Modern Anarchy

By Nicole Thompson, M.A.

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Modern Anarchy is your weekly invitation to reclaim pleasure, sex, and desire as radical acts of liberation. Hosted by queer psychotherapist and researcher Dr. Nicole, an academic voice on non-monogamy and embodied pleasure with advanced training in psychedelic integration therapy, the show explores intimacy, erotic sovereignty, and healing through raw conversations with pleasure activists, artists, therapists, and rebels from around the world. Are you ready to dive in? Learn more: www.modernanarchypodcast.com

Episode Date
223. Sacred Sex Ed: Expansion and Liberation with Leola Watkins
Aug 06, 2025
222. Relational Ecology: The Interconnectedness of Our Pleasure with Kristina Scott
Jul 30, 2025
221. Relationship Anarchist: Erin O'Daniel
Jul 23, 2025
220. For the Anxious Person Practicing Non-Monogamy with Lola Phoenix
Jul 16, 2025
219. Exploring the Set + Setting of Your Relational Ecosystem with Kate
Jul 09, 2025
218. Embodying the Values of Anarchy with Prince Shakur
Jul 02, 2025
217. Relationship Anarchist: Betty O'Leary
Jun 25, 2025
216. Crying Through Non-Monogamy and Choosing It Anyway with Lea Dawn
Jun 18, 2025
215. Cumming into Presence and Integrating Jealousy in Non-Monogamy with Dr. Dave Rabin
Jun 11, 2025
214. The Revolution of Relationship Anarchy with Juan-Carlos Pérez-Cortés
Jun 04, 2025
213. Relationship Anarchist: Silver
May 28, 2025
212. The Edginess of Unconditional Love and Sexual Empathy with Bear Phillips
May 21, 2025
211. Untangling the Scripts for Intimacy and Setting Them on Fire with Elise Braunschweiger
May 14, 2025
210. Harm Reduction, Non-Monogamy, and Embodied Liberation with Justice Riveria
May 07, 2025
209. Relationship Anarchist: Juno Aventurine
Apr 30, 2025
208. Too Queer to be Monogamous with Jaime Delgado
Apr 23, 2025
207. The Sexual Wisdom and Liberation of All Bodies with Emily Royce
Apr 16, 2025
206. Year Four: Liberating My Authentic Voice
Apr 09, 2025
205. Relationship Anarchist: Star Stewart
Apr 02, 2025
204. Queering Our Religious Trauma and Sexual Liberation with Thickie Comrade
Mar 26, 2025
203. Healing to Create Our Collective Pleasure with Jessica McDuffee
Mar 19, 2025
202. BDSM, Kink, and Psychedelics: Exploring the Edge with Mike Margolies
Mar 12, 2025
201. Relationship Anarchist: Jasper Brown
Mar 05, 2025
200. Results from the First Research Study on Relationship Anarchy
Feb 26, 2025
199. Becoming a Turned On Female Leader with Pamela von Sabljar
Feb 19, 2025
198. Exploring Non-Monogamy and Queer Sexual Freedom with Ren DAuria
Feb 12, 2025
197. Relationship Anarchist: Mx. Flow
Feb 05, 2025
196. Building Psychedelic Communities of Care with Ifetayo Harvey
Jan 29, 2025
195. Following Abundant Pleasure After Purity Culture with Kelly Pastori
Jan 21, 2025
194. The Polywise Paradigm Shift with David Cooley
Jan 15, 2025
193. Relationship Anarchist: Miles Wilcox
Jan 08, 2025
192. The Set and Setting of Your Somatic Intuition with Dr. Karolina Mikos
Jan 01, 2025
191. Relationship Anarchy and The Romance Myth with Dean Spade
Dec 25, 2024
190. Claiming Each Other Across the Divide with Lorie Solis
Dec 18, 2024
189. Relationship Anarchist: Absayonika Hone
Dec 11, 2024
188. Crafting Deeper Love in Your Relationships with Taune Lyons
Dec 04, 2024
187. The Erotic Vortex to Anarchy with Rahi Chun
Nov 27, 2024
186. The Alchemy of Psychedelics and Sexual Liberation with Katie Sullivan
Nov 20, 2024
185. Relationship Anarchist: Aspen
Nov 13, 2024
184. Unleashing Your Divine Whore with Claire Dore
Nov 06, 2024
183. Embracing Your Pleasure in Relationship Anarchy with Marcia Baczynski
Oct 30, 2024
182. Energy Literacy and Compassionate Magnetism with Dr. Broderick Sawyer
Oct 23, 2024
181. Relationship Anarchist: Monica Davis
Oct 16, 2024
180. Approaching Sex Deeply and Wholistically with Ellen Heed
Oct 09, 2024
179. Exploring Psychedelics and Intimacy with Jordan Dobrowski
Oct 02, 2024
178. Looking in the Mirror of Your Relationships with Dominatrix Eva Oh
Sep 25, 2024
177. Relationship Anarchist: Jase Brakoniecki
Sep 18, 2024
176. How to Deal with Jealousy in Non-Monogamy: The Psychedelic Jealousy Guide [Audiobook]
Sep 11, 2024
175. The Polysecure Paradigm Shift with Jessica Fern
Sep 04, 2024
174. Finding Our Collective Healing in Somatics and Social Justice with Staci Haines
Aug 28, 2024
173. Relationship Anarchist: Jeff Parrett
Aug 21, 2024
172. Expanding into Integrated Narratives of Sexuality and Embodiment with Dr. Ido Cohen
Aug 14, 2024
171. Tending Grief: Embodied Rituals and Growing Cultures of Care with Camille Sapara Barton
Aug 07, 2024
170. Liberating Our Pleasure and Labor from Whorephobia with Katherine Yeagel
Jul 31, 2024
169. Relationship Anarchist: Ren Cerebral
Jul 24, 2024
168. Your Fierce, Fearless, and Fully Engaged Sexuality with Tristan Taormino
Jul 17, 2024
167. The Non-Monogamy Research Playground with Dr. Eric Fitzmedrud
Jul 10, 2024
166. From SSRI’s to Psychedelics with Dr. Sam Zand
Jul 03, 2024
165. Relationship Anarchist: August Wolff
Jun 26, 2024
164. Pleasure Activists Embrace Pleasure, Pain, and Everything In-Between with Jimanekia Eborn
Jun 19, 2024
163. Your Self-Discovery Journey of Sexual Liberation with Dr. Juliana Hauser
Jun 12, 2024
162. Queering the Narrative of Psychedelics and Pleasure with Bia LaBate
Jun 05, 2024
161. Relationship Anarchist: Kat Pfligler
May 29, 2024
160. Updating Freud On The Whole Penis Envy Thing with Em Hill
May 22, 2024
159. Finding Sexual Play and Presence Through Narrative Theory with Allen Turner
May 15, 2024
158. Liberating Non-Monogamous Play and Your Birthright to Sexual Pleasure with Kristen Thomas
May 08, 2024
157. Relationship Anarchist: Sarah Caroline
May 01, 2024
156. Unlocking Your Inner Dominatrix and Finding Erotic Catharsis with Mistress Wild Iris
Apr 24, 2024
155. The Relational Power of Psychedelics, Spirituality, and Integration with Tony Moss
Apr 17, 2024
154. Year Three: A Feminist Tale of Non-Monogamy, Jealousy, and Pleasure
Apr 10, 2024
153. Relationship Anarchist: Lara Okafor
Apr 03, 2024
152. Pleasure and Passion: Exploring Sex-Positive Expression with Anita Nevar
Mar 27, 2024
151. Stepping Into the Next Playfully Erotic Version of Yourself with Nicolle Hodges
Mar 20, 2024
150. Reconceptualizing Attachment as an Act of Social Justice with Dr. Adele Lafrance
Mar 13, 2024
149. Relationship Anarchist: Renya NeoNorton
Mar 06, 2024
148. Exploring the Nuance of Fundamental Christianity, Psychedelics, and Therapy with Liara Roux
Feb 28, 2024
147. Power Play: Healing, Abolitionism, and Spirituality with Tshegofatso Senne
Feb 21, 2024
146. Nerding Out On the Wheel of Consent with Dr. Betty Martin
Feb 14, 2024
145. The Gift of Non-Monogamy Ending in Divorce with Dirty Lola
Feb 07, 2024
144. Queering Psychedelics, Consent, and Community with Cy
Jan 31, 2024
143. Kinky Christianity to Relationship Anarchy Embodiment with Juliet Barrett
Jan 30, 2024
142. Celebrating Your Slutty Pleasure to Dismantle the Systems with Tamara Pincus
Jan 20, 2024
141. The Divine Eroticism of our Fantasy Narratives with Artemisia de Vine
Jan 10, 2024
140. Trusting in Love: Drugs, Spiritual Healers, and Decolonizing Psychedelic Therapy with Danielle Herrera
Jan 03, 2024
139. The Sensual and Mindfulness Practice of Kink and Psychedelics with Leia Friedwoman
Dec 20, 2023
138. The Healing of Earth-Based Medicines with Shane Norte
Dec 13, 2023
137. What's Your Frame For Relationship Anarchy? with Tuck Malloy
Dec 06, 2023
136. Waiting for a Hug: Activism for the Chronically Under-Touched with Aaron Johnson
Nov 29, 2023
135. Just Another Old, Married, Non-Monogamous Love Story with Kyros
Nov 22, 2023
134. Healing From the Grooming of Purity Culture with Dr. Rachel Smith
Nov 15, 2023
133. Mystical Drug Experiences, Connection, and Existentialism With Dr. Nick Beller
Nov 08, 2023
132. Creating New Patterns of Pleasure: Sex, Relationships, and Psychedelics with Juliana Rose
Nov 01, 2023
131. Coming Home to Our Sensual Embodiment and Open Hearts with Sarah White
Oct 25, 2023
130. Relationship Anarchy vs. Libertarianism: Beyond the Status Quo with Mel Cassidy
Oct 18, 2023
129. Deep Sex-Positivity for the Political Liberation of Our Pleasure with Dr. Carol Queen
Oct 11, 2023
128. What's Your Cage?: Drug Use Pleasure Enhancement and Harm Reduction with Irina Alexander
Oct 04, 2023
127. Every Breath Can Be an Orgasm: Intimacy, Social Justice, and Somatics with Caffyn Jesse
Sep 27, 2023
126. Navigating the Risks of Kink and Edge Play with Dr. Elisbeth Sheff
Sep 20, 2023
125. Unpacking the Political Nature of Relationship Anarchy and Non-Monogamy with Michelle Hy
Sep 13, 2023
124. Play as Rebellion: Eco Sexuality, Kink Healing, and Somatic Connection with Elmo Painter-Edington
Sep 06, 2023
123. Leather Dykes, 24/7 D/s Dynamics, and the Intimacy of Heavy Impact Play with BCT
Aug 30, 2023
122. So, I Started Wearing My Purity Ring Again
Aug 23, 2023
121. Beginning to Question Non-Monogamy and Queerness with Fadl Fakhouri
Aug 16, 2023
120. How About We Make Love, Not Porn? with Cindy Gallop
Aug 09, 2023
119. Sex and Drugs Are Gonna Save the World with Britta Love
Aug 02, 2023
118. Dating A.I.? Exploring Intimacy Under Capitalism with Laura Mae Northrup
Jul 26, 2023
117. Playing with the Pleasure of Your Gender Magic with Rae McDaniel
Jul 19, 2023
116. How Conversations About Our Vaginas Will Bring Radical Pleasure with Lindsay Wynn
Jul 12, 2023
115. Are Therapists Causing Harm When it Comes to Sexuality? with Raquel Savage
Jul 05, 2023
114. Unlocking Potential: Embracing Your Intuitive Calling with Jasmine Prince
Jun 28, 2023
113. The End of Faking Orgasms and Beginning of Prioritizing Pleasure with Kelly Gordon
Jun 21, 2023
112. Basic Sex Ed As A Therapist Will Get You Fired? with Soleil Merroir
Jun 14, 2023
111. The Ethical Argument Against Monogamy, and Becoming a Dominatrix with Mistress Sybil Fury
Jun 07, 2023
110. MDMA, Ketamine, or Psilocybin Psychedelic Therapy and Pleasure? with Dr. Craig Heacock
May 31, 2023
109. The Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord and Finding Queer Belonging with Maxx Hill
May 24, 2023
108. Exploring the Kinky Non-Monogamy and Vanilla Monogamy Sex Spectrum with Hannah Witton
May 17, 2023
107. Recovering from Spiritual Trauma through Psychedelics and our Inner Healing Wisdom with Kayla Felten
May 10, 2023
106. Pleasure Equity and the Last Big Taboo of Sexuality with Damian
May 03, 2023
105. Healing through Kink with Chaney Williams
Apr 26, 2023
104. From Serial Monogamy to Polyamory and The One Penis Policy with Chad from PolyamFam
Apr 19, 2023
103. Year Two: The Queer, Kinky, Non-Monogamous Sex Educator Bringing Fire and Fury
Apr 12, 2023
102. Contraception, Psychedelics, and Psychopharmacology with Andi Rose and Jaycee
Apr 05, 2023
101. What's Wrong with the Field of Psychology? Liberation Psychology with Dr. Daniel José Gaztambide Nuñez
Mar 29, 2023
100. Masturbation Meditation #3: Pussy Breathing
Mar 22, 2023
99. So, I Need To Have More Kinky Sex? Burnout, Passion, and Systematic Change with Karla Scherf
Mar 15, 2023
98. The Transformation of Kink and Surrogate Partner Therapy: Safety, Honesty, and Play with Brandon Hunter-Haydon
Mar 08, 2023
97. Hope for Ending the Generational Trauma with Amber Underwood
Mar 01, 2023
96. Modern Revolutions: Politicized Healing Under Racial Capitalism with B Stepp
Feb 22, 2023
95. Stories of Collective Liberation: Leadership Beyond Dominance, Psychedelic Expression, and Hope for a New Future with Naomi Grace
Feb 15, 2023
94. Reclaiming the Power of the Feminine Energy: Community, Intuition, and Rituals with Akinke Lucas
Feb 08, 2023
93. The Week After the Orgy: Time and Energy in Non-Monogamy with Sadie Lune
Feb 01, 2023
92. Platonic Intimacy, Forced Birth, and Sexism with Asia Dorsey
Jan 25, 2023
91. What Is The Most Pleasurable Sex You've Experienced? with Annie Philpott
Jan 18, 2023
90. How About Swinging? Pegging, Prostate Orgasms, and the Bisexual Man with Cooper Beckett
Jan 11, 2023
89. Burning The Holy Mormon Underwear: Kink, Community, and the God Complex with Madazon
Jan 04, 2023
88. The Revolution is Now: Are We Ready to Flip The Board of Capitalism? with Kori Doty
Dec 21, 2022
87. Stop Waiting for Others to Validate Your Shine: A New Paradigm of Healing and Spirituality with Eduardo Viezca
Dec 14, 2022
86. Am I Cutting Off My Identity By Only Having Sex with One Person? with Chris K
Dec 07, 2022
85. Embracing Your Sluthood and Geeking Out About Relationship Anarchy with Brian Gibney
Nov 30, 2022
84. Relationship Anarchy: The Romance Myth and Navigating Jealousy with Dean Spade
Nov 23, 2022
83. Everyone is Alone Together: Celibacy, People Pleasing, and Self-Love with Ally McDowell
Nov 16, 2022
82. What Is Tantra? with Yoli Maya Yeh
Nov 09, 2022
81. Masturbation: It's Amazing and I Can't Tell Anyone About It with Jess DeVries
Nov 02, 2022
80. Are You Carrying Trauma From a Past Life? with Cai Carvalhaes
Oct 26, 2022
79. Think BIG and Scare Yourself with Alycia Levels-Moore
Oct 19, 2022
78. A Spiritual Direction Session: What is Spirituality? with Mandie McGlynn
Oct 12, 2022
77. I was the Poster Child for Purity: Asexuality, Spiritual Abuse, and Racism with Trifecta
Oct 05, 2022
76. Polyamory Is an Equally Bad Decision: Kink, Intersecting Identities, and Power Dynamics with Tien
Sep 28, 2022
75. Erotic Creativity: Surrogate Partner Therapy, Slowing Down Sex, and Relationship Anarchy with Carlene Ostedgaard
Sep 21, 2022
74. Sex Work Was The Beginning of My True Healing Journey with Cassie Porter
Sep 14, 2022
73. The Feminist Sex Wars: Suzie Jones Who Takes a Sexy Selfie is a Slut with Emma Phillips
Sep 07, 2022
72. Contradictions: Pansexuality, Intersecting Identities, and Shadow Sides with Evelyn Kim
Aug 31, 2022
71. Community Building: Masking, Polysecure, and Boundaries as an Act of Love with Jesse Holzman
Aug 24, 2022
70. Understanding Sex Within Culture: Condoms, Circumcision, and Capitalistic Competition with Amber Mallery
Aug 17, 2022
69. Guided Masturbation Meditation #2: Solo-Date Night
Aug 10, 2022
68. Independent Sexuality for Women: Relationship Therapy, Navigating Jealousy, and a Look Into the Life of Non-Monogamy with Arushi
Aug 03, 2022
67. PORN, PORN, PORN: Masturbation, BDSM, and Safe Words with Alan Mckee
Jul 27, 2022
66. I'm a Bionic Bitch: Stepping Into Yourself, Finding Community, and Flow States with Dayna Troisi
Jul 20, 2022
65. Relationship Chemistry: Emotional Self-Awareness, Boundary Setting, and Healing Attachment with Emilee Kerper
Jul 13, 2022
64. Uncensored Sex Education: Sex Positive Clubs, BDSM, and Fruit Fetish with Anarella Martinez-Madrid
Jul 06, 2022
63. What Does It Mean to Be Authentic? Co-Regulating, Existentialism, and Compersion with Mei Zarnitsyna
Jun 29, 2022
62. Public Sex: Out of the Closets and Into the Streets with Gem Cut
Jun 22, 2022
61. Wrestling with Questions Around Identity: Sexuality, Gender, and Careers with Betsey Zemke
Jun 15, 2022
60. Exploring the Unconscious: Synchronicity, Dreams, and Psychedelic Psychotherapy with Manny Dominguez
Jun 08, 2022
59. The Intersection of Disability and Sexuality with Robin Wilson Beattie
Jun 01, 2022
58. I'm Definitely Gay: Unholy Sex, Disciplinary Action, and Painting the Mormon Church with Clark Hazel
May 25, 2022
57. Healing from Emotionally Immature Parents with Ebony Holloway
May 18, 2022
56. Building a Relationship Contract: Queer Theory, Kinky Monogamy, and the Relationship Escalator with Tom Doctor
May 11, 2022
55. Tuning Into My Embodied Self: Demi-Sexuality, Polyamory, and Somatic Experiencing with Meggie Twible
May 04, 2022
54. Understanding Romantic and Sexual Attraction: Asexuality, Libido, and Abundant Love with Aubri Lancaster
Apr 27, 2022
53. True Crime: Holding Onto What He Could Be vs. What He Was with Jamie Baier
Apr 20, 2022
52. Year One Reflection with Your Host
Apr 13, 2022
51. Being Transgender is My Super Power with Corey Rae
Apr 06, 2022
50. I'm a Polyamorous Person in a Monogamous Relationship: Black Holes, Relationship Anarchy, and Queer Deconstruction with Aurora Higgs
Mar 30, 2022
49. The Creative Expression of Pornography with Lina Bembe
Mar 23, 2022
48. That's Not the End of the Story: Spicy Childhoods and Talking about Sex with Jason Best
Mar 16, 2022
47. The Mythology of A-Sexuality: I never had a crush! with Destinie Vidro
Mar 09, 2022
46. The Eroticism of a Shared Vision with Matthew Gamble
Mar 02, 2022
45. Are You Willing to Sip Your Own Medicine? with Natalie
Feb 23, 2022
44. How Men Cry with Dxtr Spits
Feb 16, 2022
43. Reclaiming the Sovern Meaning of Church with Amanda
Feb 09, 2022
42. Public Art with a Cause with Jason Avery
Feb 02, 2022
41. I'm Too Jealous for Non-Monogamy with Dr. Joli Hamilton
Jan 26, 2022
40. The Paradox of Our Identities with Jordanna
Jan 19, 2022
39. You're Your Own Superhero with Nico Cathcart
Jan 12, 2022
38. Be Ready to Be Confused with Desmond Napoles
Jan 05, 2022
37. Two Bad Bitches on Boundaries and Break Ups: Part 2 with Nexus J
Dec 22, 2021
36. Two Bad Bitches on Boundaries and Break Ups: Part 1 with Nexus J
Dec 15, 2021
35. The Struggle of Living with Vitoria
Dec 08, 2021
34. What Does it Mean to Manifest? with Anna
Dec 01, 2021
33. Claiming Your Pussy Power with Tazima Paris
Nov 24, 2021
32. Coming Out to Your Conservative Family: Are You a Gay Villian? with Jordan Parvex
Nov 17, 2021
31. Life is Too Short to Do One Thing with Keith Ramsey
Nov 10, 2021
30. Advocating for Yourself in the Medical System with Ren Grabert
Nov 03, 2021
29. Limiting Beliefs Around Love: Sound Healing, People Pleasing, and Finding Your Purpose with Sasha
Oct 27, 2021
28. You are Enough: How the ADA Shaped America with Cyndi Jones
Oct 20, 2021
27. I Got Double F**ked, and Finally, I Released! with Ze Royale
Oct 13, 2021
26. Mind, Body, Spirit: Letting Go of an Eating Disorder with Isa
Oct 06, 2021
25. Hot and Steamy Consent: Communicating Your Sexual Desires and Exploring Polyamory with Karen Yates
Sep 29, 2021
24. If You Can Sit For a Tattoo, You Can Have a Vasectomy with Drew
Sep 22, 2021
23. God Loves Queers: The Faith Journey of a Lesbian Bishop with Brenda Bos
Sep 15, 2021
22. The Hot F**king Mess of Legalized Cannabis: Is Your Consumption Ethical? with Anna Epstein
Sep 08, 2021
21. The Internet Age Gap: Is Curation Making Real-Life Intolerable? with Noah Scalin
Sep 01, 2021
20. Escaping the Multi-Level Marketing Scheme of Mormonism with Rayna Flannery
Aug 25, 2021
19. When Do You Leave a Relationship: Polyamory, Sadism, and Self-Care with Empress Wu
Aug 18, 2021
18. The Gray Forefront of Psychedelic Research with Manesh Girn
Aug 11, 2021
17. Let's Not Take Things Too Personally: HPV, Social Media, and Anxiety Brain with Kellie
Aug 04, 2021
16. The Anarchy of Beginning From Love with Nat Vikitsreth
Jul 28, 2021
15. Radical Everyday Acts: Jumping the Turnstile with Christiana
Jul 21, 2021
14. Defying Labels: Discovering I was an Abuser and Abused with Gary
Jul 14, 2021
13. Behind the Scenes of OnlyFans with Ramona Romance
Jul 07, 2021
12. The Psychedelic Experience of Post-Traumatic Growth with Jessica Cadoch
Jun 30, 2021
11. Nuns, Cum Socks, and Relationship Anarchy with Glitter Moneyyy
Jun 23, 2021
10. Leaving the Secure Job to Create Your Own Career + Inner Parent Art Meditation with Pam
Jun 16, 2021
10a. Inner Parent Art Meditation Only
Jun 16, 2021
9. Squirting, Wrestling, and Cannibalism! OH MY! with Lola Jean
Jun 09, 2021
8. God is Pro-Abortion: an Agnostic and a Christian Share Their Stories with Kim
Jun 02, 2021
7. White People, It's Not About You: Moving Through the Discomfort of Growth with Shimmy LaRoux
May 26, 2021
6. The Vulnerability of Sex and Connection: Yoni Massage Therapy and Guided Masturbation Meditation with Patrick
May 19, 2021
6a. Guided Masturbation Meditation Only
May 19, 2021
5. Staying Safe on Mushrooms: Progressing from Cannabis to Psychedelics with Michelle Janikian
May 12, 2021
4. Voluntary Female Sterilization at 26: I Don't Want Kids with Rae
May 05, 2021
3. Commentary with a Slice of Comedy: Spiritual Trauma and Fundamental Christianity with Fundie Fridays
Apr 28, 2021
2. Out Here for the Queers: Sex Work, Activism, and Advocacy with Cruel Valentine
Apr 21, 2021
1. Cannasexual and Finding Pleasure After Trauma with Ashley Manta
Apr 14, 2021