The Modern Phoenix

By Gervase Kolmos

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The Modern Phoenix (formerly "It's All Me") In a culture that values logic, urgency, perfection, and sameness, The Modern Phoenix walks a different path: one that honors her unique mind, body and soul. Between information overload, the demands of modern life, and lifetimes of conditioning and "shoulds", it can feel hard for a woman to know and listen to her own wants and needs. We're so busy caring and doing and anticipating and managing that we forget ourselves. We hope there's a better, more balanced, life-giving and feminine way to be a modern woman—to have regulated nervous systems, intuitive solutions to complex problems, and the distinct trust in ourselves and our choices, despite life's curveballs, but we're not sure where to start. That's where I come in. I'm Gervase Kolmos, Inner Transformation Coach and phoenix-in-evolution. I help women learn to trust themselves and be guided by their own inner authority to live with pleasure, authenticity and embodied wisdom. This podcast is my mission and my mantra: you are light and dark, thinking and feeling, perfect and a work-in-progress. Together, we'll unlock your intuition, tap into the wisdom and resources of your body, and navigate this confusing, demanding, gorgeous life. So let's burn down the stories, conditioning and beliefs that don't serve us, shall we?

Episode Date
When Will It Be Enough? Reclaiming Your Inner 'Enoughness' in a Capitalist World
Dec 15, 2025
I Choreograph My Whole Life Around Joy
Dec 01, 2025
When I Don't Know What to Do, I Return to Me
Nov 17, 2025
The Mountain Is Me: What Peru Burned Away (and What It Gave Back)
Nov 03, 2025
Leaning Back Into Support: Why You Don't Have To Do It Alone
Oct 06, 2025
Your Body Tells the Truth of Your Trauma
Sep 22, 2025
Renovations, Motherhood & Meeting My Upper Limits on The Phoenix Spiral
Sep 08, 2025
How Internalized Capitalism Is Controlling Your Right To Rest And Exist
Aug 25, 2025
Permission to Be Who You Are: Human Design for Mothers, Makers & Dreamers with Erin Claire Jones
Aug 11, 2025
I AM a Multidimensional Woman
Jul 28, 2025
How to Connect With Your Heart (And Get Out Of Your Head)
Jul 14, 2025
Dharma, Destiny & Divine Design: A Vedic Astrologer's Guide To Your Life's Path
Jun 30, 2025
You Are a Soul Having a Human Experience
Jun 16, 2025
It's OK To Press The "Easy" Button
Jun 02, 2025
Stay or Go? Healing Relationship Patterns with Katarina Polonska
May 19, 2025
How Overfunctioning Disconnects You from Your Body and Your Life
May 05, 2025
I Can't Like Myself If I'm Who You Want Me To Be
Apr 21, 2025
What is Inner Knowing, And Why Will It Change Your Life
Apr 07, 2025
You Can't "Out-think" Your Triggered Body
Mar 24, 2025
REPLAY: A Woman Who Has Her Own Back
Mar 10, 2025
It's Not Your Job To Make Other People Happy
Feb 24, 2025
Why Women Don't Like to Cry (And Why You Should Start)
Feb 10, 2025
My mental health story & what therapy couldn't "fix"
Jan 27, 2025
Matrescence: Does becoming a mother change… everything? with Jessie Harrold
Jan 13, 2025
A Mind, Body, Soul Reset for 2025
Dec 30, 2024
How my body helped me make up with my husband
Dec 16, 2024
Breaking the Cycle of Fear-Based Parenting with Wendy Snyder
Dec 02, 2024
I have to say the right thing or they'll be mad
Nov 18, 2024
It's not okay for me to make mistakes
Nov 04, 2024
Meet the Modern Phoenix
Oct 21, 2024
151: Why Permission is Where Healing Begins
Oct 07, 2024
150: PANDAS: Biggest Lessons Learned One Year Later
Sep 23, 2024
149: Break the Burnout Cycle
Sep 09, 2024
148: Rejection is Redirection
Aug 26, 2024
147: Stop Trying to Fix Yourself; Your Body Has a Better Path
Jul 29, 2024
146: Burning it all down…again and again and again with Jeannine Yoder (Audience favorite)
Jul 22, 2024
145: Challenge vs Suffering: Rewiring our Brains for Curiosity and Pleasure
Jul 15, 2024
144. How to Access More Pleasure as a High-Performing Woman
Jul 08, 2024
143: Partnerships the Phoenix Way: How to Cultivate Compassion, Agency, and Pleasure
Jul 01, 2024
142: The Path to Secure Attachment (Even If You're Anxious) with Carly Turner
Jun 24, 2024
141: Joy is a Really Good Reason (Replay)
Jun 17, 2024
140: Pillow Talk: Reconnecting to Sensuality in Partnership with Sex Therapist Dr. Viviana
Jun 10, 2024
139: The Black Sheep's Journey: Understanding Generational Trauma with Nick Werber
Jun 03, 2024
138: Creating Safety, Trust AND Boundaries with Your Kids with Destini Davis and Kiva Schuler
May 28, 2024
137: It's Not Okay, And I'm Okay
May 20, 2024
136: Self Regulation Is My Family's Way Of Life. Here's Why
May 13, 2024
135: How to Ask For What You Want (at Home) Pt 2
May 06, 2024
134: Understanding Childhood Trauma that Doesn't Feel Like Trauma with Chelsea Green (replay)
Apr 29, 2024
133: How to Ask For What You Want (at Work) Pt 1
Apr 22, 2024
132: Instead of Being Selfless, Be Your Fullest Self
Apr 15, 2024
131: The Magic of the Spring Equinox: Aligning Your Body With the Changing of Seasons
Apr 01, 2024
EASTER BONUS: Remembering the Sacred Feminine with Priestess Sarah Jenks (Replay)
Mar 29, 2024
130: Why My Trip to PR Was Good For My Kids (And Awesome for Me)
Mar 25, 2024
129: Client Story - Landing in Wonder by Walking Through Fear
Mar 18, 2024
128: Supporting Yourself Through the World's Pain
Mar 11, 2024
127: Teaching My Daughters Embodiment {Personal Story}
Mar 04, 2024
126: Client Story - Loving Your Polarizing Traits with Sophia Prater
Feb 27, 2024
125: Expand Your Tolerance for Uncertainty
Feb 19, 2024
124: Co-Creating Safety and Harmony in Partnership with Josh Trent
Feb 12, 2024
123: Goodbye, Hyper-Independence. Hello, Community
Feb 05, 2024
122: Asking Hard Questions (Are NYC Schools Still Segregated?) with Brandon Triola
Jan 29, 2024
121: Are you Designing Your Life from the Inside Out?
Jan 22, 2024
120: Every Part of You Gets to Be Here with Jenna Donohue
Jan 15, 2024
119: What is the Point of Healing?
Jan 08, 2024
118: Addressing Trauma, Breaking Cycles, and Changing the Script with Angie Mizzell
Dec 18, 2023
117: Health, Balance, and Legacy with Jason Burke of The New Primal
Dec 11, 2023
116: An Introduction to CBD and How It's Supporting My Family's Needs
Dec 04, 2023
115: If You Feel Like Something's Missing . . .
Nov 27, 2023
114: The Politicalization of the Public School System with Joy Brown
Nov 20, 2023
113: Coming Home to Peace and Self
Nov 13, 2023
112: Reinventing Your Life After Waking Up to the World's BS with Erin Keating
Nov 06, 2023
111: I Went to Church and This is What I Prayed For
Oct 30, 2023
110: Focalizing: Creating Islands of Safety Within Yourself and Your Children with Jo Miller
Oct 16, 2023
109: A Peek Inside Our Family's New (Food) Normal
Oct 09, 2023
108: Cultivating Mind, Body, and Spirit via Float Therapy (and More) with Maxwell Casa
Oct 02, 2023
107: When a Woman Has Her Own Back
Sep 25, 2023
106: Balancing your masculine and feminine energies with Marissa Lawton
Sep 18, 2023
105: My Light After the Dark Night of the Soul {Personal Story}
Sep 05, 2023
104: Breaking up with Your Good Girl with Stephanie Jiroch
Jul 31, 2023
103: A Cross-Cultural, Multi-Layered Approach to Healing with Mandy Burstein
Jul 24, 2023
102: My Intuition Called Me Out and I Chose to Listen
Jul 17, 2023
101: Divorce Redefined - From Needless to Expressed & Empowered with Jasmine Chanelle
Jul 03, 2023
100: Inside My Marriage Pt 2: a dreamer and a realist, an empowered wife, and how we upleveled our communication
Jun 26, 2023
99: Female Friendships (Pt 2) and What's Holding Women Back from Feeling Safe in Their Sisterhoods with Stephanie Burg
Jun 19, 2023
98: A Hypnosis for Trusting Your Body
Jun 12, 2023
97: How Niceness Fails Us with Shaniequa Washington - Diversity. Inclusivity. Authentic Community.
Jun 05, 2023
96: Learning to Trust the Body, Plus What is "Focalizing"
May 29, 2023
95: What Is Intersectionality with LaVanda Brown of the YWCA
May 22, 2023
94: The Discomfort of Deconditioning from Mother Culture
May 15, 2023
93: This Generation of Moms is Parenting Consciously
May 11, 2023
92. The IAM Mindset Edition: Free Masterclass + Workbook
May 01, 2023
91: Should I Have a Baby? My Answer (and what I believe you're really asking)
Apr 24, 2023
90: Client Story - The Unmasking of Authentic Self with Carrie Richmond
Apr 17, 2023
89: Body Grief with Jayne Mattingly
Apr 10, 2023
Working Through Resistance Without Bypassing the Fear
Apr 03, 2023
Name the Thing with Mika Gadsden - Unconscious bias. Embracing Discomfort. Living a Layered Life.
Mar 27, 2023
A Fresh Take on Wife Guilt
Mar 14, 2023
The Ripple Effect of a Legacy Mindset with Andrea Serrano
Mar 06, 2023
WTF is up with Extracurriculars
Feb 27, 2023
Rerooting and Revillaging in a Capitalist Suburbia with Becca Piastrelli
Feb 20, 2023
Roots Down, Wings Up: Tapping Into Your Phoenix Frequency
Jan 23, 2023
Why We Get Stuck Instead of "Reborn" + The Phoenix Sessions
Jan 09, 2023
A Guided Grounding for the New Year + How to Discern Your Next Step Forward
Jan 02, 2023
My Mom and I Debate "The Feminine Mystique"
Dec 28, 2022
You Are Your One
Dec 19, 2022
Moving a Client From "Or" Mindset to "And"
Dec 05, 2022
Burning it all down…again and again and again with Jeannine Kochuba
Nov 28, 2022
Remembering the Sacred Feminine with Priestess Sarah Jenks
Nov 23, 2022
Joy is a Really Good Reason
Nov 14, 2022
When Moms Talk Money and Mental Health with Amy Schultz
Nov 07, 2022
WTF is Up With My Sober Curiosity?
Nov 03, 2022
WTF is Up With Over-Giving to Our Kids
Oct 24, 2022
The BTS of Life Off-The-Grid with Arielle Crawford
Oct 17, 2022
Reimagining Boundaries Using the It's All Me Mindset
Oct 10, 2022
The Spiritual Psychology Side of Self-Work with Anita Kopacz
Oct 03, 2022
When Women Remember Their Political Power with Dr. Annie Andrews
Sep 26, 2022
Reprogramming doing it all for doing what matters most
Sep 19, 2022
WTF is Up with Mom Triggers? | Episode 2 of WTF is Up Series
Sep 12, 2022
The Abortion Story Lawmakers Need to Hear with Sarah Frick
Sep 06, 2022
How Do We Survive and Thrive Together with Kerri Kelly
Aug 31, 2022
WTF Is Up With Time Management | Episode 1 of WTF is Up Series
Aug 17, 2022
Healing from unconscious cycles of judgment in all relationships
Aug 10, 2022
Meeting Your Moment of Self-Trust
Aug 03, 2022
Moms Demand Action for Gun Reform with Jackie Shelley
Jul 27, 2022
You are Your Relationships' Common Denominator
Jul 13, 2022
Readiness is an illusion with Latoya Dixon Smith
Jul 06, 2022
Calling in the coaching industry with Emily Cassel
Jun 29, 2022
Understanding Childhood Trauma that Doesn't Feel Like Trauma with Chelsea Green
Jun 23, 2022
Shifting the working mother narrative with Amri Kibbler of HeyMama
Jun 08, 2022
Shifting the working mother narrative with Amri Kibbler of HeyMama
Jun 08, 2022
I AM the answer {a response to the Uvalde mass shooting}
Jun 02, 2022
Mastering the cycles of learning, growing and arriving with Katie Ashley
May 25, 2022
I AM more than my brain
May 18, 2022
Rebirth Cycles and Reclaiming Our All-ness with the Yoni Codes
May 11, 2022
I AM a Multi dimensional Woman
May 04, 2022
I AM redefining the American Rancher with Natalie Kovarik
Apr 27, 2022
I AM Recalibrating my body to align with my truth
Apr 20, 2022
I AM a soul having a human experience
Apr 06, 2022
I AM learning; never failing
Mar 30, 2022
I AM learning; never failing
Mar 30, 2022
I AM another hysterical female
Mar 23, 2022
I AM choosing to win when life is unfair
Mar 16, 2022
I AM what I can control
Mar 09, 2022
I AM connected to my partner and sexually satisfied with Dr. Viviana Coles
Mar 02, 2022
It's All Me
Feb 23, 2022
You Get to Change Your Mind
Feb 16, 2022
The Evolving Life & Legacy of Sarah Moore
Jan 19, 2022
The Evolving Life & Legacy of Sarah Moore
Jan 19, 2022
Mothering is Modeled, and You Get to Give What You Didn't Receive
Jan 12, 2022
How I Move Myself From Hot Mess to Queen of My Kingdom Every Freaking Day
Dec 22, 2021
Stepping into self-trust after a life of parenting yourself
Dec 15, 2021
Why Self-Care is Old News and Will Never Be Enough
Dec 01, 2021
Unlocking a Woman's Pleasure: A Conversation with Angie Byrd
Nov 24, 2021
What the F is Hypnotherapy Anyway?
Nov 17, 2021
Disappointing my sister and how it made our relationship fireproof
Nov 03, 2021
Disappointing my sister and how it made our relationship fireproof
Nov 03, 2021
Making our kids our excuse and using Covid as our Phoenix moment
Oct 27, 2021
Making our kids our excuse and using Covid as our Phoenix moment
Oct 27, 2021
Inside Gervase & Kevin's Marriage: Fighting Better and Setting Intentions as a Couple
Oct 20, 2021
Solo Ep: Living with Depression: My Personal Journey
Oct 13, 2021
"I got sober, why can't she?"
Oct 06, 2021
Playing in the Quantum Realm
Sep 29, 2021
Meeting Your Mother-Edge
Sep 22, 2021
Unpacking the Mother Wound
Sep 15, 2021
Lean Into Your Calling
Jun 30, 2021
The New Motherhood Paradigm: "I Get To Be The One"
Jun 23, 2021
Following Your Daydream
Jun 16, 2021
Creating an Epic Partnership
Jun 10, 2021
Your Timeline is the Problem
Jun 03, 2021
No Shame Sales
May 26, 2021
Autism with Courage + Consciousness
May 19, 2021
Just Going for It
May 05, 2021
Suffering is Optional
Apr 28, 2021
Take Your Mat and Go
Apr 21, 2021
Intuitive Eating: A Path to Pleasure
Apr 15, 2021
Human Design, Explained
Mar 25, 2021
Erin Phillips: Brave, Not Lucky
Mar 17, 2021
The New Paradigm of Female Friendships
Feb 25, 2021
Solo Ep: A Working Mom Rewrites her Beliefs
Jan 19, 2021
First-Time Mom Rites of Passage with Jay Ell Alexander
Dec 30, 2020
How to Be a Good Receiver
Dec 16, 2020
The Fiction of "Doing It All" vs. Having It All
Dec 09, 2020
The Liberation of Warrior & Mother, Kennae Miller
Dec 02, 2020
Bringing politics and diversity into your brand when you're white
Nov 25, 2020
Balancing pregnancy #3, being a black educator and anxiety in 2020
Nov 18, 2020
Meet G: Outgrowing identities and being shiny, happy and human
Nov 16, 2020
Welcome to The Champagne Society with Gervase Kolmos
Nov 13, 2020