I Thought I Was Over This

By Dr. Kimber

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The journey to self-awareness and healing is not for the faint of heart. Just when some new insight leaves you convinced you’ve got everything figured out - Bam! Life hits you over the head and you feel like you’re back at square one. Tragedy, loss, and traumas big and small are all part of our collective human experience that can send us spiraling. However, you don’t need to be alone. Join host Dr. Kimber Del Valle, clinical psychologist and trauma healer, as she dives into the science of “humaning,” shares stories of resilience and overcoming, and offers practical advice for how to find help and hope when mental health and relief seem out of reach. Expect a bit of the unexpected, too. Most of all, tune in to find connection, insight and make friends with the times in life when you feel like you’ve just made it off the proverbial Titantic and are in the ocean asking, now what? I don’t know what the hell to do. Season one is all things sleep (colored raven) and grounding with pause episodes (with white raven) which are mind training practice sessions for how to shift into relaxation. To learn more visit https://www.drkimber.net. 


Episode Date
Pause: Building Capacity for Fear, Grief, and Overwhelm [Pause 74]
Oct 14, 2026
Pause: A Nervous System Reset With Journal Prompts [Pause 73]
Aug 12, 2026
Worry vs Anxiety: How to Stop Spinning and Start Solving
Jun 24, 2026
Moving Beyond Overwhelm: Transforming Anxiety into Action
Jun 10, 2026
Pause: Finding Relaxation For Sleep And Other Moments [Pause 72]
May 06, 2026
Moving Through Stress: Nature, Breath, and Noticing in the Healing Journey [Pause 71]
Apr 22, 2026
Let's Reduce Your Stress And Find Self-Compassion [Pause 70]
Apr 08, 2026
Pause: Notice, Name, Change: Building Capacity for Uncertainty and Overwhelm [Pause 69]
Oct 22, 2025
Pause: Grounding to Find Calm And a Reset [Pause 68]
Oct 01, 2025
Pause: Ground Yourself: Dr. Kimber’s Guide to Somatic Awe Walking [Pause 67]
Sep 10, 2025
Pause: Simple Grounding Exercises for Your Nervous System [Pause 66]
Aug 20, 2025
Pause: Resetting Your Nervous System in Moments of Overwhelm and Sorrow [Pause 65]
Aug 06, 2025
Pause: The Power of Pause: Techniques for Reducing Stress and Anxiety [Pause 64]
Jul 23, 2025
Pause: Grounding Techniques for Restoring Calm [Pause 63]
Jul 09, 2025
Pause: From Anxiety to Grounding - Tools and and Journal Prompts for Self Awareness [Pause 62]
Oct 10, 2024
Your Grief Guide: Finding Comfort and Strength Every Day [Grief Series 9]
Sep 18, 2024
Navigating the School Year: Cultivating Growth, Resilience, and Well-being for Children
Aug 28, 2024
Pause: Building Your Sleep Skills: A Practical Approach to Settling Your Body [Pause 61]
Aug 14, 2024
Pause: Feeling Safe: Unlocking the Body’s Capacity for Processing Trauma Responses [Pause 60]
Jul 24, 2024
Pause: Grounding Techniques for Calming Big Emotions [Pause 59]
Jul 10, 2024
Pause: Cultivating Gratitude - Finding the Inner Strength to Navigate Difficulties [Pause 58]
Jun 26, 2024
Pause: Navigating Anxiety -Grounding Techniques [Pause 57]
Jun 12, 2024
Pause: Regulating Your Nervous System: A Guided Reset [Pause 56]
May 29, 2024
Pause: Embracing Imperfections: Letting Go Of Self-Judgment [Pause 55]
May 15, 2024
Navigating Loneliness: A Deep Dive into Relationships and Coping Strategies with Guest Mandy Ream [Friendship Series 3]
May 01, 2024
Pause: Inner Comfort: A Nervous System Reset [Pause 54]
Apr 17, 2024
Pause: Grounding to Reset Your Nervous System and Get Present [Pause 53]
Apr 03, 2024
Pause: Nourish Your Soul - Finding Ease and Calm [Pause 52]
Mar 20, 2024
Pause: Resetting Your Nervous System: Practicing What Safe Feels Like [Pause 51]
Mar 06, 2024
Building Authentic Community with guest Mandy Ream [Friendship Series 2]
Feb 21, 2024
Embracing Imperfections: Building Meaningful Relationships with guest Mandy Ream [Friendship Series 1]
Feb 07, 2024
Pause: Before Sleep, A Guided Practice for Settling the Mind [Pause 50]
Jan 24, 2024
Living with Purpose: Word for the Year, Spiritual Disciplines, and Mental Intentions
Jan 10, 2024
Pause: A 2023 Review Using Feelings and Cognitive Beliefs [Pause 49]
Dec 27, 2023
Pause: Quiet Your Harsh Judge: Embracing Presence and Self-Compassion for Emotional Well-Being [Pause 48]
Dec 13, 2023
Pause: Grounding Practice for Overcoming Stress and Anxieties [Pause 47]
Nov 29, 2023
Pause: Navigate Overwhelming Emotions in the Present Moment [Pause 46]
Nov 16, 2023
Beyond Conception: Exploring Baby Loss, IVF, and the Emotional Impact of Infertility with guest Anietie (Tia) Ukpe-Wallace
Nov 01, 2023
My Story of Pregnancy Loss: From Darkness to Hope [Grief 7]
Oct 18, 2023
The Healing Power of Community in Grief: Exploring Grief with Guests David Leonard and Chris Cano of New Hope Grief Support [Grief Series 6]
Oct 04, 2023
Pause: Reducing Your Internal Harsh Judge [Pause 45]
Sep 20, 2023
Pause: Showing Up With Self-Compassion [Pause 44]
Sep 06, 2023
Pause: Shift out of Anxiety or Internal Harsh Judge [Pause 43]
Aug 23, 2023
Pause: Grounding Your Nervous System In Times Of Stress and Overwhelm [Pause 42]
Aug 09, 2023
Pause: Tools and Support for Shifting Out of Overwhelming Feelings [Pause 41]
Jul 26, 2023
Pause: Prepare for Sleep [Pause 40]
Jul 12, 2023
A Couple's Perspective: Navigating Differences in Grief with Guest Dennis Del Valle, MFT [Grief 5]
Jun 28, 2023
Pause: Creating Space for God [Pause 39]
Jun 14, 2023
Pause: It's Past Your Bedtime - Let's Get You To Sleep Even When You Think You're Not Tired [Pause 38]
Jun 07, 2023
Pause: Waking Up With Night Terrors or Bad Dreams? — Shifting Back to Sleep [Pause 37]
May 31, 2023
Being Present for Those in Grief: Reflections on Comforting Words and What Not To Say [Grief Series 4]
May 24, 2023
Pause: A Mental Reset [Pause 36]
May 17, 2023
Pause: Get Grounded: Practicing Resiliency in the Face of Grief and Depression [Pause 35]
May 10, 2023
Pause: Getting Out of Destructive Thoughts [Pause 34]
May 03, 2023
Processing Grief: Giving it the Time and Space it Needs [Grief Series 3]
Apr 26, 2023
Pause: Making Friends with Unfamiliar Feelings [Pause 33]
Apr 19, 2023
Pause: Finding Calm Instead of Anxiety While Taking Tests [Pause 32]
Apr 12, 2023
A Teenage Perspective - When Cancer Shows Up and Changes Everything: Sofia Montiel's Grief Story [Grief Series 2]
Apr 05, 2023
Grief and Children: Navigating Their Developmental Stages and What They Need [Grief Series 1]
Mar 29, 2023
Pause: Get Grounded and Feel Embodied - Hitting Reset [Pause 31]
Mar 22, 2023
Pause: Navigating Illness, Cancer, or Getting Connected to Your Body [Pause 30]
Mar 15, 2023
Pause: Let's Get You to the Dentist - Navigating Dental Chair Anxiety [Pause 29]
Mar 08, 2023
Still: Making A Whole When Parts Go Missing Author's Note and Chapter 1
Mar 01, 2023
Pause: Grounding and Finding Calm Before Uncomfortable Conversations or Events [Pause 28]
Feb 22, 2023
Pause: Resetting When Navigating Negative Feelings or Hard Situations [Pause 27]
Feb 15, 2023
Pause: Stop the Racing Thoughts and Anxiety Spirals [Pause 26]
Feb 08, 2023
Pause: Creating Space for Losses - Big or Small [Pause 25]
Feb 01, 2023
Pause: Cultivating the Inner Mystic - Reflections and Practice [Pause 24]
Jan 25, 2023
Pause: Mentally Preparing for Surgery or Other Medical Procedures [Pause 23]
Jan 18, 2023
Pause: Get to Sleep - A Guide [Pause 22]
Jan 11, 2023
Pause: Getting Out of Overwhelm And Taking A Pause [Pause 21]
Jan 04, 2023
Creating Space for Grief and Loss During the Holiday Season [Part 3]
Dec 21, 2022
Pause: Get Through the Holidays: Navigating Your Anger or Anxiety [Pause 20]
Dec 14, 2022
Making the Most of Family Interactions During the Holiday Season [Part 2]
Dec 07, 2022
Pause: Find Enjoyment Rather than Fear While Watching Your Children On Stage [Pause 19]
Nov 30, 2022
Staying Out of Overwhelm During the Holiday Season [Part 1]
Nov 16, 2022
Pause: Ground Your Nervous System While Cleaning [Pause 18]
Nov 09, 2022
Untangling Cannabis: History, Perspective, and Benefits for Mental Health with guest Dr. Dustin Sulak
Nov 02, 2022
Pause: A Mental Jumpstart - Activating Your Five Senses in the Shower [Pause 17]
Oct 26, 2022
Mental Health: Where To Turn For Professional Help - Therapy versus Coaching [Getting Help 3]
Oct 19, 2022
Pause: Getting Connected to Our Body While Cooking [Pause 16]
Oct 12, 2022
Special Episode: Navigating Pregnancy and Infant Loss - Finding Words When You Have None
Oct 05, 2022
Pause: Becoming Embodied - Improving the Connection Between Your Mind and Body [Pause 15]
Sep 28, 2022
Mental Health: Getting Unstuck - Five Expectations to have from Professionals [Getting Help 2]
Sep 21, 2022
Pause: When You Don't Know What To Do - Sitting With Uncertainty [Pause 14]
Sep 14, 2022
Mental Health: Do I Need Medication? Psychiatrist versus Psychologist [Getting Help 1]
Sep 07, 2022
Pause: Settling Your Mind After You've Made A Mistake [Pause 13]
Aug 31, 2022
Bonus: Social Media and Mental Health Guests Eden and Elisha Del Valle
Aug 24, 2022
Pause: Reduce Stress and Anxiety through Grounding [Pause 12]
Aug 17, 2022
Sleep and Mental Health Season 1 Wrap Up [Sleep 12]
Aug 10, 2022
Pause: Breath Work and Getting Present [Pause 11]
Aug 03, 2022
Creating Safety and Security with Your Infant - Navigating Sleep and Nighttime Feedings [Sleep 11]
Jul 27, 2022
Pause: Get Back To Sleep [Pause 10]
Jul 20, 2022
Teenage Brains and Sleep and How Parents Help Create Good Sleep Hygiene [Sleep 10]
Jul 13, 2022
Bonus: Navigating Life with ADHD - Guest College Student Eden Del Valle
Jul 08, 2022
Pause: Loving Your Body Even When It's Letting You Down [Pause 09]
Jul 06, 2022
Hormones, Menopause and Sleep with Dr. Lisa Fillis [Sleep 09]
Jun 29, 2022
Pause: Using the Five Senses, Let's Ground Your Nervous System [Pause 08]
Jun 22, 2022
Sleep Hygiene: Substances, EMFs, Routines and Boundaries with guest Dr. Sunny Raleigh [Sleep 08]
Jun 15, 2022
Pause: "I'm Safe" Grounding for Trauma Responses, Chronic Illness, Secondary Trauma and Anxiety [Pause 07]
Jun 08, 2022
When Tragedy Is Part of Your Job, Finding A Reset and A Way Back to Normal [Sleep 07]
Jun 01, 2022
Pause: Finding Peace and Calm When Coping with Fear and Anxiety Around Public Shootings [Pause 06]
May 25, 2022
Trauma and Anxiety Spirals - How to Get Out of Them When They Strike at Night [Sleep 06]
May 18, 2022
Pause: Awake in the Middle of the Night - Try This! [Pause 05]
May 11, 2022
Middle Insomnia: What Wakes Us Up in the Middle of the Night and What To Do About It [Sleep 05]
May 04, 2022
Pause: Feel like You've Failed? How to Shift Out of Shame [Pause 04]
Apr 27, 2022
Bonus: About College Life Guests Eden and Paige on Roommate Sleep Routines and Choosing a Roommate
Apr 22, 2022
Snoring and Restlessness: Sleep Troubleshooting With A Partner Guest Dennis Del Valle [Sleep 04]
Apr 20, 2022
Pause: Racing Thoughts? Let's Help You Shift into Sleep [Pause 03]
Apr 13, 2022
6 Ways to Level Up Your Sleep Routine [Sleep 03]
Apr 06, 2022
Pause: Finding Inner Quiet through Breathing and Body Awareness [Pause 02]
Mar 30, 2022
Five Practices to Navigate Sleep Deprivation [Sleep 02]
Mar 23, 2022
Pause: Breath Work, Body Scans and Feeling Safe [Pause 01]
Mar 16, 2022
Are You Treating Your Body Like a Smart Phone? The Truth About Sleep [Sleep 01]
Mar 16, 2022
Trailer
Mar 11, 2022