The Jar Podcast | Dignity, Restored, Marriage, Healing, Forgiveness

By Lydia Santos - Christian Wife Coach, Marriage Ministry Leader, Boymom

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Episodes: 136

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If you’re done feeling alone, discouraged, hopeless, exhausted + unheard, this is for you. Welcome to The Jar Podcast where we battle shame, reclaim our identity in Christ, walk in obedience to begin the healing process. Join me each week for personal stories, biblical truths, inspiration and practical tools to equip you to heal from the inside out, navigate hard parts in your marriage and partner with God in whatever plan He has for your life, your spouse’s life, your children’s life, and generations to come. Gather your broken pieces, Girl, it’s time to reclaim wholeness.

Episode Date
A Break for The Jar Podcast: A Season of Rest and... What's Next?
Aug 27, 2023
#132 - Are You Going Through Some Painful Circumstances in Your Marriage Right Now? The Surprising GIFT of Pain and How to Use Pain to Heal!
Aug 13, 2023
#131 - Working Hard on Your Marriage but Not Seeing Results? 3 Biblical Lessons for When You’re Discouraged
Aug 05, 2023
#130 - 4 Ways to Cultivate Contentment in Your Marriage
Jul 29, 2023
#129 - Is Your Anger Affecting Your Marriage? Regulate Your Emotions to Calmly Communicate Even When You’re Angry
Jul 22, 2023
#128 - Is Sex a Problem in Your Marriage? How to Communicate to Increase Intimacy with Your Husband with Guest: Dr. Carol Tanksley
Jul 15, 2023
#127 - Are You Measuring Your Husband’s Sins Against Your Own (and You’re Not As Bad)? 3 Steps to Taking Responsibility for Your Own Sin
Jul 09, 2023
#126 - Are You too Embarrassed or Ashamed to Admit a Fault or Sin to Your Husband? 3 Steps to Making an Effective Apology
Jul 01, 2023
#125 - 4 Ways to Protect and Safeguard Your Marriage from Destruction
Jun 24, 2023
#124 - Want to Protect Your Marriage? Stop These 4 Dangers from Ruining Your Relationship!
Jun 17, 2023
#123 - A Testimony of God's Goodness and Continued Healing in My Marriage
Jun 13, 2023
#122 - Try This 2-Step Process to Communicating Better with Your Husband
Jun 04, 2023
#121 - Are You Too Independent, Dependent, or Codependent? The First Step to Building Healthy Interdependence in Your Marriage.
May 28, 2023
#120 - Do You Live with Regret in Your Marriage? 3 Ways to Use Regret to Your Advantage and Become a Better Wife
May 20, 2023
#119 - 5 Wise Tips for a Healthy, God-Centered Marriage with Special Guests: My Parents!
May 13, 2023
#118 - Could Your Sense of Entitlement Be Causing Discontentment in Your Marriage? Two Strategies to Overcome Entitlement Mentality as a Christian Wife
May 06, 2023
#117 - Are You Imitating the Wrong Thing? The Truth Behind Why You Are Discontent and Unsatisfied in Your Marriage
Apr 29, 2023
#116 - Think It’s Too Late for You and Your Husband? This Short Testimony That Will Inspire You and Bring Hope to Your Marriage
Apr 22, 2023
#115 Does Your Husband Constantly Sulk, Complain, or Say Unkind Things? 4 Steps to Handle Your Husband’s Emotional Immaturity
Apr 15, 2023
#114 - Does It Feel Like God Isn’t Listening to Your Prayers for Your Marriage? 4 Steps to Follow When God Is Silent
Apr 08, 2023
#113 - 3 Ways Angry Wives Can Invoke Change and Spiritual Growth Instead of Sabotaging Their Marriages
Apr 02, 2023
#112 - Wish Your Husband Would Be the Spiritual Leader in Your Marriage? 3 Ways to be a Godly Wife When Your Husband Doesn’t Lead
Mar 25, 2023
#111 - Does Knowing Your Love Languages Actually Matter in Your Marriage? This Unique Perspective Might Change Your Mind.
Mar 18, 2023
#110 - Come Find Hope and Healing for Your Marriage. The Jar Podcast Turns 2! A Look Back at What God’s Done and Plans for Season 3!
Mar 11, 2023
#109 - Frustrated with a Lack of Growth in Your Marriage? One Unlikely Way to Spark a NEW Thing and Create Lasting Change
Mar 04, 2023
#108 - 3 Key Components to Handling High Anxiety Moments in Your Marriage
Feb 25, 2023
#107 - Your Husband Wants a Divorce…Now What? 3 Ways to Handle the Hard News and Stress of Your Marriage Ending
Feb 18, 2023
#106 - Decrease the Weight of Disappointment in Your Marriage with This Biblically-Based Mindset Shift
Feb 11, 2023
#105 - Is This Toxic Trait Ruining Your Marriage? One Simple Trick to Turn It Into a Tool to Improve Communication with Your Husband
Feb 05, 2023
#104 - 3 Remedies for Soul Fatigue that Bring Healing and Help Improve Your Marriage
Jan 28, 2023
#103 - 3 Dangers of Soul Fatigue and How It Impacts Your Marriage
Jan 21, 2023
#102 - Feeling Ignored, Invalidated, or Dismissed During Conversations with Your Husband? 3 Ways to Help Your Husband Listen to You and Communicate Better
Jan 14, 2023
#101 - Does God Want Me to Leave My Husband or Stay in My Marriage? 5 Biblically-Based Tools to Make the Right Decision
Jan 07, 2023
#100 - From Near-Divorce, Separation, Shame, and Brokenness to This: My Redemption Story and My Full Circle Celebration!
Dec 31, 2022
#99 - Advent Series: Have You Lost Hope in Your Marriage? Hold Onto Hope in the Middle of Your Broken Marriage with this Special Christmas Message
Dec 24, 2022
#98 - Advent Series: 3 Tools to Shift from Sadness to Joy When Your Broken Marriage Overshadows Your Holiday Season
Dec 17, 2022
#97 - Advent Series: Tired of Carrying the Weight of Shame in Your Life or Marriage? How to Surrender Your Shame to the Lord and Walk in FREEDOM as a Daughter of the King
Dec 10, 2022
#96 - Advent Series: 3 Signs You’re Carrying a Secret Burden of Shame That Is Hurting Your Marriage and Affecting Your Mindset This Christmas Season
Dec 03, 2022
#95 3 Simple Steps to Decrease Your Anxiety and Overwhelm as a Mom and Wife and Increase Joy and Peace in Your Daily Routine with Guest: Lisa Lizotte
Nov 26, 2022
#94 Wish You Could Limit Anxiety and Arguments with Your Husband Over the Holidays? 2 Ways to Improve Communication with Your Husband and Navigate Tension This Thanksgiving Week
Nov 19, 2022
#93 - Tired of Fighting with Your Husband? Learn What to Fight FOR and What to Fight AGAINST in Your Marriage
Nov 12, 2022
#92 Do You Want Your Children Repeating Your Mistakes? My #1 Tip to Break the Cycle of Sin and Find Healing for Generational Impact
Nov 05, 2022
#91 Feeling EXHAUSTED in Your Marriage or Motherhood? The #1 Reason You Are Running on Empty and How to Find F.U.E.L for Your Soul
Oct 29, 2022
#90 Is Temptation REALLY a Bad Thing? This Life-Giving, Biblical Perspective Will Change Your Mind
Oct 23, 2022
#89 3 Action Steps to Biblically Respond, Instead of Retaliate, to Your Husband’s Hurtful Confession or Sin
Oct 15, 2022
#88 Suddenly Heartbroken by Your Husband’s Confession or Sin Struggle? 3 Steps to Process Your Pain and Respond Instead of React
Oct 08, 2022
#87 Is It Even Possible to Revive a Lifeless Marriage? The #1 Thing That Brings LIFE Back Into Your Heart and Revives Your Marriage
Oct 02, 2022
#86 - Is It Too Late for Your Marriage to Recover? Unravel the Curse of Shame in Your Marriage and Find Wholeness (Part 2) with Guest: Jules Morlet
Sep 24, 2022
#85 - Is It Too Late for Your Marriage to Recover? Unravel the Curse of Shame in Your Marriage and Find Wholeness (Part 1) with Guest: Jules Morlet
Sep 17, 2022
#84 - Do You Desire to Have a Closer Walk with God? 3 Things Holding You Back from a More Intimate Relationship with God
Sep 10, 2022
#83 - 4 Practical Steps to Find Freedom from Your Emotions and Reactions as a Spirit-Led Wife
Sep 03, 2022
#82 - Are You Tired of Your Emotions Controlling You? 4 Things to Expect as a Spirit-Led Wife.
Aug 27, 2022
#81 - 3 Ways to Partner with God in Your Recovery from Pain in Your Marriage
Aug 20, 2022
#80 - Is Your Marriage Ruined? Lessons Learned from a Forest Fire and 4 Responses to Help Your Marriage Thrive After Destruction
Aug 13, 2022
#79 - Do You Want to Get Well? 4 Steps to Removing Labels and Reclaiming Your Identity in Christ
Aug 06, 2022
#78 - 4 Questions to Uncover Strongholds, False Beliefs, and Lies that Lead to Sin and Keep Us from Walking in Your Identity in Christ
Jul 30, 2022
#77 - Suffering from Loneliness, Longing, and Low Self-Esteem in Your Marriage? 4 Steps to Restoring Your Identity in Christ
Jul 23, 2022
#76 - Not on the Same Page as Your Husband? 3 Rhythms of Communication that Lead to Unity and Connection in Your Marriage w/ Dr. Carol Tanksley
Jul 16, 2022
#75 - Overwhelmed and Weighed Down by the Problems in Your Marriage? 5 Benefits from Building Biblical Resilience and How They Bring Hope
Jul 09, 2022
#74 Are You and Your Husband Complete Opposites? 3 Things to Remember When Your Differences Are Causing Conflict
Jul 02, 2022
#73 Surrender Your Anger to God and Fight for Your Marriage God’s Way with this Biblically Based Battle Plan
Jun 25, 2022
#72 Have You Become Bitter in Your Grief, Shame, or Fear? 3 Steps to Find True Healing to Walk in Freedom from Your Past
Jun 18, 2022
#71 Today I Get Vulnerable and Share 37 Facts About Me on This Special Birthday Episode!
Jun 11, 2022
#70 Is Your Anxiety Causing Conflict or Miscommunication in Your Marriage? How to Surrender Your Anxious Thoughts and Have Better Communication with Your Husband (Part 2) with guest Erika Diaz Castro
Jun 08, 2022
#69 Is Your Anxiety Causing Conflict or Miscommunication in Your Marriage? How to Surrender Your Anxious Thoughts and Have Better Communication with Your Husband with special guest Erika Diaz-Castro
Jun 04, 2022
#68 Tired of Feeling Invalidated or Unheard During Conversations with Your Husband? 5 Steps to Having Better Communication in Your Marriage
May 28, 2022
#67 Trying to Navigate a Difficult Marriage, Separation, or Divorce? 3 Biblical Truths to Believe in the Midst of Your Brokenness and Begin to Heal
May 21, 2022
#66 Are You Drinking Alcohol to Avoid Conflict or Frustrations in Your Marriage? 3 Steps to Get Sober, Battle the Shame, and Connect with Your Husband Again with Guest Michelle Porterfield
May 14, 2022
#65 Feel Like You Want to Give Up on Your Marriage? 4 Tools to Stay Engaged and Committed as a Christian Wife
May 07, 2022
#64 Are You Escaping Your Marriage? 3 Questions for You to Figure Out Why You Numb Out When Things Get Hard
Apr 30, 2022
#63 Struggling to Forgive Your Husband and Recover from Pain in Your Marriage? 5 Steps to Get to the Place of Surrender (Part 2) with Guest Beatriz Vargas
Apr 23, 2022
#62 Waiting for a Miracle or for God to Move in Your Marriage but NOTHING Seems to Be Happening? Two Signs of Victory and Hope on This Silent Saturday Before Resurrection Day
Apr 16, 2022
#61 Struggling to Forgive Your Husband and Recover from Pain in Your Marriage? 5 Steps to Get to the Place of Surrender (Part 1) with Guest Beatriz Vargas
Apr 09, 2022
#60 Feeling Frustrated, Annoyed, or ANGRY Toward Your Husband?! 3 Biblically-Based Ways to Handle Your Anger in a Godly Way
Apr 02, 2022
#59 Has Your Marriage Hit Rock Bottom? How to Recover and Find Hope and Healing with Guest Katie Thornhill
Mar 26, 2022
#58 My Husband Isn’t Supportive! 4 Questions to Help You *gasp!* Submit to Your Husband, W.A.I.T. on the Lord, and Obey God When You and Your Husband Disagree on Finances, Jobs, and Purpose.
Mar 19, 2022
#57 One Year of Podcasting! Happy Anniversary to The Jar Podcast! Come Celebrate with Me!
Mar 12, 2022
#56 6 Steps to Prevent Spiritual Disease and Find Soul Health
Mar 05, 2022
#55 Is It Okay to Be Angry With God? Wrestling With God and Discovering His Sovereignty with Special Guest Elisha Dorsett
Feb 27, 2022
#54 Wives, FIND FREEDOM FROM SIN Series–Step 4: Don’t Be Bound by Your Past ANYMORE– 4 Ways to Trust the Transformation
Feb 24, 2022
#53 Wives, FIND FREEDOM FROM SIN Series- Step 3: The Key to Spiritual Growth After Repentance
Feb 21, 2022
#52 Wives, FIND FREEDOM FROM SIN Series–Step 2: Don’t Skip This Crucial Step in Your Journey to Break Sin’s Power Over You
Feb 19, 2022
#51 Are You a Wife Struggling to Feel Significant in Your Marriage? 3 Truths About Connecting with Your Husband this Valentine's Day
Feb 14, 2022
#50 Finding FREEDOM from Sin Series- Step 1: Finally Break Free with This ONE Thing!
Feb 12, 2022
#49 Are Your Wounds from a Painful Past Damaging Your Relationship? The Power of Inner Healing in 3 Steps
Feb 05, 2022
#48 6 Biblical Mindset Shifts to Help You CHANGE Your Mind About Your Marriage
Jan 29, 2022
#47 I'm Not Married to the Same Man...4 Keys to Staying Committed When Your Husband Changes
Jan 22, 2022
#46 Are You Feeling Spiritually STUCK? It’s Time for Some Soul Stretching and Spiritual Strengthening This Year!
Jan 15, 2022
#45 How to Use Change to Your Advantage & GROW Closer to God
Jan 08, 2022
#44 "New Year, New You"? 3 Actions to Take NOW So You Can Navigate Change This Year
Jan 01, 2022
#43 Feeling Unloved, Unseen or Unappreciated? Let Christ’s Love Be Enough for You.
Dec 25, 2021
#42 You MIGHT Be Contributing to the Chaos… 5 Benefits to Creating Calm & Communicating with Your Husband from a Place of Peace
Dec 18, 2021
#41 Change Your WAITING to ANTICIPATING with These 4 Tips for Handling Hardships Around the Holidays
Dec 11, 2021
#40 Does Your Marriage Need a Miracle? Renew Your Hope in THIS First...
Dec 05, 2021
#39 5 Reasons You’re Feeling Disappointed During the Holidays & How to Strengthen Your Marriage Through This Season
Nov 27, 2021
#38 Shift Your Perspective from Earthly to Eternal & How It Changes EVERYTHING
Nov 20, 2021
#37 BONUS! How to Be a Keeper of Your Soul and Find Wholeness Again: the Story Behind The Jar
Nov 17, 2021
#36 How to Have Emotional Wellness and Live Shame-Free So You Can Increase Connection with Your Husband
Nov 13, 2021
#35 Feeling Disappointed and Misunderstood When You Communicate with Your Husband? This is for You.
Nov 06, 2021
#34 5 Ways to LOSE an Argument with Your Husband
Oct 30, 2021
#33 Separated from Your Husband? The 3 C's that Will Help You Navigate Separation or Divorce in a Healthy Way
Oct 23, 2021
#32 5 Questions to Measure Your Impact as a Christian Wife
Oct 16, 2021
#31 Hypocrite or Holy Transformation? 4 Ways to Truly Overcome Sin
Oct 09, 2021
#30 Are Your Differences Causing a Divide? A 3-Step System to STOP Believing the Lies of Incompatibility and START Creating Unity in Your Marriage
Oct 02, 2021
#29 Is Communication a Problem in Your Marriage? Start Implementing THIS One Solution to Communicate in a Healthy Way.
Sep 25, 2021
#28 Are Your Past Mistakes Haunting You? A 3-Step Strategic Battle Plan to Help You Combat Shame and Guilt
Sep 18, 2021
#27 Stuck in a Hopeless Place in Your Marriage? Exchange Your Spirit of Heaviness with This ONE Biblical Solution.
Sep 11, 2021
#26 BONUS! How to Pray Scripture Over Your Children and Activate God's Word Over Their Lives
Sep 08, 2021
#25 Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People? 5 Steps to Grow Through Grief and Shift Your Mindset from Angry to At Peace
Sep 04, 2021
#24 God, Not Your Marital Status, Defines You. Is This True For You?
Aug 28, 2021
#23 Feeling Mentally Weighed Down or Spiraling Out of Control?? THREE Hacks to Set Your Mind on Things Above
Aug 21, 2021
#22 Did You Marry the Wrong Person? The ONE Thing Keeping You from a Happy Marriage
Aug 14, 2021
#21 Are You a Nagging Wife? The REAL Issue We Women Face
Aug 07, 2021
#20 Lacking Fulfillment in Your Relationship? 4 Ways to Foster Contentment Right Where You Are!
Jul 31, 2021
#19.2 6 Ways to Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage After Trauma or Brokenness
Jul 24, 2021
#19.1 6 Ways to Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage After Trauma or Brokenness
Jul 17, 2021
#18 Feeling Small, Invisible or UNWORTHY? Kick Shame to the Curb with These Two Tips!
Jul 10, 2021
#17 Are You in a Season That Feels Like It Will NEVER End?! How to Wait Well...
Jul 03, 2021
#16.2 Lessons Learned in My Marriage w/ an EXTRA Special Guest
Jun 26, 2021
#16.1 Lessons Learned in My Marriage w/ an EXTRA Special Guest
Jun 19, 2021
#15 How to Minimize the Sting of Your Husband’s Words and Believe What God Says About You
Jun 12, 2021
#14 How Do You Handle Conflicts in Your Marriage? You Have a CHOICE to Make!
Jun 05, 2021
#13 Pouring from an Empty Cup? How to RESET Your Motherhood w/ Guest: Karissa Barber
May 29, 2021
#12 Tired of Arguing with Your Spouse? How YOU Might Be Making It Worse...
May 22, 2021
# 11 Feeling Defeated, Weary, and Discouraged? Try THIS One Thing...
May 15, 2021
#10 Hiding in Shame After Sinning in Your Marriage? Jesus Meets You Where You Are
May 11, 2021
#9 How Do You Keep God First in Your Marriage? It’s Time to Identify, Dismantle, and Replace Idols
May 01, 2021
#8 Overcome Shame & Reclaim Your Identity in Christ w/ guest Dub Jones
Apr 24, 2021
#7 Do You Want to Grow Spiritually? How to Stay Rooted in Christ (Part 2)
Apr 17, 2021
#6 Do You Want to Grow Spiritually? How to Stay Rooted in Christ
Apr 10, 2021
#5 Are You Stuck in a Cycle of Sin in Your Marriage? What to Do When Sin Has a Hold on You
Apr 03, 2021
#4 You Are Formed and Molded In the Potter’s Hands w/ guest Michelle East
Mar 27, 2021
#3 Do You Have A Hardened Heart? What It Can Lead to & How to Change It!
Mar 20, 2021
#2 Stuck in a Fixed Mindset & Can't Get Out? Tips on How to Foster a Growth Mindset
Mar 13, 2021
#1 My "Why": Letting Light Shine Out of My Darkness
Mar 06, 2021
It's Me! Answer the Door.
Feb 24, 2021