Sitting in a Car

By Sarah Sproule

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Sitting In A Car:
Sexuality, Relationships & Consent For Parents of Teens & Little Kids

Ever feel awkward talking to your kids about sexuality, relationships and consent? 

Wish you had someone to go to with your questions? 

Good news - now you do! 

Each week on Sitting In A Car, educator Sarah Sproule answers parents’ questions about everything from bodies to babies, from puberty to privacy, from sex to Snapchat - and so much more.

With humour, creativity and compassion, Sarah will help you become more comfortable and empowered to talk about sexuality, relationships & consent with your kid -
and help you to raise a confident, caring young person who respects themselves and the people around them. 

No matter your worry, Sarah’s here to help. 
Join her while you’re Sitting In A Car! 

Episode Date
Do you want a family team or a ‘you vs him’ situation?
Apr 25, 2023
'It’s a pretty dark and complex topic but you can still talk about it'
Mar 27, 2023
‘How do I chat with my neurodiverse kid about sex, bodies, puberty etc?’
Mar 20, 2023
'That time my 6 yr old learned that people kiss each other’s private parts'
Mar 13, 2023
‘How can I hold boundaries for my 2-year-old with family members who want to kiss, hug & handle her without her (or my) consent?’
Feb 19, 2023
‘My 5yo boy likes to wear his cousin’s ballerina dress. What do I do?’
Feb 13, 2023
‘My 7-year-old has asked, ‘How do a boy and a boy have sex?’
Feb 04, 2023
Are you now wondering if you’ve said too much too soon?
Jan 30, 2023
My 8-year-old is asking what boyfriends/girlfriends are…how do I explain?
Jan 23, 2023
‘How can I talk to my kids about bad words? as in, ugly words for body parts?’
Jan 16, 2023
‘How can I talk to my friend, who speaks in a toxic way about bodies in front of my kids?’
Jan 09, 2023
‘How do you discuss sexual desire with adolescents? And without shame?’
Nov 28, 2022
‘What do I say when my 9-year-old says they don’t want to have a period?’
Nov 21, 2022
‘How do you deal with awkward daddies? Ours panics at the word vagina when our girls say it.’
Nov 14, 2022
if your child who is eight is not asking questions, should you initiate the conversation?
Nov 07, 2022
'How can I chat with my squeamish 8-year-old about periods?'
Oct 30, 2022
How do I teach my kid about consent, when I’m not sure they’re old enough?
Oct 23, 2022
How do I chat with my kid about puberty, so they’ll come to me with questions?
Oct 17, 2022
Is it Ok to tell a 4-year-old they came out of the vagina?
Oct 10, 2022
‘How can I have conversations about consent with young children?’
Oct 03, 2022
'How do I tell my kid without shame, not to touch their genitals in public?'
Sep 26, 2022
Should you talk to your 6-year-old about pleasure? And if so, how should you do it?
Sep 19, 2022
‘I’m a trans dad . . . How can I approach chats with my girls about non-traditional relationships?
Sep 12, 2022
‘How can I avoid passing shame on to my kids?’
Sep 05, 2022
‘How can I hold my boundaries with my enthusiastic 5-year-old, without shaming them?
Aug 29, 2022
How do I respond to things I hear my kid say that I don’t agree with?
Aug 22, 2022
Need to stop your daughter touching your son’s penis without shame?
Aug 16, 2022
‘How can I teach my 15-year-old daughter to say no when she’s in highly pressurised situations?'
Aug 08, 2022
‘What’s a good way to manage nakedness in family situations, both for parents & kids’
Aug 02, 2022
Three hidden questions that create connection with your kid(s)
Jul 25, 2022
How can I talk to my kids about porn, in a non-alarming way?
Jul 19, 2022
‘How can I talk to my 7-year-old about her clitoris?’
Jul 12, 2022
How can I talk to my 7-year-old girl about body image?
Jul 05, 2022
“How did the baby get in there?” Is this a question you dread?
Jun 28, 2022
Should I cancel her? I don’t like her toxic talk around my kids.
Apr 05, 2022
How exciting is it to have this honour to celebrate your differences?
Mar 28, 2022
How to work out what’s right for you and your family
Mar 21, 2022
My kid’s a lesbian. Now what?
Mar 15, 2022
‘How to chat about an uncle who is transitioning?’
Mar 08, 2022
How to claim your sexuality when your 7 & 10 yr old find photos of you?
Mar 01, 2022
Sensitive chats? It’s easier if you start with your youngest kid
Feb 21, 2022
In this case, ignorance is definitely NOT bliss. Protect your kid(s)
Feb 15, 2022
Breasts and Udders have the same function!
Feb 08, 2022
Antidepressants. Contraceptives. And a curious 4 yr old...
Feb 01, 2022
Where to go, Who to turn to, What advice to take about my 6yo? Help!
Dec 07, 2021
Was I wrong to listen to the experts? My 10yo hated this convo!
Nov 30, 2021
Bisexual...a femme boy...and he’s 12. Advice please.
Nov 23, 2021
Help! My teen is disgusted and angered by any sex talk.
Nov 16, 2021
'What comes to mind when you hear the word ‘porn’?'
Nov 09, 2021
Has your 12-yr-old gone radio silent?
Nov 02, 2021
Conform to the rules or push them away?
Oct 26, 2021
I don’t want my kid to be THAT kid! What can I do?
Oct 19, 2021
She hates her body...she’s only 10!
Oct 12, 2021
6yo: Mummy, I’ve been a boy since I was 2 ½.
Oct 05, 2021
“How did the baby get in there?” Is this a question you dread?
Sep 28, 2021
‘My kid is 12 and I feel like I’ve really messed up’
Sep 21, 2021
‘My 6-year-old is constantly trying to touch other kids’ genitals. Help!’
Sep 14, 2021
'How do you answer a 10-year-old who asks, What is rape?'
Sep 07, 2021
What do I do if he puts his fingers in his ears when I talk about puberty?
Aug 31, 2021
When is it the right time to chat with my kids about sensitive stuff?
Aug 24, 2021
I’m ready to answer my son's question about sex, but he hasn’t asked again!
Aug 17, 2021
What can I do when chats with your kid aren't happening naturally?
Aug 10, 2021
‘How can I turn uncomfortable conversations with my kid about sensitive stuff into more comfortable ones?’
Aug 03, 2021
'How can I get on the same page as my ex/co-parent, when it comes to having sensitive conversations with our kids?’
Jul 27, 2021
‘My 6-year-old likes to hump the couch. What should I do?’
Jul 20, 2021
'My 7-year-old son wants to tell all the girls about periods. Is that ok?'
Jul 13, 2021
‘How can I teach my 15-year-old daughter to say no when she’s in highly pressurised situations?’
Jul 06, 2021
‘I’ve told my 5yo what sex is - and I’m afraid he’ll act it out in school.’
Jun 29, 2021
My 3yo is EXTREMELY interested in her little brother’s willy. What do I do?
Jun 22, 2021
How can I have sensitive conversations with my kid(s) on the spectrum?
Jun 15, 2021
Three hidden questions that create connection with your kid(s)
Jun 08, 2021
‘How can I be there for my 8yo, who’s the first one to grow breasts in her friend group?’
Jun 01, 2021
‘How can I talk to my 7-year-old girl about body image?’
May 25, 2021
'How can I talk to my kids about porn, in a non-alarming way?'
May 18, 2021
‘Can I talk to my 7-year-old about her clitoris?’
May 11, 2021
‘How can I chat with my squeamish 8-year-old about periods?’
May 04, 2021
‘How can I get my child to confide in me?’
Apr 27, 2021
‘How can I avoid passing shame on to my kids?’
Apr 20, 2021
I’m a trans dad so how can I chat about non-traditional relationships?
Apr 13, 2021
‘Why won’t my 11-year-old let me talk to her about sex, bodies and puberty?’
Apr 06, 2021
‘Any ideas for a parent of a 9-year-old who might be questioning their gender?’
Mar 29, 2021
‘How can I hold my boundaries with my enthusiastic 5-year-old, without shaming them?’
Mar 22, 2021
‘Should I get my kid a book about puberty?’
Mar 15, 2021
‘What’s a good way to manage nakedness in family situations, both for parents & kids?’
Mar 08, 2021
'How can I talk to very young children about periods?'
Mar 01, 2021
I’m going to cry, but I need to have a heart-to-heart with you
Feb 22, 2021
‘How do I teach my kid about consent, when I’m not sure they’re old enough?’
Feb 15, 2021
‘How do I chat with my kid about puberty, so they’ll come to me with questions?’
Feb 09, 2021
‘How can I teach my kids about sex, if I’m too embarrassed to even begin?’
Feb 02, 2021
‘How can I prepare for the ‘what is sex’ questions, before my kids ask them?’
Jan 26, 2021
‘How old does my child have to be, before I start having conversations about masturbation?’
Jan 19, 2021
‘How do I respond to things I hear my kid say that I don’t agree with?’
Jan 12, 2021
‘How can I answer my 7-year-old’s questions about the vulva and the clitoris?’
Jan 05, 2021
The Secret Way Christmas Helps You Talk about Sensitive Stuff to Your Kids
Dec 22, 2020
‘How can I be there for my child through puberty?’
Dec 15, 2020
‘How do I balance talking to my child about the pleasure of sex and also explain that someone can hurt and abuse them?’
Dec 08, 2020
How do you model consent when you’re carrying your 2-year-old to the potty?
Dec 01, 2020
‘Should I talk to my 6-year-old about pleasure? And if so, how?’
Nov 24, 2020
‘How to be open with a small child about sensitive stuff even if you don’t know what to say’
Nov 17, 2020
Need to stop your daughter touching your son’s penis, but don’t know how?
Nov 10, 2020
‘How can I have conversations about consent with young children?’
Nov 03, 2020
How can I ask my 9-year-old to keep quiet about what he knows about sex?
Oct 27, 2020
How do I tell my kid without shame, not to touch their genitals in public?
Oct 20, 2020
‘If I don’t have boys, should I talk to my daughter about porn?’
Oct 13, 2020
‘Is discharge from my vagina normal?’
Oct 06, 2020
How to eliminate this worry and concern
Sep 22, 2020
Is it Ok to tell a 4-year-old they came out of the vagina?
Sep 15, 2020
‘How do I balance my 12-year-old’s resistance to showering with respecting her boundaries?’
Sep 08, 2020
‘How can I correct my child on gender stereotypes like “green is a boy colour”?’
Sep 01, 2020
What if talking about porn makes my child curious – and they go look for it
Aug 25, 2020
‘Does a condom work all the time?’
Aug 18, 2020
‘Any advice if my partner doesn’t want to get involved in talking to our kids about sex?’
Aug 11, 2020
I’m growing hair on my vulva, but my mum doesn’t have any. What’s going on?
Aug 04, 2020
What bits of sex ed will my child have missed out on because of lockdown?
Jul 28, 2020
'Why don’t boys know about cervixes and fallopian tubes?'
Jul 21, 2020
‘My daughter has told us she’s Bi, did I do the right things?’
Jul 14, 2020
‘If your 8-year-old ISN’T asking questions, should you initiate the conversation?’
Jul 07, 2020
‘How do you deal with awkward daddies? Ours panics at the word vagina when our girls say it.’
Jun 30, 2020
‘What do I say when my 9-year-old says they don’t want to have a period?’
Jun 23, 2020
‘If I’ve a gay or lesbian child, how do I talk about sex and relationships?’
Jun 16, 2020
‘How do you discuss sexual desire in adolescents? And without shame?’
Jun 09, 2020
‘Should I tell my 10-year-old not to tell his sister about sex?’
Jun 02, 2020
Should ‘a talk’ be formal, or more relaxed?
May 26, 2020
Adults aren’t always right
May 19, 2020
‘My 9-year-old son is very self-conscious every morning with an erection. How can I talk to him?’
May 12, 2020
‘Do you talk about contraception?’
May 05, 2020
‘Does consent always have to be vocalised?’
Apr 28, 2020
‘How do I answer questions about oral sex?’
Apr 21, 2020
‘When your child is a bit immature, how do you know how much to tell them?’
Apr 14, 2020
How do we stop them accessing so much p0r^?’
Apr 07, 2020
Tampons or towels? When your child first starts their period?
Mar 31, 2020
And Then I Realised I Couldn’t Do It Anymore
Mar 24, 2020
My 7-year-old asked, How did you make me?
Mar 17, 2020
My young kid (age 5-8) asked, ‘What is sex?’ What do I say?
Mar 10, 2020
How much info is too much info for 4 year olds?
Mar 03, 2020
how can I help my child develop self-respect and the ability to resist pressure from the kids around them?
Feb 25, 2020
What are the secret scary thoughts, that are holding you back? Good news: no matter what they are, we’ve a course that can help :)
Feb 18, 2020
My 7-year-old asked, ‘What is rape?’
Feb 11, 2020
‘A girl told my 13-year-old she loves him - and he said it back’
Feb 04, 2020
How do you balance open conversation at home about sexuality, with other families or friends not talking about it?
Jan 28, 2020
Your parenting superpower: being kind to yourself
Jan 21, 2020
How To Talk About Not Being Able To Talk
Jan 14, 2020
What if I say too much?
Jan 07, 2020
Will Your Kid have Sex in This New Decade? Quite Possibly …
Dec 31, 2019
How can Christmas help us have sensitive conversations about sex?
Dec 24, 2019
My 8-year-old googled ‘sex’ on the laptop - and found it
Dec 17, 2019
Is it possible to be too open and honest with our kids when they ask us questions?
Dec 10, 2019
How can you talk about consent when your kid waves his penis at you?
Dec 03, 2019
Is it your fault that you can’t talk about sexuality, relationships, or consent with your kid?
Nov 26, 2019
how do I empower my kid to say and do what THEY want not what others want
Nov 19, 2019
How Can I Help My Kid Say ‘No’
Nov 12, 2019
I don’t want to be embarrassed talk with my kid about sex – Help!
Nov 05, 2019
The one most important thing
Oct 29, 2019
How do I have conversations about sex with my 6th-class kid, when he really doesn’t want to have them?
Oct 22, 2019
Whose job is it to talk to our 12-year-old boy about sex? My job or my husband’s?
Oct 15, 2019
What are the values that guide your parenting?
Oct 08, 2019
I don't want to get things wrong - Help!
Oct 01, 2019
How can I talk to my son about how women are shown in the media?
Sep 24, 2019
The Two V words
Sep 17, 2019
Revealing clothes + teenage girls … what do you say?
Sep 10, 2019
How do you talk to your kids about porn and sexting?
Sep 03, 2019
Connection or Protection?
Aug 20, 2019
How to talk about contraception
Jul 16, 2019
How can we talk about masturbation without causing shame?
Jul 09, 2019
Why do we need to have these conversations with our kids?
Jul 06, 2019
Talking about same-sex​ relationships: step by step
Jul 02, 2019
Older and younger kids in the same place
Jun 25, 2019
My 8 year old wants to touch my breast and I don't want that
Jun 18, 2019
How do you handle your kid's​ most embarrassing question ever?
Jun 11, 2019
Do I just answer questions simply or do I give more information?
Jun 04, 2019
Minimizing First Period Embarrassment
May 28, 2019
Should we have condoms in our house?
May 21, 2019