Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

By Lisa Shield

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Listen, as love coach and heart-opening expert, Lisa Shield, shares the revolutionary approach she gives her successful female clients to attract an amazing partner who is on their level and wants to enjoy everything life has to offer with them. Lisa and her husband, Benjamin Shield Ph.D., have been passionately in love for 19 years. Every Tuesday DWD offers Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind, where the two of them bust common dating myths, give you a window into their unconditionally loving relationship, and show you how to attract a Guardian of Your Soul for the rest of your life. Thursday episodes, Lisa explores topics, and answers those burning q's from listeners longing to become emotionally naked daters! Book-a-Call With Lisa - https://lisashieldlove.com/app-podcast

Episode Date
5 Hidden Blind Spots That Could Be Keeping You Single
Feb 20, 2026
How to Spend Valentine's Day With the Future Guardian of Your Soul
Feb 13, 2026
How to Be Playful Without Leading Him On
Feb 05, 2026
The 5 Words You Should NEVER Say to A Man
Jan 29, 2026
Is This a Dealbreaker or Am I Being Dramatic?
Jan 22, 2026
NEVER Rush Into a Relationship
Jan 14, 2026
Why Men Talk Too Much… or Too Little on Dates
Jan 02, 2026
How You Dress Can Make or Break a Date
Jan 01, 2026
Men Who Don't Know How to Connect
Dec 25, 2025
Why Asking for Commitment Can Push a Man Away
Dec 17, 2025
I'm Scared to Date Right Now - And I Know I'm Not Alone
Dec 03, 2025
You're Not Broken - You're Just in Survival Mode
Nov 26, 2025
How Men Choose ‘The One’… and It’s NOT What You Think
Nov 17, 2025
Curious About The 3 Things Men Fear Most About Relationships?
Nov 10, 2025
4 Secret Traits Every Man Looks for in His Dream Woman
Aug 19, 2025
Do Men Tell You You're "Too Intimidating?"
Aug 12, 2025
The SPECIFIC Dating Challenges Successful Women Face (and how to overcome them)
Aug 05, 2025
Can We Still Be Friends?
Jul 29, 2025
Love-Bombing vs. Real Love How to Tell the Difference and Protect Your Heart
Jul 22, 2025
Unlock the Secret How to Attract High-Quality Men
Jul 15, 2025
The High Price You Pay for Trying to Fix or Change Men
Jul 08, 2025
Women Under Fire and Why Misogyny Is So Prevalent Today, Part 2
Jul 01, 2025
Women Under Fire and Why Misogyny Is So Prevalent Today, Part 1
Jun 24, 2025
How to Make Every Date More Meaningful
Jun 17, 2025
The Surprising Reason You’re Not Connecting on Dates
Jun 10, 2025
The World Is Changing Fast… You Don’t Have to Face It Alone
Jun 03, 2025
The Real Reason Men Pull Away & How to Handle It With Grace
May 27, 2025
How to Recognize a Spiritually Mature Man
May 20, 2025
ChatGPT Spills the Tea: Why My Coaching Is a Game-Changer
May 13, 2025
Is This Relationship Right for You? Let’s Find Out.
May 06, 2025
What's Really Holding you Back in Love It's Time to Face your Fears
Apr 29, 2025
Ever Wonder What's on a Man's Checklist
Apr 21, 2025
Love Takes Flight: How Cindy, a Pilot, Soared to Happiness at 57
Nov 21, 2024
Why We Breadcrumb and How It's Holding You Back from Real Love
Nov 14, 2024
Finding the Guardian of Your Soul: Meet Kristina!
Oct 07, 2024
GITRMM: The Art of a Playful Relationship
Aug 19, 2024
GITRMM: What a Quality Man Looks for in a Life Partner
Aug 11, 2024
GITRMM: Ambivalence
Jun 11, 2024
GITRMM: Bridging the Communication Divide
May 20, 2024
GITRMM: How Smart Women Can Self Sabotage a Good Thing
May 14, 2024
GITRMM: What a Quality Man Looks for in a Life Partner
May 07, 2024
GITRMM: Do Men Really LOVE to Chase Women?
Apr 23, 2024
4 Ways to Tell if He's the Right Guy For You
Apr 09, 2024
Lost in Translation: How Men and Women Hear Dating Terms Differently
Apr 02, 2024
The Secret to a Playful Relationship
Mar 26, 2024
What Makes a Man Want to Commit?
Mar 13, 2024
How to Take Down Your Walls
Mar 05, 2024
Not All Men Who Avoid are Avoidant
Feb 27, 2024
Surrendering to the Dating Process
Feb 20, 2024
Land a Man on Your Level: Masterclass Highlights
Feb 13, 2024
Special Guest, Elaine!
Feb 06, 2024
GITRMM: 5 Reasons Men Are Afraid to Commit
Jan 30, 2024
Special Guests: Elena & Heath!
Jan 23, 2024
GITRMM: Surprising Ways to Tell if a Woman is Overly Controlling
Jan 16, 2024
Forget the Mistletoe: Where to Look for Love this Holiday Season
Jan 09, 2024
Finding Love After a Difficult Father
Jan 02, 2024
Special Guests, Caroline & Matt!
Dec 26, 2023
How to Become More Receptive, and Bring Out the Best in Men!
Dec 19, 2023
Romance and Finance: What to Look for in Financially Responsible Partner
Dec 12, 2023
Special Guest, Jessica!
Dec 05, 2023
Finding Love in Your 30s: Don't Make These 5 Common Mistakes
Nov 28, 2023
The Paradox of Perfection: Why Striving for Flawlessness Could Be Derailing Love
Nov 21, 2023
Special Guest, Burlesque Dancer, Zia Sandía!
Nov 14, 2023
GITRMM: Do Men Really LOVE to Chase Women?
Nov 07, 2023
5 Blind Spots that Could Be Keeping You Single
Oct 31, 2023
Special Guest, Divorce Attorney Aaron Thomas!
Oct 24, 2023
Dudes, Drama, & Diamonds: Why He's Ghosting & She's Posting Engagement Rings
Oct 17, 2023
GITRMM: Embracing the Sensual: Femininity and the Power of Sensual Expression
Oct 10, 2023
Lost in Translation: How Men and Women Hear Dating Terms Differently
Oct 03, 2023
Special Guest, Plastic Surgeon Dr. Larry Fan!
Sep 26, 2023
The Yin to his Yang: Discover Femininity by Understanding Masculinity
Sep 19, 2023
The Future of Online Dating: How AI Is Changing the Dating Game
Sep 12, 2023
Special Guests Lisa & Steve!
Sep 05, 2023
Spark First or Flame Later: Exploring the Chemistry Conundrum in Relationships
Aug 29, 2023
GITRMM: What Is More Important to a Man, Looks or Personality?
Aug 22, 2023
GITRMM: Empowering Women to Ask for What They Want in Their Relationship
Aug 15, 2023
10 Ways AI Can Help You Find Love Online
Aug 08, 2023
GITRMM: Fearless Authenticity: Mastering Emotional Nakedness without Compromising Boundaries
Aug 01, 2023
Respect vs. Love: Mastering the Art of Captivating a Man's Heart
Jul 25, 2023
The Dangers of Becoming Lovers Before Friends
Jul 18, 2023
GITRMM: Green Flags Men Look For In Woman
Jul 11, 2023
Double Standards in Dating (With Rebecca)!
Jul 04, 2023
Client Success Story: Meranda
Jun 27, 2023
The Subtle Ways We Self-Sabotage Our Chances For Love
Jun 20, 2023
GITRMM: 10 Questions to Ask to Gauge a Man's Emotional Availability
Jun 13, 2023
Dating with Differences in Incomes
Jun 06, 2023
GITRMM: Look Out For Mr. Nice Guy
May 30, 2023
The Paradox of Criticism: Why Do Some Men Criticize and Stay In Relationships?
May 23, 2023
Coaching Success Story: Patricia
May 16, 2023
The Mystery of the 1%: Learn the Truth About Why Some Men Don't Call After a Great First Date
May 09, 2023
Coaching Success Story: Stella
May 02, 2023
If I’m Such a Catch, Why Has No One Caught Me?
Apr 25, 2023
GITRMM: Don’t Count Out a 60-Year-Old Bachelor Just Yet!
Apr 18, 2023
4 Ways To Tell If He's The Right Guy For You
Apr 11, 2023
GITRMM: How Men Feel When They Sense a Woman Is Trying to Close The Deal
Apr 04, 2023
What Women Think Men are Looking For vs. What Men Are Actually Looking For
Mar 28, 2023
GITRMM: Why Don’t Men Want To Integrate Women into Their Lives?
Mar 21, 2023
GITRMM: Unleash Your Curiosity and Make Your Dates Unforgettable
Mar 14, 2023
Client Success Story: Natalie and Alex Find A Soul Food Kind of Love
Mar 07, 2023
Don't Let Your List of "Must-Haves" Get in the Way of Finding True Love
Feb 28, 2023
GITRMM: The Difference Between Being Picky and Discerning
Feb 21, 2023
How To Spend Valentine’s Day with the Guardian Of Your Soul
Feb 13, 2023
Success Story Vanessa Finds Love and Steps Into Her Authentic Life
Feb 07, 2023
The Difference Between Being Emotional and Emotionally Naked
Jan 31, 2023
Success Story: How We Helped Janet Open Her Heart, Become More Feminine, and Rekindle a 15-Year Relationship
Jan 24, 2023
How Successful Client Lisa Learned To Slow Her Roll
Jan 17, 2023
Are You Missing Red Flags Because He’s “Too Nice”?
Dec 29, 2022
GITRMM ep 50: Men and Rejection
Dec 22, 2022
Is He Addicted to Porn? How to Recognize the Signs.
Dec 15, 2022
GITRMM ep 49: How To Know If He’s Really Into You
Dec 08, 2022
Moving Beyond Your Fear of Commitment
Dec 01, 2022
GITRMM 48: Uh oh! Are You The Back Up Girl?
Nov 24, 2022
Move On From Your Ex, For Real!
Nov 17, 2022
Are You Feeling Ambivalent About Finding Love?
Nov 10, 2022
GITRMM ep 47: Is Your Support System Letting You Down?
Nov 03, 2022
Finding Love After Divorce: Leanne Finds Her Wei (A client success story!)
Oct 27, 2022
GITRMM 46: Why What You Wear On the First Date Really Matters
Oct 20, 2022
Help! Dating Gives Me So Much Anxiety!
Oct 13, 2022
Is Your Attachment Style Secure?
Oct 06, 2022
5 Things You Can Do Right Now to Get Out of Your Dating Rut
Sep 29, 2022
3 Ways to Help a Man Open Up to You
Sep 22, 2022
RePlay: GITRMM ep 25- Analysis Paralysis: How Over-Strategizing Is Sabotaging You and Your Love Life!
Sep 15, 2022
RePlay: When Searching for a Partner, Expect the Unexpected
Sep 08, 2022
Nice, Avoidant Men are still just Avoidant Men.
Sep 01, 2022
RePlay: Meeting a Man IRL- YES. It's Still Possible!
Aug 25, 2022
GITRMM ep 45: Stop Settling For Less Than What You Deserve
Aug 18, 2022
GITRMM ep 44: Are You Lost Without a Roadmap to Love?
Aug 11, 2022
GITRMM ep 43: Improving Your Communication Without Processing the SH*T Out of Everything
Aug 04, 2022
RePlay: Hazards of Dating Recently Divorced or Widowed Men
Aug 02, 2022
GITRMM ep 42: Don’t Waste Your Time Rushing Into Things
Jul 28, 2022
Nobody's Perfect.
Jul 26, 2022
The Dating Life of a Dating Coach!
Jul 21, 2022
The Best App for Finding Love
Jul 19, 2022
GITRMM ep 41: Boundaries Vs Rules
Jul 14, 2022
Dating Emotionally Unavailable Men
Jul 12, 2022
GITRMM ep 40: Are We Doomed If Our Core Values Are Different?
Jul 07, 2022
Setting Boundaries With Men
Jul 05, 2022
Special Guest Annette on Forgiveness & Loving from Her Heart and Soul
Jun 30, 2022
Laurie and Jim: An Old School Love That Just Seems Easy
Jun 28, 2022
GITRMM ep 39: What Type of Exclusive Are We?
Jun 23, 2022
Why it’s Better For You to Learn Through Joy, Not Pain
Jun 21, 2022
GITRMM ep 38: Stop Seeking Constant Reassurance! Your Love Life Depends On It.
Jun 16, 2022
Get Intimate…With Yourself? Tantra and Pleasure with Dawn Cartwright
Jun 14, 2022
GITRMM ep 37: Got Ghosted? Here’s What To Do Next!
Jun 07, 2022
GITRMM ep 36: What a Man Really Wants From You
Jun 02, 2022
The #1 Quality He MUST HAVE
May 26, 2022
GITRMM ep 35: Are You Accessible To Men?
May 24, 2022
Be the Hero of Your Own Story: How Lisa Became a Love Coach
May 19, 2022
GITRMM ep 34: What’s a Bigger Turn On For Men- Being Sexual or Being Sensual?
May 17, 2022
Surrender to the Process: Dating is a Journey Not a Battle
May 12, 2022
GITRMM ep 33: What It Really Looks Like to Be The Guardian of Someone Else’s Soul
May 10, 2022
From No Second Dates to Finding The Guardian of Her Soul- Tara & Roy!
May 05, 2022
GITRMM ep 32: Are You Mad? Here’s How to Feel Your Anger Without Pushing Him Away
May 03, 2022
Talking Hormones with Special Guest Dr. Prudence Hall of The Hall Center
Apr 28, 2022
GITRMM ep 31: What Taking 100% Personal Responsibility in Your Relationship REALLY Looks Like
Apr 26, 2022
When You Aren’t Ready For Him, That Greatest Guy Will Simply Be Your Latest Guy
Apr 21, 2022
Do You Lose YourSELF in Relationships?
Apr 19, 2022
Why It's So Hard to Meet the Right Guy
Apr 14, 2022
What Hollywood and Disney Movies Forgot To Tell You About Love
Apr 12, 2022
Self-Sabotage and Overcoming Your Fear of Dating
Apr 07, 2022
A Few Good Men: The Importance of Dating Multiple Guys At Once!
Apr 05, 2022
What a Guardian Of Your Soul Can Bring To Your Life, If You Let Them.
Mar 31, 2022
GITRMM ep 29: This One’s For the Men!
Mar 29, 2022
Special Guests Debbie & Marc Share How They Found Each Other, Why it Works, & How Their Age Difference Isn’t a Factor
Mar 24, 2022
GITRMM ep 28: How to Rev Him Up, Slow Him Down, and Get Your Playful Side On
Mar 22, 2022
The Tale of Two Women
Mar 17, 2022
GITRMM ep 27: Making Room For An Amazing Relationship
Mar 15, 2022
Should You Stay Friends With Your Ex?
Mar 10, 2022
GITRMM ep 26: Translating the 5 Love Languages and Adding a Few More!
Mar 08, 2022
When Searching for a Partner, Expect the Unexpected
Mar 03, 2022
GITRMM ep 25- Analysis Paralysis: How Over-Strategizing Is Sabotaging You and Your Love Life!
Mar 01, 2022
Meeting a Man IRL - Yes It’s Still Possible!
Feb 24, 2022
GITRMM ep 24: But What Does “Doing the Work” Mean Exactly?
Feb 22, 2022
Why It's Important to Stay Present As You Age
Feb 17, 2022
GITRMM ep 23: Do Men Actually Want To Commit? YES. But They Need These Things First...
Feb 15, 2022
Special Guest Lynnie Marks On Her Transformation Since Getting Emotionally Naked
Feb 10, 2022
GITRMM ep 22: Don’t Lean Back OR Chase Him. Take The Feminine Lead!
Feb 08, 2022
Is Your Optimism Bias Ruining Your Chance at Love?
Feb 03, 2022
GITRMM ep 21- Sex: The Art Of Taking It Slowly
Feb 01, 2022
It's Our 50th Episode!
Jan 27, 2022
GITRMM ep 20: Is Your Anxiety Pushing Men Away?
Jan 25, 2022
The Correct Way To Ask For What You Really Want From A Man
Jan 20, 2022
GITRMM ep 19: The Real Reasons Your Date is Getting Derailed (And How to Get Back On Track), Part 2
Jan 18, 2022
How To Stay Positive! Even When You’re Dating the Wrong Guys.
Jan 13, 2022
GITRMM ep 18: The Real Reasons Your Date is Getting Derailed (And How to Get Back On Track), Part 1
Jan 11, 2022
Why New Year’s Resolutions Don’t Work When It Comes To Finding Love!
Jan 06, 2022
Ooh! Let’s Talk Deal Breakers!
Dec 30, 2021
How To Deal With Relatives Who Ask Why You're Still Single
Dec 23, 2021
Is He Right When He Says He Can’t Make You Happy?
Dec 16, 2021
GITRMM ep 17: Finding True Love After Three Marriages: Randy Rogel
Dec 14, 2021
How To Stop Pushing Away Male Attention
Dec 09, 2021
GITRMM ep 16: Keys To A Miraculous Marriage!
Dec 07, 2021
The One Choice You Can Make In Dating That Might Change Your Life Forever!
Dec 02, 2021
GITRMM ep 15: How To Bring the ‘Baby’ Talk Into Your Dating, Whether You Want Kids Or Not
Nov 30, 2021
Is He Really Intimidated by your Job, Money, and Independence?
Nov 25, 2021
GITRMM ep 14: The Secrets of Romantic Signaling
Nov 23, 2021
The Top 5 Reasons You’re Stuck in a Dating Rut, Again!
Nov 18, 2021
GITRMM ep 13: You’re Talking, But What is He Hearing?
Nov 16, 2021
Should You Believe Him When He Says This Time Will Be Different?
Nov 11, 2021
GITRMM ep 12: But Are You Having Fun? Embracing Playfulness.
Nov 09, 2021
Generosity of Spirit: An Essential Key to Getting Emotionally Naked and Calling in The Guardian of Your Soul
Nov 04, 2021
GITRMM ep 11: Emotional Safety and Sexual Performance in This Era
Nov 02, 2021
Your Chemistry is Off the Charts- So Why Do You Feel Him Pulling Away?
Oct 28, 2021
GITRMM ep 10: Playfulness in Self. Playfulness in Partnership
Oct 26, 2021
Are You Ready for The Cold Harsh Truth About Why You Are Still Single?
Oct 21, 2021
GITRMM ep 9: Breaking “The Rules” and Busting Dating Myths
Oct 19, 2021
Stop Wasting Time Being or Dating An Anxious or Avoidant Dater! Develop a Secure Attachment Style Now!
Oct 14, 2021
GITRMM ep 8: Special Guest Dr. Warren Farrell on Male Vulnerability, Dreams, and Fears
Oct 12, 2021
Scared To Have That Money Talk? How To Navigate The Thing EVERYONE Struggles With
Oct 07, 2021
GITRMM ep 7: What Men Really Think When We Start To Process Out Loud
Oct 05, 2021
How Do You Get Into The Right Relationship And Get Out Of Your Past? Plus- Tantric Takeaways!
Sep 30, 2021
GITRMM ep 6: What Men Are Afraid To Tell You
Sep 28, 2021
Thinking About Dating a Recently Divorced or Widowed Man? Listen to This First
Sep 23, 2021
GITRMM ep 5 - Embracing Feminine and Masculine Polarity
Sep 21, 2021
Stop Shaming Your Man and You’ll Have Him Bending Over Backwards To Please You!
Sep 16, 2021
GITRMM ep 4 - In The Face Of Rejection
Sep 14, 2021
Online Dating Hacks Every Woman Should Know (Especially During the Pandemic!)
Sep 09, 2021
GITRMM ep 3: Makeup, Heels, And Perfect Hair? No. Find Out The Real Aphrodisiac For Men!
Sep 07, 2021
Be Your Own Positive Spin Doctor and Say No To The Negativity!
Sep 02, 2021
GITRMM ep 2 — How’s Your Dating Profile?
Aug 31, 2021
The #1 Quality Your Partner Should Have: Hint - It’s Not What You May Think!
Aug 26, 2021
GITRMM ep 1: Calling In The Guardian of Your Soul — Are you Really Ready?
Aug 24, 2021
Stop Accepting Breadcrumbs and Find the Whole Baker!
Aug 19, 2021
What You Resist Persists! So Feel All The Feels!
Aug 17, 2021
Burned Out and Exhausted with Dating? Don’t Give Up Just Yet
Aug 12, 2021
Wanting a Soulmate and Being Ready for One Are Very Different Things!
Aug 10, 2021
3 Things To Help a Man Open Up To You
Aug 05, 2021
What a gorgeous Aussie taught Lisa about Love
Aug 03, 2021
Looking for a Relationship with Fireworks? Think Again!
Jul 29, 2021
Welcome to Dating Without Drama!
Jul 20, 2021