THE COGNAC ROOM
By Jay Christian
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Episodes: 238
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Welcome to The Cognac Room........ an uninhibited, drink infused podcast about adulting and male and female interactions.
Pull up a chair, pour up a glass, and let’s discuss!
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Ep. 232 "Why People Struggle with “Let’s Just Be Friends” | Dating, Rejection & Boundaries"
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Aug 05, 2026 |
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Ep. 231 "Is Social Media The Problem Between Men And Women?"
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Jun 24, 2026 |
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Ep. 230 " The Provider Paradox: When Does Providing Become Being Used?'
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Jun 12, 2026 |
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Ep. 229 “Settling VS Settling: Most People Get This Wrong”
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May 15, 2026 |
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Ep. 228 "Why Relationships Don't Get Better After Marriage: You Play Like You Practice"
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Apr 19, 2026 |
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Ep. 227 | Balance Theory: Why She's Not Enough
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Apr 09, 2026 |
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Ep. 226 “Why Being Blocked Hurts So Much (Even When You Don’t Want Them Back)
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Feb 25, 2026 |
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Ep. 225 “Right Person, Wrong Time: Does Timing Break Real Connections?”
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Jan 23, 2026 |
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Ep.224 "What's Actually The Bare Minimum In Dating?"
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Dec 29, 2025 |
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Ep. 223 “Leaving Felt Good… So Why Did I Go Back?”
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Nov 20, 2025 |
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Ep. 222 "When Did It Become Cool To Abandon Friends Who Are Going Through It?"
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Oct 24, 2025 |
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Ep. 221 "Do People No Longer Value Marriage?"
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Sep 08, 2025 |
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Ep. 220 "Is No Strings Attached Sex a Myth or a Lie We Tell Ourselves?"
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Aug 25, 2025 |
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Ep. 219 " When the Relationship Ends, Should the Stepfather Role End Too?
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Jul 14, 2025 |
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Ep. 218 "The Awkward Side of Co-Parenting"
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Jun 24, 2025 |
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Ep. 217 “ Irrevocable Damage In Relationships: Can It Be Repaired?”
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May 22, 2025 |
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Ep. 216 "We Only Have Sex When She Wants To- What Should I Do?"
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Apr 15, 2025 |
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Ep. 215 The Celibacy Scam:" Why Abstaining Isn't Always Empowerment"
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Apr 08, 2025 |
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Ep. 214 "First Date Disasters and How to Avoid Them"
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Mar 20, 2025 |
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Ep. 213 "Why is She Acting Different With Her Childs Father Now That She's in a New Relationship "
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Mar 09, 2025 |
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Ep. 212 “ Why Expect Them to Fight for The Relationship After You Ended It?”
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Feb 26, 2025 |
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Ep. 211 “The Importance of Forgiving Yourself Before Entering a Relationship”
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Jan 27, 2025 |
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Ep. 210 “ Is it true that women struggle with accountability?”
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Jan 07, 2025 |
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Ep. 209 "The Importance of Managing Dating Expectations"
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Dec 22, 2024 |
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Ep. 208 "Seeking Intimate Connection Elsewhere While Maintaining a Happy Household?”
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Nov 14, 2024 |
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Ep. 207 “Growing pains in Relationships “
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Nov 04, 2024 |
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Ep. 206 “Chalant Your A$$ Off!: Why Do Women Dislike Nonchalant Behavior In Men?"
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Oct 21, 2024 |
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Ep. 205 "How Soon Is Too Soon To Ask For Money After Becoming Intimate?"
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Oct 13, 2024 |
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EP. 204 "Empty Nest Divorce: Navigating Marriage Challenges After The Kids Leave Home”
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Sep 24, 2024 |
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Ep. 203 “A Different Look At Extramarital Love Affairs”
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Sep 11, 2024 |
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Ep. 202 “ Compromising for Connection: The Sacrifice to Keep a Child’s Father Present”
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Aug 19, 2024 |
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Ep. 201 “The Deadbeat Mom Dilemma”
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Aug 04, 2024 |
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Ep. 200 "Is Fear of Being Used Sabotaging Your Relationships?"
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Jul 24, 2024 |
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Ep. 199 “Understanding Jealousy In Relationships”
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Jul 17, 2024 |
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Ep. 198 “The controversial list: Why Black Women Have The Lowest Marriage Rates”
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Jul 06, 2024 |
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Ep. 197 “Breaking The Stigma: Women and Online Dating”
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Jun 23, 2024 |
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Episode 196 “Is It Cheating in The Talking Stage?”
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Jun 17, 2024 |
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Ep. 195 “Do The Weakest Men Become Stepfathers?”
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Jun 09, 2024 |
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Ep. 194 "Is a Man Having Standards a Problem?”
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Jun 03, 2024 |
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EP. 193 "Exploring The Work Wife/Husband Dynamic"
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May 26, 2024 |
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Ep. 192 “Rebuilding Trust: Restoring Connections and Healing wounds” pt. 2
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May 19, 2024 |
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Ep. 191 “Rebuilding Trust: Restoring Connections and Healing Wounds” pt.1
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May 12, 2024 |
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Ep. 190 “Should Love Be A Sacrifice?”
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May 05, 2024 |
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Ep. 189 “The True Motives Behind Relentless Pursuit”
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Apr 28, 2024 |
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Ep. 188 “The Complexities Of Infidelity”
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Apr 21, 2024 |
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Ep. 187 “Unlocking Desire: Is There A Right And Wrong Way To Initiate Sex?”
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Apr 12, 2024 |
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Ep. 186 “Age Gaps In Relationships” pt.2
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Apr 04, 2024 |
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Ep. 185 “Age Gaps In Relationships” pt.1
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Mar 22, 2024 |
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Ep. 184 “Is She Afraid Of Being Hurt Or Just Playing Games?”
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Mar 12, 2024 |
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Ep. 183 “Relationship Talk With DJ LaBonita”
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Feb 23, 2024 |
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Ep. 182 “Every Day Should Be Valentine’s Day”
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Feb 13, 2024 |
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Ep. 181 “Healthy Obsession In Relationships: Is There Such A Thing?”
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Feb 09, 2024 |
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Ep. 180 “Stop Giving Any And Everybody Access To You”
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Feb 02, 2024 |
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Ep. 179 “Unconditional Respect”
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Jan 23, 2024 |
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Ep 178 “Exes Are Spinning The block: Is it just a trend?”
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Jan 16, 2024 |
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Ep. 177 “Can Any 2 People Have A Successful Relationship Regardless Of Compatibility?”
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Jan 05, 2024 |
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Ep. 176 “Don’t Blame Them, You Chose Poorly”
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Dec 12, 2023 |
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Ep. 175 "Are You Ok With Your Person Talking To An Ex For Weeks Before They Tell You?”
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Nov 17, 2023 |
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Ep. 174 “Women Are Fed Up And Men Are Discouraged”
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Oct 16, 2023 |
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Ep. 173 “Should They Just Be Grateful?”
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Oct 09, 2023 |
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Ep. 172 “Power Dynamics In Relationships” pt.2
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Sep 24, 2023 |
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Ep. 171 “Power Dynamics In Relationships” Pt.1
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Sep 08, 2023 |
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Ep. 170 “Porn And Relationships”
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Aug 27, 2023 |
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Ep. 169 “Why Do We Crave What Hurts Us?”
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Aug 22, 2023 |
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Ep. 168 “Full Disclosure”
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Aug 10, 2023 |
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Ep. 167 “Does Loss Of Attraction Signal The End Of A Relationship?”
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Jul 16, 2023 |
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Ep. 166 “Why Is Everything Sassy?”
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Jun 25, 2023 |
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Ep. 165 “Why Don’t They Want You Until You Move On?”
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Jun 05, 2023 |
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Ep. 164 “Why Do Less Attractive Women Seem More Successful In Love?”
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May 14, 2023 |
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Ep. 163 "Instead Of Complaining About Modern Women, Do This"
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Apr 19, 2023 |
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Ep. 162 “Why Am I Doing This?” (A Deeper Look Inside The Sidepiece Game)
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Apr 04, 2023 |
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Ep. 161 “The Concept Of Full Security” pt.2
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Mar 17, 2023 |
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Ep. 160 “The Concept Of Full Security”pt.1
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Feb 28, 2023 |
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Ep. 159 “ All Relationships Are Different”pt.2
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Feb 07, 2023 |
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Ep. 158 “All Relationships Are Different” pt.1
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Jan 25, 2023 |
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Ep. 157 “Introverts And Relationships”
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Jan 17, 2023 |
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Ep. 156 “ What’s Worse: An Absent Or Inconsistent Father?”
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Jan 05, 2023 |
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Ep. 155 “Accountability”
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Dec 27, 2022 |
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Bonus Episode 7 “ReeCee Raps”
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Dec 11, 2022 |
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Ep. 154 “Cultivating Intimacy Without Sex”
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Dec 09, 2022 |
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Ep. 153 “Things We No Longer Believe About Relationships”
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Nov 30, 2022 |
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Ep. 152 “How To Deal With An Annoying Partner”
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Nov 22, 2022 |
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Ep. 151 “How To Stop Loving Someone” pt. 2
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Nov 11, 2022 |
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Ep. 150 “How To Stop Loving Someone” pt.1
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Oct 23, 2022 |
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Ep. 149 “Poor Life Choices =Ineligibility For Relationships”
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Oct 13, 2022 |
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Ep. 148 “Do Modern Men Want To Be Pursued?”
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Oct 03, 2022 |
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Ep. 146 “The Difference Between Showing Interest And Being A Creep”
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Sep 14, 2022 |
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Ep. 145 “ The Value Of Health And Happy Relationships”
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Sep 05, 2022 |
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Ep. 144 “Why Men “ASK” For Sex”
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Aug 22, 2022 |
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Ep. 143 “Do Black Men Have The Lowest Dating Standards?”
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Aug 17, 2022 |
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Ep. 142 “What Men Don’t Know About Dating”
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Jul 30, 2022 |
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Ep. 141 “Stalemate”
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Jul 21, 2022 |
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Ep. 140 “Ask And You Shall Receive?”
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Jul 08, 2022 |
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Ep. 139 “Hood Therapy”
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Jul 01, 2022 |
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Ep. 138 “Dating Someone With Trust Issues”
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Jun 22, 2022 |
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Ep. 137 “The Stages Of A Breakup And The Healing Process”
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Jun 06, 2022 |
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Ep. 136 “Date Like An Adult”
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May 30, 2022 |
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Ep. 135 “Is Your Ego Keeping You In That Relationship?”
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May 24, 2022 |
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Ep. 134 “The Gift Of Singleness”
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May 12, 2022 |
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Ep. 133 “Are Gender Roles Holding You Back In Your Relationship?”
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May 01, 2022 |
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Ep. 132 “Get A Job Or I’m Divorcing You”
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Apr 24, 2022 |
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Ep. 131 “ Hold On To Your Seats!” Ft. King and Queen Jerm from FROCAST
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Apr 17, 2022 |
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Ep. 130 “Is Clingy A Love Language?”
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Apr 10, 2022 |
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Ep. 129 “Double Cognac Please” Ft. Marcus Boston (Cognac Corner)
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Apr 03, 2022 |
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Ep. 128 “The Sexologist”
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Mar 27, 2022 |
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Ep. 127 “We’re Growing Apart!”
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Mar 20, 2022 |
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Ep. 126 “Why Are So Many Men Angry With Women?”
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Mar 10, 2022 |
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Ep. 125 “Emotional Maturity”
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Feb 27, 2022 |
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Ep. 124 “Are You Ready For Love?”
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Feb 20, 2022 |
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Ep. 123 “An Interesting Story Of Love And Betrayal”
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Feb 10, 2022 |
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Ep. 122 “What Part Do You Play In The Problem?” Pt.1
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Jan 30, 2022 |
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Ep. 121 “A Talk With Re Re”
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Jan 18, 2022 |
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Ep. 120 “Panderers Have Gone Too Far!”
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Jan 04, 2022 |
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Ep. 119 “What Makes For A Memorable Sexual Experience?”
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Dec 23, 2021 |
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Ep. 118 “Men Try To Trap Women Too”
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Dec 06, 2021 |
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Ep. 117 “Open Relationships”
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Nov 23, 2021 |
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Bonus Episode 6 “Is the Earth Flat?” Ft. Flat Earth Dave
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Nov 20, 2021 |
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Ep. 116 “Faulty Friendships”
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Nov 11, 2021 |
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Ep. 115 “Turn Off’s In Dating And Marriage”
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Nov 03, 2021 |
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Ep. 114 “Hurt People Hurt People: Men Talk Relationships”
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Oct 19, 2021 |
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Ep. 113 “Crystal Morris: Relationship, Sex, And Intimacy Coach For Men”
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Oct 11, 2021 |
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Ep. 112 “Trip D*ck”
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Oct 03, 2021 |
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Ep.111 “Were We Ever Really Cool?”
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Sep 26, 2021 |
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Ep. 110 “Are Our Women Bitter? Is It Our Fault”
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Sep 10, 2021 |
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Ep. 109 “The Switch Up”
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Sep 01, 2021 |
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Ep. 108 “She Was Cool Til You Lied”
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Aug 20, 2021 |
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Ep. 107 “Rodney Wash”
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Aug 05, 2021 |
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Ep. 106 “The Circuit”
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Jul 26, 2021 |
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Ep. 105 “The Bro Code”
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Jul 18, 2021 |
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Ep. 104 “Ty Harriz”
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Jul 04, 2021 |
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Ep. 103 “Cancel This…Cancel That”
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Jun 27, 2021 |
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Ep. 102 “The Woman He Wants Vs. The Woman He Needs”
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Jun 23, 2021 |
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Ep. 101 “Miscellaneous Mischief” pt.2
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Jun 13, 2021 |
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EP. 100 “Should You Stay?”
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Jun 07, 2021 |
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Ep. 99 “Miscellaneous Mischief “ pt.1
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May 31, 2021 |
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Ep. 98 “Submit To What?”
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May 25, 2021 |
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Ep. 97 “Tina Vaphiadis”
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May 16, 2021 |
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Ep. 96 “A Sit Down With Sid”
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May 09, 2021 |
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Ep.95 “Fishing For Compliments: Women And Validation”
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May 02, 2021 |
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Ep. 94 “Love And Marriage In The Black Community”
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Apr 25, 2021 |
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Ep. 93 “Talking Shop With Arsenio Mass”
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Apr 18, 2021 |
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Ep. 92 “Terry DeRon Talks Pandering Men And Relationships”
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Apr 12, 2021 |
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Ep. 91 “Watch Your Mouth”
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Apr 05, 2021 |
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Ep. 90 “Confronting The Other Woman: Is It Going Too Far?”
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Mar 28, 2021 |
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Ep. 89 “iamciti”
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Mar 21, 2021 |
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Ep. 88 “Threatened”
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Mar 17, 2021 |
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Ep. 87 “Erik Everhard”
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Mar 07, 2021 |
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Ep. 86 “Love Bombing”
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Feb 28, 2021 |
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Ep. 85 “Réal Andrews” (General Hospital)
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Feb 21, 2021 |
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Ep. 84 “BOB”
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Feb 14, 2021 |
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Ep. 83 “Let’s Talk About It”
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Feb 07, 2021 |
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Ep. 82 “Here We Go Again”
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Feb 02, 2021 |
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Ep. 81 “You Ain’t Gotta Lie Craig”
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Jan 24, 2021 |
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Ep. 80 “Friends and Competition”
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Jan 18, 2021 |
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Ep. 79 “Body Image”
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Jan 11, 2021 |
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Ep. 78 “The Disconnect” pt. 2
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Jan 03, 2021 |
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Ep 77 “The Disconnect” pt.1
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Dec 28, 2020 |
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Ep. 76 “True Love... A Myth?”
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Dec 21, 2020 |
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Ep. 75 “No Disrespect, But...” pt.2
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Dec 16, 2020 |
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Ep 74 “No Disrespect, But...” pt.1
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Dec 10, 2020 |
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Ep. 73 “Unpack That Ish!” pt. 2
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Nov 29, 2020 |
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Ep 72 “Unpack That Ish!”
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Nov 23, 2020 |
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Ep. 71 “Look Before You Leap”
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Nov 16, 2020 |
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Ep. 70 “How Do I Measure Up?”
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Nov 08, 2020 |
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Ep. 69 “Don’t Hold It Against Me”
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Nov 01, 2020 |
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Ep. 68 “WTF Happened Here?” Pt.2
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Oct 22, 2020 |
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Ep. 67 “WTF Happened Here?”
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Oct 15, 2020 |
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Ep. 66 “Community Service”
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Oct 05, 2020 |
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Ep. 65 “Step Parenting: The Blessing And The Curse” pt.2
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Sep 30, 2020 |
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Ep. 64 “Step Parenting: The Blessing And The Curse” Pt.1
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Sep 12, 2020 |
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Ep. 63 “Super Save Em” pt. 2
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Aug 02, 2020 |
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Ep. 62 “Super Save Em”
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Jul 21, 2020 |
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Ep. 61 “The Clap Back”
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Jul 06, 2020 |
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Ep. 60 “Mistakes Women Make In The Bedroom”
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Jun 23, 2020 |
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Ep. 59 “Single Man Problems” pt.2
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Jun 16, 2020 |
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Ep. 58 “Single Man Problems” pt. 1
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Jun 09, 2020 |
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Ep. 57 “ The Main Reasons Relationships And Marriages Fail” pt.2
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Jun 01, 2020 |
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Ep. 56 “ The Main Reasons Relationships And Marriages Fail”
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May 25, 2020 |
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Ep. 55 “The Ex Factor”
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May 18, 2020 |
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Ep. 54 “Money Matters”
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May 11, 2020 |
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Ep. 53 “When Is Enough, Enough?”
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May 04, 2020 |
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Ep. 52 “ The Trials Of A Woman Who Loves Women”
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Apr 27, 2020 |
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Ep. 51 “Dads And Divorce”
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Apr 19, 2020 |
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Ep. 50 “👠” pt.2
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Apr 14, 2020 |
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Ep. 49 “👠” pt.1
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Apr 06, 2020 |
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Bonus episode 5 “Social Distancing And Relationships “
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Apr 01, 2020 |
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Ep. 48 “Attraction” pt.2
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Mar 30, 2020 |
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Ep. 47 “Attraction” pt.1
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Mar 22, 2020 |
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Ep. 46 “The Beauty In The Break-up” pt.2
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Mar 09, 2020 |
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Ep. 45 “The Beauty In The Break-up”
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Mar 02, 2020 |
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Ep. 44 “Foreplay” pt. 2
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Feb 24, 2020 |
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Ep. 43 “Foreplay” pt.1
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Feb 16, 2020 |
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Ep. 42 “Quick Starts”
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Feb 10, 2020 |
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Ep.41 “Lovers And Friends” pt.2
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Feb 03, 2020 |
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Ep. 40 “Lovers And Friends”
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Jan 27, 2020 |
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Ep. 39 “Child Support”
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Jan 20, 2020 |
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Ep. 38 “Women Cheat Too” pt. 2
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Jan 12, 2020 |
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Ep. 37 “Women Cheat Too”
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Jan 05, 2020 |
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Ep. 36 “Love Is A Choice” pt.2
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Dec 29, 2019 |
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EP. 35 “Love Is A Choice” pt.1
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Dec 23, 2019 |
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Ep.34 “Tiffany Nicole” pt.2
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Dec 16, 2019 |
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Ep. 33 “Tiffany Nicole” pt.1
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Dec 08, 2019 |
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Ep. 32 “Irrational/Side Chick” pt. 2
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Dec 01, 2019 |
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Ep. 31 “Irrational/Side Chick”
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Nov 24, 2019 |
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Ep. 30 “Where Was That Energy When You Was Fine”
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Nov 17, 2019 |
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Ep. 29 “Off Topic”
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Nov 10, 2019 |
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Ep. 28 “Do I Pass?”
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Nov 03, 2019 |
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Bonus Episode 4 “Tales Of Being Ghosted And Relationship Horror Stories”
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Oct 31, 2019 |
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Ep. 27 “Different Strokes”
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Oct 27, 2019 |
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Ep. 26 “Love Online” pt. 2
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Oct 21, 2019 |
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Ep. 25 “Love Online”
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Oct 13, 2019 |
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Ep. 24 “Fact or Fiction” pt.2
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Oct 06, 2019 |
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Ep. 23 “Fact or Fiction”
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Sep 30, 2019 |
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Ep. 22 “Red Flags”
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Sep 23, 2019 |
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Ep. 21 “Peake Interest”
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Sep 15, 2019 |
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Ep. 20 “Phone Privileges” pt.2
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Sep 08, 2019 |
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Ep. 19 “Phone Privileges”
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Sep 01, 2019 |
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Ep. 18 “Grown Man-ish” Pt.2
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Aug 26, 2019 |
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Ep. 17 “Grown Man-ish”
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Aug 18, 2019 |
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Ep.16 ”On Again Off Again”
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Aug 11, 2019 |
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Bonus episode 3 “Bulletproof Cognac” part 2
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Aug 05, 2019 |
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Bonus Ep.2 “Bulletproof Cognac”
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Jul 28, 2019 |
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Ep. 15 “No Wedding Cake Yet??!!” Pt.3
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Jul 22, 2019 |
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Ep. 14 “No Wedding Cake Yet??!!” Pt. 2
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Jul 14, 2019 |
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Ep. 13 No Wedding Cake Yet??!! PT.1
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Jul 07, 2019 |
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Ep. 12 Local Legend
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Jun 30, 2019 |
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Ep. 11 Define Bougie
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Jun 23, 2019 |
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Ep.10 Luxurious
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Jun 17, 2019 |
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Ep.09 Agree To Disagree
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Jun 09, 2019 |
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Ep.8 A sneak peek of Nayy Seduction
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Jun 02, 2019 |
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Ep.7 A New Set Of Eyes
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May 26, 2019 |
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Bonus Ep.1 “Deny, Deny, Deny!”
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May 25, 2019 |
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Ep.6 When Life Gives You Lemons
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May 19, 2019 |
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Ep.5 Gun Talk
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May 13, 2019 |
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Ep.4 “Bulletproof” pt.2
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May 06, 2019 |
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Ep.3 "Bulletproof" pt.1
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Apr 28, 2019 |
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Ep. 2 "No playing in the dark"
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Apr 21, 2019 |
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Ep. 1 9 kids and side conversations
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Apr 14, 2019 |