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Never Enough: how your inner critic PRETENDS to be your coach
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May 07, 2026 |
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When you're emotionally raw, don't crowdsource your worth....
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Apr 13, 2026 |
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Don't ask triggered people BIG questions
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Apr 03, 2026 |
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How calls with your spouse go sideways (& how to fix it)
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Mar 17, 2026 |
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Stop Calling Strategies “Needs”
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Feb 26, 2026 |
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Understanding Yourself Without Staying Stuck
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Feb 18, 2026 |
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Divine Intervention: Amy's story- Divorced & Remarried
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Feb 11, 2026 |
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Different Flavors of Comfort in Families ( feat: Rosie Zint)
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Feb 03, 2026 |
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The Dopamine Hunt behind 6,7 : how to harness joy grows where attention goes
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Jan 28, 2026 |
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Stuck in the Same Fight: how naming patterns can break the cycles
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Jan 12, 2026 |
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Rethinking Relative Visits
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Nov 11, 2025 |
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But first...Curiosity
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Oct 23, 2025 |
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Can you put sex on the calendar?
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Oct 03, 2025 |
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When teasing turns toxic: scoffs & sarcasm- the slow drip of contempt
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Sep 26, 2025 |
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Steps to Move From Rumination > to > Processing
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Sep 19, 2025 |
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Ruminating vs Processing
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Sep 11, 2025 |
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The Do's & Don'ts of Processing w/ Your Spouse
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Aug 29, 2025 |
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Are you forgiving wrong?
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Aug 06, 2025 |
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When Pain Feels Like an Identity Attack
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Jul 14, 2025 |
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When Pain spoils into offense
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Jul 07, 2025 |
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Special Episode: Moved by Love: the secret to sharing Jesus
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Jun 30, 2025 |
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Passivity isn't a fruit of the spirit
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Jun 23, 2025 |
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Date Fail Debrief: Control Freak & Shut Down
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Jun 17, 2025 |
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You, Me &… Nobody Else?- isolation in marriage
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May 30, 2025 |
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16 Questions for your next date night
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May 22, 2025 |
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Slow Miracles
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May 13, 2025 |
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Welcome back, now what?
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Apr 24, 2025 |
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Avoiding Birthday Blues & Blowouts
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Mar 16, 2025 |
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You're Blocking Your Own Connection (Without Even Realizing It)
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Mar 09, 2025 |
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Internal vs External Processing Styles
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Feb 16, 2025 |
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The Compassion Cup vs. The Identity Cup: A Marriage Game-Changer
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Feb 07, 2025 |
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Ditch the "Courtroom" tactics in conflict
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Jan 25, 2025 |
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What to do when your spouse is triggered
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Jan 14, 2025 |
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The Four Typical Triggered Responses
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Dec 30, 2024 |
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The Science of "Triggered"
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Dec 27, 2024 |
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What You Feed Grows: how our small choices are creating big spiritual transformation
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Dec 18, 2024 |
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Scientist vs Judge: Curiosity over Contempt
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Dec 03, 2024 |
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Peaceful holiday plans for couples with different opinions
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Nov 25, 2024 |
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When Logic Turns to Emotion
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Nov 12, 2024 |
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The Best Way to be Heard by Your Spouse
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Nov 04, 2024 |
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The Successful Order of Navigating Conflict
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Oct 28, 2024 |
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Connection for Empty Nesters
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Oct 21, 2024 |
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How to change the culture in your marriage Pt 2
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Oct 07, 2024 |
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How to change the culture in your marriage Pt 1
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Sep 30, 2024 |
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Change your marriage: what your spouse needs the most
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Sep 26, 2024 |
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Is your spouse pushing your buttons? Conflict & Boundaries in Action
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Sep 23, 2024 |
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Behind the Highlight Reel: not falling for comparison in social media
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Sep 16, 2024 |
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Breaking Free from Passivity: Empowering Your Marriage with Intentional Action
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Sep 09, 2024 |
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Reconnecting Through the Everyday: Small Habits, Big Impact
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Sep 02, 2024 |
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Unmasking Defensiveness: Identify your protective patterns
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Aug 26, 2024 |
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Will my needs ever get met? w/ Jordan & Claire
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Aug 19, 2024 |
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Control in Marriage
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Aug 12, 2024 |
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4 tips to move out of "roommate mode" back into an intimate connection with your spouse
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Jul 19, 2024 |
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Resentment vs Investment | What I wish I knew Part 3
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Jun 13, 2024 |
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Love Language User Error | What I Wish I Knew Pt 2
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Jun 05, 2024 |
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Debunking "Don't go to bed angry" | What I Wish I Knew Pt 1
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May 30, 2024 |
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Porn Addiction in Marriage Pt 3: the Spouse's Perspective
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May 08, 2024 |
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Porn in Marriage Pt 2: Understanding Porn Addiction
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May 01, 2024 |
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Porn in Marriage Pt 1: Three Unpopular Opinions About Porn
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Apr 15, 2024 |
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How to Stop Fighting Over Stupid Stuff
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Apr 15, 2024 |
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Fairness: The Connection Killer
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Apr 08, 2024 |
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Deconstructing Gender Roles with Megan & Dalen Philp
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Mar 11, 2024 |
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10 Helpful Beliefs About Sharing Pain
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Mar 04, 2024 |
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7 Unhelpful Beliefs About Sharing Pain
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Feb 06, 2024 |
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Breakthrough IS Possible : w/ Anna & Alan Mullikin
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Jan 29, 2024 |
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Pastoring a Church Together in Marriage w/ Joaquin & Renee Evans
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Jan 22, 2024 |
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Genuine Apologies in Marriage
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Jan 16, 2024 |
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Forgiving Your Spouse
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Jan 03, 2024 |
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Part of Me Feels...While Another Part Feels...
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Dec 11, 2023 |
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Tools for Connection: Joy Memories & Appreciation
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Dec 06, 2023 |
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Creating a Refreshing Weekend: what it means to truly rest with family
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Oct 28, 2023 |
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The Growth Path of Anxious & Avoidant Attachment Styles w/ Serena Angeli
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Oct 09, 2023 |
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When Your Spouse is Stuck
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Sep 28, 2023 |
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Creating Habits of Connection in Your Marriage with Autumn & Andrew
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Sep 18, 2023 |
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Growing Individually to Grow Together w/ Ryan & Jessica
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Sep 11, 2023 |
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Crisis of Faith: my story of choosing God while uncertain
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Sep 01, 2023 |
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Self-Compassion: Why it's necessary to live in wholeness
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Aug 17, 2023 |
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Habits of Health: Fitness in Marriage
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Jul 25, 2023 |
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Feeling Lonely in Household Chores Pt 2: Post Therapy Discoveries
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Jul 18, 2023 |
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Feeling Lonely in Household Chores: Aaron & Jenna's Hard Conversation Pt 1
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Jun 27, 2023 |
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How to Vacation Well in Marriage
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Jun 22, 2023 |
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Navigating Friendships in Adulthood Pt 2 w/ Eli & Michelle (our besties)
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Jun 13, 2023 |
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Navigating Friendships in Adulthood Pt 1
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Jun 07, 2023 |
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ADHD in Marriage: navigating differences in time management, memory recall and focus
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May 25, 2023 |
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No Apology Needed: why vulnerably sharing doesn't require require an apology or change
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May 16, 2023 |
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Stories of Life Change from the Habit Lab with Stacey & Tyler Cook
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Apr 18, 2023 |
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Blame or Shame: The Nuances of Defensiveness
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Apr 04, 2023 |
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Keeping Your Heart Soft in a Hard Conversation w/ Aaron & Jenna
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Feb 28, 2023 |
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That's What She Said: a tool for regulating by telling yourself a better story w/ Jenna & Aaron
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Feb 21, 2023 |
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From Volatile to Vulnerable w/ Chris and Morgan Nicholson
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Feb 14, 2023 |
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Pursuing Dreams in Marriage w/ Sam & Rebekah LaRobardiere
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Feb 07, 2023 |
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Loving on Purpose: Connection, Communication & Boundaries w/ Danny & Sheri Silk
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Jan 31, 2023 |
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Connection Codes: Processing Sexual Emotion with Dr. Glenn & Phyllis Hill
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Jan 24, 2023 |
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The Obstacles & Practice of Vulnerability w/ Aaron & Jenna
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Jan 17, 2023 |
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Intentional Movement into Change, Growth & the Unknown w/ Aaron & Jenna
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Dec 30, 2022 |
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Undoing Passivity in Marriage w/ Derek & Becky Johnson
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Dec 20, 2022 |
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I can be in pain & no one is to blame w/ Jenna & Aaron
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Dec 13, 2022 |
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Learning Safety w/ Jeff & Betsy Kalte
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Dec 06, 2022 |
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Money in Marriage: finding a place of steady even when your finances are not w/ Aaron & Jenna
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Nov 02, 2022 |
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Healing from Sexual Trauma w/ Caitlin & Cole Zick
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Oct 25, 2022 |
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The Gift of Heartbreak: how a brand new life can come from the devastation of an affair w/ Gabriel & Debbie Mayes
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Oct 18, 2022 |
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No Bad Parts: getting to know our internal protectors w/ Aaron & Jenna
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Oct 04, 2022 |
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Freedom to Choose w/ Aaron & Jenna
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Sep 27, 2022 |
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From Rescuer/Victim to Powerful/Powerful with Angelo & McKenzie
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Sep 20, 2022 |
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Questioning Our Normals As Absolute Truth w/ Aaron & Jenna
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Sep 13, 2022 |
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Habits of Connection: Debunking All-or-Nothing with Aaron & Jenna
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Sep 06, 2022 |
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Season 2 Finale: Keys to Start Healing Your Triggers and Your Marriage w/ Aaron & Jenna
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May 31, 2022 |
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Engaging the Scientist Instead of the Judge: how curiosity leads to real change and shame doesn't w/ Aaron & Jenna
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May 24, 2022 |
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Comfortable with Discomfort (I can be in pain & be okay) with Dave & Jules Hill
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May 17, 2022 |
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Thriving Life After the Death of a Spouse with Michael & Lisa Kunz
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May 03, 2022 |
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Sugar is my Porn: Addiction, Comfort and Kindness with Aaron & Jenna
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Apr 26, 2022 |
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Let's Be on the Same Team with Aaron & Casey Tesauro
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Apr 19, 2022 |
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Connection Codes: Sexual Friendship and Q&A with Dr Glenn & Phyllis Hill
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Apr 12, 2022 |
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Balancing Work and Rest w/ Shaun & Jessie Boyd
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Apr 05, 2022 |
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Sharing Needs with Matthew & Katie Hale
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Mar 29, 2022 |
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Grieving and Trust in Marriage with Peter & Clare Mattis
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Mar 22, 2022 |
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Divorce and Blending a Family w/ Jason & Lauren Vallotton
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Mar 15, 2022 |
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Chaos and Connection in a Busy Season with a Sick Kid w/ Aaron & Jenna
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Mar 08, 2022 |
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In the Middle of the Process with Doug & Katrina
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Nov 30, 2021 |
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Not Being a Victim to Your Spouse with Dave and Katelyn
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Nov 16, 2021 |
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Intimacy That Leads to Sex with Pete & Esther
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Nov 09, 2021 |
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Dear Young Married Couple with Adam & Karissa King
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Nov 02, 2021 |
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Questions Your Spouse Isn't Meant to Answer with Emily & Sam
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Oct 26, 2021 |
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Adoption Heartache & Hope with Jaclyn & Micheal
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Oct 19, 2021 |
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When Our Energies Don't Match with Aaron & Jenna
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Oct 12, 2021 |
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Season Finale: Communication & Conflict with Aaron & Jenna Zint
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Jun 08, 2021 |
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Hurt People Hurt People with Jordan & Elise
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Jun 01, 2021 |
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What's the Goal of Your Marriage with Ben & Brittney Serpell
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May 25, 2021 |
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Connection Codes with Dr. Glenn & Phyllis Hill
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May 18, 2021 |
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Empathetic Listening with Ben & Sheena
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May 11, 2021 |
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Sex and Porn with Emily & Aaron
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May 04, 2021 |
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Pain Behind the Problem with Mollie & Peter
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Apr 27, 2021 |
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There's Always Hope with Charity & Geo
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Apr 13, 2021 |
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Being Honest with Eric & Candace Johnson
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Apr 06, 2021 |
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Prioritizing Connection with Eric & Sadie
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Mar 30, 2021 |
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Prequel: This is Us
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Mar 20, 2021 |
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When Opposites Attract with Jenna & Aaron
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Mar 20, 2021 |
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Asking Hard Questions with Jess & Andrew
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Mar 18, 2021 |