Husband Material

By Drew Boa

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Episodes: 277

Larry
 Mar 27, 2020
great pod cast thanks. glad some one say it.

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So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode makes it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.


Episode Date
Play, Awe, & Porn Addiction: A Polyvagal Perspective
Nov 11, 2024
Own Your Identity (with Jason Mellard)
Nov 04, 2024
The Fear And Power Of Being Vulnerable (with Trent Dollyhigh)
Oct 29, 2024
Inside Out 2 And Porn
Oct 21, 2024
How Women Heal From Sexual Betrayal Trauma (with Dr. Barbara Steffens and Lyschel Burket)
Oct 14, 2024
When A Wife Discovers Her Husband's Porn (with Dr. Barbara Steffens and Lyschel Burket)
Oct 07, 2024
Excluded And Emasculated (Sermon on Acts 8:26-40)
Sep 30, 2024
Building Community Beyond Same-Sex Attraction And Opposite-Sex Attraction (with Drew, Henry, Jason, and Jordan)
Sep 24, 2024
Same-Sex Attraction Stereotypes (with Jordan Castille)
Sep 16, 2024
Opposite-Sex Attraction Stereotypes (with Jason Pidcock)
Sep 09, 2024
Why Doesn't God Remove My Sexual Thoughts And Feelings? (LIVE)
Sep 02, 2024
How To Develop Empathy For Your Wife (with Nathaniel Gustafson)
Aug 26, 2024
How Women Can Help Men Heal (with Britta Eskey)
Aug 19, 2024
Three Unhealed Boys Within Every Man
Aug 12, 2024
A New Approach To Internet Filtering (with Plucky)
Jul 29, 2024
Outgrowing Porn in Marriage (with Rich and Deanna Millentree)
Jul 22, 2024
How To Transform Your Triggers: The F.L.O.S.S. Method (Part 2)
Jul 18, 2024
How To Transform Your Triggers: The F.L.O.S.S. Method (Part 1)
Jul 15, 2024
How I Stopped Getting Into My Husband's Recovery Work Instead Of Doing Mine (with Tera Brown)
Jul 08, 2024
Sitting In The Dirt Of Sexual Brokenness (with Jeremy Williamson)
Jul 01, 2024
How To Do Experiential Healing Work
Jun 24, 2024
Restoration After Porn Relapse (with Rocky Pisor)
Jun 17, 2024
It's Good To Be Aroused (with Sam Jolman)
Jun 10, 2024
Freedom From Gay Porn (LIVE)
Jun 03, 2024
How Childhood Experiences Shape Sexual Development (with Drew, Doug, Eddie, and Matt)
May 27, 2024
Why We Sexualize Emotions And How To Desexualize Them
May 20, 2024
Overcoming Sexual Entitlement (with Noah Filipiak)
May 13, 2024
Hope And Healing For Sexless Marriage (with Adam and Karissa King)
May 06, 2024
Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: How To Respond To A Story (Part 4)
Apr 29, 2024
Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: How To Write A Story (Part 3)
Apr 22, 2024
Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: Why We Do Story Work (Part 2)
Apr 15, 2024
Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: What Is Story Work? (Part 1)
Apr 08, 2024
Porn and Inner Healing Prayer
Apr 01, 2024
Porn and Polyvagal Theory (with John Kilmer)
Mar 25, 2024
What Is God Doing In My Trauma? (with Matt Wenger)
Mar 18, 2024
How To Create Connection In Any Conversation (LIVE)
Mar 11, 2024
Why Men Don't Talk About Their Sexual Abuse (with Mike Chapman and Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Mar 04, 2024
How To Tell Her About The Porn: Full Disclosure (with Dan Drake and Dr. Janice Caudill)
Feb 26, 2024
Healthy Fantasy vs. Unhealthy Fantasy
Feb 19, 2024
A Grace-Based Approach To Sexual Recovery (with Jonathan Daugherty)
Feb 12, 2024
Singleness & Same-Sex Attraction (with Dr. Greg Coles)
Feb 05, 2024
Outgrowing Porn vs. Purity Culture
Jan 29, 2024
Outgrowing Porn Through Parts Work (with Dr. Gerry Crete)
Jan 22, 2024
What To Do When Your Wife Is Triggered (with Tammy Gustafson)
Jan 15, 2024
Healing Through Artwork and Storywork (with Philip Leach and John Kilmer)
Jan 08, 2024
12 Reasons To Stop Shaming Yourself
Jan 01, 2024
How To Help Your Partner Heal (with Carol Sheets)
Dec 25, 2023
Blessing vs. Cursing Yourself & The Story Behind Your Porn (with Chris Bruno)
Dec 18, 2023
How To Analyze A Sexual Fantasy (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Dec 11, 2023
Introduction To Sexual Symbolism
Dec 04, 2023
Experience Healing Through The Immanuel Approach (with Cathy Little and Melinda Wilson)
Nov 27, 2023
Can Medication Help Me Outgrow Porn? (with Adam O'Neill)
Nov 20, 2023
What Is A Pornographic Approach To Recovery?
Nov 13, 2023
Helping Men Feel Safe To Open Up And Heal From Trauma (with Dr. James Reeves)
Nov 06, 2023
How Porn Recovery Can Transform Your Church (with Sam Black)
Oct 30, 2023
How To Escape Creepy Conversations Before Sexting
Oct 23, 2023
Healing From Rejection, Racism, And Betrayal (with Roy Kim)
Oct 16, 2023
Porn And Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (with Andrew Loyd)
Oct 09, 2023
David’s Sexual Story (Sermon)
Oct 02, 2023
Reintegrative Therapy (with Dr. Joseph Nicolosi Jr.)
Sep 25, 2023
What To Do When You Feel The Urge To Watch Porn (with Dan Johnson)
Sep 18, 2023
How To Heal Shame And Self-Contempt
Sep 11, 2023
Appropriate Touch Between Men (LIVE)
Sep 04, 2023
Healing Your Marriage After Gay Porn (with Tamara Lichfield)
Aug 28, 2023
The Inner Child Challenge Workshop (LIVE)
Aug 21, 2023
Why You Need A Recovery Action Plan (with Nick Stumbo & Trevor Winsor)
Aug 14, 2023
From Rock Bottom To Recovery Coach (with George Morning)
Aug 07, 2023
How My Sexual Fetish Shifted Over Time
Jul 31, 2023
A Story Of Healing Through Psychodrama (with Rick Carlson and Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Jul 24, 2023
Experience Healing Through Psychodrama (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Jul 17, 2023
I'm Fine Syndrome (with Stephen Thomas)
Jul 10, 2023
Secrets Of Sex And Marriage (with Dr. Michael Sytsma)
Jul 03, 2023
Making Sense Of Masturbation: Case Studies And Spicy Questions (LIVE)
Jun 26, 2023
Making Sense Of Masturbation: Science, Scripture, And My Story (LIVE)
Jun 19, 2023
Porn And Third Culture Kids (with John Kilmer)
Jun 12, 2023
Porn, Autism, and ADHD: Embracing Neurodiversity (with Candice Christiansen)
Jun 05, 2023
How To Confront Parents With Compassion
May 29, 2023
Healing With My Parents (with Yvonne Boa and Sandy Boa)
May 22, 2023
Adult Children Of Sex Addicts (with Dr. Ken Adams)
May 15, 2023
Three Keys To Becoming Husband Material
May 08, 2023
Introduction To Outgrowing Porn (wth Dr. Robert Masters)
May 01, 2023
Emotional Abuse (with Dr. Jake Porter)
Apr 24, 2023
Directing Sexual Energy In Singleness
Apr 17, 2023
How To Use The Body To Outgrow Porn (with Andrew Bauman)
Apr 10, 2023
Role Playing Betrayal Trauma (with Dr. Eddie Capparucci)
Apr 03, 2023
How Do You Define Pornography?
Mar 27, 2023
Healing From Spiritual Abuse (with Chris Inman)
Mar 20, 2023
Bullying And Same-Sex Attraction (with Jordan Castille)
Mar 13, 2023
Unburdening Sexual Arousal (with Dr. Peter Malinoski)
Mar 06, 2023
Guided IFS Experiential Exercise (with Dr. Peter Malinoski)
Feb 27, 2023
Experience Healing Through IFS (with Dr. Peter Malinoski)
Feb 20, 2023
How Much Does She Need To Know About The Porn? (LIVE)
Feb 13, 2023
How Porn Affects Children (with Benji Nolot)
Feb 06, 2023
How Porn Fuels Sex Trafficking (with Benji Nolot)
Jan 30, 2023
Sexual Fluidity And Sexual Plasticity
Jan 23, 2023
What Types Of Change Are Possible? (with Rich Wyler)
Jan 16, 2023
Habits That Heal (with Shawn Bonneteau)
Jan 09, 2023
Becoming Porn Free In 2023
Jan 02, 2023
How Do I Help My Hurting Spouse? (with Dr. Eddie Capparucci)
Dec 26, 2022
Emotional Fitness (with Sathiya Sam)
Dec 19, 2022
How To Be A Great Lover (with Dr. Keith Gregoire)
Dec 12, 2022
Authentic Manhood (with Dr. Joe Martin)
Dec 05, 2022
What If I'm Sexually Attracted To Myself?
Nov 28, 2022
Male Survivors Of Sexual Abuse (with Mike Chapman and Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Nov 21, 2022
Find The Boy Within The Man (with Chris Bruno)
Nov 14, 2022
How To Break Up With Porn
Nov 07, 2022
Emotional Safety (with Alex Avila)
Oct 31, 2022
How Can Fathers And Sons Outgrow Porn Together? (with John Fort and Lucas Fort)
Oct 24, 2022
Is Covenant Eyes "Shameware"?
Oct 17, 2022
From Pain To Purpose (with Rick Carlson)
Oct 10, 2022
Porn, Anxiety, And Depression (with Ben Bennett)
Oct 03, 2022
The Beauty Of Brotherhood (Psalm 133)
Sep 26, 2022
Wisdom After Sexual Betrayal (with Marnie Ferree)
Sep 19, 2022
Healing From Sexual Betrayal (with Dr. Sheri Keffer)
Sep 12, 2022
Attunement: The Key To Connection
Sep 06, 2022
Bent On Men, Part 2 (with Harrison Bly)
Aug 29, 2022
Bent On Men, Part 1 (with Harrison Bly)
Aug 22, 2022
What Does The Bible Say About Purity? (LIVE)
Aug 15, 2022
How To Track Your Heart (with Josh Glaser)
Aug 08, 2022
How To Teach Children About Sexuality (with Adam + Karissa King)
Aug 01, 2022
Internal Family Systems And Jesus (with Kim Miller)
Jul 25, 2022
Outgrowing Porn From A To Z (Part 2)
Jul 18, 2022
Outgrowing Porn From A To Z (Part 1)
Jul 11, 2022
Neglect: Hidden Trauma (with Stephen Thomas)
Jul 04, 2022
Redeeming Heartache (with Cathy Loerzel)
Jun 27, 2022
The Five Types Of Intimacy
Jun 20, 2022
Get Your Man Cards (with Henry Brown)
Jun 13, 2022
Why Porn Is A Solution (with Matt Dobschuetz)
Jun 06, 2022
Long Distance Friendship (with Drew, Stephen, Marcus, and Mike)
May 30, 2022
Becoming Emotionally Mature (with Dr. Eddie Capparucci)
May 23, 2022
Sexual Arousal vs. Sexual Desire (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)
May 16, 2022
Should I Count The Days Since I Last Used Porn?
May 09, 2022
Porn And Centering Prayer (with Matthew Lyda)
May 02, 2022
The Gospel And Trauma (with Matt Wenger)
Apr 25, 2022
How To Heal Your Inner Child: Older Brother Coaching
Apr 18, 2022
The Blessing Of Being Reported (with Rich Moore)
Apr 11, 2022
Healing Racial Trauma (with Sheila Wise Rowe)
Apr 04, 2022
Why Didn’t I Like Vaginas?
Mar 28, 2022
How Does God View My Body? (with Matt Cline)
Mar 21, 2022
Toxic Shame vs. Healthy Shame (with Dr. Jake Porter)
Mar 14, 2022
Vulnerability 101 (LIVE)
Mar 07, 2022
The Power Of Identity (with Sathiya Sam)
Feb 28, 2022
Rags To Riches To Ruin To Redemption (with Dr. Joe Martin)
Feb 21, 2022
How To Reframe A Porn Relapse
Feb 14, 2022
Healing From Sexual Abuse, Part 2 (with Mike Chapman)
Feb 07, 2022
Healing From Sexual Abuse, Part 1 (with Mike Chapman)
Jan 31, 2022
Was I Sexually Abused? (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Jan 24, 2022
Introduction To Healing Prayer (with Leslie Weinzettel)
Jan 17, 2022
Building A Porn-Free Body: Momentum (with Alex VanHouten)
Jan 10, 2022
Building A Porn-Free Body: Motivation (with Alex VanHouten)
Jan 03, 2022
The Beauty Of Elephant Seals
Dec 27, 2021
How To Make Sex Great (with Sheila Wray Gregoire)
Dec 20, 2021
Appropriate Nudity Between Men (LIVE)
Dec 13, 2021
Healing Sports Wounds (with Stephen Thomas)
Dec 06, 2021
Solutions For Stress (with Marcus Spaur)
Nov 29, 2021
Five Truths About Forgiveness
Nov 22, 2021
The Orphan Spirit (with Dr. Eddie Capparucci)
Nov 15, 2021
The Image Of God In You (with Jenna Riemersma)
Nov 08, 2021
How Jesus Reverses The Curse
Nov 01, 2021
Why Men Need To Play (with Dr. Michael Crocker)
Oct 25, 2021
The Power Of Unfiltered Poetry (with Matthew Ray Lyda)
Oct 18, 2021
The Cure For Comparison (with Dr. Michael Tso)
Oct 11, 2021
Porn Is An Abusive Teacher
Oct 04, 2021
Sexual Discipleship (with Dr. Juli Slattery)
Sep 27, 2021
Overcoming Enmeshment (with Dr. Ken Adams)
Sep 20, 2021
How To Interpret Sexual Fantasies
Sep 13, 2021
Why Attachment Is The Key To Healing (with Dr. Jake Porter)
Sep 06, 2021
How To Form A Triad (LIVE)
Aug 23, 2021
Healthy Male Friendship (with Drew, Stephen, Marcus, and Doug)
Aug 16, 2021
Your Brain Off Porn (with Greg Oliver)
Aug 09, 2021
The Pirate & The Monk (with Nate Larkin)
Aug 02, 2021
Theology of the Testicles
Jul 26, 2021
What Is Spiritual Bypass? (with Dr. Craig Cashwell)
Jul 19, 2021
From Crisis To Closeness (with Clinton and Charity Muñoz)
Jul 12, 2021
Bullying And The Inner Critic (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Jul 05, 2021
Master Your Nervous System (LIVE)
Jun 28, 2021
Healing Mother Wounds (with Dan Hitz)
Jun 21, 2021
Theology of the Penis (with Jeremy Williamson)
Jun 14, 2021
Emotional Times And Seasons
Jun 07, 2021
Psychology And Spirituality (with Dr. Ken McGill)
May 31, 2021
How To Measure Freedom From Porn (LIVE)
May 24, 2021
Porn As Re-Enactment Of Sexual Abuse (with Wendell Moss)
May 17, 2021
Healing Brother Wounds (with Marcus Spaur)
May 10, 2021
Unwanted Sexual Attraction
May 03, 2021
The Truth About Erectile Dysfunction (with Shawn Bonneteau)
Apr 26, 2021
Embrace Conflict (with Jay Stringer)
Apr 19, 2021
BONUS: Drew's Spiritual Warfare Song
Apr 12, 2021
Seven Strategies For Spiritual Warfare (LIVE)
Apr 12, 2021
Rebuilding Sexual Intimacy After Porn (with Adam King and Karissa King)
Apr 05, 2021
Rebuilding Emotional Intimacy After Porn (with Adam King and Karissa King)
Mar 29, 2021
The Art Of Affirmation (with Stephen Thomas)
Mar 22, 2021
Healing Father Wounds (with Chris Bruno)
Mar 15, 2021
Transform Your Thought Life (with Sathiya Sam)
Mar 08, 2021
Nine Tips About Triggers
Mar 01, 2021
Holy Sexuality & Singleness (with Dr. Christopher Yuan)
Feb 23, 2021
A Pastor Finds Freedom From Porn (with Bernie Anderson)
Feb 15, 2021
What Should I Do With My Sexual Desires?
Feb 08, 2021
Blind Spots In Relationships (with Eddie Capparucci and Stephen Thomas)
Feb 01, 2021
Jesus Is Our Pure Hope (with Jasper Hall)
Jan 25, 2021
When Porn Seems Like The Only Option...
Jan 18, 2021
What Is A Sexually Healthy Man? (with Andrew Bauman)
Jan 11, 2021
Fight The New Drug (with Clay Olsen)
Jan 04, 2021
How To Relate Like An Adult
Dec 28, 2020
Marnie Ferree: Meet The Three Bears
Dec 21, 2020
Greg Oliver: Prepare For A Porn-Free Christmas
Dec 14, 2020
Stephen Thomas: Shame Is A Terrible Friend
Dec 07, 2020
The Gospel For Sexual Sinners (Live)
Nov 30, 2020
Josh Glaser: Lust And Love
Nov 23, 2020
How To Fall Asleep Without Porn
Nov 16, 2020
Laurie Krieg & Matt Krieg: Same-Sex Attraction In Marriage
Nov 09, 2020
Dr. Eddie Capparucci: Porn And The Inner Child
Nov 02, 2020
Dr. Doug Carpenter: Trauma And Masculinity
Oct 26, 2020
Six Skills To Help Men Outgrow Porn (LIVE)
Oct 19, 2020
Rodney & Traci Wright: How To Talk With Your Kids About Sex
Oct 12, 2020
Why You Should Treat The Sabbath Like Sex
Oct 05, 2020
Crystal Renaud Day: Women Struggle With Porn Too
Sep 28, 2020
How To Outgrow Porn (Intro to HMA)
Sep 18, 2020
Bless The Boy Within You (LIVE)
Sep 14, 2020
Three Proven Power Tools To Prevent Porn Relapse
Sep 07, 2020
Healing Sexual Bulimia
Aug 24, 2020
Rosie Makinney: Help Your Girlfriend Heal
Aug 17, 2020
How To Break The Spell Of Domination & Submission (LIVE)
Aug 10, 2020
Why Anger Is A Prophet
Aug 03, 2020
Guided Meditation with Dr. Cameron Staley
Jul 27, 2020
Dr. Cameron Staley: Free To Be Present
Jul 27, 2020
From Distracted To Disciplined
Jul 20, 2020
The Secret Behind Sexual Fetishes (LIVE)
Jul 13, 2020
Nick Stumbo: Free To Be Known
Jul 06, 2020
How To Find A Great Mentor
Jun 29, 2020
Jenna Riemersma: Move Toward, Not Against
Jun 22, 2020
Guided Meditation by Jenna Riemersma
Jun 22, 2020
When You Get An Erection...
Jun 15, 2020
The Exact Path To Freedom From Porn
Jun 08, 2020
What Does The Bible Say About Porn?
Jun 01, 2020
Andrew Bauman: Free To Grieve (Part 2 of 2)
May 25, 2020
Andrew Bauman: Free For Beauty (Part 1 of 2)
May 25, 2020
Five Failures of Purity Culture
May 18, 2020
Sathiya Sam: Free To Choose
May 14, 2020
Why Porn Is A Pacifier
May 11, 2020
Why I Bought “Porn For Women”
May 07, 2020
Should I Delete Instagram?
May 04, 2020
Shawn Bonneteau: Free For Life
Apr 30, 2020
Does Marriage Makes It Easier To Quit Porn?
Apr 27, 2020
How to Process Your Past
Apr 23, 2020
What's Your Attachment Style?
Apr 20, 2020
Trevor Winsor: Free From Secrets
Apr 16, 2020
Four Ways To Reparent Yourself
Apr 13, 2020
Same-Sex Attraction
Apr 09, 2020
Where Do Sexual Fantasies Come From?
Apr 06, 2020
Frank Rich: Free From Limits
Apr 03, 2020
Should I Tell My Parents I Struggle With Porn?
Mar 30, 2020
The Truth About Penis Size
Mar 27, 2020
Four Levels Of Freedom From Porn
Mar 23, 2020
Rocky Pisor: Free From Shame
Mar 19, 2020
How To Handle Overwhelming Sexual Urges
Mar 16, 2020
The F.L.O.S.S. Method
Mar 09, 2020
Ben Bennett: Free To Be Whole
Mar 05, 2020
Ten Reasons To Quit Porn
Mar 03, 2020
Your Struggle With Porn Is Not Your Fault
Feb 27, 2020
Accountability Is Dead
Feb 24, 2020
Cooper Cadle: Free To Be A Father
Feb 20, 2020
Three Secrets To Self Control
Feb 17, 2020
Thirteen Ideas For Incredible Allies
Feb 13, 2020
How To Find Allies (Without Being Awkward)
Feb 10, 2020
Sexual Dreams
Feb 07, 2020
Six Myths About Masturbation
Feb 03, 2020
Why You May Have Lost Your "Streak"
Jan 30, 2020
Five Ways Your Phone Can Help You Quit Porn
Jan 27, 2020
Redeemed Sexuality (Live at Messiah College)
Jan 23, 2020
What To Do When You See Attractive People
Jan 20, 2020
Should I Use Accountability Software?
Jan 16, 2020
Three Steps To Smartphone Safety
Jan 13, 2020
Drew's Story Of Freedom
Jan 09, 2020
How Long Does It Take To Quit Porn?
Jan 06, 2020
Replace Your New Year's Resolutions
Jan 02, 2020
How To Rebound From Relapse (Without Shame, Stress, Or More Relapse)
Dec 30, 2019
Introducing: Husband Material
Nov 12, 2019