It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+ Relationships
By Lindsay Goodman
Listen to a podcast, please open Podcast Republic app. Available on Google Play Store and Apple App Store.
Image by Lindsay Goodman
Category: Relationships
Open in Apple Podcasts
Open RSS feed
Open Website
Rate for this podcast
Subscribers: 0
Reviews: 0
Episodes: 124
Description
It's Not All Rainbows is a podcast hosted by Lindsay Goodman, a trauma recovery coach & survivor of narcissistic abuse in a queer relationship. Many licensed professionals have called narcissistic abuse "the most severe form of domestic violence" and yet, most survivors of this insidious abuse suffer behind closed doors. Most people, including mental health practitioners and first responders do not understand what this type of abuse can look like and how it can affect survivors. INAR will explore different aspects of narcissistic abuse, how to get out, and how to begin your healing journey. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support
| Episode | Date |
|---|---|
|
Using "I Love You" As a Weapon
|
May 08, 2024 |
|
Abuse One in the Home, Abuse ALL in the Home
|
May 01, 2024 |
|
Monkey Branching
|
Apr 24, 2024 |
|
Why Does My Abuser Look SO Happy!?
|
Apr 17, 2024 |
|
You Only Like it the way I Do It: Gaslighting & Sex
|
Mar 20, 2024 |
|
Why Does My Abuser Always Walk in Front of Me?
|
Mar 13, 2024 |
|
Do You REALLY Know Your Abuser?
|
Mar 06, 2024 |
|
AM I Healing?
|
Feb 28, 2024 |
|
Did You Notice Things Change When Their New "Partner" Came Around?
|
Feb 21, 2024 |
|
Valentine's Day and Abuse
|
Feb 14, 2024 |
|
Do They REALLY Like the Same Things as You?
|
Feb 07, 2024 |
|
Mysterious Physical Issues?
|
Jan 03, 2024 |
|
When You Try to Leave and Abusive Person
|
Dec 27, 2023 |
|
Using Finances to Control You
|
Dec 21, 2023 |
|
Abusers Will Use Helplessness to Control You
|
Dec 13, 2023 |
|
Abusers Will Tell on Themselves
|
Dec 06, 2023 |
|
EPISODE 100! What Have I Done Since Episode One?
|
Nov 29, 2023 |
|
Am I A Fool for Not Knowing it was Abuse Sooner?
|
Nov 22, 2023 |
|
Traumaversaries!
|
Nov 15, 2023 |
|
They’re ALREADY Dating Someone Else! Noooooo!
|
Nov 08, 2023 |
|
Why Should I Stay Single After Abuse?
|
Nov 01, 2023 |
|
PET THAT DOG! Pets in Abusive Relationships
|
Oct 25, 2023 |
|
TWO YEARS NO CONTACT Q&A
|
Oct 18, 2023 |
|
Do You Mistake the Push-Pull for Love?
|
Oct 11, 2023 |
|
Triangulation
|
Oct 04, 2023 |
|
Abusive People Will Come Between You and Your Kids
|
Sep 27, 2023 |
|
Things Have Gotten Better! Should I Stay?
|
Sep 20, 2023 |
|
Retraining Your Brain After Abuse
|
Sep 13, 2023 |
|
Recovering From Child Abuse (by Proxy)
|
Sep 07, 2023 |
|
Mysterious Physical Issues?
|
Aug 30, 2023 |
|
They're Suddenly Being SO Nice!
|
Aug 23, 2023 |
|
Dating Green/Red Flags (with Kids)
|
Aug 09, 2023 |
|
Covert Abuse in a Viral Video
|
Aug 09, 2023 |
|
Is it Bad That I'm Grieving my Abuser?
|
Aug 02, 2023 |
|
Abuse in LGBTQ+ Relationships
|
Jul 26, 2023 |
|
Help! I Want to go No Contact but I Don't Want to Hurt THEM!
|
Jul 19, 2023 |
|
Do We HAVE to Forgive Them to Heal?
|
Jul 12, 2023 |
|
Is My Partner a Narcissist?
|
Jul 10, 2023 |
|
Abusive People Will Find Ways to Keep You Attached
|
Jul 05, 2023 |
|
Monday Mini: No Contact in a Nutshell
|
Jul 03, 2023 |
|
Is THIS Physical Abuse?
|
Jun 28, 2023 |
|
Monday Mini: You Can SHOP for Therapists/Coaches
|
Jun 26, 2023 |
|
STONEWALLING
|
Jun 21, 2023 |
|
Attachment Issues or Abuse?
|
Jun 14, 2023 |
|
MONDAY MINI “I’ll never leave you”
|
Jun 12, 2023 |
|
What's Yours is THEIRS
|
Jun 07, 2023 |
|
MONDAY MINI: CPTSD Flashbacks
|
Jun 05, 2023 |
|
Post Separation Abuse
|
May 31, 2023 |
|
Sharing My "Escape Plan"
|
May 24, 2023 |
|
Power Imbalances in Abusive Relationships
|
May 17, 2023 |
|
INAR Monday Mini: Success Double Standards
|
May 15, 2023 |
|
Did You Lose Your Ability to Make Decisions?
|
May 10, 2023 |
|
Abusive People May Use Your Struggles to Abuse You
|
May 03, 2023 |
|
INAR MONDAY MINIS: BOUNDARIES
|
May 01, 2023 |
|
Threats, Stalking, and More: THE MEAN HOOVER
|
Apr 26, 2023 |
|
They'll Use a Sob Story to Lure You In
|
Apr 19, 2023 |
|
Vacation Will NOT Fix Your Abusive Relationship
|
Apr 12, 2023 |
|
Waiting For The Right Moment To Leave?
|
Apr 05, 2023 |
|
ANY Response is an Open Door to An Abuser
|
Mar 29, 2023 |
|
Do Abusive People Set Boundaries?
|
Mar 22, 2023 |
|
Interview with Andrew Campbell Author of Not Without My Pet
|
Mar 15, 2023 |
|
Reverse Hoovering
|
Mar 08, 2023 |
|
Reaching For Comfort Where There is None
|
Mar 01, 2023 |
|
Things My Abuser Said I Would Never Do Without Them
|
Feb 22, 2023 |
|
Have You Lost Your Voice?
|
Feb 15, 2023 |
|
Their First Move Was PROBABLY Calculated
|
Feb 08, 2023 |
|
Hoovering Examples From My Screenshots
|
Feb 01, 2023 |
|
Reading A Letter To My Abuser
|
Jan 25, 2023 |
|
Am I The Toxic One?
|
Jan 18, 2023 |
|
Breadcrumbs Can’t Sustain You
|
Jan 11, 2023 |
|
Some Abusers Are DV Experts
|
Jan 04, 2023 |
|
Do Narcissists Have Friends?
|
Dec 28, 2022 |
|
The Smear Campaign Started Way Before You Left
|
Dec 21, 2022 |
|
Interview With Trey De La Torre, Survivor of Abuse in a Queer Relationship
|
Dec 14, 2022 |
|
Holidays With A Narcissist
|
Dec 07, 2022 |
|
Should You Share Your Story?
|
Nov 30, 2022 |
|
Look Out For THESE Feelings in a New Relationship
|
Nov 23, 2022 |
|
They Forgot They Were Married?
|
Nov 16, 2022 |
|
Interview with Natalia, an LGBTQ+ Abuse Survivor
|
Nov 09, 2022 |
|
How I Broke the Trauma Bond
|
Oct 26, 2022 |
|
ONE YEAR NO CONTACT!
|
Oct 19, 2022 |
|
All About Trauma Bonds
|
Oct 12, 2022 |
|
Reframing the First Date
|
Oct 05, 2022 |
|
Love Bombing or Genuine Connection?
|
Sep 28, 2022 |
|
Why UHAULING (moving fast) Can Be Dangerous
|
Sep 24, 2022 |
|
The Day My Car Broke Down
|
Sep 08, 2022 |
|
Is Toxic Sex Really THAT Good?
|
Aug 31, 2022 |
|
TW: Subtle Ways a Narcissist Uses Sex to Abuse You
|
Aug 24, 2022 |
|
When A Survivor Shares Their Abuse Story
|
Aug 17, 2022 |
|
A Narcissist's Supply Chain
|
Aug 10, 2022 |
|
From Break Up to No Contact
|
Aug 03, 2022 |
|
The Day A Narcissist Said “Let’s Break Up”
|
Jul 26, 2022 |
|
Why Can't I Sleep? What's Wrong with ME!?
|
Jul 20, 2022 |
|
BONUS EP: Do You Want a Forest Fire or a Slow Burn?
|
Jul 13, 2022 |
|
Saying “Just Leave” Doesn’t Help
|
Jun 29, 2022 |
|
Thoughts on Being Queer After Abuse
|
Jun 22, 2022 |
|
Invalidating Your Queer Identity
|
Jun 15, 2022 |
|
Why Abuse Feels Different in Same Sex Relationships
|
Jun 08, 2022 |
|
Late Bloomers & Abusive Relationships
|
Jun 01, 2022 |
|
Putting Together the Puzzle Pieces
|
May 25, 2022 |
|
When an Abuser Goes Out for Drinks
|
May 18, 2022 |
|
Kids in Abusive Relationships
|
May 11, 2022 |
|
Is it Love or a Trauma Bond?
|
May 04, 2022 |
|
Being Isolated by an Abuser
|
Apr 27, 2022 |
|
Crying In Front of An Abuser
|
Apr 20, 2022 |
|
The Break Up
|
Apr 13, 2022 |
|
No Man’s Land: Between Breakup & No Contact
|
Apr 06, 2022 |
|
Trying to Leave an Abusive Relationship
|
Mar 30, 2022 |
|
Pip’s Story: Animals in Abusive Relationships
|
Mar 23, 2022 |
|
Flying Monkeys!
|
Mar 16, 2022 |
|
The Hero or the Villain
|
Mar 10, 2022 |
|
Narcissists/toxic people tell on themselves
|
Mar 02, 2022 |
|
(TW) Don’t give someone a guide to abusing you
|
Feb 23, 2022 |
|
Why a breakup with a narcissist is so hard
|
Feb 16, 2022 |
|
Holidays with a narcissist
|
Feb 09, 2022 |
|
Therapy with an Abuser
|
Feb 02, 2022 |
|
My Breakup with a Narcissist
|
Jan 26, 2022 |
|
Feast or Famine (breadcrumbs)
|
Jan 19, 2022 |
|
Hoovering Tactics
|
Jan 14, 2022 |
|
Red Flags I Ignored
|
Dec 13, 2021 |
|
Devaluation Phase
|
Dec 04, 2021 |
|
Love Bombing
|
Nov 27, 2021 |
|
What’s Next?
|
Nov 20, 2021 |
|
It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+ Relationships (Trailer)
|
Sep 23, 2021 |