Dating Kinky
By Dating Kinky, Inc.
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Episodes: 358
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A ‘cast about love, sex, romance, and kink.
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A Dating Kinky Podcast Reboot & Unsolicited Advice
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Oct 31, 2022 |
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Happy Birthday to Nookie!
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Aug 30, 2022 |
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Nonmonogamy: one plus one is 1, one plus two is 3, and one plus three is 6.
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Jul 29, 2022 |
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Do you reward the minor improvements?
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Jul 27, 2022 |
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8 Tips to Communicating Compassionately
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Jul 25, 2022 |
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A prayer for your love...
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Jul 22, 2022 |
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Throwback Thursday: A Few Thoughts On Need...
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Jul 21, 2022 |
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The balance of power exchange and romance...
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Jul 21, 2022 |
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The business of kink...
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Jul 20, 2022 |
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There is rampant slut-shaming in polyamory/nonmonogamy communities.
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Jul 18, 2022 |
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I don't NEED a partner. (Neither do you, I bet.)
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Jul 15, 2022 |
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My best sex life started at 40.
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Jul 13, 2022 |
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What does communicating with respect look like?
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Jul 11, 2022 |
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Where are ALL the creepsters?
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Jul 08, 2022 |
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Tit-For-Tat is ABSOLUTELY NOT a safe, sane, and consensual relationship
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Jul 07, 2022 |
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SPH: I've always looked for the tiny treasures...
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Jul 06, 2022 |
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So, you want a consensual non-consent relationship?
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Jul 04, 2022 |
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How can some people get off so much more easily than others?
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Jul 01, 2022 |
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Do you even 24/7, bruh?
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Jun 29, 2022 |
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How open are you in your communication? How open should you be?
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Jun 27, 2022 |
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The problem with positivity...
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Jun 24, 2022 |
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Friendzoned? That's Because You're A Buttnugget.
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Jun 23, 2022 |
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What is your communication style?
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Jun 22, 2022 |
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Do men need to love women more?
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Jun 20, 2022 |
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What are the (kinky) odds?
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Jun 17, 2022 |
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Throwback Thursday: For Those Who Stand Up After Trauma...
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Jun 16, 2022 |
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I learned something from Johnny Depp's Trial! (aka, The 3 Necessary Stages of Trauma Recovery)
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Jun 15, 2022 |
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What are you trying to get out of this conversation?
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Jun 13, 2022 |
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When "No" doesn't mean "No."
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Jun 10, 2022 |
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What is realistic to want in a relationship?
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Jun 08, 2022 |
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No, consent does not mean it's not bad for you.
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Jun 06, 2022 |
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Can you "break" yourself masturbating?
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Jun 03, 2022 |
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Your Ex: Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde? Actually, It's You AND Them.
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Jun 02, 2022 |
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I don't do newbies.
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Jun 01, 2022 |
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Communication is a TOOL. Not a solution.
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May 30, 2022 |
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Reward what you want in your life.
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May 27, 2022 |
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Communication Is NOT The Most Important Part Of A Relationship—Kinky Or Otherwise
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May 26, 2022 |
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What does "No" mean?
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May 25, 2022 |
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What is Brenett's Law?* (Hint: It's about where the power lies in relationships.)
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May 23, 2022 |
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Are you a mind reader?
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May 20, 2022 |
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You ARE Worthy...
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May 19, 2022 |
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Trust is 99% this...
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May 18, 2022 |
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Foreplay and aftercare are far more than they seem (to me).
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May 16, 2022 |
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I am not your 'safe' friend.
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May 13, 2022 |
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Throwback: Unconditional Relationships? *cough cough* BULLSHIT!
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May 12, 2022 |
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Fear biters (no, not the sexy kind of bite!)
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May 11, 2022 |
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Unpopular Opinion: I don't believe in unconditional love.
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May 09, 2022 |
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Are FemDoms required to take on more emotional labor than dominants of other genders?
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May 06, 2022 |
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"What's Wrong?" "Nothing." "Ok."
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May 05, 2022 |
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Stuck in crisis? Journaling may be an answer.
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May 04, 2022 |
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Do what works.
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May 02, 2022 |
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Guaranteed! Fix 70% of Your "Basic Bitch" Relationship Problems With This ONE Simple Trick!
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Apr 29, 2022 |
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A key point we often miss when discussing consent...
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Apr 28, 2022 |
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You're asking the wrong question!
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Apr 27, 2022 |
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Have you ever wondered, "Am I being used?"
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Apr 25, 2022 |
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I’m open to connections. I’m not “looking.”
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Apr 22, 2022 |
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Love Hurts, Part 2
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Apr 21, 2022 |
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I set calendar reminders to tell people I appreciate them.
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Apr 20, 2022 |
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Lying to prove love and loyalty: is it worth it?
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Apr 18, 2022 |
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How do we cultivate apathy in our relationships?
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Apr 15, 2022 |
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The night I tried to be sexy...
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Apr 14, 2022 |
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I'm selfish AF, and proud of it.
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Apr 13, 2022 |
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Dom VS. Domme: What's the difference?
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Apr 11, 2022 |
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GUEST POST: Single Guys: Roles in the (Cuckolding/Hotwife/Swing) Lifestyles
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Apr 08, 2022 |
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Are You A Priority? Do You Really Want To Be?
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Apr 07, 2022 |
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Is your relationship style descriptive or prescriptive?
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Apr 06, 2022 |
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Boundaries' Companion: Fulfillment Points
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Apr 04, 2022 |
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YET ANOTHER reason I hate the concept of "compromise."
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Mar 25, 2022 |
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F*¢k NO, I Will NOT Compromise!
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Mar 24, 2022 |
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Stop creating the wrong you.
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Mar 23, 2022 |
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The Effort IS the Reward (Sometimes)
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Mar 21, 2022 |
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Boundaries Are Sexy AF: Enforcing boundaries
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Mar 18, 2022 |
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Paraphrasing is an amazing, valuable tool when used right (Thoughts On Communication, Part VII)
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Mar 17, 2022 |
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We make relationships hard. They don’t have to be. Part 1
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Mar 16, 2022 |
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Choose people who choose you.
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Mar 14, 2022 |
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There is REALLY a fundamental equality in kink.
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Mar 11, 2022 |
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Your big 'But' is showing.
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Mar 11, 2022 |
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Am I into younger men?
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Mar 09, 2022 |
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How do you screen for partners for play, dating, or love?
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Mar 07, 2022 |
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GUEST POST: The Pain of Healing
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Feb 23, 2022 |
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GUEST POST: The Effects of NRE & Misinterpretations
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Feb 21, 2022 |
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The hot dogs keep coming...
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Feb 18, 2022 |
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Why I don't give blow jobs - a top 10 list
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Feb 17, 2022 |
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Are you team ME or team WE?
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Feb 16, 2022 |
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Can emotions be wrong?
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Feb 14, 2022 |
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What CAN matter: anything. What must matter: nothing.
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Feb 11, 2022 |
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Lies, Damned Lies And Consent
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Feb 10, 2022 |
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"The worst they can do is say no."
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Feb 09, 2022 |
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Let them do what they wanna...
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Feb 07, 2022 |
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Of COURSE they knew...
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Feb 04, 2022 |
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I Do NOT Have The Libido Of A Man!
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Feb 03, 2022 |
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If dating feels like drudgery, I have some suggestions.
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Feb 02, 2022 |
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"I trust until they show me they can't be trusted."
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Jan 31, 2022 |
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The Love of a Cuckold #CuckWeek
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Jan 28, 2022 |
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"I hear he only kinks with people he has sex with."
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Jan 28, 2022 |
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[The Most Amazing Non-Sex I’ve Ever Had]
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Jan 27, 2022 |
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Don't feed the trolls!
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Jan 26, 2022 |
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What is a pimptress?
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Jan 24, 2022 |
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When the sex dies...
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Jan 21, 2022 |
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When MEN Don’t Want Sex
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Jan 20, 2022 |
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A friend once asked me what being a dom was...
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Jan 19, 2022 |
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Boundaries are sexy AF: Boundaries are NOT manipulation
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Jan 17, 2022 |
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That's just RONG! (There are some things I hear over and over that make me cringe.)
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Jan 14, 2022 |
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Win! (Or Fail Spectacularly.)
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Jan 13, 2022 |
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Fail forward!
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Jan 12, 2022 |
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Breaking up is hard to do: Expectations
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Jan 10, 2022 |
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The trap of insecurity.
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Jan 07, 2022 |
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The Night I Made Her Cum On The Living Room Floor Surrounded By People
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Jan 06, 2022 |
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Someone asked me how I deal with abuse in the lifestyle.
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Jan 05, 2022 |
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No matter how long or how far you have traveled in the wrong direction...
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Jan 03, 2022 |
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Failed Messages: The Résumé Copy Pasta
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Dec 24, 2021 |
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What is value, what is worth—in kink and love?
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Dec 22, 2021 |
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What acts FEEL intimate to you? Have you ever really thought about it? I think many people do not, until they are confronted with them in situations they don't love. Like when jealousy rears its ugly head. In response to a writing last week, some of
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Dec 20, 2021 |
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The words we say VS. the communication they hear.
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Dec 17, 2021 |
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"Your hot!!!" "So?"
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Dec 15, 2021 |
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We remake others (or want to) without consent
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Dec 13, 2021 |
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Thoughts on the possessive "My..."
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Dec 10, 2021 |
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Hi! 👋🏻 I'm polyamorous and monoromantic.
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Dec 08, 2021 |
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What's the difference between Nice & Kind?
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Dec 06, 2021 |
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Boundaries are sexy AF: Intellectual Boundaries
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Dec 03, 2021 |
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MOST things are figureoutable.
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Dec 01, 2021 |
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What's wrong with nonmonogamy?
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Nov 29, 2021 |
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Are you terrible at relationships, or do you just sleep with assholes?
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Nov 26, 2021 |
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Hi! 👋 You ROCK!
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Nov 25, 2021 |
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Don’t offer me something I don’t want, then suggest I do emotional labor to get it. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
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Nov 24, 2021 |
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"We cannot always control what happens to us, but we can always control our response." FALSE
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Nov 22, 2021 |
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What you hate will often show you what you fear.
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Nov 19, 2021 |
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Forced KTP is doing it RONG.
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Nov 17, 2021 |
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Sometimes, I'm the bad guy.
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Nov 15, 2021 |
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Are you assertive? Or are you aggressive?
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Nov 12, 2021 |
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"I don't know. CAN you date my partner?"
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Nov 10, 2021 |
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Ever had a hard drive crash?
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Nov 08, 2021 |
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But when do we get to the 🍆💦🍑👉🏻👌🏻?!?
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Nov 05, 2021 |
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WHY can't they just be more direct?
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Nov 03, 2021 |
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Boundaries are sexy AF: Time Boundaries
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Nov 01, 2021 |
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Did you wake up this morning?
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Oct 29, 2021 |
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The cages we build for ourselves.
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Oct 27, 2021 |
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What do you think when you see success?
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Oct 25, 2021 |
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"I'm curious about being with a [insert gender here]."
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Oct 22, 2021 |
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What is romance?
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Oct 20, 2021 |
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I believe that the more I put into life (and kink), the more I get.
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Oct 18, 2021 |
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"Well, once you get to know them..." 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
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Oct 15, 2021 |
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Asking me for what you want and need is actually HELPING me.
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Oct 13, 2021 |
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"I'm open to possibilities."
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Oct 11, 2021 |
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NOT asking for what you want and need is a trauma response...
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Oct 08, 2021 |
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The internet rewards us for being mean.
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Oct 06, 2021 |
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No matter how toxic...
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Oct 04, 2021 |
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Survival & Thrival
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Sep 29, 2021 |
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"Go to events, young man." --->NOT always the right advice.
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Sep 27, 2021 |
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"How do I get my _____ to _____ to me?"
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Sep 24, 2021 |
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Have you ever been afraid to say no?
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Sep 22, 2021 |
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Ch-ch-ch-changes (or 12 years, and 1200 blogs)
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Sep 20, 2021 |
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Yes, they really DO know the difference.
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Sep 17, 2021 |
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"Hi There! My name is Dug. I have just met you and I love you."
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Sep 15, 2021 |
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The Craigslist Conundrum (Alt Title: Why you gotta ruin it for EVERYONE? 😭😭😭 )
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Sep 13, 2021 |
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What are the CO$T$ of dating? 💰💰💰
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Sep 03, 2021 |
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Sometimes, you train them to lie to you.
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Sep 01, 2021 |
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Another look at "Women have all the sexual power..."
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Aug 30, 2021 |
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Boundaries are sexy AF: Emotional Boundaries
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Aug 27, 2021 |
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Equality VS Parity in relationships.
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Aug 25, 2021 |
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Do the math: the numbers are depressing.
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Aug 23, 2021 |
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Balancing NRE (New Relationship Energy) with your other relationships: Can it be done?
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Aug 20, 2021 |
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The remote control to your brain...
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Aug 18, 2021 |
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Do your crazy kinky thing.
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Aug 16, 2021 |
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Our perception of the world quite literally changes our experience of it.
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Aug 13, 2021 |
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Do you sniff your hand after you shake hands? Ha! Are you suuuuure?
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Aug 11, 2021 |
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You’re lucky to have me! (No, really! InterwebzStranger48792 said so!)
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Aug 09, 2021 |
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Boundaries are sexy AF: Physical Boundaries
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Aug 06, 2021 |
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“Do what feels right!” Yes, but…
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Aug 04, 2021 |
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“If I increase my number of partners, I reduce what I have to give any single partner.”
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Aug 02, 2021 |
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What about the guys who are respectful, and polite and never receive a reply, or even a polite, “No Thanks”?
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Jul 30, 2021 |
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Sometimes (most of the time, actually) it IS all about you.
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Jul 28, 2021 |
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Be willing to be awful at things.
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Jul 26, 2021 |
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Boundaries: Sexual
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Jul 23, 2021 |
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Can you be interesting on demand?
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Jul 21, 2021 |
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I will not fight you for it.
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Jul 19, 2021 |
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YOU’RE WRONG! Very, very wrong.
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Jul 16, 2021 |
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It’s a fine line between “Love me as I am” and “I don’t ever have to grow or improve as a human.”
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Jul 14, 2021 |
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Who says relationship don’t last anymore?
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Jul 12, 2021 |
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Does it help or hinder communication? Yes.
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Jul 09, 2021 |
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The upside and the downside of intensity in relationships.
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Jul 07, 2021 |
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What if I'm ashamed about my kink?
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Jul 05, 2021 |
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“I’m sorry I’m not good enough for you.” Nonpologies, Part 2
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Jul 02, 2021 |
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The AAR: After Action Report
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Jun 30, 2021 |
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The Dirty Dozen: A look into the first 12 of Nookie’s private messages on a Monday morning.
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Jun 28, 2021 |
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Strengthening Your Personal Intuition About Others
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Jun 25, 2021 |
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All relationships will fail without this ONE thing…
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Jun 25, 2021 |
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May your scenes match your fantasies: A blessing…or a curse?
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Jun 23, 2021 |
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I was stood up this weekend.
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Jun 21, 2021 |
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What is “Queer Enough?” (Hint: Not me.)
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Jun 18, 2021 |
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Compromise Begets Compromise
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Jun 08, 2021 |
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The Responsibility of the Dominant, Revisited
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Jun 03, 2021 |
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It’s Pride Month, Y’all
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Jun 01, 2021 |
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It can be awkward and silly the first time, but just ask.
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May 25, 2021 |
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Great dominants are those who make others feel that they, too, can become great.
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May 20, 2021 |
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Are there responsibilities to ending a relationship?
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May 18, 2021 |
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White Knighting is GROSS, y'all.
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May 13, 2021 |
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I’m NOT telling you what to do…
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May 11, 2021 |
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You’re right. It’s NOT FAIR.
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May 06, 2021 |
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Just ONE decision can change your entire life.
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Apr 27, 2021 |
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What IS attraction?
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Apr 22, 2021 |
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Prime Directive: To care for and protect our own hearts and minds.
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Apr 20, 2021 |
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Kinky Question of the Week: How should I handle protocol or power exchange in public? ANSWERED
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Apr 16, 2021 |
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“I’m sorry you feel that way.” Nonpologies, Part 1
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Apr 13, 2021 |
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Kinky Question of the Week: How do I pick a scene name? ANSWERED
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Apr 09, 2021 |
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Fake it until you make it…
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Apr 08, 2021 |
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“There’s an art to respectfully treat a woman like a _____ and her loving it.”
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Apr 06, 2021 |
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Kinky Question of the Week: Why are there more Submissives than Dominants? ANSWERED
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Apr 02, 2021 |
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“You used to be so nice!”
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Mar 30, 2021 |
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Kinky Question of the Week: Are ethical nonmonogamy and polyamory basically the same thing? ANSWERED
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Mar 26, 2021 |
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Please stop spreading this.
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Mar 25, 2021 |
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They may be right. That doesn’t mean they are right for you.
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Mar 23, 2021 |
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If only they would…
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Mar 18, 2021 |
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Are they a narcissist, really? Or just an a**hole?
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Mar 16, 2021 |
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One more time…
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Mar 15, 2021 |
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Kinky Question of the Week: How does one find a kinky family?
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Mar 12, 2021 |
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The Spandex Principle: How learning about a fiber changed everything for me.
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Mar 11, 2021 |
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The OTHER Never-Ending Question
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Mar 09, 2021 |
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Kinky Question Of The Week: I’m incredibly shy and awkward. What’s the best way to approach people online?
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Mar 05, 2021 |
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Your trauma is no excuse…
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Mar 02, 2021 |
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Hey, jealous me!
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Feb 25, 2021 |
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Public VS. Private Blame
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Feb 23, 2021 |
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Kinky Question of the Week: What does an ETHICAL submissive look like to you?
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Feb 19, 2021 |
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That Door? It's There For You To Leave
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Feb 18, 2021 |
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Nonmonogamy: I do what I want.
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Feb 16, 2021 |
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KQOTW: What does an ETHICAL dominant look like to you? How should they present themselves? What character traits should they have? What does their behavior look like?
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Feb 15, 2021 |
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“No” is a complete sentence.
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Feb 11, 2021 |
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Don't feel bad for feeling.
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Feb 09, 2021 |
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Kinky Question of the Week: How Do I know if I'm Bi?
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Feb 05, 2021 |
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Healthy Relationship Sex
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Feb 04, 2021 |
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Some thoughts on female supremacy...
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Feb 02, 2021 |
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KQOTW: Is kink an integrated part of your life or something you do sometimes (no shaming!)? Whatever your answer, is that something you chose for reasons, or does it come naturally?
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Jan 29, 2021 |
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You ARE Worthy...
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Jan 28, 2021 |
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Kinky Question of the Week: D/S & Poly?
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Jan 22, 2021 |
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A hug holiday during a pandemic...
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Jan 21, 2021 |
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Who loves dick pics?
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Jan 19, 2021 |
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Kinky Question of the Week: Sex on the first date?
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Jan 15, 2021 |
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It Doesn’t Bother Me! It Doesn’t! It Doesn’t Matter To Me At All! Really!
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Jan 12, 2021 |
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KQOTW: How do you feel about pubic hair on your partner or on yourself?
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Jan 08, 2021 |
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Nonmonogamy: Using your meta as a couples' therapist...
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Jan 07, 2021 |
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Please don't call me... (A Rant)
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Jan 05, 2021 |
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KQOTW, Ghosting: Is it ever appropriate? When?
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Jan 01, 2021 |
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Reflections on 2020
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Dec 31, 2020 |
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Please, don't be gentle.
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Dec 30, 2020 |
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The Love Drug
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Dec 28, 2020 |
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I don't NEED to be taken care of…
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Dec 25, 2020 |
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Terrible, horrible, wonderful things…
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Dec 23, 2020 |
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BDSM vs. Abuse
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Dec 21, 2020 |
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Why do we say, “I’m not like other girls,” when we’re talking to men?
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Dec 09, 2020 |
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Let's Hear It For The Boys! Happy International Men's Day
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Nov 19, 2020 |
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Kinky Question of the Week: Living the Lifestyle 24/7
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Nov 14, 2020 |
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"Cis" & "Het" are excluded.
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Nov 13, 2020 |
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Love is like playing a piano…
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Nov 12, 2020 |
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Entitled Man
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Nov 06, 2020 |
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A Strong Submissive Woman
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Oct 28, 2020 |
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"Don't Do It In The Street..."
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Oct 27, 2020 |
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Thoughts on women and dominance and minding your own f*cking business…
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Oct 19, 2020 |
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THIS Is Why
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Oct 08, 2020 |
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"You Miss All The Shots You Don't Take." — Wayne Gretzky
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Oct 07, 2020 |
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How (And Why) To Get Rejected More Often
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Oct 01, 2020 |
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“The Sub Has All The Power…” *cough cough* “Bullshit.”
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Sep 24, 2020 |
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Friendzoned? That's Because You're A Buttnugget.
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Sep 17, 2020 |
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Pet Peeve: The "Look at my butthole! Just LOOK AT IT!" Avatar
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Sep 16, 2020 |
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When Good People Snap
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Sep 10, 2020 |
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It’s Not About The L-Word
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Sep 09, 2020 |
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After The “No,” Or When Asking For Consent Is Not Enough
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Sep 03, 2020 |
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A Domme By Any Other Name Would Still Smell As…Foul?
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Sep 02, 2020 |
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Today, I seriously considered faking it. Do you? Ever?
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Sep 01, 2020 |
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Throwback Thursday: How To Avoid The Crazies In Kink—A Practical Guide
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Aug 27, 2020 |
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Start As You Mean To Continue, In Vignettes
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Aug 25, 2020 |
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Androgyny, Me? NOPE.
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Aug 22, 2020 |
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Love Without (Non-Negotiated) Expectations
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Aug 21, 2020 |
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Dating: Are You Lying To Me Or To Everyone Else?
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Aug 20, 2020 |
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I don't want you to do the dishes...
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Aug 17, 2020 |
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A case for dating profiles that allow others to self-deselect.
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Aug 14, 2020 |
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Throwback Thursday: Topping From The Bottom, Asshole-ing from the Sidelines and More
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Aug 13, 2020 |
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"If I have to ask you, I do not want it anymore." A RANT
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Aug 11, 2020 |
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Throwback Thursday: Unsolicited Dick Pics, A Look Back
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Aug 06, 2020 |
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No shortage of change!
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Aug 04, 2020 |
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Porch monkeys, maroons, and being cheap: racism and language, in three vignettes.
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Jul 20, 2020 |
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The chasm between desires and behaviors—or how we can be both right and wrong at the same time.
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Jul 15, 2020 |
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We are never ready.
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Jul 13, 2020 |
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“You’re hot.” “No, thank you.” “F you.” (A customer service parable.)
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Jul 11, 2020 |
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"Well, then just stick it in her a** while she's asleep..."
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Jul 10, 2020 |
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I'm a little...different in how I think.
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Jul 08, 2020 |
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Setting and maintaining boundaries: for submissives.
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Jul 01, 2020 |
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It's against human nature to knowingly make a mistake.
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Jun 29, 2020 |
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Manipulation & abuse is not always malevolent.
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Jun 26, 2020 |
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Just what IS an orgasm?
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Jun 15, 2020 |
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Want to be better at love? Get Better at being single!
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Jun 12, 2020 |
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“Poly” as lip service?
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Jun 10, 2020 |
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Be more right.
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Jun 08, 2020 |
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I said, "Don't do that again," not "You did wrong."
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Jun 05, 2020 |
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I don't cry a lot.
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May 31, 2020 |
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The weight of the idea of THE ONE...
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May 28, 2020 |
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It’s not who you are. It’s who I see you as.
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May 27, 2020 |
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On being understood, intuitively...
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May 12, 2020 |
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true VS. Truth
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May 06, 2020 |
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Abusive behavior is still abusive—even when they stay.
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Apr 29, 2020 |
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Using Sex As A Weapon
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Apr 28, 2020 |
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A model of consent evolution that might help the conversations we're having...
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Apr 14, 2020 |
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Walking Away Is A Valid Choice, Always
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Apr 06, 2020 |
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Let's talk about TRUST.
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Apr 03, 2020 |
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So, You're Masturbating More Now...
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Mar 29, 2020 |
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You're Always Being Used For What You Offer
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Mar 25, 2020 |
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Bossy Bottoms & Subdued Submissives
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Mar 23, 2020 |
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Settling - Don't Do It!
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Mar 21, 2020 |
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Why We Fall For The Same ___ Over And Over...
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Mar 17, 2020 |
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Orgasms & Energy Diffusion—Looking for Feedback
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Mar 11, 2020 |
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Over and Over, I TOLD You
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Mar 09, 2020 |
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Playing in Public Consensually
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Mar 04, 2020 |
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What is YOUR Trap?
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Feb 28, 2020 |
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Potential Pitfalls of Power Exchange in Long-Term Relationships
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Feb 27, 2020 |
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Hunting the Elusive Unicorn, Finding a Minotaur, Bull Procurement & More
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Feb 26, 2020 |
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Let's Debate: Seducer or Seduced?
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Feb 25, 2020 |
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What Is The Best Way To Warn Others About A Predator Without Drama?
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Feb 25, 2020 |
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What if My Consent is Broken?
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Feb 21, 2020 |
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The Sexual Divide: A Rant
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Feb 19, 2020 |
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Knowledge is NOT Necessarily Power
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Feb 18, 2020 |
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Shame & Kink, Kink & Shame
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Feb 14, 2020 |
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My Personal Unpopular Theory of Responsibility
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Feb 13, 2020 |
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Why Isn't It Normal To Like The People We Love? #Rant
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Feb 08, 2020 |
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Roberto Gets Around, For Good Reason
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Feb 05, 2020 |
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How much does body language help/hinder communication?
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Feb 04, 2020 |
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Communication Is Too THE MOST IMPORTANT Part Of A Relationship
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Feb 03, 2020 |
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Hi, I’m Nookie, And I’m A Hug-aholic (And I LOVE Science-y Shit)!
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Jan 31, 2020 |
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Subspace & Lightweights & Consenting When We Shouldn't
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Jan 29, 2020 |
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The Underappreciated Wholesomeness of Kink
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Jan 28, 2020 |
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BDSM Vs. Abuse
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Jan 27, 2020 |
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Today In Butts: Are Rectums Self-Lubricating?
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Jan 23, 2020 |
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Fly Fishing For Your Needs and Wants
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Jan 21, 2020 |
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BDE (Big Dick Energy) and Confident Versus Cocky
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Jan 20, 2020 |
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The Problem With Blaming Victims of Abuse
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Jan 15, 2020 |
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How Do YOU Get Into The Right Headspace?
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Jan 13, 2020 |
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What Level of Kink Are You?
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Jan 08, 2020 |
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I'm Gonna R*pe All I Want
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Jan 07, 2020 |
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Belief Is NOT Everything. But It Is A Lot.
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Dec 19, 2019 |
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The Red Flag Diaries: How Do They Talk About Others?
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Dec 17, 2019 |
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Words CAN Hurt
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Dec 16, 2019 |
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Got Nuance?
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Dec 15, 2019 |
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What If You've Been Wrong Your WHOLE LIFE? I Was.
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Dec 14, 2019 |
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It's Black AND White, Not Shades Of Grey
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Dec 13, 2019 |
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A Ticklish Situation
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Dec 12, 2019 |
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I Don't Do Hookups (Except When I Do)
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Dec 11, 2019 |
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FRAMED! A New Series On How We See The World
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Dec 04, 2019 |
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Unconditional Relationships? *cough cough* BULLSHIT!
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Dec 02, 2019 |
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We All Have That One Friend... Maybe YOU Are That One Friend.
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Nov 29, 2019 |
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It’s My World. You’re Just Living In It
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Nov 27, 2019 |
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The Red Flag Diaries: How Do They Respond To Your First "No"?
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Nov 26, 2019 |
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It's Like Toilet Paper Bondage...
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Nov 25, 2019 |
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Conflict Resolution Protocol
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Nov 23, 2019 |
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I Hurt You BECAUSE I Love You.
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Nov 22, 2019 |
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You Can't Even Get ONE Relationship Right! (Poly Is Not, Part XXII)
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Nov 21, 2019 |
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Successful Relationships: 3 Critical Questions
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Nov 20, 2019 |
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The Way We Were, AKA The WON TWOO WAY™
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Nov 19, 2019 |
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Any Problem You Can't Discuss In Your Relationship...
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Nov 16, 2019 |
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It's Only Romantic When You Still Love Them
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Nov 16, 2019 |
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In Life And Love, VALUE Is The Key
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Nov 16, 2019 |