Parenting The Adlerian Way

By Alyson Schafer

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Episodes: 226

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Join internationally acclaimed parenting expert Alyson Schafer every Monday as she answers your parenting questions. Without judgement and backed with easily understandable theory and research, she’ll offer up actionable solutions you can implement immediately. Alyson puts the “sense" back into "common sense parenting" with her warm, inspiring and informed Adlerian approach. Alyson is the author of three best selling parenting books with HarperCollinsCanada including; “Breaking The Good Mom Myth” “Honey, I Wrecked The Kids” and Ain't Misbehavin’” and the go-to expert for national media outlets.Send Alyson your parenting question to alyson@alysonschafer.com with #AskAlyson in the subject line or to @alysonschafer on any of her social media platforms. Questions will be answered anonymously.

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Episode Date
225: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Jul 13, 2026
224: Adlerian Parenting Methods And Why They Work
Jun 29, 2026
223: “Breaking The Boy Code” With Author & Psychotherapist Katie Hurley
Jun 08, 2026
222: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
May 25, 2026
221: The Negative Impact of Screen Time on Children
May 18, 2026
220: Your Child Is Not Their Weight - Parenting in a Size Obsessed World
May 11, 2026
219: Understanding and Supporting Youth Mental Health
Apr 27, 2026
218: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Apr 13, 2026
217: Calming Teenage Anxiety – What’s A Parent To Do?
Mar 30, 2026
216: Teen Dating and Relationship Violence
Mar 16, 2026
215: The Family Meeting Kit – How To Make Family Meetings Fun And Effective
Mar 02, 2026
214: “Good Grandpa – Stories from The Heart of Grandfatherhood”, with Ted Page
Feb 16, 2026
213: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Feb 02, 2026
212: Canadian Music Icon Natalie MacMaster On Her New Book, “I Have A Love Story”
Jan 19, 2026
211: Tech Guru Amber Mac Discusses What Parents Should Know About AI
Jan 05, 2026
210: “Living Well With Perfectionism” by Adlerian Authors Caroline Faifman and Lindsay Turner
Dec 29, 2025
209: Kids and AI with Educational Tech Expert, Leslie Tyler
Dec 15, 2025
208: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Dec 01, 2025
207: The Importance Of Showing Our Children That Work Is Joyful
Nov 17, 2025
206: How The Icelandic Art of Intuition Known As Innsaei Can Transform Your Parenting
Nov 03, 2025
205: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Oct 20, 2025
204: Raising Generous Kids Through Charitable Giving
Oct 06, 2025
203: Help For Those Who Have Trouble Making and Enforcing Boundaries!
Sep 22, 2025
202: “10 Rules for Raising Kids in a High-Tech World” With Dr Jean Twenge
Sep 15, 2025
201: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Sep 08, 2025
200: Celebrating My 200th Episode With Canadian Comedian Jessica Holmes and Her Fearless Journey To Overcoming Depression and Becoming A Mental Health Advocate!
Aug 26, 2025
199: “The Baby Bonding Book: Connecting With Your Newborn” With Dr Joanna Parga-Belinkie
Aug 18, 2025
198: Giving New Grads and Young Adults The Support They Need To Launch and Thrive
Aug 08, 2025
197: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Jul 21, 2025
196: Supporting Parents Raising Children With Autism
Jul 07, 2025
195: “Parental Control: A Guide To Raising Balanced Kids In The Digital Era” – A Conversation With Digital Parenting Expert, Titania Jordan
Jun 23, 2025
194: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Jun 09, 2025
193: Advice and Best Practices from Pediatric Dentist Dr Shonna Masse (especially for those anxious kiddos)
May 26, 2025
192: The Family Systems Approach to Working with Children Who Have Behaviour Concerns
May 12, 2025
191: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Apr 28, 2025
190: What Parents Need to Know About Eating Disorders
Apr 14, 2025
189: The Seven Principles for Raising a Self-Driven Child
Mar 31, 2025
188: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Mar 17, 2025
187: How To Be A Happier Parent
Mar 03, 2025
186: The Importance of Trauma-Informed Care for Kids With Neurodiversity
Feb 17, 2025
185: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Feb 03, 2025
184: The Important Evolutionary Assets That Fathers Bring to Raising Their Children
Jan 20, 2025
183: An Adlerian Model of Child Development
Jan 06, 2025
182: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Dec 16, 2024
181: Understanding The High-Functioning Alcoholic (Parent)
Dec 09, 2024
180: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Dec 02, 2024
179: What a Triple Board-Certified Sleep Medicine Physician Wants Parents to Know about Sleep
Nov 18, 2024
178: Neurodiversity–Affirming Psychotherapy: Clinical Pathways to Autistic Mental Health
Nov 04, 2024
177: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Oct 28, 2024
176: Support For Families When A Parent Gets A Cancer Diagnosis, With Nankind Founder Audrey Guth
Oct 21, 2024
175: Lessons On Life And Business From The Original Mompreneur, Julie Cole
Oct 14, 2024
174: The Importance of Getting Our Children Into Nature
Sep 30, 2024
173: The Importance Of Children’s Eye Health. A Fascinating Conversation With The Folks From CNIB!
Sep 26, 2024
172: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Sep 16, 2024
171: “The Collapse of Parenting” – How We Hurt Children When We Treat Them Like Grownups
Sep 02, 2024
170: How Parents Can Prevent Youth Drinking And Driving, With MADD’s Stacey Stewart
Aug 19, 2024
169: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Aug 05, 2024
168: Building Strong Parent-Child Relationships, While Understanding Cultural Differences
Jul 22, 2024
167: Tips And Some History From Adlerian Parent Educator Mollie Thorn
Jul 08, 2024
166: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Jun 24, 2024
165: The Unexpected Challenges Of Transitioning From Coupleship to Parents
Jun 17, 2024
164: Supporting Premature Babies And Their Families
Jun 13, 2024
163: Motherhood Will Test You – And That Can Be a Good Thing
May 27, 2024
162: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
May 13, 2024
From The Vault: 009: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
May 06, 2024
From The Vault: 008: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
May 06, 2024
From The Vault: 007: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
May 06, 2024
From The Vault: 006: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
May 06, 2024
From The Vault: 005: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
May 06, 2024
From The Vault: 004: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
May 06, 2024
From The Vault: 003: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
May 06, 2024
From The Vault: 002: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
May 06, 2024
From The Vault: 001: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
May 06, 2024
From The Vault: 000: Welcome! My Origin Story and Intro to Adlerian Psychology
May 06, 2024
161: The Fun Habit – Why and How To Incorporate Fun Into Your Life And Parenting
Apr 29, 2024
160: Will AI Replace Therapists?
Apr 18, 2024
159: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Apr 01, 2024
158: How to Best Parent Tweens – While They Are Still Listening
Mar 18, 2024
157: Unfinished Business: Breaking Down the Great Wall Between Adult Child and Immigrant Parents
Mar 04, 2024
156: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Feb 19, 2024
155: From Chaos to Calm: 5 Ways Busy Parents Can Break Free From Overwhelm
Feb 05, 2024
154: Alfred Adler’s History and Evolution of Parenting Theory with Dr Marina Bluvshtein
Jan 23, 2024
153: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Jan 08, 2024
152: A Peaceful World Starts At Home
Dec 11, 2023
151: AI Is Here To Stay - What Do Parents Need To Know?
Nov 27, 2023
150: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Nov 13, 2023
149: Supporting Twice-Exceptional / Neurodivergent Children
Oct 30, 2023
148: Morgan Crew Discusses Her Adlerian-based “PREVAIL – Prove Your Power” Program For Parents
Oct 16, 2023
147: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Oct 02, 2023
146: How Philosophy and Ethics Must Redefine “Good Parenting” With Author Dr Elizabeth Cripps
Sep 18, 2023
145: Non-Consensual Disclosure of Intimate Images – New Protections
Sep 04, 2023
144: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Aug 21, 2023
143: “Never Enough – When Achievement Culture Becomes Toxic And What We Can Do About It”
Aug 14, 2023
142: How Parents Can Help Their Children Become Readers - And Why It’s Important
Aug 08, 2023
141: Naturist Families - Understanding The Philosophy, Lifestyle, And Values
Jul 24, 2023
140: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Jul 10, 2023
139: Raising Emotionally Intelligent Children
Jun 28, 2023
138: Dr Vanessa LaPointe Discusses The Negative Impact Of Social Media On Youth Mental Health
Jun 19, 2023
137: Methods To Stop Being The Warden, Fixer Or Rescuer Of Your Children
Jun 12, 2023
136: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
May 29, 2023
135: Parenting Children Who Don’t Follow A Typical Trajectory – Advice for Helping Kids Through Diagnosis, Difference and Mental Health Challenges
May 16, 2023
134: The Experts On Dads: How They Like To Parent and Learn Differently than Moms
May 01, 2023
133: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Apr 17, 2023
132: The Chosen Family with Adlerian Dr Ben Rader
Apr 03, 2023
131: Skateboard Prodigy Brandon Turner Discusses Teen Addiction and Recovery
Mar 20, 2023
130: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Mar 06, 2023
129: How To Be The Parent Your Teenager Needs You To Be
Feb 27, 2023
128: How Social Media Impacts Teens’ Self-Esteem
Feb 20, 2023
127: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Feb 13, 2023
126: Canada’s Recent “D” Report Card On Our Kids’ Physical Activity And What Parents Can Do About It
Feb 06, 2023
125: The Wounded Mother and How To Heal Ourselves
Jan 30, 2023
124: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer
Jan 23, 2023
123: Cat & Nat on Trends in Motherhood (and Adlerian Parenting)
Jan 16, 2023
122: Financial Literacy For Youth (Taught by the Coolest Guy Who Knows His Audience!)
Jan 10, 2023
121: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Jan 06, 2023
120: “Mom’s Hierarchy of Needs” and Why Moms Fail at Self Care
Dec 19, 2022
119: The Importance of Mindfulness for Children
Dec 12, 2022
118: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Dec 05, 2022
117: Raising Transgender Children
Nov 28, 2022
116: The Importance Of Wills And An Estate Plan For Your Family
Nov 21, 2022
115: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Nov 14, 2022
114: Brain-Based Approach for Helping Kids Who Struggle with Homework
Nov 07, 2022
113: Early Recollections, Parenting, and the Change Process
Oct 31, 2022
112: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Oct 24, 2022
111: Inspirational Talk With Youth Leader Cameron Davis
Oct 17, 2022
110: Embracing Sibling Conflict As An Opportunity To Teach Relationship Skills
Oct 10, 2022
109: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Oct 03, 2022
108: Amazing Race Canada winners Craig Ramsay and Catherine Wreford Ledlow with their husbands Brandon Liberatti and Joel Ledlow
Sep 26, 2022
107: Childhood Obesity and the Importance of Early Childhood Intervention
Sep 19, 2022
106: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Sep 12, 2022
105: The Art Of Teaching Children - For Teachers And Parents Alike - With Phillip Done
Sep 05, 2022
104: The Importance Of Positive Interactions When It Comes To Learning And Education
Aug 29, 2022
103: The Role Of Play In Teaching Life Skills And Resiliency With Mike McDonald
Aug 22, 2022
102: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Aug 15, 2022
101: Creating Good Sleep Habits With Alanna McGinn
Aug 01, 2022
100: Supporting Kids On Their Journey To Adulthood With Julie Lythcott-Haims
Jul 25, 2022
099: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Jul 18, 2022
098: Dawn Barclay provides summer travel tips from her book: “Travel Different: Vacation Strategies for Parents of the Anxious, The Inflexible and the Neurodiverse”
Jul 11, 2022
097: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Jul 04, 2022
096: Bringing Adlerian Psychology To African Schools with guest Robert Omwa
Jun 27, 2022
095: Nikki Pauli and Shane Fuller discuss how to help children through grief in the wake of the mass school shooting in Uvalde Texas
Jun 13, 2022
094: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Jun 06, 2022
093: Dr Jody McVittie and the importance of parental co-regulation for children who are upset, explosive, angry or melting down
May 31, 2022
092: The Importance of Creativity and Story Telling With Drew Vernon
May 16, 2022
091: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
May 09, 2022
090: Helping Teens and Parents With Body Language and "RBF"
May 02, 2022
089: Kids with Challenging Behaviours In School with Karin Jakubowksi
Apr 25, 2022
088: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Apr 11, 2022
087: Parenting Lessons Through Hiking With Chris and Elizabeth Barile
Apr 06, 2022
086: Digital Wellness with Dr Michael Rich
Mar 28, 2022
085: How To Talk To Kids About Ukraine and Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Mar 07, 2022
084: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Feb 28, 2022
083: Parenting Children with Disabilities with Tim Hartshorne
Feb 21, 2022
082: Step-parenting with Jamie Scrimgeour
Feb 14, 2022
081: Sibling Rivalry with Jim Bitter
Feb 07, 2022
080: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Jan 31, 2022
079: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Jan 24, 2022
078: Kid and tech / social media with Amber Mac
Jan 17, 2022
077: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Jan 10, 2022
076: Katie Hurley
Dec 20, 2021
075: Terry Kottman
Dec 13, 2021
074: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Dec 06, 2021
073: Interview with Claire Tansey
Nov 29, 2021
072: Ned Johnson
Nov 23, 2021
071: Sabrina Adair
Nov 15, 2021
070: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Nov 08, 2021
069: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Nov 01, 2021
068: Dr Jane Nelsen and Chip DeLorenzo
Oct 25, 2021
067: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Oct 18, 2021
066: Pascale Brady
Sep 27, 2021
065: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Sep 20, 2021
064: Nathalie Boutet
Sep 13, 2021
063: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Aug 23, 2021
062: Kathy Buckworth: Go To Grama! On Grandparenting in 2020.
Aug 16, 2021
061: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Aug 09, 2021
060: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Aug 02, 2021
059: Heather Chauvin: Dying To Be A Good Mother.
Jul 19, 2021
058: Raffi. The Raffi Foundation for Child Honouring.
Jul 12, 2021
057: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Jun 28, 2021
056: Ria Simon: The Importance of Communication Between Parents And Educators (especially during a pandemic).
Jun 22, 2021
055: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Jun 14, 2021
054: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Jun 07, 2021
053: Dr Jon Sperry, on how drumming can be used to build co-operation among children and in families.
May 31, 2021
052: Calvin Armerding: Author of “The Cooperative Family: How ridding ourselves of competitive goals helps us flourish.”
May 24, 2021
051: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
May 17, 2021
050: Fionnuala Hoffmann: The Journey To Becoming An Adlerian Parent Educator
May 03, 2021
049: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Apr 26, 2021
48: Dr Frank Walton on Preventing Teen Suicide
Apr 19, 2021
047: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Apr 12, 2021
046: Jessica Lahey “The Addiction Inoculation: Raising Healthy Kids In A Culture Of Dependence”
Apr 06, 2021
045: Guest Interview with Michele Borba: Thrivers: The Surprising Reasons of Why Some Kids Struggle and Others Shine.
Mar 29, 2021
044: Guest Interview with Emma Brown on her latest book “To Raise a Boy. Classrooms, Locker Rooms, and the Hidden Struggles of American Boyhood”
Mar 22, 2021
043: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Mar 15, 2021
042: Guest Interview with Michaeleen Doucleff: Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Teach Us About The Lost Art Of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Human.
Mar 08, 2021
041 : Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Mar 01, 2021
040: Guest Interview with Amy Lang MA: Talking To Kids About SEX
Feb 22, 2021
039: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Feb 16, 2021
038: Guest Interview with Dr Susan Belangee: Teen Eating Disorders (Anorexia and Bulimia)
Feb 08, 2021
037: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Feb 01, 2021
036: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Jan 25, 2021
035: Guest Interview with Lauren Barr, Helping Students and Families Cope With On-Line Learning During COVID
Jan 18, 2021
034: Guest Interview with Jamie Mason Cohen, author of “LIVE FROM YOUR CLASS: Everything I Learned About Teaching, I Learned from Working at SATURDAY NIGHT LIVE.”
Jan 11, 2021
033: Guest Interview with Dr Paul Rasmussen, author of “The Quest To Feel Good” discussing the Adlerian perspective on mental health and emotions, including; depression, anger and anxiety.
Dec 21, 2020
032: Guest Interview with Jessica Lahey, author of “The Gift Of Failure. How the best parents learn to let go so their children can succeed.”
Dec 14, 2020
031: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Dec 07, 2020
030: Guest Interview with Jane Nelsen the creator of “Positive Discipline” and “Positive Discipline Parenting Tools” and the spread of Adlerian training around the world.
Nov 30, 2020
029: Guest Interview with Michele Borba “Unselfie: Why Empathic Kids Succeed in Our All-About-Me World”
Nov 23, 2020
028: Guest Interview with Erica Ehm: “Journey to find and build community support for moms”
Nov 16, 2020
027: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Nov 09, 2020
026: Guest Interview with Barbara Coloroso “Parenting With Wit and Wisdom in Times of Chaos, Loss, Grief and Covid19”
Nov 02, 2020
025: Parenting Q&A with Alyson Schafer
Oct 26, 2020
O24: Guest Interview With Dr Michael Rich: Social Media and Interactive Tech during a Pandemic
Oct 19, 2020
023: Q&A Twins and Triplets
Oct 12, 2020
022: Guest Interview With Kirsten Chase: Mindfulness for Children
Oct 05, 2020
021: Guest Interview With Dr Steve Silvestro: The Pandemic
Sep 28, 2020
020
Sep 21, 2020
019
Sep 14, 2020
018
Sep 07, 2020
017
Sep 07, 2020
016
Aug 17, 2020
015
Aug 03, 2020
014
Jul 20, 2020
013
Jul 13, 2020
012
Jul 06, 2020
011: Adlerian Theory on Parenting Teens
Jun 29, 2020
010: 20 ways to be an encouraging parent
Jun 22, 2020