It’s here, The season 2 finale! Let’s end it on a great note! I brought Shay back to discuss something that we’ve been trying to get better at- Conflict resolution. It’s something we all need help in & also something that is unique to every couple. I also give a life update and this time it’s all great news to report! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of your support, love & encouragement throughout this season. Oh, also for your patience and understanding! Because I was definitely all over the place throughout the season, so I appreciate you! I can’t wait to hear what you think about this episode & I can’t wait to see you all back for Season 3!

Topics:

00:01:31:13 Intro and Life update

00:13:58:10 Episode with Shay

00:29:26:06 Conflict resolution example

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/kXsIjE_w7FA

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/?hl=en

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.ph

Merch: https://justindavis.life/

Books:

“US”: https://www.amazon.com/Us-Getting-Build-Loving-Relationship/dp/0593233670/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1673305928&sr=8-3

"I will teach you to be rich": https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GNXPP4P?linkCode=ssc&tag=onamzjust0f74-20&creativeASIN=B07GNXPP4P&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.GA1UT0J965Q&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ons_d_asin

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Happy New Year! I hope you all had an amazing holiday season & are ready for your 2023! I’m definitely ready. However, I’ve had past New Years where I start off really slow. Maybe it’s a carry over from the year before. Or maybe I’m just overwhelmed and “feel like doing it later.” Either way, I wanted this year to start off with a little self improvement/motivation. I couldn’t think of a better guest to start the year off with, than Mrs. Lauren Morrison! She’s a career & business performance coach and someone I look up to. So sit back, get your notes ready and let’s kick off the new year right!

Topics:

-Feeling stuck & where it stems from.

-Limiting beliefs vs what it would feel like without them.

-Respecting the old you & embracing the new you.

-Going over the best book I've read so far, "US" by Terry Real

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/J48KZeia854

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Lauren’s Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/maketheshiftwithlauren/

Consultation-Mentorship service with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

Buy Merch Here: https://justindavis.life

Buy the “US” book on amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Us-Getting-Build-Loving-Relationship/dp/0593233670/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1673305928&sr=8-3

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The day has finally come (well the day before actually lol) where our Red Table Talk episode is out! I wanted to do an episode where Shay & I discuss all the behind the scenes details about our once in a lifetime experience of being on the show. Also, just a quick note, the intro is longer than usual, as I have a lot to catch you all up on! I hope you all enjoy this episode & I can’t wait to hear your thoughts on the episode when it airs ON FACEBOOK tomorrow at 9am PST!

If you haven't already, please leave a rating and review on Apple! Thank you in advance!

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/JUPYYQMkf1c

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

Consultation-Mentorship service with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

Buy Merch Here: https://justindavis.life

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Something new, something different! I know how it is to be busy and miss out on things that I'd normally have as part of my routine. So I'm sure you can relate to that, which is why I created a little recap of some relationship gems that I didn't want you to miss from Season 2. Also, I intro this episode with some amazing life updates that I really wanted to share with you! Enjoy this episode and let me know what your favorite gem was!

If you haven't already, please leave a rating and review on Apple! Thank you in advance!

Topics:

00:12:50:19 Ep. 12- How does I guy get ready for a relationship? Dating online. Staying in a relationship for potential

00:19:22:18 Ep. 19- A great model to understand if you’re in a reward state or a threat state.

00:23:01:15 Ep. 11- Why do Men get married? Is it timing or true Love? The ego can't live in Love.

00:32:17:19 Ep. 5- Stop taking accountability for things you’re not responsible for. Say YES to you and NO to them.

00:38:39:12 Ep. 20- Reassurance in your relationship. “Love Box” game concept that helped us in our marriage.

00:42:56:04 Ep. 7- Letting your partner in.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/wck6Fv4tOmY

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

Lauren's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisislaurenelizabeth/

Duke’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/duke/

Omar’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/omar.bolden/

Jalon’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/just.jalon/

Keilani’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mskeilanixo/

Book a Consultation with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Something new this week, that’s never been done before on the show! I sit down with one of my incredible consultations clients, Myka! This beautiful human being inside & out blessed the show with some of her personal stories and experiences that I know so many of you can relate to. How many of you on on your path of new growth and evolution, still see the old version of you reappearing? It’s so frustrating right?! Well we unpack that issue and so much more, while providing plenty of gems and tools for you to hold onto! Enjoy this beautiful conversation and let me know your thoughts.

If you haven't already, please leave a rating and review on Apple! Thank you in advance!

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/C51cvTU0NNA

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Myka's Instagram: @ momentswithmyka

Book a Consultation with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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How many of you get anxious or nervous when it comes to having those hard/uncomfortable conversations in your relationship? You know the ones where you’ve played them out 10 different ways in your head and you’re terrified to bring it up? Well, my Wife and I can definitely relate! In this weeks episode, we share an example of something we recently had to talk about and it was not easy!

If you haven't already, please leave a rating and review on Apple! Thank you in advance!

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/r7Z5cydzncs

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

Book a Consultation with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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We're back this week to wrap up this talk about resentment in relationships. In this part 2, we bring on Lauren Morrison who opens up about not only her past resentment towards her husband, but also her husband's resentment towards her! Also, Lauren gives a beautiful explanation for what she considers, "Love Languages" part 2, but this one is called "S.C.A.R.F." So sit back, relax and enjoy this episode.

If you haven't already, please leave a rating and review on Apple! Thank you in advance!

Topics:

00:00:00:00 Intro

00:25:55:04 “S.C.A.R.F.” Analogy. You won’t want to miss this!

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/93hg-S2w0Zs

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

Lauren's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisislaurenelizabeth/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Shay’s back! And this week, we go back to our traditional style of doing episodes together, aka the ones you all loved so much! This weeks topic is one that has been weighing heavy in our marriage of the last few years. We recently unpacked it more through therapy and discovered that it was deeper than we thought. So, what do we do? We have an episode on it haha. This is part 1 of 2 and the 2nd part is with a guest who is very familiar with this topic. We bring on Lauren Morrison in Part 2 and you won’t want to miss that one either! But for now, sit back, relax and enjoy the Davis’s air out more personal’s about our marriage haha!

If you haven't already, please leave a rating and review on Apple! Thank you in advance!

Topics:

00:00:00:00 Intro

00:03:05:02 ***Merch Announcement***

00:05:12:00 Resenting your partner topic

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/L2tB_Z9nfV8

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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We're back beautiful people! This time, with a guest. My friend Lee blessed the show with his vulnerability and honesty. You all know by now, what my mission is and that is to normalize vulnerability. Lee and I go over our experiences in that realm, as well as impostersyndrome and so much more! It feels good to be back, thank you all for your patience!

Please leave a review and rating on Apple!

Episode Time Stamps:

00:00:00:00 Intro

00:06:49:00 Topics for the episode

00:23:28:13 Break in the episode where I give my thoughts so far.

This episode is also available on YouTube: https://youtu.be/46co9IFxZGw

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Lee’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leejuggurnauth/

Consultation-Mentorship service with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

When was the last time you checked in on yourself? No seriously, like really, honestly checked in on yourself? Well in today’s episode, we’ll be doing just that. Plus, it’s the half way point in the year & I want to know where you’re at with your goals. I know it’s summertime & you’re outside, but when was the last time you checked in on that same energy you had at the beginning of the year? It’s good to be back with everyone! I hope you enjoy this episode!

Please leave a review and rating on Apple!

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/owvnFFQCK_s

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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We're back after a 2 week break! I kept this one light and fun with my Wife, by playing our version of the GQ Couples Quiz game. Thanks for your patience, all your continued support throughout this season and thank you for making this the best online community out here! Love you all!

Topics:

A lot of questions to see how well we really know each other!

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/_O4554icfn4

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Talk about leading by example! You all know by now, how much I preach Vulnerability is brave & necessary... Well, I am every bit of that word in this episode! I decided to read my latest journal entry for all to hear. If this isn't vulnerable & brave, I give up lol. Why share such personal information? Because I feel like I'm at the point in my life where I've had enough experiences and knowledge to be able to make the necessary choices to receive all that I desire. Sounds easy right? It's anything but that! However, I feel like I finally know why this struggle is so real for me. I've been leading with FEAR instead of Love this entire time! This and so much more in this loaded episode! Thank you for taking the time and holding space for me, as I work through this thing called life.

Topics:

00:06:33 Sharing my Personal journal entry with you

Leading with Fear with Shay

22:00:00 Leading with FEAR with my Daughter

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/HNiH6iWl_Cs

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

I offer a Consultation-Mentorship service: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Ask and you shall receive! So many of you have asked to hear Shay's Ayahuasca experience, so here you go! She opens up about a childhood trauma experience that came up in her ceremony, that she thought she had blocked out after all these years. How she was able to go into multiple dimensions. Seeing herself from the outside in. And what our special moment during the ceremony was like for her. Oh, I almost forgot, she talks about how she saw FLYING SNAKES lol! I hope you all enjoy this one!

Topics:

00:00:00 Intro

00:07:16:09 Shay’s experience

00:12:48:15 Flying Snakes!

00:19:24:13 Shay's childhood trauma that she thought she blocked out

00:28:19:09 Our special moment from our ceremony from Shay’s perspective

00:38:51:00 Shay’s final takeaways

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/t_yz4mMO88o

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Whether it’s dating for potential, staying in a relationship in hopes your partner reaches their potential, or not knowing what to do if you’re dealing with either, this episode is for you! Keilani and I go over all things pre, during & post dating. How to get yourself prepared to give yourself the best chances of a successful relationship. How to not only spot Red Flags, but also not be distracted from them. What we know now vs back then and so much more! This one is loaded and I can’t wait to hear your thoughts on this conversation!

Episode Time Stamps:

00:00:00 Intro

00:22:04:13 Keilani’s experience with dating for potential 

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/SQ6muYbZuFk

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Keilani’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mskeilanixo/

I offer a Consultation-Mentorship service with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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When it comes to Men finally deciding to get married, the question I see the most from Women is, “Does he truly loves me or is it just the right time for him?” Well, you’re about to find out in this episode with my special guests Duke, Omar and Jalon from the Nice & Neat Podcast. We also go over other topics such as: Is the cliche saying, “Right Girl-Wrong Time” a real thing? How we as Men have had to unlearn some things when it comes to relationships. The Male ego and how it doesn’t fit in a relationship. Finances in relationships aka Financial Intimacy and so much more! This weeks episode is LOADED and I can’t wait for you to unpack it all!

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Episode Time Stamps:

00:00:00 Intro

00:06:49:09 “Men don’t marry the woman they love or loved the most, they marry the woman who’s around when they’re ready to marry”

00:11:50:23 Right girl- wrong time

00:34:21:02 Having the wrong people around you

00:34:48:23 When life forced us to unlearn something & specifically in a relationship

00:46:40:13 The Male ego in a relationship

01:09:15:05 Finances in relationships aka Financial Intimacy

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ktpnDAWtt7U

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Duke’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/duke/

Omar’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/omar.bolden/

Jalon’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/just.jalon/

Nice & Neat YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/NiceNeatThePodcast/featured

Consultation-Mentorship service with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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We're all guilty of it. We all say we shouldn't, but we do. And in today's society, it's getting worse! But we really shouldn't judge a book by the cover. You never know what someone is going through and we need to work on getting to know the person first before passing judgement. This weeks episode is about all of the above plus what it looks, sounds and feels like when we say, "we're doing the work!" And I'm talking about the not-so-pretty part of "the work" by the way. My guest this week is just as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside and I can't wait for you all to watch this amazing conversation! Let me know your thoughts in a review below if you're listening on Apple.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5GBWGl-ChPY

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Tyrie’s instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tyrierudolph/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Well, we're back! And this week is all about my 1st ever trip or journey with Plant Medicine. Ayahuasca is something I've been wanting to do for a few years now and I finally got the opportunity to do it. The timing was right for me in my life and I'm thankful for this wild experience. Ugh, the things I do while I'm on this healing/self-love/internal work journey that I'm on SMH! I hope you enjoy this story time moment with me!

If you're listening to this on Apple Podcast, please leave a review and a rating! Thank you in advance!

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/bMUyhccbNiw

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Have you been diagnosed with a Mental Health condition? Have you found yourself struggling to accept a new version of you? Do you find it difficult to gather the courage to confront an issue with your family partner or friends? Have you felt all alone when faced with a problem and don't know how to ask for help? Well, if you answered Yes to any of the above, than this episode is for you! My guest this week, Dailyn Santana, helps us all understand how to handle the above mentioned dilemmas most of us face in our lives. This was such a great learning moment for me as I can relate to some but not all of what was discussed. I love learning, unlearning and learning again, so this was as equally helpful for me as I'm sure it will be for you.

Episode Time Stamps:

00:00:25 Intro, Quote of the day + Intentions

00:04:27 Meet Dailyn Santana

00:06:24 Being diagnosed with Bipolar 1

00:15:07 The difference between Shame & Guilt

00:28:00 When Dailyn told her boyfriend about her Bipolar Disorder

00:31:11 Dailyn’s advice to anyone feeling alone with their mental health disorder

00:42:44 Conquering social anxiety

00:48:27 The story of how Dailyn & I met

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/dm8ZTFzmnyw

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Dailyn’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dailynsantana/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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3rd times a charm... Shay is back again! This week we talk about something that I know WE can all relate to! We go over our own individual battle with it and how we manage to work through it. Here's a hint, it's a hell of a lot of accountability! I hope this episodes helps those in need and that you enjoy the conversation.

Topics:

When we struggled with complacency individually

When we struggled with complacency in our relationship

24:47:19 The most vulnerable I’ve ever been

Tips/tools that can help with this issue

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/fgGExC0-GqY

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

Referenced articles about Complacency in Love:

https://practicalintimacy.com/avoid-complacency-in-a-relationship/

https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2018/02/scientists-find-a-few-surprises-in-their-study-of-love/

https://www.bustle.com/p/20-unexpected-activities-that-help-couples-from-becoming-complacent-in-their-relationship-8665688

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Shay's Back... again! This week we keep it light by playing a question card game, that goes over our individual lives, relationship and more! Thanks to my friend and former "Who Can Relate?" guest, Danielle Robay for gifting us with this card game "Question Everything" which you can purchase here:

https://prettysmartshop.com

Be sure to check out Danielle's podcast "Pretty Smart" available on all Podcast platforms as well.

Also, don't forget to like, subscribe & turn on your notifications so you don't miss out on an episode! Thank you to everyone who has already!

Topics:

00:00:00 Intro

00:09:49:17 What parts of yourself do you feel most proud of?

00:11:32:13 What is the smartest decision you’ve ever made?

00:12:51:11 One thing you really dislike that most other people love?

00:14:23:11 Choose a photo on your IG that best describes you and why?

00:17:27:07 Which temptation do you try the hardest to resist?

00:19:08:02 What do you want to be known for?

00:20:43:13 What did you need help with the most?

00:24:58:00 Do plants thrive or die in your care?

00:25:42:00 What lesson has taken you the longest to learn?

00:26:43:00 One thing you are trying to or need to let go of?

00:28:53:00 What’s the best thing you’ve ever quit?

00:29:26:00 Do you fall in love easily & what is your Love Language?

00:30:56:00 What would younger you, not believe about your life today?

00:31:44:00 Which personality trait has gotten you most in trouble?

00:32:38:00 Who has left the largest impact in your life?

00:34:28:00 What is the coolest/most unique thing you’ve learned from your job?

00:35:53:00 What’s the most challenging part of what you do for a living?

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ENsyY13DpMw

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Who Can Relate Community... your girl is back! Shay returns to the show to talk about a heavily requested topic: How is Shay... Shay! We also go over some of our breakthroughs as a couple, what's worked for us recently as well as the past. This one was really fun to do so I hope you enjoy it and find it helpful!

If you’re listening to this on Apple podcast, feel free to leave a review on this episode, as well as a rating. I’d love to hear from you!

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Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/z84FzSqsAyc

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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The last installment of my Capetown, South Africa trip concludes with, who I consider the Mayor of the Mother City! Loyd is a dear friend who reminds me so much of myself. He's generous, kind, thoughtful & an amazing tour guide! We go over some really great topics during our sit down and I can't wait to hear what you think of them!

Topics:

Survivors Guilt

Knowing what I know now vs what I thought back then

Losing a Mother at the age of 16

Is the entrepreneur ready for love?

Recognizing your trauma vs projecting it onto others

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/mYT1roJSwGQ

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Lloyd’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/djloyd/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Beautiful People! Thank you for tuning in & showing love! This episode took me back down memory lane, as I share our experience during our South Africa trip from October last year. I have on 2 amazing Men who blessed the show with their humility, passion & aspirations. We talk about a lot in this one & I can't wait to hear what you think of this conversation! Let me know in the comments!

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If you're listening on Apple Podcast, please leave a review and a rating! It would mean the world to me! I love reading all the beautiful reviews.

Topics:

00:00:00 Intro

00:09:50:09 Ombre AD Read

00:12:31:19 Introducing today’s guests & their stories

00:32:21:16 Capetown Townships

00:43:20:07 What is needed to help their community

00:53:52:06 Round of Rapid Fire Questions

01:04:35:17 Ways to help and support

01:07:24:08 Photos and Videos of our trip to South Africa

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/jR6-jHBuvB4

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Ayanda’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ayandacuba/

https://www.instagram.com/abcdconcepts/

https://www.abcd-concepts.co.za

https://www.instagram.com/thembisaratanga/

https://www.backabuddy.co.za/champion/project/tembisa-ratanga

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Growing up without a Father has had such an impact on my life, as I’m sure it has for anyone who can relate. However, in this episode, you’ll here conversations between my Father, brother & the audience as we share some amazing stories throughout all of our lives. Adding to that, with my 2 brothers flying out to LA, this marks the 2nd time ever the 4 of us were together. It was an emotionally & mentally draining week, but in such a healing way. I hope you enjoy this episode and find it helpful!

Episode Time Stamps:

00:00:00 Intro

00:02:59:10 Better Help

00:29:22 Audience Voice Submissions

How has that affected you in your life?

What/if at all do you still yearn from him?

How is the relationship today?

Men: If you have children, how has not having a relationship with your father affected how you show up as a father yourself?

Women: How has the lack of relationship with your father, affected your relationship with Men?

00:42:00 Recording of my Father giving his insights

1:00:40 My answers to the voice submission questions

This episode is also available on YouTube: https://youtu.be/wKYDManbc4M

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

My Brothers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/1babakolade/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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And just like that, WE'RE BACK for another season! I'm so excited and so grateful. I missed you all! I wanted to kick things off with a bang *insert title of episode here* and so we're doing just that! How many of you can relate to having an issue with your partner on having friends of the opposite sex? I know we all can, so I expect to see a lot of comments below from you all. It's good to be back y'all!

Also, don't forget to leave a rating & review if you're listening on Apple Podcast! Thank you to everyone who has already!

Topics:

"I trust you, I just don’t trust them”

“Female vs Male perspective”

“Define ‘Friend’”

“Boundaries/deal breakers”

This episode is also available on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/E-uC2DRy0qs

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Chris’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chrismorrison33/

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WELCOME BACK! After 4 + months, I'm finally back. Long overdue I know, but it was needed! I'm so excited for another season and to hear how everyone in the community is doing! So enjoy this video for now and I'll see y'all tomorrow for Episode 1 of Season 2!

-Love & Light,

Yours Truly

This is also available on YouTube if you'd rather watch the Vibes and Aesthetics:

https://youtu.be/vl1mYsMisEY

After going through all the comments from the Unconditional Love episode, we decided to come on and go over a few things now that we (really I) had time to process. I realized a lot about myself and about Shay in that episode & I felt like I owed it to her and to you, to come on and take accountability for my actions. Also, after a few weeks of debating on whether or not I should take a break after Season 1, I decided to do just that. I talk about why and what led me to this decision and what's to come for Season 2!

THANK YOU ALL for showing all the love & support during this incredible journey! I'm so grateful & thankful for all that came to fruition, for getting to know and connecting with so many of you & for building this beautiful community! As much as I'm looking forward to some time off, I can't wait to be back with you for Season 2!

Love & Light!

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/m7nF7dLpkOg

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Do you believe in Unconditional Love? Do you have any experience with it? In today's Season 1 Finale, my Wife & I sit down with Shan Boody & Jared Brady to share our differences + perspectives, particularly in the world of Romantic Unconditional Love. We also cover love to our children and parents. I CAN'T WAIT TO HEAR YOUR THOUGHTS on this one!!! If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too! Thank you to everyone who's left one already!

Topics:

Defining “Unconditional Love”

What is our personal definition?

Do we believe in it?

Is it healthy?

Wholehearted Love.

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/rsVIJKSItno

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Everyone meet my oldest brother, Kolade (or as I know him as Marquise before he changed his name.) I call him the Black Matthew McConaughey because to me, he’s the most interesting man in the world, in the best possible way. We have the same Dad-different Moms and we have completely different upbringings. In fact, we do a lot of things differently. One being, my brother practices Polygony whereas I am Monogamous. He lives in Atlanta, has 4 children & we’re 12 years apart. As much as we are different, he’s been a mentor for me in many ways & come to find out, we're very much alike. I can’t wait for you all to digest this incredible episode. I’ve had my brother in mind for a conversation for a while now, so I’m happy it’s all come together. If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too! Thank you to everyone who's left one already!

Episode Time Stamps:

The story of our relationship with our Father

00:28:04 My brother is polygynous. Married to one woman & engaged to another

00:52:32 Rapid Fire Questions

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How many of you have been asked, “Why aren’t you married?” And for those of you who raising your hand, how many of you are tired of it?! Well, Laticia is back to talk about it and we covered not only the marriage topic, but also why you shouldn’t fall in love in the first 2 years of a relationship. Why so many people are not prepared for marriage. Should we even believe in marriage anymore? Why do we want to be married? Top 10 reasons for divorce and more! This one was fun to do and I know how you all love Laticia. If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too! Thank you if you've already left one!

Episode Time Stamps:

00:10:32 Crazy Divorce stat

00:20:27 Do you even believe in marriage anymore?

00:28:33 Top 10 reasons for divorce

00:31:27 Lack of preparation for marriage

00:37:04 Should you get married in your 20’s?

00:41:21 “Never fall in love within the first 2 years of a relationship"

00:47:25 Why do you want to be married?

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/-zonT8RKJZg

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We all have dreams and desires, but have we ever sat down and thought about what we must give up in order to receive both? In this weeks episode, I had the privilege of asking Lauren Morrison all of the above. Her entire family recently moved from Toronto, Canada to "LaLa Land" aka Los Angeles, to try something new, exciting & to finally answer the "What if?!" If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too!

Topics:

Being hesitant to move & her fears.

What did the change cost her and her family?

Starting over.

Finding you "YOU" time during chaos.

Working with family- the pros & cons.

Living in your truth and being unapologetic about it.

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/-zdt7M6D1KA

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In this week's episode, we kept it light compared to last week lol! Shay and I go through 18 questions from the card game “The Skin Deep.” Have any of you ever played the game before? Our answers are funny, heartfelt and some were even new news to us. We gave a lot of new insight on our timeline, relationship and how we got to where we are. In fact, there are a lot of answers to so many of your messages I’ve received inquiring about our relationship. So, enjoy this episode & If you're listening to this on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

00:07:48 What can we do to improve our intimacy?

00:11:08 If I lost my memory, what’s the 1st thing you would tell me about us?

00:14:11 What’s the most unexpected thing about being with me?

00:17:22 What do I do that makes you feel safe in our relationship?

00:18:54 What’s an experience you want us to share together this year?

00:21:03 What have you healed in me?

00:22:37 What’s the unexpected gift we’ve received from a mistake we’ve made?

00:26:42 What’s the pain in me, you wish you could heal?

00:31:43 What about me makes you feel like home?

00:35:59 What is it that keeps us going strong?

00:38:22 If you had to write a rule book for us, what would the #1 rule be?

00:39:59 What do you think our current challenge is trying to teach us?

00:44:14 What do we think our relationship teaches others?

00:47:02 When did you feel most alone in our relationship & what did you learn from it?

00:50:20 When was the last time you considered ending our relationship? And why didn’t you?

00:58:19 Describe how you feel when you’re with me?

01:01:47 Why do you think I’m in your life?

01:04:39 Where are we going?

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/DJJ3nZeoTNY

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Nobody's perfect right? A conversation that I didn't know my family and I needed to have, unfolds in this weeks episode. We get emotional but also started the healing & understanding process. I'm so proud of Shay and Adriana for being so strong and vulnerable in this beautiful exchange of an episode. They did most of the talking, by answering some questions submitted by the audience (in the time stamps below) and we also had some laughs too! I hope you enjoy this intimate conversation and I hope it helps someone who will be able to relate. If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

00:03:14 What were your 1st impressions of each other?

00:05:09 Adriana not being healed from past girlfriends

00:11:03 Was Shay scared that I may end things if she didn’t get along with Adriana?

00:11:21 Was Adriana ever afraid that Shay was taking me away from her?

00:12:34 The difficulties Shay has had as a stepparent

00:14:23 The moment Adriana was able to hold space for Shay in her life

00:24:44 The trauma I caused my daughter to have and the pain she felt

00:49:49 Shay gave Adriana a ring at our wedding to symbolize the union of the 3 of us

00:53:03 What’s something that Shay & Adriana haven’t shared with each other?

00:56:37 I share something that Shay & Adriana may not know about how I feel

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/1Mm7tqgxmjw

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In this weeks episode of Weekly Check-Ins, Tony and I talk about:

-How to maximize my potential and become the best version of myself.

-How to be a better partner in relationships.

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/xBuS9U7o1TM

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Part 2 is here! Rome & I break down the book: The Way of the Superior Man. We cover the following:

Choose the women who chooses you. You will often want more than one woman. Your excellent track record is meaningless to her. She needs your conscious to match her energy. Ejaculation should be converted or consciously chosen. Take into account the primary asymmetry. Ejaculate up the spine. And so much more! If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too!

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Pt. 1 of Clarity for Men & Women, here's the link:

https://youtu.be/y7PMNuKI_Ew

Episode Time Stamps:

00:03:56 “Choose the women who chooses you"

00:09:54 “You will often want more than one woman”

00:18:23 “Your excellent track record is meaningless to her”

00:21:26 “You are always searching for freedom”

00:29:00 “She needs your conscious to match her energy”

00:34:37 “Turn your lust into gifts"

00:37:32 “Never allow your desires to become suppressed or depolarized”

00:44:24 “Ejaculation should be converted or consciously chosen”

00:52:23 “Ejaculate up the spine”

01:03:24 “Take into account the primary asymmetry

01:16:11 “Insist on practice and growth”

01:21:45 How has this booked helped Rome as a single superior man?

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/f7ZcWGMo9nc

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Rome’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iromealot/

Rome’s Podcasts: “Real Boss Talk”

https://www.patreon.com/comedytraphouse

Dormtainment info: https://linktr.ee/dormtainment

Shady Side Up: https://www.shadysideup.com

Consultation-Mentorship service with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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In this weeks episode, I really tried to figure out where the hell the time went! How is my daughter a teenager & where did she get all this intellectual-coolness? As much as I’m looking forward to the memories of right now, I’m trying to stay in the moment as much as possible. The only goal from today’s episode, was to get to know each other more than we already do. 5 questions from each of us, that made us reflect, appreciate & laugh… there definitely was a lot of laughter! I hope you enjoy this beautiful exchange from the most important person in my life. I’m happy to share this memory with all of you! If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too! Thank you to everyone who's left one already!

Episode Time Stamps:

00:08:24:03 “What’s your biggest fear?"

00:08:58:08 “What’s something you’ve gotten better at?"

00:09:37:16 “What is the scariest moment of your life?"

00:13:31:04 "What are your feelings & state of mind of being my Father?"

00:22:37:12 “What’s your favorite thing in the world as a 13 year old?”

00:25:35:20 What are Adriana’s fears?

00:27:34:11 What is Adriana most proud of?

00:31:04:05 If Adriana could do anything without failing, what would it be?

00:34:04:00 What’s something you know you need to do, but you’re scared to do it?

00:39:54:14 What is your ultimate goal for our relationship?

00:45:13 Bonus Content: More Dad jokes!

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This weeks segment of “Weekly Check-Ins” is about that feeling when you have so much you want to change, but don’t know where to start. If you’re in a long-term relationship and wondering if you’re still enough for your partner, but are you even enough for you? We also go over insecurities, not feeling worthy of what you desire & lastly, how divorce is NOT a failure. This weeks caller is Kirsi and she was incredibly brave for showing up for herself and for everyone who can relate to her story! If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

00:01:43:16 Today’s Caller: Feeling all over the place. Feeling not enough/worthy/inadequate

00:07:40:16 Story of my daughters idea of failure

00:13:05:01 Benefits of repairing and down side of repeating

00:19:54:05 Why is my partner waiting so long to marry me?

00:28:47:15 Solutions for not feeling worthy, enough or unable to show up for yourself

00:35:00:07 Divorce is NOT a failure

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/b_tOjvVGZOw

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Welcome back Sarah! This weeks episode is all about prioritizing what’s best for you. Knowing when to let something go. Not having to beg someone to give you what you deserve. And not seeking validation or approval from other people. Sarah is all about women empowerment & definitely laid out some gems in this one! If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too!

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The very first edition of a new segment added to the show! In this series, I talk one on one with people from the Who Can Relate? community! The audience gets to talk about whatever they'd like for 30 + min. In this weeks episode, I talk to two women who have very relatable stories.

Caller # 1: Celeste started from the bottom and made it out of some of the worst situations! Homeless in the streets of Compton at the age of 14 years old, dealt with health issues that lead to over 50 blood transfusions, went to India to find herself, then got pregnant and is now thriving in life. Wow, what a resume!

Caller #2: Ella realizes that she no longer wants to be worrying about whether or not she’s enough, likable or interesting to a man while dating. She’s been more concerned about whether or not she’s the right fit for them, rather than if that person is the right fit for HER. We identify where this could be stemming from and how to work on applying some solutions. A revelation occurs to say the least!

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts on this new show segment in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

00:02:54 Caller #1

00:34:12 Caller #2

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Celeste’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/celeste9867/

Ella’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/e.toyryla/

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This weeks episode is absolutely loaded with all things taking care of yourself from the inside-out. From solutions to gut health, migraines, that afternoon crash, menstrual cramps & breath-work that’s as affective as 10 years of therapy. This is one of the most informational episodes i’ve ever done and I know each and everyone of you will be able to take something away! I can’t wait to hear your thoughts and comments on this one!

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

00:01:27 Ryan’s background

00:05:36 Holistic approach to medicine

00:10:38 Gut Issues

00:11:58 Menstrual cramps & Hormones

00:13:46 Migraine causes & Cures

00:21:01 THE GREATEST mid-day crash solution EVER! *You have to watch this*

00:29:30 Trouble sleeping? Here are some solutions

00:37:23 “Beyond Nutrition” nutrition/cook book Ryan created

00:39:52 Getting in touch with Ryan

00:42:53 Cold showers + Breathwork

00:48:35 A breathwork technique that’s almost better than therapy

00:54:32 Round of Rapid Fire Questions

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/uZWPf7r0alI

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Ryan’s Website: https://www.ryankennedyhealth.com

Supplement links: https://www.amazon.com/shop/ryanckennedy?listId=ORU2WMB6UNBU

Ryan’s Cookbook “Beyond Nutrition”: https://www.ryankennedyhealth.com/beyond-nutrition/

The Ryan Kennedy Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-ryan-kennedy-show/id1478675425

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In this weeks episode, my guest Helen & I dive deep within. We discuss patterns (good & bad) recognizing triggers, shadow work, the benefits of solitude, reiki healing & how jealousy can be a good thing. This one is loaded and one of my favorites so far! I can’t wait to hear your thoughts and feedback! If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too!

Episode Topics:

3:30 Helen’s podcast: The Lifted Podcast

6:40 Certified Behavior Change Specialist

9:50 Creating Confidence Course

12:44 Visual Meditation practice

14:30 The benefits of solitude

19:48 “EFT” Effective aka “Tapping”

22:28 Reiki Healing (Universal Life Force energy)

31:50 My wild story about my experience with a Reiki session

38:45 Shadow work

47:25 Tapping into your intuition

49:15 Recognizing your triggers

52:25 Jealousy can be a good thing

54:00 How to know if you’ve outgrown your relationship

1:13:37 Behind the scenes time-lapse set up

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/yN6rt0XPtQE

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Helen’s Website: https://www.helendenham.com

The Lifted Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lifted-podcast/id1467811167?i=1000524771695

"Consultation-Mentorship with JD" link: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Your girl is back! Shay & I discuss a topic that has been heavily requested in, long distance relationships. We also go over growing pains when we moved in together. Plus, we answer some questions asked by you, the audience! This was a lot of fun and I know you will like it! If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

3:21 Our long distance Relationship experience

7:45 Deciding who should move & when

14:20 Who’s going to be the one to move & when?

18:11 Shay admits I moved in too quickly

21:20 Shay’s internal struggles with me moving

31:30 Once I moved in, things changed

41:15 The only thing we didn’t like about Long Distance

51:07 Q&A from the audience

56:15 Tips for Marriage/our wedding experience + photos

1:10:12 Outtakes/Bloopers

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/TyQC9ZOJHQM

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If you haven’t listen to Pt. 1 of this, I highly suggest you do that first before listening to this episode haha. A lot of things won’t make sense without the original context. Continued from Pt. 1, How many of us have childhood trauma that still needs healing with & from our parents? Well this weeks episode, is just that! It’s all about healing and understanding from my Mom. We sat down and had an open & honest conversation about her upbringing, which led to my upbringing and everything in between! Tears were shed, voices were heard and the healing was present. I hope you all enjoy this vulnerable-raw conversation, that I’ve been wanting to have for years.

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too!

Episode Time stamps:

Keeping it a surprise this week!

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How many of us have childhood trauma that still needs healing with & from our parents? Well this weeks episode, is just that! It’s all about healing and understanding from my Mom. We sat down and had an open & honest conversation about her upbringing, which led to my upbringing and everything in between! Tears were shed, voices were heard and the healing was present. I hope you all enjoy this vulnerable-raw conversation, that I’ve been wanting to have for years.

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too!

Episode Time stamps:

Keeping it a surprise this week!

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This weeks episode, is the only episode you’ll ever need when it comes to understanding Men & Women, dating, masculine & feminine energy and the ultimate guide to understanding yourself! Rome and I sit down to unpack the book, “The Way of the Superior Man” which has completely shifted our mindset on the overall polarity of Men & Women and how to understand both on a much deeper level. You would think this book was written for Women, but in fact, it was written for Men to understand not only themselves, but especially women. I call it pure gold & I know you will too! Thank me later because I can’t wait to hear your thoughts on this impactful episode! If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you would leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

2:55 The book “The Way of the Superior Man"

5:36 Voice notes from Women on how the book has helped in their lives

8:02 Book Contents/Chapters

9:25 Chapter 1: “Stop hoping for a completion of anything in life.”

15:30 Chapter 5: “Always hold to your deepest realization”

17:36 Living in your truth

19:03 Chapter 7: "Your purpose must come before your relationship"

22:00 Your purpose must come before your relationship

26:33 The difference between Quanity time & Quality time

29:48 Chapter 12: “Be willing to change everything in your life” The difference between passion & purpose

36:25 Chapter 15” Stop hoping for your woman to get easier”

38:55 Inner vows we’ve made from ages 4-7

41:05 When Women complain, understand this

44:25 Part 2 “Dealing with Women”

45:16 Chapter 17 “Praise Her”

50:11 The Masculine grows by challenge but the Feminine grows by praise

53:20 Chapter 20 “Don’t suggest that a Woman fix her own emotional problem”

58:31 Chapter 22: “Don’t force the feminine to make decisions”

1:04:38 Part 3-Chapter 23: “Your attraction to the Feminine is inevitable"

1:12:17 Where to find Rome & his podcasts

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/y7PMNuKI_Ew

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Rome’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iromealot/

Boss Talk Podcasts: https://www.instagram.com/realbosstalk/

Shady Side Up Sunglasses: https://www.instagram.com/theshadysideup/

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In this weeks episode, I bring on one of my best friends, Jared Brady! We talk about how our wives changed our lives, the masculine vs feminine and so much more! This was such a beautiful-candid conversation (with no outline haha) and I know you will love it! Enjoy! If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

4:45 The birth of Enjoy The Podcast

10:52 How much our wives have changed our lives

14:05 Certain people bring out certain sides in you

16:35 How has Jared’s relationship helped him as a man?

19:30 Shay helped me have a better relationship with my daughter

25:25 Maculine vs Femine

32:00 We don’t see Men with a lot of feminine energy winning

37:28 The idea that Women can be too masculine

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/8VkNxxiwtvI

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Jared’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enjoyjaredbrady/

Enjoy The Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/enjoy-the-podcast/id1526698004

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When all else fails, bet on yourself! A motto that Danielle Robay lives by. I had the honor and privelege of sitting down with the TV host & personality, podcast host and entrepreneur, to discuss some of the process and journey she had to take to get her to where she is today in life. We go over some amazing topics such as: The “Click” for women when they turn 30. Danielle’s other motto in life “Never abandon myself.” What a Chilvary Diet is and how to apply it when dating. And how to make sure your values are aligning with what you’re looking for. This is by far the most impactful episode under 45 minutes you’ll ever hear! Trust me! If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

1:31 Danielle Background

4:47 Danielle’s Podcast “Pretty Smart"

6:37 The “Click” for Women at the age of 30

9:12 Working in the entertainment business

12:02 Never abandoned yourself

16:40 Niceness comes from obligation, Kindness comes from choice

17:29 Societal pressures for Women

20:22 Chivalry Diet

25:11 When your values don’t align with what you’re looking for

27:40 Rapid fire questions

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/OqG6awqfy8c

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Danielle’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daniellerobay/

Danielle’s Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/prettysmart/id1550883345

Liz Plank- Chivalry Diet: https://youtu.be/kqTIkW_aE3c

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By now, it should come as no surprise to hear me preach about vulnerability. But how does one start the process of becoming vulnerable and being more transparent? Kevin & I sit down to discuss exactly that. We go over our individual timelines as to how & when the process started for us. Kevin is a therapist as well, so we discussed what it’s like to feel societal pressures from the ages of 25-35, which is primarily his clientele. This episode is loaded with great takeaways and I’m excited for you all to watch/listen!

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

1:05 Kevin’s background

3:55 Why he wanted to become a therapist

6:24 “insight 360” test

7:50 Going to therapy between the ages of 25-35

11:35 Asian Hate

14:00 Societal pressure of getting married & have kids

21:16 What comes to mind when you hear the word “Vulnerability?"

27:56 When was the shift for me with being vulnerable

31:55 What it’s going to take for me to give my Wife 100% vulnerability/transparency

43:00 Rapid fire questions

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/h5yorUbZNiQ

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Kevin’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kevinyu2/

"Cognitive Behavioral Therapy made simple" book:

https://www.amazon.com/Cognitive-Behavioral-Therapy-Made-Simple/dp/1939754852/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=cognitive+behavioral+therapy+made+simple&qid=1619302315&sr=8-1

Kevin’s website: https://www.kevinyutherapy.com

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What does the modern day entrepreneurial woman look like these days? Well, Elena Hansen is the epitome of just that. She’s the creator and founder of SWIM Social, a social media agency based in LA with a global reach. She started the company at the age of 26, and was ahead of her time. Another fun fact about the agency, all of the employees are women! Elena is at the top of her game when it comes to being CEO, but she’s learned the hard way, in order to run a successful business, you have to be on top of your game internally too. As they say, "you can’t pour from an empty cup" right? We go over some of the following topics: Healthy sacrifices, going from surviving to thriving, redefining the word “Success” and how we wish we started sooner with what we know now. This one was so much fun to be a part of. I hope you enjoy it as much as we did!

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

1:10 Elena’s background

1:40 SWIM Social

3:30 Modern day entrepreneur

9:29 Healthy sacrifices

19:04 Rough time in Elena’s life

21:18 Going from surviving to thriving

27:40 Redefining the word “Success"

37:36 Advice for success & fulfillment

42:25 Regretting not starting sooner

47:04 Acknowledgment moment for Elena

50:55 Rapid fire questions

59:20 Bonus Content

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/aX4pQbajeEk

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Elena’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elena/

Swim Social Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swimsocial/

SWIM website: http://www.swimsocial.com

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My Wife is back! This week, we’re talking about how we survived our toxic relationship. Let me be more specific, how she was able to help me (the toxic one) go from toxic to healthy. We go over the following topics: I was the toxic one & how I came to that realization. We detailed all of my toxic traits. How Shay thought about leaving the relationship a few times. What the transition was like going from toxic to healthy. How Shay was able to be patient and help with my bad patterns and habits. How I was able to change. This one is loaded and full of open, honest and full transparency dialog! I hope you all enjoy it!

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

3:12 I was the toxic one in our relationship

7:00 We were opposite in many ways

16:09 The toxic to healthy transition experience for Shay?

20:38 My toxic traits

28:36 Keeping score in the relationship

32:00 A realization moment for me

39:40 Shay talks about what it feels like to be with a toxic person

55:37 Did Shay ever doubt if we were going to work?

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/6hhPu25I52E

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

DM us on Instagram for Consultation Inquiry

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Mental health and suicide conversations are some of the most difficult ones to have. I’ve been very careful in thinking about how to have an episode on them & who to have on as a guest. Sam Webb has been an advocate for both Mental Health and Suicide Prevention ever since he lost his best friend to suicide in 2018. He co-founded a foundation called “LIVIN” and has been very outspoken on several platforms to help bring awareness to these tough conversations. They are necessary, essential & can possibly save lives. As you’ll hear in our episode, it’s no longer acceptable to take an “I’m fine” response from a friend or family member, when asking how they’re doing. We need to dive deeper and provide help in any kind of way. This episode is very touching, powerful & hopefully helpful to those who need to hear it. Thank you for taking the time to listen and PLEASE share this with anyone who may be in need.

Episode Time Stamps:

2:35 Sam’s Background

4:15 The story of how everything started

10:39 How “LIVIN” was born

14:45 Smiling Depression: Masking Emotions

21:16 Breaking the burden of Masculinity

28:49 It ain’t weak to speak

30:15 Every 60 seconds someone commits suicide

32:34 Asking for help

36:55 Love is stronger than Pride

42:50 Don’t say Yes to them, if it means saying No to you

48:11 Rapid Fire Questions

57:21 Bonus Content: Sam’s TEDx Talk

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/9IQolv3tBXY

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Sam’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samwebb/

Episode about asking for help: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/it-aint-weak-to-speak-with-sam-webb/id1501123894?i=1000488971476

Livin Website: https://livin.org

More about Sam: https://linktr.ee/samwebb

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In this weeks episode, you’ll get to be a fly on the wall with two Men on a path of redefining the idea of modern day Masculinity. I had the honor and pleasure of sitting down with Branden Collinsworth. We dive into what it’s like to be completely vulnerable & transparent as a man on a mission! This is one of my favorite episodes I’ve ever done. You guys are in for something magical. Branden is a High School dropout, turned successful entrepreneur, turned internationally renowned performance coach, turned US ambassador of yoga chosen by the Indian government, turned co-creator of the first comprehensive yoga program on the Nike Training Club app and Nike's first yoga-inspired performance apparel, turned global director for The Tropical Pathology and Infectious Disease Association, turned creator of Warrior Retreats, turned one of the Founding Experts for Mined. Aka, Branden is the modern day, Most Interesting Man in the World! His passion and purpose in life is very simple, Love. I can’t wait to hear from you guys about this one. If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

1:11 Branded’s Background

4:51 “When the work works”

8:11 When the work DOESN’T work

10:17 Relationship work

17:56 Maintaining the version of you, that made your partner fall for you in the 1st place

24:33 A beautiful Life Metaphor

33:24 Branden’s Life motto- “Love is my mission"

39:26 My strange relationship with the word “LOVE"

44:54 Finding the partner who can love you at your worst

53:10 What vulnerability can do for Men

57:28 Masculine needs the Feminine more than we know

59:29 Rapid Fire Questions

1:13:55 Bonus Content

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/QxvwrzCZTuU

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Branded’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandencollinsworth/

Do You Mind: https://www.instagram.com/doyoumined/

Warrior Retreats: https://www.instagram.com/warriorretreats/

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For those of you who have been a part of the Who Can Relate? community, it comes as no surprise to hear me talk about Therapy and Attachment Styles. So in this weeks episode, I bring on a licensed Therapist to talk about both! We go over all attachment styles, including what ours are, why therapy is necessary and how it's completely changed my life for the better. This is one of my favorite episodes I've ever done and I can't wait to hear your thoughts from everyone! If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

4:15 Kiaundra’s Background

6:20 Benefits of therapy

9:30 Finding a therapist

12:48 Don’t wait until it’s too late

16:20 A communication hack my wife & I use

18:00 The Bible of Relationship book: Attached

21:20 Most Women are Anxious. Most Men are Avoidant

1:14:30 Rapid Fire Questions

1:25:20 Bonus Content

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/zVog4LxYhG0

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Kiaundra’s Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/kiaundrajackson

Website: www.KiaundraJackson.com

Books: https://kwcouplestherapy.com/myshop/

Resources: www.KiaundraJackson.com/links

Therapy Resources:

www.TherapyforBlackGirls.com

www.TherapyforBlackMen.org

www.PsychologyToday.com

www.CliniciansofColor.com

www.OpenPathCollective.org

Attachment Book Recap on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tRNpGsvzOlw

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I had the honor, privilege and pleasure of sitting down with the one and only Shan Boody! We talk about Self-Sabotaging in life AND relationships. We share personal stories about our experiences and how we overcame them in large part due to finding the right partner. Some more topics that were covered: Can you work on completing yourself while in a relationship? Shan explains her marriage equation of 1+1=3. And… Would You Marry You? This one is loaded! I was taking notes during and after the episode haha. If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

6:40 My history of Self-Sabotaging

8:33 You have to change more than just your mind

12:40 Don't have boogers on your personality

19:14 Why it’s so difficult to take that hard look in the mirror

22:37 1+1=3 Shan & her husbands marriage equation

25:15 The balance between Selflessness & Self-Worth

29:06 When you’ve done the work & get ready to date again

32:51 Would You marry You?

34:03 When you meet your partner but don’t know where they fit into your life.

41:02 My discovery of when I would Self-Sabotage

45:00 Difference between Self-Sabotaging & just not wanting the person

50:43 Final Takeaway

55:27 Rapid Fire Questions

1:06:49 Bonus Content

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/yT03NDaxpSQ

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shan’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanboody/?hl=en

Shan’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/shannontboodram

Informational Source for Self-Sabotaging definitions: verywellmind.com

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We’ve all been there or are currently there now, on the “Rediscovery” road! Aka, the process to become the “New Me- Who dis?” Who Can Relate? I had the pleasure of sitting down with Miss Gabi Lopez to discuss that exact experience that she just so happens to be going through currently. We both share our journeys and bring so much insight to why this time is or will be, one of the best times in your life! If you’ve had failed relationship after failed relationship, this episode will bring clarity and answers to your issues and questions- for BOTH Men & Women! I love episodes like this, where we peel back the layers and really get to the core issues, all while bringing solution based nuances to the table! If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

2:00 Gabi’s background

2:45 What caused your rediscover?

6:57 Only You can complete You.

11:30 When you make arguing the norm.

17:02 But why now? Why the change now and not back when?

24:24 What happens when you take the toxic you into new relationships?

32:30 What does rediscovery look like for you?

34:22 Taking an oath of Celibacy.

37:40 Certain Men/Women for certain things.

41:30 Self worth & what it means to you?

46:05 Final Takeaway

50:14 Rapid Fire Questions

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/3vZVq01mOFs

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Gabi’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabrielalopezla/

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DISCLAIMER: This episode will not fully translate on the audio side of things. I highly recommend watching this on my YouTube channel. Link: https://youtu.be/1G2uQH7rhhg

“JD, what’s that stone thing you use for your face?” In this weeks episode, it’s all about self-care & self-love! We’ve been going at it with all the self-improvement stuff for the last 5 months, so I figured it was time to give back to ourselves with some TLC! My good friend Sophie goes over some of the best facial hacks you can do for anti-aging, under eye bags, headaches, etc! We talk about the many benefits of Gua Stones and why you should get your hands on some ASAP! Enjoy the spa day coming your way. If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

1:42 Sophie’s background with facial work

3:45 The difference between Gua Stone & Roller

5:50 Roller demonstration

8:45 Gua Sha Stone demonstration

11:30 The neck is so important!

13:05 Let’s get started!

22:23 Under the chin is a game changer

25:07 Puffiness & dark circles lin the eyes

32:28 Under the eyes

37:00 Forehead wrinkles go away!

41:36 Helps if you grind your teeth at night

44:30 Which stones to buy?

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/1G2uQH7rhhg

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Sophie’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/consciouslivingbysophie/

Products:

https://livinglibations.com

CJB Beauty website for stones & rollers: https://beautysecretsus.com

More Gua Sha & Face massage tutorials:

https://youtu.be/4K7zpTQkdqs

https://youtu.be/Wec3UvRz_G0

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Ok, so last week we talked about Dating Under 30. So it was only right that this week we talk about Dating in your 30’s and what better guest to have on than my beautiful Wife! We met in our 30’s and thank God we did, otherwise I’m not too sure we’d be married, in large part due to me not being ready until that “click” appeared once I turned 30. In ths weeks episode, we talk about the Pro’s of dating in your 30’s, dating women in their 30’s who want a family, how there are certain women for certain things, why you should date knowing your worth & not someone who was just better than your ex, and why you should still date in your 20’s, but not with the intention of marriage. I can’t wait to hear from you guys about this one! You can leave a review below to let me know your thoughts!

Episode Time Stamps:

2:53 Pro’s of dating in your 30’s

5:35 Not truly knowing who you are in your 20’s

6:20 Still date in your 20’s, just manage your expectations

9:05 Date knowing your worth, not someone who’s better than your Ex

13:11 Did we know who we were in our 20’s?

15:02 Stop fixating on finding our soulmate, instead find yourself.

16:16 Knowing your Love Languages

20:10 Is there a “click” for Women when turning 30?

22:12 Something for Men that Women can’t do anything about.

24:47 Dating for women in their 30’s who want a family

28:11 Women- Stop being afraid to ask for what you want.

29:57 The Men who are afraid to have the break-up conversation

36:25 There are certain Women & Men for certain things

43:24 Rapid Fire Questions

1:00:00***Bonus Content***

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/z68Uz2MatSo

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

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In this weeks episode, my good friend Aygemang and I talk more in depth about why Men under 30 just aren’t ready for a life partner. We go over why Men take so long to “figure things out.” We share our experiences in our 20’s. Why knowing & loving who you are should always come first. And lastly, to the girl/guy dating under 30 saying, “but my partner is different” we try to get you to see our perspective. This episode was about what Aygemang & I personally feel strongly about & it may come across as the hard truth, but it’s still the truth. I hope you guys find this helpful & insightful, but nonetheless, please let me know what you think (good or bad) in the comments below! Don't forget to subscribe, like & turn on your notifications so you don't miss out on an episode!

Episode Time Stamps:

5:45 Aygemang’s background

7:13 Why it takes Men so long to come correct

10:20 Emotionally immature

12:45 Men under 30 “ready for marriage” are rare/non-existent

16:00 Men under 30 checklist

19:47 Message for the Women dating Men under 30

22:37 Why Men have a hard time expressing feelings/emotions

27:10 Why some messages resonate differently due to timing.

37:10 Aygemang’s company “ATLEXO” the first luxury fitness kit

41:45 Knowing who you are takes time

43:15 Dating under 30, odds are you’ll grow apart.

46:24 “But my boyfriend is different” -Random girl

53:45 Rapid Fire Questions

1:06:28 ***Bonus Content*** that YOU don't want to miss!

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/-tmiCadyd5s

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Aygemang’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aygemang/

Atlexo Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/atlexo/

Atlexo website: https://atlexo.com

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In this weeks episode, Rome and I sit down to talk about the Ins & Outs of what dating with intentions really means. When you’ve done the work and finally start to date again. Why Men under 30 should not be considering a long-term relationship. How you can have multiple soulmates. How Men think in the short term, whereas Women think in the long term. And finally, why you should change your relationship with the word “relationship.” This episode is LOADED from start to finish & something tells me, this will be an all-time favorite episode!

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

9:30 Do the internal work while you’re single

12:42 The difference between: A mess & a beautiful mess

16:00 Be comfortable being uncomfortable

18:00 “I had to change my relationship with the word relationship"

23:35 How to start the process of the “Intentional Man”

26:37 When you finally start to date again

32:30 “I don’t chase women anymore”

34:09 Choose the man or woman, who chooses you!

35:33 Men think in the short term-Women think in the long term

39:58 Love doesn’t keep a relationship together, Growth does.

42:42 Men aren’t worth a damn until they’re 30

46:45 You can have multiple soulmates

48:55 What does an intentional man look like?

51:40 What does an intentional man look for?

54:39 Rapid Fire Questions

WATCH ON YOUTUBE:

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Rome’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iromealot/

Rome’s Podcasts: “Real Boss Talk”

https://www.patreon.com/comedytraphouse

Dormtainment info: https://linktr.ee/dormtainment

Shady Side Up: https://www.shadysideup.com

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In this weeks episode, I sit down with James Silvas, as he lets us in on something we all need- a Mindset Coach! We talk about how mastering your mindset, can be the ultimate advantage to becoming your best self. How breath work can solve most of your internal problems. What happens when you get hurt in relationships, or feel like you’re not a priority to your partner? Lastly, what happens when a Mindset Coach has a bad moment! This episode is loaded with a lot of value, so get your notes out & enjoy! If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

1:43 James’s background

4:55 What is a Mindset Coach?

7:30 Being in a positive delusion

11:05 When a Mindset Coach has a down moment

13:54 What does "Meta Meta” mean?

18:25 “Breath” book

21:00 Getting hurt in relationships

27:16 Feeling like your partner doesn’t prioritize you

35:55 Final Takeaways

43:24 Rapid Fire Questions

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/1hU75mwKbvg

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

James’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/james_silvas/

"Be that 1%" Podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/be-that-1-podcast/id1330345445?i=1000505286475

https://www.jamessilvas.com

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Home Series on the couch is back! This time, we’re talking: How we fight, communicate & the failures we’ve had along the way. A friendly reminder to all, it’s not IF it’s WHEN you’re going to fight with your partner. However, if we can learn how each other fights, how they need/want to be communicated with and ultimately find the lesson in every moment of conflict, we have a better chance of having a healthy relationship. Shay & I let you in on what works for us and how we figured out what didn’t work for us… the hard way haha! You guys are going to have a lot of laughs in this one, enjoy! If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

8:47 Our Triggers & Traumas

13:27 Find the root of the problem, not just what’s on the surface.

20:05 Learn how your partner fights

22:38 How we fight

28:00 How Therapy helped us communicate better

34:29 What if your partner doesn’t want to go to therapy?

39:06 Then vs Now

42:24 Why Men resort to Anger as their choice of emotion

47:54 **BONUS CONTENT** We answer 2 questions from the audience

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/AJOy4OAHm7Y

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

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Finally, Let's talk about Books! We're kicking off this series with all things self-improvement. I talk about the top books that have changed my life & my mindset. From quick easy reads, to corner stone pillars I implement every single day, to something that I re-read every year, you're getting it all! If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

1:19 Why I started reading

3:13 Book #1: “The Maxwell Daily Reader” by John C. Maxwell

5:12 Book #2: “The Magic” by Rhonda Byrne

7:52 Book #3: “The Four Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz

11:19 Book #4: “You Are A Badass” by Jen Sincero

17:05 Book #5: “Limitless” by Jim Kwik

21:21 How I read-"Active reading”

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/LsVablDfTOM

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Links to purchase books:

#1 “The Maxwell Daily Reader” by John C. Maxwell

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1400203392/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

#2 “The Magic” by Rhonda Byrne

https://www.amazon.com/Magic-Secret-Rhonda-Byrne/dp/1451673442/ref=sr_1_1?crid=14PA30JJP05P7&dchild=1&keywords=the+magic+rhonda+byrne+book&qid=1610990328&s=books&sprefix=the+magic+Rhonda%2Cstripbooks%2C198&sr=1-1

#3 “The Four Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz

https://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424319/ref=sxts_sxwds-bia-wc-rsf1_0?crid=30U3CP5KMJEUJ&cv_ct_cx=the+four+agreements&dchild=1&keywords=the+four+agreements&pd_rd_i=1878424319&pd_rd_r=2552d99f-3e80-4d80-b494-d87f8d833677&pd_rd_w=Lh9lV&pd_rd_wg=s4RCP&pf_rd_p=e0f994a8-a359-40a9-8917-dadca71c7184&pf_rd_r=WD12Z5QT45M4SMNTGK60&psc=1&qid=1610990356&s=books&sprefix=the+four+agree%2Cstripbooks%2C211&sr=1-1-526ea17f-3f73-4b50-8cd8-6acff948fa5a

#4 “You Are A Badass” by Jen Sincero

https://www.amazon.com/Badass-Making-Money-Books-Collection/dp/9123735600/ref=sr_1_8?crid=2Y1ZZJKAF6B4C&dchild=1&keywords=you+are+a+badass&qid=1610990380&s=books&sprefix=you+are+a+%2Cstripbooks%2C224&sr=1-8

#5 “Limitless” by Jim Kwik

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1401958230/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

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I’m back with my sis, Miss Laticia Rolle & we’re talking about when you think you've found your soulmate, only to realize, they’re not it. This one is LOADED!!! Here’s a list of things we go over: How do you know if this is or isn't your partner for life? How do you separate Mind from Heart? Living in reality vs potential. The difference between challenges and healthy challenges. How to know if your feelings are temporary or permanent. I’m so excited for you guys to get this episode in! We’re starting off 2021with a bang! I can’t wait to hear your comments and reviews on this one!

ALSO, if you haven't listened to our 1st episode "Relationship Hacks" you should! Link: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/who-can-relate/id1533017843?i=1000493004581

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

2:23 A time when I thought an Ex was the one

5:55 Nobody likes change

9:29 “But He/She has so much potential”

10:35 You can’t argue with how someone feels. 

12:17 How do you separate Mind from Heart?

19:00 When the “Village” becomes 1 person

26:20 When you realize they’re not the one

27:50 “I don’t know who I am without them"

31:15 Distracting yourself from the pain

35:35 What advice would you give your child going through what you are?

36:50 When you have kids with your partner but want to leave

38:10 How do you create a family life you’ve never seen before?

41:50 How do you know if it’s going to work out?

44:22 The “Healthy challenge"

48:39 Don’t make a permanent decision on a temporary feeling

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/yJIkHb6cN4w

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Laticia’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laticia.rolle/

Laticia’s Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/girl-we-got-this/id1458071333

Tress Hat company: https://tressforus.com

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In this weeks episode, it’s just you & I! I wanted to have a one-on-one with you guys to talk about the new year! I want to know what your goals are this year, what you learned from 2020 & how you’ll be applying the lesson in 2021. I talk about "Who Can Relate?" so far, where I see it going in the new year & some exciting announcements for what’s to come. It’s a short one this week, which I’m sure a lot of you will enjoy! Happy New Year everyone, cheers to us having an amazing year ahead!

No Episode Time Stamps this week. The episode is short enough :-)

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/YMZm69C-CB8

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

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The final episode of the year! What better way to end 2020, than with my Wife on the couch, doing another "WCR-Home Series." We went over all that our 2020 entailed & why it was one of the best years of my life! We open up and talk about how much therapy helped us this year. The birth of Who Can Relate? Describing 2020 in one word. And finally, what our goals are for 2021. We had a lot of fun with this one, I hope you guys like it!

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

2:51 Year in review for us

11:30 Our Ups & Downs in 2020

17:22 THERAPY 24/7

21:55 Everyone's AMAZING feedback on Who Can Relate?

23:56 The birth of "Who Can Relate?”

35:14-47:12 My surprise launch party on my Wife’s bday

47:13 Our 1 year Anniversary Celebration

52:53 2020 in a word

54:37 Our message to you guys

55:50 Two Main Goals for 2021

1:01:56 Shay's Gems

1:08:09 Bonus Content

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/u2ZecQQPJ-Y

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

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What’s going on in the mind of a guy on a date? When thinking about who to bring on the show for this topic, I knew I had the perfect guests! Jared & Los bring a variety of different perspectives & I can’t wait for you guys to listen to what they have to say lol! Also, special announcement & introducing the other podcast I’m on as a co-host, “Enjoy The Podcast.” It’s the raw/no filter version of Who Can Relate & it’s so much fun! We talk about everything from the male perspective for women, relationships, personal struggles, sex & so much more! You can check it out on all podcast platforms & YouTube!

Episode Time Stamps:

3:35 Jared & Los background

5:32 What do Men want to be asked on a date?

26:16 When do you get “The Real” person you’re dating?

28:43 What our Red Flags are

38:32 Are you ok with your partner being friends with their Ex?

49:38 Our message to you guys

52:43 Round of Rapid Fire Questions

1:10:40 Introducing- “Enjoy The Podcast"

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/_OsHY8dSEE8

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Jared's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enjoyjaredbrady/

Los’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blamelos/

Enjoy The Podcast

Youtube: https://youtu.be/Tn06EfFa_S8

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/who-can-relate/id1533017843#episodeGuid=b55f5a41-98a4-4c09-ab11-691ed541e500

Spotify Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/463I3xL98hfv3BRub5nr7P?si=wQOUGl6lRs2Wg40ZSLUv9w

Jared’s new song: https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/jaredbrady/vvs-feat-tdot-illdude--rowlan

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

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In this weeks episode, I sit down with one of my best friends Spencer, as we dive into what an evolving man looks like. This was one of my favorite episodes to date & you'll find out why! We go over how it was for him and his Wife as they came from completely different backgrounds, but managed to figure it out to create a beautiful-happy marriage. We speak on what else a man can provide aside from the old narrative of just financially. What the difference is between Complacency vs Contentment. Seeking first to understand instead of being understood. How to obtain a positive-goal setting mindset & finally how gratitude has changed both of our lives forever! If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you gave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

1:53 Spencer’s background

6:12 His wife had the complete opposite upbringing, yet they’re married

11:34 Going about problems differently with your partner

14:47 Seek first to understand rather than understood

20:19 Complacency vs Content

39:39 What Men can provide aside from financially

44:34 How to obtain a positive-goal setting mindset

47:52 The not so sunny days

52:38 Gratitude for the win 

58:14 The book that changed my life “The Magic”

1:04:10 Round of Rapid Fire Questions

1:07:48 The story of how I started Modeling

1:20:20 Bonus Content

Book recommendations: The compound effect, The One Thing, Failing Forward, Atomic Habits, The Daily Reader. 

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/cT2P3934CcU

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Spencer's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spencehill/

“The Magic” book on amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Magic-Secret-Rhonda-Byrne/dp/1451673442/ref=sxts_sxwds-bia-wc-nc-drs1_0?crid=1L3GNV374U6J1&cv_ct_cx=the+magic&dchild=1&keywords=the+magic&pd_rd_i=1451673442&pd_rd_r=cab21384-a9c3-4eb5-811e-5d9a7438ee1c&pd_rd_w=UqE8T&pd_rd_wg=YZ94v&pf_rd_p=84ce0865-d9ca-42e3-87ed-168be8f93162&pf_rd_r=2T6YNH9Y0MDYPZ1C154C&psc=1&qid=1607655229&sprefix=the+magic%2Caps%2C266&sr=1-1-88388c6d-14b8-4f70-90f6-05ac39e80cc0

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Welcome to the "Home Series on the couch with my Wife!” We're inviting you into our home once a month to take a seat on the couch with us as we talk about all things relationships! Including the in’s & out’s of ours. What has worked for us, what didn't, growing pains, being long distance at the start, getting married after only knowing each other for 2 years, and so much more!

We kicked off the series with the topic of how we knew we were the one for each other. Such a common question that we get asked all the time, but our answers are probably not so common. Also, there's no one-size fits all answer either. Listen to find out what did it for us!

Episode Time Stamps:

2:20 How Shay knew I was the one

25:28 Why you should only change for you

14:50 Not being too picky when dating

18:04 How I knew Shay was the one

25:28 What is the catalyst to a man making changes?

29:23 "You’re either going to be right all the time or you’re going to be happily married"

32:20 My Wife knew me better than I knew myself

44:21 What’s considered “Too much work” to put in?

48:18 Why our ex’s couldn’t get us to change

55:25 Your homework from us

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/cA960aoNAmY

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

Shay's T-shirt link: https://shopsoigne.us/products/pac-tee-1

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In this weeks episode, I sit down with my friend Sophie to talk about all things being a single parent. We go over the following topics: Mom guilt, how & when to introduce your new partner to your child and how to delegate after you’ve been so accustomed to doing things by yourself. This episode is loaded with some really great insight & I hope you guys find it helpful!

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! While you’re there, it would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a rating too!

Episode Time Stamps:

1:30 Sophie’s intro

4:24 Dating with kids

8:10 When/How to introduce your child to your new partner

13:26 Advice for the step parent

18:30 Learning how to delegate with your partner

21:50 The child’s experience in 2 different households

24:27 Transition time once the child returns home

27:11 Finding the time to date as a single parent

29:07 “Mom Guilt”

32:52 Learning how to say “NO"

34:45 Starting to date again after a breakup 

37:33 Sophie's message to you

40:00 Rapid Fire Questions

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/H2pQV5yMgWk

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Guest Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sophielonsinger/

Conscious Living by Sophie: https://www.instagram.com/consciouslivingbysophie/

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This weeks episode will be slightly different & a pleasant surprise. Yes, my guest Peter & I talk about overcoming adversity, adapting to change and what life looks like during a pandemic, but we also touch on topics that are new to the show. We go over what Journey work is aka plant based medicine. How it can bring enlightenment to your life like never before. Peter shares some really cool stories & I can’t wait for you guys to dive into this one!

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! Have any of you experienced plant based medicine before? Could you relate to Peter sharing the good & tough days with his autistic son? What have you been up to during the pandemic? It would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a Review & Rating on Apple Podcast!

Episode Time Stamps:

1:08 Peter’s intro

2:15 Life during the pandemic

4:48 From Photographer to Home schooling

24:36 What will you have to show after Covid

26:19 What is Journey work?

37:16 How Peter found his purpose in life

42:50 Peter's message to you

44:17 Rapid Fire Questions

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/a_z_7D8ZbN8

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Peter’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/peterdokus/

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In this weeks episode, Sarah & I sit down and dive deep! In fact, this might be the deepest episode I’ve done so far! It’s raw, intimate, personal and I know you guys will be able to relate to so much of what was discussed in this episode. We talk about the importance of choosing yourself and your happiness 1st and foremost. In order to obtain the love that we desire & deserve, we need to love ourselves first! You’ll find out in this episode, that’s not always the easiest thing to do. We take it back to childhood, past relationship experiences (including the worst ones) and hold nothing back when speaking our truths. I know I can speak on behalf of Sarah when I say, we would not be who we are today, if it weren’t for the work we put into ourselves. Simply put, the best investment you can make for yourself, is & always will be YOU! Full Gratitude for Sarah blessing the show & sharing her beautiful story! Please share this episode with someone who you think would benefit from it.

Episode Time Stamps:

1:28 Sarah’s intro

4:43 Mental health issues

18:34 Hurt People- Hurt People

21:55 How do you know if you’re ready for a relationship

30:09 Cheat code for Women from Men

32:25 Men who live a double life

51:50 The story of Loveon Leggings

1:02:20 Imposter Syndrome moment for me

1:09:10 Turning dust into gold

1:12:12 Sarah's message to you

1:15:05 Rapid Fire Questions

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/rUIqo5PO-Pc

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Sarah’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahtemima/

Loveon Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveoncollections/

Loveon Website: https://loveoncollections.com

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In this weeks episode, Alicia & I talk about what it looks like to overcome your fears and I mean ALL of them! Abandonment, the “what if” voice in your head. Am I being the best parent for my children? Impostersyndrom, depression, anxiety, self-doubt, overcoming the broken childhood and more. We have to remember, everything is happening for us, not to us. We must continue to find the lessons, which then will lead us to putting in the work. It was such an honor to be able to share all of the above with my guest Alicia! Her story is so inspiring and I can’t wait for you guys to hear it.

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review or rating (or both) below!

Episode Time Stamps:

1:15 Alicia’s intro

6:35 When your partner has the complete opposite upbringing as you

7:45 Healthy confrontation

9:46 Addicted to chaos & toxicity 

14:00 Gratitude for the Win

15:12 Fight or Flight mode

16:57 The opposite of Fear, is faith

20:35 Suffering from depression bouts 

30:04 You never know what someone may be going through

30:56 Getting out of your comfort zone

32:20 Comfort & growth cannot co-exist

46:13 Being transparent with your loved ones

48:06 What gets Me in a funk?

49:15 When I knew my Wife was “The One”

55:13 Alicia’s message to you

1:00:04 Rapid Fire Questions

Book Mentions: 

“Anger Management Workbook for Men” by Aaron Karmin, MA

“The Magic” Rhonda Byrne

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/1uF9u7uFIwI

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Alicia’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifestyle_wifestyle/

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In this weeks episode, Don and I talk all things why Men… cheat? Struggle with vulnerability? Lack self-awareness? Deserve a 2nd chance? And plenty more! These topics are very important to me, as I myself struggled mightily with all of the above. In fact, they’re one of the main reasons why I created this show. My goal is to bring awareness to all of the above for Men and try to lead by example. I’m a firm believer in, “it takes one to know one” and I can definitely relate to all that we covered in this episode. I appreciate Don coming on, owning up to his mistakes and being able to share the lessons he’s learning along his journey. 

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! Men- could you guys relate to this episode? What spoke directly to you? Ladies, have you encountered any of what was talked about? Care to share your dating experiences about any men in your past who have struggled with any of the above? Did this help put things into perspective for you? Feel free to leave a Review and Rating on Apple Podcast!

Episode Time Stamps:

1:10 Don’s intro 

8:50 Men change for 1 of 2 reasons

15:26 Re-assess your circle

19:22 Why do Men cheat?

26:16 I want to break the chain in my family

31:26 Can Men be faithful? Do they deserve a 2nd chance?

33:50 What you want & what will bring you Joy are different

38:34 Advice to someone considering marriage

41:56 Therapist communication exercise to try

43:41 How does a woman know when a man is ready to settle down?

51:21 Vulnerability is sexy

57:38 Breaking the lineage curse

1:05:18 Self-Love to Don

1:11:15 Don’s message to you

1:14:00 Rapid Fire Questions

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/qudNZqYvCpI

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Don’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/donbenjamin/

Don’s Book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/My-Truth-Don-Benjamin/dp/1735128805/ref=zg_bsnr_4742_1?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=BSQ66E784MPN8G1G4CB0

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In this weeks episode, I sit down with Dr. Neeta Bhushan to discuss overcoming, relationships and if there's such a thing as a "Work-Life balance." Neeta shares her incredible life story about how she lost her Mother, Brother and Father before the age of 21! Despite tragedy striking year after year, she managed to keep her life and mindset positive. We also talk about how Single-Professional women struggle finding men who know their lane in a busy woman's life. Neeta's story will inspire and motivate you and I'm excited to hear what you guys think of this episode!

If you're listening to this episode on Apple Podcast, let me know your thoughts in a review below! Could you imagine going through all that Neeta had to endure? Ladies, could you relate to the dating struggles with men not knowing how to fit in with your professional success? Did this help put things into perspective for you? It would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a Review & Rating on Apple Podcast!

Episode Time Stamps:

3:00 Neeta’s intro

4:50 At 16 years old, Neeta loses her Mom and Brother

6:40 At 18 years old, Neeta was told her Dad only has 9 months

10:56 Coping mechanism

15:08 When life hands you lemons strategy

18:35 Work Life Balance doesn’t exist

21:13 Cool communication exercise

24:43 The single-successful Woman's dating struggles

34:00 Journey of enlightenment

45:25 Self-Love

51:17 Neeta’s message to you

56:18 Rapid Fire Questions

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/Gk55wTDGJwQ

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Neeta's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/neetabhushan/

Global Grit Company: https://globalgrit.co/insiders/social/

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In this weeks episode, Duke and I sit down and talk about what it is to be vulnerable as a man. What that looks like, feels like and how much it's benefited our relationships. As Men, we’re taught to never show our emotions or express our feelings. Because of this, often times, our feelings and emotions turn into ego & anger, instead of simply saying, “I’m hurt” or “I’m sad.” The goal in this episode, is to show Men that vulnerability is a path to victory, not weakness. That it’s essential in order to have a successful relationship. It's a new day for the renaissance man and Duke & I are here to lead the movement! 

What are your thoughts on this episode? Was this surprising or enlightening in any way? Men- have you had similar experiences? Women- were any of your questions about Men answered here? Or were you able to make sense of some of your feelings/preconceived notions? Did this help put things into perspective for you? Could you relate to this episode? I would love to know, please Comment below!

Episode Time Stamps:

4:00- Meet Duke

12:02- Being good means more than being right

13:25- People put you in a box

23:52- Vulnerability is NOT a risk

27:08- Men being vulnerable in relationships

37:36- Direction is more important than speed

44:10- Self love conversation

52:25- Men reaching out to connect with other men

1:06:52- We’re taught WHAT but not HOW to learn

1:08:08- Duke’s final takeaway

1:09:43- Round of 5 Rapid Fire Questions

WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/_J7V6Qh-y2I

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Duke's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/duke/

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In this weeks episode, Nicole’s story will absolutely blow your mind! In a span of 2.5 months: She broke her back, lost her Mom to cancer & her boyfriend of 3 years decided to end their relationship JUST 2 DAYS AFTER her mom passed away. Talk about a bad dream, but unfortunately this was her reality. However, through strength, perseverance and positivity, she battled her way back to the top and has changed her life for the better. In this episode, we talk about what it looks like to never give up and never play the victim card. How perspective and mindset is everything. And how to become the best version of yourself- no matter what! 

What are your thoughts on this episode! Could you imagine going through all that Nicole did? Have you had similar experiences? What spoke directly to you? Did this help put things into perspective for you? Could you relate to this episode? It would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a Review plus a Rating on the Apple Podcast platform!

Episode Time Stamps:

Nicole intro 1:25

Nicole’s accident 2:50

Timeline of tragic domino effect 11:22

Nicole loses her Mother 14:24

Relationship ends days after losing her Mom 17:28

Milestone moment 27:25

Gratitude for the Win 32:20

Biggest challenges 35:20

Nicole’s message to you 39:10

Rapid Fire Questions 43:45

You can watch the full episode on YouTube

https://youtu.be/fzEHujO2fQ4

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Nicole's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_nikkaayy/

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Troy and I talk about the night his life changed forever, when he was hit by a car going 40mph while walking! Find out what happened, how it’s impacted & changed his life, what he struggles with the most and how he’s managed to find positivity in a situation where most would consider it a tragedy. Like many things he had to learn following his life changing experience, one thing is at the forefront- asking for help! Why is it so difficult for us to ask for help? We talk about how his injury has impacted the loved ones in his life, including in his relationship with his Fiancé. What are this biggest adjustments he’s had to make? How he’s mastered his mindset and turned this tragedy into a blessing. 

Let me know your thoughts on this episode! What have you been taking for granted? How can you make the necessary adjustments to not do that? What spoke directly to you? Did this help put things into perspective for you? Could you relate to this episode? It would be AMAZING and mean the world to me, if you guys could leave a Review & a Rating on the Apple Podcast platform! 

Episode Time Stamps

Troy Intro 1:10

Troy’s Injuries 5:10

Told He’d never Walk again 8:07

Mindset before accident 9:35

The biggest challenge for Troy 15:12

Quote that really helped control my mindset 20:08

The mental therapy was harder than the physical therapy 23:23

Feeling like you’re being judged 24:54

It’s hard to ask for help from your partner 26:53 

How his Fiancé knows her role with his needs 29:36

Women struggle with helping their man 30:20 

Troy didn’t feel like he wasn’t good enough for his Fiance 31:40

Problems in a relationship with someone who has physical needs/limitations 36:30

Having a strong support system 42:02

Self doubt moments 45:47

When Troy decided to make this experience as a positive 48:44

Best advice Troy would give to anyone going through tragedy 50:29

What does self love mean to Troy 52:17

Never Give Up! 57:38

A message to my wife 1:01:56

Rapid Fire Questions 1:07:37

My Final Thoughts 1:21:00

Book Reference from Show Notes:

"The Magic" by Rhonda Byrne

You can watch this episode on YouTube!

https://youtu.be/qPnX3soctiI

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Troy's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goldenboytrb/

Troy's TedX Talk: https://youtu.be/VAPS4Q9Net4

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My wife became the Stepmother to my daughter, that I could only dream of! In this episode, we discuss some of our personal experiences while being a blended family, the pro's & con's to dating someone with kids, and what it's like to be the child in the middle. Being a stepparent is not for everyone, but it is for the right person who can help bridge the gap. Find out how my Wife not only made my relationship with my daughter better, but with her Mom as well.

Episode Time Stamps:

4:25- Adriana talks about her time in LA during Covid

9:30- My daughter seeing my efforts as a Father

11:40- Our Heart to Heart moments

14:00- How Shay met my daughter

17:20- Shay’s advice on Step-parenting

18:28- Shay gets emotional

24:00- Making Adriana feel comfortable at our house

26:17- How Shay has made my relationship with Adriana better

33:06- How therapy helps us parent

37:47- Shay helps my daughter with her relationships at home

40:50- Adriana’s advice to kids in her situation

43:09- Book recommendations that have helped us

“5 Love Languages for Kids” -Gary Chapman

“Building Love Together In Blended Families” -Gary Chapman

“The DIY guide to building a Family that lasts” -Gary Chapman

45:53- Rapid fire questions

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

Adriana's YouTube channel: She told me to tell you, "It's under construction" :-)

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https://youtu.be/JbvKeoSUkUw

Want More? We also did an Instagram Live discussing more about this:

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CCWoBJwJpBK/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

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Laticia and I dive deep into our relationship experiences and all the lessons we've learned. We cover everything from being in a relationship, how being single is a blessing and the best relationship of all-the one with yourself. We go over how important it is to master self-love, taking what you thought were losses in your past and turning them into lessons for your future. Also, I get personal with a mind blowing experience during a therapy session and how it might have saved my marriage.

Episode Time Stamps:

Laticia Intro- 2:29

Everything is happening FOR you NOT to you- 5:20

We REPEAT what we don't REPAIR- 9:45

Patterns are real- 11:22

If you're under construction- 13:28

Take responsibility for Yourself- 18:07

Book Recommendations- 21:02

"5 Love Languages" -Gary Chapman

"5 Love Languages for Men" -Gary Chapman

"Attached" -Amir Levine

Stop filling voids with people- 26:00

Do you feel like you're not enough for your partner?- 29:15

It always comes back to childhood- 34:18

Attracting your partner- 38:16

Forgiveness- 40:20

Dating as the new & improved You- 43:43

People can change- 57:56

You're asking the wrong person for what you want- 1:00:44

Final takeaways- 1:08:45

Round of Rapid Fire Questions- 1:15:00

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Allow me to introduce myself! My name is Justin Davis and I wanted to create a podcast for anyone and everyone who wants to discover their higher selves. If you've ever felt like you're the only one going through life's challenges, I promise you, you're not alone! New episodes every Tuesday on all Podcast Platforms, I can't wait to hear from you!

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https://youtu.be/iTc6ipBqT24