Overcoming Betrayal & Addiction
By Robert Weiss, PhD, MSW and Tami VerHelst
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The Overcoming Betrayal and Addiction podcast, featuring Dr. Rob Weiss and Tami VerHelst, presents a conversational Q&A style discussion drawn from listener questions about sex and porn addictions, infidelity, cheating, and hard work required to heal relationship betrayal. Dr. Rob and Tami are very good at engaging people struggling with painful life issues in a useful, respectful way. They also invite you to join them on their live weekly webinar (Mondays, 5 p.m. Pacific at https://bit.ly/DrRobandTami), where they answer questions live Dr. Rob is Chief Clinical Officer for Seeking integrity Treatment Centers. He is a 30-year licensed therapist, a PhD sexologist, and author Sex Addiction 101, Prodependence, and Out of the Doghouse, among other books. Tami is Chief Relationships Officer for Seeking Integrity LLC. Tami brings over 40 years of personal addiction knowledge, helping supply struggling individuals and couples with the resources and direction they need to heal.
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Engaging Your Brain in Repair and Recovery
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Sep 17, 2026 |
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How Can I Rebuild Trust?
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Jul 16, 2026 |
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Sex and Intimacy Q & A for Partners and Parents
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May 26, 2026 |
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Navigating Sexual Reintegration
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May 11, 2026 |
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Hoovering and the Narcissistic Cycles of Abuse
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Apr 02, 2026 |
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Why Is Your Spouse Not Your Priority?
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Apr 02, 2026 |
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Demonstrating Emotional Leadership
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Feb 19, 2026 |
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Stop Doomscrolling and Start Hopescrolling
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Nov 20, 2025 |
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Help! I Miss My Betraying Partner
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Nov 20, 2025 |
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Is Therapeutic Separation Right For My Relationship?
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Nov 14, 2025 |
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Understanding Disenfranchised Grief and Betrayal Trauma
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Nov 14, 2025 |
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Why Men Struggle to Show Empathy
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Oct 07, 2025 |
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5 Practices to Build Resiliency and Healthy Coping Mechanisms
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Oct 07, 2025 |
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How Long Does Recovery Really Take?
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Oct 07, 2025 |
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Building Thriving Connection Post Betrayal
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Oct 07, 2025 |
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Navigating Carried Shame
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Aug 22, 2025 |
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Betrayal Induced Existential Crisis
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Aug 22, 2025 |
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Why Doesn't My Betraying Partner Hate Himself?
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Aug 07, 2025 |
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Choosing Recovery Every Day
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Aug 07, 2025 |
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Counteractive Change Vs. Transformational Change
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Jul 25, 2025 |
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Early Recovery Slogans and Mantras
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Jul 25, 2025 |
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Are You Volunteering Yourself for Pain?
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Jun 28, 2025 |
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Does Forgiveness Equal Trust?
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Jun 28, 2025 |
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Is He an Addict or Just an A**hole?
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May 15, 2025 |
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Regaining Trust After Relapse
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May 08, 2025 |
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Healing Attachment Wounds with Troy Love
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May 01, 2025 |
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Rebuilding Trust Through Connection
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Apr 24, 2025 |
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Betrayal Brain with Debbie McRae
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Apr 17, 2025 |
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Supporting Your Partner Through Their Recovery Is Not Your Job
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Apr 10, 2025 |
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Honor Your Boundaries So You Aren't Betraying Yourself
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Apr 03, 2025 |
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When the Betraying Partner is in Recovery Limbo with Debbie McRae
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Mar 27, 2025 |
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Should I Stay or Leave?
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Mar 20, 2025 |
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How Can I Rebuild Trust?
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Mar 13, 2025 |
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Defining and Meeting Needs and Wants
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Mar 06, 2025 |
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Recovery On the Spectrum
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Feb 27, 2025 |
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Attachment Theory and Addiction Recovery
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Feb 20, 2025 |
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Dopamine Dysregulation in Sex/Porn Addiction
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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Building a Better Higher Power Relationship with Mark Anthony Lord
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Feb 06, 2025 |
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Handling Triggers and Fetishes with Erin Snow
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Jan 30, 2025 |
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Why is Porn So Addictive?
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Jan 23, 2025 |
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Navigating the Pain Field
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Jan 16, 2025 |
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Identifying and Stopping the Gaslighting with Debbie McRae
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Jan 09, 2025 |
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How Can I Prevent Relapse?
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Dec 26, 2024 |
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Triggers for Addicts and Partners
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Dec 19, 2024 |
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Setting Internal Boundaries
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Dec 12, 2024 |
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Am I Really Ready to Forgive?
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Dec 05, 2024 |
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How and Why to Apologize with Jon Taylor
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Nov 27, 2024 |
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Lying Will Not Help You Regain Trust
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Nov 21, 2024 |
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I Want to Leave, But….
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Nov 14, 2024 |
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How and When Can We Connect Intimately Again?
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Nov 07, 2024 |
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How Do I Know When It's Time to Get Help?
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Oct 31, 2024 |
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Is My Sex Addict's Empathy Actually Gaslighting?
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Sep 12, 2024 |
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Is It My Fault He Cheated On Me?
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Aug 01, 2024 |
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When Do I Need Help for My Addiction?
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Jun 27, 2024 |
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I Just Love My Addict Spouse, But Yet They Always Hurt Me
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May 30, 2024 |
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FAQ for 12-Step Programs for Sex Addicts Answered in this Podcast!
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May 06, 2024 |
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My Sex Addict Says It's All My Fault; Is This True?
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Apr 25, 2024 |
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I Am Married to an Addict and I Don't Want to Break Up My Family
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Dec 14, 2023 |
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He Betrayed Me And Yet Believes All The Flirting He Does Is Completely Innocent!
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Dec 07, 2023 |
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He Feels So Uncomfortable In Recovery. Will It Get Better?
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Nov 30, 2023 |
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I Have a Restraining Order. Is There Any Hope He'll Ever Stop Using?
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Nov 23, 2023 |
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The Separate Journeys of Couples in Recovery
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Nov 21, 2023 |
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Am I Just Having Fun, or Is This a Full-Blown Addiction?
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Nov 08, 2023 |
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My Wife Has a Pattern of Infidelity, but I Love Her
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Nov 03, 2023 |
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She Cheated on Me! And Yet, I'm the One in Recovery?
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Oct 26, 2023 |
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Why Should I Write Down All My Anger and Hurt?
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Oct 20, 2023 |
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Can Harm Reduction Be Considered Sober?
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Oct 11, 2023 |
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I Really Want to Change but My Empathy is Broken
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Oct 10, 2023 |
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He Is Super Jealous Despite Being the One Who Cheated on Me!
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Sep 28, 2023 |
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The 12-Steps Just Don't Work For Me. I Just Don't Fit In
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Sep 22, 2023 |
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What Are the Triggers of a Midlife Addiction?
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Sep 14, 2023 |
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Am I Ready to Date Again as a Sex Addict?
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Sep 07, 2023 |
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He Blames Me for All of His Affairs. What?!
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Aug 31, 2023 |
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My 9-Year-Old Daughter Found Out About His Affairs and Now She's Self-Harming
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Aug 28, 2023 |
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No! You Ruined My Life and I Hate You!
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Aug 10, 2023 |
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I'm Sober But I Still Get Turned On by My Own Body
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Aug 03, 2023 |
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She Hates My Past. How Can I Support Her?
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Jul 28, 2023 |
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I'm Not Ready to Tell My Spouse I'm an Addict
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Jul 21, 2023 |
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My Husband Publicly Exposes Himself for Fun
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Jul 13, 2023 |
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Why Is My Addict Such a Liar?!
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Jul 06, 2023 |
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He Just Doesn't Care About Sobriety. Can An Addict Ever Recover?
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Jun 29, 2023 |
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Can My Children Inherit This Addiction Disease?
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Jun 22, 2023 |
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If They Really Knew Who I Am, They Would Leave Me
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Jun 15, 2023 |
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How to Set Healthy Boundaries with Your Addict
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Jun 08, 2023 |
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Can You Cure Narcissism?
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Jun 01, 2023 |
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Why Can't I Get Past the 9th Step?
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May 25, 2023 |
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When Do I Know It's Time to Completely Separate from My Addict?
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May 19, 2023 |
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My Addict's Family Blames Me for His Addiction
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May 15, 2023 |
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Can I Learn How to Be Intimate Again?
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May 05, 2023 |
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I'm an Addict and I'm Attracted to My Female Coworker
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Apr 27, 2023 |
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I'm in Recovery, but My Partner Is in Active Addiction
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Apr 19, 2023 |
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I'm in Recovery and I Still Have No Empathy
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Apr 18, 2023 |
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I'm So Hurt. How Do I Even Begin to Process the Betrayal?
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Apr 18, 2023 |
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My Brother-In-Law Intentionally Triggered My PTSD. Do I Disown the Family?
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Mar 31, 2023 |
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He Watches Incest Porn. Are My Children Safe?
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Mar 27, 2023 |
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His Sexual Fantasies are Out of Control and It's Turning into Sexual Abuse
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Mar 15, 2023 |
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My Addict Doesn't Trust Me! The Audacity. He Thinks I'll Cheat Back.
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Mar 15, 2023 |
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She Had a Ring On, and He Respected It. Yet He Still Cheated in Our Marriage.
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Mar 07, 2023 |
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He Cheated. Was My Entire Marriage a Lie?
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Mar 07, 2023 |
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My Betrayed Spouse Thinks I'm Disgusting. Can We Reconcile?
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Feb 16, 2023 |