Change My Relationship

By Karla Downing

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Change My Relationship offers practical solutions based on biblical truths for all difficult relationships from Karla Downing, Marriage & Family Therapist.

Episode Date
Abusive Relationships: Are You Trauma Bonded?
Sep 08, 2025
Setting Boundaries: From Chaos to Clarity
Sep 05, 2025
Detaching from Accusations
Sep 03, 2025
What Not to Say to Depressed or Anxious People
Aug 28, 2025
Attachment Theory: What Is Secure Attachment?
Aug 25, 2025
Refusing to Submit to Authority
Aug 21, 2025
Should You Explain Your Boundary?
Aug 18, 2025
Low Contact Vs No Contact
Aug 14, 2025
Owning the Problem
Aug 11, 2025
Change Dysfunctional Family Rules to Healthy Rules
Aug 07, 2025
How to Respond to Gaslighting
Aug 04, 2025
Ask Yourself: "Why Am I Talking?"
Jul 31, 2025
When You Disagree With How Your Grandchild Is Parented
Jul 28, 2025
Dysfunctional Relationships: Change-Back Moves When You Set Boundaries
Jul 24, 2025
Codependent Slips
Jul 21, 2025
Toxic Relationships: What Is DARVO?
Jul 17, 2025
Navigating Old Age Estranged from Your Children
Jul 14, 2025
Relationship Safety Ultimately Comes Down to You
Jul 10, 2025
Interview: I Lost My Daughter to Cancer
Jul 07, 2025
How to Stop Manipulating People
Jul 03, 2025
Why Do You Manipulate People?
Jun 30, 2025
What Is the Goal of Conflict Resolution?
Jun 26, 2025
Interview: I Forgave the Unforgivable
Jun 23, 2025
Zero Tolerance for Boundary Violations
Jun 19, 2025
Is It Okay to Want a Good Life as a Christian?
Jun 16, 2025
Don't JADE: Justify, Argue, Defend or Explain
Jun 12, 2025
Interview: How to Restore Your Sense of Self in a Neurodiverse Marriage
Jun 09, 2025
The Crazy Cycle of Abusive Relationships
Jun 05, 2025
Why Therapists Should Not Do Couples Therapy with an Abuser and the Victim Together
Jun 02, 2025
Christian Codependency: When It's You or Me
May 29, 2025
Interview: How You Lose Your Self in a Neurodiverse Marriage
May 26, 2025
Therapy Goals for the Abuser
May 22, 2025
Change Your Thoughts to Change Your Life
May 19, 2025
Setting Boundaries: Know the Difference Between a Burden and a Load
May 15, 2025
Interview: How I Found Life While Grieving the Loss of My Husband
May 12, 2025
How to Detach from Addicts and Alcoholics
May 08, 2025
How to Detach When You Fear Abandonment
May 05, 2025
Detaching from Enablers
May 01, 2025
Detaching: I'm Okay When You're Not Okay
Apr 28, 2025
Setting Boundaries: Determine Who Is Responsible
Apr 24, 2025
Interview: There is Purpose In My Pain and Yours
Apr 21, 2025
Why Do You Believe Their Lies?
Apr 17, 2025
Are You Forcing a Solution or Setting a Boundary?
Apr 10, 2025
Abigail Did Not Submit to Her Husband Nabal
Apr 07, 2025
Be Curious About the Other Person
Apr 03, 2025
Be Curious About Yourself
Mar 31, 2025
Can You Lose God's Forgiveness for Unforgiveness?
Mar 27, 2025
Our Son's Eight-Year Journey Through Heroin Addiction
Mar 24, 2025
What Is Double Abuse®?
Mar 20, 2025
Married to a Sex Addict
Mar 19, 2025
Twelve Step Recovery: Working Steps One, Two and Three
Mar 17, 2025
Reparative Moves to Reconnect After Conflict
Mar 13, 2025
Navigating His Bipolar Disorder in Our Marriage Part 2
Mar 10, 2025
Dysfunctional Relationship Dynamics: The Karpman Triangle
Mar 06, 2025
Interview: Navigating His Bipolar Disorder in Our Marriage Part 1
Mar 03, 2025
Are You Gaslighting Yourself?
Feb 27, 2025
An Expectation Is the Beginning of a Resentment
Feb 24, 2025
Bargaining in Relationships
Feb 20, 2025
Therapy Goals for the Abuse Victim
Feb 18, 2025
Confronting a Toxic vs a Healthy Person
Feb 13, 2025
Making You Irrelevant Is Emotional Manipulation
Feb 10, 2025
Manipulation Using Money
Feb 06, 2025
Silence Is a Boundary
Feb 03, 2025
Living Congruently
Jan 30, 2025
Setting Boundaries With a Toxic vs a Healthy Person
Jan 27, 2025
Manipulative Hooks Used by Emotional Manipulators
Jan 24, 2025
How to Live with a Painful Reality
Jan 21, 2025
Dysfunctional Family Dynamics: The Family Scapegoat
Jan 16, 2025
Who Is Responsible for Your Triggers?
Jan 13, 2025
Character Traits Toxic People Exploit
Jan 09, 2025
Is It Realistic Hope or Future Faking?
Jan 06, 2025
Boundary Phrases
Jan 02, 2025
Relationship Rights Affirmations
Dec 30, 2024
Making a Decision to Take Care of Yourself
Dec 27, 2024
The Gift of Hope on Christmas
Dec 23, 2024
Detachment for the Holidays
Dec 19, 2024
Self-Care for Painful Holidays
Dec 16, 2024
Christian Toxic Misbeliefs About Emotions
Dec 12, 2024
Dysfunctional Relationship Dynamics: Not Choosing Is Choosing
Dec 09, 2024
Why Do Dysfunctional Toxic People Act That Way?
Dec 05, 2024
I Divorced My Emotionally and Spiritually Abusive Husband
Dec 02, 2024
Functional Dysfunctional Holidays
Nov 29, 2024
Dysfunctional Family Holiday Dynamics
Nov 25, 2024
Empowered By Choice in Dysfunctional Relationships
Nov 21, 2024
Reactive Abuse Is Not Abuse
Nov 18, 2024
How You Feel With a Toxic vs a Healthy Person
Nov 14, 2024
My Husband Weaponized Scripture to Emotionally and Spiritually Abuse Me
Nov 11, 2024
How Not to Be Double-Minded When Making Decisions as a Christian
Nov 07, 2024
Detaching in Relationships: Observe to Learn
Nov 04, 2024
Boundary Check-Up: Love Does No Harm (Romans 13:10)
Oct 31, 2024
His Name Is Stephen--My Healing Journey After Abortion
Oct 28, 2024
Christian Boundaries with Chronically Negative People
Oct 24, 2024
How Should Christians Deal with Financial Adversity?
Oct 21, 2024
How to Be a Good Mother-In-Law to Your Daughter-in-Law
Oct 17, 2024
Navigating Strong Differences of Opinion
Oct 14, 2024
Should You Explain or Not Explain?
Oct 11, 2024
I Overcame the Shame of Four Divorces
Oct 07, 2024
Spiritual Bypassing Examples
Oct 03, 2024
Dysfunctional Dynamics: Dealing with Stonewalling
Sep 30, 2024
When Actions Don't Match Promises: What Do You Do?
Sep 26, 2024