SexTok with Tracey and Kelsey

By Tracey Cox and Kelsey Chittick

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This weekly show pairs international sex expert Tracey Cox and comic Kelsey Chittick as they discuss three anonymously sourced question each week about sex and relationships. 


Laugh-out-loud funny, irreverent, British, international sex expert and author of 17 books Tracey answers questions posed by witty author and former stand-up comedienne Kelsey Chittick, such as:


How much should I really share with my girlfriends? 

What do I do about my husband's work wife? 

How often should we really be getting it on?! 


Have your own questions?! Enter them anonymously at www.sextokpod.com


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Music by Morning Moon Music



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Episode Date
S9 Ep. 10: My Partner Won't Give Me What I've Asked for in Bed, 'Tension Orgasms', and Why Does My Partner Prefer Porn to Sex with Me
Apr 17, 2024
S9 Ep. 9: Talking About Sex When You Haven't Had It In Years (and Years), Friends with Benefits, and How do You Know if You're Terrible in Bed?
Apr 10, 2024
S9 Ep. 8: Should You Stay if Your Partner Has No Interest in Making Sex Good, What to Do if He Orgasms Too Quickly, and Why Did my New Trick Backfire?
Apr 03, 2024
S9 Ep. 7: Multiple Orgasms, How to Suggest a Threesome, and 24-year-old Male Virgins
Mar 27, 2024
S9 Ep. 6: Is Being Intense a Turn-Off on Dates, Antidepressants Have Wrecked my Sex Life, and Tips on Trying New Things in Bed
Mar 20, 2024
S9 Ep. 5: I Want to Use My Vibrator with Him, I Can't Face Sex After My Husband's Affair, and How to Make 69ers More Satisfying
Mar 13, 2024
S9 Ep. 4: He Refuses to Wear a Condom for Contraception, I Can’t Enjoy Breast Play After Children, and Why Do I Watch Lesbian Porn When I’m Straight?
Mar 06, 2024
S9 Ep. 3: Does Hooking Up on a Dating App Mean You Must Have Sex, Why Are My Dreams Making Me Furious with My Husband, and Can You Reset a Sexual Fantasy?
Feb 28, 2024
S9 Ep. 2: What to Do If Someone Puts You Down About Sex, Can Women Take Viagra, and How Do I Stop Him Being Obsessed with My Orgasms?
Feb 21, 2024
S9 Ep. 1: My Husband Wants Me to Peg Him, Why Is He Keeping Notes on Our Sex Life, and Noisy Neighbor Sex
Feb 14, 2024
BEST OF SEXTOK: I Hate the Way My Husband Initiates, How Do I Know If It’s Love or Loneliness, and What to Do When It’s Him Saying No to Sex?
Jan 31, 2024
BEST OF SEXTOK: Emotional Affairs, How to Handle a Small Penis, and Is It Wrong to Only Want Sex When I’m Tipsy?
Jan 24, 2024
BEST OF SEXTOK: I Want Her Husband, Why Won’t She Let Me Give Her Oral Sex, and Please Explain Anal Play
Jan 17, 2024
BEST OF SEXTOK: How to Set Up a Relationship so You Talk Openly About Sex, Why am I Over-Sensitive After Orgasm, and Do I Really Have to Wear a Condom?
Jan 10, 2024
S7 Ep. 10: How Do I Initiate Sex, How to Play a Power Game, and Is My Boyfriend Fetishizing My Curves?
Dec 13, 2023
S7 Ep. 9: Cervical Orgasms, I Hate Being Touched After Sex, and How Can I Be Wilder in Bed?
Dec 06, 2023
S7 Ep. 8: Hints on Hand-Jobs, How to Increase Libido, and Tips on Sleeping with Someone New After 25 Years with One Person?
Nov 29, 2023
S7 Ep. 7: My Son's Friend Wants to Date Me, Is It Good to Take a Break from Sex, and How Can I Recreate the Sexual Chemistry I Had with My Ex?
Nov 22, 2023
S7 Ep. 6: Jaw-Aching Oral Sex, Do Men Like Genital Piercings, and How to Stop Obsessing About What I Look Like During Sex
Nov 15, 2023
S7 Ep. 5: Why Does He Lose His Erection, Is Sex During a Break Cheating, and Is My Husband a Sex Addict?
Nov 08, 2023
S7 Ep. 4: How Do I Learn to Relax During Oral Sex, Can You Tell If She's Had a Real Orgasm, and Should I Have a Revenge Affair?
Nov 01, 2023
S7 Ep. 3: Is It Okay to Ask a Woman to Wear High-Heels in Bed, Where Did My Wife Learn Her New Tricks, and Why is My Partner Avoiding Sex After the Birth of Our Child?
Oct 25, 2023
S7 Ep. 2: Will Opening Up Our Relationship Ruin It, I Hate 'Make-Up Sex,' and Where's Our Libido Gone?
Oct 18, 2023
S7 Ep. 1: Is Great Sex and a Great Relationship Even Possible, I'm a 29-Year-Old Virgin, and How Do I Guide My Daughter Who Might Be Gay?
Oct 11, 2023
S6 Ep. 10: On-Off Relationships, How Long to Wait Before First Having Sex, and the Downside of ED Drugs
Sep 06, 2023
S6 Ep. 9: Quickies, What to Do with a Too-Wide Penis, and My Husband's Not Interested in Sex So Why Can't I Flirt with Other Men?
Aug 30, 2023
S6 Ep. 8: Sex After an Affair, Penetrative Orgasms, and Why do I Hate Cuddling After Sex?
Aug 23, 2023
S6 Ep. 7: Multiple Orgasms, Sex Dreams, and Should I Encourage Him to Visit a Massage Parlor?
Aug 16, 2023
S6 Ep. 6: How Do I Make Myself More Interested in Sex, My Husband's a Cross-Dresser, and Which Things on a Sex Bucket List are Worth the Hassle?
Aug 09, 2023
S6 Ep. 5: How to Masturbate Without Using Porn, Is Once a Week Enough, and Are Separate Beds the Kiss of Death for Your Sex Life?
Aug 02, 2023
S6 Ep. 4: I Worry About How I Smell, Why Does He Want to Orgasm on my Breasts, and How to be a Decent Husband When You Aren’t Getting Sex
Jul 26, 2023
S6 Ep. 3: I Want Her Husband, Why Won’t She Let Me Give Her Oral Sex, and Please Explain Anal Play
Jul 19, 2023
S6. Ep. 2: Talking Dirty, the Dangers of him Taking Viagra Even Though He Doesn't Need It, and What's the Point of an Open Relationship Unless Both of You are Attached?
Jul 12, 2023
S6 Ep. 1: Should I Gift my Daughter an Online Masturbation Course, How to Deal with Faking at the Start, and What if I Have No Fantasies?
Jul 05, 2023
S5 Ep. 10: How to Set Up a Relationship So You Talk Openly About Sex, Why Am I Over-Sensitive After Orgasm, and Do I Really Have to Wear a Condom?
May 31, 2023
S5 Ep. 9: Do Straight Men Sleep with Other Men, Tips on Watching Porn Together, and Persuading a Partner to French Kiss
May 24, 2023
S5 Ep. 8: Why Won't He Go Down On Me, I Told Friends About my Partner's Sex Kink, and Can You Be Too Wet for Sex?
May 17, 2023
S5 Ep. 7: Orgasm Headaches, What's 'Normal' Porn Use, and Her Weight Worries are Ruining Our Sex Life
May 10, 2023
S5 Ep. 6: My Partner Has a Secret Sexting Account, How to Convince a Lover to Try Sex Toys, and Is a Marriage Better or Worse if You've Only Ever Slept with Each Other?
May 03, 2023
S5 Ep. 5: Tiresome Threesome Jokes, Why Did a Lost Erection Mean the End of Our Relationship, and What’s with the Thigh Biting?
Apr 26, 2023
S5 Ep. 4: I Hate the Way My Husband Initiates, How Do I Know If It’s Love or Loneliness, and What to Do When It’s Him Saying No to Sex
Apr 19, 2023
S5 Ep. 3: Emotional Affairs, How to Handle a Small Penis, and Is It Wrong to Only Want Sex When I’m Tipsy
Apr 12, 2023
S5 Ep. 2 The Benefits of Solo Sex, Should I Tell About my Past, and How Do I Get My Wife to Have More Sex with Me?
Apr 05, 2023
S5 Ep. 1 Loss of Desire, Loud Lovers, and How to Tell my Long-Term Partner I've Had Herpes the Whole Time
Mar 29, 2023
S4 Ep. 10: Religion and Sex, Playing the Field, and How Do I Tell My Partner I Enjoy Choking
Feb 22, 2023
S4 Ep. 9: How to Find a High-End Sex Club, Is Spontaneous Sex Important, and I've Gone Off Sex Since My Daughter was Born
Feb 15, 2023
S4 Ep. 8: Why Do I Run When the Sex Wanes, Do Women Have Anal Just to Please Men, and How Do I Deal with 'Hot Air'?
Feb 08, 2023
S4 Ep. 7: Sex with a Man 20 Years Older, What to do If He Falls Out, and How to Tell Someone They're Not the Lover They Think They Are
Feb 01, 2023
S4 Ep. 6: Why Can I Only Orgasm Alone, Do Women Like Hairy Men, and Will I Regret Leaving My Husband?
Jan 25, 2023
S4 Ep. 5: Is It Okay if My Husband Follows Model and Porn Star Accounts, Mixing Up Missionary, and Is My Man Faking It?
Jan 18, 2023
S4 Ep. 4: I Can Only Orgasm with My Vibrator, Sex During Your Period, and Fixating on Fairytale Encounters
Jan 11, 2023
S4 Ep. 3: Weed and Desire, Sex after Breast Cancer, and How to Hit the 'Reset' Button for Sex
Jan 04, 2023
S4 Ep. 2: Pubic Hair, B reast Play, and Dealing with a 'Man-Child'
Dec 28, 2022
S4 Ep. 1: Can You Spot a Cheater, How to Impress that Very First Time, and How to Make Him Last Longer
Dec 21, 2022
S3 Ep. 10: He Can't Find my Clitoris, Sex as a Widow, and Why Has My Affair Made Sex Hotter with My Husband?
Nov 16, 2022
S3 Ep. 9: A New Technique, Friends that Turn on You After an Affair, and Sex Gifts that Won't Make You Cringe
Nov 09, 2022
S3 Ep. 8: Bent Penises, Sex Buddies, and Should You Stick Around if the Sex Spark Isn't There?
Nov 02, 2022
S3 Ep. 7: Open Relationships, The Myth of the Simultaneous Orgasm, and How Soon is Acceptable to Make a Move After a Break Up?
Oct 26, 2022
S3 Ep. 6: Sex Pests, Stocking Stuffers, and Sexual History
Oct 19, 2022
S3 Ep. 5: Acting Out Sex Fantasies, Newly Discovered Old Affairs, and What to Do If You Never Get Wet
Oct 12, 2022
S3 Ep. 4: How Do I Know if My Partner is Still Watching Porn, Do 'Sex Dates' Work, and I Don't Trust Men After My Father's Affair
Oct 05, 2022
S3 Ep. 3: Does Cheating with Another Woman Count, Hints on How to Speed Up Sex, and Dealing with Daddy Issues
Sep 28, 2022
S3 Ep. 2: What's Normal Eight Years In, I'm Threatened by His Past, and Does Being Drunk Excuse Someone from Cheating?
Sep 21, 2022
S3 Ep. 1: To Vab or Not to Vab, Baby Speak, and How to Give a Great Hand Job
Sep 14, 2022
S2 Ep. 17: Erections that Come and Go, Tricks for Having Great Sex Long-Distance, and How to Get Back on the Horse after Years of Being Single
May 03, 2022
S2 Ep. 16: My Husband Only Wants Anal Sex, My partner Was a Virgin, and Is It The Kiss of Death if We Sleep in Separate Beds?
Apr 26, 2022
S2 Ep. 15: Sex with a Much Older Man, Nipple-Biting, and Why has a Death Made Me Horny?
Apr 19, 2022
S2 Ep. 14: Cross-Dressing, Jealous Rages, and How to Make Sex Work When You’re Different Heights
Apr 12, 2022
S2 Ep. 13: Sex Giggles, Sex Dreams, and How to Tell if Your Boyfriend is Secretly Gay
Apr 05, 2022
S2 Ep. 12: My Partner Won't Listen to What I Want in Bed, my Boyfriend's Still on Tinder, and Is There Really Such a Thing as an Aphrodisiac?
Mar 29, 2022
S2 Ep. 11: I Don't Like How My Vulva Looks, My Friends Can't Forgive His Affair, and How to Use a Butt Plug
Mar 22, 2022
S2 Ep. 10: Working from Home Porn Addiction, Crushes on Other Men, and What to Do When You’re Married but Haven’t Had Sex in Years
Mar 15, 2022
S2 Ep. 9: Intercourse Orgasms, Should You Confess an Affair You Got Away With, and How to Talk Yourself into Wanting Sex
Mar 08, 2022
S2 Ep. 8: How Can I Speed Up Sex, Should I Be Wary of Girly Talk, and Does it Take Longer to Orgasm as You Get Older?
Mar 01, 2022
S2 Ep. 7: When to Go and When to Stay, My Orgasms are Too Intense, and How to Talk to Men about Erection Problems
Feb 22, 2022
S2 Ep. 6: Lubes, Swallowing, and What to Do if Your Unborn Child Might Not Be Your Husband's
Feb 15, 2022
S2 Ep. 5: Nocturnal Erections, How to Jazz Up the Same Old Sex Positions, and is a Forced Proposal Something You Should Refuse?
Feb 08, 2022
S2 Ep. 4: First-Time Sex with Someone You Really Like, Inviting Your Vibrator into Bed with Your Partner, and What to Do if Your Husband Leaves You
Feb 01, 2022
S2 Ep. 3: A Husband Obsessed with His Penis Size, Why Zoom Sex is Better than Sex In-Person, and Where Are All the Good Men Hiding?
Jan 25, 2022
S2 Ep. 2: How Much Sex is Normal for Long-Term Couples, Tips on Cringe-Proof Roleplay, and Breaking Up with Your Best Friend
Jan 18, 2022
S2 Ep. 1: Male Virgins, When Does Friendship Turn into Leading Someone On, and Does Viagra Enhance Sex for Women?
Jan 11, 2022
Ep. 38: Pegging, Bachelor Confessions, and Noisy Lovers
Jan 04, 2022
Ep. 37: How Many Lovers is Too Many, ‘Cuckold’ Fantasies, and What if It’s Him Facing the Wall?
Dec 28, 2021
Ep. 36: Narcissists, Threesomes, and How Do You Know if You're Good in Bed?
Dec 21, 2021
Ep. 35: Female Ejaculation, Penises Bent like a Banana, and Right Man, Wrong Time
Dec 15, 2021
Ep. 34: Friends Dating Married Men, Girlfriends on OnlyFans, and Falling Asleep on the Job
Dec 07, 2021
Ep. 33: Why Does Lust Die Over Time, the Argument for ‘Duty Sex’ and Practical Tips to Help Keep Desire High
Nov 30, 2021
Ep. 32: Threatened Husbands, A ‘Moving’ Clitoris, and Talking About Sex to Teen
Nov 23, 2021
Ep. 31: Lubrication Problems, How to Tip Someone Over into Orgasm, and Does It Count As Cheating If It's With the Same Sex?
Nov 16, 2021
Ep. 30: Piercings, Hot Ex Sex, and Whether to Keep Quiet About a Potentially Cheating Fiancé
Nov 09, 2021
Ep. 29: The Telltale Sign She's Faking It, Sex Addicts, and Sex with Younger Men
Nov 02, 2021
Ep. 28: Virtual Porn, Performance Anxiety, and How to Orgasm from Oral
Oct 26, 2021
Ep. 27: Multiple Orgasms, Bi-Sexuality, and How To Delicately Tackle Those Lockdown Pounds
Oct 19, 2021
Ep. 26: Unsettling Fantasies, Love Changes And Why Does He Still Watch Porn When He Has Me?
Oct 12, 2021
Ep. 25: Friends Who Want to be Lovers, Approved Extra-Marital Sex, and What If They Won’t Reciprocate Oral Sex?
Oct 05, 2021
Ep. 24: The Affair Special: Do Details Help or Make it Worse, Should You Even Up the Score with Your Own Affair – And How Can You Ever Enjoy Sex with Them Again?
Sep 28, 2021
Ep. 23: Wild Women, Satisfying Quickies and Trying to Change Your Partner
Sep 21, 2021
Ep. 22: Windy Sex, Safe One-Night Stands and Sex Post Pregnancy
Sep 14, 2021
Ep. 21: G-Spots, Female-Friendly Porn and Finding Your Perfect Sex Match
Sep 07, 2021
Ep. 20: Lasting Longer, a Friend’s Affair and Disappearing Sex Toys
Aug 31, 2021
Ep. 19: How Many Lovers is Too Many, ‘Cuckold’ Fantasies, and What if It’s Him Facing the Wall?
Aug 24, 2021
Ep. 18: New Things to Try in Bed, What to Do If Your Bits Don’t Fit, and Dealing with an Obnoxious Partner
Aug 17, 2021
Ep. 17: Orgasm-friendly Sex Positions, Younger Men, and the Top Three Sex Toys to Try
Aug 10, 2021
Ep. 16: Finding ‘The One’, Nude Selfies, and Viagra Rivals
Aug 03, 2021
Ep. 15: Pegging, Bachelor Confessions, and Noisy Lovers
Jul 27, 2021
Ep. 14: Suspiciously Adventurous Husbands, Signature Sex Moves, and Gay Exes
Jul 20, 2021
Ep. 13: Talking Dirty, In-the-Flesh Dating, and Sex Secrets
Jul 13, 2021
Ep. 12: Painful Sex, Missing Kissing and Viagra Fears
Jul 06, 2021
Ep. 11: First Time Anal Sex, Men Who Don’t Make a Move, and Battling Catholic Guilt
Jun 29, 2021
Ep. 10: Tips on Oral Sex, Not Feeling Like Doin’ It, and Sex Toys
Jun 22, 2021
Ep. 9: Sex at the Start, a Friend’s Husband, and Fantasies
Jun 15, 2021
Ep. 8: Shortage of eligible men, polyamorous relationships, and location preference
Jun 08, 2021
Ep. 7: Sex personalities, Exes and Orgasm Face
Jun 01, 2021
Ep. 6: Affairs, Painful Sex, and Asexuality
May 25, 2021
Ep. 5: Stretch Marks, Vibrators, and Porn
May 18, 2021
Ep. 4: Pubic Hair Grooming, Frequency, and Drinking Before Sex
May 11, 2021
Ep. 3: Orgasms, Work Wives, and Frequency
May 04, 2021
Ep. 2: Date Night, Sex Secrets, and Size
Apr 27, 2021
Ep. 1: Porn, Dreams, and Oral Sex
Apr 15, 2021