Say it with us.. This is our intentional delusional hot girls era where we are romanticizing our lives and doing acts of love for ourselves!! A reminder that this is our energy for 2023! Has everyone tried to cut their own hair and failed miserably, or is it just us? Alessabdra shares the story of when she was inspired by a character from the TV show 7th Heaven. Alessandra and Vee play the game We're Not Really Strangers and answer some fun questions, as well as some thoughtful ones... A question about procrastination has Vee talking about her recent episode of depression. 

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You know Kail from Barely Famous podcast, Coffee Convos, and Baby Mamas No Drama but today she joins Vee and Alessandra for part 2 of the crossover episodes. The girls discuss how Kail viewed weed when she was on Teen Mom and how that affected her and Vee's relationship, Vee clears up the infamous gas mask pic from Twitter, and why does Kail have such intense following from her Teen Mom days? Kail also explains her Killr network, her favorite beauty products, and answers the big question... Does she believe people finally understand her after all these years?
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Back from holiday break and ready to get back on the grind with an intentional mindset! Alessandra officially starts her delusional Hot Girl era, courtesy of Tiktok and the Lucky Girl Syndrome. Vee shares a story regarding Vivi going hard on those school lunches. And is this what the 30s are? Cutting out dairy and carpal tunnel? The girls discuss being intentional with their health.

It's 2023! Vee fangirls out over the Rebelde reunion and thinks back on the time when she was first introduced to the show and music. Vee also shares a very sweet moment she had with Vivi, which has her thinking how she even made it to this very moment. Time flies! Alessandra and Vee share their game plans for 2023 and how they plan on being intentional in every aspect of their life. The new year is the time to start something fresh! Join us at @VibinandKindaThrivin 

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We dedicate this episode to Spill The Tea! Thank you for everyone who continues to write in, we love reading your stories. In today's tea, listeners ask - am I paranoid or are they flirting with each other? Should we move in together after only knowing each other for three months? My boyfriend might not like my kids, what should I do? and lastly - my husband doesn't have the same sex drive as me anymore, help!

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Today we do a fun Q&A! What are our irrational fears? Would we like to know how and when we will die? The last thing we googled? Do our partners get a Hall Pass? How do we deal with toxic family members? All these and more! And for today's Spill The Tea - gurl, it's time to DATE AROUND!

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For some of us our childhood meant simplier times. Christmas was magical, no responsibilities and if you were Vee, you were listening to Britney Spears and creating dances in your room before it was cool on Tiktok. Alessandra and Vee reflect on those times and how tapping into your inner child is necessary to be better as adults. Vee shares some parenting moments, while Alessandra shares some interesting findings on drug microdosing..
For Spill The Tea - we learn that jealousy affects EVERYTHING. 

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Vision boards for 2023 are normal to start around these times but Vee and Alessandra are feeling overwhelmed by the ideas of having to start theirs. Finding the balance between rest and work is key to a happy productive life, and as we get older, finding that balance becomes increasingly more important. Vee shares how her body has been feeling after turning 30, and Alessandra emphasizes that we DO NOT LIVE to work.
Balenciaga has been in the news this past week and we got some things to say about this insanity!

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Vee has been keeping up with the family of Dwayne Wade and Gabrielle Union, as well as the transition of daughter Zaya Wade throughout the years. On today's episode Vee and Alessandra discuss the recent issue of Zaya Wade's mother blocking the decision of legal name/gender change, the hardships the trans community continue to face, and always striving to educate ourselves and those around us.

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Alessandra returns from Jamaica! She shares the details of her trip and how she cried when she left. Christmas is just around the corner we think this is a great opportunity to share some gift ideas for the men in your lives!
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Today's episode has got Vee and Alessandra reaching for words to explain their feelings as Millennials who love fashion, but have reached a level... of maturity? of Señora? They explain how they're at a weird age for fashion, being unimpressed and uninspired. Also on tap, is it just us or is inflation really getting crazy out here? Alessandra shares her thoughts on living within your means and Vee sets the record straight about influencers ACTUALLY being broke. What does going viral really mean? OG YouTubers setting the bar for REAL followers! And making sure to be consistent if entrepreneurship is what you really want to achieve. SO MUCH in today's episode!

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The holidays are coming!
In just a blink of an eye October has come and gone, and now we're getting ready for Thanksgiving... or the pregame to Christmas depending on who you are! Alessandra and Vee talk about all things they love about the holiday season which involve food and music, but also get into all the stuff they really REALLY dislike.. like gifting useless junk. Alessandra admits to getting a bit of baby fever over Halloween, Vee says she likes Thanksgiving more than Christmas, and for Spill The Tea - baby mama drama is a brewin' ! 

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Spirits, crystals and the supernatural! Whether or not you believe, Vee and Alessandra have experienced all sorts of things that have proven to them that there is life beyond death. A comment from Vivi sparks the conversation that has them sharing their experience with the various ghosts they've encountered, trusting your intuition, and choosing to believe in a higher power that doesn't necessarily have to do with religion or a singular being. And to keep to the theme, Spill the Tea has us thinking what WE WOULD do as ghosts and who'd we haunt.
Also, is it weird to plan our outfit for our own funeral? Asking for a friend...

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We're at the height of spooky season! Vee and Alessandra recap their hilarious experience at a halloween event that had them sweating. Alessandra, in the midst of it all, thinks about what spooky sex would look like and let's just say we wouldn't want to be her fiancé...
While reminiscing of their girl time, Vee and Alessandra ask themselves.. What do guys do when they hang out?? Can introverts and extroverts be in a relationship? Also, Vee learning the secrets signs of Swingers has us dying! For today's Spill the Tea - What do I do when I don't have a passionate career in mind?

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Alessandra is going through something, but what that something is she doesn't know. She explains how she's been feeling the last few days, the adrenaline junkie feeling creeping up, and how she still can't accept the pandemic taking away the last years of her twenties.
Vee is slowly getting things situated at her new house! She sees the family bonding and can't wait to see her plans finally pan out. Sometimes the best thing to do is LIVE IN THE MOMENT! Vee and Alessandra explain their views as millenials and how we are united in our trauma trying to figure wtf is going on.. For Spill The Tea - Should I go to therapy? Absolutely! 

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It's Fall! Alessandra and Vee bring you their favorites for the fall season... and For Spill The Tea, we try not to hang out with the kid's parents...

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Our hearts are with Puerto Rico and everyone who has been affected by Hurricane Ian. Vee and Alessandra talk about Puerto Rico being hit by Hurricane Fiona a few weeks back and how that has weighed heavy in their hearts. 

To end the episode on a positive note, Alessandra brings in a friendship game to play with Vee. We learn that Vee is a snack QUEEN, how they didn't think their friendship would evolve the way it did, and Vee somehow imagines a hilarious situation that involves hanging out at the back of a 7-Eleven!

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Vivi makes a surprise visit to the podast! 

Vee is currently fighting for her life with the allergies hitting hard, but that didn't stop her from celebrating her birthday this past week. Alessandra explains the introvert habits her and Vee have. They share their thoughts on the latest Kardashian episode and spoiler alert, they're not happy with that they saw. 

Vivi drops in to give us some adorable moments like sharing her favorite foods, caring for her tamagatchi, and explains why she loves scary stuff. For Spill the Tea - we will most DEFINITELY be minding our own business. 

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It's sweata' weatha bitcheees!... or at least it is where Vee and Alessandra are.

What/who did you think was rich when you were a kid? Why does it feel like old cars run for forever compared to newer cars? And is anyone else not into the 2000's fashion making a comeback on social media? Seems like the nostalgia is REAL! It's almost Vee's birthday and now that she's older she explains how birthday celebrations have changed for her. Also, Alessandra thanks everyone for the kind words she recieved from last week's episode, which brought up the topic of love languages! And for Spill the Tea - when you get the feeling that you settled.

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Vee was on vacation the past week and it seems like the world was out to kill her fun. She shares the craziness. Alessandra realized she's halfway to being 32 and explains how she thought she'd feel differently about it. Alessandra also talks about being a people pleaser for most of her life and how she can be affected by negativity. Vee shares the difficulties of doing a podcast with a best friend.

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Alessandra had an eventful morning chasing around her dog Olive. Vee is upset that her Target hasn't reopened after it's arson incident. Dads can be a little scary and both Vee and Alessandra have hilarious experiences to share that involve getting yelled at multiple times.

Did you grow up in an household where you could freely talk about sex and drinking? Vee and Alessandra did not, but it never stopped them. They talk about what they plan on doing before, during and after their kids come of age and start becoming curious of such activities.
And for Spill the Tea - we're definitely telling you to leave him this time! 

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Is there such thing as having TOO many earphones/headphones? Asking for a friend.
Growing up with financial difficulties can create money habits that might not still be applicable in adulthood. Vee and Alessandra talk about their journey with money, sometimes feeling undeserving of said money, how the work ethic has evolved from older generations, and how success means different things for everyone.
And to keep things on topic, for Spill The Tea... What to do with an expensive bachelorette party that's not my own?

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The weather is really doing a number on us this week! Vee might be getting a little too friendly with her bottle of Nyquil, and Alessandra gets too excited talking about shopping for cleaning items (ahem shopping problem?)
Jennette McCurdy and Kim Kardashian are hot topics for today as Alessandra doesn't understand why people would want to bring back toxic body trends. No one wants to worry about how their body looks at 65, and Vee wonders how good life would be if ALL of Instagram would go on hiatus for a week.
For Spill The Tea For Therapy - when little brother is BETTER than big brother (wink wink)

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Alessandra has been finding herself thinking more about children and being a mother.. In today's episode we dive into the journey of motherhood.. the joy, the sacrifices, and how Vee has experienced her years as a mother.
And for Spill The Tea For Therapy - for once we don't tell you to break up with him!

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Beam me up Scotty! We want off planet Earth!.. Speaking of space though, are we the only ones creeped out by outer space and the deep ocean? Alessandra and Vee explain their weird phobia with that and with holes. Vee needs ideas for celebrating her new house, Alessandra is upset at Trader Joes, and Vee shares the intense dream she had the other night that left her crying and scared. For Spill The Tea For Therapy - Vee was triggered for Alessandra! How do you get out of a horrible relationship when you have no one around to ask for help?

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It's been the best 24hrs for Vee as Beyonce's album drops and she got to stream the Bad Bunny PR concert. Alessandra gives us the craziness of Tiktok this week with Andrew Tate and Pink sauce going viral. The girls share their thoughts on what people do nowadays to go viral. And for Spill the Tea - making hard decisions involving friends and oneself. 

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Vee and Alessandra go over their favorite products for today's episode.. And of course we double up on Spill The Tea For Therapy!

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People be wildin on these TikTok trends! Vee's Target almost gets burned down from a possible tiktok trend and Alessandra explains the Vabbing trend she's discovered. Also, Alessandra stayed up until 3am reading a Colleen Hoover book and she is now HOOKED! Vee loves herself a good book smell.

Alessandra and Vee have started their gym/exercise journey again, which leads to the conversation to our relationship with food and exercise. Also, how many women go undiagnosed with ADHD? And for Spill The Tea For therapy - Sex advice needed!

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Danger, Will Robinson, Danger! Major red flag alert!!
Alessandra and Vee share their thoughts on the relationship of Machine Gun Kelly and Megan Fox, as well as touch on the extreme love bombing of Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker. On Spill The Tea For Therapy? You guessed it, more red flags!

Vee and Alessandra also talk about their fun weekend at the Sorry Papi Tour, and is Vee's sister a bruja?? 

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Vee shares the story of her dog Gracie who was on some Karen activity at the doggy hotel. Alessandra gives a mental health update. They also get into
discussing relationship/marriage hardships, and that it's never 50/50, it's always 100/100... The girls share their experience. 

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It's been a LONG week, Alessandra and Vee are here to talk about what's having them down in the dumps. Alessandra talks about the relationship she's had with father, Vee juggles a new schedule with Vivi, and they reminisce on their life before 2020. They also laugh over Vee's love for Walmart gummy worms, the debate of Walmart/Target activities, and that Alessandra's neighbors MUST think she's crazy. This week on Spill The Tea For Therapy - Should I go to my friend's "No Kids" wedding?

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Back from a day in the city! Vee and Alessandra share the previous day's events and talk about the most recent documentary they've seen. The new JLo documentary brings up the conversation of women in the industry, the Latin culture phenomenon taking place, and the whole POC community being undermined and undervalued in our society.

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This warm weather is putting us in a drinking mood, so while you grab a sip, Vee and Alessandra catch up on some pop culture news! Who really won in the Johnny Depp trial, Mormon Tiktok gone wild, and Vee would DEFINITELY be hustling Honey Buns in jail! On this week's Spill The Tea For Therapy - how do I tell my kid the truth about his absent father?

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Vee and Alessandra recap their Memorial Day weekend shenanigans! They reminisce on some Vivi moments, which Alessandra might still be salty about missing. It looks like it might be another Hot Girl Summer, so Vee shares some summer plans that involve boats, reggaeton and coordinated outflits. 

Speaking of summer plans, Vee talks about wanting to travel again and what the future will be when the kids are grown and out of the house. Alessandra talks about her culture shock when she first moved to Providence.

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Vee and Alessandra are in a decluttering/revamp mode! What have they been doing with this recent urge of keeping things clean and decluttered in their homes? This week's Spill The Tea: Should I speak to my Grandma who rejected us because we were "half breeds"?

With the tragic events that have happened within the last three weeks it's okay to feel emotional... we talk about it.

Alessandra and Vee catch up after an outing with the girls over the weekend, and answer some listener questions! 

You always hear "Live life to the fullest" and "No regrets!" but what does that look like? Vee and Alessandra share their journey in trying to achieve just that - live life with no regrets.

Alessandra and Vee reminisce about a SUPER drunk outing, their crazy hair phases, and share some dog owner woes. Amber Heard finally takes the stand and Alessandra is here to spill it all for Vee! 

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Today we talk about the ongoing defamation trial between Johnny Depp and Amber Heard, specifically discussing the mental health aspect in regards to men.

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Vee and Alessandra catch up and go through their favorites/must-haves for the month of April. For today's Spill the Tea for Therapy - How do I support my friend through depression?

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This week Vee and Alessandra discuss how we should celebrate ALL accomplishments/milestones no matter how big or small, why confidence shouldn't be looked down upon just because it's not to your taste; and how to deal with jealousy and trust in a relationship

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