The Grace Fueled Wife | Christian Marriage, Communication, Intimacy, Separation, Reconciliation
By Beatriz Vargas | Christian Wife & Marriage Coach
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Are you sitting in a marriage that feels empty? Struggling to connect with your husband? Maybe you’re telling yourself you’re just sticking it out for the kids, and what really keeps you in the marriage is God.
If this is you, I’ve been there. My story is your story. I want to help you reconnect in marriage and feel cherished again.
Hey, I’m Beatriz, a Jesus loving wife and mom I’ve been married for 15 years, but for the past 10, I’ve actually had the affectionate and connected marriage I’ve always dreamed of!
What happened the first five years? Well, I was busy telling my husband all the things he was doing wrong, like how he needed Jesus and he needed to do to make me happy.
We tried marriage counseling, small groups, and all the things we were told would make our marriage better. Nothing worked and we separated.
How did I turn it around?
That’s what you’ll learn in this podcast - proven to communicate better, create more intimacy, and be a Godly wife.
So if you’re ready to finally communicate effectively with your husband, so you can stop fighting and be on the same team again, this podcast is for you. Now grab that journal and let’s jump right in.
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E185// What's more important in your marriage than strong communication?
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Mar 20, 2024 |
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E184// What do healthy boundaries in my marriage look like?
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Mar 18, 2024 |
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E183// Build a strong foundation in your marriage in 4 (easy?) steps!
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Mar 08, 2024 |
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E182// Improve emotional intimacy through your marriage story & have a year of good dates w. Tracy Johnson
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Feb 28, 2024 |
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E181// Are you having trouble with communication in your marriage? These 3 questions can help!
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Feb 06, 2024 |
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E180// What goes on in the mind of a covert narcissist? What does the bible say about submission, oppression and abuse? w. Annette Oltmanns (Part 2)
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Jan 31, 2024 |
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E179// Is your husband mean or cranky and you’re looking for clarity to discern emotional abuse? w. Annette Oltmanns (Part 1)
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Jan 30, 2024 |
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E178// Do you want to have an intentional Christian Marriage? Learn how with Rosie Alejandro
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Jan 15, 2024 |
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E177// New Year, New book reccomendations to reignite your marriage today!
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Jan 08, 2024 |
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E176// Don’t go to marriage counseling until you learn these three things!
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Jan 04, 2024 |
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E175// What to do when you question why God didn’t answer your prayer
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Dec 27, 2023 |
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E174// What causes infidelity and is your marriage at risk?
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Dec 20, 2023 |
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E173// Stop People Pleasing and Claim your Christ Centered Identity withThe Grace Filled Leader
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Dec 14, 2023 |
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E172// 3 Ways to Give Yourself Grace in a Tough Season
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Dec 05, 2023 |
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Bonus Epsiode: Life update and How to quit people pleasing with Grace!
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Oct 22, 2023 |
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E171// How to create financial intimacy with RADCoaches Rebecca & Dylan
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Sep 21, 2023 |
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E170// What does it cost to save your marriage?
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Sep 15, 2023 |
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E169// How to hear from God with Jenilee Samuel
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Aug 30, 2023 |
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E168// Is Marriage counseling worth it? 3 ways to find out!
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Aug 25, 2023 |
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E167//3 simple steps to increase intimacy, communicate respect, AND improve your marriage today!
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Aug 15, 2023 |
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E166// Is your (or your husband’s) ADHD affecting your marriage? With Dr. Danielle McGeough
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Aug 10, 2023 |
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E165// 2 common mistakes people in troubled marriages make
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Aug 02, 2023 |
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E164// Listener Q/A: He retreats, I pursue, what should I do? - and MORE
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Jul 25, 2023 |
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E163// This discovery helped save my marriage!
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Jul 18, 2023 |
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E162// How to be the heroine of your story with Andrew Anderson
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Jul 11, 2023 |
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E161// How to identify a narcissist & coping skills to deal with one for those who can’t go ”no contact”
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Jul 07, 2023 |
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E160// The effect of menopause on your marriage
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Jun 27, 2023 |
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E159// Help! I want my husband to open up to me more
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Jun 24, 2023 |
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E158// How to be an Empowered Wife with Laura Doyle
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Jun 13, 2023 |
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E157// My 3 step framework to reacting with grace
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Jun 09, 2023 |
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E 156//What my client did to save her marriage!
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May 31, 2023 |
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E 155// Do you think your husband may be suffering from depression?
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May 23, 2023 |
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E154//Help I Can’t Handle My Husband’s Mood Swings
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May 17, 2023 |
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E153//Do You Want Your Husband To Have A Closer Relationship With The Lord
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May 12, 2023 |
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E152// 4 Mistakes women make when trying to save their marriage
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Apr 25, 2023 |
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E151// Are You Over-helping Your Husband? Empower Him To Do More Around The House With These Tips
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Apr 18, 2023 |
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E150// Help! I’m Thinking About Leaving Him But God Hates Divorce.
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Apr 11, 2023 |
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E149// Are you paranoid to find something inappropriate in your husband’s phone or computer? Try this to cope.
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Apr 04, 2023 |
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E148// Are you afraid to feel triggered in your relationship? 2 Tips to handle your triggers with grace
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Mar 31, 2023 |
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E147// 3 ways to safeguard your marriage
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Mar 21, 2023 |
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EP146// Not connecting in marriage? This is what you may be missing.
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Mar 14, 2023 |
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EP145// How to Get Your Husband to Go to Marriage Counseling with Dana Che
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Mar 07, 2023 |
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EP 144// How to Divorce Proof Your Marriage
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Feb 27, 2023 |
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E143// Three Ways to Improve Intimacy in Marriage
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Feb 21, 2023 |
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E142// 4 tips to building a strong foundation for your marriage
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Feb 17, 2023 |
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E141// How to have a more successful date night
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Feb 01, 2023 |
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E140// Is anxiety or burnout hurting your marriage?
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Jan 24, 2023 |
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E139// Help! I think I married the wrong man. Listener questions answered!
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Jan 19, 2023 |
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E138// How to call a time out if an argument gets crazy
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Jan 12, 2023 |
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E137// What is God telling you for your life and marriage in the new year?
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Jan 04, 2023 |
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E136// Creating a safe marriage: 5 Rules for Fair Fighting Pt. 2
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Dec 19, 2022 |
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E135// 5 Rules for fighting fair Pt. 1
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Dec 09, 2022 |
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E134// Do you need a way to manage all the holiday stress with your husband?
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Dec 02, 2022 |
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E133// Mental health and your marriage: How do you really feel?
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Nov 22, 2022 |
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E132// Do you have trouble feeling loved?
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Nov 16, 2022 |
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E131// Bonus: Listener questions answered! How to work on your marriage if your husband refuses therapy and more!
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Nov 10, 2022 |
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E130// The 1 thing every apology needs
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Nov 07, 2022 |
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E129// How to be the wife he wants to come home to
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Nov 02, 2022 |
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E128// 3 ways to rebuild trust in marriage
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Oct 25, 2022 |
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E127// 3 ways I partner with God in my marriage
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Oct 19, 2022 |
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E126// How do I get my husband to notice/love me?
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Oct 14, 2022 |
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E125// Bonus - 3 Must read Books on Marriage: Quarterly Book Review
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Oct 07, 2022 |
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E124// How to improve communication in your marriage by 55%!
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Oct 05, 2022 |
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E123// Feeling like resentful roommates in marriage? How can self-care help?
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Sep 12, 2022 |
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E122// How stand up for yourself (with grace) when your husband is acting out
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Aug 31, 2022 |
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E121// Help! I’ve tried being humble in my marriage and it’s not working
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Aug 26, 2022 |
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E120// 6 Lessons I learned from my 6 week sabatical
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Aug 18, 2022 |
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E119// Struggling to forgive someone? 5 Step forgiveness process
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Jul 06, 2022 |
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E118// Is your husband not communicating? 3 reasons why
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Jun 27, 2022 |
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E117//Dealing with anxiety? Keeping the faith when things get hard.
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Jun 13, 2022 |
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E116// Should I still have sex with my husband if we’re separated?
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Jun 07, 2022 |
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E115// My rockbottom story Pt. 2: 3 mistakes that led to our separation and lessons I learned
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May 25, 2022 |
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E114//Self Coach Saturday: Fighting for your marriage even if you’re separated
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May 21, 2022 |
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E113// Quick date night idea when you’re lacking childcare
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May 17, 2022 |
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E112// Self Coaching Saturday:Do you want better communication in marriage?
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May 14, 2022 |
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E111// Tempted to give him the silent treatment? 3 ways to do it with grace.
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May 10, 2022 |
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E110// Are you trying to improve your marriage by yourself? How to improve your marriage with self coaching
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May 07, 2022 |
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E109// What does your bedroom say about your marriage?
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May 03, 2022 |
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E108//Top 3 books to read for Christian Marriage: Quarterly Book Review
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Apr 28, 2022 |
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E107// 5 Ways to deal with a moody husband
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Apr 20, 2022 |
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E106//Why your apology isn’t being accepted
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Apr 12, 2022 |
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E105// Help! My husband won’t change - how to win him over without manipulating him
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Apr 06, 2022 |
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E104// Are you fighting over finances? 4 ways to stop fighting over money and start living towards financial harmony
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Mar 30, 2022 |
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E103// My husband asked for a separation/divorce - Not what? 5 ways to handle it with grace
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Mar 17, 2022 |
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E102// Do you want to go from fighting to flowers? My student tells all about how her marriage started to change within a few weeks.
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Mar 11, 2022 |
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E101// Tired of feeling like your husband is a roommate? 2 things to try today!
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Mar 09, 2022 |
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E100// Are you waiting to hear from God?
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Mar 02, 2022 |
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E99//3 ways to overcome insecurity in your marriage
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Feb 22, 2022 |
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E98// Live Coaching: How to rekindle passion in the marriage after a rough season
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Feb 16, 2022 |
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E97// Have you set goals for your marriage?
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Feb 10, 2022 |
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E96// Help! I feel unappreciated: 3 ways to reduce resentment and strengthen your connection
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Feb 08, 2022 |
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E95// How do I forgive after infidelity when I am filled with such anger and pain?
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Feb 01, 2022 |
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E94// 3 ways insecurity is hurting your marriage and how to overcome it
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Jan 26, 2022 |
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E93// Why is my husband so mean? How to problem solve and communicate with deeper understanding
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Jan 18, 2022 |
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E92// Tired of being his caretaker? How to get your husband to help out around the house more
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Jan 11, 2022 |
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E91//How to give your husband grace when he doesn’t believe
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Jan 04, 2022 |
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E90// Let go of shame in marriage to rebuild on a strong foundation
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Dec 30, 2021 |
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E89// An encouraging word for your marriage
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Dec 15, 2021 |
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E88// Is there hope for a hopeless marriage?
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Dec 07, 2021 |
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E87// Does your husband deflect or refuse to take responsibility for his wrongs?
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Nov 29, 2021 |
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E86// How to ask for what you want without making your husband defensive
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Nov 23, 2021 |
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E85//Is your impatience hurting your marriage?
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Nov 15, 2021 |
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e84// How to be more vulnerable in marriage: More info on the Communication Workshop
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Nov 12, 2021 |
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e83// Does your husband feel more like a roommate? This is why...
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Nov 09, 2021 |
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e82// Let‘s talk about sex! When he wants it more than you.
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Oct 27, 2021 |
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e81// Don‘t let your marriage take the back seat to your kids!
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Oct 21, 2021 |
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E80// Feel anxiety or depression when your marriage isn’t going well? How to handle emotional distress and marriage.
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Oct 13, 2021 |
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E79// Not connecting with your husband? Edify him back to intimacy
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Oct 05, 2021 |
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E78// Help! My marriage is divided over politics and Covid related issues!!
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Sep 29, 2021 |
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E77// How to have a more loving and connected marriage without DOing a thing
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Sep 21, 2021 |
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E76// Trying to be a good help meet but he doesn‘t want the help?
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Aug 31, 2021 |
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E75// How does being a better YOU make you a better wife/mother?
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Aug 25, 2021 |
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E74// How to get what you want without nagging
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Jul 28, 2021 |
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The power of a carefully chosen girlfriend
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Jul 23, 2021 |
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Now is the time to make lasting change in your marriage!
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Jul 22, 2021 |
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Shhh! I have a confession about surrender...
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Jul 21, 2021 |
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E70// Being a Grace Fueled Wife even in the midst of Separation or divorce
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Jun 28, 2021 |
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What is the opposite of the crazy train: How can I have that in my marriage?
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Jun 21, 2021 |
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Is your marriage riding the crazy train?
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Jun 14, 2021 |
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What is a pattern interrupt and how can it change my marriage?
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Jun 09, 2021 |
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E66// What is my favorite hack for a spicy marriage?
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Jun 02, 2021 |
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E65// What does it take to build a lasting marriage?
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May 26, 2021 |
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E64// How to be a gracious wife when you’re hurting
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May 24, 2021 |
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E63// Feeling forgotten and alone in your marriage and need help? Introducing The Grace Fueled Marriage Method
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May 21, 2021 |
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E62// Does your husband get mad at you, for getting mad at him?
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May 17, 2021 |
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E61// What do I do when my husband communicates with me in anger?
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May 12, 2021 |
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E60// How to fix your marriage in three (easy?) steps!
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May 05, 2021 |
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E59// Finding the RESOLVE to fight for our marriage when we’re frustrated
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Apr 28, 2021 |
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E58// How to fight for your marriage when your husband isn’t showing up
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Apr 27, 2021 |
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E57// Have you lost yourself in your marriage?
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Apr 12, 2021 |
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E56// How to stop an argument in your marriage BEFORE it starts.
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Apr 07, 2021 |
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E55// Love and Respect - A strong-willed woman’s perspective. How to Cherish and Champion in your marriage.
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Mar 29, 2021 |
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E54// Help! I think I’m married to a Narcissist with Ronica Cormier
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Mar 22, 2021 |
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E53// Fighting for your marriage when your husband doesn’t believe
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Mar 17, 2021 |
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E52// The Script: What to do when your husband isn’t living up to your expectations.
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Mar 12, 2021 |
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E51// Help! We’ve tried everything and our marriage hasn’t gotten any better: How to set boundaries in your marriage
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Feb 10, 2021 |
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Are you walking through a dark or uncertain season?
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Feb 05, 2021 |
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Separation to salvation p2: Fighting over finances? Practical tips to achieve financial goals without an MLM
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Jan 29, 2021 |
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From the brink of Separation to Salvation part 1: How God redeemed one marriage and delivered this woman’s dream of her log cabin in the woods
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Jan 29, 2021 |
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E47//How to craft an effective apology
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Jan 21, 2021 |
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E//46 How do we heal after infidelity and my husband’s porn addiction? w. Restored2More Clint & Chastity Munoz
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Jan 14, 2021 |
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What does it mean to be fueled with grace?
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Jan 11, 2021 |
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From Grievances to Grace: Staying S.T.R.O.N.G.in your marriage when your husband isn't on the same page.
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Dec 30, 2020 |
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Dream Planning for 2021 - How do I accomplish my goals, what happens when God is silent on that journey?
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Dec 28, 2020 |
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Enneagram 101 for Christians w. Life Coach Stephani Cook
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Dec 16, 2020 |
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Monday Motivation: Praying for Wisdom and Understanding
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Dec 14, 2020 |
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E40// Do I NEED it or just WANT it? How understanding the difference can impact your marriage
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Dec 12, 2020 |
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Monday Motivation - Prayer for provision in 2021
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Dec 07, 2020 |
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Help! My husband is not attracted to me anymore. How to deal with it.
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Dec 02, 2020 |
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Monday Motivation: Prayer for identity
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Nov 23, 2020 |
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E35// How to navigate biblical leadership as a strong-willed woman and the true effects of divorce
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Nov 18, 2020 |
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Monday Motivation: Prayer for our Leadership as wives
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Nov 16, 2020 |
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E33// The importance of faith and prayer as a wife w. Micaela Deegan
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Nov 11, 2020 |
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Monday Motivation: Paying for Wisdom and Unity in a divided nation
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Nov 09, 2020 |
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E31// How do I allow my husband to lead when he is not a believer?
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Nov 04, 2020 |
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Monday Motivation: A prayer for your husband’s leadership
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Nov 02, 2020 |
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Systems for a Godly Marriage w. Chelsi Jo
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Oct 28, 2020 |
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Monday Motivation: Praying for marriage when its hard
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Oct 26, 2020 |
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E27// Help! I’m living in stable misery and feel like my husband is my roomate. What to do w. Dr. Lynyetta Willis
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Oct 20, 2020 |
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When the wife is unfaithful: Healing from Infidelity PT2 w. Micaela Deegan
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Oct 15, 2020 |
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Bringing Baggage into your marriage? Identifying trauma triggers with Jamily Whitfield
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Oct 07, 2020 |
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E24// Can I forgive after an affair? Infidelity series part 1 w. Stephanie Broersma
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Oct 07, 2020 |
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Are you repeating this thing that’s stopping your progress?
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Sep 24, 2020 |
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E22// How Do I Respond to My Husband in Love vs. Anger?
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Sep 21, 2020 |
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E21// I want to grow, but he wants to watch TV, play video games or scroll on his phone - Help!
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Aug 27, 2020 |
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E20// Are you a strong willed woman struggling with with giving your husband grace?
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Aug 18, 2020 |
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E19// Do you want to change your husband? Tactical tips and mindset coaching
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Aug 12, 2020 |
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E18// Are you a Christian struggling in your marriage? Normalizing the struggle and the value of accountability
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Aug 07, 2020 |
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Are you giving up too soon?
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Jul 31, 2020 |
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E16// You are more than your circumstance! Claim Your worth when life feels hard
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Jul 29, 2020 |
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E15// Is my marriage worth Saving?
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Jul 21, 2020 |
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E14// Are you experiencing mom guilt and stagnation in your marriage? w. Ashley Carrol
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Jul 14, 2020 |
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E13// Are you tired of feeling anger and frustration with your husband?
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Jul 10, 2020 |
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E12// Are you using the #1 communication tool for a healthy marriage?
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Jun 24, 2020 |
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E11// How do you feel the most loved and do you wish he did more of that?
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Jun 15, 2020 |
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E10// Are you holding onto this idea that is stealing your joy?
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Jun 08, 2020 |
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E9// Husband in a funk? Here’s what to do!
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May 01, 2020 |
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E8// Taking your marriage from surviving to thriving
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Apr 22, 2020 |
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E7// Quarantine Survival - protecting your emotional health
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Mar 31, 2020 |
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E6// How can we extend grace to each other in this time of Global pandemic/COVID-19?
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Mar 16, 2020 |
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E5// How can you find true, Godly friendship as an adult?
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Mar 10, 2020 |
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E4// The lie - No one can know what’s going on
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Mar 03, 2020 |
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E3//The lie - It’s no big deal
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Feb 21, 2020 |
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E2// The hard truth about who is to blame for issues in your marriage: The lie - It’s not me its YOU
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Feb 14, 2020 |
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E1//My Rockbottom Story: God Redeemed my marriage and can do the same for you!
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Feb 14, 2020 |