The Kink Perspective
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Episodes: 220
Description
The Kink Perspective looks at BDSM through psychology, not performance. It’s an honest examination of power, connection, and what really shapes relationships inside kink, without romanticizing dysfunction or avoiding hard truths.
Hosted by Chris C, trauma-focused psychotherapist with more than two decades of lifestyle experience.
Sponsorship inquiries: Thekinkperspective@gmail.com
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Season 5 Episode 17 - Why Sex Stops Feeling the Same Over Time...
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May 05, 2026 |
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Season 5 Episode 16 - My Interview with HiThereCatSuit...
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Apr 28, 2026 |
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Season 5 Episode 15 - Borrowed Trust in Community...
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Apr 21, 2026 |
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Season 5 Episode 14 - Living for Other People’s Judgment...
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Apr 14, 2026 |
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Season 5 Episode 13 - What Most Men Were Never Taught About Power...
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Apr 07, 2026 |
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Season 5 Episode 12 - Safe or Just a Signal...
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Mar 30, 2026 |
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Season 5 Episode 11 - Comfortable but Stuck...
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Mar 24, 2026 |
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Season 5 Episode 10 - Erotic Intensity vs. Emotional Intimacy...
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Mar 17, 2026 |
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Season 5 Episode 9 -Fearful-Avoidant and the Lifestyle...
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Mar 09, 2026 |
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Season 5 Episode 8 - Long Distance Relationships...
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Mar 02, 2026 |
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Season 5 Episode 7 - Choosing What Fits...
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Feb 24, 2026 |
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Season 5 Episode 6 - Why We Go Back...
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Feb 17, 2026 |
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Season 5 Episode 5 - Being Single in the Lifestyle...
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Feb 09, 2026 |
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Season 5 Episode 4 - Taking Your Kink Public...
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Feb 03, 2026 |
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Season 5 Episode 3 - Monogamy in the Lifestyle...
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Jan 26, 2026 |
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Season 5 Episode 2 - Intimacy Without Sex in Scenes...
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Jan 19, 2026 |
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Season 5 Episode 1 - If I’m Not Needed, I Don’t Exist...
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Jan 13, 2026 |
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Season 4 - It's a Wrap!
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Dec 23, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 49 - Structure Does Not Equal Safety...
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Dec 16, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 48 - Learned Defiance vs. Self-Sabotage...
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Dec 08, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 47 - 200th Episode! Busting Common Myths...
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Dec 01, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 46 - When Help Becomes an Expectation...
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Nov 24, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 45 - How Hostility Is Warping Kink Culture...
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Nov 17, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 44 - Hurt vs. Harm in Power Exchange...
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Nov 10, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 43 - RSD, Trauma, and the Nervous System...
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Nov 04, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 42 - When the Body Reaches Before the Mind Feels Safe...
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Oct 28, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 41 - After the Scene Ends: When Connection Turns Quiet...
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Oct 20, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 40 - The Body Arc — When the Body Betrays, Commands, and Speaks...
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Oct 13, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 39 - Intimacy as Mutual Risk...
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Oct 06, 2025 |
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Season 4 - Episode 38 - The Friendship Deficit & Beyond...
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Sep 29, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 37 - When Both Are Hurting: How to Care Without Losing Yourself...
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Sep 23, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 36 - Kink, Community, and the Politics of Silencing...
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Sep 16, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 35 - Jealousy, Envy, and the Digital Trigger...
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Sep 09, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 34 - My Interview with Redwarrior...
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Sep 02, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 33 - Gender, Power, and the Pressure to Stay Put...
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Aug 26, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 32 - The Messy Middle: Between New and Grounded...
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Aug 18, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 31 - Reclaiming Kink After Abuse...
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Aug 11, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 30 - When Sadism Becomes the Self...
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Aug 04, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 29 - Being Outed – The Cost of Exposure...
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Jul 28, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 28 - Pickup Play, Negotiation, and the Crossroads of Swinger and BDSM Culture...
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Jul 22, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 27 - Living with Agency, Not Obligation...
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Jul 15, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 26 - Emotional Needs and Navigating Relationships...
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Jul 08, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 25 - The Urge to Lose...
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Jun 30, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 24 - Trauma Bonding in Relationships...
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Jun 23, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 23 - Love Bombing: Intensity Isn’t Intimacy...
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Jun 17, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 22 - When the Terms Change...
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Jun 10, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 21 - Erotic Mismatch in Relationships...
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Jun 02, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 20 – The Rise of Trauma-Irresponsible Educators in Kink...
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May 27, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 19 - Ghosting, Autonomy, and the Cost of Closure...
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May 20, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 18 - The Slow Burn of Resentment in Power Exchange...
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May 13, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 17 – Craving Punishment: BDSM, Shame, and the Psychology of Discipline
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May 06, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 16 - BDSM and Alcohol and Substance Use in Dungeon/Event Spaces...
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Apr 29, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 15 - BDSM and Personal Power and Sovereignty...
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Apr 22, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 14 - BDSM and Trauma vs. Desire...
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Apr 15, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 13 - BDSM and the Sex Offender Debate...
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Apr 08, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 12 - BDSM and Coercion, Boundaries and Consent...
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Apr 01, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 11 - BDSM and People Pleasing...
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Mar 25, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 10 - BDSM and Military Mindset in Power Exchange...
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Mar 18, 2025 |
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Season 4 - Episode 9 - BDSM and Loneliness vs. Solitude...
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Mar 11, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 8 - BDSM and the Validation Trap in Power Exchange...
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Mar 03, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 7 - My discussion with JohnBaku...
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Feb 24, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 6 - BDSM and "Emotional Vampires..."
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Feb 18, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 5 - BDSM and the Business of “Education"...
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Feb 11, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 4 - BDSM and Shame and Guilt...
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Feb 03, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 3 - BDSM and Sexual Satisfaction vs. Fulfillment...
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Jan 28, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 2 - My interview with -JUPIT3R- and Cheethame...
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Jan 21, 2025 |
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Season 4 Episode 1 - My take on the incidents at the WoodShed in Orlando,Florida...
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Jan 14, 2025 |
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Season 3 - It's a Wrap!
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Dec 17, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 50 - BDSM and Eroticism...
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Dec 10, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 49 - BDSM and Role Reversal...
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Dec 03, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 48 - My discussion with DrSpankologist...
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Nov 26, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 47 - BDSM and The Double-Edged Sword of Praise Kink...
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Nov 19, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 46 - BDSM and the Middle East...
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Nov 12, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 45 - BDSM and Healing Emotional Neglect...
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Nov 05, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 44 - BDSM and Kink Dictation and Policing...
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Oct 29, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 43 - BDSM and Rules for Disengagement in Relationships...
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Oct 22, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 42 - BDSM and Burnout...
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Oct 15, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 41 - BDSM and the Role of Emotional Processing...
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Oct 08, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 40 - BDSM and Sexual Shame...
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Oct 01, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 39 - My discussion with Honeybeeeee about BDSM, Life and Being Older...
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Sep 23, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 38 - BDSM and Navigating Polyamory as a New Couple...
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Sep 17, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 37 - BDSM and Emotional Unavailability...
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Sep 10, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 36 - Isolating Partners...
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Sep 03, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 35 - BDSM and Personal Responsibility...
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Aug 27, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 34 - Women, Kink, Politics and more, my discussion with The_Stormyone and __Raven__
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Aug 20, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 33 - BDSM and Vanilla Partners...
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Aug 13, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 32 - BDSM and Jealousy in Dynamics...
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Aug 06, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 31 - BDSM and Disposable Relationships...
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Jul 30, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 30 - BDSM and Self vs. Identity...
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Jul 23, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 29 - BDSM and Long Distance Kink Relationships...
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Jul 16, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 28 - BDSM and CNC...
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Jul 09, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 27 - BDSM and Understanding Punishments in D/s Relationships...
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Jul 02, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 26 - BDSM and Effects of Explicit Content...
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Jun 25, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 25 - BDSM and Men's Mental Health...
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Jun 18, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 24 - BDSM and Intermittent Reinforcement...
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Jun 11, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 23 - BDSM and Ping-Pong Relationships...
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Jun 04, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 22 - BDSM and Religious Iconopgraphy...
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May 28, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 21 - BDSM and Navigating Your First Dungeon Experience...
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May 21, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 20 - BDSM and Mummification...
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May 14, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 19 - BDSM and Coprophilia...
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May 07, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 18 - Ask Me Anything...
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Apr 30, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 17 - BDSM and ANR...
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Apr 23, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 16 - BDSM and Our Authentic Self...
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Apr 16, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 15 - BDSM and Aging...
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Apr 09, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 14 - BDSM and Foot Fetishes...
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Apr 02, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 13 - BDSM and Trauma Dumping...
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Mar 26, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 12 - BDSM and Dacryphilia...
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Mar 19, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 11 - BDSM and Unexpected Endings...
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Mar 12, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 10 - BDSM and Vulnerability in Masculinity...
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Mar 05, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 9 - BDSM and Substance use during scenes...
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Feb 27, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 8 - BDSM and Challenging the Norm of Aftercare...
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Feb 20, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 7 - Atlanta Tragedy - Content Warning...
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Feb 13, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 6 - BDSM and Social Media Responsibility...
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Feb 06, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 5 - BDSM and Pleasure and Pain...
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Jan 31, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 4 - Parenting and BDSM discussion Part 1, with Corey and Cassandra...
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Jan 27, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 3 - BDSM and Collar Dynamics...
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Jan 22, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 2 - BDSM and Hypnosis...
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Jan 16, 2024 |
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Season 3 Episode 1 - BDSM and Attention-Seeking Behavior in Social Media...
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Jan 09, 2024 |
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Season 2 Episode 57 - Special Episode on Findoms...
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Dec 23, 2023 |
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Season 2 - It's a Wrap...
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Dec 19, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 55 - BDSM and Limits of Self...
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Dec 12, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 54 - Consent Framework Discussion with Ms_Kitten_ Part 1...
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Dec 09, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 53 - BDSM and Music...
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Dec 05, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 52 - BDSM and Attacks on Masculinity...
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Nov 28, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 51 - BDSM and Self-Esteem...
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Nov 21, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 50 - BDSM and Jealousy...
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Nov 14, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 49 - Objectification discussion with Brooke_ish...
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Nov 09, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 48 - BDSM and Relationship Ethics...
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Nov 07, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 47 - BDSM and Electrical Play...
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Nov 06, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 46 - BDSM and Navigating Rebellion and Rejection in Relationships...
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Oct 31, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 45 - BDSM and Toys vs the Mind...
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Oct 24, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 44 - BDSM and Consent vs Boundaries...
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Oct 17, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 43 - BDSM and Sexual Affinity vs Sexual Objectification...
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Oct 10, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 42 - BDSM and Lingering Impact of Hurtful Words...
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Oct 03, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 41 - BDSM and Active Listening...
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Sep 26, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 40 - BDSM and Eroticism versus Sex...
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Sep 19, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 39 - BDSM and STI's, Sexual Health, Bug Chasing and Differing Opinions...
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Sep 12, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 38 - Emotional Dysregulation discussion with Clinical Psychologist Elise Loprieno...
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Sep 04, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 37 - BDSM and Sensation Seeking and Emotional Bleed Part 2...
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Aug 30, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 36 - BDSM and Risk and Emotional Bleed Part 1...
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Aug 29, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 35 - BDSM and Incels, Cultural Appropriation and Misinformation, oh my...
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Aug 22, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 34 - BDSM and a Burial Scene...
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Aug 15, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 33 - Rope Discussion Part 2 with BoundAshLeigh...
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Aug 08, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 32 - Rope Discussion Part 1 with SemenawaPrincess...
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Aug 07, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 31 - BDSM and Nostalgic Relationships...
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Aug 01, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 30 - Rope Bondage Discussion with Mr TinkerTrain...
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Jul 25, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 29 - BDSM and Humiliation Play...
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Jul 18, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 28 - BDSM and Letting go...
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Jul 11, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 27 - BDSM and Bulls...
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Jul 04, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 26 - BDSM and Hyper-Masculinity...
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Jun 27, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 25 - BDSM and Punishments...
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Jun 20, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 24 - BDSM and Fear of Being Alone...
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Jun 13, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 23 - BDSM and Silence and Projection...
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Jun 06, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 22 - Brooke_ish and TPE
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May 30, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 21 - BDSM and Embracing the Unknown...
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May 23, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 20 - BDSM and Fantasy vs. Reality...
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May 16, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 19 - BDSM and Men's Mental Health...
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May 09, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 18 - BDSM and Using Psychology to Manipulate Relationships...
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May 02, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 17 - BDSM and Kink Politics...
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Apr 25, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 16 - BDSM and Praise Kink
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Apr 18, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 15 - BDSM and Introversion - Extroversion in BDSM...
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Apr 11, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 14 - BDSM and Needle Play discussion with Ms_Kitten_
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Apr 03, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 13 - BDSM and Shame, Secrets and Dirty desires, the private life we want no one to know about...
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Mar 28, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 12 - BDSM and Attachment Styles...
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Mar 21, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 11 - BDSM and Dynamic Political Differences...
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Mar 13, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 10 - BDSM and When a Dynamic Ends part 2...
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Mar 09, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 9 - BDSM and When a Dynamic Ends part 1...
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Mar 07, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 8 - BDSM and Aftercare for Dominants...
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Feb 28, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 7 - BDSM and Kink Educators...
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Feb 21, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 6 - BDSM and Kinky People Killing BDSM...
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Feb 14, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 5 - BDSM and Disposable Relationships...
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Feb 07, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 4 - BDSM and Auralism...
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Jan 31, 2023 |
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Season 2 Episode 3 - BDSM and When the Spark Fades...
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Jan 24, 2023 |
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Season 2 - Episode 2 - BDSM and Consent Violations...
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Jan 17, 2023 |
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Season 2 - Episode 1 - BDSM and Open Marriages...
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Jan 10, 2023 |
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Episode 45 - Onward to 2023!
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Dec 28, 2022 |
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Episode 44 - Lactation discussion with Brooke_ish
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Dec 20, 2022 |
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Episode 43 - BDSM and Empowerment vs Disempowerment...
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Dec 13, 2022 |
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Episode 42 - My chat with Scorpio1375
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Dec 05, 2022 |
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Episode 41 - BDSM and Interrogation scenes and Waterboarding...
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Nov 29, 2022 |
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Episode 40 - BDSM and Scent Attraction...
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Nov 22, 2022 |
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Episode 39 - BDSM and Euphoria vs. Connectivity...
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Nov 15, 2022 |
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Episode 38 - BDSM and Breakups, Sex and Infidelity...
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Nov 08, 2022 |
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Episode 37 - BDSM and Rejection Resiliency...
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Nov 01, 2022 |
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Episode 36 - BDSM and Your Dominant is not your Therapist...
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Oct 25, 2022 |
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Episode 35 - BDSM and Giving the Lifestyle a Bad Name...
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Oct 20, 2022 |
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Episode 34 - BDSM and Hurt vs. Harm
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Oct 11, 2022 |
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Episode 33 - BDSM and Sadism vs Sexual Sadism Disorder...
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Oct 04, 2022 |
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Episode 32 - BDSM and Emotional Responses...
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Sep 28, 2022 |
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Episode 31 - BDSM and Relationship Green Flags...
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Sep 21, 2022 |
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Episode 30 - BDSM and the D.I.E. Philosophy...
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Sep 14, 2022 |
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Episode 29 - BDSM and Misandry...
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Sep 06, 2022 |
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Episode 28 - BDSM and Exhibitionism...
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Aug 31, 2022 |
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Episode 27 - BDSM and Self-Objectification and Sexualization
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Aug 24, 2022 |
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Episode 26 - BDSM and Kink Shaming...
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Aug 17, 2022 |
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Episode 25 - BDSM and Civil Discourse...
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Aug 09, 2022 |
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Episode 24 - BDSM and Our Core Values...
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Jul 27, 2022 |
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Episode 23 - BDSM and Sex Drives/Thoughts...
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Jul 19, 2022 |
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Episode 22 - The mysterious gift of submission...
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Jul 05, 2022 |
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Episode 21 - BDSM And Golden Showers...
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Jun 28, 2022 |
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Episode 20 - BDSM and Dirty Talk...
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Jun 21, 2022 |
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Episode 19 - BDSM and Sensory Deprivation
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Jun 14, 2022 |
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Episode 18 - BDSM and Consent - Being under the Influence...
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Jun 07, 2022 |
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Episode 17 - BDSM and Religions Ritual Connections Part 2
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May 31, 2022 |
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Episode 16 - BDSM and Religions Ritual Connections Part 1
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May 24, 2022 |
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Episode 15 - BDSM and Aftercare
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May 17, 2022 |
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Episode 14 - BDSM and Mentors
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May 10, 2022 |
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Episode 13 - BDSM and Trauma Exposure
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May 03, 2022 |
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Episode 12 - BDSM and Vetting
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Apr 26, 2022 |
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Episode 11 - BDSM and Behavioral Change...
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Apr 19, 2022 |
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Episode 10 - BDSM and One-Sided Relationships...
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Apr 11, 2022 |
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Episode 9 - Dominant-Dominant Relationship - My discussion with LunaLux and Sovereign_Kane
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Apr 01, 2022 |
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Episode 8 - BDSM and Operant Conditioning and Behavioral Modification...
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Mar 27, 2022 |
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Episode 7 - BDSM and Infidelity...
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Mar 16, 2022 |
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Episode 6 - Praise inside of the BDSM Lifestyle
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Mar 09, 2022 |
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Episode 5 - Love, Loss, and Giref. A 27 Year Dynamic Love Story...
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Mar 07, 2022 |
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Episode 4 - What is a Fetish?
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Mar 01, 2022 |
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Episode 3 - BDSM and Mindful Intimacy...
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Feb 25, 2022 |
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Episode 2 - BDSM and the Psychology behind the myths...
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Feb 23, 2022 |
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Episode 1 - BDSM Principles
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Feb 22, 2022 |