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Naughty Nawlins' Swingers Convention 2026 Recap | S5 EP137
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Jul 23, 2026 |
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New Relationship Energy Fades And That Is Normal | S5 EP136 (FLASHBACK EP)
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Jul 16, 2026 |
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The Biggest Dating Shifts Of 2026 So Far | S5 EP135
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Jul 09, 2026 |
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Your Nervous System Was Built For Lions | S5 EP134
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Jul 02, 2026 |
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How To Go To Social Events Alone Without Feeling Weird | S5 EP133
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Jun 25, 2026 |
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Love Is Not One Thing And Here Is Why | S5 E132
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Jun 18, 2026 |
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What If Sex Ed Taught Risk And Care | S5 EP131
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Jun 11, 2026 |
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The Four Types Of Singles | S5 EP130
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Jun 04, 2026 |
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What If The Safest Way Into BDSM Is Community First | S5 EP129
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May 28, 2026 |
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A Clear Intro To Non-Monogamy Without The Myths | S5 EP128
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May 21, 2026 |
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Consensual Nonconsent Explained With Boundaries And Safewords | S5 EP127
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May 14, 2026 |
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S3xless Existence Video Review | S5 EP126
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May 07, 2026 |
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Stress Sweat, Grocery Stores, And Other Villains | S5 EP125
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Apr 30, 2026 |
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A Loving Relationship Works When You Practice These Six Ingredients | S5 EP124
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Apr 23, 2026 |
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Karmic To Catalyst: A Clear Guide To Partner Types | S4 EP123
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Apr 09, 2026 |
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What If Your “Type” Is A Trauma Loop | Relationship Types walk-through | S4 EP122
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Apr 02, 2026 |
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"This Is Water" by David Foster Wallace | S4 EP121
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Mar 26, 2026 |
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Unteachable Lessons From Chris Williams | S4 EP120
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Mar 19, 2026 |
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Chalant Dating, Explained | S4 EP119
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Mar 12, 2026 |
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Understanding OCEAN: The Only Personality Model Backed By Science | S4 EP118
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Mar 05, 2026 |
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You Said “Kind,” Your Brain Said “Hot” | Stated vs Revealed Preferences | S4 EP117
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Feb 26, 2026 |
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From Small Talk To Consent: Building Better Conversations In Kink And Beyond | S4 EP116
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Feb 19, 2026 |
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White Claw, Small Town Drama, And Big Poly Feelings | Reddit Q&A | S4 EP115
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Feb 12, 2026 |
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Why “Date Till You Hate” Wastes Your Life | S4 EP114
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Feb 05, 2026 |
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Stop Calling It Talent When It’s Really Practice You’re Avoiding | S4 EP113
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Jan 29, 2026 |
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How A Kinky Podcaster Turned Networking Nerves Into Momentum | S4 EP112
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Jan 22, 2026 |
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Congrats, You Didn’t Have Sex: Let’s Talk Gooning | Kink Trends 2025 | S4 EP111
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Jan 15, 2026 |
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Ranking The World’s Most-Watched Porn Categories In 2025 | S4 EP110
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Jan 08, 2026 |
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Why Dating As A Queer Switch Breaks When We Don’t Ask Clear Questions | S4 EP109
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Dec 18, 2025 |
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From Newbie Nerves To Kinky Belonging: How Games, Ambassadors, And Consent Culture Lower The Barrier To Entry | S4 EP108
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Dec 11, 2025 |
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Belonging Is A Practice, Not A Door Policy | S4 EP107
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Dec 04, 2025 |
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From Burnout To Momentum: Libido As Life Energy | S4 EP106
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Nov 20, 2025 |
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From Anxiety To Aftercare: Navigating Scene Headspace In Kink And BDSM | S4 EP105
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Nov 13, 2025 |
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Boundaries, Red Flags, And Growth with Author, Shannon Elliot | S4 EP104
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Nov 06, 2025 |
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From Pegging To Power Dynamics: What Happens When Couples Go Public With Their Kinks | S4 EP103
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Oct 30, 2025 |
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I’m Here To Cuddle, Not Diagnose | S4 EP102
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Oct 23, 2025 |
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From Small Talk to Real Connection: Communication Skills for Kink, Non-Monogamy, and Everyday Life | S4 EP101
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Oct 16, 2025 |
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We hit 100 episodes, and the biggest lesson is simpler than you think... | S4 EP100
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Oct 09, 2025 |
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“Are we really STILL saying ethical non‑monogamy?”—Julius has thoughts | S4 EP 99
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Oct 02, 2025 |
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From Crown to Kilt: Adventures of a Volunteer Supervisor at SmutLovers Con 2025 | S4 EP98
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Sep 25, 2025 |
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The Adult Child: When Growing Up Gets Stuck | S4 EP97
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Sep 18, 2025 |
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Anime, Kink, and Finding Your Community: My Weekend at Ecchi Expo Orlando 2025 | S4 EP96
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Sep 11, 2025 |
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Monogamy is a Social Construct, Not Our Biological Destiny | S4 EP95
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Aug 28, 2025 |
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Primal Play isn't just what I do—it's who I am | S4 EP94
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Aug 21, 2025 |
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Relationship Anarchy: Breaking Free from Expectations and Assumptions | Season 4 EP 93
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Aug 14, 2025 |
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The Return (Again) of the Kinky Kampfire!! | Season 4 EP 92
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Aug 07, 2025 |
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The Social Probation Period | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 42
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Apr 17, 2025 |
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Put Down Your Phone and Wash Your Ass: Dating Advice Nobody Asked For | Advice Line 2 | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 41
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Apr 10, 2025 |
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Bite-Sized Wisdom for a Full-Sized Life: Advice for Taboo Lifestylers | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 40
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Mar 27, 2025 |
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You Can't Change Your Past, But Your Future Isn't Written Yet | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 39
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Mar 20, 2025 |
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What Nobody Tells You About Dating When Sex Isn't Your Primary Attraction | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 38
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Mar 13, 2025 |
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EP 49 | Taboo talks with a new friend! | Melanie Carolyn from Mom's Unboxed podcast
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Mar 06, 2025 |
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Rejection: The Universal Struggle | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 37
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Feb 27, 2025 |
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Navigating Tough Talks: Reimagining Communication, Gender Roles, and Vulnerability | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 36
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Feb 20, 2025 |
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Understanding Consent in Unique Community Gatherings | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 35
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Feb 06, 2025 |
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Introverted Networking and the Art of Self-Promotion: A Podfest 2025 Recap | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 34
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Jan 30, 2025 |
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An "Intro" to Julius: A Journey Through Non-Monogamy, Geek Culture, and Self-Discovery | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 33
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Jan 23, 2025 |
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Shifting Perspectives on Adult Traffic Analysis | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 32
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Jan 16, 2025 |
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State-by-State: A Playful Look at America's (and the World's) Unique Preferences | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 31
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Jan 09, 2025 |
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Finding Clarity in Conversations and Relationships | Pillow Fort EP 30
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Jan 02, 2025 |
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Impromptu Rant as the Year Comes to an End | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 29
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Dec 05, 2024 |
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Rewiring Your Mind: The Science of Habit Formation | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 28
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Nov 21, 2024 |
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EP 48 | Embracing Authenticity: Navigating Alternative Lifestyles and Identity with Shannon Elliott
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Nov 14, 2024 |
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Enhancing Your Relationships: Mastering Effective Communication and Conflict Resolution | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 27
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Nov 07, 2024 |
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EP 47 | From Repression to Awakening: A Journey of Self-Discovery with Shannon Elliot
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Oct 31, 2024 |
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Exploring the Cass Model: Navigating Identity and Embracing Authenticity | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 26
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Oct 24, 2024 |
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Unlocking Personal Connections Through Love Languages | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 25
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Oct 17, 2024 |
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Untangling Attraction: A Journey Through Asexuality, Empathy, and Meaningful Connections | Pillow Fort Sessions EP24
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Oct 10, 2024 |
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My Journey Through the Smut Lovers Convention 2024: Insights and Revelations | Pillow Fort EP 23
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Sep 26, 2024 |
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This Year Thus Far: Taking a Little Break From the Deep Dives | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 22
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Sep 12, 2024 |
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Replacing Hierarchies with Harmony: A Relationship Anarchy Guide | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 21
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Sep 05, 2024 |
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Navigating Kink Dynamics: The Role of Labels | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 20
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Aug 29, 2024 |
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How do you know if you're into Kink? The Motivation Behind Our Curiosities: From Hobbies to Kink Exploration | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 19
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Aug 15, 2024 |
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EP 18 Pillow Fort Sessions | Disarming Assumptions: Strengthening Relationships Through Clear Communication
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Jun 20, 2024 |
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Ep 17 Pillow Fort Sessions | Ambiverts Unveiled: Bridging the Gap Between Introverts and Extroverts
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May 30, 2024 |
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Ep 16 Pillow Fort Sessions | The Quiet Strength of Solitude Versus the Challenge of Loneliness
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May 23, 2024 |
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EP 46 | Kinky Campfire Revelations: Unraveling the Secrets of BDSM Dating, Social Acceptance, and the Power of Introspection
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May 09, 2024 |
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EP 45 | Exploring Kink vs. Vanilla: A Kampfire Guide to BDSM Roles, Play Space Etiquette, and Sexual Discovery
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Apr 25, 2024 |
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EP 44 | A Brief Touch On Relationship Phases (And Mostly A Rant)
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Apr 11, 2024 |
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Ep 15 Pillow Fort Sessions | Decoding the Mystique: The Origin & Impact of the Myers-Briggs Personality Indicator
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Apr 04, 2024 |
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EP 43 | Tales from the Leather Leadership Conference 2024
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Mar 28, 2024 |
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Ep 14 Pillow Fort Sessions | Building Bonds Through the Subtle Art of Small Talk
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Mar 14, 2024 |
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Ep 13 Pillow Fort Sessions | Navigating the World with Quiet Confidence A Guide for Introverts
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Mar 07, 2024 |
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EP 42 | Geeky Pins and Pronouns A Look at Lifestyle Diversity in the Convention Circuit
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Feb 22, 2024 |
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Ep 12 Pillow Fort Sessions | Unleashing Inner Beasts: The Untamed World of Primal Play in BDSM
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Feb 15, 2024 |
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EP 41 | Unveiling the Truth: The Intricacies of D/S Dynamics and Dispelling BDSM Myths
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Feb 08, 2024 |
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EP 40 | Kinks, Quirks, and Digital Dilemmas by the Fire
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Jan 25, 2024 |
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EP 39 | Are BDSMers A-holes??
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Jan 11, 2024 |
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EP 38 | BDSM Myths....here we go...
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Dec 28, 2023 |
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Ep 11 Pillow Fort Sessions | Feel a little butthurt? (Rejection Sensitivity)
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Dec 21, 2023 |
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Ep 10 Pillow Fort Sessions | A Deeper Dive into Relationship Expectations
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Nov 30, 2023 |
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EP 37 | Myths About Non-Monogamy
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Nov 23, 2023 |
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Ep 9 Pillow Fort Sessions | Geeking Out p3
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Nov 16, 2023 |
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EP 36 | Relationship Myths
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Nov 09, 2023 |
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EP 35 | Reality versus Fantasy
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Oct 26, 2023 |
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EP 34 | Smut Lovers Convention 2023
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Oct 12, 2023 |
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EP 33 | Controversy & the Jonah Hill situation (kind of)
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Sep 28, 2023 |
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EP 32 | Weeee'rrreee baaaackkk!
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Sep 14, 2023 |
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Ep 8 Pillow Fort Sessions | BSDM & Sex
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Aug 31, 2023 |
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Ep 7 Pillow Fort Sessions | The Many Facets of Non-Monogamy
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Aug 17, 2023 |
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Ep 6 Pillow Fort Sessions | Geeking Out p2
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Aug 10, 2023 |
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Ep 5 Pillow Fort Sessions | Dating in the Lifestyle(s)
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Aug 03, 2023 |
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Ep 4 Pillow Fort Sessions | Boundaries
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Jul 27, 2023 |
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Ep 3 Pillow Fort Sessions | Geeking Out p1
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Jul 20, 2023 |
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Ep 2 Pillow Fort Sessions | Podcast Update
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Jul 13, 2023 |
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Ep 1 Pillow Fort Sessions | Introduction
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Jul 06, 2023 |
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EP 31 | So how does a 24/7 dynamic go exactly??
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May 11, 2023 |
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EP 30 | Con basics & Life updates
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Apr 27, 2023 |
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EP 29 | Non-sexual BDSM...is that a thing?
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Apr 13, 2023 |
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EP 28 | Our Reactions to Old Sex Ed Videos from the Past
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Mar 23, 2023 |
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EP 27 | Kink Ed into the future!
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Mar 09, 2023 |
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EP 26 | The Basics of Negotiations
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Feb 23, 2023 |
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EP 25 | New Year, New Negotiations!
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Feb 09, 2023 |
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EP 24 | A Little Personal History...101
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Jan 26, 2023 |
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EP 23 | Going Behind the Scenes (Kind of like Oz, the Great and Powerful)
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Jan 12, 2023 |
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EP 22 | In the Land of Plenty...(Dating!)
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Dec 15, 2022 |
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EP 21 | Assumptions!
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Dec 08, 2022 |
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EP 20 | Leaders in Leather '22
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Nov 10, 2022 |
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EP 19 | Let's collaborate over expect...tate(?) (AOSAAS pt 2)
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Oct 27, 2022 |
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EP 18 | AOSAAS
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Oct 13, 2022 |
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EP 17 | There is a difference between Pansexual versus Bisexual? Who knew?
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Sep 22, 2022 |
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EP 16 | Spectrums...what are they?
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Sep 08, 2022 |
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EP 15 | Strippin' and Dating Online
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Aug 25, 2022 |
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EP 14 | That one book that talks about being Secure in Polyamory
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Aug 11, 2022 |
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EP 13 | Em..poster? A poster? In posture? Ah Imposter Syndrome!
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Jul 28, 2022 |
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EP 12 | Beyond Leather '22
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Jul 14, 2022 |
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EP 11 | Geeking out....FINALLY
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Jun 23, 2022 |
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EP 10 | How are you triggered today?
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Jun 09, 2022 |
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EP 9 | Cuck...holding?
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May 26, 2022 |
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EP 8 | Dating? PUAs? What?
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May 12, 2022 |
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EP 6 | Personality Traits
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Apr 14, 2022 |
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EP 5 | Why can't we be friends? (Part 2)
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Mar 24, 2022 |
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EP 4 | Why can't we be friends?
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Mar 10, 2022 |
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EP 3 | What are we doing here?
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Feb 24, 2022 |
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EP 2 | ETHICAL - Non-Monogamy
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Feb 10, 2022 |