Dr. Finlayson-Fife's Podcast Archive

By Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

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Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is a sex and relationship expert who has been interviewed for hundreds of podcasts. You can access all the amazing content covering issues of faith, sexuality, integrity, belonging, and more right here on the podcast archive! Dr. Finlayson-Fife is an LDS relationship and sexuality coach as well as a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in the state of Illinois. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also has a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. The advice offered through any and all podcasts in which she is featured is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.

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Modesty and Moderation
00:54:25
This episode is the audio from a Facebook live that Dr. Finlayson-Fife hosted on the topic of modesty. Listen to learn more about: - The true meaning of modesty - Unhelpful messages we unwittingly give to men, women, boys and girls about modesty - Helpful messages to replace those harmful narratives
Jul 22, 2021
Be Anxiously Engaged in a Good Cause
00:56:26
Brexton Bennett of the Rise by Lifting Others podcast interviewed Dr. Finlayson-Fife about becoming the respected therapist she is today.
Jul 12, 2021
Beauty
00:50:57
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joined Heather Frazier of the Pivot Parenting podcast to discuss our attitudes towards physical beauty and how to talk to your kids about these topics.
Jul 07, 2021
Owning Your Spirituality
00:34:22
Dr. Finlayson-Fife and Heather Rackman of the Latter-day Life Coaches discuss honesty, truth, faith and where they all intersect in this episode about owning your spirituality.
Jul 01, 2021
Engage in the Process | Part 2
00:32:57
This is part two of Dr. Finlayson-Fife's interview with Unashamed Unafraid.
Jun 21, 2021
Engage in the Process | Part 1
00:41:07
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joined Steve and James of the Unashamed Unafraid Podcast to discuss honesty and being fully human. Spoiler alert...the path is not perfectionism!
Jun 14, 2021
Belonging and Boundaries
00:47:10
Dr. Finlayson-Fife was interview on the Faith Matters podcast to discuss the tension between boundaries and belonging when it comes to returning to in-person church following the pandemic.
Jun 07, 2021
Sexual Sense of Self in Motherhood
00:21:51
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife spoke in the online I Am Mom summit in March 2019 about the common misconceptions and false beliefs that can undermine sexual identity and desire for mothers. Listen to this recording to learn more about: - Maintaining a sense of self in motherhood - Challenging the message that to be a good mother you must needless and wantless - Questions to ask yourself to strengthen your partnership and sexual relationship
Jun 01, 2021
Navigating Differences with Integrity
00:52:35
Dr. Finlayson-Fife was interviewed by Sherrae Phelps of the Ten Thousand Hours of Writing project to discuss differences in marriage and how to navigate them. Listen to here more about... - The difficulty of navigating differences, especially religious differences, in marriage. - Self-indulgence vs self-definition. - The paradox and tension of marriage. - How to determine with integrity if a difference is too big for the marriage. - How we choose to navigate difference may matter more than the difference itself.
May 24, 2021
Developing Intimacy
00:35:09
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joined Shane and Jason of the Sprinkled With Hope podcast to discuss sexuality, intimacy and hope. Listen to hear more about... - A distinction between sex and intimacy - How to develop a capacity for intimacy - A positive strategy to use talking to your children about their sexuality - Advice for newlyweds as they begin their sexual relationship - Hope and encouragement for meaningful love and intimacy in your life
May 18, 2021
The Sex Talk We All Deserve
00:29:15
Dr. Finlayson-Fife had a fun and educational conversation with Rosemary Card of the Q.More Podcast where they covered questions we all have about sex. Listen to learn more about... - Integrating your sexuality regardless of what stage of life you are in - The process of self and sexual development - Intimacy and communication - Questions and discussions to help newlyweds navigate their new sexual relationship
May 12, 2021
Sexuality After Betrayal
00:48:07
Dr. Finlayson Fife joined Geoff Steurer of From Crisis to Connection to discuss reclaiming your sexuality after betrayal in your marriage. Listen to learn more about: - Reclaiming your individual sexuality after betrayal - The development opportunities afforded by crisis in your relationship - How anchoring in one’s sense of self enhances your relationship to your spouse - The courage required to love
Apr 28, 2021
Tolerating Dissent
00:32:03
Dr. Finlayson-Fife was interviewed on the Mormon Land podcast about Natasha Helfer's membership disciplinary hearing due to her public stances on masturbation, same-sex marriage and pornography. They discuss these topics as well as the potential effects of Natasha's hearing on mental health professionals and members alike.
Apr 24, 2021
Parenting and Self-Definition
00:57:06
Dr. Finlayson-Fife had an honest and empathetic conversation with Kimberlee & Alisha from The Clarity Call about raising children with special needs and the opportunities for self-definition in the face of a difficult reality.
Apr 20, 2021
The Divine Feminine
00:39:34
This is a recording of an instagram live Dr. Finlayson-Fife did with musician, Jenn Blosil. They covered so many wonderful topics in this fun, uplifting conversation including: - The Divine Feminine - Sexual Energy - Sublimation - Modesty - and more!
Apr 12, 2021
Growth Through Crisis
00:24:52
Barbara Zabawa of the Lemon Spark podcast interviewed Dr. Finlayson-Fife about the journey that led her to the career she has today. Listen to hear more about: - Experiences in Jennifer’s life that led her to her career - Your ability to change your circumstances - Two types of “sparks” that can lead to growth
Apr 05, 2021
How Personal Freedom Impacts Sex Drive
00:32:00
In this interview Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Valerie Hamaker of the Voices About Living podcast to discuss a case study. They cover topics including women's sexual health and how personal freedom impacts sex drive.
Mar 29, 2021
Pornography and Your Marital Sexual Relationship
00:39:40
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joined Julie Winn of The Porn Addict's Wife Podcast to discuss how the marital sexual relationship can be affected when a spouse is viewing pornography.
Mar 22, 2021
Sex in Literature
00:31:33
Lindsey Sanchez of the Beating Around the Book podcast interviewed Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife to discuss sex and intimacy in literature. Listen to learn more about: - What eroticism is, how to engage it, and how it relates to your partnership. - How literature with erotic content can move you out of the mundane of everyday life and into a place of play with your spouse. - How erotic literature can be used to enrich your life and partnership.
Mar 15, 2021
Sexuality and Being Single
00:37:18
Tammy Hill of the Live Your Why podcast interviewed Dr. Finlayson-Fife and discussed sexuality for single individuals. Listen to this episode to learn more about: - Where is the line in regards to chastity? - How to help your children make self-directed choices around their sexuality. - A discussion about normal sexual developmental behavior - Core questions to ask yourself to get clear on your relationship to your sexuality - How to transition into a sexual relationship without guilt or shame when you get married
Mar 08, 2021
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 32
00:47:07
In a conversation with Nate and Angilyn Bagley of the Mormon Marriages Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers several questions sent in by listeners. The topics include: - What subjective and physiological arousal are and how to understand them in yourself. - The importance of play, self-acceptance and acceptance of others as adults. - What is a collaborative alliance and how to do your part in that alliance. - The benefit of giving and receiving in your sexual relationship.
Mar 04, 2021
The Beauty and Challenge of Intimacy
00:56:15
Dr. Finlayson-Fife was interviewed on the From the Mouth of Babes podcast to discuss all things intimacy! Listen to this episode to learn more about... - What true intimacy looks like and the courage it requires. - The importance of managing our own sense of self. - Why honesty is key in intimate relationships. - Managing differences in a marriage. - Asking questions to truly understand your spouse and build intimacy in your marriage. - How to rekindle intimacy and passion in your marriage.
Feb 25, 2021
Intimacy in Mormon Marriages
01:47:09
In this podcast episode Don Wotherspoon facilitates a discussion with Dr. Finlayson-Fife, Carol Lynn Pearson and Stephen Carter for the Mormon Matters podcast. They cover multiple topics including beliefs that interfere with intimacy in mormon marriages, the effects of the history of polygamy on modern mormon marriages and how marriage can be an incredible opportunity for development and joy!
Feb 15, 2021
Valentines Day and Improving Your Sex Life
00:49:33
In this new podcast episode Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Courtney Anderson, host of The Glow Boss Podcast, to discuss Valentines Day and some easy and concrete ways to spice up your sex life.
Feb 08, 2021
Growing Beyond Transactional Faith
00:46:26
In this new podcast episode discussing faith and faith development with Sherrae Phelps, Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses the topic of... Transactional Faith and how we grow into a higher understandings of Faith.
Feb 02, 2021
How to Strive for Excellence (and Still Be Human!)
00:43:43
Jennifer and her sister Carolyn Bever speak with Monica Packer of the About Progress podcast all about how to develop ourselves without perfectionism getting in the way! Listen to hear more about... - How Carolyn went from only being able to run down the block to qualifying for the Boston Marathon. - What parenting has taught Jennifer about herself and her own problematic perfectionism. - How to overcome fears of failure or discomfort. - The normalcy of perfectionism, the false ideas within it, and how we can transcend it. This is a unique self-development podcast that you don't want to miss!
Jan 13, 2021
Betrayal Trauma, Part 1 & 2
00:49:31
Are you dealing with betrayal trauma? Today we are reposting a popular podcast in which Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Scabs of Bloom For Women about... -Dishonesty in marriage. -Healing from marital betrayal. -How to move forward after a breach of trust. -What infidelity in marriage can show you about your spouse and yourself. -How you can become stronger in the face of betrayal. -How to rebuild trust.
Jan 11, 2021
The Teachings of Dr. David Schnarch
00:56:38
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins colleague Natasha Helfer to discuss Dr. Schnarch's teachings and legacy. They take up -Differentiation theory and Dr. David Schnarch's impact in the field of therapy. -Differentiation and how it's related to strong relationships and a solid sense of self. -How to better manage anxiety within your relationship and family. -Common relational and sexual challenges facing those who have grown up in a religiously conservative culture
Jan 06, 2021
Dr. Finlayson-Fife Talks With Colleague About Dr. Schnarch's Impact and Differentiation-Based Work
00:26:25
In honor of David Schnarch, professional colleague Dr. Dave Jenkins, interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife about -How she came to find Dr. Schnarch's work -Personal growth that has come from her experience as a therapist and coach. -The value of seeking for truth even when it's disorienting. -How her practice has been influenced by Dr. David Schnarch's life and work. -The importance of differentiation in human development and creating peace within oneself and healthy relationships
Jan 04, 2021
Supporting Healthy Sexuality and Identity in Our LDS LGBTQ Children
00:45:32
Talking to your kids about sex is a high anxiety experience for many parents! For LDS families with an LGBTQ child, it can be even more challenging. In this podcast episode, Allison from www.liftandlove.org and Jenie with Jenie Hunter Coaching talk with Dr. Finlayson-Fife about how to raise LGBTQ children and youth with a healthy sense of their sexuality and of their identity as a child of God.
Jan 01, 2021
Whole Hearted Loving & Stage 3 Sex
00:43:57
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Dan Purcell of the Get Your Marriage On podcast. They discuss... -The 3 stages of sexual development, and how to bring your marriage to the next level. -The importance of fostering erotic energy in your relationship. -How to go from having sex to deep connection through love-making.
Dec 21, 2020
Creating Intimacy and Friendship in a Two-Career Household
00:31:04
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife and Monica Tanner of the "On The Brighter Side" podcast talk about entrepreneurism and its impact on relationships. Jennifer and Monica discuss.. -Why it can be difficult to ask for support from a spouse when you have a meaningful ambition. -The challenges that entrepreneurs often confront in their intimate relationships, given the sacrifices and emotional demands of a creative endeavor. -How to maintain your sense of self in the midst of entrepreneurial demands along with the responsibilities of marriage, and parenting, and work. -How to address resentment that emerge in marriage productively.
Dec 21, 2020
When You Feel Like You’re Trying More Than Your Spouse
00:56:13
In this conversation with Tony Overbay of the Virtual Couch podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about living with a narcissistic spouse AND the frustrating pursuer-distancer dynamic common to many couples. Here are some of the specific things Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses.... -How to function in a relationship when your spouse has narcissistic traits or tendencies. -Where you are vulnerable when living with or loving someone who won't self-confront or change. -How to make sense of and address the experience of feeling more invested than your spouse. -How to grow in your capacity for an open hearted relationship if you tend to stay arm's length. -Understanding attachment or relational styles (such as being “clingy”, or “walled off” in relationship) and how to grow into a more self-sustaining and relational position.
Dec 14, 2020
Developing Spiritual Maturity
00:41:27
Jody Moore of the Better Than Happy Podcast interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife on the topic of Spiritual Maturity. They discuss.. -The importance of spiritual maturity and how to achieve it. -How to live life more honestly and in line with your integrity. -The process of approaching obedience with wisdom. -The true meaning of modesty and how to teach it wisely. -How perfectionism is a counterfeit virtue, and what real goodness looks like. -What the fruits of spiritual maturity are.
Dec 07, 2020
LDS Female Sexuality - Part 3
00:35:41
Jennifer discusses the questions and findings of her research, looking at LDS women and the impact of a patriarchal religious structure on their peace with sexuality and sense of sexual agency. The third and final part of this conversation covers the following topics... -How to stand up for better in a sexless marriage -How to foster desire in marriage -Masturbation in marriage -Erotica and pornography
Dec 04, 2020
LDS Female Sexuality - Part 2
00:46:29
This 3-part interview was Jennifer's first-EVER (and one of her most-listened-to) podcasts! Jennifer discusses the questions and findings of her research, looking at LDS women and the impact of a patriarchal religious structure on their peace with sexuality and sense of sexual agency.
Dec 02, 2020
LDS Female Sexuality - Part 1
00:36:57
In this 2012 interview, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Natasha Helfer of the Mormon Mental Health podcast to discuss her dissertation research on LDS women and sexuality.
Nov 30, 2020
Overcoming Unwanted Pornography Use
00:52:07
This podcast episode is for... -Those personally struggling with unwanted pornography use. -The spouse of someone who views pornography. -Anyone seeking to better understand and protect against unhealthy sexual behavior patterns.
Nov 11, 2020
How to Own Your Desires & The Art of Intimacy
00:33:37
In her conversation with Felica Allen of "Find The Magic Podcast", Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses -How women can find authentic pleasure in sexuality. -How to forge meaningful happiness. -How to take deeper responsibility for your life
Nov 09, 2020
Sex Advice For Women
00:42:23
In this interview Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins @courtneyspatrouve of the The Spa Trouve Podcast to talk about... Developing comfort with one's own sexuality. The importance of communicating honestly with a partner. What to do about painful of uncomfortable sex. And how to increase one's desire for sex.
Oct 27, 2020
Chastity, Consent, and Other Sexy Things
00:50:09
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Find Your Person Podcast to discuss the topic of singles, relationships, and sexuality! She address... -What healthy boundaries during dating look like. -The importance of sexual attraction in dating and marriage choice. -How to "course correct" while dating and recommit to shared goals. -Differences and similarities between male and female sexuality. -How to foster healthy sexuality in a dating relationship while staying true to ideals such as the law of chastity.
Oct 22, 2020
Why The Struggle Is Worth It
00:44:57
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Kami Banks of the Beyond Your Comfort Zone Podcast to discuss... How and why to invest in yourself The importance of differentiation and independence in being happy How to self-validate and gain greater confidence in who you are Learning from challenges
Oct 21, 2020
How to Improve Your Relationships By Improving Yourself
00:33:59
In this podcast Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Sarah Bauer of the Art of Play to discuss ✔️What your feelings of resentment are trying to tell you ✔️How to foster greater self-respect ✔️How self-development will positively benefit all your relationships ✔️How to tap into your own desires
Oct 09, 2020
How to Fix Your Relationship With a Partnership Mindset
00:41:37
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Jeff and Sheldon of the Idea Gym podcast to talk about... ✔️ The foundational structure of an intimate marriage. ✔️ How to participate in a marriage where both partners thrive. ✔️ How to come to peace with our desires (both sexual and otherwise). ✔️ The importance of honesty with yourself and within your marriage in creating a peaceful partnership. ✔️ The difference between intimacy and validation. AND MORE!
Sep 30, 2020
What to Do When You Hate Sex
00:34:35
In this podcast Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Monica Packer of the About Progress podcast to discuss -How to stop hating sex -How to make sense of your negative feelings towards physical intimacy. -The importance of sexual self-development in your personal confidence. -The importance of pleasure in living joyfully.
Sep 25, 2020
Sexuality & Happiness, A Positive View of Sex and Sexuality
00:42:56
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Andy Proctor of the @morehappylife podcast to discuss… -How parents can better talk to their kids about sexuality and pleasure (without embarrassment). -The gift of human embodiment and sensuality. -How people who experience themselves as addicted to sex can take more control of their choices. -How to think about sexuality as a religious single person in a way that facilitates your well-being.
Sep 18, 2020
Garments & Sexuality With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
00:48:07
This episode also includes discussion about... -Why we are often quick to judge others choices when they invalidate our own. -How and why we try to control or manipulate our spouse's beliefs or choices and how to better control ourselves (rather than others). -How to better respect integrity-based decisions, even when they differ from our own.
Sep 16, 2020
Sex Therapy Session With Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
01:06:46
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Bree and Adam of the Better Me with BodyByBree podcast to do a couples' coaching session! During their conversation, Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses -Differences/imbalances in desire between them -She exposes the implicit meaning frames between them that create resentment and undermine desire -She offers them a new way of thinking about their choices to create a sense of closeness and friendship -How to develop more confidence and courage in the marriage
Sep 09, 2020
Why You Really Need Self-Compassion
00:50:10
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Tamara K. Anderson of the “Stories of Hope in Hard Times” podcast to discuss -Self sufficiency -Overcoming self-doubt -Building self-confidence -Finding strength in trails and  -Learning from the imperfections of life.  Jennifer talks about her own experiences with self-doubt and suffering and the lessons she learned about herself, life, and God in the face of these challenging times. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.  www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on September 2, 2020. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.
Sep 02, 2020
Finding Common Ground in a Mixed-Faith Marriage
00:52:04
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Marriage On A Tightrope podcast to discuss the topic of mixed faith marriage! Jennifer addresses topics such as ✔️How you can find shared values and spiritual practices when one stops believing. ✔️How you can deal with condescension from family or friends about a spouse's shift in belief. ✔️How each person in the couple can handle the difference in belief maturely or tyrannically. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights.  www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on August 4, 2020. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. The advice offered through Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s Podcast Archive is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information.  It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care.  Although Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a trained psychotherapist, she is not functioning in the role of a licensed therapist during these sessions, but rather using her training to inform these sessions.  Thus, the content is not intended to replace independent professional judgment.  The content is not intended to solicit clients or patients; and should not be relied upon as medical or psychological advice of any kind or nature whatsoever.  The information provided through the Content should not be used for diagnosing or treating a mental health problem or disease.  The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.
Aug 25, 2020
How to Be More Sexually Attractive to Your Wife
00:44:34
In this podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Mike Frazier with Strong Men, Strong Marriages Podcast to talk about... -Female sexuality and desire. -Why you need to stop being “pathetic” :-) and what to do instead. -How to approach sex with your wife in a way that’s attractive and effective. -How to better take ownership of your own sexuality in a way that will bless your marriage.
Aug 19, 2020
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 30
00:46:18
In a conversation with Nate and Angilyn Bagley of the Mormon Marriages Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers several questions sent in by listeners.
Aug 19, 2020
How to Choose More Happiness
00:34:07
In Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s sixth podcast with About Progress, they discuss the notion of agency and choices and how taking responsibility for our choices impacts our happiness and peace of mind. This episode gives lots of examples of making choices within specific relational realities.
Jul 15, 2020
Sexuality and Modesty Discourse in LDS Culture
01:35:22
Dan Wotherspoon, host of "Mormon Matters" interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife and Natasha Helfer Parker about the messaging around modesty and sexuality and how to teach our sexual values most productively.
Jun 24, 2020
Obedience and Integrity
00:21:35
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Sherrae Phelps to talk about the topic of obedience. They discuss questions such as… -When is it good to yield to the authority of another? -What is the difference between the choice to comply based in moral courage vs. obedience that is dangerous? -What is the risk in valuing obedience as an inherent virtue, and how do we reconcile the value of humility with moral responsibility?
Jun 21, 2020
Men and Intimacy
00:56:39
In a conversation with Rhonda Farr of The Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about...   False cultural ideas that many men internalize about sexuality. How to manage desire differences and a spouse's refusal without anger or withdrawal. How to approach sexuality when a spouse has experienced sexual trauma. A sneak peek into what will be taught in the Men’s Sexuality course (COMING THIS FALL)! To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.
Jun 18, 2020
Defining Ourselves Through External Influences
00:37:55
In a conversation with life coach Heather Frazier of Pivot Parenting Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about... Why we measure ourselves by external things. How to be true to yourself. How to foster integrity and confidence in your children. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.
Jun 17, 2020
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 31 - Live
00:59:00
In a conversation with Nate and Angilyn Bagley of the Mormon Marriages Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers several questions sent in by listeners.
Jun 04, 2020
The Psychology of Men's Sexuality
00:42:58
In a conversation with clinical psychologist Zac Rhodenizer of The Psychology Of Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about the the psychology of male sexuality.
May 25, 2020
How to Own Your Highest Desires
01:14:56
In a conversation with Makenzie VanWinkle of the "My Audience Is Me" Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about what it looks like to live your life from your highest desires.
May 14, 2020
Interfaith Relationships & Faith Crisis During Marriage
01:09:20
In this discussion with Sarah Mendenhall of the Sitting Down With Sarah Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife responds to questions such as… What are the stages that couples go through when facing a faith challenge? Can you arrive at shared values in a mixed-faith relationship? Can you live in two different paradigms of belief and still be friends and good parents? How can you talk to your kids about a parent's faith transition? How can you teach your children shared values when each parent believes differently? How can you find the courage to love in the face of difference? To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.
May 06, 2020
Self-development for Men - Part 2
00:38:30
In part two of of her discussion with Matt Davis of Steelyard Academy Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses the following topics...  Taking greater responsibility for yourself. Finding greater meaning and purpose in your life. How to better measure success and happiness. Understanding sex as a powerful form of communication. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.
May 04, 2020
Self-development for Men - Part 1
00:34:50
In a discussion with Matt Davis of Steelyard Academy Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses the following topics...  Understanding the relationship between anxiety and depression and externalized expectations. Claiming your life choices in the face of pressures from others. Understanding resentment and what it can teach you about yourself. Balancing expectations and freedom appropriately to foster self-development in your child. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram, YouTube, or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.
Apr 28, 2020
The Higher Desire Wife
00:32:50
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Dr. Corey Allan from Sexy Marriage Radio to discuss the higher desire wife and the lower desire husband relationship dynamic.
Apr 21, 2020
Sex after Loss
00:45:05
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Amy Watson from the Smooth Stones Podcast to discuss intimacy after loss.
Apr 15, 2020
Developing Emotional Maturity
00:45:53
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson Fife and Preston Pugmire of the Next Level Life Podcast examine emotional maturity, its roots, its effects and how to invest in your own self-development in order to thrive in relationships and business.
Apr 09, 2020
Women's Bodies and Cultural Religious Mixed Messages
00:51:54
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Cherie Burton to talk about: How women often become disempowered sexually in religious traditions.  How many religious traditions (often unknowingly) contribute to body shaming, inhibit self-expression, and undermine self-development. How women can foster a stronger self in their lives and spiritual practices. How women can foster peace with their sexuality. AND MORE! To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.
Mar 31, 2020
Integrity, Self-Honesty and Pornography
00:51:54
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins The Betrayed, The Addicted, And The Expert Podcast to talk about: The common relational patterns at the root of addiction and betrayal and how to change these dysfunctional dynamics. How to relate to religious belief to foster courage and integrity rather than fear. What “sex-positive” means in a religious context. How women can integrate their sexuality without being vulnerable to a sexually irresponsible or indulgent spouse. How to understand aspects of sexual compulsivity. AND MORE! To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.
Mar 26, 2020
Allowing Yourself to Fully Experience Being Human
00:54:09
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Preston from the Mettle Mentality Podcast to talk about the following: The importance of intimacy in happiness. Perfectionism and its challenge to openness / intimacy. Understanding shame and guilt. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Online Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. Allowing Yourself to Fully Experience Being Human Preston - Mettle Mentality Podcast
Mar 18, 2020
Resentment and How It’s Affecting Your Marriage
01:07:27
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Sara Payne from the The Doctor’s Wife Podcast to talk about resentment.
Mar 09, 2020
Setting Boundaries
00:21:25
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Cami Hurst from the Sex Therapy 101 Podcast to talk about learning to say no when needed. They talk about topics such as learning to set boundaries and dealing with a spouse’s pornography use.
Mar 03, 2020
Understanding Sexual Development
00:22:38
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Cultivate A Good Life Podcast to talk about healthy sexual development. They talk about how to teach your kids about sexuality without shame and fear.
Feb 24, 2020
Understanding Desire
00:42:56
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Cultivate A Good Life Podcast to talk about desire. They talk about what desire is, why it matters, and how to identify and develop the desires you have.
Feb 20, 2020
Interview With my Mom - (AKA Dr. Finlayson-Fife)
00:14:42
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins her daughter Jane to talk about her career as a marriage counselor and the things she’s learned along the way. This interview was done for a journalism project for Jane’s 8th grade class. We ask that you please excuse any background noise caused by Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s family and dog.
Feb 13, 2020
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife - Mormon Sex Therapist Talks About Integrity and Sexuality
00:56:38
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Women With Fire Podcast to talk about topics such as sexuality, integrity, and teaching our kids about sex and desire.
Feb 12, 2020
How to Strengthen Your Marriage by Healing Your Body Image
00:38:12
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Stephanie Webb from Eat Confident Co to talk about body image. Dr. Finlayson-Fife offers her perspective on how a woman’s relationship with her body influences her intimate relationship, how to set healthy boundaries in a marriage, and how to empower yourself as an equal partner in your marriage by healing your relationship with your body.  To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on February 5th 2020. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.
Feb 05, 2020
Choosing Your Partner
00:37:10
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Rich and Celeste from the Marriage Theraoke podcast to talk about how we deal with the dissatisfaction in our marriages and how to more fully CHOOSE our partner every day.
Jan 28, 2020
Goal Setting and Collaboration in Marriage
00:31:27
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Monica Tanner of On The Brighter Side Podcast. Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife talks about setting personal goals and setting goals as a couple. She goes into detail about what collaborative goals look like and common pitfalls/problems that come up when trying to keep new goals, and how to overcome these.
Jan 14, 2020
Improving Intimacy Q&A with Dr. Finlayson-Fife
00:59:03
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Ray Cox and Ellen Hersam from the Improving Intimacy in Mormon Marriages Facebook group. Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers questions about neediness, using sex to avoid conflict, differences in desire, and advice for newly weds.
Jan 09, 2020
The Lower Desire Wife
00:25:36
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Corey Allan from Sexy Marriage Radio to talk about the dynamic of desire differences and the lower desire wife.
Jan 06, 2020
Raising Our Children in an Over Sexualized World
00:43:01
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Jodi Chaffee from Our Modern Heritage about how to raise kids in an overly sexualized world.
Dec 19, 2019
Singles and Sexuality - Navigating With Clarity and Integrity
00:45:02
This podcast episode is an audio recording of Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s presentation Sexuality and Singledom: Navigating with Clarity and Integrity. This presentation was recorded in New York City at a singles’ conference called “Of One Body: The State of Mormon Singledom.”
Dec 13, 2019
Betrayal Trauma Part 2
00:30:18
In this episode, Bloom for Women interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife as part of its Love Rice Podcast series. This is a continuation of the discussion that was begun in part 1. The topic of this conversation is "betrayal trauma" and overcoming the impact of infidelity and other forms of dishonesty in intimate relationships.
Dec 12, 2019
Betrayal Trauma Part 1
00:26:45
The Bloom for Women team interview Dr. Finlayson-Fife as part of its Love Rice Podcast series. The topic is "betrayal trauma" and overcoming the impact of infidelity and other forms of dishonesty in intimate relationships.
Dec 12, 2019
The Art of Belonging
00:30:21
In an interview for the Love Rice podcast series from Bloom for Women, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about how to belong to others as well as ourselves. She also explains how reconciling these tensions is related to our spiritual development.
Dec 09, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 5
00:53:38
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the the Rational Faiths Podcast Team to answer two questions: Question number one is about how to teach young women about the Law of Chastity Question number two is about the problem of pornography. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on February 1st, 2015. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher.
Dec 04, 2019
Developing Selfhood
01:14:29
In this podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses the question: How does one develop a solid sense of self within groups that celebrate "selflessness" as a feminine virtue?
Nov 29, 2019
Can You Choose Love?
00:13:49
The Mormon Channel Daily interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife on love and how to make your marriage better.
Nov 27, 2019
Women's Sexuality, Desire, Pornography, and Talking to Our Kids About Sex
00:31:10
In this episode, Jody Moore interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife about women's sexuality and desire, pornography and talking to our kids about sex.
Nov 26, 2019
Virtue, Passion, and Owning Your Desire
00:53:14
In this interview with Nate Bagley from the Loveumentary, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife talks about the following topics: how a patriarchal view of sex can be damaging to your relationship, why it's important to take ownership of your own desires and your own sexuality, helpful tips for experiencing orgasm, and how good sex takes lots of practice.
Nov 25, 2019
The Law of Chastity - Shame Free
00:43:51
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Jody Moore for a discussion about how to teach our kids about their sexuality and the law of chastity without inviting shame, with children from infancy through the young adult years.
Nov 22, 2019
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife - Therapist, Counselor, Mormon
00:50:26
In this episode, Latter Day Lives Podcast host Sean Rapier interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife about her journey discovering worth and strength as a woman in the church. They also talk about the marriage, intimacy and issues facing today’s LDS couples.
Nov 21, 2019
Developing a Relationship With Your Sexuality and Desire
00:47:13
In an interview with Rhonda Farr, an LDS sexual intimacy coach, Dr. Finlayson-Fife discusses the importance of developing one’s relationship with one’s own sexuality and desire. Rhonda Farr and Dr. Finlayson-Fife talk about how understanding the parts of yourself that you don't currently love, can actually lead you to find greater confidence. You can also listen to this interview on YouTube.
Nov 20, 2019
The Higher Desire Partner
00:32:08
In this episode, the Marriage Laboratory interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife in an episode focusing on the high desire partner in a sexual relationship.
Nov 19, 2019
Sexuality and Healthy Marriage Relationships
00:48:54
In this podcast episode, Greg Reynolds from the Marriage Mastery Podcast speaks with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about the importance of healthy sexual expression in marriage. They touch on topics such as the differences in male and female sexuality and how to create a happy relationship in which both members can thrive.
Nov 18, 2019
Help! I Want to Change My Spouse!
00:23:11
In a new "About Progress" Podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Monica Packer about our fruitless efforts to change a loved one, and what productive choices you can make instead!
Nov 14, 2019
LDS Conceptions of Motherhood
01:44:16
In this podcast episode, Dan Wotherspoon from Mormon Matters Podcast, Chelsea Fife, Chelsea Strayer, and Dr. Finlayson-Fife discuss Mormonism’s messages about motherhood.
Nov 12, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 29 - LIVE
00:40:20
In this first ever LIVE recording of an Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Mormon Marriages team to address the following questions… Question # 1 - “My wife and I are trying to conceive. This is one of the most stressful times of my life, and stress is a major anti-aphrodisiac for me. How do I confront the pressure to perform?” Question # 2 - "My wife has a “fun” sexual past with her high school boyfriends. Before we dated she had shared too many of those experiences with me. I was fine with it, until I woke up to her crying on our wedding night. It triggered a jealousy and resentment where I feel she gave “them” her fun self. I got the Mormon prude and they got the fun girl. I love her, but I feel like she has never chosen me. I get that I’m at fault with the unforgiving heart and mad with jealousy that has built emotional walls. I feel like all our sex has been mercy sex. I don’t even want to have sex with her because that’s what it is. When we become intimate all I can see is her doing “this” with “them.” It makes me regret and feel bitterness that I strived to stay a virgin and be as "clean" as I could. I feel like I have lived life wrong. Since she is a terrific good person and she has the “dirty” past, she is the better more healthy person while I am the bitter/resentful seminary graduate boy. It makes me hate myself that I can’t get over that. I’m over 15 years into this and the cloud just gets darker and bigger. How can I start becoming more intimate with my wife while suffering with this intense jealousy? I just finished your course enhancing sexual intimacy and I am grateful for you and what you are doing. So, thank you and I would love to here your answer knowing it will be painful.” This episode is part two of the two part live podcast recording. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on October 11th 2019.
Nov 06, 2019
Dealing With a Pornography Disclosure
01:19:20
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Natasha Helfer Parker from Mormon Sex Info to discuss the topic of how to best handle a pornography disclosure within a couple system.
Nov 05, 2019
Cognitive Dissonance and Faith Transition
01:20:19
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins A Thoughtful Faith Podcast to discuss the topic of cognitive dissonance and faith transition.
Nov 05, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 28 - LIVE
00:53:43
In this first ever LIVE recording of an Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Mormon Marriages team to talk about… The story of what inspired Dr. Finlayson-Fife to dedicate her education and career to helping LDS women and couples improve their relationships and their lives. Two questions are answered, both asked by women: Question ONE addresses the cultural pressure to suppress sexuality and how to overcome it. Because the stereotype of a good LDS woman seems to not include comfort with her sexuality, how does one not succumb to this instinctively? Question TWO addresses one woman’s inability to orgasm. Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about the psychological shifts as well as behaviors that can help achieve or expand one’s capacity for climax. This episode is one of two parts of the live recording. Part 29 is the second half of this live interview. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on October 6th 2019.
Oct 22, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 27
00:40:50
The Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist podcast series has moved from Rational Faiths to Mormon Marriages with Nate and Angilyn Bagley. In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife covers topics such as managing different levels of desire and premature ejaculation.
Oct 21, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 26
00:39:41
In this Rational Faiths podcast Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers two new questions: The first question covers the question of how to make sense of wet dreams in the context of marriage, and how to address differences in sexual desire and biological needs in constructive ways. The second question addresses the role of erotica and visually explicit imagery in a woman cultivating her desire in marriage. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also addresses the upcoming transition for the “Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist” series. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on July 9th 2019.
Oct 18, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 25
00:45:22
In this podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to address three questions sent in by listeners. The first question is regarding maintaining intimacy in long distance relationships, the second is about discomfort with “talking dirty” during sex, and the last question is about masturbation.
Oct 17, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 24
00:44:30
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to respond to two questions. One question is about navigating intimacy after having learned to orgasm after many years of going without. The second question asks how to respond in a relationship in which the spouse is habitually deceptive.
Oct 16, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 23
00:48:32
In this podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths team to respond to three new questions, all coming from men, covering topics of intimacy after tragic loss, disparity in desire, and becoming a more confident lover.
Oct 15, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 22
00:55:44
In this podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to answer two questions : The first question is about the impact of childhood sexual abuse and parental negligence on desire and intimacy in one woman's marriage. The second question is about a man whose wife wants him to be more sexually assertive.
Oct 14, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 16
00:52:24
In the 16th installment of the Ask A Mormon Sex Therapist series Dr. Finlayson-Fife responds to two more questions submitted from listeners. One focuses on nudity and modesty, and the second question comes from a person in a really tough position in a sexless marriage in which discussion and negotiation of sexual relations are off limits.
Oct 11, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 18
00:52:54
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths team to answer three listener questions. The first question is about a sexually entitled husband who is unresponsive to his wife’s wishes, the second question is about the use of vibrators, and the third question is from a person navigating a mixed-orientation marriage.
Oct 11, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 19
00:46:34
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths team to answer two questions submitted by listeners about infidelity in marriage.
Oct 11, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 21
00:41:11
Dr. Finlayson-Fife and the Rational Faiths team tackle two questions submitted by listeners. The first asks about “dirty/degrading” talk during sex and the second seeks advice on teaching about sex in a positive way.
Oct 11, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 15
00:34:13
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to discuss the results of a study about sexual arousal, and Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers a question from a listener who is frustrated at inability to reach orgasm during intercourse.
Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 9
00:41:48
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to talk about what you can do as the higher desire person to improve your sexual relationship. They also have a discussion on LDS male sexuality.
Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 10
00:42:51
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to talk about how to raise children (especially girls) to own their sexuality and how to help children navigate worthiness interviews.
Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 11
00:42:16
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to talk about overcoming the perceived threat of spouse's previous sexual experiences (including pornography), and the effect on desire and self-confidence. They also address the topic of long distance sexual relationships.
Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 12
00:52:22
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to take on questions about the cultural anxiety surrounding oral sex in a married relationship, and about objectification and appropriate lust.
Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 13
00:38:31
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to discuss ways to spice up your sex life, how to navigate a robust sex life with older children in the home, and how to cope with physical ailments that often come with age like erectile dysfunction.
Oct 10, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 14
01:00:39
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to talk about understanding and responding to pornography challenges as well as low sexual desire in men.
Oct 10, 2019
The Divinity of Desire
00:51:04
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Angilyn and Nate Bagley of the Mormon Marriages Podcast to talk about intimacy, sexuality and the meaning frames or "false traditions" that limit our relational and sexual development in marriage.
Oct 09, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 3
00:45:45
In this episode, the Rational Faiths Podcast team and Dr. Finlayson-Fife tackle the following questions: "How do I feel more sexual desire?" and "What is acceptable in an LDS sexual relationship?" To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. www. Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on November 11, 2015.
Oct 09, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 6
00:49:30
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with the Rational Faiths Podcast team all about re-framing masturbation and sexuality for children/youth and staying sexy while accepting the effects of age.
Oct 09, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 7
00:42:32
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the Rational Faiths Podcast team to have a discussion on the loss of sexual desire upon marriage, how to respond to it, and more on fantasy and how to reconcile it with goodness.
Oct 09, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 8
00:51:52
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife and the Rational Faiths Podcast team discuss household duties, relationship dynamics, female desire, and LDS singles and sexuality.
Oct 09, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 1
00:36:11
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Paul Barker of the Rational Faiths Podcast about issues of modesty within a school setting, romance novels as a form of erotica, what is “acceptable” within marriage & what is not, divorce and intimacy, and talking to kids about sex.
Oct 04, 2019
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 2
00:35:15
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with the Rational Faiths Podcast team about advice to give a virginal couple who is about to get married and the role of fantasy in sexual relationships.
Oct 04, 2019
Overcoming Painful or Uncomfortable Sex
00:23:27
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Buffy Stinchfield from the Birth Ready and Beyond Podcast, all about how to overcome the issue of painful or uncomfortable sex.
Oct 03, 2019
Modesty
00:41:53
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife chats with Michelle Stevenett from the Mind. Body. Boss. Podcast all about modesty. They cover topics like how to teach modesty and what modesty is and is not.
Oct 02, 2019
Partner Desirability and High/Low Desire Dynamics
00:38:18
In this podcast episode with Tony Overbay, Dr. Finlayson-Fife discusses what to do if you no longer find your partner physically attractive, as well as how to communicate in a relationship where one partner has a high desire for intimacy and one has a low desire. She also engages in a discussion about how to deal with deception within a relationship (ex. pornography or infidelity).
Sep 30, 2019
On Women and Sexuality
00:58:47
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Tony Overbay on his podcast, The Virtual Couch, to talk about the challenges around sexuality that women (and men) face growing up in a faith-based culture.
Sep 30, 2019
Body Image
00:40:11
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife chats with Michelle Stevenett from the Mind. Body. Boss Podcast about body image. They cover topics like fostering self-compassion, feeling at peace with our bodies, and how body image impacts relationships.
Sep 27, 2019
Keys To Marriage Relationships That Last
00:51:59
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Chanelle Neilson from the Moms Who Know Podcast about keys to a healthy marriage and intimate relationship. Her focus on changing oneself rather than one’s spouse is a powerful way to really improve a marriage.
Sep 27, 2019
Single Moms Thriving
00:50:27
In this episode, Molly from Divorced Mormon Mom Podcast interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife and discusses the challenges of being a divorced, faithful Mormon who is committed to keeping covenants and also has experienced a sexual relationship before. Molly asks about common concerns and questions including fears with sex, complexities of dating after divorce, and sexual compatibility.
Sep 26, 2019
Healthy Perspectives On Sexuality
00:57:53
Bill Reel, host of Mormon Discussions, interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife about healthy sexuality in a LDS context.
Sep 26, 2019
"Get Over Yourself" - When Perfectionism Undermines Your Development, Relationships, And Peace Of Mind
00:43:20
Have you ever heard the saying, "I am my own worst enemy?" If you've thought or said that about yourself, then this episode is for you. (And if you haven't, then this episode is also for you.)
Sep 26, 2019
Approval-Seeking VS. Goodness
00:44:04
Monica Packer from the About Progress Podcast interviews me on the topic of Goodness---How creating goodness is different from approval-seeking, as well as perspectives on how to develop and discern what is good when faced with real and imagined pressures.
Sep 26, 2019
Improving Your Love Life By Loving Your Body
00:50:23
Monica Packer from the About Progress Podcast interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife about body image and gaining greater self confidence.
Sep 26, 2019
Why You Need to Know Who You Are (& How)
00:45:45
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is back with another interview with Monica Packer from the About Progress Podcast. Monica interviews Jennifer addressing the importance of self-development (developing our gifts and capacities) to forge a stronger sense of self.
Sep 26, 2019
The Perils of Perfectionism
00:55:27
Monica Packer of the About Progress Podcast asks Dr. Finlayson-Fife for her thoughts on perfectionism, how to make sense of it, and how to overcome it.
Sep 26, 2019
How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex
00:21:18
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Lindsay Aerts from The Mom Show on KSL Radio to discuss how to talk with your kids about sex and abuse.
Sep 24, 2019
How to Talk to Your Kids About Abuse
00:20:33
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Lindsay Aerts from The Mom Show on KSL Radio to discuss how to talk with your kids about sex and abuse.
Sep 24, 2019
When You Have a Desire... For More Sexual Desire
00:19:12
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Lindsay Aerts from The Mom Show on KSL Radio to discuss what factors can affect desire in women and how you can overcome some of them.
Sep 24, 2019
Why the Sex Talk is More Than Just a Talk
00:37:55
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Lindsay Aerts from The Mom Show on KSL Radio to discuss how to create a culture of openness around sex and sexuality so your kids will be more likely to adopt healthy views of their own. And don't worry if you have older kids, Dr. Fife says it's never too late to start implementing healthy attitudes around sex, or repairing any well-intended missteps.
Sep 24, 2019
Talk to Your Kids About Sex - Shame Free
00:17:27
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Lindsay Aerts from The Mom Show on KSL Radio to discuss how you can help teach your kids about sex without making them feel like it's a bad thing or that they are bad for being curious.
Sep 24, 2019
Differing Views and Beliefs Part 2
00:14:26
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Sherrae Phelps of Ten Thousand Hours of Writing Podcast about how to respect the differing views and beliefs of others as well as how to approach difficult or uncomfortable conversations about religious topics.
Sep 24, 2019
Being a Whole Woman Part 1
00:32:27
Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with life/relationship coach Trina Glines all about being a whole woman.
Sep 24, 2019
Being a Whole Woman Part 2
00:34:12
Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with life/relationship coach Trina Glines all about being a whole woman.
Sep 24, 2019
Differing Views and Beliefs Part 1
00:15:52
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Sherrae Phelps of Ten Thousand Hours of Writing Podcast about how to respect the differing views and beliefs of others as well as how to approach difficult or uncomfortable conversations about religious topics.
Sep 13, 2019
Indulgent Suffering
00:15:36
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Sherrae Phelps of Ten Thousand Hours of Writing Podcast about the topic of indulgent suffering. In this episode you will learn more about how to act out of virtue and integrity and how to let go of immature thought patterns that can be harmful to personal development.
Sep 12, 2019
What Happened to My Sex Drive? And What Can I Do to Get it Back?
00:37:38
In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Rachel Nielson the host of the 3 in 30 Podcast for moms. They discuss why your sex drive may have decreased post kids and marriage, as well as what you can do to get it back.
Sep 12, 2019
Forgiving Others
00:28:46
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by Sherrae Phelps on her podcast Ten Thousand Hours of Writing. They discuss the different “versions” of forgiveness and how to forgive in a way that is healing and not harmful.
Sep 12, 2019
Thinking and Acting For Yourself
00:35:33
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Sherrae Phelps of Ten Thousand Hours of Writing Podcast about the topic of thinking for ourselves. In this episode you will learn more about how to make your own decisions based on your integrity and moral compass rather than approval of others.
Sep 12, 2019
Is it Ever Virtuous to Submit?
00:16:37
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife speaks with Sherrae Phelps of Ten Thousand Hours of Writing Podcast about the topic of submission. In this episode you will learn more about what submission means and how it can be driven either by fear or moral courage.
Sep 12, 2019
How to Create and Maintain a Sexual Sense of Self in Motherhood
00:30:01
In this episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is interviewed by holistic nutritionist and eating psychology coach, Stephanie Webb all about how to create and maintain a sexual sense of self while in the throes of motherhood.
Sep 09, 2019
The Living Nature of Mormon Covenants - Part 2
00:55:59
Part two of a discussion with Dan Wotherspoon, Charles Randall Paul, Joseph Stanford, and Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife on the meaning of covenants in religious practice, and particularly the meaning of covenants when one's faith has evolved or shifted.
Nov 01, 2018
The Living Nature of Mormon Covenants - Part 1
00:55:59
A discussion with Dan Wotherspoon, Charles Randall Paul, Joseph Stanford, and Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife on the meaning of covenants in religious practice, and particularly the meaning of covenants when one's faith has evolved or shifted.
Nov 01, 2018
Obedience and Agency
01:53:56
Mormon Matters Podcast invited Dr. Finlayson-Fife to participate in this panel discussion regarding the treatment of the concepts of obedience and agency in the Church. In this episode, Mormon Matters host Dan Wotherspoon and panelists Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, Chelsea Fife, and Michael Fife discuss the topic of obedience and integrity.
Nov 01, 2011