Mistakes Were Made

By Sarah & Alex

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Episodes: 78

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Non monogamy for imperfect people. Hosted by a queer therapist and her husband of 15 years. Sarah & Alex share their experiences opening their marriage, and interview guests about the struggles & rewards of doing relationships your own way. Mistakes Were Made is part advice, part confession, part culture critique. But it's all about learning from our missteps and stumbling toward liberation. Follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/. Logo design by roy franklin of the Whatever Factory - https://www.whateverfactory.org/.

Episode Date
Ep 76: Is Opening up harder for men or women? Part 1
May 22, 2026
Ep 75: Lindy West was right
May 08, 2026
Ep 74: Sarah's First Sex Party
Apr 24, 2026
Ep 73: Relationship Care Plans with Karryn
Apr 10, 2026
Ep 72: Lindy West's Adult Braces Instant Reaction
Mar 27, 2026
Ep 71: Love or Limerence?
Mar 20, 2026
Ep 70: Community and Cancel Culture with Ramsey
Mar 06, 2026
Ep 69: New Models of Masculinity
Feb 20, 2026
Ep 68: The Poly Bi Male Experience with Quinn
Feb 06, 2026
Ep 67: Taking care of your partner (and yourself) when they're struggling
Jan 23, 2026
Ep 66: Kin, Family and Community Love with Sophie Lucido Johnson
Jan 09, 2026
Ep 65: Alone in a Crowded Polycule
Dec 26, 2025
Ep 64: The Religion to Poly Pipeline with Tyson
Dec 12, 2025
Ep 63: Jealousy, Anarchy and Psychedelics with Dr Nicole Thompson
Nov 28, 2025
Ep 62: MWM Live at Liberating Love Festival
Nov 14, 2025
Ep 61: Trauma-Informed Poly ~ Season 5 Premiere!
Oct 31, 2025
Ep 60: Holding Boundaries, Meeting Needs | Season 4 finale
Sep 26, 2025
Ep 59: Splitsville Instant Reaction
Sep 05, 2025
Ep 58: Parents Fast for Gaza + Poly-tics (Encore)
Aug 15, 2025
Ep 57: How to Fail at Sex with Calvin Burnap
Jul 25, 2025
Ep 56: Poly Hot Tub Time Machine
Jul 04, 2025
Ep 55: That Good Sex
Jun 13, 2025
Ep 54: Are Het Relationships Hopeless?
May 23, 2025
Ep 53: Good Grief with Queer Chaplain Kam
May 02, 2025
Ep 52: How (Not to) Break up
Apr 11, 2025
Ep 51: Love in a F*cked Up World with Dean Spade
Mar 21, 2025
Ep 50: Romance and Polyamory (Encore)
Feb 28, 2025
Ep 49: Dating Across Race with Ramsey
Feb 07, 2025
Ep 48: BONUS episode: Why you need a dating strategy with Reagan Jackson
Jan 24, 2025
Ep 47: The Monogamous Skeptic Returns! Special Guest Reagan Jackson
Jan 17, 2025
Ep 46: Swinging and Sex Parties
Dec 27, 2024
Ep 45: How much should you tell your partners?
Dec 06, 2024
Ep 44: Fascism and Feelings
Nov 15, 2024
Ep 43: Conflict and how to fight better - Season 4 Premiere!
Nov 01, 2024
Ep 42: Season 3 FINALE - Poly Etiquette
Aug 30, 2024
Ep 41: Romance and Polyamory
Aug 09, 2024
Ep 40: Gen Poly with Mattise Wood
Jul 19, 2024
Ep 39: Polyamory Pitfalls - LIVE Episode!
Jun 28, 2024
Ep 38: Relationship Anarchy with Maxx Hill
Jun 15, 2024
Ep 37: Poly-tics
May 17, 2024
Ep 36: Owning Your Desire - Encore Episode
Apr 26, 2024
Ep 35: Coming Out To Your Community
Apr 05, 2024
Ep 34: Performance Anxiety
Mar 15, 2024
Ep 33: Solo Poly Showdown with Rozie and Tyson
Feb 22, 2024
Ep 32: How Men Can Date Better with Dr. Eric FitzMedrud
Feb 02, 2024
Ep 31: Bonus episode: The Gentrification of Polyamory
Jan 29, 2024
Ep 30: Perfecting Your Dating App Profile with Riki Thompson
Jan 15, 2024
Ep 29: Are the Kids All Right?
Dec 25, 2023
Ep 28: Your Partner is on a Date... and You Panic
Dec 04, 2023
Ep 27: Cowboys, Tourists and Triangulation
Nov 13, 2023
Ep 26: Outgrowing Non-Monogamy?
Oct 23, 2023
Ep 25: Polyamory Mythbusters
Jun 05, 2023
Ep 24: Long Term Polyamory with Zack & Madeleine
May 22, 2023
Ep 23: Why We Lie
May 08, 2023
Ep 22: Finding (Self) Love in Queer Non-Monogamy with Eli Goss
Apr 24, 2023
Ep 21: Anti-Racist Polyamory with Kevin Patterson
Apr 10, 2023
Ep 20: Age Gaps & Gender Power Dynamics
Mar 13, 2023
Ep 19: Desire
Feb 27, 2023
Ep 18: Threesomes, Thruples and Unicorn Hunting
Feb 13, 2023
Ep 17: Dating Apps for Non Monogamy
Jan 30, 2023
Ep 16: Why don't you just stop?
Jan 16, 2023
Ep 15: Platonic Polyamory (And loving your friends) (ENCORE)
Jan 02, 2023
Ep 14: Ask A Sex Worker with Vaughn Wolff
Dec 19, 2022
Ep 13: Mixed queer/het relationships and bi erasure
Dec 05, 2022
Ep 12: We Need To Talk
Nov 21, 2022
Season 2 Trailer
Nov 14, 2022
Ep 11: Advice for Opening a Relationship - Season 1 Finale!
Aug 08, 2022
Ep. 10: Cheating (and trust)
Jul 25, 2022
Ep 9: Moral Autonomy (and Reproductive Justice)
Jul 11, 2022
Ep 8: The Monogamous Skeptic with Reagan Jackson
Jun 27, 2022
Ep 7: The Meaning of Love with Carrie Jenkins
Jun 13, 2022
Ep 6: Platonic Polyamory (And loving your friends)
May 30, 2022
Ep 5: Polyam Parenting (and how to talk to your kids)
May 16, 2022
Ep 4: Falling in Love (and attachment)
May 02, 2022
Ep 3: Breaking up (and the monogamy escalator)
Apr 18, 2022
Ep 2: Dating a couple (and trauma)
Apr 04, 2022
Ep 1: Sexting (and ongoing consent)
Apr 04, 2022
Trailer: Welcome to Mistakes Were Made!
Apr 01, 2022