Love and Abuse
By Paul Colaianni
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Helping you identify toxic communication, emotional abuse, manipulation, and other forms of bad behavior in relationships. Love and Abuse gives you the perspective of both the victim and the perpetrator. Full of tips and advice for your friendships, family, love life, and marriage.
You'll learn about covert abusive communication that takes away your power. And you'll discover how to pinpoint the specific toxic behaviors, such as narcissistic abuse and verbal abuse, before you are dragged into a game so deep you come out a shell of your former self.
Love and Abuse is the official podcast of The M.E.A.N. Workbook, an assessment and healing guide to help you evaluate the emotionally abusive and manipulative patterns in your relationship. Get the guide that will tell you exactly what's happening in your relationship over at loveandabuse.com.
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What makes taking a break from the relationship work?
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Nov 12, 2024 |
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When you can barely take care of yourself let alone give them what they want
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Sep 20, 2024 |
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When they shower you with love after they've done bad behavior
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Aug 22, 2024 |
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When you decide enough is enough - the first step isn't the last
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Jul 13, 2024 |
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What change really looks like when the emotional abuser heals
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Jun 06, 2024 |
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Feeling discarded when they leave the relationship
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May 22, 2024 |
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When the emotional abuser reaches back out after they've healed and changed
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Apr 25, 2024 |
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Time with yourself is not only necessary, its required
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Apr 15, 2024 |
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Emotionally abusive behavior is also physically painful
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Mar 27, 2024 |
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When the good you do for them leads nowhere
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Mar 22, 2024 |
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A clever manipulation tactic that makes you believe you are the problem
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Mar 02, 2024 |
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When you think you're strong enough to get back into the difficult relationship
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Feb 22, 2024 |
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How emotional abuse can enter your life like an infection
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Feb 14, 2024 |
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If you don't know your limits, you wont have any
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Jan 05, 2024 |
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When they go silent and emotionally disconnect from you
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Nov 29, 2023 |
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Should you give in to their perception of you?
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Nov 23, 2023 |
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Their past trauma and abuse isn't the immediate issue in the relationship
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Nov 03, 2023 |
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How do you know when your heart is sealed?
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Oct 27, 2023 |
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Is taking a break before breaking up the final blow to the relationship?
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Oct 12, 2023 |
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How you describe the challenges in your relationship can reveal if youre being emotionally abused
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Sep 06, 2023 |
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Should you make a list of everything they're doing wrong and hand it to them?
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Aug 18, 2023 |
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Avoid getting trapped into an emotional prison from which you can't escape
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Aug 01, 2023 |
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What are the chances of an emotional abuser healing and the relationship surviving?
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Jul 27, 2023 |
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Why they don't stop hurting you when they see you hurting
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Jun 30, 2023 |
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When parents get involved in your difficult relationship
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May 05, 2023 |
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Religious Abuse: When they use your beliefs and faith against you
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Mar 31, 2023 |
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When they believe they've changed
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Feb 17, 2023 |
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LAA Insights - The kids in between the breakup from the toxic manipulative partner
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Feb 02, 2023 |
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The huge wall the emotional abuser puts up
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Jan 24, 2023 |
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The battles that drain your power
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Dec 22, 2022 |
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What will it take to finally get them to stop?
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Dec 07, 2022 |
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Is just functioning together good enough
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Sep 02, 2022 |
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When you find yourself crawling back to them over and over again
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Aug 02, 2022 |
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LAA Insights - Learning what attracts the hurtful people
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Jul 19, 2022 |
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LAA Insights - Is he right about me being the abuser?
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Jul 06, 2022 |
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Bonding with people that traumatize you
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Jul 04, 2022 |
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Can depression be used for manipulation?
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Apr 20, 2022 |
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The abuser that sneaks their way into your heart and life in order to lock you in to a controlling relationship
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Mar 10, 2022 |
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Can you find yourself after they stop the hurtful behavior?
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Mar 01, 2022 |
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Healthy responses to their frustrations and annoyances
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Feb 03, 2022 |
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The thoughts and beliefs that allow toxic behavior to seep into your relationship
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Jan 24, 2022 |
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The needy and clingy people that become emotionally abusive
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Jan 05, 2022 |
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When your friends and family get convinced you're the hurtful one
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Dec 20, 2021 |
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Is telling them you're leaving better than just leaving?
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Dec 01, 2021 |
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Is an emotional affair okay when you can't get your needs met?
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Nov 12, 2021 |
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Afraid of staying and afraid of leaving
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Nov 03, 2021 |
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The type of person that doesn't deserve a second chance
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Oct 22, 2021 |
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When you want them to hurt
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Oct 15, 2021 |
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When the emotionally abusive person leaves the relationship
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Oct 07, 2021 |
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When you want it to be over and they don't
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Sep 23, 2021 |
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Subtle abusive behavior is meant to hurt you in a very specific way
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Sep 14, 2021 |
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Who are you when you're not in a toxic relationship?
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Jul 30, 2021 |
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Is there an easy way to help someone understand they are being emotionally abusive?
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Jul 11, 2021 |
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Some people would rather hurt you than be vulnerable with you
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Jun 29, 2021 |
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Knowing the difference between emotional abuse and normal relationship difficulties
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Jun 17, 2021 |
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How many times does someone have to hurt you before you decide enough is enough?
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Jun 03, 2021 |
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Letting hurtful words or threatening comments become the new normal
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May 18, 2021 |
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Six reasons you may feel guilty about leaving an emotionally abusive person
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Apr 30, 2021 |
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Don't let emotional abuse take your decisions away
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Apr 15, 2021 |
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What's acceptable behavior in the relationship?
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Apr 02, 2021 |
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Is it reactive abuse or a normal response to emotionally abusive behavior?
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Mar 18, 2021 |
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What is emotional abuse? How do I know when it's time to leave? And other important questions.
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Mar 12, 2021 |
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Can you be in a toxic relationship for so long there's no turning back?
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Feb 17, 2021 |
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Do they benefit from your response to their hurtful behavior?
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Feb 03, 2021 |
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The slow disintegration of the deepest part of who you are
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Jan 10, 2021 |
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The guilt from believing you could have done more
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Dec 30, 2020 |
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You have to protect the most important person in your world from hurtful behavior
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Dec 10, 2020 |
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If you've tried everything to stop the hurtful behavior, what's next?
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Nov 21, 2020 |
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Sometimes things need to be perfectly lined up to make the big decisions about the relationship
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Nov 04, 2020 |
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Understanding the addict in the manipulative relationship
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Oct 19, 2020 |
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Should you try harder to please the emotionally abusive person?
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Sep 30, 2020 |
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How the emotional abuser takes your empowerment tools away from you
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Sep 10, 2020 |
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Glossing over the first detail in an argument will make it fall apart fast
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Sep 04, 2020 |
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You deserve to be treated with nothing less than respect and kindness
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Aug 28, 2020 |
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Should you share content that talks about emotional abuse with emotionally abusive people?
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Aug 16, 2020 |
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What do you do when they're gaslighting you?
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Aug 06, 2020 |
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How incompatibility can lead to hurtful and emotionally abusive behavior
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Jul 18, 2020 |
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Breaking the patterns of bad behavior that diminish your worth and well-being
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Jul 01, 2020 |
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Not everyone is going to agree with the decisions you make for yourself
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Jun 25, 2020 |
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Toxic relationships can disintegrate your strength and confidence, but you can get it back
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Jun 16, 2020 |
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I want you to change: The toxic elements of the difficult relationship
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Jun 04, 2020 |
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Emotional abuse drains you and makes you believe terrible things about yourself
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May 22, 2020 |
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You don't have to forgive the person that hurt you
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May 07, 2020 |
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Both sides of emotional abuse: The offensive abuser and the defensive abuser
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Apr 15, 2020 |
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When boundaries don't work and how to pick the right therapist
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Apr 03, 2020 |
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Connecting all the dots of emotionally abusive and manipulative behavior
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Mar 24, 2020 |
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The Turn-Around game: How emotionally abusive people keep you busy explaining and defending yourself
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Feb 29, 2020 |
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When the emotional abuse stops, can the relationship continue?
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Feb 12, 2020 |
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When you are triggered by your Facebook friends: Staying out of abusive interactions on social media
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Feb 06, 2020 |
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Yes, the emotional abuser can change, but...
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Jan 30, 2020 |
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Understanding the thought process behind manipulative behavior
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Jan 14, 2020 |
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Dealing with adversity and toxic behavior in all your relationships
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Dec 31, 2019 |
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Emotionally abusive behavior breaks apart what could be a good relationship
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Dec 12, 2019 |
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You will never, ever be good enough for a manipulative and controlling person
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Nov 27, 2019 |
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Kind words carefully crafted to plant the seed of guilt and shame
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Nov 21, 2019 |
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Why you get conned into the psychologically abusive relationship
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Nov 16, 2019 |
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How to stop being hurtful and controlling with the people you love
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Nov 05, 2019 |
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An analysis of emotional abuse: Breaking down the bad behavior
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Oct 25, 2019 |
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Is your response to their bad behavior emotional abuse?
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Oct 15, 2019 |
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When someone tarnishes your good name and reputation - The Smear Campaign
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Oct 09, 2019 |
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If you leave me, I'll kill myself - The ultimate abuse of your empathy and compassion
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Sep 25, 2019 |
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When you love the emotional abuser so much you won't leave
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Sep 04, 2019 |
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Don't show them how crazy you feel and sharing custody with the emotional abuser
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Aug 07, 2019 |
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Emotional Abuse explained for your friends, family, attorney, therapist or anyone else that may need to know what you're experiencing
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Aug 04, 2019 |
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The toxic relationship alters your view of reality making you think your future is dark
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Jul 16, 2019 |
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You can't fix emotional abuse, you can only heal yourself and hope they do the same
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Jul 10, 2019 |
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How judgment in relationships destroys love and connection
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Jun 17, 2019 |
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Identifying the signs of toxic or manipulative behavior while dating
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May 29, 2019 |
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Have they really changed or are they faking it? Learning to differentiate between true change and acting.
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May 27, 2019 |
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It takes two to build and one to destroy: The cheating partner works alone
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May 24, 2019 |
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Are they for real: Is it all lies and deception or are you just going nuts?
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May 17, 2019 |
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Emotionally abusive isolation and how it ensures you lose your friends, family, and support system
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May 06, 2019 |
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In love with someone that wants it both ways: Healing from the obsession over the unhealthy relationship
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Apr 23, 2019 |
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Stopping the downward spiral of unhealthy communication patterns with self-reflection
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Apr 22, 2019 |
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There is nothing you could have done differently, emotional abuse would have happened anyway
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Apr 10, 2019 |
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How you enable manipulative and controlling behavior by being your wonderful self
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Mar 27, 2019 |
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Yes, there are people that know how to control you and steal your power
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Mar 23, 2019 |
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The narcissist under the hood - The difficulty of explaining emotional abuse to friends and family
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Mar 15, 2019 |
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Are you with a manipulative person?
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Mar 13, 2019 |
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The texts after the breakup: When breadcrumbing keeps you from reaching closure
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Mar 12, 2019 |
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When manipulative people change your reality: Crazymaking and Gaslighting
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Mar 11, 2019 |
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Confusing you into submission: A common manipulation you may fall for again and again
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Mar 06, 2019 |
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Remembering only the good times can sometimes perpetuate the bad times
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Mar 03, 2019 |
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Selfish people just don't really care about you
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Feb 28, 2019 |
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Recognizing you are being emotionally abused when you don't see the signs
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Feb 27, 2019 |
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When you're constantly defending yourself
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Feb 19, 2019 |
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Are you the manipulative one?
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Feb 18, 2019 |
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Watching out for emotional predators. Are you being brainwashed into becoming a manipulation or emotional abuse victim?
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Feb 15, 2019 |
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The "You're too sensitive" game
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Feb 14, 2019 |
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Don't dismiss the red flags of manipulation and deception
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Feb 14, 2019 |
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Introduction: The show about unhealthy communication, emotional abuse and manipulation
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Feb 14, 2019 |