Clarity Cafe Podcast

By Clarity Cafe Podcast

Listen to a podcast, please open Podcast Republic app. Available on Google Play Store.

Category: Mental Health

Open in Apple Podcasts

Open RSS feed

Open Website

Rate for this podcast

Subscribers: 5
Reviews: 0


Sit down. Relax. Let us pour you a little break from reality as you let the good vibes flow at Clarity Cafe. Let’s connect and share all our feels and fears, so together, we learn to sip and savor on this amazingly messy thing called life. So come on in, leave your baggage at the door and we can let it all go.

Episode Date
Stop Shoulding On Yourself

Be honest, are you “shoulding” yourself? Are you like many of us who spend way too much time telling ourselves what we should do rather than what we authentically want to do. We can get a case of the “shoulds” about everything, from minor choices— “I should wear this boring outfit over the one that I really love (heart emoji) because it’s more age-appropriate”—to major life decisions— “I really want to take a year off to travel but I should go right to work after college”. In this episode, Cali and Barb get into “shoulding” territory by helping us shift our mindset so we can recognize when we’re only doing something because we think it’s what’s expected of us. They help to decipher the difference between doing something out of obligation or out of a sense of service, and they lovingly help us remove the heavy judgement that always seems to accompany a “should”. Listen in and get some clarity on how to leave the “shoulds” behind, and find the beauty in making choices based on the present moment. 

Sep 22, 2021
Frog In the Soup

In this episode, Cali and Barb introduce us to the metaphor of being a frog in a pot of hot soup. If we’re metaphorically thrown into a pot of boiling soup, we’re going to leap out of there immediately to protect ourselves. But if we start off in a broth that’s at a comfortable temperature and then is gradually brought to a boil, we might not realize that we’ve got to leap out of there until it’s way too hot. This has happened to all of us at some point in our lives. Maybe we were in a relationship that started out great, so we denied little hurts or some dysfunction until it became a toxic hot mess. Or maybe we began a job that seemed good and paid well, so we made excuses or back-burnered aspects that never felt quite right, until work became seriously stressful. So what do we do? How can we address simmering problems before we’re in a rolling boil? Listen in and find out! 

Sep 15, 2021
Accountability Buddy

Was your sugar detox crushed by the weight of your cravings for late night donuts (again!)? Instead of chastising your lack of willpower, treat yourself to an Accountability Buddy. If you’ve set a goal for yourself, having a safe, trustworthy partner who can serve as your very own nonjudgmental mirror can be unbelievably helpful. Cali and Barb dig into all the delicious details about these kinds of partnerships, and even challenge our preconceived notions about the different ways to put them to use… emotional support buddy anyone? Yes, please. Having a partner who’s ready to share a goal and celebrate its achievement can be the secret ingredient you’ve been lacking in your efforts to finally crush that elusive goal.

Sep 08, 2021
Detox & Replenish

Learning how to release toxic yuck and replace it with good stuff can be a challenge.  In this episode,  Cali and Barb move right into the subject of detoxing physically, mentally and emotionally.. How do we get back to what really matters when the stressors of life are constantly coming straight for us?  Barb and Cali share their personal detox ritual (hint: it often involves sauna, coffee and chit chat) and offer up some alternative rituals to take time to engage in that righteous circle of detox and replenishment. 

Did you know that infrared saunas are increasingly popular in the wellness community for a number of reasons, including the numerous health benefits..and let’s face it, they just make you feel good! Cali & Barb mention a few favorites in this podcast like the Clearlight Sauna! There is also the HigherDOSE Infrared Sauna

If you don’t have access to a sauna, Barb shares some creative detox & replenish rituals like hot + cold showers, drinking our favorite teas, etc. So give it a listen to find your personal pathway to feeling centered, clear, and grounded. 

Sep 01, 2021
Checking In With Your Five-Year Old Self

In this episode, Cali and Barb dive deeper into mindset and the super cool idea of cognitive reframing. Episode 17 is all about how we can reframe our mindset around people, places, and events from our past, so we can more fully accept the nature of things as they are now in the present. If you ever find yourself routinely triggered by something, ask yourself, is this based on something happening right now, or is it bringing up an experience from my past that maybe I haven’t totally dealt with yet? Changing your mindset around those triggers might just open up a whole new perspective and a slew of positive possibilities. And listen in for a chance to take advantage of free Chill Mindset tools through Clarity’s friends and partners over at You’ll be seeing the world through a whole new lens in no time.  

Aug 26, 2021
Communication: It’s Not What You’re Saying, It’s How You’re Saying It

 Now that Episode 15 has got us thinking and talking about our communities, it’s only natural we segue into how we’re communicating with the people around us. Or as Barb and Cali put it, “It’s not what you’re saying, it’s how.” Are you stressed out? Feeling triggered? We’ve got news for you, it’s no secret. Our emotional state easily seeps into our communications with everyone, from transactional conversations with the Starbucks barista to long chats with loved ones. How can we more healthily deal with our day and our feelings before they bleed into our interactions? Cali and Barb give us ideas on how to be present, be aware, and listen so we can be more effective communicators. And a nice side benefit of being a stellar communicator? Not experiencing those all-too-familiar aftershocks of regret about conversations where everything we said seemed to come out wrong. 

Aug 17, 2021
A Conversation About Community

It’s Season 2 ya’ll! It’s so good to be back with Barb and Cali for a little more Clarity. This season’s themes will be Community, Communication, Healing and Mindset. First up for Barb and Cali is community. As we get older, our community can turn into a kind of hodge-podge collection of people from our past. Our family, friends from our college days, work friends, yoga friends, neighbors… We often just accept who is in our life without thinking about whether those relationships are serving us in their present state. But our community is something we can actually curate, and Cali + Barb tell us how. After all, you are the center of your own life, which gives you control over who is in it and what role they play.

Aug 04, 2021
Overcome the Overwhelm

Feeling overwhelmed? The pace of life isn’t always at a speed we can handle, and when too much gets piled on our plate, or too many issues arise at once, it’s easy to succumb to the paralysis and anxiety that comes with feeling emotionally overwhelmed. Cali and Barb guide us through how to take our anxiety off the table so we can take a step back and see things as they truly are. After breaking down the different ways life can overwhelm us, they offer up different, yet simple tools to find neutrality, take actionable steps to move forward, and keep our wits about us, no matter what life is dishing out.

Jul 22, 2021
Acceptance: The Ultimate Gift to Yourself

In this episode, Cali and Barb guide you into giving yourself the ultimate gift—that of self-love and acceptance. We’re all so used to judging everything around us, and saving the most potent criticism for ourselves. These judgy gymnastics lead us into an ever-repeating loop of negativity, shame, guilt, and denial. But in Cali and Barb’s thoughtful style, we find out how to stop this shame loop once and for all. Packed with easy to follow tips on how to take your own side, even in your least proud moments, you’ll soon be on your way to turning that negative self-talk into a voice brimming with compassion and understanding. 

Jul 14, 2021
Emotional Baggage

In today’s episode, Barb and Cali walk us through how to leave our metaphorical baggage at the door, no matter the situation. After explaining the different levels of baggage that we all may be carrying around, Cali and Barb then suggest useful habits to practice, so that we may put that baggage down once and for all. If you’d like some sage advice on ways to approach any new situation free from feeling held back by past experiences, then this helpful episode is a must.

Jul 07, 2021

Are the voices in your head judging you? In Episode 11, Cali and Barb tackle the most important relationship you’ll have in your life—the one with yourself. They will offer insight into how to first bring awareness to the conversations you have in your mind, and then how to revise that self-talk if needed. They also provide guidance and tips on ways to fortify against the shame dragon or habitual catastrophizing, so that you can stop those negative thoughts cycles right in their tracks. 

Jun 30, 2021
Friends Are The Family We Choose

Friendships. We need them, we love them, but do we ever really think about the different types of friends that come in and out of our life? In this episode, Cali and Barb walk y’all through types of friendships: friends that are with us for a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime. Each friendship category is explained with nuance, and  are encouraged to think about what kinds of friendships they’re putting their energy into? Are these relationships that have a balanced give and take? This is a thoughtful conversation on what friendships can provide, as well as what questions we should ask ourselves to guide us in these  vital relationships.

Jun 23, 2021
Why Self Care Isn’t Selfish

Are you conditioned to put other people’s needs before your own? On this episode of Clarity Cafe, Cali and Barb show you how taking just a few minutes in your day to reframe your mindset and shift the focus on yourself can improve your mental, physical, and emotional outlook, while also enabling you to be more present and supportive when it comes to helping family, friends, and loved ones. 

Feb 23, 2021
Mindful Eating Tips

Do you eat to live, or live to eat? Regardless of where you stand with the age-old question, one thing is for sure – it’s time to examine our relationship with food. Across most cultures, food has come to represent connection. By preparing a meal, as well as eating with others or alone, it’s a shared experience that brings us closer to those we love, as well as ourselves. Cali and Barb discuss tools and habits that will help bring a higher awareness to how we relate to the food we eat and how we choose to nourish our bodies.

Feb 23, 2021
How to Build a Resilient Mindset

Ever feel like you’re in a downward spiral, stuck in a rut, or that you need a burst of positivity back into your life? The solution to your problem may be more easily attainable than you think. Cali and Barb share how to build a more open, resilient mindset and how that can change your daily experiences. Changing what we feed our minds from worry and fears to calmness and self love, has the power to transform our daily experiences. On this episode of Clarity Cafe learn how becoming more aware of where you put your attention can have a profound impact on your life.

Feb 23, 2021
A Nature Reset

They don’t call her Mother Nature for nothing. In today’s increasingly noisy, chaotic world, Cali and Barbara take a page out of the popular film “My Octopus Teacher” and examine the healing power of nature and how being more connected to the organic environment has the power to ground the mind, allowing us to be more present in the moment. Learn how to reset and restructure the noise that comes with life in order to forge deeper, more meaningful connections with ourselves and the people we care about. 

Feb 23, 2021
Finding your Clarity Sisters?

We’ve all been there – sitting and thinking about our next step in life, assessing whether we are on the right (or wrong) path, or wondering about our purpose. While contemporary culture given by social media and instant gratification leads us to believe that we’ll somehow reach the top of a mountain to gain a solitary sense of enlightenment that will help us make sense of our lives, Cali and Barb explore the concept of and how we can actually achieve it in a meaningful way with the help of our band of “Clarity Sistas,” who walk the path alongside us on our never-ending journey. 

Feb 23, 2021
How to Start Healing Our Emotional Scars

Imagine “hacking” your own mind! What if you could inject it with perspective? In this thought provoking second episode of Clarity Cafe, Cali and Barb unpack the implications of scar tissue and mental reprogramming. With Barb’s background in regenerative medicine and Cali’s expertise in mindset hacking, they explore how physical injuries and emotional events can impact our present being. While a seemingly small injury or minor event can cause ripples through our mental, emotional and spiritual wellbeing, we share how to gain perspective and space to take control and achieve clarity. 

Feb 23, 2021
Recognizing You Have Superpowers

With inspiration from the one and only Michael Franti, Cali and Barb muse on what it means to stay human and forge meaningful connections with the people around us, as the world continues to spiral with challenge, conflict, and uncertainty. By letting go of expectations, giving up the illusion that we can control other people, and instead embracing our differences in upbringing, opinion, and belief systems, we can unlock our superpowers and find our happy place, while also allowing others to express who they are for a more authentic exchange of communication. 

Feb 23, 2021
How can you have a positive “trigger”?

We all have triggers. Whether it's struggling with the weight of dealing with unprecedented challenges or meeting day-to-day expectations and deadlines… they can happen at any time… anywhere. Cali and Barb know a thing or two about how adapting on the habit of finding, seeking, and sharing humor in everyday life can be a powerful tool. Finding positive triggers in the smallest moments can change your energy by affecting your mindset and outlook. It also has the ability to make the people and environment around you a better place.

Feb 23, 2021
Grounding The Way

Ever wondered if you could find more calm & clear in this crazy world?  A little more courage and a little less confusion? A lot more self love and a lot less self doubt… all whilst keeping a smile on your face? Meet Cali and Barb, two down to earth, real-life warriors and Clarity sisters who have banded together to share their own experiences, mishaps and tribulations to help others navigate this rollercoaster of a ride touching on all kinds of mindfulness, mindset, and health advice. In the very first episode of Clarity Cafe, they take on the concept of grounding, exploring why it’s important in today’s noisy world. Through visualization, Cali and Barb show you how it’s possible to be more present and achieve an ever-illusive sense of calm and clarity.

Feb 23, 2021