ultimate guide to how to live, love and orgasm in a female body—is now OPEN for registration. 

In the salon we cover:

  • All the different vaginal orgasms and how to get there: G-Spot, cervical and squirting 
  • Self-pleasuring 101 
  • Using your feminine energy to achieve anything you want: from relationships to cash 
  • The secrets of surrender: in bed and in life 
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • BDSM 101  
  • Cock whispering secrets from yours truly, the “cock witch” 
  • And much, much more!

Register for WFW now.

Jul 07, 2022
Magical Blow Jobs

Blow jobs can do all kinds of things.

They give pleasure.

And orgasms.

They can land you massive business deals.

And grow cocks.

They can make your yoga practice better.

And your children are calmer and happier.

They can make a man into a warrior, confident, alpha god.

And turn a woman into a sensual goddess.

Did you know that blow jobs are all that and more?

Their ecstatic and reality-bending powers are unlocked when you dive deep into the mysteries of cock love.

This magic bestows itself upon the recipient—and the giver.

In this interview we have Amanda, from our legendary All-Stars couple, Amanda and Mark.

We’ve featured them on the show several times already, and she writes in to give us regular updates on their adventures and their evolution, which are always amazing to hear.

This time they had a very powerful and miracle-worthy, experience with their oral sex explorations.

They had the biggest breakthrough EVER in their business, powered by a 90-minute oral sex session.

Yes, some devoted cocksucking made them rich.

We featured Amanda on the episode “Cock Lovers of the World Unite” where she shared her experience of dissolving a growth in her thyroid from doing lots of deep throating. 

See? I told you. Sucking cock is a truly magical thing.

In the Well-F**ked Woman, which is my 8-week online Salon for all things female sexual mastery, you’ll receive my full tutorials on: 

  • Enlightened cock sucking, deep throating, and manual techniques to make you a champion cock whisperer. 
  • The full orgasmapedia of vaginal orgasms: how to have G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms. 
  • Self-pleasuring 101
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts
  • Taoist techniques to convert sexual energy into creative energy.
  • How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself and your body 
  • And much more! 

The salon begins on July 7th and registration closes on July 8th. Signup now! 

Jun 30, 2022
The Anami Guarantee: All Women. All Orgasms.

This is one of my favourite things to put out there to people: 

The promise that everyone CAN. 

Whatever age or stage you are in your life, you can achieve all of the epic sexual adventures and milestones I talk about. 

I guarantee it. 

All women can:

  • Produce tsunamis of lubrication. Yes, even when menopausal, pregnant or postpartum. 
  • Ejaculate across the room. 
  • Have multiple, daily, G-Spot, cervical, nipple and energy and anal orgasms. 
  • Shoot ping pong balls with their vaginas. 

These things are possible for every woman. 

But Mila didn’t think they were possible for her. 

She says: “I felt like I would probably be that one woman who didn’t get there.

I thought it was probably true for everybody, but given my whole sexual history from childhood onward and how I’ve always thought about sex, I didn’t think it was possible for me.”

How wrong she was. 

After some Anami schooling, now she says things like: 

“I want to have sex every single day.” 

“I have cervical orgasms all the time now.”
 “I want to get my husband’s pants off as soon as possible.”

“I’m pretty much always turned on.” 

“I love giving him blow jobs.”

It was possible for Mila and it’s possible for you. 

One of the reasons I LOVE featuring our All Stars, is so you know that you, too, can overcome any seeming obstacle, and turn yourself into a well-f**ked woman. 

Every. Woman. Can. 

I guarantee it. 


The Well-F**ked Woman Salon—the ultimate guide to how to live, love and orgasm in a female body—is now OPEN for registration. 

In the salon we cover:

  • All the different vaginal orgasms and how to get there: G-Spot, cervical and squirting 
  • Self-pleasuring 101 
  • Using your feminine energy to achieve, magnetize and navigate the world 
  • The secrets of surrender: in bed and in life 
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • BDSM 101 
  • Cock whispering secrets from yours truly, the “cock witch” 
  • And much, much more!

Signup here:

Jun 24, 2022
How to Manifest Your Dream Partner

Everyone wants to know: How to find "the one"!

First off, I don’t think there is just ONE person in a lifetime we’re meant to be with. 

I believe there are several “ones” out there waiting for us. 

How DO we find them? 

How do we draw them into our lives and our hearts and our beds? 

How do we find the people who will be most suited to us, who will match us and also help us reach our next stages of evolution? 

When people are serious about drawing in new love, I encourage them to embark on a rigorous self-pleasure practice, to explore ways to amplify their feminine and masculine energies, and clear any blockages they have to fully owning and expressing as sexual beings. 

As you clear out your old baggage and interferences, that make it harder for people—and the right people—to find and really see you, the signal you broadcast becomes super clear. 

And you magnetize in your vibrational match.

I have countless stories from women who began their self-pleasuring practice in the Anami style: Meditate, Masturbate, Create or through using their jade egg for ONE DAY and they go out the next day in sweats, no makeup, not looking for anything or anyone, and guys come up to them at the gas pump, or run across the street to ask them for their number. 

That energy is so palpable, that people are drawn to it like moths to the flame. 


In today’s all star interview, I’m talking to Freya. She took the Well-F**ked Woman Salon a couple years back and has had a radical transformation, going from being sexually numb to ejaculating all over the place. I interviewed her earlier this year on her experiences with squirting, which you can find in the episode entitled …. 9 Steps to Make You a Squirting Master.

I wanted to bring her back on to share on other aspects of her transformation, including finding her voice as a poet. 

Today, we discuss how she attracted in a beautifully matched life partner. (The wedding is in a couple of months). 

In this episode: 

  • Unconscious vs. conscious attracting 
  • The secret to manifesting anything: partners, cash and a new body 
  • The inspiring and heart-opening story of how Freya put her heart (and vagina’s) desire out there and the universe brought her the perfect match 
  • The poem that cracked the code of the universe 
  • Internal feng shui: the clearing of your inner space to bring in a beautiful match

    The Well-F**ked Woman Salon opens for registration next week! In the salon, I show you how you can be well-f*ked, whether you are single or coupled. 

In the Well-F**ked Woman, we explore: 

  • Self-pleasuring 101 
  • How to use your sexual energy as the ultimate healer and cleanser 
  • Harnessing sexual energy as s creative power to manifest what you want in your life, including a new partner
  • The Anami Orgasmapedia - how to achieve the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirting 
  • Breast massage to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts 
  • My cock whisperer tutorials on all things manual and oral pleasure for your man 
  • The connection between sex, creativity and money. More sex + better sex = more cash. 
  • And much more! 
Jun 17, 2022
Lose Belly Fat Overnight! With Orgasms

Did you know that orgasms are one of the best fat-busters going? Science says! 

I’ve worked with people who have done EVERYTHING to lose weight. 

They had trainers, nutritionists, they were disciplined about eating and working out and there would be that last 10 or 15 pounds they just couldn’t seem to lose. 

And then they’d start having gourmet sex. 

The kind of sex I teach about, where they are being seen, fed and nourished. 

Their hearts and genitals are open, and they are being changed by the potency of this deep, sexual love. 

And then the extra weight evaporates. 

They don’t do anything different - no changes in their diet or exercise. 

They just got well-f**ked. 

Deep, cataclysmic, vaginal orgasms, powerful connections. 

And suddenly those abs were svelte and chiseled. 

Like magic. 

From your orgasms. 

In this episode: 

  • 5 tips to lose belly fat overnight 
  • The relationship between cortisol, stress and belly fat 
  • Why orgasms burn fat like nothing else 
  • How cataclysmic sex transforms your baggage and emotional “weight” 
  • Well-f**ked all star Robin shares her story of becoming a widow, being diagnosed with the big C-word, and using her sexuality to alchemize her way through it all, healing herself, working through her grief and losing 60 lb in the process. All through the magical power of orgasms. 

Jun 09, 2022
From Toxic Femininity to the Divine Feminine

In this episode: 

  • Examples of toxic femininity 
  • What the balanced and divine feminine looks like 
  • How to cultivate it in your daily life 
  • Using sex as your greatest access point into your divine feminine nature 
  • Kim's forays into conscious BDSM as a powerful and erotic tool to learn to truly surrender and embody my feminine 

IN the Well-F**Ked Woman Salon, I help you to identify, excavate and transform your blocks and weaknesses into your greatest power. 

I go into depth and share my personal journey in my nearly year long BDSM relationship where I went deeper than I ever had, and came into balance with my feminine self, learned the art of surrender and came out truly not giving a fuck anymore. 

I’ll show you how to have the deeper vaginal orgasms, which are what help you to burn through the dross of your life and elevate yourself into your highest potential. 

La petite mort" the little death and rebirth, indeed. 

The Well-F**ked Woman salon begins in early July. In the meantime, you can signup for the free preview video series where I dive deeper into feminine power, vaginal orgasms and becoming a well-f**ked woman.

Jun 03, 2022
Boobs vs. Breasts

In this episode: 

- How to unlock the orgasmic bliss in your breasts
- Owning and loving the breasts 
- Breast massage to reconnect and increase sensation
- Reclaiming the breasts after breastfeeding 
- From "boob" to "breast": the journey of taking our breasts back from public commodities to our own sentient, alchemical pleasure portals 

May 27, 2022
Roe vs. Wade. Do I Give a Shit?

This episode is a recording of an Instagram Live I did. I cover: 

  • Natural birth control 
  • The ludicrousness of having a 95-97.5% elective abortion rate, which tells us that most women have no idea how their reproductive systems work 
  • The dark history of OB/GYNs and why I would never send a woman to one. Plus, what I suggest as alternative care. 
  • The power of self-responsibility and self-governance in all things: especially your vagina 
  • Some great crowd-sourced questions about healing reproductive aliments like fibroids, cysts, and my take on STDs 

May 13, 2022
Genital Sunning

Genital sunning is all the rage. For good reason: it's incredibly good for you. I love my genital sun time, and I do it (nearly) every day. 

In today’s episode:

  • Yoni sunning as a treatment for depression 
  • Historical use of the sun as medicine in treating disease 
  • Studies showing how genital sun exposure increase testosterone and sexual satisfaction levels 200-300%
  • My scientifically-endorsed method for getting daily sun exposure between the prime hours of 12 and 2; when people are typically told to "avoid the sun". 
  • Why getting sun in your shadow places is so lit! 🔥

Apr 28, 2022
50 Shades of Anami: BDSM 101

Many people have misconceptions about what BDSM really is. 

For anyone who doesn’t know, BDSM stands for: 

  • Bondage
  • Discipline
  • Domination
  • Submission
  • Sadism
  • Masochism

Even me, before I learned about what it was, and how deep it could be, thought: “oh, whips and chains!”.

And, like with anything, there are superficial versions of it, and there are deeper, sacred and sophisticated versions of it.

Just like how I teach about sex.

i would say that the most “junk food” version of sex is to jerk off to porn, racing to the finish line of the goal of just having an orgasm for stress relief or to you put yourself to sleep.

The gourmet sex version, that I teach, is about having sexual experiences that take you to heights of ecstasy and bliss, give you orgasms that last for hours, and through that you are transformed. 

You become a better, more self-realized of yourself. 

It’s the same in BDSM. 

The deepest themes for me in my BDSM exploration have been playing with surrender and control, and with archetypal feminine and masculine energies. 

The hottest sexual chemistry and couples who can’t keep their hands off each other, generally have exaggerated feminine and masculine energies at play. 

In today’s episode: 

  • Using conscious BDSM to generate explosive chemistry in your relationship 
  • Why 50 Shades of Grey was a worldwide hit. Hint: these are primal energies we are all turned on by and crave 
  • Amplifying the divine masculine and feminine through conscious and sensual BDSM
  • How BDSM is a fantastic tool for shadow work 
  • Sexy demo examples of some classic BDSM moves  

Signup for the Coming Together for Couples salon:

Apr 15, 2022
F*ck Them Until You Change Them

I'm always talking about the transformative power of sex.

It's where the whole "well-f**ked woman" and “well-f**ked man” memes comes from.

This is the idea that the changes and effects of really good lovemaking are written all over someone's face and body.

And so are the bad ones.

It becomes so obvious that other people can see and feel them.

As a lover, it's your duty to f*ck your partner open.

To penetrate them (man or woman) so deeply, that they forget who they are, they drop all the preconceived, civilized notions of who they are, and a truer, deeper, more real and powerful version of themselves rises to the surface.

F*ck them until you change them.

If you've finished making love with your partner and they aren't glowing, if they aren't looking at you like you are some kind of messiah god (does this seem lofty? I promise you it isn't), then you have further to go.

My big, barometric question is always: Does sex leave you feeling rejuvenated, energized, transformed, ecstatic and fuck-changed?

If not, you are doing it wrong.

My work is all about showing you how to do it right.

Of all the years—about 30—and all the different therapies—a shit ton—that I've experimented with over the years, none have changed me so quickly, so profoundly and so permanently as really. good. f*cking.

The kind of f*cking that replaces addictive behaviours, loses weight, turns anger into patience and depression into action.

To help create the kind of f*cking that changes you, listen to today’s episode.

In the Coming Together Salon, it’s all about the art of the Phoenix f-ck change. 
 How to have the kind of sex that changes your life. 
 The kind that brings you daily, good-f**k medicine, wildly ecstatic orgasms, a deeper connection than you ever thought possible, both with yourself and your partner, 

In the salon, we touch on every aspect I’ve covered in today’s episode including: 

  • Guided, step-by-step lingam and yoni massage 
  • Clarity and communication techniques 
  • How to build stamina and become a marathon fucker for men
  • How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women 
  • My secrets to marathon sex and getting high via your 3-hour sex dates. 
  • And much more! 

To check out the free preview video series for the salon and to signup, go to:

Apr 10, 2022
How to Give a Blissful Yoni Massage: 15 Steps and Techniques

In a loving, passionate, dedicated yoni massage, we are aiming to awaken, activate and bring deep, life-changing pleasure to the vagina and a woman’s overall sexual being.

Over the decades of doing my work, as a holistic sex and relationship coach, the thing I hear over and over from women is how numb their vaginas are. 

One of the biggest tools I recommend for de-numbing and re-pleasuring the vagina is the jade yoni egg. 

By building strength, sentience and articulation in the vagina, increasing circulation and oxygen flow, ALL things flow better: from lubrication to hormone transport to orgasms. 

The other practice I recommend is yoni massage. 

With focused, loving attention, we can transform a numb vagina into a multi-orgasmic and highly aroused one. 

In today’s episode: 

  • Benefits of yoni massage, including increased libido, lubrication and vaginal orgasms 
  • 15 techniques for a blissful, life-changing yoni massage 
  • Our epic flower mandala yoni 
  • All star interview with Tania sharing how she initially had pain in her vagina, and through yoni massage that gave way to numbness, and then pleasure.  

You'll find my fully guided yoni massage routine in the Coming Together for Couples Salon.

This is my 10-week signature online program for couples where we cover everything from squirting techniques in my entire Orgasmapedia, male stamina and marathon sex, communication skills and Tantric and Taoist practices.

Click here to sign up now. 

Apr 08, 2022
How to Give an Ecstatic Penis Massage

The purpose of lingam massage is to awaken the true power of your man’s cock.

We want him to own and inhabit it, amplifying his capacity for pleasure.

And yours.

Then he can penetrate you with it, bringing both of you to ecstasy and obliterating you to smithereens, with an awakened and self-actualized cock.

Lingam massage can be totally transformational for your partner and your relationship.

Apr 01, 2022
9 Steps to Be a Squirting Master

Squirting has been written about for millennia. We find it referenced in text and teachings all over the world. 

It is often described as: Food of the Gods. Nectar. Ambrosia. Amrita. The Fountain of Youth.

Even though squirting tends to be a highly sought after check-the-box sex act inspired by porn, it’s a profound experience to have and share with an intimate partner. 

An anointing! 

To coax these emissions out of a woman requires trust, openness and surrender.  

These qualities are INFUSED into her essence. 

Which is why it’s such a potent gift to receive, for both. 

In this episode: 

- Why squirting is an essential life skill for women
- Five facts about squirting
- How it feels in the body and emotionally 
- Nine steps to squirting mastership
- The benefits of ingesting “amrita” 
- How our all star Freya went from low interest in sex, to becoming a prolific, soak-the-sheets squirting sensation 

Mar 24, 2022
Energy Sex in the Wild

Energy orgasms are orgasms that take place without and kind of touch whatsoever. You know the spiritual axiom that “thoughts are things.”  Well, here we see that in action. Orgasms are things too and we can have them whenever and wherever we want! 

Mar 18, 2022
9 Unusual Foreplay Techniques for Epic Sex and Orgasms

How long can you make it last? How good can you take it? What’s it like to live in a perpetual state of bliss? 

Slowing down and prolonging your foreplay not only primes you for marathon sex and the deeper orgasmic experiences, but afterward you feel even higher, ecstatic, transformed and like you’ve been reborn. 

You are tapping into the rejuvenating, enlivening power of your sexual energy. 

The more you treat foreplay like its own sex act and endgame, the deeper your sexual experiences will be. 

There are stories in ancient Tantric texts about the ultimate battle for lovers: 

To make the other come first. 

Your job is to tantalize, tease and stimulate your partner so they live in an ongoing state of arousal. 

Yes, this is possible. 

In this episode, we'll discuss how: 

Mar 11, 2022
Conscious Celibacy

Celibacy gets a bad rap because people don’t do it very well.

I would never counsel someone to just “give up sex” without any intention behind it.

Or, without learning how to channel their sexual energy.

That would be “unconscious celibacy”.

Doing it consciously is deciding to contain yourself for a while, to put an invisible “not available” sign on your forehead, and direct your energy inward. 

This could be for any number of reasons, such as: 

  • to recover and heal after a breakup 
  • to take stock and try and change patterns and behaviours in relationships before starting a new one 
  • Up-levelling parts of your life before your next relationship, so that you are in a better place to welcome someone into your space and life

I often talk having had some of my most well-fucked periods of my life, when I was single.

If you know anything about my work, the way I define “well-f**ked” isn’t just about “having lots of sex”.

It’s having lots of gourmet, conscious, life-changing sex and channeling your sexual, pro-creative energy out into the world as a manifesting power to birth and shape your reality.

So how do we do this?

Show notes and product links here:

Feb 18, 2022
Everyone Is Creative: Just Ask Your Vagina!

This is the ultimate creative power of the universe and it flows through  you.

Instead of tuning into this ad riding this wave, most people are totally disconnected from and have disowned this power.

All of my work is about helping you get it back.

“Unexpressed creativity is not benign. It metastasizes”
~ Brene Brown 

I say the same thing about your sexual energy: whatever you aren’t expressing and owning, inverts back on you and creates all kinds of stagnation and blockage in your life.

In today’s episode:

  • Are creatives born or made?
  • The fastest way to achieve creative genius
  • The connection between the deeper vaginal orgasms and being divinely inspired
  • Sex and self-actualization
  • #poweredbyvagina is the mantra I live by. How I create my own life–via my vagina
  • Three techniques to activate your creative and orgasmic brilliance

Plus, we have THREE Well-F**ked All Stars today sharing on how they have fuelled their creative projects and lives.

With their orgasms and vaginas.

My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is now open for registration until tomorrow—Friday February 4th at midnight PST.

In this 8-week online salon, I've compiled the best of my 30 years of sexual and vaginal experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss. We cover everything talked about in today’s episode, from yoni massage to how to use the jade yoni egg, to activating your feminine energy as the receiver in your life—all of which bring you into your creative genius.

You'll learn:

  • How to have a toned, orgasmic and ecstatic vagina;
  • How to channel your sexual energy into creative power
  • Step-by-step instructions for your vaginal weight lifting practice, thereby putting yourself in the running for the Guinness Record for world’s strongest vagina;
  • My guided routine for giving yourself, or having your partner give you, a healing and activating yoni massage.
  • How to give your man a hand job. With your vagina.

Come and get it.

After tomorrow, it's gone until 2023!

Feb 03, 2022
5 Reasons Why You Aren't Having Vaginal Orgasms

While the clitoris is good for a laugh or a warmup, if you really want to harness the power of your sexual energy, you need to go deeper.

A few inches deeper.

These deeper, vaginal orgasms are like the Loch Ness Monsters of sexuality. They are mysterious and subject to much skepticism and known only to some.

The reason why they elude many people, and especially laboratory analysis (though they’ve been sighted in some labs; mainly French, and not English), is because they involve far more than just technique.

In fact, I’d say that technique is less than 10% of what will take you there.

In this episode we cover the other 90%. 

We also talk to Well-F**ked All Star Robin, who is a 44-year-old from our Well-F**ked Hall of Fame. She’s taken my salons for women and emerged out the other side a radiant, lubricating, ejaculating, vaginal orgasming-on-the-regular, sexual powerhouse. 

My legendary Vaginal Kung Fu Salon is open for registration! 

Having a Kung Fu Vagina is every woman’s birthright and within her natural abilities.  

With the right tools! 

This is what is possible for every single vagina, on the daily: 

  • Multiple, vaginal and ejaculating orgasms 
  • Insane, life-changing pleasure 
  • A vagina that is so responsive that it gets wet just from hearing your lover’s voice. 
  • Produces a tsunami of wetness 
  • A ravenous libido 
  • Gives your lover a vaginal handjob with your sensational articulation skills. Aka "voodoo pussy". 
  • Shoots ping pong balls. This is the normal, healthy baseline for every vagina. 
  • Zero urinary incontinence. Some women reverse this in a week. 
  • Iron-clad pelvic floor strength that maintains your internal organs. Yep. You were meant to keep them. 

In short: Ecstasy and power on tap. Courtesy of your Kung Fu Vagina. 

Come and get it: 

Jan 27, 2022
5 Techniques to Create a Super Pussy!

Most vaginas are numb. They aren't pleasured or exercised well, and they atrophy into a place of disconnection and lackluster existence. You can change that, and instead cultivate a Super Pussy that is: 

- Strong, articulate and powerful.
- Orgasms wherever, however, whenever it wants, with the full range of orgasmic pleasure: clitoral, G-Spot, cervical orgasms 

- Feels blissful during sex 
- Has a voracious libido

- Can give hand jobs. Just like with your actual hand, a super pussy can push, pull, squeeze and isolate different sections of the muscles, playing the proverbial flute.
- Produces “tsunamis of lubrication”
- Shoots ping pong balls. This is every woman’s God-given right. 

In this episode, we’ll cover:

  • Super Pussy mythbusting: Common reasons why you think you might not be able to have one. I’ll prove you wrong.
  • My #1 tool for creating Super Pussies. Plus four more.
  • On removing blocks from our reproductive organs, freeing them up to be orgasmic and blissful. Constantly.
  • Is lube really a girl’s best friend?
  • Well-F**ked All Star Mara shares how she started her Super Pussy journey at eight months pregnant, had her first cervical orgasm on her birthday six weeks later, and how they use sex to keep them energized with a young baby and four other children.

 All my vaginal power secrets and practices will be revealed in the upcoming Vaginal Kung Fu Salon. The salon opens for registration on January 19th. You can get on the list to be notified when it does, and check out my free preview video series for the salon now:

Jan 06, 2022
#thingsiputinmyvagina: Kim's Fave Organic Sex Toys

Organic sex toys. Is that even a thing?

There definitely are #thingsIwouldputintomyvagina and things I would not. 

The whole Anami philosophy is about cultivating the highest quality experiences and using the healthiest and most holistic products in our intimate lives. 

I created the Anami Alchemia online shop so that we could feature exactly that: 

Erotic accessories you could trust to be an extension of the Anami way of life: 

Beautiful, (functional), impeccable quality, and nourishment for your body and spirit. 

So let’s talk about clean, organic and body-friendly erotic accessories to uplevel your orgasmic enlightenment. 

Nov 25, 2021
5 Laws of Female Orgasms

They apply to all women, all vaginas, everywhere.

They are true in every circumstance, 100% of the time.

There are NO exceptions to these rules.



It doesn’t matter if a woman has had everything from sexual trauma, to reproductive organs removed, to a strict religious and shaming upbringing to being in menopause, to having emerged out of a 20-year shitty marriage or whether she is straight or gay, single or coupled.

These laws apply to EVERY WOMAN at any and every stage of her life.

We don’t do excuses in Anami Land. Or Band-Aids.

Only solutions.

So buck up bitches and let’s go.

Nov 19, 2021
From C-Section to Free Birth

One of the things I hear most often from women who had a transcendent, empowering, largely independent, birth experience, is that it wipes out the residue of former births they may have had, where they were more entrenched in the allopathic system.

Women who had C-sections have gone on to have triumphant free-births at home, which we’ll hear about in today’s episode.

All of the education I put out around this topic is to reassure and REMIND you that YOU can do this.


In order to have this kind of orgasmic, ecstatic birth experience means taking the reins early on in your journey.

Even during conception.

As you work out the kinks and blocks in yourselves and the collective of your relationship, you free up the flow for a smoother conception, pregnancy and birth.

Anything significant that is NOT resolved between you, will show up in your birth.

And even before that in your pregnancy and even before THAT in your conception journey.

Combine all of that with the programming and imprinting you receive around birth, you’ve got a lot of work to do to clear the space.

The most important “preparation” you can do is on your mindset, your fears, your internalized beliefs and then setting to work on reframing and recreating all of that to fit the vision YOU want to have.

In today’s episode, we are talking with our Well-F**ked All Star couple of the year, Mark and Amanda.

Their story is amazing, and encapsulates ALL of the concepts I’ve just described.

Amanda’s first child was breech, and she was told that she’d have to have a C-section.

Her fourth child was born at home, in her bed, with just her husband present. This was a free birth, with no one attending her pregnancy either.

In between all of that was FIVE miscarriages.

Their story is amazing, inspirational and super entertaining, as they share what happened and how they evolved along the way.

Anyone can take their power back, and recreate their lives.

Including you.

The Sexy Mama Salon begins today!

This 8-week online class is ALL about how to educate yourself, deprogram and reprogram yourself as the powerful portal you truly are. 

We cover everything from conscious conception, blissful pregnancy, birth orgasms, breastfeeding and early childhood education. 

This is the ultimate condensed and enlightened guide on how to use pregnancy and birth as an ascension experience and raise independent, free thinkers in the process. 

It all starts with birth.

Check out Sexy Mama now

Oct 21, 2021
Intuitive Birth: Trusting Yourself and the Divine

A natural, sovereign, empowered pregnancy and birth brings you:

  • Confidence, boldness and the ability to stand up and speak your truth.
  • Knowing that you can do anything in your life. If you can do this.
  • An even stronger link with your intuition and divine guidance, that leads you through pregnancy, birth and into all parts of your life. You’ve earned this. And you get to keep it.
  • A transcendent, pleasurable and orgasmic birth
  • A deepened relationship and love of yourself and your body
  • A strengthened bond with your partner
  • An un-traumatized child—which is a rarity in this world—who will also have a stronger connection to their innate knowing and the divine
  • You emerge from birth in a state of euphoria that lasts weeks, months and even years.

The Sexy Mama Salon is now open for registration.

This 8-week online class is ALL about how to educate yourself, deprogram and re-program yourself as the powerful portal you truly are.

We cover everything from conscious conception, blissful pregnancy, birth orgasms, breastfeeding and early childhood education.

This is the ultimate condensed and enlightened guide on how to use pregnancy and birth as an ascension experience and raise independent, free thinkers in the process.

It all starts with birth.


Oct 14, 2021
Med-Wives vs. Mid-Wives
Birth either becomes an initiation into your own power, autonomy and sovereignty, or it becomes a massive imprinting on your psyche and body of the outsourcing of it. Do modern midWhat has happened to the modern midwife? With Yolande Norris-Clark.
Oct 08, 2021
How to Talk to Children About Sex

This is one of the topics I get asked about ALL the time: “How do we talk to our children about sex?”

This question becomes even more crucial to parents, as they begin doing this work of orgasmic enlightenment.

As they see and feel the changes in their own relationships and lives, they wonder: 

“How can we present a different view of sexuality to our kids, than we got?”

“How can we make it so that they don’t have to go through all of the de-programming that we have?”

f you aren’t guiding your children and modelling a healthy sex life to them, someone else will.

That will likely be through pornography, or the cultural messages of shame, violation and unconsciousness, or the school “sex ed” messages of “sex will kill you and get you pregnant, now off you go”.

The responsibility for educating your children about sex and how to cultivate a healthy, sacred, powerful relationship with it, begins with you.

In this video, I chat with our Well-F**ked All Star Couple of the Year, Mark and Amanda. We discuss:

  • How their relationship changed since doing this work and what their children noticed
  • The ways they talk to their children about sex and handle all the questions they get
  • How they model healthy intimacy in their family
  • The direct connection between the state of their relationship and how it impacts their family: i.e. the more sex they have, the happier EVERYONE in the family is
  • What their children’s reactions are to seeing their parents passionately into each other 

Sign up for my Sexy Mama: Holistic Pregnancy and Ecstatic Birth Salon and watch the free video preview series:

Oct 01, 2021
Meet Another Well-F**ked Man!

In our conversation, we chat about: 

  • How women are underf**ked if they are only having clitoral orgasms.
  • Giving your woman a non-stop flow of G-Spot orgasms 
  • “Cervical after cervical after cervical” orgasms that crack her open and give her that “I just saw GOD!” face 
  • The definition of a well-f**ked man 
  • Super-charged erections at every age (Paul is older than his wife so he makes this a priority) 
  • She comes first and many, many times
  • Constantly receiving oral sex from his woman (so tedious, I know). yet he soldiers on 
  • Using their orgasms to manifest a new house, job opportunities and more! Seriously tho. 

Everyone can reach these places. If you put in the time and energy. It’s the Anami Guarantee: 

That’s why I’ve created all of my salons—to get you there. 


The Sexual Mastery for Men Salon is open! This 8-week virtual salon is all about harnessing male sexual power and rocking her world. The salon covers all things sexual mastery: 

  • Foreplay
  • How to last for hours…
  • Testosterone boosting
  • Cock lengthening and strengthening exercises
  • How to give your woman G-Spot and cervical vaginal orgasms
  • Cockfidence: inhabiting your cock and your masculine alpha self. 
     and even sex acts that will boost your business.

You have weekly videos full of techniques and my well-f**ked secrets, homeplay for singles and couples and weekly live Q&A coaching calls with me! Plus, you have lifetime access to the course. 

Are you coming??? 

Sep 24, 2021
The Well-F**ked Man

Mark shares his perspective as the other half of this radiantly well-f**ked couple, and the impact that up-levelling their sex life has had on all parts of his life, from finance and business, to parenting and friendships and of course, as a man who can f**k his woman open to smithereens.

He can have sex for hours, he can come—or not—when he wants to. He is giving his woman multiple, vaginal, life-changing orgasms. And throat-gasms. And anal-gasms.

He is the well-f**ked man, to his well-f**ked woman. He becomes the man he was always meant to be.

Sexual Mastery for Men is open now! In my signature 8-week online salon for men, you’ll learn: 

  • How to last longer in bed: my massively effective techniques to eliminate premature ejaculation permanently and extend your staying power for as long as you want. 
  • Orgasms without ejaculation. 
  • How to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women. 
  • Cock lengthening and strengthening exercises. 
  • How to use your sexual energy and relationship as a power source in your life to bring you more cash, business success and overall life abundance. 
  • And much more!

    Signup now! 

Sep 16, 2021
Stamina: The Most Important Sexual Skill for Men

Stamina is: when a man has complete control of his ejaculation. He comes when he wants. Even in the most sexy, wild moments, with his woman’s butt up in the air, and her back arched and she’s making those crazy noises that just. send you… you keep it together. 

For women to reach the deeper vaginal orgasms—G-Spot and cervical—it can take 30-45 minutes. Women were built for the long haul. They are naturally multi-orgasmic and sexually insatiable. 

One of the main reasons they never realize their full potential is because they’ve had a series of male lovers who are two-pump chumps. 

You can be much better than a two-pump chump. 

Marathon stamina is one of the many things I teach in my signature 8-week online program for men. Not only will you learn how you, too, can fuck like Sting, but you’ll learn how to: 

- Grow cock organically with lengthening and strengthening exercises

- Bring her to deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot and cervical  

- Reclaim your masculine strength and power 

Registration is open now. Signup:

Sep 09, 2021
Beta Male Variants: The Real Epidemic

NOTE: This episode is a video I highly suggest you WATCH on YouTube:


In this week’s special investigation SMM news report, we bring you a visual depiction of the Beta Variant pandemic. And it’s cure: The Alpha Variant.

The report features: 

  • Dr. Kim Anami, of the CUFDC (Center for Underf**ked Disease Control), who makes a return appearance to weigh in on the controversy. As our most trusted expert, she has fabulous advice for those seeking to ward off and develop natural immunity to the Beta Variants. 
  • Exclusive footage of Beta and Alpha Variants in their natural habitats.
  • A graphic demonstration of the effects of the Beta Variant on women.  
  • An inspiring rally cry for Alphas to make their return. We are waiting with bated breath and ready-to-open legs. 

A great question I received after last week’s provocative episode, was:  Can Beta Variants be transformed into Alphas?

ANSWER: Yes, they can.

Beta behavior is learned and acquired, both socially and physically. Any man can take charge of his life and make massive changes and in a short period of time.

Your sexual energy is the quantum leap shortcut to getting there. Once you have mastery over it, that dominion extends to all parts of your life: woman, confidence, finances, career.

In my Sexual Mastery for Men, I show you how to occupy your fully embodied, testosterone-fuelled, ultra-f**kable masculine self. 

Salon opens next week! 



Sep 03, 2021
Alpha Males vs. Beta Males

In today’s episode, a blunt examination of:

  • Is the feminization of men deliberate?
  • Who do women prefer having sex with?
  • The differences between alpha and beta men.
  • We are swimming in a sea of estrogen: where is it coming from?
  • A major estrogenic source you didn’t think of and may be consuming daily.
  • What happened when I personally tried relationships with beta men. And, uh, what didn't happen. (Sex!)

My 8-week Sexual Mastery for Men Salon is ALL about this: Life AND cock power. We cover everything on how to better occupy your masculine strength in and our of the bedroom. 

The salon opens in the next few weeks: you can signup for the FREE preview videos series here. 

Aug 26, 2021
Natural Viagra

From guys in their early 20s with longstanding porn habits, to 70-year-olds who had bought into the fable that old age diminishes their potency, all have been able to NATURALLY regain rock-hard, high-performance Supercocks. Without Viagra. 

Watch the video version on my YouTube channel:

Check out my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon:

Aug 19, 2021
How to Open and Surrender Sexually

Why surrender is essential for deep sexual fulfillment. And orgasms. Surrender elevates our sexual experiences, taking us from junk-food sex, into the transcendent, life-changing world of gourmet sex. 

Jul 29, 2021
Cock Lovers of the World UNITE!

Cock like vs. cock love. How true cock love increases a man's size, erectile strength and overall confidence. Being on the receiving end of a self-actualized cock makes you an even more well-f**ked woman. Indeed, cock love can bring YOU ecstasy. And oh yeah, him too. 

Jul 22, 2021
Epic Hand Jobs: 7 Awesome Techniques

Hand jobs are the most underrated sexual act. But they can be so much more: fully satisfying and deep experiences all on their own. In the spirit of Tantra, and expanding the sexual experience, having longer foreplay sessions not only builds stamina, but it generates more energy and rejuvenation. And lots more bliss. Plus, who doesn’t want to become an enlightened Mistress of Cock? *** Watch the video version on my YouTube channel. 

Jul 15, 2021
FUKME Superspreaders Are Everywhere!

Dr. Kim Anami, Director of the CUFDC (Center for Underf**ked Disease Control) gives her recommendations for getting us out of the FUKME pandemic, and addresses the latest variants. ** Highly recommend you watch the video version of this on my YouTube channel. 

Jul 07, 2021
5 Unusual Self-Pleasuring Techniques for Women

Self-pleasuring tips to make you a multi-orgasmic, ejaculating, well-fucked woman and have your orgasms that are therapeutic, transformative, life-changing and leave you feeling ecstasy for DAYS. 

Jul 01, 2021
6 Tips for Beautiful, Orgasmic Breasts

Creating beautiful breasts is a mix of physical and energetic practices. In this video we explore my top tips for cultivating radiant, orgasmic, pleasurable breasts, including how to increase breast size by 25%, Kim's favorite breast massage oil, detoxing the breasts, how to sunbathe your breasts for maximum Vitamin D, o bra or not to bra, best prevention to keep breasts lifted and firm and the role of breasts overall in female orgasm. 

Jun 24, 2021
How to Not Give a F**k with Kelly Brogan, MD

Kim Anami talks to Kelly Brogan, MD on seizing your power, healing yourself of anything, and the art of not giving a f**k. 

Jun 18, 2021
Well-F**ked Beauty

Your sexual energy is so powerful that it writes itself all over you. It can alter your face and your body, more powerfully than any kind of plastic surgery or injectable can. The combustion and fusion of your sexual energy, combined with the love, emotion and surrender, creates the alchemizing power of the HOLY FUCK. Here are 9 dimensions of well-f**ked beauty, Anami-style. 

Jun 10, 2021
Kim's Three Favorite Healing Modalities

These are the most powerful healing practices I know, teach and have used for years. Quantum growth on demand. All free! 

May 20, 2021
Sacred Sexuality and Tantric Secrets

By consciously tuning into our sexual energy, we could use it to help us reach higher states of consciousness. No drugs needed! You can tap the source from within. In this episode: the five primary pillars of Tantra, your keys to creating a sacred sexuality relationship, three famous Tantric sex positions demonstrated, full-body expanded orgasms. Check out the full video version on

May 07, 2021
Orgasmapedia: 11 Different Orgasms

Your complete guide to all the orgasms, ever, that EVERYONE can have. 

Apr 30, 2021
Can a Relationship Recover After Infidelity?

The violation of trust in a relationship is one of the hardest things to recover from. Once broken, can you get it back? What if you could build back stronger and deeper than ever? 

Apr 23, 2021
Turn On in Bed: Turn On in Life

The connection between what happens in your bed, and what happens in life. More bliss in bed = more bliss in life.

Apr 16, 2021
The Holy F**k Part Two

Sex as a healing prayer. How to make love to all of creation. The life-giving power of worshipping at each other's genitals. Healing the future and the past with the power of your conscious, elevated, sexual connection. Get on your knees and pray. 

Apr 08, 2021
3 Ways to Have Sex without Intercourse

The more ways we can learn to penetrate each other, the better. Our bond grows deeper and our sexual repertoire expands. 

Apr 02, 2021
The Importance of Makeup Sex

After you have an argument, or any kind of significant separation with your partner, be if physical or emotional, one of the fastest ways to get back into the sweet spot of your love… is to get back into the sweet spot of your love. 

Mar 26, 2021
The Aphrodisiac of Truth

Grow or die? Grow or lie. The weight of unexpressed truth crushes libidos and our appetite for life. Radical honesty lights up our relationships and genitals. 

Mar 20, 2021
Your Vagina Is Money!

When you turn on your vagina, you turn on your life. As you wake it up and activate it to be the divine birth-er of all things, it does exactly that, energetically. It magnetizes opportunities, people, ideas and wealth. Right into your lap. Because that’s exactly what attracted them!

Feb 12, 2021
Sacred Waters of Ejaculate

Female ejaculation is real! And every woman can do it. "Squirting" has been found in texts all over the world, spanning centuries. Just like with the jade egg and vaginal strengthening, this is an art form that has been practiced since ancient times.Wild and wise vaginas are nothing new.

They just need a revival these days!

In this episode:

  • The sacred and ancient history of female ejaculation
  • The keys to gushing that no one ever talks about
  • How a woman learned to squirt in two days
  • An all-star interview with a woman who “shoots above her husband’s head and across the room”
  • How ejaculation feels: a profound, enlightening, transcendent and blissful experience

Feb 05, 2021
Ecstatic Nipple-gasms and Breast Orgasms

The elusive nipple and breast-gasm. How does it feel? What does it take to get there? Amanda shares how she went from having no orgasms at all, to having all the orgasms. All the time. Including ecstatic nipple and breast orgasms. 

Jan 21, 2021
A Tsunami of Lubrication

Wet, wet, wet. Wetter than wet. What is normal in Anami Land? Getting wet hearing your lover’s voice, even without touch. Having wetness of tsunamic proportions well into your 50s, 60s and 70s. Yes, this can be the New Normal for all.

Jan 15, 2021
New World OR-GASM
What kind of world are you creating?
Jan 07, 2021
Breakup and Breakthrough

The Anami guide to upleveling your life through your breakup. Use this opportunity and time between relationships to heal, cleanse and bring forth the best version of yourself to attract a high-vibration next partner.

Dec 17, 2020
Been Raped by Your OBGYN Lately?

It's more common than you think. In fact, it happens all the time, all day, every day, in American hospitals. Let's view the sordid world of OBGYN “medicine” to expose yet another heinous “just-another-day-in-the-life” practice they use all the time.

Nov 26, 2020
Birth Your Baby, Rebirth Yourself

The most powerful, wise and accomplished guide for your birth is your own body and intuition. Three stories of women rejecting the medical system and following their internal guidance to birth unassisted, emerging triumphant and reborn.

Oct 22, 2020
Breast Is Best

The bliss and the facts. Kim talks to Jennifer Grayson, author of Unlatched, on the epidemic of formula-fed babies with their decades of side effects, and how the breast truly is best. 

Oct 15, 2020
Wild Birth: Conscious and Orgasmic

The biggest high of a woman’s life is the ecstasy of childbirth. Elena Tonetti-Vladimirova shares her experiences with birthing women in the wild of the Black Sea in Russia, with dolphin midwives, and what it takes to clear the path to a blissful birth.

Oct 08, 2020
Radical Unschooling

Raising rebels and free thinkers. Unschooling is learning 7 years of math in 20 hours. Acquiring reading skills overnight. A child finding their zone of genius and easily turning that into a vocation. It's the opposite of the modern public school system.

Oct 01, 2020
Confessions of a Supercock MD

An MD Supercock shares his experiences in mastering the 3-hour sex date, infinite stamina, separating orgasm from ejaculation and helping patients find the missing piece in their mysterious ailments: sex. 

Sep 10, 2020
BDE: Big D*ck Energy

BDE is the confidence and self-love someone has when they have got the goods. A man can have BDE, regardless of the size of his physical c*ck. What can men do to step back into their masculine power and OWN that shit? 

Sep 03, 2020
10 Signs You Are a Sexual Master

When I posted this list on social media, these were the female responses: “I’m aroused now.” "💦💦💦"  “OMG this is perfect. Where can I get me one of these men? “I  think I may have had a mental orgasm reading and thinking about this.”  “There needs to be a dating site where men can show their graduation certificate from this course.” 

Aug 27, 2020
Sexual Healing for Men

We discuss the most common sexual blocks for men and Kim's top five solutions for healing and transformation to Supercock status. 

Aug 21, 2020
The Truth Virus

A deeper look at the symbolism in current events today. 

Aug 13, 2020
Single and Well-F**ked

Yes, you can still be epically well-f**ked, even without a lover. In fact, one of the most powerful things you can do to ATTRACT a high-quality partner, is to go f**k yourself. 

Jul 30, 2020
The Cock Whisperer
Jul 23, 2020
G Marks the Spot

G-Spot orgasms for all! We talk the elusive G-Spot orgasm and squirting phenomena. Hear from a woman who went from clitoral to G-Spot in a week! Come one, come all. 

Jul 16, 2020
A Deep Throating Love Song

Transformational, arousing, orgasmic! For her—and for him. Plus, throat-gasms. Activate your throat chakra to find your voice. 

Jul 09, 2020
The Libido Fairy

Everyone has a voracious sex drive. If it’s not apparent, then it’s buried under blocks, beliefs and trauma. The Anami Guarantee is that everyone can have this. 

Jul 02, 2020
The Psychedelics of Sex

Orgasms are my "gateway drug" to higher states of consciousness, awareness, self-realization, bliss and healing. 

Jun 26, 2020
Why is Sex Really Censored?

For millennia, the true power and pleasure of sex has been obscured. Why? Who would want to remove this knowledge and potent energy source from people, that they literally have at their fingertips? 

Jun 18, 2020
Your Life Matters

I've been asked to give my thoughts on current global racial events. Here they are. 

Jun 18, 2020
The New Normal

What's normal? Suicide-inducing periods? Removal of internal organs? A sterilized society? Or 60 cervical orgasms in a row? And eight-hour lovemaking sessions after which you want to run a marathon? What is your #newnormal?

May 20, 2020
I've Gone Viral. Again.

My latest viral sensation is taking over the world. Find out how you can go viral too! 

May 11, 2020
How to Be Original

What does it take to be an original, a game changer and a true leader? The only people who say "There is nothing original out there!" are people the tepid and boring. The rest of us are disrupting and creating as a way of life. What are our secrets?

May 08, 2020
Let's Have Tantric Sex

What is Tantra? Kim shares her own Tantric experiences and the history behind this 5000-year-old art, as well as techniques you can use tonight to experience deeper and more cataclysmic sex.

Apr 30, 2020
Energy Sex and Orgasms

How to have sex with your partner while they are across the room, or across the planet. Consciously exchange and feel energy with your partner and come to orgasm, without any physical touch involved. Here are five steps to get there.

Apr 24, 2020
Super-Power Couples

Practicing these techniques will take your relationship into the realm of superhuman. Where it is supposed to be. We'll talk to a Super-Power Couple and hear their secrets to ongoing passion. 

Apr 16, 2020
The Holy F**k

The spiritual and the sexual come together in the ultimate crucible of creation and transformation: the holy fuck. If sex doesn't change your life and self-actualize you, you're doing it wrong. 

Apr 10, 2020
Quantum Love and Healing with Dr. Bruce Lipton

Pioneer stem cell biologist Bruce H. Lipton, PhD was first to prove that "thoughts are things." He shows how thoughts and feelings have more healing power than any medicine. Also: lifelong passion and bliss are totally possible. Because science.

Apr 02, 2020
Men's Biggest Turn On

The insatiable, available and fully surrendered woman, owning her ecstasy, is soul food for a man. Learn what a man's single biggest turn on is, and what also drives him away. 

Mar 28, 2020
Sex, Intimacy and Immunity

Not only does amazing sex and orgasms boost your immunity, but the energetic, emotional and psychological actions of being loved, seen, penetrated, cherished and well-f**ked create a supersonic shield around you that repels negativity of all kinds.

Mar 20, 2020
Women's Biggest Turn On

“The most attractive thing a man can do is exactly what he says he’s going to do.” This is you key to the vaginal kingdom. It trumps everything. We talk today about what truly opens a woman to deeper love and orgasms.

Mar 06, 2020
V-Day Advice

Please just f**k the shit out of your girlfriend instead.

Feb 10, 2020
Lit Vagina = More Cash

Want to get rich? When you awaken and activate your vagina, and your creative, orgasmic energy will be at your fingertips to manifest whatever you want in your life.

Jan 30, 2020
Science and Myths of Jade Yoni Eggs

The normal, healthy baseline for vaginas is to be able to shoot ping pong balls, have multiple, ejaculating orgasms, be lubricating and full of libido well into your eighties. The jade yoni egg can help get you there.

Jan 24, 2020
5 Steps to Cervical Orgasms

What are cervical orgasms? How do they feel? How do you get there? These are the life-changing orgasms that all women can have. Hear from Sarah and her journey from religious oppression to now finding God—in her vagina.

Jan 16, 2020
Self-Healing Sexual Trauma for Women

Unless people clear out and heal their trauma, it’s very difficult to create healthy, powerful relationships and intimacy–with themselves or another person. Here's how to start and reconnect, own and love your sexual self.

Jan 10, 2020
Magical Menstruation

Prior to modern religions teaching that menstruation is impure and unholy, and allopathic views that it is inconvenient and disposable, menstruation was once considered a magical and powerful thing by cultures all over the world.

Jan 03, 2020
Real Cures vs. Obsolete OBGYNs

“Quack” is often the term given to describe unscrupulous, deliberately fraudulent, or too-lofty-and-not-justified claims from some kind of health product or service. Who is really peddling the snake oil these days?

Dec 20, 2019
What is "Free" Birth?

Women doin' it for themselves: birthing their babies without any outside assistance, except their partners. We talk why to free birth with Emilee and how with Hannah's story of birthing in her backyard tub, letting only her body and intuition guide her.

Oct 24, 2019
Birth Orgasms

“My birth was all of the orgasms I ever had, rolled into one” We talk pleasurable birth—your biggest orgasm ever! How orgasms and sexual self-knowledge are the ultimate preparation for orgasmic, all-natural birth.

Oct 17, 2019
Natural Birth = Ecstatic Birth

The best birth expert in the world? You. Women’s bodies are designed in a beautiful orchestra of hormones and biofeedback, to have blissful, orgasmic, self-actualizing birth experiences. It's only in interfering with that where problems are created.

Oct 10, 2019
Questions to Ask Your OBGYN

In the market for a new OBGYN? Here's the definitive guide to the questions you OUGHT to be asking of the profession that used to hang women upside down and apply a hot branding iron to "scare" a uterus back in place. Have things improved much since?

Oct 03, 2019
Natural Cock Enlargement

Is it really possible to grow cock? Organically? Learn my top five holistic methods for increasing length, girth and cock-fidence.

Sep 19, 2019
Supercock: Wild and Potent Erections

I know men in their 70s who still have raging erections and I know 20-somethings who take Viagra. What makes one erection legendary and the other limp? My top tips for cultivating powerful cock.

Sep 14, 2019
Orgasms without Ejaculation

Every man can learn how to separate orgasm from ejaculation, experience full-body ecstasy, plus have enough energy to run a marathon afterwards. Plus, we hear from a man who can have dozens of orgasms during his 14-hour sex dates.

Sep 06, 2019
Circumvent the Circumcision

Male circumcision has the same purpose as in females–to stop sexual pleasure. Kim interviews American Circumcision film director Brendon Marotta to discuss the facts: what this barbaric practice really does to men and how can they heal from it.

Aug 29, 2019
F*ck, Motherf*cker! Ft. Wim Hof

Kim and Wim wax poetic and uncensored on the ecstasy of sex, rewilding and using the tools at our disposal—breath, sexuality and the power of nature—to self-actualize. And have plenty of orgasms and break a few Guinness World Records along the way.

Aug 22, 2019
REAL Aphrodisiacs

A true aphrodisiac generates signs of sexual arousal—higher libido, increased lubrication, easier and longer-lasting erections and more sexual organ sensitivity. Chocolate and oysters? No. Herbs? Yes. Find out my top, scientifically-backed picks.

Aug 08, 2019
Anal Enlightement

There is a reason we call people “tight asses" or “anal retentive.” They’re in need of loosening up. A little anal en-light-enment is just what I prescribe to open, awaken and spiritually transcend when you feel stuck.

Aug 01, 2019
How to Have Vaginal Orgasms

EVERY woman is capable of deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, AFE zone, squirting and cervical orgasms. These are the orgasms that change your life.

Jul 25, 2019
Well-F**ked Weight Loss

Being well-f**ked is an amazing weight loss tool. Not only does a steady diet of good loving' fill you up, your potent sexual energy burns through all of your stagnant emotional and psychological "weight" at quantum speed.

Jul 18, 2019
BTE: Big Tit Energy

BTE is a tangible energy that reaches out and makes itself known before you even see a woman's physique: confidence and self-love, embodied. How can you cultivate it and reclaim your breasts as glowing orbs of light, whatever size they are?

Jul 11, 2019
Lead Like a Woman

How can you be a modern and feminine woman? Can you be career-driven and still be in your feminine power? A yang in the streets and a yin in the sheets…?

Jun 27, 2019
Myths of Menopause

Despite what you’ve been told—and the hormones you've been sold—menopause and beyond can still be a time of high libido, gushing lubrication and ecstatic sex. Without hormones or surgeries.

Jun 20, 2019

Multi-orgasmic, plenty of lubrication and the ass of a 20-year-old: This is the "new" aging, which is typically another area of normalized dysfunction and ill health. Embrace what is, but “what is” doesn’t need to be a substandard state of being. Rock it!

Jun 06, 2019
Attracting a Partner

How do you draw your ideal partner into your life? It's not what you think. Hear Kim's formula for attracting new love and two amazing success stories.

May 30, 2019
Don't Take It Lying Down

From pelvic exams to birth control, to the way most have been coerced into giving birth, women have been taking it lying down for a long time. Learn about how to take your reproductive power back and care for and heal thyself.

May 23, 2019
Sex + Creativity

One of the fastest roads to your creative genius is tapping into your sexual energy. As life-force energy, you can harness this power and channel it into your creative projects, your work and every area of your life.

May 17, 2019
Full-Body Orgasms

It feels as though every cell in your body is having an orgasm. Tingling, shaking euphoria that lasts for minutes, hours—even days! Afterwards you feel energized, rejuvenated and ready to run a marathon. Welcome to the wild world of full-body orgasms.

May 09, 2019
Expert Lingam Massage

Give your partner an ecstatic, transcendent penis massage. Benefits: More pleasure and sensation; stronger erections and orgasms; feeling more consciously connected to his sexuality; help to heal sexual trauma and disconnect.

May 04, 2019
Pussy Shiatsu

Spending focused time, touch and attention on each other’s genitals is profoundly hearing and awakening. Learn how to give a healing, awakening and arousing pussy massage.

Apr 18, 2019
Conscious Monogamy

Is it possible to be in a committed, sexual relationship with one person? For years and decades? And for the sex continue to be amazing the whole time?

Apr 12, 2019
One Person Wants to Grow

When happens when you are focused on growth and your partner isn't? What can you do to invite them forward? Can you realize your full potential in a relationship where both people aren't committed to their evolution?

Apr 05, 2019
Are You Lovers or Roommates?

Are you “great partners and buddies” who work really well together at the business of raising a family and running a household? Or is the core of your relationship heart-shattering, soul-renewing, cosmic passion from which all else flows?

Mar 29, 2019
30-Day Sex Challenge

Sex is the glue in your relationship, but couples often forget this. Thirty days of loving touch will help you to remember. Yes, singles, you too can—and ought to—do this as well.

Mar 21, 2019
Gourmet Sex

Gourmet sex is when you bring all of your deepest parts to the table. Your heart and your genitals. You are open. You let yourself be seen. This is the kind of sex that changes your life.

Mar 14, 2019
Kim's Health Hacks

Even though one of my biggest health hacks has to do with a deep and abiding love of eggplants, there are many other things I do, eat and rub all over me on a regular basis. In this episode, I share my favourite tools for daily enlightenment.

Mar 08, 2019
Crystals for Epic Sex

Crystal medicine is the new—and ancient—frontier of DIY natural healing. 

Learn which are the best crystals for improving libido, erections, lubrication, ejaculation, orgasms, and healing sexual abuse. And how to best use them.

Mar 01, 2019
The Sex Weekend

Imagine a whole weekend that’s all about…sex. With a partner. Or by yourself. No digital screens. No alarm clocks. Unplug. Shut out the distractions of the busy, noisy world. Massage. Soak in a tub. Swim in the ocean. Have sex multiple times a day.

Feb 22, 2019
The Solo Sex Date

You can have an incredible sex life…even if you’re single. Learn my consciousness-expanding, self-pleasuring techniques to amplify your sexual energy and magnetize your deepest desires of love, creativity and abundance.

Feb 14, 2019
The 3-Hour Sex Date

A pillar of my professional—and personal—philosophy is to schedule a 3-hour sex date every week. This becomes the sanctuary and refuelling station in your relationship and can nourish and rejuvenate you through your entire week. We discuss what it looks like, why three hours specifically and how to do it, do it, do it.

Feb 08, 2019
The Art of the Vaginal Handjob

Your vagina is meant to be strong, articulate and highly pleasurable: to both you and your partner. “Pompoir” is the ancient art of cultivating vaginal stroking so as to make a man ejaculate or stop him from ejaculating—with the power of your vagina alone. Having a powerful, articulate, consciously aware vagina is also a metaphor for how you live your life.

Jan 31, 2019
SOS: Save Our Reproductive Organs

We are in the midst of an epidemic. Women are losing—and voluntarily parting with—their reproductive organs at an alarming rate. Breasts, cervixes, uteruses. Are they really so disposable? Is organ removal really necessary? Are there other ways to remedy these issues? Yes!

Jan 25, 2019
Vaginal Ping Pong Balls are Normal

These days, so much dysfunction has become normalized. My assertion is that multi-orgasmic, ejaculating, ping-pong ball shooting vaginas are the norm, not the exception.

Jan 16, 2019
Vaginal Air Guitar

Learn about the most effective, OBGYN-endorsed, vaginal workout on the planet.

Jan 10, 2019
Origins and Orgasms

Tales of my evolution and orgasms to be the chandelier-vaginal-weight-lifting maestro I am today.

Jan 02, 2019