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gAy A delivers inspiring stories about queer people in sobriety who are achieving amazing feats in their recovery, proving that we are all LGBTQIA+ sober heroes.
If you are looking for a safe space where all queer people, no matter their gender, sexual orientation, age, length of sober time, or method of recovery are valid, this is the sober show for you. If you are sober, you are a hero!
This show is not affiliated with any program or institution, so you will hear stories from alcoholics and addicts where people mention getting sober using recovery methods such as rehabilitation, both inpatient and outpatient rehabs, sober living, hospitals, and some of us who got sober at home on our own. Guests may mention twelve step programs like AA, CMA, SMART Recovery, or other methods, while accepting that no one answer is perfect for everyone.
This podcast will provide valuable insights for any interested in learning more about queer recovery, from those of us with years or even decades of recovery under their belt, to people just beginning their sobriety journey, to even the sober curious or friends and family of alcoholics and addicts.
Each week, host Sober Steve the Podcast Guy tries to answer the following questions in various formats and with different perspectives:
· How do I get and stay sober in the queer community?
· Can you have fun while being sober and gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or queer?
· What does a sober life as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community look like?
· Where do sober gay and queer people hang out?
· How can I have good sex sober?
· What are tips and tricks for early sobriety?
· How can I get unstuck or out of this rut in my recovery?
· How will my life change if I get sober?
· Can you be queer and sober and happy?
· How can I untangle sex and alcohol and drugs?
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Stay Connected, Stay Sober ft. Richard D
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Nov 14, 2024 |
Blank Spaces, Brave Faces, and Swift Steps ft. Julianne Griffin
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Nov 07, 2024 |
Traveling in Sobriety ft. Frankie
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Oct 31, 2024 |
Sobriety, Social Media, and Self Care ft. Jaycee K Clark
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Oct 24, 2024 |
Being "Out" in Sobriety ft. Danielle
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Oct 17, 2024 |
Sober Support from The Vault (Part Two)
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Oct 10, 2024 |
Sober Support from The Vault (Part One)
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Oct 03, 2024 |
Surviving Socializing Sober ft. Savanna
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Sep 26, 2024 |
AI on Sobriety & Queerness: Steve interviews ChatGPT
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Sep 19, 2024 |
Competitions in Sobriety ft. Chad
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Sep 12, 2024 |
Be True to Yourself ft. Chad R
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Sep 05, 2024 |
Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families ft. Melinda
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Aug 29, 2024 |
Leather and Kink in Sobriety ft. Dale
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Aug 22, 2024 |
You Are Not Alone ft. Dale W
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Aug 15, 2024 |
Turning Your Mess Into Your Message ft. Jaycee K. Clark
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Aug 08, 2024 |
The Sober Unicorn ft. Holden
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Aug 01, 2024 |
Day Counting in Early Recovery ft. Drake
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Jul 25, 2024 |
Forgiveness and Feeling At Home ft. Ginelle
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Jul 18, 2024 |
Mailbag Part 2: Sober Lessons over 200 Episodes!
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Jul 11, 2024 |
Celebrating 200 Episodes - Mailbag #1
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Jul 04, 2024 |
Living Authentic, Sober, and Queer ft. Sam (#199)
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Jun 27, 2024 |
Coping with Trauma and PTSD in Sobriety ft. Johnny Bear (#198)
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Jun 20, 2024 |
Trials, Tribulations, and Triumphs ft. Richard A (#197)
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Jun 13, 2024 |
Swift Steps ft. Jewels & Emily (#196)
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Jun 06, 2024 |
LGBTQ Mindfulness: Alex on Mindset Tips & Being Around Drinkers (#195)
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May 30, 2024 |
What Does Diversity Mean To You? Diversefest 2024 Bonus
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May 27, 2024 |
Unraveling Recovery ft. Christina Hayes Scott (#194)
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May 23, 2024 |
Winding Down from Florida Roundup '24 (#193)
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May 21, 2024 |
Journaling and Community in Sobriety ft. Alex S (#192)
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May 16, 2024 |
Sobervation: Sober Motivation featuring Eric (#191)
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May 09, 2024 |
No Fighting in the Life Boat with James Sweasy (#190)
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May 02, 2024 |
Working with Your Partner Sober ft. Joey B (#189)
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Apr 25, 2024 |
Grief & ADHD Sober ft. Andy (#188)
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Apr 17, 2024 |
Trans Figured in Sobriety ft. Brian B
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Apr 11, 2024 |
Success in Sobriety ft. Christopher V
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Apr 04, 2024 |
Creativity in Sobriety: Leo S on Being a Creative Sober and Uncomfortable Work
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Mar 28, 2024 |
Skating, Self Love, ADHD, and Making Music in Sobriety ft. Chad and J9 #184
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Mar 21, 2024 |
Finding My Way Back to God ft. Steve #183
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Mar 17, 2024 |
Fitness and Sobriety: JP and Tim's Journeys towards Health & Happiness
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Mar 14, 2024 |
From Porn Star to PhD ft. Jim G
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Mar 07, 2024 |
The Frog No More ft. Charlie Gray #180
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Feb 29, 2024 |
1000 Days Sober: My Soberhero Origin Story
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Feb 22, 2024 |
Swiping Sober: Navigating Love on Queer Dating Apps #178
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Feb 15, 2024 |
Sober Apps: Navigating Sobriety in 2024 #177
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Feb 08, 2024 |
Out of the Podcast Booth & Into the Spotlight: Taking My Sober Message Live
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Feb 01, 2024 |
Self Care Routines ft. Steve and Kristen
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Jan 25, 2024 |
Putting Down the Sword ft. Kevin
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Jan 18, 2024 |
Sober Magik ft. Dallas
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Jan 11, 2024 |
A Change in Perspective ft Phil #172
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Jan 04, 2024 |
Bossing ft. Frank
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Dec 28, 2023 |
Sober Holidays ft. Jimmy C
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Dec 21, 2023 |
Enough is Enough ft. Ben
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Dec 14, 2023 |
Sex in Recovery ft. Jason R #168
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Dec 07, 2023 |
Stinking Thinking ft. Mark
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Nov 30, 2023 |
Not a Glum Lot ft. Cintia
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Nov 23, 2023 |
Gratitude ft. Savanna
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Nov 16, 2023 |
Higher Power Stuff ft. Kristen
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Nov 09, 2023 |
Managing Your Career in Sobriety ft. Elsa #163
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Nov 02, 2023 |
The Gift of Desperation ft. Dick G
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Oct 26, 2023 |
Sober Superhero ft. Thomas
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Oct 19, 2023 |
Sober Gay Sunday ft. Dave #160
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Oct 12, 2023 |
Don't Take Yourself So Seriously ft. Jimmy A #159
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Oct 05, 2023 |
You Won't Always Feel Like This ft. Roger
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Sep 28, 2023 |
I Didn't Listen ft. Jeff
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Sep 21, 2023 |
90 Days Sober ft. Mrs. Chan-Charley
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Sep 14, 2023 |
Sobriety and Recovery ft. Danielle #155
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Sep 07, 2023 |
Smashed, Not Wasted ft. Sam T
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Aug 31, 2023 |
Acceptance is the Answer ft. Joshua
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Aug 24, 2023 |
Deeper Dating ft. Ken Page
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Aug 17, 2023 |
Negativity Be Gone! ft. Bruce W. Brackett
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Aug 10, 2023 |
Celebrating 150 Episodes ft. Steve B
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Aug 03, 2023 |
Celebrating Sober ft. Savanna
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Jul 27, 2023 |
Overcoming Obstacles ft. Joey B
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Jul 20, 2023 |
Triple Threat ft. James T. Lane
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Jul 13, 2023 |
Light of a Clear Blue Morning ft. Shane
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Jul 06, 2023 |
...Don't be an Ass Hat ft. Kole
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Jun 22, 2023 |
Love & Luck ft. Jaymes
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Jun 15, 2023 |
It's How You Carry It ft. Phil B #143
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Jun 08, 2023 |
Race in Recovery ft. The Blackyard Collective
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Jun 01, 2023 |
Sex in Recovery ft. Frank
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May 25, 2023 |
Making Music ft. J9 #140
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May 18, 2023 |
Discovering Your Identity ft. Michael
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May 11, 2023 |
Overcoming Ruts ft. Jo
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May 04, 2023 |
Sober But Stuck ft. Kristen
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Apr 27, 2023 |
Marriage ft. Dusty
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Apr 20, 2023 |
Sexuality ft. Charlie Gray #135
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Apr 13, 2023 |
Discovering Your Gender in Recovery ft. Chris
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Apr 06, 2023 |
More Will Be Revealed ft. Jase
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Mar 30, 2023 |
Be Still and Know ft. Dallas
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Mar 23, 2023 |
Don't Carry It All ft. JP
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Mar 16, 2023 |
Do it for Yourself ft. Elle
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Mar 09, 2023 |
Focus on What's Important ft. Maxim
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Mar 06, 2023 |
Do Over ft. Brad
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Mar 02, 2023 |
Sobriety Isn't Misery ft. Craig
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Feb 26, 2023 |
Acceptance is the Answer ft. Crescent
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Feb 23, 2023 |
Give It Your All Ft. Jason R #125
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Feb 16, 2023 |
Fortune Favors the Bold ft. Blaise
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Feb 09, 2023 |
Acceptance ft. Mark
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Feb 02, 2023 |
Deeds, Not Words ft. Nate
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Jan 26, 2023 |
Fearless & Thorough Ft. Danielle #121
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Jan 19, 2023 |
The Next Right Thing ft. Paula
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Jan 12, 2023 |
More Than One Way to Get Sober ft. Chris
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Jan 05, 2023 |
Freedom Is... ft. Mario
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Dec 29, 2022 |
There is a Solution ft. Mario
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Dec 22, 2022 |
The Frogs Bottle ft. Charlie Gray #116
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Dec 18, 2022 |
GSM: Freedom Is... ft. Landon
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Dec 15, 2022 |
Love Will Turn You Around ft. Landon
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Dec 08, 2022 |
Living Life to the Fullest ft. Frank
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Dec 01, 2022 |
Gratitude 2022
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Nov 24, 2022 |
Focus on Today ft. Robby
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Nov 17, 2022 |
HALT ft. John
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Nov 10, 2022 |
Whatever You Want, God ft. Jameson
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Nov 03, 2022 |
Practice Makes Permanence ft. Jim C
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Oct 27, 2022 |
You Can't Do It Alone ft. James
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Oct 20, 2022 |
Staying Connect ft. Mark
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Oct 13, 2022 |
Become Your Dream ft. Delano
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Oct 06, 2022 |
Marriage ft. Brandy Joe #104
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Sep 29, 2022 |
Allow Good Things ft. Davide
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Sep 22, 2022 |
Put Yourself First ft. Wes
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Sep 15, 2022 |
Every Day is New ft. Ash
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Sep 08, 2022 |
Straight-Edge ft. Michael R
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Sep 01, 2022 |
Let Go and Let God ft. Sarah
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Aug 27, 2022 |
Feel It Now, Feel It Later ft. WT
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Aug 25, 2022 |
A Power Greater Than Ourselves ft. Reace
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Aug 18, 2022 |
Sober Travel ft. Dave #97
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Aug 11, 2022 |
Recovery Isn't Microwavable ft. Daniel
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Aug 04, 2022 |
If You Can't Have One... ft. Jordan
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Jul 28, 2022 |
I Am... Ft. Tim G
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Jul 21, 2022 |
The No Matter What Club ft. Sandy
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Jul 14, 2022 |
Keep Coming Back ft. Kevin
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Jul 07, 2022 |
Roundup Wind Down: GSM 2022
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Jun 30, 2022 |
Celebrating One Year Sober w/ Kristen
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Jun 23, 2022 |
Community Update
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Jun 20, 2022 |
Sex and Communication ft. Dave #88
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Jun 16, 2022 |
Dating Sober ft. Dave
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Jun 13, 2022 |
Give it a Whirl ft. Chris
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Jun 09, 2022 |
Relapse ft. Gabriel
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Jun 06, 2022 |
One Day at a Time ft. Brian
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Jun 02, 2022 |
Discovering Your Identity ft. Brandy Joe #83
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May 30, 2022 |
Keep It Simple ft. Klay
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May 26, 2022 |
Listen to Yourself ft. Charlie Gray #81
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May 23, 2022 |
GSM 2022 ft. Mitch
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May 21, 2022 |
Untoxicated ft. Andrew
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May 19, 2022 |
Marriage ft. Savanna
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May 16, 2022 |
You're Not Struggling Alone ft. Alex S #77
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May 12, 2022 |
Trust the Process ft. Jimmy
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May 09, 2022 |
This Naked Mind ft. John
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May 05, 2022 |
F*cked and Insane ft. Scott
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Apr 28, 2022 |
Beginning Step 11
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Apr 26, 2022 |
Self Reflection ft. Joe
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Apr 21, 2022 |
Living in the 10th Step
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Apr 18, 2022 |
I Don't Do That Anymore ft. Dave #70
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Apr 14, 2022 |
Getting My Steps In
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Apr 11, 2022 |
Sober, Not Boring ft. Dani
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Apr 07, 2022 |
Not Afraid ft. Eric #67
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Apr 04, 2022 |
Live and Let Live ft. Lonny
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Mar 31, 2022 |
Help Others & Get to Work ft. Jessika
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Mar 28, 2022 |
Just Start, Don't Stop ft. J9 #64
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Mar 24, 2022 |
Euphoria (2019)
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Mar 21, 2022 |
Baby Steps ft. Nae
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Mar 17, 2022 |
Completing Steps 4 and 5
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Mar 15, 2022 |
Hardcore SobrieTea ft. Logan
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Mar 10, 2022 |
Don't Quit Before the Miracle ft. Lucas
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Mar 07, 2022 |
Everybody Loves a Comeback Story ft. Sarah
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Mar 03, 2022 |
The Jaywalker
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Feb 28, 2022 |
All I Know So Far ft. David
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Feb 24, 2022 |
My NYC Trip
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Feb 19, 2022 |
Keep Coming Back ft. Andres
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Feb 17, 2022 |
You Get Better ft. Brandy Joe #53
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Feb 10, 2022 |
Connection
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Feb 07, 2022 |
Not Today, Satan ft. Jo
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Feb 03, 2022 |
Gay Sober Travel ft. Ron
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Jan 31, 2022 |
I Want to Live, Not Just Survive ft. Reed
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Jan 27, 2022 |
Changes
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Jan 24, 2022 |
Happy Without the Hooch ft. Michael
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Jan 20, 2022 |
Unhappy with the Hooch ft. Michael
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Jan 17, 2022 |
Progress, Not Perfection ft. Dusty
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Jan 13, 2022 |
Sex Inventory
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Jan 10, 2022 |
The Gift is in My Wounds ft. Danielle
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Jan 06, 2022 |
The Sober Gay ft. Dillan
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Jan 03, 2022 |
What Doesn't Kill You... ft. Alex
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Dec 30, 2021 |
Facing Fears
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Dec 27, 2021 |
Slow Down ft. Levi
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Dec 23, 2021 |
Sober for the Holidays
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Dec 20, 2021 |
Accept and Acknowledge ft. Lores
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Dec 16, 2021 |
Resentments Part 2
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Dec 14, 2021 |
Willingness ft. Christopher
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Dec 09, 2021 |
I Need YOU!
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Dec 06, 2021 |
One Day at a Time ft. Elsa #33
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Dec 02, 2021 |
Crystals and Sobriety
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Nov 29, 2021 |
Sobriety, Starbucks, and Tik-Tok ft. Savanna
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Nov 25, 2021 |
Resentments
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Nov 22, 2021 |
Don't Be Afraid ft. Scott
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Nov 18, 2021 |
Sugar Cravings
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Nov 15, 2021 |
Vintage Sobriety ft. Ali
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Nov 11, 2021 |
Step 3 Revisited
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Nov 08, 2021 |
Sober Siblings ft. Kristen
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Nov 04, 2021 |
Steps 1 and 2 Revisited
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Nov 01, 2021 |
At Least I'm Not the Frog ft. Charlie Gray #23
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Oct 28, 2021 |
Review: At Least I'm Not the Frog
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Oct 25, 2021 |
You Are in Control ft. Jeroen
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Oct 21, 2021 |
Alcohol and Astrology
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Oct 18, 2021 |
Finding Your Happy ft. Gabriel
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Oct 14, 2021 |
Thank You!
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Oct 11, 2021 |
Creative Sober
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Oct 07, 2021 |
My First Qualification
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Oct 04, 2021 |
Rainbow Hill ft. Joey
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Sep 30, 2021 |
Drop the Rock
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Sep 27, 2021 |
Gay and Sober
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Sep 23, 2021 |
"SoberCon"
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Sep 20, 2021 |
Recovered Life ft. Chelsea
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Sep 16, 2021 |
60 Days
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Sep 13, 2021 |
Grieving ft. Abby
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Sep 09, 2021 |
My Second Step
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Sep 06, 2021 |
Career vs. Sobriety ft. Richard
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Sep 02, 2021 |
Gay and Sober Resources
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Aug 30, 2021 |
Tips for Newcomers
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Aug 26, 2021 |
My Step One
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Aug 26, 2021 |
Meetings 101
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Aug 26, 2021 |
Sobering Numbers
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Aug 26, 2021 |
Hi, I'm Steve...
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Aug 26, 2021 |
gAy A Trailer
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Jun 21, 2021 |