Raised Resilient: Help Your Highly Sensitive Child

By Dr. Hilary Mandzik - Psychologist

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Parenting is the hardest job ever – and parenting a highly sensitive child who’s struggling can feel downright impossible. If you’re suffering through endless meltdowns, walking on eggshells to avoid your child’s huge emotions, and losing sleep worrying that you’re failing your child, you’ve landed in the right place. I’m Dr. Hilary Mandzik – clinical psychologist, parenting specialist, and mom of 3. And I’m here to help you feel GOOD about parenting your highly sensitive child. Join me each week on the Raised Resilient podcast as we explore the topics parents worry about most when it comes to raising highly sensitive kids: managing meltdowns, building emotion regulation, understanding highly sensitive kids, making sense of challenging behaviors, building self-esteem, finding parenting strategies that actually work *with* your child’s sensitivity ... and everything in between. I’ll help you understand your child’s behavior (and your reactions to it!) so that even the really hard moments make more sense. I’ll empower you with tools, strategies, and scripts to navigate those really hard moments with connection and confidence. (And I’ll remind you that no tool, strategy, or script is as powerful as your parenting ace – your relationship with your child!) I’m passionate about parenting differently – parenting in a way that sees all kids as good, even when they’re struggling. I’m passionate about breaking unhelpful generational cycles and putting a hard stop to spanking, time outs, shaming, and yelling. I’m passionate about helping highly sensitive kids build the skills they need in order to manage their big emotions successfully ... and parents learning to regulate their own emotions alongside their children. I want to help you stop worrying about whether you’re “raising them right” and feel confident that your kids will grow up trusting themselves and feeling comfortable in their skin … because they were raised resilient. And that’s big. Because raising our kids resilient can literally make this world a better place. Listen, parenting is hard no matter how you do it. You won’t “enjoy every moment”, no matter what that lady at the store says. But I’m here to help you go from just barely surviving to parenting in a way that genuinely feels good, for you and your highly sensitive child. So warm up your coffee and grab your ear buds. It’s time to turn your child’s sensitivity into their SUPERPOWER! Connect with me: https://www.raisedresilient.com/ IG: @raisedresilient Schedule your FREE Breakthrough Session: https://www.raisedresilient.com/breakthrough Do YOU have a highly sensitive child? Take my FREE QUIZ to find out: https://www.raisedresilient.com/quiz Major themes: parenting highly sensitive / deeply feeling kids; cycle breaking; building emotion regulation; generational healing; respectful parenting; gentle parenting; peaceful parenting; attachment theory / building a secure attachment

Episode Date
Parenting Reflections: How to Rediscover Yourself with Solo Travel (& 3 Key Benefits for Parents!)
Apr 26, 2024
How to Navigate Sibling Jealousy During Birthdays (& 3 Strategies to Support Your Highly Sensitive Child!)
Apr 24, 2024
Kelsey & Cody’s Story: How a Family Turned Chaos, Meltdowns & Prior Medical Trauma Into a Peaceful Home Life
Apr 19, 2024
How to Stop Walking on Eggshells When Saying “No” to Your Highly Sensitive Child (And the 3 Alternatives You Can Do Instead!)
Apr 17, 2024
Parenting Reflections: How to Decode Your Highly Sensitive Child’s Meltdowns & Get to the Root Cause of Huge Reactions to Trivial Triggers
Apr 12, 2024
Navigating Perfectionism in Highly Sensitive Children: 3 Invaluable Tips for How to Respond to Your Child’s “I Want to be Perfect” Voice
Apr 10, 2024
Parenting Reflections: Navigating Parental Anger: Here’s My Simple but Powerful Tool to Regulate After Losing Your Cool
Apr 05, 2024
Does Your Highly Sensitive Child Worry Constantly? Why Reassuring Your Anxious Child Is the Worst Thing You Can Do (& What to do Instead to Master Anxiety!)
Apr 03, 2024
Parenting Reflections: “Why Are You Being So Mean?!”: How to Get Curious About Even the Most Challenging Behaviors
Mar 29, 2024
Trying to Get Your Child to “Calm Down” or “Stop Overreacting”? Here’s Why That’s Actually Making the Meltdowns Worse
Mar 27, 2024
Parenting Reflections: Are Your Kids Fighting Constantly? My #1 Tool for Diffusing Sibling Conflict (Without Going Into Referee Mode!)
Mar 22, 2024
“Go Away, Mommy!”: How to Respond Effectively When Your Highly Sensitive Child Pushes You Away When They Need You Most
Mar 20, 2024
Natasha’s Story: How An Overwhelmed Mom Helped Her Highly Sensitive 4-Year-Old Ditch Meltdowns and Aggressive Behaviors & Get Her “Spark” Back
Mar 15, 2024
Constantly Yelling at Your Child? Why Trying to "Stay Calm” Is Setting You Up to Fail (& What to Focus on Instead!)
Mar 13, 2024
Parenting Reflections: "Go Away and Die, Mommy!": How to Respond to Mean Words from Your Highly Sensitive Child (Without Losing Your Cool!)
Mar 08, 2024
Raising a Strong-Willed, Anxious, or Perfectionistic Kid? What These 3 Kids Have in Common (& How to Understand Your Child Better!)
Mar 06, 2024
Parenting Reflections: How to Respond When Your Highly Sensitive Child's Feelings Don't Make Logical Sense
Mar 01, 2024
Why Your Highly Sensitive Child’s Sensitivity is Actually Their Superpower
Feb 28, 2024
Parenting Reflections: How to Handle Birthday Meltdowns with Your Highly Sensitive Child
Feb 23, 2024
The #1 Reason Your Highly Sensitive Child Has Meltdowns
Feb 21, 2024
Parenting Reflections: How to Regroup When You’ve Had a Rough Parenting Day (Yelling, Losing Your Cool, and Feeling Shame)
Feb 16, 2024
Managing Separation Anxiety: Expert Tips for When Your Highly Sensitive Child Won't Let You Leave
Feb 14, 2024
Parenting Reflections: How to Handle it When Your Child Says “I’m a Bad Kid”
Feb 09, 2024
5 Not-So-Obvious Signs Your Child is Highly Sensitive
Feb 07, 2024
Why I’m Taking a Short Break from Podcasting (& Why You Should Take a Break from Something Too!)
Aug 09, 2023
Practical Tips to Make Time for Exercise as a Busy Parent with Lauren Chante
Aug 02, 2023
How to Know if Your Child is Kindergarten Ready (& Why “Kindergarten Readiness” is Probably Not What You Think It Is!)
Jul 26, 2023
4 Reasons You Should Let Your Child be Bored (& How to Deal With Boredom)
Jul 19, 2023
4 Tips to Encourage Your Child to Play Independently More Often (& For Longer!)
Jul 12, 2023
Traveling with Kids: 5 Tips to Make Your Next Family Trip Less Stressful
Jul 05, 2023
The Benefits of Unstructured Outdoor Play (& How to Get Your Child Outside!) with Allana Robinson
Jun 28, 2023
Water Safety for Kids: 5 Tips to Keep Your Child Safe (& Why This Topic Is So Important to Me!)
Jun 21, 2023
How to Get Your Child to Talk to You (Even About the Hard Stuff!)
Jun 14, 2023
What to Do When You Don’t Like Your Child’s Friend
Jun 07, 2023
How to Find Balance in Parenting, Life & Hormones with Dr. Brooke Kalanick
May 31, 2023
How to Introduce Your Baby / Child to a New Pet: 4 Tips for a Smooth Transition
May 24, 2023
The #1 Negative Thought Pattern that Keeps Parents Feeling Stuck & Disconnected
May 17, 2023
4 Practical Ways to Manage Parenting Stress with Elizabeth Andreyevskiy
May 10, 2023
How to Respond to Aggressive Behavior in Older Kids
May 03, 2023
Connecting with “Big Kids”: How to Build & Sustain Healthy Relationships with Older Kids, Tweens & Teens
Apr 26, 2023
Responding to Fears of the Dark & Other Common Bedtime Struggles
Apr 19, 2023
Beyond Sleep Training or Co-Sleeping Forever: Finding the Baby Sleep Middle Ground with Rachael Shepherd-Ohta
Apr 12, 2023
Gentle Parenting with Babies: 5 Tips to Build Emotion Regulation from the Start
Apr 05, 2023
Welcoming a New Baby: 6 Tips to Help Your Older Child Adjust to Their New Sibling
Mar 29, 2023
“How Do I Get My Partner On Board with Gentle Parenting?” with Bryana Kappadakunnel
Mar 22, 2023
”Does Gentle Parenting Actually Work?” Responding to a Skeptical Partner
Mar 15, 2023
Why Play is Your Child’s Most Important Job (& How it Supports Healthy Child Development!)
Mar 08, 2023
Intuitive Eating for Kids: How to Help Picky Eaters & Heal Food Trauma with Bekah Groop
Mar 01, 2023
3 Invaluable Parenting Truths I’ve Learned Through Creating a Parenting Podcast (One Year Anniversary Episode!)
Feb 22, 2023
“My Child Won’t Share Her Toys on Play Dates”: Responding to Challenging Behaviors After a New Sibling is Born
Feb 15, 2023
Do Kids Actually Need Play Dates & Preschool? An Overview of Social Development for Toddlers Through Teens
Feb 08, 2023
“Why Is My Child’s Behavior Good at School and Bad at Home?!”: Unpacking This Common Dynamic
Feb 01, 2023
How to Stop Sibling Teasing (& Why It Happens in the First Place)
Jan 25, 2023
How to Get Kids to Clean Up: Pro Tips to Help You Teach This Important Skill (Without All the Stress!)
Jan 18, 2023
Parenting With Trauma: How to Heal Your Childhood Wounds & Reparent Yourself While You Simultaneously Raise Your Own Child
Jan 11, 2023
Parents, Stop Doing These 3 Things Today to Simplify Your Parenting & Feel More JOY!
Jan 04, 2023
Why You Should Forget the New Year’s Resolutions & Do This ONE Thing Instead for Lighter, More Joyful Parenting in 2023!
Dec 28, 2022
From Toddler Tantrums to Big Kid Struggles: How to Manage Holiday Meltdowns Like a Pro
Dec 21, 2022
How to Deal When Someone Criticizes Your Parenting (& Navigating Holiday Gatherings With People Who Aren’t Into Respectful / Gentle Parenting)
Dec 14, 2022
“Should I Lie to My Kid About Santa Claus?”: Answers to Your Santa Questions (& How to Do the Santa Thing Respectfully!)
Dec 07, 2022
Why the Holidays Are So Stressful for Parents (& 6 Tips to Reclaim Your Joy & Stress Less This Holiday Season!)
Nov 30, 2022
”Am I Raising An Ungrateful Child?!”: How to Get Your Child to Say “Thank You” (Without Forcing It!)
Nov 23, 2022
Self-Care for Parents: Why It’s Necessary & How to Make It Happen
Nov 16, 2022
Why I Love Parenting Without Punishments: 3 Reasons to Stop Punishing Your Child
Nov 09, 2022
The Hidden Dangers of Using Rewards to Motivate Children (& What You Can Do Instead!)
Nov 02, 2022
Let’s Talk About “Mom Rage” / Parenting Rage: 4 Reasons You’re Losing It Constantly (& What You Can Do About It!)
Oct 26, 2022
Talking to Your Child About Death: How, When & What to Say to Broach This Difficult Topic
Oct 19, 2022
It’s Not Always About Limit Setting: How to Give Your Child Independence & Influence (& Why You Should!)
Oct 12, 2022
Supporting Kids as They Explore: Finding the Sweet Spot Between “Helicopter Parenting” & Hands-Off Parenting
Oct 05, 2022
When Gentle Parenting Isn’t Working: Shift Your Energy & Watch Your Child’s Behavior Change
Sep 28, 2022
“It’s MINE!”: What To Do When Your Child Won’t Share (& Why You Shouldn’t Force It!)
Sep 21, 2022
“Why Do I Lose It When My Child Won’t Listen?!”: Making Sense of & Working Through Parenting Triggers
Sep 14, 2022
“Why Is My Child So Defiant!?”: What’s Really Going On (& Why Labeling Children Isn’t Helpful)
Sep 07, 2022
The Truth About Kids & Lying: Why Kids Really Lie (& What Parents Should Do About It!)
Aug 31, 2022
How to Deal With After School Meltdowns: Why Children Have Meltdowns After School & What Parents Can Do to Help
Aug 24, 2022
What Should I Do When My Child is Having a Meltdown? 3 Pieces of Bad Advice (& What to do Instead!)
Aug 17, 2022
Are Meltdowns Normal? 4 Myths About Your Child’s Meltdowns (& the Truth Behind Them!)
Aug 10, 2022
When Your Child “Only Wants Mommy!”: Navigating Parental Preference with Confidence
Aug 03, 2022
The Power of Storytelling: A Tool to Use When Your Child Gets Hurt (& in Other Stressful Moments)
Jul 27, 2022
Making Sense of “Clingy” Behaviors: What’s Really Going On When Your Child Won’t Leave Your Side
Jul 20, 2022
What to Do When Your Child Interrupts: Why it Happens & How to Respond
Jul 13, 2022
Why Are My Kids Always Fighting? Strategies to Set Siblings Up for Success (& Why You Don’t Need to Stress!)
Jul 06, 2022
The Magic of Independent Play: 4 Steps to Getting Your Child to Play Alone (& Why You Should!)
Jun 29, 2022
Kids & Screens: Tips for Healthy, Balanced Screen Use When Technology is Everywhere
Jun 22, 2022
4 Tips for Managing Summer Boredom (& Why You DON’T Need to Push Academics Over the Summer!)
Jun 15, 2022
How to Get Your Child to Listen: 3 Steps to Gain Cooperation & Build Collaboration
Jun 08, 2022
Why We Shouldn’t Call Kids Shy (& How to Help a “Shy” Child!)
Jun 01, 2022
(BONUS Episode) Talking About Hard Things: Supporting Children in the Aftermath of a School Shooting
May 25, 2022
How to Help a Child with Anxiety: Strategies for Building Resilience
May 25, 2022
How to Deal with Your Child’s Frustration: 6 Tips to Build Frustration Tolerance
May 18, 2022
“Shepherding Through”: How to Handle Meltdowns When Life Gets in the Way
May 11, 2022
Expert Tips On How To Deal With Your Child’s Aggressive Behaviors
May 04, 2022
Praising Children: How to Praise Your Child in a Healthy, Confidence-Building Way (& What to Avoid!)
Apr 27, 2022
Emotion Regulation for Kids: 4 Reasons Validating Your Child’s Feelings Isn’t Working (& What to do Instead!)
Apr 20, 2022
Respectful Parenting Isn’t Permissive Parenting: How to Set Healthy, Effective Boundaries That Will Set Your Child Up for Success
Apr 13, 2022
Parent’s Responsibility: What Do Our Kids ACTUALLY Need From Us? (& 3 Things They Don’t Need!)
Apr 06, 2022
Learning to Say Sorry: Why You Shouldn’t Force Your Kids to Apologize (& What to Do Instead!)
Mar 30, 2022
”Sitting With Big Feelings”: What It Really Means & How It Builds Emotion Regulation
Mar 23, 2022
What to do When You Mess Up: How to Repair & Reconnect with Your Child
Mar 16, 2022
“You’re the Worst Mommy Ever!”: Navigating Children’s Mad Feelings
Mar 09, 2022
Respectful Parenting: What Does That Actually Mean?
Mar 02, 2022
Ready to Raise Resilient Kids (with Less Stress and More Joy)?
Feb 23, 2022
Welcome to Raised Resilient with Dr. Hilary! (Trailer)
Feb 10, 2022