Today, I sit down with Stephan Labossiere to talk about breakups and relationship building. We exchange thoughts on the importance of emotional maturity and how it greatly helps couples resolve misunderstandings, the reasons most relationships are dubbed challenging and difficult, understanding what a love cycle is and how emotionally damaging it is, and healing your trauma and working on yourself first are the first steps to attracting the right partner.    

Stephan Labossiere a.k.a Stephan Speaks is a man on a mission, and that mission is to make relationships happier and more fulfilling. As a certified relationship coach, a speaker and author, Stephan seizes every opportunity to help both men and women overcome the challenges that hinder their relationships. Some of his most popular books are Love After Heartbreak, He's Lying Sis: Uncover the Truth Behind His Words and Actions, and The Man God Has For You: 7 Traits To Help You Determine Your Life Partner.

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:40 What are the signs that someone deeply loves you?
• 04:01 Both partners need to be emotionally ready to grow love
• 08:56 Compatibility is about two people co-existing in harmony
• 13:10 How do you differentiate connection and chemistry, and what stage are you in?
• 16:51 Is anything that is not sustainable not healthy for any relationship?
• 21:15 Allowing children to discover themselves and their interests helps them become more self-aware
• 24:16 Why are most relationships difficult and become a continuous struggle?
• 29:13 The love advice you’ve probably heard but shouldn’t practice
• 34:07 Why do you need to nurture both of your masculine and feminine energy?
• 43:23 This is how you test the compatibility you have with your partner
• 46:42 Learn about the unhealthy love cycle that often causes relationships to fail
• 55:14 Aim to become the best you and you start to attract the right person
• 58:16 Focus on the healing from everything that you’ve been through, not just from your breakup
• 01:05:42 Stephan on Final Five  

Episode Resources

• Stephan Labossiere | Website
• Stephan Labossiere | Instagram
• Stephan Labossiere | YouTube
• Stephan Labossiere | Twitter
• Stephan Labossiere | Facebook
• Stephan Labossiere | TikTok
• Stephan Labossiere | Books

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Today, I am going to share with you the conversation I had with Rich Roll in his podcast. I talk about my experiences as a monk and share insights on meditation, mindfulness, and conscious capitalism. I also talk about the double-edged sword of social media and how it can be used for good. Our conversation also touches on the topic of happiness, and I provide tips on how to reframe one's perspective on life. We should reflect on one's passions and expertise, find patterns in one's life, and create an environment for opportunities to come later.    

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:30 Finding a life-long partner takes a lot of work, dedication, and time
• 08:55 "If you can't explain something simply, you don't understand it well enough."
• 11:47 Growing up in London bullied for being overweight and dealing with a rebellious phase 
• 15:42 Discovering your passion and finding a different path for yourself
• 19:48 Finding inspiration in someone you least expect and pivoting from your current journey 
• 30:50 Getting the chance to live both options of life: monkhood and real life
• 38:11 What is it like to live a life in service to others?
• 46:40 Here is a glimpse of how a monk lives day to day
• 50:43 This is how monks train themselves to avoid the follower mentality
• 55:18 There are an infinite of seats in the theater of happiness, you just need to find your own seat
• 57:26 How do you find your passion and what you can do to genuinely identify them.
• 1:05:32 Asking the right questions to help develop self-awareness and positive intuition 
• 1:09:44 “When you protect your purpose, your purpose protects you.”
• 1:19:29 Venturing into the social media space and finding a career opportunity
• 1:22:34 The truth about detachment and you can use it to your advantage
• 1:25:56 Jay explains the process of purification
• 1:29:39 Maintaining a routine can be hard but it is a beneficial practice
• 1:36:24 Disengagement is the beginning step of re-engagement  
• 1:42:55 The three things we aren’t aware of -  Element, Environment, and Energy
• 1:49:23 Jay explains the different relationship tools for a healthy partnership

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Today, I sit down with Dr. Will Cole to talk about self-care. He shares the essential aspect of maintaining good physical, emotional, and mental health, the truth about eating foods that will "love you back", and how taking care of our gut health is one of the leading ways to improve our health and well-being.  

Dr. Will is a leading functional medicine expert who consults people around the globe and started one of the first functional medicine telehealth centers in the world over a decade ago. Named one of the top 50 functional and integrative doctors in the nation, Dr. Will provides a functional medicine approach for thyroid issues, autoimmune conditions, hormonal imbalances, digestive disorders, and brain problems. He is also the host of the popular The Art of Being Well Podcast and the New York Times bestselling author of Intuitive Fasting, The Inflammation Spectrum, and the brand new book Gut Feelings: Healing the Shame-Fueled Relationship Between What You Eat and How You Feel.

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:04 Dr. Cole explains why we shouldn’t ignore our gut health.
• 05:47 Truth is just because it’s common doesn't necessarily mean it’s normal.
• 08:21 What is shame-flammation and how it affects our lives?
• 11:51 The 4 food ingredients that are likely to disrupt the microbiome.  
• 15:24 Be an empowered patient and know that you have a choice.
• 16:55 What happens in your body when you drink alcohol regularly?
• 24:25 To achieve positive results, you have to start with the right headspace.
• 31:14 Here’s the trick to using food as a mindfulness tool. 
• 35:40 The science behind the condition we often refer to as hormonal problems.
• 39:39 Dr. Will explains the different conventional tests incorporated in functional medicine.
• 43:39 What is the approach to food when it comes to functional medicine?
• 50:34 Dr. Will on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Dr. Will Cole | Website
• Dr. Will Cole | Instagram
• Dr. Will Cole | YouTube
• Dr. Will Cole | Twitter
• Dr. Will Cole | Facebook
• Dr. Will Cole | TikTok
• Dr. Will Cole | Books
• The Art of Being Well Podcast

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Today, I am going to share with you the conversation I had with DJ Envy, Charlamagne tha God, and Angela Yee from The Breakfast Club. We discuss what it takes to be truly happy, the practice of mindfulness, processing the thoughts in your head to truly understand yourself, and finding your true purpose in life.    

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:17 Becoming a monk - What can you learn from monkhood?
• 04:00 Self mastery is purifying yourself from your ego.
• 06:26 What happened next after leaving the monk life?
• 10:34 Sharing mindfulness practices to help relieve stress in any workspace
• 12:44 The many benefits of meditation that people don’t realize
• 14:25 There is more to proper breathing when it comes to meditation
• 17:12 Here’s how you can safely and properly practice meditation
• 20:58 Change the way you look at things and everything else will change for the better
• 23:52 Finding purpose after getting rejected and not losing sight of your goal
• 29:55 Learning more about life by talking with people from different backgrounds
• 33:56 When it comes to meditation, start with the amount of time you can
• 37:29 Finding balance in the pros and cons of social media
• 39:29 The 5 habits to help you start improving your daily life
• 43:29 Let’s meditate

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Today, I sit down with the one and only Macklemore to talk about recovery, healing, and choosing to live a better life. We start with being self-aware and how this is helpful in cleansing yourself to recovery, the endless battle with self-hate and how to put your focus on self love instead, how success can also mean finding the willpower to change yourself and become someone better. We end the conversation by talking about authenticity and setting new goals for a better life.    

Macklemore is a multi-Platinum and Grammy award-winning artist, who's made history with a combination of commercial success, critical acclaim, and international appeal with a total of 12.8 billion combined streams to date. He is one of the most successful independent artists of the 21st century and he's consistently used his art and platform to raise awareness around issues of addiction and recovery. 

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:32 Why is it important to cut out the noise when there is a constant narrative of who you should be? 
• 04:50 Despite the success, it’s easy to fall into the trap of addiction while being plagued with fear.
• 09:13 Addiction is like an allergy and this is the reason why.
• 11:50 It came down to choosing between life and death, and a choice had to be made.
• 16:43 Service is a pillar in the recovery community.
• 22:30 The darkness is always there and it can creep at you anytime.
• 28:28 When you mistake the numbness you feel as peace and then find a more sustainable way to experience inner peace.
• 31:46 Macklemore shares what it felt during his near death experiences.
• 34:45 Sometimes a supportive partner is all you need to pull yourself out of the rut.
• 44:38 Rediscover who you are as a person and the different ways to accomplish this.
• 50:09 How do we ‘normally’ size people up or gauge success?
• 51:16 Think Out Loud - how Jay started how mission to make wisdom go viral
• 57:17 Macklemore answers the question, “How would you define success now?”
• 01:03:07 Authentic art cannot be manufactured because you can’t fake authenticity.
• 01:12:25 Setting goals to help change yourself and lead a better path in life.
• 01:17:58 Ben on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Macklemore | Website
• Macklemore | Instagram
• Macklemore | YouTube
• Macklemore | Twitter
• Macklemore | Facebook

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Today, I’m speaking to Rayna Greenberg and Ashley Hesseltine who share their thoughts on dating and relationships. They take turns in talking about their best and worst dates, the general struggles most women have while dating, how to get through a difficult breakup - the do’s and don’ts - and the subtle dating red flags that are often missed.  

Rayna and Ashley of the "Girls Gotta Eat" podcast. The podcast was launched in 2017 and has since become a popular destination for listeners who enjoy discussions about dating, relationships, sex, and women's experiences in these areas. Each episode features the two hosts discussing their personal experiences, sharing dating and relationship advice, and answering listener questions. The podcast is known for its humorous and relatable approach to these topics, as well as its frank and honest conversations. In addition to offering advice, the hosts also interview guests who are experts in various aspects of dating, relationships, and sex, such as therapists, sex educators, and relationship coaches. Overall, "The Girls Gotta Eat" is a lively and entertaining podcast that provides a unique perspective on the ups and downs of dating and relationships for women.

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:18 Rayna and Ashley talk about settling into LA and what’s been going on for them since moving in.
• 04:09 What defines a good date?
• 06:32 Many relationships may be great on the phone, but some don’t work after meeting up.  
• 15:41 How do you manifest your dream date and what can you bring into the relationship?
• 22:00 Success can be intimidating and this is why it's challenging to date when you’re successful.
• 27:24 The early mistakes we make when dating and how to avoid them.
• 29:25 This is why our happiness shouldn’t depend on other people and start learning to enjoy every moment in our life. 
• 32:16 Common practices of happy couples and why they work so well. 
• 35:16 Rayna and Ashley share their thoughts on lovers becoming friends and vice versa.
• 39:11 How do you deal with a breakup?
• 45:00 The hidden messages many of us don’t see that often leads to the relationship breakup.
• 47:01 Pay attention to these commonly missed red flags because not all relationships are the same.
• 51:19 Having children is a choice, Rayna and Ashley share their stance on the topic.
• 59:58 What options do we have when we’re at the end of our lives?
• 01:03:24 Girls Gotta Eat on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Girls Gotta Eat | Website
• Girls Gotta Eat | YouTube
• Girls Gotta Eat | Instagram

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Today, I sit down with my friend Lewis Howes to talk about finding the courage to work on ourselves a little bit more. We share ideas on the dealing with the different seasons in our life and being present in each season, the level of discipline you have for yourself determines the outcome of goals you’ve set your mind and heart into, getting unstuck of the same pattern of familiarity that hinders personal growth, and the misconception of greatness and how it always starts within you.   

Lewis is a lifestyle entrepreneur, high performance business coach, a New York Times best-selling author, 2x All-American athlete, and keynote speaker. He hosts The School of Greatness podcast, which was launched in 2013, where he shares inspiring interviews from the most successful people on the planet—world-renowned leaders in business, entertainment, sports, science, health, and literature. 

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:What did it take Lewis to finally focus on the path to healing?
• 10:04 This is how it felt growing up in a family with financial limitations.
• 14:46 When you finally find the courage to work on yourself, you become more authentic.
• 19:30 What is the difference between motivation and discipline?
• 23:21 Lewis explains what role our inner emotional state plays in our success.
• 25:45* The 3 P’s to help you figure out what you want to do with your life.
• 33:50 How does discipline keep you organized and focused on your mission?
• 36:37 What is the right way to get ready even when you don’t want to do it?
• 39:44 Why do we always get stuck in the same pattern of familiarity?
• 43:53 This is the reason why the fear of failure stops us from trying and doing our best.
• 50:48 The misconception about greatness that we don’t know about. 
• 58:39 The more you become for others, the brighter your own path will be.
• 01:08:26 What are you looking forward to this year?
• 01:11:48 What does it truly mean “to live in the season that you have reached?”
• 01:14:50 Stop doing other things and start focusing on the person you are becoming.  

Episode Resources

• Lewis Howes | Website
• Lewis Howes | Instagram
• Lewis Howes | Twitter
• Lewis Howes | YouTube
• Lewis Howes | Books
• The School of Greatness Podcast

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Today, I am going to share with you another snippet from my latest book, 8 Rules of Love. This time, we will talk about solitude. My focus is on the importance of solitude in our daily lives and how it can help us love ourselves better. Rule #1 - Let Yourself Be Alone outlines a three-stage process for transitioning from loneliness to solitude, starting with being present with yourself and moving towards developing confidence in areas of personal growth. It also emphasizes the importance of self-control and patience in the process of learning solitude and understanding our complexity, and embracing the idea that being alone can be transformational.

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.   

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:28 Solitude: Learning to Love Yourself
• 02:57 Rule #1: Let Yourself Be Alone - and learn to find solitude in your daily life. 
• 09:41 Solo Audit - Finding out how you want to spend your time alone.
• 17:49 The Path From Loneliness to Solitude
• 18:44 Stage #1: Presence - The first step to making use of solitude is being present with yourself.
• 23:32 Stage #2: Discomfort - There are 3 different ways to get used to being alone.
• 27:55 Stage #3: Confidence - The 5 growth areas of life you can recheck and see whether you need to change or not.
• 30:22 For change to happen, start with identifying your biggest growth area. 
• 33:09 Here’s how to develop a growth plan using the 3 C’s of transformation.
• 36:18 One Mind - This is how solitude allows us to understand our complexity.
• 42:57 Why self control and patience are the two key skills when learning solitude?
• 45:46 A Whole Self - It’s not always about looking out for our better half and this is why.

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Today, I sit down with my good friend Marianna Hewitt to talk about a range of topics related to self-care, mental health, and the challenges of being a content creator. She emphasizes the importance of finding a morning routine that works for you, rather than following what works for others. She also discusses the concept of creator burnout and the importance of prioritizing your mental and emotional wellbeing over views and clicks. Additionally, she touches on the importance of quality friendships and the challenges of running a company. 

Mariana Hewitt is the leading voice in social media and the co-founder of Summer Fridays, the skincare brand whose iconic jet lag mask became an instant bestseller. Marianna is also the host of her own podcast Life with Marianna, the number one fashion and beauty podcast. 

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:19 What is your earliest memory as a child?
• 06:44 The reason why we react differently when presented with similar situations.
• 08:42 The advantage of becoming a parent when you’re fully ready.
• 12:08 This is why you should never rely on anyone for anything.
• 15:41 Marianna shares the life lessons she learned from her parents.
• 18:11 Pursuing the passion for sharing things that you love with an audience.
• 20:59 Every job and experience brings about different learnings.
• 23:24 Falling into the trap of chasing virality.
• 28:54 Marianna explains the balance of having a time off to avoid burnout.
• 33:45 Surround yourself with a group of people that resonates with your core.
• 35:29 Do you really want to run a business because you want to build a company?
• 40:05 Think about what you are uniquely good at.
• 44:23 How do you decipher what you think is important and what’s truly important to you?
• 47:18 There’s got to be a reason why successful people have morning routines and do journaling.
• 50:57 What are you looking forward to in the years to come?
• 53:06 Let’s focus on taking care of our brain health.
• 01:00:00 You can be two opposite things and still be happy. 
• 01:01:24 Marianna on Final Five 

Episode Resources

• Marianna Hewitt | Instagram
• Marianna Hewitt | YouTube
• Marianna Hewitt | TikTok
• Marianna Hewitt | Twitter
• Marianna Hewitt | Website
• Summer Fridays  

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Today, I am going to share with you a conversation I had with serial entrepreneur, author, podcast host, and inspirational speaker Ed Mylett. In this interview, I talk about why we should build and practice a morning routine to help incorporate positivity in our day, the two opposite sides of ego that we don’t know about, and how being in service of others is a reflection of inner self.   

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:18 Jay explains how we can create calm instead of looking for it.
• 05:10 What am I going to learn from a monk?
• 09:04 Digest this: Plant trees under whose shade you do not plan to sit.
• 11:36 How to avoid becoming the person you think other people want you to be. 
• 15:01 The two lies we’ve been told growing up.
• 20:19 The 3 core aspects to incorporate in your morning routine.
• 28:09 Jay talks about the two opposite sides of ego.
• 30:27 What it means to find yourself when you lose yourself in service of others.
• 34:02 How do you take control of something you can’t control?
• 37:51 The monk life teaches you how to be child-like.
• 41:18 Do this if you want to start living a better life.  

Episode Resources:

• Ed Mylett | Website
• Ed Mylett | Instagram
• Ed Mylett | YouTube
• Ed Mylett | Books 

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, let’s welcome Dr. Andrew Weil, a world renowned leader and pioneer in the field of integrative medicine. Combining a Harvard education and a lifetime of practicing natural and preventive medicine, Dr. Weil is the founder and director of the Andrew Weil Center for Integrative Medicine at the University of Arizona, where he is a clinical professor of medicine and professor of Public Health. A New York Times bestselling author, Dr. Weil is the author of 15 books on health and wellbeing. He is also the founder and partner in the growing family of True Food Kitchen Restaurants. Dr. Weil's current project includes matcha.com, bringing the world's best matcha to the West.

Dr. Weil talks about the benefits of integrative medicine to help treat the mind, body, and soul. He also shares his expertise on the common causes of inflammation, how to combat cognitive decline, natural remedies to keep the mind active and relaxed at the same time, and the superfoods that we should incorporate more into our daily diet.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:20 Do you know the first rule of healthy eating?
• 07:24 Dr. Weil shares some of the superfoods we can incorporate in our daily meals.
• 11:52 The amazing growth of matcha tea worldwide.
• 16:52 Let’s talk about the green mediterranean diet.
• 18:07 Did you know that cooking oils are processed differently?
• 24:47 Let’s talk about cannabis and its medicinal use.
• 30:41 This is how cannabis preparation has drastically changed over the years.
• 36:17 What are psychedelics and how can one have a positive experience with it?
• 42:02 Minimizing the risks and increasing the potential benefits of psychedelics.
• 44:36 Dr. Weil on empathogens and the promising results of this type of psychedelic.
• 48:10 Is there a spiritual potential to psychedelics?
• 51:16 The most common effects and benefits of psilocybin.
• 53:44 Another psychedelic variation we can learn more about.
• 59:05 This is what you should stop drinking alcohol
• 01:01:21 Let’s talk about the book: Chocolate to Morphine
• 01:03:33 There is a wide range of mind-body interventions and its possible connection to spirituality.
• 01:07:18 Born with the fascination of the mind and body wellness

Episode Resources

• Dr. Andrew Weil | Website
• Dr. Andrew Weil | Twitter
• Dr. Andrew Weil | Instagram
• Dr. Andrew Weil | Facebook
• Dr. Andrew Weil | YouTube
• Dr. Andrew Weil | Books
• https://matcha.com/

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, let’s welcome Raquelle Stevens and Tanya Rad. Raquelle Stevens’ most recent work includes hosting and producing, Giving Back Generation. She also starred in the Apple documentary, Selena Gomez: My Mind & Me and the hit series, Selena + Chef. 

Tanya Rad co-hosts On Air with Ryan Seacrest, hosting iHeartRadio's Top 40 show, The Vibe, and creating community on her popular podcast, Scrubbing In. Raquelle and Tanya just released their new book, The Sunshine Mind. 

Raquelle and Tanya opens up about how to turn a possibly bad day into a good one, the beauty of giving love unconditionally and receiving the same amount of love in return, the imposter syndrome we all have, finding contentment wherever we are in life, and the huge difference between chemistry and character when it comes to your relationships.  

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:46 What makes a great day?
• 00:06:21 Define a bad day
• 00:09:58 Reaching out
• 00:12:33 Unconditional love
• 00:16:56 Why 100 days?
• 00:18:19 Overcoming imposter syndrome
• 00:28:59 Being comfortable in the uncomfortable 
• 00:36:36 Contentment
• 00:44:27 Be done with shame
• 00:50:29 Character over chemistry
• 00:54:19 The 200 dates
• 00:57:43 A partner of character
• 01:01:49 Discerning character
• 01:07:49 Raquelle & Tanya on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Raquelle Stevens | Instagram
• Tanya Rad | Instagram
• The Sunshine Mind: 100 Days to Finding the Hope and Joy You Want

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, we welcome back a very special guest, one who’s very dear to my heart, my other half, Radhi Devlukia-Shetty. Radhi and I sit down for our yearly check-in as we answer questions about relationships and marriage. Come join us and let’s discover the beauty of open communication, supportive partnership, and setting new goals together this year.  

This episode was shot at The Grove in Hertfordshire, U.K

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:04:18 What do you love most about each other?
• 00:08:38 What have you learned along the way?
• 00:13:25 Are you a parent, child, or partner?
• 00:20:05 When does your partner become annoying?
• 00:29:29 Your happiness is your perfection
• 00:38:05 Be a guru in your relationship
• 00:47:35 The things you no longer prioritize
• 00:53:55 Top 3 things you’re looking for in a partner
• 01:02:05 Going deeper into the relationship in less time
• 01:05:06 What are your goals this year?

Episode Resources:

• Radhi Devlukia-Shetty | Instagram
• Radhi Devlukia-Shetty | YouTube
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Today, I am going to share with you relationship red flags. There are warning signs that indicate potential problems in a romantic relationship. These can be behaviors or attitudes that are harmful or incompatible with a healthy relationship. It's important to be able to spot these red flags early on in a relationship so that you can make an informed decision about whether to continue the relationship. Pay attention to your gut feelings and listen to any concerns that your friends or family may have. Trust your instincts and if you notice multiple red flags, it may be time to reassess the relationship and consider whether it is a healthy and positive situation for you.  

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:02:09 Avoiding relationship red flags 
• 00:09:09 Red Flag #1: Saying “I love you” too soon
• 00:12:46 Red Flag #2: Pressure to have s*x
• 00:15:52 Red Flag #3: Talking about moving in and starting a family
• 00:20:18 Red Flag #4: Gaslighting
• 00:21:34 Red Flag #5: Encouraging you to give up your passion
• 00:25:08 Red Flag #6: Talks about their ex-partner

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Today, I am talking to Robert Waldinger, a professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development, and co-founder of the Lifespan Research Foundation. Dr. Waldinger received his AB from Harvard College and his MD from Harvard Medical School. Dr. Waldinger is a practicing psychiatrist and psychoanalyst, and he directs a psychotherapy teaching program for Harvard psychiatry residents. He's also a zen master and teaches meditation in New England and around the world. And he is the co-author of the book, The Good Life: Lessons From the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness.

Robert shares his expertise on adult happiness. We go back and forth with our thoughts on the effects of chronically stressful relationships on our physical body as well as our mental and emotional health, why we should stop minding what people think about us and instead start checking in with ourselves, and the pros and cons of engaging in personal development and being open to changes.     

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:23 The pros and cons of remote conversations
• 00:05:16 This 75-Year Harvard Study
• 00:13:10 The three flavors of happiness
• 00:17:45 Turn to activities that are enlivening
• 00:20:18 We’re not trained to look inward
• 00:26:23 Take note of the things that are evolving 
• 00:35:32 When you’re living with people that causes you stress 
• 00:40:14 Active re-imagining of life from a different time
• 00:47:03 Chronically stressful relationships break down the body
• 00:53:30 Looking at the long view when dealing with relationships
• 01:01:00 Socio-emotional learning 
• 01:02:57 How do we keep our relationships in shape?
• 01:06:02 Security of attachment for introverts and extroverts 

Episode Resources

• Robert Waldinger | Website
• Robert Waldinger | Facebook
• Robert Waldinger | Twitter
• Robert Waldinger | LinkedIn

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I am going to share with you a snippet of my latest book, 8 Rules of Love’s introduction. The book is a powerful and thought-provoking guide to understanding the true meaning and importance of love in our lives. Included are my own personal experiences and wisdom, as well as insights from ancient spiritual traditions, to offer practical and actionable advice for cultivating deeper and more meaningful connections with ourselves and others.   

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:02:27 The difference between like and love 
• 00:05:31 Many forms of love
• 00:08:09 The Vedas
• 00:10:53 The Practice of Love
• 00:14:35 The First Ashram - Preparing for Love
• 00:15:42 The Second Ashram - Practicing Love
• 00:17:02 The Third Ashram - Protecting Love
• 00:18:00 The Fourth Ashram - Perfecting Love

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I am talking to Drew Barrymore. Drew is a talented actress, producer, and director, known for her roles in films such as "E.T. the Extra-Terrestrial", "Charlie's Angels", and "50 First Dates." She made her acting debut at the age of six in the film "Altered States" and rose to fame as a child star in the 1982 film "E.T." She has since established herself as a leading lady in Hollywood and has also produced and directed several films. In addition to her successful career in the entertainment industry, she is also an author and a businesswoman, with her own production company and a cosmetics line. Currently, she hosts the The Drew Barrymore Show, which debuted in 2020 and has been renewed for a fourth season this year.  

Drew shares her thoughts on being more empathetic, which means putting ourselves in others' shoes and treating them with kindness and compassion, why learning self-forgiveness is crucial for personal growth and healing, liberating or freeing yourself from mental, physical, or emotional constraints and can be achieved through self-awareness, self-care, and self-love. Prioritizing ourselves means taking care of our physical and mental well-being, setting boundaries, and making time for our own needs and wants. 

It is important to remember that we cannot pour from an empty cup, and taking care of ourselves allows us to show up fully for others.    

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:00:22 It was a new show and nobody wanted to talk
• 00:03:55 Starting out as a child
• 00:09:28 Being more kind and empathetic
• 00:16:55 Forgiveness and the ultimate form of liberation
• 00:23:50 Letting go of shame and guilt
• 00:27:14 Don’t stay stuck, get on with it
• 00:33:08 Having a sense of safety in your workplace 
• 00:37:59 How do you receive genuine love?
• 00:49:13 Invest in yourself
• 00:53:46 Today, who do you want to be?
• 00:57:43 Your gut is your body’s compass

Episode Resources

• Drew Barrymore | Twitter
• Drew Barrymore | Instagram
• Drew Barrymore | Facebook
• The Drew Barrymore Show | YouTube | TikTok

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I am going to share with you the reason that ultimately leads to losing that spark that was initially there at the start of the relationship. Although chemistry is important, for many, especially for relationships that didn’t last, it is not sustainable. And it does not provide a strong enough bond to keep the relationship going. Let’s find out what these scientific reasons are and the tips to turn things around to help improve and sustain the partnership you have right now.  

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:12 Why do we lose the spark in our relationship? 
• 00:04:27 We are addicted to having chemistry
• 00:07:40 Why the ‘bad boys’ seem more attractive
• 00:11:09 Reason #1: Transition from chemistry to character
• 00:15:53 Reason #2: From being a collaboration to a competition
• 00:23:10 Reason #3: Your partner will push you and challenge you

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I am talking to Lewis Hamilton, 7-time Formula1 world champion, with over a hundred race wins, considered the most successful F1 driver of all time. In 2014, Lewis won BBC's Sports Personality of the Year. Followed two years later by a position in Time magazine's 100 Most Influential People list. Lewis received both accolades for a second time in 2020 in a year that saw him become a leading voice in the global fight for racial equality. In doing so, he was recognized as British GQs Game Changer of the Year and Powerlist's Most Influential Black Person in the uk. Lewis is also a passionate activist for so many underrepresented groups and communities.   

Lewis shows us a different perspective on finding your own purpose and going after what you believe is morally right. We talk about how even the simplest things can help change the world, the power we give to our fears and how it’s stopping us from finding our truth, the benefits of being comfortable with your own thoughts, and learning how to declutter our life so we can find our spot in this world.      

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:11 The hardest thing you have to do to become who you are today
• 00:04:49 How school became traumatizing
• 00:10:13 Growing up with Dad figure
• 00:17:55 Success is really short-lived
• 00:22:39 We often live in fear of what people think
• 00:28:51 Is it lonely in the racing field?
• 00:42:26 When you’re too focused on one thing
• 00:44:24 Being comfortable with your own thoughts
• 00:48:58 Mission 44
• 00:50:38 Learning to be selfless
• 00:55:17 Trying to be better everyday
• 01:01:14 Lewis on Fast Five

Episode Resources

• Mission 44

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I am going to share with you the importance of having a work-life balance. It allows us to maintain a healthy relationship between our professional and personal responsibilities. Without a balance, we may experience stress and burnout, which can negatively impact our physical and mental health, relationships, and overall well-being. Additionally, a work-life balance can lead to increased productivity, job satisfaction, and better decision making, leading to better performance at work as well.

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:02:59 Are you experiencing burnout?
• 00:05:45 Work becomes stressful when we're not growing and learning at work
• 00:10:50 Those with good work-life balance are more productive
• 00:15:23 Continue to sharpen yourself
• 00:19:43 Spend time outdoors
• 00:25:12 Focus on the relationships at work as much as you focus on work

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I am talking to Mel Robbins. Mel is one of the leading voices in personal development and transformation and a New York Times Bestselling author. Her work includes "The High 5 Habit," "The 5 Second Rule," four #1 bestselling audiobooks, the #1 podcast on Audible, as well as signature online courses that have changed the lives of more than half a million students worldwide. Her groundbreaking work on behavior change has been translated into 41 languages and is used by healthcare professionals, veterans’ organizations, and the world’s leading brands to inspire people to be more confident, effective, and fulfilled.

This time, Mel generously shares her thoughts on why people are unhappy and steps they can take to find genuine and lasting happiness, how to deal with our inner voice that's focus on negativity, why dreams are called directional signals, and the truth behind the struggles most of us go through as adults.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:04:41 Why am I holding on to the things that are making me unhappy?
• 00:13:58 The constant drumbeat of negativity
• 00:21:56 Engaging in your own campaign of misery
• 00:36:50 Difference between dream and delusion
• 00:50:04 Parental mismatch
• 00:57:48 Girls struggle with crippling perfectionism
• 01:02:21 Confidence is the willingness to try
• 01:09:53 Why it’s easier to question how somebody’s changing
• 01:16:19 How to find happiness again
• 01:21:45 Verbal acknowledgement of the little achievements

Episode Resources

• Mel Robbins | Website
• Mel Robbins | Instagram
• Mel Robbins | YouTube
• Mel Robbins | Facebook
• Mel Robbins | Twitter
• Mel Robbins | Books
• The Mel Robbins Podcast

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Today, I am going to share with you different ways to strengthen your friendships. Becoming a good friend requires several key qualities such as trustworthiness, loyalty, and communication. Building relationships is always a pursuit in life, and learning how to strengthen every friendship you have can lead to having a better 2023 and becoming more connected to the people around you.

To grab a copy of my book, 8 Rules of Love, go to https://8rulesoflove.com/

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:09 How to be a great friend?
• 00:07:21 Tip #1: Always carry a snack
• 00:10:32 Tip #2: Invite more people to the table
• 00:13:38 Tip #3: Keep investing in your friendships
• 00:17:40 Tip #4: Try new things together
• 00:19:47 Tip #5: Go visit your school together
• 00:21:31 Tip #6: Don’t make it about you when they’re stressed

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I am talking to Kevin Hart. Kevin is an actor, comedian, author, investor, and CEO. Over the years he has become Hollywood’s box office powerhouse, opening ten films at number one at the box office with $4.23 billion revenue at the global box office. In 2020 Hart starred in “Die Hart,” the first production of its kind, created through his digital network, Laugh Out Loud, and Executive Produced through his production company, Hartbeat Productions. Kevin’s memoir, I Can’t Make This Up, debuted at number one on The New York Times Best Sellers List and remained on the Top 10 Nonfiction Hardcover Bestsellers List for ten weeks straight. Kevin’s digital network, the Laugh Out Loud Network, serves as a platform for emerging comedians and is home to two premium series which both feature Kevin – “What the Fit?” and “Cold as Balls.” 

We get to see Kevin’s serious side as he talks about self love and team effort. He places emphasis on the importance of focusing our energy on finding a solution rather than wasting time on the problem, how team effort is the foundation to all forms of success, why we should always consider both sides of the story, the beauty of cheering for others success and celebrating it with them, and how self love and self appreciation must start with you and not come from someone else.  

Truly, there is no shortcut to success. It is earned through hard work, clear purpose, surrounding yourself with the right people, and a multitude of self love.      

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:19 Looking in the mirror and being okay with yourself
• 00:07:38 Having parents that opens opportunities for you
• 00:13:06 Don’t focus on the problem, focus on the solution
• 00:20:45 It’s hard to see the good if you’re only seeing the bad
• 00:25:20 The simplest things came from an idea
• 00:35:12 Team effort is the foundation of success
• 00:43:19 Celebrate each other’s success
• 00:58:24 Talk to yourself
• 01:06:47 Looking at things with both lenses
• 01:10:16 You gotta learn it
• 01:15:12 Would you wish pain and suffering for anyone?
• 01:20:50 Critical thinking
• 01:25:27 There is no handbook to fame
• 01:29:56 Kevin on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Monsters and How to Tame Them
• Kevin Hart | Website
• Kevin Hart | Instagram
• Kevin Hart | Twitter
• Kevin Hart | Facebook
• Kevin Hart | TikTok
• LOL! Network

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How many times have you made goals and resolutions and they have just failed every single year? My prayer for each and every single one of you is to have a meaningful, fulfilling, purposeful 2023 so that you can transform your life.

This is a completely unique & different goal setting framework that you've never learned. Don't keep applying the same things that failed every year. A new decade needs a new approach and these are the tools needed to win the year!

To grab a copy of my book, 8 Rules of Love, go to https://8rulesoflove.com/

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:01:07 Framework for growth and goal setting
• 00:07:20 Step #1: Focus on the growth
• 00:13:12 Step #2: Observe your opportunities
• 00:18:33 Step #3: Build the ideal action plan
• 00:24:22 Step #4: Learn, launch, and love

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I am talking to Mark Hyman, MD. Dr. Hyman is the director of the Cleveland Clinic Center for Functional Medicine, and founder and director of The Ultra-Wellness Center. He is the bestselling author of numerous books, including Eat Fat, Get Thin, The Blood Sugar Solution 10-Day Detox Diet, and The Blood Sugar Solution. 

Dr. Hyman talks about the ultimate benefit of eating the right food for our body. He explains the right ingredients we need to be mindful of for optimal health, the core systems in our body responsible for keeping it healthy, how healing doesn’t just involve one aspect of the body but the entirety to reformat your system, and how our social circle affects our habits and can potentially change our behaviors. 

Indeed, eating right is equivalent to living well. We are what we eat, therefore, improving our eating habits is one of the secrets to longevity.        

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:02:27 The effects of ultra-processed food
• 00:07:19 What is aging us faster?
• 00:10:34 The foundational basics of self-care
• 00:20:26 Your social circle affects your habits
• 00:27:10 Link between inflammation and aging
• 00:35:44 Damaged proteins
• 00:41:44 Clean diet activates the body’s healing mechanisms
• 00:48:07 The power of a healthy diet
• 00:51:47 The core biological systems of the body
• 01:00:07 Dr. Hyman on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Mark Hyman | Website
• Mark Hyman | Twitter
• Mark Hyman | Facebook
• Mark Hyman | Instagram
• Mark Hyman | YouTube
• Mark Hyman | Books
• The Doctor's Farmacy Podcast
• The Ultra-Wellness Center

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Today, I'm joined by Haesue Jo, Licensed Therapist & Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp, with years of experience providing individual and family therapy in community mental health. Her current clinical focus includes working with individuals with a variety of presenting problems, including anxiety, relationship and family issues, trauma, community violence, gender identity, and depression.

In this session, we sit down with Ulato Sam as he talks about the challenges he had growing up, the hardships that comes when migrating into a new country as a person of color, overcoming the pressure of preconceived beliefs other people have, and learning the necessary skills and tools to be able to fend for yourself and still have the heart to help others.  

Disclaimer: Haesue Jo is not Ulato's actual therapist, and they are not in a therapist-client relationship.

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:02:32 Growing up in Jamaica
• 00:06:06 Not fully understanding self awareness 
• 00:14:33 Expressing your thoughts without perspective interference
• 00:17:33 The reality of moving into a new place
• 00:22:01 Motivation to overcome societal pressure
• 00:25:16 Where did you learn these skills?
• 00:28:01 The pressure of life never stops
• 00:32:00 “You should eat so as not to get hungry.”
• 00:36:45 We all grow up with different experiences
• 00:40:30 Tools we need to survive and thrive

Episode Resources

• BetterHelp

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Today, I am talking to Kanwer Singh aka Humble the Poet. Humble is a toronto-bred mc/spoken word artist with an aura that embodies the diversity and resiliency of one of the world’s most unique cities. He stimulates audiences with ideas that challenge conventional wisdom and go against the grain, with dynamic live sets that shake conventions and minds at the same time. Humble's latest EP titled Righteous/Ratchet features the first single H.A.I.R, a celebration of women of all shapes, sizes, hair and walks of life. His self directed video for H.A.I.R has amassed almost 2 million views since its release. The video features YouTube sensation and longtime collaborator, Lilly Singh. His first book Unlearn: 101 Simple Truths For A Better Life was published through Indigo Press in October 2017 and became Heather's Pick and has stayed on the Globe & Mail Bestsellers list since its release. Humble's next book Things No One Else Can Teach Us was released in the fall of 2019. 

Humble emphasizes the importance of making the relationship you have with yourself the best among all the relationships you currently have. This is because knowing your own self worth will make setting boundaries easier for you and for the people around you. We exchange thoughts on what makes us resilient, why self respect matters more than self-esteem, the constant validation we seek from others, and what makes love so simple.     

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:04:54 Why do we try to impress others?
• 00:06:46 Self-esteem versus self respect
• 00:12:27 What makes us resilient?
• 00:17:04 Not everybody’s going to like you
• 00:20:27 Be in relationship with yourself first
• 00:25:36 There can’t be love if there’s resentment
• 00:34:14 How to develop a healthy relationship? 
• 00:40:21 We are attracted to what’s familiar, not what’s healthy
• 00:54:46 Not getting a reward is not a punishment
• 00:58:47 When you’re in a romantic relationship with someone
• 01:06:45 Love is simple

Episode Resources

• Humble the Poet | Website
• Humble the Poet | Facebook
• Humble the Poet | Twitter
• Humble the Poet | Instagram
• Humble the Poet | YouTube

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Today, I will be sharing with you my conversation with Whitney Cummings from her Good For You podcast. In this conversation, we deep-dived into codependency and we also did the Vedic personality test from my book, Think Like A Monk, to help better understand yourself. 
If you want to pre-order the book, 8 Rules of Love, go to https://8rulesoflove.com/

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:01:07 Codependency
• 00:02:52 Giving is selfish
• 00:04:17 When does self-care become selfish?
• 00:06:24 Friendship is not obligatory
• 00:09:28 We all want an answer
• 00:11:29 Why we choose familiar pain over unfamiliar pain
• 00:13:19 Vedic Personality Test
• 00:15:16 Question #1: Which of the following sounds most like what you’re about?
• 00:16:31 Question #2: What role do you play in your friend circle and family?
• 00:18:42 Question #3: What is most important to you in a partner?
• 00:20:52 Question #4: What do you watch most often on TV?
• 00:25:31 Question #5: What causes you the most pain?
• 00:29:13 Question #6: What is your favorite way of working?
• 00:33:51 Question #7: How would your ideal self spend/spare time?
• 00:36:49 Question #8: How would you describe yourself in 3 words?
• 00:37:22 Question #9: What type of environment do you work best?
• 00:38:41 Question #10: How do you prepare for a vacation?
• 00:40:33 Question #11: How do you feel if you make a mistake?
• 00:45:23 Question #12: What do you do when you have to make a big decision?
• 00:46:52 Question #13: Which best describes your daily routine?
• 00:49:23 Results

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Today, I am talking to Roxie Nafousi. Roxie is an self-development coach, manifesting expert, author, ambassador for the Mental Health Foundation and Instagram Agony Aunt. Her commitment to transforming the lives of people who suffer with emotional and mental health issues, and helping them to fulfill their potential, has seen her become a well-known figure in the wellness world. She has hosted self love and motivational workshops and events for major brands as well as being a regular speaker on wellness and mental health panels both in and outside the UK.   

Roxie opens up about her past, her addiction, and how she found spiritual healing that eventually led her to a better path in life. We both shared our vulnerability as we talk about the real value of manifestation, the misconceptions surrounding it, how fear and doubt can hold us back from manifesting our goals, and how we can continue to manifest the goals we want to achieve alongside the priorities we currently have.   

Having clear goals will help us set a clearer vision of the future we want to have. And when we work hard to achieve these goals, its manifestation is put into action.    

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:10 When did your spiritual journey start?
• 00:07:43 Tapping in drugs and addiction
• 00:10:48 Manifesting the wrong things
• 00:14:07 How do we manifest negativity?
• 00:17:02 Devaluing the meaning of manifestation
• 00:21:43 Misconceptions about manifestation
• 00:24:27 Having clear goals
• 00:30:22 Fear and doubt
• 00:36:05 Self care through fear and doubt
• 00:41:23 Does manifestation and prioritization work together?
• 00:45:44 Mom guilt
• 00:50:01 Legally changing a name
• 00:54:24 Who you want to be
• 01:00:35 Being clear with your vision
• 01:03:14 What does envy represent
• 01:08:59 Finding joy in other people’s losses
• 01:11:53 Building self respect
• 01:16:45 Roxie on Final Five

Episode Resources

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• Roxie Nafousi | Facebook
• Roxie Nafousi | Twitter
• Roxie Nafousi | Website
• Manifest: 7 Steps to Living Your Best Life

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Today, I will be sharing with you seven questions you can ask yourself before the year ends to help you get a clear insight of how this year went, the ups and downs, the special moments, and the things you might want to do away or restart next year. These reflections will help you realize what you may want to do differently this new year.  

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:02:46 Question #1: What is the challenge that you’ve overcome this year?
• 00:06:24 Question #2: What’s a surprise you dealt with?
• 00:09:24 Question #3:What is something you bought this year?
• 00:11:45 Question #4: What’s the best book/podcast you read/listened to?
• 00:13:04 Question #5: What are your blind spots for next year?
• 00:14:03 Question #6: What made you the happiest this year?
• 00:16:14 Question #7: Who’s the person you couldn’t have gotten through this year without?

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I am talking to Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a licensed clinical psychologist in Los Angeles, CA, Professor Emerita of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. She is an author of several books including Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist, and “Don’t You Know Who I Am?”: How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility. The focus of Dr. Durvasula’s clinical, academic and consultative work is the etiology and impact of narcissism and high-conflict, entitled, antagonistic personality styles on human relationships, mental health, and societal expectations.   

Dr. Ramani shares her studies about narcissism and our narcissistic tendencies. She and I talk about how our personalities define how we act with people and around people, why narcissists are resistant to change and to how deal with one, the truth about gaslighting and why it is so unhealthy to the person at the receiving end, and why we shouldn't misplace our hopes in others and instead place it on ourselves.      

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:11 When did narcissism become a study of focus?
• 00:07:06 Narcissism is a very quiet condition
• 00:12:45 Awareness and discomfort
• 00:19:37 How do people end up with a narcissistic personality?
• 00:26:25 Narcissists can be very attractive
• 00:33:26 The concept of multiple truths
• 00:36:40 Love bombing
• 00:41:08 The real meaning of gaslighting
• 00:47:05 Dealing with a gaslighter
• 00:53:35 “I can change this person.”
• 01:00:07 Ultimate healing from a narcissistic relationship
• 01:04:31 Setting healthy boundaries
• 01:06:49 Adopting narcissistic patterns to be able to fight back
• 01:09:20 Misplaced hope

Episode Resources

• Dr. Ramani Durvasula | Website
• Dr. Ramani Durvasula | YouTube
• Dr. Ramani Durvasula | Twitter
• Dr. Ramani Durvasula | Instagram
• Dr. Ramani Durvasula | Facebook
• Navigating Narcissism with Dr. Ramani

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Today, I will be sharing with you three ways for you to break out of your comfort zone and the endless possibilities if you start following your curiosity. If you keep growing and stop being too comfortable, you will see yourself achieving a whole lot more.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:01:36 Prepare for the year ahead
• 00:02:11 Breaking out of our comfort zone
• 00:03:42 What is a good goal?
• 00:04:49 You learn in the uncomfortable moments & change your environment
• 00:07:57 When comfort creeps in
• 00:10:39 Figure out your blind spots
• 00:11:35 The uncomfortable became comfortable
• 00:13:08 Complacency and comfort lead to a crash
• 00:15:39 Be limitless
• 00:18:24 Follow your curiosity
• 00:21:58 Three things you need to do next year

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Today, I am talking to Trevor Noah. Trevor is the most successful comedian in Africa and is the host of the Emmy and Peabody Award-winning “The Daily Show” on Comedy Central. Under Trevor, “The Daily Show with Trevor Noah” has broken free from the restraints of a 30-minute linear show, producing engaging social content, award-winning digital series, podcasts and more for its global audience. He has written, produced, and starred in 11 comedy specials, including his most recent, “Trevor Noah: Son of Patricia,” which launched in November 2018 on Netflix. He is the author of the #1 New York Times bestseller “Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood” and its young readers adaptation “It’s Trevor Noah: Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood,” which also debuted as a New York Times bestseller.     

Trevor opens the conversation by sharing what it was like growing up, how he sees the rest of the world, and why it felt like it was okay growing up the way he did. We then exchange thoughts and perspectives on topics such as finding the true meaning of having a ‘home’, the type of friends we often surround ourselves with and why, finding independence in a completely new and foreign place, and being mindful of yourself and in one with your inner thoughts.     

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:02:18 Same story, same book but different meaning
• 00:05:33 Comparing your hardships to others experiences
• 00:09:27 “It was not bad because it happened to everyone.”
• 00:13:27 Are you forced to be grateful for everything?
• 00:19:13 The true definition of the word home
• 00:21:39 What is your purpose?
• 00:25:19 Who are your friends?
• 00:35:43 Becoming unrelatable to people
• 00:44:43 How does a monk fire someone?
• 00:46:48 What is your idea of safety?
• 00:52:30 When’s the best time to walk away?
• 00:56:37 Having conversations with yourself
• 01:03:37 When you leave home
• 01:09:25 The burden our parents unconsciously give us 
• 01:17:54 The Many Sides to Us
• 01:24:03 Trevor on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Trevor Noah | Shows
• Trevor Noah | Instagram
• Trevor Noah | YouTube
• Trevor Noah | Twitter
• The Daily Show with Trevor Noah

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Today, I will be sharing a snippet from my book, 8 Rules of Love, that talks about the three dates that truly matter in any relationship including finding common interest and have fun together, learning what your partner values and respecting their choices, and being open about future plans.     

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:03:01 The 3-Date rule
• 00:04:19 Having healthy and unhealthy disagreements
• 00:08:18 Personality
• 00:13:14 First Date: Have fun together
• 00:18:31 Second Date: Respect their values
• 00:25:44 Third Date: Share some ideas of the future

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Today, I sit down with one of my good friends, Jim Kwik. Jim Kwik is a widely recognized world expert in brain performance, mental fitness and memory improvement. After a childhood brain injury left him with learning challenges, Kwik created strategies to dramatically enhance his cognitive performance. He has since dedicated his life to helping others unleash their true genius and brainpower. is the author of the NY Times and #1 WSJ bestseller: “Limitless - Upgrade Your Brain, Learn Anything Faster, Unlock Your Exceptional Life.” Make sure to grab a copy here!

Jim tells us about the power of choice and how transformation is just like a butterfly inside a cocoon. He also talks about rejecting a limit from someone we love and how we can break free from a limitation.

This episode was filmed at Soho Works: 10 Jay Street. 

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:02:17 Is this limitation real or not?
• 00:05:02 Open mindedness vs. delusion
• 00:06:03 The power of choice
• 00:11:15 Limitations are safe
• 00:14:59 Transformation is like a butterfly
• 00:18:57 Reflecting on someone else’s life
• 00:22:11 Pain makes you present
• 00:24:05 Living slow-paced
• 00:26:27 Peace of mind
• 00:29:42 Having options
• 00:32:11 The Limitless Model
• 00:41:46 Rejecting a limit

Episode Resources

• Jim Kwik | Instagram
• Jim Kwik | YouTube
• Jim Kwik | TikTok
• Jim Kwik | Website

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Today, I'm joined by Haesue Jo, Licensed Therapist & Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp, with years of experience providing individual and family therapy in community mental health. Her current clinical focus includes working with individuals with a variety of presenting problems, including anxiety, relationship and family issues, trauma, community violence, gender identity, and depression.

This is the part two of a two-part series where I take the client seat and have a full therapy session with Haesue. In the first session, we talk about several sensitive topics including my childhood experiences, trauma, bullying, teenage struggle and so much more. Our focus for today’s session is relationships. We cover the unhealthy patterns that ruin relationships, what to do when you’re not getting the level of love and affection you are willing to give, learning how to read your partner’s emotional struggles and their efforts to make the relationships work, and how you can control your emotions by setting the right kind of boundaries.   

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:02:30 How do therapists monitor relationship building?
• 00:06:07 What do relationships mean to you?
• 00:11:02 If parents can articulate their thoughts well
• 00:12:21 Not getting back the same love you're giving
• 00:16:00 Why monks practice celibacy?
• 00:19:24 We love and express love in a certain way
• 00:26:56 Expecting your partner to just know
• 00:30:38 How do you know your partner is making an effort?
• 00:35:05 Overcompensating because of fear
• 00:40:24 What makes a relationship worth fighting for?
• 00:47:43 The 'WE' versus 'YOU' language
• 00:52:00 Not all things in the world is one-sided

Episode Resources

• BetterHelp

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I am talking to Joe Jonas. Joe rose to fame, alongside his brothers Kevin and Nick, as a member of the pop rock group Jonas Brothers. The band became one of Disney's prominent figures and even took the lead roles in the widely successful musical television film Camp Rock and Camp Rock 2: The Final Jam.    

Joe opens the conversation by sharing how he had come to love meditation and how this has helped him appreciate self love even more. We talk about his struggles as a solo artist, the realization that he needed professional help which eventually led to therapy which then led to the understanding that his feelings were valid. Joe is proud of his humble beginnings and how this affects our perspectives, becoming a husband and a father, and the value of staying connected to the people that you truly care for.      

This episode was filmed at Soho Works: 10 Jay Street.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:31 Creating a bond through meditation
• 00:08:35 When did you start to work on yourself?
• 00:17:02 Respect for individual creativity
• 00:22:25 Venturing into acting
• 00:26:18 Inspiration to develop a good work ethic
• 00:31:23 Humble beginnings is so essential
• 00:35:58 We’re each other’s best friend
• 00:38:41 Enjoy every moment with your child
• 00:41:28 An unforgettable experience with a therapist
• 00:43:27 What’s your daily routine?
• 00:47:08 An interview with Vanessa Bryant
• 00:49:37 Sometimes it better to reach out first
• 00:52:53 Keeping relationships as healthy as much as possible
• 00:57:29 Final Five with Joe

Episode Resources

• Joe Jonas | TikTok
• Joe Jonas | Instagram
• Joe Jonas | Twitter

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Today, I will be sharing four struggles that most people go through when they are in a relationship. It’s about the major stressors in many relationships, how we may currently be dealing with them, what we can do to break free from these struggles, and focus our strength on actions that enable our relationship to survive any challenge and stay strong.  

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:01:49 4 key challenges every relationships go through
• 00:03:41 Struggle #1: Technoference 
• 00:06:44 When you want your partner’s undivided attention, you communicate that
• 00:09:38 Put your devices away and make a commitment
• 00:10:40 Mirroring 
• 00:12:36 Struggle #2: Bringing work-stress at home
• 00:19:34 Struggle #3: Finances
• 00:22:33 Struggle #4: Chores

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Today, I am talking to a returning guest and good friend, Ray Dalio. Ray is the founder and co-chairman of Bridgewater Associates, which, over the last forty years, has become the largest and best performing hedge fund in the world. He is the author of #1 New York Times Bestseller and #1 Amazon Business Book of the Year, Principles. Dalio has appeared on the Time 100 list of the most influential people in the world as well as the Bloomberg Markets list of the 50 most influential people. He lives with his family in Connecticut.   

Ray genuinely shares the deepness of thoughts and what is his views on passing on your principles to others and picking up theirs and learn from it, the unappreciated value of journaling, knowing the right approach to having better relationships through thoughtful disagreements, the lessons we can learn from history, and the three things that mainly influence us and our society. We also exchange thoughts on asking approval and validation from others, how we react to others out of our emotional state, and how we can be of service to the world.        

This episode was filmed at Soho Works: 10 Jay Street.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:00 The first time you fear meeting someone
• 00:04:17 How did you develop clarity?
• 00:08:13 The smartness of your move determines the outcome
• 00:10:55 When did you start journaling?
• 00:18:19 The arc of life
• 00:21:08 The three people you must have in your life
• 00:25:12 The biggest problem of our society
• 00:29:50 How to win the debate of life
• 00:32:20 Looking at the sequence of discovering the truth
• 00:38:03 Three big things that influence us
• 00:47:00 The typical cycle for a new system
• 00:49:16 It’s more human nature than the system
• 00:57:26 Producing a reaction that becomes instinctual
• 01:03:36 Four important decisions we make in life
• 01:10:25 How do you approach money?
• 01:14:27 Don’t worry so much about the approval of others
• 01:20:27 Three practices of successful relationships
• 01:25:08 How do we serve the world?
• 01:27:56 What’s your view of love?

Episode Resources

• Ray Dalio | Books
• Ray Dalio | LinkedIn
• Ray Dalio | Twitter
• Ray Dalio | Instagram
• Bridgewater

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Today, we have another special Friday episode and this time it is an interview I had with Deepak Chopra from his Deepak Chopra’s Infinite Potential podcast. It is a conversation that revolves around finding success within you and ultimately achieving success by knowing yourself deeper and learning your purpose. We discuss how incorporating discipline in our life is one of the main catalysts of positive change, finding your purpose and having the right intentions to act upon them, and the benefits of surrounding yourself with the people that contribute to your personal growth.

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:01:09 It was always about how you did well at school
• 00:02:48 The tough ego façade 
• 00:06:44 Meeting the monk
• 00:08:58 Discipline is a key trait in our lives
• 00:14:38 Falling back into your old habits
• 00:18:16 Finding a way to spread purposeful intentions 
• 00:24:25 Difference between happiness and success
• 00:29:13 Be around people who can help grow yourself

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I am talking to a good friend and celebrity, Selena Gomez. Selena is a globally and culturally celebrated artist, actor, producer, entrepreneur, and philanthropist of her generation. As a recording artist, Selena has sold more than 210 million singles worldwide and has over 45 billion global streams. Her upcoming biographical documentary, Selena Gomez: My Mind & Me, is out right now. In 2019, she launched her beauty line, Rare Beauty, exclusively with Sephora. As part of the partnership, Selena announced the Rare Impact Fund pledging to raise $100M for mental health services for individuals in underserved communities. Philanthropy and activism have been key pillars of her career and she's used her platform to advocate for many important causes. Selena has raised millions of dollars for charity including Global Citizen and Lupus Research Alliance.   

Selena bravely tells her story about her long battle with mental health and how this led to her life mission to help spread mental health awareness around the world and provide mental health services for the less privileged. I get to deeply understand her inner thoughts on topics such as dealing with pressure of being a celebrity and the gossip that comes with it, finding self healing, embracing change, being one with your inner self, and living day by day being content, kind, and full of love to share. 

Life isn’t a simple journey, but despite the complications, challenges, and struggles, we can always find it in our hearts to tap into our inner good and be compassionate, especially to ourselves.   

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:04:21 Selena Gomez: My Mind & Me documentary
• 00:06:59 Sharing our darkest secrets with others
• 00:10:04 Befriending your own inner critic
• 00:13:39 Learning to be more compassionate towards yourself and others
• 00:18:59 Taking control of your own story
• 00:26:04 Getting asked frustrating questions
• 00:24:39 No one is perfect, even celebrities
• 00:27:40 How do you deal with imperfections?
• 00:33:03 Areas in your life that made you who you are
• 00:35:07 Embracing change
• 00:39:36 Mental health awareness
• 00:43:59 You have to be aware of people
• 00:48:10 How do you deal with fears?
• 00:51:23 What is your intention?
• 00:56:13 Sometimes parents project perfection around their children
• 00:59:57 Pain, suffering, growth
• 01:06:09 Wondermind - mental fitness
• 01:09:30 You’ll figure it out, keep going
• 01:12:18 Missteps parents may have taken
• 01:23:07 Producing the series 13 Reasons Why
• 01:27:50 Selena and Mandy on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Selena Gomez | Website
• Selena Gomez | Facebook
• Selena Gomez | Twitter
• Selena Gomez | Instagram
• Selena Gomez | YouTube

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Today, I’m going to share with you my interview with Vishen Lakhiani of the Mindvalley Podcast. It’s a very insightful conversation because we talk about my life as a monk & why refining your intentions for the day can help you improve your life.

I also talk about spirituality and how you can help someone to bring them in a transformational journey. Forcing someone to change their beliefs will be difficult especially if it’s already what they’ve believed for a long time, but with patience you can surely succeed.

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:32 Refining your intentions everyday
• 08:40 Creating in depth
• 11:55 Removing an identity attached to your ego
• 13:10 Jay’s tattoos
• 14:49 Spirituality is not separate from life
• 17:08 Meditation is an important part of the cloud
• 18:29 Relationships
• 20:37 Starting a spiritual learning
• 23:53 Those who love peace need to learn to organize themselves
• 26:52 Bringing someone else into a transformational journey
• 32:29 What’s next?

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Today I sit down with one of the most influential women in the tech industry, Susan Wojcicki. Susan Wojcicki is CEO of YouTube, the world’s most popular digital video platform used by more than a billion people across the globe to access information, share video, and shape culture. An early champion of online video who was instrumental in Google's 2006 acquisition of YouTube, Susan now oversees YouTube's content and business operations, engineering, and product development.

Susan shares to us her story from studying history and literature to being a tech icon. She also talks about the importance of balancing time at work and spending time with family, having her mom as an inspiration in her parenting, and why it’s necessary to practice supportive leadership.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:01:42 Start a YouTube channel
• 00:03:40 From a humanities major to being a tech icon
• 00:08:00 Sharing her garage to Google
• 00:10:24 Acquiring YouTube
• 00:14:17 Day in a life of a YouTube CEO
• 00:19:30 Supportive leadership
• 00:24:52 Celebrating the little successes
• 00:29:29 Diversity in tech industry
• 00:32:06 The future of tech
• 00:36:33 “Be persistent and not give up”
• 00:40:27 Her mom as an inspiration
• 00:45:33 Final Five with Susan Wojcicki

Episode Resources

• Susan Wojcicki | Instagram
• Susan Wojcicki | Twitter
• Susan Wojcicki | Facebook

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Today, I'm joined by Haesue Jo, Licensed Therapist & Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp, with years of experience providing individual and family therapy in community mental health. Her current clinical focus includes working with individuals with a variety of presenting problems, including anxiety, relationship and family issues, trauma, community violence, gender identity, and depression.

It’s going to be a little different today as I take the client seat and get a first hand experience of what it’s like to be in a therapy session. This is Part 1 of a 2-Part special episode and we open the conversation by talking about my childhood experiences - how it affects my adulthood, the memories that may seem as passing but are actually traumatic, and how these can possibly lead to repression of painful memories. Haesue also helps uncover the challenges surrounding racism, bullying, identity crisis, teenage struggles, and finding your safe space and security.  

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:36 Why therapists start with talking about childhood 
• 00:10:22 How did you feel about school in general?
• 00:16:26 Repression of painful memories 
• 00:25:16 How do you feel about being othered?
• 00:31:29 What I remember as a teenager
• 00:35:04 Choosing to be understood than be liked
• 00:42:59 Dealing with racism
• 00:50:12 Did you want to understand bullies? 
• 01:00:02 Can you change your identity?
• 01:02:55 When you have some form of security

Episode Resources

• BetterHelp

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I talk to Dr. Gabor Maté. A celebrated speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics, such as addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction; When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress; and Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder. He is also the co-author of Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in more than thirty languages.

Dr. Maté generously shares his deep understanding of childhood trauma, vulnerability, grief, and emotional distress. He explains what real trauma is and how time doesn’t necessarily lead to healing, how vulnerability is ingrained in us since we are young and the importance of these formative years to mold our emotional health, and the societal expectations we always try to meet but have never truly given us real fulfillment. We also exchange thoughts on dealing with grief, how we struggle to identify with the people we look up to, and how childhood experience varies for every child even when they are raised in a similar environment.

Trauma is a wound that has not fully healed which can be triggered at any point in our life so it matters that we are able to find a common ground and stay firm in what can give us healing, emotional stability, and happiness.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:12 How do you define trauma?
• 00:06:32 How is healing defined?
• 00:08:45 Time itself does not heal emotional wounds
• 00:11:38 We are all born vulnerable
• 00:13:55 The inherent expectations we all have
• 00:20:00 The societal standards we try to live up to
• 00:25:15 It’s not possible to love kids too much
• 00:29:35 Grief is essential for life
• 00:32:19 When the past dominates the present reactions
• 00:35:16 There is no healthy identification
• 00:42:11 Why are we set on things staying the same
• 00:44:38 No two children have the same childhood
• 00:50:19 The difference between loneliness and being alone
• 00:53:54 How do you see human nature?
• 01:02:24 Suffering has to be acknowledged
• 01:06:27 Getting closure and start moving on
• 01:10:04 Spirituality becomes commoditized
• 01:15:56 Dr. Maté on Final Five:

Episode Resources

• Gabor Maté | Website
• Gabor Maté | Instagram
• Gabor Maté | Twitter
• Gabor Maté | Books
• The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture

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Today, I will be sharing about setting boundaries in our relationships. When we aren’t used to setting them, we may find it difficult to start setting one. Having one makes us value our self worth so much more and will help encourage others to treat us with respect.

I start by talking about the consequences of breaking our boundaries, especially with the boundaries we had for our old self, how we should start becoming aware of them and build up new ones, and then start sharing these boundaries to our partner to let them understand where we stand. We also have the five types of boundaries we should start practicing.  

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:01:12 Setting boundaries in relationships
• 00:06:42 What happens when we break our own boundaries
• 00:07:14 Become aware of all your boundaries
• 00:09:15 Set your past behind 
• 00:10:07 Express your boundaries to your partner
• 00:16:40 Type #1: Friendship boundary
• 00:18:05 Type #2: Ideas boundary
• 00:19:29 Type #3: Financial boundary
• 00:21:18 Type #4: Alone time boundary
• 00:23:00 Type #5: Purpose boundary

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I talk to the one and only John Legend. John has garnered 12 Grammy Awards, an Academy Award, a Golden Globe Award, a Tony Award, and an Emmy award making him the first black man to earn an EGOT. During the course of John's career, he has released seven celebrated albums. His eighth studio album, Legend, which was released on September 9th, is out right now. John recently began the second leg of his critically acclaimed Las Vegas residency entitled Love in Las Vegas, which runs through October. And his MasterClass on songwriting has just been released.   

John openly shares his amazing journey as a songwriter, singer, and family man. We start the conversation with his childhood - from growing up in a Christina home, being homeschooled to transitioning into a public school and the challenges that come with it. Next, we dive deep into how community support plays a huge role in molding children outside of the home, the value of knowing what you want in life and finding the means to attain it and sticking to it, and the relentless pursuit of a career and build a family where love, care, and a safe space is prioritized.  

The hurdles may have been tough and the path may be unclear at some point, but John’s story is telling us to believe in what we can do and remain passionate about the things we love to do.   

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:07 Homeschooled
• 00:07:23 Transitioning into a public school
• 00:11:13 The strength of community support
• 00:14:21 Healing, recovery, and forgiveness
• 00:17:47 Creating stability at home
• 00:21:36 Focus on what’s important to you
• 00:29:06 Surrounding yourself with people you’re comfortable with
• 00:31:13 The truth about ego
• 00:35:19 Your partner gives the most honest feedback
• 00:39:20 Becoming a better partner
• 00:43:56 We never completely forget our trauma
• 00:47:52 Pursuing a career and building a family
• 00:51:29 Advocacy for better living opportunities for the society
• 00:54:35 What keeps you going?
• 00:56:27 Who do you want to collaborate with?
• 00:57:51 Inspiration don’t come everyday
• 01:01:08 John on Fast Five
• 01:04:47 John’s The Many Sides of Us

Episode Resources

• John Legend | Instagram
• John Legend | Twitter
• John Legend | Facebook
• John Legend | YouTube
• John Legend | Website

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Today, I’m going to talk about three aspects of love that affect our brain and the way we think. If we can understand how our brain processes these emotions, then we can become better at handling our emotions as well as our relationships. I start by explaining what these three aspects are, the chemical reaction that happens in our body when we feel them, and the ways we can improve how we handle these feelings. Come join me and discover what aspect you can gradually improve. 

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:39 Love and relationships affect the brain
• 00:05:34 Three ways feelings of love show up in the brain
• 00:05:58 Attraction
• 00:06:12 Lust
• 00:17:44 Attachment

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I talk to Vishen Lakhiani. Vishen is an author and entrepreneur in the ed-tech space. He is the founder of Mindvalley, an education technology company building a new model for human education that aims to give everyone the same quality of life. Mindvalley creates tech and platforms that power online academies in areas that traditional education ignores. These include mindfulness, personal growth, wellness, spirituality and more. His quest is to help move humanity to a more holistic, integrated education system that caters for the whole being.   

Vishen, joining us again for another soulful conversation, strongly believes that compassion is what gives us real and genuine happiness. As he explains why compassion is the foundation to achieving all things positive in our life, how self compassion reinforces self love which leads to self care, and the disciplines we must practice so we can attain genuine happiness. We also dive into the definition of sadness, changing our perspective to turn sadness into love and compassion, and the importance of having a vision of the future, of having a clear idea of the path you want to make and take.

No matter how far and long our life goals may be, self compassion and being compassionate towards others will eventually lead to having a peaceful, content, and well-meaning life.  

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:31 What was your first meditation experience?
• 00:06:53 How do you use meditation in your life?
• 00:13:18 Compassion is something you do for yourself
• 00:18:48 When did we lose compassion?
• 00:22:03 Compassion as a technique and a quality of being
• 00:24:08 What is happiness?
• 00:28:40 Channeling sadness into love and compassion
• 00:29:53 How do you stop sadness from turning into guilt?
• 00:33:45 How to avoid having narcissistic tendencies
• 00:35:34 Have a vision for the future
• 00:42:21 Don’t get held back by old things
• 00:47:46 What defines a good meditation?
• 00:50:02 Testing the parameters of your destiny

Episode Resources

• Vishen Lakhiani | Website
• Vishen Lakhiani | Facebook
• Vishen Lakhiani | Twitter
• Vishen Lakhiani | Instagram
• Vishen Lakhiani | YouTube
• Vishen Lakhiani | LinkedIn
• Vishen Lakhiani | Books
• The Mindvalley Podcast

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Today, I’m going to share with you my first ever public interview with my friend Tom Bilyeu of the Impact Theory podcast. It is one of my favorite conversations because we talk about the power self awareness has in influencing your relationships with others especially with the people close to you and at work. 

I also talk about breaking free from the norm, from what society expects from us, and from the limits we have set for ourselves. Once we become self aware, we can then start asking questions that need honest answers and we can often get these answers from people we look up to and from our experiences. And as the level of self awareness increases, we make better decisions and eventually, enjoy positive results.

If you want to pre-order the book, 8 Rules of Love, go to https://8rulesoflove.com/

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:04:54 How did you find your fourth option?
• 00:13:07 We live in echo chambers
• 00:16:50 What is power?
• 00:20:14 What’s the best part of being a monk?
• 00:23:45 What is an ideal life?
• 00:26:51 Start your day with gratitude
• 00:32:49 Self awareness
• 00:40:47 Questions to ask yourself
• 00:44:46 Three questions you are often asked
• 00:49:31 The three E’s of life
• 00:51:52 Making wisdom go viral

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I talk to Alex Cooper. Alex is the creator, host, and executive producer of the hugely successful podcast and brand Call Her Daddy, which amasses millions of listeners per episode and frequently tops Podcast charts. In 2018, Alex began to blaze a path through the podcasting medium that had never before existed: a space where women were encouraged, empowered, and emboldened to share their unapologetic stories and truths. Now one of the most listened to female podcasters in the world, Alex continues to break all boundaries by shattering stigmas and stomping on misogyny, all while keeping mental health and personal empowerment at the forefront. Her thought-provoking conversations are meticulously designed to explore wide-ranging topics such as life experiences, culture, health, relationships, and more, all through her lens of comedy and extreme candor. To the millions of devoted gen-z and millennial listeners (“The Daddy Gang”) the Call Her Daddy brand represents a new set of values and standards, with many quotes and phrases permeating pop-culture vernacular. In addition, the Boston-bred entrepreneur has a successful merchandise line, as well as several exciting business endeavors in the pipeline.   

Alex bravely shares how she suffered through constant bullying in her younger years and the trauma she still carries because of it, the pain of feeling uncomfortable with your body, and how creating content has helped her find calmness, peace, and purpose. We talk about how gender equality remains a delicate subject, how women can help other women through various programs and campaigns, and how self respect is one of the things we owe to ourselves.  We also discuss how social media can heavily influence our thoughts and actions, how to set boundaries with it and for yourself, and why finding the right partner plays a big role in our success.

Throughout the conversation, we learn that despite the many challenges we’ve faced and will face in the future, there’s no other way but to keep moving forward. Having the will to do so will help mold us to become a better version of ourselves.  

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:04:56 What was your favorite thing about Italy?
• 00:06:33 “I turned to making content as an escape.”
• 00:18:01 We all go through similar experiences
• 00:20:07 “I’m the same person…”
• 00:25:54 The trauma of being bullied
• 00:32:04 We are not equal to men?
• 00:38:18 You can be mindful and determined
• 00:43:32 What is your relationship with respect?
• 00:55:20 Taking the show to a different level
• 01:00:23 It’s okay if you don’t know things
• 01:05:46 Dealing with hate comments
• 01:12:34 When people assume you’re a bad friend
• 01:23:54 Respecting the privacy of your partner
• 01:30:55 What are you looking for in a partner?
• 01:36:45 The Many Sides Of You
• 01:42:25 Alex on Fast Five

Episode Resources

• Alex Cooper | Instagram
• Alex Cooper | Twitter
• Call Her Daddy

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Today, I am bringing something new to the table. With my good friend, Lewis Howes of The School of Greatness podcast, we’ve decided to join our heads together to talk about conversations that are uncomfortable, pressing on taboo topics, a bit thought provoking, and sometimes awkward to discuss openly. This is a space where we try to answer questions many of us may have thought of but didn’t have the opportunity to freely seek for answers.

So, welcome to the first episode of the Awkward Therapy Conversations. Lewis and I address the doubts surrounding our spirituality and becoming successful. Can we aspire to be wealthy and be spiritual at the same time? Do we have to give up success and wealth to deepen our spiritual intention? Let’s try to evaluate our relationship with money, how to stay humble throughout this journey, why success built on purpose is more fulfilling than just accumulating wealth. 

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:04:21 Can you aspire to be wealthy and be spiritual at the same time?
• 00:06:15 Should we admire people who are wealthy?
• 00:10:20 Influential people with deep spiritual intention
• 00:20:19 How have you stayed humble in success?
• 00:31:55 Purpose is the only thing that keeps giving to you
• 00:39:00 Stories of success
• 00:43:46 What is your daily spiritual practice?
• 00:47:28 The biggest thing we struggle with
• 00:53:41 Money comes to you when you’re ready for it 
• 00:58:05 Let’s evaluate our relationship with money

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I sit down with our third time guest, the one and only Dr. Daniel Amen. Dr. Amen is a physician, double board-certified psychiatrist, twelve-time NY Times bestselling author, and founder and CEO of Amen Clinics, with 10 US locations. Dr. Amen is the author of many books including the mega-bestseller Change Your Brain, Change Your Life, as well as The End of Mental Illness, Memory Rescue, Healing ADD and Your Brain Is Always Listening. In March 2022, Tyndale will publish his new book, You, Happier: The 7 Neuroscience Secrets of Feeling Good Based on Your Brain Type.

Dr. Amen emphasizes the importance of our brain health. He explains how taking care of our brain and mental health is a constant daily practice, comparing the things we do to boost our brain health to eating foods that will love our body back, foods that we love to eat and are beneficial to our health. We share our thoughts on why our generation is the unhappiest and uncontented, what we can do to boost our happiness hormones, and how happiness is always tied to our health. 

Get more science-based tips from Dr. Amen to achieve a healthier, happier, and more fulfilling life despite the challenges and difficulties we may be going through today. 

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:04:53 A healthy mind starts with a healthy brain
• 00:08:12 Activities that damage our brains
• 00:11:55 Brain and mental health is a daily practice
• 00:17:31 Accurate thinking versus positive thinking
• 00:24:02 Love food that loves you back
• 00:28:20 Focus on the micro moments of happiness
• 00:32:04 Why are we the unhappiest generation?
• 00:34:42 Did you experience childhood trauma?
• 00:45:45 Targeted nutrients to boost happiness
• 00:49:50 What’s your brain type?
• 00:54:19 Seek happiness in the context of health
• 00:56:10 Dr. Amen on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Dr. Daniel Amen | TikTok
• Dr. Daniel Amen | Instagram
• Dr. Daniel Amen | Twitter
• Dr. Daniel Amen | LinkedIn
• Dr. Daniel Amen | Facebook
• Dr. Daniel Amen | Books
• Dr. Daniel Amen | Website
• Amen University
• Take The ACE Quiz

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Today, I’m going to talk about the difference between overthinking and thinking effectively, what leads us to overthink things instead of thinking through them to get clear answers, and why we tend to overthink and lose focus.

I share three ways we can differentiate the two and the characteristics we should look out for so we don’t end up wasting our time overthinking. Additionally, I list down four ways we can pivot from being an overthinker to becoming an action-doer, a rational thinker who wouldn’t shy away from making mistakes and failing, and has the initiative to take risks and seize opportunities. 

If you want to pre-order the book, 8 Rules of Love, go to https://8rulesoflove.com/

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:03 The difference between thinking and overthinking
• 07:32 Difference #1: Time
• 12:04 Difference #2: Action
• 14:53 Difference #3: Structure
• 16:34 You’ll never feel ready
• 18:48 Expect failures and mistakes
• 20:01 Break down what you want to achieve to the smallest things
• 22:33 Surround yourself with people who take action

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Today I sit down with the very amazing Noah Cyrus. Noah is a Grammy award-nominee, multi platinum, Nashville-born and Los Angeles-based singer and songwriter. Emerging in 2016 at the age of 16, she immediately captivated audiences with platinum singles "Make Me (Cry)" and Again. Noah teamed up with PJ Harding for the People Don't Change EP in 2021. Along the way, she performed at Coachella twice, while Billboard named her among its "21 Under 21" for three straight years. She also shined on The Late Late Show with James Corden, The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon, Ellen, and The Today Show. Now, she introduces the next chapter with the "I Burned LA Down".

Noah shares to us a vulnerable side of her and how music has helped her heal from her past. Growing up she mentioned that self-love and self-acceptance was something that she never really practiced and is still a difficult thing to do at the present but she is a work in progress and even though life is full of ups and downs, she is moving forward. We also exchanged our thoughts on why change is inevitable for people and how we can be comfortable with it. Noah herself experienced a life changing experience and I am so honored to hear her story. 

Checkout her latest album here: https://noahcyrus.lnk.to/thp

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:53 “I just wish the days are longer”
• 00:07:02 Healing our inner child
• 00:10:23 Self-acceptance and self-love
• 00:13:57 Healing through music
• 00:19:03 Falling out of love
• 00:23:27 Do people change?
• 00:28:23 Life changing experience
• 00:34:11 Worshiping other people
• 00:38:53 “I can” mentality
• 00:42:40 Noah on Many Sides To Us

Episode Resources

• Noah Cyrus | Instagram
• Noah Cyrus | Twitter
• Noah Cyrus | Facebook

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Today, I’m going to share with you the difference between chemistry and compatibility, why we often mistake having strong chemistry and attraction to our partner as compatibility, and how these two are completely different but related at the same time.

We get to dive into how chemistry and compatibility are both crucial elements to sustain a successful relationship, as well as how we can strengthen our bond by recognizing our differences, having respect for each other at all times, and being able to express our feelings and emotions freely and without judgment.  

If you want to pre-order the book, 8 Rules of Love, go to https://8rulesoflove.com/

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:31 Chemistry doesn’t work without compatibility
• 14:45 Recognize differences
• 18:55 Awareness of their stance
• 22:08 Respect their approach
• 23:17 Express your feelings without feeling judged
• 26:11 The six areas of compatibility

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I sit down with the one and only Kendall Jenner. Kendall is a successful business founder, international supermodel, founder of the incredibly successful tequila brand, 818, and star on the Hulu’s, the Kardashians, which premieres in its second season on September 22nd. 

Kendal shows us a different side of her as she shares how her curiosity for people with brilliant minds and doing so much to give back to the world has eventually led to this interview. Behind the glamor and spotlight, she especially enjoys having some time alone with herself, and she values the importance of setting boundaries and why we should do things that lead to genuine happiness. We talk about her childhood and her love for animals, how the simple things give her the most joys, getting through grief after losing a dear friend, and finding the heart to be more kind to your inner child.

Kendall remains grounded and in tune with her inner goddess and is not allowing negativity and ill intentions change who she is, who she may become, and the purpose she is living by.  

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:00:26 “I think I manifested this interview…”
• 00:09:53 “I grew up in a horse community.”
• 00:15:42 Craving the simple things
• 00:18:51 Setting boundaries for yourself
• 00:21:46 Putting yourself first
• 00:27:15 It’s important to be happy
• 00:28:51 Reassuring yourself of who you really are
• 00:33:06 Sometimes, family can be overwhelming
• 00:35:54 Losing a dear friend
• 00:40:53 Finding a new purpose
• 00:45:38 Stop being mean to your inner child
• 00:50:24 Kendall on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Kendall Jenner | Instagram
• Kendall Jenner | Twitter
• Kendall Jenner | Facebook

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Today, I’d like to share with you some amazing news. I will be releasing a new book called, “8 Rules of Love”. I’ve been working on this for the past years and I am so excited to finally share it with everyone!

In this episode, I get to answer some of the frequently asked questions about love and discuss some of the behind-the-scenes process in creating the book. Love is a word that gets thrown around easily – but do we really know the meaning of it? It might seem difficult to find and keep love but it wouldn’t be the case if we try to understand how diverse love can be. So can we really define love? If you want to pre-order the book, go to https://8rulesoflove.com/

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:42 Why the number eight?
• 05:50 Why do we need rules?
• 07:34 A successful relationship
• 09:25 Creating, finding, and keeping love
• 13:54 Change & growth
• 17:00 How to let love go
• 18:36 Love is an important topic
• 21:05 Expect your relationship to change
• 22:43 “What if I like to be alone?”
• 24:53 Dating apps
• 26:24 Fear of rejection
• 27:08 Love is everywhere

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Today, I talk to Susan Cain, the author of Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking, which spent seven years on the New York times bestseller list and has been translated into over 40 languages. It was named the number one best book of the year by Fast Company, which also named her as one of its most creative people in business. Her writing has appeared in the New York Times, The Atlantic, The Wall Street Journal, and many other publications and her records smashing Ted Talk, which was where I first discovered her, has been viewed over 30 million times on ted.com and YouTube combined and was named by Bill Gates as one of his all time favorite talks. Now her most recent book is called Bittersweet: How Sorrow And Longing Make Us Whole, which has become an instant #1 New York Times bestseller.

Susan explains the reason behind why we process pain differently and why moving on is doable for others after some time but seems difficult for some. We also discuss how some people were able to turn painful experiences into inspiration and achieve creative success, the importance of shared connection and how we can find balance in expressing, accepting, and addressing our individual pain through these connections, and finally, the first step to healing is acceptance.

This conversation shows us how we can choose to wallow in grief or in pain and allow it to control us or embrace these bittersweet emotions to fuel our motivation to heal, to connect, and to be a new you.    

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:33 How did you start figuring out pain?
• 00:05:52 Acceptance is the first step
• 00:09:16 The union between souls
• 00:12:05 Connection is the most healing of all
• 00:16:19 The power of music
• 00:22:01 Turn your pain into a creative offering
• 00:24:21 Connection is the key
• 00:28:25 We keep the memories of the people we lost
• 00:30:42 The movement for compassion
• 00:36:57 What is disenfranchised grief
• 00:40:10 Finding balance in expressing and accepting your pain
• 00:49:36 What can leaders do?
• 00:54:37 Our culture of compassion
• 00:57:39 Susan on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Susan Cain | Website
• Susan Cain | LinkedIn
• Susan Cain | Facebook
• Susan Cain | Instagram
• Susan Cain | Twitter

Susan Cain’s Courses

• Bittersweet: Practices & Reflections
• Quiet at Work

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Today, I’m sharing a deep and meaningful conversation with Mason Spector and Peiman Raf of the Madhappy Podcast - a show that aims to create more conversation around mental health by illuminating the full spectrum of mental health, the highs and the lows.

I get to share my journey as a monk, the valuable lessons on how to purify our ego, master our mind, manage our emotions, and live in service of others. We also talk about the difference between being alone and feeling lonely, and why it is important to always find time to be by yourself to reconnect with your thoughts. And finally, we dive into how our actions positively and negatively impacts the people around us and how we should deviate from external validation and instead focus on self validation to help tame our ego. 

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:09 What are you proud of yourself for?
• 04:22 What was your childhood like?
• 09:55 Unlearning the values that you practice
• 12:43 When being good doesn’t get you anywhere
• 15:22 From taking an undergrad class to becoming a monk
• 21:29 Using your gift in service of others
• 28:23 Defining loneliness and solitude
• 37:39 Why did you leave monkhood?
• 41:43 Trying to get back into the world
• 43:52 Living a life that positively impacts others
• 49:13 Ego is fueled by validation
• 51:42 One advice you’d give your younger self
• 54:00 What makes you Mad Happy? 

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Today, I sit down with Meghan Trainor, an award-winning singer, songwriter, producer, and multi-instrumentalist that has garnered a GRAMMY for Best New Artist, achieved eight multi-platinum singles and two platinum albums, sold out three world tours, penned multi-platinum hits for peers across pop and country, received countless industry awards and nominations, and has recently started her own podcast with her brother Ryan Trainor entitled Workin’ On It, while also becoming a TikTok star. She has just released her new single “Bad For Me,” featuring Teddy Swims, and has announced her fourth full-length album, Takin’ It Back, arriving October 21st, 2022, via Epic Records.

Meghan shares what her childhood was like growing up on a small community island, her passion for song writing and how having supportive parents helped her get recognition for her talent and eventually led to releasing her debut song, All About That Bass. We talk about how being authentic and just showing up as yourself online and in real life will make people appreciate you more, why appreciating the body you have is the best way to love yourself, the crippling panic attacks that were overcome by asking for help and working with the right people, and how she has found love with a man who accepted her flaws and sees her true value. 

Meghan shows us how our life may be built within a bubble and still find the courage to dream big, break free from any limitations, and find success in doing things we are passionate about.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00:00 Intro
• 00:03:59 The secret door
• 00:06:50 And we got two toilets
• 00:09:00 Growing up in Nantucket
• 00:11:24 The songwriting journey
• 00:17:21 Supportive parents
• 00:20:47 Why I am who I am
• 00:24:34 What inspires you then and now?
• 00:27:44 Showing up authentically on social media
• 00:29:36 Worst panic attack
• 00:35:19 Taking antidepressants while pregnant
• 00:39:36 “I don’t want to end up in a psych ward…”
• 00:47:08 Our biggest crisis is a crisis of habits
• 00:51:29 “When I met Daryl…”
• 00:54:03 Loving your own body
• 00:58:28 Meghan on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Meghan Trainor | Instagram
• Meghan Trainor | Twitter
• Meghan Trainor | Facebook
• Meghan Trainor | TikTok
• Meghan Trainor | Website
• Workin' On It with Meghan Trainor & Ryan Trainor

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How do you express your love for a friend, for a family member, and for your partner? Are you expressive with your words? Is it through action? Or do you feel the need to constantly assure the people around you that you love as much as you want to be assured that you’re being loved back?

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares the five love languages we may not be very familiar with that plays a huge role in building relationships and then strengthening them.   

For a more in-depth read of Gary Chapman’s book, check out The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts  

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:59 How do we create basic connections with others?
• 05:57 The challenges we have love languages
• 10:34 Know everyone’s love language
• 18:25 Love Language #1: Words of affirmation
• 23:24 Love Language #2: Gift-giving
• 26:28 Love Language #3: Spending quality time
• 28:30 Love Language #4: Physical touch
• 30:06 Love Language #5: Acts of service

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Jay Shetty chats with Dave Ramsey to talk about having a healthy relationship with our finances. Having a lot of money, buying a house, owning expensive cars, living in luxury - many of us dream of having a purposeful and productive life - and we work hard to reach this goal. But it’s never an easy goal to achieve, and more than anything, not many of us can have great financial success.  

Dave Ramsey is an eight-time No. 1 national best-selling author, personal finance expert and host of The Ramsey Show, heard by more than 23 million listeners each week. He has appeared on Good Morning America, CBS Mornings, Today Show, Fox News, CNN, Fox Business, and many more. Since 1992, Dave has helped people regain control of their money, build wealth and enhance their lives. He also serves as CEO for the company, Ramsey Solutions.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:16 How did it start for Dave Ramsey?
• 06:26 How to start having a healthy relationship with your finances
• 09:51 Stories about loans and debts
• 12:27 Can anyone be a millionaire?
• 15:45 We become who we hang around with
• 18:42 Incorporating spirituality into your finances
• 21:25 Difference between a millionaire and baby steps millionaire
• 27:00 How to become a millionaire?
• 30:38 The ability to delay pleasure is a sign of maturity
• 35:07 Winning does not heal you
• 39:26 Why do we have a fear that wealth will ruin our kids?
• 47:32 Why equal is not fair
• 53:02 Dave on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Dave Ramsey | Instagram
• Dave Ramsey | Twitter
• Dave Ramsey | Facebook
• Dave Ramsey | YouTube
• Dave Ramsey | Books
• Ramsey Solutions
• The Ramsey Show
• Baby Steps Millionaires: How Ordinary People Built Extraordinary Wealth - and How You Can Too

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We may not identify as a narcissist but unknowingly, we may have narcissistic traits that are off-putting to others and can lead to unpleasant and unfavorable situations. The same goes for the people who we have close relationships with that display narcissistic tendencies. It can become a struggle to be with them when they can only see themselves and think they’re above everyone else. 

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares the different signs and traits of a narcissist and what can we do to still have a pleasant and lasting relationship with them.  

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:04 1 in 200 people has narcissistic personality disorder
• 05:27 Sign #1: They struggle to talk about others for too long
• 07:28 Sign #2: They crave attention
• 11:25 Sign #3: They don’t accept responsibility
• 12:20 Sign #4: They make you feel you’re wrong 
• 18:27 Sign #5: They have superiority complex
• 19:50 Sign #6: Everything feels like a threat to them
• 21:04 Sign #7: They switch the conversation to themselves
• 22:01 Sign #8: Taking credit for everything
• 22:31 Sign #9: Reclaiming difficult moments as yours
• 25:00 Sign #10: Love bombing

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Jay Shetty sits down with Lili Reinhart to discuss how allowing yourself to feel your emotions can become liberating. We are often told that crying in front of others is a sign of weakness, that being vulnerable is allowing others to hurt you. Yet we have never been taught that listening to our thoughts and allowing ourselves to truly feel our emotions is often the best way to bring out our true self.  

Lili Reinhart has quickly amassed an impressive resume as one of Hollywood’s most exciting young actors on screen and is quickly becoming a multi-faceted talent with projects as an executive producer and author. She is well known for playing ‘Betty Cooper’ in Greg Berlanti's television series, Riverdale which is based on the famed Archie Comics. As an author, Lili penned, Swimming Lessons which is a collection of poems released by St. Martins’ Publishing in 2020. Currently, the book is available for purchase worldwide. Lili is an activist for mental health and body image and uses her platform to raise awareness to these issues. 

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 05:44 Juggling several jobs
• 07:35 Starting a job and having panic attacks
• 11:43 When you start judging yourself
• 13:32 “It was my drive to be an actress…”
• 17:34 What is the role you played in the family?
• 21:52 Crying is the most healthy expression of how you're feeling
• 32:13 We don’t talk about how often people come and go
• 38:41 How can you fill your time?
• 41:58 Overwhelmed by trying to fix it all right away
• 45:40 If we take the role away, who are you?
• 48:23 Letting go of something you’ve identified for so long
• 55:13 Resonating with spirituality
• 01:00:38 Finding the right people for healing and wellness
• 01:06:37 Playing a woman experiencing two different things
• 01:11:15 Taking extra care of your gut
• 01:14:28 How do you describe your current purpose in life?
• 01:17 31 Lili on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Lili Reinhart | Instagram
• Lili Reinhart | Twitter
• Lili Reinhart | TikTok

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Being in a relationship is a work in progress. Fully committing to that relationship is hard work. There are no shortcuts, no hacks. There is no one pattern that works for everyone.  It’s a handful, and both must be fully invested to make it work.   

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares relationship questions that will make you think, rethink, and contemplate whether you’re doing enough to nurture your relationship.  

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:58 7 questions to ask to help improve relationships
• 05:17 Question #1: What am I doing right that I should do more of?
• 09:17 Question #2: What should I do less of?
• 12:39 Question #3: What do I do that makes you confident?
• 14:23 Question #4: What do I do that makes you anxious?
• 17:47 Question #5: What is your love language?
• 20:40 Question #6: What’s your fight style?
• 22:09 Question #7: Is this relationship going in the direction you want it to go?

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Jay Shetty talks to Jenna Kutcher about her newest book called, How Are You, Really? Sometimes, when people ask us how we are, we tend to lie and just reply, “I’m fine.” We even lie to ourselves to make us feel better even though we really are not. But what difference would it make if we actually try to get to know ourselves better and get to know how we are…really?

Jenna Kutcher is a born-and-raised Minnesota wife, mother, and entrepreneur who aims for two things daily: helping others wake up to life and staying in comfy pants. Creator and host of the top-rated Goal Digger Podcast, she’s helped thousands redefine success and chase bold dreams through her decade-long work as a leading online personality and educator.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:01 How are you, really?
• 06:47 The journey of writing a book
• 07:46 Learn to listen to yourself
• 13:11 Don’t feel guilty to rest
• 17:07 Welcome change in your life
• 21:17 The romanticization of hustle culture
• 25:06 Setting boundaries
• 29:14 How to say no
• 34:22 Giving ourselves permission to rely on others
• 40:14 The best mentorship is someone’s honest experience
• 46:37 What’s a worthy goal?
• 53:20 Jenna’s Final Five

Episode Resources

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• Jenna Kutcher | Instagram
• Jenna Kutcher | Website
• Jenna Kutcher | Podcast
• How Are You, Really?: Living Your Truth One Answer at a Time

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We've probably met different types of people with varying personalities and we've never really thought about it. It may seem trivial, unimportant, or unrelated to what we want to accomplish that day. But having a good grasp of the different types of people will actually help us form better connections. We can start avoiding misunderstandings and miscommunication when we understand how the people around us think and how they act upon their thoughts.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty explains four different personality types, their possible habits and actions, and how we can effectively communicate and interact with them.  

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:04 The 4 types of people we will meet
• 05:00 Questions you should ask yourself
• 07:39 Type #1: OT - Outgoing and Task
• 10:57 Type #2: OP - Outgoing and People
• 15:37 Type #3: RT - Reserved and Task
• 17:19 Type #4: RP - Reserved and People

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Jay Shetty sits down with Shawn Stevenson to talk about the amount of control we have over our body. Studies have shown that our thoughts are powerful enough to motivate us to move, to thrive, and to succeed. The same goes for our determination to improve ourselves. If we use the strength of our mind to push ourselves and our body to exceed what society deems as our limits, we can achieve far greater things. 

Shawn Stevenson is the author of the USA Today National bestseller Eat Smarter and the international bestselling book Sleep Smarter. He’s also creator of The Model Health Show, featured as the number #1 health podcast in the U.S. with millions of listener downloads each year. A graduate of the University of Missouri–St. Louis, Shawn studied business, biology, and nutritional science and became the cofounder of Advanced Integrative Health Alliance. Shawn has been featured in Forbes, Fast Company, The New York Times, Muscle & Fitness, ABC News, ESPN, and many other major media outlets.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:15 Diagnosed with a degenerative disease
• 12:31 Body movement is the primary driver of healing
• 21:36 The power of food to reboot our metabolism
• 32:23 How brain inflammation affects our body
• 41:13 The human brain is the most complicated object in the known universe
• 47:36 Your overall stress load as a human being
• 59:13 Placebo clinical trial on prison inmates
• 01:06:20 Our mood improves when we’re healthier
• 01:10:33 If you allow a person to speak
• 01:16:59 We’re living in a sick society
• 01:26:25 Abundance in people resources is a gift

Episode Resources

• Shawn Stevenson | Instagram
• Shawn Stevenson | Twitter
• Shawn Stevenson | YouTube
• Shawn Stevenson | LinkedIn
• Shawn Stevenson | Books
• The Model Health Show

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Why do some people stay in a relationship? People stay because they are in love obviously – but sometimes people stay because it’s convenient and they don’t want to waste the time they’ve already spent with that person. But is this really what makes you stay?

In this episode of On Purpose, we get to listen to Jay’s conversation with Lewis Howes where they talk about whether someone can stay in a relationship with someone for a very long time. 

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:46 Real love is different from the movies
• 05:13 Desire in relationships
• 06:50 The chase and pursuit
• 09:56 Why you don’t need to love one person for the rest of your life
• 11:14 The reason why people stay in a non-working relationship
• 11:56 Starting a relationship in therapy
• 13:16 Seeing life in seasons
• 14:05 Polyamorous relationships will not give you peace
• 18:37 Have a conversation about the relationship that you want
• 22:20 Relationships should be high engagement - low attachment
• 24:58 A long term relationship does not mean it’s a successful one
• 28:20 Life story vs. love story
• 30:18 Commitment
• 31:26 Stop bringing baggage into the relationship
• 33:21 What you can learn in a committed relationship
• 37:52 Removing sexual chemistry in the start of a relationship
• 42:12 Wanting to be in a relationship because you feel lonely
• 44:50 Learn what you want to do together
• 48:12 The different stages of relationships
• 50:26 Inner peace

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Jay Shetty talks to Jaspreet Singh about financial education. The best investment that you can do in your life is to invest in yourself. That’s why learning about finance is an important skill that we need to acquire in order for us to grow our mental wealth while also growing our financial wealth.

Jaspreet Singh is a serial entrepreneur and licensed attorney. Although he didn’t receive any formal financial education – he’s on a mission to make financial education fun and accessible. Jaspreet is the Chief Executive Money Nerd at the Minority Mindset Companies and the host of the Minority Mindset YouTube Channel.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:07 Understanding the role of money in your life
• 04:55 Four aspects of life
• 08:03 Money is a tool for you to do the things you want to do
• 11:42 Importance of financial education
• 14:26 The 3 bad habits in handling money
• 16:08 Don’t go broke just to look rich
• 18:10 The problem with saving money
• 19:30 Stop blindly following the system
• 27:59 Understanding the concept of money
• 30:53 Equity
• 33:58 The wealth formula
• 36:10 Investing with little money
• 40:42 The best investment in the world
• 45:09 Delayed gratification
• 49:43 Having financial confidence
• 51:27 Recessions and market crashes
• 1:02:56 Avoid emotional investing
• 1:09:22 Jaspreet’s Final Five

Episode Resources

• Jaspreet Singh | Instagram
• Jaspreet Singh | Twitter
• Jaspreet Singh | Website

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When negative thoughts turn into action, that turns into habits, and then become an addiction that ruins our life, surrounding yourself with people that can talk you out of these negative thoughts will change your life. Having people around with positive influence on you is the best way to combat addiction.

In this episode of On Purpose, we get to listen again to Jay’s conversation with Russell Brand on Follow The Reader with Jay Shetty. They talk about why we become addicted to things and how to pivot from it.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:48 We suffer from the notion that something’s missing in our life
• 05:08 We all function on a certain programming
• 07:16 When we live in a projected image of ourselves
• 09:21 Acknowledging that we all are flawed
• 11:41 Take a personal inventory of the unpleasant things in your life
• 14:54 Economic culture that’s based upon productivity
• 16:30 It’s important to have a counsel of people
• 18:58 Engaging your rational mind takes you out of your emotion
• 20:36 Here’s a postcard from the other side
• 21:42 Be careful not to judge your parents
• 23:00 Russell on Quick Fire questions

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Jay Shetty talks to Zachary Levi about radical love. We all grew up with some form of trauma. Some have come to terms with it and managed to move on, find new beginnings, and live better lives. Some are still struggling because their past is entangled with their present and is now limiting them mentally, socially, and emotionally. Talking to someone about these unpleasant feelings is the first step to healing. But taking the first step, for some, remains to be a difficult move.

Zachary Levi is one of the most versatile actors in Hollywood with critically acclaimed roles in TV, Film, and on Broadway. HIs career catapulted as the lead and fan favorite, Chuck Bartowski, in the hit NBC series, Chuck.  Zachary demonstrated his range as a Tony Award Nominee for Best Actor in a Musical in She Loves Me. His impressive vocals landed him a leading role in the Disney Academy Award nominated (Best Original Song) animated musical, Tangled.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:24 What does radical love look like?
• 14:31 How trauma affects our mindset and perspective
• 23:08 Running away from what you’re trying to survive from
• 30:00 Heal yourself by talking about the problem

Episode Resources

• Zachary Levi | Instagram
• Zachary Levi | Twitter
• Radical Love: Learning to Accept Yourself and Others

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Our personality is a major component of who we are as a person and is often how people see us. Depending on the personality type that is dominant within us, our reactions to different situations vary from others. And these varying reactions may be viewed negatively by other people because their personality is the exact opposite of ours.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares the key qualities of the different personality types and what can be done to improve our personality development.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:18 Why is it important to know your personality type? 
• 06:45 Type #1: The Perfectionist
• 13:10 Type #2: The Giver
• 19:34 Type #3: The Performer
• 22:24 Type #4: The Romantic
• 24:42 Type #5: The Observer
• 26:58 Type #6: The Loyal Skeptic 

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Jay Shetty sits down with Lisa Bilyeu to talk about fighting for your own dreams. When you want to achieve success, you need to work hard for it. You need to have the right mindset to get through the roadblocks that may come your way. You need to be present in the moment and make meaningful connections. And you need to fight for what you want. You need to fight for yourself.  

Lisa Bilyeu is the co-founder of the billion dollar company Quest Nutrition, the President of Impact Theory, and the host of the Women of Impact podcast where she features women who have overcome incredible hardship to achieve massive success. Her mission is to empower all women to recognize that they really can become the hero of their own life. 

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 04:46 Developing confidence is like a muscle
• 06:31 Radical confidence is taking little steps that lead to your goal
• 11:18 The problem with excuses is when they are real
• 18:06 Only you can fight for your dreams
• 23:38 Fear can stop so many of us
• 30:54 Don’t allow being critical to yourself to stop you
• 31:47 The danger of looking for external validation
• 35:01 The biggest mistake of goal setting
• 37:09 When should you stop apologizing?
• 42:48 Our perception of things changes everything
• 46:20 Closing the gap between being sensitive and taking action

Episode Resources

• Lisa Bilyeu | Instagram
• Lisa Bilyeu | Facebook
• Quest Nutrition
• Impact Theory
• Radical Confidence
• Women of Impact | YouTube

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Being too critical about the things your partner does, unknowingly, makes you the toxic person in the relationship. When you get the same treatment from your partner, you often feel unappreciated and unloved without realizing that you’ve been doing the same thing to them. As this cycle continues, the foundation crumbles and the relationship inevitably fails.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty explains the mistakes we often make in our relationship and how we should be mindful of our actions to strengthen it.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:47 The common relationship mistakes we make
• 03:53 Mistake #1: Being too critical to our partner
• 07:42 Instead of criticizing, get creative in removing complaints
• 09:42 Mistake #2: When jokes go too far
• 14:57 Mistake #3: We become deflective, we become defensive
• 17:35 Mistake #4: Disconnecting or becoming aloof
• 19:41 Mistake #5: You focus on the value displayed in the moment
• 22:13 Mistake #6: Our partners aren’t our coaches 

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Jay Shetty sits down with Water.Org co-founders Matt Damon and Gary White to talk about the water crisis around the world. We see stories of extreme poverty in places that are less developed and have little to no access to basic services such as electricity and water. These stories of struggles are out there but we don’t get to hear the rawness of the situation and reality many people live in. The water crisis is real and it’s one of the major hindrances for children to have proper education and a chance at a better future. 

While everyone knows Matt Damon as an actor and producer and screenwriter, in 2006, he founded H20 Africa Foundation to raise awareness about water initiatives on the continent. Matt's active participation in the work of Water.Org and Walter Equity has positioned him as one of the world's experts on water and sanitation issues. Now in 1991, Gary White launched Water Partners, now the international NGO known as Water.Org. Today, he leads two organizations in creating and executing market-driven solutions to the global water crisis driving innovations in the way water and sanitation projects are delivered and financed.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:14 The water crisis is a daily struggle
• 09:35 Taking the problem one step at a time and find a solution 
• 16:49 How the lack of water impacts women and girls more
• 21:53 What else should a thirteen year old girl think about?
• 24:41 The impact of seeing places in extreme poverty
• 27:50 Tapping into existing microfinance institutions (MFIs) across the globe
• 35:10 Finding a partner in the water credit space
• 40:44 Spread awareness on these individual stories

Episode Resources

• Water.Org
• Water Equity
• The Worth of Water

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How many times have you heard bad news first thing in the morning and then end up feeling bad for the rest of the day? Or how about reading a bad comment online and feeling restless about it? The news that we consume everyday can highly affect our mental health which can result in us feeling stressed and helpless. 

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares facts of how to reduce the feeling of helplessness and how we can improve our relationship with the news.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:28 The feeling of helplessness
• 02:17 The Seligman Experiment
• 07:24 Step #1: Choose when & where you consume news
• 10:28 Step #2: Expose yourself to good news
• 12:24 Focus on the things you’re doing well
• 16:53 Step #3: Find your role in the community
• 18:52 Step #4: Practice self-care
• 21:58 Step #5: Pray for courage

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

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Jay Shetty sits down with Gabrielle Bernstein to talk about how past trauma affects our daily life. Within us is our protector self, that part of us that takes over when we face fear, danger, sadness, longing, and feel hurt. And our protective self can sometimes stop us from taking chances, from taking risks. It can possibly hinder our growth and healing. Let’s tap into this inner version of us and make peace with our wounded self.

Gabrielle Bernstein is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Universe Has Your Back, Super Attractor, and has written six additional bestsellers including her latest book, Super Attractor. Gabrielle was featured on Oprah’s SuperSoul Sunday as a “next-generation thought leader,” and The Oprah Winfrey Network chose Gabby to be part of the “SuperSoul 100,” a dynamic group of 100 trailblazers whose vision and life’s work are bringing a higher level of consciousness to the world. The New York Times identified her as “a new role model.” 

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:02 What is happiness?
• 05:27 The concept of being present
• 11:54 We’re all running from trauma of some form
• 15:43 Our greatest protector part is to dissociate
• 19:25 “For my husband, Zach…”
• 22:18 How do you help someone help you?
• 29:36 Opening up something and not getting stuck in one place
• 32:40 Our physical conditions are psychosomatic
• 36:08 Carrying around shame
• 39:10 How do you fall in love with yourself again?
• 46:27 Dealing with your protector and exile parts
• 48:48 It’s not about getting out of it overnight
• 52:45 Thinking of trauma as a mother
• 55:38 Getting through postpartum depression

Episode Resources

• Gabby Bernstein | Website
• Gabby Bernstein | YouTube
• Gabby Bernstein | Instagram
• Gabby Bernstein | Twitter
• Gabby Bernstein | Facebook
• Gabby Bernstein | LinkedIn
• Gabby Bernstein | Books
• Dear Gabby Podcast
• Happy Days: The Guided Path from Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace

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For this special series, in partnership with Betterhelp, Jay Shetty sits down with Haesue Jo, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp and Jayme Cyk. Jayme, who has been unhappy with her previous sessions, shares how finding the right therapist has helped her gradually accept and love her own body.  

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:18 What brings you to therapy today?
• 04:09 Different eating habits that started at a young age
• 07:57 Noticing that the eating habits are beyond being healthy and mindful
• 12:34 Taking antidepressants since nine
• 16:20 Conversations matter in every session
• 20:23 Relationship between body image and self worth
• 30:54 Now in the 6-month commitment to therapy
• 33:24 Therapists should prioritize building rapport
• 37:53 Finding the right therapist

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Jay Shetty sits down with Dr. Rangan Chatterjee to talk about  the core of happiness. There is a huge difference between success and happiness, oftentimes we confuse the two as one and the same. One can be successful in their job, career, business, and family life, but can be unhappy. We need to learn the core of happiness to genuinely enjoy life by appreciating our past self, our current life, and the future we all look forward to having. 

Dr. Rangan Chatterjee is regarded as one of the most influential medical doctors in the UK and wants to change how medicine will be practiced for years to come. He hosts the biggest health podcast in the UK and Europe, ‘Feel Better, Live More’. He can simplify complex health advice so people can feel better and live more. Dr Chatterjee is known for finding the root cause of people's health problems and he highlighted his methods in the ground-breaking BBC television show, Doctor in the House.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:11 Happiness is the byproduct when we do the right things
• 08:12 We confuse success and happiness
• 14:54 Accepting everything that has happened to you
• 27:14 The process of alignment
• 40:23 The 2-part exercise to stay aligned
• 47:00 Alignment is not a destination you get to
• 49:58 Dr. Rangan on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Instagram
• Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | YouTube
• Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Twitter
• Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Facebook
• Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | LinkedIn
• Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Books
• Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Website
• Feel Better, Live More Podcast

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What truly defines a healthy relationship? And what makes one unhealthy? Is there an easy way to spot if the relationship we’re in is good for us or gradually hurting us? It often involves the level of our emotional health, our mental maturity to process difficult situations, and how far are we willing to stay in the partnership.   

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares facts of how unhealthy traits eventually ruins relationships and the positive habits that can turn things around.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:30 The power of having a support system
• 02:08 Why the quality of our relationships are good for us
• 11:12 Sign #1: Sense of mutual respect
• 15:01 Sign #2: Honesty
• 18:56 Sign #3: Individuality
• 24:53 Unhealthy Trait #1: Sense of control
• 25:04 Unhealthy Trait #2: Emotional regulation

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Jay Shetty sits down once again with Gary Vee to talk about choosing to fight for your passion over what other people have to say. When you allow people and their opinions affect how you live, you give them control over your life. You are giving them the power to decide for you. You can change that but choosing how much of your life you want to share and to what extent is already considered an intrusion into your private life.

Gary Vaynerchuk is a serial entrepreneur, and serves as the Chairman of VaynerX and the CEO of VaynerMedia. Gary is considered one of the leading global minds on what’s next in culture, relevance and the internet. Known as “GaryVee” he is described as one of the most forward thinkers in business - he acutely recognizes trends and patterns early to help others understand how these shifts impact markets and consumer behavior. Today, he helps Fortune 1000 brands leverage consumer attention through his full service advertising agency, VaynerMedia.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:39 “I do a good job of making my Dad popular.”
• 06:41 If it works for you, you can juggle multiple things
• 12:33 “I’m very happy because I’m very simple.”
• 18:11 We have demonized losing when losing is the best
• 22:26 You’re in control of your life
• 26:50 Leveraging family and personal life lacks authenticity
• 29:54 Lack of accountability is leading to so much unhappiness
• 34:29 What is your most worthy pursuit?

Episode Resources

• Gary Vee | Instagram
• Gary Vee | YouTube
• Gary Vee | Twitter
• Gary Vee | LinkedIn
• Gary Vee | Books
• Gary Vee | Facebook
• VaynerMedia
• The GaryVee Audio Experience

Jay Shetty graduated from business school—and decided to become a monk. Not only was this an unusual move, but it was met with strong disapproval from his family and friends.

But Jay followed this calling. Today, he's a #1 New York Times bestselling author, hosts a leading health podcast, and is lauded as a mindfulness leader by millions worldwide.

Shortly after obtaining a degree in business, Jay Shetty decided to become a monk. Not only was this an unusual move, but it was met with strong disapproval from both family and friends. Still, Jay felt compelled to follow this calling, and today Jay is a #1 New York Times bestselling author, hosts a leading health podcast, and is lauded as a mindfulness leader by millions of people around the world. In this episode, Jay tells Alex about feeling completely lost at multiple times in his career, and how holding true to his values helped navigate his way through immense imposter syndrome and nearly running out of money. 

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:43 What was childhood like for a young Jay Shetty?
• 08:11 Clash between self awareness and low self esteem
• 10:08 We are living two lives
• 16:24 Loving the process and accepting the result
• 24:38 Don’t get discouraged if you are behind
• 27:15 Asked to speak in front of colleagues
• 29:47 Navigating through Imposter syndrome
• 34:48 Be open to risks, welcome mentorships
• 42:39 Everything in the world is made up of energy
• 46:07 Preserve the purity of your heart

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Jay Shetty sits down with Neha Kumar to talk about women in business and motherhood. In a place where men dominate and are seen as rulers in a certain field, women will have to exert extra effort, time, and dedication to be in a position that is considerably equal to men. And when a woman has the passion for it, the will to persevere, and the favorable circumstances that allow  her to flourish, she gets to be her best self for herself, her family, her career, and her goals.

Neha Kumar is the former COO & CFO of Create & Cultivate, an integrated platform designed to help millennial women achieve their full career potential, including new female entrepreneurs who require additional resources. Neha has a dynamic and entrepreneurial mindset. She is also an angel investor who is passionate about investing in game-changing businesses. As a current faculty member at the UCLA Anderson school, she teaches the next generation of undergraduates about entrepreneurial finance and management.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:27 Congratulations on your 5th wedding anniversary!
• 04:40 The unconscious bias on women
• 08:14 Being a woman in business school
• 14:27 Education will give us a framework on how to think
• 21:23 How to teach students to think deeply
• 25:47 You want to be able to think strategically
• 31:07 The difference between a business and a passion project
• 36:53 Focus is a big deal
• 40:39 Work-life balance versus priorities
• 46:44 In the workplace, not everyone can empathize with you
• 50:40 Dealing with ‘mom guilt’
• 57:30 What do you look at when you invest?
• 59:06 Neha on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Neha Kumar | LinkedIn
• Neha Kumar | Twitter
• Neha Kumar | Instagram
• New Money Ventures

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Have you been truly in love? Have you loved someone so much they are always included in your plans? Have you been in a situation where you can’t wait to spend more time with the person you love? Being in love is rich, flavorful, and addictive. It changes you and how you see the world.  

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty narrates the different signs that tell you are falling in love with someone and how to deal with your own feelings.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:02 Are you falling in love?
• 04:38 Sign #1: You start breathing in time with them
• 10:18 Sign #2: You generally have a more optimistic view on life
• 13:58 Sign #3: You have a similar sense of humor
• 17:46 Sign #4: You feel you can be honest with someone
• 22:04 Sign #5: You think about your partner when making plans
• 24:05 Sign #6: You are no longer looking for the flirty validation from someone
• 26:03 Sign #7: The feeling of aligned values

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Jay Shetty sits down with Simu Liu to talk about his parent’s immigrant story and how he was able to pursue his passion despite everyone’s expectations from him. One thing that has killed a lot of dreams is fear. The fear of people not supporting us throughout the journey, the fear of being not good enough, the fear of not being able to become the person that you want to be is something that hinders a lot of people from achieving their goals in life. But what do you think would happen if you actually stop being afraid and start trying?

Simu Liu made history as the star of the first Asian-fronted movie in the Marvel Cinematic Universe in Destin Daniel Cretton’s Shang-Chi and the Legend of the Ten Rings, which garnered him The People’s Choice Award for Favorite Action Movie Star. Simu also starred in the Award winning CBC/Netflix comedy series Kim’s Convenience, which won the ACTRA Awards for Outstanding Ensemble in 2017 and Best Comedy Series at the 2018 Canadian Screen Awards. It was the first Canadian television series with an all-Asian lead cast, the series chronicles the day-to-day micro-dramas encountered by a Korean immigrant family that runs a corner grocery store. He wrote his very first book, We Are Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story, which tackles his struggles with parental expectations and stereotypes.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 06:30 Simu’s famous 2018 tweet & how he started to pursue his acting dream
• 11:11 Simu’s relationship with his parents
• 17:48 Understanding our parents sacrifices
• 20:55 How different parenting was in Simu’s home
• 25:40 Why Simu’s parents hate the way he writes the book
• 29:05 How he repaired & amended his relationship with his parents
• 37:58 Bringing in your parents into the journey that they can understand
• 39:35 Simu’s business background
• 44:12 Giving your own self the validation that you need
• 47:09 Identifying the things that you can control
• 53:35 Simu’s Final Five

Episode Resources

• Simu Liu | Instagram
• Simu Liu | Twitter
• Simu Liu | TikTok
• We Were Dreamers

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For this special series, in partnership with Betterhelp, Jay Shetty sits down with Haesue Jo, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp and Ashley Carr. Ashley talks about her journey throughout therapy and how it has helped her become a better person that she is now. 

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 04:12 How Ashley got into therapy and stigma around it
• 07:37 Therapy is not just for the weak-minded
• 08:58 Waking up everyday and feeling that you’re not enough
• 10:39 Skills she learned in therapy
• 14:07 Self-sabotage in return for love
• 15:44 How we’re acting in the present stems from our childhood experiences
• 17:14 Learning and understanding that we don’t need to accept the bad things that happens in our lives
• 19:33 What her life would be like if she didn’t go to therapy
• 21:05 Self-awareness is the first step
• 24:09 Accepting yourself
• 25:36 When did therapy become a choice
• 27:04 Every question during therapy has intention
• 29:33 Sometimes advice from our family or friends might not be the one we need
• 36:06 Advice to others on why they should try therapy
• 40:08 Depression symptoms
• 41:36 How parents can handle their kid’s emotions
• 46:49 Therapy is life-changing

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Jay Shetty talks to Taylor Tomlinson about why sometimes it’s okay to shift your focus on something else. Dropping out of college doesn’t really mean you’re wasting your time away. In some cases, people have found success and multiple achievements after they decided to pursue something else. These pivotal moments come and go in the most unexpected ways so we all need to learn how to spot them and seize the opportunity right away.

Taylor Tomlinson began performing comedy when she was 16, after her father signed her up for a stand-up class. She became a top 10 finalist on the 9th season of NBC's Last Comic Standing in 2015 and was named one of the top 10 comics to watch by Variety at the 2019 Just For Laughs festival. Her first Netflix standup special, Quarter-Life Crisis, premiered in March, 2020. In 2021, she started her own podcast called Sad in the City and in the same year she was placed on the Forbes' 30 Under 30 list. Now her second standup special, Look at You, is now streaming on Netflix.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 05:03 Why did he sign you up for a standup class?
• 10:34 Performing on stage is still terrifying
• 18:20 Dropping out of college
• 25:41 It’s really about being confident
• 31:33 Everything happened for a reason
• 40:51 On relationships and working through the issues
• 45:02 That guy who actually cheated
• 50:28 Spend as much time as you need to know yourself
• 01:00:07 The time that people spend alone as adults 
• 01:04:53 Getting this moment of peace after performing on stage
• 01:11:22 Being open about your mental health 
• 01:17:02 Taylor on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Taylor Tomlinson | Instagram
• Taylor Tomlinson | Facebook
• Taylor Tomlinson | TikTok
• Taylor Tomlinson | Website
• Taylor Tomlinson | Netflix
• Sad in the City

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We all want peace in our life. We all want healthy relationships. We all want positivity to surround us. Therefore we tend to stay away from toxic and negative people. But sometimes, this need to keep toxic and negative people out of our circle is also making us THE toxic and negative person to others. And we may not realize it because we are doing it unconsciously and unintentionally.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty covers the different types of unhealthy behaviors that make relationships draining and how we can carry ourselves with positive energy and optimistic views.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:57 “I’m surrounded by negative and toxic people.”
• 04:50 Type #1: The Complainer
• 10:53 Type #2: The Canceler
• 14:32 Type #3: The Casualty
• 19:23 Type #4: The Critic
• 24:35 Type #5: The Commander
• 28:25 Type #6: The Competitor
• 30:26 Type #7: The Controller

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Jay Shetty sits down with Vanessa Hudgens to talk about manifestation & importance of nurturing your inner child. As we grow up, we always think that we should start being serious in life just because we are adults. But we should always remember that inner child in us, so have fun and believe in magic - protect the child in you. 

Vanessa Hudgens is an American actress, singer, entrepreneur, and producer. After making her feature film debut in Thirteen, she rose to fame portraying Gabriella Montez in the High School Musical film series, which brought her significant mainstream success. 

Since the release of her studio albums and the High School Musical franchise, Vanessa has focused on her acting career. She has appeared in films like Bandslam, Beastly, Sucker Punch, Journey 2: The Mysterious Island, Spring Breakers, The Princess Switch, Second Act, and Bad Boys for Life. She also launched her beverage business, Caliwater, a line of cactus water, and her own skincare brand, Know Beauty.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 05:12 How she discovered ZenZone
• 08:18 Spirituality & mindfulness has always been a part of her life
• 13:15 Importance of having & nurturing your inner child
• 15:23 How she navigated a very tough industry
• 17:35 Experience that gave her a sense of groundedness
• 19:56 Witchcraft and rituals
• 22:35 How rituals & manifestations work for her
• 25:29 Identifying if you are with the right person
• 28:35 Importance of asking the uncomfortable questions
• 31:24 Good things come when you least expect them
• 35:18 Having the confidence on doing things alone
• 40:17 How she remains present
• 43:08 Her passion for collaborating with people
• 46:24 Her creative & intuitive works
• 50:12 How she balances & prioritizes different things in life
• 56:21 Vanessa’s Final Five

Episode Resources

• Vanessa Hudgens | Instagram
• Vanessa Hudgens | Twitter
• Vanessa Hudgens | Facebook

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The daily rush of our careers often gives us so little time to pause, take a break, or have a rest. We are so used to our fast-paced work life that we find it hard to balance work and life, to find balance between building a career and living a good life. Despite this need to rush through the day and get things done, we can and we should find the right balance to live a satisfying life.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares why work stress is catching up with us and how we can be in a state where we can slow down when needed and destress when necessary.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:40 People are stressed
• 06:43 Five states we need on any given day
• 10:05 Write down your general bedtime and wake up time
• 20:45 Meditation helps us develop focus
• 23:15 How do we get energy?
• 24:41 How do we get presence with the people we love?
• 25:56 Ideas give you the ability to plan

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Jay Shetty sits down with Dax Shepard to talk about valuing yourself and sticking to what you believe in above all. At certain points in our life we will come across conflicting interests and opposing ideas, and these could shake the foundation of what we believe to be right. And that’s okay. Living with two opposing ideas can be challenging but these will give us new and better life perspectives. 

Dax Shepard is an actor, comedian, writer, and director, and of course podcast host of one of my favorite podcasts, Armchair Expert. He's known for his appearance in films like Without a Paddle, Zathura: A Space Adventure, Employee of the Month, and many, many more. He also portrayed Crosby Braverman in the NBC comedy drama series, Parenthood from 2010 to 2015. He also played Luke Matthews in the Netflix show, The Ranch, co-starred in ABC's Bless this Mess, and acted in the MTV reality series Punk’d. And since 2018, Dax has hosted the award-winning podcast show, Armchair Expert, where he interviews celebrities, journalists, and academics about the messiness of being human. 

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:30 A good memory but terrible with remembering dates
• 09:00 The memories that support your own identity
• 14:14 The ‘you’ embracing yourself
• 23:04 Running from or embracing your ethnicity
• 26:18 Getting drawn to successful people
• 29:20 The practice of having vulnerable conversations
• 33:08 Getting out of the skepticism
• 38:49 Recognize what the people around you want
• 49:38 Entertaining two ideas at once that are seemingly contradictory
• 56:36 Encouraging critical thinking at home
• 01:06:11 Teaching your children how to be resilient
• 01:10:20 Balance between self validation and humility
• 01:15:43 Dax on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Dax Shepard | Instagram
• Armchair Expert Podcast | YouTube | Instagram | Facebook | Twitter

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Falling in love with someone can happen instantly. Staying in love with the same person is hard work. In most relationships, partnerships last not because of love and all the giddy feelings that come with it. Relationships last when both partners continuously work together to build trust, deal with issues as one but still recognize deferring opinions, and plan a future together with each other’s interest and growth in mind.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares with us the common reasons why many couples fall out of love and ways to save the relationship by keeping the love burning.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:12 The top reasons we fall out of love
• 05:59 Reason #1: We stop learning new things about each other
• 10:41 Reason #2: We stop talking about vulnerable, meaningful topics
• 17:06 Reason #3: We don’t create systems to deal with arguments
• 22:58 Reason #4: When you aren’t emotionally available
• 23:49 Reason #5: No division of chores and responsibilities
• 24:37 Reason #6: Not addressing important issues with your partner

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Jay Shetty sits down with Andrew Huberman to talk about the beauty and power of the human mind. We are all wired to feel emotions based on our experience, on our perception of what is happening around us, and on what we anticipate to happen in the future. And the most fascinating thing is that our mind perceives time differently and is dependent on how we feel. 

Dr. Andrew Huberman is a tenured Professor of Neurobiology and Ophthalmology at Stanford School of Medicine. His laboratory studies neural regeneration and neuroplasticity, and brain states such as stress, focus, fear, and optimal performance. His podcast, The Huberman Lab, discusses neuroscience and science-based tools, including how our brain and its connections with the organs of our body control our perceptions, our behaviors, and our health, as well as existing and emerging tools for measuring and changing how our nervous system works.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:05 The beauty and utility of Biology
• 07:13 How has our relationship with learning been formed over time?
• 12:24 The best way people can approach learning
• 21:14 What happens while we sleep
• 31:05 Are there healthy symbols for the brain?
• 42:57 Self-training in healthy amounts of dopamine
• 44:41 The dopamine reward prediction error
• 49:35 Dopamine can distort our perception of time
• 52:56 How do we become comfortable in the discomfort of change?
• 01:03:45 There’s one trial learning of negative experiences
• 01:14:00 In some relationships, there is a need to bring in dopamine
• 01:20:59 Tattoos and symbols
• 01:27:14 Andrew on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Andrew Huberman | Instagram
• Andrew Huberman | Facebook
• Andrew Huberman | Twitter
• Andrew Huberman | YouTube
• Andrew Huberman | LinkedIn
• Huberman Lab Podcast

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The people worth keeping in our life are those that see our potential and encourage us to work on them to achieve success at work, in our career, in relationships, and in life. Let the values they stand by influence us positively and allow the valuable life experience and knowledge they share to give us a better life perspective.

This week, we listen to Steven Bartlett of The Diary Of A CEO interview Jay Shetty about his childhood, professional career, monkhood, and the life of purpose he is leading as he chats with successful people in pursuit of success, wellbeing, mental health, and love.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 04:04 Formative things from the early years
• 08:05 3 Steps to self-awareness
• 12:23 I talk aloud  to myself a lot
• 16:23 Loneliness and solitude are completely different
• 21:14 The importance of surrounding yourself with people of good value
• 30:58 Are you a remarkable quitter?
• 36:25 It’s always about the middle path
• 43:18 3 effective formats to meditate
• 49:20 How to incorporate meditation in your life
• 54:05 Fear can be healthy or unhealthy based on how we use it
• 01:00:47 We aren’t perfect
• 01:13:38 What does it take to impact someone’s life?
• 01:16:48 Simple fundamentals to live a happy life 
• 01:24:03 The partnership with Calm
• 01:29:40 The people who see your potential
• 01:42:53 The definition of true success

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Jay Shetty talks to Miranda Kerr about the challenges of being a mother, businesswoman, media personality, and an advocate of organic beauty products. Many people are now more aware of the benefits of all organic products and what these products can do for our health and wellbeing. Growing up in a household that also appreciates and practices this, it’s a never ending journey to continuously create and develop products that are purely and genuinely natural.   

Miranda Kerr is a well-known face in the world of fashion. She started a modeling career in her early teens when a friend entered her into a modeling competition, which sparked significant media attention and she soon became the most sought after new face in modeling. In 2007, Victoria's Secret signed Miranda as an angel, making her the first and only Australian model ever to hold the coveted title. Maranda continued to work closely with fashion titans across the world. Now, she is the founder and CEO of the leading global certified organic skincare brand, Kora Organics.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:45 Putting your all into the small things
• 04:57 There’s so much to learn out there
• 11:11 What is a heavy metal detox?
• 13:10 Cultivating passion at a young age
• 19:23 Making space for your own health and wellness
• 24:17 At first, products were made for personal use
• 32:10 Giving people the results that they need
• 36:13 It needs to be certified organic
• 42:51 Latest Kora moisturizer
• 47:03 Miranda on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Miranda Kerr | Instagram
• Miranda Kerr | Facebook
• Miranda Kerr | Twitter
• Miranda Kerr | Website

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Distractions are everywhere. When you’re eating, taking a walk with your dog, having coffee with a friend, or even when you’re rushing towards work, there is always something that can take our attention away. And when we lose focus on our task, we become unproductive which means we get less things done. This can be very frustrating.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about different ways we can divert our attention and lessen the impact of possible distractions that may come our way.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:26 The biggest thing that takes away joy in our life is distractions
• 03:26 The different types of distractions
• 05:17 Principle #1: Recognize that you have the power to ask better questions
• 06:40 Principle #2: How well can you structure your work?
• 08:18 Principle #3: What can you do with a 5-minute break?
• 09:26 Principle #4: Stop creating a teach-me-how-to-treat-you routine
• 16:27 Principle #5: Plan your own distractions
• 17:22 Principle #6: The probability of achieving a goal if you have an idea
• 22:14 Principle #7: Take a social media fast for a week
• 24:10 Principle #8: Stop when you’re being hard on yourself

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Jay Shetty sits down with Tony Robbins to talk about what it truly means to take care of yourself and your body. Often, when we’re young and full of energy, we become fearless, we become risk-takers, we become someone who can do anything and can be anything. But going down this path, without paying attention to our health and what our body needs to stay in shape, our body ages rapidly, we get sick, we become weak.

Tony Robbins is an entrepreneur, #1 NY Times bestselling author, philanthropist, and the nation’s #1 life & business strategist. He has empowered more than 50 million people from 100 countries around the world through his audio programs, educational videos, and live seminars. For more than four and a half decades, millions of people have enjoyed the warmth, humor, and transformational power of Tony’s business and personal development events.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:30 Being 31 years old and was diagnosed with a brain tumor
• 11:03 Why do we wait to experience pain before we decide to change?
• 16:42 The different genes that work magic in our body
• 26:27 Tools and exercises to help build more energy
• 33:32 What is the greatest human mindset and skill?
• 40:58 Three decisions we make in our life
• 48:55 Your focus is controlled by your values and belief systems
• 55:36 The mindset that should keep nurturing
• 01:02:01 What do you look for in a friend?
• 01:04:00 Latest breakthroughs in medical science
• 01:18:41 Tony on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Tony Robbins | Twitter
• Tony Robbins | Facebook
• Tony Robbins | Instagram
• Tony Robbins | LinkedIn
• Tony Robbins | YouTube
• Tony Robbins | Website
• Tony Robbins | Books

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Coming from a bad, toxic, or traumatic relationship would often make us edgy. We build up walls to block the wrong people from ever coming into our lives and putting us through difficult moments and heartbreaking experiences. We lose confidence in others because of our past relationships and in doing so, we may never be ready to open up again for a new relationship. 

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares with us the signs that will tell us when we are ready to love again and when it's okay to entrust our feelings to someone new.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:37 How to know if you're ready to date again
• 04:13 Reasons why couples break up
• 08:40 Principle #1: Have you learned the lesson from the last relationship?
• 14:19 Principle #2: When you’re now able to talk about it
• 15:39 Principle #3: You're ready to take every step for what it truly is
• 17:27 Principle #4: Make sure what to avoid and what to be aware of
• 20:05 Principle #5: This time, you have to set boundaries
• 24:01 Principle #6: Try it out

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Jay Shetty sits down with Charles Duhigg to talk about forming habits, how to think more deeply, and our overall well-being. Habits are deeply ingrained in us, we do them unconsciously and automatically. This is why many people find it difficult to drop negative habits and form positive ones. It is difficult and would often require strong willpower and clear motivation. Yes, it’s difficult but never impossible.

Charles Duhigg, journalist, a New York times bestselling author. He wrote the Power of Habit and Smarter, Faster, Better, which talk about productivity habits, and the science behind it. He joined the New York Times as a staff writer in 2006 and was part of the team that won the 2013 Pulitzer prize in explanatory journalism for the iEconomy, a series that examines the global economy through the lens of Apple. 

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:37 Interest in human behavior
• 05:14 Judgment, guilt, and criticism
• 10:08 The golden rule of habit change
• 16:51 Developing habits often need external reward
• 20:13 We retain negative memory stronger than the positive ones
• 25:17 What are implementation intentions?
• 28:03 How to make it easier to take the first step?
• 35:25 Slow down and make deliberate choices
• 43:38 When does being productive become a bad thing?
• 48:40 Why a sense of well-being is more meaningful
• 56:28 What matters is what we do on average everyday
• 01:00:28 How to make To-Do lists work
• 01:07:25 Allow yourself to think more deeply
• 01:10:06 Charles on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Charles Duhigg | LinkedIn
• Charles Duhigg | Twitter
• Charles Duhigg | Facebook
• Charles Duhigg | Website

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Throughout our lives, we will meet different types of people with different personalities, backgrounds, and journeys. Some, we may connect with easily. Some, we may find hard to be with. If these encounters with people who get to be part of your life, whether positively or negatively, are inevitable, we may as well learn how to deal with them.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares the varying types of people we get to interact with and how we can navigate through difficult situations with them and around them.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:45 We assume that people think like us
• 06:33 Type #1: The Overachiever, the Productive one
• 11:58 Type #2: The Carefree or the Time-Waster
• 17:39 Type #3: The undercover Envious or Jealous one
• 20:20 Type #4: The Supporter for no reason
• 22:26 Type #5: The Needy one
• 24:50 Type #6: The Tough one
• 26:45 Type #7: The Self-Centered one
• 28:38 Type #8: The Generous one
• 29:46 Type #9: The Playful one
• 30:40 Type #10: The Parental one

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Jay Shetty sits down with Lilly Singh to talk about breaking free from the norm and knowing how to become the person you want to be. Our society often has rules, standards, and systems that are seen as absolute, unbending, and necessary. Most people aren’t given the chance to be themselves, work in their own space, and process their experiences at their own pace. What happens when you get to think differently and contribute positively to the world in another way?

Lilly Singh is an incredibly talented, multifaceted entertainer, actress, producer, writer, and creator. A leading force in the digital world, she has amassed a global audience of over 38 million followers across our social media channels, where she writes, directs, producers, and stars in comedic and inspirational videos. Currently, Lily can be seen in the second season of Hulu's comedy, Dollface, where she will play, Liv, a queer borrow note with a confident sense of humor opposite Shay Mitchell. This coming April 2022, she's going to be part of the star-studded ensemble cast for the Dreamworks animation action comedy, The Bad Guys. On April 5th, Lilly will release her second book.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 04:20 Be a Triangle
• 07:35 Another way of contributing to the world
• 12:02 Dismantling your value system
• 15:42 Home is not a physical building
• 21:39 You’re a changing, adapting, and evolving person
• 27:12 “I came out as bisexual to my family…”
• 36:48 A process of meditation that works
• 43:32 The missed calls from the universe
• 49:32 Make sure you have fun
• 59:12 Lilly on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Lilly Singh | Instagram
• Lilly Singh | Twitter
• Lilly Singh | YouTube
• Lilly Singh | Facebook
• Be a Triangle

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Anywhere we go, red flags are signs that we should always look out for. It can mean your safety is compromised. It can mean you are exposed to danger. Now, when it comes to relationships, it can also mean that you are with the wrong person, or worse, you are the wrong person in your current relationship.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty narrates to us the noticeable signs that can tell us that the person we are building a future with may not be the one.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:19 Red flags that you shouldn’t ignore
• 05:35 Sign #1: When someone wants to fall in love too fast
• 12:34 Sign #2: When you don’t take the time to investigate 
• 13:19 Sign #3: When someone talks about their past relationships negatively and blame their partner
• 17:26 Sign #4: They are without because they don’t like to be alone
• 18:13 Sign #5: They are not great with managing conflict
• 21:06 Sign #6: When someone is being touchy without your permission
• 22:29 Sign #7: They make you feel bad for people being attracted to you
• 26:24 Sign #8: When someone distorts reality to suit their narrative

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Jay Shetty sits down with Big Sean to talk about personal growth and dealing with relationships. In order to be of service to others, we all need to take care of our needs first. This is why self-care is something you owe to yourself, it is something you deserve in any way, shape, and form. And when you master self-care, you become better at handling your emotions, you get more invested in your relationships, and you become more aware of the things that truly make you fulfilled and happy.

Big Sean is a popular American rapper. He has won several awards including the ‘MTV Music Awards’, and ‘BET Awards’ over the course of his career. He cites stars like Eminem and Kanye West as his inspirations and has released a total of four music albums till date. Big Sean, in collaboration with rapper and producer Hit-Boy released an EP entitled What You Expect in October 2021.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 04:57 Most of the external things start internally
• 13:24 Be open to other possibilities and options
• 16:35 How often do you practice gratitude?
• 25:29 Self care is the opposite of being selfish
• 32:10 A shift in mindset can totally change our perspective
• 40:06 When you’re rich even without money
• 44:45 Approach everything with happiness within you
• 52:00 We don’t give ourselves permission for things we don't deserve
• 53:13 You have to listen to yourself
• 56:50 How can you serve others?
• 01:00:25 Clear the blockages within you
• 01:06:00 Balancing the distance in your relationship
• 01:15:41 Find someone who you can exchange the same energy with
• 01:23:09 Don’t give up on yourself

Episode Resources

• Big Sean | Instagram
• Big Sean | Twitter
• Big Sean | YouTube
• Big Sean | Facebook
• Big Sean | Website
• Don Life

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Too tired to work. Too tired to move around. Too tired to just do anything. When you’re too exhausted you lack the energy to finish what you need to do, you lose the chance to accomplish important tasks and it only leads to more stress and frustration. It becomes a stumbling block, that when left alone and unaddressed, can become problematic and may affect your routines.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares with us the best practices that can help us regain our strength and replenish our energy to remain productive.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:03 Take a break when you feel too tired
• 05:26 Tip #1: Genuinely clear about how much energy you need
• 14:20 Tip #2: Try getting a shower to freshen up
• 15:57 Tip #3: Listen to music
• 17:16 Tip #4: Exercise
• 19:03 Tip #5: Use standing desk
• 20:25 Tip #6: Practice power naps
• 22:15 Five things to do in five minutes between meetings
• 23:30 Tip #7: Do it then reward yourself

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Jay Shetty sits down with Olivia Culpo to talk about her positive approach in life. From how she started her pageantry journey and later on winning an international title to opening up about her medical condition and learning to be self-sufficient throughout her career, she continues to approach every hurdle with persistence and a free spirit. Sometimes, not taking ourselves too seriously is the best way to move forward.

Olivia Culpo is a leading influencer in the fashion and beauty world, and she’s ready to share her style expertise with the world. Born and raised in Rhode Island, Olivia represented her home state and the United States in the Miss USA and Miss Universe pageants, becoming the first winning contestant representing the United States in 15 years. She’s gone on to work extensively in the modeling, fashion, and beauty space, and loves to share everything from makeup tips to cooking recipes with her followers.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:54 The passion to pursue a family business
• 05:26 Getting into pageantry
• 08:23 Believing in the power of prayer and practicing meditation
• 13:44 We all have something we are working through
• 16:52 Having people you can turn to
• 18:54 Affirmations can be transformative
• 20:24 Going through Endometriosis
• 23:26 Honesty and straightforwardness 
• 26:33 Learning to be self-sufficient
• 32:20 Approaching every opportunity with persistency
• 36:15 Coping with life by being free-spirited
• 40:18 Olivia on Final Five  

Episode Resources

• Olivia Culpo | Website
• Olivia Culpo | Facebook
• Olivia Culpo | Twitter
• Olivia Culpo | Instagram

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Having a space where you feel comfortable to work on your tasks and be productive in your goals, and a safe space for you to be yourself is something we all want for ourselves. But this comfort zone doesn’t offer much room for growth and that is because the repetitive tasks that we do daily to remain productive doesn’t lead to new discoveries, challenges, and creativity. It’s just repetitive and nothing new happens. Growth becomes stagnant.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares with us what keeps us in our comfort zones and what can we do to reinvent ourselves, create new paths, and open new possibilities for personal growth.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:43 How hard can it be to get out of your comfort zone?
• 03:20 Let’s talk about being anxiety neutral
• 07:39 Using a limited set of behaviors to deliver a steady level of performance
• 14:27 The four types of risk takers
• 17:07 Two ways to get out of your comfort zone
• 21:46 The five stages of growth

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Jay Shetty sits down with Imran Amed to talk about his journey in the fashion industry. With a love for business, his career had an illustrious start with Harvard Business school & later his job at McKinsey. Both of which nurtured his analytical skills, but left him unfulfilled and in some cases even encouraged to diminish or hide his true self to fit in. As a creative at heart, he was able to break through to create the leading platform connecting millions of people across the globe through fashion.

As founder, editor-in-chief and CEO of The Business of Fashion, Imran Amed is considered one of the fashion industry’s leading writers, thinkers and commentators. Fascinated by the industry’s potent blend of creativity and business, he began BoF as a blog in 2007, which has since grown into the pre-eminent global fashion industry resource serving a 6 million strong community from over 200 countries. Amed has been named in Fast Company’s annual list of the Most Creative People in Business, British GQ’s list of the 100 Most Influential Men in Britain and Wired UK’s list of the 100 most influential figures in Britain’s digital economy.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:52 Bringing other voices inside the industry
• 05:38 Getting immersed in an international global environment
• 14:47 Finding business school to be a limiting space
• 22:32 Building a platform to connect people with the fashion industry
• 26:35 Feeling unhappy with where you are at now   

Episode Resources

• Imran Amed | LinkedIn
• Imran Amed | Twitter
• Imran Amed | Instagram
• Imran Amed | Biography
• Business of Fashion

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Love isn’t love when you don’t grow together, when you don’t appreciate your partner’s efforts and time, when your goals do not align with the other, and when you aren’t fully committed  to the relationship. Love is deep and sometimes complicated, but it’s never about doing things separately or losing interest in what the other person is doing. 

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about the different things and emotions that are disguised as love and what truly makes a relationship work and last.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:13 How do you know when you’re in love?
• 07:54 Point #1: Validation is not love
• 11:11  Point #2: Trying to be liked is not love
• 14:49 Point #3: Power is not love
• 16:55 Point #4: Pain is not love
• 18:02 Growth is love
• 20:27 Appreciation is love
• 21:26 Alignment is love
• 23:31 Commitment is a sign of love
• 24:07 Experimenting together as love

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Jay Shetty sits down with Dr. Julie Smith to talk about how we deal with our emotions. As a way to cope with difficult situations, we often attempt to block the negative emotions. We tend to shut ourselves down without realizing that blocking negative emotions also means blocking any other emotion. We are built to feel positive and negative emotions everyday because that’s what makes us human.  

Dr. Smith is a Clinical Psychologist, online educator, blogger, and owner of a private practice in Hampshire, England. She has devoted her career to learning everything she can about adult mental health and the intricacies of the human mind. She made it her mission to help as many people as she can to thrive.

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:23 The root of the biggest problems people are facing today
• 05:08 Why are we outsourcing our wellbeing?
• 07:18 We are built to have fluctuating emotions
• 10:39 The struggle of blocking negative emotions
• 16:04 Some days, you just don’t feel motivated
• 23:21 Getting stuck in the same cycle
• 26:28 The difference between thoughts, feelings, and emotions
• 30:11 Stress and anxiety are part of the same threat response
• 35:12 How to better handle someone’s grief
• 42:57 Start taking responsibility for your happiness
• 47:57 An activity that allows you to stop and reflect on an experience
• 51:06 Dr. Julie on Fast Five

Episode Resources

• Dr. Julie Smith | Website
• Dr. Julie Smith | Instagram
• Dr. Julie | Latest Book

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There are times when you’re full of energy that you get to be productive and efficient throughout the day. There are also times when you feel drained, exhausted, and unproductive, you just want to scroll through your phone, do nothing at all, or just sleep it off. During days like this, how can you find the motivation to stand up and do something worthwhile and productive? How can you push through despite not feeling like it?

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about the different principles we can practice when we’re too out of it but you still need to get moving and get things done.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:03 What’s the most important skill you have?
• 06:18 Step #1: Intrinsic versus extrinsic motivators
• 10:20 Step #2: Everything must be in your schedule
• 12:21 Step #3: Plan for the voice in our head
• 16:55 Step #4: Push through and measure how you feel after not before
• 21:35 Step #5: See how it fits into the bigger picture
• 22:36 Step #6: Create accountability
• 23:18 Step #7: Give yourself a break
• 24:37 Step #8: If you don’t feel like doing it, outsource it
• 25:06 Step #9: Remind yourself what that was like, have gratitude
• 26:16 Step #10: Create an external announcement that you’ll do something

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Jay Shetty chats with Lauren London about her spiritual journey and healing. She shares how the tragic death of her partner has helped strengthen her faith, dealing with things that are out of your control, using her pain to help and serve others, and maintaining the spirit of celebration.  

is an actress, model, and television personality. She first earned recognition and rose to fame for portraying Erin "New New" Garnett in the 2006 coming-of-age film ATL. She has starred in several films including Baggage Claim and The Perfect Match.

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:39 Strengthening faith and reconnecting with God
• 07:26 At the age when you express what you had internalized
• 10:41 Finding protection from a higher being
• 13:01 When you don’t have anything to lean on
• 16:05 The ultimate lesson of not having control
• 19:09 This shared love for reading and spiritual bonding
• 22:54 We are all masculine and feminine energy
• 25:33 A time when it’s difficult to go back to acting
• 29:28 Using your story to help and encourage others
• 35:13 Lessons we can learn from our children
• 39:47 Creating motivational content
• 42:24 Being in the spirit of celebration
• 45:41 Lauren on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Lauren London | Instagram
• Lauren London | Twitter

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Falling out of love is the hardest part in any relationship. When love is gone, we lose interest and compassion, and we eventually disconnect from our partner. When the connection starts to wane, we become less intimate, we become less passionate, we become less of a couple. Eventually, we lose the partnership we worked so hard to build in the early stages of the relationship.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares with us different ways to reignite intimacy more naturally to further strengthen our relationship and build better connection with our partner.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:14 Methods to stop relationships from getting boring
• 04:21 Principle #1: You have to disclose more of yourself
• 08:08 Principle #2: Doing something fresh together
• 10:00 Principle #3: Take on a project together
• 15:05 Principle #4: Create a safe space for your partner to be honest with you
• 24:20 Principle #5: The five E’s to create intimacy 

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Jay Shetty sits down with Adam Goldston to talk about his entrepreneurial journey. It started with what was then considered a wild idea from two 22-year olds and has ended with a brand that has been revolutionized with technology for maximum comfort and performance. Adam’s story is one that truly is inspirational for he isn’t just a businessman but a person who has learned to turn negativity into opportunities and creativity. 

Adam Goldston, together with his brother Ryan, founded Athletic Propulsion Labs (APL) at the age of 22. As former two sport collegiate athletes, playing both basketball and football at the University of Southern California, Adam and Ryan created APL with a vision to make revolutionary products symbolizing the intersection of luxury and performance. Today APL is globally recognized as a world leader in Men’s and Women’s athletic footwear and apparel.

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 04:24 You always focus on where you want to be
• 11:27 Changing your environment when you believe you need to
• 16:31 Hearing important things at the right moment and then doing it
• 23:17 Exposure to footwear technology since childhood
• 28:34 Embracing the negative and turning it into a positive
• 33:04 When faced with negative emotions, embrace and process it
• 35:55 When making decisions, anchor them in clear deliverables
• 42:56 Doing things that we don't truthfully believe in
• 46:29 Three things to do to successfully turn an idea into a business
• 48:10 Knowing what schedule works best for you
• 56:04 Redefining effectiveness and efficiency
• 59:15 Leaving your comfort zone for inspiration and creativity 
• 01:05:16 Adam on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Athletic Propulsion Labs
• Adam Goldston | Instagram
• Adam Goldston | LinkedIn
• Adam Goldston | Twitter

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Have you ever wondered how your way of breathing impacts your mood and energy? Have you ever thought about why breaths are so important in meditation, in calming ourselves when we’re in panic, in shaking off negative thoughts? Breathing is more than just taking in oxygenized air and puffing out carbon waste. It’s an integral tool in preparing your body and mind for your daily activities. 

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty teaches us different breathing techniques we can easily incorporate in our lives to help improve energy and reduce stress.     

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:10 How many times have you ever been out of breath?
• 08:25 Habit #1: The 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 technique
• 12:59 Habit #2: Diaphragmatic breathing
• 16:05 Habit #3: Box or square breathing
• 21:54 Habit #4: Kapalbhati Pranayama (KBP)

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Jay Shetty sits down with Payal Kadakia to talk about pursuing passion and overcoming limitations. Success is achieved when you know what your passion is, you learn how to develop that passion, and recognize the hurdles you have to overcome. Success is when you find a solution to solve your problem and then find ways to scale it so others having similar problems can solve theirs too.

Payal is a Mother, Artist and Entrepreneur. The first company she founded, ClassPass, is the leading fitness and wellness membership company with members logging more than 100 million hours of workouts across 30,000 partner studios in over 30 countries. An MIT graduate, Choreographer and Philanthropist, Payal continues to serve as mentor and investor to other artists and female founded companies, championing the South Asian community throughout North America.

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:37 Something in your life that brings so much joy
• 05:51 Will you fight to dance?
• 10:37 The best ideas come out from your own struggles
• 18:17 How to know when you aren’t in the right environment
• 23:15 Learning how to lead with a vision
• 29:52 Despite the success, you still need to learn and grow
• 35:38 The effective ways to set goals
• 43:00 Build a support structure around your ambition
• 49:58 Payal on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Payal Kadakia | Website
• Payal Kadakia | Instagram
• Payal Kadakia | LinkedIn
• Payal Kadakia | Twitter
• Life Pass: Drop Your Limits Rise To Your Potential

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What makes a good partner? Are you doing your part in making the relationship work? Do you see yourself being in a relationship with the person you are with now for years to come? If so, have you found the right blend of love, understanding, and communication to make it last?

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty discusses the principles of love we ought to learn and practice for a harmonious and worth keeping relationship this year.     

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:09 Are soulmates real?
• 06:46 Principle #1: A relationship only works If both people are working on it
• 10:39 Principle #2: Relationships are a classroom, not a candy shop
• 13:28 Principle #3: Be playful but don’t play mind games
• 16:37 Principle #4: Making someone feel bad does make them become good
• 18:37 Principle #5: You have to learn about the person again and again
• 21:40 Principle #6: Work on a relationship priority together every month
• 23:15 Principle #7: Any recurring issues, solve them for the long term
• 23:57 Principle #8: Prepare your partner for your mood swings
• 25:01 Principle #9: Don't make them work through your trauma, work on it yourself 
• 25:42 Principle #10: Focus on how you can compliment your partner
• 26:26 Principle #11: Recognized what they bring into the relationship   

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Jay Shetty chats with Reid Hoffman about entrepreneurship. As a known personality in the business world, Reid tells us how business people become successful entrepreneurs, how to identify which ideas are worth cultivating, the art of saying “Not right now”, and the value behind experimentation. 

Reid is an internet entrepreneur, venture capitalist, podcaster, and author. Hoffman was the co-founder and executive chairman of LinkedIn, a business-oriented social network used primarily for professional networking. He is currently a partner at the venture capital firm Greylock Partners. He's also the host of the Masters of Scale Podcast, where he shows how companies grow from zero to a gazillion, testing his theories with legendary leaders.

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:11 How did you become an entrepreneur?
• 05:44 The mistake you shouldn’t avoid
• 08:57 Defining growing and scaling a business
• 13:28 The ideas that will actually work
• 17:53 Frequently, you'll say, “Not right now.”
• 20:27 Every YES involves a leap of faith 
• 23:47 If it’s really important, experiment with it
• 26:33 The path that got you here isn’t the path that will get you there
• 30:51 Ask, “What won’t work about this idea?”
• 38:28 The most critical part of hiring
• 42:15 Culture should always seek excellence, but specific 
• 46:54 Spend time observing the unguided and unforced interaction with the product or service
• 50:54 Entrepreneurial journeys are team sport
• 53:12 Reid on Fast Five  

Episode Resources

• Reid Hoffman | LinkedIn
• Reid Hoffman | Twitter
• Reid Hoffman | Website
• Masters of Scale Podcast

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What can you do to strengthen your relationship? What have you done so far to keep your relationship loving and harmonious? Have you recognized the setbacks that could potentially affect it? There are a lot of factors that can impact the bond you have with your significant other. All we need is to recognize them and deal with them with an open mind.

In this episode, Jay Shetty shares the common mistakes we consciously or unconsciously make throughout our relationships and how we can pivot from them to stay in love, in peace, and united.   

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:52 What defines the quality of our lives?
• 03:41 Mistake #1: When our partner is sharing their pain, we choose to complain
• 07:46 Mistake #2: We’re scared to say we need distance or space from our partner
• 12:30 Mistake #3: We use safe or unhealthy language
• 16:36 Mistake #4: Honesty plus love has to be the way it works
• 19:46 Mistake #5: Communicate how you want them to improve 
• 22:50 Mistake #6: Stop trying to get their respect indirectly

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Corinne Foxx sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about mental health. Diagnosed with anxiety at age 14, connecting with people became a challenge. She shares how coaching and therapy helped her get through her most difficult times and how she’s giving back as a volunteer after receiving help from others. Learning how to meditate and have the freedom to be creative continuously strengthens her resolve to keep sharing her talents with the world.  

Corinne is the daughter of actor and singer Jamie Foxx. She is also a model, actress, a television producer, and became the DJ for the second and third season of Beat Shazam. In 2019, she starred in the horror sequel 47 Meters Down: Uncaged. 

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:51 Filming 47 Meters Down in London
• 05:21 Living with the “You can do anything” mantra
• 07:07 Getting help from life coaches and therapists
• 10:53 A lot of people don’t feel they deserve help
• 12:43 Yin Yang father-daughter relationship
• 15:20 Different positions we have in our family
• 18:04 “My mental health journey” - Corinne
• 23:41 Forced therapy backfires sometimes
• 29:10 Volunteer work at the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)
• 32:30 Meditation is a mental health toolkit
• 35:48 When is your most creative moment?
• 38:40 Daily meditation practice
• 39:51 Are you an introvert?
• 42:12 Why listen to Am I Doing This Right? podcast
• 47:24 Other people’s habit or principle that amazes you
• 51:55 When you’re nervous, at least know your lines
• 53:56 Corinne on Final Five  

Episode Resources:

• Am I Doing This Right?
• Corinne Foxx | Instagram
• Corinne Foxx | Twitter

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Maybe now is the best time to check if you’ve got the right people surrounding you. Is that someone being helpful to your personal growth? Is that person giving value to what you do and appreciating the things that you’ve spent your time effort into? Are you getting the support that you need when you need it? Are you with the right company? 

In this episode, Jay Shetty talks about the types of people you need to surround yourself with so you can freely express who you are and help lead you to the right path.   

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:40 The types of people you need to surround yourself with
• 07:33 Type #1: Cheerleaders
• 11:14 Type #2: Someone who checks you
• 14:28 Type #3: Someone that cares for you
• 16:00 Type #4: Someone with high character
• 19:23 Type #5: Someone competent in the areas you want to grow
• 20:33 Type #6: Someone that is consistently there
• 21:34 Type #7: Someone that champions you
• 22:49 Type #8: Someone that challenges you

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Jay Shetty talks to Ryan Holiday about why being too comfortable won’t help you grow. When you take risks, you prepare yourself to be mentally and emotionally present and be ready for what may happen. Taking risks without fearing what might happen is the foundation that allows us to evolve for better even when constraints are present and some things are just out of our control.  

Ryan is a Wall Street Journal bestselling author, book store owner, public-relations strategist, and host of the podcast The Daily Stoic. Some of his best selling books are The Obstacle Is The Way, Ego Is the Enemy, Stillness is the Key, and The Daily Stoic. He owns and operates Painted Porch Bookshop, an independent bookstore in Bastrop, Texas. He lives on a 40-acre ranch in Bastrop County, Texas with his wife and two sons.

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 04:42 It takes 10,000 hours to get to mastery
• 05:45 Opening a bookstore during the pandemic
• 10:27 How do you know which books to read?
• 17:36 What courage truly means
• 20:37 We’re all self-interested people but we value other people’s opinion
• 26:17 If you’re in a place where you identify with external results, you become vulnerable
• 30:34 Cultivating the ability to push through your fear
• 33:55 Being too comfortable makes you afraid to take risks
• 40:25 Deciding not to see the world as a zero sum place
• 45:00 When you make trade offs that aren’t worth it
• 46:07 Just how much is out of your control?
• 48:54 Positive changes out of situational constraints
• 51:17 What is heroism?
• 55:58 Ryan on Fast Five

Episode Resources

• Ryan Holiday | Website
• Ryan Holiday | Twitter
• Ryan Holiday | Facebook
• Ryan Holiday | Instagram
• Ryan Holiday | Books

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

What is pattern interruption? It is the core value to successfully break a bad habit. To successfully embrace change, you need to change the usual. You need to alter your routine. You need to adjust the patterns you are so used to following and replace it with a new one. In truth, you can’t remove something without replacing it with something better. 

In this episode, Jay Shetty shares simple yet doable ways to gradually break free from unwanted habits to form new and meaningful ones.  

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:10 How do we break habits?
• 01:56 Step #1: Realize it did serve you at one point
• 06:54 Step #2: Realize what’s motivating you
• 10:15 Step #3: Know every single trigger
• 13:13 Step #4: Remove the triggers that don’t need to be in close proximity
• 15:28 Step #5: Create a system for each trigger you can’t remove
• 16:57 Step #6: Having someone you call just when you’re about to mess up
• 18:11 Step #7: Finding replacements

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Jay Shetty talks to NBA legend Dwyane Wade about his journey on and off the court. From staying true to his spiritual belief through every game and creating meaningful relationships with his family and friends to helping and building a community out of passion and goodwill and looking past the present to be able to do more. 

As a three-time NBA Champion, Olympic Gold medalist, and thirteen-time NBA All-Star, Dwyane Wade has experienced a whirlwind career. Wade officially retired from the NBA after sixteen years following his 2018-19 season. His #OneLastDance farewell tour included jersey exchanges, gifts, and tributes. Wade partnered with Bleacher Report on a D. Wade World Tour apparel series to celebrate the final season of his career and pay tribute to his influence on and off the court. He received the NBA’s 2012-2013 Community Assist Award in recognition of his efforts in the community and his philanthropic work.  

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 02:57 The emotional journey of putting a picture book together
• 04:19 The beauty of life is always the unknown
• 05:42 In every game, don’t forget to be thankful
• 10:21 Having the right support to lift you in your journey
• 12:10 The value of association
• 14:52 A coach that helps you achieve success
• 17:00 When you think differently and look at things differently
• 19:14 Being open gives you experiences you haven’t imagine
• 21:35 When we’re not enjoying the journey
• 24:54 What matters is YOU
• 29:54 Maintaining great relationships despite a difficult childhood
• 31:56 Creating moments with people and living through the memories
• 36:02 From a powerless youth to a man with a voice
• 38:02 Support the people who are doing the work on the ground
• 40:19 Develop yourself through professionals
• 42:16 The legend that is Kobe Bryant
• 44:20 Why should you be happy every morning?

Episode Resources

• Dwyane Wade | Twitter
• Dwyane Wade | Instagram
• Dwyane Wade | Facebook
• Dwyane Wade | YouTube
• Dwyane Wade | Website
• Dwyane, a photo memoir

If the past year was a year of failed relationships and unhealthy partnerships, you can always turn things around and start anew. Whether it’s reconnecting with an old friend, spending time with your family or your partner, you can always find ways to reignite the lost connections. Make this year a year of positive and genuine relationships. Make this year count! 

In this episode, Jay Shetty talks about the steps and activities we can all start doing for the betterment of our relationships and creating stronger bonds with the people we love. 

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:47 We forget that we have to reconnect with the people around us
• 03:55 Activity #1: Weekly check ins
• 10:43 Activity #2: Plan holidays and intentions in advance 
• 16:03 Activity #3: Make sure you discuss alone time
• 20:47 Activity #4: Choose questions you want to ask and you want to answer
• 23:43 Activity #5: Going to bed at the same time is extremely important
• 27:04 Activity #6: How you share those beginning and ending moments matter

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Jay Shetty sits down with Ed Winters to uncover his path to veganism, from regularly eating chicken burgers to becoming one of the world’s leading advocates of switching to a vegan lifestyle. We discuss the influence our cognitive biases & cultural habits have on our lifestyle choices, what actually constitutes animal cruelty & what we can do about it, and how we can vote for change with the dollars we spend at the grocery store.

Ed Winters is a vegan educator, public speaker and content creator, widely known for his viral debates, speeches, and video essays. He has given speeches across the world, including at the University of Cambridge, EPFL, Google NYC and Google Zürich. Ed has also debated numerous times on live television and radio, and has been featured on the BBC, ITV and LadBible. He also co-founded The No Catch Co. in 2021, an ethical vegan fish and chip shop company taking on the traditional British fish and chip shop model & wrote his debut book This is Vegan Propaganda (And Other Lies the Meat Industry Tells You).

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 03:39 How Ed Winters started his journey with veganism
• 11:27 The Ostrich Effect & the influence our cognitive biases have on us
• 15:44 How Ed Winters found his voice in activism without being judgemental
• 20:18 How to actually make the shift to veganism sustainable
• 28:30 This is why being an animal lover & eating meat don’t go hand-in-hand
• 33:02 Why animal farming still constitutes animal cruelty
• 35:34 The impact of culture & tradition on our relationships with animals
• 44:42 Good people can engage in things that are bad, but that’s okay as long as you try your best to make a positive change
• 49:37 How to make going vegan more affordable & the power your dollar has on the food industry
• 56:24 Ed Winters on the Final Five

Episode Resources

• Ed’s Book | This Is Vegan Propaganda: (And Other Lies the Meat Industry Tells You)
• Ed Winters | Instagram
• Ed Winters | YouTube

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Many of us practice the habit of making a new year’s resolution, often to change something, to achieve something, or build something. Our resolutions are pointed toward starting fresh and having a productive year ahead.

But some don’t get to fulfill this list. Some don’t get to make a significant change in their life because they often don’t develop the resolve to fulfill them. The goal is clear but the path to reach that goal is undefined and the intention to create that path isn’t set.  

In this episode, Jay Shetty talks about the steps to help you start these significant changes right away and achieve results that are truly life-changing.

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Key Takeaways:

• 02:00 Setting your goals doesn’t mean you’ll get there
• 05:19 Step #1: It all starts with, “What’s your goal?”
• 09:00 Step #2: Why we need to monitor obsessively
• 13:31 Step #3: There are four steps to change
• 18:42 Step #4: Difference between efficiency and effectiveness
• 22:07 Step #5: The balance between thinking and acting
• 24:29 Step #6: Growth versus goals
• 25:43 Step #7: The 3 L’s of a phenomenal year

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This is a special episode of On Purpose where Gwyneth Paltrow sits down with Jay Shetty in her goop event held at the Porsche Design Center in Los Angeles with only 150 people in the audience. We get to listen to Jay’s journey as a monk and his career shift after leaving monkhood, how we can condition our mind to find strength and happiness, and what can help us learn how to appreciate our step by step journey.  

Gwyneth is an American actress and lifestyle innovator. She won an Oscar for Best Actress for her role in Shakespeare in Love in 1999, and later appeared in Iron Man and other films from the Marvel franchise. Her lifestyle brand, goop, was launched in 2008.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:17 From being a monk to a life coach
• 05:28 Why mini experiments are important in our lives
• 08:23 The more choices we have, the worst mistakes we make
• 10:05 Learning how to find stillness in discomfort
• 13:50 Why our minds are compared to monkeys
• 16:49 When you wake up to notifications, negativity, news, and noise
• 22:03 Committing to a 2-hour daily meditation
• 25:51 The types of meditation 
• 28:28 Appreciating where you are in life
• 31:06 Create dreams through people
• 33:28 The most powerful dreams are linked to service and impact
• 35:07 When is the best time to switch?

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Episode Resources:

• Gwyneth Paltrow | Twitter
• Gwyneth Paltrow | Instagram
• Gwyneth Paltrow | Facebook
• goop

When you think about the past, what can you remember the most? What have become the most memorable moments in your life? Was it a childhood trip on the beach? A Christmas present that you still kept with you until today?

In this episode, Jay Shetty shares the lessons he has learned from his past interviews and solo episodes, and how life changing these conversations are for the past two years. 

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• 02:18 Lessons learned over the last 300 episodes
• 02:54 Lesson #1: Be patient for the big things and impatient about the small things
• 06:17 Lesson #2: Nothing is as scary as you think
• 12:53 Lesson #3: People won’t always see your best work, do it anyway
• 16:54 Lesson #4: People will surprise you if you let them
• 19:25 Lesson #5: You don’t know what anyone is going through, so don’t waste your time on it
• 20:23 Lesson #6: Your health is unique so treat it that way
• 24:50 Lesson #7: Figure out what you like doing with your partner and with friends
• 26:57 Lesson #8: You can do anything you want in 48 hours if your pur your mind into it 
• 30:24 Lesson #9: Consistency continues to bring the greatest joy
• 32:17 Lesson #10: Experiences are greater than things

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Scott O'Neil sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about positive intent. It’s in assuming a positive intent in all that we do where we can calmly and level-headedly make important decisions, resolve conflicts, and engage in difficult conversations. And when we transition into another phase in our life, we all need to surround ourselves with people who can give us constructive, honest feedback. 

Scott is the Chief Executive Officer of Harris Blitzer Sports & Entertainment, an organization with the mission of building passionate, high-performing teams that inspire people to enhance the communities where its teams live, work, play and win. With more than 20 years of experience in the NBA, NHL and NFL, O’Neil has earned a reputation as a leader of leaders and is one of the most connected, dynamic and driven executives in the industry today.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:34 Finding you “be where your feet are” moment
• 06:23 Have the community control their destiny
• 09:12 Common language: Assume Positive Intent (API)
• 13:20 When no one is assuming positive intent
• 19:54 Learning a lot more when you trip and fall
• 22:47 A formula for your mental health
• 27:12 We all just need to ask for help if we need it
• 31:41 Find your true perspective
• 37:42 Find your own morning routine to start your day
• 44:38 Try to track your happy thoughts daily
• 47:15 Seek authentic feedback from people who can help you grow
• 56:15 Transitions are hard for a lot of people
• 57:52 Hunt and Kill vs Seek and Grow
• 01:04:26 Why it’s hard to say NO
• 01:07:58 Three most important things: health, sadhana, savor
• 01:13:19 Be present and create meaningful moments with your family
• 01:15:59 It’s the positive things that you remember
• 01:18:29 How not to get distracted and stay in the moment
• 01:21:07 Scott on Final Five

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Episode Resources:

• Scott O'Neil | Twitter
• Scott O'Neil | LinkedIn
• Be Where Your Feet Are

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The new year begins next week, now is the time to reflect on everything that has happened in your life in 2021. In this episode, Jay Shetty shares 9 questions that you can use to reflect on the past, to show up as your best self in the future. There’s no need to wait for New Years to become a new you.

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• 00:23 Live from Jay's childhood home & what it feels like to be back home
• 01:24 The importance of reflection around the holidays
• 03:00 Question #1 - What made you feel most happy this year?
• 06:54 Question #2 - What made you unhappy this year?
• 09:54 Question #3 - What was the biggest lesson you learned this past year?
• 11:58 Question #4 - What do you wish you would have done more of this year?
• 13:46 Question #5 - What's something you want to do less of next year?
• 14:50 Question #6 - What was your biggest success this year?
• 18:27 Question #7 - When was a moment you failed this year?
• 20:24 Question #8 - What is something you want to learn next year?
• Question #9 - What is your favorite way to refuel?

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Simi and Haze Khadra chat with Jay Shetty about using the influence they have built together over the years and the experiences they’ve had while living in different countries, they are very vocal about humanitarian oppression the world is not fully seeing, continuous learning through books and proper education, and creating a brand that aims to support inclusion and diversity.

Simi & Haze, Khadra also known as the fashion duo called Simi & Haze, are of Palestinian descent, born in Saudi Arabia, raised in London, attended high school in Dubai, and majored in film production & fine art in which they both graduated in the top two-percent of their class. The celebrity DJ duo continues to perform at festivals and has a strong social media presence. They recently launched their very own beauty brand called SIMIHAZE Beauty.

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Episode Resources:

• Simi and Haze Khadra | Website
• Simi and Haze Khadra | Instagram
• Simi and Haze Khadra | Twitter
• Simi and Haze Khadra | Pinterest

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Who doesn’t love the holidays? But we all know the most wonderful time of the year can be stressful. Whether it’s the stress of giving gifts, difficult family members reopening old wounds, heated debates with that stubborn aunt or uncle, it’s important to remain calm and stay present.

In this episode, Jay Shetty shares 4 of the most common sources of Christmas stress, along with 6 simple, practical steps to reduce anxiety during the most wonderful time of the year (or family gatherings in general)

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• 00:00 - Who doesn’t love the holiday season? But it can be stressful
• 03:25 - Research from APA.org Holiday Stress & Resource Center
• 06:18 - Stress #1, dealing with the pressure of gift giving
• 09:26 - Stress #2, receiving unwanted gifts & how to handle disappointment
• 12:32 - Stress #3, finances & overspending during the holidays
• 14:52 - Stress #4, relationships & reopening old family wounds
• 17:00 - Step #1, be cautious with your calendar & it’s okay to say “No”
• 18:19 - Step #2, prioritize sleep & get enough rest
• 20:22 - Step #3, allow for imperfection & be okay with not meeting expectations
• 21:48 - Step #4, focus on what matters - connection & making new memories
• 23:23 - Step #5, know that winning an argument with family doesn’t solve anything
• 23:42 - Step #6, don’t wait until the New Year to take time to reflect

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Maitreyi Ramakrishnan chats with Jay Shetty about her acting journey. Breaking through the film industry requires a lot of hard work and a lot of people don’t actually take into consideration the amount of work she has put in to continuously play the title role. Add in a good amount of luck and her will to stand for herself and never shy away from asking questions.

Maitreyi is best known for portraying Devi Vishwakumar, a 15-year-old high school sophomore, in Netflix's hit series, Never Have I Ever. She created her audition tape at a local library, using her mother's camera, eventually being asked to send four more videos, before having a screen test in Los Angeles and being offered the role. Maitreyi is very vocal about diversity and standing up for yourself.   

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:45 Breaking through Hollywood with a South Asian heritage
• 07:07 Raised to speak up your mind
• 10:00 “I didn’t like myself.”
• 14:51 Generational talk divides us
• 16:53 Having a grandma as your best friend
• 18:54 When you have family and friends that listen
• 22:30 The strong passion for acting
• 25:44 The day she filmed the audition tape
• 29:48 Always give it your best shot
• 30:43 The first day and the first scene shoot
• 34:25 Dealing with impostor syndrome
• 37:38 Everything happened in different ways for people
• 41:05 “Respect existence, expect resistance.”
• 43:42 Not enough representation of true diversity
• 50:02 The story she stood up for someone
• 53:14 Maitreyi on Final Five

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Episode Resources:

• Maitreyi Ramakrishnan | Instagram
• Maitreyi Ramakrishnan | Twitter
• Maitreyi Ramakrishnan | TikTok
• Maitreyi Ramakrishnan | Facebook

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

What are your expectations in your current relationship? Do you wish for your partner to like the things that you like, enjoy the things that you enjoy doing, and share the same passion with you? Or do you want your partner to carve their own path along with you?

In many relationships, this idealism that your partner needs to like what you like, love what you love, and hate what you hate in the pretext that it should be how they show their love for you can be toxic. It can strip away your partner's identity and freedom. It can be suffocating.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty tells us the common mistakes we make that don't help our relationships grow and what you can do now to strengthen it.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:41 The mistakes we make in a relationship
• 02:58 Mistake #1: We make someone our everything
• 07:28 Mistake #2: You’re with someone for they could be, not for who they are
• 12:33 Mistake #3: You stay too long because you’re scared to be seen as the bad person
• 15:04 Mistake #4: We trade time with our partners instead of creating new experiences
• 16:39 Mistake #5: You want them to like what you like
• 18:12 Mistake #6: You don’t take the time to understand why they are the way they are
• 20:06 Mistake #7: You talk to too many people but not to the person you’re in a relationship with
• 21:31 Mistake #8: You’re mad at them for the sacrifices you made that they didn’t ask for
• 23:47 Mistake #9: Know the difference between ownership, partnership, and relationship

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Liz Plosser chats with Jay Shetty to talk about the beauty of setting your morning right. The things that happen throughout the day are often beyond our control that leaves us frustrated and disappointed. This is why setting the right energy in your morning, after waking up, can help you become better prepared for what may happen within the day and still maintain a positive composure. 

Liz is the Editor-in-Chief of Women’s Health, overseeing the brand across its print and digital platforms and various brand extensions, reaching an audience of 47+ million women monthly. She is a marathoner, triathlete and boutique fitness–lover, and believes that sweat changes everything… positively impacting your mental, emotional, and mental health. 

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:09 Doing something you love and get paid for doing it
• 06:03 Useful skills that are integral to your purpose
• 10:08 Having a partner who supports you all the way
• 15:05 Leaders must remember the nuts and bolts on the ground level
• 18:59 Most of the time, we can control what happenings in the morning
• 22:21 Signs you’re a morning person
• 25:03 How to become a morning person
• 29:20 Have clear values and take little micro actions
• 32:50 Mornings can just be chaotic
• 35:56 Journaling can help lessen your morning mess
• 38:28 You don’t have to wait to start making changes
• 46:28 How to start a journaling practice
• 51:07 How do you win your weekend and how does that transform the week?
• 54:29 It’s better to say NO quickly
• 55:16 Liz on Final Five

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Episode Resources:

• Liz Plosser | Instagram
• Liz Plosser | LinkedIn
• Liz Plosser | Twitter
• Liz Plosser | Book

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The career path that we choose is influenced by a lot of factors - our mindset, goals, passion, and most especially the circumstances that surround us. We have a vision of where we want to be, but sometimes, we take a different route, we take a detour.

And that’s completely okay. You can have stopovers, fill up your gas, grab a bite and quench your thirst. You can have those moments where you go astray. And you can always return to that path that will lead you to success. 

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares several mistakes we unconsciously make that hinder our character growth and what we can do to correct them. 

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:43 Let’s focus on what we do to make money
• 02:20 Three classes of intelligence
• 04:40 Mistake #1: We build our careers around one revenue stream
• 08:21 Mistake #2: Being an out and out generalist
• 12:59 Mistake #3: Disregarding social media
• 16:43 Mistake #4: Complacency
• 19:34 Mistake #5: We celebrate for too long or we don’t celebrate at all
• 22:02 Mistake #6: Over reliance on one person
• 23:46 Mistake #7: Just watching the competition and getting disheartened
• 24:28 Mistake #8: Listening to what your company tells you
• 24:53 Mistake #9: Don’t ignore statistics but be led by your intuition

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What happens when we ask ourselves if our actions are rooted in being of service to humanity or if they are self-serving? Podcast host, New York Times bestselling author, and former monk, Jay Shetty shares his fascinating journey of being raised by and around powerful women, how masculinity manifested in insecurities, and how he discovered that service is at the core of his being. Jay makes ancient wisdom relevant and accessible as he invites us to lean into self-compassion, solitude, and a purpose beyond ourselves.

The Man Enough Podcast is produced by Wayfarer Studios and presented by Proctor and Gamble, in partnership with Cadence 13, an Audacy company.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 06:06 Appreciate the person who helped you learn a positive habit
• 08:28 When did you feel like you weren’t a man?
• 12:57 What is service for a man?
• 17:52 It’s human desire to be inspired and project perfection on to anyone
• 21:11 Doing business in a more spiritual way
• 24:07 Billionaires are people who impacts the lives of a billion people
• 27:36 Both the giver and receiver are serving
• 34:52 How not to get crushed by social media
• 37:51 Set your intention when you create a piece of content
• 42:56 Allow yourself to have compassion for yourself
• 43:30 Getting addicted to playing video games
• 48:05 Man Enough’s Rapid Fire Questions  

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Episode Resources:

• The Man Enough Podcast
• We Are Man Enough | Twitter
• We Are Man Enough | YouTube
• We Are Man Enough | Facebook
• We Are Man Enough | Instagram

We all have our own struggles. We all have battles we face daily and fight differently. We all have baggage that we drag around anywhere we go. We all have that something that takes away our peace.

And because we get caught up in situations we didn’t expect and get caught in, our stress levels rise and because of this, we find it hard to cool down and relax at the end of our day.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares with us ways, both small and big, to calm down and maintain a level of inner peace and life balance. 

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:44 Create more peace and balance in your life
• 04:59 Step #1: Don’t obsess over peace and balance
• 07:44 Step #2: What we think, say, and do are aligned
• 10:49 Step #3: Start your day with peace
• 11:54 Step #4: Do something good for yourself
• 14:34 Step #5: Tell the truth always
• 16:29 Step #6: Create an environment of peace
• 19:30 Step #7: Stop assuming and under communicating
• 20:03 Step #8: Work for something that your happy to stress for 

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Demi Lovato chats with Jay Shetty about expanding your consciousness. It’s about finding grace and compassion for others when people don’t have a clear understanding of your own consciousness and how you identify as. It’s about holding your ground and staying calm when some people aren’t ready to accept you for who you truly are. And it’s about strengthening your resolve through meditation.

Demi gained popularity as Mitchie Torres in the musical television film Camp Rock and its sequel Camp Rock 2: The Final Jam. On television, they served as one of the judges on The X Factor USA for its second and third seasons, and they joined the cast of the Smurfs: The Lost Village as the voice behind the lead role, Smurfette. Aside from remaining active in the music industry, they have talked with notable guests in their podcast, 4D with Demi Lovato

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:24 How life changing quarantine is
• 04:23 “I was a very ambitious 5-year old”
• 06:10 Expanding our consciousness
• 08:20 What helped you expand your consciousness?
• 11:51 Finding your own identity
• 15:32 What gender non-conforming means
• 17:38 Developing grace and compassion through meditation
• 21:36 You don’t have to be perfect to be able to meditate
• 27:09 Allowing your playfulness and energy to come through
• 36:40 Honor that voice inside of you
• 38:06 Reading, journaling, and meditation
• 41:40 Demi’s love for UFO’s and the extraterrestrial
• 48:06 Spending time with people who help you co-regulate
• 48:39 Demi on Fast Five

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Episode Resources:

• Demi Lovato | Instagram
• Demi Lovato | Facebook
• Demi Lovato | Twitter
• Demi Lovato | YouTube
• Demi Lovato | Website
• 4D with Demi Lovato

A lasting relationship doesn't just thrive on love alone. It takes a lot of work… a lot of hard work from both partners. 

It isn’t a simple walk in the park or a picnic at the beach. It’s about putting into heart the daily grind to make the relationship work while enjoying the feelings of happiness and being loved and appreciating your partner’s effort every single day. 

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty enumerates the habits that make successful relationships work and last for a long time. 

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:55 The relationship habits of successful couple
• 03:54 Habit #1: Respect their value even if they have different values
• 09:14 Habit #2: Try to notice the small things
• 12:08 Habit #3: Encourage, not discourage each other
• 14:35 Habit #4: Have a balance between time together, time alone, time with friends
• 17:59 Habit #5: They argue about the issue not each other
• 20:56 Habit #6: Think about how your decisions affect your partner
• 22:40 Habit #7: Know the difference between your trauma and the issue
• 25:18 Habit #8: Commit to rituals and new experiences

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Michael Dell sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about how he built a multi-billion dollar technology business. It was a risk he was willing to take for he saw these risks as opportunities he could leverage to achieve his goals. He didn’t allow people’s opinions to dampen his innovative pursuit to build an empire where failures are seen as stepping stones and financial challenges remain a temporary drawback. 

Michael is chairman and chief executive officer of Dell Technologies, an innovator and technology leader providing the essential infrastructure for organizations to build their digital future, transform IT and protect their most important information. His first book, Direct from Dell: Strategies That Revolutionized an Industry, was written in 1999 and is currently promoting his second, Play Nice But Win: A CEO's Journey from Founder to Leader.

What We Discuss with Michael:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:52 “I started as a dishwasher boy at a Chinese restaurant.” - Michael Dell
• 05:45 If you got little to lose, go take a risk
• 10:08 Some big risks are just opportunities
• 13:51 Play nice but win
• 14:52 You have too feel right about what you’re doing
• 17:31 It wouldn’t feel right to win if you cheated
• 19:15 Building a business is not for the faint of heart 
• 21:37 Going against a big corporation
• 24:26 Fighting for the company to retain its risk-taking spirit
• 26:26 A great work-life balance doesn’t work when you’re starting a business
• 28:54 Set boundaries when you have a family
• 32:25 Collecting company mementos
• 33:34 3 key factors your leading the company right  
• 35:29 Michael on Final Five

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Episode Resources:

• Michael Dell | Twitter
• Michael Dell | LinkedIn
• Michael Dell | Dell Technologies
• Play Nice But Win: A CEO's Journey from Founder to Leader

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Confident people aren’t naturally confident. Confidence is a skill that you learn, develop, and then practice. Yes, it’s a skill that you continuously develop through constant practice. 

But how do you learn this skill? How do you start to become confident? What can you do to learn this skill?

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares how confident people stay confident and the daily ways to help improve yourself. 

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:38 How successful people do things differently
• 04:24 Principle #1: Say YES and then figure it out
• 09:45 Principle #2: It’s also important to say NO when it’s against your values
• 14:25 Principle #3: Work in alignment with your DREAM
• 15:54 Principle #4: Focus on IMPROVEMENT nor perfection
• 18:45 Principle #5: TALK LESS around unintelligent conversations
• 21:30 Principle #6: Ask POWERFUL questions
• 23:43 Principle #7: Discuss IDEAS and work on your VULNERABILITY

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Robert Greene sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about our inner power. How we react to situations, the emotions we pour in, and the amount of control we have over our reactions defines how much power we have over ourselves. When you’re out of control and not in tune with your reality, you become toxic and this toxicity feeds your greed which eventually destroys that raw power within you.

Robert is the author of the New York Times bestsellers The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War, The 50th Law, and Mastery. In his book, The Laws of Human Nature, he turns to the most important subject of all – understanding people’s drives and motivations, even when they are unconscious of them themselves.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:47 Figuring people out is a form of power
• 07:01 The misconception of having power
• 10:55 Nobody thinks of power in a positive sense
• 16:32 The person who talks less usually has the most influence
• 20:24 The people without self control are often greedy
• 23:51 Learn the art of insinuation and persuasion
• 27:14 What does it mean to plan the end?
• 36:51 How do you master the art of timing?
• 42:25 The story of the checkered shirt
• 47:46 Having empathy for others
• 52:07 Zen Buddhism meditation
• 55:29 What gets you what you want is your daily habits
• 58:32 The most toxic people are of narcissistic characteristics
• 01:08:15 It doesn’t to be a little bit wary of someone
• 01:11:40 Inability to adapt to circumstances destroy our own power
• 01:16:49 With success, you become conservative
• 01:19:40 People’s mind is locked in the conventional view of the world
• 01:25:00 Robert on Final Five  

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Episode Resources:

• Robert Greene | Website
• Robert Greene | Twitter
• Robert Greene | Books
• Robert Greene | Instagram

Successful people have said that there is no secret to success. Partly true. Most successful people invest their time and energy on working hard and taking risks. They dedicate their life to achieving their goals.

But hard work isn’t everything. Success also involves learning the skills more successful people have, understanding the path they took to get to where they are, and gaining new knowledge and insights about their reality.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about the mindset successful people have and how differently they approach challenges and hardships. 

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 04:25 We can invest, spend, or waste our time
• 06:45 Habit #1: Usefulness
• 11:24 Habit #2: Study versus Envy
• 15:15 Habit #3: Education versus Entertainment
• 20:01 Habit #4: Intelligence versus Emotions
• 22:58 Habit #5: Growth over Goal
• 25:24 Habit #6: Understand the value of therapy and coaching

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Maya Shankar sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about taking lessons from other people’s stories. While it is easy to inspire people to change when you have the tools and right environment to inspire them, it’s difficult to change a person’s mind. This is because our mind sticks to our own reality, it believes the circumstances that we are in, and it associates with the community that we belong to.

Maya is currently the Senior Director of Behavioral Economics at Google and is the Creator, Host, and Executive Producer of “A Slight Change of Plans”, a podcast with Pushkin Industries. Maya previously served as a Senior Advisor in the Obama White House, where she founded and served as Chair of the White House's Behavioral Science Team. In 2016, she served as the first Behavioral Science Advisor to the United Nations under Ban Ki-moon.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:22 The passion to learn and play the violin
• 07:57 Attach yourself to the traits of something
• 11:24 “The biggest challenge one faces is growing into themselves.”
• 17:22 A trait you didn’t always have but learned over time
• 20:49 Disparities between gender
• 23:36 Growing up in an Indian household
• 28:14 If they don’t agree with you, you become a threat to their values
• 39:18 Set up the right environment so people can experience it themselves
• 43:20 Using behavioral change insights to motivate yourself
• 46:19 Sustained behavioral change can be difficult
• 50:07 A reminder for a new beginning and a fresh start 
• 53:11 When you create a role you love to play
• 56:42 Why start A Slight Change of Plans podcast?
• 01:00:11 An interview with a cancer patient
• 01:07:36 An interview with Morgan who joined the police force
• 01:12:04 Maya on Final Five
• 01:12:42 How do people find a good mentor 

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Episode Resources:

• Maya Shankar | Website
• Maya Shankar | Podcast
• Maya Shankar | Twitter
• Maya Shankar | LinkedIn
• Maya Shankar | Instagram

Trust issues are one of the biggest reasons relationships don’t last. Trust issues, as they build up, lead to arguments, disagreements, and discontent, and eventually that intimacy and connection you have with your partner is lost.

Doubts then overtake and plague the mind and the heart. And when we are driven by doubts, we lose trust, we lose love, and sadly, we eventually lose the relationship we fought so hard to keep. 

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty lists down the different kinds of doubts that affect most relationships and how we can turn these around to save our relationship. 

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:39 The doubts you have in a relationship is not isolated to you
• 06:40 Doubt #1: Are they still into me?
• 11:24 Doubt #2: Can I trust them?
• 12:58 Think Like a Monk: The stages of trust
• 18:54 Doubt #3: Are they actually listening to me?
• 20:28 Doubt #4: Should I try to save this relationship?
• 25:03 Doubt #5: Have we lost our spark?
• 26:14 Doubt #6: Are they cheating on you?
• 27:19 Doubt #7: Do we have a future together?

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Bobby Hall sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about his career and family life. While recalling his abusive and violent childhood, he openly shares how he found light in the darkest times of his, how he draws inspirations from his roots to pursue his passion for music, and how being yourself can be good because your being open to others and why it can be disadvantageous because you’re showing vulnerability.

Bobby a.k.a. Logic is a platinum-selling recording artist, author, actor, streamer, and film producer with two Grammy-nominated albums out of six. He is the first musician to sign exclusivity with Twitch. In 2019, Bobby released his debut and New York times bestselling novel, Supermarket which was accompanied by a soundtrack of the same name. This year, he released his second book, This Bright Future: A Memoir. 

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:53 Spending more time with family
• 04:31 Freestyling while solving the Rubix cube
• 07:44 Believing in a higher power mixed with common sense
• 10:28 There’s always something about music
• 13:48 Making it out of a mentally unstable household
• 18:38 Raising a child with compassion and open communication
• 20:31 Redefining anxiety and dealing with it daily
• 26:16 How do you deal with intrusive thoughts?
• 32:07 What it feels to be ‘white’ in the hip hop community
• 37:43 The inspiration behind This Bright Future: A Memoir
• 40:49 The power of words and learning things on the street
• 44:36 Having a mentor that speaks your language
• 46:49 Purposely slowing down to just be yourself 
• 51:47 Drawing strength and positivity from your family
• 55:30 We all strive at different stages and phases in our life
• 58:07 Bobby on Final Five

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Episode Resources:

• Bobby Hall | Twitter
• Bobby Hall | Instagram
• Bobby Hall | YouTube
• Bobby Hall | Books
• This Bright Future: A Memoir

Our insecurities are a reflection of how we view ourselves and how we take people’s comments about us. If we let comments and thoughts that aren’t our own dictate how we live our lives, we will only end up with deeper insecurities.

The more we let other people’s thoughts and opinions affect our own decisions and how we see ourselves, we become blind to who we really are and the potential buried deep within us. We can not let these words continue to decide for us. 

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty tells us how to find our own voice and turn these insecurities into stepping stones for healing and self-improvement. 

Sama Tea is now available! Go to http://samatea.com/onpurpose to order a box of Sama now and get access to our free live monthly tea parties, be the first to try out new tea flavors and receive a free exclusive download that shows my personal routine and rituals.

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:47 We all have insecurities
• 02:49 Body image issues are usually from other people's comments 
• 10:32 Assess your desire to be involved
• 11:48 The real definition of confidence
• 17:06 Sign #1: Saying yes to everyone
• 19:26 Sign #2: Constant seeking of validation
• 19:55 Sign #3: We overcompensate
• 21:51 Developing confidence and becoming successful are different planes

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Jane Goodall sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about her passion and love for nature and wildlife. She believes that all of us have the power to make a difference around us and impact our surroundings significantly. And as we continue to hope in the most trying times of our lives, when we take action, this hope turns into change, into a success, and into a celebration.  

Jane is an ethologist known for her long-term research on the chimpanzees of Tanzania's Gombe Stream National Park. In 1995, the University of Cambridge awarded her a Ph.D. in ethology, one of the few candidates to receive a Ph.D. without having first possessed an A.B. degree. She established the Jane Goodall Institute to help support the Gombe research and the Roots & Shoots program for the youth to actively participate in environmental, conservation and humanitarian issues.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:19 Parental support molds us
• 04:59 “Because you did it, I can do it too.”
• 07:34 We live in a war against nature
• 10:22 Everyone of us makes an impact on the planet
• 12:58 A language of gesture that predated human spoken language
• 18:49 Living through a time when it totally seemed hopeless
• 22:53 The only way to give hope to others is to help them
• 24:48 Hope is about action
• 28:00 First, see that you can make a difference locally
• 32:04 You don’t have to change everything on your own
• 36:35 We communicate through our words
• 39:23 What’s your definition of success?
• 42:28 Unless we live for money to help make a difference
• 46:40 The Survivor Tree story
• 50:42 Messengers of hope need to be storytellers
• 54:00 Influential people inspire more people to make a difference
• 54:48 Jane on Final Five

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Episode Resources:

• Jane Goodall | Website
• Jane Goodall | Facebook
• Jane Goodall | Books
• Jane Goodall Institute | Facebook
• Jane Goodall Institute | Instagram

When we can’t decide on something or make an important decision about something big in our lives, we often seek advice from others. We ask for people’s opinions on what they would do if they were in the same situation and how they would go about resolving the issue at hand.

And as we listen to their opinions, we get a sense of enlightenment, a sense of direction. And most of us often tend to listen to what they have to say. But sometimes other people’s opinions don't offer the best help simply because these opinions were given without thinking of the consequences it will have on our lives.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about the types of advice we can seek from others to help us handle difficult situations but also learn how to make small decisions on our own. 

Sama Tea is now available! Go to http://samatea.com/onpurpose to order a box of Sama now and get access to our free live monthly tea parties, be the first to try out new tea flavors and receive a free exclusive download that shows my personal routine and rituals.

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 04:10 Stop listening to other people’s opinions
• 08:33 When people’s opinions started to affect you less
• 14:06 Type #1: It is a projection of the other person’s own limitations and possibilities
• 17:51 Type #2: Ask if you need some care
• 18:29 Type #3: Consistent catch ups
• 19:02 Type #4: Go for character 
• 20:47 Type #5: People’s thoughts don’t affect your reality unless you allow it
• 23:15 Type #6: Trust your intuition with small things

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Ben Greenfield chats with Jay Shetty about optimizing your body to be healthy. The enormous factors, including physical, emotional, and mental presence, hugely affect our fitness. It’s no longer just about going to the gym or doing a full body workout to stay fit and attain boundless energy. You are not crushing a healthy lifestyle if you’re only focusing on one aspect of yourself.  

Ben is a human performance consultant, speaker, and New York Times bestselling author of 17 books, including the widely popular titles Beyond Training, Boundless, Fit Soul, Spiritual Disciplines Journal and the Boundless Cookbook. He is also the founder of Kion, a nutritional supplements company that combines time-honored superfoods with modern science to allow human beings to achieve peak performance, defy aging, and live an adventurous, fulfilling, joyful, and limitless life.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:28 The last time we spent time together
• 08:27 This extreme love for water
• 14:26 The positive effects of sleep architecture
• 18:04 Your entire body is a light receptor machine
• 24:32 Take note of ambient noises and your safe place
• 31:19 Post-lunch siesta stimulates a 90-minute sleep cycle
• 33:43 Simulating your body safely with technology
• 42:02 Taking interest in physical sports
• 50:02 Deep longing for fulfillment
• 56:39 You cannot disentangle the body and the spirit
• 01:01:45 Businesses built on how many people can be served
• 01:05:04 Habit change is understanding why you’re doing something
• 01:10:40 Ben on Final Five

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Episode Resources:

• Ben Greenfield | Website
• Ben Greenfield | Twitter
• Ben Greenfield | Instagram
• Ben Greenfield | Facebook
• Ben Greenfield | Podcast
• Ben Greenfield | Books

More people are now open to online dating where many have found a good partner and a lasting relationship. It seems that with the presence of these dating platforms, it’s easier to date people now.

Probably not. Dating remains a challenge not just for people in search of a partner but also for those who are already in a relationship. We often make a lot of mistakes, unconsciously and unintentionally, while we date which often lead to miscommunication and misunderstandings, or even breakups. 

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty tells us about the common mistakes we make when dating and what we can do to avoid and rectify them so we can save our existing relationships.

Sama Tea is now available! Go to http://samatea.com/onpurpose to order a box of Sama now and get access to our free live monthly tea parties, be the first to try out new tea flavors and receive a free exclusive download that shows my personal routine and rituals.

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:34 We all make mistakes while dating
• 05:41 Mistake #1: We talk for too long and we meet too late 
• 08:17 Mistake #2: We keep checking that one person who doesn’t message us back
• 11:15 Mistake #3: We give up too soon
• 15:01 Mistake #4: Being limited by our time
• 18:23 Mistake #5: We’re not present when we’re on a date with someone
• 20:49 Mistake #6: We let the negativity of online dating precipitate into all of our communication with others
• 22:43 Mistake #7: Not sharing your pain and priorities
• 24:06 Mistake #8: We try to use too many apps all at the same time

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Mel Robbins chats with Jay Shetty about the High 5 habit and how it can help you come to terms with your real self. How you start your day sets the tone for the rest of your day and immensely affects your confidence and productivity. And seeing that person looking at you in the mirror, your other self, helps you wipe away the dust that’s blocking you from loving your true self.

Mel began her career as a criminal defense attorney in NYC for Legal Aid in 1994, spent 5 years at CNN as a legal analyst, 5 number one audiobooks released on Audible, and 1 Gracie Award: America’s Outstanding News Talk Show Host. Her book, The High 5 Habit, explains the one proven habit that gives you the confidence to transform your life.

Go to http://samatea.com/onpurpose to get on the list for early access + receive a free 5-Minute Wellness Journal made to help guide you through your wellness journey and daily routine

What We Discuss with Mel:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:38 Think Like A Monk: Is it dust or is it me?
• 04:46 The High 5 Habit
• 08:38 How Covid brought many lives on a standstill
• 13:26 The excitement of seeing yourself for the first time
• 15:46 How to get into the High 5 habit
• 22:50 Gestures that are symbols of trust and partnership
• 26:49 Your mood in the morning impacts your confidence and productivity
• 29:31 The bouncer in your brain
• 34:00 How to be kind to yourself
• 40:43 The research on the snooze button
• 47:16 Outsourcing love and validation to outside things
• 53:28 It’s only when you love yourself that you can let others love you
• 57:14 It’s not your partner’s job to make you happy
• 01:00:34 Leave room for each other to grow
• 01:04:22 Jealousy is not hatred, it’s desire
• 01:09:56 Your brain is designed to protect you and change requires risks
• 01:13:40 Mel on Fast Five

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• Mel Robbins | Website
• Mel Robbins | Facebook
• Mel Robbins | Instagram
• Mel Robbins | LinkedIn
• Mel Robbins | YouTube
• Mel Robbins | Twitter
• Mel Robbins | TikTok

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At work, many of us often struggle in silence. We take on as much work as we possibly can, often pushing ourselves beyond our limits because we want to impress our boss, get a promotion and possibly get a salary raise. We all want a promising career.

Yes, it is commendable to work hard for your goals. Yes, it is admirable to strive for something you want to achieve. And yes, only you can make your life better through perseverance, BUT never at the expense of your mental health and well being.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares tips on how you can identify when your mental health is at risk and how to get out of it without losing your job.

Sama Tea is now available! Go to http://samatea.com/onpurpose to order a box of Sama now and get access to our free live monthly tea parties, be the first to try out new tea flavors and receive a free exclusive download that shows my personal routine and rituals.

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:05 When your job is harming your mental health
• 07:00 Step #1: Become aware of how your work affects you well-being
• 10:21 Two big mistakes entrepreneurs make
• 13:03 Step #2: If you’re in an atmosphere you feel that is toxic
• 17:55 Step #3: Become a mental health ambassador
• 20:35 Step #4: Take the time off if you need it
• 21:16 Step #5: Being careful about how much you take on
• 22:28 Step #6: Make sure that you speak to someone 

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Radhi and Jay Shetty sit down to talk about a very special project they have been working on together for the past 18 months, their ‘quarantine baby’ - Sama Tea! In Sanskrit, Sama means to be fully balanced. It can also mean togetherness, equality, and oneness. Because, ultimately, a life in the present is a more balanced life, a more connected life, and a happier one too.

Together they share how Sama was conceptualized, the different teams that worked together to help create the brand, the potions and ingredients that went through several stages and taste-testing to find the best blends, and how Sama is made to help anyone live in the moment and in-tune with their surroundings.

Sama Tea is now available! Go to http://samatea.com/onpurpose to order a box of Sama now and get access to our free live monthly tea parties, be the first to try out new tea flavors and receive a free exclusive download that shows my personal routine and rituals.

What We Discuss In This Episode:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:30 What is Sama tea?
• 05:15 What Sama means in different languages
• 08:06 Having tea together has that comforting feeling
• 13:17 What we learned about each other while working together
• 20:07 The people who helped make Sama happen
• 24:41 How the branding evolved before launch
• 29:42 Be okay with pivoting, it’s just part of the journey
• 32:25 Infusing adaptogens in Sama teas
• 41:28 Balance between sharing something from your heart and selling a product
• 44:52 Do three things: something you love, something you learn, something you’re launching
• 46:39 A tea off!
• 47:40 Radhi and Jay on Final Five

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• Radhi Devlukia-Shetty | Instagram
• Radhi Devlukia-Shetty | YouTube
• Conscious Cooking

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Who do you identify as in your relationship? Are you often in the “I need to fix this” mode? Or do you prefer to be taken care of or to be told what to do most of the time? Perhaps, you are more of a supporting pillar to your partner, always there to offer help in any way possible.

Our actions and reactions to situations and instances may differ on who you are with, but our personality will always be the same. And this trait that we have might help us work out our relationships or break them because of differences.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty discusses the three personality types that are common in most relationships and what it means for you and your partner.

Sama Tea is now available! Go to http://samatea.com/onpurpose to order a box of Sama now and get access to our free live monthly tea parties, be the first to try out new tea flavors and receive a free exclusive download that shows my personal routine and rituals.

Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:29 The three role type we play in a relationship
• 05:56 Personality #1: The Fixer
• 06:43 Personality #2: The Fragile
• 07:42 Personality #3: The Partner
• 08:56 How will you know that you’re a fixer?
• 14:32 Detach from your fixer tendencies
• 16:15 Are you the fragile type?
• 20:13 Here’s how to get out of the fragile mentality
• 22:44 Or are you the partner/supporter type?

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Dr. Nicole LePera chats with Jay Shetty to talk about trauma as the root of all mental health problems. They discuss how one can utilize their own environment to self heal, why people are stuck with the same adaptive mechanism that doesn’t help them change, and taking many small steps on our way to complete healing.

Dr. Nicole, a trained clinical psychologist, created the SelfHealers Circle to allow people to go on their own journey and create who they want to become. Dr. Nicole lives in Los Angeles, California and loves anywhere that involves the stillness (and quiet) of nature. She currently hosts the SelfHealers Soundboard podcast with Jenna Weakland focused on recognizing patterns, healing from the past, and creating oneself.

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What We Discuss with Dr. LePera:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:23 The concept of the work: getting stuck
• 04:33 Utilize the environment around us with many daily small steps
• 07:23 What is epigenetics?
• 09:46 Empowering yourself to be your own healer
• 14:04 When you entertain the idea that maybe you are broken
• 18:07 Overwhelming change could send us back into that same adaptive mechanism
• 22:26 We work with the pattern we’re stuck in
• 26:52 When we’re conscious, we can hear our body
• 31:44 The uniqueness that makes each of us different
• 35:31 The nature of our thoughts are reiterative and amplified in some ways
• 41:35 How to nurture self-awareness and self honesty without leading to self-destruction?
• 46:19 How do we stop letting other people's opinions define our choice?
• 50:16 Creating empathy to people we can’t relate to
• 52:47 Honoring the small choices you’re making and the moment you’re living in
• 54:25 Dr. LePera on Fast Five

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Episode Resources:

• The Holistic Psychology
• Dr. Nicole LePera | Instagram
• Dr. Nicole LePera | LinkedIn
• Dr. Nicole LePera | Facebook
• Dr. Nicole LePera | YouTube
• SelfHealers Soundboard

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Perhaps, it is easier to tell someone to be brave and to do something they haven’t done before. It’s easier to be that encouraging voice on the side cheering for them. But it isn’t as easy when you’re at the receiving end, when you’re the one being encouraged to do something you’re uncomfortable doing.

It takes courage and an open mind to do something you’re hesitant to do because it’s outside of your comfort zone, especially when it’s something you never thought of doing out of fear of failing or getting rejected.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about how doing small uncomfortable things can gradually lead you to embracing changes and improving yourself.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:49 How to become comfortable with the uncomfortable?
• 06:05 Principle #1: Start small, do not go for the big things right away
• 08:29 Principle #2: Slow down, pause and reflect
• 12:11 Principle #3: Do one uncomfortable thing yearly
• 14:15 Principle #4: Surround yourself with people that do uncomfortable things
• 15:57 Principle #5: Know that it’s okay to fail
• 17:56 Principle #6: Measure the miniscule improvement
• 20:06 Principle #7: Say you don’t know anything when you only know a little
• 21:39 Principle #8: Accept correction and feedback without justification
• 22:47 Principle #9: Don’t avoid and postpone what you started, start preparing

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Gabrielle Union chats with Jay Shetty to talk about a woman’s inner strength. From her arduous journey to have children and competing against her partner on career growth, to realizing what makes a marriage work and thriving in communities where your resources benefit the majority.

Gabrielle is an actress who starred in several romantic films such as The Brothers, Deliver Us from Eva, Think Like a Man, and Think Like a Man Too. She portrayed the lead character in the BET drama series Being Mary Jane, of which she received an NAACP Image Award. Married to Dwyane Wade, she continues to advocate for survivors of assault.

Head over to samatea.com/onpurpose to find out your Tea Personality!

What We Discuss with Gabrielle:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:54 Struggling to have children
• 11:21 Every child is unique
• 15:45 Support looks different for men and women
• 20:19 Figuring out how to walk side by side with your partner
• 24:30 You can’t compete with your partner
• 28:37 Most children aren't going to be shady for no reason
• 32:06 Rising through a terrible experience
• 38:20 Don’t try to hide when you feel vulnerable
• 46:07 Raise girls to have a world perspective, not with a town perspective
• 48:18 Accepting your child for who they identify as
• 53:55 It’s about building communities to share resources
• 55:53 Gabrielle on Fast Five

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• Gabrielle Union | Instagram
• Gabrielle Union | Twitter
• Gabrielle Union | Facebook
• Gabrielle Union | Amazon
• Flawless

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Lessons can be learned anytime, anywhere, and at any given situation. These lessons are packed with learning that will help us grow to become a better person. Some are easily learned, some leave lasting and painful memories.

For the past twelve months, we all have been trying to adapt to the new normal, to a completely different way of life for our own safety and everyone else around us. Last year was a true test of mental strength, emotional awareness, and physical agility to endure and persevere in any adversary.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares lessons he learned in the past year as he tried to stay on top of his life and remain connected to the people close to him.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:51 Reflect on the lessons you’ve learned every year
• 04:41 Lesson #1: Focus on the input and the intention, detach yourself from the result
• 10:55 Lesson #2: You can’t always find joy and happiness but you can always find meaning and service
• 14:52 Lesson #3 Remind yourself of the gifts brought by terrible situations
• 16:00 Lesson #4: We have to learn to celebrate people while they are alive
• 19:35 Lesson #5: Look at how we are controlled by fear
• 21:39 Lesson #6: Digital friendships can go deeper
• 23:45 Lesson #7: Anything can be done in 48 hours
• 27:19 Lesson #8: There’s never a better time to learn when you’re not sure what’s going on
• 28:24 Lesson #9: When you don’t get what you want, you get more of what you need
• 29:29 Lesson #10: Solitude is as necessary as community
• 30:18 Lesson #11: Invest in energy first, expertise second
• 30:53 Lesson #12: The mind has to be used by you for what you want to believe

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Rachel Hollis sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about loving yourself and seeing failure as success. We all need to learn to see the positive aspects of every failure in our life, to take proper care of ourselves by taking good care of our health, to sit down and process pain and grief at our own pace, and to never lose ourselves just to keep a relationship.

Rachel is #1 New York Times Best-Selling and a motivational speaker. She authored three self-help books including Girl, Wash Your Face and Girl, Stop Apologizing. Aside from keeping herself busy with her podcast, The Rachel Hollis Podcast, she's also founded The Hollis Company, a media company that exists to arm people with the tools to make positive and lasting change.

What We Discuss with Rachel:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:06 Mental illness is not just about taking prescription medicine
• 06:00 Being intentional about trying to live in a healthy way
• 12:17 What the evolution of social media is doing to us
• 21:05 “My advance for my first book, which was Party Girl was $1,000.”
• 24:02 When something shakes the best life you think you have
• 38:24 Journaling every single morning to remember conscious moments
• 41:53 Pushing yourself to get over a difficult moment in your life
• 46:31 A different view of failure
• 54:48 You create something that you value and believe in and put it out there
• 59:10 There are many parts of us that can make a better version of ourselves
• 01:05:38 Feeding into your own narrative
• 01:09:24 “An apology without action or change is empty.”
• 01:12:27 Having support from people who cares without high expectations
• 01:17:14 How do you establish boundaries when you haven't done it before?
• 01:22:33 What’s your love language?
• 01:26:00 Don’t make other people’s process of pain about you
• 01:29:10 You’re trying to be the person who your partner thinks you are
• 01:37:19 We need to stop seeing the end of things as failure
• 01:40:40 Rachel on Final Five

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• Rachel Hollis | Instagram
• Rachel Hollis | Facebook
• Rachel Hollis | Amazon
• Hollis Co.

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“I hear you. I understand that this is difficult for you. What can I do to help?” These are the words we desperately want to hear when things don’t work out in our life. We expect our partners to be there for us, to understand what we are feeling and why we are feeling these emotions.

However, some of us don’t get to hear these words. Some of us don’t get the understanding and support we need. Some of us could no longer connect emotionally with the people we love. And this disconnection is putting a strain on our relationships.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares principles for us to be an effective communicator so that our partner, our family, and friends can tap on deepest emotions and so that we can tap into theirs.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:30 The number one indicator for a good human life was the quality of our relationships
• 07:06 Point #1: We haven’t learned to communicate with ourselves
• 09:57 Point #2: Your self-talk
• 13:31 Point #3: Let’s experiment
• 17:10 Point #4: Repeat what other person said, what you heard, and then what you felt
• 20:21 Point #5: Separate the content from the context
• 22:45 Point #6: Us and We, not You and Me
• 24:54 Point #7: Focus on what builds trust
• 28:43 Point #8: Find time to connect with your partner

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Jessica Alba sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about her struggles in the film industry as a woman of color, how pushing people to develop their potential doesn’t isn’t always a positive deed, coming to terms with the truth when people are being honest, and using perfectionism as an excuse to not do anything.

Jessica is an American actress and entrepreneur, and is the Founder and Chief Creative Officer of The Honest Company. She’s a globally-recognized entrepreneur and advocate, and a New York Times bestselling author of The Honest Life, a practical guide for parents to create a safe and healthy life for their families. With The Honest Company's success, she has been named one of Fast Company’s 100 Most Creative People in Business, Fortune’s 10 Most Powerful Women Entrepreneurs, and Vanity Fair’s Entrepreneur of the Year.

What We Discuss with Jessica:

• 00:00 Intro
• 05:04 Which role has had the most impact in your life?
• 08:20 When you’re a teenager with a child, what opportunities will you have?
• 11:40 Showing your children a balanced view of peace, anxiety, and pressure
• 15:19 Feeling like you don’t belong because of your skin color
• 21:41 When is it the most difficult to be honest to someone?
• 24:36 We always want honesty but when we’re presented with the truth, it’s difficult to accept
• 26:01 Accepting life coaches and outside help
• 28:30 When you put in the work, you will get those opportunities
• 31:44 Seeing people’s potential and learning to help them reach their full potential
• 35:52 People will see your life in their own lens
• 37:19 Perfectionism is used as an excuse to not do anything
• 39:47 If you’re putting in more positive energy, that’s what you're going to emit
• 43:11 Nudge people and ask questions and let them come to terms with their potential
• 47:52 Our children will always choose us
• 50:12 Jessica on Final Five

Episode Resources:

• Jessica Alba | Instagram
• Jessica Alba | Facebook
• Jessica Alba | Twitter
• The Honest Company
• The Honest Company | Instagram
• Honest Beauty | Instagram
• The Honest Company | Facebook
• The Honest Company | Pinterest
• The Honest Company | Twitter

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You are blocking your own growth. Not your work, not your boss, not your partner, not your family, not even your culture. No one else but yourself is blocking you from reaching your maximum potential.

Yes, this is the truth. Many of us blame other people, our circumstances, our disadvantages in life, or the lack of influence we have on others to make things work for us, to achieve the things we want to achieve without realizing that all of this unobtained dreams and undeveloped potential are caused by our own lack of focus on our own growth.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about the most common ways we fail to develop ourselves because we often lose focus on what we truly care about and what will make us grow.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 20:03 We often think that other people are blocking our growth
• 04:24 Blockage #1: Listening to too many people’s opinions
• 08:01 Outline the things that you usually advice for
• 08:51 Blockage #2: Thinking without doing for too long
• 13:34 Blockage #3: Gossip
• 17:38 Blockage #4: You’re not focusing on what you truly care about
• 20:46 Blockage #5: Blaming others
• 21:46 Blockage #6: You try to do everything yourself
• 24:18 Blockage #7: We are scared of failure
• 25:48 Blockage #8: You hope someone will discover you
• 27:39 Blockage #9: You’re not measuring your own growth

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Dr. Steven Gundry sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about the power of our gut as a second brain. Our gut bacteria, when fed with the right food, helps our body avoid inflammation which is the main trigger for illnesses and diseases to develop. Eating right is eating healthy.

Dr. Gundry is a well-known cardiothoracic surgeon and heart surgeon. His mission is to improve health, happiness, and longevity by making simple changes to our diet. Dr. Gundry teaches people how to avoid surgery by using his unique vision of human nutrition. Currently, he is Director and Founder of the International Heart & Lung Institute as well as the Center for Restorative Medicine in Palm Springs and Santa Barbara, CA.

What We Discuss with Dr. Gundry:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:39 “You are what you eat, but you are what the thing you are eating ate.”
• 06:46 What happens inside of us when we consume products?
• 10:04 When the energy expenditure goes to inflammation which is driven by a leaky gut
• 15:24 The gut is the second brain
• 19:05 Women are more in-tune with their gut than men
• 22:26 Ancient wheat are just as mischievous as modern wheat
• 27:33 The hidden truth about sugar in Nutrition Facts labels
• 33:17 Two types of gut bacteria
• 35:39 The Gut-Centric Theory of Hunger - bacteria's guide our sense of hunger
• 42:56 Time-Restricted Eating better known as Intermittent Fasting
• 46:26 For longevity, we have to adapt metabolic flexibility
• 49:19 Enlist the power of your gut bacteria
• 53:40 Dr. Gundry on Fast Five

Episode Resources:

• Dr. Steven Gundry | Website
• Dr. Steven Gundry | Twitter
• Dr. Steven Gundry | Amazon
• Dr. Steven Gundry | Facebook
• Dr. Steven Gundry | Instagram
• Gundry MD
• The Steven Gundry Podcast
• The Steven Gundry Podcast | YouTube
• The Steven Gundry Podcast | Facebook

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One of the biggest challenges people face in their adult life is burnout. When you’re burned out, you become less effective and nonfunctional in many aspects of your life. You begin to lose interest in the things you normally love doing.

Not many of us recognize this as burnout. Many will brush it off as feeling tired or getting exhausted from doing too much too fast. What we don’t realize is we are already burned out and we don’t take action to get out of it because we mistake it for something else.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about the early signs of burnout to watch for and how to help yourself recover exhaustion and fatigue.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:44 Most of us wait too long to deal with burnout
• 04:18 Burnout Phase #1: The honeymoon phase
• 06:26 Burnout Phase #2: The onset of stress
• 07:31 Burnout Phase #3: Chronic stress
• 08:34 Burnout Phase #4: The burnout itself
• 08:55 Burnout Phase #5: Habitual burnout
• 10:37 Sign #1: Fatigue over the things you use to find easy
• 15:03 Sign #2: Poor sleeping habits make you tired
• 19:37 Sign #3: Brain fog blurs what you see
• 22:49 Sign #4: Low creativity
• 24:19 Sign #5: Agitated by small things
• 25:54 Sign #6: Avoid being around people
• 27:08 Sign #7: Being indecisive

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Alexis sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about how her late mother influenced her to be her own person, to always treat failures and heartbreaks as stepping stones to where she is headed, to validate pain and the lessons they teach, and to see the positivity in things life throws at you.

Alexis Ren is a model, actress, and one of the most influential personalities on social media. At 24, aside from being a strong advocate of mental health, women empowerment, and environmental protection, she has also built a strong community for women dealing with different mental and emotional issues as well as sharing her own life struggles and experiences.

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What We Discuss with Alexis:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:33 There are so many live we want to live
• 03:46 Learning all the aspects of a healthy relationship
• 06:01 Going deep into your own creativity at a young age
• 10:37 Scouted for modelling at 14
• 12:12 When her mother was diagnosed with terminal cancer
• 15:03 Financial independence and the social media attention
• 19:48 First time playing a character
• 20:39 Keep saying your name until you hear your voice drop back into your identity
• 24:49 Taking a break from Hollywood
• 29:14 Self-reflection amidst bullying and trolling
• 31:17 Heroes are people that continuously admit why they are not
• 35:09 Notes are gold, go make them
• 38:10 Acting is a tool used to either get closer to yourself or farther away from it
• 42:02 Talking to girls in a live call about traumas
• 44:06 If you can just make someone smile, the world will become a better place
• 45:10 We Are Warriors is an educational and personal wellness community
• 52:02 When you get lost in your role and forget your purpose
• 53:38 The public is creating characters for you in any public relationship
• 56:44 Seeing heartbreaks as growing pains
• 01:00:48 None of our struggles won’t last forever
• 01:03:39 Your greatest connection to the other side are the people you lost
• 01:06:15 The things that weren’t meant to be is serving what’s meant to be
• 01:08:09 An intention on something before you do it is powerful
• 01:14:16 Pain is pain, its valid when it happens
• 01:17:15 Proving how many characters you can be when acting
• 01:21:44 Show the universe you’re having fun with what’s handed to you
• 01:26:33 Every Disney movie always has a comical side character
• 01:28:47 Alexis on the Final Five

Episode Resources:

• Alexis Ren | Instagram
• Alexis Ren | Twitter
• Alexis Ren | YouTube
• Alexis Ren | Facebook
• Ren Active
• We Are Warriors

We often want to be recognized for what we did well and not for our mistakes. If we keep hearing the things we did wrong over and over, we tend to see them as truth and eventually keep repeating the same mistakes.

This is where most relationships struggle because people often focus on the wrong, the mistake, the unsightly character instead of appreciating the good traits, the commendable actions, and the everyday effort our partners put into the relationship.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about looking past the negative aspects of your relationship and learning to pick out what can make it work.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:19 Getting through the tough days, weeks, and months in a relationship
• 04:39 Principle #1: Think of the person as a dear friend
• 08:32 Principle #2: Relationships should have non-negotiables and things you can be persuaded on
• 13:25 Principle #3: Don’t respond out of your own insecurity and ego
• 16:56 Principle #4: Don’t expect your partner to be like you in situations
• 18:47 Principle #5: Don’t try to change them to be you
• 20:46 Principle #6: Amplify who they are in bad times
• 22:10 Principle #7: Do an intervention on yourself

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Mathew Hussey sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about dealing with relationships. The way most of us struggle with finding the right person, when we expect too much from our partner, when we refuse to acknowledge that change is voluntary, and when the amount of energy we are willing to give to someone who isn’t at par with what we’re willing to give are the truths that are harder to accept.

Mathew Hussey is an British life coach, a YouTube personality, and the author of the New York Times bestseller Get The Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve. His podcast, Love Life with Matthew Hussey, offers practical tips you can use right away to improve all of your relationships – romantic, family, friends, career, and the relationship you have with yourself.

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What We Discuss with Matthew:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:09 What’s your favorite story of love?
• 06:22 The importance of reevaluating what is actually important in a partner
• 12:44 It’s uncomfortable but maybe it’s teaching you something
• 21:21 When all the special moves don’t work and your genuine self comes out
• 23:56 The problem is people are falling in love too fast
• 25:47 How can you be nervous when you’re valuing the right things?
• 28:06 You obsess over what they could have been
• 32:59 Don’t be upset when you lose a poet, the poetry is the relationship
• 35:49 A moment where you genuinely are brave enough to let someone in and be seen
• 39:03 When you come out of an argument bleeding every time
• 44:31 People aren’t comfortable in being an area they can be criticized
• 47:32 The culture you create will have an impact in the people around you
• 50:53 Give an amount of energy you are willing to lose
• 55:34 Experiencing the endless ocean of disappointment
• 01:00:00 There is someone that uniquely vibes with your personality
• 01:03:35 You can’t change a person when they don’t want to
• 01:09:43 You’ve never been heartbroken, have you?
• 01:13:35 Staying in unhappy for a long time makes it difficult to entertain the the idea of leaving
• 01:18:40 The 30-Day Confidence Challenge
• 01:22:25 Matthew on Fast Five

Episode Resources:

• Matthew Hussey | Twitter
• Matthew Hussey | Instagram
• Matthew Hussey | YouTube
• Matthew Hussey | Facebook
• How To Get The Guy
• Get The Guy Book

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Perhaps the hardest word you can say to someone is NO. Saying YES to something, even if it’s half-heartedly meant, is easier because you aren’t obliged to justify it. The pressure is less, and so it’s easier to say so.

Whereas, if you say NO, there is this need to justify why you said that and why it isn’t possible for you to do anything at the moment. The guilt for refusing will haunt you. At the back of your mind, this guilt will pressure you to eventually give in. When you eventually give in, you won’t feel good about yourself because the situation is forcing you to do it.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about how to say NO without feeling guilty and why you need to say it clearly and openly.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:56 Are you a people pleaser?
• 08:59 Why do we feel guilty when we say NO?
• 11:11 Feeling bad for saying NO needs to go
• 13:09 Don’t say NO without actually saying no
• 15:47 Know why you are saying NO
• 19:45 Be clear about when you say NO
• 23:13 When you’re about to say no, thank the person for the interest
• 24:58 Remember that NO doesn’t mean it’s forever
• 27:09 You can be assertive and affectionate in saying NO

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Darren Prince sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about his freeing journey from addiction. They discuss how the substance abuse started, the effects it had on him and his family, the many hurdles along the way as he tried to break free from it, and the stories of the lives he touched and helped save.

Darren Prince is a prominent sports and celebrity agent and global advocate for addiction and recovery. Through his agency, Prince Marketing Group, he represents icons such as Magic Johnson, Hulk Hogan, Charlie Sheen, Dennis Rodman, Chevy Chase, and the late Joe Frazier and Muhammad Ali to name a few. Through his new cause, he has become a sought after speaker on addiction recovery and mental health.

What We Discuss with Darren:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:46 Growing up with a crippling anxiety
• 06:16 The Impostor syndrome grew deeper over the years
• 09:14 Realizing the addiction was getting bad
• 13:04 At 14, came the first taste of addiction
• 17:01 Youth should have access to a trusted teacher or a guidance counselor
• 21:52 When you are just a shell of yourself
• 28:08 How addiction affects the people around you
• 31:35 Helping others recover when you’re still battling addiction
• 32:35 Recovery isn't based on promotion, it's based on attraction
• 37:58 Addiction and substance abuse is not getting the coverage that it should
• 40:38 Your God-Managed Coincidences (GMC)
• 42:34 It can be therapeutic to look back into your past self
• 46:34 The story of a father who can see his kids again
• 49:34 Making a connection is all about the energy you put into it
• 53:43 A story of several 99 days relapse
• 58:38 Darren on Final Five
• 01:00:43 People can send help to Aiming High Foundation

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Episode Resources:

• Darren Prince | Website
• Darren Prince | Instagram
• Darren Prince | LinkedIn
• Darren Prince | Facebook
• Prince Marketing Group
• Aiming High by Darren Prince

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What are you really afraid of? Losing a job, talking to a lot of people in public, joining a meeting on your first day of work, or expressing your thoughts openly?

Fear comes in many forms and it limits you to what you think will keep you safe. It can take control of your thoughts and redirect your actions toward the things that won’t help you grow. It will only worsen your anxiety and make you continuously live in fear.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about the different types of fear many of us face and how to use them to motivate us toward what we want and eventually live in peace and happiness.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:14 The epic battle of Mahabharata is about to begin
• 02:33 Anxiety, our everyday fear, is holding us back by blocking our true feelings
• 09:12 The fear of fear
• 13:20 The stress response: when your body shouts fear
• 16:00 Working with fear: externalize our fear and step back from it
• 17:01 Accept your fear, acknowledge its presence
• 19:23 Find fear patterns
• 23:26 The cause of fear - attachment, the cure for fear, detachment
• 27:19 The common misconception about detachment
• 30:38 Managing short-term fears
• 36:09 Short circuit fear - when our fear manifests in our body
• 41:42 Revisit long-term fears and the solution of avoidance
• 46:09 Take a deep dive into your fears

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Gisele Bündchen sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about her passion for being in tune with nature. She shares how she encourages open communication with her children, appreciating nature as it is while learning to appreciate our own value, and the healing benefits of incorporating meditation in your daily routine.

Gisele Bündchen is a mother, author, philanthropist, and global environmentalist. Over the years, Gisele has faced a number of challenges, and credits meditation with helping her live a more conscious and joyful life, insights that she shares in her New York Times bestselling book, Lessons: My Path to a Meaningful Life. As a longtime meditation practitioner, Gisele believes we are all divine beings, and that when we quiet our minds, we will find that most of the answers we seek are inside us.

What We Discuss with Gisele:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:45 Seeing your family after a long time
• 06:22 Our parents are also trying to figure it all out
• 10:49 We are nature, we aren’t separate from it
• 14:30 Everything about nature is a gift
• 18:46 To appreciate nature, you must live like a child
• 21:21 Meditation is a precious tool for depression and anxiety
• 24:23 Becoming a mother is a rebirth of yourself
• 27:08 Force is never the way, leading by example is the way
• 29:35 Hope In Times Of Uncertainty
• 35:20 Starting a meditation routine
• 40:20 Gisele on Final Five

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Episode Resources:

• Gisele Bundchen | Instagram
• Gisele Bundchen | Twitter
• Gisele Bundchen | Website
• Gisele Bundchen | Facebook
• Gisele Bundchen | Insight Timer

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