Dead Ass with Khadeen and Devale Ellis

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Subscribers: 642
Reviews: 4

Meeka
 Oct 10, 2019
Strong, opinionated, successful, the couple you need in your family gathering. Love you guys!

kayley
 Jul 11, 2019
just great to hear about people in a long term relationship talking about the good bad and t h e ugly

Kenneth Stewart
 May 22, 2019
Love the family from YouTube and this is another great addition to their platform.

Jacintah
 May 16, 2019
I just love this

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LOVE, SEX, MARRIAGE and everything in between! Each week Khadeen and Devale Ellis spread love the Brooklyn way. Listen in as they reveal personal truths, share opinions and inspire us to level up in our own lives by giving some advice — but no matter what you hear they will always keep it 100. DEAD ASS!

Episode Date
Live in Philly!
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The second stop on the Dead Ass podcast tour was Philadelphia, and the crowd was lit! Get in on the action you missed in Philly. The Ellises play more games with audience guests and answer more live listener letters. 

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Sep 28, 2022
Live from DC!
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The Ellises were live at the Howard Theatre in DC giving top tier advice. 

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Sep 21, 2022
Live! In New York City
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The Dead Ass live tour kicked off in New York City and a time was had. The Ellises share some New York nostalgia, meet more couples, and answer more listener questions live!

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Sep 14, 2022
Live in Atlanta with Regina Hall and Sterling K Brown
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Khadeen and Devale are LIVE at The Buckhead Theatre in Atlanta, GA. The Ellises shared a night of love and laughter in ATL. Surprise guests Regina Hall and Sterling K. Brown stopped by to talk about their new movie Honk For Jesus. Save Your Soul. And the star of the new Sistas spinoff, Zatima, Crystal Renee Hayslett came through and blessed the stage with her soulful voice. 

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Sep 07, 2022
More Listener Letters
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It's time for our favorite part of the show...For the whole show! In this episode, Khadeen and Devale read your listener letters and give their best advice. Dead Ass. 

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Aug 24, 2022
Selling Granny's House
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The passing of a central family member is never easy. Especially if they've left their assets behind without a plan. In this episode, the Ellises discuss what to do when you receive an inheritance, so that you can leave the next generation better off. 

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Aug 17, 2022
Passport Stamps Build Strong Minds
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We rep our city, our town, our hoods – but you don’t know what you don’t know until you’ve been somewhere else. During their trip to Europe, Khadeen and Devale gained some major insight on what America looks like from the outside. In this episode, the Ellises talk about the growth they’ve experienced through traveling the world.

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Aug 10, 2022
Hot Girls & Hoochie Daddies
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Millennials have done the work to reclaim the power in our own sexuality. Wearing what we want. Not waiting until marriage to have sex. And taking pride in dating around before settling down. But can playing the field cost you your chance at long lasting commitment? The Ellises talk about it. Dead Ass.

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Aug 03, 2022
Discipline Over Everything
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When it comes to making our dreams a reality, the real measure of success is your will to work. Discipline over everything. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale what habits help them to grind as hard as they do. Dead Ass.

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Jul 27, 2022
Family Business
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Black entrepreneurship is more popular than ever before as millennials learn how to build generational wealth. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss bringing your business into your marriage, what it takes to leave your children set, and all the tea about running a business with your spouse. Dead Ass.

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Jul 20, 2022
Don’t Lose Yourself In Love
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When two become one, things get a little complicated. That’s why Khadeen and Devale think it’s important to take time and space for yourself when you’re in a relationship. In this episode, they discuss how they make time for themselves to keep their marriage strong. Dead Ass.

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Jul 13, 2022
High Value to Who?
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"Value can only be determined by those willing to pay that cost." We're not talking about clothes, cars or jewelry. When it comes to choosing a lifetime partner, the way we value the attributes of another can be a distraction to sift through. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk the real meaning of high value when it come to romance. 

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Jul 06, 2022
What's Fame When You're Fake?
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Fame can be prosperous, glamorous and inspiring to others. But fame can also make a person feel like they are untouchable and above morality. In this episode, the Ellises talk about the true price of fame and what it takes to keep your integrity even when you're "famous". Dead ass. 

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Jun 29, 2022
Peace Over Pressure
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In marriage, the obligations you have to your partner can be wearing. Especially if your main goal is not to serve your partner every day. But for the Ellises, their pursuit of peace outweighs any pressure they feel. In this episode, they'll tell you why. Dead ass. 

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Jun 22, 2022
Black Health Is Wealth with Dr. Kelvin Brown
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While Black men are becoming more and more successful, the disproportionate rates of illness and death due to illness are also climbing. In this episode, Dr. Kelvin Brown breaks down the numbers and the ways Black men can prioritize their health now. Dead ass. 

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Jun 15, 2022
Get It Right, Get It Tight
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When it comes to physical fitness, the Ellises each have their own agenda. Devale’s gotta stay fit for the camera, Khadeen wants to snapback after her 4th child, Jackson is preparing to become the next Steph Curry, Kairo wants to be better than Jackson, and Kaz….well, Kaz doesn’t give a damn. But with all their different opinions on fitness, the gym is another place the Ellises build strong muscles and family values. Dead Ass.

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Jun 08, 2022
Vulnerability is the New Black with Kier Gaines
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One thing the Ellises will do is take care of their mental health. And in this episode, they've invited licensed therapist Kier Gaines to help talk through some of their latest challenges. And yours too! Dead ass. 

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Jun 01, 2022
Entrepreneurship Ain’t For Everybody
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So you want to be an entrepreneur. But do you really know what it takes to build a business from the ground up? Khadeen and Devale give you the keys to entrepreneurship. Dead ass.

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May 25, 2022
Shackin’ Up
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You can never really know your partner until you live with them. Unlike their parents’ advice, the Ellises think shackin’ up is a good idea. Dead Ass.  

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May 18, 2022
Dead Ass Live is Back!
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Dead Ass the podcast Live is coming to 4 cities this August and we’re giving our listeners exclusive access to tickets before anyone else!

August 18th we’ll be back home in New York City!

August 19th we’re rocking the stage in Philly!

August 20th we’re bringing the show to the Howard Theater in DC!

And August 26th we’ll be on stage in Atlanta! 

 

Tickets are on sale exclusively for our Dead Ass listeners from now until May 6th.Go to www.DeadAssPodcast.Com and enter the code DEADASS to unlock the pre-sale and cop your tickets first! 

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May 04, 2022
Dollars and Sense
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The conversation about who foots the bill in relationships comes up every day on social media. Some think, if a man is a true provider, he’ll take on all of the financial responsibility. But others think, if a woman truly wants equality, she’ll be willing to split the bills 50/50. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss what they think, and how they’ve made money work in their marriage. Dead ass.

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Apr 27, 2022
Social Media vs. Reality
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Social media can be a tool that you use for knowledge, inspiration and connection, that enriches the life you already love. Or social media can be a nagging reminder of all the things you hate about yourself. It all depends on what you choose to believe. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk about the ups and downs of social media. Dead Ass.

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Apr 20, 2022
It Ain’t Nobody’s Business
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We all like to feel helpful and important to our friends and loved ones. We help them when they’re sick, give them comfort when they’re sad, and advice when they complain. But all advice ain’t good advice. That’s why the Ellises have learned to keep people outside of their marriage out of their married business. Dead ass.  

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Apr 13, 2022
LISTENER LETTERS!
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It’s Khadeen’s favorite part of the show…for the whole show. In this episode, the Ellises are getting all in your business to answer your listener letters!

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Apr 06, 2022
Survivor’s Remorse
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They say, when you’re up, your friends know who you are, but when you’re down you know who your friends are. The burden of being the one who made it is heavy, and in this episode, the Ellises talk about what it’s like to carry the weight. Dead ass.

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Mar 30, 2022
How to Get the Ring
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The same thing you do to get him, is what you gotta do to keep him, right? In this episode, Khadeen and Devale reveal all the little things they did during their days of dating that turned them into #MarriageGoals almost 20 years later. Dead ass.

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Mar 23, 2022
Yes, We Apologize to Our Kids
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In moments of high frustration with kids, and there are many frustrating moments, parents can let their emotions get the best of them. Khadeen and Devale explain how they admit when they’re wrong and apologize to their kids. Dead ass.

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Mar 16, 2022
Dad Can Parent Too
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When a man is available and willing to be a father, his child’s mother should let him do so. Do you agree? In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss the challenges of trusting Dad to do what Mom can. Dead Ass.

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Mar 09, 2022
1 House, 3 Generations
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When it comes to family, the Ellises are sure to put theirs first. But with Khadeen’s parents living with them full time, it can get tough. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale tell us the whole truth about what it’s like to live with their parents. Dead Ass. 

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Mar 02, 2022
Learning Your Attachment Style with Delena Zimmerman
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We all know someone that’s too clingy. Or we’ve had a partner that can’t or won’t express how they feel. But what you may not know, is that a person’s emotional response in relationships is an attachment style that they developed in their first 18 months of life! This episode is like group therapy when Khadeen and Devale talk to licensed therapist, Delena Zimmerman about attachment styles and how our childhoods determine the way we move in our adult relationships. Dead Ass.

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Feb 23, 2022
The Art of King Making
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The term “Black excellence” can be a double edged sword. The pressure to be twice as good, and the burden of being Black enough can be a heavy task to bear. But in this episode, Khadeen and Devale explain the way they encourage and embrace their Princes on their journey to becoming Kings. Dead ass.

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Feb 16, 2022
Saved By Choice with Christina Price
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When it comes to religion, Millennials are questioning what we were taught to believe. From the judgment we faced in church, to the condemnation of people whose lifestyles don’t gel with church folk, nowadays, adults are finding their own way to connect with God. In this episode, author, mother and born again Christian, Christina Price, shares her story. Dead ass.

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Feb 09, 2022
Family Feuds
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Traditions are the cornerstones of a family. But sometimes those traditions are things like: keeping secrets, validating abusive behavior, and upholding toxic patterns. Khadeen and Devale think it’s time to break those family traditions and settle into some healthier traditions of your own. Dead ass.

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Feb 02, 2022
Outsourcing Help
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When you have a spouse, a job and multiple kids, it’s hard to find a moment for yourself. That’s why some parents are opting to hire help with their newborn’s needs while they take a few hours to do other things. But how much help is too much? In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss their method for getting help at home.

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Jan 26, 2022
Laugh to Keep From Crying with The Funny Momma Katryce Pedro
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The access we have to information in today’s world has created a generation of people who are much more equipped to deal with life’s ups and downs. And for social media personalities like Katryce Pedro AKA The Funny Momma, sharing their journey through hardships and triumphs helps create communities of people all over the world who are dealing with similar issues. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk with Katryce about her journey through motherhood and social media.

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Jan 19, 2022
Are We Done Yet?
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Now that the Ellis crew has added another whole boy, are Khadeen and Devale done having kids? In this episode, the couple discuss if they’re done populating their village. Dead ass.

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Jan 05, 2022
Rekindling Intimacy After Pregnancy
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When a woman is handling the changes in her body during pregnancy, her partner may want to be creative with ways to keep her feeling good and sexy. In this episode, Devale shares the ways he kept Khadeen feeling sexy to make sure the intimacy never wavered during pregnancy. Dead ass.

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Dec 29, 2021
The Truth About The 4th Trimester
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After 40 weeks of pregnancy, the work of having a baby isn’t over. Khadeen and Devale bust the myths and discuss the facts to prepare you for the 4th trimester. Dead Ass.

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Dec 22, 2021
From Home Birth to the Hospital
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The line between life and death becomes its thinnest during childbirth. In this episode, the Ellises discuss their brush with death after Khadeen developed postpartum preeclampsia. Dead ass.

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Dec 15, 2021
The Birth of Dakota
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Baby E4, Dakota Marley Ellis is here and the Ellises are savoring each moment with him as he starts to make his mark in the world. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale share their experience giving birth at home to their fourth whole boy. Dead Ass.  

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Dec 08, 2021
We'll Be Back Next Week
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Congratulations to the Ellises who welcomed baby Dakota to the world! Come back for a new episode of Dead Ass on Wednesday, December 8th!

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Dec 01, 2021
So Your Water Broke…Now What?
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The countdown to baby E4 is almost over, and the Ellises are getting ready for another home birth. In this episode, they answer all your questions about exactly what takes place during the birthing process and what’s different about giving birth at home. #DeadAss

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Nov 24, 2021
Preparing for Labor
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From Brooklyn to Atlanta, and hospitals to home births, the Ellises have stories for days about how the births of their 4 boys have been different. How’d they prepare for each of them? In this episode Khadeen and Devale explain. #DeadAss.

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Nov 17, 2021
Don’t Forget About Dad
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Well into the third trimester, Khadeen’s ready for Baby E4 to make his appearance. But as Devale plays super Dad to make sure she’s ready for delivery, Khadeen’s got her hands full keeping Devale’s head in the game. In this episode, Khadeen gives her top 10 suggestions for what Dad needs during pregnancy. #DeadAss

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Nov 10, 2021
Best Friends, Better Moms with Bianca Smith
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With 15 years of friendship and 9 kids between them, Khadeen and her bestie Bianca Smith have shared a lot of life. This week they’re letting us in on their lives and some of the craziest moments in their friendship. #DeadAss

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Nov 03, 2021
You Don’t Have to be Superman with Kevin Walton & Trinity Whiteside
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In a society where masculinity is synonymous with hardness, where does a man get to be open? Devale makes space for masculine vulnerability with his Sistas co-stars Kevin Walton and Trinity Whiteside in this episode. #DeadAss

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Oct 27, 2021
Super Dad Loading…
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After having 3 whole boys, Devale is an expert at making sure Khadeen is comfortable carrying baby E4. This week, Devale shares his top 10 things Dads can do to help carry the load during pregnancy. #DeadAss

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Oct 20, 2021
Love The Kids, Hate The Pregnancy
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Children are a gift, but the way they get here feels like a curse. Khadeen and Devale get real about what they hate about pregnancy. Dead Ass.

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Oct 13, 2021
Change is coming
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This week, Khadeen gets real about the transformations she’s seen in her body going through her fourth pregnancy while Devale talks about changes he’s seen in himself too. The Ellises share advice on how to have a healthy pregnancy and how to cope with all the changes that come with it.

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Oct 06, 2021
She’s Pregnant and Still Sexy
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Pregnancy takes its toll on a woman’s body and that can weigh on a couple’s sex life. But for some couples, the sex is even better during pregnancy. The Ellises share where they fall on the pregnant sex spectrum. Dead Ass!

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Sep 29, 2021
Our Fourth First Trimester
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Some experts say that the first trimester of pregnancy is the sneakiest of them all. No cute baby bump, just morning sickness and vibes. This week, Khadeen and Devale share how they got through their fourth 1st trimester. And share tips, tricks and absolute necessities for new parents.

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Sep 22, 2021
Coming Soon…E4
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After 4 seasons of Devale begging Khadeen to have another baby, his wish is finally coming true. The Ellises are having another baby! The Eliises are sharing their hopes and dreams for #E4 and how they finally came to the decision to add one more to the Ellis gang. Dead Ass.  

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Jun 23, 2021
Game Night! with Kid Fury
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Game night is always a blast when the drinks are flowing and the laughs are growing. Khadeen and Devale try to replicate the game night vibes virtually with the always hilarious Kid Fury (The Read). The trio shares some of their deepest darkest secrets with a game night where nothing is Taboo. Dead Ass.

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Jun 16, 2021
Manifesting Greatness Kendall Kyndall & Crystal Renee’ Hayslett
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Devale always says, “There is a delusional quality that all successful people have”, and that delusion is the vision that only they can see for themselves. The Ellises invited their friends, and fellow superstars Kendall Kyndall (Social Society) and Crystal Renee’ Hayslett (Sistas) to share the delusions they’ve had when reaching for their dreams. #DeadAss.

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Jun 09, 2021
4-Page Letters featuring You!
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It’s time for Khadeen’s favorite part of Dead Ass - listener letters! And this time, the Ellises are answering your letters for the entire episode. Get ready to be shocked, perplexed, and nosey. Dead Ass! If you want to be featured as one of our listener letters, email DeadAssAdvice@Gmail.com.

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Jun 02, 2021
Loyalty, Loyalty, Loyalty
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Relationships that stand the test of time, also stand the tests of life and circumstances. After 10 years of marriage, the Ellises say that those tests are the measure of loyalty in relationships. Dead Ass.

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May 26, 2021
Let’s Play The Blame Game with Delena Zimmerman, LMFT
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Culturally, quickly establishing who is at fault is our default response. But what does it really mean to hold ourselves and our partners accountable? Licensed marriage and Family Therapist, Delena Zimmerman is here to help the Ellises figure out who is really to blame. Dead Ass.

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May 19, 2021
It’s A Thin Line Between Love & Hate
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Is it possible to hate and love someone at the same time?? This week, the Ellises say YES! Khadeen and Devale share what irks and annoys them about each other. But what doesn’t kill them makes them stronger. Dead Ass.

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May 12, 2021
If It’s Up, Then It’s Stuck
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The Ellises didn’t get to celebrate their 10 year anniversary with a vow renewal, but that doesn’t mean they’ve stopped celebrating their marriage. This week, Khadeen & Devale discuss what they want to take into the next 10 years of marriage. Dead Ass.

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May 05, 2021
Ownership & Legacy
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The Ellises bought a new home! And while they celebrate their win, the challenges Black people face when it comes to homeownership are real and perpetuate the racial wealth gap in America. This week, Khadeen & Devale tell you the ins and outs of what it took to buy a new home during the pandemic. Dead Ass.

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Apr 28, 2021
Heaux Tales
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When it comes to single men and women, the double standard is real. A man is a pimp when he’s sewing his royal oats, but a woman is a hoe if she’s dating around. Khadeen & Devale debate the relevance of heaux tales. #DeadAss

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Apr 21, 2021
Have Another Baby….Maybe?
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The Ellises only disagree on 1 thing – whether to have another a baby! But this week, Devale thinks he has the answers to convince Khadeen once and for all. Dead Ass.

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Apr 14, 2021
Lori Harvey Me
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Arguably the most eligible bachelorette, Lori Harvey has been getting a lot of backlash about her dating habits. But is she wrong for being courted? Khadeen and Devale discuss. Dead Ass.

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Apr 07, 2021
Are You Poor or Broke w/ The Budgetnista
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The Budgetnista is back to talk all things wealth with the Ellises. This time she’s breaking down the 10-step plan to financial freedom from her new book “Get Good with Money”.

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Mar 31, 2021
Doin’ It and Doin’ It Wild
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The sex drive conversation has finally come to a resolution. This week the Ellises reveal what they think was holding them back from doin’ it wild for the last few years. Dead Ass.

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Mar 24, 2021
Put Bae on a Platter
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#DeadAss Is back for season 5 and the Ellises are starting 2021 with a whole new outlook on love, life and marriage. How do you wake up every day with the intention of serving your spouse? Khadeen and Devale touch on service in marriage, finding your purpose and more this week. Dead Ass.

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Mar 17, 2021
Marriage Ain’t How It Used To Be
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Throw out everything you know about marriage! After 10 years of marriage, the Ellises reflect on the lessons they could only learn by doing. What really makes a marriage work? Well, that’s up to you. Dead Ass.

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Jan 13, 2021
Healing ourselves for our babies’ babies
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Family secrets, family history and family curses are all ways we explain away the traumas that we pass from generation to generation. You can’t heal what you can’t feel, and this week Khadeen and Devale are talking about all the ways they hope to change their family’s future. Dead ass.

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Jan 06, 2021
The 7th Sense with Dr. Reema Naim
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If 2020 has done one thing, it’s gotten all of us closer to our kids. We’ve been teachers, lunch ladies, camp counselors, playmates, and everything else during the pandemic and the struggle’s been real. This week, Khadeen and Devale talk to Early Childhood Development specialist Dr. Reema Naim about how we can strengthen the way we nurture our kids’ development. Dead Ass.

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Dec 30, 2020
The Church Ain’t the Building with Pastor Reginald Sharpe Jr.
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The church is a pillar in our communities and families, but in the age of information, how do we reconcile what we know with what we believe? This week, Khadeen and Devale talk to Pastor Reginald Wayne Sharpe Jr. (Fellowship Chicago) about what faith and religion really mean in 2020. Dead Ass.

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Dec 23, 2020
‘Tis The Season to Know Your Triggers
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The people who can trigger you the most, are the ones who know you the best. Family. And during the holidays, we gotta be prepared to deal with the ups and downs of family time. This week, Khadeen and Devale share their secrets on how to deal with family as an adult. Dead Ass.

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Dec 16, 2020
The Ellises and the Time Machine!
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Dec 11, 2020
Growing up Black with Amber Coleman-Mortley
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Amidst Black Lives Matter protests this year, The Ellises had to face one of their biggest challenges as parents raising Black boys. Having the Black talk. Khadeen and Devale are joined by civics educator Amber Coleman-Mortley to help them have the talk about race in America with their boys. Dead Ass.

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Dec 09, 2020
It’s the word “pressure” for me
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We make timelines in our minds for how we want our lives to go. But what happens when you put pressure on your spouse to meet your deadlines? The Ellises are going back to their conversation about pressure – the good and the bad that can come of it. Dead Ass.

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Dec 02, 2020
Social Activism Isn’t Just for Social Media with Mysonne
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Before you check your favorite celebrities and Facebook friends about posting about social justice issues, have you checked yourself? This week, Khadeen and Devale Ellis speak to Mysonne (co-founder of Until Freedom) about what it means to be a social activist, and how we can all activate change.

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Nov 25, 2020
The Evolution of Fatherhood with Ser Baffo, Slick Naim & Robb-Davon Butler
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Fatherhood is sacred. And as men continue to evolve, the way they approach fatherhood gets better and better. This week, Devale Ellis joins Ser Baffo, Slick Naim and Robb-Davon Butler in a discussion about all fatherhood, and how they’re breaking generational patters for their lineage. Dead Ass! 

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Nov 18, 2020
Let Mama Own Her Sexy with Melanie Fiona, Bec M. Gross & Ashley Chea
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This one’s for the ladies! Melania Fiona, Ashley Chea and Bec M Gross join Khadeen Ellis this week for a candid conversation about what they’ve learned as mothers, from their mothers, and through self discovery via motherhood and beyond.

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Nov 11, 2020
Pay Yourself First, especially during a pandemic, with The Budgetnista.
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We all know by now, that second stimulus check ain’t coming. So what can you do to remain financially secure during uncertain times? The Budgetnista is back with Khadeen and Devale to help you stay afloat during the pandemic.

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Nov 04, 2020
Election 2020: What you need to know with Shaun King
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The 2020 Presidential Election is just around the corner and this year every vote is more crucial than ever. Shaun King joins the Ellises on this episode of Dead Ass to discuss just what is so important about this election, and how we can all effect change.

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Oct 28, 2020
Checking Boxes: What is the true value of having a spouse?
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If money comes and goes and emotions are fleeting, what is the real value of having a spouse? This week, Khadeen and Devale share what they’ve learned about how to be the best partner in marriage.  

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Oct 21, 2020
Monogamy: Expectations vs. Reality
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Why do some women want monogamy if they can’t meet all of their partners’ needs? That’s Devale’s question for Khadeen this week as the Ellises talk about where their sex life is after 10 years of marriage. How do their standards for sex match up? What do they consider intimacy? And is monogamy really worth it? Find out in this episode of Dead Ass.

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Oct 14, 2020
Live from the Fresh Prince of Bel Air Mansion!
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Just when you thought 2020 was a wash, The Ellises are here to save the day. Live from the Fresh Prince of Bel Air mansion, Khadeen and Devale share how they’ve used their time at home to be better parents and what they’ve learned from the now infamous 2020. Dead Ass!

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Oct 07, 2020
2020 You Tried It But We’re BACK!
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In the midst of an unbelievable year, Dead Ass is back for its fourth season with a new home, new episodes, new guests, and the same BROOOKLYNNNN energy. Join Khadeen & Devale Ellis for another season of conversations about relationships, culture, and everything in between. Season 4 starts Wednesday, October 7th, wherever you listen to podcasts.

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Sep 29, 2020
Politics to Black Prosperity with Joe Biden, Louis Carr, The Budgetnista and Kenneth Montgomery
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Many decisions that will affect our future will happen this year…dead ass! On this special BONUS episode of Dead Ass, the Ellises talk politics so you can get as much information as possible and can let your voice be heard. First up K&D interview 2020 Democratic presidential nominee Joe Biden to discuss action items for the black community. Then the Ellises go deep on the state of Black America with three brilliant minds: President of Sales at BET Louis Carr, Civil Rights attorney Kenneth Montgomery, and Finance Guru Tiffany “The Budgetnista” Aliche. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Jun 17, 2020
Will You Marry Me...Again?
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For their 10 year anniversary, Khadeen and Devale wanted to honor their marriage with a vow renewal ceremony #EllisVowRenewal2020...until the pandemic happened. The ceremony is on hold right now, but to end Season 3, K&D are still celebrating this milestone at home with you! This week they're breaking down what they've learned from being partners for 18 years and what they see in the future of their relationship. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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May 13, 2020
Dulling The Silver Spoon
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As parents, you want your kids to have it better than you and as hard as you did. Khadeen and Devale are turning back the clock to talk about their childhoods in 90's Brooklyn and how they're trying to teach their kids the same lessons from the 'hood even though they're growing up in LA. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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May 06, 2020
The Birds And the Bees?!
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Devale and Khadeen have always talked frankly about sex as a married couple in their YouTube videos and on Dead Ass. But there are three people they are NOT ready to have any conversations about sex with: THEIR BOYS. This week Antoinette Scully, co-founder of More Than Sex-Ed, joins K&D to help them figure out how to start conversations with their kids about sex, consent, contraception, and gender. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Apr 29, 2020
Live From Atlanta
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ATLANTA, you brought the heat to Dead Ass Live at the Variety Playhouse. This show was recorded Valentine's Day week, and K&D wanted to do something special: they wanted to find the ideal couple in the audience that night. You do not want to miss this episode! See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Apr 22, 2020
More Than A Mommy
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In honor of #EllisVowRenewal2020, Khadeen is throwing herself a second bridal shower. But this time, instead of focusing on the honeymoon, Khadeen is turning to her friends and fellow boss moms Melanie Fiona (@melaniefiona) and Codie Elaine Oliver (@codieco) to share stories, tips, and advice on how to balance their identities and ambitions with their marriages, children, and work. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Apr 15, 2020
Mansplain To Me
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Devale gets tons of DMs from single men who want to know: why should I get married? This week, Devale’s bringing that conversation out of the locker room and into the open. Representing the single men, he's joined by Brian Jordan Jr (@brianjordanjr) and Chido Nwokocha (@yea_imchido), and on the married side, Marcus Tanksley (@marcusaintonthegram). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Apr 08, 2020
Introducing The Suga
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We're bringing you an extra surprise this week! The Suga is the newest podcast from our Stitcher fam and it's the brown mama's guide to the sweet life. It's hosted by actress, model, and producer, Tika Sumpter, and co-president of Kevin Hart's LOL Network, Thai Randolph. They're both boss moms, just like Khadeen. The Suga is a safe space where moms, moms-to-be, and those undecided can laugh, learn and love on each other as they navigate life. We know you'll love the show, so listen and subscribe to The Suga now in your favorite podcast app! See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Apr 06, 2020
Because I Said So!
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In a relationship, you gotta work out how to be with your significant other as an individual, as a partner, and, if you want kids, as a parent. This week Khadeen and Devale dig into how they teach consequences to their boys and what they do when their parenting styles don't match up. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Apr 01, 2020
Stop Clocking My Uterus With Angel Laketa Moore and Marcus Tanksley
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Devale wants to turn #3WholeBoys into #BabyE4, but Khadeen just wants to protect her womb! This week, Angel Laketa Moore (@thatchickangel) and her husband Marcus Tanksley join K&D to discuss knowing when you're done having kids and how to address nosy questions like "When are you going to have another baby?" See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Mar 25, 2020
Try A Little Tenderness
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Sex after kids is NOT a myth. But it IS a challenge for many couples, including Khadeen and Devale (#couplegoals ain't all it's cracked up to be.) This week, they hash out where they stand now when it comes to making time for intimacy and making each other's satisfaction a priority. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Mar 18, 2020
Cheating Was A Choice with Melissa Dumaz
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This week Khadeen and Devale talk about past infidelities and how they each got through their moments of transgression, and Melissa Dumaz, LMFT from U Help You joins the Ellises to share her insights on how couples can rebuild trust after cheating. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Mar 11, 2020
When The Yoke Ain’t Always Even
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Partnership takes work. But Devale and Khadeen have very different methods to getting things done: Khadeen is a procrastinator and Devale is a control freak who wants to do everything right away. This week, how to navigate your partner's work ethic as business partners to avoid resenting each other as husband and wife. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Mar 04, 2020
For Better Or...For Better!
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After ten years of marriage, Khadeen and Devale Ellis want to do it all over again. Your favorite millennial couple is renewing their vows this summer (#EllisVowRenewal2020!!) And on the next season of Dead Ass, starting March 4, they're gonna look back and reflect on what they want to bring into their second decade of matrimony. Subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Feb 26, 2020
So Said, So Done
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Visualizing, goal setting, and manifesting. We want you to live your best life and while we all experience setbacks, what defines us is how we don’t give up in pursuit of our dreams. To end Season 2 we’re sharing how we’ve been able to make our wildest dreams come to fruition. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Dec 25, 2019
Live From Brooklyn
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Our live show at the Brooklyn Bellhouse was a culmination of our hard work and most importantly, your support. Thank you to our frambily (family, friends, and tribe) for showing up for us at our SOLD OUT live shows. You don’t want to miss this episode. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Dec 18, 2019
Rules Are Made To Be Broken
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After 17 years together, we’ve set, overstepped, and reset boundaries. And through it all we’ve learned to trust that we are committed to choosing each other. This week we’re talking relationship boundaries and why we don’t set them. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Dec 11, 2019
Namaslay with Trap Yoga Bae
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As the saying goes, you gotta put your oxygen mask on first. This week we’re talking self-care, yoga and rachet affirmations with Britteny Floyd-Mayo of Trap Yoga Bae.      This episode is sponsored by Morgan & Morgan (www.forthepeople.com/deadass), MVMT Watches (www.mvmt.com/DEADASS), Policygenius (www.policygenius.com), and Brooklyn Brewery (www.brooklynbrewery.com/SPECIALEFFECTS). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Dec 04, 2019
Keep Your Head Up With Dr. Imani Walker
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So many of us are living with unresolved trauma and as a community we have a lot of healing to do. The first step is seeking help. This week forensic psychiatrist, Dr. Imani Walker joins us to share her insights on the state of mental health in the black community.   This episode is sponsored by Spotify - Dissect podcast, Zebit (www.zebit.com/deadass), Morgan & Morgan (www.forthepeople.com/deadass), and Universal - Queen & Slim. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Nov 27, 2019
Learning From the Mistakes of Others
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This week on Dead Ass, our favorite part of the show is the whole show! We’re answering your listener letters and dropping some gems from our personal experiences.   This episode is sponsored by Zebit (www.zebit.com/deadass), Universal - Queen and Slim, JustFab (www.justfab.com/deadass), and MVMT Watches (www.mvmt.com/deadass). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Nov 20, 2019
Parents Just Don't Understand... with Jessica Rose
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We all know it takes a village when it comes to raising kids, this week Khadeen is holding it down with mom, rapper and YouTube sensation, Jessica Rose of She Really Had a Baby.   This episode is sponsored by Morgan & Morgan (www.forthepeople.com/deadass), Universal - Queen and Slim, and ID Tech (www.idtech.com/DEADASS). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Nov 13, 2019
Do The Right Thing With A’shanti Gholar
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We got the power! Now we gotta get our facts straight when it comes to political participation. This week we are talking to A’shanti Gholar, the founder of The Brown Girls’ Guide to Politics (thebgguide.com) about how to exercise our voting rights and running for office.     This episode is sponsored by MVMT Watches (www.mvmt.com/deadass), MyBookie (www.mybookie.ag code: DEADASS) and JustFab (www.justfab.com/deadass). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Nov 06, 2019
Let That Sh*t Go
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Energy vampires be GONE! This week we're talking about how to navigate those relationships that you know ain’t no good.     This episode is sponsored by Policygenius (www.policygenius.com) and Morgan & Morgan (www.forthepeople.com/deadass). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Oct 30, 2019
Prenup or Nah? With Judge Mablean Ephriam
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All rise for the honorable Judge Mablean as she talks with Khadeen and Devale on why some might decide to get a prenuptial agreement and what it really means to think deep before you leap!     This episode is sponsored by Audible (www.audible.com/deadass or text DEADASS to 500-500), MyBookie (www.mybookie.ag code: DEADASS), and Lola (www.mylola.com code: DEADASS30). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Oct 23, 2019
Smack It, Flip It, Rub It Down
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It's no secret that we're constantly trying to get on the same page as it relates to our sex life, so today we're chatting with sexologist Shan Boodram to help us figure how to keep things spicy after 17 years. Dead Ass is headed to Philly on November 21st and in Brooklyn on November 22nd! Click the link to get your tickets today: https://www.deadasspodcast.com/     This episode is sponsored by Zebit (www.zebit.com/DEADASS), MyBookie (www.mybookie.ag code: DEADASS), and Policygenius (www.policygenius.com). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Oct 16, 2019
You're Not the Person I Married! w/ Mr. & Mrs. KevOnStage
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Does the fairytale really end after you say, "I Do?" Kevin and Melissa Fredericks from the podcast The Love Hour join Khadeen and Devale to talk about how they've managed to keep their marriages strong as they constantly evolve and go through all of life's changes.Dead Ass has two live shows coming up in Philly on November 21st and in Brooklyn on November 22nd! Click the link to get your tickets now: https://www.deadasspodcast.com/     This episode is sponsored by MyBookie (www.mybookie.ag code: DEADASS), JustFab (www.justfab.com/deadass), and MVMT Watches (www.mvmt.com/DEADASS). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Oct 09, 2019
What’s your zodiac sign, political affiliation...and your credit score?
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This week, Khadeen and Devale will have you saying FACTS FACTS FACTS when it comes to getting comfortable talking about the five taboo topics that can make or break your relationship. Dead Ass has two live shows coming up in Philly on November 21st and in Brooklyn on November 22nd! Click the link to get your tickets now: https://www.deadasspodcast.com/     This episode is sponsored by Policygenius (www.policygenius.com) MyBookie (www.mybookie.ag code: DEADASS) and Betterhelp (www.betterhelp.com/deadass  code: DEADASS). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Oct 02, 2019
Be My Escape Not My Obligation
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Talking about that real love, the kind that doesn’t feel like a chore...until it does. Khadeen and Devale talk about when they realized their intimacy stopped being a priority and how they got their love life back on track.  Dead Ass is doing a live show in Philly on November 21st and in Brooklyn on November 22nd! Click the link to get your tickets now: https://www.deadasspodcast.com/   This episode is sponsored by MyBookie (www.mybookie.ag code: DEADASS) and Betterhelp (www.betterhelp.com/deadass code: DEADASS). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Sep 25, 2019
We'rrrreee Baaackkkk
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You’ve left comments, you’ve left reviews, the people have spoken. It’s true, Khadeen and Devale Ellis are BACK BABY with season two of Dead Ass starting September 25th! Your favorite millennial couple is serving Martin and Gina realness this season with new guests, new topics, but of course with the same K & D antics that will have you cracking up and wanting more. Make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Sep 04, 2019
No Relationship Is Perfect
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In the season finale, we're answering listener letters with candid examples from our biggest relationship struggles. We'll be back in September with new episodes.  This episode is sponsored by HBO - A Black Lady Sketch Show, Policygenius (www.policygenius.com), Care/of (www.takecareof.com code: DEADASS), and Betterhelp (www.betterhelp.com/deadass code: DEADASS). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Aug 07, 2019
Literally, Dying To Have A Baby
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Khadeen & Devale discuss their reasons behind choosing a home birth as well as the high infant and mom mortality rates of Black women with midwife Takiya B. This episode is sponsored by HBO - A Black Lady Sketch Show, Betterhelp (www.betterhelp.com/deadass code: DEADASS), and SKYN. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Jul 31, 2019
Culture Clash
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The importance of understanding your S/O's culture and dissecting the tension between American & Caribbean blacks. This episode is sponsored by SKYN, HelloFresh (www.hellofresh.com/deadass80 code: DEADASS80), and Raycon (www.buyraycon.com/deadass). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Jul 24, 2019
Learn Something New Errday
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The Khadeen & Devale you don't get to see. If you don't know, now you know! This episode is sponsored by Policygenius (www.policygenius.com), Betterhelp (www.betterhelp.com/deadass code: DEADASS), and ButcherBox (www.butcherbox.com/deadass code: DEADASS). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Jul 17, 2019
The Gym vs. Baconeggandcheese
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We discuss the stresses of fitness and body image in a relationship, as well as the benefits of working out w/ personal trailer Dolo. This episode is sponsored by Lola. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Jul 10, 2019
Devale Still Big Mad About That Stroller
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Here are our tips on how to argue respectfully.  This episode is sponsored by Skyn and Podswag (code: DEADASS). Come see Dead Ass LIVE at the Essence Festival on July 6! See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Jul 03, 2019
Life Ain't The Same After 3 Whole Boys!
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Children completely changed our relationship, we dive into exactly how.  This episode is sponsored by Freaknik: A Discourse On A Paradise Lost podcast, Raycon (www.buyraycon.com/deadass), Helix Sleep (www.helixsleep.com/deadass), and HelloFresh (www.hellofresh.com/deadass80 code: DEADASS80). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Jun 26, 2019
For The Content Creators Out There...
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We share our story on how we used social media to fulfill our dreams and later in the show the creator and cast of the web series MakeUp to BreakUps join the conversation.  This episode is sponsored by Freaknik: A Discourse On A Paradise Lost podcast, Netflix - I Hate Talking About Myself podcast, Policygenius (www.policygenius.com), Turo, and BET Network Awards (www.bet.com). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Jun 19, 2019
Between The Sheets
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Let's face it, expectations change when you're married -- especially when it comes to sex. We dive into how to work through those times when you're really not in the mood. This episode is sponsored by Turo. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Jun 12, 2019
Are You Trying to Be Rich Rich or Just Broke and Boujee?
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Can you really be boujee and broke? We talk with America's favorite financial educator Tiffany "The Budgetnista" Aliche, on how to create a budget and financially plan the life you really want. This episode is sponsored by Turo and BlueChew (www.bluechew.com code: DEADASS). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Jun 05, 2019
Can I Live?
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How to navigate the world we live in, when all you wanna do is live your best life.  This episode is sponsored by Policygenius (www.policygenius.com), Away (www.awaytravel.com/deadass code: DEADASS), and BlueChew (www.bluechew.com code: DEADASS). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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May 29, 2019
Insecurrr
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We all have thoughts that make us doubtful, we're talking about how to deal with "ish" that makes us so insecure. This episode is sponsored by Turo and Lola (www.mylola.com code: DEADASS). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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May 22, 2019
Marriage: Did it Choose Us or Did Did We Choose It?
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Why we got married and how it works for US! This episode is sponsored by Turo (www.turo.com code: DEADASS). See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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May 15, 2019
Y'all Ready For This? Coming Soon: Dead Ass with Khadeen and Devale Ellis
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Starting May 15th it's the podcast you never you knew you needed in your life! Join The Ellises as they have honest and raw conversations about relationships, parenting, family, work life balance and more! See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.

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Apr 18, 2019