2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex

By Ams & Kat

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Two girl friends in open marriages explore unconventional sex: including swinging, sex toys, kink, hall passes, unicorns, impact play, swinger / lifestyle parties, bdsm, hot wife experiences, BDSM, threesomes, cosplay, nude resorts and more! In each episode, they choose a sexy experience: live it, love it, fuck it (or not!), and tell you how it goes. Website: www.2hotwives.com Instagram / Twitter: @2hotwives Email: info@2hotwives.com

Episode Date
28. Cannabis and Sex (aka: Hugs and Drugs)
01:03:00

Cannabis can make for a better sexual experience.  It’s science!

If we could sell you a product that reduced anxiety, helped you feel more mindful, increased arousal and heighten orgasm for more than a third of women who try it, would you be interested? Of course you would!  What’s the catch?  Well, it’s technically illegal. Nevertheless, the Wives brave the possibility of jail time (or, more likely, a tiny little fine) to bring you their hands-on experience of cannabis use and sex. 

First, wrap up in a cozy sweater and sip a delicious Vanilla Honey Cider while listening to this episode’s Hot Tale.  Ams has a major change of heart regarding newbie whispering (..didn’t she used to say, “I hold dicks, not hands.”?) when she and Mr. Ams have mind-blowing experience with a new to swinging couple at podcast-a-palooza. 

Next, the Wives explore some of the benefits of cannabis use, including why cannabis might be better for you than alcohol, the components on cannabis that get you high, edibles versus smoking or vaping, as well as some of the risks of cannabis use.    

To get a sexpert’s opinion, the Wives interview the CannaSexual herself Ashley Manta. 

Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: Kat wants to explore making her own gummies and cocktails with Cannabis tincture and Ams is going to keep a cannabis journal of her psychedelic sexploration. 

About Ashley

Ashley Manta is an award-winning sex educator and coach and has become a sought-after authority on mindfully combining sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual® brand. She is the author of The CBD Solution: Sex, published in 2020 in conjunction with Merry Jane and Chronicle Books. She writes for Playboy as a Playboy Advisor. She completed her certification as a Bodysex® Facilitator after studying with legendary pleasure pioneer Betty Dodson. She facilitates retreats and workshops at resorts and festivals around the world. She is a brand ambassador for Sybian. 

Nov 17, 2021
27. Dungeons Part 2
01:04:41

Are you ready to get the inside scoop on a public dungeon experience?  The Wives report back on their sexy homework, including attending a dungeon newbie night and an EDM and play party. 

First, if you love pumpkin but are sick to death of a PSL, give this Pumpkin Rum Cider a try, while Kat shares a Hot Tale with Mr. Ams on the side of a mountain!

Next, Kat shares her experience with a dungeon newbie night, complete with tickle bench and Shibari rope tie tutorials. 

Then, Ams takes it up a notch by attending an Alien Invasion EDM dance and play party at her local dungeon, where she volunteers to get flogged on a St. Andrew’s cross. 

Finally, the first share Just the Tips so you can have a fun and successful dungeon experience. 

A dungeon is a great place to explore kinkier, edgier play, surrounded by people who LOVE to demonstrate their skills.  You can learn, you can watch and you can experience kink including spanking, flogging, bondage and suspension.  You can also use equipment that you might not be willing to invest in at home, such as St. Andrew’s cross’s (Ams’ favorite!), hooks and bars or suspension play, spanking benches and impact toys. 

Inspired to create your own personal dungeon or venture into BSDM play?  Check out our website, with articles, bonus content, products we love and more. 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

Nov 03, 2021
26. Dungeons (aka: The Ultimate BDSM Playspace)
01:00:43

Is a BDSM dungeon on your sexual bucket list? You might be surprised about how actual dungeons operate. In this episode, the Wives explore public BDSM dungeons, including an interview with Dungeon East owner Mistress Justine Cross. 

First, get ready for Halloween with this episode’s cocktail: the Black Widow, while Ams shares her first experience as a unicorn to another couple. 

Next, the Wives discuss what a dungeon is and why you might want to visit one. 

A BDSM dungeon is a room or space designated specifically for BDSM (i.e. - Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism) play or scenes. Public dungeons can be found in fetish studios, sex work spaces, sex clubs, warehouses and nightclubs (sometimes during specific fetish parties and themed nights) and are usually open to the public.

A dungeon is a great place to explore kinkier, edgier play, surrounded by people who LOVE to demonstrate their skills.  You can learn, you can watch and you can experience kink including spanking, flogging, bondage and suspension.  You can also experience toys and equipment that you might not be willing to invest in at home, such as St. Andrew’s cross’s (Ams’ favorite!), hooks and bars or suspension play, spanking benches and impact toys. 

To get an expert’s opinion, the Wives interview Mistress Justine Cross, owner of Dungeon East in Los Angeles, California. 

Finally, the Wives set themselves sexy homework: visiting an actual dungeon for newbie night...and more…

About Mistress Justine Cross she/her

Mistress Justine is a professional BDSM consultant and lifestyle Dominatrix based in Los Angeles. She is the owner of Dungeon East, Los Angeles’s premiere dungeon studio. With over 10 years’ experience as a lifestyle Dominatrix and BDSM consultant, Mistress Justine’s expertise and creativity has been called on for dozens of print, radio, and video productions.  She has appeared as herself on Funny or Die, A&E, Lifetime and VH1. She has appeared on numerous podcasts including Savage Love, Dear Prudie and American Sex and for a number of campaigns and projects for major brands such an educational intro to BDSM series for Yandy. Extensively interviewed and profiled, Mistress Justine has been featured in Los Angeles Magazine, Playboy, Nylon, LA Weekly, Time Out Los Angeles, Buzzfeed, Salon, Vice, Huffington Post and The Guardian. Internationally recognized and followed, she typically travels all over the world.

Justine runs BDSFemme - a play party party for cis and trans women and co-hosts Deviant, an all gender queer play party. With the mainstream growing more aware of BDSM, Mistress Justine’s opportunities to educate and correct the kink curious have expanded, and she’s been invited to be a guest speaker or teach classes on BDSM, safer sex practices, consent, and more at places like UCLA,Los Angeles LGBT Center and Folx.

Justine loves oyster happy hours, craft cocktails and cats. She is fully vaccinated and still taking COVID precautions very seriously. Subscribe to her newsletter her. Follow her on twitter: justineplays and instagram/clubhouse/tiktok: thejustinecross

Contact: dungeonlosangeles@gmail.com or 323-739-4562

Website: https://www.losangelesdominatrix.com/

 

 

Oct 20, 2021
25. Hotwifing Part 2
01:13:12

Let’s put hotwifing to bed, together. 

Are you curious how the Wives completed their sexy homework on hotwifing? Did the single guys meet all of their expectations? How did the hot husbands react? Listen in to found out!  

First, if it’s feeling a little nippy outside, check out tonight's cocktail, the Caffe 43, a yummy creamy coffee cocktail, while listening to this episode's Hot Tale.  Kat and Mr. Kat check out a high-end strip club with another couple, then they take it back to the hotel for a private striptease.  

Next, the Wives go into all the details of the sexy homework, including finding single guys on lifestyle dating sites, first dates, follow up dates and how to pick up the pieces when things don’t go as planned. 

Finally, the Wives give their Just the Tips on their hotwifing experience. 

 

Featured on this episode:

Casual Toys

Womanizer Premium - Red/Gold

Silicone Butt Plug Set

Learn more about Hotwifing:

https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/hotwife-cuckold-married-sex-wednesday-martin-untrue 

https://www.yourtango.com/experts/mr-mike-hatcher/why-women-would-enjoy-and-benefit-hotwifing 

https://medium.com/sexography/hot-to-be-a-hotwife-629080c299df 

Check out our events page: https://www.2hotwives.com/events 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

Oct 06, 2021
24. Hotwifing (aka: Do we need to re-brand?)
01:05:57

Are the 2HotWives actually hotwives?  The answer is not so simple.  In this episode, the Wives explore the kink known as hotwifing. 

First, mix up tonight's cocktail, the Ginger Femme Chaude, while listening to this episode's Hot Tale.  Ams recounts how a new sex toy leads to super-hot Sunday morning play with Mr. Ams. 

Next, the Wives dive deep into the definition of a hotwife and hotwifing, including what it isn't (i.e. - cuckholding, swinging or a hall pass).  In particular, they discuss a husband's role in the kink. Is it to control?  To be submissive?  Bestow his wife's"favors"?  Tune in to find out. 

To get another hotwife's perspective, Ams and Kat interview Brenna from the Front Porch Swingers on her experience with hotwifing, including attending a recent Hotwife specific meet and greet!  

Finally, the Wives explore their sexy homework: how to find a single guy or bull (is there a difference?) and setting up a date.

If you are as confused by the term hotwife as we are, this is a can't miss episode. 

Featured on this episode:

Casual Toys

Silicone Butt Plug Set

Front Porch Swingers

Learn more about Hotwifing:

https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/hotwife-cuckold-married-sex-wednesday-martin-untrue 

https://www.yourtango.com/experts/mr-mike-hatcher/why-women-would-enjoy-and-benefit-hotwifing 

https://medium.com/sexography/hot-to-be-a-hotwife-629080c299df 

Special Thanks to Eli Forster for Editing this Episode!  Learn more about Eli:

Eli is a young audio editor and sound designer just starting out in the world of podcasting. She's looking to make her mark in the audio industry and where better to start than with the amazing 2HotWives podcast! 
 
 
twitter - @eli_forster

Check out our events page: https://www.2hotwives.com/events 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

Sep 15, 2021
23. Erotic Massage Part 2 (aka: Get your happy ending, Girl!)
01:02:15
Are you curious about a professional erotic massage? The Wives book sensual and fantasy massages at Desire RM and they are ready to tell you all about it! Erotic massage is a fantastic way get into a sexy mindset, amp up foreplay and reach new orgasmic heights. 

We know you aren't ready for summer to end, so mix up a batch of Watermelon Margaritas while listening to a super-sexy Hot Tale!  Kat makes an immediate connection with a sexy cowboy at Desire and the sparks fly when she tries a new kind of pole dancing (...did I see a Groupon for that?)

Next the Wives complete their homework erotic massage by booking a special spa treatment at Desire. 

Learn about about the sensual massage and fantasy massage experience, including the sensual massage and the Five Senses Fantasy Massage. 

Many couples swear by the sensual massage experience ("so nice, I did it twice"), but did it leave the Wives in multi-orgasmic bliss? Tune it to find out.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories.  We may feature you on the show! 

More About Desire Erotic Massage:

Desire Sensual Massage for Couples

We invite you and your partner to cross the threshold, converting fantasy into reality. Our Desire Sensual Massage for Couples combines an otherwise classic, relaxing experience, with the art of seduction. This journey begins with a refreshing, aphrodisiac beverage in our Jacuzzi, followed by a neck, back, head and sensual body massage, specifically designed to take you to the limits of seduction, preparing you for lovemaking with your partner. This entire ritual takes place inside the Jacuzzi (Guests only), and once the massage has concluded the therapists will exit, leaving you in privacy, to finish your erotic experience any way you desire.

Featured on this episode:

Desire RM

Bliss Cruise

Coconut Lime Massage Oil

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

Sep 01, 2021
22. Erotic Massage (aka: Get your happy ending, Girl!)
52:45

Are you ready to lay back, relax and get touched ALL OVER? Erotic massage is a fantastic way get into a sexy mindset, amp up foreplay and reach new orgasmic heights. 

For many women, the idea of an erotic massage, whether it is with their primary partner or with someone new, is a huge turn on. The problem is that women don’t have any place to go to look for information. So the wives are here to educate you on erotic massage options. 

 

First, mix up this season’s most sophisticated cocktail, a Blood Orange Manhattan, while listening to this week’s Hot Tale!  When Ams has a fantasy about meeting a sexy stranger at a bar, Mr. Ams and their new friend, Scarlett, step up to make her fantasy come true. 

Next the Wives explore erotic massage, the use of massage techniques by one person on another person's erogenous zones for their sexual pleasure.  Erotic massage is used by some people on occasion as a part of sex, either as foreplay or as the final sex act. It doesn’t require any special skills, but there are a few ways to make the experience better: set the mood, take your time and use lots of oil or lube (of course!) 

To take things to the next level, the Wives interview the sweet and sexy Lauren from Room77 podcast about her Art of Touch workshop. 

Finally, the Wives discuss their sexy homework assignments: it’s time go to the professionals and get a true erotic massage!  There is a large commercial erotic massage industry in some countries and cities, which may call their establishments massage parlors, spas, or saunas. If you look at the industry of erotic massage, or search for it online it has a super-seedy, male-pleasure dominating vibe.   With names like “Happy Ending Massage” or links to porn hub. It can seem misogynistic, objectifying and transactional.  So, the Wives consider ways to make this experience as empowering and sexy as possible. 

Make tonight’s sex the ultimate in self-care.  Use your words and ask your partner to give you an erotic massage! 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories.  We may feature you on the show! 

More About Erotic Massage:

Workshops

 

Article about a male masseuse who focuses on female pleasure: https://intimacy-institute.teachable.com/p/learn-erotic-massage 

 

Books - How to

Books - Erotica 

 

Featured on this episode:

Desire RM

Room 77 - Art of Touch

Art of Touch Playlist

 

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

 

Aug 18, 2021
21. Seduction and Foreplay, Part 2 (aka: Fifty Ways to Please Your Lover)
51:39
Where’s the best place to do sexy homework?  An adults-only, clothing optional resort! The 2HotWives record LIVE from the Desire Riveria Maya Resort to recount their adventures in seduction and foreplay.   First, mix up some summer sweetness with a Frozen Peach Bellini. 

Next, Kat gives Mr. Kat the ultimate fantasy experience, a unicorn threesome.

Then, the Wives share their sexy homework experiences.  They start with new seduction techniques, dirty talk, and eroticizng daily activities. Next, they tackle new foreplay strategies, including the full body orgasm exercise and Hot Damn! penis play. And, since sex is better with friends, they recruit couples from all over the Desire Resorts to join in on Erogenous Zone mapping. Spoiler alert!  Touching feet was a total turn on for many of the ladies who participated! 

Finally, the Wives share Just the Tips on better techniques to seduce and play with your lover (or lovers)! 

About the Book:

Wouldn’t you like to tune into your own desires, become a better communicator, and be a more confident, passionate, and attentive lover?

Let this book take you on a journey of sexual exploration. As you explore your own learning and seduction styles (and your lover’s), you’ll discover and experiment with new and exciting ways to stimulate arousal and deepen intimacy: verbal, emotional, and digital seduction, foreplay, eroticizing daily actions, games, fantasy play, mindfulness, and more. Packed with practical exercises, techniques, and creative ideas, this inclusive guide is a surefire way for folks of all genders to master the art of seduction. 

Approach your lovers with the confidence and comfort you deserve! Whether you are adding to your repertoire for later or striving to please your current lover, you’ll discover thrilling new pathways to pleasure and intimacy.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories.  We may feature you on the show! 

Featured on this episode:

Desire RM

Bliss Cruise

Sex with Dr. Jess

Sex Down South

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

Aug 04, 2021
20. Seduction & Foreplay! (aka: 50 Ways to Please Your Lover)
01:03:25
How is your flirt game?  When’s the last time you seduced your partner?  If sex is starting to feel a little routine, it’s time to brush up on your Seduction and Foreplay skills. 

The 2HotWives put the fun in fundamentals with the sexy self-help book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay. 

First, you will definitely want to mix up our specialty cocktail, the Peach Bourbon Sprizter, when listening to this episode’s Hot Tale! We know that you’ve been wanting all the details on the Wives’ recent house party and Ams gives a little taste of her play experience with a sexy friend from PCAP. 

Next, the Wives interview sexuality experts Jessica O’Reilly, PhD (Sex with Dr. Jess) and Marla Renee Stewart, MA (Sex Down South), authors of the Ultimate Guide to Seduction on Foreplay. 

Finally, the Wives assign sexy homework for the next episode, including full body orgasms and erogenous zone mapping.

About the Book:

Wouldn’t you like to tune into your own desires, become a better communicator, and be a more confident, passionate, and attentive lover?

Let this book take you on a journey of sexual exploration. As you explore your own learning and seduction styles (and your lover’s), you’ll discover and experiment with new and exciting ways to stimulate arousal and deepen intimacy: verbal, emotional, and digital seduction, foreplay, eroticizing daily actions, games, fantasy play, mindfulness, and more. Packed with practical exercises, techniques, and creative ideas, this inclusive guide is a surefire way for folks of all genders to master the art of seduction. 

Approach your lovers with the confidence and comfort you deserve! Whether you are adding to your repertoire for later or striving to please your current lover, you’ll discover thrilling new pathways to pleasure and intimacy.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories.  We may feature you on the show! 

Featured on this episode:

Desire RM

Bliss Cruise

Sex with Dr. Jess

Sex Down South

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

Jul 21, 2021
19. Anal Play Part 2 (aka: 2HotWives Do Butt Stuff)
54:19
Ams and Kat recap their experiences with Anal Play.   Let’s start by mixing up tonight’s cocktail, the Cherry Mule, while Kat let’s her dominatrix side run wild in this episode’s hot tale. 

Next Ams shares the ups and downs of fitting ass training into a suburban MILF’s busy schedule (Ams, did you wear a butt plug to book club???) but after a false start, anal sex leads to “a whole new world” of pleasure. 

Then Kat shares her experience of giving anal sex another try.  After a second attempt at anal sex leads to more discomfort than pleasure, Kat hits the sex toy shop and finds the perfect fit for anal play.    

And finally, the Wives share Just the Tips to help you and your partner have better anal sex right now!

Featured on this episode:

Shameless Sex

Desire RM

Bliss Cruise

CalExotics - Silicone Double Rider

Learn more about Anal Play:

https://www.them.us/story/guide-to-bottoming-part-2 

https://www.advocate.com/sexy-beast/2016/5/25/17-tips-happier-healthier-bottoming#media-gallery-media-4 

https://www.bvibe.com/anal-play-101/anal-play-for-women/

https://bawdybookworms.com/beginner-basics-anal-play/

Check out our events page: https://www.2hotwives.com/events 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

Jul 07, 2021
18. Anal Play (aka: The 2HotWives Do Butt Stuff)
01:06:01

Are you curious about anal play but too afraid to explore it?  Never fear, the 2HotWives are ready to dive into all of those questions about “butt stuff” that you were too scared to ask.  Let’s start by mixing up tonight’s cocktail, the the Basil Cherry Smash, while Ams shares her hot tale, a house party reboot (take two and three). 

Next the Wives shine some light on having sex where the sun don’t shine. They share their first experiences with anal play and what they hope to explore as part of their sexy homework.   

And finally, the Wives talk to April Lampert and Amy Baldwin from the Shameless Sex Podcast who share fantastic tips and tricks for anyone who wants to explore anal play. 

About our Sexy Mentors:

Amy Baldwin is a Sex and Relationship Coach trained in both the Somatica® and Hakomi Method, Certified Sex Educator, lead educator for Uberlube, as well as co-owner of a mother-daughter owned online pleasure boutique called Pure Pleasure Shop. Amy has a passion for promoting shame-free, pleasure-focused sexuality education while emphasizing the deep emotional and energetic forces behind great sex and intimate connection, offering everything from private sessions to how-to workshops to erotic empowerment retreats.

April Lampert has been educating people about sexual pleasure, health and wellness, and pleasure products at a global scale since 2008. She travels internationally as VP of Hot Octopuss, an innovative pleasure product company. April was voted Woman of the Year in the adult industry in 2016, and has dedicated her life to the business of sex and pleasure

Together, Amy and April combined forces to create the Shameless Sex Podcast, inspiring radical self-love, sexual empowerment, and shame-free intimacy. Shameless Sex is unabashed real talk about sexuality with a playful twist. Amy and April are not afraid to tell it like it is and invite you to join the SHAMELESS SEX REVOLUTION! To learn more listen to Shameless Sex Podcast on your favorite podcast app or visit shameless.com

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 

Featured on this episode:

Aneros prostate massager: https://www.purepleasureshop.com/products/aneros-mgx-trident?_pos=1&_sid=ced0590cf&_ss=r

Uberlube silicone lube: https://www.uberlube.com/

Fun Factory Bootie Plugs: https://www.purepleasureshop.com/search?q=fun%20factory%20bootie%20plug*

 

Learn more about Anal Play:

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips/a6574/buttplay-for-the-wary/

https://www.bvibe.com/anal-play-101/anal-play-for-women/

https://bawdybookworms.com/beginner-basics-anal-play/

 

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

Jun 16, 2021
17. BONUS: Girls Just Wanna Have Fun
01:04:23
In this final bonus episode before the Wives launch Season 2, we have a little PCAP RECAP, complete with Hot Tales and all the deets on their live seminar: Just the Tips!  Five Tips for a Woman to Turbocharge her pleasure on a playdate. 

First, Hot Tales, Podcast a Palooza edition: Ams and Mr. Ams make a new connection at the topless pool party, while Kat and Mr. Kat heat up the penthouse with some naughty Jenga. 

Next, the Wives share some of the highlights of the best lifestyle event of 2021: hear all about the topless pool parties, hilarious seminars by other content creators, and theme night parties.    

Finally, the Wives give insider tips to help any woman feel comfortable, confident and sexy on a playdate.  Learn how to get your head in the game by identifying breaks and accelerators, how to pack the perfect swinger bag, and use your mother fucking words, 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 

Featured on this episode:

Podcast A Palooza

Unique Condoms

Black N Kinky Podcast

Sapphic Swingers

Expansive Connections

Torrid Souls

Come As You Are

Ultimate Guide to Seduction and ForePlay

FCK Yes

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

2HotWives Hot List (Spotify)

Jun 02, 2021
16. BONUS: Don’t You Want Me, Baby?
50:39

So much for a break! In this second installment of bonus content, the Wives share Hot Tales, answer a listener question and interview the smart and sexy Mallory from Casual Swinger. 

First, the Wives each share a close-to-home Hot Tale that involves some impromptu restraints. 

Next, the Wives answer a listener question all about attraction. How old is too old for sexy play? How attractive are people in the lifestyle?  What are some ways to work with what you’ve got and up your flirt game?   

Finally, the Wives sit down with Mallory of Casual Swinger, and come away with a very big girl crush!

Apr 21, 2021
15. BONUS: Mommy’s Alright, Daddy’s Alright
45:14

The Wives record bonus content while taking a little time off in Mexico!  Hear about their (mostly) vanilla vacation to Cancun, answers to hot topic listener questions and drop-in interviews with the sexy Ladies of PCAP!

First, the Wives give a big shout out to Lauren from Room77 Podcast, who lined up an amazing villa and activities for their vacation.  Check out www.room77life.com for details on Lauren’s travel agent skills. 

Next, the Wives tackle a very tricky listener question: would you ever tell the kids about your open marriage? You might be surprised by their answers!

Finally, the Wives interview three content creators who are joining them at Podcast a Palooza: the incomparable Mrs. Jones from We Gotta Thing; the sunny, sexy Belle from Black & Kinky, and the hot-mess-in-the-best-possible-way Belle from Swinging Outside the Lines.  

Join us at Podcast Palooza this May!  Rooms are almost gone so book now

 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 

Featured on this episode:

Podcast A Palooza

Room77 Podcast

Bliss Cruise

Sapphic Swingers

We Gotta Thing

Black & Kinky

Swinging Outside the Lines

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter



Apr 07, 2021
14. Threesomes! (aka - Mythbusting the Manicorn)
01:18:42

It’s the episode you’ve all been waiting for. 

Threesomes are the most common sex fantasy of all time. 85% of men and 75% of women fantasize about threesomes but only about 18% of us have had them.  In this episode the Wives discuss MFM threesomes. Why? Because our goal is to help women maximize their pleasure in the bedroom and MFM is all about two sexy guys intent on making their female play partner feel amazing.  

To get in the mood, mix up tonight’s cocktail, the Pom Paloma (or...try the spicy habanero infused tequila version...if you dare), while Ams discusses a little afternoon delight with Mr. Kat.  Kat, on the other hand, goes reverse “Pretty Woman”, taking Mr. Ams on a shopping trip to improve his date wardrobe. 

Next the Wives discuss a topic near and dear to their...hearts, the MFM Threesome. Hear about the Round Robin Threesome, where the Wives and their hubbies take turns sitting out a play experience so that everyone gets their chance at a threesome.  

While it’s hard to beat the Round Robin Threesome, Kat and Ams take it up a notch with their sexy homework: finding a single guy for MFM play. 

Then the Wives give Just the Tip(s) on exploring the threesome fantasy, including communication with your partner, tips for single guys about their profiles, and some alternatives if you or your partner aren’t quite ready to jump on this bandwagon. 

And finally, we talk to Cate from Wanderlust Swingers Podcast about her MFM threesome experiences and advice. 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 

Featured on this episode:

Podcast A Palooza

Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

That Couple Next Door

Learn more about Threesomes: 

https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-have-a-threesome

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/feb/11/threesomes-men-women-sex-psychology

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a50969/what-its-really-like-to-have-a-threesome/

https://www.elitedaily.com/p/what-a-threesome-is-like-20-things-to-know-before-you-try-one-8439131 

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Mar 17, 2021
13. Self-Pleasure! (aka: You Deserve a Little Menage a Moi)
01:08:06

Women spend hundreds of dollars on potions and pills to feel and look better, when all we really need to do is masturbate and wear sunscreen!

We put the fun in fundamentals with a deep dive into the topic of female masturbation. Masturbation is a way to tap into your desires or get excited for some partnered play. Plus, it is the ultimate in self-care!  

First, you will definitely want to mix up our specialty cocktail, the Menage a Moi when listening to this episode’s Hot Tales! First, Kat and Mr. Kat are hosting a sexy playdate when an unwanted visitor shows up. Next, Ams reports back on her Impact Play homework with a super-hot night on the spanking bench. 

Next, the Wives discuss the benefits of masturbation...everything from improving partnered sex to clearing up your complexion!  Ams set a goal of masturbating without using toys and Kat decides to flick-the-bean in public.  

Finally, the Wives interview journalist and essayist Haley Swanson about the Six Benefits to Masturbation That Will Convince You to Do it More. 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 

Featured on this episode:

Podcast A Palooza

Front Porch Swingers

Haley Swanson

The Six Benefits of Masturbation

Wylde in Bed

Wylde Desires 

Hitachi Wand

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Mar 03, 2021
12. Triggers (aka: When Rough Sex Triggers Bad Feels)
43:01

We interrupt our regularly scheduled program to bring you a very special episode of...the 2HotWives.  

Sex can trigger all sorts of physical and emotional responses in the body.  Your heart rate might increase, skin might flush, toes might curl...and all of that can be mind-blowingly wonderful.  But sometimes sex, especially really intense sex, can bring up negative thoughts and emotions. Sex can even trigger memories of negative past events that can really through you for a loop. 

In Episode 11, the Wives set themselves a little homework assignment: set up an Impact Play experience. But when Kat creates a MFM scene and directs the guys to be a little rough, it brought up some strong negative emotions for her.  So, the Wives sit down and talk through the issue like best friends do.  And Kat shares how a past experience with domestic violence has shaped some of her attitudes toward sex and starts working through the process of exorcising those demons. 

We know this isn’t the typical upbeat, sexy topic that you expect to hear from the 2HotWives, but, you know what? Sex is complicated and shit happens, so we decided to go with honesty and authenticity over format (sorry Mr. Ams!) 

And, trust us, we will be back next episode with more fun, sexy shenanigans!

We used many resources to prepare for this episode, but found the 2010 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey to be exceptionally helpful. 

Everyone deserves a relationship free of abuse. If you or someone you love is in an abusive relationship, please seek out help.  Below is a list of resources:

Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233)

Join the Love (Helping Loved Ones Who May be in Abusive Relationships)

Safe Horizon: 800-621-HOPE (4673)

And, if you are the survivor of an abusive relationship, looking for resources to reclaim your sexuality, check out the following resources. 

 

Reclaiming Your Sexual Self After Trauma

 

Sexual Healing After Trauma

 

How to Enjoy Sex Again if You’ve Experience Sexual Assault

 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 

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Feb 17, 2021
11. Impact Play Part 1 (aka: This will only hurt a little bit)
58:47

There is a lot of fear and misconceptions about impact play: mainly, that it’s all about pain and humiliation. In reality, impact play isn’t one-size fits all. The Wives tackle this issue, top and bottom, discussing some impact play basics and interviewing Kink Expert and professional dominatrix Kimi Inch. 

First, does the idea of a little slap and tickle give you the chills? Well, start by mixing up this episode’s specialty cocktail, the Salted Caramel Coffee.  And because good impact play requires a warm up, the Wives get things started with some extra steamy Hot Tales: Kat finds out that a sexy shower experience with Mr. Ams leads to an idea for a genius invention (Shark Tank, here we come!) and Ams gushes over her special birthday surprise: a six-handed massage, followed up by an MFM threesome. 

Next, the Wives discuss some impact play basics: safe words, safe zones and warm up. And, for those of you wondering whether Ams and Kat ever play together, you can hear all about the first time Kat got spanked...by Ams! 

Finally, the Wives interview Kink Expert Kimi Inch. Kink expert Kimi Inch (aka Mistress Nina Payne) has been involved in the BDSM lifestyle as a professional Dominatrix since 2002. She was hired by New York’s top dungeons to develop training programs for their new employees. This eventually led her to bringing her kink knowledge to the mainstream by holding public workshops as a way to teach and empower curious individuals and couples on how to enhance their sex lives through kink and fantasy exploration. 

Alongside her classes, Kimi is trained at the Institute of Core Energetics and holds somatic therapy sessions which are focused around intimacy, relationship help, and sexual healing. 

With over 325,000 followers on her social media platforms - Kimi Inch has lectured at Princeton University, The Embodiment Conference, and The One World Tantra Festival. In addition to this, she has been featured in several media outlets like The Wall Street Journal, Cosmo magazine, and New York Post. Plus also has made numerous television appearances, having been featured on ABC’s 20/20, ABC’s Nightline, and The Oprah Winfrey Network’s Our America with Lisa Ling.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! please!

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Kimi Inch 

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Feb 03, 2021
10. All About Erotica! (aka: The Wives Turbo Charge Their Sex Drive and Level Up Their Fantasies Through Sexy Stories)
58:14

Read any good books lately??? If not, you are missing out!  Erotica is a great way to explore your fantasies and get into a sexy-mind set. 

You will definitely want to mix up our specialty cocktail, the Rosy Gin Fizz, when listening to this episode’s supercharged Hot Tales! First, Kat and Mr. Kat play with a new couple who are excited to test their soft-swap boundaries. Next, Ams shares a very special day in any Swinger-girl’s life...her first unicorn experience (...unicorns truly are magical). 

Next, the Wives discuss the many pleasures of reading and listening to erotica. Kat goes back to the roots of her sexual journey, where Mr. Kat would read her sexy stories to get into the mood and test the waters on new sexual experiences, including voyeurism, exhibitionism and, of course, swinging.  After all, it was through erotica that they found the words to discuss opening up their marriage. Ams discusses how erotica can help women switch gears and embrace a sex-mind set, even when sex might be the furthest thing from our minds. 

The Wives also deep dive into an awesome new discovery: Experiential Erotica through the Wylde in Bed Podcast.  Imagine the sexy love child of audio erotic fiction and guided meditation.  It’s a great tool for anyone who needs to turn off their busy brain before they can really get into the mood.  

Finally, the Wives interview erotica author Jaimee Bell about her debut book: All the Dirty Little Things. 

Whether you are  a bad ass swinger or just tapping in to your sexual potential, erotica is a great way to take sexual exploration to a new level. 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! please!

Featured on this episode:

Wylde in Bed

Wylde Desires

Jaimee Bell

All the Dirty Little Things

XConfessions

My Secret Garden

Hitachi Wand

Jan 20, 2021
9. Sex Vacation! (aka: the 2HotWives Heat Up St. Thomas)
58:26

Are you dreaming of a sexy vacation in 2021?  Take a tip from the 2HotWives and plan your own Sex Vacation! The Wives turned a cancelled trip to Desire All-Inclusive Resorts into the perfect opportunity to create their own sexy vacation: a relaxing, steamy, six-day sex romp in St. Thomas! 

Before you start the episode, don’t forget to mix up this episode’s specialty cocktail: the Pineapple Hottie. Then listen in while Kat shares a hot tale from Sex Day where she and Mr. Ams get busy in the pool room. Then Ams shares a tale from the last day of their Sex Vacation where she has sweet, cuddly morning sex with Mr. Ams followed by hot shower sex with Mr. Kat, all before her morning cup of coffee.  

Next, the Wives discuss how a vacation can take your sex life to a whole new level. When their foursome trip to Desire had to be cancelled due to COVID, the Wives made a spectacular pivot to create their own hot vacation, complete with a luxury villa, private massages and a chartered boat.  The result was six solid days of mind-blowing sex.     

The holidays are over and we are all dreaming of hot, sexy tropical vacations.  If 2020 put a monkey wrench in your vacation plans, now is the perfect time to plan your very own Sex Vacation.

Jan 06, 2021
8. FUCK 2020! (aka: how to still have amazing sex and stay connected during a global pandemic)
56:58

2020 wasn’t the year that any of us expected or wanted: we all watched our grand plans for vacations, family gatherings and sex parties get cancelled one by one. But even though large get-togethers and vacations may not be an option right now, that doesn’t mean that you can’t make connections and have amazing sex. And, let’s face it, we need real, authentic connections now more than ever.  

The Wives reflect back on their experiences from 2020 and how they focused on building closer, deeper, sexier connections, including with each other.  

 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and tell us all about your favorite erotica books and movies.  Ladies only, please!

Featured on this episode:

Sapphic Swingers

Swingfessions

Trapeze

Bliss Cruises

Luxury Lifestyle Charters

 

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Dec 16, 2020
7. House Party Wins and Fails (aka: the Accidental Orgy)
01:05:20

Are you curious about swinger House Parties? House parties are smallish private gatherings where sexy play time is welcomed, but not mandatory. A House Party may seem like the perfect, “Goldilocks” option between a couple’s date and a huge swinger-event, but navigating these smaller group, casual settings can be tricky.  In this episode, the Wives discuss their sexy experiences at House Parties and give their Just the Tips so you can show up and show off with confidence. 

First, mix up this episode’s specialty cocktail, the Naughty Hot Chocolate…the weather outside might be frightful, but with a cup of this holiday cheer, you and your partner will stay nice and warm between the sheets. Then, Kat dishes about her first experience at a sex club, while Ams keeps things sizzling at home with Mr. Ams in the notorious playroom. 

Next, Kat checks out the coolest pool party with a sexy cabana playroom. Ams’ chimes in with a less than positive experience, where the hosts of a house party aren’t great commuting party rules. So, the Wives decide to host their own house party...and the result is the Accidental Orgy.  Listen and learn about ways to avoid feeling pressured into play experiences that you aren’t down for. 

And finally, we have our first listener spotlight!  Our new friend Sam shares the key to success with any house party experience. 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and tell us all about your favorite erotica books and movies.  Ladies only, please!

Featured on this episode:

Vant Panels

Hitachi Wand

Swingfessions

Sapphic Swingers

Sex Bench

 

Looking for advice on hosting a house party? Check out:  https://swingershelp.com/hosting-swinger-parties/ 

 

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Dec 02, 2020
6. Role Play the Two Hot Wives Way
47:34

The 2HotWives take sexy dress up to a whole new level with some good old-fashioned role play! If you want to mix things up with your partner and explore some of your craziest sexual fantasies in a low-risk, low-stakes way, there is nothing better than setting up a role play. 

First, mix up this episode’s specialty cocktail, the Pumpkin Pie Smash…it’s so good, the wives got a wee bit tipsy during their recording, so be warned! Then, Kat takes advantage of an empty house to indulge in a little self-loving (how do you spell Sybian anyway?) and Ams uses “Just the Tips” from Episode 5 for a sexy, seamless playdate with an experienced couple (Hint: thigh-high tights are the MUST-HAVE accessory for any fall play date). 

Next, the wives report back on the results of their racy homework assignment: role play! Ams gets caught red handed with contraband at the airport and Kat is a naughty, naughty nurse. Is there such a thing as too much preparation?  Do you need the perfect costume to have the perfect experience? Tune in to find out!

Finally, we hear from our sexy listeners!  Our new friend Maria shares her experience with a hot gentleman stranger…blindfolds and torturing little touches and kisses?  Don’t mind if we do! 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and tell us all about your sexy vacation experience.  Ladies only, please!

Featured on this episode:

Sybian

Swinging Down Under

Looking for sexy role play ideas? Check out these additional resources:

https://bestlifeonline.com/role-play-ideas/

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a12013129/role-play-ideas/

https://www.yourtango.com/2014207426/sex-love-valentines-day-30-role-playing-ideas-couples

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Nov 18, 2020
5. Sexy Dress Up Girls
53:23

Do you want to have better sex? Keep it playful, and a fantastic way to keep sex playful is by improving your “dress up” game.  Whether you want to spice things up with your partner, look amazing (and be comfortable!) on a double date, or slay at a sexy lifestyle event, the 2 Hot Wives share tips and tricks on how to dress sexy and confidently.

First, mix up this episode’s specialty cocktail, the Poison Apple (perfect for Fall!).  Then things get steamy when Ams newbie whispers and Kat has steamy fun in the hot tub!

Next, the 2HotWives dive into the details of dress-up.  Kats shares advice on dressing sexy and confident every day and dishes on her favorite date night outfits.  The Wives discuss last year’s off-the-hook sex-positive Halloween party (hint: you can never show too much ass!) and then Ams dares Kat to set up a sexy role play experience: naughty school girl?  Dominatrix?  One night stand?  We are all dying to find out!

Finally, the Wives chat with their friend, Noelle who plays a sexy dress up game with her husband. 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and tell us all about your sexy role play experience.  Ladies only, please!

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Game of Lifestyle

 

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Nov 04, 2020
4. 2HotWives Get to Play
44:29

It’s play time! Ams and Kat share intimate details about their recent separate play encounters and go back in time to dish about their early experiences with couples play dates. They also share the perspectives of some of their closest friends in open marriages.  You’ll learn everything you need to know to get ready for a couples play date, from grooming tips to setting boundaries. Learn how to establish and follow the rules...and when to throw those rules out the window and have some fucking fun!

Oct 21, 2020
3. 2HotWives Get Buzzed with Sex Toys
44:58

The 2HotWives head to their local adult boutique for some sexy retail therapy where they purchase the latest in clitoral stimulators.  Every hot wife needs at least one of these in her bedside table. 

Oct 05, 2020
2. 2HotWives Hit the Dating Scene
55:23

The 2HotWives know how to start a swinging relationship off on the right foot. In this episode, Ams & Kat dish about their early experiences in the lifestyle dating scene and share killer first date advice so you can avoid newbie mistakes. You only get one chance to make a first impression!

Oct 05, 2020
1. 2HotWives Use Their Words
01:06:07
No matter how gorgeous, sexy and confident a woman is, most of us have a tough time asking for what we want in bed.  For those of us in long term, committed relationships, it is easy to rely on subtle cues to get our points across, like an ass wiggle or a little moan.  But our partners are not mind-readers, and if we want to explore new things in the bedroom, like a new sex toy, role play, restraints or even another partner, communication is key! So the Wives are on a mission to help women find ways to figure out what their deepest sexual desires and make them come true through honest, direct discussions with their partners.
Oct 04, 2020
Meet the 2HotWives (Introduction)
03:35

We want to share our adventures in the exciting world of unconventional sex. We are both deeply committed wives and mothers.  We are also homeowners, business owners, SUV owners, pet owners.. Your typical suburbanite MILFS.  But go behind closed doors, you'll discover we are both in open marriages.

Aug 10, 2020