To Be Single or Not to Be
By Shaana Monét
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Episodes: 130
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TO BE SINGLE OR NOT TO BE is a podcast about returning to yourself.
Honest conversations on freedom, identity, and showing up fully - beyond roles, relationships, and expectations.
Hosted by Shaana Monét
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Surrender vs. Control: Trusting His Plan
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Feb 19, 2026 |
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Staying True to Yourself While Loving Others
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Feb 05, 2026 |
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The Show is Over. Drop the Act & Show Up Authentically
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Dec 31, 2025 |
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STATE OF THE UNION ADDRESS: THE STATE OF RELATIONSHIPS IN 2024
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Mar 27, 2024 |
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Do You Even Know Who Raised That Man?
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Feb 20, 2024 |
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Market Value is More Than a Pretty Face & Finances
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Feb 08, 2024 |
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Don't Commit to Your Next Relationship Before Reviewing This List!
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Jan 26, 2024 |
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Stop Playing With Your Friendships!
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Jan 20, 2024 |
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Is She Too Independent or Is That Man Not Doing Enough?
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Jul 31, 2023 |
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They Cheated. Do I Stay or Pay Them Dust?
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Jul 27, 2023 |
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That Man Does Not Need More Time. That Man Does Not Like You
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Jul 25, 2023 |
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How to End Generational Curses Immediately!
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Jul 20, 2023 |
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The Hard Truth About Breakups...NOW WHAT?
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Jul 19, 2023 |
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Stop Negotiating Your NON-Negotiables!
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Jul 13, 2023 |
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Why Would a Woman Go Half on Anything With a Man?
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Jul 10, 2023 |
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Why Women Really Want a Husband!
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Jul 06, 2023 |
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One Night Only: The Tell All Interview with Shaanah Montanna - Ep. 111
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Jul 18, 2022 |
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Let's Talk About Labels...AGAIN! - Ep. 110
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Jul 04, 2022 |
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The Value of Sisterhood - Ep. 109
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Jun 27, 2022 |
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Non Monogamy & Polyamorous Relationships - Ep. 108
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Jun 20, 2022 |
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Relationship Accountability: What Does it Really Mean - Ep. 107
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Jun 13, 2022 |
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Relationship Gridlock - We Are Stuck and Want to Move Forward - Ep. 106
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Jun 06, 2022 |
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Breaking Toxic Relationship Cycles - Ep. 105
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Jun 01, 2022 |
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Are Men Healing and Caring For Themselves at the Same Rate as Women? Ep. 104
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May 23, 2022 |
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The Importance of Therapy While Dating - Ep. 103
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May 09, 2022 |
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Part 3: SMBC - Single Mom By Choice - Ep. 102
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Apr 25, 2022 |
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Part 2: Black Maternal Health in America: Are We in a Crisis?
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Apr 21, 2022 |
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Part 1: Black Maternal Health in America: Are We in a Crisis? Ep. 101
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Apr 18, 2022 |
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The Great Debate: Men vs. Women - Ep. 100
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Apr 12, 2022 |
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Suffering is Not a Requirement for Love - Ep. 99
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Apr 04, 2022 |
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What About Yo Friends? Let's Talk Friendship! - Ep. 98
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Mar 23, 2022 |
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Kim vs. Kanye - Bonus Tea
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Mar 21, 2022 |
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Create Your Own Love Language - Ep. 97
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Mar 14, 2022 |
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Detachment: How to Detach & Dealing With a Detached Person - Ep. 96
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Mar 07, 2022 |
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Long Term Relationships - You Will Change & So Will Your Partner - Ep. 95
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Feb 28, 2022 |
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Leaving Will Hurt & You Will Be Okay! Leaving is NOT Losing! - Ep. 94
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Feb 21, 2022 |
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Where the Cash At? Is it Pay for Play in 2022? - Ep. 93
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Feb 14, 2022 |
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Why Do We Keep Taking Them Back? - Ep. 92
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Feb 07, 2022 |
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You Cannot Love Them Into the Person You Are Envisioning - Ep. 91
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Jan 31, 2022 |
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Fantasy vs. Reality of Love - Ep. 90
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Jun 18, 2021 |
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Imposter Syndrome - Ep. 89
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May 03, 2021 |
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Relationship Attachment Styles - Ep. 88
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Apr 26, 2021 |
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Comparison is the Thief of All Joy - Ep. 87
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Apr 19, 2021 |
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Secrecy vs. Privacy - Ep. 86
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Apr 05, 2021 |
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Where The Money Reside! - Ep. 85
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Mar 29, 2021 |
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Do Opposites Really Attract? - Ep. 84
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Mar 22, 2021 |
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It's the Phone For Me! - Ep. 83
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Mar 16, 2021 |
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Your Partner Will Not Complete You - Ep. 82
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Mar 08, 2021 |
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Relationships, Communication, & Conflict - Ep. 81
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Mar 01, 2021 |
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Boundaries, Dealbreakers, & Triggers - Ep. 80
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Feb 22, 2021 |
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Uncertainties & Insecurities - Ep. 79
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Feb 15, 2021 |
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Surrendering to Happiness - Ep. 78
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Feb 09, 2021 |
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It Just Might Not Be the Right Fit: Part II - Ep 77
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Feb 01, 2021 |
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It Just Might Not Be the Right Fit! Part 1 - Ep. 76
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Jan 25, 2021 |
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ALL LABELS MATTER - Ep.75
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Jan 18, 2021 |
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STOP SETTLING! Give These People Back to the Streets! Ep. 74
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Jan 11, 2021 |
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Throw The Whole Timeline Away - Ep 73
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Jan 05, 2021 |
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Narcissist, Gaslighting, & Manipulation in Relationships - Ep. 72
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Dec 28, 2020 |
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Whatever You Do, You May Need to Say NO to the Pandemic Boo - Ep. 71
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Dec 21, 2020 |
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Back Into Time - Ep. 70
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Sep 10, 2020 |
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Part II: Protect the Black Woman - Ep. 69
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Aug 11, 2020 |
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Real Romance, Real Relationships, Real Issues - Ep. 68
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Aug 04, 2020 |
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Part I: Protect the Black Woman - Ep.67
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Jul 28, 2020 |
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Are Men Still on the DL in 2020? Ep.66
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Jul 21, 2020 |
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Entanglements- Ep.65
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Jul 13, 2020 |
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Are You Single Until You’re Married? Ep. 64
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Jul 06, 2020 |
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The WAIT - Ep.63
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Jun 30, 2020 |
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Lose My Breath: Mental Health & Anxiety - Revisited Ep. 62
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Jun 22, 2020 |
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Dating in the Workplace - Ep.61
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Jun 15, 2020 |
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Should One Partner Love One More Than the Other? Ep. 60
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Jun 01, 2020 |
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Love After Lockup... We Mean Divorce! Ep.59
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May 27, 2020 |
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No More Boyfriends - Ep.58
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May 18, 2020 |
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Is Love Best When It’s Fresh? Ep.57
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May 11, 2020 |
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You Have to be “THIS” Tall to Ride “THIS” Ride! Ep. 56
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Apr 27, 2020 |
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Does Your “Market Value” Decrease as Your Age Increases? Ep. 55
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Apr 20, 2020 |
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Whew Chile... The Toxicity! Ep. 54
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Apr 13, 2020 |
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Quarantined.... How We Handle This & Maintain Relationships & Sanity Ep. 53
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Apr 06, 2020 |
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It’s Our Anniversary!
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Mar 29, 2020 |
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RED FLAGS!! Ep. 52
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Mar 23, 2020 |
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Is it Family Over Everything in Your Relationship? Ep. 51
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Mar 16, 2020 |
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Love is Blind - Ep. 50
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Mar 09, 2020 |
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BEFORE the Commitment- Ep. 49
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Mar 02, 2020 |
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Relationship Problems! How Many of Us Have Them? Ep.48
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Feb 24, 2020 |
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Marry For Love or Money? - Ep.47
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Feb 17, 2020 |
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Open Relationships: How Many of Us Could Have Them? Ep.46
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Feb 10, 2020 |
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Let’s Talk About Sex - Part II Ep.45
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Feb 04, 2020 |
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Celebrating Being Single - Ep.44
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Jan 20, 2020 |
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Gender Roles - WTF does that mean?! Ep. 43
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Jan 06, 2020 |
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Is Long Distance Love Possible? Ep. 42
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Dec 30, 2019 |
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Knowing When it’s Time to Let Go Ep.41
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Dec 24, 2019 |
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No Matter What, You Will Be Okay Ep.40
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Dec 16, 2019 |
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Love Languages - Ep.39
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Dec 10, 2019 |
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Part II: Creating a Thriving Relationship Ep.38
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Dec 02, 2019 |
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Part I: Creating a Thriving Relationship Ep. 37
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Nov 25, 2019 |
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Is Your Partner Responsible for Fulfilling All of Your Needs? Ep. 36
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Nov 18, 2019 |
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Does Being a Boss Hurt You or Help You in Relationships Ep.35
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Nov 11, 2019 |
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Manifesting the Love You Desire Ep.34
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Nov 04, 2019 |
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Are Women Making it Too Easy for Men to Show Up & Ask For the Most While Doing the Least? Ep. 33
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Oct 28, 2019 |
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EXES...Where Do They Belong? Ep. 32
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Oct 14, 2019 |
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Let’s talk about SEX, baby! Ep. 31
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Oct 07, 2019 |
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What’s My Type?! Ep. 30
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Sep 30, 2019 |
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Are You Really Ready for a Relationship or Marriage? Ep. 29
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Sep 23, 2019 |
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Potential... What Are We Supposed To Do With That? Ep.28
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Sep 16, 2019 |
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How Do You Know They Are The One? Ep.27
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Sep 10, 2019 |
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Sisterhood & Relationships Ep.26
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Sep 02, 2019 |
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Miss Independent... Is She Doing Too Much? Ep.25
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Aug 26, 2019 |
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Self Care... Don’t Lose Yourself Ep.24
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Aug 20, 2019 |
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Dating in 2019...Is it a War Zone? Part II: Ep. 23
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Aug 12, 2019 |
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Dating in 2019...Is it a War Zone? Part I - Ep.22
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Aug 05, 2019 |
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Toxic Masculinity - Ep. 21
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Jul 29, 2019 |
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They Cheated...Now What? - Ep. 20
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Jul 22, 2019 |
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Settling & Why You Really Don’t Have To - Ep. 19
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Jul 09, 2019 |
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Timelines in Dating & Relationships- Part II - Ep. 18
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Jul 01, 2019 |
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Timelines in Dating & Relationships & Why You Might Need Them - Part I - Ep.17
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Jun 24, 2019 |
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Lose My Breath - Dealing with Mental Health & Anxiety - Ep.16
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Jun 17, 2019 |
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Breaking Generational Curses, Setting Boundaries, and Healing YOU before the relationship! - Ep.15
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Jun 10, 2019 |
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Married Millennials: What Does Marriage Look Like in 2019? - Ep. 14
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Jun 03, 2019 |
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R&B Divas Series: Toni Braxton - Let It Flow: Triggers: Stop, Drop, & Address Them - Ep. 13
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May 27, 2019 |
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R&B Divas Series: Toni Braxton - Breathe Again: Breakups & How You Deal - Ep.12
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May 20, 2019 |
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R & B Divas Series: Toni Braxton - Just Be a Man About It - Ep.11
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May 13, 2019 |
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Emotionally Unavailable & Narcissist Men aka Fvck Boys - Ep. 10
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May 06, 2019 |
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Non Negotiables.... How Many of Us Have Them? - Ep. 9
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Apr 29, 2019 |
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Part 2: Why Are So Many Sistas So Single? - Ep.8
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Apr 22, 2019 |
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Part 1: Why Are So Many Sistas So Single? - Ep.7
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Apr 15, 2019 |
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I Ain’t Going Half on Sh*t! - Ep.6
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Apr 09, 2019 |
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We Cookin’ or Nah? - Bonus Ep. 5
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Apr 04, 2019 |
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I want a HUSSSSSSBANNNND! - Ep. 4
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Apr 02, 2019 |
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Dead Weight! How to Identify it, Address it, and Move on! - Ep.3
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Mar 29, 2019 |
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Why Are so Many Sistas so Single? - Ep. 2
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Mar 28, 2019 |
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We Welcome You! - Ep. 1
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Mar 28, 2019 |